Joel Osteen - Unconditional Trust

July 7, 2026 | 27:29

Joel and Victoria Osteen's message of unconditional love and unending hope reaches everyone across the world.

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Joel Osteen | Joel Osteen - Unconditional Trust | July 7, 2026
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  • [music] >> joel osteen: well, god
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  • >> joel osteen: well, god bless you.
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  • Bless you. it's a joy to come into your
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  • It's a joy to come into your homes.
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  • Homes. and if you're ever in our
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  • And if you're ever in our area, please stop by and be a
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  • Area, please stop by and be a part of one of our services.
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  • Part of one of our services. i promise you we'll make you
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  • I promise you we'll make you feel right at home.
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  • Feel right at home. i like to start with
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  • I like to start with something funny, and heard
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  • Something funny, and heard about this man that called
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  • About this man that called the church office.
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  • The church office. he said, "i want to speak to
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  • He said, "i want to speak to the head hog at the trough."
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  • The head hog at the trough." the secretary was offended.
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  • The secretary was offended. she said, "if you mean the
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  • She said, "if you mean the pastor, you're going to have
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  • Pastor, you're going to have to call him pastor, but you
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  • To call him pastor, but you may not call him the head hog
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  • May not call him the head hog at the trough."
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  • At the trough." he said, "well, that's fine,
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  • He said, "well, that's fine, but i was thinking about
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  • But i was thinking about making a $5,000 donation to
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  • Making a $5,000 donation to your church."
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  • Your church." she said, "hang on, porky
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  • She said, "hang on, porky just walked in."
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  • Just walked in." say it like you mean it.
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  • Say it like you mean it. this is my bible.
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  • This is my bible. i am what it says i am.
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  • I am what it says i am. i have what it says i have.
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  • I have what it says i have. i can do what it says i can
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  • I can do what it says i can do.
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  • Do. today, i will be taught the
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  • Today, i will be taught the word of god.
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  • Word of god. i boldly confess my mind is
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  • I boldly confess my mind is alert, my heart is receptive.
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  • Alert, my heart is receptive. i will never be the same, in
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  • I will never be the same, in jesus' name.
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  • Jesus' name. god bless you.
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  • God bless you. i want to talk to you today
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  • I want to talk to you today about unconditional trust.
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  • About unconditional trust. it's easy to trust god when
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  • It's easy to trust god when things are going our way,
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  • Things are going our way, we're getting good breaks,
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  • We're getting good breaks, our business is blessed, our
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  • Our business is blessed, our children are healthy.
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  • Children are healthy. that doesn't take much faith.
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  • That doesn't take much faith. life is good.
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  • Life is good. but what about when things
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  • But what about when things aren't going our way?
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  • Aren't going our way? our prayers aren't being
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  • Our prayers aren't being answered, the problem isn't
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  • Answered, the problem isn't turning around, we're not
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  • Turning around, we're not seeing favor.
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  • Seeing favor. too often, we get
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  • Too often, we get discouraged, think, "god, why
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  • Discouraged, think, "god, why aren't you doing something?
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  • Aren't you doing something? you can see i'm being
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  • You can see i'm being mistreated.
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  • Mistreated. my health isn't good.
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  • My health isn't good. i worked hard, but i didn't
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  • I worked hard, but i didn't get the promotion."
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  • Get the promotion." we think when it changes,
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  • We think when it changes, we'll be happy.
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  • We'll be happy. when i meet the right person,
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  • When i meet the right person, when my health improves, when
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  • When my health improves, when we have this baby, then we'll
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  • We have this baby, then we'll have a good attitude.
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  • Have a good attitude. that's conditional trust.
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  • That's conditional trust. "god, if you meet my demands,
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  • "god, if you meet my demands, if you answer my prayers the
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  • If you answer my prayers the way i want, on my timetable,
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  • Way i want, on my timetable, then i'll be my best."
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  • Then i'll be my best." the problem with conditional
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  • The problem with conditional trust is there will always be
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  • Trust is there will always be things we don't understand,
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  • Things we don't understand, something that's not
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  • Something that's not happening fast enough, it
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  • Happening fast enough, it didn't work out the way we
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  • Didn't work out the way we want it.
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  • Want it. we prayed just as hard for my
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  • We prayed just as hard for my father when his health went
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  • Father when his health went downhill as we did for my
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  • Downhill as we did for my mother.
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  • Mother. we quoted the same
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  • We quoted the same scriptures, we asked god to
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  • Scriptures, we asked god to restore his health, to let
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  • Restore his health, to let him live, but my father went
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  • Him live, but my father went to be with the lord.
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  • To be with the lord. it didn't happen the way i
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  • It didn't happen the way i wanted.
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  • Wanted. if i would have had
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  • If i would have had conditional trust, i would
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  • Conditional trust, i would have gotten upset, bitter,
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  • Have gotten upset, bitter, "god, why didn't you answer
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  • "god, why didn't you answer my prayers?"
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  • My prayers?" the truth is god did answer
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  • The truth is god did answer my prayer, it just wasn't the
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  • My prayer, it just wasn't the way i wanted.
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  • Way i wanted. are you mature enough to
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  • Are you mature enough to accept god's answers, even
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  • Accept god's answers, even though they're not what you
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  • Though they're not what you were hoping for?
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  • Were hoping for? god is a sovereign god.
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  • God is a sovereign god. we're not going to understand
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  • We're not going to understand everything that happens.
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  • Everything that happens. faith is trusting god when
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  • Faith is trusting god when life doesn't make sense.
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  • Life doesn't make sense. there will always be
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  • There will always be unanswered questions, "why
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  • Unanswered questions, "why didn't my loved one make it?
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  • Didn't my loved one make it? why am i not getting better?
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  • Why am i not getting better? why did this person leave?"
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  • Why did this person leave?" some things are not going to
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  • Some things are not going to make sense, but god wouldn't
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  • Make sense, but god wouldn't have allowed it if he wasn't
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  • Have allowed it if he wasn't going to bring good out of
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  • Going to bring good out of it.
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  • It. and you may not see it at the
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  • And you may not see it at the time, but god knows what he's
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  • Time, but god knows what he's doing.
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  • Doing. he has your best interest at
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  • He has your best interest at heart.
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  • Heart. it's not random, it's a part
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  • It's not random, it's a part of his plan.
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  • Of his plan. dare to trust him.
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  • Dare to trust him. i didn't want to lose my
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  • I didn't want to lose my father, of course.
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  • Father, of course. he was one of my best
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  • He was one of my best friends.
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  • Friends. i'd worked with him here at
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  • I'd worked with him here at lakewood for 17 years.
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  • Lakewood for 17 years. we had traveled the world
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  • We had traveled the world together.
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  • Together. i didn't know what i would do
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  • I didn't know what i would do when my dad was gone, but i
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  • When my dad was gone, but i found god had another plan.
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  • Found god had another plan. he had something else for me
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  • He had something else for me to do.
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  • To do. i couldn't see it at the
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  • I couldn't see it at the time.
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  • Time. i wanted god to do it my way,
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  • I wanted god to do it my way, but god had a better way.
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  • But god had a better way. i thought i would spend my
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  • I thought i would spend my life behind the scenes, doing
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  • Life behind the scenes, doing production, running the
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  • Production, running the cameras.
