Do you constantly deal with stress? Our circumstances may not change, but how we react to them can. Today, Joyce discusses dealing with stress God's way.
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Joyce Meyer: Enjoying Everyday Life | Joyce Meyer - Dealing With Stress (Part 1) | July 2, 2026
- >> joyce: you're never free
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- >> joyce: you're never free until you no longer have
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- >> joyce: you're never free until you no longer have a need to impress people.
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- Until you no longer have a need to impress people. we don't need to live
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- A need to impress people. we don't need to live to impress one another.
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- We don't need to live to impress one another. we need to learn how
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- To impress one another. we need to learn how to be free to be ourselves.
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- >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer,
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- >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer, and i believe that god can heal
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- >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer, and i believe that god can heal you everywhere you hurt.
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- >> joyce: is there
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- >> joyce: is there anybody here who ever
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- >> joyce: is there anybody here who ever has any stress in your life?
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- Anybody here who ever has any stress in your life? some people put up both hands,
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- Has any stress in your life? some people put up both hands, so that's good.
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- Some people put up both hands, so that's good. >> [audience laughing]
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- So that's good. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: well, the world
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: well, the world is not gonna change.
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- >> joyce: well, the world is not gonna change. i want you to listen.
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- Is not gonna change. i want you to listen. the world is not gonna change.
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- I want you to listen. the world is not gonna change. i prayed for years for god
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- The world is not gonna change. i prayed for years for god to change my circumstances,
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- I prayed for years for god to change my circumstances, and then i found out it was
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- To change my circumstances, and then i found out it was actually me he wanted to change.
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- So, would you be willing
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- So, would you be willing to change if your circumstances
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- So, would you be willing to change if your circumstances never changed?
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- To change if your circumstances never changed? because you see,
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- Never changed? because you see, it's not really our
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- Because you see, it's not really our circumstances that upset us,
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- It's not really our circumstances that upset us, it's the way we react to our
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- Circumstances that upset us, it's the way we react to our circumstances that upset us.
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- It's the way we react to our circumstances that upset us. i'm gonna tell this half
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- Circumstances that upset us. i'm gonna tell this half of the congregation that.
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- I'm gonna tell this half of the congregation that. >> [audience laughing]
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- Of the congregation that. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: 'cause we think,
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: 'cause we think, "well, if i just didn't have
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- >> joyce: 'cause we think, "well, if i just didn't have this circumstance."
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- But see, then you
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- But see, then you wouldn't be in the world,
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- But see, then you wouldn't be in the world, because jesus said,
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- Wouldn't be in the world, because jesus said, "in the world, you will
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- Because jesus said, "in the world, you will have tribulation.
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- "in the world, you will have tribulation. cheer up.
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- Have tribulation. cheer up. i've overcome the world."
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- Cheer up. i've overcome the world." and so, we really need
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- To get it through our heads
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- To get it through our heads that just praying for our
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- To get it through our heads that just praying for our circumstances to go away
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- That just praying for our circumstances to go away is not the answer.
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- Circumstances to go away is not the answer. we need to pray that
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- Is not the answer. we need to pray that god will change us.
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- We need to pray that god will change us. it's interesting,
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- God will change us. it's interesting, paul never prayed--
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- It's interesting, paul never prayed-- you can't find a place where
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- Paul never prayed-- you can't find a place where paul prayed for people's
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- You can't find a place where paul prayed for people's bad circumstance to go away.
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- Paul prayed for people's bad circumstance to go away. which i find interesting,
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- Bad circumstance to go away. which i find interesting, because that's what
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- Which i find interesting, because that's what we do all the time.
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- Because that's what we do all the time. "god change this circumstance."
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- We do all the time. "god change this circumstance." "change this person."
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- Well, what paul prayed
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- Well, what paul prayed for the people was that
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- Well, what paul prayed for the people was that they would handle whatever
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- For the people was that they would handle whatever came with good temper.
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- They would handle whatever came with good temper. i've never had anybody
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- Came with good temper. i've never had anybody come to the altar and ask
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- I've never had anybody come to the altar and ask me to pray for them to have
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- Come to the altar and ask me to pray for them to have a better attitude toward
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- Me to pray for them to have a better attitude toward their circumstances.
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- A better attitude toward their circumstances. they always want their
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- Their circumstances. they always want their circumstance to go away.
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- They always want their circumstance to go away. and i think it's important
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- Circumstance to go away. and i think it's important that i camp here for a minute
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- And i think it's important that i camp here for a minute and we get this because
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- That i camp here for a minute and we get this because it is a big deception
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- And we get this because it is a big deception that we have in life that
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- It is a big deception that we have in life that "i just want my circumstance
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- That we have in life that "i just want my circumstance to change,"
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- "i just want my circumstance to change," or "i want my spouse to change."
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- To change," or "i want my spouse to change." "i want my kids to change."
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- Or "i want my spouse to change." "i want my kids to change." we always want everybody
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- "i want my kids to change." we always want everybody else to change,
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- We always want everybody else to change, but god wants to change us.
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- It's his goal for us.
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- It's his goal for us. we are predestined.
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- It's his goal for us. we are predestined. and predestined doesn't
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- We are predestined. and predestined doesn't mean it's gonna happen
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- And predestined doesn't mean it's gonna happen no matter what you do,
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- Mean it's gonna happen no matter what you do, it means that god has already
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- No matter what you do, it means that god has already predetermined his will.
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- It means that god has already predetermined his will. but how we respond is important.
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- Predetermined his will. but how we respond is important. we're partners with god,
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- But how we respond is important. we're partners with god, and he has a part,
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- We're partners with god, and he has a part, and we have a part and no matter
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- And he has a part, and we have a part and no matter how much he does his part,
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- And we have a part and no matter how much he does his part, if we don't do our part,
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- How much he does his part, if we don't do our part, we're not gonna have what
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- If we don't do our part, we're not gonna have what he wants for our lives.
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- And so, he has already
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- And so, he has already predetermined that
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- And so, he has already predetermined that we are to be transformed
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- Predetermined that we are to be transformed into the image of jesus christ.
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- We are to be transformed into the image of jesus christ. that's his goal for us,
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- Into the image of jesus christ. that's his goal for us, that we all become like jesus.
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- That's his goal for us, that we all become like jesus. and so really, more than we need
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- Our circumstances to change,
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- Our circumstances to change, we need to willing to be
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- Our circumstances to change, we need to willing to be changed to be whatever
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- We need to willing to be changed to be whatever god wants us to be.
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- Changed to be whatever god wants us to be. and i like to teach
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- God wants us to be. and i like to teach on spiritual maturity.
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- And i like to teach on spiritual maturity. i intend to teach quite
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- On spiritual maturity. i intend to teach quite a bit on that this year.
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- I intend to teach quite a bit on that this year. and i believe that spiritual
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- A bit on that this year. and i believe that spiritual maturity is coming
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- And i believe that spiritual maturity is coming to the place where you
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- Maturity is coming to the place where you no longer are always
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- To the place where you no longer are always telling god what you want,
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- No longer are always telling god what you want, but you start asking
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- Telling god what you want, but you start asking him what he wants.
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- But you start asking him what he wants. >> [audience applauding]
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- Him what he wants. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: amen?
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: amen? you know, if you have kids,
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- >> joyce: amen? you know, if you have kids, you raise your kids,
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- You know, if you have kids, you raise your kids, you take care of your kids,
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- You raise your kids, you take care of your kids, and they reach a certain
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- You take care of your kids, and they reach a certain point where you really,
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- And they reach a certain point where you really, you don't wanna spend
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- Point where you really, you don't wanna spend the whole rest of your
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- You don't wanna spend the whole rest of your life doing for them,
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- The whole rest of your life doing for them, you'd like them to do for you.
