Joyce Meyer - The Greatest Change of All (Part 1)

May 15, 2025 | S25:E17

Are you ready to make a change in your life? Today, Joyce discusses what it takes to see positive change happen in your life.

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Joyce Meyer: Enjoying Everyday Life | Joyce Meyer - The Greatest Change of All (Part 1) | May 15, 2025
  • >> joyce: the bible tells you
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  • >> joyce: the bible tells you who you are and what you are,
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  • >> joyce: the bible tells you who you are and what you are, but you gotta believe it.
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  • Who you are and what you are, but you gotta believe it. and the message that i want
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  • But you gotta believe it. and the message that i want you to get tonight is you got
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  • And the message that i want you to get tonight is you got to believe it before you see it.
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  • >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer,
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  • >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer, and i believe that god can heal
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  • >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer, and i believe that god can heal you everywhere you hurt.
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  • >> joyce: the greatest change
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  • >> joyce: the greatest change of all is what i'm goin'
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  • >> joyce: the greatest change of all is what i'm goin' to teach on tonight.
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  • Of all is what i'm goin' to teach on tonight. and you know,
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  • To teach on tonight. and you know, the greatest change of all,
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  • And you know, the greatest change of all, is the change that
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  • The greatest change of all, is the change that god makes in us.
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  • Is the change that god makes in us. how many of you can say that
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  • Since you've received jesus,
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  • Since you've received jesus, you have changed?
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  • Since you've received jesus, you have changed? >> [audience applauding]
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  • You have changed? >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: how many of you,
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: how many of you, like me, still have a ways
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  • >> joyce: how many of you, like me, still have a ways to go?
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  • Like me, still have a ways to go? amen.
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  • To go? amen. well, you know what?
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  • Amen. well, you know what? we will be changing until
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  • Well, you know what? we will be changing until jesus comes back to get us.
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  • We will be changing until jesus comes back to get us. so, if you're not perfected yet,
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  • Jesus comes back to get us. so, if you're not perfected yet, don't get depressed about that.
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  • Paul said, "i'm pressing toward
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  • Paul said, "i'm pressing toward the mark of perfection,
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  • Paul said, "i'm pressing toward the mark of perfection, but i have not arrived.
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  • The mark of perfection, but i have not arrived. but one thing i do--"
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  • But i have not arrived. but one thing i do--" and this is important, "letting
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  • But one thing i do--" and this is important, "letting go of what lies behind--"
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  • And this is important, "letting go of what lies behind--" and he meant letting go
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  • Go of what lies behind--" and he meant letting go of every mistake that he made,
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  • And he meant letting go of every mistake that he made, whether it was 20 years ago,
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  • Of every mistake that he made, whether it was 20 years ago, or yesterday, you can't make
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  • Progress if you feel guilty
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  • Progress if you feel guilty all the time about every
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  • Progress if you feel guilty all the time about every little mistake that you make.
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  • All the time about every little mistake that you make. i said you cannot make progress
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  • Little mistake that you make. i said you cannot make progress if you're dragging around a sack
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  • I said you cannot make progress if you're dragging around a sack of guilt with you all the time.
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  • If you're dragging around a sack of guilt with you all the time. jesus paid for our sins.
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  • Of guilt with you all the time. jesus paid for our sins. he took the guilt
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  • Jesus paid for our sins. he took the guilt and the condemnation.
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  • He took the guilt and the condemnation. you repent.
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  • And the condemnation. you repent. you confess.
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  • You repent. you confess. and you let it go.
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  • You confess. and you let it go. and then you press toward
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  • And you let it go. and then you press toward the things that are ahead.
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  • And then you press toward the things that are ahead. we keep pressing.
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  • The things that are ahead. we keep pressing. we keep pressing toward
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  • We keep pressing. we keep pressing toward the things that are ahead.
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  • We keep pressing toward the things that are ahead. i've not arrived.
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  • The things that are ahead. i've not arrived. dave and i have been married
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  • I've not arrived. dave and i have been married 46 years--i mean, 56 years.
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  • Dave and i have been married 46 years--i mean, 56 years. >> [audience laughing]
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  • 46 years--i mean, 56 years. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: fifty-six years.
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  • But i think he's been
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  • But i think he's been married to at least 20,
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  • But i think he's been married to at least 20, maybe 25 different women.
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  • Married to at least 20, maybe 25 different women. >> [audience laughing]
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  • Maybe 25 different women. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: because i keep
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: because i keep changing all the time.
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  • >> joyce: because i keep changing all the time. and just about the time he gets
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  • Changing all the time. and just about the time he gets used to one version of me,
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  • And just about the time he gets used to one version of me, then god does something else
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  • Used to one version of me, then god does something else in my life, and he's gotta get
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  • Then god does something else in my life, and he's gotta get used to a better version of me.
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  • In my life, and he's gotta get used to a better version of me. poor dave,
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  • Used to a better version of me. poor dave, he wanted to get married.
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  • Poor dave, he wanted to get married. he was 26.
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  • He wanted to get married. he was 26. and he was ready to get married.
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  • He was 26. and he was ready to get married. and he prayed that god would
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  • And he was ready to get married. and he prayed that god would give him a wife, and he said,
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  • And he prayed that god would give him a wife, and he said, "make it somebody
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  • Give him a wife, and he said, "make it somebody that needs help."
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  • "make it somebody that needs help." >> [audience laughing]
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  • That needs help." >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: boy, you better
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: boy, you better be careful what you pray.
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  • >> joyce: boy, you better be careful what you pray. we had five dates
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  • Be careful what you pray. we had five dates and got married.
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  • We had five dates and got married. i always say he had to marry
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  • And got married. i always say he had to marry me before he found out
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  • I always say he had to marry me before he found out what he was getting.
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  • Me before he found out what he was getting. and after we'd been
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  • What he was getting. and after we'd been married three weeks,
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  • And after we'd been married three weeks, he looked at me and he said,
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  • Married three weeks, he looked at me and he said, "what's wrong with you?"
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  • He looked at me and he said, "what's wrong with you?" >> [audience laughing]
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  • "what's wrong with you?" >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: oh, i was a mess.
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: oh, i was a mess. i looked okay on the outside,
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  • >> joyce: oh, i was a mess. i looked okay on the outside, but i was a mess in my soul.
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  • I looked okay on the outside, but i was a mess in my soul. how many of you know it's your
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  • But i was a mess in my soul. how many of you know it's your soul that needs to be healed?
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  • How many of you know it's your soul that needs to be healed? even after jesus
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  • Soul that needs to be healed? even after jesus comes into your spirit,
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  • Even after jesus comes into your spirit, when you're born again,
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  • Comes into your spirit, when you're born again, he comes into your spirit.
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  • When you're born again, he comes into your spirit. and everything is made
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  • He comes into your spirit. and everything is made perfect there.
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  • And everything is made perfect there. i mean, the bible
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  • Perfect there. i mean, the bible says you're holy.
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  • I mean, the bible says you're holy. all good things, you got
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  • Says you're holy. all good things, you got all the fruit of the spirit.
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  • All good things, you got all the fruit of the spirit. everything good is in there,
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  • All the fruit of the spirit. everything good is in there, it's in you.
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  • Everything good is in there, it's in you. you're not waiting to get it,
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  • It's in you. you're not waiting to get it, you've got it, it's in you.
