Joel Osteen - Peace with Your Scars

December 30, 2025 | 29:55

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Joel Osteen | Joel Osteen - Peace with Your Scars | December 30, 2025
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  • >> joel osteen: well,
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  • >> joel osteen: well, god bless you.
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  • God bless you. it's a joy to come into your
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  • It's a joy to come into your homes, and if you're ever in
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  • Homes, and if you're ever in our area please stop by
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  • Our area please stop by and be a part of one
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  • And be a part of one of our services.
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  • Of our services. these are the finest people
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  • These are the finest people in all of houston, texas,
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  • In all of houston, texas, right here at lakewood.
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  • Right here at lakewood. we'd love to have you
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  • We'd love to have you come out.
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  • Come out. i like to start with
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  • I like to start with something funny, and i heard
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  • Something funny, and i heard about this man.
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  • About this man. he got caught shoplifting
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  • He got caught shoplifting at the grocery store.
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  • At the grocery store. he was at court.
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  • He was at court. the judge said, "sir,
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  • The judge said, "sir, i understand you stole
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  • I understand you stole a can of peaches.
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  • A can of peaches. how many peaches were
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  • How many peaches were in that can?"
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  • In that can?" he said, "five, your honor."
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  • He said, "five, your honor." he said, "all right, i'm
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  • He said, "all right, i'm going to give you one week
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  • Going to give you one week in jail for each peach.
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  • In jail for each peach. you have five weeks."
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  • You have five weeks." his wife stood up and said,
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  • His wife stood up and said, "your honor,
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  • "your honor, may i say something?"
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  • May i say something?" he said, "yes, what is it?"
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  • He said, "yes, what is it?" she said, "he stole a can
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  • She said, "he stole a can of peas too."
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  • Of peas too." say it like you mean it.
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  • Say it like you mean it. this is my bible.
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  • This is my bible. i am what it says i am.
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  • I am what it says i am. i have what it says i have.
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  • I have what it says i have. i can do what it says
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  • I can do what it says i can do.
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  • I can do. today i will be taught
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  • Today i will be taught the word of god.
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  • The word of god. i boldly confess my mind
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  • I boldly confess my mind is alert.
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  • Is alert. my heart is receptive.
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  • My heart is receptive. i will never be the same.
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  • I will never be the same. in jesus's name.
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  • In jesus's name. god bless you.
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  • God bless you. i want to talk to you today
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  • I want to talk to you today about "peace with
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  • About "peace with your scars."
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  • Your scars." you can't live very long
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  • You can't live very long without being injured, going
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  • Without being injured, going through hurts and pains.
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  • Through hurts and pains. sometimes the wound heals up
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  • Sometimes the wound heals up and there is no sign that it
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  • And there is no sign that it ever happened, but there are
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  • Ever happened, but there are certain wounds that are
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  • Certain wounds that are so severe, a cut so deep.
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  • So severe, a cut so deep. they heal up, the pain goes
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  • They heal up, the pain goes away, but they leave a scar,
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  • Away, but they leave a scar, scars from falling off
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  • Scars from falling off a bike as a child,
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  • A bike as a child, scars from the surgery
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  • Scars from the surgery to remove the illness,
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  • To remove the illness, scars from the accident.
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  • Scars from the accident. there are physical scars,
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  • There are physical scars, scars that we can see, but
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  • Scars that we can see, but there are also invisible
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  • There are also invisible scars, scars that come from
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  • Scars, scars that come from inner wounds: scarred by
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  • Inner wounds: scarred by the divorce, scarred by what
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  • The divorce, scarred by what somebody said, scarred
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  • Somebody said, scarred by mistakes that we made.
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  • By mistakes that we made. so often we try to hide
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  • So often we try to hide our scars.
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  • Our scars. we don't see anything
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  • We don't see anything positive about it.
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  • Positive about it. it reminds us of the hurt,
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  • It reminds us of the hurt, the sickness, the betrayal.
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  • The sickness, the betrayal. we wish they'd go away,
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  • We wish they'd go away, but we need to see our scars
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  • But we need to see our scars in a new light.
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  • In a new light. god did not allow that scar
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  • God did not allow that scar to discourage you.
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  • To discourage you. he allowed it to remind you
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  • He allowed it to remind you of what he
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  • Of what he brought you through.
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  • Brought you through. when you see the scar,
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  • When you see the scar, don't think of the pain.
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  • Don't think of the pain. think of the grace of god.
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  • Think of the grace of god. the scar means the wound
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  • The scar means the wound is healed.
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  • Is healed. the scar means the pain
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  • The scar means the pain is over and you're
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  • Is over and you're moving forward.
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  • Moving forward. the scar means what
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  • The scar means what kept you awake at night
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  • Kept you awake at night is now behind you.
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  • Is now behind you. don't get bitter and live
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  • Don't get bitter and live in regrets.
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  • In regrets. that scar is a reminder of
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  • That scar is a reminder of how faithful god has been.
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  • How faithful god has been. without his mercy that
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  • Without his mercy that mistake could have stopped
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  • Mistake could have stopped your purpose.
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  • Your purpose. without his healing that
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  • Without his healing that sickness could have been
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  • Sickness could have been the end.
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  • The end. when you're tempted to get
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  • When you're tempted to get discouraged, think an
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  • Discouraged, think an obstacle is too big,
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  • Obstacle is too big, just look at that scar.
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  • Just look at that scar. "god, you healed me
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  • "god, you healed me back then.
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  • Back then. you restored my marriage.
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  • You restored my marriage. you helped me through the
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  • You helped me through the loss of my loved one.
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  • Loss of my loved one. it wasn't easy.
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  • It wasn't easy. it left a scar, but this scar
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  • It left a scar, but this scar is a reminder
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  • Is a reminder of your goodness.
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  • Of your goodness. you did it for me back then.
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  • You did it for me back then. i know you'll do it for me
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  • I know you'll do it for me right now."
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  • Right now." if you'll see your scars the
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  • If you'll see your scars the right way, they'll be fuel
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  • Right way, they'll be fuel for your faith.
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  • For your faith. they'll remind you of
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  • They'll remind you of the goodness of god,
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  • The goodness of god, but you don't have to try
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  • But you don't have to try to hide your scars.
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  • To hide your scars. you don't have to be
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  • You don't have to be embarrassed by what
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  • Embarrassed by what you've been through.
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  • You've been through. you can be at peace
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  • You can be at peace with your scars.
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  • With your scars. no one in the scripture
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  • No one in the scripture fulfilled their destiny
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  • Fulfilled their destiny without scars.
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  • Without scars. we all get wounded.
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  • We all get wounded. things happen in life that
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  • Things happen in life that we didn't see coming:
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  • We didn't see coming: an unexpected illness,
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  • An unexpected illness, a loss, people
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  • A loss, people come against us,
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  • Come against us, we make mistakes.
