Most of us hope for more blessings in our life. Today, Joyce shares on the dangers of pride and the rewards found in choosing humility.
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Joyce Meyer: Enjoying Everyday Life | Joyce Meyer - Pride and Humility (Part 2) | July 25, 2025
- >> joyce: god loves you so much,
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- >> joyce: god loves you so much, and he wants to promote you.
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- >> joyce: god loves you so much, and he wants to promote you. he wants to exalt you.
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- And he wants to promote you. he wants to exalt you. why would he want all
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- He wants to exalt you. why would he want all the sinners in the world
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- Why would he want all the sinners in the world to have all the positions
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- The sinners in the world to have all the positions and the titles and the people
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- To have all the positions and the titles and the people that are admired?
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- And the titles and the people that are admired? he wants his kids to have those
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- That are admired? he wants his kids to have those positions, but we cannot have
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- He wants his kids to have those positions, but we cannot have them and maintain them, if we're
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- Positions, but we cannot have them and maintain them, if we're gonna get full of ourselves
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- Them and maintain them, if we're gonna get full of ourselves and start thinking we're
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- Gonna get full of ourselves and start thinking we're better than everybody else.
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- >> joyce: i do what
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- >> joyce: i do what i do because i've seen god's
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- >> joyce: i do what i do because i've seen god's power transform my own life,
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- I do because i've seen god's power transform my own life, and he will do it for you.
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- Power transform my own life, and he will do it for you. the key to everything
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- And he will do it for you. the key to everything is found in god's word.
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- The key to everything is found in god's word. i'm joyce meyer,
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- Is found in god's word. i'm joyce meyer, and i believe that god can heal
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- I'm joyce meyer, and i believe that god can heal you everywhere you hurt.
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- >> joyce: 1 peter 5:6 and 7,
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- >> joyce: 1 peter 5:6 and 7, very interesting two scriptures:
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- >> joyce: 1 peter 5:6 and 7, very interesting two scriptures: “therefore humble yourself
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- Very interesting two scriptures: “therefore humble yourself under the mighty hand of god,
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- “therefore humble yourself under the mighty hand of god, that in due time he may exalt
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- Under the mighty hand of god, that in due time he may exalt you, casting all of your care
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- That in due time he may exalt you, casting all of your care [all your anxieties, all your
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- You, casting all of your care [all your anxieties, all your worries, all your concerns,
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- [all your anxieties, all your worries, all your concerns, and once and for all] on him,
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- Worries, all your concerns, and once and for all] on him, for he cares for you
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- And once and for all] on him, for he cares for you affectionately and cares
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- For he cares for you affectionately and cares about you watchfully.”
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- Affectionately and cares about you watchfully.” now, what does not worrying
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- About you watchfully.” now, what does not worrying and casting my care have
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- Now, what does not worrying and casting my care have to do with humbling myself?
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- And casting my care have to do with humbling myself? because really what those
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- To do with humbling myself? because really what those scriptures are saying is,
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- Because really what those scriptures are saying is, as long as i am worrying about
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- How i can fix my problem,
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- How i can fix my problem, i still think i can fix it,
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- How i can fix my problem, i still think i can fix it, and i haven't come to the
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- I still think i can fix it, and i haven't come to the realization yet that i can't
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- And i haven't come to the realization yet that i can't do anything without god.
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- Realization yet that i can't do anything without god. hmm, i would've liked a better
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- Do anything without god. hmm, i would've liked a better result than you gave me,
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- Hmm, i would've liked a better result than you gave me, but that's all right.
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- >> [audience applauding]
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: all right.
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: all right. if we refuse to humble
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- >> joyce: all right. if we refuse to humble ourselves, god can arrange
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- If we refuse to humble ourselves, god can arrange circumstances that will
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- Ourselves, god can arrange circumstances that will humble us, but it's much
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- Circumstances that will humble us, but it's much more painful.
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- Humble us, but it's much more painful. now, people that are the most
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- More painful. now, people that are the most in danger of being in pride
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- Now, people that are the most in danger of being in pride are people that are successful.
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- People that have
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- People that have a position of power.
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- People that have a position of power. people that have other people--
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- A position of power. people that have other people-- i don't like to even use
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- People that have other people-- i don't like to even use this term, but under them.
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- I don't like to even use this term, but under them. so, if you're a supervisor,
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- This term, but under them. so, if you're a supervisor, if you're a department manager,
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- So, if you're a supervisor, if you're a department manager, if you are in charge of the dog,
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- If you're a department manager, if you are in charge of the dog, i don't care what it is,
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- If you are in charge of the dog, i don't care what it is, you know, the higher
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- I don't care what it is, you know, the higher up the ladder of success
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- You know, the higher up the ladder of success you go, the more you are
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- Up the ladder of success you go, the more you are in danger of being in pride.
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- You go, the more you are in danger of being in pride. you have to remember that god
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- In danger of being in pride. you have to remember that god promoted you when you were
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- You have to remember that god promoted you when you were small in your own sight,
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- Promoted you when you were small in your own sight, but if you start to get
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- Small in your own sight, but if you start to get big britches, then you're
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- But if you start to get big britches, then you're gonna get in trouble.
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- Big britches, then you're gonna get in trouble. and we see that with saul.
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- Gonna get in trouble. and we see that with saul. we see it with other people
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- And we see that with saul. we see it with other people in the bible, nebuchadnezzar.
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- We see it with other people in the bible, nebuchadnezzar. and it's just a fact.
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- In the bible, nebuchadnezzar. and it's just a fact. god would love to do so much
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- And it's just a fact. god would love to do so much more through his people
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- God would love to do so much more through his people than what he's able to do.
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- More through his people than what he's able to do. what did he tell paul?
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- Paul had the thorn in his
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- Paul had the thorn in his flesh and everybody likes
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- Paul had the thorn in his flesh and everybody likes to argue about what it was.
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- Flesh and everybody likes to argue about what it was. well, i don't really care.
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- To argue about what it was. well, i don't really care. the thing was,
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- Well, i don't really care. the thing was, was it bothered him.
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- The thing was, was it bothered him. he didn't want it.
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- Was it bothered him. he didn't want it. he didn't like it.
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- He didn't want it. he didn't like it. and god said that he would
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- He didn't like it. and god said that he would not remove it, that he had
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- And god said that he would not remove it, that he had it because--to keep him from
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- Not remove it, that he had it because--to keep him from being excessively exalted
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- It because--to keep him from being excessively exalted because of the greatness
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- Being excessively exalted because of the greatness of the revelations that
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- Because of the greatness of the revelations that he had been given.
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- Of the revelations that he had been given. now, did you understand that?
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- He had been given. now, did you understand that? right now, i'm telling you why
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- Sometimes you have trouble
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- Sometimes you have trouble and you don't understand.
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- Sometimes you have trouble and you don't understand. you're not gonna like what
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- And you don't understand. you're not gonna like what i'm getting ready to say.
