Joyce Meyer - Patience (Part 1)

August 26, 2025 | S E | 29:29

Do you ever struggle with patience? Today, Joyce shares how patience, a fruit of the Spirit, can help you enjoy peace and contentment, even when life isn't going as planned.

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Joyce Meyer: Enjoying Everyday Life | Joyce Meyer - Patience (Part 1) | August 26, 2025
  • >> joyce: well, before we start
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  • >> joyce: well, before we start today's teaching, i'm personally
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  • Today's teaching, i'm personally inviting you to this year's
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  • Inviting you to this year's love life women's conference.
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  • My special guests and i will
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  • My special guests and i will share god's word,
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  • Share god's word, and help you experience
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  • And help you experience his presence and love,
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  • His presence and love, in a life-changing way.
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  • In a life-changing way. i will show you what
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  • I will show you what it means to be fully his.
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  • It means to be fully his. take time away from all
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  • Take time away from all the cares of this world,
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  • The cares of this world, and focus on the one
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  • And focus on the one who has your name inscribed
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  • Who has your name inscribed on the palms of his hands.
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  • On the palms of his hands. he thinks about you everyday.
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  • >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer.
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  • >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer. i've seen god's power
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  • >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer. i've seen god's power transform my own life,
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  • I've seen god's power transform my own life, and he will do it for you.
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  • >> joyce: well, i would
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  • >> joyce: well, i would like to start tonight
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  • >> joyce: well, i would like to start tonight in mark 11:12-13.
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  • Like to start tonight in mark 11:12-13. how many of you remember
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  • In mark 11:12-13. how many of you remember the fig tree that jesus cursed?
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  • How many of you remember the fig tree that jesus cursed? i used to feel sorry for
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  • The fig tree that jesus cursed? i used to feel sorry for that fig tree, 'cause i thought,
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  • I used to feel sorry for that fig tree, 'cause i thought, "well, it wasn't his fault."
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  • That fig tree, 'cause i thought, "well, it wasn't his fault." "on the day following,
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  • "well, it wasn't his fault." "on the day following, when they had come away
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  • "on the day following, when they had come away from bethany, he was hungry."
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  • When they had come away from bethany, he was hungry." now, that's important,
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  • Say, "he was hungry."
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  • Say, "he was hungry." >> audience: he was hungry.
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  • Say, "he was hungry." >> audience: he was hungry. >> joyce: you know,
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  • >> audience: he was hungry. >> joyce: you know, there's a lot of hungry
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  • >> joyce: you know, there's a lot of hungry people in the world.
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  • There's a lot of hungry people in the world. and i'm not specifically
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  • People in the world. and i'm not specifically talking about physical hunger,
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  • And i'm not specifically talking about physical hunger, but they want something.
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  • Talking about physical hunger, but they want something. they know there's something
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  • But they want something. they know there's something missing, and they try to find
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  • They know there's something missing, and they try to find it in all the wrong places.
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  • But just remember that
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  • But just remember that everywhere you go,
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  • But just remember that everywhere you go, there's hungry people.
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  • Everywhere you go, there's hungry people. "and seeing in the distance
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  • There's hungry people. "and seeing in the distance a fig tree [covered] with
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  • "and seeing in the distance a fig tree [covered] with leaves, he went to see
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  • A fig tree [covered] with leaves, he went to see if he could find any [fruit]
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  • Leaves, he went to see if he could find any [fruit] on it."
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  • If he could find any [fruit] on it." jesus was hungry.
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  • On it." jesus was hungry. he saw the fig tree
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  • Jesus was hungry. he saw the fig tree in the distance.
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  • He saw the fig tree in the distance. so, he went to see if there
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  • In the distance. so, he went to see if there was any fruit on it because
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  • So, he went to see if there was any fruit on it because the fig tree is supposed to--
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  • Was any fruit on it because the fig tree is supposed to-- when the leaves come,
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  • The fig tree is supposed to-- when the leaves come, there's supposed to be fruit
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  • When the leaves come, there's supposed to be fruit under the leaves.
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  • There's supposed to be fruit under the leaves. "but when he came up to it,
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  • Under the leaves. "but when he came up to it, he found nothing but leaves,
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  • "but when he came up to it, he found nothing but leaves, for the fig season really
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  • He found nothing but leaves, for the fig season really had not come yet."
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  • For the fig season really had not come yet." now, the reason why jesus
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  • Had not come yet." now, the reason why jesus cursed the fig tree
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  • Now, the reason why jesus cursed the fig tree is because it was a phony.
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  • Cursed the fig tree is because it was a phony. it made it look like it had
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  • Is because it was a phony. it made it look like it had something that it really
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  • It made it look like it had something that it really didn't have.
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  • Something that it really didn't have. and i like to compare that
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  • Didn't have. and i like to compare that to christians who go to church,
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  • And i like to compare that to christians who go to church, have a bible,
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  • To christians who go to church, have a bible, have a tape recorder,
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  • Have a bible, have a tape recorder, maybe a few bumper stickers,
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  • Have a tape recorder, maybe a few bumper stickers, cross around your neck.
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  • Maybe a few bumper stickers, cross around your neck. you got some christian
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  • Cross around your neck. you got some christian paraphernalia.
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  • You got some christian paraphernalia. it looks like--
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  • It looks like you
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  • It looks like you are a christian.
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  • It looks like you are a christian. and so, maybe you have
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  • Are a christian. and so, maybe you have a hungry neighbor,
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  • And so, maybe you have a hungry neighbor, and you've tried to talk to 'em
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  • A hungry neighbor, and you've tried to talk to 'em a little bit once in a while,
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  • And you've tried to talk to 'em a little bit once in a while, and they really didn't
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  • A little bit once in a while, and they really didn't seem to want anything
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  • And they really didn't seem to want anything to do with you.
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  • Seem to want anything to do with you. but they got kind
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  • To do with you. but they got kind of desperate in their life.
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  • But they got kind of desperate in their life. they were having trouble
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  • Of desperate in their life. they were having trouble in their marriage and they
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  • They were having trouble in their marriage and they thought, "well, those people
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  • In their marriage and they thought, "well, those people next door, they're christians
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  • Thought, "well, those people next door, they're christians and so maybe they can help us."
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  • Next door, they're christians and so maybe they can help us." they went over to their
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  • And so maybe they can help us." they went over to their house and the christians
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  • They went over to their house and the christians were kind of rude.
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  • House and the christians were kind of rude. they didn't--
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  • Were kind of rude. they didn't-- weren't really wanting
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  • They didn't-- weren't really wanting company right then.
