Bible teacher Joyce Meyer shares timeless scriptural principles to show us how we can embrace the best God has for us each and every day of our lives.
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Joyce Meyer: Enjoying Everyday Life | Joyce Meyer - Patience | December 21, 2025
- >> joyce: pride is always
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- >> joyce: pride is always behind impatience.
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- >> joyce: pride is always behind impatience. we get impatient because
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- Behind impatience. we get impatient because god's not moving fast enough,
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- We get impatient because god's not moving fast enough, so we take over.
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- >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer,
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- >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer, and i believe that god can heal
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- >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer, and i believe that god can heal you everywhere you hurt.
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- >> joyce: we have an enemy
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- >> joyce: we have an enemy and he hates us,
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- >> joyce: we have an enemy and he hates us, and will do anything
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- And he hates us, and will do anything to try and destroy us.
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- And will do anything to try and destroy us. and he wants to--
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- To try and destroy us. and he wants to-- wants you not to keep
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- And he wants to-- wants you not to keep your mind on what you're
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- Doing because if while
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- Doing because if while i'm preaching here tonight,
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- Doing because if while i'm preaching here tonight, if you go to the place where
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- I'm preaching here tonight, if you go to the place where you're gonna go get your
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- If you go to the place where you're gonna go get your hamburger when i'm done,
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- You're gonna go get your hamburger when i'm done, whatever i said,
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- Hamburger when i'm done, whatever i said, you totally missed it.
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- Whatever i said, you totally missed it. i mean, it's amazing that
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- You totally missed it. i mean, it's amazing that we can sit and be listening
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- I mean, it's amazing that we can sit and be listening to somebody and totally
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- We can sit and be listening to somebody and totally not hear what they're saying,
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- To somebody and totally not hear what they're saying, because our mind has
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- Not hear what they're saying, because our mind has gone somewhere else.
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- Because our mind has gone somewhere else. so, we need to practice
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- Gone somewhere else. so, we need to practice focusing more.
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- So, we need to practice focusing more. so we used to,
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- Focusing more. so we used to, "i rebuke the devil.
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- So we used to, "i rebuke the devil. i rebuke the devil.
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- "i rebuke the devil. i rebuke the devil. i rebuke you, satan.
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- I rebuke the devil. i rebuke you, satan. i rebuke you."
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- I rebuke you, satan. i rebuke you." and the lord spoke to me
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- I rebuke you." and the lord spoke to me one time and he said,
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- And the lord spoke to me one time and he said, "you don't need
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- One time and he said, "you don't need to rebuke the devil.
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- "you don't need to rebuke the devil. what you need to do is stop
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- To rebuke the devil. what you need to do is stop acting like him when you're
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- What you need to do is stop acting like him when you're having problems."
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- Acting like him when you're having problems." >> [audience laughing]
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- Having problems." >> [audience laughing] >> [audience applauding]
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- >> joyce: 'cause you see,
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- >> joyce: 'cause you see, a lot of times when we're
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- >> joyce: 'cause you see, a lot of times when we're having issues in our life--
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- A lot of times when we're having issues in our life-- to be honest with you,
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- Having issues in our life-- to be honest with you, you know one of the values
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- To be honest with you, you know one of the values of having trouble
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- You know one of the values of having trouble is when you're having trouble,
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- Of having trouble is when you're having trouble, the real you shows up.
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- Is when you're having trouble, the real you shows up. >> [audience laughing]
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- The real you shows up. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: gosh, i would've
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: gosh, i would've waited a while longer to come,
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- >> joyce: gosh, i would've waited a while longer to come, if i would've thought
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- Waited a while longer to come, if i would've thought you were gonna be this quiet.
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- If i would've thought you were gonna be this quiet. >> [audience laughing]
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- You were gonna be this quiet. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: isn't that
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: isn't that the truth though?
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- >> joyce: isn't that the truth though? you know, you never
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- The truth though? you know, you never know how juicy fruit
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- You know, you never know how juicy fruit is till you squeeze it.
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- Know how juicy fruit is till you squeeze it. >> [audience laughing]
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- Is till you squeeze it. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i remember i was
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i remember i was hungry one day and i was out
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- >> joyce: i remember i was hungry one day and i was out just running some errands,
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- Hungry one day and i was out just running some errands, and i felt like i was hungry
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- Just running some errands, and i felt like i was hungry for an orange.
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- And i felt like i was hungry for an orange. and so i went in the grocery
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- Store and boy,
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- Store and boy, i picked out this orange.
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- Store and boy, i picked out this orange. it was so--
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- I picked out this orange. it was so-- such a good-looking orange.
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- It was so-- such a good-looking orange. it was beautiful color,
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- Such a good-looking orange. it was beautiful color, perfect size, perfect shape.
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- It was beautiful color, perfect size, perfect shape. and when i went out in the car
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- Perfect size, perfect shape. and when i went out in the car to eat my orange, that was
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- And when i went out in the car to eat my orange, that was the driest, most tasteless
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- To eat my orange, that was the driest, most tasteless orange i had ever had.
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- The driest, most tasteless orange i had ever had. and that's what we don't
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- Orange i had ever had. and that's what we don't wanna be like as christians.
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- And that's what we don't wanna be like as christians. we don't wanna look like
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- Wanna be like as christians. we don't wanna look like we've got it all together,
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- We don't wanna look like we've got it all together, and then at the first
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- We've got it all together, and then at the first sign of trouble,
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- And then at the first sign of trouble, we fall apart
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- Sign of trouble, we fall apart and start acting bad.
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- We fall apart and start acting bad. so if you really wanna know how
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- And start acting bad. so if you really wanna know how spiritually mature you are,
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- So if you really wanna know how spiritually mature you are, ask yourself how you behave
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- Spiritually mature you are, ask yourself how you behave when you don't get your way.
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- Ask yourself how you behave when you don't get your way. how quick do you forgive
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- When you don't get your way. how quick do you forgive somebody when they hurt you?
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- How quick do you forgive somebody when they hurt you? you know, i'm practicing trying
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- Somebody when they hurt you? you know, i'm practicing trying to forgive people while they're
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- You know, i'm practicing trying to forgive people while they're still hurting my feelings.
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- To forgive people while they're still hurting my feelings. just get good
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- Still hurting my feelings. just get good at it and it's like--
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- Just get good at it and it's like-- >> [audience applauding]
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- At it and it's like-- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: "i've already--
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: "i've already-- just go ahead and do what
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- >> joyce: "i've already-- just go ahead and do what you wanna do.