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  • We make mistakes. if you're going to fulfill
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  • If you're going to fulfill your destiny, instead of
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  • Your destiny, instead of being depressed by what you
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  • Being depressed by what you went through, instead of
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  • Went through, instead of going around in self-pity
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  • Going around in self-pity because it wasn't fair,
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  • Because it wasn't fair, have a new perspective.
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  • Have a new perspective. the enemy tried to stop you,
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  • The enemy tried to stop you, but god healed you.
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  • But god healed you. how do you know?
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  • How do you know? you have a scar to prove it.
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  • You have a scar to prove it. you're not ashamed of it.
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  • You're not ashamed of it. you're not depressed over it.
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  • You're not depressed over it. you're at peace
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  • You're at peace with your scars.
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  • With your scars. you know it was the hand of
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  • You know it was the hand of god protecting you, not
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  • God protecting you, not letting that opposition
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  • Letting that opposition defeat you.
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  • Defeat you. the scar doesn't have to
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  • The scar doesn't have to remind you of the pain.
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  • Remind you of the pain. it can remind you of
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  • It can remind you of the greatness of god.
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  • The greatness of god. the enemy wasn't able
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  • The enemy wasn't able to take you out.
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  • To take you out. sure you have a scar,
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  • Sure you have a scar, sure it was painful, but now
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  • Sure it was painful, but now you've come through
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  • You've come through healed, restored,
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  • Healed, restored, vindicated, blessed,
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  • Vindicated, blessed, fulfilling your purpose.
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  • Fulfilling your purpose. i read about a young lady.
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  • I read about a young lady. she'd been in africa
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  • She'd been in africa volunteering at an orphanage.
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  • Volunteering at an orphanage. driving back to the airport
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  • Driving back to the airport she was in
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  • She was in a head-on collision.
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  • A head-on collision. very serious accident.
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  • Very serious accident. her face was cut from the top
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  • Her face was cut from the top of her forehead, around her
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  • Of her forehead, around her eye, down to her chin.
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  • Eye, down to her chin. it took hundreds of stitches
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  • It took hundreds of stitches to sew it up.
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  • To sew it up. she's a beautiful young lady,
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  • She's a beautiful young lady, looks like a model.
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  • Looks like a model. now her face was forever
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  • Now her face was forever changed, permanently scarred.
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  • Changed, permanently scarred. after it healed, people were
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  • After it healed, people were concerned about her
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  • Concerned about her self-esteem and how she
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  • Self-esteem and how she was going to handle it.
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  • Was going to handle it. much to their surprise
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  • Much to their surprise she didn't get bitter.
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  • She didn't get bitter. she wasn't depressed.
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  • She wasn't depressed. she was extremely grateful.
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  • She was extremely grateful. she knew she could have
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  • She knew she could have easily lost her life, and
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  • Easily lost her life, and this was several years ago.
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  • This was several years ago. sometimes she'll go out now
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  • Sometimes she'll go out now without wearing any makeup.
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  • Without wearing any makeup. she doesn't even try
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  • She doesn't even try to cover the scar up.
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  • To cover the scar up. she wears it with pride.
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  • She wears it with pride. she realized that she is
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  • She realized that she is blessed to be alive.
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  • Blessed to be alive. your scars can remind you of
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  • Your scars can remind you of the pain or they can remind
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  • The pain or they can remind you of the grace of god.
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  • You of the grace of god. are you at peace with your
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  • Are you at peace with your scars or are you trying to
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  • Scars or are you trying to hide them, living guilty, mad
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  • Hide them, living guilty, mad at who hurt you, bitter by
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  • At who hurt you, bitter by what you've been through?
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  • What you've been through? those scars are not there
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  • Those scars are not there to depress you.
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  • To depress you. they're there
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  • They're there to encourage you.
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  • To encourage you. they are reminders of what
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  • They are reminders of what god brought you through.
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  • God brought you through. it may have been painful, it
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  • It may have been painful, it wasn't fair, but without the
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  • Wasn't fair, but without the goodness of god you wouldn't
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  • Goodness of god you wouldn't be where you are.
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  • Be where you are. you'd still be wounded,
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  • You'd still be wounded, you'd still be hurting,
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  • You'd still be hurting, but look at you now.
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  • But look at you now. you're restored.
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  • You're restored. you're healed.
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  • You're healed. you're moving forward.
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  • You're moving forward. but sometimes
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  • But sometimes we have scars from
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  • We have scars from self-inflicted wounds.
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  • Self-inflicted wounds. we made poor choices.
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  • We made poor choices. we have no one to blame
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  • We have no one to blame except ourselves.
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  • Except ourselves. our freshman year of high
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  • Our freshman year of high school, i was running
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  • School, i was running around the track with
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  • Around the track with our basketball team.
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  • Our basketball team. we were doing conditioning
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  • We were doing conditioning drills and had to run a
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  • Drills and had to run a couple of miles.
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  • Couple of miles. i had been playing around
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  • I had been playing around and fallen behind.
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  • And fallen behind. the team was about a hundred
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  • The team was about a hundred yards in front of me.
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  • Yards in front of me. they turned around
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  • They turned around and started teasing me.
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  • And started teasing me. we were just having fun.
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  • We were just having fun. well, the coach went
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  • Well, the coach went into the fieldhouse.
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  • Into the fieldhouse. he couldn't see, so i cut
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  • He couldn't see, so i cut across the football field and
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  • Across the football field and was going to get way out
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  • Was going to get way out in front of them.
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  • In front of them. when they saw me take off,
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  • When they saw me take off, they started laughing.
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  • They started laughing. they knew if the coach saw me
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  • They knew if the coach saw me i would be done, but just as
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  • I would be done, but just as i was about to make it to the
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  • I was about to make it to the other side--there was this
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  • Other side--there was this metal drain cover on
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  • Metal drain cover on the ground, a big grate.
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  • The ground, a big grate. i didn't want to step on it,
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  • I didn't want to step on it, so i stepped right before it.
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  • So i stepped right before it. what i couldn't see is the
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  • What i couldn't see is the water had eroded the dirt
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  • Water had eroded the dirt and there was a hole about
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  • And there was a hole about a foot and a half deep.
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  • A foot and a half deep. the grass had grown up,
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  • The grass had grown up, and you couldn't tell.
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  • And you couldn't tell. well, i stepped in that hole
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  • Well, i stepped in that hole with one leg, fell,
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  • With one leg, fell, and my knee hit the metal
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  • And my knee hit the metal drain cover.
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  • Drain cover. i turned a somersault
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  • I turned a somersault and kept running.
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  • And kept running. the team, they started
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  • The team, they started laughing.
