Joyce Meyer - Self-Righteousness vs. God's Righteousness

July 12, 2026 | 27:29

Bible teacher Joyce Meyer shares timeless scriptural principles to show us how we can embrace the best God has for us each and every day of our lives.

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Joyce Meyer: Enjoying Everyday Life | Joyce Meyer - Self-Righteousness vs. God's Righteousness | July 12, 2026
  • >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer.
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  • I've seen god's power transform my own life,
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  • And he will do it for you.
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  • Ginger: hi everyone, i'm ginger stache.
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  • Welcome to "enjoying everyday life."
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  • Before we hear from joyce, and she is on her way,
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  • I want to share an email that just gripped all of our hearts.
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  • We received this message from our project grl medical van
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  • Team in india about a woman that they are helping.
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  • And it is such a reminder that behind the flashing neon
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  • Signs and crowded alleyways of the red light districts
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  • And the world of human trafficking
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  • Lies a reality really even far darker than most
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  • Of us can imagine.
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  • So, let me read this story.
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  • "sima boro, a 24-year-old from
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  • A village in assam, was betrayed
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  • By a man she trusted.
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  • Promising her a job in siliguri, he instead sold
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  • Her into a brothel.
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  • Now trapped, she lives under the control
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  • Of a woman who abuses her and takes every bit she earns.
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  • Sima is forced to beg for basic needs and endures both physical
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  • And emotional torment daily.
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  • 'the customers want things i don't even understand,'
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  • She whispers.
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  • When we met her, sima was dangerously ill,
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  • Signaling severe anemia.
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  • After emergency treatment, her condition barely improved.
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  • On a follow up visit, she broke down,
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  • Revealing fresh bruises from another beating
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  • And asked to go home.
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  • Fear shadows her every step.
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  • She barely spoke, exhausted and starving.
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  • Yet she stayed with us for a short while before
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  • Returning to the brothel under the woman's watchful eye."
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  • You know, when you look in those eyes,
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  • You can see that cry for help.
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  • This is exactly why project girl exists.
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  • It's what it's all about.
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  • The horrible truth is that sima is still
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  • In that terrible situation.
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  • Yet, we are there for her.
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  • We will continue to be there as a lifeline for her anytime
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  • She can get to us until she is ready or can escape.
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  • You see, that's why these vans are so important.
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  • We are regularly going to where they are,
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  • Helping women like her throughout india.
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  • Our heart is to help girls find rescue, relief,
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  • And healing in christ.
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  • And we believe that sima's rescue is just
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  • Around the corner.
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  • God sees her and we want you to see her as we are
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  • In the midst of this with her.
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  • So, i ask you to join us all in prayer for sima
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  • And so many others like her.
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  • Please be praying for her right now and believing
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  • With us that god will do something amazing.
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  • Coming up next, the conclusion to joyce's
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  • Teaching on self righteousness versus god's righteousness.
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  • Joyce: that's what it means to be spiritual.
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  • You are very tuned-in to when the holy spirit shows you,
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  • You shouldn't be doing something and boy,
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  • You stop it right away.
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  • "you should set--" i'm gonna, i'm gonna start--
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  • "brethren, if any person is overtaken in misconduct
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  • Or sin of any sort, you who are spiritual
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  • Should set him right." "yes, i know that's
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  • What i should do!"
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  • >> [audience laughing]
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  • Joyce: "and restore him--" [chuckling]
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  • "and reinstate him, without any sense of superiority
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  • And with all gentleness, keeping an attentive eye
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  • On yourself, lest you also should be tempted."
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  • [chuckling] well, that's a little bit
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  • Of a different take than what we normally do.
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  • We're happy to tell 'em what's wrong with 'em
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  • And to set them right, but it may not
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  • Be with gentleness, and it may not be without
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  • A superior attitude.
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  • "bear (endure, carry) one another's burdens
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  • And troublesome moral faults, and in this way fulfill
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  • And observe perfectly the law of christ--" which
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  • Happens to be the law of love, "and complete what is lacking
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  • [in your obedience to it]." verse 3: "for if any person
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  • Thinks himself to be somebody [too important to condescend
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  • To shoulder another's load] when he is nobody
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  • [of superiority except in his own estimation]--"
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  • It'd be good for you to say about three times
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  • A day, at least, "father, i'm nothing without you.
