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Joel Osteen | Joel Osteen - No More Bad Days | February 22, 2026
- I like to start with
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- I like to start with something funny. i heard
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- Something funny. i heard about these three pastors
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- About these three pastors that were in a boat together
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- That were in a boat together fishing. one of them said,
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- Fishing. one of them said, “we never get to let our hair
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- “we never get to let our hair down. let's each tell the
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- Down. let's each tell the greatest area that we
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- Greatest area that we struggle in, our greatest
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- Struggle in, our greatest sin, so we can pray for each
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- Sin, so we can pray for each other.” the first pastor
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- Said, “i hate to admit it,
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- Said, “i hate to admit it, but i have a problem with
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- But i have a problem with gambling. some nights i sneak
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- Gambling. some nights i sneak out and gamble.” the second
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- Out and gamble.” the second pastor said, “i'm ashamed to
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- Pastor said, “i'm ashamed to admit this, but i have a
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- Admit this, but i have a problem with cheating. i
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- Problem with cheating. i hardly ever pay my taxes.”
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- Hardly ever pay my taxes.” the third pastor sat there
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- The third pastor sat there silently. they waited and
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- Silently. they waited and waited. he wouldn't budge.
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- Waited. he wouldn't budge. they said, “we are not
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- They said, “we are not leaving until you tell us
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- Leaving until you tell us your greatest sin.” he said,
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- Your greatest sin.” he said, “alright, my greatest sin is
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- “alright, my greatest sin is gossiping, and i can't wait
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- Gossiping, and i can't wait to get off this boat.”
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- To get off this boat.” say it like you mean it. this
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- Say it like you mean it. this is my bible. i am what it
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- Is my bible. i am what it says i am. i have what it
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- Says i am. i have what it says i have. i can do what it
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- Says i have. i can do what it says i can do. today, i will
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- Says i can do. today, i will be taught the word of god. i
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- Be taught the word of god. i boldly confess: my mind is
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- Boldly confess: my mind is alert. my heart is receptive.
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- Alert. my heart is receptive. i will never be the same in
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- I will never be the same in jesus' name. god bless you.
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- Jesus' name. god bless you. i want to talk to you today
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- I want to talk to you today about no more bad days. we
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- About no more bad days. we all have opportunities to get
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- All have opportunities to get upset, be offended, live
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- Upset, be offended, live worried. it can be small
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- Worried. it can be small things, like traffic, people
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- Things, like traffic, people who are rude, a coworker
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- Who are rude, a coworker leaves us out. sometimes it's
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- Leaves us out. sometimes it's bigger things. the contract
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- Bigger things. the contract didn't go through, the
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- Didn't go through, the medical test wasn't good, our
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- Medical test wasn't good, our loved one's in trouble. no
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- Loved one's in trouble. no matter how good of a person
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- Matter how good of a person you are, or how much faith
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- You are, or how much faith you have, you're going to
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- You have, you're going to have to deal with bad
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- Have to deal with bad moments. it's easy to let
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- Moments. it's easy to let them take our joy, steal our
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- Them take our joy, steal our peace, where we go through
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- Peace, where we go through the day frustrated. our
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- The day frustrated. our feelings are hurt; we're down
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- Feelings are hurt; we're down because of the
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- Because of the disappointment. but life is
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- Disappointment. but life is ten percent what happens to
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- Ten percent what happens to you and ninety percent how
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- You and ninety percent how you respond. you can't stop a
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- You respond. you can't stop a bad moment from coming, but
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- Bad moment from coming, but you don't have to let it turn
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- You don't have to let it turn into a bad day. jesus said,
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- Into a bad day. jesus said, “no man can take your joy.”
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- “no man can take your joy.” no circumstance can make you
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- No circumstance can make you get sour. no delay, offense,
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- Get sour. no delay, offense, can force you to get
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- Can force you to get discouraged. you're in
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- Discouraged. you're in control of your joy. nobody
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- Control of your joy. nobody can take it from you. you get
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- Can take it from you. you get to decide your attitude, what
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- To decide your attitude, what you're going to dwell on,
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- You're going to dwell on, your perspective. when a bad
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- Your perspective. when a bad moment comes, you have to
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- Moment comes, you have to make the decision that you're
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- Make the decision that you're not going to let that ruin
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- Not going to let that ruin the rest of the day.
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- The rest of the day. it's okay to acknowledge your
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- It's okay to acknowledge your feelings. “this was hurtful.
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- Feelings. “this was hurtful. what they said was wrong. i'm
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- What they said was wrong. i'm disappointed the medical
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- Disappointed the medical report wasn't better.” that's
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- Report wasn't better.” that's valid. god made us with
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- Valid. god made us with emotions. i'm not telling you
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- Emotions. i'm not telling you to deny your feelings and
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- To deny your feelings and push things down. that's fine
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- Push things down. that's fine for a moment, but don't let
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- For a moment, but don't let it linger. don't keep
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- It linger. don't keep dwelling on it. reliving it.
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- Dwelling on it. reliving it. the longer you do, the more
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- The longer you do, the more it gets down in your spirit.
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- It gets down in your spirit. you need to reframe it. “that
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- You need to reframe it. “that was hurtful. it was wrong,
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- Was hurtful. it was wrong, but god is still in control.”
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- But god is still in control.” he sees everything that's
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- He sees everything that's happened. he's your defender.