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  • Laughing. they thought that was so
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  • They thought that was so funny, so did i, until i
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  • Funny, so did i, until i looked down and i could see
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  • Looked down and i could see my kneecap outside my skin.
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  • My kneecap outside my skin. i had broken my kneecap, had
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  • I had broken my kneecap, had to have surgery, missed the
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  • To have surgery, missed the basketball season that year,
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  • Basketball season that year, and i never told my coach
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  • And i never told my coach what really happened, and i
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  • What really happened, and i hope he's not listening, but
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  • Hope he's not listening, but now i have this big scar
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  • Now i have this big scar on my knee.
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  • On my knee. when i look at it, i could be
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  • When i look at it, i could be reminded of my mistake,
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  • Reminded of my mistake, live in regrets,
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  • Live in regrets, "what was i thinking?
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  • "what was i thinking? why didn't i just do what i
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  • Why didn't i just do what i was supposed to?"
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  • Was supposed to?" but i have a different
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  • But i have a different perspective.
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  • Perspective. when i see that scar, i thank
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  • When i see that scar, i thank god that i can still run.
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  • God that i can still run. i thank him for his mercy.
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  • I thank him for his mercy. that even though i made the
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  • That even though i made the mistake, even though it was
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  • Mistake, even though it was my fault, he brought me
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  • My fault, he brought me through healthy and strong.
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  • Through healthy and strong. the truth is all of us have
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  • The truth is all of us have scars from mistakes we made.
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  • Scars from mistakes we made. maybe not physically,
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  • Maybe not physically, but invisible scars.
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  • But invisible scars. we got off course.
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  • We got off course. we gave in to temptation.
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  • We gave in to temptation. we hang around people
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  • We hang around people that pulled us down.
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  • That pulled us down. we didn't take care
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  • We didn't take care of our marriage.
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  • Of our marriage. we could let those scars
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  • We could let those scars remind us of our mistakes,
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  • Remind us of our mistakes, go around guilty, or we can
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  • Go around guilty, or we can let them remind us
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  • Let them remind us of the grace of god.
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  • Of the grace of god. god didn't allow that scar so
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  • God didn't allow that scar so you can constantly think
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  • You can constantly think about your failures.
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  • About your failures. he allowed it so you would
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  • He allowed it so you would think about his mercy,
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  • Think about his mercy, his forgiveness.
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  • His forgiveness. quit beating yourself up
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  • Quit beating yourself up over the past.
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  • Over the past. the enemy is called
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  • The enemy is called the accuser.
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  • The accuser. he'd love for you to live in
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  • He'd love for you to live in regrets, down on yourself,
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  • Regrets, down on yourself, not enjoying the grace of god
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  • Not enjoying the grace of god because you're so focused on
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  • Because you're so focused on mistakes you've made,
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  • Mistakes you've made, what you did wrong,
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  • What you did wrong, trying to hide the scars.
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  • Trying to hide the scars. those scars weren't meant
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  • Those scars weren't meant to be hidden.
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  • To be hidden. you have nothing
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  • You have nothing to be ashamed of.
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  • To be ashamed of. you are forgiven.
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  • You are forgiven. you are redeemed.
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  • You are redeemed. that scar is a reminder
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  • That scar is a reminder of the mercy of god.
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  • Of the mercy of god. don't let it be turned into
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  • Don't let it be turned into something that makes
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  • Something that makes you feel guilty.
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  • You feel guilty. god has done too much for us.
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  • God has done too much for us. he's paid too big a price.
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  • He's paid too big a price. he has brought you too far
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  • He has brought you too far for you to shrink back
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  • For you to shrink back in guilt.
  • 00:10:03.158 --> 00:10:04.426
  • In guilt. you can be at peace
  • 00:10:04.492 --> 00:10:05.860
  • You can be at peace with your scars.
  • 00:10:05.927 --> 00:10:07.562
  • With your scars. nothing you've done is
  • 00:10:07.629 --> 00:10:09.164
  • Nothing you've done is a surprise to god.
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  • A surprise to god. he knew every mistake
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  • He knew every mistake we would make.
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  • We would make. he knew every time we would
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  • He knew every time we would take a wrong turn.
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  • Take a wrong turn. he wouldn't have allowed it
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  • He wouldn't have allowed it if it was going to keep us
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  • If it was going to keep us from our purpose.
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  • From our purpose. my father was married
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  • My father was married at an early age.
  • 00:10:22.210 --> 00:10:23.945
  • At an early age. unfortunately, the marriage
  • 00:10:24.012 --> 00:10:25.547
  • Unfortunately, the marriage didn't work out.
  • 00:10:25.613 --> 00:10:27.182
  • Didn't work out. he was embarrassed.
  • 00:10:27.248 --> 00:10:28.817
  • He was embarrassed. denominational leaders
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  • Denominational leaders told him that he would
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  • Told him that he would never pastor again.
  • 00:10:31.352 --> 00:10:33.488
  • Never pastor again. when you're wounded there
  • 00:10:33.555 --> 00:10:34.756
  • When you're wounded there will always be people that
  • 00:10:34.823 --> 00:10:37.058
  • Will always be people that instead of being a healer and
  • 00:10:37.125 --> 00:10:39.327
  • Instead of being a healer and pouring the oil on the
  • 00:10:39.394 --> 00:10:40.595
  • Pouring the oil on the wounds, help you get back on
  • 00:10:40.662 --> 00:10:42.564
  • Wounds, help you get back on your feet, they'll judge you
  • 00:10:42.630 --> 00:10:44.432
  • Your feet, they'll judge you by your mistakes.
  • 00:10:44.499 --> 00:10:45.800
  • By your mistakes. they'll try to disqualify
  • 00:10:45.867 --> 00:10:47.168
  • They'll try to disqualify you, but people don't have
  • 00:10:47.235 --> 00:10:49.170
  • You, but people don't have the final say.
  • 00:10:49.237 --> 00:10:50.605
  • The final say. they didn't call you.
  • 00:10:50.672 --> 00:10:52.240
  • They didn't call you. they didn't breathe life
  • 00:10:52.307 --> 00:10:53.274
  • They didn't breathe life into you.
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  • Into you. they didn't know you before
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  • They didn't know you before you were formed in your
  • 00:10:56.344 --> 00:10:57.479
  • You were formed in your mother's womb.
  • 00:10:57.545 --> 00:10:59.214
  • Mother's womb. people may have written
  • 00:10:59.280 --> 00:11:00.348
  • People may have written you off, but don't
  • 00:11:00.415 --> 00:11:01.816
  • You off, but don't get discouraged.
  • 00:11:01.883 --> 00:11:02.951
  • Get discouraged. god has already
  • 00:11:03.017 --> 00:11:03.785
  • God has already written you on.
  • 00:11:03.852 --> 00:11:05.220
  • Written you on. he chose you before you
  • 00:11:05.286 --> 00:11:07.188
  • He chose you before you could choose him.