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  • Apart from you, i can do nothing."
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  • I'll tell you pride is the easiest thing
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  • In the world to have and humility is the hardest
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  • Thing to have and maintain.
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  • >> [audience applauding]
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  • Joyce: if you wanna read something,
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  • They'll tear your life up, andrew murray wrote a little
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  • Book on humility.
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  • Man, the first time i read that it just ripped me apart.
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  • Because pride hides and will never tell you that it's pride.
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  • I tried selling a set of-- back when we used to have,
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  • Cassette tapes on pride, and nobody would buy them.
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  • >> [audience laughing]
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  • Joyce: a person who has pride is too proud to go buy
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  • A book on pride or a--
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  • >> [audience laughing]
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  • Joyce: one of the best examples in the bible--
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  • Well, there's a couple, but one of 'em is luke 18.
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  • Two men went up into the temple to pray,
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  • One a pharisee, and the other a tax collector.
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  • Now, the pharisees were the most religious
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  • Of the religious, because they kept
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  • All the rules, but jesus said, "you're like white-washed tombs
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  • Full of dead men's bones." they looked good on the outside,
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  • But inside, they were critical and judgmental of other
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  • People who didn't keep all the rules like they did.
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  • And tax collectors on the other hand were
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  • Despised and hated because as a roman tax collector,
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  • I mean, like he was jewish, but he worked for the roman
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  • Government.
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  • And you had to collect the tax that rome wanted,
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  • But then you could tack on to it whatever you
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  • Wanted to tack on to it.
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  • And so, the tax collectors were despised and hated
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  • Because they robbed people.
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  • And boy, they sure didn't understand jesus because
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  • He had dinner with 'em and went to their houses,
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  • "well, how could you do that?" he said, "well, i didn't come
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  • For people that are well.
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  • I came for people that are sick."
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  • Amen?
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  • >> audience: amen.
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  • Joyce: now, i don't suggest that you continually hang
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  • Out with unbelievers and make them your best friends,
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  • But neither can you ignore them and because
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  • Of a religious attitude, shut them out of your life
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  • And not have anything to do with them because if we don't
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  • Ever give them another example, how are they ever gonna change?
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  • I remember what my dad said to dave when he finally did
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  • Repent and tell me that he was sorry for what
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  • He did to me when i was a kid, but he was 83 when he did.
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  • Took him that long.
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  • And i remember the day he repented.
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  • He looked at dave, and he said, "dave, most men in your position
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  • Would have killed me, but you've never done
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  • Anything but show me love." and see, when people
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  • Are sinners, they know they're sinners
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  • And they know that their behaviors' wrong.
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  • One of the reasons why they don't like you is because your
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  • Very presence convicts 'em.
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  • Amen?
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  • >> audience: amen.
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  • >> [audience applauding]
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  • Joyce: and when you love them and they know they
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  • Don't deserve your love, that's the thing that
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  • Finally breaks 'em down.
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  • So, we can't have this--
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  • >> [audience laughing]
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  • Joyce: come on, you know what i'm talkin' about?
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  • We can't have this--
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  • >> [audience laughing]
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  • Joyce: "you sinner, you."
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  • >> [audience laughing]
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  • Joyce: so, here, we've got this pharisee and this tax
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  • Collector and they both went to the temple to pray.
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  • "the pharisee took his stand ostentatiously--"
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  • [chuckling] i guess that was kind of like--
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  • >> [audience laughing]
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  • Joyce: not real sure, but that's what i imagine.
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  • And now, watch this, "and he began to pray thus
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  • Before and with himself." i love that.
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  • He wasn't praying to god.
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  • He was trying to pray a prayer that impressed him.
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  • And i have to be honest and say, i've caught myself
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  • Doing that sometimes when i'm praying in front of people,
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  • Trying to make sure my prayer is impressive and i'm not
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  • Even talking to god, i'm just trying
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  • To be impressive.
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  • And don't say you haven't done it, too.
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  • >> [audience laughing]
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  • Joyce: "god, i thank you that i'm not like the rest of men."
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  • [chuckling] well, i don't think
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  • I've ever prayed that but maybe i thought it.