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- Happened. he's your defender. now don't let that bad moment
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- Now don't let that bad moment turn into a bad day. maybe
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- Turn into a bad day. maybe you have a bad morning. a
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- You have a bad morning. a setback was very
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- Setback was very disappointing. or a bad
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- Disappointing. or a bad afternoon. your child didn't
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- Afternoon. your child didn't get that position you were
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- Get that position you were hoping for. it's okay to take
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- Hoping for. it's okay to take a moment to process it, but
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- A moment to process it, but don't stay there. to where
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- Don't stay there. to where you go to bed disappointed,
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- You go to bed disappointed, mad at your neighbor,
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- Mad at your neighbor, offended at your spouse,
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- Offended at your spouse, discouraged over your
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- Discouraged over your finances. if you let a bad
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- Finances. if you let a bad moment linger, it will turn
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- Moment linger, it will turn into a bad day. then a bad
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- Into a bad day. then a bad week, a bad month, a bad
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- Week, a bad month, a bad year. you look up and years
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- Year. you look up and years have gone; you don't have
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- Have gone; you don't have your passion. you're not
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- Your passion. you're not pursuing dreams, not enjoying
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- Pursuing dreams, not enjoying your family. it all started
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- Your family. it all started with a bad moment you didn't
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- With a bad moment you didn't deal with properly. it may
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- Deal with properly. it may turn into a bad hour. you
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- Turn into a bad hour. you have to process it. even a
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- Have to process it. even a bad morning. but don't let it
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- Bad morning. but don't let it turn into a bad day. you have
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- Turn into a bad day. you have to put your foot down and
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- To put your foot down and say, “no, i'm not giving away
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- Say, “no, i'm not giving away my joy, i am not going to
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- My joy, i am not going to lose my peace. this is the
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- Lose my peace. this is the day the lord has made, i've
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- Day the lord has made, i've made up my mind to enjoy it.”
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- Made up my mind to enjoy it.” the scripture says, “don't
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- The scripture says, “don't let the sun go down while
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- Let the sun go down while you're angry.” it's a
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- You're angry.” it's a principle. if you go to bed
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- Principle. if you go to bed with negative things, anger,
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- With negative things, anger, offense, discouragement,
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- Offense, discouragement, guilt, that's letting the
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- Guilt, that's letting the negativity take deeper root.
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- Negativity take deeper root. it's getting more down in
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- It's getting more down in your spirit. you start the
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- Your spirit. you start the next day off a little more
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- Next day off a little more sour, a little more offended,
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- Sour, a little more offended, a little more frustrated. the
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- A little more frustrated. the longer you go, the more
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- Longer you go, the more difficult to deal with.
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- Difficult to deal with. that's why it's so important
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- That's why it's so important to not go to bed upset,
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- To not go to bed upset, frustrated, worried. you may
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- Frustrated, worried. you may have a good reason to feel
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- Have a good reason to feel that way. you've had some bad
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- That way. you've had some bad moments, things that weren't
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- Moments, things that weren't fair, plans that fell
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- Fair, plans that fell through. the good news is
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- Through. the good news is that bad moment didn't stop
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- That bad moment didn't stop your destiny. it didn't
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- Your destiny. it didn't override what god has for
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- Override what god has for you. why are you giving away
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- You. why are you giving away your joy? the scripture tells
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- Your joy? the scripture tells us to hold our peace. why are
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- Us to hold our peace. why are you letting go of your peace?
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- You letting go of your peace? it was a bad moment; you
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- It was a bad moment; you can't stop that. but you can
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- Can't stop that. but you can keep it from turning into a
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- Keep it from turning into a bad day. that can lead to a
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- Bad day. that can lead to a bad year, that can go on to a
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- Bad year, that can go on to a bad life. you have the power
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- Bad life. you have the power to decide how long the bad
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- To decide how long the bad moment is going to last. i
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- Moment is going to last. i know some things are hurtful.
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- Know some things are hurtful. it's like they knocked the
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- It's like they knocked the wind out of us. you have to
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- Wind out of us. you have to regroup and reframe it. don't
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- Regroup and reframe it. don't let your emotions decide, you
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- Let your emotions decide, you decide.
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- Decide. on july 30th last year, my
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- On july 30th last year, my sister lisa called and said
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- Sister lisa called and said my mother is not answering
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- My mother is not answering the phone and she thought
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- The phone and she thought something was wrong. of
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- Something was wrong. of course, i jumped in the car
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- Course, i jumped in the car and headed toward her house.
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- And headed toward her house. on the way there, a police
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- On the way there, a police officer called and said,
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- Officer called and said, “joel, i'm sorry to tell you
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- “joel, i'm sorry to tell you this, but we found your
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- This, but we found your mother deceased at home.” i
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- Mother deceased at home.” i didn't see that coming. a bad
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- Didn't see that coming. a bad moment. losing a loved one. i
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- Moment. losing a loved one. i was having a good day, then
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- Was having a good day, then life happened. there's a time
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- Life happened. there's a time for weeping, a time to
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- For weeping, a time to grieve. you have to process
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- Grieve. you have to process what's happened, but you
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- What's happened, but you can't let the sorrow linger.
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- Can't let the sorrow linger. you can't let the
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- You can't let the disappointment continue day
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- Disappointment continue day after day. you need to
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- After day. you need to reframe it. look at it from a
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- Reframe it. look at it from a perspective of faith. in a
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- Couple of hours, after i got
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- Couple of hours, after i got past the initial news,
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- Past the initial news, instead of being sad,
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- Instead of being sad, overwhelmed, “can you believe
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- Overwhelmed, “can you believe what happened,” i started
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- What happened,” i started thinking about what a great
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- Thinking about what a great mother i had. how she lived
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- Mother i had. how she lived almost ninety-two years. how
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- Almost ninety-two years. how god healed her from terminal
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- God healed her from terminal cancer. she was at church two
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- Cancer. she was at church two days before praying for
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- Days before praying for people right here. i had
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- People right here. i had talked to her the night
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- Talked to her the night before and told her how much
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- Before and told her how much i loved her. she was a bright
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- I loved her. she was a bright light, inspiring so many
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- Light, inspiring so many people with her healing and
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- People with her healing and faith and compassion. i went
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- To bed that night, not
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- To bed that night, not thinking about what a bad day
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- Thinking about what a bad day it was, but thinking about
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- It was, but thinking about how good god is. and how now
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- How good god is. and how now my mother is in his hands. i
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- My mother is in his hands. i felt strength and peace, not
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- Felt strength and peace, not in a weird way, but i had joy
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- In a weird way, but i had joy on the inside. i knew god was
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- On the inside. i knew god was still in control, that she
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- Still in control, that she had fulfilled her purpose,
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- Had fulfilled her purpose, and that we were stepping
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- And that we were stepping into new seasons.