  • 00:11:07.255 --> 00:11:08.490
  • Could choose him. the scripture says god's
  • 00:11:08.556 --> 00:11:09.958
  • The scripture says god's calling on your life
  • 00:11:10.024 --> 00:11:11.693
  • Calling on your life is irrevocable.
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  • Is irrevocable. that means god doesn't
  • 00:11:13.595 --> 00:11:15.196
  • That means god doesn't change his mind.
  • 00:11:15.263 --> 00:11:16.765
  • Change his mind. he's already decided
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  • He's already decided to show you mercy.
  • 00:11:18.266 --> 00:11:19.768
  • To show you mercy. he's already decided to heal
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  • He's already decided to heal the wound and give you
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  • The wound and give you another chance.
  • 00:11:22.871 --> 00:11:24.305
  • Another chance. don't believe those lies
  • 00:11:24.372 --> 00:11:25.673
  • Don't believe those lies that "you blew it.
  • 00:11:25.740 --> 00:11:27.242
  • That "you blew it. you had your chance.
  • 00:11:27.308 --> 00:11:28.309
  • You had your chance. just sit on the sidelines."
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  • Just sit on the sidelines." get back in the game.
  • 00:11:30.578 --> 00:11:32.514
  • Get back in the game. the scar doesn't mean
  • 00:11:32.580 --> 00:11:33.681
  • The scar doesn't mean you're finished.
  • 00:11:33.748 --> 00:11:34.716
  • You're finished. the scar is a sign that
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  • The scar is a sign that you've been healed.
  • 00:11:36.551 --> 00:11:37.819
  • You've been healed. it's a sign that you're
  • 00:11:37.886 --> 00:11:39.053
  • It's a sign that you're ready for action.
  • 00:11:39.120 --> 00:11:41.189
  • Ready for action. if god was through with you,
  • 00:11:41.256 --> 00:11:42.690
  • If god was through with you, you wouldn't still be here.
  • 00:11:42.757 --> 00:11:45.260
  • You wouldn't still be here. there is something
  • 00:11:45.326 --> 00:11:46.094
  • There is something for you to do.
  • 00:11:46.161 --> 00:11:47.695
  • For you to do. you have an assignment.
  • 00:11:47.762 --> 00:11:49.430
  • You have an assignment. somebody needs what you have.
  • 00:11:49.497 --> 00:11:51.666
  • Somebody needs what you have. somebody needs your smile.
  • 00:11:51.733 --> 00:11:53.601
  • Somebody needs your smile. somebody needs your love.
  • 00:11:53.668 --> 00:11:55.036
  • Somebody needs your love. somebody needs your gifts.
  • 00:11:55.103 --> 00:11:57.272
  • Somebody needs your gifts. "not me, joel.
  • 00:11:57.338 --> 00:11:58.606
  • "not me, joel. i have all these wounds.
  • 00:11:58.673 --> 00:11:59.808
  • I have all these wounds. i have all these scars."
  • 00:11:59.874 --> 00:12:01.442
  • I have all these scars." everybody has scars.
  • 00:12:01.509 --> 00:12:02.610
  • Everybody has scars. the scars don't
  • 00:12:02.677 --> 00:12:04.212
  • The scars don't disqualify you.
  • 00:12:04.279 --> 00:12:05.547
  • Disqualify you. the scars prepare you.
  • 00:12:05.613 --> 00:12:06.881
  • The scars prepare you. you learn from
  • 00:12:06.948 --> 00:12:08.449
  • You learn from every experience.
  • 00:12:08.516 --> 00:12:09.884
  • Every experience. you're gaining something
  • 00:12:09.951 --> 00:12:11.186
  • You're gaining something you're going to need
  • 00:12:11.252 --> 00:12:11.853
  • You're going to need down the road.
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  • Down the road. nothing you've been through
  • 00:12:13.354 --> 00:12:14.689
  • Nothing you've been through has been wasted.
  • 00:12:14.756 --> 00:12:16.157
  • Has been wasted. it's all a part
  • 00:12:16.224 --> 00:12:17.058
  • It's all a part of god's plan.
  • 00:12:17.125 --> 00:12:18.893
  • Of god's plan. several years after my dad
  • 00:12:18.960 --> 00:12:20.395
  • Several years after my dad was divorced, he met my
  • 00:12:20.461 --> 00:12:22.096
  • Was divorced, he met my mother, they fell in love,
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  • Mother, they fell in love, and were married
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  • And were married for over 40 years,
  • 00:12:25.300 --> 00:12:26.534
  • For over 40 years, and my father went on
  • 00:12:26.601 --> 00:12:27.969
  • And my father went on to pastor great churches and
  • 00:12:28.036 --> 00:12:29.904
  • To pastor great churches and minister to people around
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  • Minister to people around the world, but he could have
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  • The world, but he could have let that scar stop him.
  • 00:12:33.274 --> 00:12:35.009
  • Let that scar stop him. every time he looked at it,
  • 00:12:35.076 --> 00:12:36.377
  • Every time he looked at it, he could have thought,
  • 00:12:36.444 --> 00:12:36.978
  • He could have thought, "i'm not qualified.
  • 00:12:37.045 --> 00:12:38.746
  • "i'm not qualified. look what i've been through.
  • 00:12:38.813 --> 00:12:39.948
  • Look what i've been through. i can't minister to others,"
  • 00:12:40.014 --> 00:12:42.217
  • I can't minister to others," but he saw that scar
  • 00:12:42.283 --> 00:12:43.618
  • But he saw that scar in a different light.
  • 00:12:43.685 --> 00:12:45.220
  • In a different light. instead of discouraging him,
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  • Instead of discouraging him, it reminded him
  • 00:12:47.522 --> 00:12:48.857
  • It reminded him of the mercy of god.
  • 00:12:48.923 --> 00:12:50.825
  • Of the mercy of god. instead of living condemned,
  • 00:12:50.892 --> 00:12:52.894
  • Instead of living condemned, it's just the opposite.
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  • It's just the opposite. he would thank god
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  • He would thank god that he was restored.
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  • That he was restored. why?
  • 00:12:57.599 --> 00:12:58.166
  • Why? he was at peace
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  • He was at peace with his scars.
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  • With his scars. are you beating yourself up
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  • Are you beating yourself up over the past, not pursuing
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  • Over the past, not pursuing dreams, not passionate
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  • Dreams, not passionate about life?
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  • About life? the enemy keeps reminding you
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  • The enemy keeps reminding you of those self-inflicted
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  • Of those self-inflicted wounds, how you blew it.
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  • Wounds, how you blew it. you had your chance.
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  • You had your chance. next time he comes showing
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  • Next time he comes showing you that scar,
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  • You that scar, trying to make you
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  • Trying to make you feel guilty,
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  • Feel guilty, just turn it around.