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- Life doing for them, you'd like them to do for you. >> [audience laughing]
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- You'd like them to do for you. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: amen?
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: amen? my kids are all really good.
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- >> joyce: amen? my kids are all really good. i'm proud of 'em.
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- My kids are all really good. i'm proud of 'em. you know, they--
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- I'm proud of 'em. you know, they-- every one of our children
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- You know, they-- every one of our children would help us in any way
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- Every one of our children would help us in any way that they possibly could.
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- Would help us in any way that they possibly could. and they do a lot,
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- That they possibly could. and they do a lot, and that means a lot to me.
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- And they do a lot, and that means a lot to me. and they don't just come
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- And that means a lot to me. and they don't just come when they want something.
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- And they don't just come when they want something. they come because they love us.
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- When they want something. they come because they love us. and god wants us to be that way.
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- They come because they love us. and god wants us to be that way. he doesn't want a--
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- And god wants us to be that way. he doesn't want a-- he wants us to seek his face,
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- He doesn't want a-- he wants us to seek his face, not just his hand.
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- He wants us to seek his face, not just his hand. that's a big transition in your
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- Not just his hand. that's a big transition in your life when you reach that point.
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- That's a big transition in your life when you reach that point. i remember when god taught
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- Life when you reach that point. i remember when god taught me that.
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- I remember when god taught me that. what a big transition
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- Me that. what a big transition that was for me,
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- What a big transition that was for me, that i didn't have to seek
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- That was for me, that i didn't have to seek his hand all the time,
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- That i didn't have to seek his hand all the time, not just what can you do for me,
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- His hand all the time, not just what can you do for me, but to just seek him for
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- Not just what can you do for me, but to just seek him for who he is because i love him.
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- But to just seek him for who he is because i love him. amen?
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- Who he is because i love him. amen? >> [audience applauding]
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- Amen? >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: matter of fact,
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: matter of fact, when god was teaching me this,
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- >> joyce: matter of fact, when god was teaching me this, he challenged me, he said,
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- When god was teaching me this, he challenged me, he said, "i don't want you to ask
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- He challenged me, he said, "i don't want you to ask me for another thing except me,
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- "i don't want you to ask me for another thing except me, until i give you permission to."
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- Me for another thing except me, until i give you permission to." wow.
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- Until i give you permission to." wow. and i'd start to say,
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- Wow. and i'd start to say, "well, god, will you do--
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- And i'd start to say, "well, god, will you do-- mmm."
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- "well, god, will you do-- mmm." >> [audience laughing]
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- Mmm." >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and it was
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and it was life-changing.
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- >> joyce: and it was life-changing. so, i wanna say it again.
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- Life-changing. so, i wanna say it again. i like to teach
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- So, i wanna say it again. i like to teach on spiritual maturity.
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- I like to teach on spiritual maturity. and i've been thinking
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- On spiritual maturity. and i've been thinking a lot lately,
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- And i've been thinking a lot lately, like what's the simplest
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- A lot lately, like what's the simplest way i can explain what it is?
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- Like what's the simplest way i can explain what it is? and i think it's coming
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- Way i can explain what it is? and i think it's coming to the point where
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- And i think it's coming to the point where you no longer--
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- To the point where you no longer-- and it's not that you can't
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- You no longer-- and it's not that you can't ask god for what you want,
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- And it's not that you can't ask god for what you want, but that that's not
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- Ask god for what you want, but that that's not your main theme in life.
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- But that that's not your main theme in life. and we're all that way
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- Your main theme in life. and we're all that way when we first come to christ.
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- And we're all that way when we first come to christ. and to be honest,
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- When we first come to christ. and to be honest, he does a lot for
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- And to be honest, he does a lot for us to establish relationship
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- He does a lot for us to establish relationship with us and to show
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- Us to establish relationship with us and to show us that he loves us.
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- With us and to show us that he loves us. but he wants us to come
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- Us that he loves us. but he wants us to come to the point where we're not
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- But he wants us to come to the point where we're not just telling him what we want.
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- To the point where we're not just telling him what we want. we need to ask god every day,
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- Just telling him what we want. we need to ask god every day, "god, what can
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- We need to ask god every day, "god, what can i do for you today?
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- "god, what can i do for you today? how--?
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- I do for you today? how--? use me today, lord,
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- How--? use me today, lord, how can i make somebody
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- Use me today, lord, how can i make somebody else happy today?
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- How can i make somebody else happy today? what can i do for
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- Else happy today? what can i do for somebody else today?
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- What can i do for somebody else today? what do i have that i can bless
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- Somebody else today? what do i have that i can bless somebody else with today?"
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- What do i have that i can bless somebody else with today?" we need to be others minded,
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- Somebody else with today?" we need to be others minded, not just self-minded
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- We need to be others minded, not just self-minded and self-centered all the time.
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- Not just self-minded and self-centered all the time. i'll tell you a secret,
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- And self-centered all the time. i'll tell you a secret, you can't be selfish
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- I'll tell you a secret, you can't be selfish and happy.
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- You can't be selfish and happy. so, in teaching on stress,
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- And happy. so, in teaching on stress, i have to tell you first
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- So, in teaching on stress, i have to tell you first of all that you can't just
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- I have to tell you first of all that you can't just pray all the time for your
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- Of all that you can't just pray all the time for your circumstances to change,
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- Pray all the time for your circumstances to change, you have to want
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- Circumstances to change, you have to want god to change you.
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- You have to want god to change you. and i really wonder
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- God to change you. and i really wonder sometimes how many people
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- And i really wonder sometimes how many people want god to change them.
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- 'cause i'm going to tell
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- 'cause i'm going to tell you another little secret.
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- 'cause i'm going to tell you another little secret. you really can't change
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- You another little secret. you really can't change without some suffering.
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- You really can't change without some suffering. don't worry,
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- Without some suffering. don't worry, i won't stay there long.
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- Don't worry, i won't stay there long. >> [audience laughing]
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- I won't stay there long. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: but it's true.
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: but it's true. and you say,
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- >> joyce: but it's true. and you say, "well, wait a minute.
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- And you say, "well, wait a minute. i thought jesus did
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- "well, wait a minute. i thought jesus did all the suffering."
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- I thought jesus did all the suffering." i'm not talking about getting
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- All the suffering." i'm not talking about getting on the cross like he did.
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- I'm not talking about getting on the cross like he did. but you know, anytime you
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- On the cross like he did. but you know, anytime you tell your flesh, "no,"
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- But you know, anytime you tell your flesh, "no," your flesh is gonna suffer.
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- Tell your flesh, "no," your flesh is gonna suffer. i don't care if it's even just,
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- Your flesh is gonna suffer. i don't care if it's even just, "don't eat the piece of cake."
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- I don't care if it's even just, "don't eat the piece of cake." your flesh is not gonna like it.
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- "don't eat the piece of cake." your flesh is not gonna like it. so, in order to grow up,
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- Your flesh is not gonna like it. so, in order to grow up, to mature spiritually in christ,
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- So, in order to grow up, to mature spiritually in christ, which should be our
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- To mature spiritually in christ, which should be our number one goal.
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- Which should be our number one goal. that should be everybody's
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- Number one goal. that should be everybody's number one goal
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- That should be everybody's number one goal is to grow up and mature.
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- Number one goal is to grow up and mature. see, we are his ambassadors
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- Is to grow up and mature. see, we are his ambassadors in the earth.
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- See, we are his ambassadors in the earth. and i love what
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- In the earth. and i love what 2 corinthians 5:20 says,
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- And i love what 2 corinthians 5:20 says, and in the amplified
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- 2 corinthians 5:20 says, and in the amplified bible i love it,
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- And in the amplified bible i love it, that "we are christ's
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- Bible i love it, that "we are christ's personal representatives,
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- That "we are christ's personal representatives, that he is making his appeal
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- Personal representatives, that he is making his appeal to the world through us."
