Tired of waiting for your change to happen? Today, Joyce shares how spending time in God’s Word and relaxing in His presence will help spark your transformation.
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Joyce Meyer: Enjoying Everyday Life | Joyce Meyer - The Greatest Change of All (Part 2) | May 16, 2025
- >> joyce: it's hard to let
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- >> joyce: it's hard to let go of things that you
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- >> joyce: it's hard to let go of things that you don't wanna let go of.
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- Go of things that you don't wanna let go of. maybe there's some people
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- Don't wanna let go of. maybe there's some people in your life that you need
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- Maybe there's some people in your life that you need to not be hanging out
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- In your life that you need to not be hanging out with anymore.
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- >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer.
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- >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer. i've seen god's power
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- >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer. i've seen god's power transform my own life,
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- I've seen god's power transform my own life, and he will do it for you.
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- >> joyce: when god starts
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- >> joyce: when god starts changing you, it always
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- >> joyce: when god starts changing you, it always means that you're gonna
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- Changing you, it always means that you're gonna have to let go of something
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- Means that you're gonna have to let go of something and take hold of something.
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- Have to let go of something and take hold of something. you gettin' this?
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- And take hold of something. you gettin' this? you're gonna have to let
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- You gettin' this? you're gonna have to let go of something, and it may
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- You're gonna have to let go of something, and it may be something you wanna keep.
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- And maybe god's gonna want
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- And maybe god's gonna want you to stay some place
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- And maybe god's gonna want you to stay some place that you wanna leave,
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- You to stay some place that you wanna leave, or leave some place
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- That you wanna leave, or leave some place that you wanna stay.
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- Or leave some place that you wanna stay. i don't know.
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- That you wanna stay. i don't know. maybe you don't
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- I don't know. maybe you don't go to church here,
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- Maybe you don't go to church here, you're going to a dead
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- Go to church here, you're going to a dead church somewhere.
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- You're going to a dead church somewhere. you're not learning anything,
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- Church somewhere. you're not learning anything, but your friends
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- You're not learning anything, but your friends all go there so you don't--
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- But your friends all go there so you don't-- you don't wanna leave and make
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- All go there so you don't-- you don't wanna leave and make mama mad and grandma mad
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- You don't wanna leave and make mama mad and grandma mad if you leave, so.
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- Mama mad and grandma mad if you leave, so. you'll just stay there
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- If you leave, so. you'll just stay there and stay spiritually stupid
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- You'll just stay there and stay spiritually stupid all your life, you know.
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- And stay spiritually stupid all your life, you know. >> [audience laughing]
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- All your life, you know. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i gotta book here
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i gotta book here that i'm reading on satan.
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- >> joyce: i gotta book here that i'm reading on satan. i decided i'm gonna write
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- That i'm reading on satan. i decided i'm gonna write a book on the devil.
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- I decided i'm gonna write a book on the devil. >> [audience applauding]
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- >> joyce: "the devil is real."
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- >> joyce: "the devil is real." and there are so many good
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- >> joyce: "the devil is real." and there are so many good things in this book, but one
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- And there are so many good things in this book, but one of the things he says is,
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- Things in this book, but one of the things he says is, "the devil gets to church before
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- Of the things he says is, "the devil gets to church before the preacher or before any
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- "the devil gets to church before the preacher or before any of the people in the pew."
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- The preacher or before any of the people in the pew." >> [audience laughing]
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- Of the people in the pew." >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and if you wanna get
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and if you wanna get rid of him, all you gotta do,
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- >> joyce: and if you wanna get rid of him, all you gotta do, is do nothing but preach
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- Rid of him, all you gotta do, is do nothing but preach legalism and dead orthodoxy
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- Is do nothing but preach legalism and dead orthodoxy from the pulpit and he'll leave
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- Legalism and dead orthodoxy from the pulpit and he'll leave and go to a church somewhere
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- From the pulpit and he'll leave and go to a church somewhere where they're really
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- And go to a church somewhere where they're really trying to help people.
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- Where they're really trying to help people. >> [audience laughing]
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- Trying to help people. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: so, maybe--
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: so, maybe-- you know, i don't know,
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- >> joyce: so, maybe-- you know, i don't know, maybe god's dealing with you.
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- You know, i don't know, maybe god's dealing with you. you know, "you ain't learning
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- Maybe god's dealing with you. you know, "you ain't learning anything here, you need
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- You know, "you ain't learning anything here, you need to go to one of those wild,
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- Anything here, you need to go to one of those wild, crazy churches, you know,
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- To go to one of those wild, crazy churches, you know, where they actually worship.
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- Crazy churches, you know, where they actually worship. put their hands up,
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- Where they actually worship. put their hands up, maybe dance once in a while,"
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- Put their hands up, maybe dance once in a while," you know.
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- Maybe dance once in a while," you know. "i'm not gonna go over there
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- You know. "i'm not gonna go over there and hang out with all those
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- "i'm not gonna go over there and hang out with all those crazy, penny-costals, they--"
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- And hang out with all those crazy, penny-costals, they--" >> [audience laughing]
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- Crazy, penny-costals, they--" >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: not that you have
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: not that you have to go to a pentecostal
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- >> joyce: not that you have to go to a pentecostal church, but i don't care what
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- To go to a pentecostal church, but i don't care what kind of church you go to,
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- Church, but i don't care what kind of church you go to, but there's got to be some
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- Kind of church you go to, but there's got to be some life in it.
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- But there's got to be some life in it. and what you're hearing preached
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- Life in it. and what you're hearing preached should be changing you.
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- And what you're hearing preached should be changing you. and if all you can do is sit
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- Should be changing you. and if all you can do is sit there and just be comfortable
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- And if all you can do is sit there and just be comfortable and think "i'm wonderful
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- There and just be comfortable and think "i'm wonderful right where i'm at."
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- And think "i'm wonderful right where i'm at." >> [audience laughing]
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- >> joyce: my daughter shared
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- >> joyce: my daughter shared an article with me last week.
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- >> joyce: my daughter shared an article with me last week. i haven't read the whole thing
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- An article with me last week. i haven't read the whole thing yet, but she told me part of it.
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- I haven't read the whole thing yet, but she told me part of it. and this pastor left
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- Yet, but she told me part of it. and this pastor left the pastorate after 20 years.
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- And this pastor left the pastorate after 20 years. and he said he left because
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- The pastorate after 20 years. and he said he left because he finally realized that
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- And he said he left because he finally realized that the people he was preaching
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- He finally realized that the people he was preaching to did not want to change.
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- The people he was preaching to did not want to change. they only wanted to be told
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- To did not want to change. they only wanted to be told that they were lovely
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- They only wanted to be told that they were lovely right where they were at.
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- That they were lovely right where they were at. and i like to make people
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- Right where they were at. and i like to make people a little bit uncomfortable
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- And i like to make people a little bit uncomfortable when i preach.
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- A little bit uncomfortable when i preach. >> [audience applauding]
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- When i preach. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: i like to make people
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: i like to make people squirm just a little tiny bit.
