Joyce Meyer - The Dangers of Strife

November 2, 2025 | 29:29

Are anger and strife affecting your life? Today, Joyce shares on the importance of letting go of offense and embracing a life filled with peace.

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  • >> joyce: maybe i'll talk
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  • >> joyce: maybe i'll talk to myself.
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  • >> joyce: maybe i'll talk to myself. "joyce, if you don't deal with
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  • To myself. "joyce, if you don't deal with the strife in your life and get
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  • "joyce, if you don't deal with the strife in your life and get rid of it, it's going to affect
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  • The strife in your life and get rid of it, it's going to affect you and the people around
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  • Rid of it, it's going to affect you and the people around you in a very adverse way."
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  • >> joyce: i do what i do because
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  • >> joyce: i do what i do because i've seen god's power
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  • >> joyce: i do what i do because i've seen god's power transform my own life,
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  • I've seen god's power transform my own life, and he will do it for you.
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  • Transform my own life, and he will do it for you. the key to everything
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  • And he will do it for you. the key to everything is found in god's word.
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  • The key to everything is found in god's word. i'm joyce meyer,
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  • Is found in god's word. i'm joyce meyer, and i believe that god can
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  • I'm joyce meyer, and i believe that god can heal you everywhere you hurt.
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  • >> joyce: father, thank you
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  • >> joyce: father, thank you for this opportunity to teach
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  • >> joyce: father, thank you for this opportunity to teach your word tonight.
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  • For this opportunity to teach your word tonight. thank you for all the wonderful
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  • Your word tonight. thank you for all the wonderful people that you've brought
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  • Thank you for all the wonderful people that you've brought here, and i believe that
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  • People that you've brought here, and i believe that the word changes us.
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  • Here, and i believe that the word changes us. it breaks bondages off of us.
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  • The word changes us. it breaks bondages off of us. it heals us.
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  • It breaks bondages off of us. it heals us. i don't believe that there's
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  • It heals us. i don't believe that there's anything that your
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  • I don't believe that there's anything that your word can't do.
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  • Anything that your word can't do. so, i thank you that
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  • Word can't do. so, i thank you that the enemy is bound.
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  • So, i thank you that the enemy is bound. he has no business in this
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  • The enemy is bound. he has no business in this place tonight in any way,
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  • He has no business in this place tonight in any way, shape, or form.
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  • Place tonight in any way, shape, or form. and i thank you for what you're
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  • Shape, or form. and i thank you for what you're gonna do in jesus' name.
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  • And i thank you for what you're gonna do in jesus' name. amen.
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  • Gonna do in jesus' name. amen. now you can be seated.
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  • Amen. now you can be seated. >> [audience applauding]
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  • Now you can be seated. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: so, what about strife?
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: so, what about strife? what is strife?
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  • >> joyce: so, what about strife? what is strife? strife is bickering, arguing,
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  • What is strife? strife is bickering, arguing, heated disagreement,
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  • Strife is bickering, arguing, heated disagreement, and an angry undercurrent.
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  • Bickering, arguing, heated
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  • Bickering, arguing, heated disagreement, and an angry
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  • Bickering, arguing, heated disagreement, and an angry undercurrent.
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  • Disagreement, and an angry undercurrent. and i think the angry
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  • Undercurrent. and i think the angry undercurrent is the most
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  • And i think the angry undercurrent is the most dangerous because that's when
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  • Undercurrent is the most dangerous because that's when everybody kind of senses that
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  • Dangerous because that's when everybody kind of senses that something not good is going
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  • Everybody kind of senses that something not good is going on behind the scenes,
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  • Something not good is going on behind the scenes, but everybody's still smiling
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  • On behind the scenes, but everybody's still smiling at each other saying--
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  • But everybody's still smiling at each other saying-- especially in church,
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  • At each other saying-- especially in church, "praise the lord."
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  • Especially in church, "praise the lord." >> [audience applauding]
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  • "praise the lord." >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: now, i actually
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: now, i actually have a real concern
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  • >> joyce: now, i actually have a real concern because there are so many
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  • Have a real concern because there are so many people in the body of christ
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  • Because there are so many people in the body of christ that are mad at somebody.
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  • People in the body of christ that are mad at somebody. i just had our yearly
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  • That are mad at somebody. i just had our yearly women's conference.
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  • I just had our yearly women's conference. we held it this past year
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  • Women's conference. we held it this past year in san antonio, texas.
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  • We held it this past year in san antonio, texas. and i guess maybe
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  • In san antonio, texas. and i guess maybe you were there.
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  • And i guess maybe you were there. anybody here was there.
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  • You were there. anybody here was there. >> [audience laughing]
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  • Anybody here was there. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: there were
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: there were 16,500 women there.
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  • >> joyce: there were 16,500 women there. and on thursday night,
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  • 16,500 women there. and on thursday night, i asked how many of them--
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  • And on thursday night, i asked how many of them-- i did a little exhortation
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  • I asked how many of them-- i did a little exhortation on it first, and i asked,
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  • I did a little exhortation on it first, and i asked, "how many of you have
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  • On it first, and i asked, "how many of you have somebody in your life
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  • "how many of you have somebody in your life that you need to forgive?
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  • Somebody in your life that you need to forgive? will you stand up?"
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  • That you need to forgive? will you stand up?" and i was shocked.
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  • Will you stand up?" and i was shocked. ninety percent
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  • And i was shocked. ninety percent of the 16,000 stood up.
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  • Ninety percent of the 16,000 stood up. and if you were there,
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  • Of the 16,000 stood up. and if you were there, you saw it.
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  • And if you were there, you saw it. now, what are we gonna do--?
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  • You saw it. now, what are we gonna do--? i mean, we're living
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  • Now, what are we gonna do--? i mean, we're living in very dangerous times.
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  • What are we gonna do
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  • What are we gonna do if we don't make a decision
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  • What are we gonna do if we don't make a decision that we're gonna stop it?
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  • If we don't make a decision that we're gonna stop it? jesus said, "i've left
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  • That we're gonna stop it? jesus said, "i've left you my peace.