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- Just go ahead and do what you wanna do. i've already decided
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- You wanna do. i've already decided i'm gonna forgive you.
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- I've already decided i'm gonna forgive you. it's already done."
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- I'm gonna forgive you. it's already done." you know why?
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- It's already done." you know why? because i'm not gonna
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- You know why? because i'm not gonna let the devil steal
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- Because i'm not gonna let the devil steal any more of my life.
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- Let the devil steal any more of my life. >> [audience applauding]
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- Any more of my life. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: "you're keeping
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: "you're keeping me angry and agitated."
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- >> joyce: "you're keeping me angry and agitated." so if you are mad at anybody,
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- Me angry and agitated." so if you are mad at anybody, you're angry at anybody,
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- So if you are mad at anybody, you're angry at anybody, just forgive 'em tonight,
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- You're angry at anybody, just forgive 'em tonight, get it over with
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- Just forgive 'em tonight, get it over with and go on with your life.
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- Get it over with and go on with your life. >> [audience applauding]
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- And go on with your life. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and you know why
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and you know why people will pray
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- >> joyce: and you know why people will pray the prayer of forgiveness?
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- People will pray the prayer of forgiveness? they wanna forgive people,
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- The prayer of forgiveness? they wanna forgive people, but then they don't feel
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- They wanna forgive people, but then they don't feel any different toward them.
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- But then they don't feel any different toward them. so then they think they
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- Any different toward them. so then they think they haven't forgiven them,
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- So then they think they haven't forgiven them, and they just keep going
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- Haven't forgiven them, and they just keep going around and around.
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- And they just keep going around and around. but see, you can forgive
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- Around and around. but see, you can forgive somebody and still feel like
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- But see, you can forgive somebody and still feel like you wanna knock 'em down.
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- Somebody and still feel like you wanna knock 'em down. >> [audience laughing]
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- You wanna knock 'em down. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: you can!
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: you can! you can do that.
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- Who feels like forgiving
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- Who feels like forgiving somebody who's really hurt
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- Who feels like forgiving somebody who's really hurt them and mistreated them?
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- Somebody who's really hurt them and mistreated them? see, we get too much on this,
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- Them and mistreated them? see, we get too much on this, "well, i prayed to forgive
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- See, we get too much on this, "well, i prayed to forgive and i just still get all
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- "well, i prayed to forgive and i just still get all these yucky feelings
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- And i just still get all these yucky feelings when i'm around them."
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- These yucky feelings when i'm around them." you know my story from my past,
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- When i'm around them." you know my story from my past, sexually abused by my dad.
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- You know my story from my past, sexually abused by my dad. and my mother knew
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- Sexually abused by my dad. and my mother knew what he was doing,
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- And my mother knew what he was doing, and she wouldn't do anything
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- What he was doing, and she wouldn't do anything about it because of fear.
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- And she wouldn't do anything about it because of fear. and so, i was abused
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- About it because of fear. and so, i was abused and abandoned.
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- And so, i was abused and abandoned. and then god asked
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- And abandoned. and then god asked us to take care of them
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- And then god asked us to take care of them when they got older.
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- Us to take care of them when they got older. well, i didn't wanna do that.
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- When i first heard that,
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- When i first heard that, i thought it was--
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- When i first heard that, i thought it was-- i rebuked it.
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- I thought it was-- i rebuked it. i said, "i rebuke you, devil."
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- I rebuked it. i said, "i rebuke you, devil." >> [audience laughing]
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- I said, "i rebuke you, devil." >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: because i said,
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: because i said, "there is no way god would
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- >> joyce: because i said, "there is no way god would ask me to do that after
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- "there is no way god would ask me to do that after what they did to me."
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- Ask me to do that after what they did to me." well, yes, he will.
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- What they did to me." well, yes, he will. yeah, he will.
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- Well, yes, he will. yeah, he will. they were a long time--
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- Yeah, he will. they were a long time-- we put 'em in their own house.
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- They were a long time-- we put 'em in their own house. and then when they couldn't
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- We put 'em in their own house. and then when they couldn't do that, we had to put
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- And then when they couldn't do that, we had to put 'em in assisted living,
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- Do that, we had to put 'em in assisted living, and then eventually into
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- 'em in assisted living, and then eventually into the nursing home.
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- And then eventually into the nursing home. and i can tell you that i went
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- The nursing home. and i can tell you that i went at least every two weeks
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- And i can tell you that i went at least every two weeks to see them, and not one time
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- At least every two weeks to see them, and not one time did i ever feel like going.
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- To see them, and not one time did i ever feel like going. never felt like it one time.
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- Did i ever feel like going. never felt like it one time. but i did what was right,
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- Never felt like it one time. but i did what was right, because i love god.
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- But i did what was right, because i love god. amen?
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- Because i love god. amen? >> [audience applauding]
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- Amen? >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: now, there's
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: now, there's somebody in here
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- >> joyce: now, there's somebody in here tonight that's gonna
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- Somebody in here tonight that's gonna get a real breakthrough,
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- Tonight that's gonna get a real breakthrough, because you haven't
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- Get a real breakthrough, because you haven't understood these things,
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- Because you haven't understood these things, and you've been waiting
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- Understood these things, and you've been waiting to feel like it.
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- And you've been waiting to feel like it. as a result of us showing
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- To feel like it. as a result of us showing love to them,
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- As a result of us showing love to them, my father at the age of 83,
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- Love to them, my father at the age of 83, finally gave his life
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- My father at the age of 83, finally gave his life to the lord.
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- Finally gave his life to the lord. and he looked at dave
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- To the lord. and he looked at dave and he said, "you know, dave,
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- And he looked at dave and he said, "you know, dave, most men would have killed
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- And he said, "you know, dave, most men would have killed me knowing what i did,
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- Most men would have killed me knowing what i did, and you never did anything
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- Me knowing what i did, and you never did anything but show me love."
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- And you never did anything but show me love." amen?
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- But show me love." amen? >> [audience applauding]
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- Amen? >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and then you say,
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and then you say, "well, it's too hard."
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- >> joyce: and then you say, "well, it's too hard." well, yeah, it's hard,
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- "well, it's too hard." well, yeah, it's hard, but you know what?