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- That he is making his appeal to the world through us." wow!
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- Do you know that
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- Do you know that for some people you're
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- Do you know that for some people you're the only jesus they'll see?
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- For some people you're the only jesus they'll see? and part of our problem
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- The only jesus they'll see? and part of our problem is just the going
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- And part of our problem is just the going to church but then not
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- Is just the going to church but then not leaving and acting like what
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- To church but then not leaving and acting like what we should be acting like.
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- Leaving and acting like what we should be acting like. christianity don't need
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- We should be acting like. christianity don't need to just stay in here.
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- Christianity don't need to just stay in here. come on, we gotta get
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- To just stay in here. come on, we gotta get it out there,
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- Come on, we gotta get it out there, where the people are.
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- It out there, where the people are. and you're all preachers,
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- Where the people are. and you're all preachers, whether you know it or not.
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- And you're all preachers, whether you know it or not. and you don't--you don't have
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- Whether you know it or not. and you don't--you don't have to preach like i'm preaching,
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- And you don't--you don't have to preach like i'm preaching, but you preach with your life.
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- To preach like i'm preaching, but you preach with your life. most of the people that
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- But you preach with your life. most of the people that need jesus are not gonna
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- Most of the people that need jesus are not gonna come into church to find him.
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- Need jesus are not gonna come into church to find him. but they're where you work,
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- Come into church to find him. but they're where you work, they're where you go to school,
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- But they're where you work, they're where you go to school, they're where you
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- They're where you go to school, they're where you grocery shop,
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- They're where you grocery shop, they're everywhere.
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- Grocery shop, they're everywhere. and believe me,
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- They're everywhere. and believe me, people are desperate
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- And believe me, people are desperate for somebody to love them.
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- People are desperate for somebody to love them. i mean, we live in a desperate
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- For somebody to love them. i mean, we live in a desperate world and things are
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- I mean, we live in a desperate world and things are so crazy out there.
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- World and things are so crazy out there. people don't--
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- So crazy out there. people don't-- they don't have anything
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- People don't-- they don't have anything to hang their hope on.
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- They don't have anything to hang their hope on. and we need to start doing
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- To hang their hope on. and we need to start doing random acts of kindness.
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- And we need to start doing random acts of kindness. be nice to people you don't
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- Random acts of kindness. be nice to people you don't even know for no reason,
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- Be nice to people you don't even know for no reason, except that's just how you are.
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- Even know for no reason, except that's just how you are. amen?
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- Except that's just how you are. amen? >> [audience applauding]
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- Amen? >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and really listen
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and really listen to the holy spirit when
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- >> joyce: and really listen to the holy spirit when you're out, about what you
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- To the holy spirit when you're out, about what you might do for somebody else.
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- You're out, about what you might do for somebody else. i just feel led to tell
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- Might do for somebody else. i just feel led to tell you this story.
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- I went to a coffee shop
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- I went to a coffee shop one day and i wanted
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- I went to a coffee shop one day and i wanted a pour-over and they didn't
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- One day and i wanted a pour-over and they didn't do pour-overs there.
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- A pour-over and they didn't do pour-overs there. and she said, "let me make
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- Do pour-overs there. and she said, "let me make you a french press."
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- And she said, "let me make you a french press." and i said, "i don't
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- You a french press." and i said, "i don't like french presses,
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- And i said, "i don't like french presses, they're usually too strong."
- 00:09:42.471 --> 00:09:43.439
- Like french presses, they're usually too strong." she said, "we've got
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- They're usually too strong." she said, "we've got a new press."
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- She said, "we've got a new press." and she said, "i'll tell you,
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- A new press." and she said, "i'll tell you, it is so good.
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- And she said, "i'll tell you, it is so good. let me make it for you,
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- It is so good. let me make it for you, and if you don't like it,
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- Let me make it for you, and if you don't like it, you don't have to pay for it.
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- And if you don't like it, you don't have to pay for it. i'll make you anything
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- You don't have to pay for it. i'll make you anything else you want."
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- I'll make you anything else you want." so, sure enough, she made it,
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- Else you want." so, sure enough, she made it, and it was just
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- So, sure enough, she made it, and it was just absolutely great.
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- And it was just absolutely great. and in the process
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- Absolutely great. and in the process of talking to her--
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- And in the process of talking to her-- and let me just say,
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- Of talking to her-- and let me just say, she wasn't like me at all.
- 00:10:02.058 --> 00:10:03.159
- And let me just say, she wasn't like me at all. her hair was about four
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- She wasn't like me at all. her hair was about four different colors.
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- Her hair was about four different colors. >> [audience laughing]
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- Different colors. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and she had piercings
- 00:10:06.996 --> 00:10:09.498
- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and she had piercings and tattoos everywhere.
- 00:10:09.565 --> 00:10:12.468
- >> joyce: and she had piercings and tattoos everywhere. and you know, we need to learn
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- And tattoos everywhere. and you know, we need to learn that we can be nice
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- And you know, we need to learn that we can be nice to and fellowship with
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- That we can be nice to and fellowship with people that aren't like us.
- 00:10:18.207 --> 00:10:20.376
- >> [audience applauding]
- 00:10:21.077 --> 00:10:21.911
- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: amen?
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: amen? quit being so snooty religious.
- 00:10:25.147 --> 00:10:27.850
- >> joyce: amen? quit being so snooty religious. >> [audience laughing]
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- Quit being so snooty religious. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: amen?
- 00:10:30.119 --> 00:10:31.153
- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: amen? "eww!"
- 00:10:31.220 --> 00:10:32.688
- >> [audience laughing]
- 00:10:32.755 --> 00:10:36.826
- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: sometimes the more
- 00:10:36.892 --> 00:10:38.594
- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: sometimes the more radical people are,
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- >> joyce: sometimes the more radical people are, it's just a signal,
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- Radical people are, it's just a signal, a little sign,
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- It's just a signal, a little sign, that they're looking for love.
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- A little sign, that they're looking for love. and she said, "yeah, i really
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- That they're looking for love. and she said, "yeah, i really wanna get one of these."
- 00:10:47.570 --> 00:10:48.437
- And she said, "yeah, i really wanna get one of these." she said, "i'm saving
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- Wanna get one of these." she said, "i'm saving up my money because they--"
- 00:10:52.608 --> 00:10:55.377
- She said, "i'm saving up my money because they--" i've got one of 'em
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- Up my money because they--" i've got one of 'em at home and they're just
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- I've got one of 'em at home and they're just nice because all you
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- At home and they're just nice because all you really need is hot water.
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- Nice because all you really need is hot water. so, you put your coffee
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- Really need is hot water. so, you put your coffee in 'em and the hot water
- 00:11:02.084 --> 00:11:02.952
- So, you put your coffee in 'em and the hot water and you press it through,
- 00:11:03.018 --> 00:11:04.520
- In 'em and the hot water and you press it through, and you got a great cup
- 00:11:04.587 --> 00:11:05.387
- And you press it through, and you got a great cup of coffee wherever you're at.
- 00:11:05.454 --> 00:11:06.555
- And you got a great cup of coffee wherever you're at. so, she said, "yeah, i wanna
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- Of coffee wherever you're at. so, she said, "yeah, i wanna get one of these as soon
- 00:11:08.390 --> 00:11:09.458
- So, she said, "yeah, i wanna get one of these as soon as i get enough money saved."
- 00:11:09.525 --> 00:11:10.760
- Get one of these as soon as i get enough money saved." well, i left, and i got about
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- As i get enough money saved." well, i left, and i got about yay far down the mall
- 00:11:12.962 --> 00:11:17.066
- Well, i left, and i got about yay far down the mall and the holy spirit said,
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- Yay far down the mall and the holy spirit said, "buy her one."
