How good are you at taking care of yourself emotionally and spiritually? Joyce shares tips to increase your overall wellbeing.
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Joyce Meyer: Enjoying Everyday Life | Joyce Meyer - Celebrating You (Part 2) | February 3, 2026
- >> joyce: ask god to provide
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- >> joyce: ask god to provide what you need.
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- >> joyce: ask god to provide what you need. and he may not provide
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- What you need. and he may not provide it through the source,
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- And he may not provide it through the source, that you think it should
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- It through the source, that you think it should come from,
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- That you think it should come from, but he will provide it.
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- >> joyce: i do what
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- >> joyce: i do what i do because i've seen god's
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- >> joyce: i do what i do because i've seen god's power transform my own life,
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- I do because i've seen god's power transform my own life, and he will do it for you.
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- Power transform my own life, and he will do it for you. the key to everything
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- And he will do it for you. the key to everything is found in god's word.
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- The key to everything is found in god's word. i'm joyce meyer,
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- Is found in god's word. i'm joyce meyer, and i believe that god can heal
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- I'm joyce meyer, and i believe that god can heal you everywhere you hurt.
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- >> joyce: how do you
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- >> joyce: how do you take care of yourself,
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- >> joyce: how do you take care of yourself, spiritually?
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- Take care of yourself, spiritually? well, it's really very simple.
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- Spiritually? well, it's really very simple. if you want to stay
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- Well, it's really very simple. if you want to stay spiritually strong,
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- If you want to stay spiritually strong, you have to feed
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- Spiritually strong, you have to feed yourself the word,
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- You have to feed yourself the word, on a regular basis.
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- Yourself the word, on a regular basis. and there's no excuse not to.
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- On a regular basis. and there's no excuse not to. there's too many--
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- And there's no excuse not to. there's too many-- too many different ways
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- There's too many-- too many different ways of feeding yourself the word.
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- Too many different ways of feeding yourself the word. i mean, god has made
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- Of feeding yourself the word. i mean, god has made it so easy for us.
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- I mean, god has made it so easy for us. you can listen while you're
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- It so easy for us. you can listen while you're doing other things.
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- You can listen while you're doing other things. you can--you can download it.
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- Doing other things. you can--you can download it. you can upload it.
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- You can--you can download it. you can upload it. you can--i mean,
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- You can upload it. you can--i mean, it's just simple.
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- You can--i mean, it's just simple. spend time with god.
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- It's just simple. spend time with god. pray your way
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- Spend time with god. pray your way through the day.
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- Pray your way through the day. instead of worrying
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- Through the day. instead of worrying about things,
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- Instead of worrying about things, just pray about 'em.
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- About things, just pray about 'em. be conscious and aware,
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- Just pray about 'em. be conscious and aware, of how much god loves you.
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- Be conscious and aware, of how much god loves you. watch--watch out for god,
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- Of how much god loves you. watch--watch out for god, to do something awesome for you.
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- Watch--watch out for god, to do something awesome for you. i think god does so much for
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- To do something awesome for you. i think god does so much for us and we don't even notice it.
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- We just think it's an "oops",
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- We just think it's an "oops", or an "oh well", or an accident,
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- We just think it's an "oops", or an "oh well", or an accident, or a you know, whatever.
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- Or an "oh well", or an accident, or a you know, whatever. i keep a notebook,
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- Or a you know, whatever. i keep a notebook, and i write down things,
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- I keep a notebook, and i write down things, that i see god do for me.
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- And i write down things, that i see god do for me. god created us because
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- That i see god do for me. god created us because he wanted somebody
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- God created us because he wanted somebody to fellowship with.
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- He wanted somebody to fellowship with. so just talk to god about
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- To fellowship with. so just talk to god about anything and everything.
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- So just talk to god about anything and everything. being thankful,
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- Anything and everything. being thankful, is one of the ways,
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- Being thankful, is one of the ways, that we can stay
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- Is one of the ways, that we can stay strong spiritually.
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- That we can stay strong spiritually. being thankful,
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- Strong spiritually. being thankful, will make you happy.
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- Being thankful, will make you happy. and being thankful
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- Will make you happy. and being thankful certainly makes god happy.
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- And being thankful certainly makes god happy. don't you imagine that he gets
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- Certainly makes god happy. don't you imagine that he gets tired of hearing people murmur,
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- Don't you imagine that he gets tired of hearing people murmur, and grumble, and complain,
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- Tired of hearing people murmur, and grumble, and complain, after all the good things,
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- And grumble, and complain, after all the good things, that he's done for them.
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- God's word is your
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- God's word is your spiritual food.
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- God's word is your spiritual food. jeremiah said, "when your
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- Spiritual food. jeremiah said, "when your words came, i ate them;
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- Jeremiah said, "when your words came, i ate them; and they were my joy
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- Words came, i ate them; and they were my joy and my heart's delight."
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- And they were my joy and my heart's delight." meditating on god's word,
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- Is like chewing your food.
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- Is like chewing your food. it's like, what does it mean,
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- Is like chewing your food. it's like, what does it mean, to meditate on god's word?
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- It's like, what does it mean, to meditate on god's word? just to think about
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- To meditate on god's word? just to think about a scripture over and over.
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- Just to think about a scripture over and over. and maybe like to take,
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- A scripture over and over. and maybe like to take, each word of a scripture,
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- And maybe like to take, each word of a scripture, and really think about it.
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- Like if you took psalm 139,
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- Like if you took psalm 139, about how god created you,
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- Like if you took psalm 139, about how god created you, and how you're fearfully,
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- About how god created you, and how you're fearfully, and wonderfully made.
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- And how you're fearfully, and wonderfully made. and if you took each word,
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- And wonderfully made. and if you took each word, and just thought about that.
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- And if you took each word, and just thought about that. you know, we read the bible,
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- But what do we really
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- But what do we really get out of it sometimes?
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- But what do we really get out of it sometimes? because sometimes,
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- Get out of it sometimes? because sometimes, we get this religious thinking,
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- Because sometimes, we get this religious thinking, that more is better.
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- We get this religious thinking, that more is better. so, we're real proud
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- That more is better. so, we're real proud of ourself if we, you know,
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- So, we're real proud of ourself if we, you know, read 6 chapters a day.
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- Of ourself if we, you know, read 6 chapters a day. but what difference
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- Read 6 chapters a day. but what difference does it make, if you didn't
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- But what difference does it make, if you didn't understand any of it?
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- Does it make, if you didn't understand any of it? god would rather
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- Understand any of it? god would rather you read one verse,
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- God would rather you read one verse, and get something out of it,
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- You read one verse, and get something out of it, than to read the whole
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- And get something out of it, than to read the whole bible every, single day.
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- Than to read the whole bible every, single day. confessing your sins,
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- Bible every, single day. confessing your sins, keeps you strong spiritually.
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- Confessing your sins, keeps you strong spiritually. don't hide sin in your heart.
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- Keeps you strong spiritually. don't hide sin in your heart. you're not hiding
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- Don't hide sin in your heart. you're not hiding anything from god.
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- You're not hiding anything from god. he knows it anyway.