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  • You're not waiting to get it, you've got it, it's in you. everybody say, "i've got it."
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  • You've got it, it's in you. everybody say, "i've got it." >> audience: i've got it.
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  • Everybody say, "i've got it." >> audience: i've got it. >> joyce: you say,
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  • >> audience: i've got it. >> joyce: you say, "well, if i've got it,
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  • >> joyce: you say, "well, if i've got it, then why don't i act like it?"
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  • "well, if i've got it, then why don't i act like it?" well, the holy spirit has
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  • Then why don't i act like it?" well, the holy spirit has to work this process
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  • Well, the holy spirit has to work this process in us of getting what's
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  • To work this process in us of getting what's in our spirit into our soul.
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  • In us of getting what's in our spirit into our soul. your mind has to be renewed.
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  • In our spirit into our soul. your mind has to be renewed. you've got to change your mind.
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  • Your mind has to be renewed. you've got to change your mind. we're gonna talk about
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  • You've got to change your mind. we're gonna talk about that tomorrow morning.
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  • We're gonna talk about that tomorrow morning. you don't need any help
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  • That tomorrow morning. you don't need any help with your mind, do you?
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  • You don't need any help with your mind, do you? your thoughts?
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  • With your mind, do you? your thoughts? never have any problems
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  • Your thoughts? never have any problems with your thoughts?
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  • Never have any problems with your thoughts? okay.
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  • With your thoughts? okay. you've gotta change
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  • Okay. you've gotta change the way you talk.
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  • You've gotta change the way you talk. if you ever want to have
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  • The way you talk. if you ever want to have what jesus died to give you,
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  • If you ever want to have what jesus died to give you, you have to change
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  • What jesus died to give you, you have to change the way you talk.
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  • You have to change the way you talk. you've got to learn
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  • The way you talk. you've got to learn to say what the word says,
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  • You've got to learn to say what the word says, not what you feel
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  • To say what the word says, not what you feel and what you think.
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  • Not what you feel and what you think. and then, as our soul is healed,
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  • And what you think. and then, as our soul is healed, as our mind is renewed,
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  • And then, as our soul is healed, as our mind is renewed, and our soul is healed,
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  • As our mind is renewed, and our soul is healed, and we learn how to use
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  • And our soul is healed, and we learn how to use our will to choose god's will--
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  • And we learn how to use our will to choose god's will-- god's given us free will.
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  • Our will to choose god's will-- god's given us free will. and you know, i mean,
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  • God's given us free will. and you know, i mean, some people say today,
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  • And you know, i mean, some people say today, "well, i don't believe
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  • Some people say today, "well, i don't believe there's a hell.
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  • "well, i don't believe there's a hell. i don't believe a loving god
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  • There's a hell. i don't believe a loving god would send you to hell."
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  • I don't believe a loving god would send you to hell." well, god doesn't send
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  • Would send you to hell." well, god doesn't send anybody to hell.
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  • Well, god doesn't send anybody to hell. they choose to go there by not
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  • Anybody to hell. they choose to go there by not doing what he tells 'em to do.
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  • They choose to go there by not doing what he tells 'em to do. >> [audience applauding]
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  • Doing what he tells 'em to do. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and hell is real.
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and hell is real. and heaven is real.
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  • >> joyce: and hell is real. and heaven is real. and the devil's real.
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  • And heaven is real. and the devil's real. and angels are real.
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  • And the devil's real. and angels are real. and evil is real.
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  • And angels are real. and evil is real. and good is real.
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  • And we get to choose.
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  • And we get to choose. "i set before you life
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  • And we get to choose. "i set before you life and death, choose life that
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  • "i set before you life and death, choose life that you and your descendants--"
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  • And death, choose life that you and your descendants--" every good decision you make
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  • You and your descendants--" every good decision you make affects your descendants,
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  • Every good decision you make affects your descendants, and every bad decision you
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  • Affects your descendants, and every bad decision you make affects your descendants.
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  • We have four wonderful
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  • We have four wonderful children and twelve wonderful
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  • We have four wonderful children and twelve wonderful grandchildren and six wonderful
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  • Children and twelve wonderful grandchildren and six wonderful great-grandchildren.
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  • Grandchildren and six wonderful great-grandchildren. they're all serving god.
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  • Great-grandchildren. they're all serving god. but it started with
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  • They're all serving god. but it started with the decisions that
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  • But it started with the decisions that dave and i made.
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  • The decisions that dave and i made. and the decisions that dave
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  • Dave and i made. and the decisions that dave made started with the decisions
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  • And the decisions that dave made started with the decisions that his mother made.
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  • His father was an alcoholic,
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  • His father was an alcoholic, but his mother was
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  • His father was an alcoholic, but his mother was a godly woman.
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  • But his mother was a godly woman. so, let me tell you,
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  • A godly woman. so, let me tell you, even if you're married
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  • So, let me tell you, even if you're married to somebody that is not
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  • Even if you're married to somebody that is not living a godly life,
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  • To somebody that is not living a godly life, if you live a godly life
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  • Living a godly life, if you live a godly life in front of your children,
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  • If you live a godly life in front of your children, you can have an effect on them.
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  • In front of your children, you can have an effect on them. >> [audience applauding]
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  • You can have an effect on them. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: amen?
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: amen? whatever kind of mess
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  • >> joyce: amen? whatever kind of mess the last generation gave you,
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  • Whatever kind of mess the last generation gave you, you don't have to give
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  • The last generation gave you, you don't have to give it to the next generation.
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  • You don't have to give it to the next generation. >> [audience cheering]
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  • It to the next generation. >> [audience cheering] >> joyce: amen?
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  • >> [audience cheering] >> joyce: amen? and so, we're always
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  • >> joyce: amen? and so, we're always wanting to see miracles.
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  • "oh, i'd love to see
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  • "oh, i'd love to see the blind see, and i'd love
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  • "oh, i'd love to see the blind see, and i'd love to see the lame walk."
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  • The blind see, and i'd love to see the lame walk." and you know what i've decided?
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  • To see the lame walk." and you know what i've decided? i believe the greatest miracle
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  • And you know what i've decided? i believe the greatest miracle of all is to see a messed-up
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  • I believe the greatest miracle of all is to see a messed-up person completely
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  • Of all is to see a messed-up person completely healed and made whole
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  • Person completely healed and made whole by the grace of god.
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  • Healed and made whole by the grace of god. >> [audience applauding]
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  • By the grace of god. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: we see miracles
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: we see miracles all the time and we don't
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  • >> joyce: we see miracles all the time and we don't make enough out of it.
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  • All the time and we don't make enough out of it. let me tell you something.
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  • Make enough out of it. let me tell you something. if god--every change that
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  • Let me tell you something. if god--every change that god makes in you, you need
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  • If god--every change that god makes in you, you need to take the time to celebrate
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  • God makes in you, you need to take the time to celebrate it instead of moaning about
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  • To take the time to celebrate it instead of moaning about all the things that's still
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  • It instead of moaning about all the things that's still wrong with you.
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  • All the things that's still wrong with you. let me tell you a few
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  • Wrong with you. let me tell you a few of the things that
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  • Let me tell you a few of the things that were wrong with me.
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  • Of the things that were wrong with me. [laughing]
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  • Were wrong with me. [laughing] >> [audience laughing]
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  • [laughing] >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i ran out of paper,
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i ran out of paper, by the way, so.
