Joel Osteen - The Rewards of Integrity

November 25, 2025 | 29:55

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Joel Osteen | Joel Osteen - The Rewards of Integrity | November 25, 2025
  • >> joel osteen: well, god
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  • >> joel osteen: well, god bless you.
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  • Bless you. it's a joy to come into your
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  • It's a joy to come into your homes.
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  • Homes. if you're ever in our area,
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  • If you're ever in our area, please stop by and be a part
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  • Please stop by and be a part of one of our services.
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  • Of one of our services. i promise you, we'll make you
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  • I promise you, we'll make you feel right at home.
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  • Feel right at home. i like to start with
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  • I like to start with something funny and i heard
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  • Something funny and i heard about this groom, during the
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  • About this groom, during the wedding rehearsal he said to
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  • Wedding rehearsal he said to the minister, "i'll make a
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  • The minister, "i'll make a deal with you.
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  • Deal with you. during the vows, if you'll
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  • During the vows, if you'll leave out all that honor,
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  • Leave out all that honor, obey, love stuff, i'll give
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  • Obey, love stuff, i'll give you a hundred dollars."
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  • You a hundred dollars." he slipped a hundred dollar
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  • He slipped a hundred dollar bill into the minister's
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  • Bill into the minister's hand, walked away with a
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  • Hand, walked away with a smile.
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  • Smile. the next day during the
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  • The next day during the ceremony, the minister said
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  • Ceremony, the minister said to him, "do you promise to
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  • To him, "do you promise to bow down before your wife,
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  • Bow down before your wife, take her breakfast in bed,
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  • Take her breakfast in bed, fulfill her every desire?"
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  • Fulfill her every desire?" he gulped in astonishment,
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  • He gulped in astonishment, said in a weak voice, "i do."
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  • Said in a weak voice, "i do." he then whispered in the
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  • He then whispered in the minister's ear, "hey, i
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  • Minister's ear, "hey, i thought we had a deal."
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  • Thought we had a deal." the minister handed him his
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  • The minister handed him his money back and said, "your
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  • Money back and said, "your wife made me a much better
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  • Wife made me a much better offer."
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  • Offer." say it like you mean it,
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  • Say it like you mean it, "this is my bible.
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  • "this is my bible. i am what it says i am.
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  • I am what it says i am. i have what it says i have.
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  • I have what it says i have. i can do what it says i can
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  • I can do what it says i can do.
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  • Do. today, i will be taught the
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  • Today, i will be taught the word of god.
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  • Word of god. i boldly confess, my mind is
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  • I boldly confess, my mind is alert, my heart is receptive.
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  • Alert, my heart is receptive. i will never be the same.
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  • I will never be the same. in jesus's name."
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  • In jesus's name." god bless you.
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  • God bless you. i want to talk to you today
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  • I want to talk to you today about the rewards of
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  • About the rewards of integrity.
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  • Integrity. there's a lot of compromise
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  • There's a lot of compromise in our society, people that
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  • In our society, people that think nothing about being
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  • Think nothing about being dishonest, make underhanded
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  • Dishonest, make underhanded deals, not keeping their
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  • Deals, not keeping their word.
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  • Word. they wonder why they can't
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  • They wonder why they can't get ahead.
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  • Get ahead. it's because they don't have
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  • It's because they don't have integrity.
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  • Integrity. integrity is the foundation
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  • Integrity is the foundation that a successful life is
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  • That a successful life is built on.
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  • Built on. you can have talent, vision,
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  • You can have talent, vision, determination, but without
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  • Determination, but without integrity, you won't reach
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  • Integrity, you won't reach your highest potential.
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  • Your highest potential. now, a person of integrity
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  • Now, a person of integrity does the right thing when no
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  • Does the right thing when no one is watching.
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  • One is watching. they don't play on the
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  • They don't play on the computer because the boss
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  • Computer because the boss stepped away.
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  • Stepped away. they don't leave someone out
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  • They don't leave someone out of a commission because they
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  • Of a commission because they didn't know about the sale.
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  • Didn't know about the sale. they don't cut corners at the
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  • They don't cut corners at the job site because nobody will
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  • Job site because nobody will find out about it.
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  • Find out about it. they give it their best
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  • They give it their best whether anyone is there or
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  • Whether anyone is there or not.
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  • Not. when you have integrity, you
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  • When you have integrity, you don't take supplies from the
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  • Don't take supplies from the office to bring home to use.
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  • Office to bring home to use. you don't show up late to
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  • You don't show up late to work and have somebody clock
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  • Work and have somebody clock in earlier for you.
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  • In earlier for you. you don't spend half the day
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  • You don't spend half the day making personal phone calls
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  • Making personal phone calls at the office.
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  • At the office. "well, they don't pay me
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  • "well, they don't pay me enough anyway."
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  • Enough anyway." maybe not, but that's not
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  • Maybe not, but that's not integrity.
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  • Integrity. if you'll do the right thing,
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  • If you'll do the right thing, god will make it up to you.
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  • God will make it up to you. he's keeping the records.
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  • He's keeping the records. many things we face are
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  • Many things we face are simply tests.
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  • Simply tests. god is seeing, are we ready
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  • God is seeing, are we ready to go higher?
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  • To go higher? maybe the bank teller gives
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  • Maybe the bank teller gives you too much money in return,
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  • You too much money in return, are you going to have
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  • Are you going to have integrity, go back and make
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  • Integrity, go back and make things right, or are you
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  • Things right, or are you gonna say, "thank you jesus,
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  • Gonna say, "thank you jesus, you did it again"?
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  • You did it again"? that is not the answer to
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  • That is not the answer to your prayer.
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  • Your prayer. do you call in sick to work,
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  • Do you call in sick to work, coughing, sniffling so you
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  • Coughing, sniffling so you can take the day off and go
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  • Can take the day off and go shopping?
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  • Shopping? you could win an academy
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  • You could win an academy award with that performance,
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  • Award with that performance, but that's not integrity.
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  • But that's not integrity. don't be surprised if you
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  • Don't be surprised if you can't find anything at the
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  • Can't find anything at the store.
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  • Store. they don't have your size,
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  • They don't have your size, nobody will wait on you,
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  • Nobody will wait on you, traffic's backed up.
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  • Traffic's backed up. maybe it's because there's no
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  • Maybe it's because there's no blessing on it.
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  • Blessing on it. we can't deceive people and
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  • We can't deceive people and expect to have his favor.
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  • Expect to have his favor. when somebody knocks on your
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  • When somebody knocks on your door at home and you don't
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  • Door at home and you don't feel like visiting, do you
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  • Feel like visiting, do you tell your child, "go answer,
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  • Tell your child, "go answer, tell them i'm not here."
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  • Tell them i'm not here." that works, but it's not
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  • That works, but it's not integrity.
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  • Integrity. don't complain when your
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  • Don't complain when your child doesn't tell the truth.
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  • Child doesn't tell the truth. we're leading by example.
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  • We're leading by example. we can tell our children, "do
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  • We can tell our children, "do the right thing.
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  • The right thing. stay on the high road," but
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  • Stay on the high road," but if they see us compromising,
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  • If they see us compromising, they're going to do the same
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  • They're going to do the same thing.
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  • Thing. when you integrity, you pay
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  • When you integrity, you pay your bills, you don't sweep
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  • Your bills, you don't sweep things under the rug.
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  • Things under the rug. you keep your commitments.
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  • You keep your commitments. don't buy things that you
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  • Don't buy things that you know you can't pay for.
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  • Know you can't pay for. "well, joel, i'm stretching
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  • "well, joel, i'm stretching my faith.
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  • My faith. i'm believing for increase."
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  • I'm believing for increase." stretch your faith before you
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  • Stretch your faith before you sign on the dotted line.
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  • Sign on the dotted line. let god bless you first.
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  • Let god bless you first. once you have the funds, then
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  • Once you have the funds, then you can purchase it but it's
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  • You can purchase it but it's not integrity to make
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  • Not integrity to make commitments that you know
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  • Commitments that you know you're not going to be able
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  • You're not going to be able to keep.