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  • Jesus said, "i've left you my peace. now, you stop allowing
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  • You my peace. now, you stop allowing yourselves to get
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  • Now, you stop allowing yourselves to get upset and disturbed.
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  • Yourselves to get upset and disturbed. stop allowing yourselves
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  • Upset and disturbed. stop allowing yourselves to be fearful and intimidated."
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  • Stop allowing yourselves to be fearful and intimidated." i wanna be the kind of person
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  • To be fearful and intimidated." i wanna be the kind of person that before you get finished
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  • I wanna be the kind of person that before you get finished offending me, i've already
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  • That before you get finished offending me, i've already decided to forgive you.
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  • Offending me, i've already decided to forgive you. >> [audience applauding]
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  • Decided to forgive you. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and the only way that
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and the only way that can happen is yes, through
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  • >> joyce: and the only way that can happen is yes, through prayer, but also through
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  • Can happen is yes, through prayer, but also through special study.
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  • Prayer, but also through special study. you need to be familiar with
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  • Special study. you need to be familiar with every scripture in the bible
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  • You need to be familiar with every scripture in the bible that talks about anger.
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  • Every scripture in the bible that talks about anger. anger does not promote
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  • That talks about anger. anger does not promote the righteousness
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  • Anger does not promote the righteousness that god desires.
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  • The righteousness that god desires. you need to be familiar
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  • That god desires. you need to be familiar with mark 11 that says,
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  • You need to be familiar with mark 11 that says, "faith can move mountains."
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  • With mark 11 that says, "faith can move mountains." you can say to that mountain,
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  • "faith can move mountains." you can say to that mountain, "move" and it'll have to move.
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  • You can say to that mountain, "move" and it'll have to move. "whatever you pray for,
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  • "move" and it'll have to move. "whatever you pray for, believe that you receive it,
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  • "whatever you pray for, believe that you receive it, and you will get it."
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  • Believe that you receive it, and you will get it." it doesn't say when,
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  • And you will get it." it doesn't say when, but it says you'll get it.
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  • It doesn't say when, but it says you'll get it. and there's a waiting time,
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  • But it says you'll get it. and there's a waiting time, and that's the testing time.
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  • And there's a waiting time, and that's the testing time. and then it says, "and if you
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  • And that's the testing time. and then it says, "and if you have anything against anyone,
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  • And then it says, "and if you have anything against anyone, anything against anyone,
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  • Have anything against anyone, anything against anyone, forgive them, leave it,
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  • Anything against anyone, forgive them, leave it, let it go, drop it."
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  • Forgive them, leave it, let it go, drop it." >> [audience applauding]
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  • Let it go, drop it." >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: "because if you don't
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: "because if you don't forgive, neither will your
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  • >> joyce: "because if you don't forgive, neither will your heavenly father forgive you."
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  • Forgive, neither will your heavenly father forgive you." now that--
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  • Heavenly father forgive you." now that-- i mean, if we're really
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  • Now that-- i mean, if we're really gonna believe the bible,
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  • I mean, if we're really gonna believe the bible, then we can't just pull
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  • Gonna believe the bible, then we can't just pull out the "i'll bless you
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  • Then we can't just pull out the "i'll bless you and prosper you" ones.
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  • Out the "i'll bless you and prosper you" ones. we can't just keep only wanting
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  • And prosper you" ones. we can't just keep only wanting to hear "god loves you.
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  • We can't just keep only wanting to hear "god loves you. he forgives you.
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  • To hear "god loves you. he forgives you. you're precious.
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  • He forgives you. you're precious. you're created with his hand.
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  • You're precious. you're created with his hand. he's got an awesome future
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  • You're created with his hand. he's got an awesome future planned for you."
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  • He's got an awesome future planned for you." all of that's true,
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  • Planned for you." all of that's true, and we need to hear all that.
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  • All of that's true, and we need to hear all that. but we also need to hear some
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  • And we need to hear all that. but we also need to hear some of these other things
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  • But we also need to hear some of these other things because the bible says,
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  • 1 corinthians 1:9-11,
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  • 1 corinthians 1:9-11, "god is faithful
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  • 1 corinthians 1:9-11, "god is faithful (reliable, trustworthy,
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  • "god is faithful (reliable, trustworthy, and therefore ever true
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  • (reliable, trustworthy, and therefore ever true to his promise, and he can
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  • And therefore ever true to his promise, and he can be depended on)."
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  • To his promise, and he can be depended on)." boy, how many of you
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  • Be depended on)." boy, how many of you are glad about that?
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  • Boy, how many of you are glad about that? he's faithful.
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  • Are glad about that? he's faithful. you can depend on him.
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  • He's faithful. you can depend on him. he's always gonna keep his word.
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  • You can depend on him. he's always gonna keep his word. verse 10, "but--"
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  • He's always gonna keep his word. verse 10, "but--" [chuckling]
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  • Verse 10, "but--" [chuckling] "i urge and entreat you,
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  • [chuckling] "i urge and entreat you, brethren, by the name of our
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  • "i urge and entreat you, brethren, by the name of our lord jesus christ,
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  • Brethren, by the name of our lord jesus christ, that all of you be in perfect
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  • Lord jesus christ, that all of you be in perfect harmony and full
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  • That all of you be in perfect harmony and full agreement in what you say,
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  • Harmony and full agreement in what you say, and that there be no dissension
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  • Agreement in what you say, and that there be no dissension or factions or divisions among
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  • And that there be no dissension or factions or divisions among you, but that you be perfectly
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  • Or factions or divisions among you, but that you be perfectly united in your common
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  • You, but that you be perfectly united in your common understanding and in your
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  • United in your common understanding and in your opinion and in your judgments."
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  • Understanding and in your opinion and in your judgments." >> [audience applauding]
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  • Opinion and in your judgments." >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: so, he's saying,
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: so, he's saying, "god is faithful."