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  • >> joyce: i ran out of paper, by the way, so. >> [audience laughing]
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  • >> joyce: 2 corinthians 5:17
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  • >> joyce: 2 corinthians 5:17 says, "if any person--"
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  • >> joyce: 2 corinthians 5:17 says, "if any person--" so, we all fit into that,
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  • Says, "if any person--" so, we all fit into that, "if any person is in christ,
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  • So, we all fit into that, "if any person is in christ, he is--" is, not will be,
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  • "if any person is in christ, he is--" is, not will be, "is a new creation
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  • He is--" is, not will be, "is a new creation (a new creature altogether);
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  • "is a new creation (a new creature altogether); the old [previous moral
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  • (a new creature altogether); the old [previous moral and spiritual condition] has--"
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  • The old [previous moral and spiritual condition] has--" not, will.
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  • And spiritual condition] has--" not, will. "has--"
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  • Not, will. "has--" we need to pay attention
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  • "has--" we need to pay attention to these words.
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  • The bible tells you who
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  • The bible tells you who you are and what you are,
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  • The bible tells you who you are and what you are, but you've gotta believe it.
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  • You are and what you are, but you've gotta believe it. and the message that i want you
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  • But you've gotta believe it. and the message that i want you to get tonight is you've gotta
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  • And the message that i want you to get tonight is you've gotta believe it before you see it.
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  • To get tonight is you've gotta believe it before you see it. i'm gonna say that
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  • Believe it before you see it. i'm gonna say that over and over tonight.
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  • I'm gonna say that over and over tonight. and that's so hard
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  • Over and over tonight. and that's so hard for us to understand
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  • And that's so hard for us to understand because in the world
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  • For us to understand because in the world we're taught the opposite.
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  • Because in the world we're taught the opposite. but in god's kingdom economy,
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  • We're taught the opposite. but in god's kingdom economy, the way he does things,
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  • But in god's kingdom economy, the way he does things, you have to believe what
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  • The way he does things, you have to believe what he says before you will
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  • You have to believe what he says before you will see it in your life.
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  • "be it unto you even
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  • "be it unto you even as you believe."
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  • So, you say what god says,
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  • So, you say what god says, "i am a new creation.
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  • So, you say what god says, "i am a new creation. the old man has
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  • "i am a new creation. the old man has died with christ,
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  • The old man has died with christ, and i'm a new creature."
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  • Died with christ, and i'm a new creature." and the devil's gonna
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  • And i'm a new creature." and the devil's gonna whisper in your ear,
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  • And the devil's gonna whisper in your ear, "well, yeah, then why
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  • Whisper in your ear, "well, yeah, then why do you act like such a jerk?"
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  • "well, yeah, then why do you act like such a jerk?" "well, because i have a flesh
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  • Do you act like such a jerk?" "well, because i have a flesh that is still being changed."
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  • "well, because i have a flesh that is still being changed." see, the reason why you feel
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  • That is still being changed." see, the reason why you feel such a war going on after
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  • See, the reason why you feel such a war going on after you're born again--
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  • Such a war going on after you're born again-- i mean, you know,
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  • You're born again-- i mean, you know, how many of you remember
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  • I mean, you know, how many of you remember things that you did before
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  • How many of you remember things that you did before you were saved that
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  • Things that you did before you were saved that didn't bother you at all,
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  • You were saved that didn't bother you at all, once you received jesus, now,
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  • Didn't bother you at all, once you received jesus, now, all of a sudden, you're like,
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  • Once you received jesus, now, all of a sudden, you're like, it bothers you when
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  • All of a sudden, you're like, it bothers you when you do things.
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  • It bothers you when you do things. and that's because
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  • You do things. and that's because you're like two people.
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  • And that's because you're like two people. you've got a new--
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  • You're like two people. you've got a new-- you're a new man,
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  • You've got a new-- you're a new man, but you're still draggin'
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  • You're a new man, but you're still draggin' the old man around with you.
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  • But you're still draggin' the old man around with you. and he has to be--
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  • The old man around with you. and he has to be-- don't miss the word,
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  • And he has to be-- don't miss the word, "crucified."
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  • Don't miss the word, "crucified." so, dave prayed for
  • 00:09:32.495 --> 00:09:33.696
  • "crucified." so, dave prayed for somebody that needed help,
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  • So, dave prayed for somebody that needed help, and i was--
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  • Somebody that needed help, and i was-- i worried all the time.
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  • And i was-- i worried all the time. i was impatient.
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  • I worried all the time. i was impatient. i wanted to control everything.
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  • I was impatient. i wanted to control everything. i got mad when
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  • I wanted to control everything. i got mad when i didn't get my way.
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  • I got mad when i didn't get my way. i was selfish.
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  • I didn't get my way. i was selfish. when i was writin'
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  • I was selfish. when i was writin' this book on "what about me,"
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  • When i was writin' this book on "what about me," and "dying to self,"
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  • This book on "what about me," and "dying to self," i kept getting these little
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  • And "dying to self," i kept getting these little indications from god.
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  • I kept getting these little indications from god. "well, why don't you make
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  • Indications from god. "well, why don't you make dave a cup of coffee?"
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  • "well, why don't you make dave a cup of coffee?" "offer to do this for dave,
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  • Dave a cup of coffee?" "offer to do this for dave, and offer to do that."
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  • "offer to do this for dave, and offer to do that." and dave's like,
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  • And offer to do that." and dave's like, "wow, what's going on?
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  • And dave's like, "wow, what's going on? this is great."
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  • "wow, what's going on? this is great." and i finally told him,
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  • This is great." and i finally told him, i said, "well, i'm writing
  • 00:10:08.064 --> 00:10:08.764
  • And i finally told him, i said, "well, i'm writing a book on selfishness."
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  • I said, "well, i'm writing a book on selfishness." >> [audience laughing]
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  • A book on selfishness." >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: so, i'm having
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: so, i'm having to live it out.
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  • >> joyce: so, i'm having to live it out. i'll be glad when
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  • To live it out. i'll be glad when this book's done.
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  • I'll be glad when this book's done. [laughing]
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  • This book's done. [laughing] >> [audience laughing]
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  • [laughing] >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i'll be glad
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i'll be glad when this is over.
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  • >> joyce: i'll be glad when this is over. >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:10:23.612 --> 00:10:30.086
  • When this is over. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: oh man, i was negative
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: oh man, i was negative and critical and judgmental
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  • >> joyce: oh man, i was negative and critical and judgmental and unforgiving and had
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  • And critical and judgmental and unforgiving and had a victim mentality and i was
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  • And unforgiving and had a victim mentality and i was jealous and ungrateful
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  • A victim mentality and i was jealous and ungrateful and made excuses for all my bad
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  • Jealous and ungrateful and made excuses for all my bad behavior and on, and on,
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  • And made excuses for all my bad behavior and on, and on, and on, and on, and on.
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  • Behavior and on, and on, and on, and on, and on. is there anybody in here
  • 00:10:42.498 --> 00:10:43.365
  • And on, and on, and on. is there anybody in here that was as bad as me?
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  • Is there anybody in here that was as bad as me? >> [audience laughing]
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  • >> joyce: all of us, really.