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- Anything from god. he knows it anyway. you can confess
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- He knows it anyway. you can confess your sins to god.
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- You can confess your sins to god. and sometimes,
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- Your sins to god. and sometimes, it's even very helpful,
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- And sometimes, it's even very helpful, to have a trusted friend,
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- It's even very helpful, to have a trusted friend, or spiritual leader,
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- To have a trusted friend, or spiritual leader, that you can also say,
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- Or spiritual leader, that you can also say, "listen, i've been having
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- That you can also say, "listen, i've been having a problem with this."
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- "listen, i've been having a problem with this." i mean, it's amazing,
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- A problem with this." i mean, it's amazing, sometimes how that will
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- I mean, it's amazing, sometimes how that will break a stronghold off of you.
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- Sometimes how that will break a stronghold off of you. just to speak it out,
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- Break a stronghold off of you. just to speak it out, to somebody that you trust,
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- Just to speak it out, to somebody that you trust, and get rid of it.
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- Taking care of yourself,
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- Taking care of yourself, mentally.
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- Taking care of yourself, mentally. let your mind rest.
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- Mentally. let your mind rest. wow.
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- Let your mind rest. wow. some people go on vacation,
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- Wow. some people go on vacation, just so they can
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- Some people go on vacation, just so they can lay on the beach,
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- Just so they can lay on the beach, and worry about what
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- Lay on the beach, and worry about what they're gonna do,
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- And worry about what they're gonna do, with the rest of their life.
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- They're gonna do, with the rest of their life. >> [audience laughing]
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- With the rest of their life. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: it's true.
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: it's true. "i think i'll take the day
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- >> joyce: it's true. "i think i'll take the day off today, and worry."
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- Two of the main things,
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- Two of the main things, that cause people,
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- Two of the main things, that cause people, to wear out mentally,
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- That cause people, to wear out mentally, is worry and reasoning.
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- To wear out mentally, is worry and reasoning. trying to figure things out,
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- Is worry and reasoning. trying to figure things out, that only god knows,
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- Trying to figure things out, that only god knows, that he's not telling
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- That only god knows, that he's not telling anybody yet.
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- That he's not telling anybody yet. and there's no such thing,
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- Anybody yet. and there's no such thing, as trusting god,
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- And there's no such thing, as trusting god, without unanswered questions.
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- As trusting god, without unanswered questions. no wonder god tells us,
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- Without unanswered questions. no wonder god tells us, to live one day at a time.
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- No wonder god tells us, to live one day at a time. and especially, the times we're
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- To live one day at a time. and especially, the times we're in right now, my goodness.
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- And especially, the times we're in right now, my goodness. "how long before we don't
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- In right now, my goodness. "how long before we don't have to wear masks anymore?
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- "how long before we don't have to wear masks anymore? when's the covid gonna be over?
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- Is it ever gonna be over?
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- Is it ever gonna be over? now they have all these
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- Is it ever gonna be over? now they have all these new strains [mumbling].
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- Now they have all these new strains [mumbling]. what's gonna happen
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- New strains [mumbling]. what's gonna happen if i get it?"
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- What's gonna happen if i get it?" you can't figure all that out.
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- If i get it?" you can't figure all that out. you just say, "god,
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- You can't figure all that out. you just say, "god, i belong to you.
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- You just say, "god, i belong to you. you created me with
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- I belong to you. you created me with your own hand.
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- You created me with your own hand. i'm fearfully
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- Your own hand. i'm fearfully and wonderfully made.
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- I'm fearfully and wonderfully made. my name is written
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- And wonderfully made. my name is written in your book of life."
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- If i died with covid--
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- If i died with covid-- i mean, paul said,
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- If i died with covid-- i mean, paul said, "to live is christ,
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- I mean, paul said, "to live is christ, to die is gain."
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- "to live is christ, to die is gain." we need to look at it,
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- According to what
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- According to what the bible says.
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- According to what the bible says. you don't need
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- The bible says. you don't need to be afraid to die.
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- You don't need to be afraid to die. if you're a believer, wow!
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- To be afraid to die. if you're a believer, wow! i mean, you really probably--
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- If you're a believer, wow! i mean, you really probably-- i'm kinda looking
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- I mean, you really probably-- i'm kinda looking forward to it myself.
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- I'm kinda looking forward to it myself. and i don't mean that like i--
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- Forward to it myself. and i don't mean that like i-- you know, have a death wish.
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- And i don't mean that like i-- you know, have a death wish. but i mean, wow!
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- You know, have a death wish. but i mean, wow! what's it gonna
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- But i mean, wow! what's it gonna really look like?
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- What's it gonna really look like? what's it gonna be like?
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- Really look like? what's it gonna be like? what's that heavenly
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- What's it gonna be like? what's that heavenly choir gonna sound like?
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- What's that heavenly choir gonna sound like? i wanna do a seminar with moses.
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- Choir gonna sound like? i wanna do a seminar with moses. >> [audience laughing]
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- I wanna do a seminar with moses. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and i've been--
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and i've been-- i've been thinking about it.
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- >> joyce: and i've been-- i've been thinking about it. we worry about so many
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- I've been thinking about it. we worry about so many different things.
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- We worry about so many different things. and you know,
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- Different things. and you know, i'm reading a book right now,
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- And you know, i'm reading a book right now, that is about the mind.
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- I'm reading a book right now, that is about the mind. and i've written,
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- That is about the mind. and i've written, a lot of stuff on the mind.
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- And i've written, a lot of stuff on the mind. but this is really a good book.
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- A lot of stuff on the mind. but this is really a good book. and one of the things
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- But this is really a good book. and one of the things that the author said,
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- And one of the things that the author said, that i really like is,
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- That the author said, that i really like is, "is when you have
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- That i really like is, "is when you have a wrong thought pattern--"
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- "is when you have a wrong thought pattern--" let's just say like you worry
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- A wrong thought pattern--" let's just say like you worry about money all the time.
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- Let's just say like you worry about money all the time. "the first thing you
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- About money all the time. "the first thing you need to ask yourself is,
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- "the first thing you need to ask yourself is, 'where did this come from?'"
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- Need to ask yourself is, 'where did this come from?'" see like, for example,
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- 'where did this come from?'" see like, for example, when i was growing up,
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- See like, for example, when i was growing up, nobody did anything for me.
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- When i was growing up, nobody did anything for me. i had to take care of myself.
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- Nobody did anything for me. i had to take care of myself. now, my parents gave
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- I had to take care of myself. now, my parents gave me a place to live,
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- Now, my parents gave me a place to live, and they fed me,
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- Me a place to live, and they fed me, and they bought me what clothes,
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- And they fed me, and they bought me what clothes, i absolutely had to have.
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- And they bought me what clothes, i absolutely had to have. but my dad wouldn't
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- I absolutely had to have. but my dad wouldn't buy my graduation dress.
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- But my dad wouldn't buy my graduation dress. he wouldn't buy
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- Buy my graduation dress. he wouldn't buy my school pictures.
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- He wouldn't buy my school pictures. he wouldn't buy my class ring.