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  • "but i've heard--"
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  • "but i've heard--" if you go ahead and read it,
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  • "but i've heard--" if you go ahead and read it, "from chloe that
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  • If you go ahead and read it, "from chloe that there's bickering and arguing
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  • "from chloe that there's bickering and arguing and strife and dissension
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  • There's bickering and arguing and strife and dissension among you."
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  • And strife and dissension among you." so, he says, "god is faithful,
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  • Among you." so, he says, "god is faithful, but you need to get along."
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  • In psalm 133 it says that:
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  • In psalm 133 it says that: how pleasant it is,
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  • In psalm 133 it says that: how pleasant it is, where there's unity.
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  • I love peace.
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  • I love peace. i love those first couple
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  • I love peace. i love those first couple of hours in the morning
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  • I love those first couple of hours in the morning when nobody's up.
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  • Of hours in the morning when nobody's up. i can get along with everybody
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  • When nobody's up. i can get along with everybody when nobody's there.
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  • I can get along with everybody when nobody's there. >> [audience laughing]
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  • >> joyce: how many of you find
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  • >> joyce: how many of you find that you can just be so godly
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  • >> joyce: how many of you find that you can just be so godly when nobody's home?
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  • That you can just be so godly when nobody's home? >> [audience laughing]
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  • When nobody's home? >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: play your
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: play your christian music.
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  • >> joyce: play your christian music. watch joyce meyer on tv.
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  • Christian music. watch joyce meyer on tv. >> [audience laughing]
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  • >> joyce: but boy,
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  • >> joyce: but boy, when the people come in,
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  • >> joyce: but boy, when the people come in, that's when the trouble starts.
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  • When the people come in, that's when the trouble starts. now, i obviously don't
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  • That's when the trouble starts. now, i obviously don't have time, in the amount
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  • Now, i obviously don't have time, in the amount of time i have in one service,
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  • Have time, in the amount of time i have in one service, to do this the full
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  • Of time i have in one service, to do this the full justice that it deserves.
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  • To do this the full justice that it deserves. but i'm trying to pick some
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  • Justice that it deserves. but i'm trying to pick some of the key and most important
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  • But i'm trying to pick some of the key and most important scriptures that god has
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  • Of the key and most important scriptures that god has used in my life to teach me.
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  • Scriptures that god has used in my life to teach me. i wanna try to impress on you
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  • Used in my life to teach me. i wanna try to impress on you how important this is to your
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  • I wanna try to impress on you how important this is to your life and to the plan of god
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  • How important this is to your life and to the plan of god for the world that we live in.
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  • Life and to the plan of god for the world that we live in. now, i've been thinking a lot
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  • For the world that we live in. now, i've been thinking a lot about our young people,
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  • Now, i've been thinking a lot about our young people, about our kids, our teenagers,
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  • About our young people, about our kids, our teenagers, and how many of you would
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  • About our kids, our teenagers, and how many of you would agree that a lot of children
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  • And how many of you would agree that a lot of children today are extremely confused.
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  • Agree that a lot of children today are extremely confused. >> [audience applauding]
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  • Today are extremely confused. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: i mean,
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: i mean, people doing things today
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  • >> joyce: i mean, people doing things today that i'm just like...
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  • People doing things today that i'm just like... "how can you even
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  • That i'm just like... "how can you even dream that up?"
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  • And i've taught
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  • And i've taught on this scripture,
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  • And i've taught on this scripture, i don't know how many times,
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  • On this scripture, i don't know how many times, but i've never seen it like
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  • I don't know how many times, but i've never seen it like i did a couple of weeks ago,
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  • But i've never seen it like i did a couple of weeks ago, james 3:16: "for where
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  • I did a couple of weeks ago, james 3:16: "for where there is jealousy (envy)
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  • James 3:16: "for where there is jealousy (envy) and contention--"
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  • There is jealousy (envy) and contention--" which is strife,
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  • And contention--" which is strife, "(rivalry and selfish ambition),
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  • Which is strife, "(rivalry and selfish ambition), there will also be confusion
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  • "(rivalry and selfish ambition), there will also be confusion (unrest, disharmony, rebellion)
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  • There will also be confusion (unrest, disharmony, rebellion) and all sorts of evil
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  • (unrest, disharmony, rebellion) and all sorts of evil and vile practices."
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  • If 90% of 16,000 christians were
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  • If 90% of 16,000 christians were willing to stand up and say,
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  • If 90% of 16,000 christians were willing to stand up and say, "yes, i'm angry at somebody
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  • Willing to stand up and say, "yes, i'm angry at somebody and i've not forgiven them,"
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  • "yes, i'm angry at somebody and i've not forgiven them," and the sad thing is,
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  • And i've not forgiven them," and the sad thing is, is i can do that pretty much
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  • And the sad thing is, is i can do that pretty much anywhere i go and get
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  • Is i can do that pretty much anywhere i go and get the same result.
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  • Anywhere i go and get the same result. and i'm just saying that we
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  • The same result. and i'm just saying that we have a problem, and we need
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  • And i'm just saying that we have a problem, and we need to address it and we need
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  • Have a problem, and we need to address it and we need to start dealing with it.
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  • To address it and we need to start dealing with it. and that means i need
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  • To start dealing with it. and that means i need to deal with it in my home.
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  • And that means i need to deal with it in my home. you need to deal with
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  • To deal with it in my home. you need to deal with it in your home.
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  • You need to deal with it in your home. >> [audience applauding]
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  • It in your home. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: you know,
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: you know, even in the church today,
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  • >> joyce: you know, even in the church today, we don't deal with stuff
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  • Even in the church today, we don't deal with stuff the way that we should.
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  • We don't deal with stuff the way that we should. not like paul did.
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  • Titus 3:9-11, "but avoid stupid
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  • Titus 3:9-11, "but avoid stupid and foolish controversies
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  • Titus 3:9-11, "but avoid stupid and foolish controversies and genealogies and dissensions
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  • And foolish controversies and genealogies and dissensions and wrangling--"
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  • And genealogies and dissensions and wrangling--" which is strife,
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  • And wrangling--" which is strife, "about the law, for they are
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  • Which is strife, "about the law, for they are unprofitable and futile."