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  • >> joyce: all of us, really. well, some of these things god
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  • >> joyce: all of us, really. well, some of these things god has helped me to completely
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  • Well, some of these things god has helped me to completely overcome, but some of them
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  • I may be half of the way there.
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  • I may be half of the way there. so, you know, you just keep
  • 00:11:02.485 --> 00:11:04.487
  • I may be half of the way there. so, you know, you just keep pressing toward that place
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  • So, you know, you just keep pressing toward that place of perfection that paul
  • 00:11:09.391 --> 00:11:10.493
  • Pressing toward that place of perfection that paul talked about.
  • 00:11:10.559 --> 00:11:11.360
  • Of perfection that paul talked about. but in the meantime,
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  • Talked about. but in the meantime, you don't, like,
  • 00:11:12.728 --> 00:11:15.464
  • But in the meantime, you don't, like, "what is wrong with me?"
  • 00:11:15.531 --> 00:11:18.768
  • You don't, like, "what is wrong with me?" there's no perfect
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  • "what is wrong with me?" there's no perfect people out there,
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  • There's no perfect people out there, not even the preachers.
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  • People out there, not even the preachers. they may not tell you
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  • Not even the preachers. they may not tell you about all their stuff,
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  • They may not tell you about all their stuff, but trust me, we got it.
  • 00:11:26.108 --> 00:11:30.045
  • About all their stuff, but trust me, we got it. we got stuff like
  • 00:11:30.112 --> 00:11:30.880
  • But trust me, we got it. we got stuff like everybody else does.
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  • We got stuff like everybody else does. god changes us on the inside
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  • Everybody else does. god changes us on the inside when we're born again,
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  • God changes us on the inside when we're born again, and we're equipped
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  • When we're born again, and we're equipped with everything we need
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  • And we're equipped with everything we need to live in a brand-new way.
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  • With everything we need to live in a brand-new way. listen to this.
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  • Ephesians 1:3: "praise
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  • Ephesians 1:3: "praise be to the god and father
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  • Ephesians 1:3: "praise be to the god and father of our lord jesus christ,
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  • Be to the god and father of our lord jesus christ, who has blessed
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  • Of our lord jesus christ, who has blessed us in the heavenly realm
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  • Who has blessed us in the heavenly realm with every spiritual
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  • Us in the heavenly realm with every spiritual blessing in christ."
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  • With every spiritual blessing in christ." it's already done.
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  • Blessing in christ." it's already done. can i tell you something?
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  • We are not waiting
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  • We are not waiting for jesus to do anything.
  • 00:12:02.978 --> 00:12:04.814
  • We are not waiting for jesus to do anything. he has already done
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  • For jesus to do anything. he has already done everything he's going to do.
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  • He has already done everything he's going to do. >> [audience applauding]
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  • Everything he's going to do. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: we're not waiting
  • 00:12:10.286 --> 00:12:11.554
  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: we're not waiting on god; he's waiting
  • 00:12:11.620 --> 00:12:12.388
  • >> joyce: we're not waiting on god; he's waiting on us to believe it.
  • 00:12:12.454 --> 00:12:15.658
  • On god; he's waiting on us to believe it. but you've gotta believe
  • 00:12:15.724 --> 00:12:16.458
  • On us to believe it. but you've gotta believe it before you see it.
  • 00:12:16.525 --> 00:12:19.361
  • But you've gotta believe it before you see it. and i think you also
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  • It before you see it. and i think you also need to confess it.
  • 00:12:20.729 --> 00:12:24.366
  • And i think you also need to confess it. that was one of the greatest
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  • Need to confess it. that was one of the greatest lessons in my life.
  • 00:12:25.401 --> 00:12:26.635
  • That was one of the greatest lessons in my life. god taught me to confess
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  • Lessons in my life. god taught me to confess his word before i ever
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  • God taught me to confess his word before i ever heard a sermon on it.
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  • His word before i ever heard a sermon on it. the holy spirit taught me that.
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  • Heard a sermon on it. the holy spirit taught me that. i was a very negative person,
  • 00:12:34.643 --> 00:12:36.145
  • The holy spirit taught me that. i was a very negative person, and i was always saying
  • 00:12:36.212 --> 00:12:37.179
  • I was a very negative person, and i was always saying negative stuff, and god started
  • 00:12:37.246 --> 00:12:38.881
  • And i was always saying negative stuff, and god started dealing with me about that.
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  • Negative stuff, and god started dealing with me about that. and so, i stopped saying
  • 00:12:41.116 --> 00:12:43.052
  • Dealing with me about that. and so, i stopped saying negative things, and i thought
  • 00:12:43.118 --> 00:12:44.486
  • And so, i stopped saying negative things, and i thought i was really doing good.
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  • Negative things, and i thought i was really doing good. but after six months,
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  • I was really doing good. but after six months, nothing had changed in my life,
  • 00:12:48.157 --> 00:12:49.758
  • But after six months, nothing had changed in my life, so i went to god, i said,
  • 00:12:49.825 --> 00:12:51.560
  • Nothing had changed in my life, so i went to god, i said, "well, i've--" you know,
  • 00:12:51.627 --> 00:12:52.361
  • So i went to god, i said, "well, i've--" you know, "i've been good, i haven't been
  • 00:12:52.428 --> 00:12:53.295
  • "well, i've--" you know, "i've been good, i haven't been saying negative things,
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  • "i've been good, i haven't been saying negative things, and nothing's changed."
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  • Saying negative things, and nothing's changed." he said, "you're not
  • 00:12:55.731 --> 00:12:56.365
  • And nothing's changed." he said, "you're not saying negative things,
  • 00:12:56.432 --> 00:12:57.366
  • He said, "you're not saying negative things, but you're not saying
  • 00:12:57.433 --> 00:12:58.100
  • Saying negative things, but you're not saying anything positive either."
  • 00:12:58.167 --> 00:13:00.970
  • But you're not saying anything positive either." so that was, i mean, that
  • 00:13:01.036 --> 00:13:02.071
  • Anything positive either." so that was, i mean, that was really how god taught
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  • So that was, i mean, that was really how god taught me that it's not about just
  • 00:13:03.339 --> 00:13:04.707
  • Was really how god taught me that it's not about just not doing the wrong thing.
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  • Me that it's not about just not doing the wrong thing. come on, now, get this.
  • 00:13:07.409 --> 00:13:08.377
  • Not doing the wrong thing. come on, now, get this. we have to do the right thing.
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  • What did jesus say?
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  • What did jesus say? "if you cast out a devil
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  • What did jesus say? "if you cast out a devil and you leave the place
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  • "if you cast out a devil and you leave the place empty and swept clean,
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  • And you leave the place empty and swept clean, it'll bring seven more
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  • Empty and swept clean, it'll bring seven more worse than the one."
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  • It'll bring seven more worse than the one." you can't have an empty space.
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  • Worse than the one." you can't have an empty space. you've gotta fill it up with
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  • The good things.
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  • The good things. and if your mind is
  • 00:13:29.431 --> 00:13:30.532
  • The good things. and if your mind is full of good things,
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  • And if your mind is full of good things, then there's no place
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  • Full of good things, then there's no place for bad thoughts to get in.
