Joyce Meyer - Patience (Part 2)

August 27, 2025 | S E | 29:29

Is being patient a struggle for you? Today, Joyce reveals how cultivating patience through trials can lead to maturity and peace, helping. You thrive no matter your circumstances.

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Joyce Meyer: Enjoying Everyday Life | Joyce Meyer - Patience (Part 2) | August 27, 2025
  • >> joyce: pride is always
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  • >> joyce: pride is always behind impatience.
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  • >> joyce: pride is always behind impatience. we get impatient because
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  • Behind impatience. we get impatient because god's not moving fast enough,
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  • We get impatient because god's not moving fast enough, so we take over.
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  • >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer,
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  • >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer, and i believe that god can heal
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  • >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer, and i believe that god can heal you everywhere you hurt.
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  • >> joyce: we have an enemy
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  • >> joyce: we have an enemy and he hates us,
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  • >> joyce: we have an enemy and he hates us, and will do anything
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  • And he hates us, and will do anything to try and destroy us.
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  • And will do anything to try and destroy us. and he wants to--
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  • To try and destroy us. and he wants to-- wants you not to keep
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  • And he wants to-- wants you not to keep your mind on what you're
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  • Doing because if while
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  • Doing because if while i'm preaching here tonight,
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  • Doing because if while i'm preaching here tonight, if you go to the place where
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  • I'm preaching here tonight, if you go to the place where you're gonna go get your
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  • If you go to the place where you're gonna go get your hamburger when i'm done,
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  • You're gonna go get your hamburger when i'm done, whatever i said,
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  • Hamburger when i'm done, whatever i said, you totally missed it.
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  • Whatever i said, you totally missed it. i mean, it's amazing that
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  • You totally missed it. i mean, it's amazing that we can sit and be listening
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  • I mean, it's amazing that we can sit and be listening to somebody and totally
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  • We can sit and be listening to somebody and totally not hear what they're saying,
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  • To somebody and totally not hear what they're saying, because our mind has
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  • Not hear what they're saying, because our mind has gone somewhere else.
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  • Because our mind has gone somewhere else. so, we need to practice
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  • Gone somewhere else. so, we need to practice focusing more.
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  • So, we need to practice focusing more. so we used to,
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  • Focusing more. so we used to, "i rebuke the devil.
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  • So we used to, "i rebuke the devil. i rebuke the devil.
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  • "i rebuke the devil. i rebuke the devil. i rebuke you, satan.
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  • I rebuke the devil. i rebuke you, satan. i rebuke you."
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  • I rebuke you, satan. i rebuke you." and the lord spoke to me
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  • I rebuke you." and the lord spoke to me one time and he said,
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  • And the lord spoke to me one time and he said, "you don't need
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  • One time and he said, "you don't need to rebuke the devil.
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  • "you don't need to rebuke the devil. what you need to do is stop
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  • To rebuke the devil. what you need to do is stop acting like him when you're
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  • What you need to do is stop acting like him when you're having problems."
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  • Acting like him when you're having problems." >> [audience laughing]
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  • Having problems." >> [audience laughing] >> [audience applauding]
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  • >> joyce: 'cause you see,
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  • >> joyce: 'cause you see, a lot of times when we're
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  • >> joyce: 'cause you see, a lot of times when we're having issues in our life--
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  • A lot of times when we're having issues in our life-- to be honest with you,
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  • Having issues in our life-- to be honest with you, you know one of the values
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  • To be honest with you, you know one of the values of having trouble
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  • You know one of the values of having trouble is when you're having trouble,
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  • Of having trouble is when you're having trouble, the real you shows up.
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  • Is when you're having trouble, the real you shows up. >> [audience laughing]
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  • The real you shows up. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: gosh, i would've
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: gosh, i would've waited a while longer to come,
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  • >> joyce: gosh, i would've waited a while longer to come, if i would've thought
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  • Waited a while longer to come, if i would've thought you were gonna be this quiet.
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  • If i would've thought you were gonna be this quiet. >> [audience laughing]
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  • You were gonna be this quiet. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: isn't that
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: isn't that the truth though?
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  • >> joyce: isn't that the truth though? you know, you never
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  • The truth though? you know, you never know how juicy fruit
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  • You know, you never know how juicy fruit is till you squeeze it.
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  • Know how juicy fruit is till you squeeze it. >> [audience laughing]
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  • Is till you squeeze it. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i remember i was
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i remember i was hungry one day and i was out
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  • >> joyce: i remember i was hungry one day and i was out just running some errands,
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  • Hungry one day and i was out just running some errands, and i felt like i was hungry
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  • Just running some errands, and i felt like i was hungry for an orange.
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  • And i felt like i was hungry for an orange. and so i went in the grocery
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  • Store and boy,
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  • Store and boy, i picked out this orange.
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  • Store and boy, i picked out this orange. it was so--
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  • I picked out this orange. it was so-- such a good-looking orange.
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  • It was so-- such a good-looking orange. it was beautiful color,
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  • Such a good-looking orange. it was beautiful color, perfect size, perfect shape.
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  • It was beautiful color, perfect size, perfect shape. and when i went out in the car
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  • Perfect size, perfect shape. and when i went out in the car to eat my orange, that was
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  • And when i went out in the car to eat my orange, that was the driest, most tasteless
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  • To eat my orange, that was the driest, most tasteless orange i had ever had.
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  • The driest, most tasteless orange i had ever had. and that's what we don't
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  • Orange i had ever had. and that's what we don't wanna be like as christians.
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  • And that's what we don't wanna be like as christians. we don't wanna look like
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  • Wanna be like as christians. we don't wanna look like we've got it all together,
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  • We don't wanna look like we've got it all together, and then at the first
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  • We've got it all together, and then at the first sign of trouble,
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  • And then at the first sign of trouble, we fall apart
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  • Sign of trouble, we fall apart and start acting bad.
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  • We fall apart and start acting bad. so if you really wanna know how
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  • And start acting bad. so if you really wanna know how spiritually mature you are,
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  • So if you really wanna know how spiritually mature you are, ask yourself how you behave
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  • Spiritually mature you are, ask yourself how you behave when you don't get your way.
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  • Ask yourself how you behave when you don't get your way. how quick do you forgive
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  • When you don't get your way. how quick do you forgive somebody when they hurt you?
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  • How quick do you forgive somebody when they hurt you? you know, i'm practicing trying
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  • Somebody when they hurt you? you know, i'm practicing trying to forgive people while they're
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  • You know, i'm practicing trying to forgive people while they're still hurting my feelings.