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  • Just turn it around. "this scar reminds me
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  • "this scar reminds me of the mercy of god.
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  • Of the mercy of god. it reminds me
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  • It reminds me that i'm redeemed,
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  • That i'm redeemed, that i'm forgiven."
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  • That i'm forgiven." i've heard it said only god
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  • I've heard it said only god can take an ugly wound
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  • Can take an ugly wound and turn it into a scar
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  • And turn it into a scar of beauty.
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  • Of beauty. sounds like a contradiction.
  • 00:13:36.871 --> 00:13:38.873
  • Sounds like a contradiction. how can a scar be beautiful?
  • 00:13:38.940 --> 00:13:41.209
  • How can a scar be beautiful? we see scars as painful,
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  • We see scars as painful, ugly.
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  • Ugly. we'd rather forget.
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  • We'd rather forget. we try to hide, but our god
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  • We try to hide, but our god knows how to take an ugly
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  • Knows how to take an ugly wound, a bitter divorce, a
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  • Wound, a bitter divorce, a painful loss, an unexpected
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  • Painful loss, an unexpected illness and somehow change it
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  • Illness and somehow change it into something beautiful.
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  • Into something beautiful. we didn't deserve the mercy.
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  • We didn't deserve the mercy. we didn't see how it could
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  • We didn't see how it could work out.
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  • Work out. the odds were against us,
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  • The odds were against us, but god not only brought us
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  • But god not only brought us through, he turned it into
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  • Through, he turned it into a scar of beauty.
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  • A scar of beauty. now when we look at it
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  • Now when we look at it we're so blessed.
  • 00:14:12.607 --> 00:14:13.875
  • We're so blessed. we're so grateful.
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  • We're so grateful. we don't remember the pain.
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  • We don't remember the pain. we don't remember
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  • We don't remember the heartache.
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  • The heartache. we remember the goodness
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  • We remember the goodness of god.
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  • Of god. my mother had polio when she
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  • My mother had polio when she was a child and one of her
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  • Was a child and one of her legs is much smaller
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  • Legs is much smaller than the other.
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  • Than the other. she walks with a limp.
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  • She walks with a limp. i've never heard her complain
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  • I've never heard her complain about her limp, never seen
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  • About her limp, never seen her discouraged
  • 00:14:33.328 --> 00:14:34.262
  • Her discouraged about her leg.
  • 00:14:34.329 --> 00:14:35.863
  • About her leg. when she looks at that scar,
  • 00:14:35.930 --> 00:14:37.699
  • When she looks at that scar, so to speak, she doesn't see
  • 00:14:37.765 --> 00:14:40.001
  • So to speak, she doesn't see it in a negative light, "oh,
  • 00:14:40.068 --> 00:14:41.636
  • It in a negative light, "oh, look what happened to me."
  • 00:14:41.703 --> 00:14:43.237
  • Look what happened to me." her attitude is, "lord,
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  • Her attitude is, "lord, thank you that i can walk.
  • 00:14:44.806 --> 00:14:46.474
  • Thank you that i can walk. thank you for your
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  • Thank you for your goodness in my life."
  • 00:14:47.175 --> 00:14:49.344
  • Goodness in my life." that scar is not a reminder
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  • That scar is not a reminder of the pain.
  • 00:14:52.013 --> 00:14:53.348
  • Of the pain. it's a scar of beauty.
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  • It's a scar of beauty. it reminds her what god
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  • It reminds her what god brought her through.
  • 00:14:56.884 --> 00:14:57.452
  • Brought her through. in the scripture jacob had a
  • 00:14:57.518 --> 00:15:00.254
  • In the scripture jacob had a lot of self-inflicted wounds.
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  • Lot of self-inflicted wounds. he was dishonest, went
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  • He was dishonest, went around cheating people.
  • 00:15:04.592 --> 00:15:06.227
  • Around cheating people. he tricked his brother out
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  • He tricked his brother out of his birthright, cost him a
  • 00:15:07.562 --> 00:15:09.364
  • Of his birthright, cost him a lot of heartache and pain.
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  • Lot of heartache and pain. later in life he decided
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  • Later in life he decided to make a change.
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  • To make a change. he went down to the brook
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  • He went down to the brook by himself to get alone
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  • By himself to get alone with god.
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  • With god. an angel appeared that looked
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  • An angel appeared that looked like a man and wrestled
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  • Like a man and wrestled with jacob all night.
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  • With jacob all night. the next morning, the angel
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  • The next morning, the angel was about to leave.
  • 00:15:27.415 --> 00:15:28.783
  • Was about to leave. jacob held on to him and
  • 00:15:28.850 --> 00:15:30.351
  • Jacob held on to him and said, "i know who you are.
  • 00:15:30.418 --> 00:15:32.820
  • Said, "i know who you are. i'm not going to let you go
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  • I'm not going to let you go until you bless me."
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  • Until you bless me." the angel gave him the
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  • The angel gave him the blessing, and he left.
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  • Blessing, and he left. in the struggle jacob
  • 00:15:40.762 --> 00:15:42.563
  • In the struggle jacob hurt his hip.
  • 00:15:42.630 --> 00:15:44.098
  • Hurt his hip. the scripture says he
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  • The scripture says he walked away with a limp,
  • 00:15:45.600 --> 00:15:47.935
  • Walked away with a limp, but he had his blessing.
  • 00:15:48.002 --> 00:15:50.238
  • But he had his blessing. what am i saying?
  • 00:15:50.304 --> 00:15:51.606
  • What am i saying? you can have a limp
  • 00:15:51.672 --> 00:15:53.041
  • You can have a limp and still be blessed.
  • 00:15:53.107 --> 00:15:54.809
  • And still be blessed. you can have a scar
  • 00:15:54.876 --> 00:15:56.044
  • You can have a scar and still be successful.
  • 00:15:56.110 --> 00:15:58.012
  • And still be successful. you can go through a breakup
  • 00:15:58.079 --> 00:15:59.514
  • You can go through a breakup like my father and still do
  • 00:15:59.580 --> 00:16:01.349
  • Like my father and still do great things, but too often
  • 00:16:01.416 --> 00:16:04.419
  • Great things, but too often we think our scars limit us.
  • 00:16:04.485 --> 00:16:06.888
  • We think our scars limit us. some of them weren't even our
  • 00:16:06.954 --> 00:16:07.989
  • Some of them weren't even our fault, scarred from a tough
  • 00:16:08.056 --> 00:16:09.991
  • Fault, scarred from a tough childhood, or scarred
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  • Childhood, or scarred from a breakup,
  • 00:16:11.692 --> 00:16:12.760
  • From a breakup, scarred from a illness.