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  • Then there's no place for bad thoughts to get in. we can't just,
  • 00:13:34.870 --> 00:13:35.704
  • For bad thoughts to get in. we can't just, "i'm gonna really work
  • 00:13:35.771 --> 00:13:36.705
  • We can't just, "i'm gonna really work on not thinkin' bad thoughts."
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  • "i'm gonna really work on not thinkin' bad thoughts." no, you don't need to even work
  • 00:13:39.208 --> 00:13:40.376
  • On not thinkin' bad thoughts." no, you don't need to even work on not thinking bad thoughts.
  • 00:13:40.442 --> 00:13:41.944
  • No, you don't need to even work on not thinking bad thoughts. you just need to start
  • 00:13:42.011 --> 00:13:42.678
  • On not thinking bad thoughts. you just need to start thinking good thoughts.
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  • You just need to start thinking good thoughts. >> [audience applauding]
  • 00:13:46.315 --> 00:13:49.018
  • Thinking good thoughts. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: we're always
  • 00:13:49.084 --> 00:13:50.019
  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: we're always working on something.
  • 00:13:50.085 --> 00:13:51.787
  • >> joyce: we're always working on something. and jesus has already done
  • 00:13:51.854 --> 00:13:52.888
  • Working on something. and jesus has already done all the work that needs
  • 00:13:52.955 --> 00:13:54.189
  • And jesus has already done all the work that needs to be done.
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  • All the work that needs to be done. let's talk about the word "try."
  • 00:13:54.890 --> 00:13:57.593
  • To be done. let's talk about the word "try." oh, dear me.
  • 00:13:57.660 --> 00:13:59.295
  • Let's talk about the word "try." oh, dear me. i tried till i almost died.
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  • Oh, dear me. i tried till i almost died. >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:14:00.763 --> 00:14:03.165
  • I tried till i almost died. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i mean, i tried
  • 00:14:03.232 --> 00:14:05.067
  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i mean, i tried to be good, and i tried
  • 00:14:05.134 --> 00:14:06.235
  • >> joyce: i mean, i tried to be good, and i tried to be quiet, and i, you know,
  • 00:14:06.302 --> 00:14:08.137
  • To be good, and i tried to be quiet, and i, you know, i tried, and i tried,
  • 00:14:08.203 --> 00:14:09.238
  • To be quiet, and i, you know, i tried, and i tried, and i tried, and i tried.
  • 00:14:09.305 --> 00:14:10.739
  • I tried, and i tried, and i tried, and i tried. you say, "well, aren't
  • 00:14:10.806 --> 00:14:11.373
  • And i tried, and i tried. you say, "well, aren't we supposed to try?"
  • 00:14:11.440 --> 00:14:12.308
  • You say, "well, aren't we supposed to try?" well, yes and no.
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  • We supposed to try?" well, yes and no. you don't try in the flesh.
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  • The effort we make
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  • The effort we make must be a holy ghost-led
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  • The effort we make must be a holy ghost-led and infused effort.
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  • If it's not something that
  • 00:14:29.458 --> 00:14:32.194
  • If it's not something that the holy spirit is leading you
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  • To do, then it's not gonna work.
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  • Amen?
  • 00:14:37.800 --> 00:14:38.334
  • Amen? >> audience: amen.
  • 00:14:38.400 --> 00:14:39.468
  • Amen? >> audience: amen. >> joyce: we had somebody
  • 00:14:39.535 --> 00:14:40.436
  • >> audience: amen. >> joyce: we had somebody come through the church
  • 00:14:40.502 --> 00:14:41.070
  • >> joyce: we had somebody come through the church and they had a read the bible
  • 00:14:41.136 --> 00:14:42.338
  • Come through the church and they had a read the bible through in a year plan.
  • 00:14:42.404 --> 00:14:44.740
  • And they had a read the bible through in a year plan. and the pastor said,
  • 00:14:44.807 --> 00:14:46.041
  • Through in a year plan. and the pastor said, "okay, we're all gonna read
  • 00:14:46.108 --> 00:14:46.942
  • And the pastor said, "okay, we're all gonna read the bible through in a year."
  • 00:14:47.009 --> 00:14:48.744
  • "okay, we're all gonna read the bible through in a year." "okay."
  • 00:14:48.811 --> 00:14:49.678
  • The bible through in a year." "okay." we all got a calendar.
  • 00:14:49.745 --> 00:14:50.980
  • "okay." we all got a calendar. you got a place
  • 00:14:51.046 --> 00:14:51.847
  • We all got a calendar. you got a place to check mark off,
  • 00:14:51.914 --> 00:14:53.048
  • You got a place to check mark off, you know, what you read.
  • 00:14:53.115 --> 00:14:54.049
  • To check mark off, you know, what you read. if you read six chapters a day,
  • 00:14:54.116 --> 00:14:55.851
  • You know, what you read. if you read six chapters a day, you got through it in a year:
  • 00:14:55.918 --> 00:14:57.219
  • If you read six chapters a day, you got through it in a year: two in the old testament,
  • 00:14:57.286 --> 00:14:58.554
  • You got through it in a year: two in the old testament, two in the new,
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  • Two in the old testament, two in the new, one in proverbs,
  • 00:14:59.421 --> 00:14:59.955
  • Two in the new, one in proverbs, and one in psalms.
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  • One in proverbs, and one in psalms. got it.
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  • And one in psalms. got it. went home, went to work.
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  • Got it. went home, went to work. put the calendar
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  • Went home, went to work. put the calendar on the refrigerator.
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  • Put the calendar on the refrigerator. as long as i was getting
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  • On the refrigerator. as long as i was getting check marks, i'd walk by there,
  • 00:15:08.063 --> 00:15:09.798
  • As long as i was getting check marks, i'd walk by there, and i'd feel so good.
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  • Check marks, i'd walk by there, and i'd feel so good. >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:15:11.100 --> 00:15:12.468
  • And i'd feel so good. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i put it on that
  • 00:15:12.534 --> 00:15:13.502
  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i put it on that refrigerator because
  • 00:15:13.569 --> 00:15:15.037
  • >> joyce: i put it on that refrigerator because i wanted people,
  • 00:15:15.104 --> 00:15:15.704
  • Refrigerator because i wanted people, when they came in,
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  • I wanted people, when they came in, to ask me what it was.
  • 00:15:16.438 --> 00:15:17.639
  • When they came in, to ask me what it was. >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:15:17.706 --> 00:15:18.540
  • To ask me what it was. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: "oh, i'm reading
  • 00:15:18.607 --> 00:15:19.375
  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: "oh, i'm reading the bible--the whole bible
  • 00:15:19.441 --> 00:15:21.076
  • >> joyce: "oh, i'm reading the bible--the whole bible through this year."
  • 00:15:21.143 --> 00:15:21.710
  • The bible--the whole bible through this year." "oh, wow."
  • 00:15:21.777 --> 00:15:22.378
  • Through this year." "oh, wow." >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:15:22.444 --> 00:15:27.983
  • "oh, wow." >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and i was all right,
  • 00:15:28.050 --> 00:15:29.018
  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and i was all right, 'cause, see, i was tryin'!
  • 00:15:29.084 --> 00:15:33.288
  • >> joyce: and i was all right, 'cause, see, i was tryin'! but then all of a sudden,
  • 00:15:33.355 --> 00:15:34.189
  • 'cause, see, i was tryin'! but then all of a sudden, i started getting these
  • 00:15:34.256 --> 00:15:35.224
  • But then all of a sudden, i started getting these gaping holes in my calendar
  • 00:15:35.290 --> 00:15:40.062
  • I started getting these gaping holes in my calendar because you can only
  • 00:15:40.129 --> 00:15:40.929
  • Gaping holes in my calendar because you can only try until you get worn out.
