Joel Osteen - No More Bad Days

February 22, 2026 | 27:29

Joel and Victoria Osteen's message of unconditional love and unending hope reaches everyone across the world.

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Joel Osteen | Joel Osteen - No More Bad Days | February 22, 2026
  • I like to start with
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  • I like to start with something funny. i heard
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  • Something funny. i heard about these three pastors
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  • About these three pastors that were in a boat together
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  • That were in a boat together fishing. one of them said,
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  • Fishing. one of them said, “we never get to let our hair
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  • “we never get to let our hair down. let's each tell the
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  • Down. let's each tell the greatest area that we
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  • Greatest area that we struggle in, our greatest
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  • Struggle in, our greatest sin, so we can pray for each
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  • Sin, so we can pray for each other.” the first pastor
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  • Said, “i hate to admit it,
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  • Said, “i hate to admit it, but i have a problem with
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  • But i have a problem with gambling. some nights i sneak
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  • Gambling. some nights i sneak out and gamble.” the second
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  • Out and gamble.” the second pastor said, “i'm ashamed to
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  • Pastor said, “i'm ashamed to admit this, but i have a
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  • Admit this, but i have a problem with cheating. i
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  • Problem with cheating. i hardly ever pay my taxes.”
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  • Hardly ever pay my taxes.” the third pastor sat there
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  • The third pastor sat there silently. they waited and
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  • Silently. they waited and waited. he wouldn't budge.
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  • Waited. he wouldn't budge. they said, “we are not
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  • They said, “we are not leaving until you tell us
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  • Leaving until you tell us your greatest sin.” he said,
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  • Your greatest sin.” he said, “alright, my greatest sin is
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  • “alright, my greatest sin is gossiping, and i can't wait
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  • Gossiping, and i can't wait to get off this boat.”
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  • To get off this boat.” say it like you mean it. this
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  • Say it like you mean it. this is my bible. i am what it
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  • Is my bible. i am what it says i am. i have what it
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  • Says i am. i have what it says i have. i can do what it
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  • Says i have. i can do what it says i can do. today, i will
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  • Says i can do. today, i will be taught the word of god. i
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  • Be taught the word of god. i boldly confess: my mind is
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  • Boldly confess: my mind is alert. my heart is receptive.
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  • Alert. my heart is receptive. i will never be the same in
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  • I will never be the same in jesus' name. god bless you.
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  • Jesus' name. god bless you. i want to talk to you today
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  • I want to talk to you today about no more bad days. we
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  • About no more bad days. we all have opportunities to get
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  • All have opportunities to get upset, be offended, live
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  • Upset, be offended, live worried. it can be small
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  • Worried. it can be small things, like traffic, people
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  • Things, like traffic, people who are rude, a coworker
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  • Who are rude, a coworker leaves us out. sometimes it's
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  • Leaves us out. sometimes it's bigger things. the contract
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  • Bigger things. the contract didn't go through, the
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  • Didn't go through, the medical test wasn't good, our
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  • Medical test wasn't good, our loved one's in trouble. no
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  • Loved one's in trouble. no matter how good of a person
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  • Matter how good of a person you are, or how much faith
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  • You are, or how much faith you have, you're going to
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  • You have, you're going to have to deal with bad
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  • Have to deal with bad moments. it's easy to let
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  • Moments. it's easy to let them take our joy, steal our
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  • Them take our joy, steal our peace, where we go through
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  • Peace, where we go through the day frustrated. our
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  • The day frustrated. our feelings are hurt; we're down
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  • Feelings are hurt; we're down because of the
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  • Because of the disappointment. but life is
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  • Disappointment. but life is ten percent what happens to
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  • Ten percent what happens to you and ninety percent how
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  • You and ninety percent how you respond. you can't stop a
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  • You respond. you can't stop a bad moment from coming, but
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  • Bad moment from coming, but you don't have to let it turn
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  • You don't have to let it turn into a bad day. jesus said,
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  • Into a bad day. jesus said, “no man can take your joy.”
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  • “no man can take your joy.” no circumstance can make you
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  • No circumstance can make you get sour. no delay, offense,
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  • Get sour. no delay, offense, can force you to get
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  • Can force you to get discouraged. you're in
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  • Discouraged. you're in control of your joy. nobody
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  • Control of your joy. nobody can take it from you. you get
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  • Can take it from you. you get to decide your attitude, what
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  • To decide your attitude, what you're going to dwell on,
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  • You're going to dwell on, your perspective. when a bad
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  • Your perspective. when a bad moment comes, you have to
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  • Moment comes, you have to make the decision that you're
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  • Make the decision that you're not going to let that ruin
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  • Not going to let that ruin the rest of the day.
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  • The rest of the day. it's okay to acknowledge your
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  • It's okay to acknowledge your feelings. “this was hurtful.
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  • Feelings. “this was hurtful. what they said was wrong. i'm
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  • What they said was wrong. i'm disappointed the medical
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  • Disappointed the medical report wasn't better.” that's
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  • Report wasn't better.” that's valid. god made us with
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  • Valid. god made us with emotions. i'm not telling you
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  • Emotions. i'm not telling you to deny your feelings and
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  • To deny your feelings and push things down. that's fine
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  • Push things down. that's fine for a moment, but don't let
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  • For a moment, but don't let it linger. don't keep
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  • It linger. don't keep dwelling on it. reliving it.
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  • Dwelling on it. reliving it. the longer you do, the more
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  • The longer you do, the more it gets down in your spirit.
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  • It gets down in your spirit. you need to reframe it. “that
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  • You need to reframe it. “that was hurtful. it was wrong,
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  • Was hurtful. it was wrong, but god is still in control.”
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  • But god is still in control.” he sees everything that's
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  • He sees everything that's happened. he's your defender.
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  • Happened. he's your defender. now don't let that bad moment
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  • Now don't let that bad moment turn into a bad day. maybe
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  • Turn into a bad day. maybe you have a bad morning. a
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  • You have a bad morning. a setback was very
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  • Setback was very disappointing. or a bad
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  • Disappointing. or a bad afternoon. your child didn't
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  • Afternoon. your child didn't get that position you were
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  • Get that position you were hoping for. it's okay to take
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  • Hoping for. it's okay to take a moment to process it, but
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  • A moment to process it, but don't stay there. to where
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  • Don't stay there. to where you go to bed disappointed,
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  • You go to bed disappointed, mad at your neighbor,
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  • Mad at your neighbor, offended at your spouse,
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  • Offended at your spouse, discouraged over your
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  • Discouraged over your finances. if you let a bad
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  • Finances. if you let a bad moment linger, it will turn
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  • Moment linger, it will turn into a bad day. then a bad
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  • Into a bad day. then a bad week, a bad month, a bad
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  • Week, a bad month, a bad year. you look up and years
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  • Year. you look up and years have gone; you don't have
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  • Have gone; you don't have your passion. you're not
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  • Your passion. you're not pursuing dreams, not enjoying
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  • Pursuing dreams, not enjoying your family. it all started
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  • Your family. it all started with a bad moment you didn't
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  • With a bad moment you didn't deal with properly. it may
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  • Deal with properly. it may turn into a bad hour. you
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  • Turn into a bad hour. you have to process it. even a
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  • Have to process it. even a bad morning. but don't let it
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  • Bad morning. but don't let it turn into a bad day. you have
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  • Turn into a bad day. you have to put your foot down and
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  • To put your foot down and say, “no, i'm not giving away
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  • Say, “no, i'm not giving away my joy, i am not going to
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  • My joy, i am not going to lose my peace. this is the
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  • Lose my peace. this is the day the lord has made, i've
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  • Day the lord has made, i've made up my mind to enjoy it.”
