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Joel Osteen | Joel Osteen - The Rewards of Integrity | November 25, 2025
- >> joel osteen: well, god
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- >> joel osteen: well, god bless you.
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- Bless you. it's a joy to come into your
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- It's a joy to come into your homes.
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- Homes. if you're ever in our area,
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- If you're ever in our area, please stop by and be a part
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- Please stop by and be a part of one of our services.
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- Of one of our services. i promise you, we'll make you
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- I promise you, we'll make you feel right at home.
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- Feel right at home. i like to start with
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- I like to start with something funny and i heard
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- Something funny and i heard about this groom, during the
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- About this groom, during the wedding rehearsal he said to
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- Wedding rehearsal he said to the minister, "i'll make a
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- The minister, "i'll make a deal with you.
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- Deal with you. during the vows, if you'll
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- During the vows, if you'll leave out all that honor,
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- Leave out all that honor, obey, love stuff, i'll give
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- Obey, love stuff, i'll give you a hundred dollars."
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- You a hundred dollars." he slipped a hundred dollar
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- He slipped a hundred dollar bill into the minister's
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- Bill into the minister's hand, walked away with a
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- Hand, walked away with a smile.
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- Smile. the next day during the
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- The next day during the ceremony, the minister said
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- Ceremony, the minister said to him, "do you promise to
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- To him, "do you promise to bow down before your wife,
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- Bow down before your wife, take her breakfast in bed,
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- Take her breakfast in bed, fulfill her every desire?"
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- Fulfill her every desire?" he gulped in astonishment,
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- He gulped in astonishment, said in a weak voice, "i do."
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- Said in a weak voice, "i do." he then whispered in the
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- He then whispered in the minister's ear, "hey, i
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- Minister's ear, "hey, i thought we had a deal."
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- Thought we had a deal." the minister handed him his
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- The minister handed him his money back and said, "your
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- Money back and said, "your wife made me a much better
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- Wife made me a much better offer."
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- Offer." say it like you mean it,
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- Say it like you mean it, "this is my bible.
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- "this is my bible. i am what it says i am.
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- I am what it says i am. i have what it says i have.
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- I have what it says i have. i can do what it says i can
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- I can do what it says i can do.
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- Do. today, i will be taught the
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- Today, i will be taught the word of god.
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- Word of god. i boldly confess, my mind is
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- I boldly confess, my mind is alert, my heart is receptive.
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- Alert, my heart is receptive. i will never be the same.
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- I will never be the same. in jesus's name."
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- In jesus's name." god bless you.
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- God bless you. i want to talk to you today
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- I want to talk to you today about the rewards of
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- About the rewards of integrity.
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- Integrity. there's a lot of compromise
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- There's a lot of compromise in our society, people that
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- In our society, people that think nothing about being
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- Think nothing about being dishonest, make underhanded
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- Dishonest, make underhanded deals, not keeping their
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- Deals, not keeping their word.
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- Word. they wonder why they can't
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- They wonder why they can't get ahead.
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- Get ahead. it's because they don't have
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- It's because they don't have integrity.
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- Integrity. integrity is the foundation
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- Integrity is the foundation that a successful life is
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- That a successful life is built on.
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- Built on. you can have talent, vision,
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- You can have talent, vision, determination, but without
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- Determination, but without integrity, you won't reach
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- Integrity, you won't reach your highest potential.
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- Your highest potential. now, a person of integrity
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- Now, a person of integrity does the right thing when no
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- Does the right thing when no one is watching.
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- One is watching. they don't play on the
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- They don't play on the computer because the boss
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- Computer because the boss stepped away.
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- Stepped away. they don't leave someone out
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- They don't leave someone out of a commission because they
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- Of a commission because they didn't know about the sale.
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- Didn't know about the sale. they don't cut corners at the
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- They don't cut corners at the job site because nobody will
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- Job site because nobody will find out about it.
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- Find out about it. they give it their best
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- They give it their best whether anyone is there or
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- Whether anyone is there or not.
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- Not. when you have integrity, you
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- When you have integrity, you don't take supplies from the
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- Don't take supplies from the office to bring home to use.
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- Office to bring home to use. you don't show up late to
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- You don't show up late to work and have somebody clock
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- Work and have somebody clock in earlier for you.
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- In earlier for you. you don't spend half the day
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- You don't spend half the day making personal phone calls
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- Making personal phone calls at the office.
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- At the office. "well, they don't pay me
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- "well, they don't pay me enough anyway."
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- Enough anyway." maybe not, but that's not
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- Maybe not, but that's not integrity.
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- Integrity. if you'll do the right thing,
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- If you'll do the right thing, god will make it up to you.
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- God will make it up to you. he's keeping the records.
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- He's keeping the records. many things we face are
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- Many things we face are simply tests.
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- Simply tests. god is seeing, are we ready
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- God is seeing, are we ready to go higher?
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- To go higher? maybe the bank teller gives
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- Maybe the bank teller gives you too much money in return,
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- You too much money in return, are you going to have
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- Are you going to have integrity, go back and make
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- Integrity, go back and make things right, or are you
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- Things right, or are you gonna say, "thank you jesus,
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- Gonna say, "thank you jesus, you did it again"?
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- You did it again"? that is not the answer to
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- That is not the answer to your prayer.
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- Your prayer. do you call in sick to work,
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- Do you call in sick to work, coughing, sniffling so you
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- Coughing, sniffling so you can take the day off and go
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- Can take the day off and go shopping?
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- Shopping? you could win an academy
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- You could win an academy award with that performance,
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- Award with that performance, but that's not integrity.
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- But that's not integrity. don't be surprised if you
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- Don't be surprised if you can't find anything at the
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- Can't find anything at the store.
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- Store. they don't have your size,
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- They don't have your size, nobody will wait on you,
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- Nobody will wait on you, traffic's backed up.
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- Traffic's backed up. maybe it's because there's no
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- Maybe it's because there's no blessing on it.
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- Blessing on it. we can't deceive people and
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- We can't deceive people and expect to have his favor.
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- Expect to have his favor. when somebody knocks on your
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- When somebody knocks on your door at home and you don't
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- Door at home and you don't feel like visiting, do you
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- Feel like visiting, do you tell your child, "go answer,
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- Tell your child, "go answer, tell them i'm not here."
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- Tell them i'm not here." that works, but it's not
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- That works, but it's not integrity.
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- Integrity. don't complain when your
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- Don't complain when your child doesn't tell the truth.
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- Child doesn't tell the truth. we're leading by example.
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- We're leading by example. we can tell our children, "do
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- We can tell our children, "do the right thing.
