Joel Osteen - No More Distractions

July 2, 2025 | 30:0

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Joel Osteen | Joel Osteen - No More Distractions | July 2, 2025
  • >> joel osteen: well, god bless
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  • >> joel osteen: well, god bless you.
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  • You. it's a joy to come into your
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  • It's a joy to come into your homes, and if you're ever in our
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  • Homes, and if you're ever in our area, please stop by, be a part
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  • Area, please stop by, be a part of one of our services.
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  • Of one of our services. i promise you, we'll make you
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  • I promise you, we'll make you feel right at home.
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  • Feel right at home. i like to start with something
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  • I like to start with something funny, and i heard about
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  • Funny, and i heard about this mother.
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  • This mother. she had two young boys that
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  • She had two young boys that were known for their
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  • Were known for their mischievous behavior.
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  • Mischievous behavior. anytime trouble occurred, they
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  • Anytime trouble occurred, they were certain to be a part.
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  • Were certain to be a part. she decided to take them to see
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  • She decided to take them to see their pastor one at a time.
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  • Their pastor one at a time. pastor said to the first young
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  • Pastor said to the first young boy, "son, where is god?"
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  • Boy, "son, where is god?" he sat there silently.
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  • He sat there silently. he asked again, "where is god?"
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  • He asked again, "where is god?" still no reply.
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  • Still no reply. third time he asked, the boy
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  • Third time he asked, the boy bolted out the door, ran home,
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  • Bolted out the door, ran home, and said to his brother, "god is
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  • And said to his brother, "god is missing and they think
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  • Missing and they think we did it."
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  • We did it." say it like you mean it.
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  • Say it like you mean it. this is my bible.
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  • This is my bible. i am what it says i am.
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  • I am what it says i am. i have what it says i have.
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  • I have what it says i have. i can do what it says i can do.
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  • I can do what it says i can do. today i will be taught the
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  • Today i will be taught the word of god.
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  • Word of god. i boldly confess, my mind is
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  • I boldly confess, my mind is alert, my heart is receptive.
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  • Alert, my heart is receptive. i will never be the same,
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  • I will never be the same, in jesus' name.
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  • In jesus' name. god bless you.
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  • God bless you. i want to talk to you today
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  • I want to talk to you today about, "no more distractions."
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  • About, "no more distractions." the older we get, the more we
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  • The older we get, the more we realize, we're not going to be
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  • Realize, we're not going to be here forever.
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  • Here forever. life is flying by.
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  • Life is flying by. it seems like just the other day
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  • It seems like just the other day i was in high school.
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  • I was in high school. now that i'm 35, i think, where
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  • Now that i'm 35, i think, where has this time gone?
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  • Has this time gone? i'm kidding, y'all.
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  • I'm kidding, y'all. i'm 39, but when you realize how
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  • I'm 39, but when you realize how fast time is going, it should
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  • Fast time is going, it should bring a sense of urgency,
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  • Bring a sense of urgency, a sense of focus.
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  • A sense of focus. your assignment has
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  • Your assignment has an expiration date.
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  • An expiration date. your time on this earth is not
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  • Your time on this earth is not unlimited, and when jesus was
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  • Unlimited, and when jesus was about to be crucified,
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  • About to be crucified, the scripture says, he set his
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  • The scripture says, he set his face toward jerusalem, because
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  • Face toward jerusalem, because his hour had come.
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  • His hour had come. no more going to the desert
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  • No more going to the desert feeding the 5000, no more
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  • Feeding the 5000, no more waiting for the woman
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  • Waiting for the woman at the well, no more stopping
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  • At the well, no more stopping by zacchaeus' house for dinner.
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  • By zacchaeus' house for dinner. those things were fine
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  • Those things were fine for a season, but now he didn't
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  • For a season, but now he didn't have time for distractions.
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  • Have time for distractions. his hour had come.
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  • His hour had come. god is saying to you, your hour
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  • God is saying to you, your hour has come.
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  • Has come. if you're going to reach your
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  • If you're going to reach your highest potential, you have
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  • Highest potential, you have to do like jesus and set
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  • To do like jesus and set your face.
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  • Your face. you can't be distracted
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  • You can't be distracted by things that are keeping you
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  • By things that are keeping you from your purpose.
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  • From your purpose. you don't have time to waste
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  • You don't have time to waste worried about what people think
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  • Worried about what people think about you.
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  • About you. your time is too valuable
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  • Your time is too valuable to respond to every critic,
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  • To respond to every critic, every negative comment, try
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  • Every negative comment, try to convince people that you
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  • To convince people that you really are okay.
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  • Really are okay. those are distractions.
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  • Those are distractions. everyone is not going
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  • Everyone is not going to like you.
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  • To like you. everyone's not going to accept
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  • Everyone's not going to accept you.
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  • You. quit trying to convince someone
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  • Quit trying to convince someone to understand you that's
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  • To understand you that's determined to misunderstand you.
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  • Determined to misunderstand you. some people don't want to be
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  • Some people don't want to be for you, and that's okay.
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  • For you, and that's okay. you don't need them to fulfill
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  • You don't need them to fulfill your destiny, but the enemy
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  • Your destiny, but the enemy would love for us to spend time
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  • Would love for us to spend time and energy trying to win someone
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  • And energy trying to win someone over that's never going to be
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  • Over that's never going to be won over.
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  • Won over. you have to set your face.
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  • You have to set your face. the people that need to be
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  • The people that need to be for you will be for you.
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  • For you will be for you. god has already lined
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  • God has already lined up the right people, people that
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  • Up the right people, people that will celebrate you, people that
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  • Will celebrate you, people that will cheer you on, people that
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  • Will cheer you on, people that stick with you through thick
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  • Stick with you through thick and thin.
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  • And thin. but too often we're trying
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  • But too often we're trying to convince people to be our
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  • To convince people to be our friend and convince them
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  • Friend and convince them to spend time with us, but if
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  • To spend time with us, but if someone doesn't see the gift
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  • Someone doesn't see the gift that you are, if they don't
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  • That you are, if they don't recognize your talents, value
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  • Recognize your talents, value your friendship, do yourself
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  • Your friendship, do yourself a favor and move on.
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  • A favor and move on. no offense, but they are not
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  • No offense, but they are not a part of your destiny.
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  • A part of your destiny. you don't have to play
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  • You don't have to play up to people, let them
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  • Up to people, let them manipulate you, hope that
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  • Manipulate you, hope that they call.
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  • They call. maybe they'll include you
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  • Maybe they'll include you in their group.
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  • In their group. no, the people god has for you
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  • No, the people god has for you don't have to be talked
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  • Don't have to be talked into liking you.
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  • Into liking you. you won't be able to keep
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  • You won't be able to keep them away.
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  • Them away. they'll light up when you walk
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  • They'll light up when you walk in the room.