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  • Cameras. i didn't think i could get up
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  • I didn't think i could get up here in front of people.
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  • Here in front of people. i didn't know this ability
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  • I didn't know this ability was in me.
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  • Was in me. but god can see things in you
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  • But god can see things in you that you can't see in
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  • That you can't see in yourself.
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  • Yourself. his plan for your life is
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  • His plan for your life is bigger than your plan, but it
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  • Bigger than your plan, but it may not happen the way you
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  • May not happen the way you thought.
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  • Thought. god doesn't take us in a
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  • God doesn't take us in a straight line.
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  • Straight line. there'll be twists, turns,
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  • There'll be twists, turns, the disappointments, the
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  • The disappointments, the loss, the bad breaks.
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  • Loss, the bad breaks. they're all a part of his
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  • They're all a part of his plan.
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  • Plan. but if you have conditional
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  • But if you have conditional trust, you'll get discouraged
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  • Trust, you'll get discouraged and think, "why is this
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  • And think, "why is this happening?
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  • Happening? i'm going the wrong way."
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  • I'm going the wrong way." but god is still directing
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  • But god is still directing your steps.
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  • Your steps. trust him when you don't
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  • Trust him when you don't understand.
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  • Understand. but sometimes, we want things
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  • But sometimes, we want things so bad, we're not going to be
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  • So bad, we're not going to be happy unless it happens our
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  • Happy unless it happens our way.
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  • Way. "i can't be happy unless i
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  • "i can't be happy unless i get the house, unless i meet
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  • Get the house, unless i meet the right person, unless we
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  • The right person, unless we have the baby."
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  • Have the baby." that's out of balance.
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  • That's out of balance. anything you have to have in
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  • Anything you have to have in order to be happy the enemy
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  • Order to be happy the enemy can use against you.
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  • Can use against you. and it's good to be honest
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  • And it's good to be honest with god, tell him your
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  • With god, tell him your dreams, tell him what you're
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  • Dreams, tell him what you're believing for.
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  • Believing for. "god, this is what i want.
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  • "god, this is what i want. i'm asking you to heal my
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  • I'm asking you to heal my loved one, turn this problem
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  • Loved one, turn this problem around.
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  • Around. god, open these new doors."
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  • God, open these new doors." it's fine to ask, but then be
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  • It's fine to ask, but then be mature enough to say, "but
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  • Mature enough to say, "but god, if it never happens, if
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  • God, if it never happens, if i don't get the promotion, if
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  • I don't get the promotion, if my loved one doesn't make it,
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  • My loved one doesn't make it, if my health doesn't improve,
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  • If my health doesn't improve, i'm still going to trust
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  • I'm still going to trust you."
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  • You." but see, we can get so
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  • But see, we can get so consumed with what we want
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  • Consumed with what we want that it can become like an
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  • That it can become like an idol.
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  • Idol. that's all we think about,
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  • That's all we think about, all we pray about, it's
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  • All we pray about, it's always on the forefront of
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  • Always on the forefront of our minds.
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  • Our minds. turn it over to god.
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  • Turn it over to god. pray, believe, then leave it
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  • Pray, believe, then leave it in god's hands.
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  • In god's hands. don't get so focused on what
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  • Don't get so focused on what you want that you miss the
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  • You want that you miss the beauty of this day.
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  • Beauty of this day. in the scripture, the apostle
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  • In the scripture, the apostle paul had what he described as
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  • Paul had what he described as a thorn in his flesh.
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  • A thorn in his flesh. it was something either
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  • It was something either physically or spiritually
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  • Physically or spiritually that he didn't like.
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  • That he didn't like. it was bothering him.
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  • It was bothering him. three times, he asked god to
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  • Three times, he asked god to take it away, but god didn't
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  • Take it away, but god didn't remove it.
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  • Remove it. paul was honoring god, he was
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  • Paul was honoring god, he was being his best.
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  • Being his best. he wrote half of the books in
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  • He wrote half of the books in the new testament.
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  • The new testament. you would think god would fix
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  • You would think god would fix what was bothering him.
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  • What was bothering him. but god said to him, "paul,
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  • But god said to him, "paul, my grace is sufficient for
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  • My grace is sufficient for you."
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  • You." he was saying, in effect, "i
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  • He was saying, in effect, "i may not remove it just yet,
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  • May not remove it just yet, but i will give you the grace
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  • But i will give you the grace to handle it."
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  • To handle it." and if god is not removing
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  • And if god is not removing what you want removed, if
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  • What you want removed, if he's not changing what you
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  • He's not changing what you want changed, don't use that
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  • Want changed, don't use that as an excuse to live sour,
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  • As an excuse to live sour, bitter.
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  • Bitter. god has given you the grace
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  • God has given you the grace to be where you are with a
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  • To be where you are with a good attitude.
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  • Good attitude. you can enjoy your life in
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  • You can enjoy your life in spite of what's not working
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  • Spite of what's not working out.
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  • Out. and sometimes, the reason our
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  • And sometimes, the reason our prayers aren't answered the
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  • Prayers aren't answered the way we want is because it's
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  • Way we want is because it's not the right time, or god
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  • Not the right time, or god has something better that we
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  • Has something better that we can't see, or perhaps he's
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  • Can't see, or perhaps he's using the difficulty to do a
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  • Using the difficulty to do a work in us, to help us grow,
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  • Work in us, to help us grow, to get stronger.
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  • To get stronger. unconditional trust says,
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  • Unconditional trust says, "god, i don't like it, i'm
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  • "god, i don't like it, i'm uncomfortable, but i'm smart
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  • Uncomfortable, but i'm smart enough to recognize you're
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  • Enough to recognize you're god and i'm not.
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  • God and i'm not. you're on the throne.
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  • You're on the throne. you're in control of my life.
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  • You're in control of my life. and you said your plans for
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  • And you said your plans for me are for good.
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  • Me are for good. you said you would lead me
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  • You said you would lead me down the best path for my
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  • Down the best path for my life.
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  • Life. and even though i don't
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  • And even though i don't understand it right now, god,
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  • Understand it right now, god, i trust you."
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  • I trust you." are you living frustrated,
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  • Are you living frustrated, unhappy because something is
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  • Unhappy because something is not going your way?
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  • Not going your way? that's conditional trust.
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  • That's conditional trust. you'll live a lot freer, a
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  • You'll live a lot freer, a lot happier if you'll quit
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  • Lot happier if you'll quit fighting what god is not
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  • Fighting what god is not changing.
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  • Changing. quit being upset over what
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  • Quit being upset over what he's not removing.
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  • He's not removing. paul said, "i have learned
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  • Paul said, "i have learned how to be content."
  • 00:08:04.307 --> 00:08:05.975
  • How to be content." didn't happen automatically.
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  • Didn't happen automatically. he made this decision, "i'm
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  • He made this decision, "i'm not going to live sour
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  • Because god hasn't removed
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  • Because god hasn't removed this thorn.
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  • This thorn. when he wants to remove it,
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  • When he wants to remove it, he'll remove it, but until
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  • He'll remove it, but until then, i'm going to be happy
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  • Then, i'm going to be happy where i am, thorn and all."