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- >> joyce: i like to make people squirm just a little tiny bit. i mean, i hope you have
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- Squirm just a little tiny bit. i mean, i hope you have some kind of conviction
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- I mean, i hope you have some kind of conviction from my preaching.
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- We need to go to church because
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- We need to go to church because we wanna hear something
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- We need to go to church because we wanna hear something that's gonna change us,
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- We wanna hear something that's gonna change us, that's gonna make
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- That's gonna change us, that's gonna make us more like christ.
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- That's gonna make us more like christ. romans 8:29 says,
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- Us more like christ. romans 8:29 says, "we are predestined by god
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- Romans 8:29 says, "we are predestined by god to be transformed into
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- "we are predestined by god to be transformed into the image of jesus christ."
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- To be transformed into the image of jesus christ." now, predestined doesn't
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- The image of jesus christ." now, predestined doesn't mean it's automatically
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- Now, predestined doesn't mean it's automatically gonna happen.
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- Mean it's automatically gonna happen. it means that's god's will.
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- Gonna happen. it means that's god's will. he's made his mind up,
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- It means that's god's will. he's made his mind up, "this is my decision;
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- He's made his mind up, "this is my decision; i want you to be changed
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- "this is my decision; i want you to be changed into the image of jesus christ."
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- Well, that's gonna take some
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- Well, that's gonna take some changing and some work.
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- Well, that's gonna take some changing and some work. and so, god says,
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- Changing and some work. and so, god says, "well, you can't do it.
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- And so, god says, "well, you can't do it. i'm gonna give you
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- "well, you can't do it. i'm gonna give you the holy spirit
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- I'm gonna give you the holy spirit and he'll do it."
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- The holy spirit and he'll do it." but it's not gonna happen
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- And he'll do it." but it's not gonna happen because we just stay
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- But it's not gonna happen because we just stay comfortable all the time.
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- Because we just stay comfortable all the time. it's hard to let go of things
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- Comfortable all the time. it's hard to let go of things that you don't wanna let go of.
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- It's hard to let go of things that you don't wanna let go of. maybe there's some people
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- That you don't wanna let go of. maybe there's some people in your life that you need
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- Maybe there's some people in your life that you need to not be hanging out
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- In your life that you need to not be hanging out with anymore.
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- To not be hanging out with anymore. maybe you have lunch twice
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- With anymore. maybe you have lunch twice a week at work with a gossiper,
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- And all they do is crab
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- And all they do is crab and complain about
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- And all they do is crab and complain about everything at work.
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- And complain about everything at work. you don't need that.
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- Everything at work. you don't need that. you don't need to just sit
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- You don't need that. you don't need to just sit and let somebody dump
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- You don't need to just sit and let somebody dump their garbage in you.
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- "well, i don't wanna
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- "well, i don't wanna eat by myself."
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- "well, i don't wanna eat by myself." >> [audience laughing]
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- Eat by myself." >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: well, why not?
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: well, why not? you might be better
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- >> joyce: well, why not? you might be better company than the people
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- You might be better company than the people you're hanging out with.
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- Company than the people you're hanging out with. i like myself.
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- You're hanging out with. i like myself. i get along pretty
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- I like myself. i get along pretty well with myself now.
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- I get along pretty well with myself now. how many of you know
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- Well with myself now. how many of you know that you hang out with
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- How many of you know that you hang out with the wrong people,
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- That you hang out with the wrong people, they can poison you and keep
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- You right where you're at,
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- You right where you're at, keep you from growing in god.
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- You right where you're at, keep you from growing in god. >> [audience applauding]
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- >> [♪♪]
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- >> ginger: you know, joyce,
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- >> ginger: you know, joyce, i love talking with you about
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- I love talking with you about different things that you've
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- Different things that you've experienced in life, because
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- Experienced in life, because we all learn so much from it.
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- We all learn so much from it. and we all have the same
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- And we all have the same questions and the same
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- Questions and the same experiences.
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- Experiences. so, today we're going to have
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- A conversation about change.
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- A conversation about change. >> joyce: uh-oh!
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- >> joyce: uh-oh! >> [ladies laughing]
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- >> [ladies laughing] >> ginger: and we all address
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- >> ginger: and we all address change so differently.
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- Change so differently. like, we're all very different
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- Like, we're all very different how we look at it.
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- How we look at it. i enjoy change, and i probably
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- I enjoy change, and i probably pursue change too much.
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- Pursue change too much. but let me tell you,
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- But let me tell you, change that i don't initiate
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- Change that i don't initiate or don't like sometimes,
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- Or don't like sometimes, that's a whole different story.
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- That's a whole different story. >> joyce: i started to say,
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- >> joyce: i started to say, you can't like all change.
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- You can't like all change. >> ginger: no, absolutely not.
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- >> ginger: no, absolutely not. and some change is very, very
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- And some change is very, very hard for me, even liking change,
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- Hard for me, even liking change, therefore, for many
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- Therefore, for many people, change is...
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- People, change is... is always quite difficult.
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- Is always quite difficult. so i think it's a great thing
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- So i think it's a great thing to talk about is, how do we get
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- To talk about is, how do we get through some of these changing
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- Through some of these changing times in our life, and how
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- Times in our life, and how to do it in a way that honors
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- To do it in a way that honors god, and keeps us happier.
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- God, and keeps us happier. >> joyce: well, the first thing
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- >> joyce: well, the first thing that i've learned that you
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- That i've learned that you have to do if you're gonna
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- Have to do if you're gonna navigate change properly,
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- Navigate change properly, is you have to change your
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- Is you have to change your mind about change.
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- Mind about change. >> ginger: think differently.
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- >> ginger: think differently. >> joyce: well, part of that
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- >> joyce: well, part of that means that you just have
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- Means that you just have to understand that life
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- To understand that life is always changing.
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- Is always changing. just like our bodies change,
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- Just like our bodies change, our desires change,
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- Our desires change, our friends change.
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- Our friends change. you have your children at home,
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- You have your children at home, and then they go off to college
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- And then they go off to college in another state, and end up
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- In another state, and end up marrying somebody there.
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- Marrying somebody there. and so now you may see
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- And so now you may see them twice a year, where
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- Them twice a year, where they used to be in your
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- They used to be in your house all the time.
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- House all the time. >> ginger: i don't enjoy
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- >> ginger: i don't enjoy that change.
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- That change. >> joyce: you don't enjoy that,
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- >> joyce: you don't enjoy that, because it happened to you.
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- Because it happened to you. >> ginger: exactly.
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- >> ginger: exactly. >> joyce: and whereas three
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- >> joyce: and whereas three of mine—well, one lives three
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- Of mine—well, one lives three minutes away, and the other
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- Minutes away, and the other two live 20 minutes away.
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- Two live 20 minutes away. tell us some of the things
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- Tell us some of the things maybe that you went
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- Maybe that you went through when your kids
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- Through when your kids moved out of town.
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- Moved out of town. >> ginger: i think one of the
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- >> ginger: i think one of the biggest parts of that change
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- Biggest parts of that change that was really hard was
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- That was really hard was just not knowing as much.