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  • To forgive people while they're still hurting my feelings. just get good
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  • Still hurting my feelings. just get good at it and it's like--
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  • Just get good at it and it's like-- >> [audience applauding]
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  • At it and it's like-- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: "i've already--
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: "i've already-- just go ahead and do what
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  • >> joyce: "i've already-- just go ahead and do what you wanna do.
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  • Just go ahead and do what you wanna do. i've already decided
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  • You wanna do. i've already decided i'm gonna forgive you.
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  • I've already decided i'm gonna forgive you. it's already done."
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  • I'm gonna forgive you. it's already done." you know why?
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  • It's already done." you know why? because i'm not gonna
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  • You know why? because i'm not gonna let the devil steal
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  • Because i'm not gonna let the devil steal any more of my life.
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  • Let the devil steal any more of my life. >> [audience applauding]
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  • Any more of my life. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: "you're keeping
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: "you're keeping me angry and agitated."
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  • >> joyce: "you're keeping me angry and agitated." so if you are mad at anybody,
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  • Me angry and agitated." so if you are mad at anybody, you're angry at anybody,
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  • So if you are mad at anybody, you're angry at anybody, just forgive 'em tonight,
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  • You're angry at anybody, just forgive 'em tonight, get it over with
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  • Just forgive 'em tonight, get it over with and go on with your life.
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  • Get it over with and go on with your life. >> [audience applauding]
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  • And go on with your life. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and you know why
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and you know why people will pray
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  • >> joyce: and you know why people will pray the prayer of forgiveness?
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  • People will pray the prayer of forgiveness? they wanna forgive people,
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  • The prayer of forgiveness? they wanna forgive people, but then they don't feel
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  • They wanna forgive people, but then they don't feel any different toward them.
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  • But then they don't feel any different toward them. so then they think they
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  • Any different toward them. so then they think they haven't forgiven them,
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  • So then they think they haven't forgiven them, and they just keep going
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  • Haven't forgiven them, and they just keep going around and around.
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  • And they just keep going around and around. but see, you can forgive
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  • Around and around. but see, you can forgive somebody and still feel like
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  • But see, you can forgive somebody and still feel like you wanna knock 'em down.
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  • Somebody and still feel like you wanna knock 'em down. >> [audience laughing]
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  • You wanna knock 'em down. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: you can!
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: you can! you can do that.
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  • Who feels like forgiving
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  • Who feels like forgiving somebody who's really hurt
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  • Who feels like forgiving somebody who's really hurt them and mistreated them?
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  • Somebody who's really hurt them and mistreated them? see, we get too much on this,
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  • Them and mistreated them? see, we get too much on this, "well, i prayed to forgive
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  • See, we get too much on this, "well, i prayed to forgive and i just still get all
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  • "well, i prayed to forgive and i just still get all these yucky feelings
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  • And i just still get all these yucky feelings when i'm around them."
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  • These yucky feelings when i'm around them." you know my story from my past,
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  • When i'm around them." you know my story from my past, sexually abused by my dad.
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  • You know my story from my past, sexually abused by my dad. and my mother knew
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  • Sexually abused by my dad. and my mother knew what he was doing,
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  • And my mother knew what he was doing, and she wouldn't do anything
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  • What he was doing, and she wouldn't do anything about it because of fear.
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  • And she wouldn't do anything about it because of fear. and so, i was abused
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  • About it because of fear. and so, i was abused and abandoned.
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  • And so, i was abused and abandoned. and then god asked
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  • And abandoned. and then god asked us to take care of them
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  • And then god asked us to take care of them when they got older.
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  • Us to take care of them when they got older. well, i didn't wanna do that.
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  • When i first heard that,
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  • When i first heard that, i thought it was--
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  • When i first heard that, i thought it was-- i rebuked it.
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  • I thought it was-- i rebuked it. i said, "i rebuke you, devil."
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  • I rebuked it. i said, "i rebuke you, devil." >> [audience laughing]
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  • I said, "i rebuke you, devil." >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: because i said,
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: because i said, "there is no way god would
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  • >> joyce: because i said, "there is no way god would ask me to do that after
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  • "there is no way god would ask me to do that after what they did to me."
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  • Ask me to do that after what they did to me." well, yes, he will.
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  • What they did to me." well, yes, he will. yeah, he will.
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  • Well, yes, he will. yeah, he will. they were a long time--
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  • Yeah, he will. they were a long time-- we put 'em in their own house.
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  • They were a long time-- we put 'em in their own house. and then when they couldn't
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  • We put 'em in their own house. and then when they couldn't do that, we had to put
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  • And then when they couldn't do that, we had to put 'em in assisted living,
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  • Do that, we had to put 'em in assisted living, and then eventually into
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  • 'em in assisted living, and then eventually into the nursing home.
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  • And then eventually into the nursing home. and i can tell you that i went
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  • The nursing home. and i can tell you that i went at least every two weeks
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  • And i can tell you that i went at least every two weeks to see them, and not one time
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  • At least every two weeks to see them, and not one time did i ever feel like going.
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  • To see them, and not one time did i ever feel like going. never felt like it one time.
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  • Did i ever feel like going. never felt like it one time. but i did what was right,
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  • Never felt like it one time. but i did what was right, because i love god.
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  • But i did what was right, because i love god. amen?
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  • Because i love god. amen? >> [audience applauding]
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  • Amen? >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: now, there's
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: now, there's somebody in here
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  • >> joyce: now, there's somebody in here tonight that's gonna
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  • Somebody in here tonight that's gonna get a real breakthrough,
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  • Tonight that's gonna get a real breakthrough, because you haven't
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  • Get a real breakthrough, because you haven't understood these things,
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  • Because you haven't understood these things, and you've been waiting
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  • Understood these things, and you've been waiting to feel like it.
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  • And you've been waiting to feel like it. as a result of us showing
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  • To feel like it. as a result of us showing love to them,
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  • As a result of us showing love to them, my father at the age of 83,
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  • Love to them, my father at the age of 83, finally gave his life
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  • My father at the age of 83, finally gave his life to the lord.
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  • Finally gave his life to the lord. and he looked at dave
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  • To the lord. and he looked at dave and he said, "you know, dave,
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  • And he looked at dave and he said, "you know, dave, most men would have killed
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  • And he said, "you know, dave, most men would have killed me knowing what i did,
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  • Most men would have killed me knowing what i did, and you never did anything
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  • Me knowing what i did, and you never did anything but show me love."
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  • And you never did anything but show me love." amen?
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  • But show me love." amen? >> [audience applauding]
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  • Amen? >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and then you say,
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and then you say, "well, it's too hard."
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  • >> joyce: and then you say, "well, it's too hard." well, yeah, it's hard,
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  • "well, it's too hard." well, yeah, it's hard, but you know what?