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  • "about the law, for they are unprofitable and futile." now, these are new testament
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  • Unprofitable and futile." now, these are new testament christians that had at one
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  • Now, these are new testament christians that had at one time lived under the law,
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  • Christians that had at one time lived under the law, and so they spent a lot of time
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  • Time lived under the law, and so they spent a lot of time arguing about the difference
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  • And so they spent a lot of time arguing about the difference between law and grace.
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  • Arguing about the difference between law and grace. i think we still kind of have
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  • Between law and grace. i think we still kind of have that argument today sometimes.
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  • I think we still kind of have that argument today sometimes. so, he said, "stop arguing
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  • That argument today sometimes. so, he said, "stop arguing about stupid stuff that doesn't
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  • So, he said, "stop arguing about stupid stuff that doesn't make any sense."
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  • About stupid stuff that doesn't make any sense." verse 10, "[as for] the man--"
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  • Make any sense." verse 10, "[as for] the man--" and this is a man in the church,
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  • Verse 10, "[as for] the man--" and this is a man in the church, "who is factious
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  • And this is a man in the church, "who is factious [a heretical sectarian
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  • "who is factious [a heretical sectarian and a cause of division],
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  • [a heretical sectarian and a cause of division], after admonishing him
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  • And a cause of division], after admonishing him a first and a second time--"
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  • After admonishing him a first and a second time--" you give him two warnings,
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  • A first and a second time--" you give him two warnings, "reject [him from your
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  • You give him two warnings, "reject [him from your fellowship and have nothing
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  • "reject [him from your fellowship and have nothing more to do with him]."
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  • Fellowship and have nothing more to do with him]." now, you know what
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  • More to do with him]." now, you know what we would say today?
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  • Now, you know what we would say today? "well, that's not being loving."
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  • There was another man
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  • There was another man that paul talked about who
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  • There was another man that paul talked about who was had committed incest
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  • That paul talked about who was had committed incest and he was not repentant.
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  • Was had committed incest and he was not repentant. if a person's repentant
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  • And he was not repentant. if a person's repentant and willing to change,
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  • If a person's repentant and willing to change, then i believe god wants
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  • And willing to change, then i believe god wants us to go to the mat with them
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  • Then i believe god wants us to go to the mat with them and work with them forever.
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  • Us to go to the mat with them and work with them forever. but if they're not repentant
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  • And work with them forever. but if they're not repentant and they're not gonna change,
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  • But if they're not repentant and they're not gonna change, and we let 'em just sit
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  • And they're not gonna change, and we let 'em just sit in our midst--
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  • And we let 'em just sit in our midst-- ooo...
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  • In our midst-- ooo... maybe i got the wrong
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  • Ooo... maybe i got the wrong crowd for this.
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  • Maybe i got the wrong crowd for this. i don't know.
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  • Crowd for this. i don't know. >> [audience applauding]
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  • >> joyce: you know what
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  • >> joyce: you know what paul said about that man?
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  • >> joyce: you know what paul said about that man? he said, "put him
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  • Paul said about that man? he said, "put him out of the church,
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  • He said, "put him out of the church, turn him over to the devil."
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  • Out of the church, turn him over to the devil." but that's not all he said.
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  • Turn him over to the devil." but that's not all he said. he said, "so that perhaps
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  • But that's not all he said. he said, "so that perhaps his soul might be saved,
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  • He said, "so that perhaps his soul might be saved, and he won't end up in hell."
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  • So, if i understand paul
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  • So, if i understand paul correctly, the church was
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  • So, if i understand paul correctly, the church was such a holy and an awesome
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  • Correctly, the church was such a holy and an awesome and a powerful place that
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  • Such a holy and an awesome and a powerful place that when people were in the church
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  • And a powerful place that when people were in the church and functioning as a body,
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  • When people were in the church and functioning as a body, there was actually a protective
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  • And functioning as a body, there was actually a protective covering over them.
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  • There was actually a protective covering over them. and so, he said, "we can't
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  • Covering over them. and so, he said, "we can't just let a lot of sin get
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  • And so, he said, "we can't just let a lot of sin get in the church, know it's there,
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  • Just let a lot of sin get in the church, know it's there, and nobody deal with it."
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  • In the church, know it's there, and nobody deal with it." >> [audience applauding]
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  • >> joyce: you know,
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  • >> joyce: you know, i'm 80 and i've just
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  • >> joyce: you know, i'm 80 and i've just decided i'm going for it.
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  • I'm 80 and i've just decided i'm going for it. >> [audience laughing]
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  • Decided i'm going for it. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i'm not--
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i'm not-- >> [audience cheering]
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  • >> joyce: i'm not-- >> [audience cheering] >> joyce: i mean--
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  • >> [audience cheering] >> joyce: i mean-- >> [audience applauding]
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  • >> joyce: i am not gonna stand
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  • >> joyce: i am not gonna stand before god and have him say,
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  • >> joyce: i am not gonna stand before god and have him say, "why didn't you address
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  • Before god and have him say, "why didn't you address the things that really
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  • "why didn't you address the things that really needed to be addressed?"
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  • The things that really needed to be addressed?" >> [audience applauding]
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  • >> joyce: you know why we don't?
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  • >> joyce: you know why we don't? because we don't wanna
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  • >> joyce: you know why we don't? because we don't wanna make anybody mad.
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  • Because we don't wanna make anybody mad. we don't wanna hurt
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  • Make anybody mad. we don't wanna hurt anybody's feelings.
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  • We don't wanna hurt anybody's feelings. we don't want anybody
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  • Anybody's feelings. we don't want anybody to leave the church.
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  • We don't want anybody to leave the church. but everything
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  • To leave the church. but everything the apostle paul did,
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  • But everything the apostle paul did, he did it for the good
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  • The apostle paul did, he did it for the good of the people.
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  • He did it for the good of the people. he didn't do it to hurt people.