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- Well, yeah, it's hard, but you know what? forgiving somebody that
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- But you know what? forgiving somebody that doesn't deserve it is not
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- Forgiving somebody that doesn't deserve it is not as hard as being full
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- Doesn't deserve it is not as hard as being full of the poison of hatred.
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- As hard as being full of the poison of hatred. >> [audience applauding]
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- Of the poison of hatred. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: that's what's hard.
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- Luke 21:19 says,
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- Luke 21:19 says, "in your patience possess
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- Luke 21:19 says, "in your patience possess ye your souls."
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- Well, your soul is your mind,
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- Well, your soul is your mind, your will, and your emotions.
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- Well, your soul is your mind, your will, and your emotions. it's what goes
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- Your will, and your emotions. it's what goes on inside of you.
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- It's what goes on inside of you. and it's what you think,
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- On inside of you. and it's what you think, what you want,
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- And it's what you think, what you want, and how you feel.
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- What you want, and how you feel. and if you don't possess
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- And how you feel. and if you don't possess your soul, it will possess you.
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- And if you don't possess your soul, it will possess you. >> [audience applauding]
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- >> joyce: and you can spend
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- >> joyce: and you can spend your life living by what
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- >> joyce: and you can spend your life living by what you think, or what you want,
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- Your life living by what you think, or what you want, or how you feel, and it's not
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- You think, or what you want, or how you feel, and it's not gonna be a very good life.
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- Or how you feel, and it's not gonna be a very good life. when people are impatient--
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- Gonna be a very good life. when people are impatient-- and you know there's a lot
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- When people are impatient-- and you know there's a lot of kinds of impatience.
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- And you know there's a lot of kinds of impatience. you know, i don't--
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- Of kinds of impatience. you know, i don't-- i don't really get too
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- You know, i don't-- i don't really get too upset if god's not moving
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- I don't really get too upset if god's not moving on my timeline because
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- Upset if god's not moving on my timeline because i already did that for
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- On my timeline because i already did that for years and that--
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- I already did that for years and that-- no matter how impatient
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- Years and that-- no matter how impatient i get with god, it's not
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- No matter how impatient i get with god, it's not gonna move him to hurry.
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- I get with god, it's not gonna move him to hurry. and so, he's gonna do
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- Gonna move him to hurry. and so, he's gonna do it when he's gonna do it,
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- And so, he's gonna do it when he's gonna do it, not until he's gonna do it.
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- It when he's gonna do it, not until he's gonna do it. he has an appointed time,
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- Not until he's gonna do it. he has an appointed time, a due time, and our times
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- He has an appointed time, a due time, and our times are really in his hands.
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- A due time, and our times are really in his hands. and so, we might as well
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- Are really in his hands. and so, we might as well just go ahead and enjoy life,
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- And so, we might as well just go ahead and enjoy life, while we wait for him to do
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- Just go ahead and enjoy life, while we wait for him to do whatever it is he's gonna do.
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- While we wait for him to do whatever it is he's gonna do. but we all have areas--
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- Whatever it is he's gonna do. but we all have areas-- >> [audience applauding]
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- But we all have areas-- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: like there are
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: like there are certain things that
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- >> joyce: like there are certain things that make me impatient.
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- And what happens when we get
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- And what happens when we get impatient is we, many times
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- And what happens when we get impatient is we, many times get into what the bible calls,
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- Impatient is we, many times get into what the bible calls, works of the flesh.
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- Get into what the bible calls, works of the flesh. god wants us to work.
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- But he doesn't want us to get
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- But he doesn't want us to get into works of the flesh.
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- But he doesn't want us to get into works of the flesh. works of the flesh is when we
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- Into works of the flesh. works of the flesh is when we try to do what only god can do.
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- Works of the flesh is when we try to do what only god can do. pride is always
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- Try to do what only god can do. pride is always behind impatience.
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- Pride is always behind impatience. we get impatient because god's
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- Behind impatience. we get impatient because god's not moving fast enough,
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- We get impatient because god's not moving fast enough, so we take over.
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- Not moving fast enough, so we take over. well, there's no better
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- So we take over. well, there's no better example than abraham and sarah.
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- Well, there's no better example than abraham and sarah. no better example at all.
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- Example than abraham and sarah. no better example at all. it's amazing when
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- No better example at all. it's amazing when you think about--
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- Let me just read you
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- Let me just read you a little bit of this.
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- Let me just read you a little bit of this. "now sarai, abram's wife,
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- A little bit of this. "now sarai, abram's wife, had borne him no children."
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- "now sarai, abram's wife, had borne him no children." god had promised them a child,
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- Had borne him no children." god had promised them a child, but it hadn't happened yet.
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- God had promised them a child, but it hadn't happened yet. and she got tired of waiting
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- But it hadn't happened yet. and she got tired of waiting so she, "said to abram,
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- And she got tired of waiting so she, "said to abram, 'the lord has restrained
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- So she, "said to abram, 'the lord has restrained me from bearing [children].
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- 'the lord has restrained me from bearing [children]. so i'm asking you to have
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- Me from bearing [children]. so i'm asking you to have intercourse with my maid;
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- So i'm asking you to have intercourse with my maid; it may be that i can obtain
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- Intercourse with my maid; it may be that i can obtain children by her.
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- It may be that i can obtain children by her. and abram listened
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- Children by her. and abram listened to and heeded what
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- And abram listened to and heeded what sarai said.'"
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- To and heeded what sarai said.'" well, any woman in here
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- Knows that was a dumb idea.
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- Knows that was a dumb idea. >> [audience laughing]
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- Knows that was a dumb idea. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: you don't--
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: you don't-- but i do notice that abraham
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- >> joyce: you don't-- but i do notice that abraham didn't put up much of a fight.
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- But i do notice that abraham didn't put up much of a fight. >> [audience laughing]
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- >> joyce: do you know
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- >> joyce: do you know what a mess they caused?
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- >> joyce: do you know what a mess they caused? the promised child isaac
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- Didn't come until 25 years
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- Didn't come until 25 years after god spoke to them.
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- And i--
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- And i-- ishmael was 13 when abram
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- And i-- ishmael was 13 when abram made him and hagar leave.
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- Ishmael was 13 when abram made him and hagar leave. and i think if they would've
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- Made him and hagar leave. and i think if they would've not gotten in the flesh
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- And i think if they would've not gotten in the flesh and birthed ishmael,
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- Not gotten in the flesh and birthed ishmael, their wait would've
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- And birthed ishmael, their wait would've been cut in half.
