Bible teacher Joyce Meyer shares timeless scriptural principles to show us how we can embrace the best God has for us each and every day of our lives.
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Joyce Meyer: Enjoying Everyday Life | Joyce Meyer - Are You an Optimist or a Pessimist? | July 6, 2026
- >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer,
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- >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer, and i believe that god can
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- >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer, and i believe that god can heal you everywhere you hurt.
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- >> joyce: well, thank you for
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- >> joyce: well, thank you for taking this time to be with
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- >> joyce: well, thank you for taking this time to be with me today on "enjoying
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- Taking this time to be with me today on "enjoying everyday life."
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- I'm going to start
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- I'm going to start with a question,
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- I'm going to start with a question, and it's a big question.
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- With a question, and it's a big question. are you an optimist
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- And it's a big question. are you an optimist or a pessimist?
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- Are you an optimist or a pessimist? are you positive or negative?
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- Or a pessimist? are you positive or negative? do you see what's wrong
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- Are you positive or negative? do you see what's wrong or what's right?
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- Do you see what's wrong or what's right? and it's not wrong
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- Or what's right? and it's not wrong to see what's wrong,
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- And it's not wrong to see what's wrong, but if that's all you see,
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- To see what's wrong, but if that's all you see, then you're gonna live
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- But if that's all you see, then you're gonna live a pretty miserable life.
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- Then you're gonna live a pretty miserable life. are you what they
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- A pretty miserable life. are you what they call half glass empty
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- Are you what they call half glass empty or half glass full?
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- Call half glass empty or half glass full? you know,
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- Or half glass full? you know, i used to be so negative.
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- You know, i used to be so negative. my father was very negative,
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- I used to be so negative. my father was very negative, and he actually taught
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- My father was very negative, and he actually taught me to be negative.
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- He told us, "you can't
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- He told us, "you can't trust anybody.
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- He told us, "you can't trust anybody. everybody's out to get you."
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- Trust anybody. everybody's out to get you." and he just had a sour,
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- Everybody's out to get you." and he just had a sour, bitter attitude.
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- And he just had a sour, bitter attitude. and so i had had a lot of bad
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- Bitter attitude. and so i had had a lot of bad things happen to me.
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- And so i had had a lot of bad things happen to me. just a lot--a lot of bad
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- Things happen to me. just a lot--a lot of bad things for a long time.
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- Just a lot--a lot of bad things for a long time. and i got to the point where
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- Things for a long time. and i got to the point where i kind of lived waiting for
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- And i got to the point where i kind of lived waiting for the next bad thing to happen.
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- And god taught me out
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- And god taught me out of proverbs 15:15, that that's
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- And god taught me out of proverbs 15:15, that that's called evil forebodings.
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- Of proverbs 15:15, that that's called evil forebodings. and if we get to the point
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- Where we get so negative that
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- Where we get so negative that we're just expecting bad
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- Where we get so negative that we're just expecting bad things, then that's all you're
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- We're just expecting bad things, then that's all you're ever gonna have, is bad
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- Things, then that's all you're ever gonna have, is bad things.
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- What we need to do is look
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- What we need to do is look for and find the good
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- What we need to do is look for and find the good in everything.
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- For and find the good in everything. you know, i know people that
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- In everything. you know, i know people that are both ways.
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- You know, i know people that are both ways. i know some people that are
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- Are both ways. i know some people that are just negative.
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- I know some people that are just negative. they always find the problem
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- Just negative. they always find the problem with everybody
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- They always find the problem with everybody or with everything.
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- With everybody or with everything. but thankfully, i know several
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- Or with everything. but thankfully, i know several people that are just so upbeat
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- But thankfully, i know several people that are just so upbeat and positive and encouraging,
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- People that are just so upbeat and positive and encouraging, and they make everybody that
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- And positive and encouraging, and they make everybody that they get around feel good.
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- And they make everybody that they get around feel good. and you might say, "well,
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- They get around feel good. and you might say, "well, you know, that's just
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- And you might say, "well, you know, that's just my temperament.
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- You know, that's just my temperament. i can't help the way i am."
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- My temperament. i can't help the way i am." but that's not true.
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- I can't help the way i am." but that's not true. i was so negative.
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- But that's not true. i was so negative. and god has taught me
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- I was so negative. and god has taught me to be a very positive person.
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- And god has taught me to be a very positive person. one of the things that i made
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- To be a very positive person. one of the things that i made my mind up to several years
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- One of the things that i made my mind up to several years ago was to do what the bible
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- My mind up to several years ago was to do what the bible says in 1 corinthians 13,
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- Ago was to do what the bible says in 1 corinthians 13, talking about love and believe
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- Says in 1 corinthians 13, talking about love and believe the best of every person.
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- Talking about love and believe the best of every person. now, sometimes you believe
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- The best of every person. now, sometimes you believe the best of somebody and yes,
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- Now, sometimes you believe the best of somebody and yes, you will get hurt because
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- The best of somebody and yes, you will get hurt because it'll turn out that they
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- You will get hurt because it'll turn out that they weren't such a great person.
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- It'll turn out that they weren't such a great person. we've had that several times.
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- Weren't such a great person. we've had that several times. even in ministry,
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- We've had that several times. even in ministry, it happens.
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- Even in ministry, it happens. but i refuse to punish
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- It happens. but i refuse to punish everybody else that i come
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- But i refuse to punish everybody else that i come across in the world
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- Everybody else that i come across in the world by deciding that they're out
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- Across in the world by deciding that they're out to get me and not even giving
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- By deciding that they're out to get me and not even giving them a chance to see all
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- To get me and not even giving them a chance to see all the good things in them.
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- Let's look for the good
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- Let's look for the good in people and pray about
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- Let's look for the good in people and pray about the things that maybe aren't
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- In people and pray about the things that maybe aren't so good.
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- The things that maybe aren't so good. james 1:2-4.
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- So good. james 1:2-4. "consider it pure joy,
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- James 1:2-4. "consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters,
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- "consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face
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- My brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds,
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- Whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that
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- Trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith
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- Because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance"
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- The testing of your faith produces perseverance" or the amplified says,
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- Produces perseverance" or the amplified says, "patience."
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- Or the amplified says, "patience." and i said, "well--" back when
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- "patience." and i said, "well--" back when i was in my late 20s and 30s
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- And 40s, trials didn't produce
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- And 40s, trials didn't produce any perseverance in me.
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- And 40s, trials didn't produce any perseverance in me. they produced a lot of other
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- Any perseverance in me. they produced a lot of other ugly attitudes.