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  • Made up my mind to enjoy it.” the scripture says, “don't
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  • The scripture says, “don't let the sun go down while
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  • Let the sun go down while you're angry.” it's a
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  • You're angry.” it's a principle. if you go to bed
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  • Principle. if you go to bed with negative things, anger,
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  • With negative things, anger, offense, discouragement,
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  • Offense, discouragement, guilt, that's letting the
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  • Guilt, that's letting the negativity take deeper root.
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  • Negativity take deeper root. it's getting more down in
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  • It's getting more down in your spirit. you start the
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  • Your spirit. you start the next day off a little more
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  • Next day off a little more sour, a little more offended,
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  • Sour, a little more offended, a little more frustrated. the
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  • A little more frustrated. the longer you go, the more
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  • Longer you go, the more difficult to deal with.
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  • Difficult to deal with. that's why it's so important
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  • That's why it's so important to not go to bed upset,
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  • To not go to bed upset, frustrated, worried. you may
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  • Frustrated, worried. you may have a good reason to feel
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  • Have a good reason to feel that way. you've had some bad
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  • That way. you've had some bad moments, things that weren't
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  • Moments, things that weren't fair, plans that fell
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  • Fair, plans that fell through. the good news is
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  • Through. the good news is that bad moment didn't stop
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  • That bad moment didn't stop your destiny. it didn't
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  • Your destiny. it didn't override what god has for
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  • Override what god has for you. why are you giving away
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  • You. why are you giving away your joy? the scripture tells
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  • Your joy? the scripture tells us to hold our peace. why are
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  • Us to hold our peace. why are you letting go of your peace?
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  • You letting go of your peace? it was a bad moment; you
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  • It was a bad moment; you can't stop that. but you can
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  • Can't stop that. but you can keep it from turning into a
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  • Keep it from turning into a bad day. that can lead to a
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  • Bad day. that can lead to a bad year, that can go on to a
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  • Bad year, that can go on to a bad life. you have the power
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  • Bad life. you have the power to decide how long the bad
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  • To decide how long the bad moment is going to last. i
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  • Moment is going to last. i know some things are hurtful.
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  • Know some things are hurtful. it's like they knocked the
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  • It's like they knocked the wind out of us. you have to
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  • Wind out of us. you have to regroup and reframe it. don't
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  • Regroup and reframe it. don't let your emotions decide, you
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  • Let your emotions decide, you decide.
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  • Decide. on july 30th last year, my
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  • On july 30th last year, my sister lisa called and said
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  • Sister lisa called and said my mother is not answering
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  • My mother is not answering the phone and she thought
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  • The phone and she thought something was wrong. of
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  • Something was wrong. of course, i jumped in the car
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  • Course, i jumped in the car and headed toward her house.
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  • And headed toward her house. on the way there, a police
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  • On the way there, a police officer called and said,
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  • Officer called and said, “joel, i'm sorry to tell you
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  • “joel, i'm sorry to tell you this, but we found your
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  • This, but we found your mother deceased at home.” i
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  • Mother deceased at home.” i didn't see that coming. a bad
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  • Didn't see that coming. a bad moment. losing a loved one. i
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  • Moment. losing a loved one. i was having a good day, then
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  • Was having a good day, then life happened. there's a time
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  • Life happened. there's a time for weeping, a time to
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  • For weeping, a time to grieve. you have to process
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  • Grieve. you have to process what's happened, but you
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  • What's happened, but you can't let the sorrow linger.
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  • Can't let the sorrow linger. you can't let the
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  • You can't let the disappointment continue day
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  • Disappointment continue day after day. you need to
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  • After day. you need to reframe it. look at it from a
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  • Reframe it. look at it from a perspective of faith. in a
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  • Couple of hours, after i got
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  • Couple of hours, after i got past the initial news,
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  • Past the initial news, instead of being sad,
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  • Instead of being sad, overwhelmed, “can you believe
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  • Overwhelmed, “can you believe what happened,” i started
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  • What happened,” i started thinking about what a great
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  • Thinking about what a great mother i had. how she lived
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  • Mother i had. how she lived almost ninety-two years. how
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  • Almost ninety-two years. how god healed her from terminal
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  • God healed her from terminal cancer. she was at church two
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  • Cancer. she was at church two days before praying for
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  • Days before praying for people right here. i had
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  • People right here. i had talked to her the night
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  • Talked to her the night before and told her how much
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  • Before and told her how much i loved her. she was a bright
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  • I loved her. she was a bright light, inspiring so many
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  • Light, inspiring so many people with her healing and
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  • People with her healing and faith and compassion. i went
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  • To bed that night, not
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  • To bed that night, not thinking about what a bad day
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  • Thinking about what a bad day it was, but thinking about
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  • It was, but thinking about how good god is. and how now
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  • How good god is. and how now my mother is in his hands. i
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  • My mother is in his hands. i felt strength and peace, not
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  • Felt strength and peace, not in a weird way, but i had joy
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  • In a weird way, but i had joy on the inside. i knew god was
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  • On the inside. i knew god was still in control, that she
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  • Still in control, that she had fulfilled her purpose,
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  • Had fulfilled her purpose, and that we were stepping
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  • And that we were stepping into new seasons.
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  • Into new seasons. my point is it was a choice
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  • My point is it was a choice that i made. “this is a bad
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  • That i made. “this is a bad moment. i'm disappointed, but
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  • Moment. i'm disappointed, but i'm not going to let this
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  • I'm not going to let this turn into a bad week, a bad
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  • Turn into a bad week, a bad month, a bad year.” every day
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  • Month, a bad year.” every day is a gift from god. once you
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  • Is a gift from god. once you live this day, you can't get
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  • Live this day, you can't get it back. when you lay your
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  • It back. when you lay your head on the pillow each
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  • Head on the pillow each night, you need to be able to
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  • Night, you need to be able to say, “this was a good day.”
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  • Say, “this was a good day.” even if you had bad things
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  • Even if you had bad things happen, even if it didn't
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  • Happen, even if it didn't work out the way you had
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  • Work out the way you had planned, there were
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  • Planned, there were unexpected challenges. you
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  • Unexpected challenges. you have to turn those hurts over
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  • Have to turn those hurts over to god. he wouldn't have
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  • To god. he wouldn't have allowed it if it wasn't going
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  • Allowed it if it wasn't going to work to your advantage.
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  • To work to your advantage. you need to remember the good
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  • You need to remember the good things in your life. “lord,
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  • Things in your life. “lord, i've had some setbacks, but i
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  • I've had some setbacks, but i want to thank you that i'm
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  • Want to thank you that i'm alive. that i have breath to
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  • Alive. that i have breath to breathe, that i have a place
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  • Breathe, that i have a place to live, a family to love,
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  • To live, a family to love, dreams to pursue. yes, i had
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  • Dreams to pursue. yes, i had some trouble, but all is
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  • Some trouble, but all is well. my boss did me wrong,
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  • Well. my boss did me wrong, but all is well. my mother
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  • But all is well. my mother went to be with you, but all
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  • Went to be with you, but all is well.” let's make up our
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  • Is well.” let's make up our minds, no more bad days. no
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  • Minds, no more bad days. no more going to bed sour. no
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  • More going to bed sour. no more letting people steal our
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  • More letting people steal our joy, frustrated over things
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  • Joy, frustrated over things we can't control. no more
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  • We can't control. no more letting the offense linger.
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  • Letting the offense linger. deal with it quickly and move
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  • Deal with it quickly and move on. trust god to be your
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  • On. trust god to be your vindicator. trust him with
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  • Vindicator. trust him with the closed doors, things you
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  • The closed doors, things you don't understand. the delays,
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  • Don't understand. the delays, the people that walked away.
  • 00:08:11.380 --> 00:08:13.449
  • The people that walked away. those are bad moments, but
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  • Those are bad moments, but they don't have to turn into
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  • They don't have to turn into a bad day.