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- You're not gonna like what i'm getting ready to say. sometimes it is a gift from god.
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- I'm getting ready to say. sometimes it is a gift from god. >> audience member: amen!
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- Sometimes it is a gift from god. >> audience member: amen! >> joyce: where are you at?
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- >> audience member: amen! >> joyce: where are you at? i'm gonna talk just to you.
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- >> joyce: where are you at? i'm gonna talk just to you. >> [audience laughing]
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- I'm gonna talk just to you. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: see, we're taught
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: see, we're taught that if we live by faith,
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- >> joyce: see, we're taught that if we live by faith, that we should be able
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- That if we live by faith, that we should be able to resist all that and rebuke
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- That we should be able to resist all that and rebuke all that, and it's just
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- To resist all that and rebuke all that, and it's just the devil and we should
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- All that, and it's just the devil and we should be able to rebuke him.
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- The devil and we should be able to rebuke him. and yes, all trouble does
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- Be able to rebuke him. and yes, all trouble does come from the devil,
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- And yes, all trouble does come from the devil, but sometimes god allows it.
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- What do you think
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- What do you think i would be like?
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- What do you think i would be like? okay, i've written 147 books,
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- I would be like? okay, i've written 147 books, whoever tried to count 'em,
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- Okay, i've written 147 books, whoever tried to count 'em, 147 books.
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- Whoever tried to count 'em, 147 books. >> [audience applauding]
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- 147 books. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and one of them
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and one of them has sold eight million copies,
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- >> joyce: and one of them has sold eight million copies, "battlefield of the mind."
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- Has sold eight million copies, "battlefield of the mind." so if you haven't read it,
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- "battlefield of the mind." so if you haven't read it, you should get it.
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- So if you haven't read it, you should get it. i'm on television all over
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- You should get it. i'm on television all over the world and, you know,
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- I'm on television all over the world and, you know, "joyce meyer this,
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- The world and, you know, "joyce meyer this, joyce meyer that..."
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- "joyce meyer this, joyce meyer that..." recognized everywhere i go.
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- Joyce meyer that..." recognized everywhere i go. now, let me ask you a question.
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- Recognized everywhere i go. now, let me ask you a question. what do you think i would
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- Now, let me ask you a question. what do you think i would be like if i never had any
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- What do you think i would be like if i never had any trouble in my life?
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- Be like if i never had any trouble in my life? if everything turned
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- Trouble in my life? if everything turned up roses for me, you know
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- If everything turned up roses for me, you know what i would think?
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- Up roses for me, you know what i would think? i would think, "it was
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- What i would think? i would think, "it was because i was so great."
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- I would think, "it was because i was so great." and then it would cause
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- Because i was so great." and then it would cause me to judge anybody else
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- And then it would cause me to judge anybody else who had a problem.
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- Me to judge anybody else who had a problem. i would be certain it was
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- Who had a problem. i would be certain it was because they had sin
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- I would be certain it was because they had sin in their life.
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- Because they had sin in their life. and so god always works
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- In their life. and so god always works things out for our good.
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- What did joseph tell
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- What did joseph tell his brothers?
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- What did joseph tell his brothers? "what you meant for my harm,
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- His brothers? "what you meant for my harm, god intended for my good."
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- "what you meant for my harm, god intended for my good." and whatever you think
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- Or whoever you think is your
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- Or whoever you think is your greatest enemy right now,
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- Or whoever you think is your greatest enemy right now, someday you may mature enough
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- Greatest enemy right now, someday you may mature enough to figure out that it was
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- Someday you may mature enough to figure out that it was really your best friend.
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- To figure out that it was really your best friend. >> [audience applauding]
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- Really your best friend. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: you might as well
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: you might as well get in agreement with me now,
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- >> joyce: you might as well get in agreement with me now, because i'll keep you here
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- Get in agreement with me now, because i'll keep you here a long time if you don't.
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- Because i'll keep you here a long time if you don't. >> [audience laughing]
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- A long time if you don't. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: amen?
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- Where's the clock?
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- Where's the clock? i'm supposed--oh, i see it.
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- Where's the clock? i'm supposed--oh, i see it. well, i only have 16 minutes
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- I'm supposed--oh, i see it. well, i only have 16 minutes left, and i sure can't say
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- Well, i only have 16 minutes left, and i sure can't say everything i wanna
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- Left, and i sure can't say everything i wanna say in 16 minutes.
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- Everything i wanna say in 16 minutes. >> [audience laughing]
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- Say in 16 minutes. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: how many of you
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: how many of you realize how important this is?
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- >> joyce: how many of you realize how important this is? god loves you so much,
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- Realize how important this is? god loves you so much, and he wants to promote you.
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- God loves you so much, and he wants to promote you. he wants to exalt you.
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- And he wants to promote you. he wants to exalt you. why would he want all
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- He wants to exalt you. why would he want all the sinners in the world
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- Why would he want all the sinners in the world to have all the positions
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- The sinners in the world to have all the positions and the titles and the people
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- To have all the positions and the titles and the people that are admired?
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- And the titles and the people that are admired? he wants his kids to have those
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- That are admired? he wants his kids to have those positions, but we cannot have
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- He wants his kids to have those positions, but we cannot have them and maintain them, if we're
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- Gonna get full of ourselves
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- Gonna get full of ourselves and start thinking we're
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- Gonna get full of ourselves and start thinking we're better than everybody else.
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- And start thinking we're better than everybody else. >> [audience applauding]
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- Better than everybody else. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and there
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and there is nothing--i'm just gonna
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- >> joyce: and there is nothing--i'm just gonna be honest with you.
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- Is nothing--i'm just gonna be honest with you. i've been around a lot
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- Be honest with you. i've been around a lot of preachers in my life.
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- I've been around a lot of preachers in my life. and you have never done
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- Of preachers in my life. and you have never done anything until you've
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- And you have never done anything until you've gone to lunch with
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- Anything until you've gone to lunch with about 12 preachers.
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- Gone to lunch with about 12 preachers. >> [audience laughing]
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- About 12 preachers. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and you tell
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and you tell me if i'm right.
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- >> joyce: and you tell me if i'm right. everybody fights to have
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- Me if i'm right. everybody fights to have the conversation, not actually
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- Everybody fights to have the conversation, not actually fighting, but you just can't
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- The conversation, not actually fighting, but you just can't wait for somebody to stop
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- Fighting, but you just can't wait for somebody to stop telling you what they're doing,
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- Wait for somebody to stop telling you what they're doing, so you can tell them
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- Telling you what they're doing, so you can tell them what you're doing.
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- So you can tell them what you're doing. >> [audience laughing]
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- What you're doing. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: "well, i did this
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: "well, i did this and i did that, and our
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- >> joyce: "well, i did this and i did that, and our church did this..."