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  • To keep. don't promise people the moon
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  • Don't promise people the moon when you know you can't get
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  • When you know you can't get to the clouds.
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  • To the clouds. don't write a check and then
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  • Don't write a check and then pray for three days hoping
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  • Pray for three days hoping it'll clear.
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  • It'll clear. check your balance first.
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  • Check your balance first. be honest, be trustworthy, be
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  • Be honest, be trustworthy, be a person of your word.
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  • A person of your word. your reputation is one of the
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  • Your reputation is one of the most valuable things you
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  • Most valuable things you have.
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  • Have. proverbs says, "a good name
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  • Proverbs says, "a good name is worth more than great
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  • Is worth more than great riches."
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  • Riches." you can have great wealth and
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  • You can have great wealth and be looked down on, seen as
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  • Be looked down on, seen as shady but when you're a
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  • Shady but when you're a person of integrity, when
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  • Person of integrity, when people look at you and think,
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  • People look at you and think, "i can trust them.
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  • "i can trust them. they always do the right
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  • They always do the right thing.
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  • Thing. they're honest, they're fair.
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  • They're honest, they're fair. they don't talk to me one way
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  • They don't talk to me one way and then talk to my friends
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  • And then talk to my friends behind my back another way.
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  • Behind my back another way. they're consistent."
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  • They're consistent." your reputation is too
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  • Your reputation is too important to let it become
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  • Important to let it become tarnished by not having
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  • Tarnished by not having integrity.
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  • Integrity. when you do the right thing,
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  • When you do the right thing, when you stay on the high
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  • When you stay on the high road, that will take you much
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  • Road, that will take you much further than being dishonest,
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  • Further than being dishonest, manipulating, trying to gain
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  • Manipulating, trying to gain an unfair advantage.
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  • An unfair advantage. we can't turn in an
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  • We can't turn in an exaggerated expense account
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  • Exaggerated expense account and expect to be blessed.
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  • And expect to be blessed. we can't be deceitful on
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  • We can't be deceitful on taxes and expect to have
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  • Taxes and expect to have god's favor.
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  • God's favor. i knew a man, he tapped into
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  • I knew a man, he tapped into the cable line behind his
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  • The cable line behind his house and brought cable into
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  • House and brought cable into his home without paying for
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  • His home without paying for it.
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  • It. he was so proud of it, he
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  • He was so proud of it, he bragged to us for years how
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  • Bragged to us for years how he was saving $40 a month.
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  • He was saving $40 a month. that man never did rise out
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  • That man never did rise out of mediocrity, constantly
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  • Of mediocrity, constantly struggled, barely got by.
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  • Struggled, barely got by. he thought he was gaining an
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  • He thought he was gaining an advantage.
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  • Advantage. the truth is, he was putting
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  • The truth is, he was putting himself at a disadvantage.
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  • Himself at a disadvantage. you may gain with people,
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  • You may gain with people, gain some material things,
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  • Gain some material things, but what if you lose with
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  • But what if you lose with god?
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  • God? he controls the universe.
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  • He controls the universe. he's the one that can open
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  • He's the one that can open the windows of help and pour
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  • The windows of help and pour out blessings that you can't
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  • Out blessings that you can't contain.
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  • Contain. i would rather have favor
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  • I would rather have favor with god than favor with
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  • With god than favor with people.
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  • People. that man would have been
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  • That man would have been better off to pay the $40 so
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  • Better off to pay the $40 so he could have god's blessing.
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  • He could have god's blessing. there's a lot we can get by
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  • There's a lot we can get by with, hide, exaggerate, but
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  • With, hide, exaggerate, but anything we gain without
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  • Anything we gain without integrity won't be as good as
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  • Integrity won't be as good as it could have been.
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  • It could have been. it's better to be truthful
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  • It's better to be truthful and have less, then god's
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  • And have less, then god's favor will take you further.
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  • Favor will take you further. john chapter 1, jesus saw a
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  • John chapter 1, jesus saw a man named nathanael coming
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  • Man named nathanael coming toward him.
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  • Toward him. verse 47 says, "jesus knew
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  • Verse 47 says, "jesus knew nathanael's thoughts.
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  • Nathanael's thoughts. he honored him saying, 'here
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  • He honored him saying, 'here comes a man in whom there is
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  • Comes a man in whom there is no deceit, an upright, honest
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  • No deceit, an upright, honest man that is free from
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  • Man that is free from hypocrisy and double
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  • Hypocrisy and double standards.'"
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  • Standards.'" that should be our goal.
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  • That should be our goal. "god, i want to be so above
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  • "god, i want to be so above board, so full of integrity,
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  • Board, so full of integrity, that you'll describe me like
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  • That you'll describe me like you describe nathaniel, that
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  • You describe nathaniel, that there is no deceit in me."
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  • There is no deceit in me." "well, joel, that's not me."
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  • "well, joel, that's not me." maybe not yet, but it can be.
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  • Maybe not yet, but it can be. you can become a nathaniel.
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  • You can become a nathaniel. you can make decisions that
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  • You can make decisions that honor god.
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  • Honor god. when you have integrity,
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  • When you have integrity, you're the same in private as
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  • You're the same in private as you are in public.
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  • You are in public. we don't treat people at work
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  • We don't treat people at work nice and kind and then come
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  • Nice and kind and then come home and be rude and harsh to
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  • Home and be rude and harsh to your family.
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  • Your family. that's not integrity, that's
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  • That's not integrity, that's hypocrisy.
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  • Hypocrisy. you should treat your family
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  • You should treat your family better than you treat anyone
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  • Better than you treat anyone else.
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  • Else. don't be kinder to strangers
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  • Don't be kinder to strangers than you are to your own
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  • Than you are to your own spouse.
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  • Spouse. don't be more considerate to
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  • Don't be more considerate to coworkers than you are to the
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  • Coworkers than you are to the people that live in your own
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  • People that live in your own house.
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  • House. be consistent.
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  • Be consistent. some people on sundays is,
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  • Some people on sundays is, "god bless you, great to see
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  • "god bless you, great to see you."
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  • You." they'll wave real big, real
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  • They'll wave real big, real friendly but on mondays, if
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  • Friendly but on mondays, if you cut them off in traffic,
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  • You cut them off in traffic, they'll wave with one finger
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  • They'll wave with one finger in the air.
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  • In the air. that's being two faced.
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  • That's being two faced. that's a pretender.
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  • That's a pretender. you have to get honest with
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  • You have to get honest with yourself.
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  • Yourself. i'm not asking you to be
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  • I'm not asking you to be perfect, i'm asking you to be
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  • Perfect, i'm asking you to be real.
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  • Real. you'll never change if you
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  • You'll never change if you don't first acknowledge that
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  • Don't first acknowledge that there's some pretending going
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  • There's some pretending going on.
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  • On. the next time you're tempted
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  • The next time you're tempted to switch over to the pretend
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  • To switch over to the pretend you, the compromising you,
  • 00:09:04.066 --> 00:09:05.968
  • You, the compromising you, the dishonest you, put your
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  • The dishonest you, put your foot down.
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  • Foot down. say, "no, i'm not going
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  • Say, "no, i'm not going there.
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  • There. that is not who i am.
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  • That is not who i am. that's an imitation.
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  • That's an imitation. i am kind, loving, honest,
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  • I am kind, loving, honest, trustworthy, calm,
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  • Trustworthy, calm, consistent."
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  • Consistent." you talk to your ourself that
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  • You talk to your ourself that way long enough and you'll
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  • Way long enough and you'll have integrity with yourself.
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  • Have integrity with yourself. you'll become consistent the
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  • You'll become consistent the same on monday as you are on
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  • Same on monday as you are on sunday, the same at work as
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  • Sunday, the same at work as you are at home.
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  • You are at home. this is what i saw growing up
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  • This is what i saw growing up with my parents.
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  • With my parents. they were the same in the
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  • They were the same in the pulpit as they were at home.