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  • Well, yeah, it's hard, but you know what? forgiving somebody that
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  • But you know what? forgiving somebody that doesn't deserve it is not
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  • Forgiving somebody that doesn't deserve it is not as hard as being full
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  • Doesn't deserve it is not as hard as being full of the poison of hatred.
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  • As hard as being full of the poison of hatred. >> [audience applauding]
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  • Of the poison of hatred. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: that's what's hard.
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  • Luke 21:19 says,
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  • Luke 21:19 says, "in your patience possess
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  • Luke 21:19 says, "in your patience possess ye your souls."
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  • Well, your soul is your mind,
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  • Well, your soul is your mind, your will, and your emotions.
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  • Well, your soul is your mind, your will, and your emotions. it's what goes
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  • Your will, and your emotions. it's what goes on inside of you.
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  • It's what goes on inside of you. and it's what you think,
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  • On inside of you. and it's what you think, what you want,
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  • And it's what you think, what you want, and how you feel.
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  • What you want, and how you feel. and if you don't possess
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  • And how you feel. and if you don't possess your soul, it will possess you.
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  • And if you don't possess your soul, it will possess you. >> [audience applauding]
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  • >> joyce: and you can spend
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  • >> joyce: and you can spend your life living by what
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  • >> joyce: and you can spend your life living by what you think, or what you want,
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  • Your life living by what you think, or what you want, or how you feel, and it's not
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  • You think, or what you want, or how you feel, and it's not gonna be a very good life.
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  • Or how you feel, and it's not gonna be a very good life. when people are impatient--
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  • Gonna be a very good life. when people are impatient-- and you know there's a lot
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  • When people are impatient-- and you know there's a lot of kinds of impatience.
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  • And you know there's a lot of kinds of impatience. you know, i don't--
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  • Of kinds of impatience. you know, i don't-- i don't really get too
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  • You know, i don't-- i don't really get too upset if god's not moving
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  • I don't really get too upset if god's not moving on my timeline because
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  • Upset if god's not moving on my timeline because i already did that for
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  • On my timeline because i already did that for years and that--
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  • I already did that for years and that-- no matter how impatient
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  • Years and that-- no matter how impatient i get with god, it's not
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  • No matter how impatient i get with god, it's not gonna move him to hurry.
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  • I get with god, it's not gonna move him to hurry. and so, he's gonna do
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  • Gonna move him to hurry. and so, he's gonna do it when he's gonna do it,
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  • And so, he's gonna do it when he's gonna do it, not until he's gonna do it.
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  • It when he's gonna do it, not until he's gonna do it. he has an appointed time,
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  • Not until he's gonna do it. he has an appointed time, a due time, and our times
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  • He has an appointed time, a due time, and our times are really in his hands.
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  • A due time, and our times are really in his hands. and so, we might as well
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  • Are really in his hands. and so, we might as well just go ahead and enjoy life,
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  • And so, we might as well just go ahead and enjoy life, while we wait for him to do
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  • Just go ahead and enjoy life, while we wait for him to do whatever it is he's gonna do.
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  • While we wait for him to do whatever it is he's gonna do. but we all have areas--
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  • Whatever it is he's gonna do. but we all have areas-- >> [audience applauding]
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  • But we all have areas-- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: like there are
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: like there are certain things that
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  • >> joyce: like there are certain things that make me impatient.
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  • And what happens when we get
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  • And what happens when we get impatient is we, many times
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  • And what happens when we get impatient is we, many times get into what the bible calls,
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  • Impatient is we, many times get into what the bible calls, works of the flesh.
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  • Get into what the bible calls, works of the flesh. god wants us to work.
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  • But he doesn't want us to get
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  • But he doesn't want us to get into works of the flesh.
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  • But he doesn't want us to get into works of the flesh. works of the flesh is when we
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  • Into works of the flesh. works of the flesh is when we try to do what only god can do.
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  • Works of the flesh is when we try to do what only god can do. pride is always
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  • Try to do what only god can do. pride is always behind impatience.
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  • Pride is always behind impatience. we get impatient because god's
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  • Behind impatience. we get impatient because god's not moving fast enough,
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  • We get impatient because god's not moving fast enough, so we take over.
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  • Not moving fast enough, so we take over. well, there's no better
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  • So we take over. well, there's no better example than abraham and sarah.
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  • Well, there's no better example than abraham and sarah. no better example at all.
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  • Example than abraham and sarah. no better example at all. it's amazing when
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  • No better example at all. it's amazing when you think about--
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  • Let me just read you
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  • Let me just read you a little bit of this.
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  • Let me just read you a little bit of this. "now sarai, abram's wife,
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  • A little bit of this. "now sarai, abram's wife, had borne him no children."
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  • "now sarai, abram's wife, had borne him no children." god had promised them a child,
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  • Had borne him no children." god had promised them a child, but it hadn't happened yet.
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  • God had promised them a child, but it hadn't happened yet. and she got tired of waiting
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  • But it hadn't happened yet. and she got tired of waiting so she, "said to abram,
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  • And she got tired of waiting so she, "said to abram, 'the lord has restrained
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  • So she, "said to abram, 'the lord has restrained me from bearing [children].
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  • 'the lord has restrained me from bearing [children]. so i'm asking you to have
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  • Me from bearing [children]. so i'm asking you to have intercourse with my maid;
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  • So i'm asking you to have intercourse with my maid; it may be that i can obtain
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  • Intercourse with my maid; it may be that i can obtain children by her.
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  • It may be that i can obtain children by her. and abram listened
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  • Children by her. and abram listened to and heeded what
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  • And abram listened to and heeded what sarai said.'"
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  • To and heeded what sarai said.'" well, any woman in here
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  • Knows that was a dumb idea.
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  • Knows that was a dumb idea. >> [audience laughing]
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  • Knows that was a dumb idea. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: you don't--
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: you don't-- but i do notice that abraham
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  • >> joyce: you don't-- but i do notice that abraham didn't put up much of a fight.
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  • But i do notice that abraham didn't put up much of a fight. >> [audience laughing]
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  • >> joyce: do you know
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  • >> joyce: do you know what a mess they caused?
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  • >> joyce: do you know what a mess they caused? the promised child isaac
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  • Didn't come until 25 years
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  • Didn't come until 25 years after god spoke to them.
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  • And i--
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  • And i-- ishmael was 13 when abram
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  • And i-- ishmael was 13 when abram made him and hagar leave.
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  • Ishmael was 13 when abram made him and hagar leave. and i think if they would've
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  • Made him and hagar leave. and i think if they would've not gotten in the flesh
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  • And i think if they would've not gotten in the flesh and birthed ishmael,
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  • Not gotten in the flesh and birthed ishmael, their wait would've
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  • And birthed ishmael, their wait would've been cut in half.