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- And i did that, and our church did this..." and that's not what god--
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- Church did this..." and that's not what god-- god wants us being
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- And that's not what god-- god wants us being interested in other people.
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- God wants us being interested in other people. if you wanna be popular,
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- Interested in other people. if you wanna be popular, don't talk about yourself.
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- If you wanna be popular, don't talk about yourself. always ask other people
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- Don't talk about yourself. always ask other people to tell you all about them,
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- Always ask other people to tell you all about them, because people love
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- To tell you all about them, because people love to talk about themselves.
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- Because people love to talk about themselves. and they will love you
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- To talk about themselves. and they will love you if you ask them, "well,
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- And they will love you if you ask them, "well, tell me about your life."
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- If you ask them, "well, tell me about your life." instead of wanting to tell
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- Tell me about your life." instead of wanting to tell them all about you.
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- Instead of wanting to tell them all about you. and i'm just gonna
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- Them all about you. and i'm just gonna tell you this.
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- And i'm just gonna tell you this. this is just the way
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- Tell you this. this is just the way i feel about it.
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- This is just the way i feel about it. there is nothing that is more
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- I feel about it. there is nothing that is more nauseating to me, and i think
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- There is nothing that is more nauseating to me, and i think to god, than somebody
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- Nauseating to me, and i think to god, than somebody in ministry who mistreats
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- To god, than somebody in ministry who mistreats other people behind the scenes.
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- In ministry who mistreats other people behind the scenes. >> [audience applauding]
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- Other people behind the scenes. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: i absolutely hate it,
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: i absolutely hate it, and i don't want any
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- >> joyce: i absolutely hate it, and i don't want any friends like that.
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- And i don't want any friends like that. i don't wanna go to churches
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- Friends like that. i don't wanna go to churches where i see people doing that,
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- I don't wanna go to churches where i see people doing that, because we represent god
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- Where i see people doing that, because we represent god and god loves people.
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- Because we represent god and god loves people. >> [audience applauding]
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- >> joyce: and he says
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- >> joyce: and he says in his word, "if you have
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- >> joyce: and he says in his word, "if you have done it unto the least
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- In his word, "if you have done it unto the least of these my brethren,
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- Done it unto the least of these my brethren, you have done it unto me."
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- Of these my brethren, you have done it unto me." get this, the way we treat
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- You have done it unto me." get this, the way we treat people is the way
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- Get this, the way we treat people is the way we treat jesus.
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- People is the way we treat jesus. >> [audience applauding]
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- We treat jesus. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: come on. the way
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: come on. the way we treat people is the way
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- >> joyce: come on. the way we treat people is the way we treat jesus.
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- Man, that's a mouthful.
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- Man, that's a mouthful. when you're good to people,
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- Man, that's a mouthful. when you're good to people, god'll be good to you.
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- When you're good to people, god'll be good to you. and every time god promotes
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- God'll be good to you. and every time god promotes you, you should humble
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- And every time god promotes you, you should humble yourself a little bit more.
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- You, you should humble yourself a little bit more. now, i have to work at this.
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- Yourself a little bit more. now, i have to work at this. i don't know, you know, maybe
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- Now, i have to work at this. i don't know, you know, maybe you're good at it, i don't know,
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- I don't know, you know, maybe you're good at it, i don't know, but i have to work at it.
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- You're good at it, i don't know, but i have to work at it. and i think anybody does that
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- But i have to work at it. and i think anybody does that is any realm of popular,
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- And i think anybody does that is any realm of popular, or if you're exceedingly
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- Is any realm of popular, or if you're exceedingly beautiful, or exceedingly
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- Or if you're exceedingly beautiful, or exceedingly handsome, or, you know,
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- Beautiful, or exceedingly handsome, or, you know, maybe you're a woman
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- Handsome, or, you know, maybe you're a woman with a beautiful figure,
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- Maybe you're a woman with a beautiful figure, or a man with big muscles,
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- With a beautiful figure, or a man with big muscles, or, you know, whatever.
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- Or a man with big muscles, or, you know, whatever. it's so easy.
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- Or, you know, whatever. it's so easy. let's just say that you're one
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- It's so easy. let's just say that you're one of these people with a high
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- Let's just say that you're one of these people with a high metabolism and you can eat
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- Of these people with a high metabolism and you can eat the whole refrigerator
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- Metabolism and you can eat the whole refrigerator and never gain weight.
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- The whole refrigerator and never gain weight. >> [audience laughing]
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- >> joyce: it's very likely
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- >> joyce: it's very likely that when you see
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- >> joyce: it's very likely that when you see somebody overweight,
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- That when you see somebody overweight, you have an attitude,
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- Somebody overweight, you have an attitude, just that little attitude.
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- You have an attitude, just that little attitude. "well..." you know...
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- Just that little attitude. "well..." you know... >> [audience laughing]
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- "well..." you know... >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: oh, i hate it when
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- I catch myself with
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- I catch myself with that attitude.
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- I catch myself with that attitude. and i do.
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- That attitude. and i do. matter of fact, i preached
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- And i do. matter of fact, i preached a message a couple weeks ago,
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- Matter of fact, i preached a message a couple weeks ago, god told me that i was
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- A message a couple weeks ago, god told me that i was self-righteous.
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- God told me that i was self-righteous. and i didn't know i was
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- Self-righteous. and i didn't know i was self-righteous.
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- And i didn't know i was self-righteous. but you know, it was
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- Self-righteous. but you know, it was in a very specific area.
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- But you know, it was in a very specific area. well, now he's shown me three...
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- In a very specific area. well, now he's shown me three... >> [audience laughing]
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- Well, now he's shown me three... >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: but i'm glad
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: but i'm glad we started with one.
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- >> joyce: but i'm glad we started with one. i hope there's not many left.
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- We started with one. i hope there's not many left. i'm just--i'm opening up my life
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- I hope there's not many left. i'm just--i'm opening up my life to you because i want you
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- I'm just--i'm opening up my life to you because i want you to get something
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- To you because i want you to get something for your own life.
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- To get something for your own life. i have always had a real
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- For your own life. i have always had a real hard time with preachers,
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- I have always had a real hard time with preachers, people who stand up here,
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- Hard time with preachers, people who stand up here, because to me this
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- People who stand up here, because to me this is a sacred place.
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- Because to me this is a sacred place. and i'll never forget when
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- Is a sacred place. and i'll never forget when god told me, "i want you
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- And i'll never forget when god told me, "i want you to always remember that
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- God told me, "i want you to always remember that however many people you
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- To always remember that however many people you can help, that's exactly
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- However many people you can help, that's exactly how many you can hurt."