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  • Weren't really wanting company right then. but they told them to come
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  • Company right then. but they told them to come in and they talked
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  • But they told them to come in and they talked for a little bit,
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  • In and they talked for a little bit, but the "christian" was using
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  • For a little bit, but the "christian" was using some kind of not so good
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  • But the "christian" was using some kind of not so good language for a christian.
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  • Some kind of not so good language for a christian. and the house wasn't really
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  • Language for a christian. and the house wasn't really well taken care of,
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  • And the house wasn't really well taken care of, so he certainly wasn't
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  • Well taken care of, so he certainly wasn't an excellent person.
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  • And the bible says,
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  • And the bible says, "you will know them
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  • And the bible says, "you will know them by their fruit."
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  • "you will know them by their fruit." not by bumper stickers
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  • By their fruit." not by bumper stickers and christian jewelry.
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  • Maybe you came to all three
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  • Maybe you came to all three services this morning
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  • Maybe you came to all three services this morning and you're back tonight.
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  • Services this morning and you're back tonight. you know, sitting in a church
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  • And you're back tonight. you know, sitting in a church doesn't make you a christian.
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  • You know, sitting in a church doesn't make you a christian. i could go sit in my garage
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  • Doesn't make you a christian. i could go sit in my garage all day and it would
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  • I could go sit in my garage all day and it would never make me a car.
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  • All day and it would never make me a car. >> [audience laughing]
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  • Never make me a car. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: no matter how
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: no matter how long i sat there, it would
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  • >> joyce: no matter how long i sat there, it would never turn me into a car.
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  • And so, jesus said,
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  • And so, jesus said, "love one another.
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  • And so, jesus said, "love one another. just as i have loved you.
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  • "love one another. just as i have loved you. by this shall all [men] know
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  • Just as i have loved you. by this shall all [men] know that you are my disciples."
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  • By this shall all [men] know that you are my disciples." love is really what
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  • That you are my disciples." love is really what all the other fruit
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  • Love is really what all the other fruit comes out of.
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  • All the other fruit comes out of. but i decided that i would
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  • Comes out of. but i decided that i would teach on your favorite
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  • But i decided that i would teach on your favorite fruit of the spirit tonight.
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  • Teach on your favorite fruit of the spirit tonight. i told dave--
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  • Fruit of the spirit tonight. i told dave-- i said, "i bet people are gonna
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  • I told dave-- i said, "i bet people are gonna be so excited when i tell
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  • I said, "i bet people are gonna be so excited when i tell them what i'm gonna teach on."
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  • Be so excited when i tell them what i'm gonna teach on." and he said, "ah, they might
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  • Them what i'm gonna teach on." and he said, "ah, they might run out of the church."
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  • And he said, "ah, they might run out of the church." and i said, "no, they're
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  • Run out of the church." and i said, "no, they're gonna be excited."
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  • And i said, "no, they're gonna be excited." so, i'm going to teach
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  • Gonna be excited." so, i'm going to teach on patience.
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  • So, i'm going to teach on patience. >> [audience cheering]
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  • >> joyce: you will know
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  • >> joyce: you will know them by their fruit,
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  • >> joyce: you will know them by their fruit, not by their leaves.
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  • Them by their fruit, not by their leaves. you know, adam tried leaves
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  • Not by their leaves. you know, adam tried leaves too, and it didn't work for him.
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  • You know, adam tried leaves too, and it didn't work for him. james 1:4, "but let endurance
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  • Too, and it didn't work for him. james 1:4, "but let endurance and steadfastness
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  • James 1:4, "but let endurance and steadfastness and patience have full play
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  • And steadfastness and patience have full play and do a thorough work,
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  • And patience have full play and do a thorough work, so that you may be [people]
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  • And do a thorough work, so that you may be [people] perfectly and fully
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  • So that you may be [people] perfectly and fully developed [with no defects],
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  • Perfectly and fully developed [with no defects], lacking in nothing."
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  • Developed [with no defects], lacking in nothing." that's such an interesting
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  • Scripture.
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  • Scripture. some of the other translations
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  • Scripture. some of the other translations says: "needing nothing,
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  • Some of the other translations says: "needing nothing, wanting nothing."
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  • Says: "needing nothing, wanting nothing." can you imagine getting
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  • Wanting nothing." can you imagine getting to the point where you
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  • Can you imagine getting to the point where you were so content that
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  • To the point where you were so content that there really isn't even
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  • Were so content that there really isn't even anything that you want,
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  • There really isn't even anything that you want, because you know that god
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  • Anything that you want, because you know that god has given you in that moment,
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  • Because you know that god has given you in that moment, everything you need
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  • Has given you in that moment, everything you need right then.
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  • Everything you need right then. and when you need
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  • Right then. and when you need something else later on,
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  • And when you need something else later on, he'll be there to provide
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  • Something else later on, he'll be there to provide that for you also.
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  • He'll be there to provide that for you also. wonder how much energy
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  • That for you also. wonder how much energy we waste getting upset
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  • Wonder how much energy we waste getting upset and being impatient when
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  • We waste getting upset and being impatient when things aren't going the way
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  • And being impatient when things aren't going the way we want 'em to.
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  • Things aren't going the way we want 'em to. now, i asked dave this morning
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  • We want 'em to. now, i asked dave this morning what area he would say
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  • Now, i asked dave this morning what area he would say he's the most impatient in,
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  • What area he would say he's the most impatient in, and he said, "well,
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  • He's the most impatient in, and he said, "well, i'm really not impatient."
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  • And he said, "well, i'm really not impatient." and then, which he's really not.
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  • I'm really not impatient." and then, which he's really not. but he's got a couple
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  • And then, which he's really not. but he's got a couple of little things, you know,
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  • But he's got a couple of little things, you know, everybody's got some stuff.
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  • Of little things, you know, everybody's got some stuff. they may stuff it somewhere,
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  • Everybody's got some stuff. they may stuff it somewhere, but they've got some stuff.
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  • They may stuff it somewhere, but they've got some stuff. and i said, "well, you know,
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  • But they've got some stuff. and i said, "well, you know, you have a few things,
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  • And i said, "well, you know, you have a few things, like you get a little irritated
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  • You have a few things, like you get a little irritated when somebody's driving wrong."
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  • Like you get a little irritated when somebody's driving wrong." and he said, "well, i've really
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  • When somebody's driving wrong." and he said, "well, i've really mostly gotten over that."