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- The right thing. stay on the high road," but
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- Stay on the high road," but if they see us compromising,
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- If they see us compromising, they're going to do the same
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- They're going to do the same thing.
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- Thing. when you integrity, you pay
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- When you integrity, you pay your bills, you don't sweep
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- Your bills, you don't sweep things under the rug.
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- Things under the rug. you keep your commitments.
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- You keep your commitments. don't buy things that you
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- Don't buy things that you know you can't pay for.
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- Know you can't pay for. "well, joel, i'm stretching
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- "well, joel, i'm stretching my faith.
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- My faith. i'm believing for increase."
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- I'm believing for increase." stretch your faith before you
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- Stretch your faith before you sign on the dotted line.
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- Sign on the dotted line. let god bless you first.
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- Let god bless you first. once you have the funds, then
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- Once you have the funds, then you can purchase it but it's
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- You can purchase it but it's not integrity to make
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- Not integrity to make commitments that you know
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- Commitments that you know you're not going to be able
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- You're not going to be able to keep.
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- To keep. don't promise people the moon
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- Don't promise people the moon when you know you can't get
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- When you know you can't get to the clouds.
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- To the clouds. don't write a check and then
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- Don't write a check and then pray for three days hoping
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- Pray for three days hoping it'll clear.
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- It'll clear. check your balance first.
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- Check your balance first. be honest, be trustworthy, be
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- Be honest, be trustworthy, be a person of your word.
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- A person of your word. your reputation is one of the
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- Your reputation is one of the most valuable things you
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- Most valuable things you have.
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- Have. proverbs says, "a good name
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- Proverbs says, "a good name is worth more than great
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- Is worth more than great riches."
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- Riches." you can have great wealth and
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- You can have great wealth and be looked down on, seen as
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- Be looked down on, seen as shady but when you're a
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- Shady but when you're a person of integrity, when
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- Person of integrity, when people look at you and think,
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- People look at you and think, "i can trust them.
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- "i can trust them. they always do the right
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- They always do the right thing.
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- Thing. they're honest, they're fair.
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- They're honest, they're fair. they don't talk to me one way
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- They don't talk to me one way and then talk to my friends
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- And then talk to my friends behind my back another way.
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- Behind my back another way. they're consistent."
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- They're consistent." your reputation is too
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- Your reputation is too important to let it become
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- Important to let it become tarnished by not having
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- Tarnished by not having integrity.
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- Integrity. when you do the right thing,
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- When you do the right thing, when you stay on the high
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- When you stay on the high road, that will take you much
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- Road, that will take you much further than being dishonest,
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- Further than being dishonest, manipulating, trying to gain
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- Manipulating, trying to gain an unfair advantage.
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- An unfair advantage. we can't turn in an
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- We can't turn in an exaggerated expense account
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- Exaggerated expense account and expect to be blessed.
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- And expect to be blessed. we can't be deceitful on
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- We can't be deceitful on taxes and expect to have
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- Taxes and expect to have god's favor.
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- God's favor. i knew a man, he tapped into
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- I knew a man, he tapped into the cable line behind his
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- The cable line behind his house and brought cable into
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- House and brought cable into his home without paying for
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- His home without paying for it.
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- It. he was so proud of it, he
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- He was so proud of it, he bragged to us for years how
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- Bragged to us for years how he was saving $40 a month.
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- He was saving $40 a month. that man never did rise out
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- That man never did rise out of mediocrity, constantly
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- Of mediocrity, constantly struggled, barely got by.
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- Struggled, barely got by. he thought he was gaining an
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- He thought he was gaining an advantage.
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- Advantage. the truth is, he was putting
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- The truth is, he was putting himself at a disadvantage.
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- Himself at a disadvantage. you may gain with people,
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- You may gain with people, gain some material things,
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- Gain some material things, but what if you lose with
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- But what if you lose with god?
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- God? he controls the universe.
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- He controls the universe. he's the one that can open
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- He's the one that can open the windows of help and pour
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- The windows of help and pour out blessings that you can't
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- Out blessings that you can't contain.
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- Contain. i would rather have favor
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- I would rather have favor with god than favor with
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- With god than favor with people.
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- People. that man would have been
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- That man would have been better off to pay the $40 so
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- Better off to pay the $40 so he could have god's blessing.
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- He could have god's blessing. there's a lot we can get by
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- There's a lot we can get by with, hide, exaggerate, but
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- With, hide, exaggerate, but anything we gain without
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- Anything we gain without integrity won't be as good as
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- Integrity won't be as good as it could have been.
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- It could have been. it's better to be truthful
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- It's better to be truthful and have less, then god's
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- And have less, then god's favor will take you further.
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- Favor will take you further. john chapter 1, jesus saw a
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- John chapter 1, jesus saw a man named nathanael coming
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- Man named nathanael coming toward him.
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- Toward him. verse 47 says, "jesus knew
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- Verse 47 says, "jesus knew nathanael's thoughts.
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- Nathanael's thoughts. he honored him saying, 'here
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- He honored him saying, 'here comes a man in whom there is
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- Comes a man in whom there is no deceit, an upright, honest
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- No deceit, an upright, honest man that is free from
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- Man that is free from hypocrisy and double
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- Hypocrisy and double standards.'"
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- Standards.'" that should be our goal.
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- That should be our goal. "god, i want to be so above
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- "god, i want to be so above board, so full of integrity,
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- Board, so full of integrity, that you'll describe me like
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- That you'll describe me like you describe nathaniel, that
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- You describe nathaniel, that there is no deceit in me."
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- There is no deceit in me." "well, joel, that's not me."
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- "well, joel, that's not me." maybe not yet, but it can be.
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- Maybe not yet, but it can be. you can become a nathaniel.
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- You can become a nathaniel. you can make decisions that
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- You can make decisions that honor god.
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- Honor god. when you have integrity,
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- When you have integrity, you're the same in private as
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- You're the same in private as you are in public.
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- You are in public. we don't treat people at work
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- We don't treat people at work nice and kind and then come
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- Nice and kind and then come home and be rude and harsh to
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- Home and be rude and harsh to your family.
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- Your family. that's not integrity, that's
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- That's not integrity, that's hypocrisy.
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- Hypocrisy. you should treat your family
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- You should treat your family better than you treat anyone
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- Better than you treat anyone else.
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- Else. don't be kinder to strangers
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- Don't be kinder to strangers than you are to your own
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- Than you are to your own spouse.
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- Spouse. don't be more considerate to
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- Don't be more considerate to coworkers than you are to the
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- Coworkers than you are to the people that live in your own
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- People that live in your own house.
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- House. be consistent.