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  • In the room. they can't wait to spend time
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  • They can't wait to spend time with you.
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  • With you. they'll go out of their way
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  • They'll go out of their way to do you favors.
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  • To do you favors. now don't waste another minute
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  • Now don't waste another minute trying to convince someone
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  • Trying to convince someone to like you, to call you,
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  • To like you, to call you, to come see you.
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  • To come see you. if you have to talk them
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  • If you have to talk them into it, they are not for you,
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  • Into it, they are not for you, they are a distraction.
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  • They are a distraction. "well, joel, these people
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  • "well, joel, these people at work are saying negative
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  • At work are saying negative things about me.
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  • Things about me. they're tryin' to make me look
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  • They're tryin' to make me look bad."
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  • Bad." it's not your job to straighten
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  • It's not your job to straighten them out.
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  • Them out. let god fight your battles, let
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  • Let god fight your battles, let god be your vindicator.
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  • God be your vindicator. you're not supposed to engage
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  • You're not supposed to engage in every conflict.
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  • In every conflict. don't fight battles that are not
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  • Don't fight battles that are not between you and your destiny.
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  • Between you and your destiny. most of the things that come
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  • Most of the things that come against us are simply
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  • Against us are simply distractions.
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  • Distractions. you have to keep your face set.
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  • You have to keep your face set. takes discipline to say, "i am
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  • Takes discipline to say, "i am not going to respond, not going
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  • Not going to respond, not going to waste my valuable time.
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  • To waste my valuable time. i have a destiny to fulfill.
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  • I have a destiny to fulfill. my hour has come."
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  • My hour has come." proverbs says avoiding a fight
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  • Proverbs says avoiding a fight is a mark of honor.
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  • Is a mark of honor. it's easy to get in conflict,
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  • It's easy to get in conflict, upset, offended, want to pay
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  • Upset, offended, want to pay people back.
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  • People back. that doesn't take any
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  • That doesn't take any discipline.
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  • Discipline. avoiding a fight, not taking
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  • Avoiding a fight, not taking the bait, not being drawn
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  • The bait, not being drawn into conflict, that takes your
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  • Into conflict, that takes your face being set, and the next
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  • Face being set, and the next time something comes
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  • Time something comes against you, ask yourself, "is
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  • Against you, ask yourself, "is this a battle worth fighting,
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  • This a battle worth fighting, or is it simply a distraction?"
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  • Or is it simply a distraction?" when david heard goliath
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  • When david heard goliath taunting the israelites, he
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  • Taunting the israelites, he asked what the reward was
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  • Asked what the reward was for killing the giant.
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  • For killing the giant. he didn't just run out and fight
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  • He didn't just run out and fight him because he was saying
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  • Him because he was saying negative things.
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  • Negative things. sure, david didn't like that,
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  • Sure, david didn't like that, but he understood this
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  • But he understood this principle.
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  • Principle. he didn't get involved
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  • He didn't get involved in battles that weren't
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  • In battles that weren't between him and his destiny.
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  • Between him and his destiny. and they told him, whoever
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  • And they told him, whoever killed the giant would get
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  • Killed the giant would get the king's daughter as his wife
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  • The king's daughter as his wife and their family would be exempt
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  • And their family would be exempt from taxes.
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  • From taxes. with that one victory, david's
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  • With that one victory, david's whole family line would change.
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  • Whole family line would change. they would go from a low income
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  • They would go from a low income family of shepherds to royalty.
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  • Family of shepherds to royalty. they would be in the king's
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  • They would be in the king's family.
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  • Family. david thought, this is a battle
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  • David thought, this is a battle worth engaging.
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  • Worth engaging. this is worth spending my time
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  • This is worth spending my time and energy.
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  • And energy. and i'm not saying to be passive
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  • And i'm not saying to be passive and don't fight any battles.
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  • And don't fight any battles. i'm saying to look at what
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  • I'm saying to look at what the spoils are.
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  • The spoils are. will it just feed your ego?
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  • Will it just feed your ego? you paid them back.
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  • You paid them back. you made them look bad.
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  • You made them look bad. or, will it propel you into
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  • Or, will it propel you into your destiny?
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  • Your destiny? we fight too many battles that
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  • We fight too many battles that don't matter.
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  • Don't matter. they're talking about me.
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  • They're talking about me. i'm going to go straighten
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  • I'm going to go straighten them out.
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  • Them out. after you straighten them out,
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  • After you straighten them out, someone else will start talking.
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  • Someone else will start talking. here's what i've learned, nobody
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  • Here's what i've learned, nobody talks about people that aren't
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  • Talks about people that aren't doing anything.
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  • Doing anything. nobody tries to discredit
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  • Nobody tries to discredit someone that doesn't have any
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  • Someone that doesn't have any influence.
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  • Influence. the reason they're talking
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  • The reason they're talking about you is because you're
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  • About you is because you're a difference maker,
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  • A difference maker, you're a world changer.
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  • You're a world changer. they can see the gifts,
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  • They can see the gifts, the influence, the favor on
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  • The influence, the favor on your life.
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  • Your life. the brighter the light,
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  • The brighter the light, the more the heat.
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  • The more the heat. the higher god takes you,
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  • The higher god takes you, the more people are going to see
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  • The more people are going to see you, and sometimes, instead
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  • You, and sometimes, instead of celebrating you, people will
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  • Of celebrating you, people will get jealous, try to pull you
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  • Get jealous, try to pull you down, get you into conflict.
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  • Down, get you into conflict. don't take the bait.
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  • Don't take the bait. it's a distraction.
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  • It's a distraction. keep your face set, stay focused
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  • Keep your face set, stay focused on your purpose.
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  • On your purpose. my nature is to be a peacemaker.
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  • My nature is to be a peacemaker. i want everybody to be happy.
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  • I want everybody to be happy. i'll go the extra mile, 400
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  • I'll go the extra mile, 400 times to make peace, but some
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  • Times to make peace, but some people have their own issues.
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  • People have their own issues. they don't get
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  • They don't get along with themselves.
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  • Along with themselves. how are they going to get
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  • How are they going to get along with you?
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  • Along with you? they don't like who they are.
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  • They don't like who they are. how are they going to like
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  • How are they going to like who you are?
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  • Who you are? and no matter what you do, it's
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  • And no matter what you do, it's not going to be enough.
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  • Not going to be enough. they're going to find fault,
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  • They're going to find fault, be critical, try to make you
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  • Be critical, try to make you feel guilty.
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  • Feel guilty. if you keep trying to appease
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  • If you keep trying to appease them, keep bending
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  • Them, keep bending over backwards, spending all
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  • Over backwards, spending all your time and energy, all that's
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  • Your time and energy, all that's doing is letting them control
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  • Doing is letting them control you.
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  • You. be nice, but don't get
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  • Be nice, but don't get distracted trying to have peace
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  • Distracted trying to have peace with someone that doesn't
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  • With someone that doesn't want peace.