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  • Where i am, thorn and all." the truth is we all have some
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  • The truth is we all have some thorns, things that god is
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  • Thorns, things that god is not changing.
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  • Not changing. he could if he wanted to,
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  • He could if he wanted to, he's god.
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  • He's god. all he'd have to do is speak
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  • All he'd have to do is speak and that problem would turn
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  • And that problem would turn around, that person would
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  • Around, that person would treat you right, wouldn't be
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  • Treat you right, wouldn't be any big deal.
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  • Any big deal. but since he's not doing it
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  • But since he's not doing it yet, will you do like paul
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  • Yet, will you do like paul and be happy where you are,
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  • And be happy where you are, thorn and all, trouble and
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  • Thorn and all, trouble and all, loneliness and all?
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  • All, loneliness and all? it takes a mature person to
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  • It takes a mature person to say, "even though god is not
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  • Say, "even though god is not removing this, i'm still
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  • Removing this, i'm still going to have a smile, i'm
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  • Going to have a smile, i'm still going to be good to
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  • Still going to be good to people, i'm still going to
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  • People, i'm still going to give god praise."
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  • Give god praise." this is what happened with
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  • This is what happened with the three hebrew teenagers in
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  • The three hebrew teenagers in the scripture.
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  • The scripture. they wouldn't bow down to the
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  • They wouldn't bow down to the king's golden idol.
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  • King's golden idol. the king was furious.
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  • The king was furious. he was going to have them
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  • He was going to have them thrown into a fiery furnace.
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  • Thrown into a fiery furnace. they said, "king, we're not
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  • They said, "king, we're not going to bow down.
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  • Going to bow down. we know our god will deliver
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  • We know our god will deliver us.
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  • Us. but even if he doesn't, we're
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  • But even if he doesn't, we're still not going to bow down."
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  • Still not going to bow down." that's unconditional trust.
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  • That's unconditional trust. "i believe god's going to
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  • "i believe god's going to turn this situation around,
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  • Turn this situation around, but even if he doesn't, i'm
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  • But even if he doesn't, i'm still going to be happy.
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  • Still going to be happy. i believe i'm going to get
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  • I believe i'm going to get the promotion, believe my
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  • The promotion, believe my health is improving, i
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  • Health is improving, i believe the right person is
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  • Believe the right person is coming.
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  • Coming. but if it doesn't happen, i'm
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  • But if it doesn't happen, i'm not going to get bitter,
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  • Not going to get bitter, sour.
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  • Sour. i know god is still on the
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  • I know god is still on the throne.
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  • Throne. if he's not changing it, he
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  • If he's not changing it, he has a reason.
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  • Has a reason. my life is in his hands."
  • 00:09:51.113 --> 00:09:53.749
  • My life is in his hands." dare to trust him, not just
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  • Dare to trust him, not just when things are going your
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  • When things are going your way, but even when you don't
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  • Way, but even when you don't understand it.
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  • Understand it. the psalmist said, "god will
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  • The psalmist said, "god will work out his plan for your
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  • Work out his plan for your life."
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  • Life." you don't have to work it all
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  • You don't have to work it all out.
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  • Out. you don't have to make it
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  • You don't have to make it happen in your own strength,
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  • Happen in your own strength, try to manipulate people,
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  • Try to manipulate people, fight all your battles.
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  • Fight all your battles. why don't you relax, take the
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  • Why don't you relax, take the pressure off yourself, and
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  • Pressure off yourself, and let god work out his plan for
  • 00:10:18.307 --> 00:10:20.843
  • Let god work out his plan for your life?
  • 00:10:20.910 --> 00:10:22.211
  • Your life? he can do it better than you
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  • He can do it better than you can.
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  • Can. he knows the best path.
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  • He knows the best path. and that's what these
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  • And that's what these teenagers were saying, "we
  • 00:10:27.883 --> 00:10:29.218
  • Teenagers were saying, "we know god will deliver us from
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  • Know god will deliver us from this fire.
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  • This fire. but even if he doesn't, we're
  • 00:10:32.088 --> 00:10:33.622
  • But even if he doesn't, we're not going to get upset and
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  • Not going to get upset and start panicking.
  • 00:10:35.324 --> 00:10:36.859
  • Start panicking. we know we're not doing life
  • 00:10:36.926 --> 00:10:38.761
  • We know we're not doing life on our own.
  • 00:10:38.828 --> 00:10:40.296
  • On our own. the most high god, the
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  • The most high god, the creator of the universe, is
  • 00:10:41.997 --> 00:10:43.499
  • Creator of the universe, is working out his plan for our
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  • Working out his plan for our lives."
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  • Lives." all the forces of darkness
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  • All the forces of darkness cannot stop what god has
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  • Cannot stop what god has ordained.
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  • Ordained. that sickness can't stop him,
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  • That sickness can't stop him, trouble at work can't stop
  • 00:10:53.576 --> 00:10:54.944
  • Trouble at work can't stop him, the disappointments, the
  • 00:10:55.010 --> 00:10:56.645
  • Him, the disappointments, the setbacks.
  • 00:10:56.712 --> 00:10:57.880
  • Setbacks. and you may have a lot coming
  • 00:10:57.947 --> 00:10:59.281
  • And you may have a lot coming against you.
  • 00:10:59.348 --> 00:11:00.549
  • Against you. you feel like you're about to
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  • You feel like you're about to be thrown into a fire.
  • 00:11:01.751 --> 00:11:03.552
  • Be thrown into a fire. the good news is you're not
  • 00:11:03.619 --> 00:11:05.187
  • The good news is you're not going to go in there alone.
  • 00:11:05.254 --> 00:11:07.523
  • Going to go in there alone. you couldn't be put in that
  • 00:11:07.590 --> 00:11:08.691
  • You couldn't be put in that fire unless god allowed it.
  • 00:11:08.758 --> 00:11:11.427
  • Fire unless god allowed it. the enemy is not in control
  • 00:11:11.494 --> 00:11:13.329
  • The enemy is not in control of your life, god is in
  • 00:11:13.395 --> 00:11:14.597
  • Of your life, god is in control.
  • 00:11:14.663 --> 00:11:15.765
  • Control. he is working out his plan.
  • 00:11:15.831 --> 00:11:18.067
  • He is working out his plan. sometimes, his plan includes
  • 00:11:18.134 --> 00:11:21.003
  • Sometimes, his plan includes fiery furnaces.
  • 00:11:21.070 --> 00:11:22.838
  • Fiery furnaces. sometimes, it includes
  • 00:11:22.905 --> 00:11:24.206
  • Sometimes, it includes giants, red seas, pharaohs,
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  • Giants, red seas, pharaohs, people that don't like you,
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  • People that don't like you, obstacles that seem
  • 00:11:28.577 --> 00:11:29.912
  • Obstacles that seem insurmountable.
  • 00:11:29.979 --> 00:11:31.313
  • Insurmountable. you don't see a way, but
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  • You don't see a way, but since you know the lord is
  • 00:11:33.215 --> 00:11:34.850
  • Since you know the lord is directing your steps, you
  • 00:11:34.917 --> 00:11:36.886
  • Directing your steps, you don't try to figure it all
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  • Don't try to figure it all out.