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  • A bad day. this is what habakkuk did. a
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  • This is what habakkuk did. a man in the scripture. he
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  • Man in the scripture. he said, “although the fig tree
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  • Said, “although the fig tree does not blossom, and there
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  • Does not blossom, and there be no fruit in the vine.
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  • Be no fruit in the vine. though the olive crops have
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  • Though the olive crops have failed, and the fields have
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  • Failed, and the fields have produced no food.” he was
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  • Produced no food.” he was saying, “my business is not
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  • Saying, “my business is not good, my crops didn't make
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  • Good, my crops didn't make it, my storehouses are
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  • It, my storehouses are empty.” he could have stopped
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  • Empty.” he could have stopped there and just complained,
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  • There and just complained, “man, it's been a bad day.
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  • “man, it's been a bad day. i've had all these setbacks.”
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  • I've had all these setbacks.” but he went on to say, “yet
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  • But he went on to say, “yet will i rejoice in the lord,
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  • Will i rejoice in the lord, and joy in the god of my
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  • And joy in the god of my salvation.” he was saying,
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  • Salvation.” he was saying, “these are bad moments, i
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  • “these are bad moments, i can't control all that, but
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  • Can't control all that, but i'm not going to let it take
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  • I'm not going to let it take my joy. i know salvation is
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  • My joy. i know salvation is coming. salvation means
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  • Coming. salvation means deliverance, breakthroughs,
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  • Deliverance, breakthroughs, abundance. he was expecting
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  • Abundance. he was expecting god's goodness.
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  • If we don't learn this
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  • If we don't learn this principle and we let the
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  • Principle and we let the circumstances determine
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  • Circumstances determine whether we have a good day or
  • 00:09:09.338 --> 00:09:10.840
  • Whether we have a good day or bad day, the enemy will make
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  • Bad day, the enemy will make sure there's always some
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  • Sure there's always some reason to sour your day. a
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  • Grouchy coworker, you can't
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  • Grouchy coworker, you can't find your cell phone. it
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  • Find your cell phone. it rains right after you wash
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  • Rains right after you wash your car. a friend is saying
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  • Your car. a friend is saying things that are not true. all
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  • Things that are not true. all these bad moments have the
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  • These bad moments have the potential to ruin your day.
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  • Potential to ruin your day. if you dwell on them, you'll
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  • If you dwell on them, you'll get upset, frustrated, but
  • 00:09:31.027 --> 00:09:33.729
  • Get upset, frustrated, but you have the potential to
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  • You have the potential to just let it be a moment. to
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  • Just let it be a moment. to just let it go and move on.
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  • Just let it go and move on. no big deal. “the offense
  • 00:09:39.568 --> 00:09:41.637
  • No big deal. “the offense came, but i didn't take the
  • 00:09:41.704 --> 00:09:43.005
  • Came, but i didn't take the bait. i'm going to stay in
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  • Bait. i'm going to stay in peace. i got delayed; my
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  • Peace. i got delayed; my plans didn't work out; i'm
  • 00:09:46.709 --> 00:09:48.411
  • Not frustrated. i know god is
  • 00:09:48.511 --> 00:09:50.179
  • Not frustrated. i know god is ordering my steps. i didn't
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  • Ordering my steps. i didn't get the promotion; the
  • 00:09:51.881 --> 00:09:53.049
  • Get the promotion; the scholarship didn't go
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  • Scholarship didn't go through. yes, i'm
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  • Through. yes, i'm disappointed. it's a bad
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  • Disappointed. it's a bad moment, but i know god has
  • 00:09:56.852 --> 00:09:58.454
  • Moment, but i know god has something better. i know that
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  • Something better. i know that door wouldn't have closed if
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  • He didn't have greater things
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  • He didn't have greater things in my future.” life happens
  • 00:10:02.958 --> 00:10:05.061
  • In my future.” life happens to us all. bad moments are
  • 00:10:05.127 --> 00:10:07.196
  • To us all. bad moments are inevitable, but bad days are
  • 00:10:07.263 --> 00:10:09.398
  • Inevitable, but bad days are optional. you get to choose
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  • Optional. you get to choose what it's going to be.
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  • What it's going to be. when you wake up in the
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  • When you wake up in the morning, you need to decide
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  • Morning, you need to decide ahead of time that it's going
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  • Ahead of time that it's going to be a good day. you have to
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  • To be a good day. you have to set the tone at the start of
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  • Set the tone at the start of the day. don't wait to see if
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  • The day. don't wait to see if it's going to be a good day,
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  • It's going to be a good day, decide it's going to be a
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  • Decide it's going to be a good day. make up your mind
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  • Good day. make up your mind that no matter what happens,
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  • That no matter what happens, you're going to stay in
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  • You're going to stay in peace. no matter what someone
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  • Peace. no matter what someone says, how bad the traffic is,
  • 00:10:33.823 --> 00:10:36.625
  • Says, how bad the traffic is, if your children don't do
  • 00:10:36.692 --> 00:10:37.693
  • If your children don't do what's right, you're not
  • 00:10:37.760 --> 00:10:39.095
  • What's right, you're not going to get upset and let
  • 00:10:39.161 --> 00:10:40.463
  • Going to get upset and let that ruin the day. when you
  • 00:10:40.529 --> 00:10:42.598
  • That ruin the day. when you decide ahead of time, you're
  • 00:10:42.665 --> 00:10:44.133
  • Decide ahead of time, you're already prepared. then if bad
  • 00:10:44.200 --> 00:10:46.569
  • Already prepared. then if bad moments come, it's no big
  • 00:10:46.635 --> 00:10:48.104
  • Moments come, it's no big deal. “i'm not giving away my
  • 00:10:48.170 --> 00:10:49.572
  • Deal. “i'm not giving away my joy.”
  • 00:10:49.638 --> 00:10:50.206
  • Joy.” if you have a disappointment
  • 00:10:50.272 --> 00:10:51.707
  • If you have a disappointment at ten in the morning,
  • 00:10:51.774 --> 00:10:52.875
  • At ten in the morning, something didn't work out.
  • 00:10:52.942 --> 00:10:54.610
  • Something didn't work out. it's okay to take a couple
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  • It's okay to take a couple hours to process it, to
  • 00:10:55.845 --> 00:10:57.480
  • Hours to process it, to grieve the loss. that's
  • 00:10:57.546 --> 00:10:58.681
  • Grieve the loss. that's normal. that bad moment may
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  • Normal. that bad moment may turn into a bad morning, but
  • 00:11:01.083 --> 00:11:03.519
  • Turn into a bad morning, but by noon, you need to make the
  • 00:11:03.586 --> 00:11:05.221
  • By noon, you need to make the decision, “this is over. i'm
  • 00:11:05.287 --> 00:11:07.623
  • Decision, “this is over. i'm done dwelling on it. that's
  • 00:11:07.690 --> 00:11:09.024
  • Done dwelling on it. that's in my past. i'm going to
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  • In my past. i'm going to enjoy the rest of this day.”
  • 00:11:10.326 --> 00:11:12.762
  • Enjoy the rest of this day.” don't let it linger to where
  • 00:11:12.828 --> 00:11:14.463
  • Don't let it linger to where it ruins the day. you go to
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  • It ruins the day. you go to bed upset. if someone offends
  • 00:11:16.398 --> 00:11:19.034
  • Bed upset. if someone offends you in the afternoon. a
  • 00:11:19.101 --> 00:11:20.536
  • You in the afternoon. a coworker says something harsh
  • 00:11:20.603 --> 00:11:22.071
  • Coworker says something harsh and hurts your feelings. the
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  • And hurts your feelings. the gloom will come. thoughts of
  • 00:11:23.839 --> 00:11:25.574
  • Gloom will come. thoughts of resentment and payback,
  • 00:11:25.641 --> 00:11:27.510
  • Resentment and payback, bitterness. we're all human.
  • 00:11:27.576 --> 00:11:29.612
  • Bitterness. we're all human. those are natural feelings.