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  • Want peace. we all have people in our life
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  • We all have people in our life like david's brother.
  • 00:08:42.645 --> 00:08:44.313
  • Like david's brother. they don't like seeing you
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  • They don't like seeing you happy, rising higher,
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  • Happy, rising higher, going places.
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  • Going places. it's not about you, it's
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  • It's not about you, it's about the favor on your life,
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  • About the favor on your life, it's about the blessing god put
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  • It's about the blessing god put on you.
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  • On you. don't take it personally, keep
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  • Don't take it personally, keep your face set.
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  • Your face set. you won't fulfill your destiny,
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  • You won't fulfill your destiny, if you're tryin' to keep
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  • If you're tryin' to keep everyone happy, and some people
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  • Everyone happy, and some people that make the most withdrawals,
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  • That make the most withdrawals, put in the least deposits.
  • 00:09:08.471 --> 00:09:10.573
  • Put in the least deposits. they're high maintenance people.
  • 00:09:10.640 --> 00:09:12.642
  • They're high maintenance people. they expect you to always be
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  • They expect you to always be there to help them, to encourage
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  • There to help them, to encourage them, to meet their every
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  • Them, to meet their every demand, but when you need
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  • Demand, but when you need something, they're never around,
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  • Something, they're never around, they're too busy.
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  • They're too busy. if that friendship is one-sided,
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  • If that friendship is one-sided, they're doing all the taking,
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  • They're doing all the taking, and none of the giving, you need
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  • And none of the giving, you need to make a change.
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  • To make a change. i've heard it said, "quit
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  • I've heard it said, "quit swimming across an ocean to be
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  • Swimming across an ocean to be good to someone that won't jump
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  • Good to someone that won't jump across a puddle to be good
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  • Across a puddle to be good to you," and if they get
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  • To you," and if they get offended because you don't meet
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  • Offended because you don't meet every expectation, they weren't
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  • Every expectation, they weren't a true friend.
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  • A true friend. they just want you for what you
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  • They just want you for what you can do for them.
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  • Can do for them. those are distractions.
  • 00:09:52.114 --> 00:09:53.883
  • Those are distractions. you need to gradually break away
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  • You need to gradually break away from people like that.
  • 00:09:56.519 --> 00:09:58.154
  • From people like that. you were not created to be
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  • You were not created to be controlled, to never have any
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  • Controlled, to never have any time to pursue what god put
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  • Time to pursue what god put in your heart.
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  • In your heart. "well, joel, what if they get
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  • "well, joel, what if they get upset?
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  • Upset? what if i hurt their feelings?"
  • 00:10:08.230 --> 00:10:09.965
  • What if i hurt their feelings?" i would rather disappoint a few
  • 00:10:10.032 --> 00:10:12.568
  • I would rather disappoint a few people than to disappoint god,
  • 00:10:12.635 --> 00:10:14.770
  • People than to disappoint god, because when you come to the end
  • 00:10:14.837 --> 00:10:16.739
  • Because when you come to the end of life, you won't give
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  • Of life, you won't give an account to people of what you
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  • An account to people of what you did with your time, your
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  • Did with your time, your talents, your resources, you'll
  • 00:10:22.311 --> 00:10:24.246
  • Talents, your resources, you'll give an account to god.
  • 00:10:24.313 --> 00:10:26.682
  • Give an account to god. romans 13 says, "owe no person
  • 00:10:26.749 --> 00:10:29.952
  • Romans 13 says, "owe no person anything except to love them."
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  • Anything except to love them." the only thing you really owe
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  • The only thing you really owe people is to love them, but if
  • 00:10:34.757 --> 00:10:36.992
  • People is to love them, but if you think you have to keep
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  • You think you have to keep everyone happy, "i've got
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  • Everyone happy, "i've got to keep this one cheered up,
  • 00:10:40.463 --> 00:10:41.564
  • To keep this one cheered up, and i got a call this one every
  • 00:10:41.630 --> 00:10:42.965
  • And i got a call this one every day or they'll get upset,
  • 00:10:43.032 --> 00:10:44.667
  • Day or they'll get upset, i gotta play up to my co-worker,
  • 00:10:44.734 --> 00:10:46.402
  • I gotta play up to my co-worker, or they won't be my friend."
  • 00:10:46.469 --> 00:10:48.404
  • Or they won't be my friend." you are carrying a debt that
  • 00:10:48.471 --> 00:10:50.606
  • You are carrying a debt that you don't owe.
  • 00:10:50.673 --> 00:10:52.074
  • You don't owe. don't go through life trying
  • 00:10:52.141 --> 00:10:54.376
  • Don't go through life trying to please everyone.
  • 00:10:54.443 --> 00:10:56.378
  • To please everyone. if you try to keep every person
  • 00:10:56.445 --> 00:10:57.847
  • If you try to keep every person happy, the one person that won't
  • 00:10:57.913 --> 00:10:59.648
  • Happy, the one person that won't be happy is you.
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  • Be happy is you. come out from under that debt.
  • 00:11:01.917 --> 00:11:04.153
  • Come out from under that debt. be nice, go the extra mile,
  • 00:11:04.220 --> 00:11:06.555
  • Be nice, go the extra mile, but don't be a people pleaser.
  • 00:11:06.622 --> 00:11:08.991
  • But don't be a people pleaser. this was hard for me because i
  • 00:11:09.058 --> 00:11:10.993
  • This was hard for me because i want people to like me, i'll go
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  • Want people to like me, i'll go out of my way, do everything i
  • 00:11:13.062 --> 00:11:15.631
  • Out of my way, do everything i can, but some people, no matter
  • 00:11:15.698 --> 00:11:17.933
  • Can, but some people, no matter what you do, it's not going
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  • What you do, it's not going to be enough.
  • 00:11:20.035 --> 00:11:21.003
  • To be enough. it's very freeing when you
  • 00:11:21.070 --> 00:11:23.205
  • It's very freeing when you realize you are not responsible
  • 00:11:23.272 --> 00:11:25.441
  • Realize you are not responsible to keep other people happy,
  • 00:11:25.508 --> 00:11:27.576
  • To keep other people happy, you're responsible for your own
  • 00:11:27.643 --> 00:11:29.712
  • You're responsible for your own happiness.
  • 00:11:29.779 --> 00:11:31.080
  • Happiness. now i don't mean to live selfish
  • 00:11:31.147 --> 00:11:33.048
  • Now i don't mean to live selfish and only think about you,
  • 00:11:33.115 --> 00:11:34.450
  • And only think about you, but don't take that false sense
  • 00:11:34.517 --> 00:11:36.752
  • But don't take that false sense of responsibility thinking that
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  • Of responsibility thinking that other people's happiness depends
  • 00:11:38.420 --> 00:11:40.689
  • Other people's happiness depends on you.