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- Into new seasons. my point is it was a choice
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- My point is it was a choice that i made. “this is a bad
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- That i made. “this is a bad moment. i'm disappointed, but
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- Moment. i'm disappointed, but i'm not going to let this
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- I'm not going to let this turn into a bad week, a bad
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- Turn into a bad week, a bad month, a bad year.” every day
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- Month, a bad year.” every day is a gift from god. once you
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- Is a gift from god. once you live this day, you can't get
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- Live this day, you can't get it back. when you lay your
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- It back. when you lay your head on the pillow each
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- Head on the pillow each night, you need to be able to
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- Night, you need to be able to say, “this was a good day.”
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- Say, “this was a good day.” even if you had bad things
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- Even if you had bad things happen, even if it didn't
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- Happen, even if it didn't work out the way you had
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- Work out the way you had planned, there were
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- Planned, there were unexpected challenges. you
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- Unexpected challenges. you have to turn those hurts over
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- Have to turn those hurts over to god. he wouldn't have
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- To god. he wouldn't have allowed it if it wasn't going
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- Allowed it if it wasn't going to work to your advantage.
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- To work to your advantage. you need to remember the good
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- You need to remember the good things in your life. “lord,
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- Things in your life. “lord, i've had some setbacks, but i
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- I've had some setbacks, but i want to thank you that i'm
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- Want to thank you that i'm alive. that i have breath to
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- Alive. that i have breath to breathe, that i have a place
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- Breathe, that i have a place to live, a family to love,
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- To live, a family to love, dreams to pursue. yes, i had
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- Dreams to pursue. yes, i had some trouble, but all is
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- Some trouble, but all is well. my boss did me wrong,
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- Well. my boss did me wrong, but all is well. my mother
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- But all is well. my mother went to be with you, but all
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- Went to be with you, but all is well.” let's make up our
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- Is well.” let's make up our minds, no more bad days. no
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- Minds, no more bad days. no more going to bed sour. no
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- More going to bed sour. no more letting people steal our
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- More letting people steal our joy, frustrated over things
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- Joy, frustrated over things we can't control. no more
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- We can't control. no more letting the offense linger.
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- Letting the offense linger. deal with it quickly and move
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- Deal with it quickly and move on. trust god to be your
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- On. trust god to be your vindicator. trust him with
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- Vindicator. trust him with the closed doors, things you
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- The closed doors, things you don't understand. the delays,
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- Don't understand. the delays, the people that walked away.
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- The people that walked away. those are bad moments, but
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- Those are bad moments, but they don't have to turn into
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- They don't have to turn into a bad day.
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- A bad day. this is what habakkuk did. a
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- This is what habakkuk did. a man in the scripture. he
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- Man in the scripture. he said, “although the fig tree
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- Said, “although the fig tree does not blossom, and there
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- Does not blossom, and there be no fruit in the vine.
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- Be no fruit in the vine. though the olive crops have
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- Though the olive crops have failed, and the fields have
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- Failed, and the fields have produced no food.” he was
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- Produced no food.” he was saying, “my business is not
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- Saying, “my business is not good, my crops didn't make
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- Good, my crops didn't make it, my storehouses are
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- It, my storehouses are empty.” he could have stopped
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- Empty.” he could have stopped there and just complained,
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- There and just complained, “man, it's been a bad day.
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- “man, it's been a bad day. i've had all these setbacks.”
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- I've had all these setbacks.” but he went on to say, “yet
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- But he went on to say, “yet will i rejoice in the lord,
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- Will i rejoice in the lord, and joy in the god of my
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- And joy in the god of my salvation.” he was saying,
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- Salvation.” he was saying, “these are bad moments, i
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- “these are bad moments, i can't control all that, but
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- Can't control all that, but i'm not going to let it take
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- I'm not going to let it take my joy. i know salvation is
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- My joy. i know salvation is coming. salvation means
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- Coming. salvation means deliverance, breakthroughs,
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- Deliverance, breakthroughs, abundance. he was expecting
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- Abundance. he was expecting god's goodness.
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- If we don't learn this
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- If we don't learn this principle and we let the
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- Principle and we let the circumstances determine
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- Circumstances determine whether we have a good day or
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- Whether we have a good day or bad day, the enemy will make
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- Bad day, the enemy will make sure there's always some
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- Sure there's always some reason to sour your day. a
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- Grouchy coworker, you can't
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- Grouchy coworker, you can't find your cell phone. it
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- Find your cell phone. it rains right after you wash
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- Rains right after you wash your car. a friend is saying
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- Your car. a friend is saying things that are not true. all
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- Things that are not true. all these bad moments have the
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- These bad moments have the potential to ruin your day.
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- Potential to ruin your day. if you dwell on them, you'll
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- If you dwell on them, you'll get upset, frustrated, but
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- Get upset, frustrated, but you have the potential to
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- You have the potential to just let it be a moment. to
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- Just let it be a moment. to just let it go and move on.
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- Just let it go and move on. no big deal. “the offense
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- No big deal. “the offense came, but i didn't take the
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- Came, but i didn't take the bait. i'm going to stay in
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- Bait. i'm going to stay in peace. i got delayed; my
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- Peace. i got delayed; my plans didn't work out; i'm
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- Not frustrated. i know god is
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- Not frustrated. i know god is ordering my steps. i didn't
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- Ordering my steps. i didn't get the promotion; the
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- Get the promotion; the scholarship didn't go
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- Scholarship didn't go through. yes, i'm
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- Through. yes, i'm disappointed. it's a bad
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- Disappointed. it's a bad moment, but i know god has
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- Moment, but i know god has something better. i know that
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- Something better. i know that door wouldn't have closed if
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- He didn't have greater things
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- He didn't have greater things in my future.” life happens
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- In my future.” life happens to us all. bad moments are
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- To us all. bad moments are inevitable, but bad days are
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- Inevitable, but bad days are optional. you get to choose
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- Optional. you get to choose what it's going to be.