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  • And he said, "well, i've really mostly gotten over that." i said, "oh, well,
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  • Mostly gotten over that." i said, "oh, well, what about when you're
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  • I said, "oh, well, what about when you're not playing good golf?"
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  • What about when you're not playing good golf?" and which has happened
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  • Not playing good golf?" and which has happened down here a couple of days.
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  • And which has happened down here a couple of days. and he said, "well,
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  • Down here a couple of days. and he said, "well, maybe i get just a little bit
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  • And he said, "well, maybe i get just a little bit impatient for just a minute,
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  • Maybe i get just a little bit impatient for just a minute, but i get over it, right away."
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  • Impatient for just a minute, but i get over it, right away." i said, "you are just
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  • But i get over it, right away." i said, "you are just too good for me."
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  • I said, "you are just too good for me." >> [audience laughing]
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  • Too good for me." >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: then i called--
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: then i called-- my daughter called me,
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  • >> joyce: then i called-- my daughter called me, and i said to her,
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  • My daughter called me, and i said to her, "i'm looking for examples,
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  • And i said to her, "i'm looking for examples, you know, other than
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  • "i'm looking for examples, you know, other than just myself."
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  • You know, other than just myself." and i said, "what do you
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  • Just myself." and i said, "what do you think you're the most
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  • And i said, "what do you think you're the most impatient about?"
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  • Think you're the most impatient about?" and she said, "oh,
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  • Impatient about?" and she said, "oh, i don't think i'm impatient."
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  • And she said, "oh, i don't think i'm impatient." >> [audience laughing]
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  • >> joyce: so i'm thinking,
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  • >> joyce: so i'm thinking, "well, everybody else
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  • >> joyce: so i'm thinking, "well, everybody else in the world sure is perfect,
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  • "well, everybody else in the world sure is perfect, or i have got a problem."
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  • In the world sure is perfect, or i have got a problem." >> [audience laughing]
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  • Or i have got a problem." >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: can anybody think,
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: can anybody think, without having to think
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  • >> joyce: can anybody think, without having to think about it too long,
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  • Without having to think about it too long, some area that you're
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  • About it too long, some area that you're impatient in?
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  • Some area that you're impatient in? let's see...
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  • Impatient in? let's see... hands.
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  • Let's see... hands. >> [audience laughing]
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  • Hands. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: well, i don't have
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: well, i don't have to think either.
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  • >> joyce: well, i don't have to think either. i know areas that
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  • To think either. i know areas that i'm impatient in.
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  • I know areas that i'm impatient in. and i have gotten much,
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  • I'm impatient in. and i have gotten much, much better over the years,
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  • And i have gotten much, much better over the years, and believe god will
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  • Much better over the years, and believe god will keep working with me,
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  • And believe god will keep working with me, and i'll keep getting
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  • Keep working with me, and i'll keep getting more and more patience.
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  • And i'll keep getting more and more patience. but patience is not waiting.
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  • More and more patience. but patience is not waiting. it's how you act
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  • But patience is not waiting. it's how you act while you're waiting.
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  • It's how you act while you're waiting. and the greek word it comes
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  • While you're waiting. and the greek word it comes from says that it is a fruit
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  • And the greek word it comes from says that it is a fruit of the spirit that
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  • From says that it is a fruit of the spirit that grows only under trial.
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  • Of the spirit that grows only under trial. this is very interesting if you
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  • Grows only under trial. this is very interesting if you slow down and really take it in.
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  • This is very interesting if you slow down and really take it in. somebody who has become fully
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  • Slow down and really take it in. somebody who has become fully patient, completely patient,
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  • Somebody who has become fully patient, completely patient, you will be fully developed,
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  • Patient, completely patient, you will be fully developed, which means spiritually mature,
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  • You will be fully developed, which means spiritually mature, and you'll want nothing.
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  • Which means spiritually mature, and you'll want nothing. you'll need nothing.
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  • And you'll want nothing. you'll need nothing. you'll lack nothing.
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  • You'll need nothing. you'll lack nothing. you're gonna enjoy
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  • You'll lack nothing. you're gonna enjoy a lot of peace.
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  • Now, galatians 5:16 says,
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  • Now, galatians 5:16 says, "but i say, walk and live
  • 00:09:22.885 --> 00:09:24.220
  • Now, galatians 5:16 says, "but i say, walk and live [habitually] in the [holy]
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  • "but i say, walk and live [habitually] in the [holy] spirit [responsive
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  • [habitually] in the [holy] spirit [responsive to and controlled
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  • Spirit [responsive to and controlled and guided by the spirit];
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  • To and controlled and guided by the spirit]; then you will certainly
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  • And guided by the spirit]; then you will certainly not gratify the cravings
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  • Then you will certainly not gratify the cravings and the desires of the flesh--"
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  • Not gratify the cravings and the desires of the flesh--" which is "(human nature
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  • And the desires of the flesh--" which is "(human nature without god)."
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  • Which is "(human nature without god)." now, this is just
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  • A little aside,
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  • A little aside, but this will be good
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  • A little aside, but this will be good if you tuck it in your
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  • But this will be good if you tuck it in your pocket and remember it.
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  • If you tuck it in your pocket and remember it. he's not saying here to try
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  • Pocket and remember it. he's not saying here to try to overcome the flesh.
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  • He's not saying here to try to overcome the flesh. he says form a habit of
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  • To overcome the flesh. he says form a habit of following the holy spirit,
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  • He says form a habit of following the holy spirit, then you will not fulfill
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  • Following the holy spirit, then you will not fulfill the desires of the flesh.
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  • Then you will not fulfill the desires of the flesh. and i think we go about
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  • The desires of the flesh. and i think we go about it wrong sometimes.
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  • And i think we go about it wrong sometimes. we try to fight
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  • It wrong sometimes. we try to fight with the problem,
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  • We try to fight with the problem, instead of turning
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  • With the problem, instead of turning more toward god.
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  • Instead of turning more toward god. you can't make
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  • More toward god. you can't make yourself be patient.
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  • You can't make yourself be patient. god can; he can help you.
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  • Yourself be patient. god can; he can help you. that's why we need to trust
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  • God can; he can help you. that's why we need to trust him when we get in situations
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  • That's why we need to trust him when we get in situations that we don't wanna be in,
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  • Him when we get in situations that we don't wanna be in, because every place that
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  • That we don't wanna be in, because every place that god allows you to be in,
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  • Because every place that god allows you to be in, he will use it for your
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  • God allows you to be in, he will use it for your betterment if you'll let him.