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  • Of the people. he didn't do it to hurt people. and he was walking in love when
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  • He didn't do it to hurt people. and he was walking in love when he did some of those things,
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  • And he was walking in love when he did some of those things, because love is not always
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  • He did some of those things, because love is not always "you're so sweet."
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  • Because love is not always "you're so sweet." >> [audience laughing]
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  • >> joyce: and if you really
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  • >> joyce: and if you really read the things that paul said,
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  • >> joyce: and if you really read the things that paul said, he told timothy, he said,
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  • Read the things that paul said, he told timothy, he said, "your job as a preacher
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  • He told timothy, he said, "your job as a preacher is to urge, warn, correct,
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  • "your job as a preacher is to urge, warn, correct, rebuke, and encourage."
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  • Is to urge, warn, correct, rebuke, and encourage." he didn't say just encourage.
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  • Rebuke, and encourage." he didn't say just encourage. he said, "you warn them."
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  • He didn't say just encourage. he said, "you warn them." so, i'll just tell you if--
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  • He said, "you warn them." so, i'll just tell you if-- maybe i'll talk to myself.
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  • So, i'll just tell you if-- maybe i'll talk to myself. "joyce, if you don't deal with
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  • Maybe i'll talk to myself. "joyce, if you don't deal with the strife in your life and get
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  • "joyce, if you don't deal with the strife in your life and get rid of it, it's going to affect
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  • The strife in your life and get rid of it, it's going to affect you and the people around
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  • Rid of it, it's going to affect you and the people around you in a very adverse way."
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  • You and the people around you in a very adverse way." amen?
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  • You in a very adverse way." amen? >> [audience applauding]
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  • Amen? >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and if you need that,
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and if you need that, you can have it.
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  • >> joyce: and if you need that, you can have it. >> [audience applauding]
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  • >> joyce: i'm only doing
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  • >> joyce: i'm only doing this because i really
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  • Care about god's people.
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  • Care about god's people. and i don't wanna play
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  • Care about god's people. and i don't wanna play church games anymore.
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  • And i don't wanna play church games anymore. i really want people's lives
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  • Church games anymore. i really want people's lives to be changed by the word.
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  • I really want people's lives to be changed by the word. and i don't want us to just
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  • To be changed by the word. and i don't want us to just be christians in church.
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  • And i don't want us to just be christians in church. i want us to be christians
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  • Be christians in church. i want us to be christians at home.
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  • I want us to be christians at home. >> [audience applauding]
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  • At home. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: i want us
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: i want us to be christians at work.
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  • >> joyce: i want us to be christians at work. i want us to be christians
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  • To be christians at work. i want us to be christians in the grocery store,
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  • I want us to be christians in the grocery store, in traffic.
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  • In the grocery store, in traffic. >> [audience laughing]
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  • In traffic. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: yeah, in traffic.
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: yeah, in traffic. that's one of the few times
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  • >> joyce: yeah, in traffic. that's one of the few times when i see my husband
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  • That's one of the few times when i see my husband get a little bit uncalm.
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  • When i see my husband get a little bit uncalm. >> [audience laughing]
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  • Get a little bit uncalm. >> [audience laughing] "must be a woman driver,"
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  • >> [audience laughing] "must be a woman driver," and i want to go...
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  • "must be a woman driver," and i want to go... >> [audience laughing]
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  • >> joyce: oh, and i've seen
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  • >> joyce: oh, and i've seen him get a little feisty
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  • >> joyce: oh, and i've seen him get a little feisty on the golf course too.
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  • Him get a little feisty on the golf course too. not so much now, but man,
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  • On the golf course too. not so much now, but man, when he was younger, whew!
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  • Not so much now, but man, when he was younger, whew! sometimes those
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  • When he was younger, whew! sometimes those clubs went flyin'.
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  • Sometimes those clubs went flyin'. >> [audience laughing]
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  • Clubs went flyin'. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: he's calmed down
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: he's calmed down so much now though.
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  • >> joyce: he's calmed down so much now though. on the golf course,
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  • So much now though. on the golf course, we're still working on traffic.
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  • On the golf course, we're still working on traffic. >> [audience laughing]
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  • We're still working on traffic. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: no, he's good.
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: no, he's good. i just gotta have fun.
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  • >> joyce: no, he's good. i just gotta have fun. okay.
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  • I just gotta have fun. okay. the only way that we're
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  • Okay. the only way that we're gonna keep strife
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  • The only way that we're gonna keep strife away is to confront it
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  • Gonna keep strife away is to confront it and deal with it.
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  • Away is to confront it and deal with it. and i'll tell you what it takes.
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  • The bible says in proverbs
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  • The bible says in proverbs that the only way you can
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  • The bible says in proverbs that the only way you can have contention is by pride.
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  • That the only way you can have contention is by pride. you can't have it any other way.
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  • So, the only way that you're
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  • So, the only way that you're gonna have peace in your home
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  • So, the only way that you're gonna have peace in your home is if you also have humility.
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  • Gonna have peace in your home is if you also have humility. >> [audience applauding]
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  • Is if you also have humility. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and just to bring
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and just to bring that to a practical level,
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  • >> joyce: and just to bring that to a practical level, here's kinda how it works.
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  • That to a practical level, here's kinda how it works. you have to be willing not
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  • Here's kinda how it works. you have to be willing not to be right in an argument.
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  • You have to be willing not to be right in an argument. [laughs mockingly]
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  • To be right in an argument. [laughs mockingly] >> [audience laughing]
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  • [laughs mockingly] >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: oh, you better be glad
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: oh, you better be glad i've only got six minutes left.
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  • >> joyce: oh, you better be glad i've only got six minutes left. >> [audience laughing]
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  • >> joyce: you have to be willing
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  • >> joyce: you have to be willing to say, "i was wrong."
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  • >> joyce: you have to be willing to say, "i was wrong." "it was my fault."
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  • To say, "i was wrong." "it was my fault." "i'm sorry."
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  • "it was my fault." "i'm sorry." you have to be willing
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  • "i'm sorry." you have to be willing to not argue at all.