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- And the holy spirit said, "buy her one." and i'm thinking, "now, god..."
- 00:11:23.572 --> 00:11:25.074
- "buy her one." and i'm thinking, "now, god..." >> [audience laughing]
- 00:11:25.141 --> 00:11:27.943
- And i'm thinking, "now, god..." >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: "i don't know
- 00:11:28.010 --> 00:11:28.677
- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: "i don't know this girl.
- 00:11:28.744 --> 00:11:31.647
- >> joyce: "i don't know this girl. she is gonna think i am stupid."
- 00:11:31.714 --> 00:11:34.116
- This girl. she is gonna think i am stupid." >> [audience laughing]
- 00:11:34.183 --> 00:11:36.952
- She is gonna think i am stupid." >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and besides,
- 00:11:37.019 --> 00:11:37.586
- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and besides, the way that, that--
- 00:11:37.653 --> 00:11:38.254
- >> joyce: and besides, the way that, that-- the way the world
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- The way that, that-- the way the world is today i thought,
- 00:11:38.954 --> 00:11:39.455
- The way the world is today i thought, "i don't know she might
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- Is today i thought, "i don't know she might think i'm hittin' on her
- 00:11:40.289 --> 00:11:41.056
- "i don't know she might think i'm hittin' on her or something."
- 00:11:41.123 --> 00:11:41.624
- Think i'm hittin' on her or something." >> [audience laughing]
- 00:11:41.690 --> 00:11:45.461
- >> joyce: well, i'm just tellin'
- 00:11:46.662 --> 00:11:47.463
- >> joyce: well, i'm just tellin' you the truth,
- 00:11:47.530 --> 00:11:47.897
- >> joyce: well, i'm just tellin' you the truth, that's what i thought.
- 00:11:47.963 --> 00:11:48.497
- You the truth, that's what i thought. i thought [mumbling].
- 00:11:48.564 --> 00:11:49.331
- That's what i thought. i thought [mumbling]. >> [audience laughing]
- 00:11:49.398 --> 00:11:53.369
- I thought [mumbling]. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: [laughs]
- 00:11:53.435 --> 00:11:55.070
- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: [laughs] but anyway--
- 00:11:55.137 --> 00:12:00.476
- >> joyce: [laughs] but anyway-- you know, i don't always
- 00:12:00.543 --> 00:12:01.310
- But anyway-- you know, i don't always like it when god
- 00:12:01.377 --> 00:12:02.144
- You know, i don't always like it when god tells me to do things
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- For people i don't know,
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- For people i don't know, but he does it anyway.
- 00:12:04.413 --> 00:12:06.649
- For people i don't know, but he does it anyway. and so, i--
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- But he does it anyway. and so, i-- by now i know enough,
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- And so, i-- by now i know enough, it's not gonna do any good
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- By now i know enough, it's not gonna do any good to disobey him because
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- It's not gonna do any good to disobey him because i'll be miserable all day.
- 00:12:10.820 --> 00:12:11.887
- To disobey him because i'll be miserable all day. so, i went back, and i waited
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- I'll be miserable all day. so, i went back, and i waited for her to hopefully
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- So, i went back, and i waited for her to hopefully be as alone as she could be.
- 00:12:16.325 --> 00:12:17.793
- For her to hopefully be as alone as she could be. >> [audience laughing]
- 00:12:17.860 --> 00:12:19.161
- Be as alone as she could be. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: you know,
- 00:12:19.228 --> 00:12:19.762
- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: you know, if you're gonna be a fool,
- 00:12:19.829 --> 00:12:20.629
- >> joyce: you know, if you're gonna be a fool, you'd like to be it, in front
- 00:12:20.696 --> 00:12:21.630
- If you're gonna be a fool, you'd like to be it, in front of as few people as possible.
- 00:12:21.697 --> 00:12:22.631
- You'd like to be it, in front of as few people as possible. >> [audience laughing]
- 00:12:22.698 --> 00:12:24.533
- >> joyce: so, i called her over
- 00:12:25.134 --> 00:12:26.902
- >> joyce: so, i called her over and i said, "listen,"
- 00:12:26.969 --> 00:12:29.104
- >> joyce: so, i called her over and i said, "listen," i said, "i wanna buy you one
- 00:12:29.171 --> 00:12:31.207
- And i said, "listen," i said, "i wanna buy you one of those coffee pots."
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- I said, "i wanna buy you one of those coffee pots." i don't know, it was
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- Of those coffee pots." i don't know, it was like $110 or somethin'.
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- I don't know, it was like $110 or somethin'. "oh no, no, no,
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- Like $110 or somethin'. "oh no, no, no, you can't do that."
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- "oh no, no, no, you can't do that." i said, "yeah,
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- You can't do that." i said, "yeah, i wanna do it for you.
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- I said, "yeah, i wanna do it for you. i just--i feel like
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- I wanna do it for you. i just--i feel like it's something that
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- I just--i feel like it's something that i'm supposed to do."
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- It's something that i'm supposed to do." and so, i gave her the money
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- I'm supposed to do." and so, i gave her the money to buy the coffee pot
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- And so, i gave her the money to buy the coffee pot and she was crying
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- To buy the coffee pot and she was crying and just so blessed
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- And she was crying and just so blessed and so on and so forth.
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- And just so blessed and so on and so forth. well, god's not finished,
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- And so on and so forth. well, god's not finished, so i go ahead and i'm doing
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- Well, god's not finished, so i go ahead and i'm doing my shopping and lo and behold,
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- So i go ahead and i'm doing my shopping and lo and behold, i go to the bathroom
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- My shopping and lo and behold, i go to the bathroom upstairs in another store...
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- I go to the bathroom upstairs in another store... [chuckles]
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- Upstairs in another store... [chuckles] and i'm coming out
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- [chuckles] and i'm coming out of the bathroom
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- And i'm coming out of the bathroom and she's coming in and hits
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- Of the bathroom and she's coming in and hits me almost right in the face.
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- And she's coming in and hits me almost right in the face. and she says to me--
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- Me almost right in the face. and she says to me-- now listen.
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- And she says to me-- now listen. she says, "why are you
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- Now listen. she says, "why are you the kindest person
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- She says, "why are you the kindest person in the whole world?"
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- The kindest person in the whole world?" i said, "well,
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- In the whole world?" i said, "well, i'll tell you what."
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- I said, "well, i'll tell you what." i said, "i'm a christian
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- I'll tell you what." i said, "i'm a christian and god has been so good
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- I said, "i'm a christian and god has been so good to me and if i can be good
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- And god has been so good to me and if i can be good to anybody else, i wanna do it."
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- To me and if i can be good to anybody else, i wanna do it." she said, "well," she said,
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- To anybody else, i wanna do it." she said, "well," she said, "tell you the truth,
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- She said, "well," she said, "tell you the truth, i've been pretty mad at the man
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- "tell you the truth, i've been pretty mad at the man upstairs for a long time 'cause
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- I've been pretty mad at the man upstairs for a long time 'cause my mother died with cancer,
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- Upstairs for a long time 'cause my mother died with cancer, but after this i might
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- My mother died with cancer, but after this i might have to rethink it."
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- But after this i might have to rethink it." see?
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- Have to rethink it." see? >> [audience applauding]
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- See? >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: now, i'm not telling
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: now, i'm not telling you that to brag on myself.
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- >> joyce: now, i'm not telling you that to brag on myself. i'm just giving you an example
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- You that to brag on myself. i'm just giving you an example of the effect that you
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- I'm just giving you an example of the effect that you can have on people,
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- Of the effect that you can have on people, if instead of just going
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- Can have on people, if instead of just going to church and then spending
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- If instead of just going to church and then spending the rest of the week asking
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- To church and then spending the rest of the week asking god for everything you want,
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- The rest of the week asking god for everything you want, if you'll ask him what
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- God for everything you want, if you'll ask him what you can do for him.