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  • I don't know.
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  • >> [audience laughing]
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  • Joyce: "extortioners (robbers), swindlers
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  • [unrighteous in heart and life], adulterers."
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  • "and i really thank you that i'm not like
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  • This tax collector." now, he gives a list
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  • Of his good works.
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  • "i fast twice a week; and i give tithes
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  • Of all that i gain." you know, let's just say that
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  • You get up every morning at five and you pray four hours,
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  • You're an anointed intercessor and you meet somebody that,
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  • Maybe you go to lunch with a new christian.
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  • Of course, you wanna make sure they know
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  • How long you pray so you talk about your prayer life--
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  • Their prayer life.
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  • >> [audience laughing]
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  • Joyce: "well, how long do you pray in the morning?"
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  • "oh, 10 minutes!" and they're so excited.
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  • They're praying 10 minutes.
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  • That's like a new, man, exciting thing.
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  • And the pharisee's like, "10 minutes?
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  • Well, you gotta pray more than that."
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  • "well, how long do you pray?" "oh, four hours."
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  • >> [audience laughing]
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  • Joyce: come on.
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  • "but the tax collector, [merely] standing at a distance,
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  • Would not even lift up his eyes to heaven,
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  • But kept striking his breast, saying, "o god,
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  • Be favorable (be gracious, be merciful) to me,
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  • I am an especially wicked sinner!"
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  • And jesus said, "i tell you, this man went down
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  • To his home justified (forgiven and made upright
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  • And in right standing with god), rather than the other man;
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  • For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled,
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  • And he who humbles himself will be exalted."
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  • >> [audience applauding]
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  • Joyce: yeah!
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  • Come on.
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  • Now, jonah, he was an interesting character.
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  • >> [audience laughing]
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  • Joyce: god told him to go to nineveh and preach.
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  • And he was so self-righteous, he did not want to go preach
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  • To them because he thought they were too--
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  • They didn't deserve salvation.
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  • So, he didn't even wanna preach to 'em because
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  • He didn't want 'em to get saved.
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  • Now, that's-- see, now, if i'm not careful,
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  • I'll judge jonah.
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  • >> [audience laughing]
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  • Joyce: i'm already thinking, "how could you
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  • Possibly do that?"
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  • >> [audience laughing]
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  • Joyce: well, jonah, it says, chapter 1 verse 1, "the word
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  • Of the lord came to jonah, 'arise and go to nineveh,
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  • That great city, and proclaim against it,
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  • For their wickedness has come up before me.'
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  • But jonah rose up to flee to tarshish."
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  • Now, if you look on a map, tarshish is the exact opposite
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  • Direction from nineveh.
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  • Have you ever gone the exact opposite direction of what
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  • God told you to go?
  • 00:12:47.823 --> 00:12:48.958
  • [chuckling] and actually, it says that,
  • 00:12:48.958 --> 00:12:54.864
  • That he "went down to joppa and found a ship going
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  • To tarshish [the most remote of the phoenician trading
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  • Places then known]." so, he didn't just go
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  • In the opposite direction.
  • 00:13:02.938 --> 00:13:04.306
  • He went as far away in the opposite direction
  • 00:13:04.306 --> 00:13:06.242
  • As he could possibly go.
  • 00:13:06.242 --> 00:13:09.144
  • "i'm not gonna go preach to those people!
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  • I don't like 'em.
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  • They're sinners.
  • 00:13:12.948 --> 00:13:14.750
  • And i don't think they deserve for me to preach to them.
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  • They might change and get right with you."
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  • >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:13:21.624 --> 00:13:24.193
  • Joyce: well, we know his story;
  • 00:13:24.193 --> 00:13:25.828
  • He had to get thrown off the boat,
  • 00:13:25.828 --> 00:13:30.799
  • The whale swallowed him and when he's in the belly
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  • Of the whale with the seaweed hanging all over him and--
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  • [chuckling] he repented.
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  • You know sometimes when we're judging other people
  • 00:13:45.748 --> 00:13:48.984
  • The bible says be careful when you judge others because
  • 00:13:48.984 --> 00:13:51.420
  • It may come back on you.