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- Just not knowing as much. you know, not having that
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- You know, not having that everyday connection,
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- Everyday connection, constant conversations.
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- Constant conversations. suddenly you feel less connected
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- Suddenly you feel less connected because you are further away.
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- Because you are further away. you don't know what's happening
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- You don't know what's happening in their lives all the time.
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- In their lives all the time. you try to ask
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- You try to ask the right questions.
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- The right questions. you try to connect
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- You try to connect as much as you can.
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- As much as you can. but that's a really hard thing.
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- But that's a really hard thing. and then another one is just
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- And then another one is just the house being more quiet.
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- The house being more quiet. >> joyce: right.
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- >> joyce: right. >> ginger: so, there are many
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- >> ginger: so, there are many things that a lot of us go
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- Things that a lot of us go through, seasons where
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- Through, seasons where it's like, “wow, it wasn't like
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- It's like, “wow, it wasn't like this just not long ago,
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- This just not long ago, but here i am.”
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- But here i am.” >> joyce: there's some things
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- >> joyce: there's some things that we're okay with change
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- That we're okay with change about, and then some things
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- About, and then some things that were not, like, you change
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- That were not, like, you change your hair all the time.
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- Your hair all the time. you know, it'll be short,
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- You know, it'll be short, then it's mid-length,
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- Then it's mid-length, then it's long, then you cut it.
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- Then it's long, then you cut it. my hair will never
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- My hair will never be any different. (laugh)
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- Be any different. (laugh) it's, i mean, this is it.
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- It's, i mean, this is it. this is all i got.
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- This is all i got. i probably won't get any more.
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- I probably won't get any more. >> ginger: well, it's a good
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- >> ginger: well, it's a good thing it works for you
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- Thing it works for you so beautifully.
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- So beautifully. >> joyce: and this is all
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- >> joyce: and this is all i can do with it.
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- I can do with it. and so it'll never,
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- And so it'll never, it'll never change.
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- It'll never change. >> ginger: i have no control
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- >> ginger: i have no control over mine, so it just
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- Over mine, so it just is always different.
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- Is always different. >> joyce: it's always different
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- >> joyce: it's always different because you can't control it.
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- Because you can't control it. but you do have to accept
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- But you do have to accept the changes in yourself
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- The changes in yourself as you get older.
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- As you get older. and everybody will.
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- And everybody will. so i don't care if people are
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- So i don't care if people are watching that are 10, someday
- 00:09:07.169 --> 00:09:09.705
- Watching that are 10, someday you're gonna be 80 or 90,
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- You're gonna be 80 or 90, and things will change.
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- And things will change. now, we've had a lot of changes
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- Now, we've had a lot of changes at the ministry in the last
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- At the ministry in the last couple of years because people
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- Couple of years because people are just taking in information
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- Are just taking in information differently than they used to.
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- Differently than they used to. i mean, when i first started
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- I mean, when i first started doing this, people just
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- Doing this, people just lived in conferences.
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- Lived in conferences. i mean, going to a conference
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- I mean, going to a conference was just like, just what
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- Was just like, just what people did.
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- People did. >> ginger: yeah, it's very
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- >> ginger: yeah, it's very different now.
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- Different now. >> joyce:everybody had what
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- >> joyce:everybody had what they called camp meetings.
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- They called camp meetings. and they'd have meetings that
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- And they'd have meetings that were a whole week long,
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- Were a whole week long, and three sessions a day.
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- And three sessions a day. and there was just a real
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- And there was just a real movement of love for
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- Movement of love for the word of god.
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- The word of god. and people still love the word,
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- And people still love the word, but they take it in more now
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- But they take it in more now from the internet, from youtube,
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- From the internet, from youtube, from different places.
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- From different places. and so we've had to change
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- And so we've had to change and not do as many conferences,
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- And not do as many conferences, and do more things where
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- And do more things where we can make use of our
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- We can make use of our television ministry.
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- Television ministry. we still do some conferences,
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- We still do some conferences, but not like we used to.
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- But not like we used to. >> ginger: and those are hard
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- >> ginger: and those are hard things to adjust to.
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- Things to adjust to. >> joyce: well, it was very
- 00:10:10.733 --> 00:10:11.534
- >> joyce: well, it was very hard for me to adjust
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- Hard for me to adjust from preaching to people,
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- From preaching to people, to preaching to a camera.
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- To preaching to a camera. >> ginger: there's still
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- >> ginger: there's still people in there,
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- People in there, but it looks differently
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- But it looks differently while you're doing it.
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- While you're doing it. >> joyce: and so,
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- >> joyce: and so, but you know, you just
- 00:10:23.813 --> 00:10:24.480
- But you know, you just have to make your mind up,
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- Have to make your mind up, “this is the way it's gonna be.
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- “this is the way it's gonna be. and so i might as well get
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- And so i might as well get a good attitude about it.”
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- A good attitude about it.” >> ginger: you know what, too?
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- >> ginger: you know what, too? you did that so well.
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- You did that so well. because when we first
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- Because when we first started talking about it,
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- Started talking about it, you knew it was going
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- You knew it was going to be very different.
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- To be very different. and you weren't sure and had,
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- And you weren't sure and had, of course, some questions.
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- Of course, some questions. but as you started doing it,
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- But as you started doing it, i could see your determination.
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- I could see your determination. you know, that this
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- You know, that this is the direction that
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- Is the direction that god is taking things.
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- God is taking things. and i think that determination
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- And i think that determination that you had really
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- That you had really made a difference.
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- Made a difference. >> joyce: well, and i think
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- >> joyce: well, and i think the grace that god has given
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- The grace that god has given me to be willing to change,
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- Me to be willing to change, is part of the reason why our
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- Is part of the reason why our ministry is still relevant,
- 00:11:00.516 --> 00:11:03.953
- Ministry is still relevant, even though (whispering)
- 00:11:04.019 --> 00:11:05.221
- Even though (whispering) “i'm 81 and a half.” (laughing)
- 00:11:05.287 --> 00:11:09.291
- “i'm 81 and a half.” (laughing) >> ginger: shh.
- 00:11:09.358 --> 00:11:09.925
- >> ginger: shh. >> joyce: (whispering)
- 00:11:09.992 --> 00:11:10.593
- >> joyce: (whispering) “i'm 81 and a half.”
- 00:11:10.659 --> 00:11:11.761
- “i'm 81 and a half.” and so, you know, it's strange
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- And so, you know, it's strange for me to think that--well,
- 00:11:13.662 --> 00:11:15.865
- For me to think that--well, i mean, even if god gave
- 00:11:15.931 --> 00:11:17.967
- I mean, even if god gave me 15 more years, i'd be 95.
- 00:11:18.033 --> 00:11:20.569
- Me 15 more years, i'd be 95. and so i don't know,
- 00:11:20.636 --> 00:11:22.438
- And so i don't know, how long can i do this?