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- Their wait would've been cut in half. sometimes when you get the
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- Been cut in half. sometimes when you get the most frustrated at god,
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- Sometimes when you get the most frustrated at god, your miracle's right around
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- Most frustrated at god, your miracle's right around the corner, and you delay
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- Your miracle's right around the corner, and you delay it because you get in the flesh.
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- The corner, and you delay it because you get in the flesh. and the thing that's so funny
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- It because you get in the flesh. and the thing that's so funny here is--
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- And the thing that's so funny here is-- >> [audience applauding]
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- >> joyce: so abram took
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- >> joyce: so abram took her as a secondary wife.
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- >> joyce: so abram took her as a secondary wife. she became pregnant.
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- Her as a secondary wife. she became pregnant. "when she saw she
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- She became pregnant. "when she saw she was with child,
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- "when she saw she was with child, she looked with contempt
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- Was with child, she looked with contempt upon her mistress
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- She looked with contempt upon her mistress and despised her."
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- Upon her mistress and despised her." ♪ nah nee na na na nah♪
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- And despised her." ♪ nah nee na na na nah♪ ♪ i'm gonna have a baby ♪
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- ♪ nah nee na na na nah♪ ♪ i'm gonna have a baby ♪ ♪ and you're not ♪
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- ♪ i'm gonna have a baby ♪ ♪ and you're not ♪ and so, sarai right away
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- ♪ and you're not ♪ and so, sarai right away went to abram and said,
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- And so, sarai right away went to abram and said, "may [the responsibility for]
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- Went to abram and said, "may [the responsibility for] my wrong and deprivation
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- "may [the responsibility for] my wrong and deprivation of rights be upon you!
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- My wrong and deprivation of rights be upon you! i gave my maid into your bosom,
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- Of rights be upon you! i gave my maid into your bosom, and when she saw that
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- I gave my maid into your bosom, and when she saw that she was with child,
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- And when she saw that she was with child, i became contemptible
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- She was with child, i became contemptible and despised in her eyes."
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- I became contemptible and despised in her eyes." now, why is what she did--
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- How can that be abraham's fault?
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- How can that be abraham's fault? see, that's one of the things
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- How can that be abraham's fault? see, that's one of the things we need to stop too,
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- See, that's one of the things we need to stop too, is blaming everybody
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- We need to stop too, is blaming everybody else for our problems.
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- Is blaming everybody else for our problems. >> [audience applauding]
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- >> joyce: when i would act bad,
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- >> joyce: when i would act bad, back 45 years ago or so,
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- Not this morning thankfully.
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- Not this morning thankfully. when i would act
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- Not this morning thankfully. when i would act bad in the beginning
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- When i would act bad in the beginning of learning a lot
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- Bad in the beginning of learning a lot of the stuff that i teach now,
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- Of learning a lot of the stuff that i teach now, i would say,
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- Of the stuff that i teach now, i would say, "well, if you'd been raised
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- I would say, "well, if you'd been raised the way i was raised,
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- "well, if you'd been raised the way i was raised, you would not
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- The way i was raised, you would not act so good yourself."
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- You would not act so good yourself." and the lord put
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- Act so good yourself." and the lord put this in my heart,
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- And the lord put this in my heart, "yes, what happened to you
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- This in my heart, "yes, what happened to you is why you are the way you are,
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- "yes, what happened to you is why you are the way you are, but don't let it become
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- Is why you are the way you are, but don't let it become an excuse to stay that way."
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- But don't let it become an excuse to stay that way." >> [audience applauding]
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- An excuse to stay that way." >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: that was just like
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: that was just like a piece of gold i threw you.
- 00:12:26.368 --> 00:12:30.539
- >> joyce: that was just like a piece of gold i threw you. because as long as we're
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- A piece of gold i threw you. because as long as we're blaming, we're not
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- Because as long as we're blaming, we're not taking responsibility.
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- Blaming, we're not taking responsibility. and until we take
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- Taking responsibility. and until we take responsibility,
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- And until we take responsibility, we can't get well.
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- Responsibility, we can't get well. you say, "well,
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- We can't get well. you say, "well, it's not my fault."
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- You say, "well, it's not my fault." what happened to you
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- It's not my fault." what happened to you is not your fault.
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- What happened to you is not your fault. nor may be the way you behave
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- Is not your fault. nor may be the way you behave because of it, but as soon
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- Nor may be the way you behave because of it, but as soon as christ comes into your life
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- Because of it, but as soon as christ comes into your life and he begins to point these
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- As christ comes into your life and he begins to point these things out to you,
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- And he begins to point these things out to you, he's ready to help you
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- Things out to you, he's ready to help you get over it, but you
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- He's ready to help you get over it, but you have to face it and say,
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- Get over it, but you have to face it and say, "my behavior is wrong."
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- Have to face it and say, "my behavior is wrong." >> [audience applauding]
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- "my behavior is wrong." >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: all right now,
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: all right now, of course we're always,
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- >> joyce: all right now, of course we're always, you know, out of time
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- Of course we're always, you know, out of time before we wanna be.
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- You know, out of time before we wanna be. but you know,
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- Before we wanna be. but you know, faith is for the in-between.
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- But you know, faith is for the in-between. there's always a beginning
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- Faith is for the in-between. there's always a beginning and there's an end,
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- There's always a beginning and there's an end, but oh, the middle.
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- And there's an end, but oh, the middle. and i'll tell you, people
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- But oh, the middle. and i'll tell you, people who can't make it through
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- And i'll tell you, people who can't make it through the middle, will never
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- Who can't make it through the middle, will never make it to the end.
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- The middle, will never make it to the end. i always say, "i had a bad
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- Make it to the end. i always say, "i had a bad beginning, but i'm having
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- I always say, "i had a bad beginning, but i'm having a fantastic finish."
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- Beginning, but i'm having a fantastic finish." >> [audience applauding]
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- A fantastic finish." >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: so you may have
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: so you may have had the lousiest childhood
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- >> joyce: so you may have had the lousiest childhood of anybody on the planet.
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- Had the lousiest childhood of anybody on the planet. and maybe you had a bad
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- Of anybody on the planet. and maybe you had a bad marriage.
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- And maybe you had a bad marriage. i had a bad first marriage.