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- Be consistent. some people on sundays is,
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- Some people on sundays is, "god bless you, great to see
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- "god bless you, great to see you."
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- You." they'll wave real big, real
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- They'll wave real big, real friendly but on mondays, if
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- Friendly but on mondays, if you cut them off in traffic,
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- You cut them off in traffic, they'll wave with one finger
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- They'll wave with one finger in the air.
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- In the air. that's being two faced.
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- That's being two faced. that's a pretender.
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- That's a pretender. you have to get honest with
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- You have to get honest with yourself.
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- Yourself. i'm not asking you to be
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- I'm not asking you to be perfect, i'm asking you to be
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- Perfect, i'm asking you to be real.
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- Real. you'll never change if you
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- You'll never change if you don't first acknowledge that
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- Don't first acknowledge that there's some pretending going
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- There's some pretending going on.
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- On. the next time you're tempted
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- The next time you're tempted to switch over to the pretend
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- To switch over to the pretend you, the compromising you,
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- You, the compromising you, the dishonest you, put your
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- The dishonest you, put your foot down.
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- Foot down. say, "no, i'm not going
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- Say, "no, i'm not going there.
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- There. that is not who i am.
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- That is not who i am. that's an imitation.
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- That's an imitation. i am kind, loving, honest,
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- I am kind, loving, honest, trustworthy, calm,
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- Trustworthy, calm, consistent."
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- Consistent." you talk to your ourself that
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- You talk to your ourself that way long enough and you'll
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- Way long enough and you'll have integrity with yourself.
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- Have integrity with yourself. you'll become consistent the
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- You'll become consistent the same on monday as you are on
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- Same on monday as you are on sunday, the same at work as
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- Sunday, the same at work as you are at home.
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- You are at home. this is what i saw growing up
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- This is what i saw growing up with my parents.
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- With my parents. they were the same in the
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- They were the same in the pulpit as they were at home.
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- Pulpit as they were at home. they weren't loving in public
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- They weren't loving in public and then hateful in private.
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- And then hateful in private. i believe this is one reason
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- I believe this is one reason that all of us kids, with the
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- That all of us kids, with the exception of my brother paul,
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- Exception of my brother paul, turned out okay.
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- Turned out okay. you can fool a lot of people,
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- You can fool a lot of people, but you can't fool your
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- But you can't fool your children.
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- Children. they know when there's a
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- They know when there's a double standard, they know
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- Double standard, they know when there's not integrity.
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- When there's not integrity. our son jonathan gave me a
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- Our son jonathan gave me a compliment a while back on my
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- Compliment a while back on my birthday.
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- Birthday. he wrote, "my dad is one of
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- He wrote, "my dad is one of the kindness people i know.
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- The kindness people i know. he treats everyone he meets
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- He treats everyone he meets with respect."
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- With respect." i didn't know that he really
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- I didn't know that he really noticed, but people are
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- Noticed, but people are watching.
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- Watching. parents, we are leading by
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- Parents, we are leading by example.
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- Example. this is not to make us feel
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- This is not to make us feel pressured, but to make us
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- Pressured, but to make us strive to excel, to be
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- Strive to excel, to be honorable, trustworthy, kind,
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- Honorable, trustworthy, kind, people that stay on the high
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- People that stay on the high road.
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- Road. when you have integrity,
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- When you have integrity, you're not making underhanded
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- You're not making underhanded deals, hoping that nobody
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- Deals, hoping that nobody sees you.
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- Sees you. if you have to hide what
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- If you have to hide what you're doing, it's probably
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- You're doing, it's probably not integrity.
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- Not integrity. i've heard it said, don't do
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- I've heard it said, don't do anything you wouldn't want to
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- Anything you wouldn't want to read about the next day in
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- Read about the next day in the newspaper.
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- The newspaper. i was at a restaurant years
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- I was at a restaurant years ago in another city.
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- Ago in another city. we were traveling to an
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- We were traveling to an event.
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- Event. i had brought some lemons in
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- I had brought some lemons in the car that i wanted to cut
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- The car that i wanted to cut and squeeze into an energy
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- And squeeze into an energy drink before i spoke, but i
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- Drink before i spoke, but i forgot the knife.
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- Forgot the knife. we were going straight to the
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- We were going straight to the meeting, didn't have much
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- Meeting, didn't have much time, so i thought, maybe at
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- Time, so i thought, maybe at this restaurant, i can take
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- This restaurant, i can take one of their knives.
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- One of their knives. after all, i'm paying a lot
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- After all, i'm paying a lot for this meal.
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- For this meal. just a 3 dollar knife,
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- Just a 3 dollar knife, they're not gonna miss it.
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- They're not gonna miss it. they're not gonna care.
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- They're not gonna care. started reasoning it out,
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- Started reasoning it out, trying to justify taking a
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- Trying to justify taking a knife.
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- Knife. i thought, how am i gonna get
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- I thought, how am i gonna get it out of here?
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- It out of here? the only way is to hide it.
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- The only way is to hide it. i thought, i can't do that.
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- I thought, i can't do that. i'll get victoria to do it
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- I'll get victoria to do it for me, my parter in crime.
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- For me, my parter in crime. i finally came to my senses.
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- I finally came to my senses. joel, you're a pastor, you
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- Joel, you're a pastor, you are not gonna go out of here
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- Are not gonna go out of here hiding a piece of silverware.
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- Hiding a piece of silverware. i called the waiter over said
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- I called the waiter over said sir, i need a favor.
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- Sir, i need a favor. can i buy this knife?
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- Can i buy this knife? he went and talked to the
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- He went and talked to the manager, came back, brought
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- Manager, came back, brought me a set of silverware in a
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- Me a set of silverware in a bag said, "the manager said
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- Bag said, "the manager said you can have it."
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- You can have it." i thought, "lord, thank you,
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- I thought, "lord, thank you, kept me out of prison."
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- Kept me out of prison." but here's my point, it's
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- But here's my point, it's much better to be open and
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- Much better to be open and honest.
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- Honest. i probably could have walked
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- I probably could have walked out of there with some
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- Out of there with some silverware hidden.
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- Silverware hidden. they may not have seen it but
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- They may not have seen it but here's the problem, god could
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- Here's the problem, god could have seen it.
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- Have seen it. the scripture says, "it's the
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- The scripture says, "it's the little foxes that spoil the
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- Little foxes that spoil the vines."
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- Vines." i doubt many of you have big
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- I doubt many of you have big areas where you're lacking
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- Areas where you're lacking integrity, but maybe there's
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- Integrity, but maybe there's some small things.