  • 00:16:12.827 --> 00:16:14.996
  • Scarred from a illness. those scars don't have
  • 00:16:15.063 --> 00:16:16.931
  • Those scars don't have to stop you.
  • 00:16:16.998 --> 00:16:18.199
  • To stop you. the scars are your testimony.
  • 00:16:18.266 --> 00:16:20.802
  • The scars are your testimony. that's your story.
  • 00:16:20.868 --> 00:16:21.769
  • That's your story. you don't have to hide them.
  • 00:16:21.836 --> 00:16:23.638
  • You don't have to hide them. everyone has scars.
  • 00:16:23.704 --> 00:16:25.473
  • Everyone has scars. "well, joel, i've been
  • 00:16:25.540 --> 00:16:26.274
  • "well, joel, i've been through so much.
  • 00:16:26.340 --> 00:16:27.508
  • Through so much. i have so many scars.
  • 00:16:27.575 --> 00:16:29.277
  • I have so many scars. i don't see how i could ever
  • 00:16:29.343 --> 00:16:30.912
  • I don't see how i could ever accomplish my dreams."
  • 00:16:30.978 --> 00:16:33.081
  • Accomplish my dreams." i know someone that has more
  • 00:16:33.147 --> 00:16:35.216
  • I know someone that has more scars than you, and he
  • 00:16:35.283 --> 00:16:37.218
  • Scars than you, and he fulfilled his purpose.
  • 00:16:37.285 --> 00:16:39.220
  • Fulfilled his purpose. he came 2,000 years ago.
  • 00:16:39.287 --> 00:16:42.423
  • He came 2,000 years ago. he was betrayed by his
  • 00:16:42.490 --> 00:16:44.158
  • He was betrayed by his friends, misunderstood
  • 00:16:44.225 --> 00:16:46.694
  • Friends, misunderstood by his family.
  • 00:16:46.761 --> 00:16:48.129
  • By his family. he was forced to wear
  • 00:16:48.196 --> 00:16:49.130
  • He was forced to wear a crown of thorns.
  • 00:16:49.197 --> 00:16:50.798
  • A crown of thorns. his hands and feet were
  • 00:16:50.865 --> 00:16:52.700
  • His hands and feet were pierced where they nailed him
  • 00:16:52.767 --> 00:16:54.202
  • Pierced where they nailed him to a cross, had a big gouge
  • 00:16:54.268 --> 00:16:56.204
  • To a cross, had a big gouge in his side from a spear.
  • 00:16:56.270 --> 00:16:58.406
  • In his side from a spear. his back was lashed with
  • 00:16:58.473 --> 00:17:00.308
  • His back was lashed with 39 stripes.
  • 00:17:00.374 --> 00:17:02.043
  • 39 stripes. who is more scarred
  • 00:17:02.110 --> 00:17:03.478
  • Who is more scarred than our savior?
  • 00:17:03.544 --> 00:17:05.346
  • Than our savior? what amazes me is when jesus
  • 00:17:05.413 --> 00:17:07.482
  • What amazes me is when jesus rose from the dead, when he
  • 00:17:07.548 --> 00:17:09.217
  • Rose from the dead, when he came up out of the grave, you
  • 00:17:09.283 --> 00:17:11.185
  • Came up out of the grave, you would think he would be
  • 00:17:11.252 --> 00:17:12.220
  • Would think he would be completely healed, everything
  • 00:17:12.286 --> 00:17:14.455
  • Completely healed, everything restored back to normal.
  • 00:17:14.522 --> 00:17:16.491
  • Restored back to normal. but even though resurrection
  • 00:17:16.557 --> 00:17:18.126
  • But even though resurrection power caused him to come back
  • 00:17:18.192 --> 00:17:20.128
  • Power caused him to come back to life, he still had scars.
  • 00:17:20.194 --> 00:17:23.498
  • To life, he still had scars. this is significant
  • 00:17:23.564 --> 00:17:24.999
  • This is significant because god could have
  • 00:17:25.066 --> 00:17:26.501
  • Because god could have taken them away.
  • 00:17:26.567 --> 00:17:28.202
  • Taken them away. the scripture even talks
  • 00:17:28.269 --> 00:17:29.337
  • The scripture even talks about how when we get to
  • 00:17:29.403 --> 00:17:30.671
  • About how when we get to heaven we're going to have
  • 00:17:30.738 --> 00:17:31.906
  • Heaven we're going to have new bodies, no scars.
  • 00:17:31.973 --> 00:17:34.475
  • New bodies, no scars. god could have made his skin
  • 00:17:34.542 --> 00:17:36.477
  • God could have made his skin like new, but on purpose he
  • 00:17:36.544 --> 00:17:38.880
  • Like new, but on purpose he left the scars.
  • 00:17:38.946 --> 00:17:40.615
  • Left the scars. maybe, in part, it was
  • 00:17:40.681 --> 00:17:42.750
  • Maybe, in part, it was to show us that it's okay
  • 00:17:42.817 --> 00:17:45.052
  • To show us that it's okay to have scars.
  • 00:17:45.119 --> 00:17:46.587
  • To have scars. it's okay that you've
  • 00:17:46.654 --> 00:17:47.455
  • It's okay that you've made mistakes.
  • 00:17:47.522 --> 00:17:48.756
  • Made mistakes. it's okay that people
  • 00:17:48.823 --> 00:17:49.724
  • It's okay that people betrayed you.
  • 00:17:49.790 --> 00:17:50.825
  • Betrayed you. it's okay that you lost
  • 00:17:50.892 --> 00:17:52.059
  • It's okay that you lost that loved one.
  • 00:17:52.126 --> 00:17:53.427
  • That loved one. you can be at peace with your
  • 00:17:53.494 --> 00:17:55.163
  • You can be at peace with your scars knowing that we are
  • 00:17:55.229 --> 00:17:57.365
  • Scars knowing that we are worshiping a savior
  • 00:17:57.431 --> 00:17:59.133
  • Worshiping a savior who has scars.
  • 00:17:59.200 --> 00:18:01.135
  • Who has scars. god is saying don't let the
  • 00:18:01.202 --> 00:18:03.004
  • God is saying don't let the disappointments, what didn't
  • 00:18:03.070 --> 00:18:04.772
  • Disappointments, what didn't work out, who hurt you or
  • 00:18:04.839 --> 00:18:07.275
  • Work out, who hurt you or even your own mistakes
  • 00:18:07.341 --> 00:18:09.310
  • Even your own mistakes cause you to settle in life,
  • 00:18:09.377 --> 00:18:11.712
  • Cause you to settle in life, lose your passion.
  • 00:18:11.779 --> 00:18:13.548
  • Lose your passion. our savior has scars,
  • 00:18:13.614 --> 00:18:15.483
  • Our savior has scars, but he rose from the dead.