  • 00:11:40.756 --> 00:11:41.857
  • On you. there was this couple i knew
  • 00:11:41.924 --> 00:11:44.160
  • There was this couple i knew years ago.
  • 00:11:44.226 --> 00:11:44.960
  • Years ago. i went out of my way to be good
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  • I went out of my way to be good to them.
  • 00:11:47.296 --> 00:11:47.763
  • To them. they moved to another city,
  • 00:11:47.830 --> 00:11:49.398
  • They moved to another city, and i helped them move.
  • 00:11:49.465 --> 00:11:51.066
  • And i helped them move. i gave them money.
  • 00:11:51.133 --> 00:11:52.935
  • I gave them money. i would call and check on them
  • 00:11:53.002 --> 00:11:55.371
  • I would call and check on them if they needed anything.
  • 00:11:55.437 --> 00:11:56.806
  • If they needed anything. i was always available,
  • 00:11:56.872 --> 00:11:58.808
  • I was always available, but the feeling i got from them
  • 00:11:58.874 --> 00:12:00.810
  • But the feeling i got from them is, i was never doing enough.
  • 00:12:00.876 --> 00:12:02.778
  • Is, i was never doing enough. they were never satisfied, they
  • 00:12:02.845 --> 00:12:05.047
  • They were never satisfied, they always had a complaint.
  • 00:12:05.114 --> 00:12:06.882
  • Always had a complaint. here i was going overboard to be
  • 00:12:06.949 --> 00:12:09.118
  • Here i was going overboard to be kind and generous, but they were
  • 00:12:09.185 --> 00:12:11.120
  • Kind and generous, but they were constantly finding fault, trying
  • 00:12:11.187 --> 00:12:12.922
  • Constantly finding fault, trying to make me feel guilty.
  • 00:12:12.988 --> 00:12:15.191
  • To make me feel guilty. i was concerned that they would
  • 00:12:15.257 --> 00:12:16.559
  • I was concerned that they would get upset and they weren't going
  • 00:12:16.625 --> 00:12:17.960
  • Get upset and they weren't going to be my friend.
  • 00:12:18.027 --> 00:12:19.628
  • To be my friend. one day, i realized what
  • 00:12:19.695 --> 00:12:21.764
  • One day, i realized what i'm telling you.
  • 00:12:21.831 --> 00:12:22.498
  • I'm telling you. they were only making
  • 00:12:22.565 --> 00:12:24.166
  • They were only making withdrawals, never any deposits.
  • 00:12:24.233 --> 00:12:27.203
  • Withdrawals, never any deposits. i was nice, but i quit letting
  • 00:12:27.269 --> 00:12:29.939
  • I was nice, but i quit letting them control me.
  • 00:12:30.005 --> 00:12:31.106
  • Them control me. when i stopped, you would've
  • 00:12:31.173 --> 00:12:32.641
  • When i stopped, you would've thought i'd taken their
  • 00:12:32.708 --> 00:12:33.843
  • Thought i'd taken their firstborn child.
  • 00:12:33.909 --> 00:12:35.444
  • Firstborn child. they tried to make me feel
  • 00:12:35.511 --> 00:12:37.279
  • They tried to make me feel so guilty, so ashamed, but my
  • 00:12:37.346 --> 00:12:39.148
  • So guilty, so ashamed, but my attitude was, "i love you, but
  • 00:12:39.215 --> 00:12:42.218
  • Attitude was, "i love you, but i don't owe you."
  • 00:12:42.284 --> 00:12:43.485
  • I don't owe you." if someone is controlling you,
  • 00:12:43.552 --> 00:12:45.654
  • If someone is controlling you, it's not their fault,
  • 00:12:45.721 --> 00:12:47.756
  • It's not their fault, it's yours.
  • 00:12:47.823 --> 00:12:49.124
  • It's yours. you have to put your foot down,
  • 00:12:49.191 --> 00:12:51.193
  • You have to put your foot down, make a change.
  • 00:12:51.260 --> 00:12:52.127
  • Make a change. this is your hour.
  • 00:12:52.194 --> 00:12:54.129
  • This is your hour. you cannot reach your destiny
  • 00:12:54.196 --> 00:12:56.298
  • You cannot reach your destiny dragging people along, trying
  • 00:12:56.365 --> 00:12:58.000
  • Dragging people along, trying to keep everyone happy.
  • 00:12:58.067 --> 00:13:00.035
  • To keep everyone happy. i know people that spend more
  • 00:13:00.102 --> 00:13:02.204
  • I know people that spend more time worried about what other
  • 00:13:02.271 --> 00:13:04.006
  • Time worried about what other people think about them than
  • 00:13:04.073 --> 00:13:05.674
  • People think about them than they do pursuing their own
  • 00:13:05.741 --> 00:13:07.443
  • They do pursuing their own dreams and goals, and it's great
  • 00:13:07.509 --> 00:13:09.979
  • Dreams and goals, and it's great to get free from addictions,
  • 00:13:10.045 --> 00:13:12.081
  • To get free from addictions, free from depression, but one
  • 00:13:12.147 --> 00:13:14.016
  • Free from depression, but one of the greatest freedoms is
  • 00:13:14.083 --> 00:13:15.885
  • Of the greatest freedoms is to get free from people, because
  • 00:13:15.951 --> 00:13:18.687
  • To get free from people, because everyone has an opinion.
  • 00:13:18.754 --> 00:13:21.390
  • Everyone has an opinion. these days, with social media,
  • 00:13:21.457 --> 00:13:23.926
  • These days, with social media, it's easier to express
  • 00:13:23.993 --> 00:13:26.395
  • It's easier to express than ever.
  • 00:13:26.462 --> 00:13:27.763
  • Than ever. people will tell you what
  • 00:13:27.830 --> 00:13:28.964
  • People will tell you what to wear, and how to raise your
  • 00:13:29.031 --> 00:13:30.699
  • To wear, and how to raise your kids, and what you're doing
  • 00:13:30.766 --> 00:13:32.601
  • Kids, and what you're doing wrong, and what to drive.
  • 00:13:32.668 --> 00:13:34.470
  • Wrong, and what to drive. they're quick to tell you how
  • 00:13:34.536 --> 00:13:36.538
  • They're quick to tell you how to run your life, sometimes they
  • 00:13:36.605 --> 00:13:38.173
  • To run your life, sometimes they can't even run their own life,
  • 00:13:38.240 --> 00:13:40.109
  • Can't even run their own life, and it's good to take advice,
  • 00:13:40.175 --> 00:13:42.077
  • And it's good to take advice, it's good to listen to wise
  • 00:13:42.144 --> 00:13:44.446
  • It's good to listen to wise counsel, but nobody can hear
  • 00:13:44.513 --> 00:13:46.448
  • Counsel, but nobody can hear what you hear on the inside.