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  • You have to be willing to not argue at all. it takes two people to argue,
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  • To not argue at all. it takes two people to argue, you know; nobody can
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  • It takes two people to argue, you know; nobody can argue by themselves.
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  • You know; nobody can argue by themselves. you have to learn to listen
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  • Argue by themselves. you have to learn to listen in a conversation when it starts
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  • You have to learn to listen in a conversation when it starts to get heated up enough that
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  • In a conversation when it starts to get heated up enough that you can tell somebody's
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  • To get heated up enough that you can tell somebody's gonna blow a fuse if you
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  • You can tell somebody's gonna blow a fuse if you don't change the conversation,
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  • Gonna blow a fuse if you don't change the conversation, and if nothing else,
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  • Get out of the room.
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  • Get out of the room. >> [audience applauding]
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  • Get out of the room. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: if you wanna have
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: if you wanna have peace, you have to be willing
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  • >> joyce: if you wanna have peace, you have to be willing to keep your opinions
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  • Peace, you have to be willing to keep your opinions to yourself sometimes.
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  • To keep your opinions to yourself sometimes. >> [audience applauding]
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  • To yourself sometimes. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: do you know that just
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: do you know that just because you don't agree with
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  • >> joyce: do you know that just because you don't agree with somebody does not mean
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  • Because you don't agree with somebody does not mean that you have to tell them
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  • Somebody does not mean that you have to tell them you don't agree with them?
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  • That you have to tell them you don't agree with them? >> [audience laughing]
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  • You don't agree with them? >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: did you ever
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: did you ever think of that?
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  • >> joyce: did you ever think of that? "well, i don't agree with that."
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  • Think of that? "well, i don't agree with that." well, the devil's trying
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  • "well, i don't agree with that." well, the devil's trying to start a fire and you've
  • 00:18:10.679 --> 00:18:11.713
  • Well, the devil's trying to start a fire and you've just thrown some fuel on it.
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  • Knowing how to keep
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  • Knowing how to keep your opinion to yourself.
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  • Knowing how to keep your opinion to yourself. my son, my older son our older
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  • Your opinion to yourself. my son, my older son our older son dave always says, i say,
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  • My son, my older son our older son dave always says, i say, "they're my kids."
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  • Son dave always says, i say, "they're my kids." they're actually our kids.
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  • "they're my kids." they're actually our kids. >> [audience laughing]
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  • They're actually our kids. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: our older son, david,
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: our older son, david, he had a pretty feisty temper.
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  • >> joyce: our older son, david, he had a pretty feisty temper. he's 58 now, so you know,
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  • He had a pretty feisty temper. he's 58 now, so you know, you start calming down
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  • He's 58 now, so you know, you start calming down a lot the older you get.
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  • You start calming down a lot the older you get. 'cause you're just like,
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  • A lot the older you get. 'cause you're just like, "it ain't worth it.
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  • 'cause you're just like, "it ain't worth it. nope, not going there."
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  • "it ain't worth it. nope, not going there." he said one time,
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  • Nope, not going there." he said one time, he said, "you know what
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  • He said one time, he said, "you know what i finally figured out?
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  • He said, "you know what i finally figured out? being right
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  • I finally figured out? being right is highly overrated."
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  • Being right is highly overrated." >> [audience laughing]
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  • Is highly overrated." >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and you know,
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and you know, really when you think about it,
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  • >> joyce: and you know, really when you think about it, what do you get other than
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  • Really when you think about it, what do you get other than that little smug feeling
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  • What do you get other than that little smug feeling for just a few minutes?
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  • That little smug feeling for just a few minutes? but what comes after that?
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  • For just a few minutes? but what comes after that? the same devil who tempted
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  • But what comes after that? the same devil who tempted you to argue to be right will
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  • The same devil who tempted you to argue to be right will now make you feel guilty
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  • You to argue to be right will now make you feel guilty because you argued to be right.
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  • Now make you feel guilty because you argued to be right. and you'll feel good about
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  • Because you argued to be right. and you'll feel good about it for maybe 30 minutes
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  • And you'll feel good about it for maybe 30 minutes until you calm down,
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  • It for maybe 30 minutes until you calm down, and then you'll get this...
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  • Until you calm down, and then you'll get this... which was there all the time,
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  • And then you'll get this... which was there all the time, but because you were
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  • Which was there all the time, but because you were so emotional,
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  • But because you were so emotional, [chuckling]
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  • So emotional, [chuckling] you couldn't hear
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  • [chuckling] you couldn't hear the holy spirit.
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  • You couldn't hear the holy spirit. you know, when you're
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  • The holy spirit. you know, when you're in the middle
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  • You know, when you're in the middle of a conversation
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  • In the middle of a conversation that's getting ready
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  • Of a conversation that's getting ready to go in the wrong
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  • That's getting ready to go in the wrong direction, at least,
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  • To go in the wrong direction, at least, i've gotten to the point
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  • Direction, at least, i've gotten to the point where i can hear
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  • I've gotten to the point where i can hear the holy spirit say, "sh..."
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  • How many of you agree that
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  • How many of you agree that you cannot have peace
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  • How many of you agree that you cannot have peace if you don't have humility?
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  • You cannot have peace if you don't have humility? >> [audience applauding]
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  • If you don't have humility? >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: what is so hard
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: what is so hard about saying,
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  • >> joyce: what is so hard about saying, "i think i'm right,
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  • About saying, "i think i'm right, but i may be wrong"?
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  • "i think i'm right, but i may be wrong"? i mean, could you just open
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  • But i may be wrong"? i mean, could you just open your mind to the possibility
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  • I mean, could you just open your mind to the possibility that you might be wrong?
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  • Your mind to the possibility that you might be wrong? i mean, dave and i used
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  • That you might be wrong? i mean, dave and i used to argue over some
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  • I mean, dave and i used to argue over some of the stupidest stuff.
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  • To argue over some of the stupidest stuff. and it was mostly me.
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  • Of the stupidest stuff. and it was mostly me. i'll admit that.