- 00:11:22.505 --> 00:11:23.672
- How long can i do this? people ask me,
- 00:11:23.739 --> 00:11:24.473
- People ask me, “are you gonna retire?”
- 00:11:24.540 --> 00:11:25.508
- “are you gonna retire?” well, i don't plan to.
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- Well, i don't plan to. but, you know, i'm at a point
- 00:11:26.842 --> 00:11:30.012
- But, you know, i'm at a point in life where you just don't
- 00:11:30.079 --> 00:11:31.147
- In life where you just don't know what's gonna happen
- 00:11:31.213 --> 00:11:32.782
- Know what's gonna happen from day to day.
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- From day to day. >> ginger: in reality, though,
- 00:11:33.849 --> 00:11:34.517
- >> ginger: in reality, though, we all kind of are, aren't we?
- 00:11:34.583 --> 00:11:36.252
- We all kind of are, aren't we? i mean, i understand what
- 00:11:36.318 --> 00:11:37.086
- I mean, i understand what you're saying, it's different.
- 00:11:37.153 --> 00:11:37.987
- You're saying, it's different. >> joyce: you're right, we are.
- 00:11:38.053 --> 00:11:39.421
- >> joyce: you're right, we are. >> ginger: we all...
- 00:11:39.488 --> 00:11:40.456
- >> ginger: we all... >> joyce: all any of us really
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- >> joyce: all any of us really have for sure is the moment
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- Have for sure is the moment we have right now.
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- We have right now. that's why it's foolish
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- That's why it's foolish to waste it being upset.
- 00:11:45.094 --> 00:11:46.562
- To waste it being upset. it doesn't change anything.
- 00:11:46.629 --> 00:11:48.164
- It doesn't change anything. and so, the first thing
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- And so, the first thing to change is to change
- 00:11:49.832 --> 00:11:50.833
- To change is to change your mind about change.
- 00:11:50.900 --> 00:11:52.501
- Your mind about change. and there's an ending,
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- And there's an ending, but there's also a brilliant
- 00:11:55.437 --> 00:11:57.540
- But there's also a brilliant new beginning.
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- New beginning. and the thing that frightens
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- And the thing that frightens us is, we don't know what it is.
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- Us is, we don't know what it is. we don't know what that's...
- 00:12:02.645 --> 00:12:03.345
- We don't know what that's... >> ginger: it is fear, isn't it?
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- >> ginger: it is fear, isn't it? it's fear of the unknown.
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- It's fear of the unknown. >> joyce: there are so many
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- >> joyce: there are so many people, i'm sure, watching
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- People, i'm sure, watching that are going through
- 00:12:08.951 --> 00:12:09.552
- That are going through changes that they hate.
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- Changes that they hate. maybe somebody's spouse
- 00:12:10.920 --> 00:12:12.454
- Maybe somebody's spouse has walked off and left them,
- 00:12:12.521 --> 00:12:14.156
- Has walked off and left them, and you've got that pain
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- And you've got that pain in your soul to deal with.
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- In your soul to deal with. and the thing that i would
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- And the thing that i would really like to say about that
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- Really like to say about that is in almost all cases,
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- Is in almost all cases, if--say, a man leaves his wife,
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- If--say, a man leaves his wife, it could be reversed.
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- It could be reversed. but the first thing
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- But the first thing she feels is guilty.
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- She feels is guilty. and don't take what somebody
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- And don't take what somebody else did as your fault.
- 00:12:35.711 --> 00:12:38.414
- Else did as your fault. you know, they could've stayed
- 00:12:38.480 --> 00:12:39.715
- You know, they could've stayed and tried to work out whatever
- 00:12:39.782 --> 00:12:41.550
- And tried to work out whatever needed to be worked out.
- 00:12:41.617 --> 00:12:44.653
- Needed to be worked out. and if you lose your job,
- 00:12:44.720 --> 00:12:48.991
- And if you lose your job, have a good attitude,
- 00:12:49.058 --> 00:12:51.327
- Have a good attitude, "my next one's gonna be better."
- 00:12:51.393 --> 00:12:52.828
- "my next one's gonna be better." i tell you, our attitude,
- 00:12:52.895 --> 00:12:54.496
- I tell you, our attitude, what we think, and what we say
- 00:12:54.563 --> 00:12:56.832
- What we think, and what we say during periods of change,
- 00:12:56.899 --> 00:12:57.967
- During periods of change, because our words do have power.
- 00:12:58.033 --> 00:13:00.302
- Because our words do have power. the power of life and death
- 00:13:00.369 --> 00:13:01.470
- The power of life and death is in the tongue.
- 00:13:01.537 --> 00:13:02.671
- Is in the tongue. and words are actually
- 00:13:02.738 --> 00:13:04.139
- And words are actually very creative.
- 00:13:04.206 --> 00:13:05.174
- God created the whole
- 00:13:05.241 --> 00:13:06.175
- God created the whole world with words.
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- World with words. he said, “let there be light,
- 00:13:07.009 --> 00:13:08.911
- He said, “let there be light, and there was light.”
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- And there was light.” he said, and it took place.
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- He said, and it took place. and so...
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- And so... >> ginger: that's so true.
- 00:13:14.350 --> 00:13:15.017
- >> ginger: that's so true. >> joyce: i mean, some people
- 00:13:15.084 --> 00:13:16.018
- >> joyce: i mean, some people probably aren't familiar with
- 00:13:16.085 --> 00:13:17.019
- Probably aren't familiar with this teaching at all, but
- 00:13:17.086 --> 00:13:18.587
- This teaching at all, but it's very biblical that
- 00:13:18.654 --> 00:13:20.589
- It's very biblical that your words have power.
- 00:13:20.656 --> 00:13:21.457
- Your words have power. romans 4:17 says, "we serve
- 00:13:21.523 --> 00:13:23.759
- Romans 4:17 says, "we serve a god that calls things that
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- A god that calls things that don't exist yet as if they
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- Don't exist yet as if they already existed."
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- Already existed." so let's just say you have
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- Lost your job and you're
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- Lost your job and you're gonna get another one.
- 00:13:32.201 --> 00:13:32.968
- Gonna get another one. well, instead of saying,
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- Well, instead of saying, "i don't know if i'll ever get
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- "i don't know if i'll ever get a job as good as that one.
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- A job as good as that one. you know, i probably won't
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- You know, i probably won't get a job making as much
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- Get a job making as much money as i did."
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- Money as i did." don't say that.
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- Don't say that. don't curse your future
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- Don't curse your future before...
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- Before... >> ginger: that's a very
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- >> ginger: that's a very conscious effort.
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- Conscious effort. i had something that changed
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- I had something that changed recently, and it wasn't
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- Recently, and it wasn't a terrible thing, but it wasn't
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- A terrible thing, but it wasn't what i wanted.
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- What i wanted. it wasn't what i would
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- It wasn't what i would have chosen.
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- Have chosen. and the first thing i thought
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- And the first thing i thought was, “i'm gonna call so-and-so
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- Was, “i'm gonna call so-and-so and tell them what's going on.”