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- They produced a lot of other ugly attitudes. because, you know,
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- Ugly attitudes. because, you know, you never know yourself
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- Because, you know, you never know yourself any better than how
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- You never know yourself any better than how you behave in a trying time,
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- Any better than how you behave in a trying time, in a testing time,
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- You behave in a trying time, in a testing time, in a time that's personally
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- In a testing time, in a time that's personally painful for you, in a time
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- In a time that's personally painful for you, in a time when you're being treated
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- Painful for you, in a time when you're being treated unjustly or unfairly
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- When you're being treated unjustly or unfairly or something suddenly happens
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- Unjustly or unfairly or something suddenly happens that's not such a good thing
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- Or something suddenly happens that's not such a good thing and you weren't expecting it.
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- That's not such a good thing and you weren't expecting it. that's when you see
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- And you weren't expecting it. that's when you see the real you.
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- That's when you see the real you. and that's when i started
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- The real you. and that's when i started to see the real me.
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- And that's when i started to see the real me. and i began to realize that
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- To see the real me. and i began to realize that everybody else wasn't
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- And i began to realize that everybody else wasn't the problem, that i had
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- Everybody else wasn't the problem, that i had some problems.
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- I had--
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- I had-- now, i know this is going
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- I had-- now, i know this is going to surprise you, but i had
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- Now, i know this is going to surprise you, but i had a bad attitude.
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- To surprise you, but i had a bad attitude. can you believe that?
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- A bad attitude. can you believe that? and maybe some of you, just
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- Can you believe that? and maybe some of you, just maybe one or two watching,
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- And maybe some of you, just maybe one or two watching, have a bad attitude,
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- Maybe one or two watching, have a bad attitude, an attitude of self pity,
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- Have a bad attitude, an attitude of self pity, an attitude of blaming everybody
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- An attitude of self pity, an attitude of blaming everybody else for your problems,
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- An attitude of blaming everybody else for your problems, or just a negative
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- Else for your problems, or just a negative pessimistic attitude.
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- Or just a negative pessimistic attitude. you almost don't even want
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- Pessimistic attitude. you almost don't even want something good to happen.
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- You almost don't even want something good to happen. but you know what?
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- Something good to happen. but you know what? thank god, through his grace
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- And mercy, we can change,
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- And mercy, we can change, or he changes us.
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- And mercy, we can change, or he changes us. we can't do it on our own,
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- Or he changes us. we can't do it on our own, but if we ask him to do it
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- We can't do it on our own, but if we ask him to do it and cooperate with him,
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- But if we ask him to do it and cooperate with him, he'll do it.
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- And cooperate with him, he'll do it. and now i am very positive.
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- He'll do it. and now i am very positive. positive to the point where
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- And now i am very positive. positive to the point where being around somebody negative
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- Positive to the point where being around somebody negative actually aggravates me.
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- "let patience finish its work
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- "let patience finish its work so that you may be mature
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- "let patience finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking
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- So that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything."
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- And complete, not lacking anything." so when we become totally
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- Patient, says "we won't
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- Patient, says "we won't lack anything."
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- Patient, says "we won't lack anything." one translation says,
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- Lack anything." one translation says, "you won't want anything."
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- One translation says, "you won't want anything." and you think, "well, how
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- "you won't want anything." and you think, "well, how could i want nothing?"
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- And you think, "well, how could i want nothing?" well, if you're totally
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- Could i want nothing?" well, if you're totally patient, you're satisfied
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- Well, if you're totally patient, you're satisfied where you're at while you're
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- Patient, you're satisfied where you're at while you're waiting for god to do whatever
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- Where you're at while you're waiting for god to do whatever he's gonna do.
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- Waiting for god to do whatever he's gonna do. no one enjoys difficulty.
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- He's gonna do. no one enjoys difficulty. but looking for the good
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- No one enjoys difficulty. but looking for the good in every difficulty
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- But looking for the good in every difficulty gives you hope.
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- In every difficulty gives you hope. and it not only helps you,
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- Gives you hope. and it not only helps you, but it helps all the people
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- And it not only helps you, but it helps all the people around you.
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- But it helps all the people around you. see, there's something that
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- Around you. see, there's something that i believe that the bible says
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- See, there's something that i believe that the bible says that helps me to be positive.
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- And i hope you believe it too.
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- And i hope you believe it too. it's romans 8:28.
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- And i hope you believe it too. it's romans 8:28. it says that "all things work
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- It's romans 8:28. it says that "all things work together for good,
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- It says that "all things work together for good, to those who are called
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- Together for good, to those who are called according to his purpose and
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- To those who are called according to his purpose and who love him."
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- All things work
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- All things work together for good.
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- All things work together for good. they may not all be good,
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- Together for good. they may not all be good, but they can work out for good.
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- They may not all be good, but they can work out for good. god can take any bad situation
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- But they can work out for good. god can take any bad situation and turn it around into
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- God can take any bad situation and turn it around into something positive.
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- And turn it around into something positive. if you listen to my program
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- Something positive. if you listen to my program very much, i'm sure you
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- If you listen to my program very much, i'm sure you already know this, but maybe
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- Very much, i'm sure you already know this, but maybe you don't.
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- Already know this, but maybe you don't. maybe this is your first time
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- You don't. maybe this is your first time to watch the program.
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- Maybe this is your first time to watch the program. and i was sexually abused
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- To watch the program. and i was sexually abused by my dad for all my years
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- And i was sexually abused by my dad for all my years growing up.
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- By my dad for all my years growing up. and my mother knew about it,
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- Growing up. and my mother knew about it, but she was too fearful to try
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- And my mother knew about it, but she was too fearful to try to do anything about it,
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- But she was too fearful to try to do anything about it, so she just kind of abandoned
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- To do anything about it, so she just kind of abandoned me to it.
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- So she just kind of abandoned me to it. i reached out for help
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- Me to it. i reached out for help to a few people
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- I reached out for help to a few people and they didn't
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- To a few people and they didn't want to get involved.
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- And they didn't want to get involved. and so i finally just decided,
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- Want to get involved. and so i finally just decided, "well, i'm gonna survive this.
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- And so i finally just decided, "well, i'm gonna survive this. i'm gonna survive this."
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- "well, i'm gonna survive this. i'm gonna survive this." and as soon as i was 18, one
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- I'm gonna survive this." and as soon as i was 18, one night when my dad was at work,
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- And as soon as i was 18, one night when my dad was at work, i packed my clothes
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- Night when my dad was at work, i packed my clothes and i left home.
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- I packed my clothes and i left home. well, i married the first guy
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- And i left home. well, i married the first guy that came along because
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- Well, i married the first guy that came along because i was afraid nobody would
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- That came along because i was afraid nobody would ever want me.
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- I was afraid nobody would ever want me. and that was another five
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- Ever want me. and that was another five year nightmare.