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- What it's going to be. when you wake up in the
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- When you wake up in the morning, you need to decide
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- Morning, you need to decide ahead of time that it's going
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- Ahead of time that it's going to be a good day. you have to
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- To be a good day. you have to set the tone at the start of
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- Set the tone at the start of the day. don't wait to see if
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- The day. don't wait to see if it's going to be a good day,
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- It's going to be a good day, decide it's going to be a
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- Decide it's going to be a good day. make up your mind
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- Good day. make up your mind that no matter what happens,
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- That no matter what happens, you're going to stay in
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- You're going to stay in peace. no matter what someone
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- Peace. no matter what someone says, how bad the traffic is,
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- Says, how bad the traffic is, if your children don't do
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- If your children don't do what's right, you're not
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- What's right, you're not going to get upset and let
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- Going to get upset and let that ruin the day. when you
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- That ruin the day. when you decide ahead of time, you're
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- Decide ahead of time, you're already prepared. then if bad
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- Already prepared. then if bad moments come, it's no big
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- Moments come, it's no big deal. “i'm not giving away my
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- Deal. “i'm not giving away my joy.”
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- Joy.” if you have a disappointment
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- If you have a disappointment at ten in the morning,
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- At ten in the morning, something didn't work out.
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- Something didn't work out. it's okay to take a couple
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- It's okay to take a couple hours to process it, to
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- Hours to process it, to grieve the loss. that's
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- Grieve the loss. that's normal. that bad moment may
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- Normal. that bad moment may turn into a bad morning, but
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- Turn into a bad morning, but by noon, you need to make the
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- By noon, you need to make the decision, “this is over. i'm
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- Decision, “this is over. i'm done dwelling on it. that's
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- Done dwelling on it. that's in my past. i'm going to
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- In my past. i'm going to enjoy the rest of this day.”
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- Enjoy the rest of this day.” don't let it linger to where
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- Don't let it linger to where it ruins the day. you go to
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- It ruins the day. you go to bed upset. if someone offends
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- Bed upset. if someone offends you in the afternoon. a
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- You in the afternoon. a coworker says something harsh
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- Coworker says something harsh and hurts your feelings. the
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- And hurts your feelings. the gloom will come. thoughts of
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- Gloom will come. thoughts of resentment and payback,
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- Resentment and payback, bitterness. we're all human.
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- Bitterness. we're all human. those are natural feelings.
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- Those are natural feelings. but you have to take charge
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- But you have to take charge and rule over your emotions.
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- And rule over your emotions. that was a bad moment. it's
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- That was a bad moment. it's supposed to be temporary. you
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- Supposed to be temporary. you can't keep thinking about it,
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- Can't keep thinking about it, dwelling on it, reliving it.
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- Dwelling on it, reliving it. if you do, it'll turn into a
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- If you do, it'll turn into a bad evening. you go to bed
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- Bad evening. you go to bed offended. wake up
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- Offended. wake up discouraged. now it's another
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- Discouraged. now it's another bad day. before you know it,
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- Bad day. before you know it, a bad week, a bad month. it's
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- A bad week, a bad month. it's changing who you are. taking
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- Changing who you are. taking your joy, your peace, your
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- Your joy, your peace, your passion. deal with the bad
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- Passion. deal with the bad moments quickly. don't let
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- Moments quickly. don't let them linger. don't go to bed
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- Them linger. don't go to bed thinking about it. it's not
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- Thinking about it. it's not taking your joy. it doesn't
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- Taking your joy. it doesn't have that much power. you're
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- Have that much power. you're giving away your joy. you're
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- Giving away your joy. you're letting go of your peace. the
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- Letting go of your peace. the good news is you can get it
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- Good news is you can get it back. you determine your
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- Back. you determine your attitude, what you think
- 00:12:17.893 --> 00:12:19.562
- Attitude, what you think about, your perspective.
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- About, your perspective. i have a friend that's taking
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- I have a friend that's taking chemotherapy. it's been going
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- Chemotherapy. it's been going on for three years. she's
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- On for three years. she's lost her hair. at one point,
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- Lost her hair. at one point, lost her voice, had to take a
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- Lost her voice, had to take a leave from work. but every
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- Leave from work. but every time i see her, she has a
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- Time i see her, she has a smile. i ask how she's doing.
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- Smile. i ask how she's doing. “joel, life is good. i'm
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- “joel, life is good. i'm blessed. i'm getting better.”
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- Blessed. i'm getting better.” “are you back to work yet?”
- 00:12:40.049 --> 00:12:41.417
- “are you back to work yet?” “not yet. i don't have the
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- “not yet. i don't have the stamina, but it's coming. i'm
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- Stamina, but it's coming. i'm getting stronger every day.”
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- Getting stronger every day.” she had a bad moment,
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- She had a bad moment, something she wasn't
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- Something she wasn't expecting, but she didn't let
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- Expecting, but she didn't let it turn into a bad day. she
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- It turn into a bad day. she had every right to. thoughts
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- Had every right to. thoughts said, “this is not fair. look
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- Said, “this is not fair. look what you've been through.”