  • 00:15:40.996 --> 00:15:44.900
  • Because you can only try until you get worn out. and then, when you
  • 00:15:44.967 --> 00:15:45.534
  • Try until you get worn out. and then, when you run out of yourself,
  • 00:15:45.601 --> 00:15:48.504
  • And then, when you run out of yourself, if you don't have god there,
  • 00:15:48.570 --> 00:15:49.605
  • Run out of yourself, if you don't have god there, you are in big trouble.
  • 00:15:49.671 --> 00:15:52.141
  • Well, i didn't start
  • 00:15:52.741 --> 00:15:53.509
  • Well, i didn't start trying to read the bible
  • 00:15:53.575 --> 00:15:54.410
  • Well, i didn't start trying to read the bible through in a year because
  • 00:15:54.476 --> 00:15:55.344
  • Trying to read the bible through in a year because the holy spirit led me to do it.
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  • Through in a year because the holy spirit led me to do it. you know why i started doing it?
  • 00:15:58.580 --> 00:15:59.915
  • The holy spirit led me to do it. you know why i started doing it? because when the pastor
  • 00:15:59.982 --> 00:16:00.916
  • You know why i started doing it? because when the pastor asked on sunday
  • 00:16:00.983 --> 00:16:01.717
  • Because when the pastor asked on sunday morning who was reading
  • 00:16:01.784 --> 00:16:03.152
  • Asked on sunday morning who was reading the bible through in a year,
  • 00:16:03.218 --> 00:16:04.019
  • Morning who was reading the bible through in a year, i didn't want to be the only
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  • The bible through in a year, i didn't want to be the only one that didn't raise my hand.
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  • I didn't want to be the only one that didn't raise my hand. >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:16:07.423 --> 00:16:08.957
  • One that didn't raise my hand. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: you know,
  • 00:16:09.024 --> 00:16:09.525
  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: you know, we need to ask ourselves
  • 00:16:09.591 --> 00:16:10.259
  • >> joyce: you know, we need to ask ourselves what our motives are
  • 00:16:10.325 --> 00:16:12.161
  • We need to ask ourselves what our motives are for what we're doing.
  • 00:16:12.227 --> 00:16:14.096
  • What our motives are for what we're doing. because if we're not doing
  • 00:16:14.163 --> 00:16:15.264
  • For what we're doing. because if we're not doing it because we feel led
  • 00:16:15.330 --> 00:16:16.565
  • Because if we're not doing it because we feel led of the spirit to do it, if we're
  • 00:16:16.632 --> 00:16:19.201
  • It because we feel led of the spirit to do it, if we're doing it as a man-pleaser
  • 00:16:19.268 --> 00:16:20.636
  • Of the spirit to do it, if we're doing it as a man-pleaser and not a god-pleaser,
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  • Doing it as a man-pleaser and not a god-pleaser, then it's not going to work.
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  • Amen?
  • 00:16:26.975 --> 00:16:27.709
  • Amen? >> audience: amen.
  • 00:16:27.776 --> 00:16:29.011
  • Amen? >> audience: amen. >> joyce: now, come on,
  • 00:16:29.078 --> 00:16:29.745
  • >> audience: amen. >> joyce: now, come on, i've been at this 45 years,
  • 00:16:29.812 --> 00:16:31.246
  • >> joyce: now, come on, i've been at this 45 years, so i'm downloading a whole
  • 00:16:31.313 --> 00:16:32.915
  • I've been at this 45 years, so i'm downloading a whole bunch of information on to you
  • 00:16:32.981 --> 00:16:34.783
  • So i'm downloading a whole bunch of information on to you in a short period of time.
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  • Bunch of information on to you in a short period of time. take notes, get it,
  • 00:16:38.687 --> 00:16:40.622
  • In a short period of time. take notes, get it, by the recorded version,
  • 00:16:40.689 --> 00:16:42.024
  • Take notes, get it, by the recorded version, or buy the book, or whatever,
  • 00:16:42.091 --> 00:16:43.392
  • By the recorded version, or buy the book, or whatever, but we've gotta
  • 00:16:43.459 --> 00:16:44.893
  • Or buy the book, or whatever, but we've gotta study this stuff.
  • 00:16:44.960 --> 00:16:47.129
  • But we've gotta study this stuff. amen?
  • 00:16:47.196 --> 00:16:47.729
  • Study this stuff. amen? >> audience: amen.
  • 00:16:47.796 --> 00:16:49.598
  • >> joyce: so, you don't
  • 00:16:50.265 --> 00:16:50.933
  • >> joyce: so, you don't try in the flesh,
  • 00:16:50.999 --> 00:16:53.569
  • >> joyce: so, you don't try in the flesh, but the bible does say
  • 00:16:53.635 --> 00:16:54.970
  • Try in the flesh, but the bible does say in 2 peter, it talks about
  • 00:16:55.037 --> 00:16:58.006
  • But the bible does say in 2 peter, it talks about all the things that god has
  • 00:16:58.073 --> 00:16:59.208
  • In 2 peter, it talks about all the things that god has done for us, and he says,
  • 00:16:59.274 --> 00:17:00.175
  • All the things that god has done for us, and he says, "now you add to it your
  • 00:17:00.242 --> 00:17:03.178
  • Done for us, and he says, "now you add to it your effort and your diligence,
  • 00:17:03.245 --> 00:17:06.281
  • "now you add to it your effort and your diligence, but it's gotta be a holy ghost
  • 00:17:06.348 --> 00:17:08.350
  • Effort and your diligence, but it's gotta be a holy ghost infused effort."
  • 00:17:08.417 --> 00:17:11.787
  • You see, i was trying
  • 00:17:11.854 --> 00:17:13.388
  • You see, i was trying to change myself,
  • 00:17:13.455 --> 00:17:14.756
  • You see, i was trying to change myself, and i was so frustrated
  • 00:17:14.823 --> 00:17:16.758
  • To change myself, and i was so frustrated because nothing was happening,
  • 00:17:16.825 --> 00:17:18.227
  • And i was so frustrated because nothing was happening, and i didn't understand it.
  • 00:17:18.293 --> 00:17:21.363
  • Because nothing was happening, and i didn't understand it. how many of you have
  • 00:17:21.430 --> 00:17:22.097
  • And i didn't understand it. how many of you have ever been there?
  • 00:17:22.164 --> 00:17:22.731
  • How many of you have ever been there? "well, god, i'm tryin',
  • 00:17:22.798 --> 00:17:24.533
  • Ever been there? "well, god, i'm tryin', i'm tryin', i'm tryin'."
  • 00:17:24.600 --> 00:17:28.770
  • "well, god, i'm tryin', i'm tryin', i'm tryin'." and then every once in a while,
  • 00:17:28.837 --> 00:17:29.838
  • I'm tryin', i'm tryin'." and then every once in a while, "i just give up."