  • 00:11:29.678 --> 00:11:31.280
  • Those are natural feelings. but you have to take charge
  • 00:11:31.347 --> 00:11:32.515
  • But you have to take charge and rule over your emotions.
  • 00:11:32.581 --> 00:11:35.151
  • And rule over your emotions. that was a bad moment. it's
  • 00:11:35.217 --> 00:11:37.019
  • That was a bad moment. it's supposed to be temporary. you
  • 00:11:37.086 --> 00:11:39.155
  • Supposed to be temporary. you can't keep thinking about it,
  • 00:11:39.221 --> 00:11:40.890
  • Can't keep thinking about it, dwelling on it, reliving it.
  • 00:11:40.956 --> 00:11:43.425
  • Dwelling on it, reliving it. if you do, it'll turn into a
  • 00:11:43.492 --> 00:11:44.860
  • If you do, it'll turn into a bad evening. you go to bed
  • 00:11:44.927 --> 00:11:46.962
  • Bad evening. you go to bed offended. wake up
  • 00:11:47.029 --> 00:11:48.898
  • Offended. wake up discouraged. now it's another
  • 00:11:48.964 --> 00:11:50.065
  • Discouraged. now it's another bad day. before you know it,
  • 00:11:50.132 --> 00:11:52.001
  • Bad day. before you know it, a bad week, a bad month. it's
  • 00:11:52.067 --> 00:11:54.603
  • A bad week, a bad month. it's changing who you are. taking
  • 00:11:54.670 --> 00:11:56.739
  • Changing who you are. taking your joy, your peace, your
  • 00:11:56.806 --> 00:11:58.073
  • Your joy, your peace, your passion. deal with the bad
  • 00:11:58.140 --> 00:12:00.409
  • Passion. deal with the bad moments quickly. don't let
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  • Moments quickly. don't let them linger. don't go to bed
  • 00:12:02.545 --> 00:12:04.380
  • Them linger. don't go to bed thinking about it. it's not
  • 00:12:04.446 --> 00:12:06.282
  • Thinking about it. it's not taking your joy. it doesn't
  • 00:12:06.348 --> 00:12:08.017
  • Taking your joy. it doesn't have that much power. you're
  • 00:12:08.083 --> 00:12:09.785
  • Have that much power. you're giving away your joy. you're
  • 00:12:09.852 --> 00:12:12.121
  • Giving away your joy. you're letting go of your peace. the
  • 00:12:12.188 --> 00:12:14.390
  • Letting go of your peace. the good news is you can get it
  • 00:12:14.456 --> 00:12:15.858
  • Good news is you can get it back. you determine your
  • 00:12:15.925 --> 00:12:17.827
  • Back. you determine your attitude, what you think
  • 00:12:17.893 --> 00:12:19.562
  • Attitude, what you think about, your perspective.
  • 00:12:19.628 --> 00:12:22.097
  • About, your perspective. i have a friend that's taking
  • 00:12:22.164 --> 00:12:23.299
  • I have a friend that's taking chemotherapy. it's been going
  • 00:12:23.365 --> 00:12:25.067
  • Chemotherapy. it's been going on for three years. she's
  • 00:12:25.134 --> 00:12:26.669
  • On for three years. she's lost her hair. at one point,
  • 00:12:26.735 --> 00:12:28.404
  • Lost her hair. at one point, lost her voice, had to take a
  • 00:12:28.470 --> 00:12:30.172
  • Lost her voice, had to take a leave from work. but every
  • 00:12:30.239 --> 00:12:32.274
  • Leave from work. but every time i see her, she has a
  • 00:12:32.341 --> 00:12:33.776
  • Time i see her, she has a smile. i ask how she's doing.
  • 00:12:33.843 --> 00:12:36.011
  • Smile. i ask how she's doing. “joel, life is good. i'm
  • 00:12:36.078 --> 00:12:37.780
  • “joel, life is good. i'm blessed. i'm getting better.”
  • 00:12:37.847 --> 00:12:39.982
  • Blessed. i'm getting better.” “are you back to work yet?”
  • 00:12:40.049 --> 00:12:41.417
  • “are you back to work yet?” “not yet. i don't have the
  • 00:12:41.483 --> 00:12:42.985
  • “not yet. i don't have the stamina, but it's coming. i'm
  • 00:12:43.052 --> 00:12:44.887
  • Stamina, but it's coming. i'm getting stronger every day.”
  • 00:12:44.954 --> 00:12:47.323
  • Getting stronger every day.” she had a bad moment,
  • 00:12:47.389 --> 00:12:49.291
  • She had a bad moment, something she wasn't
  • 00:12:49.358 --> 00:12:50.059
  • Something she wasn't expecting, but she didn't let
  • 00:12:50.125 --> 00:12:52.094
  • Expecting, but she didn't let it turn into a bad day. she
  • 00:12:52.161 --> 00:12:54.430
  • It turn into a bad day. she had every right to. thoughts
  • 00:12:54.496 --> 00:12:55.998
  • Had every right to. thoughts said, “this is not fair. look
  • 00:12:56.065 --> 00:12:57.867
  • Said, “this is not fair. look what you've been through.”
  • 00:12:57.933 --> 00:12:59.134
  • What you've been through.” she could have lived
  • 00:12:59.201 --> 00:12:59.768
  • She could have lived discouraged, complaining. but
  • 00:12:59.835 --> 00:13:02.304
  • Discouraged, complaining. but she's saying like david,
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  • She's saying like david, “this is the day the lord has
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  • “this is the day the lord has made. i will rejoice and be
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  • Made. i will rejoice and be glad in it.” this isn't a day
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  • Glad in it.” this isn't a day to live defeated, offended,
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  • To live defeated, offended, look what they did. this is a
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  • Look what they did. this is a day the lord has made. you're
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  • Day the lord has made. you're not here by accident. god
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  • Not here by accident. god chose you to be here. he woke
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  • Chose you to be here. he woke you up this morning, gave you
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  • You up this morning, gave you breath to breathe. he could
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  • Breath to breathe. he could have chosen anyone to be
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  • Have chosen anyone to be alive right now, but he
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  • Alive right now, but he handpicked you. now don't let
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  • Handpicked you. now don't let this day go by without
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  • This day go by without enjoying it. sure, things are
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  • Enjoying it. sure, things are going to come against us, but
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  • Going to come against us, but you have to make the
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  • You have to make the decision, “i will rejoice. i
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  • Decision, “i will rejoice. i will be glad.” the right
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  • Will be glad.” the right attitude is, “my neighbor's
  • 00:13:41.977 --> 00:13:43.345
  • Attitude is, “my neighbor's talking about me. spreading
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  • Talking about me. spreading rumors. i can't control that.
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  • Rumors. i can't control that. i'm going to enjoy this day.
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  • I'm going to enjoy this day. my loved one's dealing with
  • 00:13:48.851 --> 00:13:50.052
  • My loved one's dealing with an illness. things are
  • 00:13:50.119 --> 00:13:51.287
  • An illness. things are difficult. but i know i can
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  • Difficult. but i know i can do all things through christ.
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  • Do all things through christ. i'm not going to endure the
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  • I'm not going to endure the day; i'm going to enjoy the
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  • Day; i'm going to enjoy the day.” “joel, i had a setback
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  • Day.” “joel, i had a setback in my business, my
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  • In my business, my relationship came to an end.
  • 00:14:01.030 --> 00:14:02.798
  • Relationship came to an end. that was a bad moment. don't
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  • That was a bad moment. don't let it become a bad life.
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  • Let it become a bad life. when david wrote this psalm,
  • 00:14:07.169 --> 00:14:08.637
  • When david wrote this psalm, “this is the day”, he had all
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  • “this is the day”, he had all kinds of things coming
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  • Kinds of things coming against him. armies
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  • Attacking, people slandering
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  • Attacking, people slandering him, spreading rumors. king
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  • Him, spreading rumors. king saul had chased him through
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  • Saul had chased him through the desert. his father
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  • The desert. his father discounted him and didn't
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  • Discounted him and didn't think he was king material.