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- What you've been through.” she could have lived
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- She could have lived discouraged, complaining. but
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- Discouraged, complaining. but she's saying like david,
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- She's saying like david, “this is the day the lord has
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- “this is the day the lord has made. i will rejoice and be
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- Made. i will rejoice and be glad in it.” this isn't a day
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- Glad in it.” this isn't a day to live defeated, offended,
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- To live defeated, offended, look what they did. this is a
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- Look what they did. this is a day the lord has made. you're
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- Day the lord has made. you're not here by accident. god
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- Not here by accident. god chose you to be here. he woke
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- Chose you to be here. he woke you up this morning, gave you
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- You up this morning, gave you breath to breathe. he could
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- Breath to breathe. he could have chosen anyone to be
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- Have chosen anyone to be alive right now, but he
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- Alive right now, but he handpicked you. now don't let
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- Handpicked you. now don't let this day go by without
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- This day go by without enjoying it. sure, things are
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- Enjoying it. sure, things are going to come against us, but
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- Going to come against us, but you have to make the
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- You have to make the decision, “i will rejoice. i
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- Decision, “i will rejoice. i will be glad.” the right
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- Will be glad.” the right attitude is, “my neighbor's
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- Attitude is, “my neighbor's talking about me. spreading
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- Talking about me. spreading rumors. i can't control that.
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- Rumors. i can't control that. i'm going to enjoy this day.
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- I'm going to enjoy this day. my loved one's dealing with
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- My loved one's dealing with an illness. things are
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- An illness. things are difficult. but i know i can
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- Difficult. but i know i can do all things through christ.
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- Do all things through christ. i'm not going to endure the
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- I'm not going to endure the day; i'm going to enjoy the
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- Day; i'm going to enjoy the day.” “joel, i had a setback
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- Day.” “joel, i had a setback in my business, my
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- In my business, my relationship came to an end.
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- Relationship came to an end. that was a bad moment. don't
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- That was a bad moment. don't let it become a bad life.
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- Let it become a bad life. when david wrote this psalm,
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- When david wrote this psalm, “this is the day”, he had all
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- “this is the day”, he had all kinds of things coming
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- Kinds of things coming against him. armies
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- Attacking, people slandering
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- Attacking, people slandering him, spreading rumors. king
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- Him, spreading rumors. king saul had chased him through
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- Saul had chased him through the desert. his father
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- The desert. his father discounted him and didn't
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- Discounted him and didn't think he was king material.
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- Think he was king material. all these bad moments, he
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- All these bad moments, he could have easily let turn
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- Could have easily let turn into bad days, bad months,
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- Into bad days, bad months, bad years. but look at
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- Bad years. but look at david's attitude. “this is
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- David's attitude. “this is the day the lord has made.”
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- The day the lord has made.” he was saying, “this is not
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- He was saying, “this is not an ordinary day. this is not
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- An ordinary day. this is not something i take for granted
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- Something i take for granted and just live however i feel.
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- And just live however i feel. god made this day. he created
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- God made this day. he created me to be here. i have a
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- Me to be here. i have a responsibility to live this
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- Responsibility to live this day to the full.” all these
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- Day to the full.” all these unfair circumstances, but it
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- Unfair circumstances, but it didn't make him sour. he
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- Didn't make him sour. he said, “i will rejoice. i will
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- Said, “i will rejoice. i will be glad.” he was saying in
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- Be glad.” he was saying in effect, “when i go to bed at
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- Effect, “when i go to bed at night, i will say, it's been
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- Night, i will say, it's been a good day. my father left me
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- A good day. my father left me out in the fields, didn't
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- Out in the fields, didn't believe in me, but i let that
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- Offense go. it's been a good
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- Offense go. it's been a good day. king saul was trying to
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- Day. king saul was trying to kill me. throwing spears and
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- Kill me. throwing spears and i did nothing wrong. that was
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- I did nothing wrong. that was a bad moment, but i'm not
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- A bad moment, but i'm not dwelling on it. god is my
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- Dwelling on it. god is my vindicator. he'll get me to
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- Vindicator. he'll get me to where i'm supposed to be.
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- Where i'm supposed to be. it's been a good day.”
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- It's been a good day.” we can't get away from the
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- We can't get away from the bad moments. my question is,
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- Bad moments. my question is, are you letting them turn
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- Are you letting them turn into bad days? are you
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- Into bad days? are you holding on to them, letting
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- Holding on to them, letting them linger, dwelling on what
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- Them linger, dwelling on what didn't work out. don't go to
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- Didn't work out. don't go to bed with the negative.
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- Bed with the negative. moments turn into momentum.
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- Moments turn into momentum. what you dwell on gets
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- What you dwell on gets stronger and becomes more
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- Stronger and becomes more powerful. david could have
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- Powerful. david could have been giving energy to all the
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- Been giving energy to all the bad things, the hurts, the
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- Bad things, the hurts, the injustice. but notice what's
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- Injustice. but notice what's he's giving momentum to.
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- He's giving momentum to. “it's the day the lord has
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- “it's the day the lord has made.” he was saying, “god is
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- Made.” he was saying, “god is my provider. my protector. my
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- My provider. my protector. my defender. i will be glad and
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- Defender. i will be glad and enjoy this day.”
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- When i first started
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- When i first started ministering, i was invited to
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- Ministering, i was invited to be on a news program on a
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- Be on a news program on a local station here in town
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- Local station here in town early one monday morning. i
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- Early one monday morning. i had to be there at 6:30. i
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- Had to be there at 6:30. i was already a little tired
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- From the sunday before. it
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- From the sunday before. it was cold outside, raining.
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- Was cold outside, raining. they told me to park right up
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- They told me to park right up front next to the building in
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- Front next to the building in a reserved lot. i drove up
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- A reserved lot. i drove up and got out of my car. this
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- And got out of my car. this lady came over, a security
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- Lady came over, a security guard, and you would think i
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- Guard, and you would think i had just robbed a bank. she
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- Had just robbed a bank. she started screaming, “you
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- Started screaming, “you cannot park here. what do you
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- Cannot park here. what do you think you're doing? get back
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- Think you're doing? get back in your car.” i looked at her
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- In your car.” i looked at her in a fog, still halfway
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- In a fog, still halfway awake. i said, “ma'am, this
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- Awake. i said, “ma'am, this is where they told me to
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- Is where they told me to park.” she said, “they did
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- Park.” she said, “they did not tell you right. you need
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- Not tell you right. you need to move it now.” i had to
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- To move it now.” i had to remind myself. i'm a pastor.