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  • Pulpit as they were at home. they weren't loving in public
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  • They weren't loving in public and then hateful in private.
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  • And then hateful in private. i believe this is one reason
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  • I believe this is one reason that all of us kids, with the
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  • That all of us kids, with the exception of my brother paul,
  • 00:09:47.143 --> 00:09:48.577
  • Exception of my brother paul, turned out okay.
  • 00:09:48.644 --> 00:09:49.845
  • Turned out okay. you can fool a lot of people,
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  • You can fool a lot of people, but you can't fool your
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  • But you can't fool your children.
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  • Children. they know when there's a
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  • They know when there's a double standard, they know
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  • Double standard, they know when there's not integrity.
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  • When there's not integrity. our son jonathan gave me a
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  • Our son jonathan gave me a compliment a while back on my
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  • Compliment a while back on my birthday.
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  • Birthday. he wrote, "my dad is one of
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  • He wrote, "my dad is one of the kindness people i know.
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  • The kindness people i know. he treats everyone he meets
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  • He treats everyone he meets with respect."
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  • With respect." i didn't know that he really
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  • I didn't know that he really noticed, but people are
  • 00:10:14.236 --> 00:10:16.072
  • Noticed, but people are watching.
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  • Watching. parents, we are leading by
  • 00:10:17.506 --> 00:10:18.908
  • Parents, we are leading by example.
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  • Example. this is not to make us feel
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  • This is not to make us feel pressured, but to make us
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  • Pressured, but to make us strive to excel, to be
  • 00:10:23.245 --> 00:10:25.648
  • Strive to excel, to be honorable, trustworthy, kind,
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  • Honorable, trustworthy, kind, people that stay on the high
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  • People that stay on the high road.
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  • Road. when you have integrity,
  • 00:10:30.886 --> 00:10:32.621
  • When you have integrity, you're not making underhanded
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  • You're not making underhanded deals, hoping that nobody
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  • Deals, hoping that nobody sees you.
  • 00:10:36.158 --> 00:10:37.493
  • Sees you. if you have to hide what
  • 00:10:37.560 --> 00:10:38.894
  • If you have to hide what you're doing, it's probably
  • 00:10:38.961 --> 00:10:40.429
  • You're doing, it's probably not integrity.
  • 00:10:40.496 --> 00:10:42.198
  • Not integrity. i've heard it said, don't do
  • 00:10:42.264 --> 00:10:43.632
  • I've heard it said, don't do anything you wouldn't want to
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  • Anything you wouldn't want to read about the next day in
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  • Read about the next day in the newspaper.
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  • The newspaper. i was at a restaurant years
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  • I was at a restaurant years ago in another city.
  • 00:10:50.706 --> 00:10:52.508
  • Ago in another city. we were traveling to an
  • 00:10:52.575 --> 00:10:53.542
  • We were traveling to an event.
  • 00:10:53.609 --> 00:10:54.677
  • Event. i had brought some lemons in
  • 00:10:54.744 --> 00:10:56.312
  • I had brought some lemons in the car that i wanted to cut
  • 00:10:56.378 --> 00:10:58.214
  • The car that i wanted to cut and squeeze into an energy
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  • And squeeze into an energy drink before i spoke, but i
  • 00:10:59.648 --> 00:11:01.884
  • Drink before i spoke, but i forgot the knife.
  • 00:11:01.951 --> 00:11:03.586
  • Forgot the knife. we were going straight to the
  • 00:11:03.652 --> 00:11:04.653
  • We were going straight to the meeting, didn't have much
  • 00:11:04.720 --> 00:11:05.688
  • Meeting, didn't have much time, so i thought, maybe at
  • 00:11:05.755 --> 00:11:07.757
  • Time, so i thought, maybe at this restaurant, i can take
  • 00:11:07.823 --> 00:11:09.358
  • This restaurant, i can take one of their knives.
  • 00:11:09.425 --> 00:11:11.093
  • One of their knives. after all, i'm paying a lot
  • 00:11:11.160 --> 00:11:12.394
  • After all, i'm paying a lot for this meal.
  • 00:11:12.461 --> 00:11:13.562
  • For this meal. just a 3 dollar knife,
  • 00:11:13.629 --> 00:11:15.030
  • Just a 3 dollar knife, they're not gonna miss it.
  • 00:11:15.097 --> 00:11:15.798
  • They're not gonna miss it. they're not gonna care.
  • 00:11:15.865 --> 00:11:16.766
  • They're not gonna care. started reasoning it out,
  • 00:11:16.832 --> 00:11:18.801
  • Started reasoning it out, trying to justify taking a
  • 00:11:18.868 --> 00:11:20.636
  • Trying to justify taking a knife.
  • 00:11:20.703 --> 00:11:21.670
  • Knife. i thought, how am i gonna get
  • 00:11:21.737 --> 00:11:23.439
  • I thought, how am i gonna get it out of here?
  • 00:11:23.506 --> 00:11:24.707
  • It out of here? the only way is to hide it.
  • 00:11:24.774 --> 00:11:27.109
  • The only way is to hide it. i thought, i can't do that.
  • 00:11:27.176 --> 00:11:28.778
  • I thought, i can't do that. i'll get victoria to do it
  • 00:11:28.844 --> 00:11:30.179
  • I'll get victoria to do it for me, my parter in crime.
  • 00:11:30.246 --> 00:11:35.117
  • For me, my parter in crime. i finally came to my senses.
  • 00:11:35.184 --> 00:11:36.485
  • I finally came to my senses. joel, you're a pastor, you
  • 00:11:36.552 --> 00:11:37.853
  • Joel, you're a pastor, you are not gonna go out of here
  • 00:11:37.920 --> 00:11:39.655
  • Are not gonna go out of here hiding a piece of silverware.
  • 00:11:39.722 --> 00:11:42.525
  • Hiding a piece of silverware. i called the waiter over said
  • 00:11:42.591 --> 00:11:44.260
  • I called the waiter over said sir, i need a favor.
  • 00:11:44.326 --> 00:11:45.561
  • Sir, i need a favor. can i buy this knife?
  • 00:11:45.628 --> 00:11:47.429
  • Can i buy this knife? he went and talked to the
  • 00:11:47.496 --> 00:11:48.230
  • He went and talked to the manager, came back, brought
  • 00:11:48.297 --> 00:11:49.965
  • Manager, came back, brought me a set of silverware in a
  • 00:11:50.032 --> 00:11:51.300
  • Me a set of silverware in a bag said, "the manager said
  • 00:11:51.367 --> 00:11:53.068
  • Bag said, "the manager said you can have it."
  • 00:11:53.135 --> 00:11:54.436
  • You can have it." i thought, "lord, thank you,
  • 00:11:54.503 --> 00:11:55.604
  • I thought, "lord, thank you, kept me out of prison."
  • 00:11:55.671 --> 00:11:56.605
  • Kept me out of prison." but here's my point, it's
  • 00:11:56.672 --> 00:11:59.375
  • But here's my point, it's much better to be open and
  • 00:11:59.441 --> 00:12:02.778
  • Much better to be open and honest.
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  • Honest. i probably could have walked
  • 00:12:03.479 --> 00:12:05.047
  • I probably could have walked out of there with some
  • 00:12:05.114 --> 00:12:06.649
  • Out of there with some silverware hidden.
  • 00:12:06.715 --> 00:12:08.184
  • Silverware hidden. they may not have seen it but
  • 00:12:08.250 --> 00:12:09.819
  • They may not have seen it but here's the problem, god could
  • 00:12:09.885 --> 00:12:11.620
  • Here's the problem, god could have seen it.
  • 00:12:11.687 --> 00:12:12.922
  • Have seen it. the scripture says, "it's the
  • 00:12:12.988 --> 00:12:14.456
  • The scripture says, "it's the little foxes that spoil the
  • 00:12:14.523 --> 00:12:16.325
  • Little foxes that spoil the vines."