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- Some small things. the good news is it's not
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- The good news is it's not hard to correct, just takes a
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- Hard to correct, just takes a little effort, digging down
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- Little effort, digging down deeper to do the right thing.
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- Deeper to do the right thing. it means getting out of ruts
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- It means getting out of ruts where we've gotten
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- Where we've gotten comfortable compromising,
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- Comfortable compromising, doing things that are less
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- Doing things that are less than our best.
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- Than our best. david said in psalm 101, "i
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- David said in psalm 101, "i will lead a life of integrity
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- Will lead a life of integrity in my own home."
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- In my own home." he was saying, "when nobody
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- He was saying, "when nobody can see me, i'm going to do
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- Can see me, i'm going to do the right thing.
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- The right thing. when i could slack off,
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- When i could slack off, compromise, give into
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- Compromise, give into temptation, be dishonest,
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- Temptation, be dishonest, instead i'm going to take the
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- Instead i'm going to take the right road.
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- Right road. i'm going to be a person of
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- I'm going to be a person of excellence.
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- Excellence. i'm going to show god he can
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- I'm going to show god he can trust me."
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- Trust me." he went on to say, "i will
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- He went on to say, "i will not look at anything impure,
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- Not look at anything impure, not gonna watch things that
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- Not gonna watch things that poison me."
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- Poison me." verse 3 says, "i will not
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- Verse 3 says, "i will not have crooked dealings, not
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- Have crooked dealings, not gonna get involved in things
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- Gonna get involved in things that are shady and
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- That are shady and underhanded, unethical.
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- Underhanded, unethical. david wasn't perfect, but he
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- David wasn't perfect, but he made up his mind he was going
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- Made up his mind he was going to walk in integrity starting
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- To walk in integrity starting in his own home, starting in
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- In his own home, starting in his private life.
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- His private life. we can fool a lot of people
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- We can fool a lot of people in public, but what god is
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- In public, but what god is concerned with is what goes
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- Concerned with is what goes on behind closed doors.
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- On behind closed doors. the scripture talks about the
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- The scripture talks about the hidden man of our heart,
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- Hidden man of our heart, that's our motives, what we
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- That's our motives, what we do in secret.
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- Do in secret. how you live in private will
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- How you live in private will determine how high you go in
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- Determine how high you go in public.
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- Public. and people may not be
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- And people may not be watching, but god is
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- Watching, but god is watching.
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- Watching. don't take that as something
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- Don't take that as something negative like, "oh man, i'm
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- Negative like, "oh man, i'm gonna get caught.
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- Gonna get caught. i'm in trouble."
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- I'm in trouble." take it as a challenge.
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- Take it as a challenge. god is watching to see when
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- God is watching to see when he can promote you.
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- He can promote you. he's waiting to see when you
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- He's waiting to see when you pass these tests so he can
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- Pass these tests so he can take you to new levels.
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- Take you to new levels. i wonder how much higher we
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- I wonder how much higher we would go, how much more favor
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- Would go, how much more favor and promotion we'd see if we
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- And promotion we'd see if we would deal with the areas
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- Would deal with the areas that we know are holding us
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- That we know are holding us back.
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- Back. start make things right,
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- Start make things right, having integrity in your
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- Having integrity in your finances, in your
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- Finances, in your relationships, in how you
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- Relationships, in how you treat people.
- 00:14:31.360 --> 00:14:32.428
- Treat people. "well joel, i didn't want to
- 00:14:32.494 --> 00:14:33.762
- "well joel, i didn't want to hear about integrity today.
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- Hear about integrity today. i wanted to hear about
- 00:14:35.431 --> 00:14:36.598
- I wanted to hear about prosperity."
- 00:14:36.665 --> 00:14:37.900
- Prosperity." you will never have
- 00:14:37.967 --> 00:14:38.834
- You will never have prosperity if you don't first
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- Prosperity if you don't first have integrity.
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- Have integrity. the two go hand in hand.
- 00:14:42.104 --> 00:14:45.307
- The two go hand in hand. i was at a music store with
- 00:14:45.374 --> 00:14:46.909
- I was at a music store with jonathan when he was ten
- 00:14:46.976 --> 00:14:48.377
- Jonathan when he was ten years old and buying some
- 00:14:48.444 --> 00:14:50.012
- Years old and buying some equipment for his guitar.
- 00:14:50.079 --> 00:14:51.947
- Equipment for his guitar. when i went to pay, the man
- 00:14:52.014 --> 00:14:53.782
- When i went to pay, the man told me that lakewood had an
- 00:14:53.849 --> 00:14:55.250
- Told me that lakewood had an account there and we could
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- Account there and we could put it on that account.
- 00:14:56.952 --> 00:14:57.853
- Put it on that account. and i told him that this was
- 00:14:57.920 --> 00:14:59.621
- And i told him that this was personal and i didn't want to
- 00:14:59.688 --> 00:15:00.923
- Personal and i didn't want to do that.
- 00:15:00.990 --> 00:15:02.091
- Do that. he gave me the bill and the
- 00:15:02.157 --> 00:15:03.926
- He gave me the bill and the tax on it was $20.
- 00:15:03.993 --> 00:15:05.127
- Tax on it was $20. he said, "at least let me put
- 00:15:05.194 --> 00:15:07.930
- He said, "at least let me put this under lakewood's name,
- 00:15:07.997 --> 00:15:09.798
- This under lakewood's name, that way you won't have to
- 00:15:09.865 --> 00:15:11.200
- That way you won't have to pay the tax."
- 00:15:11.266 --> 00:15:12.568
- Pay the tax." lakewood is a church and
- 00:15:12.634 --> 00:15:13.836
- Lakewood is a church and churches are tax exempt.
- 00:15:13.902 --> 00:15:15.004
- Churches are tax exempt. i said, "thanks so much but
- 00:15:15.070 --> 00:15:16.905
- I said, "thanks so much but no, i want to pay the tax
- 00:15:16.972 --> 00:15:18.507
- No, i want to pay the tax too.
- 00:15:18.574 --> 00:15:19.141
- Too. this is totally personal."
- 00:15:19.208 --> 00:15:20.642
- This is totally personal." he looked at me so strange,
- 00:15:20.709 --> 00:15:22.911
- He looked at me so strange, kind of shook his head like,
- 00:15:22.978 --> 00:15:24.580
- Kind of shook his head like, "man, you are way over board.
- 00:15:24.646 --> 00:15:26.949
- "man, you are way over board. nobody would know you didn't
- 00:15:27.016 --> 00:15:28.283
- Nobody would know you didn't pay the tax.