  • 00:13:46.515 --> 00:13:48.884
  • What you hear on the inside. other people may mean well,
  • 00:13:48.951 --> 00:13:50.653
  • Other people may mean well, but they don't know what god
  • 00:13:50.719 --> 00:13:53.088
  • But they don't know what god put in you.
  • 00:13:53.155 --> 00:13:54.256
  • Put in you. "well, joel, what if they get
  • 00:13:54.323 --> 00:13:55.491
  • "well, joel, what if they get upset?
  • 00:13:55.557 --> 00:13:56.091
  • Upset? what if they don't agree?"
  • 00:13:56.158 --> 00:13:57.826
  • What if they don't agree?" if someone gets offended because
  • 00:13:57.893 --> 00:13:59.929
  • If someone gets offended because you're not taking their advice,
  • 00:13:59.995 --> 00:14:01.997
  • You're not taking their advice, that's not your problem.
  • 00:14:02.064 --> 00:14:03.966
  • That's not your problem. if you live by the opinion
  • 00:14:04.033 --> 00:14:06.001
  • If you live by the opinion of others, you will never become
  • 00:14:06.068 --> 00:14:08.137
  • Of others, you will never become who you were created to be,
  • 00:14:08.203 --> 00:14:10.039
  • Who you were created to be, because people will try to keep
  • 00:14:10.105 --> 00:14:12.041
  • Because people will try to keep you in their box, in who they
  • 00:14:12.107 --> 00:14:13.876
  • You in their box, in who they want you to be.
  • 00:14:13.943 --> 00:14:15.878
  • Want you to be. there was this grandfather, he
  • 00:14:15.945 --> 00:14:17.246
  • There was this grandfather, he and his small grandson were
  • 00:14:17.313 --> 00:14:18.948
  • And his small grandson were taking a trip into town.
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  • Taking a trip into town. he started off letting
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  • He started off letting the grandson ride the donkey.
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  • The grandson ride the donkey. he was walking alongside.
  • 00:14:24.453 --> 00:14:26.689
  • He was walking alongside. someone passed by and said,
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  • Someone passed by and said, "look at that selfish, little
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  • "look at that selfish, little boy, making that old man walk."
  • 00:14:29.925 --> 00:14:32.695
  • Boy, making that old man walk." he took the boy off and put him
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  • He took the boy off and put him on the ground.
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  • On the ground. he got on the donkey.
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  • He got on the donkey. the boy was walking alongside.
  • 00:14:36.598 --> 00:14:38.400
  • The boy was walking alongside. somebody passed by and said,
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  • Somebody passed by and said, "look at that man making that
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  • "look at that man making that little boy while he rides."
  • 00:14:42.071 --> 00:14:44.673
  • Little boy while he rides." he picked the boy up and put him
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  • He picked the boy up and put him on the donkey with him.
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  • On the donkey with him. few minutes, someone passed
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  • Few minutes, someone passed and said, "how cruel of the two
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  • And said, "how cruel of the two of you to place that heavy load
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  • Of you to place that heavy load on the donkey."
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  • On the donkey." by the time they got to town,
  • 00:14:55.784 --> 00:14:57.619
  • By the time they got to town, the grandfather and grandson
  • 00:14:57.686 --> 00:14:58.754
  • The grandfather and grandson were carrying the donkey.
  • 00:14:58.821 --> 00:15:01.924
  • Were carrying the donkey. everybody has a right to have
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  • Everybody has a right to have their opinion, and you have
  • 00:15:04.226 --> 00:15:06.395
  • Their opinion, and you have the right not to take it.
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  • The right not to take it. no matter what you do, someone
  • 00:15:08.497 --> 00:15:10.532
  • No matter what you do, someone is not going to understand.
  • 00:15:10.599 --> 00:15:14.069
  • Is not going to understand. are you carrying the donkey?
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  • Are you carrying the donkey? are you being pressured
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  • Are you being pressured into doing what people want you
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  • Into doing what people want you to do, not want to disappoint
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  • To do, not want to disappoint anything?
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  • Anything? it's time to put the donkey
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  • It's time to put the donkey down.
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  • Down. the donkey look doesn't look
  • 00:15:25.681 --> 00:15:27.016
  • The donkey look doesn't look good on you.
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  • Good on you. start running your own race.
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  • Start running your own race. start following what god put
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  • Start following what god put in your heart.
  • 00:15:30.886 --> 00:15:32.988
  • In your heart. my father went to be
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  • My father went to be with the lord 21 years ago this
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  • With the lord 21 years ago this week, and when i stepped
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  • Week, and when i stepped up to pastor the church, i had
  • 00:15:37.893 --> 00:15:39.962
  • Up to pastor the church, i had a lot of people giving me
  • 00:15:40.029 --> 00:15:41.597
  • A lot of people giving me advice, telling me how to run
  • 00:15:41.663 --> 00:15:43.332
  • Advice, telling me how to run the church, how to minister,
  • 00:15:43.399 --> 00:15:45.567
  • The church, how to minister, which direction we should go.
  • 00:15:45.634 --> 00:15:47.803
  • Which direction we should go. one minister that we've known
  • 00:15:47.870 --> 00:15:49.605
  • One minister that we've known a long time and very prominent,
  • 00:15:49.671 --> 00:15:51.807
  • A long time and very prominent, he called me and told me what
  • 00:15:51.874 --> 00:15:54.043
  • He called me and told me what i should do.
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  • I should do. he's a good man.
  • 00:15:54.676 --> 00:15:55.978
  • He's a good man. i respect him, but nothing he
  • 00:15:56.045 --> 00:15:58.847
  • I respect him, but nothing he said bore witness on the inside.
  • 00:15:58.914 --> 00:16:01.683
  • Said bore witness on the inside. i felt pressured to be who he
  • 00:16:01.750 --> 00:16:03.819
  • I felt pressured to be who he wanted me to be, and pressured
  • 00:16:03.886 --> 00:16:05.587
  • Wanted me to be, and pressured to be who someone else wanted
  • 00:16:05.654 --> 00:16:07.589
  • To be who someone else wanted me to be.
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  • Me to be. all these good opinions
  • 00:16:08.257 --> 00:16:09.958
  • All these good opinions from good people, but deep
  • 00:16:10.025 --> 00:16:12.227
  • From good people, but deep down i knew which direction
  • 00:16:12.294 --> 00:16:14.563
  • Down i knew which direction i was supposed to go.
  • 00:16:14.630 --> 00:16:16.165
  • I was supposed to go. i didn't know if he's going
  • 00:16:16.231 --> 00:16:17.499
  • I didn't know if he's going to work out, but i wasn't going
  • 00:16:17.566 --> 00:16:19.001
  • To work out, but i wasn't going to be squeezed into somebody
  • 00:16:19.068 --> 00:16:20.803
  • To be squeezed into somebody else's mold, and i told that
  • 00:16:20.869 --> 00:16:22.938
  • Else's mold, and i told that minister, that's not what i felt
  • 00:16:23.005 --> 00:16:24.840
  • Minister, that's not what i felt on the inside, and he
  • 00:16:24.907 --> 00:16:26.775
  • On the inside, and he didn't agree.