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  • Vines." i doubt many of you have big
  • 00:12:17.793 --> 00:12:20.029
  • I doubt many of you have big areas where you're lacking
  • 00:12:20.095 --> 00:12:21.564
  • Areas where you're lacking integrity, but maybe there's
  • 00:12:21.630 --> 00:12:23.332
  • Integrity, but maybe there's some small things.
  • 00:12:23.399 --> 00:12:24.867
  • Some small things. the good news is it's not
  • 00:12:24.934 --> 00:12:26.101
  • The good news is it's not hard to correct, just takes a
  • 00:12:26.168 --> 00:12:28.037
  • Hard to correct, just takes a little effort, digging down
  • 00:12:28.103 --> 00:12:29.872
  • Little effort, digging down deeper to do the right thing.
  • 00:12:29.939 --> 00:12:32.274
  • Deeper to do the right thing. it means getting out of ruts
  • 00:12:32.341 --> 00:12:34.944
  • It means getting out of ruts where we've gotten
  • 00:12:35.010 --> 00:12:35.644
  • Where we've gotten comfortable compromising,
  • 00:12:35.711 --> 00:12:37.613
  • Comfortable compromising, doing things that are less
  • 00:12:37.680 --> 00:12:38.981
  • Doing things that are less than our best.
  • 00:12:39.048 --> 00:12:40.749
  • Than our best. david said in psalm 101, "i
  • 00:12:40.816 --> 00:12:43.853
  • David said in psalm 101, "i will lead a life of integrity
  • 00:12:43.919 --> 00:12:46.388
  • Will lead a life of integrity in my own home."
  • 00:12:46.455 --> 00:12:48.224
  • In my own home." he was saying, "when nobody
  • 00:12:48.290 --> 00:12:49.959
  • He was saying, "when nobody can see me, i'm going to do
  • 00:12:50.025 --> 00:12:51.794
  • Can see me, i'm going to do the right thing.
  • 00:12:51.861 --> 00:12:53.395
  • The right thing. when i could slack off,
  • 00:12:53.462 --> 00:12:55.331
  • When i could slack off, compromise, give into
  • 00:12:55.397 --> 00:12:56.832
  • Compromise, give into temptation, be dishonest,
  • 00:12:56.899 --> 00:12:59.034
  • Temptation, be dishonest, instead i'm going to take the
  • 00:12:59.101 --> 00:13:01.203
  • Instead i'm going to take the right road.
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  • Right road. i'm going to be a person of
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  • I'm going to be a person of excellence.
  • 00:13:03.339 --> 00:13:04.106
  • Excellence. i'm going to show god he can
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  • I'm going to show god he can trust me."
  • 00:13:06.008 --> 00:13:07.543
  • Trust me." he went on to say, "i will
  • 00:13:07.610 --> 00:13:09.311
  • He went on to say, "i will not look at anything impure,
  • 00:13:09.378 --> 00:13:12.147
  • Not look at anything impure, not gonna watch things that
  • 00:13:12.214 --> 00:13:13.382
  • Not gonna watch things that poison me."
  • 00:13:13.449 --> 00:13:14.750
  • Poison me." verse 3 says, "i will not
  • 00:13:14.817 --> 00:13:16.385
  • Verse 3 says, "i will not have crooked dealings, not
  • 00:13:16.452 --> 00:13:18.454
  • Have crooked dealings, not gonna get involved in things
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  • Gonna get involved in things that are shady and
  • 00:13:19.922 --> 00:13:21.090
  • That are shady and underhanded, unethical.
  • 00:13:21.156 --> 00:13:23.759
  • Underhanded, unethical. david wasn't perfect, but he
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  • David wasn't perfect, but he made up his mind he was going
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  • Made up his mind he was going to walk in integrity starting
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  • To walk in integrity starting in his own home, starting in
  • 00:13:30.132 --> 00:13:32.268
  • In his own home, starting in his private life.
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  • His private life. we can fool a lot of people
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  • We can fool a lot of people in public, but what god is
  • 00:13:35.905 --> 00:13:37.873
  • In public, but what god is concerned with is what goes
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  • Concerned with is what goes on behind closed doors.
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  • On behind closed doors. the scripture talks about the
  • 00:13:42.411 --> 00:13:43.812
  • The scripture talks about the hidden man of our heart,
  • 00:13:43.879 --> 00:13:45.915
  • Hidden man of our heart, that's our motives, what we
  • 00:13:45.981 --> 00:13:47.616
  • That's our motives, what we do in secret.
  • 00:13:47.683 --> 00:13:49.251
  • Do in secret. how you live in private will
  • 00:13:49.318 --> 00:13:51.420
  • How you live in private will determine how high you go in
  • 00:13:51.487 --> 00:13:53.522
  • Determine how high you go in public.
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  • Public. and people may not be
  • 00:13:54.924 --> 00:13:55.925
  • And people may not be watching, but god is
  • 00:13:55.991 --> 00:13:57.526
  • Watching, but god is watching.
  • 00:13:57.593 --> 00:13:58.794
  • Watching. don't take that as something
  • 00:13:58.861 --> 00:14:00.029
  • Don't take that as something negative like, "oh man, i'm
  • 00:14:00.095 --> 00:14:01.397
  • Negative like, "oh man, i'm gonna get caught.
  • 00:14:01.463 --> 00:14:02.097
  • Gonna get caught. i'm in trouble."
  • 00:14:02.164 --> 00:14:03.165
  • I'm in trouble." take it as a challenge.
  • 00:14:03.232 --> 00:14:04.633
  • Take it as a challenge. god is watching to see when
  • 00:14:04.700 --> 00:14:06.635
  • God is watching to see when he can promote you.
  • 00:14:06.702 --> 00:14:08.203
  • He can promote you. he's waiting to see when you
  • 00:14:08.270 --> 00:14:09.939
  • He's waiting to see when you pass these tests so he can
  • 00:14:10.005 --> 00:14:11.840
  • Pass these tests so he can take you to new levels.
  • 00:14:11.907 --> 00:14:12.875
  • Take you to new levels. i wonder how much higher we
  • 00:14:12.942 --> 00:14:16.111
  • I wonder how much higher we would go, how much more favor
  • 00:14:16.178 --> 00:14:18.180
  • Would go, how much more favor and promotion we'd see if we
  • 00:14:18.247 --> 00:14:20.582
  • And promotion we'd see if we would deal with the areas
  • 00:14:20.649 --> 00:14:22.618
  • Would deal with the areas that we know are holding us
  • 00:14:22.685 --> 00:14:24.053
  • That we know are holding us back.
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  • Back. start make things right,
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  • Start make things right, having integrity in your
  • 00:14:27.156 --> 00:14:28.357
  • Having integrity in your finances, in your
  • 00:14:28.424 --> 00:14:29.725
  • Finances, in your relationships, in how you
  • 00:14:29.792 --> 00:14:31.293
  • Relationships, in how you treat people.
  • 00:14:31.360 --> 00:14:32.428
  • Treat people. "well joel, i didn't want to
  • 00:14:32.494 --> 00:14:33.762
  • "well joel, i didn't want to hear about integrity today.
  • 00:14:33.829 --> 00:14:35.364
  • Hear about integrity today. i wanted to hear about
  • 00:14:35.431 --> 00:14:36.598
  • I wanted to hear about prosperity."
  • 00:14:36.665 --> 00:14:37.900
  • Prosperity." you will never have
  • 00:14:37.967 --> 00:14:38.834
  • You will never have prosperity if you don't first
  • 00:14:38.901 --> 00:14:40.803
  • Prosperity if you don't first have integrity.
  • 00:14:40.869 --> 00:14:42.037
  • Have integrity. the two go hand in hand.
  • 00:14:42.104 --> 00:14:45.307
  • The two go hand in hand. i was at a music store with
  • 00:14:45.374 --> 00:14:46.909
  • I was at a music store with jonathan when he was ten
  • 00:14:46.976 --> 00:14:48.377
  • Jonathan when he was ten years old and buying some
  • 00:14:48.444 --> 00:14:50.012
  • Years old and buying some equipment for his guitar.