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- And that was another five year nightmare. so i was actually 23 when
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- Year nightmare. so i was actually 23 when i met the man i've been married
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- So i was actually 23 when i met the man i've been married to now for almost 60 years.
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- I met the man i've been married to now for almost 60 years. in january, it'll be 59 years...
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- To now for almost 60 years. in january, it'll be 59 years... 59 years.
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- In january, it'll be 59 years... 59 years. and no, they haven't all been
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- 59 years. and no, they haven't all been blissful and wonderful,
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- And no, they haven't all been blissful and wonderful, but i've had a good marriage.
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- Blissful and wonderful, but i've had a good marriage. dave and i have had a lot
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- But i've had a good marriage. dave and i have had a lot of fun together.
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- Dave and i have had a lot of fun together. we've had a few arguments,
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- Of fun together. we've had a few arguments, well, maybe more than a few,
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- We've had a few arguments, well, maybe more than a few, especially earlier in life,
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- Well, maybe more than a few, especially earlier in life, but we hardly ever argue now.
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- You know, the older you get,
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- You know, the older you get, the more you realize what
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- You know, the older you get, the more you realize what a waste of time it is.
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- The more you realize what a waste of time it is. "all things work
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- A waste of time it is. "all things work together for good."
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- "all things work together for good." i had that horrible beginning,
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- But i'm having a great finish.
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- But i'm having a great finish. and if you would have asked me
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- But i'm having a great finish. and if you would have asked me when i was 23 did i believe
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- And if you would have asked me when i was 23 did i believe that i could ever be this
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- When i was 23 did i believe that i could ever be this happy or that my life could
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- That i could ever be this happy or that my life could ever be this good, i would
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- Happy or that my life could ever be this good, i would have laughed in your face
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- Ever be this good, i would have laughed in your face and thought you were
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- Have laughed in your face and thought you were totally crazy.
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- And thought you were totally crazy. but god has changed me.
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- Totally crazy. but god has changed me. and if you let him change you,
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- But god has changed me. and if you let him change you, then the things around you
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- And if you let him change you, then the things around you will also begin to change.
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- Then the things around you will also begin to change. we have issues, we have
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- Will also begin to change. we have issues, we have problems like everybody else,
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- We have issues, we have problems like everybody else, but god has changed
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- Problems like everybody else, but god has changed us on the inside.
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- But god has changed us on the inside. and so we don't look at them
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- Us on the inside. and so we don't look at them the same way that we used to.
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- And so we don't look at them the same way that we used to. you know, every problem,
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- The same way that we used to. you know, every problem, every trial that you have will
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- You know, every problem, every trial that you have will come to an end.
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- Every trial that you have will come to an end. it'll come to an end.
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- Come to an end. it'll come to an end. this too shall pass.
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- It'll come to an end. this too shall pass. one of the things we say
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- This too shall pass. one of the things we say around here at joyce meyer
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- One of the things we say around here at joyce meyer ministries is: this will end
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- Around here at joyce meyer ministries is: this will end well.
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- Ministries is: this will end well. it's not much fun while it's
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- Well. it's not much fun while it's going on, but this will
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- It's not much fun while it's going on, but this will end well.
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- Ephesians 5:20 says that we
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- Ephesians 5:20 says that we should "always give thanks
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- Ephesians 5:20 says that we should "always give thanks to god the father for
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- Should "always give thanks to god the father for everything in the name
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- To god the father for everything in the name of our lord jesus christ."
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- Everything in the name of our lord jesus christ." every situation you're in,
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- Of our lord jesus christ." every situation you're in, that's a sour situation,
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- If you look for it,
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- If you look for it, you can find something
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- If you look for it, you can find something good that's in it,
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- You can find something good that's in it, or you can believe by faith
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- Good that's in it, or you can believe by faith that something good will
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- Or you can believe by faith that something good will come out of it.
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- That something good will come out of it. testing makes us strong.
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- Come out of it. testing makes us strong. it really does.
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- Testing makes us strong. it really does. the more you go through
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- It really does. the more you go through different things, the less
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- The more you go through different things, the less they bother you.
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- Different things, the less they bother you. every time you see god show up
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- They bother you. every time you see god show up in your life, every time you
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- Every time you see god show up in your life, every time you have a trial and he comes
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- In your life, every time you have a trial and he comes through for you, it makes
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- Have a trial and he comes through for you, it makes you stronger the next time.
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- Always thank god
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- Always thank god in everything.
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- Always thank god in everything. but you know, you can't
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- In everything. but you know, you can't do that unless you believe
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- But you know, you can't do that unless you believe that he will work good
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- Do that unless you believe that he will work good out of all things.
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- That he will work good out of all things. do you focus on what you have
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- Out of all things. do you focus on what you have or what you don't have?
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- Do you focus on what people do
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- Do you focus on what people do for you or what they don't do
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- Do you focus on what people do for you or what they don't do for you?
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- For you or what they don't do for you? do you focus on what you like
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- For you? do you focus on what you like about people you're involved
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- Do you focus on what you like about people you're involved with?
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- About people you're involved with? or do you focus on what you
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- With? or do you focus on what you don't like?
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- Or do you focus on what you don't like? i kind of got off into an area
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- Don't like? i kind of got off into an area one time where i was just
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- I kind of got off into an area one time where i was just thinking about everything
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- One time where i was just thinking about everything that my husband did that
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- Thinking about everything that my husband did that aggravated me.
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- That my husband did that aggravated me. and, you know, when you think
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- Aggravated me. and, you know, when you think like that, it makes you unhappy.
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- And, you know, when you think like that, it makes you unhappy. not only does it not please god,
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- Like that, it makes you unhappy. not only does it not please god, but it makes you unhappy.
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- Not only does it not please god, but it makes you unhappy. and so this just came
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- But it makes you unhappy. and so this just came to my heart.
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- And so this just came to my heart. i believe god put it on my
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- To my heart. i believe god put it on my heart to make two lists.
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- I believe god put it on my heart to make two lists. one, the things i didn't like
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- Heart to make two lists. one, the things i didn't like about dave, and two,
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- One, the things i didn't like about dave, and two, the things i did like.
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- About dave, and two, the things i did like. and you know what?
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- The things i did like. and you know what? i was shocked.
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- And you know what? i was shocked. but the list of things i liked
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- I was shocked. but the list of things i liked was four times as long
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- But the list of things i liked was four times as long as the ones that i didn't like.
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- Was four times as long as the ones that i didn't like. i had just begun to focus
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- As the ones that i didn't like. i had just begun to focus on what was wrong.
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- I had just begun to focus on what was wrong. and i believe there's somebody
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- On what was wrong. and i believe there's somebody watching right now that you
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- And i believe there's somebody watching right now that you need that message.