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  • Sometimes when we get in a big enough mess,
  • 00:13:53.656 --> 00:13:57.326
  • We get willing to repent and realize that our
  • 00:13:57.326 --> 00:14:01.864
  • Actions are wrong.
  • 00:14:01.864 --> 00:14:07.803
  • I remember one time when i was first doing
  • 00:14:07.803 --> 00:14:10.773
  • My home bible studies.
  • 00:14:10.773 --> 00:14:14.176
  • I hosted a bible study every week in my home for five years.
  • 00:14:14.176 --> 00:14:17.079
  • And about 25 or 30 people came and that's where
  • 00:14:17.079 --> 00:14:19.248
  • I kind of practiced ministry.
  • 00:14:19.248 --> 00:14:22.518
  • And there was a woman that came that got pregnant
  • 00:14:22.518 --> 00:14:26.322
  • And she felt bad a lot during her pregnancy,
  • 00:14:26.322 --> 00:14:33.095
  • So she didn't come to the bible study very often.
  • 00:14:33.095 --> 00:14:36.765
  • And man, i so remember me and a couple of the other
  • 00:14:36.765 --> 00:14:39.835
  • Ladies judging her, "well, you know, if she wanted,
  • 00:14:39.835 --> 00:14:44.506
  • If she really wanted to, she could come.
  • 00:14:44.506 --> 00:14:47.576
  • She could believe god for healing
  • 00:14:47.576 --> 00:14:48.911
  • And she could get here." but not one of us ever
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  • Offered to go help her.
  • 00:14:51.780 --> 00:14:53.415
  • >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:14:53.415 --> 00:14:55.284
  • Joyce: we didn't offer to clean her house
  • 00:14:55.284 --> 00:14:57.453
  • Or to cook her a meal.
  • 00:14:57.453 --> 00:14:59.054
  • We just had our opinion.
  • 00:14:59.054 --> 00:15:00.356
  • Well, few years after that, i got pregnant with
  • 00:15:00.356 --> 00:15:03.058
  • My son who's now 45 and with my other three,
  • 00:15:03.058 --> 00:15:08.564
  • I didn't even know enough to pray, but boy,
  • 00:15:08.564 --> 00:15:10.399
  • This one i'm praying for a good pregnancy
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  • And to feel good, and i was sick.
  • 00:15:13.502 --> 00:15:19.408
  • Man, for three months i could hardly lift my head up off
  • 00:15:19.408 --> 00:15:21.810
  • The couch and i just didn't understand it because now
  • 00:15:21.810 --> 00:15:24.980
  • I'm a woman of great faith.
  • 00:15:24.980 --> 00:15:30.319
  • Come on.
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  • [chuckling]
  • 00:15:30.853 --> 00:15:31.987
  • >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:15:31.987 --> 00:15:34.857
  • Joyce: and i'm praying and praying, "what's wrong."
  • 00:15:34.857 --> 00:15:38.527
  • And god kept taking me to matthew 7, "judge not,
  • 00:15:38.527 --> 00:15:41.797
  • Lest you be judged." and i didn't have any idea
  • 00:15:41.797 --> 00:15:43.632
  • Why he kept taking me to that place.
  • 00:15:43.632 --> 00:15:47.236
  • [laughing] and then finally,
  • 00:15:47.236 --> 00:15:49.438
  • He showed me that i had opened the door for the enemy when
  • 00:15:49.438 --> 00:15:52.041
  • I judged her, and what i judged her for came back on me.
  • 00:15:52.041 --> 00:15:57.046
  • And as soon as i repented, i mean, i immediately got well.
  • 00:15:57.046 --> 00:16:04.253
  • >> [audience applauding]
  • 00:16:04.253 --> 00:16:07.389
  • Joyce: so, not sayin' this about you,
  • 00:16:07.389 --> 00:16:12.928
  • But maybe, when you're havin' trouble you need to ask god
  • 00:16:12.928 --> 00:16:15.631
  • If you're reaping on somethin' you've sowed in the past.
  • 00:16:15.631 --> 00:16:23.572
  • Come on, now, don't look too happy because
  • 00:16:23.572 --> 00:16:26.608
  • I'm preaching good.