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- If you'll ask him what you can do for him. come on, is anybody
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- You can do for him. come on, is anybody understanding me in here, today?
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- Come on, is anybody understanding me in here, today? >> [audience applauding]
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- Understanding me in here, today? >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: i'm a little off
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: i'm a little off course from where
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- >> joyce: i'm a little off course from where i'm supposed to be going,
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- Course from where i'm supposed to be going, but i feel like
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- I'm supposed to be going, but i feel like this is important.
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- But i feel like this is important. you know, i don't know how
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- This is important. you know, i don't know how much time we have left.
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- You know, i don't know how much time we have left. people are always askin' me,
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- Much time we have left. people are always askin' me, "what do you think
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- People are always askin' me, "what do you think is gonna happen in the world?"
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- "what do you think is gonna happen in the world?" i don't know.
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- Is gonna happen in the world?" i don't know. i mean, jesus has been
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- I don't know. i mean, jesus has been coming back as long
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- I mean, jesus has been coming back as long as i've been in the church,
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- Coming back as long as i've been in the church, so you know--
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- As i've been in the church, so you know-- >> [audience laughing]
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- So you know-- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i don't know
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i don't know when he's coming,
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- >> joyce: i don't know when he's coming, but one thing's for sure,
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- When he's coming, but one thing's for sure, bible says it's gonna
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- But one thing's for sure, bible says it's gonna be like it was the days
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- Bible says it's gonna be like it was the days of sodom and gomorrah,
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- Be like it was the days of sodom and gomorrah, and i think we passed that
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- Of sodom and gomorrah, and i think we passed that up a long time ago.
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- And i think we passed that up a long time ago. >> [audience applauding]
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- Up a long time ago. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: i mean, the things
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: i mean, the things going on in our world
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- >> joyce: i mean, the things going on in our world today are crazy.
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- Going on in our world today are crazy. and so, i think we all better
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- Today are crazy. and so, i think we all better be ready for jesus
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- And so, i think we all better be ready for jesus to come anytime.
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- Be ready for jesus to come anytime. amen?
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- To come anytime. amen? >> [audience applauding]
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- >> joyce: because the bible
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- >> joyce: because the bible says all over the place
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- >> joyce: because the bible says all over the place that we should watch
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- Says all over the place that we should watch and pray and be ready
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- That we should watch and pray and be ready and stay awake and be alert,
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- And pray and be ready and stay awake and be alert, not be sleepy christians.
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- And stay awake and be alert, not be sleepy christians. i just wanna say again,
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- Not be sleepy christians. i just wanna say again, i think church is wonderful,
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- But so many people think
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- But so many people think that church is all there is,
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- But so many people think that church is all there is, "well, i go to church."
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- That church is all there is, "well, i go to church." well, i can go sit
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- "well, i go to church." well, i can go sit in the garage all night
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- Well, i can go sit in the garage all night and that won't make me a car.
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- In the garage all night and that won't make me a car. >> [audience laughing]
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- And that won't make me a car. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: amen?
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: amen? so, just 'cause you come here
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- >> joyce: amen? so, just 'cause you come here every sunday or every
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- So, just 'cause you come here every sunday or every saturday and sunday,
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- Every sunday or every saturday and sunday, my question is what are you
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- Saturday and sunday, my question is what are you doing when you go out there?
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- My question is what are you doing when you go out there? that's the big question.
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- Doing when you go out there? that's the big question. what are you doing
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- That's the big question. what are you doing when you go out there?
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- What are you doing when you go out there? amen?
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- When you go out there? amen? >> [audience applauding]
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- Amen? >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and that's the big
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and that's the big question for all of us.
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- >> joyce: and that's the big question for all of us. what are we doing when
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- Question for all of us. what are we doing when we go out there?
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- What are we doing when we go out there? so, i'll just tell you,
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- We go out there? so, i'll just tell you, your circumstances--
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- So, i'll just tell you, your circumstances-- oh, some of your
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- Your circumstances-- oh, some of your circumstances will change;
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- Oh, some of your circumstances will change; you may get out of debt,
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- Circumstances will change; you may get out of debt, you may get a raise,
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- You may get out of debt, you may get a raise, you may get some
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- You may get a raise, you may get some of the things you want.
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- You may get some of the things you want. but you know,
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- Of the things you want. but you know, i hope this isn't discouraging,
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- But you know, i hope this isn't discouraging, but you're gonna have very
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- I hope this isn't discouraging, but you're gonna have very few times in life that you're
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- But you're gonna have very few times in life that you're not gonna have some kind
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- Few times in life that you're not gonna have some kind of an issue or a problem.
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- Not gonna have some kind of an issue or a problem. amen?
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- Of an issue or a problem. amen? if it's not the refrigerator,
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- Amen? if it's not the refrigerator, it's the stove.
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- If it's not the refrigerator, it's the stove. if it's not the stove,
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- It's the stove. if it's not the stove, it's the furnace.
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- If it's not the stove, it's the furnace. if it's not the furnace,
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- It's the furnace. if it's not the furnace, it's the kid.
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- If it's not the furnace, it's the kid. if it's not the kid,
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- It's the kid. if it's not the kid, it's the husband.
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- If it's not the kid, it's the husband. if--you know.
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- It's the husband. if--you know. >> [audience laughing]
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- If--you know. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: come on,
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: come on, you know what i mean.
- 00:16:25.507 --> 00:16:26.642
- >> joyce: come on, you know what i mean. and so, we have to learn how
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- You know what i mean. and so, we have to learn how to react differently to things.
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- And so, we have to learn how to react differently to things. and you can.
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- To react differently to things. and you can. you can learn how to react
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- And you can. you can learn how to react differently to things.
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- You can learn how to react differently to things. i know because nobody
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- Differently to things. i know because nobody could have been worse than
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- I know because nobody could have been worse than me at having a bad reaction
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- Could have been worse than me at having a bad reaction to uncomfortable circumstances.
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- Me at having a bad reaction to uncomfortable circumstances. i mean we just are
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- To uncomfortable circumstances. i mean we just are addicted to comfort.
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- Amen?
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- Amen? when you go to india,
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- Amen? when you go to india, and you tell them how you
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- When you go to india, and you tell them how you got depressed because
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- And you tell them how you got depressed because your air conditioner went
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- Got depressed because your air conditioner went out for two hours,
- 00:16:56.038 --> 00:16:56.872
- Your air conditioner went out for two hours, they're not very impressed.
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- Out for two hours, they're not very impressed. >> [audience laughing]
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- >> joyce: amen?
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- >> joyce: amen? so, we're kinda spoiled
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- >> joyce: amen? so, we're kinda spoiled and we don't take any kind
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- So, we're kinda spoiled and we don't take any kind of discomfort too easy.
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- And we don't take any kind of discomfort too easy. and boy,
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- Of discomfort too easy. and boy, the world we live in today,
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- And boy, the world we live in today, you better toughen
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- The world we live in today, you better toughen up a little bit or you ain't
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- You better toughen up a little bit or you ain't gonna make it because
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- Up a little bit or you ain't gonna make it because it is stressfuuuul.
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- Amen?
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- Amen? >> audience: amen.
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- Amen? >> audience: amen. >> joyce: so, the first
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- >> audience: amen. >> joyce: so, the first thing you gotta
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- >> joyce: so, the first thing you gotta do is be willing to change.
- 00:17:24.299 --> 00:17:25.134
- Thing you gotta do is be willing to change. and trust me, god will change
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- Do is be willing to change. and trust me, god will change you if you really wanna change.