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- Watching right now that you need that message. you've been focusing on what's
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- Need that message. you've been focusing on what's wrong with your kids, what's
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- You've been focusing on what's wrong with your kids, what's wrong with the person you're
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- Wrong with your kids, what's wrong with the person you're married to, or what's wrong
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- Wrong with the person you're married to, or what's wrong with your parents,
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- Married to, or what's wrong with your parents, instead of thinking about
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- With your parents, instead of thinking about every good thing about them.
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- Instead of thinking about every good thing about them. and everybody does have good
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- Every good thing about them. and everybody does have good things about them.
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- And everybody does have good things about them. you know, the optimist sees
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- Things about them. you know, the optimist sees the rose.
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- You know, the optimist sees the rose. the pessimist sees the thorns
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- The rose. the pessimist sees the thorns that are on the rose.
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- The pessimist sees the thorns that are on the rose. it's kind of an interesting
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- That are on the rose. it's kind of an interesting analogy when you think about it.
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- It's kind of an interesting analogy when you think about it. here we have--
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- Analogy when you think about it. here we have-- i mean, the rose might
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- Here we have-- i mean, the rose might be considered to be the most
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- I mean, the rose might be considered to be the most beautiful flower in the world.
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- Be considered to be the most beautiful flower in the world. and yet, as beautiful as that
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- Beautiful flower in the world. and yet, as beautiful as that rose is, it can make you bleed
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- And yet, as beautiful as that rose is, it can make you bleed because it's also got thorns.
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- Rose is, it can make you bleed because it's also got thorns. so you can look
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- Because it's also got thorns. so you can look at life that way.
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- So you can look at life that way. do you look at the roses
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- At life that way. do you look at the roses or do you look at the thorns?
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- Isaiah 61:3 says, jesus came
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- Isaiah 61:3 says, jesus came "to [console] those who mourn
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- Isaiah 61:3 says, jesus came "to [console] those who mourn in zion--to give them beauty
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- "to [console] those who mourn in zion--to give them beauty for ashes, beauty for ashes,
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- In zion--to give them beauty for ashes, beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning,
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- For ashes, beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for
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- The oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness."
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- The garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness." you see, we have a divine
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- The spirit of heaviness." you see, we have a divine exchange when we come into
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- You see, we have a divine exchange when we come into a relationship with god.
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- Exchange when we come into a relationship with god. he takes all the bad stuff
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- A relationship with god. he takes all the bad stuff and gives us the good stuff.
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- He takes all the bad stuff and gives us the good stuff. see, we can have beauty,
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- And gives us the good stuff. see, we can have beauty, but we have to give
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- See, we can have beauty, but we have to give up the ashes.
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- But we have to give up the ashes. we can't just sit around--
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- Up the ashes. we can't just sit around-- i don't sit around and think
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- We can't just sit around-- i don't sit around and think about what happened to me when
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- I don't sit around and think about what happened to me when i was a kid anymore.
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- About what happened to me when i was a kid anymore. i did that for a lot of years,
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- I was a kid anymore. i did that for a lot of years, and i had a chip on my
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- I did that for a lot of years, and i had a chip on my shoulder and felt like
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- And i had a chip on my shoulder and felt like everybody owed me something.
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- Shoulder and felt like everybody owed me something. but it was my choice to decide
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- Everybody owed me something. but it was my choice to decide to look at that as something
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- But it was my choice to decide to look at that as something that god could turn into
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- To look at that as something that god could turn into a blessing,
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- Which he is doing now.
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- Which he is doing now. now, the testimony of what
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- Which he is doing now. now, the testimony of what happened to me helps people
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- Now, the testimony of what happened to me helps people all over the world because
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- Happened to me helps people all over the world because they see that no matter
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- All over the world because they see that no matter what people do to you,
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- They see that no matter what people do to you, god can turn it around
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- What people do to you, god can turn it around and work it out for good.
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- God can turn it around and work it out for good. and so it did turn out
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- And work it out for good. and so it did turn out to be a good thing.
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- And so it did turn out to be a good thing. and he gave me beauty instead
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- To be a good thing. and he gave me beauty instead of those ashes.
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- And he gave me beauty instead of those ashes. god takes our sin and he gives
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- Of those ashes. god takes our sin and he gives us his righteousness.
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- God takes our sin and he gives us his righteousness. he takes our sorrow and gives
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- Us his righteousness. he takes our sorrow and gives us his joy.
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- He takes our sorrow and gives us his joy. i don't know who would not
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- Us his joy. i don't know who would not want to have god in their life.
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- And, you know, if you don't,
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- And, you know, if you don't, if you've never accepted
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- If you've never accepted jesus as your savior,
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- Jesus as your savior, today is the day to do it.
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- Today is the day to do it. there'll be a number on your
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- There'll be a number on your screen and you can call
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- Screen and you can call and somebody will pray with
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- And somebody will pray with you and answer any questions
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- You and answer any questions that you have about having
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- That you have about having a personal relationship
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- A personal relationship with christ.
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- With christ. being a christian doesn't
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- Being a christian doesn't just mean i go to church.
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- Just mean i go to church. it's about having a personal
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- It's about having a personal relationship with jesus.
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- Genesis 50 says, "you intended
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- Genesis 50 says, "you intended to harm me, but god intended
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- Genesis 50 says, "you intended to harm me, but god intended it for good and to accomplish
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- To harm me, but god intended it for good and to accomplish what is now being done,
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- It for good and to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives."
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- What is now being done, the saving of many lives." well, that was something
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- The saving of many lives." well, that was something joseph said.
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- Well, that was something joseph said. and he had been so mistreated.
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- His brothers sold him
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- His brothers sold him into the slave trade.
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- His brothers sold him into the slave trade. and he became a slave
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- Into the slave trade. and he became a slave in the house of potiphar.
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- And he became a slave in the house of potiphar. and potiphar liked him
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- In the house of potiphar. and potiphar liked him so much, he put him in charge
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- And potiphar liked him so much, he put him in charge of his household.
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- So much, he put him in charge of his household. but potiphar's wife liked him
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- Of his household. but potiphar's wife liked him a little bit too much.
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- But potiphar's wife liked him a little bit too much. and she tried to get him
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- A little bit too much. and she tried to get him to have sex with her.
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- And she tried to get him to have sex with her. and he was a godly man
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- To have sex with her. and he was a godly man and he was not gonna do it,
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- And he was a godly man and he was not gonna do it, and he resisted her.
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- And he was not gonna do it, and he resisted her. so she lied to potiphar
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- And he resisted her. so she lied to potiphar about him.