  • 00:14:20.582 --> 00:14:22.718
  • Think he was king material. all these bad moments, he
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  • All these bad moments, he could have easily let turn
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  • Could have easily let turn into bad days, bad months,
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  • Into bad days, bad months, bad years. but look at
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  • Bad years. but look at david's attitude. “this is
  • 00:14:29.792 --> 00:14:31.327
  • David's attitude. “this is the day the lord has made.”
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  • The day the lord has made.” he was saying, “this is not
  • 00:14:33.629 --> 00:14:35.164
  • He was saying, “this is not an ordinary day. this is not
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  • An ordinary day. this is not something i take for granted
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  • Something i take for granted and just live however i feel.
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  • And just live however i feel. god made this day. he created
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  • God made this day. he created me to be here. i have a
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  • Me to be here. i have a responsibility to live this
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  • Responsibility to live this day to the full.” all these
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  • Day to the full.” all these unfair circumstances, but it
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  • Unfair circumstances, but it didn't make him sour. he
  • 00:14:51.880 --> 00:14:53.215
  • Didn't make him sour. he said, “i will rejoice. i will
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  • Said, “i will rejoice. i will be glad.” he was saying in
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  • Be glad.” he was saying in effect, “when i go to bed at
  • 00:14:57.987 --> 00:14:59.688
  • Effect, “when i go to bed at night, i will say, it's been
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  • Night, i will say, it's been a good day. my father left me
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  • A good day. my father left me out in the fields, didn't
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  • Out in the fields, didn't believe in me, but i let that
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  • Offense go. it's been a good
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  • Offense go. it's been a good day. king saul was trying to
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  • Day. king saul was trying to kill me. throwing spears and
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  • Kill me. throwing spears and i did nothing wrong. that was
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  • I did nothing wrong. that was a bad moment, but i'm not
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  • A bad moment, but i'm not dwelling on it. god is my
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  • Dwelling on it. god is my vindicator. he'll get me to
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  • Vindicator. he'll get me to where i'm supposed to be.
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  • Where i'm supposed to be. it's been a good day.”
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  • It's been a good day.” we can't get away from the
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  • We can't get away from the bad moments. my question is,
  • 00:15:24.380 --> 00:15:26.982
  • Bad moments. my question is, are you letting them turn
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  • Are you letting them turn into bad days? are you
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  • Into bad days? are you holding on to them, letting
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  • Holding on to them, letting them linger, dwelling on what
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  • Them linger, dwelling on what didn't work out. don't go to
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  • Didn't work out. don't go to bed with the negative.
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  • Bed with the negative. moments turn into momentum.
  • 00:15:37.960 --> 00:15:40.929
  • Moments turn into momentum. what you dwell on gets
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  • What you dwell on gets stronger and becomes more
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  • Stronger and becomes more powerful. david could have
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  • Powerful. david could have been giving energy to all the
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  • Been giving energy to all the bad things, the hurts, the
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  • Bad things, the hurts, the injustice. but notice what's
  • 00:15:49.571 --> 00:15:51.240
  • Injustice. but notice what's he's giving momentum to.
  • 00:15:51.306 --> 00:15:52.908
  • He's giving momentum to. “it's the day the lord has
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  • “it's the day the lord has made.” he was saying, “god is
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  • Made.” he was saying, “god is my provider. my protector. my
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  • My provider. my protector. my defender. i will be glad and
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  • Defender. i will be glad and enjoy this day.”
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  • When i first started
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  • When i first started ministering, i was invited to
  • 00:16:03.986 --> 00:16:06.021
  • Ministering, i was invited to be on a news program on a
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  • Be on a news program on a local station here in town
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  • Local station here in town early one monday morning. i
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  • Early one monday morning. i had to be there at 6:30. i
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  • Had to be there at 6:30. i was already a little tired
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  • From the sunday before. it
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  • From the sunday before. it was cold outside, raining.
  • 00:16:15.764 --> 00:16:18.300
  • Was cold outside, raining. they told me to park right up
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  • They told me to park right up front next to the building in
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  • Front next to the building in a reserved lot. i drove up
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  • A reserved lot. i drove up and got out of my car. this
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  • And got out of my car. this lady came over, a security
  • 00:16:25.474 --> 00:16:27.443
  • Lady came over, a security guard, and you would think i
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  • Guard, and you would think i had just robbed a bank. she
  • 00:16:29.311 --> 00:16:31.080
  • Had just robbed a bank. she started screaming, “you
  • 00:16:31.146 --> 00:16:32.948
  • Started screaming, “you cannot park here. what do you
  • 00:16:33.015 --> 00:16:35.184
  • Cannot park here. what do you think you're doing? get back
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  • Think you're doing? get back in your car.” i looked at her
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  • In your car.” i looked at her in a fog, still halfway
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  • In a fog, still halfway awake. i said, “ma'am, this
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  • Awake. i said, “ma'am, this is where they told me to
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  • Is where they told me to park.” she said, “they did
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  • Park.” she said, “they did not tell you right. you need
  • 00:16:45.527 --> 00:16:47.329
  • Not tell you right. you need to move it now.” i had to
  • 00:16:47.396 --> 00:16:49.631
  • To move it now.” i had to remind myself. i'm a pastor.
  • 00:16:49.698 --> 00:16:52.434
  • Remind myself. i'm a pastor. my church is across the
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  • My church is across the street. i'm here to be on the
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  • Street. i'm here to be on the news, i don't want to be in
  • 00:16:56.071 --> 00:16:57.272
  • News, i don't want to be in the news. i can see the
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  • The news. i can see the headline; security guard beat
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  • Headline; security guard beat up by smiling pastor.
  • 00:17:01.043 --> 00:17:03.345
  • Up by smiling pastor. i had to park in the
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  • I had to park in the neighborhood; a couple blocks
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  • Neighborhood; a couple blocks away. running through the
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  • Away. running through the rain, trying not to get my
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  • Rain, trying not to get my suit wet. i didn't like the
  • 00:17:08.717 --> 00:17:10.419
  • Suit wet. i didn't like the way i was treated. but i made
  • 00:17:10.486 --> 00:17:12.087
  • Way i was treated. but i made up my mind, i'm not going to
  • 00:17:12.154 --> 00:17:13.355
  • Up my mind, i'm not going to give away my joy. i'm not
  • 00:17:13.422 --> 00:17:15.023
  • Give away my joy. i'm not going to give her my peace.
  • 00:17:15.090 --> 00:17:17.926
  • Going to give her my peace. most people that are rude,
  • 00:17:17.993 --> 00:17:20.429
  • Most people that are rude, offensive, harsh, they have
  • 00:17:20.496 --> 00:17:22.364
  • Offensive, harsh, they have issues of their own. they're
  • 00:17:22.431 --> 00:17:24.099
  • Issues of their own. they're angry. they're bitter. they
  • 00:17:24.166 --> 00:17:25.567
  • Angry. they're bitter. they don't like themselves. often,
  • 00:17:25.634 --> 00:17:28.103
  • Don't like themselves. often, they'll try to dump their
  • 00:17:28.170 --> 00:17:29.104
  • They'll try to dump their poison on you. if you're not
  • 00:17:29.171 --> 00:17:31.373
  • Poison on you. if you're not disciplined, you'll take the
  • 00:17:31.440 --> 00:17:32.441
  • Disciplined, you'll take the bait and get upset, argue,
  • 00:17:32.508 --> 00:17:34.710
  • Bait and get upset, argue, try to straighten them out.