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- Remind myself. i'm a pastor. my church is across the
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- My church is across the street. i'm here to be on the
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- Street. i'm here to be on the news, i don't want to be in
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- News, i don't want to be in the news. i can see the
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- The news. i can see the headline; security guard beat
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- Headline; security guard beat up by smiling pastor.
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- Up by smiling pastor. i had to park in the
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- I had to park in the neighborhood; a couple blocks
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- Neighborhood; a couple blocks away. running through the
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- Away. running through the rain, trying not to get my
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- Rain, trying not to get my suit wet. i didn't like the
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- Suit wet. i didn't like the way i was treated. but i made
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- Way i was treated. but i made up my mind, i'm not going to
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- Up my mind, i'm not going to give away my joy. i'm not
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- Give away my joy. i'm not going to give her my peace.
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- Going to give her my peace. most people that are rude,
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- Most people that are rude, offensive, harsh, they have
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- Offensive, harsh, they have issues of their own. they're
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- Issues of their own. they're angry. they're bitter. they
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- Angry. they're bitter. they don't like themselves. often,
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- Don't like themselves. often, they'll try to dump their
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- They'll try to dump their poison on you. if you're not
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- Poison on you. if you're not disciplined, you'll take the
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- Disciplined, you'll take the bait and get upset, argue,
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- Bait and get upset, argue, try to straighten them out.
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- Try to straighten them out. that's a battle you're not
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- That's a battle you're not supposed to fight. if you
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- Supposed to fight. if you win, there's no benefit. what
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- Win, there's no benefit. what did you prove?
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- This was at six thirty in the
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- This was at six thirty in the morning. that bad moment had
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- Morning. that bad moment had the potential to sour the
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- The potential to sour the rest of my day, but i had the
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- Rest of my day, but i had the potential to not let that
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- Potential to not let that happen. your emotions are
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- Happen. your emotions are either controlled by your
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- Either controlled by your circumstances or your
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- Circumstances or your character. you get to choose.
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- Character. you get to choose. nobody can take your joy.
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- Nobody can take your joy. they can try to bait you into
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- They can try to bait you into giving it to them. if you
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- Giving it to them. if you fall into that trap, the
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- Fall into that trap, the enemy will control your life.
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- Enemy will control your life. he'll use people and delays,
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- He'll use people and delays, unfair things to keep you
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- Upset, offended, worried. how
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- Upset, offended, worried. how many of us are taking the
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- Many of us are taking the bait? sure, there will be bad
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- Bait? sure, there will be bad moments. but recognize what
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- Moments. but recognize what it is. just a moment. you
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- It is. just a moment. you have the power to let it stay
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- Have the power to let it stay a moment. you can dismiss it.
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- A moment. you can dismiss it. forgive the wrong and move
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- Forgive the wrong and move on. now it's in your past. it
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- On. now it's in your past. it has no more power over you.
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- Has no more power over you. it takes up no more energy.
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- It takes up no more energy. but if you keep dwelling on
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- But if you keep dwelling on it, reliving it, thinking
- 00:18:36.438 --> 00:18:38.273
- It, reliving it, thinking about how wrong it was, then
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- About how wrong it was, then you're feeding it, creating
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- You're feeding it, creating momentum. now it becomes
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- Momentum. now it becomes bigger and more hurtful. the
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- Bigger and more hurtful. the problem is it's taking your
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- Problem is it's taking your emotional energy. energy that
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- Emotional energy. energy that you need to enjoy your life,
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- You need to enjoy your life, love your family, and pursue
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- Love your family, and pursue your dreams.
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- Your dreams. i went in and i did the
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- I went in and i did the program. this security
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- Program. this security officer saw me on the screen.
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- Officer saw me on the screen. as i was leaving, she came
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- As i was leaving, she came running up, “oh pastor
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- Running up, “oh pastor osteen, i didn't know that
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- Osteen, i didn't know that was you. i watch you every
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- Was you. i watch you every sunday.” i thought, “you
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- Sunday.” i thought, “you don't ever listen.” she said,
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- Don't ever listen.” she said, “do you have time to pray for
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- “do you have time to pray for me?” i thought, “i would if i
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- Me?” i thought, “i would if i didn't have to walk so far.”
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- Didn't have to walk so far.” let me challenge you, don't
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- Let me challenge you, don't let the bad moments, turn
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- Let the bad moments, turn into bad days. you can't stop
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- Into bad days. you can't stop these things from coming.
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- These things from coming. sometimes it's little things
- 00:19:27.823 --> 00:19:29.358
- Sometimes it's little things that are taking our joy. we
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- That are taking our joy. we don't realize that life is
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- Don't realize that life is flying by. what does it
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- Flying by. what does it matter that that clerk was
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- Matter that that clerk was rude to you, or that car cut
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- Rude to you, or that car cut you off in traffic? you're
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- You off in traffic? you're never going to see them
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- Never going to see them again. why would you give
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- Again. why would you give them your joy. they're not
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- Them your joy. they're not that important to you. or
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- That important to you. or maybe it was something big,
- 00:19:45.407 --> 00:19:47.075
- Maybe it was something big, you lost a loved one, went
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- You lost a loved one, went through a breakup. i know
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- Through a breakup. i know that's painful, but it didn't
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- That's painful, but it didn't stop your destiny. take the
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- Stop your destiny. take the right amount of time to
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- Right amount of time to grieve the loss, then move
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- Grieve the loss, then move on. it's a moment. it's not
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- On. it's a moment. it's not supposed to be a lifetime. if
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- Supposed to be a lifetime. if you keep dwelling on it,
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- You keep dwelling on it, you're feeding it, and giving
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- You're feeding it, and giving it momentum. the reason you
- 00:20:04.426 --> 00:20:06.261
- It momentum. the reason you can't get past it is because
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- Can't get past it is because you're making it stronger.