  • 00:14:50.079 --> 00:14:51.947
  • Equipment for his guitar. when i went to pay, the man
  • 00:14:52.014 --> 00:14:53.782
  • When i went to pay, the man told me that lakewood had an
  • 00:14:53.849 --> 00:14:55.250
  • Told me that lakewood had an account there and we could
  • 00:14:55.317 --> 00:14:56.885
  • Account there and we could put it on that account.
  • 00:14:56.952 --> 00:14:57.853
  • Put it on that account. and i told him that this was
  • 00:14:57.920 --> 00:14:59.621
  • And i told him that this was personal and i didn't want to
  • 00:14:59.688 --> 00:15:00.923
  • Personal and i didn't want to do that.
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  • Do that. he gave me the bill and the
  • 00:15:02.157 --> 00:15:03.926
  • He gave me the bill and the tax on it was $20.
  • 00:15:03.993 --> 00:15:05.127
  • Tax on it was $20. he said, "at least let me put
  • 00:15:05.194 --> 00:15:07.930
  • He said, "at least let me put this under lakewood's name,
  • 00:15:07.997 --> 00:15:09.798
  • This under lakewood's name, that way you won't have to
  • 00:15:09.865 --> 00:15:11.200
  • That way you won't have to pay the tax."
  • 00:15:11.266 --> 00:15:12.568
  • Pay the tax." lakewood is a church and
  • 00:15:12.634 --> 00:15:13.836
  • Lakewood is a church and churches are tax exempt.
  • 00:15:13.902 --> 00:15:15.004
  • Churches are tax exempt. i said, "thanks so much but
  • 00:15:15.070 --> 00:15:16.905
  • I said, "thanks so much but no, i want to pay the tax
  • 00:15:16.972 --> 00:15:18.507
  • No, i want to pay the tax too.
  • 00:15:18.574 --> 00:15:19.141
  • Too. this is totally personal."
  • 00:15:19.208 --> 00:15:20.642
  • This is totally personal." he looked at me so strange,
  • 00:15:20.709 --> 00:15:22.911
  • He looked at me so strange, kind of shook his head like,
  • 00:15:22.978 --> 00:15:24.580
  • Kind of shook his head like, "man, you are way over board.
  • 00:15:24.646 --> 00:15:26.949
  • "man, you are way over board. nobody would know you didn't
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  • Nobody would know you didn't pay the tax.
  • 00:15:28.350 --> 00:15:29.685
  • Pay the tax. my company wouldn't know, the
  • 00:15:29.752 --> 00:15:31.120
  • My company wouldn't know, the church wouldn't know, the irs
  • 00:15:31.186 --> 00:15:32.921
  • Church wouldn't know, the irs wouldn't know."
  • 00:15:32.988 --> 00:15:34.089
  • Wouldn't know." what he didn't realize is
  • 00:15:34.156 --> 00:15:35.858
  • What he didn't realize is someone was watching more
  • 00:15:35.924 --> 00:15:38.060
  • Someone was watching more important than all those that
  • 00:15:38.127 --> 00:15:39.528
  • Important than all those that he mentioned, the most high
  • 00:15:39.595 --> 00:15:41.797
  • He mentioned, the most high god sees everything we do.
  • 00:15:41.864 --> 00:15:45.434
  • God sees everything we do. these are opportunities for
  • 00:15:45.501 --> 00:15:47.636
  • These are opportunities for us to pass the test.
  • 00:15:47.703 --> 00:15:50.105
  • Us to pass the test. if god can trust me to be
  • 00:15:50.172 --> 00:15:52.307
  • If god can trust me to be honest with $20, maybe he can
  • 00:15:52.374 --> 00:15:55.310
  • Honest with $20, maybe he can trust me to handle
  • 00:15:55.377 --> 00:15:56.478
  • Trust me to handle 20,000, or 20 million, or 200
  • 00:15:56.545 --> 00:15:59.848
  • 20,000, or 20 million, or 200 million.
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  • Million. i would hate to think i
  • 00:16:00.783 --> 00:16:02.084
  • I would hate to think i didn't reach my destiny
  • 00:16:02.151 --> 00:16:03.986
  • Didn't reach my destiny because of small things i
  • 00:16:04.053 --> 00:16:05.521
  • Because of small things i wasn't honest in, small areas
  • 00:16:05.587 --> 00:16:08.290
  • Wasn't honest in, small areas that i didn't pass the test.
  • 00:16:08.357 --> 00:16:10.292
  • That i didn't pass the test. sure, i could have saved $20,
  • 00:16:10.359 --> 00:16:11.693
  • Sure, i could have saved $20, but what is that in
  • 00:16:11.760 --> 00:16:14.196
  • But what is that in comparison to having the
  • 00:16:14.263 --> 00:16:15.764
  • Comparison to having the blessing and favor of the
  • 00:16:15.831 --> 00:16:17.900
  • Blessing and favor of the creator of the universe?
  • 00:16:17.966 --> 00:16:20.102
  • Creator of the universe? when god can trust you, when
  • 00:16:20.169 --> 00:16:22.471
  • When god can trust you, when you prove to him that you're
  • 00:16:22.538 --> 00:16:24.306
  • You prove to him that you're a person of integrity, there
  • 00:16:24.373 --> 00:16:26.308
  • A person of integrity, there is no limit to how high he
  • 00:16:26.375 --> 00:16:28.343
  • Is no limit to how high he will take you.
  • 00:16:28.410 --> 00:16:29.912
  • Will take you. i saw this with my father, he
  • 00:16:29.978 --> 00:16:32.047
  • I saw this with my father, he was a man of great integrity.
  • 00:16:32.114 --> 00:16:34.416
  • Was a man of great integrity. if there was the smallest
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  • If there was the smallest question of something not
  • 00:16:35.818 --> 00:16:37.619
  • Question of something not being above board, perfectly
  • 00:16:37.686 --> 00:16:39.254
  • Being above board, perfectly ethical, we wouldn't have
  • 00:16:39.321 --> 00:16:40.556
  • Ethical, we wouldn't have anything to do with it.
  • 00:16:40.622 --> 00:16:42.357
  • Anything to do with it. through the years, people
  • 00:16:42.424 --> 00:16:43.492
  • Through the years, people would bring deals by.
  • 00:16:43.559 --> 00:16:44.726
  • Would bring deals by. "hey, you got that big
  • 00:16:44.793 --> 00:16:46.328
  • "hey, you got that big church, all those people.
  • 00:16:46.395 --> 00:16:48.630
  • Church, all those people. you can take advantage of it,
  • 00:16:48.697 --> 00:16:49.898
  • You can take advantage of it, make some extra funds."
  • 00:16:49.965 --> 00:16:51.700
  • Make some extra funds." my father valued god's
  • 00:16:51.767 --> 00:16:53.836
  • My father valued god's blessing on his life more
  • 00:16:53.902 --> 00:16:55.971
  • Blessing on his life more than what any person could
  • 00:16:56.038 --> 00:16:57.106
  • Than what any person could come up with.
  • 00:16:57.172 --> 00:16:58.307
  • Come up with. he taught me to have a high
  • 00:16:58.373 --> 00:16:59.508
  • He taught me to have a high standard and if you don't
  • 00:16:59.575 --> 00:17:01.643
  • Standard and if you don't feel good about something,
  • 00:17:01.710 --> 00:17:03.479
  • Feel good about something, you have to talk yourself
  • 00:17:03.545 --> 00:17:04.580
  • You have to talk yourself into it, make excuses as to
  • 00:17:04.646 --> 00:17:06.648
  • Into it, make excuses as to why it's okay.
  • 00:17:06.715 --> 00:17:08.183
  • Why it's okay. it's not worth it.
  • 00:17:08.250 --> 00:17:09.785
  • It's not worth it. you will never go wrong by
  • 00:17:09.852 --> 00:17:11.887
  • You will never go wrong by taking the high road.