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- So she lied to potiphar about him. and he ended up going
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- About him. and he ended up going to prison for a lot of years
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- And he ended up going to prison for a lot of years for something that
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- To prison for a lot of years for something that he didn't even do.
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- For something that he didn't even do. while he was in prison,
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- He didn't even do. while he was in prison, he helped a couple of people get
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- While he was in prison, he helped a couple of people get out and asked that when they
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- He helped a couple of people get out and asked that when they were back in pharaoh's house
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- Out and asked that when they were back in pharaoh's house as a butler and a baker,
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- Were back in pharaoh's house as a butler and a baker, that they would remember him,
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- As a butler and a baker, that they would remember him, but they forgot all about him.
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- That they would remember him, but they forgot all about him. but, you know,
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- But they forgot all about him. but, you know, he never got bitter.
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- There's nothing in the bible
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- There's nothing in the bible that that ever indicates that
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- There's nothing in the bible that that ever indicates that joseph was bitter about
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- That that ever indicates that joseph was bitter about any of this.
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- Joseph was bitter about any of this. he definitely was an optimist.
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- Any of this. he definitely was an optimist. and he loved god,
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- He definitely was an optimist. and he loved god, and he believed that god
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- And he loved god, and he believed that god would do something for him.
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- And he believed that god would do something for him. and eventually he was put
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- In charge of all the grain
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- In charge of all the grain in egypt, and there was a famine
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- In charge of all the grain in egypt, and there was a famine throughout the land, and he was
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- In egypt, and there was a famine throughout the land, and he was in charge of all the food.
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- Throughout the land, and he was in charge of all the food. and his brothers and his
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- In charge of all the food. and his brothers and his father came to him for food,
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- And his brothers and his father came to him for food, not knowing it was joseph.
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- Father came to him for food, not knowing it was joseph. and when they realized who he
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- Not knowing it was joseph. and when they realized who he was, they started apologizing.
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- And he said, "no, no, what you
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- And he said, "no, no, what you meant for harm,
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- And he said, "no, no, what you meant for harm, god intended for good.
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- Meant for harm, god intended for good. for me to be in a position
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- God intended for good. for me to be in a position where i could keep many people
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- For me to be in a position where i could keep many people alive at this time."
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- Where i could keep many people alive at this time." it's really an amazing story.
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- Alive at this time." it's really an amazing story. if you're not familiar with
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- It's really an amazing story. if you're not familiar with the story of joseph, you need
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- If you're not familiar with the story of joseph, you need to read it and really, really
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- The story of joseph, you need to read it and really, really study it.
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- God will give you double
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- God will give you double blessing for your former
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- God will give you double blessing for your former trouble if you'll trust
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- Blessing for your former trouble if you'll trust him to do it.
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- Trouble if you'll trust him to do it. isaiah 61:7-8:
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- Him to do it. isaiah 61:7-8: "instead of your former
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- Isaiah 61:7-8: "instead of your former shame you will receive
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- "instead of your former shame you will receive a double portion,
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- Shame you will receive a double portion, and instead of disgrace
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- A double portion, and instead of disgrace you will rejoice in your
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- And instead of disgrace you will rejoice in your inheritance.
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- You will rejoice in your inheritance. and you will inherit
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- Inheritance. and you will inherit a double portion in your land,
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- And you will inherit a double portion in your land, and everlasting
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- A double portion in your land, and everlasting joy will be yours."
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- And everlasting joy will be yours." i don't know.
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- Joy will be yours." i don't know. do i need to read that
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- I don't know. do i need to read that to you again?
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- Do i need to read that to you again? i always say god will give us
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- To you again? i always say god will give us double blessing for our former
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- I always say god will give us double blessing for our former trouble.
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- I hope you get that.
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- I hope you get that. 'cause i know some of you
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- I hope you get that. 'cause i know some of you have been hurt really bad
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- 'cause i know some of you have been hurt really bad and you're still clinging
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- Have been hurt really bad and you're still clinging to that and hanging onto it.
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- And you're still clinging to that and hanging onto it. you're still hanging
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- To that and hanging onto it. you're still hanging onto the unforgiveness
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- You're still hanging onto the unforgiveness and the bitterness.
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- Onto the unforgiveness and the bitterness. but god will give you a double
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- And the bitterness. but god will give you a double blessing for your former
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- But god will give you a double blessing for your former trouble if, if, if, if, if
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- Blessing for your former trouble if, if, if, if, if you will handle
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- Trouble if, if, if, if, if you will handle the situation his way.
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- You will handle the situation his way. and jesus always forgave
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- The situation his way. and jesus always forgave and he even blessed his enemies.
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- And jesus always forgave and he even blessed his enemies. and that's what the bible
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- And he even blessed his enemies. and that's what the bible tells us to do.
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- And that's what the bible tells us to do. to forgive, to pray for our
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- Tells us to do. to forgive, to pray for our enemies, to speak well
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- To forgive, to pray for our enemies, to speak well of them, not evil, and to help
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- Enemies, to speak well of them, not evil, and to help them if they're hungry
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- Of them, not evil, and to help them if they're hungry or thirsty.
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- Them if they're hungry or thirsty. and then verse 8 says,
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- Or thirsty. and then verse 8 says, "for i, the lord, love justice."
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- And then verse 8 says, "for i, the lord, love justice." you know, justice means that
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- God is a just god.
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- God is a just god. and that means that he makes
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- God is a just god. and that means that he makes wrong things right.
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- And that means that he makes wrong things right. there's a lot of wonderful
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- Wrong things right. there's a lot of wonderful things about god's character.
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- There's a lot of wonderful things about god's character. he's good.
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- Things about god's character. he's good. he's our healer.
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- He's good. he's our healer. a lot of wonderful things.
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- He's our healer. a lot of wonderful things. he's righteous.
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- A lot of wonderful things. he's righteous. he's our peace.
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- He's righteous. he's our peace. but it says that he is just.
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- He's our peace. but it says that he is just. and i love that about god.
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- But it says that he is just. and i love that about god. i can always depend on--
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- And i love that about god. i can always depend on-- if somebody mistreats me
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- I can always depend on-- if somebody mistreats me and i trust him
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- If somebody mistreats me and i trust him to make it right,
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- And i trust him to make it right, he'll always give me a double
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- To make it right, he'll always give me a double blessing for my former
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- He'll always give me a double blessing for my former trouble.
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- Blessing for my former trouble. and you can believe that, too.
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- Trouble. and you can believe that, too. that's part of being
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- And you can believe that, too. that's part of being an optimist.
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- That's part of being an optimist. "well, i believe god's
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- An optimist. "well, i believe god's gonna work something
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- "well, i believe god's gonna work something good out of this."
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- "for i, the lord, love justice."