  • 00:18:15.550 --> 00:18:17.385
  • But he rose from the dead. jesus has scars, but he's at
  • 00:18:17.451 --> 00:18:19.420
  • Jesus has scars, but he's at the right hand of the father.
  • 00:18:19.487 --> 00:18:21.289
  • The right hand of the father. what makes you think your
  • 00:18:21.355 --> 00:18:22.790
  • What makes you think your scars disqualify you?
  • 00:18:22.857 --> 00:18:25.860
  • Scars disqualify you? but we all want the scars
  • 00:18:25.927 --> 00:18:27.228
  • But we all want the scars to go away.
  • 00:18:27.295 --> 00:18:28.796
  • To go away. we don't want any reminder of
  • 00:18:28.863 --> 00:18:30.164
  • We don't want any reminder of the hurt, the sickness, the
  • 00:18:30.231 --> 00:18:31.999
  • The hurt, the sickness, the betrayal, but i can't promise
  • 00:18:32.066 --> 00:18:34.669
  • Betrayal, but i can't promise you the scars will go away.
  • 00:18:34.735 --> 00:18:37.238
  • You the scars will go away. some of them last a lifetime,
  • 00:18:37.305 --> 00:18:39.640
  • Some of them last a lifetime, but i can promise you they
  • 00:18:39.707 --> 00:18:41.809
  • But i can promise you they don't have to keep you
  • 00:18:41.876 --> 00:18:43.044
  • Don't have to keep you from your destiny.
  • 00:18:43.110 --> 00:18:44.779
  • From your destiny. you have to be at peace
  • 00:18:44.845 --> 00:18:46.347
  • You have to be at peace with your scars.
  • 00:18:46.414 --> 00:18:47.181
  • With your scars. there are a lot of things in
  • 00:18:47.248 --> 00:18:49.350
  • There are a lot of things in life we don't understand: why
  • 00:18:49.417 --> 00:18:51.686
  • Life we don't understand: why we came down with an illness,
  • 00:18:51.752 --> 00:18:53.621
  • We came down with an illness, why we lost a loved one,
  • 00:18:53.688 --> 00:18:55.423
  • Why we lost a loved one, why we walk with a limp.
  • 00:18:55.489 --> 00:18:57.625
  • Why we walk with a limp. those scars are not there
  • 00:18:57.692 --> 00:18:59.293
  • Those scars are not there to hold you back.
  • 00:18:59.360 --> 00:19:00.628
  • To hold you back. they are reminders of the
  • 00:19:00.695 --> 00:19:02.263
  • They are reminders of the grace of god, of what he's
  • 00:19:02.330 --> 00:19:04.098
  • Grace of god, of what he's brought you through, and it's
  • 00:19:04.165 --> 00:19:05.900
  • Brought you through, and it's very powerful when you can
  • 00:19:05.967 --> 00:19:07.368
  • Very powerful when you can say, "i worship a savior
  • 00:19:07.435 --> 00:19:10.271
  • Say, "i worship a savior who has scars.
  • 00:19:10.338 --> 00:19:11.706
  • Who has scars. since he has scars,
  • 00:19:11.772 --> 00:19:13.174
  • Since he has scars, you know what?
  • 00:19:13.241 --> 00:19:14.075
  • You know what? i'm okay with my scars.
  • 00:19:14.141 --> 00:19:16.077
  • I'm okay with my scars. i'm not going to live bitter
  • 00:19:16.143 --> 00:19:17.745
  • I'm not going to live bitter because of a disappointment.
  • 00:19:17.812 --> 00:19:19.113
  • Because of a disappointment. i'm not going to go around in
  • 00:19:19.180 --> 00:19:20.815
  • I'm not going to go around in regrets, beating myself up
  • 00:19:20.881 --> 00:19:22.883
  • Regrets, beating myself up over past mistakes.
  • 00:19:22.950 --> 00:19:24.619
  • Over past mistakes. i'm not going to be sour
  • 00:19:24.685 --> 00:19:25.820
  • I'm not going to be sour because i had this
  • 00:19:25.886 --> 00:19:26.554
  • Because i had this disappointment.
  • 00:19:26.621 --> 00:19:27.688
  • Disappointment. i'm at peace with my scars."
  • 00:19:27.755 --> 00:19:30.458
  • I'm at peace with my scars." maybe someone needs to touch
  • 00:19:30.524 --> 00:19:32.693
  • Maybe someone needs to touch your scars to believe.
  • 00:19:32.760 --> 00:19:34.929
  • Your scars to believe. maybe they need to hear how
  • 00:19:34.996 --> 00:19:36.697
  • Maybe they need to hear how god brought you through the
  • 00:19:36.764 --> 00:19:38.065
  • God brought you through the difficulty.
  • 00:19:38.132 --> 00:19:39.967
  • Difficulty. how god restored you
  • 00:19:40.034 --> 00:19:41.202
  • How god restored you and gave you a new beginning
  • 00:19:41.269 --> 00:19:42.436
  • And gave you a new beginning like my father.
  • 00:19:42.503 --> 00:19:44.572
  • Like my father. don't hide your scars.
  • 00:19:44.639 --> 00:19:46.274
  • Don't hide your scars. show your scars.
  • 00:19:46.340 --> 00:19:48.042
  • Show your scars. there is healing
  • 00:19:48.109 --> 00:19:48.843
  • There is healing in your scars.
  • 00:19:48.909 --> 00:19:50.111
  • In your scars. there is restoration
  • 00:19:50.177 --> 00:19:51.145
  • There is restoration in your scars.
  • 00:19:51.212 --> 00:19:52.546
  • In your scars. your scars can inspire
  • 00:19:52.613 --> 00:19:54.715
  • Your scars can inspire someone to believe.
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  • Someone to believe. people all around us
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  • People all around us are wounded.
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  • Are wounded. they're hurting.
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  • They're hurting. they're discouraged.
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  • They're discouraged. they're lonely.
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  • They're lonely. like the disciples, they
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  • Like the disciples, they don't know how they're going
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  • Don't know how they're going to make it, but when they see
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  • To make it, but when they see your scars, when they hear
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  • Your scars, when they hear how god healed you, restored
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  • How god healed you, restored you, blessed you that will
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  • You, blessed you that will breathe new life back
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  • Breathe new life back into their spirits.
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  • Into their spirits. are you hiding your scars,
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  • Are you hiding your scars, embarrassed by what you've
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  • Embarrassed by what you've been through, bitter over
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  • Been through, bitter over who hurt you?
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  • Who hurt you? god didn't show you mercy
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  • God didn't show you mercy just for your sake.
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  • Just for your sake. those scars are
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  • Those scars are for somebody else.
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  • For somebody else. he turned that around because
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  • He turned that around because he knows he can trust you
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  • He knows he can trust you with scars.