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  • You know, you're not going
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  • You know, you're not going to grow spiritually,
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  • You know, you're not going to grow spiritually, which really,
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  • To grow spiritually, which really, after you're born again,
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  • Which really, after you're born again, that's what this is about.
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  • After you're born again, that's what this is about. it's about being turned into
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  • That's what this is about. it's about being turned into the image of jesus christ,
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  • It's about being turned into the image of jesus christ, so that the world can
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  • The image of jesus christ, so that the world can not just see our leaves,
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  • So that the world can not just see our leaves, but see our fruit.
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  • Not just see our leaves, but see our fruit. and then the hungry people,
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  • But see our fruit. and then the hungry people, when they come to us,
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  • And then the hungry people, when they come to us, they'll get something that's
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  • When they come to us, they'll get something that's really going to help them.
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  • They'll get something that's really going to help them. dave worked in the engineering
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  • Really going to help them. dave worked in the engineering field for many years,
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  • Dave worked in the engineering field for many years, and people knew that
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  • Field for many years, and people knew that he was a christian.
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  • And people knew that he was a christian. and so, he ate lunch
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  • By himself a lot.
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  • But you know, interestingly
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  • But you know, interestingly enough, when they got
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  • But you know, interestingly enough, when they got in trouble, like if they were--
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  • Enough, when they got in trouble, like if they were-- if the wife wanted a divorce
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  • In trouble, like if they were-- if the wife wanted a divorce or they were having some
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  • If the wife wanted a divorce or they were having some kind of major problem,
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  • Or they were having some kind of major problem, they would always come
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  • Kind of major problem, they would always come to dave and ask him
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  • They would always come to dave and ask him what they should do.
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  • To dave and ask him what they should do. so, it's interesting how
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  • What they should do. so, it's interesting how somebody can ignore you,
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  • So, it's interesting how somebody can ignore you, but if you've got the fruit
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  • Somebody can ignore you, but if you've got the fruit and they know you're
  • 00:11:32.848 --> 00:11:33.415
  • But if you've got the fruit and they know you're the real deal,
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  • And they know you're the real deal, when they need help,
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  • The real deal, when they need help, you will be the one that
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  • When they need help, you will be the one that they will come to.
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  • You will be the one that they will come to. and that's when we need
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  • They will come to. and that's when we need to be equipped and ready.
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  • And that's when we need to be equipped and ready. it's--
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  • To be equipped and ready. it's-- come to church,
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  • It's-- come to church, it's where you learn.
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  • Come to church, it's where you learn. but then don't just leave
  • 00:11:47.229 --> 00:11:51.500
  • It's where you learn. but then don't just leave what you learned here.
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  • But then don't just leave what you learned here. take it out into the streets
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  • What you learned here. take it out into the streets and use it in your
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  • Take it out into the streets and use it in your everyday life.
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  • And use it in your everyday life. and a lot of people are
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  • Everyday life. and a lot of people are really afraid of witnessing.
  • 00:12:00.643 --> 00:12:03.345
  • And a lot of people are really afraid of witnessing. and 'cause we're told
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  • Really afraid of witnessing. and 'cause we're told from the beginning
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  • And 'cause we're told from the beginning we need to witness,
  • 00:12:05.181 --> 00:12:06.048
  • From the beginning we need to witness, and so a lot of people,
  • 00:12:06.115 --> 00:12:07.817
  • We need to witness, and so a lot of people, that's just really
  • 00:12:07.883 --> 00:12:08.450
  • And so a lot of people, that's just really hard for them.
  • 00:12:08.517 --> 00:12:10.119
  • That's just really hard for them. but i can tell you,
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  • Hard for them. but i can tell you, i believe that you can
  • 00:12:10.986 --> 00:12:11.954
  • But i can tell you, i believe that you can be a great witness
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  • I believe that you can be a great witness and never open your mouth,
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  • Be a great witness and never open your mouth, if you bear good fruit,
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  • And never open your mouth, if you bear good fruit, if you love people,
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  • If you bear good fruit, if you love people, if you're kind to people,
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  • If you love people, if you're kind to people, if you give to people in need.
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  • If you're kind to people, if you give to people in need. especially if it's somebody
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  • If you give to people in need. especially if it's somebody that hasn't been
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  • Especially if it's somebody that hasn't been very nice to you,
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  • That hasn't been very nice to you, and then you're nice to them.
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  • Very nice to you, and then you're nice to them. "love your enemies,"
  • 00:12:35.411 --> 00:12:36.846
  • And then you're nice to them. "love your enemies," jesus said.
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  • Galatians 5:19-23 tells us
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  • Galatians 5:19-23 tells us what the fruit of the flesh
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  • Galatians 5:19-23 tells us what the fruit of the flesh is and the fruit of the spirit.
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  • What the fruit of the flesh is and the fruit of the spirit. "the doings of the flesh
  • 00:12:50.960 --> 00:12:51.861
  • Is and the fruit of the spirit. "the doings of the flesh are clear and (obvious):
  • 00:12:51.927 --> 00:12:52.862
  • "the doings of the flesh are clear and (obvious): they are immorality,
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  • Are clear and (obvious): they are immorality, impurity, indecency--"
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  • They are immorality, impurity, indecency--" now, i want you
  • 00:12:55.664 --> 00:12:56.298
  • Impurity, indecency--" now, i want you to listen to this list.
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  • Now, i want you to listen to this list. "idolatry, sorcery, enmity,
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  • To listen to this list. "idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, anger,
  • 00:13:03.772 --> 00:13:09.278
  • "idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, anger, selfishness, and divisions."
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  • Strife, jealousy, anger, selfishness, and divisions." now, who would ever
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  • Selfishness, and divisions." now, who would ever think that jealousy would
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  • Be on the same list as sorcery?
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  • Be on the same list as sorcery? or that--
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  • Be on the same list as sorcery? or that-- see, i think there's certain
  • 00:13:26.061 --> 00:13:27.296
  • Or that-- see, i think there's certain sins that we have sort of turned
  • 00:13:27.363 --> 00:13:32.668
  • See, i think there's certain sins that we have sort of turned them into acceptable sins.
  • 00:13:32.735 --> 00:13:35.004
  • Sins that we have sort of turned them into acceptable sins. it's like, "well, i know
  • 00:13:35.070 --> 00:13:37.973
  • Them into acceptable sins. it's like, "well, i know i've got a bad temper,
  • 00:13:38.040 --> 00:13:38.941
  • It's like, "well, i know i've got a bad temper, but i got my bumper sticker."