  • 00:17:34.776 --> 00:17:36.545
  • Try to straighten them out. that's a battle you're not
  • 00:17:36.612 --> 00:17:37.679
  • That's a battle you're not supposed to fight. if you
  • 00:17:37.746 --> 00:17:39.581
  • Supposed to fight. if you win, there's no benefit. what
  • 00:17:39.648 --> 00:17:41.783
  • Win, there's no benefit. what did you prove?
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  • This was at six thirty in the
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  • This was at six thirty in the morning. that bad moment had
  • 00:17:44.753 --> 00:17:46.889
  • Morning. that bad moment had the potential to sour the
  • 00:17:46.955 --> 00:17:48.490
  • The potential to sour the rest of my day, but i had the
  • 00:17:48.557 --> 00:17:50.292
  • Rest of my day, but i had the potential to not let that
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  • Potential to not let that happen. your emotions are
  • 00:17:51.960 --> 00:17:54.029
  • Happen. your emotions are either controlled by your
  • 00:17:54.096 --> 00:17:55.230
  • Either controlled by your circumstances or your
  • 00:17:55.297 --> 00:17:56.832
  • Circumstances or your character. you get to choose.
  • 00:17:56.899 --> 00:17:59.735
  • Character. you get to choose. nobody can take your joy.
  • 00:17:59.801 --> 00:18:01.103
  • Nobody can take your joy. they can try to bait you into
  • 00:18:01.170 --> 00:18:03.238
  • They can try to bait you into giving it to them. if you
  • 00:18:03.305 --> 00:18:05.073
  • Giving it to them. if you fall into that trap, the
  • 00:18:05.140 --> 00:18:06.475
  • Fall into that trap, the enemy will control your life.
  • 00:18:06.542 --> 00:18:08.677
  • Enemy will control your life. he'll use people and delays,
  • 00:18:08.744 --> 00:18:10.779
  • He'll use people and delays, unfair things to keep you
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  • Upset, offended, worried. how
  • 00:18:12.347 --> 00:18:15.083
  • Upset, offended, worried. how many of us are taking the
  • 00:18:15.150 --> 00:18:16.385
  • Many of us are taking the bait? sure, there will be bad
  • 00:18:16.451 --> 00:18:18.587
  • Bait? sure, there will be bad moments. but recognize what
  • 00:18:18.654 --> 00:18:20.556
  • Moments. but recognize what it is. just a moment. you
  • 00:18:20.622 --> 00:18:22.758
  • It is. just a moment. you have the power to let it stay
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  • Have the power to let it stay a moment. you can dismiss it.
  • 00:18:24.359 --> 00:18:27.129
  • A moment. you can dismiss it. forgive the wrong and move
  • 00:18:27.196 --> 00:18:28.497
  • Forgive the wrong and move on. now it's in your past. it
  • 00:18:28.564 --> 00:18:30.799
  • On. now it's in your past. it has no more power over you.
  • 00:18:30.866 --> 00:18:32.267
  • Has no more power over you. it takes up no more energy.
  • 00:18:32.334 --> 00:18:34.836
  • It takes up no more energy. but if you keep dwelling on
  • 00:18:34.903 --> 00:18:36.371
  • But if you keep dwelling on it, reliving it, thinking
  • 00:18:36.438 --> 00:18:38.273
  • It, reliving it, thinking about how wrong it was, then
  • 00:18:38.340 --> 00:18:40.409
  • About how wrong it was, then you're feeding it, creating
  • 00:18:40.475 --> 00:18:42.277
  • You're feeding it, creating momentum. now it becomes
  • 00:18:42.344 --> 00:18:44.079
  • Momentum. now it becomes bigger and more hurtful. the
  • 00:18:44.146 --> 00:18:46.648
  • Bigger and more hurtful. the problem is it's taking your
  • 00:18:46.715 --> 00:18:48.517
  • Problem is it's taking your emotional energy. energy that
  • 00:18:48.584 --> 00:18:50.919
  • Emotional energy. energy that you need to enjoy your life,
  • 00:18:50.986 --> 00:18:53.021
  • You need to enjoy your life, love your family, and pursue
  • 00:18:53.088 --> 00:18:54.690
  • Love your family, and pursue your dreams.
  • 00:18:54.756 --> 00:18:56.225
  • Your dreams. i went in and i did the
  • 00:18:56.291 --> 00:18:57.159
  • I went in and i did the program. this security
  • 00:18:57.226 --> 00:18:58.760
  • Program. this security officer saw me on the screen.
  • 00:18:58.827 --> 00:19:01.163
  • Officer saw me on the screen. as i was leaving, she came
  • 00:19:01.230 --> 00:19:02.764
  • As i was leaving, she came running up, “oh pastor
  • 00:19:02.831 --> 00:19:04.166
  • Running up, “oh pastor osteen, i didn't know that
  • 00:19:04.233 --> 00:19:05.567
  • Osteen, i didn't know that was you. i watch you every
  • 00:19:05.634 --> 00:19:08.403
  • Was you. i watch you every sunday.” i thought, “you
  • 00:19:08.470 --> 00:19:10.906
  • Sunday.” i thought, “you don't ever listen.” she said,
  • 00:19:10.973 --> 00:19:13.875
  • Don't ever listen.” she said, “do you have time to pray for
  • 00:19:13.942 --> 00:19:15.344
  • “do you have time to pray for me?” i thought, “i would if i
  • 00:19:15.410 --> 00:19:17.379
  • Me?” i thought, “i would if i didn't have to walk so far.”
  • 00:19:17.446 --> 00:19:18.547
  • Didn't have to walk so far.” let me challenge you, don't
  • 00:19:18.614 --> 00:19:21.483
  • Let me challenge you, don't let the bad moments, turn
  • 00:19:21.550 --> 00:19:23.619
  • Let the bad moments, turn into bad days. you can't stop
  • 00:19:23.685 --> 00:19:26.054
  • Into bad days. you can't stop these things from coming.
  • 00:19:26.121 --> 00:19:27.756
  • These things from coming. sometimes it's little things
  • 00:19:27.823 --> 00:19:29.358
  • Sometimes it's little things that are taking our joy. we
  • 00:19:29.424 --> 00:19:31.226
  • That are taking our joy. we don't realize that life is
  • 00:19:31.293 --> 00:19:32.628
  • Don't realize that life is flying by. what does it
  • 00:19:32.694 --> 00:19:34.529
  • Flying by. what does it matter that that clerk was
  • 00:19:34.596 --> 00:19:35.764
  • Matter that that clerk was rude to you, or that car cut
  • 00:19:35.831 --> 00:19:37.799
  • Rude to you, or that car cut you off in traffic? you're
  • 00:19:37.866 --> 00:19:39.034
  • You off in traffic? you're never going to see them
  • 00:19:39.101 --> 00:19:39.935
  • Never going to see them again. why would you give
  • 00:19:40.002 --> 00:19:41.737
  • Again. why would you give them your joy. they're not
  • 00:19:41.803 --> 00:19:43.538
  • Them your joy. they're not that important to you. or
  • 00:19:43.605 --> 00:19:45.340
  • That important to you. or maybe it was something big,
  • 00:19:45.407 --> 00:19:47.075
  • Maybe it was something big, you lost a loved one, went
  • 00:19:47.142 --> 00:19:48.810
  • You lost a loved one, went through a breakup. i know
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  • Through a breakup. i know that's painful, but it didn't
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  • That's painful, but it didn't stop your destiny. take the
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  • Stop your destiny. take the right amount of time to
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  • Right amount of time to grieve the loss, then move
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  • Grieve the loss, then move on. it's a moment. it's not
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  • On. it's a moment. it's not supposed to be a lifetime. if
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  • Supposed to be a lifetime. if you keep dwelling on it,
  • 00:20:01.857 --> 00:20:02.824
  • You keep dwelling on it, you're feeding it, and giving
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  • You're feeding it, and giving it momentum. the reason you
  • 00:20:04.426 --> 00:20:06.261
  • It momentum. the reason you can't get past it is because
  • 00:20:06.328 --> 00:20:08.096
  • Can't get past it is because you're making it stronger.