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- Can help, that's exactly how many you can hurt." so if i allow my life to fall
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- How many you can hurt." so if i allow my life to fall apart and i don't keep
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- So if i allow my life to fall apart and i don't keep my marriage right, if i go have
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- Apart and i don't keep my marriage right, if i go have an affair with somebody,
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- My marriage right, if i go have an affair with somebody, i'm not just hurting myself,
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- An affair with somebody, i'm not just hurting myself, i'm hurting--in my case,
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- I'm not just hurting myself, i'm hurting--in my case, millions of christians around
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- I'm hurting--in my case, millions of christians around the world, and it hurts
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- Millions of christians around the world, and it hurts the whole body of christ.
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- The world, and it hurts the whole body of christ. it hurts everybody.
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- The whole body of christ. it hurts everybody. and so, i've always just been
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- It hurts everybody. and so, i've always just been like, "i just don't understand
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- And so, i've always just been like, "i just don't understand how anybody can do that,
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- Like, "i just don't understand how anybody can do that, and keep getting in the pulpit
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- How anybody can do that, and keep getting in the pulpit week after week after week."
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- And keep getting in the pulpit week after week after week." well, i had an attitude.
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- Week after week after week." well, i had an attitude. and you know why i don't get it?
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- Well, i had an attitude. and you know why i don't get it? because i've never been
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- And you know why i don't get it? because i've never been tempted that way.
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- Because i've never been tempted that way. see, when you're not tempted
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- Tempted that way. see, when you're not tempted in an area, it's very easy
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- See, when you're not tempted in an area, it's very easy to not understand why
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- In an area, it's very easy to not understand why somebody else is.
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- To not understand why somebody else is. you understand that?
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- Somebody else is. you understand that? >> [audience applauding]
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- You understand that? >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and i mean,
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and i mean, man, i got one man,
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- >> joyce: and i mean, man, i got one man, that's all i can handle.
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- Man, i got one man, that's all i can handle. i don't, you know...
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- That's all i can handle. i don't, you know... lord help me, i don't want two.
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- I don't, you know... lord help me, i don't want two. and i mean, that would
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- Lord help me, i don't want two. and i mean, that would be the last thing that
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- And i mean, that would be the last thing that i would be interested in.
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- Be the last thing that i would be interested in. but there are people that,
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- I would be interested in. but there are people that, that is a real huge problem
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- But there are people that, that is a real huge problem for them.
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- That is a real huge problem for them. and a lot of these ministers
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- For them. and a lot of these ministers that do fall into sin,
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- And a lot of these ministers that do fall into sin, it's because they have killed
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- That do fall into sin, it's because they have killed themselves with work trying
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- It's because they have killed themselves with work trying to help you, and they're
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- Themselves with work trying to help you, and they're so tired they can't even make
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- To help you, and they're so tired they can't even make good decisions anymore.
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- So tired they can't even make good decisions anymore. and so their defenses are
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- Good decisions anymore. and so their defenses are all down, and satan attacks
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- And so their defenses are all down, and satan attacks them at their weakest point.
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- All down, and satan attacks them at their weakest point. and we have an inner-city church
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- Them at their weakest point. and we have an inner-city church that we started 20 years ago.
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- And we have an inner-city church that we started 20 years ago. we had a pastor who actually
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- That we started 20 years ago. we had a pastor who actually was having an affair with his
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- We had a pastor who actually was having an affair with his sister-in-law in the church,
- 00:12:27.503 --> 00:12:30.606
- Was having an affair with his sister-in-law in the church, during the day when he was
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- Sister-in-law in the church, during the day when he was supposed to be working.
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- During the day when he was supposed to be working. and i asked him, "can you just
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- Supposed to be working. and i asked him, "can you just explain to me how you can
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- And i asked him, "can you just explain to me how you can do that, and still get back
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- Explain to me how you can do that, and still get back in the pulpit the next week?"
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- Do that, and still get back in the pulpit the next week?" and he said, "because every
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- In the pulpit the next week?" and he said, "because every time i do it, i tell myself,
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- And he said, "because every time i do it, i tell myself, i promise myself that
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- Time i do it, i tell myself, i promise myself that i'll never do it again.
- 00:12:49.992 --> 00:12:51.927
- I promise myself that i'll never do it again. i tell god i'll never
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- I'll never do it again. i tell god i'll never do it again."
- 00:12:52.962 --> 00:12:53.896
- I tell god i'll never do it again." so he hated it too.
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- Do it again." so he hated it too. he was in a trap.
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- So he hated it too. he was in a trap. it wasn't something that
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- He was in a trap. it wasn't something that he wanted to do.
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- It wasn't something that he wanted to do. he was in a trap too.
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- He wanted to do. he was in a trap too. and so we have to be,
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- He was in a trap too. and so we have to be, now listen to me, we have
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- And so we have to be, now listen to me, we have to judge sin, but we cannot
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- Now listen to me, we have to judge sin, but we cannot judge people.
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- To judge sin, but we cannot judge people. come on.
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- Judge people. come on. >> [audience applauding]
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- Come on. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: we are not doing
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: we are not doing the right thing if we don't
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- >> joyce: we are not doing the right thing if we don't judge sin.
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- The right thing if we don't judge sin. we're responsible to do that.
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- Judge sin. we're responsible to do that. i'm not stupid.
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- We're responsible to do that. i'm not stupid. the more i read the bible,
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- I'm not stupid. the more i read the bible, the more i recognize
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- The more i read the bible, the more i recognize what sin is.
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- The more i recognize what sin is. but boy, we have to be so
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- What sin is. but boy, we have to be so careful that we don't
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- But boy, we have to be so careful that we don't get like the pharisee.
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- Careful that we don't get like the pharisee. you know, because you get up
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- Get like the pharisee. you know, because you get up and pray the first two hours
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- You know, because you get up and pray the first two hours of every day, and you read
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- And pray the first two hours of every day, and you read your bible through every year.
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- Of every day, and you read your bible through every year. and you know somebody else
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- Your bible through every year. and you know somebody else who can't stay awake
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- And you know somebody else who can't stay awake in the morning to even
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- Who can't stay awake in the morning to even pray five minutes.
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- In the morning to even pray five minutes. well, i don't know.
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- Pray five minutes. well, i don't know. maybe they have sleep apnea.
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- Well, i don't know. maybe they have sleep apnea. you know, you just gotta...
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- Maybe they have sleep apnea. you know, you just gotta... god--you know why god
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- You know, you just gotta... god--you know why god is so merciful?
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- God--you know why god is so merciful? because he knows the why
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- Is so merciful? because he knows the why behind the what.
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- Because he knows the why behind the what. and we know the what,
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- Behind the what. and we know the what, but we don't know the why.
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- I mean, an example would
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- I mean, an example would be like, i was sexually abused
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- I mean, an example would be like, i was sexually abused by my dad for many years
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- Be like, i was sexually abused by my dad for many years repeatedly over and over,
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- By my dad for many years repeatedly over and over, and over and over,
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- Repeatedly over and over, and over and over, and over again.