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- Marriage. i had a bad first marriage. he ran around with other women
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- I had a bad first marriage. he ran around with other women all the time, wouldn't work,
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- He ran around with other women all the time, wouldn't work, ended up in prison.
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- All the time, wouldn't work, ended up in prison. so by the time i met
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- Ended up in prison. so by the time i met and married dave, i didn't
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- So by the time i met and married dave, i didn't know what love was.
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- And married dave, i didn't know what love was. i mean, he told me he loved me.
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- Know what love was. i mean, he told me he loved me. i couldn't even say it back,
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- I mean, he told me he loved me. i couldn't even say it back, 'cause i didn't--
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- I couldn't even say it back, 'cause i didn't-- anybody that ever told
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- 'cause i didn't-- anybody that ever told me they loved me, hurt me.
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- Anybody that ever told me they loved me, hurt me. and i mean, god had the exact
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- Me they loved me, hurt me. and i mean, god had the exact right man picked out
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- And i mean, god had the exact right man picked out for me because...
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- Right man picked out for me because... >> [audience applauding]
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- >> joyce: he was patient
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- >> joyce: he was patient and he was patient with me.
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- >> joyce: he was patient and he was patient with me. now, he didn't let me just
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- And he was patient with me. now, he didn't let me just push him around,
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- Now, he didn't let me just push him around, but he was patient.
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- Push him around, but he was patient. and he decided
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- But he was patient. and he decided he was gonna be happy,
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- And he decided he was gonna be happy, and if i wanted to be happy,
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- He was gonna be happy, and if i wanted to be happy, i could be happy with him.
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- And if i wanted to be happy, i could be happy with him. and if i didn't,
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- I could be happy with him. and if i didn't, then he'd be happy anyway.
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- And if i didn't, then he'd be happy anyway. >> [audience laughing]
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- Then he'd be happy anyway. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and some of you need
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and some of you need to make that decision.
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- >> joyce: and some of you need to make that decision. because you're codependent
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- To make that decision. because you're codependent on somebody else,
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- Because you're codependent on somebody else, you wait to see how they're
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- On somebody else, you wait to see how they're gonna act before you decide
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- You wait to see how they're gonna act before you decide what kind of day you can have.
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- Mm, mm?
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- Mm, mm? and actually, dave deciding
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- Mm, mm? and actually, dave deciding to be happy, would make me
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- And actually, dave deciding to be happy, would make me so mad when he would be happy,
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- To be happy, would make me so mad when he would be happy, and i'd be--
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- So mad when he would be happy, and i'd be-- >> [audience laughing]
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- And i'd be-- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: oh, that just,
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: oh, that just, ripped my guts out.
- 00:15:03.659 --> 00:15:06.028
- >> joyce: oh, that just, ripped my guts out. but you know what?
- 00:15:06.095 --> 00:15:06.795
- Ripped my guts out. but you know what? it was one of the things
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- But you know what? it was one of the things that made me wanna change.
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- It was one of the things that made me wanna change. i thought, "man, if there's
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- That made me wanna change. i thought, "man, if there's peace like that, i want it."
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- So, in mark 11:24 it says, "ask
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- So, in mark 11:24 it says, "ask and it will be given you."
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- So, in mark 11:24 it says, "ask and it will be given you." ask and it will be given you.
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- And it will be given you." ask and it will be given you. you will get it.
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- Ask and it will be given you. you will get it. ask and you will get it.
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- But he doesn't say when.
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- But he doesn't say when. and you know,
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- But he doesn't say when. and you know, abraham and sarah
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- And you know, abraham and sarah waited 25 years.
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- Abraham and sarah waited 25 years. david was--
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- Waited 25 years. david was-- didn't wear the crown
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- David was-- didn't wear the crown till 22 years after he was
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- Didn't wear the crown till 22 years after he was anointed to be king.
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- Till 22 years after he was anointed to be king. and those 22 years he spent
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- Anointed to be king. and those 22 years he spent hiding in caves and running
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- And those 22 years he spent hiding in caves and running away from saul,
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- Hiding in caves and running away from saul, who was trying to kill him.
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- Away from saul, who was trying to kill him. joseph, same thing.
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- Who was trying to kill him. joseph, same thing. it was 22 years after
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- Joseph, same thing. it was 22 years after he had his dream before
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- It was 22 years after he had his dream before he was living his dream.
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- He had his dream before he was living his dream. and most of the rest
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- He was living his dream. and most of the rest of the time,
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- And most of the rest of the time, he was a slave or in prison
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- Of the time, he was a slave or in prison for something that he didn't do.
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- He was a slave or in prison for something that he didn't do. and that's what
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- For something that he didn't do. and that's what got him prepared.
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- And that's what got him prepared. see, this is the hardest
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- Got him prepared. see, this is the hardest thing to understand,
- 00:16:15.030 --> 00:16:16.031
- See, this is the hardest thing to understand, but that's what got
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- Thing to understand, but that's what got him prepared to be
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- But that's what got him prepared to be in the position he was at.
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- Him prepared to be in the position he was at. what david went through
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- In the position he was at. what david went through got him prepared to be king.
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- What david went through got him prepared to be king. and so really,
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- Got him prepared to be king. and so really, when you have a problem,
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- And so really, when you have a problem, when you have a trial
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- When you have a problem, when you have a trial or tribulation, god has not
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- When you have a trial or tribulation, god has not called us to understand.
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- Or tribulation, god has not called us to understand. "why, god, why?
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- Called us to understand. "why, god, why? why?
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- "why, god, why? why? i don't understand?"
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- Why? i don't understand?" well, there's so many things
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- I don't understand?" well, there's so many things that i don't understand.
- 00:16:44.693 --> 00:16:46.495
- Well, there's so many things that i don't understand. i don't understand the things
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- That i don't understand. i don't understand the things that happen to little kids.
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- I don't understand the things that happen to little kids. i don't understand why--
- 00:16:52.267 --> 00:16:57.072
- That happen to little kids. i don't understand why-- i prayed that god would
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- I don't understand why-- i prayed that god would get me out of that
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- I prayed that god would get me out of that situation with my dad.
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- Get me out of that situation with my dad. i mean, i prayed my mother
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- Situation with my dad. i mean, i prayed my mother would leave him,
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- I mean, i prayed my mother would leave him, but he didn't get me out of it,
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- Would leave him, but he didn't get me out of it, but he did get me through it.