  • 00:17:29.905 --> 00:17:33.308
  • And then every once in a while, "i just give up." then we cry and think god's
  • 00:17:33.375 --> 00:17:34.510
  • "i just give up." then we cry and think god's gonna feel sorry for us,
  • 00:17:34.576 --> 00:17:35.744
  • Then we cry and think god's gonna feel sorry for us, and he's not.
  • 00:17:35.811 --> 00:17:36.411
  • Gonna feel sorry for us, and he's not. >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:17:36.478 --> 00:17:38.981
  • >> joyce: and finally,
  • 00:17:39.448 --> 00:17:39.982
  • >> joyce: and finally, you find out that you
  • 00:17:40.048 --> 00:17:41.683
  • >> joyce: and finally, you find out that you can't change yourself,
  • 00:17:41.750 --> 00:17:42.684
  • You find out that you can't change yourself, that only god can change you.
  • 00:17:42.751 --> 00:17:45.521
  • Can't change yourself, that only god can change you. because he says, "apart from me,
  • 00:17:45.587 --> 00:17:46.889
  • That only god can change you. because he says, "apart from me, you can do nothing."
  • 00:17:46.955 --> 00:17:48.090
  • Because he says, "apart from me, you can do nothing." so, the thing i was leaving
  • 00:17:48.157 --> 00:17:49.892
  • You can do nothing." so, the thing i was leaving out is i would hear a sermon
  • 00:17:49.958 --> 00:17:51.960
  • Maybe on sunday morning
  • 00:17:52.027 --> 00:17:53.695
  • Maybe on sunday morning about your mouth,
  • 00:17:53.762 --> 00:17:56.431
  • Maybe on sunday morning about your mouth, and i knew that i had
  • 00:17:56.498 --> 00:17:57.499
  • About your mouth, and i knew that i had a big mouth that got
  • 00:17:57.566 --> 00:17:58.367
  • And i knew that i had a big mouth that got me in trouble all the time,
  • 00:17:58.433 --> 00:17:59.301
  • A big mouth that got me in trouble all the time, so, i would go home,
  • 00:17:59.368 --> 00:18:02.104
  • Me in trouble all the time, so, i would go home, and i would make my plan
  • 00:18:02.171 --> 00:18:04.173
  • So, i would go home, and i would make my plan of how i'm going to keep
  • 00:18:04.239 --> 00:18:05.607
  • And i would make my plan of how i'm going to keep my mouth shut.
  • 00:18:05.674 --> 00:18:08.177
  • Of how i'm going to keep my mouth shut. and so, my plan was
  • 00:18:08.243 --> 00:18:09.878
  • My mouth shut. and so, my plan was then to go from saying
  • 00:18:09.945 --> 00:18:12.247
  • And so, my plan was then to go from saying all kinds of wrong
  • 00:18:12.314 --> 00:18:13.182
  • Then to go from saying all kinds of wrong things to saying nothing.
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  • All kinds of wrong things to saying nothing. "i'm just not gonna
  • 00:18:16.685 --> 00:18:17.419
  • Things to saying nothing. "i'm just not gonna talk at all."
  • 00:18:17.486 --> 00:18:18.053
  • "i'm just not gonna talk at all." >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:18:18.120 --> 00:18:20.589
  • Talk at all." >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: "just won't--
  • 00:18:20.656 --> 00:18:21.723
  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: "just won't-- won't say anything.
  • 00:18:21.790 --> 00:18:22.391
  • >> joyce: "just won't-- won't say anything. can't get in trouble
  • 00:18:22.457 --> 00:18:23.058
  • Won't say anything. can't get in trouble if you don't say anything."
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  • Can't get in trouble if you don't say anything." well, then, i would start
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  • If you don't say anything." well, then, i would start getting depressed.
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  • Well, then, i would start getting depressed. and i didn't understand that.
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  • Getting depressed. and i didn't understand that. "well, god, why am
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  • And i didn't understand that. "well, god, why am i getting depressed?
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  • "well, god, why am i getting depressed? i'm keeping my mouth shut."
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  • I getting depressed? i'm keeping my mouth shut." god said, "yeah,
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  • I'm keeping my mouth shut." god said, "yeah, but nothing's changed inside."
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  • God said, "yeah, but nothing's changed inside." so, now, you're just like
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  • But nothing's changed inside." so, now, you're just like a pressure cooker.
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  • So, now, you're just like a pressure cooker. you've got all this rotten
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  • A pressure cooker. you've got all this rotten stuff rolling around inside
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  • You've got all this rotten stuff rolling around inside and there's no valve
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  • Stuff rolling around inside and there's no valve to let it out.
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  • And there's no valve to let it out. how many of you understand that?
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  • It's not--
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  • It's not-- becoming a new creature
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  • It's not-- becoming a new creature in christ is not about
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  • Becoming a new creature in christ is not about behavior modification.
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  • In christ is not about behavior modification. it's about a heart change.
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  • Behavior modification. it's about a heart change. it's about letting god
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  • It's about a heart change. it's about letting god change your heart.
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  • It's about letting god change your heart. so then, you're doing the right
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  • Change your heart. so then, you're doing the right thing because you want
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  • To and you're doing
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  • To and you're doing it leaning on god because
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  • To and you're doing it leaning on god because you know that apart from
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  • It leaning on god because you know that apart from him you can do nothing.
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  • You know that apart from him you can do nothing. so, good news for all of you
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  • Him you can do nothing. so, good news for all of you that are worn out from
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  • So, good news for all of you that are worn out from trying to change yourself.
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  • That are worn out from trying to change yourself. you came to a place
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  • Trying to change yourself. you came to a place to get good news tonight.
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  • You came to a place to get good news tonight. all of you that are so tired
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  • To get good news tonight. all of you that are so tired of trying to change yourself,
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  • All of you that are so tired of trying to change yourself, you can just stop it.
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  • Of trying to change yourself, you can just stop it. >> [audience applauding]
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  • You can just stop it. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: you just say,
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: you just say, "god, i'm not doing
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  • >> joyce: you just say, "god, i'm not doing that anymore.
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  • "god, i'm not doing that anymore. i turn myself over to you.
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  • That anymore. i turn myself over to you. i want to be everything
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  • I turn myself over to you. i want to be everything you want me to be,
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  • I want to be everything you want me to be, but i'm putting you
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  • You want me to be, but i'm putting you in charge of my change.
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  • But i'm putting you in charge of my change. you lead me and guide
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  • In charge of my change. you lead me and guide me in what you want me to do."
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  • You lead me and guide me in what you want me to do." oh, and by the way,
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  • Me in what you want me to do." oh, and by the way, you can't change
  • 00:19:54.049 --> 00:19:54.816
  • Oh, and by the way, you can't change the person you're married to.
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  • You can't change the person you're married to. you can't change your kids.
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  • The person you're married to. you can't change your kids. you can't change your neighbor.
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  • You can't change your kids. you can't change your neighbor. you can't change your parents.
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  • You can't change your neighbor. you can't change your parents. you can't change your friends.
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  • You can't change your parents. you can't change your friends. too bad.
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  • You can't change your friends. too bad. you don't get to change anybody.
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  • Too bad. you don't get to change anybody. you can pray.
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  • You don't get to change anybody. you can pray. but you are not the potter.
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  • You can pray. but you are not the potter. so, you need to go home
  • 00:20:21.209 --> 00:20:22.210
  • But you are not the potter. so, you need to go home and let everybody that you've
  • 00:20:22.277 --> 00:20:23.645
  • So, you need to go home and let everybody that you've got on the potter wheel, off.