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- You're making it stronger. let it go. learn to reframe
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- Let it go. learn to reframe it. i didn't like when my
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- It. i didn't like when my father suddenly passed in
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- Father suddenly passed in 1999, but i thought about the
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- 1999, but i thought about the blessed life he had lived,
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- Blessed life he had lived, and all the time we had
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- And all the time we had together. you can choose to
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- Together. you can choose to see the positive or the
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- See the positive or the negative. to focus on what
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- Negative. to focus on what you lost or on what you have
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- You lost or on what you have left. to complain about what
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- Left. to complain about what went wrong, or to thank god
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- Went wrong, or to thank god for what's gone right. bad
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- For what's gone right. bad moments are inevitable, but
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- Moments are inevitable, but bad days are optional. you
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- Bad days are optional. you get to choose how you respond.
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- Sometimes we've learned wrong.
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- Sometimes we've learned wrong. habits. what we've seen
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- Habits. what we've seen modeled growing up when
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- Modeled growing up when things didn't go right was
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- Things didn't go right was anger, offense, payback, get
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- Anger, offense, payback, get discouraged. try a new
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- Approach. when negative
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- Approach. when negative things happen, remind
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- Things happen, remind yourself, “this is just a bad
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- Yourself, “this is just a bad moment. it's not the end of
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- Moment. it's not the end of my story. it's not going to
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- My story. it's not going to determine my attitude, my
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- Determine my attitude, my joy.” you're in control.
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- Joy.” you're in control. process it. learn from it.
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- Process it. learn from it. then give it to god and move
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- Then give it to god and move on. you can't control people,
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- On. you can't control people, control circumstances, but
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- Control circumstances, but you can control you. when
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- You can control you. when that lady was rude, i chose
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- That lady was rude, i chose to rise above it. i chose to
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- To rise above it. i chose to stay in peace. when my
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- Stay in peace. when my brother paul showed a picture
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- Brother paul showed a picture of our dog, with my face on
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- Of our dog, with my face on it, and called me pastor
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- It, and called me pastor fifi, i chose to overlook the
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- Fifi, i chose to overlook the offense. to return good for
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- Offense. to return good for evil. for the scripture says,
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- Evil. for the scripture says, that's like putting coals of
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- That's like putting coals of fire on them. if you haven't
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- Fire on them. if you haven't seen the picture, good.
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- The apostle paul said in
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- The apostle paul said in philippians 4, “rejoice in
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- Philippians 4, “rejoice in the lord always, and again i
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- The lord always, and again i say rejoice.” what's
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- Say rejoice.” what's significant is paul wrote
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- Significant is paul wrote this from a prison cell,
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- Where he was chained and
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- Where he was chained and awaiting trial. paul had been
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- Awaiting trial. paul had been through all kinds of
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- Through all kinds of hardships. if anyone knew
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- Hardships. if anyone knew about bad moments, if anyone
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- About bad moments, if anyone had the right to be bitter
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- Had the right to be bitter and upset, it would have been
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- And upset, it would have been paul. he had been falsely
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- Paul. he had been falsely accused, betrayed. he was
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- Accused, betrayed. he was shipwrecked, spent the night
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- Shipwrecked, spent the night on the open sea, bit by a
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- On the open sea, bit by a poisonous snake. he sat down
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- Poisonous snake. he sat down in this prison and thought
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- In this prison and thought about all he had been
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- About all he had been through, what was the secret
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- Through, what was the secret of him fulfilling his
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- Of him fulfilling his purpose, and wrote these
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- Purpose, and wrote these words, “rejoice in the lord
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- Words, “rejoice in the lord always.” in case we didn't
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- Always.” in case we didn't get it the first time, he
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- Get it the first time, he said, “and again i say
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- Said, “and again i say rejoice.” he was saying,
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- Rejoice.” he was saying, there will be times that you
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- There will be times that you don't feel like it, where
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- Don't feel like it, where people do you wrong, it's not
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- People do you wrong, it's not fair. that's when you have to
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- Fair. that's when you have to dig down deep and say, “i
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- Dig down deep and say, “i will rejoice. this is the day
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- Will rejoice. this is the day the lord has made. i'm not
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- The lord has made. i'm not going to let this bad moment
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- Going to let this bad moment turn into a bad day.”
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- One time paul and silas had
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- One time paul and silas had been out ministering. they
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- Been out ministering. they were attacked and beaten by
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- Were attacked and beaten by this angry mob. they arrested
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- This angry mob. they arrested them and put in the deepest
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- Them and put in the deepest dungeon. never dreamed they
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- Dungeon. never dreamed they would be there. all the
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- Would be there. all the circumstances said this is a
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- Circumstances said this is a bad day. they were bruised,
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- Bad day. they were bruised, hurting, facing death.
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- Hurting, facing death. surely, they would be
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- Surely, they would be complaining, “god, we were
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- Complaining, “god, we were doing your will. why did this
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- Doing your will. why did this happen?” surely, they would
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- Go to bed saying, “i'm glad
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- Go to bed saying, “i'm glad this day is over. it's been a
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- This day is over. it's been a nightmare.” no, at midnight,
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- Nightmare.” no, at midnight, the scripture says, “they
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- The scripture says, “they were singing praises and
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- Were singing praises and thanking god.” despite being
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- Thanking god.” despite being one of the worst days of
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- One of the worst days of their lives, before they laid
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- Their lives, before they laid their head down in the
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- Their head down in the prison, they were saying in
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- Prison, they were saying in effect. “it's been a good
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- Effect. “it's been a good day. god, we know you're
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- Day. god, we know you're still on the throne.” about
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- Still on the throne.” about that time, there was a great
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- That time, there was a great earthquake. the prison doors
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- Earthquake. the prison doors flung open. the chains fell
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- Flung open. the chains fell off their feet. they walked
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- Off their feet. they walked out as free men. that never
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- Out as free men. that never would have happened if they
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- Would have happened if they had been focused on the hurt,
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- Had been focused on the hurt, angry at their enemies,
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- Angry at their enemies, reliving the disappointment.