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- "for i, the lord, love justice." part of god's way--
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- If we do things god's way,
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- If we do things god's way, we'll be thankful
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- If we do things god's way, we'll be thankful even in the midst of our
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- We'll be thankful even in the midst of our trouble, we find the good
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- Even in the midst of our trouble, we find the good things that god's done in our
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- Trouble, we find the good things that god's done in our life, and we're thankful
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- Things that god's done in our life, and we're thankful for those things.
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- The bible says in
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- The bible says in 1 thessalonians 5:18, that
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- The bible says in 1 thessalonians 5:18, that we are to "thank god at all
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- 1 thessalonians 5:18, that we are to "thank god at all times, for this is the will
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- We are to "thank god at all times, for this is the will of god for those who are
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- Times, for this is the will of god for those who are in christ jesus" at all times.
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- Of god for those who are in christ jesus" at all times. even in hard times, we're
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- In christ jesus" at all times. even in hard times, we're to still give thanks to god.
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- That should be about one
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- That should be about one of the first things that
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- That should be about one of the first things that comes out of our mouth
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- Of the first things that comes out of our mouth in the morning,
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- Comes out of our mouth in the morning, "thank you, god,
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- In the morning, "thank you, god, for your blessings in my life.
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- "thank you, god, for your blessings in my life. thank you for giving me
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- For your blessings in my life. thank you for giving me another day."
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- Thank you for giving me another day." if you had a good night's sleep,
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- Another day." if you had a good night's sleep, "thank you for a good
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- If you had a good night's sleep, "thank you for a good night's sleep.
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- "thank you for a good night's sleep. thank you for all the good
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- Night's sleep. thank you for all the good things you're gonna do today.
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- Thank you for all the good things you're gonna do today. something good is gonna happen
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- Things you're gonna do today. something good is gonna happen to me today."
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- Something good is gonna happen to me today." you can get your day started
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- To me today." you can get your day started in a positive direction just
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- You can get your day started in a positive direction just by getting out of bed
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- In a positive direction just by getting out of bed and being positive.
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- By getting out of bed and being positive. be thankful at all times.
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- And being positive. be thankful at all times. you know, complainers doesn't
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- Be thankful at all times. you know, complainers doesn't end up with a double blessing.
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- You know, complainers doesn't end up with a double blessing. a complainer never ends up
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- End up with a double blessing. a complainer never ends up with a double blessing.
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- A complainer never ends up with a double blessing. and god doesn't answer
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- With a double blessing. and god doesn't answer complaints.
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- And god doesn't answer complaints. he answers prayers.
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- Complaints. he answers prayers. and i don't know if you know
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- He answers prayers. and i don't know if you know it or not, but complaining
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- And i don't know if you know it or not, but complaining is sin.
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- In the old testament, there's
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- In the old testament, there's a story about the israelites.
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- In the old testament, there's a story about the israelites. they were complaining, it was
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- A story about the israelites. they were complaining, it was taking too long to get through
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- They were complaining, it was taking too long to get through the wilderness.
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- Taking too long to get through the wilderness. and they complained about
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- The wilderness. and they complained about moses and they blamed moses
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- And they complained about moses and they blamed moses and they blamed god and they
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- Moses and they blamed moses and they blamed god and they said, "well, we'd rather
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- And they blamed god and they said, "well, we'd rather just go back to egypt."
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- Said, "well, we'd rather just go back to egypt." and, you know, god got tired
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- Just go back to egypt." and, you know, god got tired of hearing their complaints
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- And, you know, god got tired of hearing their complaints and he sent serpents into
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- Of hearing their complaints and he sent serpents into the camp and 23,000 of 'em
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- And he sent serpents into the camp and 23,000 of 'em got bit and fell dead
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- The camp and 23,000 of 'em got bit and fell dead in a single day.
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- Got bit and fell dead in a single day. and the ones that were left
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- In a single day. and the ones that were left went to moses and said,
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- And the ones that were left went to moses and said, "we have sinned."
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- Went to moses and said, "we have sinned." well, hopefully we can take
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- "we have sinned." well, hopefully we can take a good lesson from them
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- Well, hopefully we can take a good lesson from them and not get into the same
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- A good lesson from them and not get into the same thing ourselves.
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- And not get into the same thing ourselves. in 1 corinthians 10, that story
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- Thing ourselves. in 1 corinthians 10, that story is repeated and it says
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- In 1 corinthians 10, that story is repeated and it says it's given as a lesson
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- Is repeated and it says it's given as a lesson and a warning to us.
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- It's given as a lesson and a warning to us. don't be a complainer.
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- Always find something to be
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- Always find something to be thankful for.
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- Always find something to be thankful for. i honestly think if we could
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- Thankful for. i honestly think if we could get through one day without
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- I honestly think if we could get through one day without any kind of a complaint,
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- Get through one day without any kind of a complaint, it would be a miracle.
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- Any kind of a complaint, it would be a miracle. someone filled with self pity
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- It would be a miracle. someone filled with self pity never ends up with a double
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- Someone filled with self pity never ends up with a double blessing.
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- Never ends up with a double blessing. don't feel sorry for yourself.
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- Blessing. don't feel sorry for yourself. find something that you're
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- Don't feel sorry for yourself. find something that you're blessed about and rejoice
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- Find something that you're blessed about and rejoice in that.
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- Blessed about and rejoice in that. and you know, if we remain
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- In that. and you know, if we remain steadfast, we always
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- And you know, if we remain steadfast, we always win in the end.
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- Steadfast, we always win in the end. always remember that.
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- God has brought me through
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- God has brought me through a lot, but like shadrach,
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- God has brought me through a lot, but like shadrach, meshach and abednego,
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- A lot, but like shadrach, meshach and abednego, it says of them that after
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- Meshach and abednego, it says of them that after it was over, when they came
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- It says of them that after it was over, when they came out of the fiery furnace,
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- It was over, when they came out of the fiery furnace, they didn't even smell like
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- Out of the fiery furnace, they didn't even smell like smoke.
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- They didn't even smell like smoke. and i say that now.
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- Smoke. and i say that now. who would look at my life now
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- And think that i ever went
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- And think that i ever went through the things that i went
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- And think that i ever went through the things that i went through?
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- Through the things that i went through? i went through the fiery
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- Through? i went through the fiery furnace like many of you have,
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- I went through the fiery furnace like many of you have, but i don't even smell like
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- Furnace like many of you have, but i don't even smell like smoke because i don't dwell on
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- But i don't even smell like smoke because i don't dwell on what did happen to me.
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- Smoke because i don't dwell on what did happen to me. i look at the good things that
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- What did happen to me. i look at the good things that god's doing right now.
- 00:21:25.507 --> 00:21:27.342
- You know, all i saw for years
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- You know, all i saw for years was thorns, but now i see roses.