  • 00:13:39.008 --> 00:13:41.777
  • I've got a bad temper, but i got my bumper sticker." >> [audience laughing]
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  • But i got my bumper sticker." >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: "i know i have
  • 00:13:48.751 --> 00:13:49.652
  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: "i know i have a little problem with jealousy.
  • 00:13:49.718 --> 00:13:53.956
  • >> joyce: "i know i have a little problem with jealousy. i don't talk to anybody about
  • 00:13:54.023 --> 00:13:55.691
  • A little problem with jealousy. i don't talk to anybody about it 'cause christians aren't
  • 00:13:55.758 --> 00:13:57.092
  • I don't talk to anybody about it 'cause christians aren't supposed to be jealous.
  • 00:13:57.159 --> 00:13:58.060
  • It 'cause christians aren't supposed to be jealous. but i mean, at least
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  • Supposed to be jealous. but i mean, at least i'm not practicing sorcery."
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  • But i mean, at least i'm not practicing sorcery." >> [audience laughing]
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  • >> joyce: see, i find that
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  • >> joyce: see, i find that interesting that envy
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  • >> joyce: see, i find that interesting that envy is listed right next
  • 00:14:08.704 --> 00:14:09.638
  • Interesting that envy is listed right next to drunkenness.
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  • Is listed right next to drunkenness. so we need to realize that
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  • To drunkenness. so we need to realize that some of these things that
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  • So we need to realize that some of these things that we think are not that important,
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  • Some of these things that we think are not that important, may be some of the most
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  • We think are not that important, may be some of the most important things to god.
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  • May be some of the most important things to god. see, probably nobody in here
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  • Important things to god. see, probably nobody in here would even so much as think
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  • See, probably nobody in here would even so much as think about practicing sorcery
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  • Would even so much as think about practicing sorcery or any kind of witchcraft,
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  • About practicing sorcery or any kind of witchcraft, but you've already been mad
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  • Or any kind of witchcraft, but you've already been mad six times today, and haven't
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  • But you've already been mad six times today, and haven't even repented once.
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  • Six times today, and haven't even repented once. now, you guys are just quiet.
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  • Even repented once. now, you guys are just quiet. >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:14:44.506 --> 00:14:48.110
  • Now, you guys are just quiet. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: see, i think we have
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: see, i think we have to realize that if you're
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  • Quick to get angry,
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  • Quick to get angry, and you're touchy,
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  • Quick to get angry, and you're touchy, and get offended easily,
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  • And you're touchy, and get offended easily, or even if you're here tonight
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  • And get offended easily, or even if you're here tonight and you're mad at somebody,
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  • Or even if you're here tonight and you're mad at somebody, that wouldn't be you though,
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  • And you're mad at somebody, that wouldn't be you though, would it?
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  • That wouldn't be you though, would it? no, no.
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  • Would it? no, no. do you know that satan gets
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  • No, no. do you know that satan gets more ground in christians'
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  • Do you know that satan gets more ground in christians' lives through unforgiveness
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  • More ground in christians' lives through unforgiveness than any other thing?
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  • Lives through unforgiveness than any other thing? but yet, we kind of blow
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  • Than any other thing? but yet, we kind of blow that one off by saying,
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  • But yet, we kind of blow that one off by saying, "well, you just don't
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  • That one off by saying, "well, you just don't understand what they did to me."
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  • "well, you just don't understand what they did to me." well, i understand what they
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  • Understand what they did to me." well, i understand what they did to jesus the best i can,
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  • Well, i understand what they did to jesus the best i can, and he's not angry.
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  • Did to jesus the best i can, and he's not angry. and he expects us to forgive.
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  • That's one of the things
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  • That's one of the things that's very important.
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  • That's one of the things that's very important. "but the fruit
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  • That's very important. "but the fruit of the [holy] spirit
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  • "but the fruit of the [holy] spirit [the work which his presence
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  • Of the [holy] spirit [the work which his presence within accomplishes]--"
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  • [the work which his presence within accomplishes]--" it's not something we do.
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  • Within accomplishes]--" it's not something we do. we give way for the holy
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  • It's not something we do. we give way for the holy spirit to flow through us.
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  • We give way for the holy spirit to flow through us. "love, joy, peace, patience--"
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  • Spirit to flow through us. "love, joy, peace, patience--" which is "(an even temper),
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  • "love, joy, peace, patience--" which is "(an even temper), kindness, goodness,
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  • Which is "(an even temper), kindness, goodness, faithfulness, humility,
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  • Kindness, goodness, faithfulness, humility, and self-control."
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  • Faithfulness, humility, and self-control." i did a long series
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  • On the fruit of the spirit
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  • On the fruit of the spirit probably 15 years ago,
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  • On the fruit of the spirit probably 15 years ago, maybe a little more than that.
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  • Probably 15 years ago, maybe a little more than that. and i had this whole set
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  • Maybe a little more than that. and i had this whole set of huge giant books made up.
  • 00:16:34.283 --> 00:16:37.786
  • And i had this whole set of huge giant books made up. matter of fact,
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  • Of huge giant books made up. matter of fact, it's on television right now.
  • 00:16:38.554 --> 00:16:39.588
  • Matter of fact, it's on television right now. and what god showed
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  • It's on television right now. and what god showed me is that all the other fruit
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  • And what god showed me is that all the other fruit of the spirit come out of love.
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  • Me is that all the other fruit of the spirit come out of love. i mean, you're not gonna
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  • Of the spirit come out of love. i mean, you're not gonna be kind if you don't love.
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  • I mean, you're not gonna be kind if you don't love. you're not gonna
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  • Be kind if you don't love. you're not gonna be unselfish if you don't love.
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  • You're not gonna be unselfish if you don't love. and then self-control
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  • Be unselfish if you don't love. and then self-control holds 'em all in place.
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  • And then self-control holds 'em all in place. so, i call love and self-control
  • 00:17:01.443 --> 00:17:06.482
  • Holds 'em all in place. so, i call love and self-control the bookends of the rest
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  • So, i call love and self-control the bookends of the rest of the fruit of the spirit.
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  • The bookends of the rest of the fruit of the spirit. >> [audience applauding]
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  • >> joyce: so, we need
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  • >> joyce: so, we need to realize that jesus said,
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  • >> joyce: so, we need to realize that jesus said, "you will know
  • 00:17:24.133 --> 00:17:24.700
  • To realize that jesus said, "you will know them by their fruit."
  • 00:17:24.766 --> 00:17:27.002
  • "you will know them by their fruit." you will know them by their
  • 00:17:27.069 --> 00:17:28.103
  • Them by their fruit." you will know them by their fruit, not their leaves."