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- Reliving the disappointment. let's be like paul and silas.
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- Let's be like paul and silas. even on the hard days, when
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- Even on the hard days, when it's not fair, life throws us
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- It's not fair, life throws us a curve, we reframe it. we
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- A curve, we reframe it. we remind ourselves god is still
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- Remind ourselves god is still in control. we don't give
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- In control. we don't give away our joy. we don't let go
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- Away our joy. we don't let go of our peace. we rejoice
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- Of our peace. we rejoice always. will you make that
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- Always. will you make that decision with me, no more bad
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- Decision with me, no more bad days. life is too short to
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- Days. life is too short to let our circumstances control
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- Let our circumstances control us. other people determine
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- Us. other people determine our moods. you can't control
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- Our moods. you can't control all that. take control of
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- All that. take control of you. your attitude. your
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- You. your attitude. your thoughts. this is the day the
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- Thoughts. this is the day the lord has made. now make sure
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- Lord has made. now make sure you're a good steward of it.
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- You're a good steward of it. next time something negative
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- Next time something negative happens, just remind
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- Happens, just remind yourself, it's a bad moment.
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- Yourself, it's a bad moment. it doesn't have to turn into
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- It doesn't have to turn into a bad day, a bad month. don't
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- A bad day, a bad month. don't let it linger. let it go and
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- Let it linger. let it go and move on. when you lay down at
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- Move on. when you lay down at night, you need to be able to
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- Night, you need to be able to say, “this was a good day.
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- Say, “this was a good day. god, i thank you that i'm
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- God, i thank you that i'm alive.” if you'll do this,
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- Alive.” if you'll do this, you may have some bad
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- You may have some bad moments, but i believe and
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- Moments, but i believe and declare, no more bad days.
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- Declare, no more bad days. you're going to rise above
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- You're going to rise above it, enjoy your life, have
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- It, enjoy your life, have peace in the midst of the
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- Peace in the midst of the storm. like paul, god is
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- Storm. like paul, god is going to fight your battles,
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- Going to fight your battles, and take you to the fullness
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- And take you to the fullness of your destiny, in jesus'
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- Of your destiny, in jesus' name. if you receive it, can
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- Name. if you receive it, can you say amen? (applause)
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- Many people believe
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- Many people believe that god can heal.
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- That god can heal. but when nothing is improving,
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- But when nothing is improving, our prayers are
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- Our prayers are not being answered,
- 00:25:05.460 --> 00:25:06.595
- Not being answered, it's easy to think:
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- It's easy to think: will god heal me?
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- Will god heal me? the truth is,
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- The truth is, god still loves to heal.
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- God still loves to heal. i've witnessed
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- I've witnessed god's healing power
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- God's healing power firsthand in my own family.
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- Firsthand in my own family. when situations
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- When situations seemed impossible,
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- Seemed impossible, and medically
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- And medically speaking,
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- Speaking, there were no options,
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- There were no options, god stepped in and made a way.
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- I'd love to send you
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- I'd love to send you our new devotional,
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- God still loves to heal.
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- It's filled with scripture
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- It's filled with scripture and encouragement
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- And encouragement designed to strengthen
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- Designed to strengthen your faith
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- Your faith and help
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- And help you believe for healing.
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- You believe for healing. even when you can't see it,
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- Even when you can't see it, god is still working.
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- God is still working. as you stand firm and declare
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- As you stand firm and declare his promises,
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- His promises, healing is on the way.
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- The same god who healed in
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- The same god who healed in the bible
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- Is still healing today.
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- Jesus cares
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- About you physically,
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- About you physically, mentally, and emotionally.
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- Mentally, and emotionally. he forgives us, delivers
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- He forgives us, delivers us, and he heals
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- You'll enter into god's rest and restoration, knowing
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- And restoration, knowing his promises are true
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- His promises are true yesterday, today, and forever.
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- And healing power. my mother
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- My mother was miraculously healed
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- From terminal cancer.
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- My sisterinal cancer.
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- Lisa was healed
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- From a birth injury
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- From a birth injury similar to cerebral palsy.
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- Similar to cerebral palsy. what god did for us,
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- What god did for us, he can do for you.
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- Victoria and i
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- Are going to be praying for you
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- Are going to be praying for you this month,
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- This month, especially for healing for
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- Especially for healing for you and your family.
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- You and your family. not just physically,
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- Not just physically, but mentally
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- But mentally and emotionally
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- And emotionally that you will be
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- That you will be completely whole.
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- Completely whole. we appreciate your prayer
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- We appreciate your prayer and support.
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- And support. your generosity
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- Your generosity is impacting people
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- Is impacting people around the world and special
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- Around the world and special thank you to our champion
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- Thank you to our champion of hope partners
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- Of hope partners for all you do
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- For all you do to make the ministry possible.
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- To make the ministry possible. until we meet again,
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- Until we meet again, may the lord bless
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- May the lord bless you and keep you.
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- Be sure to request
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- If you've never
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- If you've never been to lakewood,
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- Been to lakewood, we have a great opportunity
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- We have a great opportunity for you.
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- For you. we call it homecoming weekend.
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- We call it homecoming weekend. we'd love to meet
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- We'd love to meet you and your family,
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- You and your family, and you can see the building
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- And you can see the building and attend one of the services.
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- And attend one of the services. it's a great time
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- It's a great time to be a part
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- To be a part of the lakewood family.
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- Of the lakewood family. looking forward to seeing
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- Looking forward to seeing you at homecoming weekend.
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