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- You know, all i saw for years was thorns, but now i see roses. and i hope you do
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- Was thorns, but now i see roses. and i hope you do the same thing.
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- Listen to this.
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- Listen to this. 2 corinthians 2:14.
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- Listen to this. 2 corinthians 2:14. "but thanks be to god, who in
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- 2 corinthians 2:14. "but thanks be to god, who in christ always leads us in
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- "but thanks be to god, who in christ always leads us in triumph [as trophies
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- Christ always leads us in triumph [as trophies of christ's victory]
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- Triumph [as trophies of christ's victory] and through us spreads
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- Of christ's victory] and through us spreads and makes evident the fragrance
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- And through us spreads and makes evident the fragrance of the knowledge
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- And makes evident the fragrance of the knowledge of god everywhere."
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- Of the knowledge of god everywhere." wow.
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- You can be a trophy
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- You can be a trophy of god's grace.
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- You can be a trophy of god's grace. you can be someone that had
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- Of god's grace. you can be someone that had such a messed up, bad life
- 00:22:02.577 --> 00:22:04.980
- You can be someone that had such a messed up, bad life and let god turn it all the way
- 00:22:05.046 --> 00:22:06.148
- Such a messed up, bad life and let god turn it all the way around to something beautiful.
- 00:22:06.214 --> 00:22:08.683
- And you'll be a trophy
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- And you'll be a trophy of his grace.
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- And you'll be a trophy of his grace. "thanks be to god," who not
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- Of his grace. "thanks be to god," who not sometimes, but "who always
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- "thanks be to god," who not sometimes, but "who always leads us in triumph."
- 00:22:15.424 --> 00:22:18.427
- Sometimes, but "who always leads us in triumph." if we'll listen to him, we'll
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- Leads us in triumph." if we'll listen to him, we'll always gonna end up on top.
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- If we'll listen to him, we'll always gonna end up on top. we're always gonna end
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- Always gonna end up on top. we're always gonna end up the winner.
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- We're always gonna end up the winner. i'm not saying you won't have
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- Up the winner. i'm not saying you won't have to go through anything,
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- I'm not saying you won't have to go through anything, but if you'll keep
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- To go through anything, but if you'll keep a good attitude--
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- But if you'll keep a good attitude-- just focus on that.
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- A good attitude-- just focus on that. no matter what's going on in
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- Just focus on that. no matter what's going on in your life, just keep a good
- 00:22:31.273 --> 00:22:32.441
- No matter what's going on in your life, just keep a good attitude and find things
- 00:22:32.507 --> 00:22:34.643
- Your life, just keep a good attitude and find things to be thankful for.
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- Attitude and find things to be thankful for. the apostle paul said,
- 00:22:37.312 --> 00:22:39.047
- To be thankful for. the apostle paul said, "to live is christ,
- 00:22:39.114 --> 00:22:41.416
- The apostle paul said, "to live is christ, to die is gain."
- 00:22:41.483 --> 00:22:42.717
- "to live is christ, to die is gain." he even said, you know, "for me,
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- To die is gain." he even said, you know, "for me, i'd like to go on and be with
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- He even said, you know, "for me, i'd like to go on and be with the lord, but for your
- 00:22:47.756 --> 00:22:49.791
- I'd like to go on and be with the lord, but for your benefit, i'll stay and continue
- 00:22:49.858 --> 00:22:52.561
- The lord, but for your benefit, i'll stay and continue ministering to you."
- 00:22:52.627 --> 00:22:55.730
- He was ready to get out of here,
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- He was ready to get out of here, but he chose to do god's
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- He was ready to get out of here, but he chose to do god's will and stay.
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- But he chose to do god's will and stay. come on, let's be positive.
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- Will and stay. come on, let's be positive. let's do everything we can for
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- Come on, let's be positive. let's do everything we can for the cause of christ.
- 00:23:06.908 --> 00:23:10.946
- Let's do everything we can for the cause of christ. be a happy person who affects
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- The cause of christ. be a happy person who affects other people or infects other
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- Be a happy person who affects other people or infects other people with your happiness.
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- Other people or infects other people with your happiness. i love to be around
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- People with your happiness. i love to be around happy people.
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- I love to be around happy people. god bless you and have
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- Happy people. god bless you and have a great, happy, positive day.
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- God bless you and have a great, happy, positive day. god bless you.
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- >> [repeating sounds:
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- >> [repeating sounds: alarms, reports, phones ringing]
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- Alarms, reports, phones ringing] >> weather man: today's local
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- >> weather man: today's local weather is a mixed bag
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- Weather is a mixed bag of clouds and rain.
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- Of clouds and rain. >> joyce: if you've been parked
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- >> joyce: if you've been parked at the same place way too long,
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- At the same place way too long, you're stuck.
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- You're stuck. and it's time to blast
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- And it's time to blast out of that place
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- Out of that place and say, "i've had it.
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- And say, "i've had it. i'm no longer gonna
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- I'm no longer gonna let the past control me.
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- Let the past control me. i am gonna get well,
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- I am gonna get well, get on with god,
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- Get on with god, and have the life
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- And have the life he intended me to have."
- 00:23:47.616 --> 00:23:49.417
- He intended me to have." >> [audience applauding]
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- >> ginger: what if
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- >> ginger: what if the only thing
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- The only thing standing between you
- 00:23:52.854 --> 00:23:54.689
- Standing between you and the life you want
- 00:23:54.756 --> 00:23:55.857
- And the life you want is that nasty
- 00:23:55.924 --> 00:23:57.592
- Is that nasty feeling of being stuck?
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- Feeling of being stuck? stuck in routines
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- Stuck in routines or patterns
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- Or patterns that no longer work,
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- That no longer work, they don't inspire
- 00:24:03.231 --> 00:24:04.266
- They don't inspire you and you can't
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- You and you can't seem to break free.
- 00:24:05.534 --> 00:24:07.469
- Seem to break free. well, escape the monotony
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- Well, escape the monotony and the procrastination
- 00:24:09.004 --> 00:24:10.338
- And the procrastination with joyce's book,
- 00:24:10.405 --> 00:24:11.273
- With joyce's book, "getting unstuck,"
- 00:24:11.339 --> 00:24:12.674
- "getting unstuck," it's "god's path to
- 00:24:12.741 --> 00:24:13.742
- It's "god's path to breakthrough thinking."
- 00:24:13.808 --> 00:24:16.545
- Breakthrough thinking." this is such a huge key.
- 00:24:16.611 --> 00:24:18.213
- This is such a huge key. this book will help
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- This book will help you find that turning
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- You find that turning point toward a path
- 00:24:20.181 --> 00:24:21.182
- Point toward a path of rediscovering
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- Of rediscovering purpose and hope.