- 00:17:26.735 --> 00:17:29.872
- And trust me, god will change you if you really wanna change. how can you have less stress
- 00:17:29.938 --> 00:17:31.206
- You if you really wanna change. how can you have less stress in your life?
- 00:17:31.273 --> 00:17:33.275
- How can you have less stress in your life? simplify, simplify, simplify.
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- In your life? simplify, simplify, simplify. let me just ask a question.
- 00:17:37.646 --> 00:17:38.680
- Simplify, simplify, simplify. let me just ask a question. how many of you are
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- Let me just ask a question. how many of you are complicated people?
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- How many of you are complicated people? >> [audience laughing]
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- Complicated people? >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i mean,
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i mean, now i've learned, thank god,
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- >> joyce: i mean, now i've learned, thank god, this has been many years ago--
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- Now i've learned, thank god, this has been many years ago-- but, i mean, i'll never
- 00:17:51.560 --> 00:17:54.396
- This has been many years ago-- but, i mean, i'll never forget when dave
- 00:17:54.463 --> 00:17:57.566
- But, i mean, i'll never forget when dave and i went to church,
- 00:17:57.633 --> 00:17:58.567
- Forget when dave and i went to church, and this is actually
- 00:17:58.634 --> 00:17:59.501
- And i went to church, and this is actually before i was spirit-filled
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- And this is actually before i was spirit-filled and we went to church,
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- Before i was spirit-filled and we went to church, and i loved god,
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- And we went to church, and i loved god, i didn't know much,
- 00:18:05.541 --> 00:18:08.210
- And i loved god, i didn't know much, but i loved the lord,
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- I didn't know much, but i loved the lord, and we were in the young couples
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- But i loved the lord, and we were in the young couples group and played volleyball
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- And we were in the young couples group and played volleyball and all the different
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- Group and played volleyball and all the different things you do.
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- And all the different things you do. and i can remember on a sunday
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- Things you do. and i can remember on a sunday after church saying to our
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- And i can remember on a sunday after church saying to our little group of friends,
- 00:18:20.422 --> 00:18:21.590
- After church saying to our little group of friends, "hey, why don't--
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- Little group of friends, "hey, why don't-- next sunday, why don't you come
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- "hey, why don't-- next sunday, why don't you come on over to the house after
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- Next sunday, why don't you come on over to the house after church and we'll just throw
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- On over to the house after church and we'll just throw some hot dogs on the grill
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- Church and we'll just throw some hot dogs on the grill and i'll get some potato chips
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- Some hot dogs on the grill and i'll get some potato chips and potato salad and we'll just
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- And i'll get some potato chips and potato salad and we'll just fellowship and play some games."
- 00:18:35.304 --> 00:18:36.672
- And potato salad and we'll just fellowship and play some games." now, you know,
- 00:18:36.738 --> 00:18:37.306
- Fellowship and play some games." now, you know, that sounds doable, don't it?
- 00:18:37.372 --> 00:18:41.176
- Now, you know, that sounds doable, don't it? but you think i could
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- That sounds doable, don't it? but you think i could leave it alone?
- 00:18:41.977 --> 00:18:43.245
- But you think i could leave it alone? >> [audience laughing]
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- Leave it alone? >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: no.
- 00:18:45.013 --> 00:18:46.281
- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: no. the hot dogs had to become
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- >> joyce: no. the hot dogs had to become steaks that i couldn't afford.
- 00:18:47.316 --> 00:18:53.188
- The hot dogs had to become steaks that i couldn't afford. and then we had to plant
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- Steaks that i couldn't afford. and then we had to plant flowers so everything
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- And then we had to plant flowers so everything would look pretty.
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- Flowers so everything would look pretty. >> [audience laughing]
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- Would look pretty. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: had to paint
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: had to paint the lawn chairs because...
- 00:18:58.894 --> 00:19:00.462
- >> joyce: had to paint the lawn chairs because... >> [audience laughing]
- 00:19:00.529 --> 00:19:02.631
- The lawn chairs because... >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: wanted them fixed.
- 00:19:02.698 --> 00:19:03.532
- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: wanted them fixed. of course, we had to clean
- 00:19:03.599 --> 00:19:04.433
- >> joyce: wanted them fixed. of course, we had to clean the whole house.
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- Of course, we had to clean the whole house. by the time
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- The whole house. by the time the people got there,
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- By the time the people got there, i didn't even like 'em...
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- The people got there, i didn't even like 'em... >> [audience laughing]
- 00:19:08.337 --> 00:19:10.806
- I didn't even like 'em... >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: anymore.
- 00:19:10.872 --> 00:19:13.175
- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: anymore. probably didn't like most
- 00:19:13.242 --> 00:19:14.276
- >> joyce: anymore. probably didn't like most of 'em when i invited 'em.
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- Probably didn't like most of 'em when i invited 'em. >> [audience laughing]
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- Of 'em when i invited 'em. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: come on.
- 00:19:17.980 --> 00:19:18.647
- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: come on. [laughs]
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- I was exhausted when
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- I was exhausted when everybody left.
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- Everybody left. i'm getting ready to make
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- I'm getting ready to make a statement you need to hear it.
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- A statement you need to hear it. you're never free until
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- You're never free until you no longer have
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- You no longer have a need to impress people.
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- A need to impress people. >> [audience applauding]
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: never free
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- >> joyce: never free till you no longer have
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- Till you no longer have a need to impress people.
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- To impress one another.
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- To impress one another. we need to learn how
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- To impress one another. we need to learn how to be free to be ourselves.
- 00:19:47.442 --> 00:19:51.980
- We need to learn how to be free to be ourselves. simplify, simplify, simplify.
- 00:19:52.047 --> 00:19:57.085
- To be free to be ourselves. simplify, simplify, simplify. things are so complicated.
- 00:19:57.152 --> 00:19:58.353
- Simplify, simplify, simplify. things are so complicated. i remember the leper in india,
- 00:19:58.420 --> 00:20:04.092
- Things are so complicated. i remember the leper in india, when i was in the leper colony,
- 00:20:04.159 --> 00:20:07.763
- I remember the leper in india, when i was in the leper colony, ministering to the lepers.
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- When i was in the leper colony, ministering to the lepers. he wanted me to see his home.
- 00:20:10.232 --> 00:20:14.369
- Ministering to the lepers. he wanted me to see his home. and he took me to his home
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- He wanted me to see his home. and he took me to his home that he was so proud
- 00:20:15.604 --> 00:20:16.505
- And he took me to his home that he was so proud of and so excited about.
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- That he was so proud of and so excited about. and it was a hole dug out
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- Of and so excited about. and it was a hole dug out of the side of a hill.
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- It was, i don't know,
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- It was, i don't know, maybe eight feet long
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- It was, i don't know, maybe eight feet long and i don't know,
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- Maybe eight feet long and i don't know, maybe as deep as from here
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- And i don't know, maybe as deep as from here to the edge of the stage.
- 00:20:29.217 --> 00:20:31.086
- Maybe as deep as from here to the edge of the stage. and it was all dirt,
- 00:20:31.153 --> 00:20:32.154
- To the edge of the stage. and it was all dirt, dirt walls, dirt floor.
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- And it was all dirt, dirt walls, dirt floor. he had a hammock in there
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- Dirt walls, dirt floor. he had a hammock in there and over in the corner
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- He had a hammock in there and over in the corner he had a few beat-up dishes.
- 00:20:35.957 --> 00:20:38.226
- And over in the corner he had a few beat-up dishes. and he was so proud of his home.
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- He had a few beat-up dishes. and he was so proud of his home. honestly and truly,
- 00:20:43.832 --> 00:20:44.933
- And he was so proud of his home. honestly and truly, i have found as i've traveled
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- Honestly and truly, i have found as i've traveled around the world that people
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- I have found as i've traveled around the world that people who have less are happier
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- Around the world that people who have less are happier than people who have more.