- 00:15:28.350 --> 00:15:29.685
- Pay the tax. my company wouldn't know, the
- 00:15:29.752 --> 00:15:31.120
- My company wouldn't know, the church wouldn't know, the irs
- 00:15:31.186 --> 00:15:32.921
- Church wouldn't know, the irs wouldn't know."
- 00:15:32.988 --> 00:15:34.089
- Wouldn't know." what he didn't realize is
- 00:15:34.156 --> 00:15:35.858
- What he didn't realize is someone was watching more
- 00:15:35.924 --> 00:15:38.060
- Someone was watching more important than all those that
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- Important than all those that he mentioned, the most high
- 00:15:39.595 --> 00:15:41.797
- He mentioned, the most high god sees everything we do.
- 00:15:41.864 --> 00:15:45.434
- God sees everything we do. these are opportunities for
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- These are opportunities for us to pass the test.
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- Us to pass the test. if god can trust me to be
- 00:15:50.172 --> 00:15:52.307
- If god can trust me to be honest with $20, maybe he can
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- Honest with $20, maybe he can trust me to handle
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- Trust me to handle 20,000, or 20 million, or 200
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- 20,000, or 20 million, or 200 million.
- 00:15:59.915 --> 00:16:00.716
- Million. i would hate to think i
- 00:16:00.783 --> 00:16:02.084
- I would hate to think i didn't reach my destiny
- 00:16:02.151 --> 00:16:03.986
- Didn't reach my destiny because of small things i
- 00:16:04.053 --> 00:16:05.521
- Because of small things i wasn't honest in, small areas
- 00:16:05.587 --> 00:16:08.290
- Wasn't honest in, small areas that i didn't pass the test.
- 00:16:08.357 --> 00:16:10.292
- That i didn't pass the test. sure, i could have saved $20,
- 00:16:10.359 --> 00:16:11.693
- Sure, i could have saved $20, but what is that in
- 00:16:11.760 --> 00:16:14.196
- But what is that in comparison to having the
- 00:16:14.263 --> 00:16:15.764
- Comparison to having the blessing and favor of the
- 00:16:15.831 --> 00:16:17.900
- Blessing and favor of the creator of the universe?
- 00:16:17.966 --> 00:16:20.102
- Creator of the universe? when god can trust you, when
- 00:16:20.169 --> 00:16:22.471
- When god can trust you, when you prove to him that you're
- 00:16:22.538 --> 00:16:24.306
- You prove to him that you're a person of integrity, there
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- A person of integrity, there is no limit to how high he
- 00:16:26.375 --> 00:16:28.343
- Is no limit to how high he will take you.
- 00:16:28.410 --> 00:16:29.912
- Will take you. i saw this with my father, he
- 00:16:29.978 --> 00:16:32.047
- I saw this with my father, he was a man of great integrity.
- 00:16:32.114 --> 00:16:34.416
- Was a man of great integrity. if there was the smallest
- 00:16:34.483 --> 00:16:35.751
- If there was the smallest question of something not
- 00:16:35.818 --> 00:16:37.619
- Question of something not being above board, perfectly
- 00:16:37.686 --> 00:16:39.254
- Being above board, perfectly ethical, we wouldn't have
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- Ethical, we wouldn't have anything to do with it.
- 00:16:40.622 --> 00:16:42.357
- Anything to do with it. through the years, people
- 00:16:42.424 --> 00:16:43.492
- Through the years, people would bring deals by.
- 00:16:43.559 --> 00:16:44.726
- Would bring deals by. "hey, you got that big
- 00:16:44.793 --> 00:16:46.328
- "hey, you got that big church, all those people.
- 00:16:46.395 --> 00:16:48.630
- Church, all those people. you can take advantage of it,
- 00:16:48.697 --> 00:16:49.898
- You can take advantage of it, make some extra funds."
- 00:16:49.965 --> 00:16:51.700
- Make some extra funds." my father valued god's
- 00:16:51.767 --> 00:16:53.836
- My father valued god's blessing on his life more
- 00:16:53.902 --> 00:16:55.971
- Blessing on his life more than what any person could
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- Than what any person could come up with.
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- Come up with. he taught me to have a high
- 00:16:58.373 --> 00:16:59.508
- He taught me to have a high standard and if you don't
- 00:16:59.575 --> 00:17:01.643
- Standard and if you don't feel good about something,
- 00:17:01.710 --> 00:17:03.479
- Feel good about something, you have to talk yourself
- 00:17:03.545 --> 00:17:04.580
- You have to talk yourself into it, make excuses as to
- 00:17:04.646 --> 00:17:06.648
- Into it, make excuses as to why it's okay.
- 00:17:06.715 --> 00:17:08.183
- Why it's okay. it's not worth it.
- 00:17:08.250 --> 00:17:09.785
- It's not worth it. you will never go wrong by
- 00:17:09.852 --> 00:17:11.887
- You will never go wrong by taking the high road.
- 00:17:11.954 --> 00:17:13.722
- Taking the high road. short term, i could have
- 00:17:13.789 --> 00:17:15.023
- Short term, i could have saved 20 bucks, longterm i
- 00:17:15.090 --> 00:17:18.327
- Saved 20 bucks, longterm i may not be where i am.
- 00:17:18.393 --> 00:17:20.562
- May not be where i am. prove to god that he can
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- Prove to god that he can trust you, that you'll go the
- 00:17:22.564 --> 00:17:24.633
- Trust you, that you'll go the extra mile to do what's
- 00:17:24.700 --> 00:17:26.368
- Extra mile to do what's right.
- 00:17:26.435 --> 00:17:27.569
- Right. you may have to say no to
- 00:17:27.636 --> 00:17:28.904
- You may have to say no to some things that people don't
- 00:17:28.971 --> 00:17:30.305
- Some things that people don't understand, not do what all
- 00:17:30.372 --> 00:17:32.508
- Understand, not do what all your coworkers do.
- 00:17:32.574 --> 00:17:34.309
- Your coworkers do. maybe they're fine with
- 00:17:34.376 --> 00:17:35.310
- Maybe they're fine with slacking up.
- 00:17:35.377 --> 00:17:36.778
- Slacking up. they're okay with spending
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- They're okay with spending company money on personal
- 00:17:38.013 --> 00:17:39.781
- Company money on personal things.
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- Things. don't judge them.
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- Don't judge them. that's not our business, but
- 00:17:42.284 --> 00:17:43.952
- That's not our business, but don't become like them.
- 00:17:44.019 --> 00:17:46.021
- Don't become like them. don't lower your standards.
- 00:17:46.088 --> 00:17:47.723
- Don't lower your standards. they're not going where
- 00:17:47.789 --> 00:17:48.757
- They're not going where you're going.