  • 00:20:08.163 --> 00:20:09.831
  • You're making it stronger. let it go. learn to reframe
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  • Let it go. learn to reframe it. i didn't like when my
  • 00:20:11.900 --> 00:20:13.769
  • It. i didn't like when my father suddenly passed in
  • 00:20:13.835 --> 00:20:15.437
  • Father suddenly passed in 1999, but i thought about the
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  • 1999, but i thought about the blessed life he had lived,
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  • Blessed life he had lived, and all the time we had
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  • And all the time we had together. you can choose to
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  • Together. you can choose to see the positive or the
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  • See the positive or the negative. to focus on what
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  • Negative. to focus on what you lost or on what you have
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  • You lost or on what you have left. to complain about what
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  • Left. to complain about what went wrong, or to thank god
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  • Went wrong, or to thank god for what's gone right. bad
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  • For what's gone right. bad moments are inevitable, but
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  • Moments are inevitable, but bad days are optional. you
  • 00:20:35.824 --> 00:20:37.826
  • Bad days are optional. you get to choose how you respond.
  • 00:20:37.926 --> 00:20:40.696
  • Sometimes we've learned wrong.
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  • Sometimes we've learned wrong. habits. what we've seen
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  • Habits. what we've seen modeled growing up when
  • 00:20:44.166 --> 00:20:45.334
  • Modeled growing up when things didn't go right was
  • 00:20:45.400 --> 00:20:46.935
  • Things didn't go right was anger, offense, payback, get
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  • Anger, offense, payback, get discouraged. try a new
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  • Approach. when negative
  • 00:20:51.073 --> 00:20:52.774
  • Approach. when negative things happen, remind
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  • Things happen, remind yourself, “this is just a bad
  • 00:20:54.309 --> 00:20:55.944
  • Yourself, “this is just a bad moment. it's not the end of
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  • Moment. it's not the end of my story. it's not going to
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  • My story. it's not going to determine my attitude, my
  • 00:20:59.247 --> 00:21:00.749
  • Determine my attitude, my joy.” you're in control.
  • 00:21:00.816 --> 00:21:02.417
  • Joy.” you're in control. process it. learn from it.
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  • Process it. learn from it. then give it to god and move
  • 00:21:05.287 --> 00:21:06.655
  • Then give it to god and move on. you can't control people,
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  • On. you can't control people, control circumstances, but
  • 00:21:09.458 --> 00:21:11.426
  • Control circumstances, but you can control you. when
  • 00:21:11.493 --> 00:21:13.829
  • You can control you. when that lady was rude, i chose
  • 00:21:13.895 --> 00:21:15.564
  • That lady was rude, i chose to rise above it. i chose to
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  • To rise above it. i chose to stay in peace. when my
  • 00:21:17.332 --> 00:21:19.067
  • Stay in peace. when my brother paul showed a picture
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  • Brother paul showed a picture of our dog, with my face on
  • 00:21:20.702 --> 00:21:22.637
  • Of our dog, with my face on it, and called me pastor
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  • It, and called me pastor fifi, i chose to overlook the
  • 00:21:24.840 --> 00:21:26.975
  • Fifi, i chose to overlook the offense. to return good for
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  • Offense. to return good for evil. for the scripture says,
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  • Evil. for the scripture says, that's like putting coals of
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  • That's like putting coals of fire on them. if you haven't
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  • Fire on them. if you haven't seen the picture, good.
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  • The apostle paul said in
  • 00:21:37.018 --> 00:21:39.521
  • The apostle paul said in philippians 4, “rejoice in
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  • Philippians 4, “rejoice in the lord always, and again i
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  • The lord always, and again i say rejoice.” what's
  • 00:21:44.226 --> 00:21:45.694
  • Say rejoice.” what's significant is paul wrote
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  • Significant is paul wrote this from a prison cell,
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  • Where he was chained and
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  • Where he was chained and awaiting trial. paul had been
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  • Awaiting trial. paul had been through all kinds of
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  • Through all kinds of hardships. if anyone knew
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  • Hardships. if anyone knew about bad moments, if anyone
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  • About bad moments, if anyone had the right to be bitter
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  • Had the right to be bitter and upset, it would have been
  • 00:21:58.607 --> 00:22:00.842
  • And upset, it would have been paul. he had been falsely
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  • Paul. he had been falsely accused, betrayed. he was
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  • Accused, betrayed. he was shipwrecked, spent the night
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  • Shipwrecked, spent the night on the open sea, bit by a
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  • On the open sea, bit by a poisonous snake. he sat down
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  • Poisonous snake. he sat down in this prison and thought
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  • In this prison and thought about all he had been
  • 00:22:11.420 --> 00:22:12.187
  • About all he had been through, what was the secret
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  • Through, what was the secret of him fulfilling his
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  • Of him fulfilling his purpose, and wrote these
  • 00:22:15.190 --> 00:22:16.825
  • Purpose, and wrote these words, “rejoice in the lord
  • 00:22:16.892 --> 00:22:18.894
  • Words, “rejoice in the lord always.” in case we didn't
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  • Always.” in case we didn't get it the first time, he
  • 00:22:21.129 --> 00:22:22.431
  • Get it the first time, he said, “and again i say
  • 00:22:22.497 --> 00:22:24.032
  • Said, “and again i say rejoice.” he was saying,
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  • Rejoice.” he was saying, there will be times that you
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  • There will be times that you don't feel like it, where
  • 00:22:27.969 --> 00:22:29.504
  • Don't feel like it, where people do you wrong, it's not
  • 00:22:29.571 --> 00:22:31.206
  • People do you wrong, it's not fair. that's when you have to
  • 00:22:31.273 --> 00:22:32.941
  • Fair. that's when you have to dig down deep and say, “i
  • 00:22:33.008 --> 00:22:34.543
  • Dig down deep and say, “i will rejoice. this is the day
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  • Will rejoice. this is the day the lord has made. i'm not
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  • The lord has made. i'm not going to let this bad moment
  • 00:22:38.947 --> 00:22:40.649
  • Going to let this bad moment turn into a bad day.”
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  • One time paul and silas had
  • 00:22:42.818 --> 00:22:44.152
  • One time paul and silas had been out ministering. they
  • 00:22:44.219 --> 00:22:45.520
  • Been out ministering. they were attacked and beaten by
  • 00:22:45.587 --> 00:22:47.289
  • Were attacked and beaten by this angry mob. they arrested
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  • This angry mob. they arrested them and put in the deepest
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  • Them and put in the deepest dungeon. never dreamed they
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  • Dungeon. never dreamed they would be there. all the
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  • Would be there. all the circumstances said this is a
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  • Circumstances said this is a bad day. they were bruised,
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  • Bad day. they were bruised, hurting, facing death.