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  • You will know them by their fruit, not their leaves." think again about
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  • Fruit, not their leaves." think again about that scripture.
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  • Think again about that scripture. jesus was hungry and he saw
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  • That scripture. jesus was hungry and he saw the fig tree in a distance
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  • Jesus was hungry and he saw the fig tree in a distance and he saw that
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  • The fig tree in a distance and he saw that it had leaves on it.
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  • And he saw that it had leaves on it. and since the fig tree
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  • It had leaves on it. and since the fig tree when it has leaves
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  • And since the fig tree when it has leaves is supposed to have fruit,
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  • When it has leaves is supposed to have fruit, he went to it to get
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  • Is supposed to have fruit, he went to it to get something to eat,
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  • He went to it to get something to eat, and it just had leaves
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  • Something to eat, and it just had leaves and no fruit,
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  • And it just had leaves and no fruit, and so he cursed it.
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  • And no fruit, and so he cursed it. now, i'm not saying that god's
  • 00:17:53.662 --> 00:17:55.831
  • And so he cursed it. now, i'm not saying that god's gonna curse everybody
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  • Now, i'm not saying that god's gonna curse everybody that's not perfectly walking
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  • Gonna curse everybody that's not perfectly walking in the fruit of the spirit.
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  • That's not perfectly walking in the fruit of the spirit. but i think that we need
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  • In the fruit of the spirit. but i think that we need to take it more seriously
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  • But i think that we need to take it more seriously than what we should.
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  • To take it more seriously than what we should. and people sometimes--
  • 00:18:05.374 --> 00:18:06.441
  • Than what we should. and people sometimes-- >> [audience applauding]
  • 00:18:06.508 --> 00:18:10.746
  • And people sometimes-- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: people sometimes
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: people sometimes get way,
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  • >> joyce: people sometimes get way, really concerned about
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  • Get way, really concerned about what their gift is.
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  • Really concerned about what their gift is. "what's your gift?
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  • What their gift is. "what's your gift? what's your gift?"
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  • "what's your gift? what's your gift?" well, gifts are given.
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  • What's your gift?" well, gifts are given. you don't have to do anything,
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  • Well, gifts are given. you don't have to do anything, but fruit is developed.
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  • You don't have to do anything, but fruit is developed. you gotta put in a little
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  • But fruit is developed. you gotta put in a little effort and a little work
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  • You gotta put in a little effort and a little work with the holy spirit,
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  • Effort and a little work with the holy spirit, if you're going to have fruit.
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  • With the holy spirit, if you're going to have fruit. and i'll tell you something,
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  • If you're going to have fruit. and i'll tell you something, you can feel impatient
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  • And be patient.
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  • And be patient. "huh?"
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  • And be patient. "huh?" >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:18:42.711 --> 00:18:44.112
  • "huh?" >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: yeah, you can feel
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: yeah, you can feel angry and walk in love.
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  • >> joyce: yeah, you can feel angry and walk in love. >> [audience applauding]
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  • Angry and walk in love. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: this is not
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: this is not about how we feel.
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  • >> joyce: this is not about how we feel. it's about what we do.
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  • About how we feel. it's about what we do. that was a real major
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  • It's about what we do. that was a real major breakthrough for me when
  • 00:19:00.629 --> 00:19:03.131
  • That was a real major breakthrough for me when i realized that just because
  • 00:19:03.198 --> 00:19:05.634
  • Breakthrough for me when i realized that just because i felt something didn't
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  • I realized that just because i felt something didn't mean i had to do it.
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  • I felt something didn't mean i had to do it. matter of fact, i believe that
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  • Mean i had to do it. matter of fact, i believe that when you can do what's right
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  • Matter of fact, i believe that when you can do what's right while you feel wrong,
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  • When you can do what's right while you feel wrong, i think that's when you're
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  • While you feel wrong, i think that's when you're spiritually mature.
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  • I think that's when you're spiritually mature. >> [audience applauding]
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  • Spiritually mature. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: don't bow down
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: don't bow down to your feelings all the time.
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  • >> joyce: don't bow down to your feelings all the time. if you're gonna live by your
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  • To your feelings all the time. if you're gonna live by your feelings, you might as well
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  • If you're gonna live by your feelings, you might as well just stamp across your life,
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  • Feelings, you might as well just stamp across your life, "failed."
  • 00:19:29.224 --> 00:19:32.894
  • Just stamp across your life, "failed." nothing works until
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  • "failed." nothing works until we learn that we don't have
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  • Nothing works until we learn that we don't have to do everything we feel.
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  • We learn that we don't have to do everything we feel. i don't have to eat everything
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  • To do everything we feel. i don't have to eat everything i feel like eating.
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  • I don't have to eat everything i feel like eating. [laughing]
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  • I feel like eating. [laughing] >> [audience laughing]
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  • [laughing] >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: well, i call those
  • 00:19:48.010 --> 00:19:48.844
  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: well, i call those "guilty giggles."
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  • >> joyce: well, i call those "guilty giggles." >> [audience laughing]
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  • "guilty giggles." >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: they're so much fun
  • 00:19:51.580 --> 00:19:52.447
  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: they're so much fun when congregation gets 'em.
  • 00:19:52.514 --> 00:19:54.816
  • >> joyce: they're so much fun when congregation gets 'em. i don't have to not
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  • When congregation gets 'em. i don't have to not exercise because i don't
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  • I don't have to not exercise because i don't feel like exercising.
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  • Exercise because i don't feel like exercising. who does?
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  • Feel like exercising. who does? i work out three times
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  • Who does? i work out three times a week with a trainer,
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  • I work out three times a week with a trainer, and i have for almost 20 years.
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  • A week with a trainer, and i have for almost 20 years. dave's been working out for...
  • 00:20:07.629 --> 00:20:09.765
  • And i have for almost 20 years. dave's been working out for... 65 years?
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  • Dave's been working out for... 65 years? sixty-five years.
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  • 65 years? sixty-five years. >> [audience applauding]
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  • >> joyce: if i tell
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  • >> joyce: if i tell you that he's--
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  • >> joyce: if i tell you that he's-- [talking to dave]
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  • You that he's-- [talking to dave] how old are you?
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  • [talking to dave] how old are you? eighty-four.
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  • How old are you? eighty-four. >> [audience laughing]
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  • Eighty-four. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: you know, when you
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: you know, when you get this old, you don't care.