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- And tell them what's going on.” and instead, i mean, i felt very
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- And instead, i mean, i felt very strongly, “just--no you just--
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- Strongly, “just--no you just-- you need to be quiet and
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- You need to be quiet and trust god, that he will work
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- Trust god, that he will work through this change.”
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- Through this change.” because instead, when you begin
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- Because instead, when you begin to start telling everyone,
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- To start telling everyone, you need, you know, you need
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- You need, you know, you need to commiserate with me.
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- To commiserate with me. >> joyce: yeah, right.
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- >> joyce: yeah, right. >> ginger: it doesn't
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- >> ginger: it doesn't take us anywhere good.
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- Take us anywhere good. >> joyce: yeah.
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- >> joyce: yeah. and i think it does take
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- And i think it does take courage to change.
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- Courage to change. i think you have to be brave.
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- You know, when i think about
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- You know, when i think about how abraham must've felt
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- How abraham must've felt when god said to him,
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- When god said to him, “leave your family, where you
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- “leave your family, where you live, everything, and go to
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- Live, everything, and go to a place that i will show you.”
- 00:14:36.565 --> 00:14:38.767
- A place that i will show you.” that is--that's got to be hard.
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- >> ginger: can you lay
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- >> ginger: can you lay it out for me now?
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- It out for me now? >> joyce: yeah, go to a place--
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- >> joyce: yeah, go to a place-- imagine just packing up your
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- Imagine just packing up your stuff, and walking out of your
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- Stuff, and walking out of your house, and starting to walk
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- House, and starting to walk down the street, and not
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- Down the street, and not having any idea where
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- Having any idea where you're gonna go.
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- You're gonna go. and there's something in that,
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- And there's something in that, that we can all learn
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- That we can all learn something from.
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- Something from. abraham had to have a good
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- Abraham had to have a good attitude about it,
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- Attitude about it, or he wouldn't have
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- Or he wouldn't have been able to do it.
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- Been able to do it. >> ginger: we're talking
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- >> ginger: we're talking a lot about change that
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- A lot about change that is thrust upon us.
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- Is thrust upon us. >> joyce: right.
- 00:15:05.060 --> 00:15:05.494
- >> joyce: right. >> ginger: which is a really
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- >> ginger: which is a really hard thing.
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- Hard thing. i want to ask you too,
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- I want to ask you too, about the changes that you
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- About the changes that you begin to think, “maybe this
- 00:15:10.199 --> 00:15:12.067
- Begin to think, “maybe this is something i should do.”
- 00:15:12.134 --> 00:15:13.902
- Is something i should do.” you know, “maybe god's leading
- 00:15:13.969 --> 00:15:15.804
- You know, “maybe god's leading me this way, but i'm afraid,
- 00:15:15.871 --> 00:15:17.039
- Me this way, but i'm afraid, and i don't like the idea
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- And i don't like the idea of letting go of what i know,
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- Of letting go of what i know, for something that
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- For something that i don't know.”
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- I don't know.” so, when it comes to that point
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- So, when it comes to that point of making decisions that will
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- Of making decisions that will result in change in your life,
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- Result in change in your life, how do you help us through that?
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- >> joyce: well, i'm fairly bold,
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- >> joyce: well, i'm fairly bold, and so i might approach
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- And so i might approach it a little bit different
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- It a little bit different than somebody that's more
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- Than somebody that's more timid or more fearful.
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- Timid or more fearful. but a good example for me
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- But a good example for me would be when i knew god had
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- Would be when i knew god had called me to teach the word,
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- Called me to teach the word, but i didn't know the word.
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- But i didn't know the word. and so i needed time to study.
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- And so i needed time to study. and i had three children
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- And i had three children already, had a fourth one
- 00:15:54.910 --> 00:15:56.578
- Already, had a fourth one after that, and was working
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- After that, and was working a full-time job.
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- A full-time job. and, you know, when you work
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- And, you know, when you work a full-time job, you come home,
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- A full-time job, you come home, you've gotta clean the house
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- You've gotta clean the house on the weekends, you've gotta
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- Get the groceries at night.
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- Get the groceries at night. there was no time,
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- There was no time, really, to study.
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- Really, to study. and i started feeling like
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- And i started feeling like god wanted me to quit my job--
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- God wanted me to quit my job-- my very good job.
- 00:16:12.227 --> 00:16:13.762
- My very good job. >> ginger: that's a big
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- >> ginger: that's a big step of change.
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- Step of change. >> joyce: where i did very well,
- 00:16:15.998 --> 00:16:17.266
- >> joyce: where i did very well, and trust him.
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- And trust him. well, we were $40 a month short
- 00:16:20.769 --> 00:16:23.305
- Well, we were $40 a month short of having enough money to pay
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- Of having enough money to pay our bills, which meant every
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- Our bills, which meant every month we needed a miracle.
- 00:16:26.442 --> 00:16:28.877
- Month we needed a miracle. and i didn't have a lot
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- And i didn't have a lot of experience with god.
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- Of experience with god. this was all new to me.
- 00:16:32.314 --> 00:16:36.718
- This was all new to me. and it took a little while.
- 00:16:36.785 --> 00:16:40.622
- And it took a little while. but i've kind of found out when
- 00:16:40.689 --> 00:16:41.924
- But i've kind of found out when things just stay there, and stay
- 00:16:41.990 --> 00:16:43.792
- Things just stay there, and stay there, and stay there, that's
- 00:16:43.859 --> 00:16:46.028
- There, and stay there, that's usually when god is trying
- 00:16:46.095 --> 00:16:47.296
- Usually when god is trying to get you to do something.
- 00:16:47.362 --> 00:16:48.297
- To get you to do something. >> ginger: that's a really
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- >> ginger: that's a really good point.
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- Good point. when sometimes you're more
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- When sometimes you're more miserable not changing
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- Miserable not changing after a while.
- 00:16:54.069 --> 00:16:54.703
- After a while. >> joyce: well, when you get
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- >> joyce: well, when you get to the point where you know
- 00:16:55.838 --> 00:16:56.805
- To the point where you know you're disobeying god,
- 00:16:56.872 --> 00:16:58.640
- You're disobeying god, then you better get with
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- Then you better get with the program, because
- 00:17:00.275 --> 00:17:01.176
- The program, because it's not gonna be...
- 00:17:01.243 --> 00:17:03.145
- It's not gonna be... and like when god asked me to--
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- And like when god asked me to-- told me it was time for
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- Told me it was time for me to quit my job at the church
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- Me to quit my job at the church i worked at, 'cause that
- 00:17:08.851 --> 00:17:09.785
- I worked at, 'cause that was the first thing i did.
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- Was the first thing i did. i taught some home bible
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- I taught some home bible studies, then i worked
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- Studies, then i worked five years at a church.
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- Five years at a church. and i learned a lot.
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- And i learned a lot. i did a lot of teaching there.
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- I did a lot of teaching there. i was ordained there.
- 00:17:16.625 --> 00:17:17.659
- I was ordained there. and all of a sudden, i just
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- And all of a sudden, i just started not enjoying it,
- 00:17:22.331 --> 00:17:26.135
- Started not enjoying it, and i loved it before that.