  • 00:17:11.954 --> 00:17:13.722
  • Taking the high road. short term, i could have
  • 00:17:13.789 --> 00:17:15.023
  • Short term, i could have saved 20 bucks, longterm i
  • 00:17:15.090 --> 00:17:18.327
  • Saved 20 bucks, longterm i may not be where i am.
  • 00:17:18.393 --> 00:17:20.562
  • May not be where i am. prove to god that he can
  • 00:17:20.629 --> 00:17:22.498
  • Prove to god that he can trust you, that you'll go the
  • 00:17:22.564 --> 00:17:24.633
  • Trust you, that you'll go the extra mile to do what's
  • 00:17:24.700 --> 00:17:26.368
  • Extra mile to do what's right.
  • 00:17:26.435 --> 00:17:27.569
  • Right. you may have to say no to
  • 00:17:27.636 --> 00:17:28.904
  • You may have to say no to some things that people don't
  • 00:17:28.971 --> 00:17:30.305
  • Some things that people don't understand, not do what all
  • 00:17:30.372 --> 00:17:32.508
  • Understand, not do what all your coworkers do.
  • 00:17:32.574 --> 00:17:34.309
  • Your coworkers do. maybe they're fine with
  • 00:17:34.376 --> 00:17:35.310
  • Maybe they're fine with slacking up.
  • 00:17:35.377 --> 00:17:36.778
  • Slacking up. they're okay with spending
  • 00:17:36.845 --> 00:17:37.946
  • They're okay with spending company money on personal
  • 00:17:38.013 --> 00:17:39.781
  • Company money on personal things.
  • 00:17:39.848 --> 00:17:40.716
  • Things. don't judge them.
  • 00:17:40.782 --> 00:17:42.217
  • Don't judge them. that's not our business, but
  • 00:17:42.284 --> 00:17:43.952
  • That's not our business, but don't become like them.
  • 00:17:44.019 --> 00:17:46.021
  • Don't become like them. don't lower your standards.
  • 00:17:46.088 --> 00:17:47.723
  • Don't lower your standards. they're not going where
  • 00:17:47.789 --> 00:17:48.757
  • They're not going where you're going.
  • 00:17:48.824 --> 00:17:50.492
  • You're going. you may not be able to do
  • 00:17:50.559 --> 00:17:52.094
  • You may not be able to do everything your family
  • 00:17:52.161 --> 00:17:53.428
  • Everything your family members do, watch what they
  • 00:17:53.495 --> 00:17:55.397
  • Members do, watch what they watch, do business like do
  • 00:17:55.464 --> 00:17:57.799
  • Watch, do business like do business.
  • 00:17:57.866 --> 00:17:58.967
  • Business. there's a price to pay to
  • 00:17:59.034 --> 00:18:01.069
  • There's a price to pay to become all you were created
  • 00:18:01.136 --> 00:18:02.838
  • Become all you were created to be.
  • 00:18:02.905 --> 00:18:03.872
  • To be. if it was easy, anybody would
  • 00:18:03.939 --> 00:18:05.774
  • If it was easy, anybody would do it.
  • 00:18:05.841 --> 00:18:06.909
  • Do it. this takes people that have a
  • 00:18:06.975 --> 00:18:08.243
  • This takes people that have a made up mind, "i'm going to
  • 00:18:08.310 --> 00:18:10.078
  • Made up mind, "i'm going to honor god, not gonna
  • 00:18:10.145 --> 00:18:11.813
  • Honor god, not gonna compromise, take shortcuts,
  • 00:18:11.880 --> 00:18:14.783
  • Compromise, take shortcuts, do things that are not
  • 00:18:14.850 --> 00:18:15.751
  • Do things that are not ethical.
  • 00:18:15.817 --> 00:18:16.785
  • Ethical. not gonna push people down to
  • 00:18:16.852 --> 00:18:18.387
  • Not gonna push people down to get an advantage, not gonna
  • 00:18:18.453 --> 00:18:20.155
  • Get an advantage, not gonna be sloppy in my business
  • 00:18:20.222 --> 00:18:21.623
  • Be sloppy in my business dealings.
  • 00:18:21.690 --> 00:18:22.491
  • Dealings. i'm going to be a person of
  • 00:18:22.558 --> 00:18:23.926
  • I'm going to be a person of integrity, trustworthy,
  • 00:18:23.992 --> 00:18:26.161
  • Integrity, trustworthy, honorable," that's the kind
  • 00:18:26.228 --> 00:18:27.629
  • Honorable," that's the kind of people that god rewards.
  • 00:18:27.696 --> 00:18:30.399
  • Of people that god rewards. sometimes when we compromise
  • 00:18:30.465 --> 00:18:32.568
  • Sometimes when we compromise and do things that are
  • 00:18:32.634 --> 00:18:33.502
  • And do things that are questionable, we think we're
  • 00:18:33.569 --> 00:18:35.437
  • Questionable, we think we're gaining an advantage with
  • 00:18:35.504 --> 00:18:36.872
  • Gaining an advantage with people.
  • 00:18:36.939 --> 00:18:37.839
  • People. we're getting the upper hand
  • 00:18:37.906 --> 00:18:39.841
  • We're getting the upper hand but when you walk in
  • 00:18:39.908 --> 00:18:40.842
  • But when you walk in integrity, you're gaining an
  • 00:18:40.909 --> 00:18:42.878
  • Integrity, you're gaining an advantage with god.
  • 00:18:42.945 --> 00:18:44.813
  • Advantage with god. his favor on your life will
  • 00:18:44.880 --> 00:18:46.982
  • His favor on your life will take you further than any
  • 00:18:47.049 --> 00:18:49.017
  • Take you further than any advantage with people.
  • 00:18:49.084 --> 00:18:51.286
  • Advantage with people. you may have made mistakes in
  • 00:18:51.353 --> 00:18:53.055
  • You may have made mistakes in the past, not had integrity
  • 00:18:53.121 --> 00:18:55.290
  • The past, not had integrity in certain areas, that's
  • 00:18:55.357 --> 00:18:56.158
  • In certain areas, that's okay, we all have.
  • 00:18:56.225 --> 00:18:57.626
  • Okay, we all have. my challenge is start make
  • 00:18:57.693 --> 00:18:59.995
  • My challenge is start make things right.
  • 00:19:00.062 --> 00:19:01.363
  • Things right. let today be a new day.
  • 00:19:01.430 --> 00:19:03.532
  • Let today be a new day. don't go the next 30 years
  • 00:19:03.599 --> 00:19:05.434
  • Don't go the next 30 years letting the same things hold
  • 00:19:05.500 --> 00:19:06.802
  • Letting the same things hold you back.
  • 00:19:06.868 --> 00:19:08.270
  • You back. when my father was in his 20s
  • 00:19:08.337 --> 00:19:10.706
  • When my father was in his 20s back in the 1940s, he bought
  • 00:19:10.772 --> 00:19:12.975
  • Back in the 1940s, he bought two suits on credit from a
  • 00:19:13.041 --> 00:19:15.277
  • Two suits on credit from a store in fort worth.
  • 00:19:15.344 --> 00:19:17.179
  • Store in fort worth. he had good intentions.
  • 00:19:17.246 --> 00:19:18.914
  • He had good intentions. he was planning on paying
  • 00:19:18.981 --> 00:19:20.048
  • He was planning on paying them back, but he got busy
  • 00:19:20.115 --> 00:19:21.583
  • Them back, but he got busy and things came up.
  • 00:19:21.650 --> 00:19:22.751
  • And things came up. he never did.
  • 00:19:22.818 --> 00:19:24.219
  • He never did. years went by and he'd
  • 00:19:24.286 --> 00:19:25.454
  • Years went by and he'd forgotten about it.
  • 00:19:25.520 --> 00:19:27.055
  • Forgotten about it. one day he was driving
  • 00:19:27.122 --> 00:19:28.156
  • One day he was driving through fort worth and
  • 00:19:28.223 --> 00:19:29.258
  • Through fort worth and suddenly he remembered.