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- And my mom knew about
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- And my mom knew about it and she was just--
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- And my mom knew about it and she was just-- had too weak of a personality
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- It and she was just-- had too weak of a personality to do anything about it.
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- Had too weak of a personality to do anything about it. she just told me 30 years
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- To do anything about it. she just told me 30 years after it happened,
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- She just told me 30 years after it happened, "i couldn't face the scandal."
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- After it happened, "i couldn't face the scandal." i thought, "well, that's nice.
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- "i couldn't face the scandal." i thought, "well, that's nice. you couldn't face the scandal,
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- I thought, "well, that's nice. you couldn't face the scandal, and i was in a living
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- You couldn't face the scandal, and i was in a living nightmare."
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- And i was in a living nightmare." and so i had a lot of things
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- Nightmare." and so i had a lot of things in my personality that
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- And so i had a lot of things in my personality that weren't very nice.
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- In my personality that weren't very nice. i was harsh and hard,
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- Weren't very nice. i was harsh and hard, and hard to get along with,
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- I was harsh and hard, and hard to get along with, and easily angered, and
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- And hard to get along with, and easily angered, and manipulative and controlling,
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- And easily angered, and manipulative and controlling, and people judged me for that,
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- Manipulative and controlling, and people judged me for that, because they saw
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- And people judged me for that, because they saw the way i acted.
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- Because they saw the way i acted. and the way i acted was wrong,
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- The way i acted. and the way i acted was wrong, but they didn't know why
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- And the way i acted was wrong, but they didn't know why i acted that way.
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- But they didn't know why i acted that way. and i didn't even know
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- I acted that way. and i didn't even know why i acted that way.
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- And i didn't even know why i acted that way. i didn't even know a lot
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- Why i acted that way. i didn't even know a lot of times there was anything
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- I didn't even know a lot of times there was anything wrong with it because that's
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- Of times there was anything wrong with it because that's the kind of atmosphere
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- Wrong with it because that's the kind of atmosphere i grew up in.
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- The kind of atmosphere i grew up in. and so i just thought, you know,
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- I grew up in. and so i just thought, you know, "if you don't get your way,
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- And so i just thought, you know, "if you don't get your way, you stay mad till you
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- "if you don't get your way, you stay mad till you get your way."
- 00:15:01.123 --> 00:15:01.690
- You stay mad till you get your way." that's what i saw.
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- Get your way." that's what i saw. that's what i did.
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- That's what i saw. that's what i did. and so, if we're gonna
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- That's what i did. and so, if we're gonna be merciful, we have
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- And so, if we're gonna be merciful, we have to stick with god.
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- Be merciful, we have to stick with god. i see what they're doing that's
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- To stick with god. i see what they're doing that's wrong, and we pray for people.
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- I see what they're doing that's wrong, and we pray for people. we don't judge them.
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- Wrong, and we pray for people. we don't judge them. we don't gossip about them.
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- We don't judge them. we don't gossip about them. we pray for them.
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- We don't gossip about them. we pray for them. and we want to see
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- We pray for them. and we want to see them restored.
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- And we want to see them restored. come on, is anybody
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- Them restored. come on, is anybody home out there?
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- Come on, is anybody home out there? >> [audience applauding]
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- Home out there? >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: you gotta be aware
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: you gotta be aware of proud thoughts.
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- The bible says in romans 12:3,
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- The bible says in romans 12:3, "for by the grace (of god)
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- The bible says in romans 12:3, "for by the grace (of god) given unto me i warn everyone
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- "for by the grace (of god) given unto me i warn everyone among you not to estimate
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- Given unto me i warn everyone among you not to estimate and think of himself more highly
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- Among you not to estimate and think of himself more highly than he ought to [do not have
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- And think of himself more highly than he ought to [do not have an exaggerated opinion of your
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- Than he ought to [do not have an exaggerated opinion of your own importance], but rate your
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- An exaggerated opinion of your own importance], but rate your ability with sober judgment,
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- Own importance], but rate your ability with sober judgment, each according to the degree
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- Ability with sober judgment, each according to the degree of faith apportioned
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- Each according to the degree of faith apportioned to him by god."
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- Of faith apportioned to him by god." you know why i can do what i do?
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- To him by god." you know why i can do what i do? because of the grace of god.
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- No other reason at all.
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- No other reason at all. i was your least likely
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- No other reason at all. i was your least likely candidate to be called
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- I was your least likely candidate to be called to do what i'm doing.
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- Candidate to be called to do what i'm doing. this is exactly why
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- To do what i'm doing. this is exactly why 1 corinthians 1 says that,
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- This is exactly why 1 corinthians 1 says that, “god chooses the weak
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- 1 corinthians 1 says that, “god chooses the weak and the foolish things
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- “god chooses the weak and the foolish things of the world to confound
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- And the foolish things of the world to confound the wise; so that no mortal
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- Of the world to confound the wise; so that no mortal man can have pretense
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- The wise; so that no mortal man can have pretense for glorying in his sight.”
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- Man can have pretense for glorying in his sight.” >> [audience applauding]
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- >> joyce: he uses, he chooses
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- >> joyce: he uses, he chooses people that are nothing,
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- >> joyce: he uses, he chooses people that are nothing, the scum of the earth,
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- People that are nothing, the scum of the earth, the trash of the earth,
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- The scum of the earth, the trash of the earth, and he amazes all the people
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- The trash of the earth, and he amazes all the people that would judge them.
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- And he amazes all the people that would judge them. i remember when god first
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- That would judge them. i remember when god first called me into ministry
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- I remember when god first called me into ministry and i was so excited.
- 00:16:35.384 --> 00:16:36.151
- Called me into ministry and i was so excited. i said, "oh, god told me i'm
- 00:16:36.218 --> 00:16:37.286
- And i was so excited. i said, "oh, god told me i'm gonna have this big ministry,
- 00:16:37.352 --> 00:16:38.287
- I said, "oh, god told me i'm gonna have this big ministry, blah, blah, blah."
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- Gonna have this big ministry, blah, blah, blah." and i remember, first of all,
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- Blah, blah, blah." and i remember, first of all, i lost almost all my friends.
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- And i remember, first of all, i lost almost all my friends. and i remember one girl
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- I lost almost all my friends. and i remember one girl saying to me, "you, know,
- 00:16:43.826 --> 00:16:44.493
- And i remember one girl saying to me, "you, know, we've talked about it and..."
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- Saying to me, "you, know, we've talked about it and..." i thought, "yeah,
- 00:16:45.461 --> 00:16:46.028
- We've talked about it and..." i thought, "yeah, i bet you have."
- 00:16:46.095 --> 00:16:46.728
- "we've talked about this
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- "we've talked about this and we--you just don't have—
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- "we've talked about this and we--you just don't have— you don't have the right
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- And we--you just don't have— you don't have the right personality for that."
- 00:16:50.499 --> 00:16:52.734
- You don't have the right personality for that." well, you know what?