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- My school pictures. he wouldn't buy my class ring. anything that was like
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- He wouldn't buy my class ring. anything that was like something special for me.
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- Anything that was like something special for me. so, i have a little more fear,
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- Something special for me. so, i have a little more fear, of not having enough money,
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- So, i have a little more fear, of not having enough money, than dave does.
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- Of not having enough money, than dave does. dave was raised--
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- Than dave does. dave was raised-- his family was poor.
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- Dave was raised-- his family was poor. mine weren't.
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- His family was poor. mine weren't. his family was poor,
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- Mine weren't. his family was poor, but he had a mother,
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- His family was poor, but he had a mother, who taught him how
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- But he had a mother, who taught him how to trust god.
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- Who taught him how to trust god. and he watched god,
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- To trust god. and he watched god, provide for them time,
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- And he watched god, provide for them time, after time, after time.
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- Provide for them time, after time, after time. like one of the things
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- After time, after time. like one of the things she did was, she cleaned
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- Like one of the things she did was, she cleaned homes for people.
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- She did was, she cleaned homes for people. and a lot of the people,
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- Homes for people. and a lot of the people, that she cleaned homes for,
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- And a lot of the people, that she cleaned homes for, were wealthy people.
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- And many times,
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- And many times, they would give her whole bags,
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- And many times, they would give her whole bags, of brand-new clothing,
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- They would give her whole bags, of brand-new clothing, to bring home.
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- Of brand-new clothing, to bring home. well, dave doesn't have
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- To bring home. well, dave doesn't have any fear, concerning money.
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- Well, dave doesn't have any fear, concerning money. so, it's helpful for me to say,
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- "where did that come from?"
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- "where did that come from?" "why am i like that?"
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- "where did that come from?" "why am i like that?" i know a man, who has so much
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- "why am i like that?" i know a man, who has so much fear about money.
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- I know a man, who has so much fear about money. i mean, like he won't
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- Fear about money. i mean, like he won't hardly buy anything,
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- I mean, like he won't hardly buy anything, except what he just
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- Hardly buy anything, except what he just absolutely has to have,
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- Except what he just absolutely has to have, even though he has
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- Absolutely has to have, even though he has the money to do it.
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- Even though he has the money to do it. why?
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- The money to do it. why? because he went through
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- Why? because he went through a season, of real poverty,
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- Because he went through a season, of real poverty, in his childhood.
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- A season, of real poverty, in his childhood. and even though his mother,
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- In his childhood. and even though his mother, remarried a man that
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- And even though his mother, remarried a man that took good care of them--
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- Remarried a man that took good care of them-- it's amazing, how you can
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- Took good care of them-- it's amazing, how you can get stuck in a mindset.
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- It's amazing, how you can get stuck in a mindset. i mean, some people
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- Get stuck in a mindset. i mean, some people can worry about what
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- I mean, some people can worry about what people think of them,
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- Can worry about what people think of them, because of one
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- People think of them, because of one very painful thing,
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- Because of one very painful thing, that somebody said to them,
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- Very painful thing, that somebody said to them, 25 or 30 years ago.
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- That somebody said to them, 25 or 30 years ago. so, if you're stuck
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- 25 or 30 years ago. so, if you're stuck in a worry pattern,
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- So, if you're stuck in a worry pattern, about the same thing over,
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- In a worry pattern, about the same thing over, and over, and over--
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- About the same thing over, and over, and over-- maybe you do pretty good,
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- And over, and over-- maybe you do pretty good, in all these areas,
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- Maybe you do pretty good, in all these areas, like, maybe, you don't
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- In all these areas, like, maybe, you don't worry about your kids,
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- Like, maybe, you don't worry about your kids, but this money thing
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- Worry about your kids, but this money thing is a problem.
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- But this money thing is a problem. or maybe, you worry about
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- Is a problem. or maybe, you worry about your health, or whatever it is.
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- Or maybe, you worry about your health, or whatever it is. don't just keep doin' it,
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- Your health, or whatever it is. don't just keep doin' it, and fightin' it, and trying
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- Don't just keep doin' it, and fightin' it, and trying to get over it yourself.
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- And fightin' it, and trying to get over it yourself. ask god to show you,
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- To get over it yourself. ask god to show you, "what is the source of this?"
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- Ask god to show you, "what is the source of this?" because if you don't
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- "what is the source of this?" because if you don't get to the root,
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- Because if you don't get to the root, it'll just keep producing
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- Get to the root, it'll just keep producing bad fruit.
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- It'll just keep producing bad fruit. ginger asked me, the other day,
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- Bad fruit. ginger asked me, the other day, if i had anything special
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- Ginger asked me, the other day, if i had anything special in my heart for this year.
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- If i had anything special in my heart for this year. and i said, "yes, take life
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- In my heart for this year. and i said, "yes, take life one day at a time."
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- And i said, "yes, take life one day at a time." such a great example,
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- One day at a time." such a great example, with the manna.
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- Such a great example, with the manna. god provided their food daily.
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- Just imagine how--what, just--
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- Just imagine how--what, just-- see, we don't think
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- Just imagine how--what, just-- see, we don't think about stuff enough.
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- See, we don't think about stuff enough. think about that.
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- About stuff enough. think about that. now, they're out
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- Think about that. now, they're out in the middle of nowhere,
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- Now, they're out in the middle of nowhere, and all this food comes down,
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- In the middle of nowhere, and all this food comes down, and god says, "now you can
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- And all this food comes down, and god says, "now you can only gather enough for today.
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- And god says, "now you can only gather enough for today. and if you gather
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- Only gather enough for today. and if you gather more than that,
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- And if you gather more than that, it's gonna rot and stink."
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- More than that, it's gonna rot and stink." and they had to trust god,
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- It's gonna rot and stink." and they had to trust god, that the next day,
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- And they had to trust god, that the next day, he would show up again.
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- That the next day, he would show up again. come on.
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- He would show up again. come on. it was probably a little
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- Come on. it was probably a little harder than we think.
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- It was probably a little harder than we think. "seek first the kingdom
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- Harder than we think. "seek first the kingdom of god and his righteousness,
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- "seek first the kingdom of god and his righteousness, and all these other things
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- Of god and his righteousness, and all these other things will be added unto you."
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- Take care of yourself
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- Take care of yourself emotionally.
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- Take care of yourself emotionally. hmm, it's not selfish to take
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- Emotionally. hmm, it's not selfish to take care of yourself.
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- Hmm, it's not selfish to take care of yourself. it's wise.
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- Care of yourself. it's wise. you say, "well, how do i take
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- It's wise. you say, "well, how do i take care of myself emotionally?
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- You say, "well, how do i take care of myself emotionally? well, i mean,
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- Care of myself emotionally? well, i mean, some of the things,
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- Well, i mean, some of the things, i've already said will help.
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- Some of the things, i've already said will help. you know, not worrying,
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- I've already said will help. you know, not worrying, not reasoning.
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- You know, not worrying, not reasoning. but let's just say that
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- Not reasoning. but let's just say that you're a person--
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- But let's just say that you're a person-- and we're all different.