  • 00:22:57.499 --> 00:22:59.768
  • Hurting, facing death. surely, they would be
  • 00:22:59.835 --> 00:23:00.569
  • Surely, they would be complaining, “god, we were
  • 00:23:00.635 --> 00:23:02.471
  • Complaining, “god, we were doing your will. why did this
  • 00:23:02.537 --> 00:23:04.172
  • Doing your will. why did this happen?” surely, they would
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  • Go to bed saying, “i'm glad
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  • Go to bed saying, “i'm glad this day is over. it's been a
  • 00:23:07.509 --> 00:23:08.944
  • This day is over. it's been a nightmare.” no, at midnight,
  • 00:23:09.010 --> 00:23:11.012
  • Nightmare.” no, at midnight, the scripture says, “they
  • 00:23:11.079 --> 00:23:12.247
  • The scripture says, “they were singing praises and
  • 00:23:12.314 --> 00:23:14.082
  • Were singing praises and thanking god.” despite being
  • 00:23:14.149 --> 00:23:16.351
  • Thanking god.” despite being one of the worst days of
  • 00:23:16.418 --> 00:23:17.519
  • One of the worst days of their lives, before they laid
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  • Their lives, before they laid their head down in the
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  • Their head down in the prison, they were saying in
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  • Prison, they were saying in effect. “it's been a good
  • 00:23:22.624 --> 00:23:23.992
  • Effect. “it's been a good day. god, we know you're
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  • Day. god, we know you're still on the throne.” about
  • 00:23:25.861 --> 00:23:27.596
  • Still on the throne.” about that time, there was a great
  • 00:23:27.662 --> 00:23:28.497
  • That time, there was a great earthquake. the prison doors
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  • Earthquake. the prison doors flung open. the chains fell
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  • Flung open. the chains fell off their feet. they walked
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  • Off their feet. they walked out as free men. that never
  • 00:23:32.667 --> 00:23:34.402
  • Out as free men. that never would have happened if they
  • 00:23:34.469 --> 00:23:35.770
  • Would have happened if they had been focused on the hurt,
  • 00:23:35.837 --> 00:23:37.239
  • Had been focused on the hurt, angry at their enemies,
  • 00:23:37.305 --> 00:23:38.740
  • Angry at their enemies, reliving the disappointment.
  • 00:23:38.807 --> 00:23:40.509
  • Reliving the disappointment. let's be like paul and silas.
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  • Let's be like paul and silas. even on the hard days, when
  • 00:23:42.577 --> 00:23:44.379
  • Even on the hard days, when it's not fair, life throws us
  • 00:23:44.446 --> 00:23:46.548
  • It's not fair, life throws us a curve, we reframe it. we
  • 00:23:46.615 --> 00:23:48.917
  • A curve, we reframe it. we remind ourselves god is still
  • 00:23:48.984 --> 00:23:50.819
  • Remind ourselves god is still in control. we don't give
  • 00:23:50.886 --> 00:23:52.554
  • In control. we don't give away our joy. we don't let go
  • 00:23:52.621 --> 00:23:54.689
  • Away our joy. we don't let go of our peace. we rejoice
  • 00:23:54.756 --> 00:23:56.258
  • Of our peace. we rejoice always. will you make that
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  • Always. will you make that decision with me, no more bad
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  • Decision with me, no more bad days. life is too short to
  • 00:24:00.562 --> 00:24:02.931
  • Days. life is too short to let our circumstances control
  • 00:24:02.998 --> 00:24:04.833
  • Let our circumstances control us. other people determine
  • 00:24:04.900 --> 00:24:06.468
  • Us. other people determine our moods. you can't control
  • 00:24:06.535 --> 00:24:08.169
  • Our moods. you can't control all that. take control of
  • 00:24:08.236 --> 00:24:09.871
  • All that. take control of you. your attitude. your
  • 00:24:09.938 --> 00:24:12.173
  • You. your attitude. your thoughts. this is the day the
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  • Thoughts. this is the day the lord has made. now make sure
  • 00:24:13.708 --> 00:24:15.944
  • Lord has made. now make sure you're a good steward of it.
  • 00:24:16.011 --> 00:24:18.346
  • You're a good steward of it. next time something negative
  • 00:24:18.413 --> 00:24:19.581
  • Next time something negative happens, just remind
  • 00:24:19.648 --> 00:24:20.882
  • Happens, just remind yourself, it's a bad moment.
  • 00:24:20.949 --> 00:24:23.018
  • Yourself, it's a bad moment. it doesn't have to turn into
  • 00:24:23.084 --> 00:24:24.185
  • It doesn't have to turn into a bad day, a bad month. don't
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  • A bad day, a bad month. don't let it linger. let it go and
  • 00:24:27.088 --> 00:24:29.591
  • Let it linger. let it go and move on. when you lay down at
  • 00:24:29.658 --> 00:24:31.726
  • Move on. when you lay down at night, you need to be able to
  • 00:24:31.793 --> 00:24:33.228
  • Night, you need to be able to say, “this was a good day.
  • 00:24:33.295 --> 00:24:35.430
  • Say, “this was a good day. god, i thank you that i'm
  • 00:24:35.497 --> 00:24:36.631
  • God, i thank you that i'm alive.” if you'll do this,
  • 00:24:36.698 --> 00:24:39.067
  • Alive.” if you'll do this, you may have some bad
  • 00:24:39.134 --> 00:24:40.135
  • You may have some bad moments, but i believe and
  • 00:24:40.201 --> 00:24:42.037
  • Moments, but i believe and declare, no more bad days.
  • 00:24:42.103 --> 00:24:44.439
  • Declare, no more bad days. you're going to rise above
  • 00:24:44.506 --> 00:24:45.540
  • You're going to rise above it, enjoy your life, have
  • 00:24:45.607 --> 00:24:47.776
  • It, enjoy your life, have peace in the midst of the
  • 00:24:47.842 --> 00:24:48.877
  • Peace in the midst of the storm. like paul, god is
  • 00:24:48.944 --> 00:24:50.645
  • Storm. like paul, god is going to fight your battles,
  • 00:24:50.712 --> 00:24:52.013
  • Going to fight your battles, and take you to the fullness
  • 00:24:52.080 --> 00:24:53.281
  • And take you to the fullness of your destiny, in jesus'
  • 00:24:53.348 --> 00:24:55.417
  • Of your destiny, in jesus' name. if you receive it, can
  • 00:24:55.483 --> 00:24:57.519
  • Name. if you receive it, can you say amen? (applause)
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  • Many people believe
  • 00:25:00.589 --> 00:25:01.623
  • Many people believe that god can heal.
  • 00:25:01.690 --> 00:25:02.958
  • That god can heal. but when nothing is improving,
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  • But when nothing is improving, our prayers are
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  • Our prayers are not being answered,
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  • Not being answered, it's easy to think:
  • 00:25:06.661 --> 00:25:07.762
  • It's easy to think: will god heal me?
  • 00:25:07.829 --> 00:25:09.531
  • Will god heal me? the truth is,
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  • The truth is, god still loves to heal.
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  • And medically speaking,
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  • Speaking, there were no options,
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  • Similar to cerebral palsy. what god did for us,
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  • What god did for us, he can do for you.
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  • Victoria and i
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  • Are going to be praying for you
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  • Are going to be praying for you this month,
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  • This month, especially for healing for
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  • Especially for healing for you and your family.
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  • You and your family. not just physically,
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  • Not just physically, but mentally
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  • But mentally and emotionally
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  • And emotionally that you will be
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  • That you will be completely whole.
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  • Completely whole. we appreciate your prayer
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  • We appreciate your prayer and support.
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  • And support. your generosity
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  • Your generosity is impacting people
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  • Is impacting people around the world and special
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  • Around the world and special thank you to our champion
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  • Thank you to our champion of hope partners
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  • Of hope partners for all you do
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  • For all you do to make the ministry possible.
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  • To make the ministry possible. until we meet again,
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  • Until we meet again, may the lord bless
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  • May the lord bless you and keep you.
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  • Be sure to request
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  • Your copy of godst
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  • Still loves to heal.
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  • Still loves to heal. available this month
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  • By simply visiting us
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  • At joelosteen.com
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  • At joelosteen.com or call 888-567-joel.
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  • If you've never
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  • If you've never been to lakewood,
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  • Been to lakewood, we have a great opportunity
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  • We have a great opportunity for you.
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  • For you. we call it homecoming weekend.
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  • We call it homecoming weekend. we'd love to meet
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  • We'd love to meet you and your family,
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  • You and your family, and you can see the building
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  • And you can see the building and attend one of the services.
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  • And attend one of the services. it's a great time
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  • It's a great time to be a part
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  • To be a part of the lakewood family.
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  • Of the lakewood family. looking forward to seeing
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  • Looking forward to seeing you at homecoming weekend.
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