- 00:16:52.801 --> 00:16:54.470
- Personality for that." well, you know what? they were right.
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- Well, you know what? they were right. but somehow or another,
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- They were right. but somehow or another, god gave me favor and
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- But somehow or another, god gave me favor and everybody puts up with me.
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- God gave me favor and everybody puts up with me. amen?
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- Everybody puts up with me. amen? >> [audience applauding]
- 00:17:02.578 --> 00:17:05.380
- >> joyce: so, so here's
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- >> joyce: so, so here's something i caught myself
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- >> joyce: so, so here's something i caught myself doing the other day.
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- Something i caught myself doing the other day. gosh, i wish i didn't have
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- Doing the other day. gosh, i wish i didn't have to tell all this stuff
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- Gosh, i wish i didn't have to tell all this stuff on myself.
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- To tell all this stuff on myself. >> [audience laughing]
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- On myself. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: you know,
- 00:17:16.725 --> 00:17:17.226
- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: you know, in a month i'm gonna be 81.
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- >> joyce: you know, in a month i'm gonna be 81. and so...
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- In a month i'm gonna be 81. and so... >> [audience cheering]
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- >> joyce: and i'm loving it.
- 00:17:23.532 --> 00:17:26.168
- >> joyce: and i'm loving it. and no, i didn't get a facelift
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- >> joyce: and i'm loving it. and no, i didn't get a facelift last week.
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- And no, i didn't get a facelift last week. i had one 30 years ago.
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- Last week. i had one 30 years ago. the rest of this is me.
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- I had one 30 years ago. the rest of this is me. thank you.
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- The rest of this is me. thank you. >> [audience applauding]
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- Thank you. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: so, i find myself
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: so, i find myself once in a while thinking about
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- >> joyce: so, i find myself once in a while thinking about my funeral, you know.
- 00:17:42.384 --> 00:17:45.320
- Once in a while thinking about my funeral, you know. i wondered, you know, i mean
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- My funeral, you know. i wondered, you know, i mean when you're 81, you know
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- I wondered, you know, i mean when you're 81, you know you don't have two terribly
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- When you're 81, you know you don't have two terribly many years left.
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- You don't have two terribly many years left. you know, if i got--maybe,
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- Many years left. you know, if i got--maybe, you know, 10, maybe 15.
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- You know, if i got--maybe, you know, 10, maybe 15. and i found myself the other
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- You know, 10, maybe 15. and i found myself the other day thinking about my funeral
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- And i found myself the other day thinking about my funeral and thinking about all
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- Day thinking about my funeral and thinking about all the great things they
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- And thinking about all the great things they were gonna say about me.
- 00:18:01.303 --> 00:18:02.938
- The great things they were gonna say about me. >> [audience laughing]
- 00:18:03.005 --> 00:18:08.377
- Were gonna say about me. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and i actually went...
- 00:18:08.443 --> 00:18:12.080
- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and i actually went... "out--get out of my head!"
- 00:18:12.147 --> 00:18:16.151
- >> joyce: and i actually went... "out--get out of my head!" (laughing)
- 00:18:16.218 --> 00:18:18.587
- "out--get out of my head!" (laughing) now you can laugh at me,
- 00:18:18.654 --> 00:18:19.755
- (laughing) now you can laugh at me, but don't tell me you don't
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- Now you can laugh at me, but don't tell me you don't go through some of the same
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- But don't tell me you don't go through some of the same kinds of stuff, you know.
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- Go through some of the same kinds of stuff, you know. i'm just the one that god
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- Kinds of stuff, you know. i'm just the one that god has called upon to tell
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- I'm just the one that god has called upon to tell the world about it.
- 00:18:27.696 --> 00:18:28.730
- Has called upon to tell the world about it. >> [audience laughing]
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- The world about it. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: lord have mercy.
- 00:18:30.933 --> 00:18:33.835
- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: lord have mercy. all right.
- 00:18:33.902 --> 00:18:35.571
- >> joyce: lord have mercy. all right. there's actually some
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- All right. there's actually some things i do to try
- 00:18:36.338 --> 00:18:37.172
- There's actually some things i do to try to practice humility.
- 00:18:37.239 --> 00:18:38.807
- Things i do to try to practice humility. and this is something
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- To practice humility. and this is something that i think may help you
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- And this is something that i think may help you if you'll do it.
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- That i think may help you if you'll do it. some of the ways i humble myself
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- If you'll do it. some of the ways i humble myself on purpose to stay in practice.
- 00:18:46.215 --> 00:18:49.084
- Some of the ways i humble myself on purpose to stay in practice. i always apologize to people
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- On purpose to stay in practice. i always apologize to people if i'm rude, or grouchy,
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- I always apologize to people if i'm rude, or grouchy, or cranky, even if maybe
- 00:18:52.588 --> 00:18:55.991
- If i'm rude, or grouchy, or cranky, even if maybe sometimes they didn't
- 00:18:56.058 --> 00:18:56.858
- Or cranky, even if maybe sometimes they didn't even notice it.
- 00:18:56.925 --> 00:18:59.995
- Sometimes they didn't even notice it. but it's good for me,
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- Even notice it. but it's good for me, to own up to it.
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- But it's good for me, to own up to it. i admit it, if i thought i was
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- To own up to it. i admit it, if i thought i was right about something, and later
- 00:19:09.504 --> 00:19:10.939
- I admit it, if i thought i was right about something, and later found out i was wrong,
- 00:19:11.006 --> 00:19:12.040
- Right about something, and later found out i was wrong, and there'd been a,
- 00:19:12.107 --> 00:19:12.841
- Found out i was wrong, and there'd been a, you know, little,
- 00:19:12.908 --> 00:19:13.542
- And there'd been a, you know, little, "i'm right, i'm right,
- 00:19:13.609 --> 00:19:14.576
- You know, little, "i'm right, i'm right, you're right, you're right,
- 00:19:14.643 --> 00:19:15.344
- "i'm right, i'm right, you're right, you're right, you're wrong."
- 00:19:15.410 --> 00:19:17.045
- You're right, you're right, you're wrong." i'll always go back and say,
- 00:19:17.112 --> 00:19:18.814
- You're wrong." i'll always go back and say, "hey, i'm sorry, i thought i was
- 00:19:18.880 --> 00:19:20.482
- I'll always go back and say, "hey, i'm sorry, i thought i was right, but i wasn't.
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- "hey, i'm sorry, i thought i was right, but i wasn't. i was wrong."
- 00:19:21.817 --> 00:19:23.485
- Right, but i wasn't. i was wrong." that's one of the best things
- 00:19:23.552 --> 00:19:24.386
- I was wrong." that's one of the best things in the world you can do,
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- That's one of the best things in the world you can do, is say, "i was wrong."
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- In the world you can do, is say, "i was wrong." can we practice?