- 00:17:48.824 --> 00:17:50.492
- You're going. you may not be able to do
- 00:17:50.559 --> 00:17:52.094
- You may not be able to do everything your family
- 00:17:52.161 --> 00:17:53.428
- Everything your family members do, watch what they
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- Members do, watch what they watch, do business like do
- 00:17:55.464 --> 00:17:57.799
- Watch, do business like do business.
- 00:17:57.866 --> 00:17:58.967
- Business. there's a price to pay to
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- There's a price to pay to become all you were created
- 00:18:01.136 --> 00:18:02.838
- Become all you were created to be.
- 00:18:02.905 --> 00:18:03.872
- To be. if it was easy, anybody would
- 00:18:03.939 --> 00:18:05.774
- If it was easy, anybody would do it.
- 00:18:05.841 --> 00:18:06.909
- Do it. this takes people that have a
- 00:18:06.975 --> 00:18:08.243
- This takes people that have a made up mind, "i'm going to
- 00:18:08.310 --> 00:18:10.078
- Made up mind, "i'm going to honor god, not gonna
- 00:18:10.145 --> 00:18:11.813
- Honor god, not gonna compromise, take shortcuts,
- 00:18:11.880 --> 00:18:14.783
- Compromise, take shortcuts, do things that are not
- 00:18:14.850 --> 00:18:15.751
- Do things that are not ethical.
- 00:18:15.817 --> 00:18:16.785
- Ethical. not gonna push people down to
- 00:18:16.852 --> 00:18:18.387
- Not gonna push people down to get an advantage, not gonna
- 00:18:18.453 --> 00:18:20.155
- Get an advantage, not gonna be sloppy in my business
- 00:18:20.222 --> 00:18:21.623
- Be sloppy in my business dealings.
- 00:18:21.690 --> 00:18:22.491
- Dealings. i'm going to be a person of
- 00:18:22.558 --> 00:18:23.926
- I'm going to be a person of integrity, trustworthy,
- 00:18:23.992 --> 00:18:26.161
- Integrity, trustworthy, honorable," that's the kind
- 00:18:26.228 --> 00:18:27.629
- Honorable," that's the kind of people that god rewards.
- 00:18:27.696 --> 00:18:30.399
- Of people that god rewards. sometimes when we compromise
- 00:18:30.465 --> 00:18:32.568
- Sometimes when we compromise and do things that are
- 00:18:32.634 --> 00:18:33.502
- And do things that are questionable, we think we're
- 00:18:33.569 --> 00:18:35.437
- Questionable, we think we're gaining an advantage with
- 00:18:35.504 --> 00:18:36.872
- Gaining an advantage with people.
- 00:18:36.939 --> 00:18:37.839
- People. we're getting the upper hand
- 00:18:37.906 --> 00:18:39.841
- We're getting the upper hand but when you walk in
- 00:18:39.908 --> 00:18:40.842
- But when you walk in integrity, you're gaining an
- 00:18:40.909 --> 00:18:42.878
- Integrity, you're gaining an advantage with god.
- 00:18:42.945 --> 00:18:44.813
- Advantage with god. his favor on your life will
- 00:18:44.880 --> 00:18:46.982
- His favor on your life will take you further than any
- 00:18:47.049 --> 00:18:49.017
- Take you further than any advantage with people.
- 00:18:49.084 --> 00:18:51.286
- Advantage with people. you may have made mistakes in
- 00:18:51.353 --> 00:18:53.055
- You may have made mistakes in the past, not had integrity
- 00:18:53.121 --> 00:18:55.290
- The past, not had integrity in certain areas, that's
- 00:18:55.357 --> 00:18:56.158
- In certain areas, that's okay, we all have.
- 00:18:56.225 --> 00:18:57.626
- Okay, we all have. my challenge is start make
- 00:18:57.693 --> 00:18:59.995
- My challenge is start make things right.
- 00:19:00.062 --> 00:19:01.363
- Things right. let today be a new day.
- 00:19:01.430 --> 00:19:03.532
- Let today be a new day. don't go the next 30 years
- 00:19:03.599 --> 00:19:05.434
- Don't go the next 30 years letting the same things hold
- 00:19:05.500 --> 00:19:06.802
- Letting the same things hold you back.
- 00:19:06.868 --> 00:19:08.270
- You back. when my father was in his 20s
- 00:19:08.337 --> 00:19:10.706
- When my father was in his 20s back in the 1940s, he bought
- 00:19:10.772 --> 00:19:12.975
- Back in the 1940s, he bought two suits on credit from a
- 00:19:13.041 --> 00:19:15.277
- Two suits on credit from a store in fort worth.
- 00:19:15.344 --> 00:19:17.179
- Store in fort worth. he had good intentions.
- 00:19:17.246 --> 00:19:18.914
- He had good intentions. he was planning on paying
- 00:19:18.981 --> 00:19:20.048
- He was planning on paying them back, but he got busy
- 00:19:20.115 --> 00:19:21.583
- Them back, but he got busy and things came up.
- 00:19:21.650 --> 00:19:22.751
- And things came up. he never did.
- 00:19:22.818 --> 00:19:24.219
- He never did. years went by and he'd
- 00:19:24.286 --> 00:19:25.454
- Years went by and he'd forgotten about it.
- 00:19:25.520 --> 00:19:27.055
- Forgotten about it. one day he was driving
- 00:19:27.122 --> 00:19:28.156
- One day he was driving through fort worth and
- 00:19:28.223 --> 00:19:29.258
- Through fort worth and suddenly he remembered.
- 00:19:29.324 --> 00:19:31.093
- Suddenly he remembered. it bothered him that he had
- 00:19:31.159 --> 00:19:32.561
- It bothered him that he had never paid that debt.
- 00:19:32.628 --> 00:19:34.630
- Never paid that debt. he got in the phone book but
- 00:19:34.696 --> 00:19:36.164
- He got in the phone book but couldn't find the name of the
- 00:19:36.231 --> 00:19:37.566
- Couldn't find the name of the company, so he drove to the
- 00:19:37.633 --> 00:19:39.401
- Company, so he drove to the location but they were closed
- 00:19:39.468 --> 00:19:41.403
- Location but they were closed down.
- 00:19:41.470 --> 00:19:42.371
- Down. the people next door said
- 00:19:42.437 --> 00:19:43.905
- The people next door said they had been out of business
- 00:19:43.972 --> 00:19:45.040
- They had been out of business for many years.
- 00:19:45.107 --> 00:19:46.675
- For many years. he would have thought, "i did
- 00:19:46.742 --> 00:19:47.709
- He would have thought, "i did my best, i tried."