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  • And it was mostly me. i'll admit that. things like, we'd be going
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  • I'll admit that. things like, we'd be going somewhere and maybe there
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  • Things like, we'd be going somewhere and maybe there were two ways to get there.
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  • Somewhere and maybe there were two ways to get there. and he'd go to the entrance
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  • Were two ways to get there. and he'd go to the entrance of the subdivision
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  • And he'd go to the entrance of the subdivision and turn right,
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  • Of the subdivision and turn right, and i'd say, "whaddya goin'
  • 00:20:41.663 --> 00:20:42.331
  • And turn right, and i'd say, "whaddya goin' that way for?
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  • And i'd say, "whaddya goin' that way for? you need to go to the left.
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  • That way for? you need to go to the left. that's the shortest route."
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  • You need to go to the left. that's the shortest route." "no, it's not.
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  • That's the shortest route." "no, it's not. this way is the shortest."
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  • "no, it's not. this way is the shortest." [nagging sounds]
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  • And there's so many
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  • And there's so many more important things
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  • And there's so many more important things to be doing than that.
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  • More important things to be doing than that. i was doing that one night
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  • To be doing than that. i was doing that one night and the lord said to me,
  • 00:21:04.519 --> 00:21:05.320
  • I was doing that one night and the lord said to me, "just let the man go whichever
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  • And the lord said to me, "just let the man go whichever way he wants to go."
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  • "just let the man go whichever way he wants to go." >> [audience laughing]
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  • Way he wants to go." >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: just, "who cares
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: just, "who cares if it takes two minutes longer?
  • 00:21:12.794 --> 00:21:15.263
  • >> joyce: just, "who cares if it takes two minutes longer? what difference does it make?"
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  • If it takes two minutes longer? what difference does it make?" you know, i had a call
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  • What difference does it make?" you know, i had a call on my life,
  • 00:21:19.868 --> 00:21:20.435
  • You know, i had a call on my life, and here i am arguing
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  • On my life, and here i am arguing over which way to get
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  • And here i am arguing over which way to get to the hardware store.
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  • Over which way to get to the hardware store. or we'd argue over
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  • To the hardware store. or we'd argue over who an actor was on tv
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  • Or we'd argue over who an actor was on tv and then stay up to 1:00
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  • Who an actor was on tv and then stay up to 1:00 in the morning, watch the movie
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  • And then stay up to 1:00 in the morning, watch the movie waiting for the credits
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  • In the morning, watch the movie waiting for the credits to come on so we could
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  • Waiting for the credits to come on so we could prove who was right.
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  • To come on so we could prove who was right. >> [audience laughing]
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  • Prove who was right. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i don't do that
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i don't do that stuff anymore.
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  • >> joyce: i don't do that stuff anymore. now i go to sleep,
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  • Stuff anymore. now i go to sleep, usually before the movie's over.
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  • Now i go to sleep, usually before the movie's over. >> [audience laughing]
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  • Usually before the movie's over. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: you know,
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: you know, just to make sure you
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  • >> joyce: you know, just to make sure you understand what i meant
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  • Just to make sure you understand what i meant when i said we don't deal
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  • Understand what i meant when i said we don't deal with things the way
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  • When i said we don't deal with things the way we should in the church.
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  • With things the way we should in the church. i am not in any way suggesting
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  • We should in the church. i am not in any way suggesting that we should ever
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  • I am not in any way suggesting that we should ever be mean to anybody.
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  • That we should ever be mean to anybody. i'm not ever suggesting that
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  • Be mean to anybody. i'm not ever suggesting that we should not accept people
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  • I'm not ever suggesting that we should not accept people that are different than we are.
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  • We should not accept people that are different than we are. but the house of god is a place
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  • That are different than we are. but the house of god is a place to bring people to repentance.
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  • But the house of god is a place to bring people to repentance. and if they won't do that--
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  • To bring people to repentance. and if they won't do that-- i always say this: "i can hang
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  • And if they won't do that-- i always say this: "i can hang out with somebody until
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  • I always say this: "i can hang out with somebody until as long as i am affecting them
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  • Out with somebody until as long as i am affecting them and they're not infecting me."
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  • As long as i am affecting them and they're not infecting me." amen?
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  • And they're not infecting me." amen? >> [audience applauding]
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  • Amen? >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: well,
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: well, i think we better end
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  • >> joyce: well, i think we better end this with a prayer.
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  • I think we better end this with a prayer. close your eyes
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  • This with a prayer. close your eyes for just a minute.
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  • Close your eyes for just a minute. lift your hand up if you
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  • For just a minute. lift your hand up if you need to forgive somebody
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  • Lift your hand up if you need to forgive somebody and you're willing
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  • Need to forgive somebody and you're willing to do it tonight.
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  • And you're willing to do it tonight. come on,
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  • To do it tonight. come on, nobody's looking but me.
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  • Come on, nobody's looking but me. father, i pray for each person
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  • Nobody's looking but me. father, i pray for each person that has heard something from
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  • Father, i pray for each person that has heard something from you tonight and they're willing
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  • That has heard something from you tonight and they're willing to take action in this area.
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  • You tonight and they're willing to take action in this area. and i pray that you will
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  • To take action in this area. and i pray that you will give them the grace they
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  • And i pray that you will give them the grace they need to follow through
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  • Give them the grace they need to follow through and to let go of the things
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  • Need to follow through and to let go of the things that they need to let go of.
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  • And to let go of the things that they need to let go of. we ask it in the name of jesus.
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  • That they need to let go of. we ask it in the name of jesus. amen.
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  • >> announcer: we were made
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  • >> announcer: we were made for more than just getting by.
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  • For more than just getting by. god created us with
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  • God created us with a sense of adventure,
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  • A sense of adventure, hope, expectation,
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  • Hope, expectation, and purpose.
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  • And purpose. a purpose to live
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  • A purpose to live bravely, pray boldly,
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  • Bravely, pray boldly, and dream big dreams.