  • 00:19:29.324 --> 00:19:31.093
  • Suddenly he remembered. it bothered him that he had
  • 00:19:31.159 --> 00:19:32.561
  • It bothered him that he had never paid that debt.
  • 00:19:32.628 --> 00:19:34.630
  • Never paid that debt. he got in the phone book but
  • 00:19:34.696 --> 00:19:36.164
  • He got in the phone book but couldn't find the name of the
  • 00:19:36.231 --> 00:19:37.566
  • Couldn't find the name of the company, so he drove to the
  • 00:19:37.633 --> 00:19:39.401
  • Company, so he drove to the location but they were closed
  • 00:19:39.468 --> 00:19:41.403
  • Location but they were closed down.
  • 00:19:41.470 --> 00:19:42.371
  • Down. the people next door said
  • 00:19:42.437 --> 00:19:43.905
  • The people next door said they had been out of business
  • 00:19:43.972 --> 00:19:45.040
  • They had been out of business for many years.
  • 00:19:45.107 --> 00:19:46.675
  • For many years. he would have thought, "i did
  • 00:19:46.742 --> 00:19:47.709
  • He would have thought, "i did my best, i tried."
  • 00:19:47.776 --> 00:19:49.177
  • My best, i tried." he didn't stop there.
  • 00:19:49.244 --> 00:19:50.679
  • He didn't stop there. he found out who the owners
  • 00:19:50.746 --> 00:19:52.180
  • He found out who the owners were.
  • 00:19:52.247 --> 00:19:53.115
  • Were. they had passed away, but he
  • 00:19:53.181 --> 00:19:55.017
  • They had passed away, but he was able to track down one of
  • 00:19:55.083 --> 00:19:56.485
  • Was able to track down one of their children.
  • 00:19:56.551 --> 00:19:57.819
  • Their children. he called this man, he was my
  • 00:19:57.886 --> 00:19:59.588
  • He called this man, he was my father's age, and explained
  • 00:19:59.655 --> 00:20:02.291
  • Father's age, and explained that he owed them for two
  • 00:20:02.357 --> 00:20:04.226
  • That he owed them for two suits he didn't pay for back
  • 00:20:04.293 --> 00:20:06.161
  • Suits he didn't pay for back in the 1940s.
  • 00:20:06.228 --> 00:20:07.763
  • In the 1940s. the man says, "sir, don't
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  • The man says, "sir, don't worry about it.
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  • Worry about it. we've been out of business.
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  • We've been out of business. we're all doing fine."
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  • We're all doing fine." my dad thanked him for being
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  • My dad thanked him for being so gracious but said, "no, i
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  • So gracious but said, "no, i still want to pay you."
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  • Still want to pay you." he drove to his house, gave
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  • He drove to his house, gave him a check with interest 40
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  • Him a check with interest 40 years later.
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  • Years later. no wonder god blessed my
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  • No wonder god blessed my father.
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  • Father. no wonder he took him higher
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  • No wonder he took him higher and higher.
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  • And higher. it wasn't that he just had
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  • It wasn't that he just had great talent, he had great
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  • Great talent, he had great integrity.
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  • Integrity. he was determined to make
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  • He was determined to make things right.
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  • Things right. there was a very wealthy man
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  • There was a very wealthy man that had a friend that was a
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  • That had a friend that was a builder.
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  • Builder. this builder had been down on
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  • This builder had been down on his luck and not had much
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  • His luck and not had much business.
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  • Business. the man felt sorry for him,
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  • The man felt sorry for him, decided to help him out.
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  • Decided to help him out. he gave him a set of plans
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  • He gave him a set of plans with a check for $200,000.
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  • With a check for $200,000. he said, "i want you to use
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  • He said, "i want you to use these funds to build me a new
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  • These funds to build me a new house.
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  • House. you handle all the details,
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  • You handle all the details, just call me when you're
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  • Just call me when you're done."
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  • Done." he assured him he would pay
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  • He assured him he would pay him very well if he'd do a
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  • Him very well if he'd do a good job.
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  • Good job. this builder was so excited
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  • This builder was so excited that he finally had some
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  • That he finally had some work, but he got to thinking
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  • Work, but he got to thinking if would cut a few corners,
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  • If would cut a few corners, save a little here, save a
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  • Save a little here, save a little there, he could pocket
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  • Little there, he could pocket some of that money without
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  • Some of that money without anybody knowing about it.
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  • Anybody knowing about it. so, he went out and found the
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  • So, he went out and found the cheapest concrete he could
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  • Cheapest concrete he could find, had the workers water
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  • Find, had the workers water it down so it could go
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  • It down so it could go further.
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  • Further. he saved several thousand
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  • He saved several thousand dollars on the foundation.
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  • Dollars on the foundation. he bought the cheapest
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  • He bought the cheapest lumber, some of it was old,
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  • Lumber, some of it was old, crooked, warped, he didn't
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  • Crooked, warped, he didn't care.
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  • Care. it was gonna be behind the
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  • It was gonna be behind the walls, nobody would see it.
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  • Walls, nobody would see it. he got the cheapest plumber,
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  • He got the cheapest plumber, cheapest electricity, on and
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  • Cheapest electricity, on and on right and left cutting
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  • On right and left cutting corners, pocketing the money.
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  • Corners, pocketing the money. when he finished, he had
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  • When he finished, he had saved nearly $40,000.
  • 00:21:47.796 --> 00:21:49.598
  • Saved nearly $40,000. he was so happy.
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  • He was so happy. he called the owner over to
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  • He called the owner over to look at the new house.
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  • Look at the new house. the owner was very impressed,
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  • The owner was very impressed, looked beautiful on the
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  • Looked beautiful on the outside.
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  • Outside. you couldn't tell he had cut
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  • You couldn't tell he had cut corners.
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  • Corners. this builder couldn't wait to
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  • This builder couldn't wait to see how much he was going to
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  • See how much he was going to get paid.
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  • Get paid. he knew the owner was a very
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  • He knew the owner was a very generous man.
  • 00:22:06.381 --> 00:22:08.016
  • Generous man. the owner said, "you know, i
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  • The owner said, "you know, i don't really need a new
  • 00:22:09.351 --> 00:22:10.385
  • Don't really need a new house.
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  • House. i have a beautiful one.
  • 00:22:11.286 --> 00:22:12.854
  • I have a beautiful one. i just wanted to help you
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  • I just wanted to help you out."
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  • Out." he handed him the keys and
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  • He handed him the keys and said, "here, you just built
  • 00:22:16.792 --> 00:22:18.493
  • Said, "here, you just built your own house."
  • 00:22:18.560 --> 00:22:20.762
  • Your own house." the builder nearly passed
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  • The builder nearly passed out.
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  • Out. he thought, "if i'd known it
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  • He thought, "if i'd known it was gonna be mine, i'd built
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  • Was gonna be mine, i'd built it a whole lot better."
  • 00:22:26.568 --> 00:22:28.503
  • It a whole lot better." we may not realize it, but we
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  • We may not realize it, but we are building our own house.
  • 00:22:30.739 --> 00:22:32.941
  • Are building our own house. we can cut corners here,
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  • We can cut corners here, compromise there.
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  • Compromise there. it's not hurting anyone
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  • It's not hurting anyone except ourselves.
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  • Except ourselves. everything may look fine on
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  • Everything may look fine on the outside, what matters is
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  • The outside, what matters is what's happening on the
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  • What's happening on the inside.
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  • Inside. are we watering down our
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  • Are we watering down our foundation, not being
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  • Foundation, not being trustworthy in commitments,
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  • Trustworthy in commitments, slacking off at the office?
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  • Slacking off at the office? what kind of materials are
  • 00:22:53.228 --> 00:22:54.963
  • What kind of materials are you putting into your house?
  • 00:22:55.030 --> 00:22:57.165
  • You putting into your house? i'm asking you to be a person
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  • I'm asking you to be a person of integrity, do the right
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  • Of integrity, do the right thing when nobody is
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  • Thing when nobody is watching.