  • 00:16:26.842 --> 00:16:28.110
  • Didn't agree. he thought i was making
  • 00:16:28.177 --> 00:16:29.211
  • He thought i was making a mistake, but i knew when
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  • A mistake, but i knew when i came to the end, he wouldn't
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  • I came to the end, he wouldn't be on the throne.
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  • Be on the throne. i wouldn't have to answer
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  • I wouldn't have to answer to him.
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  • To him. i followed what god put in my
  • 00:16:35.918 --> 00:16:37.686
  • I followed what god put in my heart, and god has taken me
  • 00:16:37.753 --> 00:16:39.321
  • Heart, and god has taken me further than i've ever dreamed.
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  • Further than i've ever dreamed. don't let people squeeze you
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  • Don't let people squeeze you into their mold.
  • 00:16:45.160 --> 00:16:46.829
  • Into their mold. god is doing a new thing.
  • 00:16:46.895 --> 00:16:49.364
  • God is doing a new thing. he is going to take you further
  • 00:16:49.431 --> 00:16:51.867
  • He is going to take you further than your parents, further than
  • 00:16:51.934 --> 00:16:53.735
  • Than your parents, further than those that have gone before you.
  • 00:16:53.802 --> 00:16:55.804
  • Those that have gone before you. listen to their advice, but be
  • 00:16:55.871 --> 00:16:58.173
  • Listen to their advice, but be strong to follow that still,
  • 00:16:58.240 --> 00:17:00.175
  • Strong to follow that still, small voice on the inside.
  • 00:17:00.242 --> 00:17:02.811
  • Small voice on the inside. nobody can hear god's direction
  • 00:17:02.878 --> 00:17:05.080
  • Nobody can hear god's direction for your life like you.
  • 00:17:05.147 --> 00:17:07.349
  • For your life like you. god won't give someone else more
  • 00:17:07.416 --> 00:17:10.018
  • God won't give someone else more insight into your destiny then
  • 00:17:10.085 --> 00:17:12.254
  • Insight into your destiny then he does you.
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  • He does you. sure, some people may see
  • 00:17:13.622 --> 00:17:15.390
  • Sure, some people may see things, but god speaks directly
  • 00:17:15.457 --> 00:17:17.259
  • Things, but god speaks directly to your spirit, and some people
  • 00:17:17.326 --> 00:17:20.429
  • To your spirit, and some people won't understand you.
  • 00:17:20.496 --> 00:17:22.030
  • Won't understand you. they'll get upset when you break
  • 00:17:22.097 --> 00:17:23.765
  • They'll get upset when you break out of the box.
  • 00:17:23.832 --> 00:17:24.867
  • Out of the box. someone told me, "joel,
  • 00:17:24.933 --> 00:17:26.735
  • Someone told me, "joel, i like the old days.
  • 00:17:26.802 --> 00:17:28.203
  • I like the old days. you've forgotten where we've
  • 00:17:28.270 --> 00:17:29.004
  • You've forgotten where we've come from."
  • 00:17:29.071 --> 00:17:30.405
  • Come from." i thought i haven't forgotten.
  • 00:17:30.472 --> 00:17:31.974
  • I thought i haven't forgotten. i just didn't want to stay
  • 00:17:32.040 --> 00:17:32.708
  • I just didn't want to stay there.
  • 00:17:32.774 --> 00:17:34.042
  • There. god is a progressive god.
  • 00:17:34.109 --> 00:17:36.278
  • Don't get stuck in the past.
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  • Don't get stuck in the past. don't get stuck in tradition.
  • 00:17:39.882 --> 00:17:42.284
  • Don't get stuck in tradition. what are they going to think?
  • 00:17:42.351 --> 00:17:44.019
  • What are they going to think? what if they don't accept me?
  • 00:17:44.086 --> 00:17:45.888
  • What if they don't accept me? what if they don't approve me?
  • 00:17:45.954 --> 00:17:47.890
  • What if they don't approve me? you don't need their approval.
  • 00:17:47.956 --> 00:17:49.658
  • You don't need their approval. the most high god has
  • 00:17:49.725 --> 00:17:51.160
  • The most high god has approved you.
  • 00:17:51.226 --> 00:17:52.227
  • Approved you. the creator of the universe has
  • 00:17:52.294 --> 00:17:54.129
  • The creator of the universe has already accepted you, now you
  • 00:17:54.196 --> 00:17:56.965
  • Already accepted you, now you have to set your face.
  • 00:17:57.032 --> 00:17:59.401
  • Have to set your face. this is your hour.
  • 00:17:59.468 --> 00:18:01.136
  • This is your hour. there is greatness in you.
  • 00:18:01.203 --> 00:18:03.405
  • There is greatness in you. god is calling you
  • 00:18:03.472 --> 00:18:04.640
  • God is calling you out of the ordinary, out of what
  • 00:18:04.706 --> 00:18:06.875
  • Out of the ordinary, out of what you're used to.
  • 00:18:06.942 --> 00:18:08.243
  • You're used to. he has things in your future
  • 00:18:08.310 --> 00:18:09.878
  • He has things in your future that are going to break
  • 00:18:09.945 --> 00:18:11.280
  • That are going to break barriers.
  • 00:18:11.346 --> 00:18:12.648
  • Barriers. you're going to go where no one
  • 00:18:12.714 --> 00:18:14.416
  • You're going to go where no one in your family has gone.
  • 00:18:14.483 --> 00:18:15.684
  • In your family has gone. it's going to be unusual,
  • 00:18:15.751 --> 00:18:17.686
  • It's going to be unusual, out of the ordinary, and sure,
  • 00:18:17.753 --> 00:18:20.055
  • Out of the ordinary, and sure, there will be people that find
  • 00:18:20.122 --> 00:18:21.557
  • There will be people that find fault, try to discredit, think
  • 00:18:21.623 --> 00:18:24.126
  • Fault, try to discredit, think that you're missing it.
  • 00:18:24.193 --> 00:18:25.494
  • That you're missing it. that's okay.
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  • That's okay. nobody has ever done anything
  • 00:18:26.862 --> 00:18:28.630
  • Nobody has ever done anything great without opposition,
  • 00:18:28.697 --> 00:18:30.332
  • Great without opposition, without critics, without people
  • 00:18:30.399 --> 00:18:31.867
  • Without critics, without people thinking they were missing it.
  • 00:18:31.934 --> 00:18:33.835
  • Thinking they were missing it. keep your face set.