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  • And dream big dreams. >> joyce: if you wanna improve
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  • >> joyce: if you wanna improve a bad day, have a big dream.
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  • A bad day, have a big dream. and i don't mean go to sleep
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  • And i don't mean go to sleep and have a nap and have
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  • And have a nap and have that kind of dream.
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  • That kind of dream. >> [audience laughing]
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i mean,
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  • >> joyce: i mean, see something beyond
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  • See something beyond where you're at right now.
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  • Where you're at right now. believe that things
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  • Believe that things are going to change.
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  • Are going to change. believe they're
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  • Believe they're going to get better.
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  • Going to get better. >> [audience applauding]
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  • >> ginger: things always
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  • >> ginger: things always get better when we let
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  • Get better when we let god's word soak in.
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  • God's word soak in. god handmade us
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  • God handmade us for something great.
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  • For something great. you were made for
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  • You were made for an amazing purpose.
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  • An amazing purpose. confidently step
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  • Confidently step into god's purpose
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  • Into god's purpose for you with
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  • For you with joyce's book,
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  • Joyce's book, "dream big.
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  • "dream big. pray bold.
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  • Pray bold. live brave."
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  • Live brave." through it,
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  • Through it, joyce helps you
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  • Joyce helps you to recognize what
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  • To recognize what it means to live with
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  • It means to live with an expectant heart,
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  • An expectant heart, deepen your
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  • Deepen your prayer life,
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  • Prayer life, and how you can
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  • And how you can trust god's plan.
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  • Trust god's plan. each section
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  • Each section is a beautiful
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  • Is a beautiful reminder of how
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  • Reminder of how much our heavenly
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  • Much our heavenly father loves us
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  • Father loves us and the great life
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  • And the great life he's given us.
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  • He's given us. a life that is big,
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  • A life that is big, bold, and brave.
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  • >> announcer: boldly
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  • >> announcer: boldly embrace the future
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  • Embrace the future god has for you
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  • God has for you when you dream big,
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  • When you dream big, pray bold, live brave.
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  • Pray bold, live brave. with this book,
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  • With this book, you'll also enjoy
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  • You'll also enjoy a "dream big.
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  • A "dream big. pray bold.
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  • Pray bold. live brave."
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  • Or use the qr code on your screen.
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  • On your screen. >> ginger: make a firm
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  • >> ginger: make a firm decision to live
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  • Decision to live each day with
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  • Each day with renewed hope
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  • Renewed hope and confidence
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  • And confidence with "dream big.
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  • With "dream big. pray bold.
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  • Pray bold. live brave."
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  • Live brave." and remember,
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  • And remember, with your
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  • With your financial gift,
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  • Financial gift, you're working
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  • You're working together with
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  • Together with joyce meyer
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  • Joyce meyer ministries to make
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  • Ministries to make big dreams come true
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  • Big dreams come true all around the world
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  • All around the world by meeting physical
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  • By meeting physical and spiritual needs.
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  • And spiritual needs. let's impact the globe
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  • Let's impact the globe by loving people
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  • By loving people and sharing christ,
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  • And sharing christ, creating a difference
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  • Creating a difference in countless lives.
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  • >> announcer:
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  • Receive "dream big. pray bold.
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  • Pray bold. live brave."
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  • And a "dream big. pray bold.
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  • >> [♪♪]
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  • >> joyce: boy, you know,
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  • >> joyce: boy, you know, in today's world,
  • 00:26:02.350 --> 00:26:03.251
  • In today's world, there are many stressors,
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  • There are many stressors, so many things to deal
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  • So many things to deal with on a daily basis.
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  • With on a daily basis. how do we navigate
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  • How do we navigate all of life's pressures?
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  • All of life's pressures? well, god's word has
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  • Well, god's word has much to say about it.
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  • Much to say about it. so, i thought we could
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  • So, i thought we could all get together with
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  • All get together with some of my friends
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  • Some of my friends and talk about it.
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  • >> announcer: join us
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  • >> announcer: join us for the enjoying
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  • For the enjoying everyday life
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  • Everyday life conference.
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  • Conference. a weekend
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  • A weekend of practical messages
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  • Of practical messages and heartfelt worship
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  • And heartfelt worship with joyce
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  • With joyce and her guests,
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  • And her guests, dr. henry cloud,
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  • Dr. henry cloud, nona jones,
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  • Nona jones, and worship with
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  • And worship with naomi raine,
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  • Naomi raine, april 10-11,
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  • April 10-11, in hershey, pennsylvania.
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  • In hershey, pennsylvania. >> joyce: you know,
  • 00:26:39.587 --> 00:26:40.288
  • >> joyce: you know, i have such a passion
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  • I have such a passion for teaching god's word,
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  • For teaching god's word, and it's even better when
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  • And it's even better when we all get together
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  • We all get together under one roof.
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  • Under one roof. so, i really hope
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  • So, i really hope to see you there.
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  • >> announcer:
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  • >> announcer: register today.
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  • Register today. go to:
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  • Go to: joycemeyer.org.
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  • >> joyce: rejection
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  • >> joyce: rejection is so painful,
  • 00:26:59.407 --> 00:27:00.175
  • Is so painful, but it doesn't have
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  • But it doesn't have to define us.
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  • To define us. >> ginger: that's why we wrote,
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  • >> ginger: that's why we wrote, "healing the wounds
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  • "healing the wounds of rejection,"
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  • Of rejection," to help guide you to strength
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  • To help guide you to strength and wholeness through
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  • And wholeness through god's word.
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  • >> announcer: "healing
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  • The wounds of rejection,"
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  • Request your copy today.
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  • >> announcer: we hope you
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  • >> announcer: we hope you enjoyed today's program.
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  • Enjoyed today's program. we are so grateful
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  • We are so grateful to our joyce meyer
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  • To our joyce meyer ministries partners
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  • Ministries partners who make this
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  • Who make this and all we do possible,
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  • And all we do possible, including sharing
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  • Including sharing god's word
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  • God's word and offering help
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  • And offering help to people in need
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  • To people in need all over the world.
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