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- But he didn't get me out of it, but he did get me through it. >> [audience applauding]
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- But he did get me through it. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and it is really
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and it is really like the foundation of what
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- >> joyce: and it is really like the foundation of what got me started doing
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- Like the foundation of what got me started doing what i'm doing today.
- 00:17:21.730 --> 00:17:24.399
- Got me started doing what i'm doing today. because there's so many
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- What i'm doing today. because there's so many people that have been hurt,
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- Because there's so many people that have been hurt, and they've never gotten
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- People that have been hurt, and they've never gotten over it because they have
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- And they've never gotten over it because they have never known how to deal with it.
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- Over it because they have never known how to deal with it. just telling you that you don't
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- Never known how to deal with it. just telling you that you don't have to live by your feelings,
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- Just telling you that you don't have to live by your feelings, that you can feel like you
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- Have to live by your feelings, that you can feel like you wanna do the wrong thing,
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- That you can feel like you wanna do the wrong thing, and do the right thing.
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- Wanna do the wrong thing, and do the right thing. i mean, that can change
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- And do the right thing. i mean, that can change your whole life.
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- I mean, that can change your whole life. so it's the in-between.
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- Your whole life. so it's the in-between. how many of you are
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- So it's the in-between. how many of you are in the middle right now,
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- How many of you are in the middle right now, and you need to make
- 00:17:52.161 --> 00:17:53.729
- In the middle right now, and you need to make it through?
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- And you need to make it through? okay.
- 00:17:54.963 --> 00:17:55.597
- Well, this is gonna--
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- Well, this is gonna-- it's especially good for you
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- Well, this is gonna-- it's especially good for you to be here then tonight.
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- It's especially good for you to be here then tonight. amen?
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- To be here then tonight. amen? all right.
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- Amen? all right. one of the things that
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- All right. one of the things that i have a hard time with is,
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- One of the things that i have a hard time with is, when i go shopping
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- I have a hard time with is, when i go shopping and i can't find anybody
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- When i go shopping and i can't find anybody to take my money.
- 00:18:20.389 --> 00:18:22.157
- And i can't find anybody to take my money. >> [audience laughing]
- 00:18:22.224 --> 00:18:23.091
- To take my money. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: have you noticed
- 00:18:23.158 --> 00:18:24.326
- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: have you noticed how few clerks there
- 00:18:24.393 --> 00:18:25.561
- >> joyce: have you noticed how few clerks there are in stores now?
- 00:18:25.627 --> 00:18:28.096
- Colossians 3:12,
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- Colossians 3:12, says to "put on patience."
- 00:18:34.770 --> 00:18:38.540
- Colossians 3:12, says to "put on patience." put it on.
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- "put on humility."
- 00:18:41.410 --> 00:18:44.046
- "put on humility." how do you put on patience?
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- "put on humility." how do you put on patience? well, i go in my closet every
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- How do you put on patience? well, i go in my closet every morning and get dressed,
- 00:18:48.417 --> 00:18:49.985
- Well, i go in my closet every morning and get dressed, and i've never had my clothes
- 00:18:50.052 --> 00:18:52.354
- Morning and get dressed, and i've never had my clothes jump off the hanger
- 00:18:52.421 --> 00:18:53.188
- And i've never had my clothes jump off the hanger and just jump on my body.
- 00:18:53.255 --> 00:18:54.489
- Jump off the hanger and just jump on my body. >> [audience laughing]
- 00:18:54.556 --> 00:18:56.725
- And just jump on my body. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i've had to choose
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i've had to choose something, try it on,
- 00:18:57.893 --> 00:19:00.896
- >> joyce: i've had to choose something, try it on, and if you're a woman,
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- Something, try it on, and if you're a woman, you know that sometimes you may
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- And if you're a woman, you know that sometimes you may be put on two or three things--
- 00:19:03.398 --> 00:19:06.602
- You know that sometimes you may be put on two or three things-- or more,
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- Be put on two or three things-- or more, before you finally choose
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- Or more, before you finally choose something that you think
- 00:19:13.342 --> 00:19:14.376
- Before you finally choose something that you think looks right on you.
- 00:19:14.443 --> 00:19:16.545
- Something that you think looks right on you. and we need to dress
- 00:19:16.612 --> 00:19:17.613
- Looks right on you. and we need to dress spiritually.
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- And pastor todd,
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- And pastor todd, maybe in some of his teaching
- 00:19:22.384 --> 00:19:25.087
- And pastor todd, maybe in some of his teaching on spiritual warfare,
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- Maybe in some of his teaching on spiritual warfare, i don't know if he's brought
- 00:19:27.022 --> 00:19:28.056
- On spiritual warfare, i don't know if he's brought out yet that
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- I don't know if he's brought out yet that in ephesians 6 it says,
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- Out yet that in ephesians 6 it says, "put on the shoes of peace."
- 00:19:31.627 --> 00:19:35.664
- In ephesians 6 it says, "put on the shoes of peace." "put on the breastplate
- 00:19:35.731 --> 00:19:37.299
- "put on the shoes of peace." "put on the breastplate of righteousness."
- 00:19:37.366 --> 00:19:38.834
- "put on the breastplate of righteousness." and that's not like just like,
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- Of righteousness." and that's not like just like, "okay, i put on my helmet,
- 00:19:40.936 --> 00:19:43.939
- I put on my shoes of peace."
- 00:19:44.006 --> 00:19:47.876
- I put on my shoes of peace." no, it actually means to do it,
- 00:19:47.943 --> 00:19:51.246
- I put on my shoes of peace." no, it actually means to do it, to put it on and to wear it.
- 00:19:51.313 --> 00:19:53.181
- No, it actually means to do it, to put it on and to wear it. and here again, you don't
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- To put it on and to wear it. and here again, you don't have to feel like it.
- 00:19:54.716 --> 00:19:57.085
- And here again, you don't have to feel like it. but if we took as much time--
- 00:19:57.152 --> 00:19:59.321
- Have to feel like it. but if we took as much time-- half as much time--
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- But if we took as much time-- half as much time-- getting ready spiritually before
- 00:20:00.956 --> 00:20:02.557
- Half as much time-- getting ready spiritually before we go out of the house,
- 00:20:02.624 --> 00:20:03.425
- Getting ready spiritually before we go out of the house, as we do getting
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- We go out of the house, as we do getting ready physically--
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- As we do getting ready physically-- >> [audience applauding]
- 00:20:06.528 --> 00:20:12.367
- Ready physically-- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: i mean, i had to--
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: i mean, i had to-- this is new.