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- You're a person-- and we're all different. let's just say that
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- And we're all different. let's just say that you're a person,
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- Let's just say that you're a person, you need to be around people.
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- You're a person, you need to be around people. one couple that i know,
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- You need to be around people. one couple that i know, she said, "my husband
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- One couple that i know, she said, "my husband is energized by people
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- She said, "my husband is energized by people and they wear me out."
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- Is energized by people and they wear me out." well, we're all different.
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- And they wear me out." well, we're all different. so, you need to get with god,
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- Well, we're all different. so, you need to get with god, and figure out what you need.
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- So, you need to get with god, and figure out what you need. and don't feel like,
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- And figure out what you need. and don't feel like, you're doing something wrong,
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- And don't feel like, you're doing something wrong, if you meet your needs.
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- You're doing something wrong, if you meet your needs. i can tell you my husband,
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- If you meet your needs. i can tell you my husband, needs to play golf.
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- I can tell you my husband, needs to play golf. and i'm at the point,
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- Needs to play golf. and i'm at the point, in my life now,
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- And i'm at the point, in my life now, where i need for him,
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- In my life now, where i need for him, to go play golf.
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- Where i need for him, to go play golf. >> [audience laughing]
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- To go play golf. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: amen?
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: amen? do you know that
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- >> joyce: amen? do you know that men need to play,
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- Do you know that men need to play, more than women do?
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- Men need to play, more than women do? that's an actual fact.
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- More than women do? that's an actual fact. i don't need to be around,
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- That's an actual fact. i don't need to be around, a ton of people.
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- I don't need to be around, a ton of people. i mean, that's kinda funny
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- A ton of people. i mean, that's kinda funny sounding since i...
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- I mean, that's kinda funny sounding since i... but i mean, i need quiet time.
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- Sounding since i... but i mean, i need quiet time. i need time by myself.
- 00:11:06.422 --> 00:11:09.291
- But i mean, i need quiet time. i need time by myself. dave and i were talking about,
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- I need time by myself. dave and i were talking about, what we'll do when i got
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- Dave and i were talking about, what we'll do when i got home today, and i said,
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- What we'll do when i got home today, and i said, "well, for about the first hour,
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- Home today, and i said, "well, for about the first hour, that i'm there,
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- "well, for about the first hour, that i'm there, i just wanna be left alone."
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- That i'm there, i just wanna be left alone." why?
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- I just wanna be left alone." why? because by the time
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- Why? because by the time i finish this,
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- Because by the time i finish this, i need some quiet time.
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- I finish this, i need some quiet time. and i just wanna...
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- I need some quiet time. and i just wanna... i don't wanna go right home,
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- And i just wanna... i don't wanna go right home, and start doin' something else.
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- I don't wanna go right home, and start doin' something else. so, whatever you need
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- And start doin' something else. so, whatever you need emotionally--let's just
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- So, whatever you need emotionally--let's just say that emotionally,
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- Emotionally--let's just say that emotionally, you need more compliments--
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- Say that emotionally, you need more compliments-- more encouragement.
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- You need more compliments-- more encouragement. but maybe you're not married
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- More encouragement. but maybe you're not married to somebody who gives you that.
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- But maybe you're not married to somebody who gives you that. well, find yourself some
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- To somebody who gives you that. well, find yourself some very encouraging friends.
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- Well, find yourself some very encouraging friends. i'm serious.
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- Very encouraging friends. i'm serious. don't just get mad at the person
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- I'm serious. don't just get mad at the person you're married to,
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- Don't just get mad at the person you're married to, because they're not built,
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- You're married to, because they're not built, in such a way,
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- Because they're not built, in such a way, that they can give you,
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- In such a way, that they can give you, everything you want.
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- That they can give you, everything you want. ask god to provide
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- Everything you want. ask god to provide what you need.
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- Ask god to provide what you need. and he may not provide
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- What you need. and he may not provide it through the source,
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- And he may not provide it through the source, that you think it should
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- It through the source, that you think it should come from,
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- That you think it should come from, but he will provide it.
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- Come from, but he will provide it. we get mad at people sometimes,
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- But he will provide it. we get mad at people sometimes, for not giving us something,
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- We get mad at people sometimes, for not giving us something, and they don't even
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- For not giving us something, and they don't even know how to do it.
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- And they don't even know how to do it. it's not even
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- Know how to do it. it's not even in their wheelhouse.
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- It's not even in their wheelhouse. maybe they were raised,
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- In their wheelhouse. maybe they were raised, in a family where there
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- Maybe they were raised, in a family where there wasn't much affection shown.
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- In a family where there wasn't much affection shown. maybe a guy was,
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- Wasn't much affection shown. maybe a guy was, and he marries a woman,
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- Maybe a guy was, and he marries a woman, who got a ton of affection,
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- And he marries a woman, who got a ton of affection, when she was growing up.
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- Who got a ton of affection, when she was growing up. and so, she wants
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- When she was growing up. and so, she wants all this stuff from him,
- 00:12:26.368 --> 00:12:27.303
- And so, she wants all this stuff from him, that's just not even--
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- All this stuff from him, that's just not even-- he don't get it.
- 00:12:28.938 --> 00:12:31.807
- That's just not even-- he don't get it. well, then she needs to pray,
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- He don't get it. well, then she needs to pray, that god will give that to her,
- 00:12:33.008 --> 00:12:34.410
- Well, then she needs to pray, that god will give that to her, through another source.
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- That god will give that to her, through another source. take care of yourself
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- Through another source. take care of yourself emotionally.
- 00:12:38.914 --> 00:12:41.717
- Take care of yourself emotionally. you know, there's a story
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- Emotionally. you know, there's a story in the bible, that i think,
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- You know, there's a story in the bible, that i think, is interesting.
- 00:12:47.456 --> 00:12:48.991
- It's about, it's in john 12:3-7,
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- It's about, it's in john 12:3-7, when mary took
- 00:12:53.062 --> 00:12:54.563
- It's about, it's in john 12:3-7, when mary took a pint of pure nard,
- 00:12:54.630 --> 00:12:56.098
- When mary took a pint of pure nard, an expensive perfume,
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- A pint of pure nard, an expensive perfume, and poured it on jesus' feet,
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- An expensive perfume, and poured it on jesus' feet, and wiped it with her hair.
- 00:13:02.504 --> 00:13:04.039
- And poured it on jesus' feet, and wiped it with her hair. mike, can you come here,
- 00:13:04.106 --> 00:13:04.773
- And wiped it with her hair. mike, can you come here, just a minute real quick?
- 00:13:04.840 --> 00:13:07.243
- Just so you--
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- Just so you-- this makes sense to you.
- 00:13:08.310 --> 00:13:10.479
- Just so you-- this makes sense to you. see, they didn't sit in chairs
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- This makes sense to you. see, they didn't sit in chairs and eat in jesus' day.
- 00:13:11.714 --> 00:13:13.449
- See, they didn't sit in chairs and eat in jesus' day. they--mike is so obedient.
- 00:13:13.515 --> 00:13:16.385
- And eat in jesus' day. they--mike is so obedient. >> [audience laughing]
- 00:13:16.452 --> 00:13:17.486
- They--mike is so obedient. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: see, now this was
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: see, now this was how they ate.