  • 00:20:23.712 --> 00:20:25.981
  • And let everybody that you've got on the potter wheel, off. >> [audience laughing]
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  • Got on the potter wheel, off. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: just imagine the load
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: just imagine the load that will come off of you when
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  • >> joyce: just imagine the load that will come off of you when you understand that you are
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  • That will come off of you when you understand that you are not holy ghost junior...
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  • You understand that you are not holy ghost junior... >> [audience laughing]
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  • Not holy ghost junior... >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and you do not
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and you do not have to run the world.
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  • >> joyce: and you do not have to run the world. think about it.
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  • Have to run the world. think about it. you might be free
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  • Think about it. you might be free to become a christian.
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  • You might be free to become a christian. >> [audience laughing]
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  • To become a christian. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i mean, like,
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i mean, like, a real christian.
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  • >> joyce: i mean, like, a real christian. amen?
  • 00:20:56.211 --> 00:20:57.212
  • A real christian. amen? >> audience: amen.
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  • Amen? >> audience: amen. >> joyce: you gotta believe
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  • >> audience: amen. >> joyce: you gotta believe it before you see it.
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  • >> joyce: you gotta believe it before you see it. some people say it's hard
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  • It before you see it. some people say it's hard to live the christian life.
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  • Some people say it's hard to live the christian life. well, i'll tell you,
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  • To live the christian life. well, i'll tell you, it's not hard, it's impossible.
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  • Well, i'll tell you, it's not hard, it's impossible. you cannot live
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  • It's not hard, it's impossible. you cannot live the christian life,
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  • You cannot live the christian life, and neither can i.
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  • The christian life, and neither can i. jesus has to live it through us.
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  • And neither can i. jesus has to live it through us. amen?
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  • Jesus has to live it through us. amen? that's better news
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  • Amen? that's better news than you're acting.
  • 00:21:29.478 --> 00:21:32.581
  • That's better news than you're acting. "it's so hard to live
  • 00:21:32.647 --> 00:21:34.149
  • Than you're acting. "it's so hard to live the christian life."
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  • "it's so hard to live the christian life." no.
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  • The christian life." no. when the devil tells you,
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  • No. when the devil tells you, "it's hard," say,
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  • When the devil tells you, "it's hard," say, "no, you're wrong.
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  • "it's hard," say, "no, you're wrong. it's impossible."
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  • "no, you're wrong. it's impossible." it's not hard.
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  • It's impossible." it's not hard. it's impossible.
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  • It's not hard. it's impossible. but i can spend time with god.
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  • It's impossible. but i can spend time with god. i can study the word.
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  • But i can spend time with god. i can study the word. i can sit in god's presence,
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  • I can study the word. i can sit in god's presence, and i can let him change me.
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  • I can sit in god's presence, and i can let him change me. amen?
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  • And i can let him change me. amen? >> [audience applauding]
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  • Amen? >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and then,
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and then, you'll relax,
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  • >> joyce: and then, you'll relax, and something will change,
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  • You'll relax, and something will change, and you'll say,
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  • And something will change, and you'll say, "man, that had to be god."
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  • God gives us his holy spirit
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  • God gives us his holy spirit because we can't
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  • God gives us his holy spirit because we can't do it ourselves.
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  • Because we can't do it ourselves. in philippians 2, it says,
  • 00:22:27.235 --> 00:22:29.938
  • Do it ourselves. in philippians 2, it says, "work out your salvation
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  • In philippians 2, it says, "work out your salvation with fear and trembling,
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  • "work out your salvation with fear and trembling, with serious caution
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  • With fear and trembling, with serious caution and self-distrust,
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  • With serious caution and self-distrust, knowing that it's god who
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  • And self-distrust, knowing that it's god who is all the while at work in you,
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  • Knowing that it's god who is all the while at work in you, giving you the strength
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  • Is all the while at work in you, giving you the strength that you need to do what
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  • Giving you the strength that you need to do what needs to be done."
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  • That you need to do what needs to be done." so, we have this salvation
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  • In us, and the bible says,
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  • In us, and the bible says, "work it out."
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  • In us, and the bible says, "work it out." he didn't say, "work for it."
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  • "work it out." he didn't say, "work for it." he said, "work it out."
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  • He didn't say, "work for it." he said, "work it out." but you work with
  • 00:23:01.703 --> 00:23:02.404
  • He said, "work it out." but you work with the holy spirit to work it out.
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  • But you work with the holy spirit to work it out. and one of the first things that
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  • The holy spirit to work it out. and one of the first things that has to change is your mind.
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  • >> announcer: when faced with
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  • >> announcer: when faced with life's inevitable ups and downs,
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  • Life's inevitable ups and downs, having the resiliency to stand
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  • Having the resiliency to stand up to new challenges and meet
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  • Up to new challenges and meet them head on is imperative.
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  • Them head on is imperative. we can't keep changes from
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  • We can't keep changes from coming, but we can manage our
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  • Coming, but we can manage our reaction to it, and even come
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  • Reaction to it, and even come to welcome it into our lives.
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  • >> joyce: you know,
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  • >> joyce: you know, life is full of changes,
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  • Life is full of changes, and sometimes it can
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  • And sometimes it can feel like everything
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  • Feel like everything around us is shaking.
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  • Around us is shaking. jobs are changing,
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  • Jobs are changing, relationships,
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  • Relationships, people's expectations.
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  • People's expectations. it's easy to get
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  • It's easy to get overwhelmed but i wanna
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  • Overwhelmed but i wanna remind you today, while
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  • Remind you today, while change is inevitable,
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  • Change is inevitable, you have the power
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  • You have the power to choose how
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  • To choose how to respond to it.
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  • To respond to it. in my book,
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  • In my book, “the courage to change,”
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  • “the courage to change,” i'll show you how to not
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  • I'll show you how to not only navigate life's
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  • Only navigate life's transitions, but to
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  • Transitions, but to actually embrace them
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  • Actually embrace them with god's word
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  • With god's word as your foundation.
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  • As your foundation. you can face each shift
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  • You can face each shift with confidence, knowing
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  • With confidence, knowing that the same god who never
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  • That the same god who never changed, is working all
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  • Changed, is working all things for your good,
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  • Things for your good, even in the midst
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  • Even in the midst of difficult moments.
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  • >> joyce: if you're
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  • >> joyce: if you're weary from all of life's
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  • Weary from all of life's changes, i want you
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  • Changes, i want you to know that you can
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  • To know that you can find peace in the storm.
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  • Find peace in the storm. in “the courage to change,”
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  • In “the courage to change,” i'll show you how god's
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  • I'll show you how god's word can help you
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  • Word can help you embrace every challenge
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  • Embrace every challenge with confidence.
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  • With confidence. you don't have to live
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  • You don't have to live in the fear of change.
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  • In the fear of change. with the strength and
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  • With the strength and the wisdom from god,
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  • The wisdom from god, you can stand firm
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  • You can stand firm through any storm and
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  • Through any storm and come out stronger
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  • Come out stronger on the other side.
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  • >> announcer: discover
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  • >> [♪♪]
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  • >> announcer: we hope you
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  • >> announcer: we hope you enjoyed today's program.
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  • Enjoyed today's program. we are so grateful
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