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  • Out. it may look like the end, but
  • 00:11:39.955 --> 00:11:41.090
  • It may look like the end, but like these teenagers, you
  • 00:11:41.157 --> 00:11:42.925
  • Like these teenagers, you have unconditional trust.
  • 00:11:42.992 --> 00:11:45.761
  • Have unconditional trust. "i know god will deliver me,
  • 00:11:45.828 --> 00:11:47.763
  • "i know god will deliver me, but even if he doesn't, i'm
  • 00:11:47.830 --> 00:11:49.598
  • But even if he doesn't, i'm still going to have a song of
  • 00:11:49.665 --> 00:11:50.900
  • Still going to have a song of praise.
  • 00:11:50.966 --> 00:11:51.967
  • Praise. i'm still going to have an
  • 00:11:52.034 --> 00:11:53.202
  • I'm still going to have an attitude of faith.
  • 00:11:53.269 --> 00:11:54.370
  • Attitude of faith. i'm still going to live my
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  • I'm still going to live my life happy."
  • 00:11:55.905 --> 00:11:56.872
  • Life happy." there may be some fiery
  • 00:11:56.939 --> 00:11:58.641
  • There may be some fiery furnaces.
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  • Furnaces. are you only going to trust
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  • Are you only going to trust him if he delivers you from
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  • Him if he delivers you from the fire, if he takes away
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  • The fire, if he takes away all the thorns, if he does it
  • 00:12:05.147 --> 00:12:06.348
  • All the thorns, if he does it your way?
  • 00:12:06.415 --> 00:12:07.583
  • Your way? or are you going to have
  • 00:12:07.650 --> 00:12:08.851
  • Or are you going to have unconditional trust?
  • 00:12:08.918 --> 00:12:10.886
  • Unconditional trust? trust him like these
  • 00:12:10.953 --> 00:12:11.854
  • Trust him like these teenagers, even if he takes
  • 00:12:11.921 --> 00:12:13.889
  • Teenagers, even if he takes you through the fire.
  • 00:12:13.956 --> 00:12:15.524
  • You through the fire. looking back over my life,
  • 00:12:15.591 --> 00:12:17.326
  • Looking back over my life, things haven't turned out the
  • 00:12:17.393 --> 00:12:18.694
  • Things haven't turned out the way i thought.
  • 00:12:18.761 --> 00:12:20.629
  • Way i thought. i had a plan, i had it all
  • 00:12:20.696 --> 00:12:22.464
  • I had a plan, i had it all figured out.
  • 00:12:22.531 --> 00:12:24.033
  • Figured out. i told god what to do, when
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  • I told god what to do, when to do it, what i needed, who
  • 00:12:25.968 --> 00:12:28.504
  • To do it, what i needed, who to use, how to get me there.
  • 00:12:28.571 --> 00:12:30.706
  • To use, how to get me there. i gave him good information,
  • 00:12:30.773 --> 00:12:32.474
  • I gave him good information, my very best.
  • 00:12:32.541 --> 00:12:33.909
  • My very best. the funny thing is god didn't
  • 00:12:33.976 --> 00:12:35.711
  • The funny thing is god didn't take my advice.
  • 00:12:35.778 --> 00:12:37.646
  • He had his own plan.
  • 00:12:37.813 --> 00:12:40.482
  • He had his own plan. and what i found is god's
  • 00:12:40.549 --> 00:12:41.851
  • And what i found is god's plan has always been better
  • 00:12:41.917 --> 00:12:44.286
  • Plan has always been better than my plan.
  • 00:12:44.353 --> 00:12:46.121
  • Than my plan. his ways have always been
  • 00:12:46.188 --> 00:12:47.923
  • His ways have always been more rewarding, more
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  • More rewarding, more fulfilling, bigger than my
  • 00:12:50.693 --> 00:12:52.595
  • Fulfilling, bigger than my ways.
  • 00:12:52.661 --> 00:12:53.996
  • Ways. if god would have done
  • 00:12:54.063 --> 00:12:55.231
  • If god would have done everything i asked, answered
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  • Everything i asked, answered my prayers the way i wanted,
  • 00:12:57.666 --> 00:12:59.535
  • My prayers the way i wanted, on my timetable, it would
  • 00:12:59.602 --> 00:13:01.103
  • On my timetable, it would have limited my destiny.
  • 00:13:01.170 --> 00:13:03.572
  • Have limited my destiny. i wouldn't be where i am.
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  • I wouldn't be where i am. i couldn't see it at the
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  • I couldn't see it at the time, didn't make sense.
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  • Time, didn't make sense. seemed like a good thing, but
  • 00:13:08.711 --> 00:13:10.446
  • Seemed like a good thing, but one day, i learned what
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  • One day, i learned what isaiah said, that god's ways
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  • Isaiah said, that god's ways are higher than our ways.
  • 00:13:13.949 --> 00:13:16.385
  • Are higher than our ways. his plans are better than our
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  • His plans are better than our plans.
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  • Plans. quit being discouraged over
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  • Quit being discouraged over something that didn't work
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  • Something that didn't work out the way you wanted.
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  • Out the way you wanted. don't live frustrated because
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  • Don't live frustrated because maybe somebody left that you
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  • Maybe somebody left that you wanted to stay, a door closed
  • 00:13:29.331 --> 00:13:31.233
  • Wanted to stay, a door closed that you wanted open.
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  • That you wanted open. god knows what he's doing.
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  • God knows what he's doing. and you may not see it now,
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  • And you may not see it now, but one day, when you see
  • 00:13:37.206 --> 00:13:38.641
  • But one day, when you see what god was up to, you'll be
  • 00:13:38.707 --> 00:13:40.743
  • What god was up to, you'll be glad he closed the doors.
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  • Glad he closed the doors. you'll thank him for not
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  • You'll thank him for not answering those prayers.
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  • Answering those prayers. the longer i live, the more i
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  • The longer i live, the more i pray, "god, not my will, but
  • 00:13:47.950 --> 00:13:50.686
  • Pray, "god, not my will, but let your will be done."
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  • Let your will be done." i don't fight the closed
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  • I don't fight the closed doors anymore.
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  • Doors anymore. i don't get frustrated when
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  • I don't get frustrated when things aren't changing as
  • 00:13:56.859 --> 00:13:58.060
  • Things aren't changing as fast as i would like.
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  • Fast as i would like. i know that god is in
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  • I know that god is in control.
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  • Control. as long as you're honoring
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  • As long as you're honoring him, being your best, at the
  • 00:14:04.867 --> 00:14:06.535
  • Him, being your best, at the right time, god will get you
  • 00:14:06.602 --> 00:14:08.771
  • Right time, god will get you to where you're supposed to
  • 00:14:08.837 --> 00:14:10.205
  • To where you're supposed to be.
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  • Be. it may not be where you
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  • It may not be where you thought.
  • 00:14:12.174 --> 00:14:13.108
  • Thought. god is going to take you
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  • God is going to take you further than you ever
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  • Further than you ever imagined.