- 00:13:18.854 --> 00:13:20.256
- >> joyce: see, now this was how they ate. they were at tables,
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- How they ate. they were at tables, and they laid down.
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- They were at tables, and they laid down. well, she was back here,
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- And they laid down. well, she was back here, behind his feet.
- 00:13:26.328 --> 00:13:29.131
- Well, she was back here, behind his feet. and she let down her hair,
- 00:13:29.198 --> 00:13:32.134
- Behind his feet. and she let down her hair, which a woman did
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- And she let down her hair, which a woman did not do in public.
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- Which a woman did not do in public. first of all,
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- Not do in public. first of all, for her to even be in there--
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- First of all, for her to even be in there-- to come that close to jesus,
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- For her to even be in there-- to come that close to jesus, i mean, like she was
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- To come that close to jesus, i mean, like she was really being radical.
- 00:13:41.043 --> 00:13:44.446
- I mean, like she was really being radical. which is the way you get,
- 00:13:44.513 --> 00:13:45.514
- Really being radical. which is the way you get, if you love jesus enough.
- 00:13:45.581 --> 00:13:48.384
- And, you know,
- 00:13:49.785 --> 00:13:50.386
- And, you know, judas complained and he said,
- 00:13:50.452 --> 00:13:54.290
- And, you know, judas complained and he said, "why did you waste that?"
- 00:13:54.356 --> 00:13:56.258
- Judas complained and he said, "why did you waste that?" come on, now, listen.
- 00:13:56.325 --> 00:13:57.359
- "why did you waste that?" come on, now, listen. "why did you waste that?"
- 00:13:57.426 --> 00:13:58.861
- Come on, now, listen. "why did you waste that?" and jesus said,
- 00:13:58.928 --> 00:13:59.728
- "why did you waste that?" and jesus said, "she has done this
- 00:13:59.795 --> 00:14:00.562
- And jesus said, "she has done this in preparation for my burial."
- 00:14:00.629 --> 00:14:02.197
- "she has done this in preparation for my burial." you know what i think?
- 00:14:02.264 --> 00:14:03.098
- In preparation for my burial." you know what i think? this is my own opinion.
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- You know what i think? this is my own opinion. i think that helped
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- This is my own opinion. i think that helped him emotionally.
- 00:14:05.367 --> 00:14:08.537
- I think that helped him emotionally. 'cause see, emotionally,
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- Him emotionally. 'cause see, emotionally, his disciples all went to sleep.
- 00:14:09.505 --> 00:14:11.140
- 'cause see, emotionally, his disciples all went to sleep. they couldn't even
- 00:14:11.206 --> 00:14:11.707
- His disciples all went to sleep. they couldn't even pray with him an hour.
- 00:14:11.774 --> 00:14:14.043
- They couldn't even pray with him an hour. he was going through a lot
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- Pray with him an hour. he was going through a lot of emotional things.
- 00:14:14.977 --> 00:14:15.411
- He was going through a lot of emotional things. but here, mary comes,
- 00:14:15.477 --> 00:14:17.513
- Of emotional things. but here, mary comes, and she takes perfume
- 00:14:17.579 --> 00:14:18.781
- But here, mary comes, and she takes perfume worth a year's wages,
- 00:14:18.847 --> 00:14:20.015
- And she takes perfume worth a year's wages, and just pours it all over him.
- 00:14:20.082 --> 00:14:22.151
- Worth a year's wages, and just pours it all over him. can i tell you something?
- 00:14:22.217 --> 00:14:23.285
- And just pours it all over him. can i tell you something? once in a while,
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- Can i tell you something? once in a while, you're worthy of waste.
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- Once in a while, you're worthy of waste. you can get up, mike.
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- You're worthy of waste. you can get up, mike. thank you.
- 00:14:28.824 --> 00:14:29.224
- You can get up, mike. thank you. mike's so good.
- 00:14:29.291 --> 00:14:32.094
- "oh, i can do without that."
- 00:14:32.861 --> 00:14:35.898
- "oh, i can do without that." well, maybe, you can,
- 00:14:35.965 --> 00:14:37.533
- But maybe, it's not the best
- 00:14:37.599 --> 00:14:38.801
- But maybe, it's not the best thing for you to do without it.
- 00:14:38.867 --> 00:14:45.841
- But maybe, it's not the best thing for you to do without it. don't pay any attention
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- Thing for you to do without it. don't pay any attention to the judgments
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- Don't pay any attention to the judgments of other people.
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- To the judgments of other people. "well, you didn't need that."
- 00:14:49.845 --> 00:14:51.146
- Of other people. "well, you didn't need that." "well, you don't
- 00:14:51.213 --> 00:14:51.647
- "well, you didn't need that." "well, you don't know what i need.
- 00:14:51.714 --> 00:14:52.848
- "well, you don't know what i need. you don't know what
- 00:14:52.915 --> 00:14:53.682
- Know what i need. you don't know what my life is like.
- 00:14:53.749 --> 00:14:54.616
- You don't know what my life is like. you don't know what
- 00:14:54.683 --> 00:14:55.184
- My life is like. you don't know what i go through."
- 00:14:55.250 --> 00:14:56.685
- You don't know what i go through." we've got all of our opinions,
- 00:14:56.752 --> 00:14:57.619
- I go through." we've got all of our opinions, about everybody else,
- 00:14:57.686 --> 00:14:58.554
- We've got all of our opinions, about everybody else, and what they should do,
- 00:14:58.620 --> 00:14:59.421
- About everybody else, and what they should do, and what they shouldn't do.
- 00:14:59.488 --> 00:15:01.590
- And what they should do, and what they shouldn't do. and the bottom line is,
- 00:15:01.657 --> 00:15:02.992
- And what they shouldn't do. and the bottom line is, you tell--you start telling
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- And the bottom line is, you tell--you start telling god what you need.
- 00:15:04.526 --> 00:15:07.262
- You tell--you start telling god what you need. you know, sometimes,
- 00:15:07.329 --> 00:15:07.997
- God what you need. you know, sometimes, i'll tell god, you know,
- 00:15:08.063 --> 00:15:10.032
- You know, sometimes, i'll tell god, you know, "could you just do,
- 00:15:10.099 --> 00:15:10.933
- I'll tell god, you know, "could you just do, something special for me?
- 00:15:11.000 --> 00:15:11.500
- "could you just do, something special for me? i just need a surprise."
- 00:15:11.567 --> 00:15:15.004
- Something special for me? i just need a surprise." i love my husband
- 00:15:15.070 --> 00:15:15.804
- I just need a surprise." i love my husband with all my heart,
- 00:15:15.871 --> 00:15:16.505
- I love my husband with all my heart, but he's not a gift buyer.
- 00:15:16.572 --> 00:15:18.273
- With all my heart, but he's not a gift buyer. and my love language is gifts.
- 00:15:18.340 --> 00:15:19.575
- But he's not a gift buyer. and my love language is gifts. i love to give 'em,
- 00:15:19.641 --> 00:15:20.642
- And my love language is gifts. i love to give 'em, and i like to get 'em.