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- Is say, "i was wrong." can we practice? >> [audience responds]
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- Can we practice? >> [audience responds] >> [audience cheering]
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- >> joyce: sounded like
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- >> joyce: sounded like music to god's ears.
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- >> joyce: sounded like music to god's ears. >> [audience laughing]
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- Music to god's ears. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i do tasks for people
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i do tasks for people like little things that i really
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- >> joyce: i do tasks for people like little things that i really don't wanna do, just to keep
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- Like little things that i really don't wanna do, just to keep myself realizing i'm not too
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- Don't wanna do, just to keep myself realizing i'm not too important to do them.
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- Myself realizing i'm not too important to do them. like, i might be making myself
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- Important to do them. like, i might be making myself a cup of coffee and this little
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- Like, i might be making myself a cup of coffee and this little thought will come to my heart,
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- A cup of coffee and this little thought will come to my heart, "well, why don't you ask dave
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- Thought will come to my heart, "well, why don't you ask dave if he wants one?"
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- "well, why don't you ask dave if he wants one?" >> [audience laughing]
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- If he wants one?" >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: well, i don't really
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: well, i don't really wanna make dave one.
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- >> joyce: well, i don't really wanna make dave one. i wanna make my coffee
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- Wanna make dave one. i wanna make my coffee and go back to praying.
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- I wanna make my coffee and go back to praying. >> [audience laughing]
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- And go back to praying. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and you may think,
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and you may think, "well, what's the big deal
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- >> joyce: and you may think, "well, what's the big deal about making a cup of coffee?"
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- "well, what's the big deal about making a cup of coffee?" well, when you make dave
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- About making a cup of coffee?" well, when you make dave a cup of coffee, it is a big
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- Well, when you make dave a cup of coffee, it is a big deal because here's
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- A cup of coffee, it is a big deal because here's the way it goes.
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- Deal because here's the way it goes. you make the decaf coffee,
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- The way it goes. you make the decaf coffee, then you pour all of it out,
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- You make the decaf coffee, then you pour all of it out, but about that much.
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- Then you pour all of it out, but about that much. then you get liquid whipping
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- But about that much. then you get liquid whipping cream, and you fill a glass
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- Then you get liquid whipping cream, and you fill a glass about that full of that,
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- Cream, and you fill a glass about that full of that, and then you—“yes, yes!”
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- About that full of that, and then you—“yes, yes!” >> [audience laughing]
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- And then you—“yes, yes!” >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: don't you, don't you--
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: don't you, don't you-- come on, god'll get you later.
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- >> joyce: don't you, don't you-- come on, god'll get you later. and then you pour a little
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- Come on, god'll get you later. and then you pour a little milk in with that.
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- And then you pour a little milk in with that. then you gotta put
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- Milk in with that. then you gotta put it in the microwave and heat it.
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- Then you gotta put it in the microwave and heat it. and it loves to boil over
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- It in the microwave and heat it. and it loves to boil over and get the microwave dirty.
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- And it loves to boil over and get the microwave dirty. and then you mix it together.
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- And get the microwave dirty. and then you mix it together. and then he has to have
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- And then you mix it together. and then he has to have three stevias in it.
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- And then he has to have three stevias in it. and now he's added to it one
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- Three stevias in it. and now he's added to it one little squirt of chocolate.
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- And now he's added to it one little squirt of chocolate. >> [audience laughing]
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- Little squirt of chocolate. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: so, just so you know,
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: so, just so you know, it's not like easy, you know,
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- >> joyce: so, just so you know, it's not like easy, you know, to make him a coffee.
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- It's not like easy, you know, to make him a coffee. it's like a job.
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- To make him a coffee. it's like a job. >> [audience laughing]
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- >> joyce: and dave usually does
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- >> joyce: and dave usually does the dishes at night because
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- >> joyce: and dave usually does the dishes at night because i arrange for the food.
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- The dishes at night because i arrange for the food. you notice i didn't say,
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- I arrange for the food. you notice i didn't say, “i cook it,”
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- You notice i didn't say, “i cook it,” i said, “i arrange it.”
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- “i cook it,” i said, “i arrange it.” >> [audience laughing]
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- I said, “i arrange it.” >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: so, you know what
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: so, you know what that means, don't you?
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- >> joyce: so, you know what that means, don't you? and so sometimes i'll
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- That means, don't you? and so sometimes i'll do the dishes, and make sure
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- And so sometimes i'll do the dishes, and make sure i tell him i did the dishes.
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- Do the dishes, and make sure i tell him i did the dishes. >> [audience laughing]
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- I tell him i did the dishes. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i always try to make
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i always try to make sure that i'm friendly with
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- >> joyce: i always try to make sure that i'm friendly with people that maybe you wouldn't
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- Sure that i'm friendly with people that maybe you wouldn't normally pay attention to.
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- People that maybe you wouldn't normally pay attention to. you know, people that are just
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- Helping, or serving, or like
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- Helping, or serving, or like people behind the scenes.
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- Helping, or serving, or like people behind the scenes. you need to watch for people
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- People behind the scenes. you need to watch for people that nobody ever pays
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- You need to watch for people that nobody ever pays attention to.
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- That nobody ever pays attention to. like, when you go in a restroom,
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- Attention to. like, when you go in a restroom, in a department store
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- Like, when you go in a restroom, in a department store or something, have you ever
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- In a department store or something, have you ever gone in and there's been
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- Or something, have you ever gone in and there's been a person in there cleaning
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- Gone in and there's been a person in there cleaning the bathroom?
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- A person in there cleaning the bathroom? you should always be friendly
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- The bathroom? you should always be friendly with them, and thank them
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- You should always be friendly with them, and thank them for the job that they do.
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- With them, and thank them for the job that they do. >> [audience applauding]
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- For the job that they do. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: because you know what?
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: because you know what? that person probably gets
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- >> joyce: because you know what? that person probably gets ignored 99 and 9/10%
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- That person probably gets ignored 99 and 9/10% of the time.
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- Ignored 99 and 9/10% of the time. there's ways that we need
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- Of the time. there's ways that we need to practice being humble.
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- There's ways that we need to practice being humble. god hates pride.
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- I'm gonna read you this
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- I'm gonna read you this scripture, and then we're gonna
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- I'm gonna read you this scripture, and then we're gonna have to close for tonight.
- 00:22:49.925 --> 00:22:51.426
- Scripture, and then we're gonna have to close for tonight. isaiah 2:12, "for there shall
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- Have to close for tonight. isaiah 2:12, "for there shall be a day of the lord of hosts
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- Isaiah 2:12, "for there shall be a day of the lord of hosts against all who are proud
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- Be a day of the lord of hosts against all who are proud and haughty and against all
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- Against all who are proud and haughty and against all who are lifted up--and they
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- And haughty and against all who are lifted up--and they shall be brought low."