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  • Imagined. and i believe in praying for
  • 00:14:17.212 --> 00:14:18.314
  • And i believe in praying for our dreams, and praying bold
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  • Our dreams, and praying bold prayers, believing for big
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  • Prayers, believing for big things, but i've learned to
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  • Things, but i've learned to let god do it his way.
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  • Let god do it his way. hold tightly to what god put
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  • Hold tightly to what god put in your heart, but hold
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  • In your heart, but hold loosely to how it's going to
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  • Loosely to how it's going to happen.
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  • Happen. don't get set in your ways.
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  • Don't get set in your ways. don't be discouraged because
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  • Don't be discouraged because it hasn't happened the way
  • 00:14:37.032 --> 00:14:38.434
  • It hasn't happened the way you thought.
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  • You thought. god is working out his plan
  • 00:14:39.501 --> 00:14:41.470
  • God is working out his plan for your life.
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  • For your life. a couple of years after
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  • A couple of years after victoria and i were married,
  • 00:14:44.139 --> 00:14:45.441
  • Victoria and i were married, we sold our townhouse, we
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  • We sold our townhouse, we were going to buy our first
  • 00:14:47.609 --> 00:14:48.944
  • Were going to buy our first home.
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  • Home. we were so excited, we looked
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  • We were so excited, we looked for months and months, and we
  • 00:14:52.181 --> 00:14:53.615
  • For months and months, and we found this house that we
  • 00:14:53.682 --> 00:14:55.150
  • Found this house that we really loved.
  • 00:14:55.217 --> 00:14:56.585
  • Really loved. it was on a beautiful lot,
  • 00:14:56.652 --> 00:14:58.087
  • It was on a beautiful lot, big trees, so picturesque.
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  • Big trees, so picturesque. it was like our dream house.
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  • It was like our dream house. and we made an offer not much
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  • And we made an offer not much less than they were asking.
  • 00:15:04.760 --> 00:15:07.129
  • Less than they were asking. we didn't hear back for a
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  • We didn't hear back for a couple of weeks, and the
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  • Couple of weeks, and the house was empty, so we would
  • 00:15:09.598 --> 00:15:11.200
  • House was empty, so we would go out at night and pray over
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  • Go out at night and pray over it, and thank god that it was
  • 00:15:12.868 --> 00:15:14.870
  • It, and thank god that it was ours, dream about living
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  • Ours, dream about living there.
  • 00:15:16.572 --> 00:15:17.506
  • There. and here's where we'll put
  • 00:15:17.573 --> 00:15:18.474
  • And here's where we'll put our furniture, and here's
  • 00:15:18.540 --> 00:15:19.675
  • Our furniture, and here's where we'll put a swing set
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  • Where we'll put a swing set one day.
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  • One day. we were sure it was going to
  • 00:15:22.111 --> 00:15:23.579
  • We were sure it was going to happen, but they called back
  • 00:15:23.645 --> 00:15:25.581
  • Happen, but they called back and said they weren't going
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  • And said they weren't going to accept our offer.
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  • To accept our offer. we knew that was the devil
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  • We knew that was the devil trying to take our house
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  • Trying to take our house 'cause that was supposed to
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  • 'cause that was supposed to be ours.
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  • Be ours. have you noticed the devil
  • 00:15:34.757 --> 00:15:35.691
  • Have you noticed the devil gets blamed for a lot of
  • 00:15:35.758 --> 00:15:36.658
  • Gets blamed for a lot of things he had nothing to do
  • 00:15:36.725 --> 00:15:37.860
  • Things he had nothing to do with?
  • 00:15:37.926 --> 00:15:39.094
  • With? we went back to that house,
  • 00:15:39.161 --> 00:15:40.396
  • We went back to that house, and we started marching
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  • And we started marching around it, praying, binding,
  • 00:15:41.663 --> 00:15:43.032
  • Around it, praying, binding, loosing, doing everything we
  • 00:15:43.098 --> 00:15:44.833
  • Loosing, doing everything we could.
  • 00:15:44.900 --> 00:15:45.868
  • Could. a few days later, they sold
  • 00:15:45.934 --> 00:15:47.436
  • A few days later, they sold it to somebody else.
  • 00:15:47.503 --> 00:15:49.438
  • It to somebody else. have you ever felt like god
  • 00:15:49.505 --> 00:15:51.507
  • Have you ever felt like god let you down?
  • 00:15:51.573 --> 00:15:53.175
  • Let you down? he could have changed it so
  • 00:15:53.242 --> 00:15:54.343
  • He could have changed it so easily.
  • 00:15:54.410 --> 00:15:55.544
  • Easily. we were right there, but the
  • 00:15:55.611 --> 00:15:56.879
  • We were right there, but the door closed.
  • 00:15:56.945 --> 00:15:58.347
  • Door closed. we said, "god, where were
  • 00:15:58.414 --> 00:15:59.481
  • We said, "god, where were you?
  • 00:15:59.548 --> 00:16:00.816
  • You? this was our dream house."
  • 00:16:00.883 --> 00:16:02.418
  • This was our dream house." but if you're only going to
  • 00:16:02.484 --> 00:16:03.786
  • But if you're only going to be happy if god does it your
  • 00:16:03.852 --> 00:16:05.621
  • Be happy if god does it your way, that's not trusting,
  • 00:16:05.687 --> 00:16:08.724
  • Way, that's not trusting, that's giving god orders.
  • 00:16:08.791 --> 00:16:10.726
  • That's giving god orders. you'll be frustrated.
  • 00:16:10.793 --> 00:16:12.361
  • You'll be frustrated. why don't you put your life
  • 00:16:12.428 --> 00:16:13.962
  • Why don't you put your life in his hands?
  • 00:16:14.029 --> 00:16:15.330
  • In his hands? he knows what's best for you.
  • 00:16:15.397 --> 00:16:16.932
  • He knows what's best for you. he can see things that we
  • 00:16:16.999 --> 00:16:18.300
  • He can see things that we can't see.
  • 00:16:18.367 --> 00:16:19.735
  • Can't see. a couple of months later, we
  • 00:16:19.802 --> 00:16:21.503
  • A couple of months later, we found another house in close
  • 00:16:21.570 --> 00:16:23.572
  • Found another house in close to the city.
  • 00:16:23.639 --> 00:16:24.773
  • To the city. we purchased that place.
  • 00:16:24.840 --> 00:16:26.208
  • We purchased that place. two years after that, we sold
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  • Two years after that, we sold half of that property for
  • 00:16:28.243 --> 00:16:30.212
  • Half of that property for more than we paid for the
  • 00:16:30.279 --> 00:16:31.814
  • More than we paid for the whole property.
  • 00:16:31.880 --> 00:16:33.015
  • Whole property. we ended up building a new
  • 00:16:33.082 --> 00:16:34.049
  • We ended up building a new house there.
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  • House there. god blessed us in ways
  • 00:16:35.150 --> 00:16:36.418
  • God blessed us in ways greater than we ever
  • 00:16:36.485 --> 00:16:37.686
  • Greater than we ever imagined.
  • 00:16:37.753 --> 00:16:38.787
  • Imagined. but now, sometimes, i'll
  • 00:16:38.854 --> 00:16:40.322
  • But now, sometimes, i'll drive back by that other
  • 00:16:40.389 --> 00:16:42.191
  • Drive back by that other house i wanted so bad, and
  • 00:16:42.257 --> 00:16:44.159
  • House i wanted so bad, and say, "lord, thank you for
  • 00:16:44.226 --> 00:16:45.594
  • Say, "lord, thank you for closing this door.