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  • Their wait would've been cut in half. sometimes when you get the
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  • Been cut in half. sometimes when you get the most frustrated at god,
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  • Sometimes when you get the most frustrated at god, your miracle's right around
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  • Most frustrated at god, your miracle's right around the corner, and you delay
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  • Your miracle's right around the corner, and you delay it because you get in the flesh.
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  • The corner, and you delay it because you get in the flesh. and the thing that's so funny
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  • It because you get in the flesh. and the thing that's so funny here is--
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  • And the thing that's so funny here is-- >> [audience applauding]
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  • >> joyce: so abram took
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  • >> joyce: so abram took her as a secondary wife.
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  • >> joyce: so abram took her as a secondary wife. she became pregnant.
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  • Her as a secondary wife. she became pregnant. "when she saw she
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  • She became pregnant. "when she saw she was with child,
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  • "when she saw she was with child, she looked with contempt
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  • Was with child, she looked with contempt upon her mistress
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  • She looked with contempt upon her mistress and despised her."
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  • Upon her mistress and despised her." ♪ nah nee na na na nah♪
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  • And despised her." ♪ nah nee na na na nah♪ ♪ i'm gonna have a baby ♪
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  • ♪ nah nee na na na nah♪ ♪ i'm gonna have a baby ♪ ♪ and you're not ♪
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  • ♪ i'm gonna have a baby ♪ ♪ and you're not ♪ and so, sarai right away
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  • ♪ and you're not ♪ and so, sarai right away went to abram and said,
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  • And so, sarai right away went to abram and said, "may [the responsibility for]
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  • Went to abram and said, "may [the responsibility for] my wrong and deprivation
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  • "may [the responsibility for] my wrong and deprivation of rights be upon you!
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  • My wrong and deprivation of rights be upon you! i gave my maid into your bosom,
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  • Of rights be upon you! i gave my maid into your bosom, and when she saw that
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  • I gave my maid into your bosom, and when she saw that she was with child,
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  • And when she saw that she was with child, i became contemptible
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  • She was with child, i became contemptible and despised in her eyes."
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  • I became contemptible and despised in her eyes." now, why is what she did--
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  • How can that be abraham's fault?
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  • How can that be abraham's fault? see, that's one of the things
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  • How can that be abraham's fault? see, that's one of the things we need to stop too,
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  • See, that's one of the things we need to stop too, is blaming everybody
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  • We need to stop too, is blaming everybody else for our problems.
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  • Is blaming everybody else for our problems. >> [audience applauding]
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  • >> joyce: when i would act bad,
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  • >> joyce: when i would act bad, back 45 years ago or so,
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  • Not this morning thankfully.
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  • Not this morning thankfully. when i would act
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  • Not this morning thankfully. when i would act bad in the beginning
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  • When i would act bad in the beginning of learning a lot
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  • Bad in the beginning of learning a lot of the stuff that i teach now,
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  • Of learning a lot of the stuff that i teach now, i would say,
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  • Of the stuff that i teach now, i would say, "well, if you'd been raised
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  • I would say, "well, if you'd been raised the way i was raised,
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  • "well, if you'd been raised the way i was raised, you would not
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  • The way i was raised, you would not act so good yourself."
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  • You would not act so good yourself." and the lord put
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  • Act so good yourself." and the lord put this in my heart,
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  • And the lord put this in my heart, "yes, what happened to you
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  • This in my heart, "yes, what happened to you is why you are the way you are,
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  • "yes, what happened to you is why you are the way you are, but don't let it become
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  • Is why you are the way you are, but don't let it become an excuse to stay that way."
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  • But don't let it become an excuse to stay that way." >> [audience applauding]
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  • An excuse to stay that way." >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: that was just like
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: that was just like a piece of gold i threw you.
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  • >> joyce: that was just like a piece of gold i threw you. because as long as we're
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  • A piece of gold i threw you. because as long as we're blaming, we're not
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  • Because as long as we're blaming, we're not taking responsibility.
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  • Blaming, we're not taking responsibility. and until we take
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  • Taking responsibility. and until we take responsibility,
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  • And until we take responsibility, we can't get well.
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  • Responsibility, we can't get well. you say, "well,
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  • We can't get well. you say, "well, it's not my fault."
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  • You say, "well, it's not my fault." what happened to you
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  • It's not my fault." what happened to you is not your fault.
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  • What happened to you is not your fault. nor may be the way you behave
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  • Is not your fault. nor may be the way you behave because of it, but as soon
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  • Nor may be the way you behave because of it, but as soon as christ comes into your life
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  • Because of it, but as soon as christ comes into your life and he begins to point these
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  • As christ comes into your life and he begins to point these things out to you,
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  • And he begins to point these things out to you, he's ready to help you
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  • Things out to you, he's ready to help you get over it, but you
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  • He's ready to help you get over it, but you have to face it and say,
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  • Get over it, but you have to face it and say, "my behavior is wrong."
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  • Have to face it and say, "my behavior is wrong." >> [audience applauding]
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  • "my behavior is wrong." >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: all right now,
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: all right now, of course we're always,
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  • >> joyce: all right now, of course we're always, you know, out of time
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  • Of course we're always, you know, out of time before we wanna be.
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  • You know, out of time before we wanna be. but you know,
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  • Before we wanna be. but you know, faith is for the in-between.
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  • But you know, faith is for the in-between. there's always a beginning
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  • Faith is for the in-between. there's always a beginning and there's an end,
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  • There's always a beginning and there's an end, but oh, the middle.
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  • And there's an end, but oh, the middle. and i'll tell you, people
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  • But oh, the middle. and i'll tell you, people who can't make it through
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  • And i'll tell you, people who can't make it through the middle, will never
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  • Who can't make it through the middle, will never make it to the end.
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  • The middle, will never make it to the end. i always say, "i had a bad
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  • Make it to the end. i always say, "i had a bad beginning, but i'm having
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  • I always say, "i had a bad beginning, but i'm having a fantastic finish."
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  • Beginning, but i'm having a fantastic finish." >> [audience applauding]
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  • A fantastic finish." >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: so you may have
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: so you may have had the lousiest childhood
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  • >> joyce: so you may have had the lousiest childhood of anybody on the planet.
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  • Had the lousiest childhood of anybody on the planet. and maybe you had a bad
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  • Of anybody on the planet. and maybe you had a bad marriage.
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  • And maybe you had a bad marriage. i had a bad first marriage.