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  • >> joyce: you know, when you get this old, you don't care. but he's 84 and he still wears
  • 00:20:30.185 --> 00:20:32.487
  • Get this old, you don't care. but he's 84 and he still wears the same size clothes he did
  • 00:20:32.554 --> 00:20:34.456
  • But he's 84 and he still wears the same size clothes he did when we got married,
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  • The same size clothes he did when we got married, and his stomach's
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  • When we got married, and his stomach's as flat as a board,
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  • And his stomach's as flat as a board, and it's because every--
  • 00:20:37.826 --> 00:20:39.761
  • As flat as a board, and it's because every-- >> [audience applauding]
  • 00:20:39.828 --> 00:20:44.533
  • And it's because every-- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: see, listen.
  • 00:20:44.599 --> 00:20:45.834
  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: see, listen. it's not what you do wrong
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  • >> joyce: see, listen. it's not what you do wrong one time that gets
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  • It's not what you do wrong one time that gets your life in a mess.
  • 00:20:48.670 --> 00:20:50.505
  • One time that gets your life in a mess. and it's not what you do right
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  • Your life in a mess. and it's not what you do right one time that is gonna
  • 00:20:51.940 --> 00:20:53.008
  • And it's not what you do right one time that is gonna fix your life.
  • 00:20:53.075 --> 00:20:55.210
  • One time that is gonna fix your life. it's what you do over and over
  • 00:20:55.277 --> 00:20:57.446
  • Fix your life. it's what you do over and over and over and over and over
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  • It's what you do over and over and over and over and over and over and over.
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  • And over and over and over and over and over. >> [audience applauding]
  • 00:21:01.650 --> 00:21:04.653
  • And over and over. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and you will
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and you will change if you will put
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  • >> joyce: and you will change if you will put yourself before god,
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  • Change if you will put yourself before god, study his word, get with
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  • Yourself before god, study his word, get with some other people that
  • 00:21:11.927 --> 00:21:12.661
  • Study his word, get with some other people that are like-minded like you are,
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  • Some other people that are like-minded like you are, talk to god about everything
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  • Are like-minded like you are, talk to god about everything and ask him for his
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  • Talk to god about everything and ask him for his help in everything.
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  • And ask him for his help in everything. and you will change,
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  • Help in everything. and you will change, not because you
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  • And you will change, not because you changed yourself,
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  • Not because you changed yourself, but because you spent enough
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  • Changed yourself, but because you spent enough time with god that you started
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  • But because you spent enough time with god that you started to become like him.
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  • Time with god that you started to become like him. amen?
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  • To become like him. amen? >> [audience applauding]
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  • Amen? >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: so patience.
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: so patience. just in case you
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  • >> joyce: so patience. just in case you didn't know this,
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  • Just in case you didn't know this, god is not in a hurry.
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  • Didn't know this, god is not in a hurry. now, i have a tendency,
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  • God is not in a hurry. now, i have a tendency, i've gotten better,
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  • Now, i have a tendency, i've gotten better, but i'm still not there.
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  • I've gotten better, but i'm still not there. my mind is quite often one
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  • But i'm still not there. my mind is quite often one step ahead of where i'm at.
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  • My mind is quite often one step ahead of where i'm at. so, i do unusual things.
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  • Step ahead of where i'm at. so, i do unusual things. like the other day,
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  • So, i do unusual things. like the other day, i almost got in a car with
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  • Like the other day, i almost got in a car with somebody i didn't know.
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  • I almost got in a car with somebody i didn't know. >> [audience laughing]
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  • Somebody i didn't know. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: because when
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: because when we go out, we rent vans.
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  • >> joyce: because when we go out, we rent vans. they're almost always
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  • We go out, we rent vans. they're almost always black or white.
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  • They're almost always black or white. and this black suv pulled up.
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  • Black or white. and this black suv pulled up. we were coming out
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  • And this black suv pulled up. we were coming out of a restaurant,
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  • We were coming out of a restaurant, and the guy driving
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  • Of a restaurant, and the guy driving us went to get our car.
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  • And the guy driving us went to get our car. and i started opening
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  • Us went to get our car. and i started opening the door, and dave said,
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  • And i started opening the door, and dave said, "joyce, joyce, joyce."
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  • The door, and dave said, "joyce, joyce, joyce." >> [audience laughing]
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  • "joyce, joyce, joyce." >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: but even funnier,
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: but even funnier, one time i did get
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  • >> joyce: but even funnier, one time i did get in a wrong car.
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  • One time i did get in a wrong car. >> [audience laughing]
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  • In a wrong car. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and the woman looked
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and the woman looked and went, "yaaah!"
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  • >> joyce: and the woman looked and went, "yaaah!" >> [audience laughing]
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  • And went, "yaaah!" >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and she knew me.
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and she knew me. >> [audience laughing]
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  • >> joyce: and she knew me. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: so, just imagine
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: so, just imagine if you knew me,
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  • >> joyce: so, just imagine if you knew me, and you're just driving around
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  • If you knew me, and you're just driving around and you're at a stop sign,
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  • And you're just driving around and you're at a stop sign, and i just get in your car.
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  • And you're at a stop sign, and i just get in your car. >> [audience laughing]
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  • And i just get in your car. >> [audience laughing] >> [audience applauding]
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: how many of you are
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: how many of you are not just real great at keeping
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  • >> joyce: how many of you are not just real great at keeping your mind on what you're doing?
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  • Not just real great at keeping your mind on what you're doing? well, you really got
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  • Your mind on what you're doing? well, you really got a good church here.
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  • Well, you really got a good church here. >> [audience laughing]
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  • A good church here. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: you must be preaching
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: you must be preaching them right, i mean.
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  • >> joyce: you must be preaching them right, i mean. [chuckling]
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  • Them right, i mean. [chuckling] take the fifth, huh?
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  • You know, if you read
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  • You know, if you read statistics, i don't know,
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  • You know, if you read statistics, i don't know, it's like they say we can
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  • Statistics, i don't know, it's like they say we can only focus for like four
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  • It's like they say we can only focus for like four minutes or something.
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  • Only focus for like four minutes or something. and i think sometimes
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  • Minutes or something. and i think sometimes i focus less than that.
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  • And i think sometimes i focus less than that. but i'm doing better.
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  • I focus less than that. but i'm doing better. see, it's always good to be able
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  • But i'm doing better. see, it's always good to be able to say you're doing better.
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  • See, it's always good to be able to say you're doing better. now, dave, we know he has
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  • To say you're doing better. now, dave, we know he has no problems so he doesn't
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  • Now, dave, we know he has no problems so he doesn't have to work on it at all.