- 00:19:47.776 --> 00:19:49.177
- My best, i tried." he didn't stop there.
- 00:19:49.244 --> 00:19:50.679
- He didn't stop there. he found out who the owners
- 00:19:50.746 --> 00:19:52.180
- He found out who the owners were.
- 00:19:52.247 --> 00:19:53.115
- Were. they had passed away, but he
- 00:19:53.181 --> 00:19:55.017
- They had passed away, but he was able to track down one of
- 00:19:55.083 --> 00:19:56.485
- Was able to track down one of their children.
- 00:19:56.551 --> 00:19:57.819
- Their children. he called this man, he was my
- 00:19:57.886 --> 00:19:59.588
- He called this man, he was my father's age, and explained
- 00:19:59.655 --> 00:20:02.291
- Father's age, and explained that he owed them for two
- 00:20:02.357 --> 00:20:04.226
- That he owed them for two suits he didn't pay for back
- 00:20:04.293 --> 00:20:06.161
- Suits he didn't pay for back in the 1940s.
- 00:20:06.228 --> 00:20:07.763
- In the 1940s. the man says, "sir, don't
- 00:20:07.829 --> 00:20:08.830
- The man says, "sir, don't worry about it.
- 00:20:08.897 --> 00:20:09.965
- Worry about it. we've been out of business.
- 00:20:10.032 --> 00:20:10.932
- We've been out of business. we're all doing fine."
- 00:20:10.999 --> 00:20:12.234
- We're all doing fine." my dad thanked him for being
- 00:20:12.301 --> 00:20:13.568
- My dad thanked him for being so gracious but said, "no, i
- 00:20:13.635 --> 00:20:15.437
- So gracious but said, "no, i still want to pay you."
- 00:20:15.504 --> 00:20:17.039
- Still want to pay you." he drove to his house, gave
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- He drove to his house, gave him a check with interest 40
- 00:20:19.041 --> 00:20:21.510
- Him a check with interest 40 years later.
- 00:20:21.576 --> 00:20:22.944
- Years later. no wonder god blessed my
- 00:20:23.011 --> 00:20:24.813
- No wonder god blessed my father.
- 00:20:24.880 --> 00:20:25.781
- Father. no wonder he took him higher
- 00:20:25.847 --> 00:20:27.182
- No wonder he took him higher and higher.
- 00:20:27.249 --> 00:20:28.617
- And higher. it wasn't that he just had
- 00:20:28.684 --> 00:20:30.252
- It wasn't that he just had great talent, he had great
- 00:20:30.319 --> 00:20:32.254
- Great talent, he had great integrity.
- 00:20:32.321 --> 00:20:33.488
- Integrity. he was determined to make
- 00:20:33.555 --> 00:20:34.823
- He was determined to make things right.
- 00:20:34.890 --> 00:20:36.658
- Things right. there was a very wealthy man
- 00:20:36.725 --> 00:20:38.460
- There was a very wealthy man that had a friend that was a
- 00:20:38.527 --> 00:20:39.695
- That had a friend that was a builder.
- 00:20:39.761 --> 00:20:40.762
- Builder. this builder had been down on
- 00:20:40.829 --> 00:20:41.963
- This builder had been down on his luck and not had much
- 00:20:42.030 --> 00:20:43.365
- His luck and not had much business.
- 00:20:43.432 --> 00:20:44.366
- Business. the man felt sorry for him,
- 00:20:44.433 --> 00:20:46.034
- The man felt sorry for him, decided to help him out.
- 00:20:46.101 --> 00:20:47.836
- Decided to help him out. he gave him a set of plans
- 00:20:47.903 --> 00:20:49.604
- He gave him a set of plans with a check for $200,000.
- 00:20:49.671 --> 00:20:51.873
- With a check for $200,000. he said, "i want you to use
- 00:20:51.940 --> 00:20:53.975
- He said, "i want you to use these funds to build me a new
- 00:20:54.042 --> 00:20:56.378
- These funds to build me a new house.
- 00:20:56.445 --> 00:20:57.546
- House. you handle all the details,
- 00:20:57.612 --> 00:20:59.147
- You handle all the details, just call me when you're
- 00:20:59.214 --> 00:21:00.349
- Just call me when you're done."
- 00:21:00.415 --> 00:21:01.350
- Done." he assured him he would pay
- 00:21:01.416 --> 00:21:02.751
- He assured him he would pay him very well if he'd do a
- 00:21:02.818 --> 00:21:04.486
- Him very well if he'd do a good job.
- 00:21:04.553 --> 00:21:05.687
- Good job. this builder was so excited
- 00:21:05.754 --> 00:21:07.289
- This builder was so excited that he finally had some
- 00:21:07.356 --> 00:21:08.423
- That he finally had some work, but he got to thinking
- 00:21:08.490 --> 00:21:10.892
- Work, but he got to thinking if would cut a few corners,
- 00:21:10.959 --> 00:21:12.728
- If would cut a few corners, save a little here, save a
- 00:21:12.794 --> 00:21:14.296
- Save a little here, save a little there, he could pocket
- 00:21:14.363 --> 00:21:16.131
- Little there, he could pocket some of that money without
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- Some of that money without anybody knowing about it.
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- Anybody knowing about it. so, he went out and found the
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- So, he went out and found the cheapest concrete he could
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- Cheapest concrete he could find, had the workers water
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- Find, had the workers water it down so it could go
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- It down so it could go further.
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- Further. he saved several thousand
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- He saved several thousand dollars on the foundation.
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- Dollars on the foundation. he bought the cheapest
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- He bought the cheapest lumber, some of it was old,
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- Lumber, some of it was old, crooked, warped, he didn't
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- Crooked, warped, he didn't care.
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- Care. it was gonna be behind the
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- It was gonna be behind the walls, nobody would see it.
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- Walls, nobody would see it. he got the cheapest plumber,
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- He got the cheapest plumber, cheapest electricity, on and
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- Cheapest electricity, on and on right and left cutting
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- On right and left cutting corners, pocketing the money.
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- Corners, pocketing the money. when he finished, he had
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- When he finished, he had saved nearly $40,000.
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- Saved nearly $40,000. he was so happy.
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- He was so happy. he called the owner over to
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- He called the owner over to look at the new house.
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- Look at the new house. the owner was very impressed,
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- The owner was very impressed, looked beautiful on the
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- Looked beautiful on the outside.
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- Outside. you couldn't tell he had cut
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- You couldn't tell he had cut corners.
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- Corners. this builder couldn't wait to
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- This builder couldn't wait to see how much he was going to
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- See how much he was going to get paid.
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- Get paid. he knew the owner was a very
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- He knew the owner was a very generous man.