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- And i loved it before that. they'd call a prayer meeting,
- 00:17:28.804 --> 00:17:29.805
- They'd call a prayer meeting, i didn't wanna go.
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- I didn't wanna go. you know, have our weekly
- 00:17:31.974 --> 00:17:33.175
- You know, have our weekly leadership meetings,
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- Leadership meetings, i didn't wanna--i'd sit
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- I didn't wanna--i'd sit there and just, you know.
- 00:17:35.377 --> 00:17:38.147
- There and just, you know. and finally my pastor said,
- 00:17:38.213 --> 00:17:39.548
- And finally my pastor said, “what is wrong with you?”
- 00:17:39.615 --> 00:17:41.350
- “what is wrong with you?” and it just came out
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- And it just came out of my mouth, i didn't
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- Of my mouth, i didn't even plan to say it.
- 00:17:43.385 --> 00:17:44.386
- Even plan to say it. “i don't know, maybe i'm not
- 00:17:44.453 --> 00:17:45.354
- “i don't know, maybe i'm not supposed to be here anymore.”
- 00:17:45.420 --> 00:17:46.989
- Supposed to be here anymore.” and that was really exactly
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- And that was really exactly what god had been putting
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- What god had been putting in my heart, that it was time
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- In my heart, that it was time for me to leave.
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- For me to leave. matter of fact, one night
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- Matter of fact, one night i drove into the church for
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- I drove into the church for a tuesday night service,
- 00:17:58.567 --> 00:17:59.501
- A tuesday night service, and i heard the lord say,
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- And i heard the lord say, “what are you still doing here?”
- 00:18:00.936 --> 00:18:02.137
- “what are you still doing here?” >> ginger: mmm, wow!
- 00:18:02.204 --> 00:18:03.472
- >> ginger: mmm, wow! >> joyce: and i thought,
- 00:18:03.539 --> 00:18:04.640
- >> joyce: and i thought, well, it's tuesday night,
- 00:18:04.706 --> 00:18:05.807
- Well, it's tuesday night, i'm going to church.
- 00:18:05.874 --> 00:18:07.176
- I'm going to church. and so plainly i heard,
- 00:18:07.242 --> 00:18:09.144
- And so plainly i heard, “i don't need you here anymore.”
- 00:18:09.211 --> 00:18:11.213
- “i don't need you here anymore.” well, i was insulted, because
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- Well, i was insulted, because i was one of the church pillars.
- 00:18:13.448 --> 00:18:16.451
- I was one of the church pillars. i helped build the church,
- 00:18:16.518 --> 00:18:17.653
- I helped build the church, you know.
- 00:18:17.719 --> 00:18:18.921
- You know. “i don't need you here anymore.”
- 00:18:18.987 --> 00:18:20.322
- “i don't need you here anymore.” but he didn't.
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- But he didn't. he didn't need me there anymore.
- 00:18:21.490 --> 00:18:23.392
- He didn't need me there anymore. and his word to me was,
- 00:18:23.458 --> 00:18:24.726
- And his word to me was, take your ministry and go north,
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- Take your ministry and go north, south, east, and west.
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- South, east, and west. well, that was a little bit
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- Well, that was a little bit abraham-ish, because nobody
- 00:18:29.231 --> 00:18:31.567
- Abraham-ish, because nobody knew me north, south,
- 00:18:31.633 --> 00:18:32.534
- Knew me north, south, east, or west.
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- East, or west. so you can't just show
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- So you can't just show up in a town and say,
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- Up in a town and say, “i'm gonna have a meeting,”
- 00:18:35.304 --> 00:18:36.638
- “i'm gonna have a meeting,” and expect people to come.
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- And expect people to come. and so, but i did both
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- And so, but i did both of those things.
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- Of those things. and i mean, i was so nervous,
- 00:18:42.077 --> 00:18:44.846
- And i mean, i was so nervous, i was shaking.
- 00:18:44.913 --> 00:18:46.515
- I was shaking. i was afraid, but i'm more
- 00:18:46.582 --> 00:18:48.083
- I was afraid, but i'm more afraid of not obeying god.
- 00:18:48.150 --> 00:18:50.485
- Afraid of not obeying god. >> ginger: that's so big.
- 00:18:50.552 --> 00:18:52.321
- >> ginger: that's so big. >> joyce: you know, it's--
- 00:18:52.387 --> 00:18:53.422
- >> joyce: you know, it's-- i don't care how scared i might
- 00:18:53.488 --> 00:18:54.823
- I don't care how scared i might be i'm not gonna disobey god
- 00:18:54.890 --> 00:18:56.525
- Be i'm not gonna disobey god if i believe that he...
- 00:18:56.592 --> 00:18:58.026
- If i believe that he... you know, now i've had a lot
- 00:18:58.093 --> 00:18:59.027
- You know, now i've had a lot more experience with god.
- 00:18:59.094 --> 00:19:00.395
- More experience with god. and so, i know that anytime
- 00:19:00.462 --> 00:19:02.731
- And so, i know that anytime he tells you to do something,
- 00:19:02.798 --> 00:19:04.166
- He tells you to do something, it's going to turn out good.
- 00:19:04.233 --> 00:19:06.535
- It's going to turn out good. it's going to be the best.
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- It's going to be the best. and by the way, every month
- 00:19:08.003 --> 00:19:10.005
- And by the way, every month for six years, god provided
- 00:19:10.072 --> 00:19:12.307
- For six years, god provided that extra money we needed
- 00:19:12.374 --> 00:19:13.575
- That extra money we needed to pay our bills.
- 00:19:13.642 --> 00:19:14.276
- To pay our bills. never one time did we have
- 00:19:14.343 --> 00:19:15.711
- Never one time did we have to pay a bill late.
- 00:19:15.777 --> 00:19:17.112
- To pay a bill late. i mean, and it was just like,
- 00:19:17.179 --> 00:19:18.247
- I mean, and it was just like, it was a great experience.
- 00:19:18.313 --> 00:19:19.615
- It was a great experience. i mean, people would walk
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- I mean, people would walk up to me at church and say,
- 00:19:20.949 --> 00:19:21.883
- Up to me at church and say, "here, god told me to give
- 00:19:21.950 --> 00:19:22.784
- "here, god told me to give you this," and put $100
- 00:19:22.851 --> 00:19:23.785
- You this," and put $100 in my hands.
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- In my hands. or one time we got a big
- 00:19:24.987 --> 00:19:27.122
- Or one time we got a big refund on our gas bill.
- 00:19:27.189 --> 00:19:29.491
- Refund on our gas bill. who gets refunds
- 00:19:29.558 --> 00:19:30.792
- Who gets refunds on your gas bill?
- 00:19:30.859 --> 00:19:32.160
- On your gas bill? >> ginger: no one i know.