- 00:24:22.684 --> 00:24:24.753
- Purpose and hope. you were never
- 00:24:24.819 --> 00:24:25.754
- You were never created to live
- 00:24:25.820 --> 00:24:26.755
- Created to live stuck or settling
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- Stuck or settling for less than
- 00:24:28.056 --> 00:24:28.623
- For less than god's best.
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- God's best. break destructive
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- Break destructive mindsets with god's word
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- Mindsets with god's word and move from just
- 00:24:33.328 --> 00:24:34.396
- And move from just surviving to thriving
- 00:24:34.462 --> 00:24:36.164
- Surviving to thriving with "getting unstuck."
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- >> announcer: being stuck
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- >> announcer: being stuck isn't a life sentence.
- 00:24:39.834 --> 00:24:41.136
- Isn't a life sentence. it's a signal that something
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- It's a signal that something deeper is waiting for you.
- 00:24:42.370 --> 00:24:44.039
- Deeper is waiting for you. when you request
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- When you request your copy of,
- 00:24:45.173 --> 00:24:45.607
- Your copy of, "getting unstuck,"
- 00:24:45.674 --> 00:24:46.341
- "getting unstuck," you'll also receive
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- You'll also receive joyce's book,
- 00:24:47.976 --> 00:24:48.577
- Joyce's book, "power words:
- 00:24:48.643 --> 00:24:49.311
- "power words: what you can
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- What you can say can change
- 00:24:50.445 --> 00:24:50.812
- Say can change your life,"
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- Your life," a handy little book
- 00:24:51.780 --> 00:24:52.514
- A handy little book that can make a world
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- That can make a world of difference
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- Of difference in our attitude, joy,
- 00:24:54.916 --> 00:24:56.351
- In our attitude, joy, and even success.
- 00:24:56.418 --> 00:24:57.719
- And even success. available today for
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- Available today for your gift of any amount.
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- Your gift of any amount. for...
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- For... or more,
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- Or more, you'll receive this
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- You'll receive this "battlefield of the mind
- 00:25:03.558 --> 00:25:04.593
- "battlefield of the mind journal,"
- 00:25:04.659 --> 00:25:05.226
- Journal," a valuable study tool
- 00:25:05.293 --> 00:25:06.995
- A valuable study tool to record life's
- 00:25:07.062 --> 00:25:07.762
- To record life's progress and capture
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- Progress and capture god's promises.
- 00:25:09.164 --> 00:25:11.032
- >> ginger: god designed
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- >> ginger: god designed you to move forward
- 00:25:12.233 --> 00:25:13.101
- You to move forward with courage,
- 00:25:13.168 --> 00:25:14.336
- With courage, confidence
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- Confidence and unshakable faith.
- 00:25:15.337 --> 00:25:17.372
- And unshakable faith. break through
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- Break through the muck and reroute
- 00:25:18.173 --> 00:25:19.574
- The muck and reroute your destination
- 00:25:19.641 --> 00:25:20.976
- Your destination toward a renewed mind
- 00:25:21.042 --> 00:25:22.911
- Toward a renewed mind and real transformation
- 00:25:22.978 --> 00:25:24.312
- And real transformation with, "getting unstuck."
- 00:25:24.379 --> 00:25:25.347
- With, "getting unstuck." and remember,
- 00:25:25.413 --> 00:25:26.715
- And remember, your contribution
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- Your contribution allows us to share
- 00:25:28.350 --> 00:25:29.517
- Allows us to share the gospel
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- The gospel and god's love around
- 00:25:30.251 --> 00:25:31.886
- And god's love around the world through
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- The world through our hand of hope
- 00:25:32.621 --> 00:25:33.288
- Our hand of hope outreaches.
- 00:25:33.355 --> 00:25:34.322
- Outreaches. together,
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- Together, we're making
- 00:25:35.223 --> 00:25:35.924
- We're making a difference in many,
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- A difference in many, many lives.
- 00:25:37.258 --> 00:25:39.027
- Many lives. >> announcer: enjoy
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- >> announcer: enjoy "getting unstuck"
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- "getting unstuck" and "power words"
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- And "power words" available today
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- Available today for your gift
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- Of any amount. contact us at...
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- >> [♪♪]
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- >> announcer: come discover
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- >> announcer: come discover the beauty as god moves
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- The beauty as god moves you toward a life transformed.
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- You toward a life transformed. join us for
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- Conference with joyce and her guests,
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- And her guests, christine caine,
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- Christine caine, lisa harper,
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- Lisa harper, and worship with
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- And worship with natalie grant
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- Natalie grant and hope darst.
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- And hope darst. october 22-24
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- >> [helicopter]
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- >> [helicopter] >> joyce: it was the sound
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- >> joyce: it was the sound of a helicopter
- 00:26:44.793 --> 00:26:45.460
- Of a helicopter in the distance
- 00:26:45.527 --> 00:26:45.994
- In the distance and i knew it was
- 00:26:46.061 --> 00:26:46.861
- And i knew it was looking for me,
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- Looking for me, but i didn't want
- 00:26:48.396 --> 00:26:48.963
- But i didn't want to be found.
- 00:26:49.030 --> 00:26:50.699
- To be found. in my young,
- 00:26:50.765 --> 00:26:51.332
- In my young, frightened mind,
- 00:26:51.399 --> 00:26:52.333
- Frightened mind, i reasoned that
- 00:26:52.400 --> 00:26:53.301
- I reasoned that the longer i stayed
- 00:26:53.368 --> 00:26:54.269
- The longer i stayed in the darkness,
- 00:26:54.335 --> 00:26:55.036
- In the darkness, the safer i was.
- 00:26:55.103 --> 00:26:57.972
- The safer i was. if no one found me,
- 00:26:58.039 --> 00:26:59.808
- If no one found me, no one could hurt me.
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- >> announcer: joyce meyer's
- 00:27:02.811 --> 00:27:03.578
- >> announcer: joyce meyer's long-awaited memoir,
- 00:27:03.645 --> 00:27:05.180
- Long-awaited memoir, "my battlefield,
- 00:27:05.246 --> 00:27:06.314
- "my battlefield, a life broken
- 00:27:06.381 --> 00:27:07.148
- A life broken and made whole."
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- And made whole." request your copy today.
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- >> announcer: we hope you
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- >> announcer: we hope you enjoyed today's program.
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- Enjoyed today's program. we are so grateful
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- We are so grateful to our joyce meyer
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- To our joyce meyer ministries partners
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- Ministries partners who make this
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- Who make this and all we do possible,
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- And all we do possible, including sharing
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- Including sharing god's word
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- God's word and offering help
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- And offering help to people in need
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- To people in need all over the world.
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