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  • Watching. don't let small things keep
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  • Don't let small things keep you from the big destiny god
  • 00:23:06.575 --> 00:23:08.276
  • You from the big destiny god has in store.
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  • Has in store. start passing these tests, be
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  • Start passing these tests, be honorable, trustworthy, a
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  • Honorable, trustworthy, a person of your word.
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  • Person of your word. if you'll do this, i believe
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  • If you'll do this, i believe and declare because you walk
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  • And declare because you walk in integrity, god is going to
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  • In integrity, god is going to have a shield around you.
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  • Have a shield around you. he's going to keep you from
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  • He's going to keep you from making major mistakes.
  • 00:23:24.759 --> 00:23:26.728
  • Making major mistakes. you're not only going to be
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  • You're not only going to be protected, but you're going
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  • Protected, but you're going to see promotion, good
  • 00:23:29.431 --> 00:23:31.433
  • To see promotion, good breaks, new levels, the
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  • Breaks, new levels, the fullness of your destiny in
  • 00:23:33.335 --> 00:23:35.437
  • Fullness of your destiny in jesus's name.
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  • Jesus's name. and if you receive it, can
  • 00:23:36.905 --> 00:23:38.039
  • And if you receive it, can you say, "amen" today?
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  • I'd like to give you an
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  • I'd like to give you an opportunity to make jesus the
  • 00:23:42.177 --> 00:23:44.112
  • Opportunity to make jesus the lord of your life.
  • 00:23:44.179 --> 00:23:45.380
  • Lord of your life. would you pray with me?
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  • Would you pray with me? just say, "lord jesus, i
  • 00:23:47.115 --> 00:23:49.618
  • Just say, "lord jesus, i repent of my sins.
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  • Repent of my sins. come into my heart.
  • 00:23:52.287 --> 00:23:54.155
  • Come into my heart. i make you my lord and
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  • I make you my lord and savior."
  • 00:23:55.690 --> 00:23:57.492
  • Savior." if you prayed that simple
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  • If you prayed that simple prayer, we believe you got
  • 00:23:58.527 --> 00:24:00.195
  • Prayer, we believe you got born again.
  • 00:24:00.262 --> 00:24:01.396
  • Born again. get in a good bible-based
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  • Get in a good bible-based church, keep god first place.
  • 00:24:02.998 --> 00:24:05.567
  • Church, keep god first place. victoria and i will be right
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  • Victoria and i will be right back to speak a blessing over
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  • Back to speak a blessing over you.
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  • Your destiny is too great,
  • 00:24:09.004 --> 00:24:11.106
  • Your destiny is too great, your calling too important,
  • 00:24:11.172 --> 00:24:13.208
  • Your calling too important, and your future too bright
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  • And your future too bright to live in fear.
  • 00:24:15.043 --> 00:24:16.678
  • To live in fear. fear may knock,
  • 00:24:16.745 --> 00:24:17.979
  • Fear may knock, but you don't have
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  • But you don't have to let it in.
  • 00:24:18.980 --> 00:24:20.115
  • To let it in. it's time to let faith answer.
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  • It's time to let faith answer. fear is a powerful force,
  • 00:24:23.251 --> 00:24:24.786
  • Fear is a powerful force, but so is faith.
  • 00:24:24.853 --> 00:24:26.121
  • But so is faith. what we focus on shapes
  • 00:24:26.187 --> 00:24:27.622
  • What we focus on shapes our reality.
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  • In my new book, no more fear:
  • 00:24:28.857 --> 00:24:30.825
  • In my new book, no more fear: you have the mind of christ,
  • 00:24:30.892 --> 00:24:32.594
  • You have the mind of christ, i'll show you how
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  • I'll show you how to silence fear and live boldly
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  • To silence fear and live boldly in faith and confidence.
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  • In faith and confidence. just like david said, "though
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  • Just like david said, "though i walk through the valley,
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  • I walk through the valley, i will not fear,"
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  • I will not fear," you too can walk through
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  • You too can walk through life's challenges
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  • Life's challenges without being paralyzed
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  • Without being paralyzed by fear.
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  • By fear. i can't promise you
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  • I can't promise you you'll never feel fear,
  • 00:24:47.876 --> 00:24:49.444
  • You'll never feel fear, but i can teach you
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  • But i can teach you how to rise above it
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  • How to rise above it by dwelling on what god says,
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  • By dwelling on what god says, learning to replace
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  • Learning to replace the anxious thoughts
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  • The anxious thoughts with faith-filled ones.
  • 00:24:56.384 --> 00:24:58.053
  • With faith-filled ones. you can live
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  • You can live from a place of peace,
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  • From a place of peace, power, and purpose.
  • 00:25:00.288 --> 00:25:02.257
  • Power, and purpose. as our way of saying thank you
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  • As our way of saying thank you for your gift of any amount
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  • For your gift of any amount this month,
  • 00:25:05.627 --> 00:25:06.328
  • This month, we would like to send you
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  • We would like to send you a copy of joel's book,
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  • A copy of joel's book, no more fear:
  • 00:25:09.197 --> 00:25:10.465
  • No more fear: you have the mind of christ.
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  • You have the mind of christ. the bible proclaims,
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  • The bible proclaims, "the lord is my light
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  • "the lord is my light and my salvation;
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  • And my salvation; whom shall i fear?"
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  • Whom shall i fear?" this powerful
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  • This powerful and practical book
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  • And practical book will help you silence doubt,
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  • Will help you silence doubt, overcome anxiety,
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  • Overcome anxiety, and step boldly into god's
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  • And step boldly into god's overcoming power.
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  • Overcoming power. when fear whispers,
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  • When fear whispers, "you can't,"
  • 00:25:28.783 --> 00:25:29.651
  • "you can't," this devotional will stir
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  • This devotional will stir your faith
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  • Your faith to declare, "god will."
  • 00:25:31.853 --> 00:25:33.955
  • To declare, "god will." each page
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  • Each page reminds you
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  • Reminds you that you weren't
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  • That you weren't created to live in fear
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  • Created to live in fear or despair.
  • 00:25:37.959 --> 00:25:39.094
  • Or despair. you were created to live
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  • You were created to live with passion,
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  • With passion, purpose, and confidence
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  • Purpose, and confidence in god's plans for your life.
  • 00:25:43.531 --> 00:25:45.834
  • In god's plans for your life. let god's word
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  • Let god's word equip you to rise above fear
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  • Equip you to rise above fear and walk in victory.
  • 00:25:49.237 --> 00:25:51.806
  • And walk in victory. fear doesn't have
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  • Fear doesn't have the final say, god does.
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  • The final say, god does. be bold,
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  • Be bold, be strong, and step up to who
  • 00:25:55.443 --> 00:25:57.445
  • Be strong, and step up to who he made you to be.
  • 00:25:57.512 --> 00:25:59.114
  • He made you to be. victoria and i want you to know
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  • Victoria and i want you to know we're praying for
  • 00:26:00.448 --> 00:26:01.149
  • We're praying for you and your family,
  • 00:26:01.216 --> 00:26:02.617
  • You and your family, believing for god's very best.
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  • Believing for god's very best. thank you so much
  • 00:26:04.853 --> 00:26:05.687
  • Thank you so much for your prayer and support.
  • 00:26:05.754 --> 00:26:07.455
  • For your prayer and support. your generosity
  • 00:26:07.522 --> 00:26:08.523
  • Your generosity is helping people
  • 00:26:08.590 --> 00:26:09.424
  • Is helping people around the world.
  • 00:26:09.491 --> 00:26:11.026
  • Around the world. as we finish this year,
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  • As we finish this year, i hope you'll consider
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  • I hope you'll consider making a special year-end
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  • Making a special year-end gift; helps
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  • Gift; helps to keep the ministries strong.
  • 00:26:16.097 --> 00:26:18.099
  • To keep the ministries strong. i always want to thank our
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  • I always want to thank our champion of hope partners
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  • Champion of hope partners for your monthly gifts.
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  • For your monthly gifts. if you're not a partner,
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