  • 00:16:45.661 --> 00:16:47.129
  • Closing this door. thank you that it didn't work
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  • Thank you that it didn't work out."
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  • Out." some of the things that are
  • 00:16:49.932 --> 00:16:51.066
  • Some of the things that are not working out in your life
  • 00:16:51.133 --> 00:16:52.868
  • Not working out in your life now, one day you'll be doing
  • 00:16:52.935 --> 00:16:54.703
  • Now, one day you'll be doing like i did, "lord, thank you
  • 00:16:54.770 --> 00:16:56.905
  • Like i did, "lord, thank you that it didn't work out my
  • 00:16:56.972 --> 00:16:57.973
  • That it didn't work out my way."
  • 00:16:58.040 --> 00:16:59.374
  • Way." you could save yourself a lot
  • 00:16:59.441 --> 00:17:00.509
  • You could save yourself a lot of frustration if you'd learn
  • 00:17:00.576 --> 00:17:02.578
  • Of frustration if you'd learn to have unconditional trust.
  • 00:17:02.644 --> 00:17:05.280
  • To have unconditional trust. the closed doors, the
  • 00:17:05.347 --> 00:17:06.281
  • The closed doors, the disappointments, the delays,
  • 00:17:06.348 --> 00:17:08.083
  • Disappointments, the delays, it's all working for you.
  • 00:17:08.150 --> 00:17:10.419
  • It's all working for you. and yes, it's good to be
  • 00:17:10.486 --> 00:17:11.720
  • And yes, it's good to be determined, be persistent,
  • 00:17:11.787 --> 00:17:13.555
  • Determined, be persistent, but let god do it his way.
  • 00:17:13.622 --> 00:17:15.624
  • But let god do it his way. if he's not changing it, not
  • 00:17:15.691 --> 00:17:17.593
  • If he's not changing it, not removing it, not opening it,
  • 00:17:17.659 --> 00:17:19.495
  • Removing it, not opening it, don't fight it.
  • 00:17:19.561 --> 00:17:21.497
  • Don't fight it. learn to embrace where you
  • 00:17:21.563 --> 00:17:23.065
  • Learn to embrace where you are.
  • 00:17:23.132 --> 00:17:24.299
  • Are. he's given you the grace not
  • 00:17:24.366 --> 00:17:25.767
  • He's given you the grace not to just be there, but to be
  • 00:17:25.834 --> 00:17:27.503
  • To just be there, but to be there with a good attitude.
  • 00:17:27.569 --> 00:17:29.538
  • There with a good attitude. if you're going to pass the
  • 00:17:29.605 --> 00:17:30.906
  • If you're going to pass the test, keep a smile on your
  • 00:17:30.973 --> 00:17:32.808
  • Test, keep a smile on your face, keep a song in your
  • 00:17:32.875 --> 00:17:34.376
  • Face, keep a song in your heart, keep passion in your
  • 00:17:34.443 --> 00:17:36.078
  • Heart, keep passion in your spirit.
  • 00:17:36.145 --> 00:17:37.446
  • Spirit. don't drag through the day
  • 00:17:37.513 --> 00:17:38.647
  • Don't drag through the day disappointed.
  • 00:17:38.714 --> 00:17:39.882
  • Disappointed. this is the day the lord has
  • 00:17:39.948 --> 00:17:41.316
  • This is the day the lord has made.
  • 00:17:41.383 --> 00:17:42.484
  • Made. he's still on the throne,
  • 00:17:42.551 --> 00:17:43.986
  • He's still on the throne, he's working out his plan for
  • 00:17:44.052 --> 00:17:46.054
  • He's working out his plan for your life.
  • 00:17:46.121 --> 00:17:47.422
  • Your life. he's going to get you to
  • 00:17:47.489 --> 00:17:48.724
  • He's going to get you to where you're supposed to be.
  • 00:17:48.790 --> 00:17:50.826
  • Where you're supposed to be. but living worried,
  • 00:17:50.893 --> 00:17:52.461
  • But living worried, frustrated, disappointed,
  • 00:17:52.528 --> 00:17:54.530
  • Frustrated, disappointed, that takes our passion, it
  • 00:17:54.596 --> 00:17:56.365
  • That takes our passion, it steals our joy, and it can
  • 00:17:56.431 --> 00:17:57.933
  • Steals our joy, and it can keep us from seeing god's
  • 00:17:58.000 --> 00:17:59.568
  • Keep us from seeing god's favor.
  • 00:17:59.635 --> 00:18:00.936
  • Favor. and sometimes, the closed
  • 00:18:01.003 --> 00:18:02.137
  • And sometimes, the closed doors, the disappointments,
  • 00:18:02.204 --> 00:18:04.339
  • Doors, the disappointments, they are simply a test.
  • 00:18:04.406 --> 00:18:06.842
  • They are simply a test. god wants to see if we'll
  • 00:18:06.909 --> 00:18:08.277
  • God wants to see if we'll trust him when we don't
  • 00:18:08.343 --> 00:18:09.878
  • Trust him when we don't understand it, when life
  • 00:18:09.945 --> 00:18:11.647
  • Understand it, when life doesn't make sense.
  • 00:18:11.713 --> 00:18:13.782
  • Doesn't make sense. this is what happened with
  • 00:18:13.849 --> 00:18:14.583
  • This is what happened with abraham.
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  • Abraham. he waited 20 years to have
  • 00:18:15.617 --> 00:18:17.352
  • He waited 20 years to have his son isaac.
  • 00:18:17.419 --> 00:18:19.321
  • His son isaac. he and his wife sarah were
  • 00:18:19.388 --> 00:18:20.455
  • He and his wife sarah were way up there in their 80s.
  • 00:18:20.522 --> 00:18:23.025
  • Way up there in their 80s. they prayed, believed, stood
  • 00:18:23.091 --> 00:18:24.860
  • They prayed, believed, stood in faith.
  • 00:18:24.927 --> 00:18:26.028
  • In faith. they finally saw the promise
  • 00:18:26.094 --> 00:18:27.162
  • They finally saw the promise come to pass.
  • 00:18:27.229 --> 00:18:28.297
  • Come to pass. they were so excited.
  • 00:18:28.363 --> 00:18:29.932
  • They were so excited. you can imagine how abraham
  • 00:18:29.998 --> 00:18:32.301
  • You can imagine how abraham must have felt years later,
  • 00:18:32.367 --> 00:18:34.102
  • Must have felt years later, when god told him to take
  • 00:18:34.169 --> 00:18:35.804
  • When god told him to take isaac on top of a mountain
  • 00:18:35.871 --> 00:18:37.973
  • Isaac on top of a mountain and sacrifice him.
  • 00:18:38.040 --> 00:18:40.342
  • And sacrifice him. that didn't make sense.
  • 00:18:40.409 --> 00:18:42.077
  • That didn't make sense. isaac was what abraham loved
  • 00:18:42.144 --> 00:18:44.112
  • Isaac was what abraham loved the most.