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  • Marriage. i had a bad first marriage. he ran around with other women
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  • I had a bad first marriage. he ran around with other women all the time, wouldn't work,
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  • He ran around with other women all the time, wouldn't work, ended up in prison.
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  • All the time, wouldn't work, ended up in prison. so by the time i met
  • 00:13:56.659 --> 00:13:57.826
  • Ended up in prison. so by the time i met and married dave, i didn't
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  • So by the time i met and married dave, i didn't know what love was.
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  • And married dave, i didn't know what love was. i mean, he told me he loved me.
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  • Know what love was. i mean, he told me he loved me. i couldn't even say it back,
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  • I mean, he told me he loved me. i couldn't even say it back, 'cause i didn't--
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  • I couldn't even say it back, 'cause i didn't-- anybody that ever told
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  • 'cause i didn't-- anybody that ever told me they loved me, hurt me.
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  • Anybody that ever told me they loved me, hurt me. and i mean, god had the exact
  • 00:14:07.870 --> 00:14:10.406
  • Me they loved me, hurt me. and i mean, god had the exact right man picked out
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  • And i mean, god had the exact right man picked out for me because...
  • 00:14:11.607 --> 00:14:13.309
  • Right man picked out for me because... >> [audience applauding]
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  • >> joyce: he was patient
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  • >> joyce: he was patient and he was patient with me.
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  • >> joyce: he was patient and he was patient with me. now, he didn't let me just
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  • And he was patient with me. now, he didn't let me just push him around,
  • 00:14:23.452 --> 00:14:24.186
  • Now, he didn't let me just push him around, but he was patient.
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  • Push him around, but he was patient. and he decided
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  • But he was patient. and he decided he was gonna be happy,
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  • And he decided he was gonna be happy, and if i wanted to be happy,
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  • He was gonna be happy, and if i wanted to be happy, i could be happy with him.
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  • And if i wanted to be happy, i could be happy with him. and if i didn't,
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  • I could be happy with him. and if i didn't, then he'd be happy anyway.
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  • And if i didn't, then he'd be happy anyway. >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:14:34.797 --> 00:14:37.032
  • Then he'd be happy anyway. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and some of you need
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and some of you need to make that decision.
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  • >> joyce: and some of you need to make that decision. because you're codependent
  • 00:14:40.336 --> 00:14:41.537
  • To make that decision. because you're codependent on somebody else,
  • 00:14:41.603 --> 00:14:42.338
  • Because you're codependent on somebody else, you wait to see how they're
  • 00:14:42.404 --> 00:14:43.405
  • On somebody else, you wait to see how they're gonna act before you decide
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  • You wait to see how they're gonna act before you decide what kind of day you can have.
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  • Mm, mm?
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  • Mm, mm? and actually, dave deciding
  • 00:14:53.148 --> 00:14:55.317
  • Mm, mm? and actually, dave deciding to be happy, would make me
  • 00:14:55.384 --> 00:14:58.487
  • And actually, dave deciding to be happy, would make me so mad when he would be happy,
  • 00:14:58.554 --> 00:15:00.089
  • To be happy, would make me so mad when he would be happy, and i'd be--
  • 00:15:00.155 --> 00:15:00.723
  • So mad when he would be happy, and i'd be-- >> [audience laughing]
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  • And i'd be-- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: oh, that just,
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: oh, that just, ripped my guts out.
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  • >> joyce: oh, that just, ripped my guts out. but you know what?
  • 00:15:05.961 --> 00:15:06.695
  • Ripped my guts out. but you know what? it was one of the things
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  • But you know what? it was one of the things that made me wanna change.
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  • It was one of the things that made me wanna change. i thought, "man, if there's
  • 00:15:11.367 --> 00:15:13.202
  • That made me wanna change. i thought, "man, if there's peace like that, i want it."
  • 00:15:13.268 --> 00:15:17.039
  • So, in mark 11:24 it says, "ask
  • 00:15:18.407 --> 00:15:20.342
  • So, in mark 11:24 it says, "ask and it will be given you."
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  • So, in mark 11:24 it says, "ask and it will be given you." ask and it will be given you.
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  • And it will be given you." ask and it will be given you. you will get it.
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  • Ask and it will be given you. you will get it. ask and you will get it.
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  • But he doesn't say when.
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  • But he doesn't say when. and you know,
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  • But he doesn't say when. and you know, abraham and sarah
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  • And you know, abraham and sarah waited 25 years.
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  • Abraham and sarah waited 25 years. david was--
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  • Waited 25 years. david was-- didn't wear the crown
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  • David was-- didn't wear the crown till 22 years after he was
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  • Didn't wear the crown till 22 years after he was anointed to be king.
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  • Till 22 years after he was anointed to be king. and those 22 years he spent
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  • Anointed to be king. and those 22 years he spent hiding in caves and running
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  • And those 22 years he spent hiding in caves and running away from saul,
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  • Hiding in caves and running away from saul, who was trying to kill him.
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  • Away from saul, who was trying to kill him. joseph, same thing.
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  • Who was trying to kill him. joseph, same thing. it was 22 years after
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  • Joseph, same thing. it was 22 years after he had his dream before
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  • It was 22 years after he had his dream before he was living his dream.
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  • He had his dream before he was living his dream. and most of the rest
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  • He was living his dream. and most of the rest of the time,
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  • And most of the rest of the time, he was a slave or in prison
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  • Of the time, he was a slave or in prison for something that he didn't do.
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  • He was a slave or in prison for something that he didn't do. and that's what
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  • For something that he didn't do. and that's what got him prepared.
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  • And that's what got him prepared. see, this is the hardest
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  • Got him prepared. see, this is the hardest thing to understand,
  • 00:16:14.897 --> 00:16:15.898
  • See, this is the hardest thing to understand, but that's what got
  • 00:16:15.964 --> 00:16:16.799
  • Thing to understand, but that's what got him prepared to be
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  • But that's what got him prepared to be in the position he was at.
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  • Him prepared to be in the position he was at. what david went through
  • 00:16:21.670 --> 00:16:22.771
  • In the position he was at. what david went through got him prepared to be king.
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  • What david went through got him prepared to be king. and so really,
  • 00:16:26.742 --> 00:16:27.376
  • Got him prepared to be king. and so really, when you have a problem,
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  • And so really, when you have a problem, when you have a trial
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  • When you have a problem, when you have a trial or tribulation, god has not
  • 00:16:30.979 --> 00:16:34.516
  • When you have a trial or tribulation, god has not called us to understand.
  • 00:16:34.583 --> 00:16:38.053
  • Or tribulation, god has not called us to understand. "why, god, why?
  • 00:16:38.120 --> 00:16:39.988
  • Called us to understand. "why, god, why? why?