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- If you exalt yourself,
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- If you exalt yourself, you will be humbled.
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- If you exalt yourself, you will be humbled. if you humble yourself,
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- You will be humbled. if you humble yourself, you will be exalted.
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- >> announcer: life is full
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- >> announcer: life is full of noise.
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- Of noise. it comes in all shapes,
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- It comes in all shapes, sizes, and volume levels!
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- Sizes, and volume levels!
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- When situations get loud,
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- When situations get loud, it can get harder
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- It can get harder to hear from god.
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- To hear from god. if his voice gets drowned out,
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- If his voice gets drowned out, we can find ourselves
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- We can find ourselves getting off beat.
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- Getting off beat.
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- >> ginger: we all need
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- >> ginger: we all need to protect our
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- To protect our spiritual hearing.
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- Spiritual hearing. we want to hear
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- We want to hear from god
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- From god more clearly.
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- More clearly. well, joyce meyer
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- Well, joyce meyer wants to help you
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- Wants to help you through her book,
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- Through her book, “how to hear
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- “how to hear from god.”
- 00:23:45.313 --> 00:23:45.881
- From god.” in this book,
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- In this book, she explains
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- She explains how to create
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- How to create an atmosphere for
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- An atmosphere for god to speak,
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- God to speak, and breaks down
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- And breaks down different ways
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- Different ways that god could
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- That god could communicate
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- Communicate with us.
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- With us. >> announcer:
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- >> announcer: "how to hear from god,"
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- "how to hear from god," is available right now
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- Is available right now for your gift of...
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- For your gift of... or more.
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- Or more. and to help you
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- And to help you tune in to the
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- Tune in to the lord's voice
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- Lord's voice through scripture,
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- Through scripture, we'll include
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- We'll include a copy of,
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- A copy of, "the everyday life
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- "the everyday life psalms and proverbs."
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- Psalms and proverbs." read these two
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- Read these two staples of the
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- Staples of the bible in the
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- Bible in the amplified version,
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- Amplified version, along with notes
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- Along with notes and commentary
- 00:24:09.871 --> 00:24:10.438
- And commentary from joyce.
- 00:24:10.505 --> 00:24:11.072
- From joyce. call us today at...
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- Call us today at... or visit
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- Or visit joycemeyer.org.
- 00:24:16.111 --> 00:24:17.445
- >> joyce: he doesn't want
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- >> joyce: he doesn't want you to wonder and doubt,
- 00:24:18.980 --> 00:24:19.948
- You to wonder and doubt, and go around saying,
- 00:24:20.015 --> 00:24:20.682
- And go around saying, “well, i wish i could
- 00:24:20.749 --> 00:24:21.416
- “well, i wish i could hear from god.
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- Hear from god. i'm afraid i'm not
- 00:24:21.950 --> 00:24:22.617
- I'm afraid i'm not hearing from god.
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- Hearing from god. i don't know if i can
- 00:24:23.151 --> 00:24:23.952
- I don't know if i can hear from god."
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- Hear from god." he wants you to believe
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- He wants you to believe that you can hear from god.
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- That you can hear from god.
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- >> announcer:
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- >> announcer: god sees you,
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- God sees you, even in the middle
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- Even in the middle of a crowd, and wants
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- Of a crowd, and wants to talk to you.
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- To talk to you. are you ready
- 00:24:32.460 --> 00:24:33.361
- Are you ready to listen?
- 00:24:33.428 --> 00:24:34.095
- To listen? how to hear from god
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- How to hear from god is available right now
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- Is available right now for your gift of...
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- For your gift of... or more.
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- Or more. we'll include a copy of,
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- We'll include a copy of, "the everyday life
- 00:24:39.601 --> 00:24:40.468
- "the everyday life psalms and proverbs."
- 00:24:40.535 --> 00:24:41.636
- Psalms and proverbs." call us today at...
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- Call us today at... or visit joycemeyer.org.
- 00:24:45.440 --> 00:24:47.275
- >> joyce: and the bible says,
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- >> joyce: and the bible says, “my sheep hear my voice,
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- “my sheep hear my voice, and the voice of a stranger
- 00:24:49.911 --> 00:24:51.313
- And the voice of a stranger they will not follow.”
- 00:24:51.379 --> 00:24:53.148
- They will not follow.” all throughout the bible,
- 00:24:53.214 --> 00:24:54.149
- All throughout the bible, men and women heard from god,
- 00:24:54.215 --> 00:24:55.350
- Men and women heard from god, and god said, and they did,
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- And god said, and they did, and god said, and they did.
- 00:24:57.185 --> 00:24:59.187
- >> ginger:
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- >> ginger: it's impossible
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- It's impossible to follow god
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- To follow god if you can't hear
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- If you can't hear his directions.
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- His directions. that's why joyce
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- That's why joyce is so passionate
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- Is so passionate about helping
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- About helping everyone learn
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- Everyone learn this crucial skill.
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- This crucial skill. we want to get this
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- We want to get this book into your
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- Book into your hands to help you.
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- Hands to help you. it's available for
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- It's available for your gift today using
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- Your gift today using the information
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- And your gift, along with the gifts
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- Along with the gifts from the partners
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- From the partners of joyce meyer ministries,
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- Of joyce meyer ministries, will also make a difference
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- Will also make a difference around the world by helping
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- Around the world by helping to provide food and medical
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- To provide food and medical care to those in need.
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- Improve your listening
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- Improve your listening skills today with
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- "how to hear from god," and "the everyday life
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- And "the everyday life psalms and proverbs."
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- Psalms and proverbs." all for your gift of...
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- Or visit joycemeyer.org.
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- >> announcer: it's your
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- >> announcer: it's your opportunity to unplug
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- Opportunity to unplug and discover what
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- And discover what it means to be fully his.
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- It means to be fully his. >> joyce: and we need to know
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- >> joyce: and we need to know who our real enemy is,
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- Who our real enemy is, and by the way,
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- And by the way, if you're really full-on
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- If you're really full-on walking with god,
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- Walking with god, you don't have to be afraid
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- You don't have to be afraid of the devil at all.
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- Of the devil at all. >> [audience cheering]
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- >> [audience cheering] >> announcer: come together
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- >> announcer: come together with thousands who are
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- With thousands who are ready to worship,
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- Ready to worship, learn, laugh,
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- Learn, laugh, and lean in.
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- And lean in. >> cece: god calls
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- >> cece: god calls us to holiness
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- Us to holiness because he loves us.
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- Because he loves us. y'all, it's beautiful.
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- Y'all, it's beautiful. >> announcer: and go home,
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- >> announcer: and go home, equipped for all
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- Equipped for all of life's battles.
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- Of life's battles. >> lysa: he's not trying
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- >> lysa: he's not trying to hide from us.
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- To hide from us. he's waiting to be seen by us.
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- He's waiting to be seen by us. >> announcer: join us for
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