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  • No problems so he doesn't have to work on it at all. >> [audience laughing]
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  • Have to work on it at all. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and my daughter has
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and my daughter has no problems and so she doesn't
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  • >> joyce: and my daughter has no problems and so she doesn't have to work on it at all.
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  • No problems and so she doesn't have to work on it at all. so i'm just trying to find
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  • Have to work on it at all. so i'm just trying to find somebody that's got a few
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  • So i'm just trying to find somebody that's got a few problems that i can preach to,
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  • Somebody that's got a few problems that i can preach to, amen?
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  • Problems that i can preach to, amen? >> [audience applauding]
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  • >> announcer: ever feel
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  • >> announcer: ever feel like something is missing
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  • Like something is missing from your life?
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  • From your life? you're going through
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  • You're going through the motions,
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  • The motions, but your connection
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  • But your connection with god feels distant,
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  • With god feels distant, and life just doesn't seem
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  • And life just doesn't seem as fulfilling as you hoped.
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  • As fulfilling as you hoped. if you've ever wondered
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  • If you've ever wondered if there's more to life
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  • If there's more to life than simply surviving,
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  • Than simply surviving, you're not alone.
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  • There's a way to transform
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  • There's a way to transform your relationship with god
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  • Your relationship with god and live with peace and purpose.
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  • And live with peace and purpose. it's time to stop just getting
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  • It's time to stop just getting by and start experiencing life
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  • By and start experiencing life the way it was meant to be:
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  • The way it was meant to be: full of meaning,
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  • Full of meaning, joy, and connection.
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  • Joy, and connection. joyce meyer wants to help
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  • Joyce meyer wants to help you live closer to god.
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  • You live closer to god. >> joyce: now, i don't care
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  • >> joyce: now, i don't care what kind of a life you have,
  • 00:24:40.268 --> 00:24:42.938
  • What kind of a life you have, you're never gonna really
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  • You're never gonna really enjoy your life because
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  • Enjoy your life because god won't let you if you try
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  • God won't let you if you try to do it apart from him.
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  • To do it apart from him. the way to bring enthusiasm
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  • The way to bring enthusiasm into every ordinary day,
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  • Into every ordinary day, learn colossians 3,
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  • Learn colossians 3, not just as a scripture,
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  • Not just as a scripture, but something we put
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  • But something we put into practice in our life.
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  • Into practice in our life. "do everything in the name
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  • "do everything in the name of jesus
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  • Of jesus [in dependence] upon his person,
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  • [in dependence] upon his person, giving praise and glory to him."
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  • Giving praise and glory to him." everything,
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  • Everything, everything that we do.
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  • Everything that we do. >> [audience applauding]
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> announcer: in
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  • >> announcer: in "closer to god,"
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  • "closer to god," joyce meyer shares
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  • Joyce meyer shares the life-changing secrets
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  • The life-changing secrets to building a closer,
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  • To building a closer, more personal
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  • More personal relationship with god.
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  • Relationship with god. learn how to hear his voice,
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  • Learn how to hear his voice, experience his comfort,
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  • Experience his comfort, and receive his guidance
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  • And receive his guidance in every area of your life.
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  • In every area of your life. discover how god
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  • Discover how god can be your provider,
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  • Can be your provider, healer, and friend,
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  • Healer, and friend, and how knowing him
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  • And how knowing him deeply will bring peace,
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  • Deeply will bring peace, confidence, and fulfillment
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  • Confidence, and fulfillment to your everyday life.
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  • To your everyday life. it's time to experience
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  • It's time to experience god in a way you've
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  • God in a way you've never thought possible.
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  • Never thought possible. you can enjoy
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  • You can enjoy every single
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  • Every single moment of your
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  • Moment of your journey through life.
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  • To request your
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  • Free copy of
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  • "closer to god,"
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  • Call us at...
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  • Or download
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  • A digital copy at:
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  • Or use the qr code
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  • On your screen.
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  • >> joyce: start bringing god
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  • >> joyce: start bringing god into everything that you do,
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  • Into everything that you do, and don't just think
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  • And don't just think he's only interested
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  • He's only interested in sunday morning
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  • In sunday morning and bible study.
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  • And bible study. i'll tell you what
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  • I'll tell you what god is interested in,
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  • God is interested in, you.
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  • >> announcer: you can enjoy
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  • >> announcer: you can enjoy every single moment of your
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  • Every single moment of your journey through life.
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  • Journey through life. contact us today
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  • Contact us today and request
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  • And request joyce's free book,
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  • Joyce's free book, "closer to god."
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  • To request your
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  • Free copy of
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  • "closer to god,"
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  • Call us at...
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  • Or download
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  • A digital copy at:
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  • Joycemeyer.org,
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  • Through the joyce meyer app,
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  • Or use the qr code
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  • On your screen.
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  • >> joyce: well, rejection
  • 00:26:34.482 --> 00:26:35.183
  • >> joyce: well, rejection is something that we've
  • 00:26:35.250 --> 00:26:35.950
  • Is something that we've all faced in our life.
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  • All faced in our life. >> ginger: and no matter
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  • >> ginger: and no matter where it comes from,
  • 00:26:38.086 --> 00:26:39.220
  • Where it comes from, the real pain that it causes
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  • The real pain that it causes does not have to define us.
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  • Does not have to define us. >> joyce: and that's why ginger
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  • >> joyce: and that's why ginger and i have teamed up on this
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  • And i have teamed up on this book, “healing the wounds
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  • Book, “healing the wounds of rejection.”
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  • Of rejection.” >> ginger: we want to share
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  • >> ginger: we want to share truths from god's word
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  • Truths from god's word that have helped us find
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  • That have helped us find strength and wholeness.
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  • Strength and wholeness. >> joyce: you can find
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  • >> joyce: you can find freedom from the pain
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  • Freedom from the pain and move forward
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  • And move forward with confidence.
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  • >> announcer:
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  • >> announcer: “healing the wounds
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  • “healing the wounds of rejection,”
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  • Of rejection,” by joyce meyer
  • 00:26:59.407 --> 00:27:00.108
  • By joyce meyer and ginger stache.
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  • And ginger stache. request your
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  • Request your copy today.
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  • >> announcer: we hope you
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  • >> announcer: we hope you enjoyed today's program.
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  • Enjoyed today's program. we are so grateful
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  • We are so grateful to our joyce meyer
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  • To our joyce meyer ministries partners
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  • Ministries partners who make this
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  • Who make this and all we do possible,
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  • And all we do possible, including sharing
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  • Including sharing god's word
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  • God's word and offering help
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  • And offering help to people in need
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  • To people in need all over the world.
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