- 00:19:32.227 --> 00:19:33.061
- >> ginger: no one i know. (laughing)
- 00:19:33.128 --> 00:19:33.395
- (laughing) >> joyce: it was just--
- 00:19:33.462 --> 00:19:35.697
- >> joyce: it was just-- and so it really brought
- 00:19:35.764 --> 00:19:38.200
- And so it really brought me into a closeness with god,
- 00:19:38.267 --> 00:19:41.136
- Me into a closeness with god, to see him do those things
- 00:19:41.203 --> 00:19:43.672
- To see him do those things all the time.
- 00:19:43.739 --> 00:19:44.906
- All the time. one thing that was really
- 00:19:44.973 --> 00:19:45.941
- One thing that was really good about that is dave
- 00:19:46.008 --> 00:19:47.976
- Good about that is dave and i appreciate everything
- 00:19:48.043 --> 00:19:50.178
- And i appreciate everything that god does for us now.
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- That god does for us now. >> ginger: we do learn so much.
- 00:19:51.713 --> 00:19:52.714
- >> ginger: we do learn so much. and i think that god really
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- And i think that god really works through change often
- 00:19:55.083 --> 00:19:57.819
- Works through change often because it's us showing
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- Because it's us showing a willingness.
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- A willingness. “whatever it takes god,”
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- “whatever it takes god,” or “i'm going to trust
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- Or “i'm going to trust you in this.”
- 00:20:04.493 --> 00:20:05.527
- You in this.” and taking that type of a stand,
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- And taking that type of a stand, that's a person that
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- That's a person that god can use.
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- God can use. and begin doing some
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- And begin doing some incredible things.
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- Incredible things. and, you know, it may
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- And, you know, it may not be as large
- 00:20:14.603 --> 00:20:15.237
- Not be as large as starting a ministry.
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- As starting a ministry. it may be something different.
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- It may be something different. >> joyce: could be something
- 00:20:17.639 --> 00:20:18.473
- >> joyce: could be something very, very small, you know.
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- Very, very small, you know. and don't let money
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- And don't let money rule your life.
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- Rule your life. you know, you may be working
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- You know, you may be working at a job where you make a lot
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- At a job where you make a lot of money, but it's really
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- Of money, but it's really not what you wanna do.
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- Not what you wanna do. you don't enjoy it.
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- You don't enjoy it. you wanna do something where
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- You wanna do something where you know you're not gonna
- 00:20:33.522 --> 00:20:34.489
- You know you're not gonna make as much money.
- 00:20:34.556 --> 00:20:35.957
- Make as much money. but let me tell you something,
- 00:20:36.024 --> 00:20:36.925
- But let me tell you something, your joy is so much more
- 00:20:36.992 --> 00:20:39.795
- Your joy is so much more important than money.
- 00:20:39.861 --> 00:20:41.863
- Important than money. you know, there's nobody
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- You know, there's nobody when they're on their deathbed
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- When they're on their deathbed that's gonna ask for
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- That's gonna ask for their checkbook.
- 00:20:44.900 --> 00:20:46.201
- Their checkbook. you know, you wanna know that
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- You know, you wanna know that you've lived a satisfied life.
- 00:20:49.671 --> 00:20:51.973
- You've lived a satisfied life. to me, i think one of the worst
- 00:20:52.040 --> 00:20:53.642
- To me, i think one of the worst things would be to come
- 00:20:53.709 --> 00:20:55.544
- Things would be to come to be 85, 90 years old
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- To be 85, 90 years old and look back and have
- 00:20:58.180 --> 00:20:59.047
- And look back and have nothing but regrets.
- 00:20:59.114 --> 00:21:00.682
- Nothing but regrets. “i wish i would've done this.”
- 00:21:00.749 --> 00:21:01.717
- “i wish i would've done this.” “i wish i would've tried.”
- 00:21:01.783 --> 00:21:02.951
- “i wish i would've tried.” “i wish i would've stepped out.”
- 00:21:03.018 --> 00:21:04.519
- “i wish i would've stepped out.” and now it's too late.
- 00:21:04.586 --> 00:21:06.288
- And now it's too late. and so, i just encourage
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- And so, i just encourage people to--if you feel like
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- People to--if you feel like god is really pressing
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- God is really pressing you to make a change,
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- You to make a change, then go ahead and make it.
- 00:21:13.295 --> 00:21:14.529
- Then go ahead and make it. and don't be so afraid
- 00:21:14.596 --> 00:21:16.164
- And don't be so afraid because god is good.
- 00:21:16.231 --> 00:21:17.466
- Because god is good. and if you're really doing
- 00:21:17.532 --> 00:21:18.834
- And if you're really doing all you know to do to hear
- 00:21:18.900 --> 00:21:20.135
- All you know to do to hear from him, and you really
- 00:21:20.202 --> 00:21:21.970
- From him, and you really believe that what you're
- 00:21:22.037 --> 00:21:22.838
- Believe that what you're supposed to do is right,
- 00:21:22.904 --> 00:21:23.839
- Supposed to do is right, even if you're wrong,
- 00:21:23.905 --> 00:21:25.607
- Even if you're wrong, god will take it and work
- 00:21:25.674 --> 00:21:26.842
- God will take it and work it out for your good.
- 00:21:26.908 --> 00:21:28.643
- It out for your good. and then for the people that
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- And then for the people that are just hurting, i mean,
- 00:21:30.145 --> 00:21:31.146
- Are just hurting, i mean, they've had a loved one die,
- 00:21:31.213 --> 00:21:34.282
- They've had a loved one die, or a spouse has left them, or...
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- Or a spouse has left them, or... >> ginger: yeah, their life
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- >> ginger: yeah, their life is just different.
- 00:21:38.453 --> 00:21:38.887
- Is just different. >> joyce: a child is on drugs
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- >> joyce: a child is on drugs or, you know, whatever,
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- Or, you know, whatever, it's just--hang on to god
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- It's just--hang on to god and know that he loves you,
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- And know that he loves you, and cares for you, and that
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- And cares for you, and that these pains will pass.
- 00:21:48.296 --> 00:21:49.631
- These pains will pass. you will heal because
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- You will heal because he is the healer of our soul,
- 00:21:50.932 --> 00:21:53.301
- He is the healer of our soul, not just our body.
- 00:21:53.368 --> 00:21:55.904
- Not just our body. he's interested in every
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- He's interested in every part of us and everything
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- Part of us and everything that concerns us.
- 00:21:57.939 --> 00:21:59.274
- That concerns us. and don't be afraid of change.
- 00:21:59.341 --> 00:22:01.543
- And don't be afraid of change. i read that anybody who
- 00:22:01.610 --> 00:22:03.812
- I read that anybody who thinks that things are
- 00:22:03.879 --> 00:22:05.247
- Thinks that things are always gonna stay the way
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- Always gonna stay the way they are, is a fool.
- 00:22:06.248 --> 00:22:07.816
- They are, is a fool. and i mean, that's just true.
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- And i mean, that's just true. i don't know what things will
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- I don't know what things will be like in my life next year,
- 00:22:11.353 --> 00:22:13.955
- Be like in my life next year, but i believe whatever it is,
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- But i believe whatever it is, i believe it'll be good.