- 00:15:20.709 --> 00:15:23.045
- I love to give 'em, and i like to get 'em. but he--it's just not--
- 00:15:23.112 --> 00:15:24.913
- And i like to get 'em. but he--it's just not-- that's just not what he does.
- 00:15:24.980 --> 00:15:26.415
- But he--it's just not-- that's just not what he does. he'll go out and shop all day,
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- That's just not what he does. he'll go out and shop all day, and bring home shirts,
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- He'll go out and shop all day, and bring home shirts, and jeans, and shoes, and,
- 00:15:28.550 --> 00:15:31.887
- And bring home shirts, and jeans, and shoes, and, "you got anything there for me?"
- 00:15:31.954 --> 00:15:33.188
- And jeans, and shoes, and, "you got anything there for me?" "nah."
- 00:15:33.255 --> 00:15:33.856
- "you got anything there for me?" "nah." >> [audience laughing]
- 00:15:33.922 --> 00:15:35.224
- "nah." >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: "i figured if i bought
- 00:15:35.290 --> 00:15:36.525
- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: "i figured if i bought you something you'd just
- 00:15:36.592 --> 00:15:37.159
- >> joyce: "i figured if i bought you something you'd just take it back anyway."
- 00:15:37.226 --> 00:15:37.826
- You something you'd just take it back anyway." i said, "i don't care."
- 00:15:37.893 --> 00:15:39.795
- Take it back anyway." i said, "i don't care." but that's just not him.
- 00:15:39.862 --> 00:15:41.530
- I said, "i don't care." but that's just not him. so, i spent years gettin'
- 00:15:41.597 --> 00:15:43.966
- But that's just not him. so, i spent years gettin' mad at him.
- 00:15:44.033 --> 00:15:46.769
- So, i spent years gettin' mad at him. there's no point in that.
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- Mad at him. there's no point in that. it's not the way god's
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- There's no point in that. it's not the way god's put them together.
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- It's not the way god's put them together. he's got a lot
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- Put them together. he's got a lot of other great gifts.
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- He's got a lot of other great gifts. and he'll do anything for me.
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- Of other great gifts. and he'll do anything for me. he's very much with
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- And he'll do anything for me. he's very much with acts of service,
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- He's very much with acts of service, which is my second
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- Acts of service, which is my second love language.
- 00:16:00.249 --> 00:16:00.849
- Which is my second love language. so, he still got in there.
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- Love language. so, he still got in there. but if you're not getting
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- So, he still got in there. but if you're not getting something from somebody else,
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- But if you're not getting something from somebody else, that you want, ask god for it.
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- Something from somebody else, that you want, ask god for it. it's okay for you to ask god
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- That you want, ask god for it. it's okay for you to ask god for something special.
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- It's okay for you to ask god for something special. "god, could you do something
- 00:16:13.062 --> 00:16:14.029
- For something special. "god, could you do something special for me?"
- 00:16:14.096 --> 00:16:16.899
- "god, could you do something special for me?" i've just written
- 00:16:16.965 --> 00:16:17.533
- Special for me?" i've just written a book called, "how to age
- 00:16:17.599 --> 00:16:21.703
- I've just written a book called, "how to age without getting old."
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- A book called, "how to age without getting old." and so, that begins with,
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- Without getting old." and so, that begins with, taking care of yourself,
- 00:16:27.609 --> 00:16:28.444
- And so, that begins with, taking care of yourself, when you're young.
- 00:16:28.510 --> 00:16:31.380
- Taking care of yourself, when you're young. i really hope that people don't
- 00:16:31.447 --> 00:16:32.815
- When you're young. i really hope that people don't look at this book and go,
- 00:16:32.881 --> 00:16:34.316
- I really hope that people don't look at this book and go, "i don't need that,
- 00:16:34.383 --> 00:16:34.983
- Look at this book and go, "i don't need that, i'm only 20."
- 00:16:35.050 --> 00:16:36.552
- "i don't need that, i'm only 20." well, that's exactly when you
- 00:16:36.618 --> 00:16:37.286
- I'm only 20." well, that's exactly when you do need it, when you're 20.
- 00:16:37.352 --> 00:16:40.122
- Well, that's exactly when you do need it, when you're 20. i wish, with all my heart,
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- Do need it, when you're 20. i wish, with all my heart, that somebody would've
- 00:16:42.057 --> 00:16:42.858
- I wish, with all my heart, that somebody would've written this book,
- 00:16:42.925 --> 00:16:44.126
- That somebody would've written this book, 30 years ago.
- 00:16:44.193 --> 00:16:45.894
- Written this book, 30 years ago. and i would've read it,
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- 30 years ago. and i would've read it, and paid attention to it.
- 00:16:47.796 --> 00:16:50.466
- And i would've read it, and paid attention to it. i could've avoided making
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- And paid attention to it. i could've avoided making myself sick three times.
- 00:16:51.667 --> 00:16:54.570
- I could've avoided making myself sick three times. i could've avoided some
- 00:16:54.636 --> 00:16:55.671
- Myself sick three times. i could've avoided some of the things that
- 00:16:55.737 --> 00:16:56.305
- I could've avoided some of the things that i still deal with,
- 00:16:56.371 --> 00:16:57.306
- Of the things that i still deal with, because i work too hard.
- 00:16:57.372 --> 00:17:00.175
- Because of being abused
- 00:17:01.810 --> 00:17:02.744
- Because of being abused in my childhood,
- 00:17:02.811 --> 00:17:03.512
- Because of being abused in my childhood, i really tried to get
- 00:17:03.579 --> 00:17:06.582
- In my childhood, i really tried to get a lot of my worth,
- 00:17:06.648 --> 00:17:07.316
- I really tried to get a lot of my worth, and value out of my work.
- 00:17:07.382 --> 00:17:11.353
- A lot of my worth, and value out of my work. i didn't know any better.
- 00:17:11.420 --> 00:17:13.489
- And value out of my work. i didn't know any better. i had nobody telling
- 00:17:13.555 --> 00:17:14.490
- I didn't know any better. i had nobody telling me the things that
- 00:17:14.556 --> 00:17:15.157
- I had nobody telling me the things that i'm telling you now.
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- Me the things that i'm telling you now. and yes, i went to church.
- 00:17:16.058 --> 00:17:22.564
- I'm telling you now. and yes, i went to church. there's a handful of things,
- 00:17:22.631 --> 00:17:24.099
- And yes, i went to church. there's a handful of things, if you do them now--
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- There's a handful of things, if you do them now-- not hard, that will make
- 00:17:25.400 --> 00:17:28.003
- If you do them now-- not hard, that will make a whole difference for you,
- 00:17:28.070 --> 00:17:31.140
- Not hard, that will make a whole difference for you, as you get older.
- 00:17:31.206 --> 00:17:32.307
- A whole difference for you, as you get older. first of all,
- 00:17:32.374 --> 00:17:32.808
- As you get older. first of all, don't start thinkin' old.