- 00:20:14.269 --> 00:20:14.836
- >> joyce: i mean, i had to-- this is new. i bought this for you guys.
- 00:20:14.903 --> 00:20:16.138
- This is new. i bought this for you guys. >> [audience cheering]
- 00:20:16.204 --> 00:20:20.709
- >> joyce: and i got here,
- 00:20:25.814 --> 00:20:27.683
- >> joyce: and i got here, and the people that loaded
- 00:20:27.749 --> 00:20:31.687
- >> joyce: and i got here, and the people that loaded and unloaded our car,
- 00:20:31.753 --> 00:20:33.889
- And the people that loaded and unloaded our car, when i got here,
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- And unloaded our car, when i got here, they didn't bring my clothes.
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- When i got here, they didn't bring my clothes. >> [audience laughing]
- 00:20:36.858 --> 00:20:40.562
- They didn't bring my clothes. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i'm like--
- 00:20:40.629 --> 00:20:43.565
- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i'm like-- let me tell you, if i would've
- 00:20:43.632 --> 00:20:48.070
- >> joyce: i'm like-- let me tell you, if i would've done what i felt like doing--
- 00:20:48.136 --> 00:20:49.338
- Let me tell you, if i would've done what i felt like doing-- >> [audience laughing]
- 00:20:49.404 --> 00:20:54.743
- Done what i felt like doing-- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and so, my daughter
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and so, my daughter and her husband were
- 00:20:55.677 --> 00:20:56.311
- >> joyce: and so, my daughter and her husband were gonna drive down anyway,
- 00:20:56.378 --> 00:20:59.781
- And her husband were gonna drive down anyway, so they just left a couple
- 00:20:59.848 --> 00:21:00.982
- Gonna drive down anyway, so they just left a couple days early and brought
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- So they just left a couple days early and brought my clothes.
- 00:21:02.184 --> 00:21:02.784
- Days early and brought my clothes. but i have really gone
- 00:21:02.851 --> 00:21:04.453
- My clothes. but i have really gone to a lot of trouble to look
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- But i have really gone to a lot of trouble to look good for you tonight.
- 00:21:07.255 --> 00:21:09.291
- To a lot of trouble to look good for you tonight. >> [audience cheering]
- 00:21:09.358 --> 00:21:15.997
- Good for you tonight. >> [audience cheering] >> joyce: you know how we are.
- 00:21:16.064 --> 00:21:18.734
- >> [audience cheering] >> joyce: you know how we are. but see, here's the thing.
- 00:21:18.800 --> 00:21:19.935
- >> joyce: you know how we are. but see, here's the thing. i took more time getting
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- But see, here's the thing. i took more time getting dressed spiritually--
- 00:21:21.436 --> 00:21:23.772
- I took more time getting dressed spiritually-- >> [audience cheering]
- 00:21:23.839 --> 00:21:25.340
- Dressed spiritually-- >> [audience cheering] >> joyce: than i did
- 00:21:25.407 --> 00:21:26.341
- >> [audience cheering] >> joyce: than i did getting this on.
- 00:21:26.408 --> 00:21:28.410
- >> joyce: than i did getting this on. i've been getting dressed
- 00:21:28.477 --> 00:21:29.044
- Getting this on. i've been getting dressed spiritually all week.
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- I've been getting dressed spiritually all week. is anybody understanding
- 00:21:32.814 --> 00:21:33.782
- Spiritually all week. is anybody understanding what i'm saying?
- 00:21:33.849 --> 00:21:34.416
- Is anybody understanding what i'm saying? >> [audience applauding]
- 00:21:34.483 --> 00:21:35.884
- What i'm saying? >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: all right.
- 00:21:35.951 --> 00:21:39.488
- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: all right. so, let's just talk
- 00:21:39.554 --> 00:21:40.689
- >> joyce: all right. so, let's just talk about a few things.
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- So, let's just talk about a few things. we've got two minutes left.
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- About a few things. we've got two minutes left. how do you do with clerks?
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- We've got two minutes left. how do you do with clerks? slow clerks, new clerks,
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- How do you do with clerks? slow clerks, new clerks, no clerks, clerks in training,
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- Slow clerks, new clerks, no clerks, clerks in training, clerks who run out of change,
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- No clerks, clerks in training, clerks who run out of change, clerks who have to replace
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- Clerks who run out of change, clerks who have to replace the tape in the register
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- Clerks who have to replace the tape in the register and don't know how to do it.
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- The tape in the register and don't know how to do it. >> [audience applauding]
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- And don't know how to do it. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: clerks who are rude,
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: clerks who are rude, clerks who talk
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- >> joyce: clerks who are rude, clerks who talk on the phone the entire
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- Clerks who talk on the phone the entire time they're waiting on you,
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- On the phone the entire time they're waiting on you, clerks who ignore you
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- Time they're waiting on you, clerks who ignore you and don't wait on you
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- Clerks who ignore you and don't wait on you at all because you're
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- And don't wait on you at all because you're on a personal phone call.
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- At all because you're on a personal phone call. you can tell that clerks
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- On a personal phone call. you can tell that clerks annoy me sometimes.
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- You can tell that clerks annoy me sometimes. >> [audience laughing]
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- Annoy me sometimes. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: clerks who leave
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: clerks who leave the metal detectors on your
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- >> joyce: clerks who leave the metal detectors on your clothes, and they don't go off
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- The metal detectors on your clothes, and they don't go off when you're going out the door.
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- Clothes, and they don't go off when you're going out the door. that would be bad enough you'd,
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- When you're going out the door. that would be bad enough you'd, "is she a thief?"
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- That would be bad enough you'd, "is she a thief?" but no, you get it home
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- "is she a thief?" but no, you get it home and you quickly find out
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- But no, you get it home and you quickly find out you cannot get it off,
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- And you quickly find out you cannot get it off, and if you do,
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- You cannot get it off, and if you do, it's gonna spill ink all
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- And if you do, it's gonna spill ink all over your clothes.
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- It's gonna spill ink all over your clothes. and so, you have to take
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- Over your clothes. and so, you have to take your time and your money,
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- And so, you have to take your time and your money, to take the thing that you
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- Your time and your money, to take the thing that you bought back to the store,
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- To take the thing that you bought back to the store, to get them to take
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- Bought back to the store, to get them to take the thing off.