  • 00:18:33.902 --> 00:18:35.804
  • Keep your face set. my father had always said that
  • 00:18:35.871 --> 00:18:37.839
  • My father had always said that he would never move lakewood
  • 00:18:37.906 --> 00:18:39.608
  • He would never move lakewood from the original location.
  • 00:18:39.675 --> 00:18:41.643
  • From the original location. when i became pastor, i wasn't
  • 00:18:41.710 --> 00:18:43.645
  • When i became pastor, i wasn't about to move it either.
  • 00:18:43.712 --> 00:18:45.314
  • About to move it either. i was new and young, and i
  • 00:18:45.380 --> 00:18:47.282
  • I was new and young, and i wasn't going to rock the boat.
  • 00:18:47.349 --> 00:18:49.017
  • Wasn't going to rock the boat. we needed a bigger place
  • 00:18:49.084 --> 00:18:50.352
  • We needed a bigger place to meet, and we looked for land
  • 00:18:50.419 --> 00:18:52.321
  • To meet, and we looked for land in that area, but nothing
  • 00:18:52.387 --> 00:18:54.656
  • In that area, but nothing worked out.
  • 00:18:54.723 --> 00:18:55.791
  • Worked out. then the compaq center, this
  • 00:18:55.857 --> 00:18:58.093
  • Then the compaq center, this place, became available.
  • 00:18:58.160 --> 00:18:59.428
  • Place, became available. it's about 20 minutes
  • 00:18:59.494 --> 00:19:01.129
  • It's about 20 minutes from the original location.
  • 00:19:01.196 --> 00:19:02.764
  • From the original location. i knew it was supposed
  • 00:19:02.831 --> 00:19:04.633
  • I knew it was supposed to be ours.
  • 00:19:04.700 --> 00:19:05.434
  • To be ours. i felt it so strongly in my
  • 00:19:05.500 --> 00:19:07.536
  • I felt it so strongly in my spirit, but i didn't know what
  • 00:19:07.603 --> 00:19:09.938
  • Spirit, but i didn't know what other people would think.
  • 00:19:10.005 --> 00:19:11.607
  • Other people would think. they had heard my father say
  • 00:19:11.673 --> 00:19:13.408
  • They had heard my father say for many years that he would
  • 00:19:13.475 --> 00:19:15.210
  • For many years that he would never move the location.
  • 00:19:15.277 --> 00:19:17.446
  • Never move the location. thoughts whispered.
  • 00:19:17.512 --> 00:19:18.747
  • Thoughts whispered. "joel, this is not right.
  • 00:19:18.814 --> 00:19:20.115
  • "joel, this is not right. they're not going to understand.
  • 00:19:20.182 --> 00:19:21.550
  • They're not going to understand. you better stay in your box."
  • 00:19:21.617 --> 00:19:23.552
  • You better stay in your box." i felt something so strongly
  • 00:19:23.619 --> 00:19:25.287
  • I felt something so strongly in my spirit, but my mind was
  • 00:19:25.354 --> 00:19:27.723
  • In my spirit, but my mind was telling me just the opposite,
  • 00:19:27.789 --> 00:19:29.324
  • Telling me just the opposite, and one day i heard something
  • 00:19:29.391 --> 00:19:31.226
  • And one day i heard something down in here say, "your father
  • 00:19:31.293 --> 00:19:33.362
  • Down in here say, "your father said he would never move it,
  • 00:19:33.428 --> 00:19:35.497
  • Said he would never move it, but i never said you wouldn't
  • 00:19:35.564 --> 00:19:37.099
  • But i never said you wouldn't move it."
  • 00:19:37.165 --> 00:19:38.533
  • Move it." that's all i needed to hear.
  • 00:19:38.600 --> 00:19:40.435
  • I announced that we were going
  • 00:19:41.503 --> 00:19:43.639
  • I announced that we were going to pursue the compaq center;
  • 00:19:43.705 --> 00:19:45.507
  • To pursue the compaq center; 99.99% of the people were
  • 00:19:45.574 --> 00:19:48.443
  • 99.99% of the people were for it.
  • 00:19:48.510 --> 00:19:49.645
  • For it. but there will always be that
  • 00:19:49.711 --> 00:19:51.046
  • But there will always be that one jerk, i mean that
  • 00:19:51.113 --> 00:19:52.447
  • One jerk, i mean that one person.
  • 00:19:52.514 --> 00:19:54.249
  • One person. this man came up all bent
  • 00:19:54.316 --> 00:19:56.018
  • This man came up all bent out of shape, "joel, your dad
  • 00:19:56.084 --> 00:19:57.753
  • Out of shape, "joel, your dad said he wouldn't move it.
  • 00:19:57.819 --> 00:20:00.055
  • Said he wouldn't move it. this is a mistake.
  • 00:20:00.122 --> 00:20:01.523
  • This is a mistake. if you move it, i'm not going
  • 00:20:01.590 --> 00:20:03.125
  • If you move it, i'm not going to come."
  • 00:20:03.191 --> 00:20:04.493
  • To come." i wanted to say, "you promise?"
  • 00:20:04.559 --> 00:20:06.428
  • I wanted to say, "you promise?" [congregation laughing]
  • 00:20:06.495 --> 00:20:08.030
  • [congregation laughing] some people will not accept
  • 00:20:08.096 --> 00:20:10.032
  • Some people will not accept the new thing god puts in
  • 00:20:10.098 --> 00:20:12.934
  • The new thing god puts in your heart.
  • 00:20:13.001 --> 00:20:14.269
  • Your heart. they're stuck in what was, while
  • 00:20:14.336 --> 00:20:16.438
  • They're stuck in what was, while god is telling you what is.
  • 00:20:16.505 --> 00:20:18.640
  • God is telling you what is. it's much bigger, it's new
  • 00:20:18.707 --> 00:20:21.209
  • It's much bigger, it's new levels, it's greater influence,
  • 00:20:21.276 --> 00:20:23.245
  • Levels, it's greater influence, it's uncommon favor, it's
  • 00:20:23.312 --> 00:20:24.880
  • It's uncommon favor, it's something that you've
  • 00:20:24.946 --> 00:20:26.481
  • Something that you've never seen.
  • 00:20:26.548 --> 00:20:27.816
  • Never seen. don't let the fear of what
  • 00:20:27.883 --> 00:20:29.351
  • Don't let the fear of what people are going to think keep
  • 00:20:29.418 --> 00:20:30.952
  • People are going to think keep you in your box.
  • 00:20:31.019 --> 00:20:32.788
  • You in your box. this is one reason king saul
  • 00:20:32.854 --> 00:20:35.123
  • This is one reason king saul lost the throne.
  • 00:20:35.190 --> 00:20:36.325
  • Lost the throne. god told him to do certain
  • 00:20:36.391 --> 00:20:37.926
  • God told him to do certain things.
  • 00:20:37.993 --> 00:20:38.560
  • Things. he did them partially.