  • 00:18:44.179 --> 00:18:45.347
  • The most. this was the fulfillment of
  • 00:18:45.414 --> 00:18:46.582
  • This was the fulfillment of the promise.
  • 00:18:46.648 --> 00:18:47.749
  • The promise. now, god was asking him to
  • 00:18:47.816 --> 00:18:49.251
  • Now, god was asking him to put his dream on the altar.
  • 00:18:49.318 --> 00:18:52.621
  • Put his dream on the altar. abraham didn't understand it,
  • 00:18:52.688 --> 00:18:54.923
  • Abraham didn't understand it, it didn't seem fair, but he
  • 00:18:54.990 --> 00:18:56.892
  • It didn't seem fair, but he was obedient.
  • 00:18:56.959 --> 00:18:58.827
  • Was obedient. he passed the trust test.
  • 00:18:58.894 --> 00:19:00.729
  • He passed the trust test. and just as he was about to
  • 00:19:00.796 --> 00:19:02.164
  • And just as he was about to follow through, god stopped
  • 00:19:02.231 --> 00:19:03.732
  • Follow through, god stopped him and said, "abraham, don't
  • 00:19:03.799 --> 00:19:04.833
  • Him and said, "abraham, don't do it.
  • 00:19:04.900 --> 00:19:06.568
  • Do it. now, i can see you trust me
  • 00:19:06.635 --> 00:19:08.570
  • Now, i can see you trust me more than anything."
  • 00:19:08.637 --> 00:19:11.240
  • More than anything." and like abraham, there will
  • 00:19:11.306 --> 00:19:12.808
  • And like abraham, there will be times god asks us to put
  • 00:19:12.874 --> 00:19:15.143
  • Be times god asks us to put our dream on the altar.
  • 00:19:15.210 --> 00:19:17.346
  • Our dream on the altar. we have to show him that we
  • 00:19:17.412 --> 00:19:19.181
  • We have to show him that we don't have to have the house
  • 00:19:19.248 --> 00:19:20.983
  • Don't have to have the house to be happy.
  • 00:19:21.049 --> 00:19:22.117
  • To be happy. if we don't have the baby,
  • 00:19:22.184 --> 00:19:23.619
  • If we don't have the baby, we're not going to live
  • 00:19:23.685 --> 00:19:24.620
  • We're not going to live bitter and sour.
  • 00:19:24.686 --> 00:19:26.121
  • Bitter and sour. you're believing for your
  • 00:19:26.188 --> 00:19:27.122
  • You're believing for your health to improve, but when
  • 00:19:27.189 --> 00:19:28.890
  • Health to improve, but when you can say, "if it doesn't
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  • You can say, "if it doesn't get better, god, i'm still
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  • Get better, god, i'm still going to honor you, i'm still
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  • Going to honor you, i'm still going to be my best," you are
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  • Going to be my best," you are doing what abraham did.
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  • Doing what abraham did. you are putting your dream on
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  • You are putting your dream on the altar.
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  • The altar. and when god sees that you
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  • And when god sees that you don't have to have it, many
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  • Don't have to have it, many times, like him, god will
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  • Times, like him, god will give you back what you were
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  • Give you back what you were willing to give up.
  • 00:19:47.609 --> 00:19:49.144
  • Willing to give up. during world war ii, there
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  • During world war ii, there was a young soldier in a
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  • Was a young soldier in a library in florida.
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  • Library in florida. while he was reading a book,
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  • While he was reading a book, he noticed all the
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  • He noticed all the handwritten notes in the
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  • Handwritten notes in the margin.
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  • Margin. they were very thoughtful and
  • 00:20:00.289 --> 00:20:01.356
  • They were very thoughtful and heartwarming.
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  • Heartwarming. he turned to the front of the
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  • He turned to the front of the book, it just so happened it
  • 00:20:04.026 --> 00:20:05.460
  • Book, it just so happened it had the previous owner's name
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  • Had the previous owner's name and address.
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  • And address. it was a lady named holly
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  • It was a lady named holly that lived in new york city.
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  • That lived in new york city. he wrote her a letter,
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  • He wrote her a letter, introducing himself, and
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  • Introducing himself, and telling how he was about to
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  • Telling how he was about to be shipped off overseas to
  • 00:20:18.140 --> 00:20:19.941
  • Be shipped off overseas to europe the next day.
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  • Europe the next day. he invited her to respond,
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  • He invited her to respond, and they could talk about the
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  • And they could talk about the book.
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  • Book. much to his surprise, he
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  • Much to his surprise, he received a letter in return.
  • 00:20:27.949 --> 00:20:30.085
  • Received a letter in return. and for the next 13 months,
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  • And for the next 13 months, they wrote back and forth
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  • They wrote back and forth again and again, getting
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  • Again and again, getting closer and closer.
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  • Closer and closer. they were actually falling in
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  • They were actually falling in love, yet they had never seen
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  • Love, yet they had never seen each other.
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  • Each other. he had requested a picture,
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  • He had requested a picture, but she refused.
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  • But she refused. a year and a half later, he
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  • A year and a half later, he was coming back home through
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  • Was coming back home through new york city.
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  • New york city. this was their big
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  • This was their big opportunity, they were going
  • 00:20:51.540 --> 00:20:52.908
  • Opportunity, they were going to meet for the first time
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  • To meet for the first time and go out to dinner.
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  • And go out to dinner. she said, "i'll be waiting
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  • She said, "i'll be waiting for you when you get off the
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  • For you when you get off the ship.
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  • Ship. you'll know it's me by the
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  • You'll know it's me by the pink rose i'll be wearing."
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  • Sailing back across the
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  • Sailing back across the ocean, he was so excited and
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  • Ocean, he was so excited and so nervous at the same time.
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  • So nervous at the same time. he stepped off the ship, the
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  • He stepped off the ship, the big moment finally arrived.
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  • Big moment finally arrived. this beautiful young lady
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  • This beautiful young lady came walking toward him.
  • 00:21:16.498 --> 00:21:19.034
  • Came walking toward him. she took his breath away.
  • 00:21:19.101 --> 00:21:20.902
  • She took his breath away. she was stunning, tall,
  • 00:21:20.969 --> 00:21:23.305
  • She was stunning, tall, gorgeous features, in great
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  • Gorgeous features, in great shape, she looked like a
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  • Shape, she looked like a movie star.
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  • Movie star. he couldn't believe what he
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  • He couldn't believe what he was seeing.
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  • Was seeing. he was so taken aback by it,
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  • He was so taken aback by it, he didn't realize she wasn't
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  • He didn't realize she wasn't wearing a pink rose.
  • 00:21:35.350 --> 00:21:38.120
  • Wearing a pink rose. as she passed on by, he
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  • As she passed on by, he finally came back down to
  • 00:21:40.222 --> 00:21:41.223
  • Finally came back down to earth.
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  • Earth. about that time, this lady in
  • 00:21:42.457 --> 00:21:44.226
  • About that time, this lady in her 40s walked up to him.
  • 00:21:44.292 --> 00:21:47.596
  • Her 40s walked up to him. she wasn't necessarily
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  • She wasn't necessarily attractive, had greying hair,
  • 00:21:48.730 --> 00:21:50.532
  • Attractive, had greying hair, and just so happened she was
  • 00:21:50.599 --> 00:21:52.167
  • And just so happened she was wearing the pink rose.