  • 00:16:40.055 --> 00:16:40.355
  • "why, god, why? why? i don't understand?"
  • 00:16:40.422 --> 00:16:41.290
  • Why? i don't understand?" well, there's so many things
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  • I don't understand?" well, there's so many things that i don't understand.
  • 00:16:44.560 --> 00:16:46.361
  • Well, there's so many things that i don't understand. i don't understand the things
  • 00:16:46.428 --> 00:16:48.330
  • That i don't understand. i don't understand the things that happen to little kids.
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  • I don't understand the things that happen to little kids. i don't understand why--
  • 00:16:52.134 --> 00:16:56.939
  • That happen to little kids. i don't understand why-- i prayed that god would
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  • I don't understand why-- i prayed that god would get me out of that
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  • I prayed that god would get me out of that situation with my dad.
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  • Get me out of that situation with my dad. i mean, i prayed my mother
  • 00:17:03.178 --> 00:17:06.115
  • Situation with my dad. i mean, i prayed my mother would leave him,
  • 00:17:06.181 --> 00:17:07.683
  • I mean, i prayed my mother would leave him, but he didn't get me out of it,
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  • Would leave him, but he didn't get me out of it, but he did get me through it.
  • 00:17:08.951 --> 00:17:10.519
  • But he didn't get me out of it, but he did get me through it. >> [audience applauding]
  • 00:17:10.586 --> 00:17:13.422
  • But he did get me through it. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and it is really
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and it is really like the foundation of what
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  • >> joyce: and it is really like the foundation of what got me started doing
  • 00:17:19.895 --> 00:17:21.530
  • Like the foundation of what got me started doing what i'm doing today.
  • 00:17:21.597 --> 00:17:24.266
  • Got me started doing what i'm doing today. because there's so many
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  • What i'm doing today. because there's so many people that have been hurt,
  • 00:17:25.334 --> 00:17:28.137
  • Because there's so many people that have been hurt, and they've never gotten
  • 00:17:28.203 --> 00:17:29.371
  • People that have been hurt, and they've never gotten over it because they have
  • 00:17:29.438 --> 00:17:30.339
  • And they've never gotten over it because they have never known how to deal with it.
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  • Over it because they have never known how to deal with it. just telling you that you don't
  • 00:17:33.942 --> 00:17:35.444
  • Never known how to deal with it. just telling you that you don't have to live by your feelings,
  • 00:17:35.511 --> 00:17:37.513
  • Just telling you that you don't have to live by your feelings, that you can feel like you
  • 00:17:37.579 --> 00:17:39.748
  • Have to live by your feelings, that you can feel like you wanna do the wrong thing,
  • 00:17:39.815 --> 00:17:40.916
  • That you can feel like you wanna do the wrong thing, and do the right thing.
  • 00:17:40.983 --> 00:17:43.452
  • Wanna do the wrong thing, and do the right thing. i mean, that can change
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  • And do the right thing. i mean, that can change your whole life.
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  • I mean, that can change your whole life. so it's the in-between.
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  • Your whole life. so it's the in-between. how many of you are
  • 00:17:49.958 --> 00:17:50.826
  • So it's the in-between. how many of you are in the middle right now,
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  • How many of you are in the middle right now, and you need to make
  • 00:17:52.027 --> 00:17:53.595
  • In the middle right now, and you need to make it through?
  • 00:17:53.662 --> 00:17:54.763
  • And you need to make it through? okay.
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  • Well, this is gonna--
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  • Well, this is gonna-- it's especially good for you
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  • Well, this is gonna-- it's especially good for you to be here then tonight.
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  • It's especially good for you to be here then tonight. amen?
  • 00:18:02.171 --> 00:18:04.706
  • To be here then tonight. amen? all right.
  • 00:18:04.773 --> 00:18:09.945
  • Amen? all right. one of the things that
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  • All right. one of the things that i have a hard time with is,
  • 00:18:10.846 --> 00:18:14.082
  • One of the things that i have a hard time with is, when i go shopping
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  • I have a hard time with is, when i go shopping and i can't find anybody
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  • When i go shopping and i can't find anybody to take my money.
  • 00:18:20.255 --> 00:18:22.024
  • And i can't find anybody to take my money. >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:18:22.090 --> 00:18:22.958
  • To take my money. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: have you noticed
  • 00:18:23.025 --> 00:18:24.193
  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: have you noticed how few clerks there
  • 00:18:24.259 --> 00:18:25.427
  • >> joyce: have you noticed how few clerks there are in stores now?
  • 00:18:25.494 --> 00:18:27.963
  • Colossians 3:12,
  • 00:18:33.068 --> 00:18:34.570
  • Colossians 3:12, says to "put on patience."
  • 00:18:34.636 --> 00:18:38.407
  • Colossians 3:12, says to "put on patience." put it on.
  • 00:18:38.473 --> 00:18:41.210
  • "put on humility."
  • 00:18:41.276 --> 00:18:43.912
  • "put on humility." how do you put on patience?
  • 00:18:43.979 --> 00:18:45.280
  • "put on humility." how do you put on patience? well, i go in my closet every
  • 00:18:45.347 --> 00:18:48.217
  • How do you put on patience? well, i go in my closet every morning and get dressed,
  • 00:18:48.283 --> 00:18:49.851
  • Well, i go in my closet every morning and get dressed, and i've never had my clothes
  • 00:18:49.918 --> 00:18:52.221
  • Morning and get dressed, and i've never had my clothes jump off the hanger
  • 00:18:52.287 --> 00:18:53.055
  • And i've never had my clothes jump off the hanger and just jump on my body.
  • 00:18:53.121 --> 00:18:54.356
  • Jump off the hanger and just jump on my body. >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:18:54.423 --> 00:18:56.592
  • And just jump on my body. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i've had to choose
  • 00:18:56.658 --> 00:18:57.693
  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i've had to choose something, try it on,
  • 00:18:57.759 --> 00:19:00.762
  • >> joyce: i've had to choose something, try it on, and if you're a woman,
  • 00:19:00.829 --> 00:19:01.697
  • Something, try it on, and if you're a woman, you know that sometimes you may
  • 00:19:01.763 --> 00:19:03.198
  • And if you're a woman, you know that sometimes you may be put on two or three things--
  • 00:19:03.265 --> 00:19:06.468
  • You know that sometimes you may be put on two or three things-- or more,
  • 00:19:06.535 --> 00:19:09.605
  • Be put on two or three things-- or more, before you finally choose
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  • Or more, before you finally choose something that you think
  • 00:19:13.208 --> 00:19:14.243
  • Before you finally choose something that you think looks right on you.