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  • With scars. when jesus first arose,
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  • When jesus first arose, he appeared to mary magdalene
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  • He appeared to mary magdalene at the garden tomb.
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  • At the garden tomb. when she recognized him,
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  • When she recognized him, she went to hug him,
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  • She went to hug him, but jesus said, "stop.
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  • But jesus said, "stop. don't touch me yet."
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  • Don't touch me yet." he had not yet ascended to
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  • He had not yet ascended to the father to present the
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  • The father to present the sacrifice, and there are
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  • Sacrifice, and there are times when you're not ready
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  • Times when you're not ready for people to touch
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  • For people to touch your scars.
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  • Your scars. you're still going through
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  • You're still going through the healing process.
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  • The healing process. a scar doesn't happen
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  • A scar doesn't happen overnight.
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  • Overnight. takes time.
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  • Takes time. you may be in a difficult
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  • You may be in a difficult situation and you're
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  • Situation and you're waiting to be healed,
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  • Waiting to be healed, waiting to be restored.
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  • Waiting to be restored. the wound is still painful.
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  • The wound is still painful. like with jesus, the time
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  • Like with jesus, the time is coming when the pain
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  • Is coming when the pain is going to be gone.
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  • Is going to be gone. the wound is going
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  • The wound is going to be healed.
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  • To be healed. you'll have a scar not
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  • You'll have a scar not to remind you of the pain,
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  • To remind you of the pain, but to remind you
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  • But to remind you of the grace of god.
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  • Of the grace of god. then you can tell people,
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  • Then you can tell people, "touch my scars.
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  • "touch my scars. here is what god has done
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  • Here is what god has done for me."
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  • For me." john chapter 5.
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  • John chapter 5. jesus healed a man that had
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  • Jesus healed a man that had been crippled for 38 years.
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  • Been crippled for 38 years. he said to him, "stand up,
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  • He said to him, "stand up, pick up your mat,
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  • Pick up your mat, and go home."
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  • And go home." instantly the man could walk.
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  • Instantly the man could walk. it's significant that jesus
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  • It's significant that jesus told him to take his mat
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  • Told him to take his mat with him.
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  • With him. i'm sure after all those
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  • I'm sure after all those years that mat was probably
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  • Years that mat was probably dirty, had holes in it,
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  • Dirty, had holes in it, didn't smell too good.
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  • Didn't smell too good. why didn't jesus tell him,
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  • Why didn't jesus tell him, "hey, throw the mat away.
  • 00:21:56.504 --> 00:21:57.638
  • "hey, throw the mat away. you can walk.
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  • You can walk. you're not going
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  • You're not going to need it anymore"?
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  • To need it anymore"? that mat was like a scar.
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  • That mat was like a scar. it was a reminder
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  • It was a reminder of what god had done.
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  • Of what god had done. it was a part of his story.
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  • It was a part of his story. i can imagine everywhere the
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  • I can imagine everywhere the man went people would ask,
  • 00:22:10.451 --> 00:22:12.119
  • Man went people would ask, "what are you doing still
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  • "what are you doing still carrying this old mat?"
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  • Carrying this old mat?" he would answer, "it may look
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  • He would answer, "it may look ugly to you, but to me
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  • Ugly to you, but to me this is a beautiful mat."
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  • This is a beautiful mat." every time he looked at it,
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  • Every time he looked at it, it brought a smile
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  • It brought a smile to his face.
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  • To his face. under his breath he would
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  • Under his breath he would whisper, "lord, thank you
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  • Whisper, "lord, thank you for healing me."
  • 00:22:27.301 --> 00:22:29.170
  • For healing me." god could tell us
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  • God could tell us to leave our mats.
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  • To leave our mats. he could take away the scars
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  • He could take away the scars so there is no sign of them
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  • So there is no sign of them anymore, but one reason he
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  • Anymore, but one reason he leaves them is not only so
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  • Leaves them is not only so we'll remember what he's
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  • We'll remember what he's done, but that so we
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  • Done, but that so we can tell others.
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  • Can tell others. are you at peace
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  • Are you at peace with your scars?
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  • With your scars? are you looking back with
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  • Are you looking back with gratitude, thanking god, or
  • 00:22:48.923 --> 00:22:51.058
  • Gratitude, thanking god, or are you looking back bitter,
  • 00:22:51.125 --> 00:22:52.793
  • Are you looking back bitter, wondering why it happened?
  • 00:22:52.860 --> 00:22:54.562
  • Wondering why it happened? have a new perspective.
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  • Have a new perspective. the scar means you're healed.
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  • The scar means you're healed. the scar means
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  • The scar means you're forgiven.
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  • You're forgiven. the scar means you can walk
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  • The scar means you can walk again.
  • 00:23:01.869 --> 00:23:02.837
  • Again. you may still have your mat.
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  • You may still have your mat. that's simply to remind you
  • 00:23:04.839 --> 00:23:06.440
  • That's simply to remind you of the greatness of god,
  • 00:23:06.507 --> 00:23:07.908
  • Of the greatness of god, and when you see other people
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  • And when you see other people who are wounded,
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  • Who are wounded, do like jesus.
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  • Do like jesus. tell them, "touch my scars.
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  • Tell them, "touch my scars. let me tell you what god
  • 00:23:14.882 --> 00:23:16.150
  • Let me tell you what god did for me.
  • 00:23:16.217 --> 00:23:16.817
  • Did for me. he can do for you."
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  • He can do for you." if you'll do this, i believe
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  • If you'll do this, i believe and declare god is going
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  • And declare god is going to take those ugly wounds
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  • To take those ugly wounds and turn them into scars
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  • And turn them into scars of beauty.
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  • Of beauty. what was meant for your harm,
  • 00:23:27.761 --> 00:23:29.296
  • What was meant for your harm, he's about to turn
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  • He's about to turn for your good.
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  • For your good. healing is coming.
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  • Healing is coming. freedom is coming.
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  • Freedom is coming. breakthroughs are coming.
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  • Breakthroughs are coming. victory is coming in jesus's
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  • Victory is coming in jesus's name, and if you receive it
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  • Name, and if you receive it can you say "amen" today?
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  • Can you say "amen" today? i'd like to give you an
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  • I'd like to give you an opportunity to make jesus
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  • Opportunity to make jesus the lord of your life.
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  • The lord of your life. would you pray with me?
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  • Would you pray with me? just say, lord jesus,
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  • Just say, lord jesus, i repent of my sins.
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  • I repent of my sins. come into my heart.
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  • Come into my heart. i make you my lord
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  • I make you my lord and savior.
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  • And savior. friends, if you prayed that
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  • Friends, if you prayed that simple prayer we believe
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  • Simple prayer we believe you got born again.
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  • Became a pathway to see god move in your life?
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  • Things we're believing for. when you start the year
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