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- To get them to take the thing off. amen?
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- The thing off. amen? >> audience: amen.
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- Amen? >> audience: amen. >> joyce: so, pray
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- >> audience: amen. >> joyce: so, pray for me with clerks.
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- >> joyce: so, pray for me with clerks. >> [audience laughing]
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- For me with clerks. >> [audience laughing] >> [audience applauding]
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- >> announcer: wanna
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- >> announcer: wanna know a secret?
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- Know a secret? the words you say can
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- The words you say can make a big impact on your
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- Make a big impact on your life and attitude.
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- Life and attitude. no pressure.
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- No pressure. but the bible says
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- But the bible says "the power of life
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- "the power of life and death
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- And death is in the tongue."
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- >> joyce: well,
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- >> joyce: well, with god's help,
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- With god's help, we wanna make
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- We wanna make sure the words
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- Sure the words coming out
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- Coming out of our mouth line up
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- Of our mouth line up with the word of god.
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- With the word of god. this book,
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- This book, "the secret
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- "the secret power of speaking
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- Power of speaking god's word,"
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- God's word," out loud, is one
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- Out loud, is one of my most popular
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- Verses for every situation you
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- Situation you can think of.
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- Can think of. >> announcer: verses
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- >> announcer: verses are organized by topic,
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- Are organized by topic, so you can easily find
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- So you can easily find scripture for whatever
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- >> joyce: well, when you
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- >> joyce: well, when you call today to get your copy
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- Call today to get your copy of "the secret power
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- Of speaking god's word," you won't be the only
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- You won't be the only one to learn the secret.
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- One to learn the secret. you'll also be providing
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- You'll also be providing for people all over
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- For people all over the world to hear
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- The world to hear the truth of the gospel.
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- The truth of the gospel. your financial support
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- Your financial support helps us spread the love
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- Helps us spread the love of christ in meaningful ways.
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- Of christ in meaningful ways. that was evident in 2025
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- That was evident in 2025 as we took big steps
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- As we took big steps into new endeavors.
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- Including launching
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- Including launching the hope factory in zimbabwe.
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- The hope factory in zimbabwe. the hope factory now
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- The hope factory now allows us to produce
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- Allows us to produce high-quality meals,
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- High-quality meals, containing 75% of a child's
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- Containing 75% of a child's daily nutritional needs.
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- Daily nutritional needs. that helped push our
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- That helped push our running total to more than
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- Running total to more than 540 million meals served.
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- 540 million meals served. this year also marked
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- This year also marked a milestone for providing
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- A milestone for providing clean water around the world.
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- Clean water around the world. we've now dug 3,000 fresh
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- We've now dug 3,000 fresh water wells, which are
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- Water wells, which are crucial to those communities.
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- Crucial to those communities. medical and dental missions
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- Medical and dental missions continue to be a cornerstone
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- Continue to be a cornerstone of our outreaches.
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- Of our outreaches. this year, hand of hope's
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- This year, hand of hope's running total for medical
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- Running total for medical and dental care surpassed
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- And dental care surpassed 4.02 million people.
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- 4.02 million people. and in 2025, we launched
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- And in 2025, we launched hope mountain ranch in utah.
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- Hope mountain ranch in utah. it's a place of refuge and
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- It's a place of refuge and healing for women and girls
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- Healing for women and girls facing issues like abuse,
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- Facing issues like abuse, human trafficking,
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- Human trafficking, and addiction.
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- And addiction. it's a cause that
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- It's a cause that is especially close
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- Is especially close to my heart.
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- To my heart. 2025 brought some incredibly
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- 2025 brought some incredibly difficult times through
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- Difficult times through natural disasters.
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- Natural disasters. your gifts allowed us to
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- Your gifts allowed us to respond to devastating crises
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- Respond to devastating crises over the last few months,
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- Over the last few months, such as the texas flood,
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- Such as the texas flood, which killed more
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- Which killed more than 130 people.
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- Than 130 people. but the most important
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- But the most important thing we do with your help,
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- Thing we do with your help, is share the gospel
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- Is share the gospel around the world.
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- Around the world. that's all thanks to gifts
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- That's all thanks to gifts from people like you.
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- Well, as 2025 wraps up,
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- Well, as 2025 wraps up, this is the perfect time
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- This is the perfect time to give an end of the year gift
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- To give an end of the year gift to share christ and love people
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- To share christ and love people throughout 2026 and beyond.
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- Throughout 2026 and beyond. remember, your gift
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- Remember, your gift is tax deductible,
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- And your generosity is crucial to sharing the love of jesus.
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- To sharing the love of jesus. >> announcer: call us
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- >> joyce: i pray you have a blessed and a joyful
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- A blessed and a joyful holiday season,
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- Holiday season, and an even better 2026.
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- >> [♪♪]
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- >> ginger: real life.
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- And me, ginger stache, along with some amazing friends,
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- Along with some amazing friends, as we honestly share
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- As we honestly share the hard stuff,
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- The hard stuff, laugh through those
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- Laugh through those unpredictable moments,
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- Unpredictable moments, and learn to apply what
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- And learn to apply what god says about it all.
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- God says about it all. watch or listen to new
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- >> susan: when i give
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- >> susan: when i give what little bit of money
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- What little bit of money that i'm able to give,
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- That i'm able to give, then she takes that
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- Then she takes that and does something
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- And does something bigger and better with it.
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- I can't leave
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- I can't leave what i do to go
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- What i do to go and help them
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- And help them rebuild a house,
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- Rebuild a house, or just the things
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- Or just the things that need
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- That need to be done.
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- To be done. and if you can
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- And if you can just take
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- Just take the little bit
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- The little bit of what god's
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- Of what god's given you,
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- Given you, that she can go
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- That she can go and do all
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- And do all the things--
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- The things-- incredible things
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- Incredible things that she does.
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- That she does. why would you not
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- Why would you not wanna do that?
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- Wanna do that? just do it.
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- >> announcer: we hope you
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- >> announcer: we hope you enjoyed today's program.
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- Enjoyed today's program. we are so grateful
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- We are so grateful to our joyce meyer
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- To our joyce meyer ministries partners
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- Ministries partners who make this
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- Who make this and all we do possible,
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- And all we do possible, including sharing
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- Including sharing god's word
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- God's word and offering help
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- And offering help to people in need
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- To people in need all over the world.
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