  • 00:19:14.309 --> 00:19:16.411
  • Something that you think looks right on you. and we need to dress
  • 00:19:16.478 --> 00:19:17.479
  • Looks right on you. and we need to dress spiritually.
  • 00:19:17.546 --> 00:19:20.349
  • And pastor todd,
  • 00:19:20.983 --> 00:19:22.184
  • And pastor todd, maybe in some of his teaching
  • 00:19:22.251 --> 00:19:24.953
  • And pastor todd, maybe in some of his teaching on spiritual warfare,
  • 00:19:25.020 --> 00:19:26.822
  • Maybe in some of his teaching on spiritual warfare, i don't know if he's brought
  • 00:19:26.888 --> 00:19:27.923
  • On spiritual warfare, i don't know if he's brought out yet that
  • 00:19:27.990 --> 00:19:28.590
  • I don't know if he's brought out yet that in ephesians 6 it says,
  • 00:19:28.657 --> 00:19:31.426
  • Out yet that in ephesians 6 it says, "put on the shoes of peace."
  • 00:19:31.493 --> 00:19:35.564
  • In ephesians 6 it says, "put on the shoes of peace." "put on the breastplate
  • 00:19:35.631 --> 00:19:37.165
  • "put on the shoes of peace." "put on the breastplate of righteousness."
  • 00:19:37.232 --> 00:19:38.700
  • "put on the breastplate of righteousness." and that's not like just like,
  • 00:19:38.767 --> 00:19:40.736
  • Of righteousness." and that's not like just like, "okay, i put on my helmet,
  • 00:19:40.802 --> 00:19:43.839
  • I put on my shoes of peace."
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  • I put on my shoes of peace." no, it actually means to do it,
  • 00:19:47.809 --> 00:19:51.146
  • I put on my shoes of peace." no, it actually means to do it, to put it on and to wear it.
  • 00:19:51.213 --> 00:19:53.081
  • No, it actually means to do it, to put it on and to wear it. and here again, you don't
  • 00:19:53.148 --> 00:19:54.516
  • To put it on and to wear it. and here again, you don't have to feel like it.
  • 00:19:54.583 --> 00:19:56.952
  • And here again, you don't have to feel like it. but if we took as much time--
  • 00:19:57.019 --> 00:19:59.187
  • Have to feel like it. but if we took as much time-- half as much time--
  • 00:19:59.254 --> 00:20:00.756
  • But if we took as much time-- half as much time-- getting ready spiritually before
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  • Half as much time-- getting ready spiritually before we go out of the house,
  • 00:20:02.491 --> 00:20:03.292
  • Getting ready spiritually before we go out of the house, as we do getting
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  • We go out of the house, as we do getting ready physically--
  • 00:20:04.192 --> 00:20:06.328
  • As we do getting ready physically-- >> [audience applauding]
  • 00:20:06.395 --> 00:20:12.267
  • Ready physically-- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: i mean, i had to--
  • 00:20:12.334 --> 00:20:14.069
  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: i mean, i had to-- this is new.
  • 00:20:14.136 --> 00:20:14.703
  • >> joyce: i mean, i had to-- this is new. i bought this for you guys.
  • 00:20:14.770 --> 00:20:16.038
  • This is new. i bought this for you guys. >> [audience cheering]
  • 00:20:16.104 --> 00:20:20.575
  • >> joyce: and i got here,
  • 00:20:25.681 --> 00:20:27.549
  • >> joyce: and i got here, and the people that loaded
  • 00:20:27.616 --> 00:20:31.586
  • >> joyce: and i got here, and the people that loaded and unloaded our car,
  • 00:20:31.653 --> 00:20:33.755
  • And the people that loaded and unloaded our car, when i got here,
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  • And unloaded our car, when i got here, they didn't bring my clothes.
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  • When i got here, they didn't bring my clothes. >> [audience laughing]
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  • They didn't bring my clothes. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i'm like--
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i'm like-- let me tell you, if i would've
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  • >> joyce: i'm like-- let me tell you, if i would've done what i felt like doing--
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  • Let me tell you, if i would've done what i felt like doing-- >> [audience laughing]
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  • Done what i felt like doing-- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and so, my daughter
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and so, my daughter and her husband were
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  • >> joyce: and so, my daughter and her husband were gonna drive down anyway,
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  • And her husband were gonna drive down anyway, so they just left a couple
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  • Gonna drive down anyway, so they just left a couple days early and brought
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  • So they just left a couple days early and brought my clothes.
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  • Days early and brought my clothes. but i have really gone
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  • My clothes. but i have really gone to a lot of trouble to look
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  • But i have really gone to a lot of trouble to look good for you tonight.
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  • To a lot of trouble to look good for you tonight. >> [audience cheering]
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  • Good for you tonight. >> [audience cheering] >> joyce: you know how we are.
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  • >> [audience cheering] >> joyce: you know how we are. but see, here's the thing.
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  • >> joyce: you know how we are. but see, here's the thing. i took more time getting
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  • But see, here's the thing. i took more time getting dressed spiritually--
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  • I took more time getting dressed spiritually-- >> [audience cheering]
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  • Dressed spiritually-- >> [audience cheering] >> joyce: than i did
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  • >> [audience cheering] >> joyce: than i did getting this on.
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  • >> joyce: than i did getting this on. i've been getting dressed
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  • Getting this on. i've been getting dressed spiritually all week.
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  • I've been getting dressed spiritually all week. is anybody understanding
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  • Spiritually all week. is anybody understanding what i'm saying?
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  • Is anybody understanding what i'm saying? >> [audience applauding]
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  • What i'm saying? >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: all right.
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: all right. so, let's just talk
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  • >> joyce: all right. so, let's just talk about a few things.
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  • So, let's just talk about a few things. we've got two minutes left.
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  • About a few things. we've got two minutes left. how do you do with clerks?
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  • We've got two minutes left. how do you do with clerks? slow clerks, new clerks,
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  • How do you do with clerks? slow clerks, new clerks, no clerks, clerks in training,
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  • Slow clerks, new clerks, no clerks, clerks in training, clerks who run out of change,
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  • No clerks, clerks in training, clerks who run out of change, clerks who have to replace
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  • Clerks who run out of change, clerks who have to replace the tape in the register
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  • Clerks who have to replace the tape in the register and don't know how to do it.
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  • The tape in the register and don't know how to do it. >> [audience applauding]
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  • And don't know how to do it. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: clerks who are rude,
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: clerks who are rude, clerks who talk
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  • >> joyce: clerks who are rude, clerks who talk on the phone the entire
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  • Clerks who talk on the phone the entire time they're waiting on you,
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  • On the phone the entire time they're waiting on you, clerks who ignore you
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  • Time they're waiting on you, clerks who ignore you and don't wait on you
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  • Clerks who ignore you and don't wait on you at all because you're
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  • And don't wait on you at all because you're on a personal phone call.