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- Who have less are happier than people who have more. >> [audience applauding]
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- Than people who have more. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and you know,
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and you know, they're happy because they
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- >> joyce: and you know, they're happy because they don't know what they're missing.
- 00:20:56.678 --> 00:21:01.650
- They're happy because they don't know what they're missing. we see what somebody
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- Don't know what they're missing. we see what somebody else has and then no matter
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- We see what somebody else has and then no matter what we have, we're not happy
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- Else has and then no matter what we have, we're not happy unless we can have what
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- What we have, we're not happy unless we can have what they have if what they
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- Unless we can have what they have if what they have is a little more
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- They have if what they have is a little more than what we have.
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- Have is a little more than what we have. let's stop being
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- Than what we have. let's stop being so materialistic.
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- Let's stop being so materialistic. amen?
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- So materialistic. amen? >> [audience applauding]
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- Amen? >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: you got a nice car,
- 00:21:17.566 --> 00:21:20.035
- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: you got a nice car, got 47,000 miles on it.
- 00:21:20.102 --> 00:21:23.038
- >> joyce: you got a nice car, got 47,000 miles on it. who cares if it's seven
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- Got 47,000 miles on it. who cares if it's seven years old?
- 00:21:24.539 --> 00:21:27.008
- Who cares if it's seven years old? do you really need to go in debt
- 00:21:27.075 --> 00:21:29.044
- Years old? do you really need to go in debt that you can't afford to go into
- 00:21:29.111 --> 00:21:30.512
- Do you really need to go in debt that you can't afford to go into to buy another new car?
- 00:21:30.579 --> 00:21:32.013
- That you can't afford to go into to buy another new car? just--
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- To buy another new car? just-- >> [audience applauding]
- 00:21:36.818 --> 00:21:39.488
- Just-- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: no, you might use
- 00:21:39.554 --> 00:21:40.455
- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: no, you might use some of that money to help
- 00:21:40.522 --> 00:21:41.356
- >> joyce: no, you might use some of that money to help somebody else.
- 00:21:41.423 --> 00:21:42.290
- Some of that money to help somebody else. "well bless god,
- 00:21:42.357 --> 00:21:42.824
- Somebody else. "well bless god, i'm not gonna work all week
- 00:21:42.891 --> 00:21:43.692
- "well bless god, i'm not gonna work all week and give all my money away."
- 00:21:43.759 --> 00:21:45.794
- I'm not gonna work all week and give all my money away." well, then, just go ahead
- 00:21:45.861 --> 00:21:46.528
- And give all my money away." well, then, just go ahead and be miserable.
- 00:21:46.595 --> 00:21:48.463
- Well, then, just go ahead and be miserable. >> [audience laughing]
- 00:21:48.530 --> 00:21:51.867
- And be miserable. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: seven ways
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: seven ways to simplify your life.
- 00:21:52.567 --> 00:21:56.037
- >> joyce: seven ways to simplify your life. number one,
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- To simplify your life. number one, clean out the clutter.
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- Number one, clean out the clutter. get yourself what i call
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- Clean out the clutter. get yourself what i call a "giveaway box."
- 00:22:00.976 --> 00:22:02.277
- Get yourself what i call a "giveaway box." i keep one going all the time.
- 00:22:02.344 --> 00:22:05.714
- A "giveaway box." i keep one going all the time. and every time you run across
- 00:22:05.781 --> 00:22:06.815
- I keep one going all the time. and every time you run across something you're not using,
- 00:22:06.882 --> 00:22:10.585
- And every time you run across something you're not using, throw it in the box.
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- Something you're not using, throw it in the box. take it to the goodwill.
- 00:22:15.457 --> 00:22:19.528
- Throw it in the box. take it to the goodwill. i take a bunch of stuff
- 00:22:19.594 --> 00:22:20.629
- Take it to the goodwill. i take a bunch of stuff to my office because
- 00:22:20.695 --> 00:22:21.696
- I take a bunch of stuff to my office because we got 500 employees.
- 00:22:21.763 --> 00:22:23.198
- To my office because we got 500 employees. there's always somebody
- 00:22:23.265 --> 00:22:23.899
- We got 500 employees. there's always somebody that wants it.
- 00:22:23.965 --> 00:22:27.335
- There's always somebody that wants it. you know, pruning is necessary
- 00:22:27.402 --> 00:22:29.171
- That wants it. you know, pruning is necessary for growth.
- 00:22:29.237 --> 00:22:30.205
- You know, pruning is necessary for growth. [laughing]
- 00:22:30.272 --> 00:22:33.308
- For growth. [laughing] we prune trees,
- 00:22:33.375 --> 00:22:33.942
- [laughing] we prune trees, but the word pruning
- 00:22:34.009 --> 00:22:34.810
- We prune trees, but the word pruning only means to cut back.
- 00:22:34.876 --> 00:22:37.279
- But the word pruning only means to cut back. that's all it means to trim
- 00:22:37.345 --> 00:22:38.547
- Only means to cut back. that's all it means to trim away or to cut back.
- 00:22:38.613 --> 00:22:40.682
- That's all it means to trim away or to cut back. and we cannot grow as
- 00:22:40.749 --> 00:22:43.084
- Away or to cut back. and we cannot grow as believers unless we allow god
- 00:22:43.151 --> 00:22:47.589
- And we cannot grow as believers unless we allow god to prune us and you're not
- 00:22:47.656 --> 00:22:51.827
- Believers unless we allow god to prune us and you're not gonna grow in peace unless
- 00:22:51.893 --> 00:22:53.395
- To prune us and you're not gonna grow in peace unless you learn how to prune
- 00:22:53.462 --> 00:22:54.629
- Gonna grow in peace unless you learn how to prune some of the stuff you've
- 00:22:54.696 --> 00:22:55.664
- You learn how to prune some of the stuff you've got way too much of.
- 00:22:55.730 --> 00:22:59.034
- Some of the stuff you've got way too much of. clutter makes you miserable.
- 00:22:59.100 --> 00:23:01.036
- Got way too much of. clutter makes you miserable. the neater your
- 00:23:01.102 --> 00:23:01.736
- Clutter makes you miserable. the neater your surroundings are,
- 00:23:01.803 --> 00:23:02.671
- The neater your surroundings are, the more peaceful you feel.
- 00:23:02.737 --> 00:23:04.773
- Surroundings are, the more peaceful you feel. what value do you put on peace?
- 00:23:04.840 --> 00:23:07.542
- The more peaceful you feel. what value do you put on peace? i want you to ask yourself,
- 00:23:07.609 --> 00:23:09.511
- What value do you put on peace? i want you to ask yourself, what value do you put on peace?
- 00:23:09.578 --> 00:23:12.514
- I want you to ask yourself, what value do you put on peace? when you decide you want peace
- 00:23:12.581 --> 00:23:14.249
- What value do you put on peace? when you decide you want peace bad enough, you'll have it,
- 00:23:14.316 --> 00:23:17.285
- When you decide you want peace bad enough, you'll have it, but you won't have it without
- 00:23:17.352 --> 00:23:18.487
- Bad enough, you'll have it, but you won't have it without making some changes.
- 00:23:18.553 --> 00:23:20.055
- >> [repeating sounds:
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- >> [repeating sounds: alarms, reports, phones ringing]
- 00:23:22.791 --> 00:23:23.558
- Alarms, reports, phones ringing] >> weather man: today's local
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- >> weather man: today's local weather is a mixed bag
- 00:23:24.493 --> 00:23:25.160
- Weather is a mixed bag of clouds and rain.
- 00:23:25.227 --> 00:23:26.628
- Of clouds and rain. >> joyce: if you've been parked
- 00:23:26.695 --> 00:23:27.496
- >> joyce: if you've been parked at the same place way too long,
- 00:23:27.562 --> 00:23:28.997
- At the same place way too long, you're stuck.