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- Generous man. the owner said, "you know, i
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- The owner said, "you know, i don't really need a new
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- Don't really need a new house.
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- House. i have a beautiful one.
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- I have a beautiful one. i just wanted to help you
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- I just wanted to help you out."
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- Out." he handed him the keys and
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- He handed him the keys and said, "here, you just built
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- Said, "here, you just built your own house."
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- Your own house." the builder nearly passed
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- The builder nearly passed out.
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- Out. he thought, "if i'd known it
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- He thought, "if i'd known it was gonna be mine, i'd built
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- Was gonna be mine, i'd built it a whole lot better."
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- It a whole lot better." we may not realize it, but we
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- We may not realize it, but we are building our own house.
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- Are building our own house. we can cut corners here,
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- We can cut corners here, compromise there.
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- Compromise there. it's not hurting anyone
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- It's not hurting anyone except ourselves.
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- Except ourselves. everything may look fine on
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- Everything may look fine on the outside, what matters is
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- The outside, what matters is what's happening on the
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- What's happening on the inside.
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- Inside. are we watering down our
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- Are we watering down our foundation, not being
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- Foundation, not being trustworthy in commitments,
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- Trustworthy in commitments, slacking off at the office?
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- Slacking off at the office? what kind of materials are
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- What kind of materials are you putting into your house?
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- You putting into your house? i'm asking you to be a person
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- I'm asking you to be a person of integrity, do the right
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- Of integrity, do the right thing when nobody is
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- Thing when nobody is watching.
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- Watching. don't let small things keep
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- Don't let small things keep you from the big destiny god
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- You from the big destiny god has in store.
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- Has in store. start passing these tests, be
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- Start passing these tests, be honorable, trustworthy, a
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- Honorable, trustworthy, a person of your word.
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- Person of your word. if you'll do this, i believe
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- If you'll do this, i believe and declare because you walk
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- And declare because you walk in integrity, god is going to
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- In integrity, god is going to have a shield around you.
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- Have a shield around you. he's going to keep you from
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- He's going to keep you from making major mistakes.
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- Making major mistakes. you're not only going to be
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- You're not only going to be protected, but you're going
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- Protected, but you're going to see promotion, good
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- To see promotion, good breaks, new levels, the
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- Breaks, new levels, the fullness of your destiny in
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- Fullness of your destiny in jesus's name.
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- Jesus's name. and if you receive it, can
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- And if you receive it, can you say, "amen" today?
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- I'd like to give you an
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- I'd like to give you an opportunity to make jesus the
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- Opportunity to make jesus the lord of your life.
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- Lord of your life. would you pray with me?
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- Would you pray with me? just say, "lord jesus, i
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- Just say, "lord jesus, i repent of my sins.
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- Repent of my sins. come into my heart.
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- Come into my heart. i make you my lord and
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- I make you my lord and savior."
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- Savior." if you prayed that simple
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- If you prayed that simple prayer, we believe you got
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- Prayer, we believe you got born again.
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- Born again. get in a good bible-based
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- Get in a good bible-based church, keep god first place.
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- Church, keep god first place. victoria and i will be right
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- Victoria and i will be right back to speak a blessing over
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- Back to speak a blessing over you.
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- Your destiny is too great,
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- Your destiny is too great, your calling too important,
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- Your calling too important, and your future too bright
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- And your future too bright to live in fear.
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- To live in fear. fear may knock,
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- Fear may knock, but you don't have
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- But you don't have to let it in.
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- To let it in. it's time to let faith answer.
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- It's time to let faith answer. fear is a powerful force,
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- Fear is a powerful force, but so is faith.
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- But so is faith. what we focus on shapes
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- What we focus on shapes our reality.
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- In my new book, no more fear:
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- In my new book, no more fear: you have the mind of christ,
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- You have the mind of christ, i'll show you how
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- I'll show you how to silence fear and live boldly
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- To silence fear and live boldly in faith and confidence.
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- In faith and confidence. just like david said, "though
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- Just like david said, "though i walk through the valley,
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- I walk through the valley, i will not fear,"
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- I will not fear," you too can walk through
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- You too can walk through life's challenges
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- Life's challenges without being paralyzed
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- Without being paralyzed by fear.
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- By fear. i can't promise you
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- I can't promise you you'll never feel fear,
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- You'll never feel fear, but i can teach you
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- But i can teach you how to rise above it
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- How to rise above it by dwelling on what god says,
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- By dwelling on what god says, learning to replace
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- Learning to replace the anxious thoughts
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- The anxious thoughts with faith-filled ones.
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- With faith-filled ones. you can live
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- You can live from a place of peace,
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- From a place of peace, power, and purpose.
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- Power, and purpose. as our way of saying thank you
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- As our way of saying thank you for your gift of any amount
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- For your gift of any amount this month,
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- You have the mind of christ. the bible proclaims,
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- The bible proclaims, "the lord is my light
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- "the lord is my light and my salvation;
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- And my salvation; whom shall i fear?"
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- And step boldly into god's overcoming power.
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- Overcoming power. when fear whispers,
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- When fear whispers, "you can't,"
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- "you can't," this devotional will stir
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- This devotional will stir your faith
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- Your faith to declare, "god will."
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- To declare, "god will." each page
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- Each page reminds you
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- Reminds you that you weren't
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- That you weren't created to live in fear
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- Created to live in fear or despair.
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- Or despair. you were created to live
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- You were created to live with passion,
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- With passion, purpose, and confidence
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- Purpose, and confidence in god's plans for your life.
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- In god's plans for your life. let god's word
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- Let god's word equip you to rise above fear
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- Equip you to rise above fear and walk in victory.
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- And walk in victory. fear doesn't have
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- Fear doesn't have the final say, god does.
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- The final say, god does. be bold,
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- Be bold, be strong, and step up to who
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- Be strong, and step up to who he made you to be.
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- He made you to be. victoria and i want you to know
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- Victoria and i want you to know we're praying for
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- We're praying for you and your family,
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- You and your family, believing for god's very best.
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- Believing for god's very best. thank you so much
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- Thank you so much for your prayer and support.
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- For your prayer and support. your generosity
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- Your generosity is helping people
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- Is helping people around the world.
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- Around the world. as we finish this year,
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- As we finish this year, i hope you'll consider
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- I hope you'll consider making a special year-end
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- Making a special year-end gift; helps
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- Gift; helps to keep the ministries strong.
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- To keep the ministries strong. i always want to thank our
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- I always want to thank our champion of hope partners
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- Consider becoming one. and until we see you next time,
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- And until we see you next time, may the lord bless you
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- May the lord bless you and keep you.
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