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  • At all because you're on a personal phone call. you can tell that clerks
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  • On a personal phone call. you can tell that clerks annoy me sometimes.
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  • You can tell that clerks annoy me sometimes. >> [audience laughing]
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  • Annoy me sometimes. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: clerks who leave
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: clerks who leave the metal detectors on your
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  • >> joyce: clerks who leave the metal detectors on your clothes, and they don't go off
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  • The metal detectors on your clothes, and they don't go off when you're going out the door.
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  • Clothes, and they don't go off when you're going out the door. that would be bad enough you'd,
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  • When you're going out the door. that would be bad enough you'd, "is she a thief?"
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  • That would be bad enough you'd, "is she a thief?" but no, you get it home
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  • "is she a thief?" but no, you get it home and you quickly find out
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  • But no, you get it home and you quickly find out you cannot get it off,
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  • And you quickly find out you cannot get it off, and if you do,
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  • You cannot get it off, and if you do, it's gonna spill ink all
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  • And if you do, it's gonna spill ink all over your clothes.
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  • It's gonna spill ink all over your clothes. and so, you have to take
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  • Over your clothes. and so, you have to take your time and your money,
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  • And so, you have to take your time and your money, to take the thing that you
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  • Your time and your money, to take the thing that you bought back to the store,
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  • To take the thing that you bought back to the store, to get them to take
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  • Bought back to the store, to get them to take the thing off.
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  • To get them to take the thing off. amen?
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  • The thing off. amen? >> audience: amen.
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  • Amen? >> audience: amen. >> joyce: so, pray
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  • >> audience: amen. >> joyce: so, pray for me with clerks.
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  • >> joyce: so, pray for me with clerks. >> [audience laughing]
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  • For me with clerks. >> [audience laughing] >> [audience applauding]
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  • >> announcer: we're all
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  • >> announcer: we're all searching for something more:
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  • Searching for something more: something more meaningful,
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  • Something more meaningful, something more significant,
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  • Something more significant, something deeper.
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  • Something deeper. believing is important,
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  • Believing is important, but truly knowing
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  • But truly knowing is a journey beyond belief.
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  • Is a journey beyond belief. if our heart is convinced,
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  • If our heart is convinced, that's when we're willing
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  • That's when we're willing to change.
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  • To change. and truly knowing god
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  • And truly knowing god changes everything.
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  • >> ginger: you know,
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  • >> ginger: you know, god knows us better
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  • God knows us better than we know ourselves,
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  • Than we know ourselves, and he desires a close,
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  • And he desires a close, personal relationship
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  • Personal relationship with each of us.
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  • With each of us. when i desperately want
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  • When i desperately want more of him in my life,
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  • More of him in my life, i ask him to show
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  • I ask him to show me what's missing.
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  • Me what's missing. this gives me a chance
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  • This gives me a chance to focus on him
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  • To focus on him and all of the amazing
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  • And all of the amazing things that he does,
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  • Things that he does, giving me a better
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  • Giving me a better understanding of who he is,
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  • Understanding of who he is, his unconditional love,
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  • His unconditional love, and his character.
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  • And his character. discover the beauty
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  • Discover the beauty of god's unconditional love
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  • With joyce's book "knowing god." in it, she shares biblical
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  • In it, she shares biblical truths that literally
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  • Truths that literally changed her life.
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  • And you'll just
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  • And you'll just also love how
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  • Also love how beautiful it is,
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  • Beautiful it is, with pages that
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  • With pages that feature scripture
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  • Feature scripture and practical
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  • And practical wisdom and insight
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  • Wisdom and insight to god's nature
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  • To god's nature and just
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  • And just transforming your
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  • Transforming your life through
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  • Life through his word.
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  • >> announcer: transform
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  • >> announcer: transform your life
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  • Your life and deepen your
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  • And deepen your relationship with god
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  • With joyce's book "knowing god"
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  • And the "my journey with god journal--"
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  • With god journal--" a specially designed
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  • A specially designed notebook for reflecting
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  • Notebook for reflecting on your spiritual journey
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  • On your spiritual journey and meditating on god's word.
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  • >> ginger: knowing god-- well, it changes everything.
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  • >> joyce: well, rejection
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  • >> joyce: well, rejection is something that we've
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  • Is something that we've all faced in our life.
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  • All faced in our life. >> ginger: and no matter
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  • >> ginger: and no matter where it comes from,
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  • Where it comes from, the real pain that it causes
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  • The real pain that it causes does not have to define us.
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  • Does not have to define us. >> joyce: and that's why ginger
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  • >> joyce: and that's why ginger and i have teamed up on this
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  • And i have teamed up on this book, “healing the wounds
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  • Book, “healing the wounds of rejection.”
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  • Of rejection.” >> ginger: we want to share
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  • >> ginger: we want to share truths from god's word
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  • Truths from god's word that have helped us find
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  • That have helped us find strength and wholeness.
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  • Strength and wholeness. >> joyce: you can find
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  • >> joyce: you can find freedom from the pain
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  • Freedom from the pain and move forward
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  • And move forward with confidence.
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  • >> announcer:
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  • >> announcer: “healing the wounds
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  • “healing the wounds of rejection,”
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  • Of rejection,” by joyce meyer
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  • >> susan: when i give what little bit of money
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  • What little bit of money that i'm able to give,
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  • That i'm able to give, then she takes that
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  • Then she takes that and does something
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  • And does something bigger and better with it.
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  • I can't leave
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  • I can't leave what i do to go
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  • What i do to go and help them
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  • And help them rebuild a house,
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  • Rebuild a house, or just the things
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  • Or just the things that need
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  • That need to be done.
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  • To be done. and if you can
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  • And if you can just take
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  • Just take the little bit
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  • The little bit of what god's
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  • Of what god's given you,
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  • Given you, that she can go
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  • That she can go and do all
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  • And do all the things--
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  • The things-- incredible things
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  • Incredible things that she does.
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  • That she does. why would you not
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  • Why would you not wanna do that?
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  • Wanna do that? just do it.
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  • >> announcer: we hope you
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  • >> announcer: we hope you enjoyed today's program.
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  • Enjoyed today's program. we are so grateful
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  • We are so grateful to our joyce meyer
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  • To our joyce meyer ministries partners
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  • Ministries partners who make this
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  • Who make this and all we do possible,
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  • And all we do possible, including sharing
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  • Including sharing god's word
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  • God's word and offering help
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  • And offering help to people in need
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  • To people in need all over the world.
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