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  • Wearing the pink rose. disappointed, but not showing
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  • Disappointed, but not showing it, he walked up to her with
  • 00:21:56.438 --> 00:21:58.440
  • It, he walked up to her with a smile.
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  • A smile. he saluted, and said, "hello,
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  • He saluted, and said, "hello, ma'am.
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  • Ma'am. you must be holly.
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  • You must be holly. i'm so glad to meet you.
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  • I'm so glad to meet you. can i take you to dinner?"
  • 00:22:06.014 --> 00:22:07.716
  • Can i take you to dinner?" the lady said, "son, i'm not
  • 00:22:07.783 --> 00:22:09.351
  • The lady said, "son, i'm not sure what's going on, but the
  • 00:22:09.418 --> 00:22:11.353
  • Sure what's going on, but the young lady that just passed
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  • Young lady that just passed you asked me to wear this
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  • You asked me to wear this pink rose.
  • 00:22:15.157 --> 00:22:16.858
  • Pink rose. she said if you invited me to
  • 00:22:16.925 --> 00:22:19.027
  • She said if you invited me to dinner, to tell you she'll be
  • 00:22:19.094 --> 00:22:20.529
  • Dinner, to tell you she'll be waiting for you in the
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  • Waiting for you in the restaurant across the way."
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  • Restaurant across the way." it was simply a test.
  • 00:22:25.233 --> 00:22:28.003
  • It was simply a test. will you do the right thing
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  • Will you do the right thing when it's hard?
  • 00:22:29.638 --> 00:22:30.806
  • When it's hard? will you trust god when it's
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  • Will you trust god when it's not what you thought, when
  • 00:22:32.407 --> 00:22:33.909
  • Not what you thought, when you don't understand it?
  • 00:22:33.975 --> 00:22:35.944
  • You don't understand it? god said to abraham, "because
  • 00:22:36.011 --> 00:22:37.312
  • God said to abraham, "because you did not withhold your
  • 00:22:37.379 --> 00:22:38.847
  • You did not withhold your only son, i will surely bless
  • 00:22:38.914 --> 00:22:41.683
  • Only son, i will surely bless you, and make your
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  • You, and make your descendants as numerous as
  • 00:22:43.418 --> 00:22:45.187
  • Descendants as numerous as the sand on the seashore."
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  • The sand on the seashore." when you do like abraham, you
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  • When you do like abraham, you do like this young soldier
  • 00:22:49.658 --> 00:22:51.293
  • Do like this young soldier and you pass the trust test,
  • 00:22:51.359 --> 00:22:53.495
  • And you pass the trust test, god will not only give you
  • 00:22:53.562 --> 00:22:55.330
  • God will not only give you the desires of your heart,
  • 00:22:55.397 --> 00:22:57.165
  • The desires of your heart, he'll do more than you can
  • 00:22:57.232 --> 00:22:58.366
  • He'll do more than you can ask or think.
  • 00:22:58.433 --> 00:22:59.968
  • Ask or think. are you living frustrated
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  • Are you living frustrated because your prayers aren't
  • 00:23:02.103 --> 00:23:03.104
  • Because your prayers aren't being answered the way you
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  • Being answered the way you want, your plans aren't
  • 00:23:04.105 --> 00:23:05.907
  • Want, your plans aren't working out?
  • 00:23:05.974 --> 00:23:07.142
  • Working out? take the pressure off.
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  • Take the pressure off. god is in control, he knows
  • 00:23:08.777 --> 00:23:11.046
  • God is in control, he knows what's best for you.
  • 00:23:11.112 --> 00:23:12.547
  • What's best for you. you're not always going to
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  • You're not always going to understand it.
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  • Understand it. if you did, it wouldn't take
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  • If you did, it wouldn't take any faith.
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  • Any faith. i'm asking you to trust him
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  • I'm asking you to trust him unconditionally.
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  • Unconditionally. if you'll do this, i believe
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  • If you'll do this, i believe and declare god is going to
  • 00:23:23.225 --> 00:23:25.527
  • And declare god is going to work out his plan for your
  • 00:23:25.594 --> 00:23:27.462
  • Work out his plan for your life.
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  • Life. he's going to open the right
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  • He's going to open the right doors, bring the right
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  • Doors, bring the right people, turn negative
  • 00:23:31.299 --> 00:23:32.367
  • People, turn negative situations around, and take
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  • Situations around, and take you to the fullness of your
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  • You to the fullness of your destiny, in jesus' name.
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  • Destiny, in jesus' name. if you receive it, can you
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  • If you receive it, can you say amen today?
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  • Say amen today? i'd like to give you an
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  • I'd like to give you an opportunity to make jesus the
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  • Opportunity to make jesus the lord of your life.
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  • Lord of your life. would you pray with me?
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  • Would you pray with me? just say, "lord jesus, i
  • 00:23:47.249 --> 00:23:49.451
  • Just say, "lord jesus, i repent of my sins.
  • 00:23:49.518 --> 00:23:51.820
  • Repent of my sins. come into my heart.
  • 00:23:51.887 --> 00:23:54.322
  • Come into my heart. i make you my lord and
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  • I make you my lord and savior."
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  • Savior." if you prayed that simple
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  • If you prayed that simple prayer, we believe you got
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  • Prayer, we believe you got born again.
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  • Get in a good, bible-based church.
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  • Church. keep god first place, he's
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  • Keep god first place, he's going to take you places
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  • Going to take you places you've never dreamed.
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  • You've never dreamed. victoria and i will be right
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  • Victoria and i will be right back to speak a blessing over
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  • Back to speak a blessing over you.
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  • Some of us have been carrying
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  • Some of us have been carrying the same weight for years:
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  • The same weight for years: mistakes, regrets,
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  • Mistakes, regrets, what people said.
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  • What people said. what if you were never meant to
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  • What if you were never meant to carry any of it?
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  • Carry any of it? it's easy
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  • It's easy in life to wear labels.
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  • In life to wear labels. mistakes we've made
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  • Mistakes we've made and what people have said.
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  • And what people have said. disappointments we face.
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  • Disappointments we face. those labels can diminish
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  • Those labels can diminish our sense of value
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  • Our sense of value and cause us to forget
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  • And cause us to forget who we really are.
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  • I have a new book called
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  • Made by god: know it,led
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  • It'll help and live it.
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  • It'll help and live it. you see yourself
  • 00:24:36.932 --> 00:24:37.666
  • You see yourself the way god sees you:
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  • The way god sees you: valuable, talented, worthy,
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  • Valuable, talented, worthy, a masterpiece.
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  • A masterpiece. you've been fearfully
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  • You've been fearfully and wonderfully made.
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  • You were not made by your mistakes.
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  • You were not made by what people said.
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  • What people said. you were not made by
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  • You were not made by your hardest season.
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  • Your hardest season. you were made
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  • You were made by god
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  • By god on purpose, with purpose.
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  • And finally see yourself the way
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  • The way god sees you:
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  • God sees you: valuable,
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  • Valuable, talented, a masterpiece.
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