- 00:23:29.064 --> 00:23:30.599
- You're stuck. and it's time to blast
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- And it's time to blast out of that place
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- Out of that place and say, "i've had it.
- 00:23:32.868 --> 00:23:33.702
- And say, "i've had it. i'm no longer gonna
- 00:23:33.768 --> 00:23:34.736
- I'm no longer gonna let the past control me.
- 00:23:34.803 --> 00:23:36.938
- Let the past control me. i am gonna get well,
- 00:23:37.005 --> 00:23:38.306
- I am gonna get well, get on with god,
- 00:23:38.373 --> 00:23:39.140
- Get on with god, and have the life
- 00:23:39.207 --> 00:23:39.808
- And have the life he intended me to have."
- 00:23:39.875 --> 00:23:41.676
- He intended me to have." >> [audience applauding]
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- >> ginger: what if
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- >> ginger: what if the only thing
- 00:23:44.412 --> 00:23:45.080
- The only thing standing between you
- 00:23:45.146 --> 00:23:46.982
- Standing between you and the life you want
- 00:23:47.048 --> 00:23:48.116
- And the life you want is that nasty
- 00:23:48.183 --> 00:23:49.851
- Is that nasty feeling of being stuck?
- 00:23:49.918 --> 00:23:51.586
- Feeling of being stuck? stuck in routines
- 00:23:51.653 --> 00:23:52.687
- Stuck in routines or patterns
- 00:23:52.754 --> 00:23:53.688
- Or patterns that no longer work,
- 00:23:53.755 --> 00:23:55.423
- That no longer work, they don't inspire
- 00:23:55.490 --> 00:23:56.525
- They don't inspire you and you can't
- 00:23:56.591 --> 00:23:57.759
- You and you can't seem to break free.
- 00:23:57.826 --> 00:23:59.761
- Seem to break free. well, escape the monotony
- 00:23:59.828 --> 00:24:01.196
- Well, escape the monotony and the procrastination
- 00:24:01.263 --> 00:24:02.631
- And the procrastination with joyce's book,
- 00:24:02.697 --> 00:24:03.565
- With joyce's book, "getting unstuck,"
- 00:24:03.632 --> 00:24:04.933
- "getting unstuck," it's "god's path to
- 00:24:05.000 --> 00:24:06.034
- It's "god's path to breakthrough thinking."
- 00:24:06.101 --> 00:24:08.837
- Breakthrough thinking." this is such a huge key.
- 00:24:08.904 --> 00:24:10.472
- This is such a huge key. this book will help
- 00:24:10.539 --> 00:24:11.506
- This book will help you find that turning
- 00:24:11.573 --> 00:24:12.374
- You find that turning point toward a path
- 00:24:12.440 --> 00:24:13.475
- Point toward a path of rediscovering
- 00:24:13.542 --> 00:24:14.876
- Of rediscovering purpose and hope.
- 00:24:14.943 --> 00:24:17.045
- Purpose and hope. you were never
- 00:24:17.112 --> 00:24:18.046
- You were never created to live
- 00:24:18.113 --> 00:24:19.047
- Created to live stuck or settling
- 00:24:19.114 --> 00:24:20.248
- Stuck or settling for less than
- 00:24:20.315 --> 00:24:20.916
- For less than god's best.
- 00:24:20.982 --> 00:24:22.083
- God's best. break destructive
- 00:24:22.150 --> 00:24:23.385
- Break destructive mindsets with god's word
- 00:24:23.451 --> 00:24:25.554
- Mindsets with god's word and move from just
- 00:24:25.620 --> 00:24:26.655
- And move from just surviving to thriving
- 00:24:26.721 --> 00:24:28.423
- Surviving to thriving with "getting unstuck."
- 00:24:28.490 --> 00:24:30.292
- >> announcer: being stuck
- 00:24:31.459 --> 00:24:32.060
- >> announcer: being stuck isn't a life sentence.
- 00:24:32.127 --> 00:24:33.395
- Isn't a life sentence. it's a signal that something
- 00:24:33.461 --> 00:24:34.596
- It's a signal that something deeper is waiting for you.
- 00:24:34.663 --> 00:24:36.331
- Deeper is waiting for you. when you request
- 00:24:36.398 --> 00:24:37.399
- When you request your copy of,
- 00:24:37.465 --> 00:24:37.866
- Your copy of, "getting unstuck,"
- 00:24:37.933 --> 00:24:38.600
- "getting unstuck," you'll also receive
- 00:24:38.667 --> 00:24:40.201
- You'll also receive joyce's book,
- 00:24:40.268 --> 00:24:40.869
- Joyce's book, "power words:
- 00:24:40.936 --> 00:24:41.570
- "power words: what you can
- 00:24:41.636 --> 00:24:42.637
- What you can say can change
- 00:24:42.704 --> 00:24:43.071
- Say can change your life,"
- 00:24:43.138 --> 00:24:43.972
- Your life," a handy little book
- 00:24:44.039 --> 00:24:44.806
- A handy little book that can make a world
- 00:24:44.873 --> 00:24:46.541
- That can make a world of difference
- 00:24:46.608 --> 00:24:47.108
- Of difference in our attitude, joy,
- 00:24:47.175 --> 00:24:48.610
- In our attitude, joy, and even success.
- 00:24:48.677 --> 00:24:49.978
- And even success. available today for
- 00:24:50.045 --> 00:24:51.713
- Available today for your gift of any amount.
- 00:24:51.780 --> 00:24:52.914
- Your gift of any amount. for...
- 00:24:52.981 --> 00:24:53.815
- For... or more,
- 00:24:53.882 --> 00:24:54.950
- Or more, you'll receive this
- 00:24:55.016 --> 00:24:55.784
- You'll receive this "battlefield of the mind
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- "battlefield of the mind journal,"
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- Journal," a valuable study tool
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- A valuable study tool to record life's
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- To record life's progress and capture
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- Progress and capture god's promises.
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- >> ginger: god designed
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- >> ginger: god designed you to move forward
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- You to move forward with courage,
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- With courage, confidence
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- Confidence and unshakable faith.
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- And unshakable faith. break through
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- Break through the muck and reroute
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- The muck and reroute your destination
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- Your destination toward a renewed mind
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- Toward a renewed mind and real transformation
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- And real transformation with, "getting unstuck."
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- With, "getting unstuck." and remember,
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- And remember, your contribution
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- Your contribution allows us to share
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- Allows us to share the gospel
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- The gospel and god's love around
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- And god's love around the world through
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- The world through our hand of hope
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- Our hand of hope outreaches.
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- Outreaches. together,
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- Together, we're making
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- We're making a difference in many,
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- A difference in many, many lives.
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- Many lives. >> announcer: enjoy
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- >> announcer: enjoy "getting unstuck"
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- "getting unstuck" and "power words"
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- >> announcer: our stories,
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- >> announcer: our stories, they matter.
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- They matter. your gifts, your passions,
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- Your gifts, your passions, even your quirkiness,
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- Even your quirkiness, they were designed
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- They were designed with intention.
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- With intention. he can use every twist
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- He can use every twist and turn of your journey
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- And turn of your journey to create something new.
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- To create something new. out of brokenness, beauty.
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- Out of brokenness, beauty. out of struggle,
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- >> announcer: 3, 2, 1.
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- >> [♪♪]
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- >> announcer: we hope you
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- >> announcer: we hope you enjoyed today's program.
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- Enjoyed today's program. we are so grateful
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- We are so grateful to our joyce meyer
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- To our joyce meyer ministries partners
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- Ministries partners who make this
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- Who make this and all we do possible,
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- And all we do possible, including sharing
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- To people in need all over the world.
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