- 00:22:18.160 --> 00:22:19.995
- I believe it'll be good. but even if something
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- But even if something happened i didn't like,
- 00:22:21.596 --> 00:22:22.531
- Happened i didn't like, i believe god will take
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- I believe god will take care of it, and it will
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- Care of it, and it will all work out right.
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- All work out right. >> ginger: yeah, i think that's
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- >> ginger: yeah, i think that's one of the most reassuring
- 00:22:27.936 --> 00:22:28.770
- One of the most reassuring things is, in change that
- 00:22:28.837 --> 00:22:31.840
- Things is, in change that is often extremely difficult,
- 00:22:31.907 --> 00:22:34.509
- Is often extremely difficult, seems insurmountable,
- 00:22:34.576 --> 00:22:36.478
- Seems insurmountable, there's a god who never changes,
- 00:22:36.545 --> 00:22:38.547
- There's a god who never changes, who is always there
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- Who is always there to walk us through it,
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- To walk us through it, that we can trust,
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- That we can trust, who is completely faithful.
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- Who is completely faithful. so your encouragement helps.
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- So your encouragement helps. >> joyce: the bible says
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- >> joyce: the bible says that everything that can
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- That everything that can be shaken will be shaken,
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- Be shaken will be shaken, but only god never changes.
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- >> [♪♪]
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- >> announcer: when faced with
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- >> announcer: when faced with life's inevitable ups and downs,
- 00:23:02.971 --> 00:23:04.773
- Life's inevitable ups and downs, having the resiliency to stand
- 00:23:04.840 --> 00:23:06.641
- Having the resiliency to stand up to new challenges and meet
- 00:23:06.708 --> 00:23:07.776
- Up to new challenges and meet them head on is imperative.
- 00:23:07.843 --> 00:23:09.811
- Them head on is imperative. we can't keep changes from
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- We can't keep changes from coming, but we can manage our
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- Coming, but we can manage our reaction to it, and even come
- 00:23:12.714 --> 00:23:14.516
- Reaction to it, and even come to welcome it into our lives.
- 00:23:14.583 --> 00:23:15.917
- >> joyce: you know,
- 00:23:16.318 --> 00:23:16.818
- >> joyce: you know, life is full of changes,
- 00:23:16.885 --> 00:23:18.487
- Life is full of changes, and sometimes it can
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- And sometimes it can feel like everything
- 00:23:20.288 --> 00:23:21.189
- Feel like everything around us is shaking.
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- Around us is shaking. jobs are changing,
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- Jobs are changing, relationships,
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- Relationships, people's expectations.
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- People's expectations. it's easy to get
- 00:23:26.228 --> 00:23:27.662
- It's easy to get overwhelmed but i wanna
- 00:23:27.729 --> 00:23:29.364
- Overwhelmed but i wanna remind you today, while
- 00:23:29.431 --> 00:23:30.732
- Remind you today, while change is inevitable,
- 00:23:30.799 --> 00:23:32.334
- Change is inevitable, you have the power
- 00:23:32.400 --> 00:23:33.768
- You have the power to choose how
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- To choose how to respond to it.
- 00:23:34.703 --> 00:23:36.104
- To respond to it. in my book,
- 00:23:36.171 --> 00:23:36.771
- In my book, “the courage to change,”
- 00:23:36.838 --> 00:23:38.139
- “the courage to change,” i'll show you how to not
- 00:23:38.206 --> 00:23:39.374
- I'll show you how to not only navigate life's
- 00:23:39.441 --> 00:23:40.442
- Only navigate life's transitions, but to
- 00:23:40.509 --> 00:23:42.110
- Transitions, but to actually embrace them
- 00:23:42.177 --> 00:23:43.411
- Actually embrace them with god's word
- 00:23:43.478 --> 00:23:44.713
- With god's word as your foundation.
- 00:23:44.779 --> 00:23:45.347
- As your foundation. you can face each shift
- 00:23:45.413 --> 00:23:47.215
- You can face each shift with confidence, knowing
- 00:23:47.282 --> 00:23:48.817
- With confidence, knowing the same god who never
- 00:23:48.884 --> 00:23:50.619
- The same god who never changed, is working all
- 00:23:50.685 --> 00:23:51.887
- Changed, is working all things for your good,
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- Things for your good, even in the midst
- 00:23:53.288 --> 00:23:54.256
- Even in the midst of difficult moments.
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- Of difficult moments.
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- >> announcer: be the first
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- >> joyce: if you're
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- >> joyce: if you're weary from all of life's
- 00:24:20.682 --> 00:24:21.349
- Weary from all of life's changes, i want you
- 00:24:21.416 --> 00:24:22.551
- Changes, i want you to know that you can
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- To know that you can find peace in the storm.
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- Find peace in the storm. in “the courage to change,”
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- In “the courage to change,” i'll show you how god's
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- I'll show you how god's word can help you
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- Word can help you embrace every challenge
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- Embrace every challenge with confidence.
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- With confidence. you don't have to live
- 00:24:32.193 --> 00:24:33.895
- You don't have to live in the fear of change.
- 00:24:33.962 --> 00:24:35.196
- In the fear of change. with the strength and
- 00:24:35.263 --> 00:24:36.598
- With the strength and the wisdom from god,
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- The wisdom from god, you can stand firm
- 00:24:37.566 --> 00:24:38.466
- You can stand firm through any storm and
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- Through any storm and come out stronger
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- Come out stronger on the other side.
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- On the other side. let's face life's
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- Let's face life's challenges together
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- Challenges together with faith, hope, and
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- >> announcer: discover
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- >> announcer: it's your
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- >> announcer: it's your opportunity to unplug
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- Opportunity to unplug and discover what
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- And discover what it means to be fully his.
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- It means to be fully his. >> joyce: and we need to know
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- >> joyce: and we need to know who our real enemy is,
- 00:25:34.889 --> 00:25:36.224
- Who our real enemy is, and by the way,
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- And by the way, if you're really full-on
- 00:25:37.993 --> 00:25:39.628
- If you're really full-on walking with god,
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- Walking with god, you don't have to be afraid
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- You don't have to be afraid of the devil at all.
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- Of the devil at all. >> [audience cheering]
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- >> [audience cheering] >> announcer: come together
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- >> announcer: come together with thousands who are
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- With thousands who are ready to worship,
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- Ready to worship, learn, laugh,
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- Learn, laugh, and lean in.
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- And lean in. >> cece: god calls
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- >> cece: god calls us to holiness
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- Us to holiness because he loves us.
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- Because he loves us. y'all, it's beautiful.
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- Y'all, it's beautiful. >> announcer: and go home,
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- >> announcer: and go home, equipped for all
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- Equipped for all of life's battles.
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- Of life's battles. >> lysa: he's not trying
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- >> lysa: he's not trying to hide from us.
- 00:26:01.916 --> 00:26:02.550
- To hide from us. he's waiting to be seen by us.
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- He's waiting to be seen by us. >> announcer: join us for
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