  • 00:20:38.627 --> 00:20:40.395
  • He did them partially. when samuel confronted him, saul
  • 00:20:40.462 --> 00:20:42.998
  • When samuel confronted him, saul admitted, "i disobeyed
  • 00:20:43.065 --> 00:20:44.566
  • Admitted, "i disobeyed the lord's instructions because
  • 00:20:44.633 --> 00:20:46.601
  • The lord's instructions because i was afraid of the people.
  • 00:20:46.668 --> 00:20:48.970
  • I was afraid of the people. so i did what they asked."
  • 00:20:49.037 --> 00:20:50.872
  • So i did what they asked." god had greatness in saul.
  • 00:20:50.939 --> 00:20:53.075
  • God had greatness in saul. he was going to take him amazing
  • 00:20:53.141 --> 00:20:55.010
  • He was going to take him amazing places, but saul didn't want
  • 00:20:55.077 --> 00:20:56.978
  • Places, but saul didn't want to disappoint the people.
  • 00:20:57.045 --> 00:20:58.447
  • To disappoint the people. he didn't want to rock the boat.
  • 00:20:58.513 --> 00:21:00.482
  • He didn't want to rock the boat. you can't be a people pleaser
  • 00:21:00.549 --> 00:21:02.884
  • You can't be a people pleaser and reach your potential because
  • 00:21:02.951 --> 00:21:04.886
  • And reach your potential because people will try to squeeze you
  • 00:21:04.953 --> 00:21:06.755
  • People will try to squeeze you into who they want you to be.
  • 00:21:06.822 --> 00:21:08.990
  • Into who they want you to be. you may have to disappoint a few
  • 00:21:09.057 --> 00:21:10.892
  • You may have to disappoint a few people in order to reach
  • 00:21:10.959 --> 00:21:12.094
  • People in order to reach your destiny.
  • 00:21:12.160 --> 00:21:14.096
  • Your destiny. genesis 12, god told abraham
  • 00:21:14.162 --> 00:21:16.531
  • Genesis 12, god told abraham to leave his country, his
  • 00:21:16.598 --> 00:21:19.000
  • To leave his country, his relatives, and his father's
  • 00:21:19.067 --> 00:21:20.402
  • Relatives, and his father's house, and go to the land
  • 00:21:20.469 --> 00:21:22.471
  • House, and go to the land of canaan.
  • 00:21:22.537 --> 00:21:23.839
  • Of canaan. abraham gathered up his
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  • Abraham gathered up his belongings, got his flocks
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  • Belongings, got his flocks and herds, and he left, but he
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  • And herds, and he left, but he took his nephew lot with him.
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  • Took his nephew lot with him. god just told him to leave
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  • God just told him to leave his relatives.
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  • His relatives. i don't know, maybe he thought
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  • I don't know, maybe he thought lot will get his feelings hurt.
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  • Lot will get his feelings hurt. he may be offended.
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  • He may be offended. he knew the right thing to do,
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  • He knew the right thing to do, but he was afraid someone
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  • But he was afraid someone wouldn't understand.
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  • Wouldn't understand. when they arrived, the land
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  • When they arrived, the land wouldn't sustain both he and lot
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  • Wouldn't sustain both he and lot and all their flocks and herds.
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  • And all their flocks and herds. their shepherd started arguing.
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  • Their shepherd started arguing. there was strife and division
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  • There was strife and division all because lot wasn't supposed
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  • All because lot wasn't supposed to be there in the first place.
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  • To be there in the first place. finally, lot moved
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  • Finally, lot moved to a different part
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  • To a different part of the country.
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  • Of the country. the scripture says, after lot
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  • The scripture says, after lot left, god said to abraham,
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  • Left, god said to abraham, "look around.
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  • "look around. all the land you see i will give
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  • All the land you see i will give it to you."
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  • It to you." it's interesting that god didn't
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  • It's interesting that god didn't speak until after lot left.
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  • Speak until after lot left. when abraham finally did what he
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  • When abraham finally did what he knew he was supposed to do, when
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  • Knew he was supposed to do, when lot moved away, that's when
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  • Lot moved away, that's when abraham stepped
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  • Abraham stepped in to the fullness
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  • In to the fullness of the blessing.
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  • Of the blessing. do you have some lots in
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  • Do you have some lots in your life?
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  • Your life? are you letting the fear of what
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  • Are you letting the fear of what people think keep you
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  • People think keep you from hearing the new thing god
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  • From hearing the new thing god has for you?
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  • Has for you? what if we moved the church?
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  • What if we moved the church? what if they get upset?
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  • What if they get upset? what if people don't understand?
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  • What if people don't understand? why don't you get rid
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  • Why don't you get rid of the lots?
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  • Of the lots? quit being afraid of the people.
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  • Quit being afraid of the people. quit letting them squeeze you
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  • Quit letting them squeeze you into their mold.
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  • Into their mold. don't get stuck in tradition.
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  • Don't get stuck in tradition. god has blessings you've never
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  • God has blessings you've never seen, increase that you've never
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  • Seen, increase that you've never imagined.
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  • Imagined. i'm asking you to get rid of
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  • I'm asking you to get rid of any distractions.
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  • Any distractions. no more living to please people,
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  • No more living to please people, no more worried about what
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  • No more worried about what others think, no more fighting
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  • Others think, no more fighting battles that don't matter.
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  • Battles that don't matter. this is your hour.
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  • This is your hour. this is your time.
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  • This is your time. make up your mind, you're going
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  • Make up your mind, you're going to set your face.
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  • To set your face. you're going to become who god
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  • You're going to become who god created you to be.
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  • Created you to be. if you'll do this, i believe
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  • If you'll do this, i believe and declare, like with abraham,
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  • And declare, like with abraham, you're about to see
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  • Are about to open, divine connections, breakthroughs,
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  • Connections, breakthroughs, the fullness of your destiny,
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  • The fullness of your destiny, in jesus's name, and if you
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  • In jesus's name, and if you receive it, can you say amen
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  • Receive it, can you say amen today?
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  • I'd like to give you an opportunity to make jesus
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  • An opportunity to make jesus the lord of your life.
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  • The lord of your life. would you pray with me?
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  • Would you pray with me? just say, "lord jesus, i repent
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  • Just say, "lord jesus, i repent of my sins.
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  • Of my sins. come into my heart, i make you
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  • Come into my heart, i make you my lord and savior."
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  • My lord and savior." if you prayed that simple
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  • If you prayed that simple prayer, we believe you got
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  • Sometimes in life, people don't choose us.
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  • People don't choose us. we've all felt overlooked
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  • We've all felt overlooked and like we're not good enough.
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  • And like we're not good enough. it's easy to live inferior,
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  • Thinking we don't measure up. people may have left you out.
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  • People may have left you out. the good news is
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  • The good news is god has chosen you.
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