- 00:17:32.875 --> 00:17:36.145
- "well, i'm so old,
- 00:17:36.211 --> 00:17:36.778
- "well, i'm so old, i can't do that
- 00:17:36.845 --> 00:17:37.479
- "well, i'm so old, i can't do that anymore, i'm old."
- 00:17:37.546 --> 00:17:39.982
- I can't do that anymore, i'm old." no, you're aging,
- 00:17:40.048 --> 00:17:40.849
- Anymore, i'm old." no, you're aging, but you don't have to get old.
- 00:17:40.916 --> 00:17:42.351
- No, you're aging, but you don't have to get old. old is a mindset.
- 00:17:42.417 --> 00:17:43.152
- But you don't have to get old. old is a mindset. age is a number.
- 00:17:43.218 --> 00:17:46.522
- Old is a mindset. age is a number. and we all know,
- 00:17:46.588 --> 00:17:47.789
- Age is a number. and we all know, 'cause i tell it all the time,
- 00:17:47.856 --> 00:17:49.725
- And we all know, 'cause i tell it all the time, i'm 77 soon-to-be 78.
- 00:17:49.791 --> 00:17:55.664
- 'cause i tell it all the time, i'm 77 soon-to-be 78. still going strong.
- 00:17:55.731 --> 00:17:57.599
- I'm 77 soon-to-be 78. still going strong. yes, i get a little tireder
- 00:17:57.666 --> 00:17:58.767
- Still going strong. yes, i get a little tireder than i used to.
- 00:17:58.834 --> 00:17:59.735
- Yes, i get a little tireder than i used to. i need more rest.
- 00:17:59.801 --> 00:18:02.571
- Than i used to. i need more rest. i have to say, "no," to more
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- I need more rest. i have to say, "no," to more things than i used to.
- 00:18:03.739 --> 00:18:05.541
- I have to say, "no," to more things than i used to. but i am not old!
- 00:18:05.607 --> 00:18:08.844
- Things than i used to. but i am not old! amen?
- 00:18:08.911 --> 00:18:09.478
- But i am not old! amen? >> audience: amen.
- 00:18:09.545 --> 00:18:11.213
- Amen? >> audience: amen. >> joyce: don't start thinking,
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- >> audience: amen. >> joyce: don't start thinking, "i'm too old to do that."
- 00:18:12.281 --> 00:18:15.817
- >> joyce: don't start thinking, "i'm too old to do that." simple things.
- 00:18:15.884 --> 00:18:16.618
- "i'm too old to do that." simple things. let me just tell you.
- 00:18:16.685 --> 00:18:18.053
- Simple things. let me just tell you. get enough rest.
- 00:18:18.120 --> 00:18:21.356
- Let me just tell you. get enough rest. learn how to say, "no,"
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- Get enough rest. learn how to say, "no," when you need to say, "no."
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- Learn how to say, "no," when you need to say, "no." get seven to eight hours
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- When you need to say, "no." get seven to eight hours sleep every night.
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- Get seven to eight hours sleep every night. "well, i don't have
- 00:18:27.095 --> 00:18:27.696
- Sleep every night. "well, i don't have time to do that."
- 00:18:27.763 --> 00:18:29.565
- "well, i don't have time to do that." well, you'll either take time,
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- Time to do that." well, you'll either take time, because you choose to,
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- Well, you'll either take time, because you choose to, or eventually you'll
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- Because you choose to, or eventually you'll be forced to.
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- Or eventually you'll be forced to. amen?
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- Be forced to. amen? you can't do the same
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- Amen? you can't do the same thing all your life.
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- You can't do the same thing all your life. you have to be making changes,
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- Thing all your life. you have to be making changes, all the way along.
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- You have to be making changes, all the way along. drink lots of water.
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- All the way along. drink lots of water. eat healthy foods.
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- Drink lots of water. eat healthy foods. don't be excessive with sugar,
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- Eat healthy foods. don't be excessive with sugar, caffeine, different substances
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- Don't be excessive with sugar, caffeine, different substances that aren't good for you.
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- Caffeine, different substances that aren't good for you. get plenty of exercise.
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- That aren't good for you. get plenty of exercise. move, move, move,
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- Get plenty of exercise. move, move, move, you've got joints because,
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- Move, move, move, you've got joints because, you're supposed to move.
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- You've got joints because, you're supposed to move. make an investment in yourself.
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- You're supposed to move. make an investment in yourself. you know why?
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- Make an investment in yourself. you know why? because you're worth it.
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- You know why? because you're worth it. you have tremendous value.
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- Because you're worth it. you have tremendous value. you are fearfully
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- You have tremendous value. you are fearfully and wonderfully made, amen?
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- You are fearfully and wonderfully made, amen? come on, let's give god
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- And wonderfully made, amen? come on, let's give god a big praise.
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- Come on, let's give god a big praise. >> [audience applauding]
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- >> announcer: when faced
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- >> announcer: when faced with life's inevitable
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- With life's inevitable ups and downs,
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- Ups and downs, having the resiliency
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- Having the resiliency to stand up
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- To stand up to new challenges
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- To new challenges and meet them
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- And meet them head on is imperative.
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- Head on is imperative. we can't keep changes
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- We can't keep changes from coming.
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- From coming. but we can manage our
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- But we can manage our reaction to it
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- Reaction to it and even come
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- And even come to welcome it
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- To welcome it into our lives.
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- >> joyce: you know,
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- >> joyce: you know, life is full of changes.
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- Life is full of changes. and sometimes,
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- And sometimes, it can feel like
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- It can feel like everything around
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- Everything around us is shaking:
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- Us is shaking: jobs are changing,
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- Jobs are changing, relationships,
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- Relationships, people's expectations.
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- People's expectations. it's easy to get overwhelmed.
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- It's easy to get overwhelmed. but i want to remind
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- But i want to remind you today,
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- You today, while change
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- While change is inevitable,
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- Is inevitable, you have the power
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- You have the power to choose how
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- To choose how to respond to it.
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- To respond to it. in my book,
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- In my book, "the courage
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- "the courage to change,"
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- To change," i'll show you
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- I'll show you how to not only
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- How to not only navigate life's
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- Navigate life's transitions,
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- Transitions, but to actually
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- But to actually embrace them
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- Embrace them with god's word
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- With god's word as your foundation.
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- As your foundation. you can face
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- You can face each shift with
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- Each shift with confidence,
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- Confidence, knowing that the same
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- Knowing that the same god who never
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- God who never changed is working
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- Changed is working all things for
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- All things for your good,
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- Your good, even in the midst
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- Even in the midst of difficult moments.
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- Of difficult moments. >> announcer: be the first
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- >> joyce: if you're
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- >> joyce: if you're weary from all
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- Weary from all of life's changes,
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- Of life's changes, i want you to know
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- I want you to know that you can find
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- That you can find peace in the storm.
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- Peace in the storm. in "the courage
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- In "the courage to change"
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- To change" i'll show you
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- I'll show you how god's word can
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- How god's word can help you embrace
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- Help you embrace every challenge with
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- Every challenge with confidence.
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- Confidence. you don't have
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- You don't have to live in the fear
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- To live in the fear of change.
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- Of change. with the strength
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- With the strength and the wisdom
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- And the wisdom from god,
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- From god, you can stand
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- You can stand firm through
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- Firm through any storm and come
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- Any storm and come out stronger
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- Out stronger on the other side.
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- On the other side. let's face
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- Let's face life's challenges
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- Life's challenges together with
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- Together with faith, hope,
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- >> [♪♪]
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- >> ginger: if you want
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- >> ginger: if you want to make a real difference
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- To make a real difference in the world and share
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- >> volunteers: we'll see
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- >> volunteers: we'll see you there!!
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- >> joyce: no matter what
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- >> joyce: no matter what happens in your life,
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- Happens in your life, no matter what
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- No matter what comes against you,
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- Comes against you, no matter what
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- No matter what challenges you have,
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- Challenges you have, you can do whatever
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- You can do whatever you need to do in life
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- You need to do in life through christ
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- Through christ who strengthens you.
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- God never promises
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- God never promises us a trouble-free life,
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- Us a trouble-free life, but he does promise to never
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- But he does promise to never leave us nor forsake us.
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- I don't have
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- I don't have to live in fear.
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- To live in fear. god is on my side and i get
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- God is on my side and i get to give god my problems,
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- To give god my problems, cast my care,
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- Cast my care, go on and enjoy my life while
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- Go on and enjoy my life while god works on my situation.
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- Don't be afraid of things.
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- Don't be afraid of things. learn to take your life
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- Learn to take your life one day at a time.
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- One day at a time. trust god.
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- The bible says that
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- The bible says that god chose you on purpose
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- God chose you on purpose because he loves you.
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- Because he loves you. every day of your life was
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- Every day of your life was written in his book before
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- Written in his book before you ever breathed one of them.
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- He knows every
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- He knows every decision you're gonna
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- Decision you're gonna make before you make
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- Make before you make it and he still says,
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- It and he still says, "i love you unconditionally.
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- "i love you unconditionally. i will never give up on you.
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- I will never give up on you. i will work with you,
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- I will work with you, and hold you,
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- And hold you, and watch over you."
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- And watch over you." god loves you.
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- Let me tell you
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- Let me tell you something.
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- Something. when you're in the lowest pit,
- 00:24:31.092 --> 00:24:32.093
- When you're in the lowest pit, god can have his eye on you.
- 00:24:32.160 --> 00:24:33.995
- God can have his eye on you. and god, his arm is not too
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- And god, his arm is not too short that he can't reach
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- Short that he can't reach down in your pit lift you out.
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- Down in your pit lift you out. what you're going through now,
- 00:24:38.533 --> 00:24:39.568
- What you're going through now, is a moment in time.
- 00:24:39.634 --> 00:24:40.969
- Is a moment in time. it's not gonna last forever.
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- It's not gonna last forever. this too shall pass.
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- I don't care what it looks like.
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- I don't care what it looks like. i don't care what it feels like.
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- I don't care what it feels like. i don't care how long it takes.
- 00:24:46.942 --> 00:24:49.110
- I don't care how long it takes. don't you dare give up
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- Don't you dare give up in the silent years.
- 00:24:50.612 --> 00:24:52.080
- Suddenly, god is gonna
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- Suddenly, god is gonna break through.
- 00:24:54.449 --> 00:24:55.850
- But i know,
- 00:24:57.419 --> 00:24:58.086
- But i know, that i know, that i know,
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- That i know, that i know, that the word of god is true,
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- That the word of god is true, and that he changes lives
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- And that he changes lives and he gives you a life
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- And he gives you a life worth living.
- 00:25:04.826 --> 00:25:06.561
- Worth living. and no matter what anybody
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- And no matter what anybody has done to us, or said to us,
- 00:25:07.495 --> 00:25:09.664
- Has done to us, or said to us, no matter what has happened
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- No matter what has happened to us, you are not hopeless
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- To us, you are not hopeless and you are not helpless
- 00:25:12.400 --> 00:25:14.369
- And you are not helpless because there is a god that
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- Because there is a god that is alive, who loves you.
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- Is alive, who loves you. personally, loves you
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- Personally, loves you and wants to help you.
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- And wants to help you. and so, really,
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- And so, really, when you get right down to it,
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- When you get right down to it, it's just all about jesus.
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- >> [audience cheering]
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- >> joyce: it's all about him!
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- >> announcer: 3, 2, 1.
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- >> [♪♪]
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- >> joyce: well, today, i wanna
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- >> joyce: well, today, i wanna pray about hope with you.
- 00:25:58.847 --> 00:26:00.415
- >> joyce: well, today, i wanna pray about hope with you. you know, hope is an expectation
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- Pray about hope with you. you know, hope is an expectation that something good is going
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- You know, hope is an expectation that something good is going to happen at any moment.
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- That something good is going to happen at any moment. so, father, we come to you
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- To happen at any moment. so, father, we come to you in jesus' name and i pray today,
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- So, father, we come to you in jesus' name and i pray today, that people will stop thinking,
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- In jesus' name and i pray today, that people will stop thinking, "my problem's never
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- That people will stop thinking, "my problem's never gonna change.
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- "my problem's never gonna change. it's never gonna go away.
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- Gonna change. it's never gonna go away. this is never gonna be any
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- It's never gonna go away. this is never gonna be any different in my life."
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- This is never gonna be any different in my life." and i want them to aggressively
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- Different in my life." and i want them to aggressively believe that all things
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- And i want them to aggressively believe that all things are possible with you,
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- Believe that all things are possible with you, and that they are gonna have
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- Are possible with you, and that they are gonna have a breakthrough at any moment
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- And that they are gonna have a breakthrough at any moment in their life.
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- A breakthrough at any moment in their life. your word says that,
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- In their life. your word says that, "hope deferred makes
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- Your word says that, "hope deferred makes the heart sick."
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- "hope deferred makes the heart sick." we need to stir ourselves
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- The heart sick." we need to stir ourselves up in hope and let it be
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- We need to stir ourselves up in hope and let it be the anchor of our souls.
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- Up in hope and let it be the anchor of our souls. so, i pray that people will
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- The anchor of our souls. so, i pray that people will not just focus on what's
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- So, i pray that people will not just focus on what's wrong in their life,
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- Not just focus on what's wrong in their life, but they'll focus on what
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- Wrong in their life, but they'll focus on what you can do.
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- But they'll focus on what you can do. and once again,
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- You can do. and once again, nothing is impossible with you.
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- And once again, nothing is impossible with you. help us stir our faith up,
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- Nothing is impossible with you. help us stir our faith up, lord, and believe you for
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- Help us stir our faith up, lord, and believe you for greater things than ever before.
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- Lord, and believe you for greater things than ever before. i ask it in jesus' name, amen.
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- Greater things than ever before. i ask it in jesus' name, amen. you have a great rest
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- I ask it in jesus' name, amen. you have a great rest of the day.
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- You have a great rest of the day. and remember, god's got
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- Of the day. and remember, god's got a good plan for your life.
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- >> [♪♪]
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- >> announcer: we hope you
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- >> announcer: we hope you enjoyed today's program.
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