  • 00:16:26.608 --> 00:16:28.010
  • >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:16:28.010 --> 00:16:30.379
  • Joyce: anybody have any conviction about
  • 00:16:33.515 --> 00:16:35.451
  • Being self-righteous, just a little bit, maybe?
  • 00:16:35.451 --> 00:16:38.320
  • I don't wanna think, you know, that i'm just preaching
  • 00:16:38.320 --> 00:16:41.924
  • To no purpose here.
  • 00:16:41.924 --> 00:16:43.325
  • >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:16:43.325 --> 00:16:49.832
  • Joyce: "oh, lord jesus, help me.
  • 00:16:49.832 --> 00:16:51.233
  • I don't wanna be self-righteous.
  • 00:16:51.233 --> 00:16:53.435
  • I only want the righteousness which you give."
  • 00:16:53.435 --> 00:16:57.706
  • Maybe paul had a tendency to be a little self-righteous
  • 00:16:57.706 --> 00:17:00.409
  • And that's why he prayed this prayer.
  • 00:17:00.409 --> 00:17:04.746
  • 'cause paul was a pharisee of pharisees.
  • 00:17:04.746 --> 00:17:09.718
  • Romans 3:21-24-- what is true righteousness?
  • 00:17:09.718 --> 00:17:16.325
  • "but now the righteousness of god has been revealed
  • 00:17:16.325 --> 00:17:18.861
  • And independently, altogether apart
  • 00:17:18.861 --> 00:17:23.198
  • From the law--" or let's just say good works,
  • 00:17:23.198 --> 00:17:28.003
  • "although it is attested by the law and the prophets,
  • 00:17:28.003 --> 00:17:30.806
  • Namely, the righteousness of god which comes by believing
  • 00:17:30.806 --> 00:17:34.843
  • With personal trust and confident reliance
  • 00:17:34.843 --> 00:17:37.779
  • On jesus christ (the messiah).
  • 00:17:37.779 --> 00:17:40.649
  • [and it is meant] for all who believe.
  • 00:17:40.649 --> 00:17:42.417
  • There is a no distinction." the only way that
  • 00:17:42.417 --> 00:17:45.587
  • We can be right with god is through believing in jesus.
  • 00:17:45.587 --> 00:17:49.024
  • That's so hard to sink in, isn't it?
  • 00:17:49.024 --> 00:17:53.929
  • "you mean to tell me i don't have to do right to be right?"
  • 00:17:53.929 --> 00:17:59.902
  • Well, see here's the thing, god never asks us to produce
  • 00:17:59.902 --> 00:18:04.573
  • Anything that he doesn't give us first.
  • 00:18:04.573 --> 00:18:08.577
  • For example, "the love of god has been shed abroad in our
  • 00:18:08.577 --> 00:18:11.980
  • Hearts by the holy ghost." so, we love him because
  • 00:18:11.980 --> 00:18:14.850
  • He first loved us.
  • 00:18:14.850 --> 00:18:16.418
  • We can only love god because he put love in us,
  • 00:18:16.418 --> 00:18:19.721
  • And i can only love you because he put love in me.
  • 00:18:19.721 --> 00:18:23.959
  • Okay.
  • 00:18:23.959 --> 00:18:25.227
  • So, he wants us to behave right, but we can't behave right unless
  • 00:18:25.227 --> 00:18:29.898
  • He first gives us righteousness.
  • 00:18:29.898 --> 00:18:33.468
  • Ah-ha.
  • 00:18:33.468 --> 00:18:34.570
  • See?
  • 00:18:34.570 --> 00:18:35.170
  • The light bulb went on.
  • 00:18:35.170 --> 00:18:37.472
  • So, he gives us right standing with him as a gift.
  • 00:18:37.472 --> 00:18:42.644
  • It's a free gift that we receive by putting our faith in jesus.
  • 00:18:42.644 --> 00:18:48.917
  • Seems so totally unfair, but god is god and he can
  • 00:18:48.917 --> 00:18:53.155
  • Do what he wants to.
  • 00:18:53.155 --> 00:18:54.723
  • And the bible says that he chooses to view
  • 00:18:54.723 --> 00:18:57.693
  • Us as righteous.
  • 00:18:57.693 --> 00:19:01.163
  • Then when we realize what he's done for us and we see
  • 00:19:01.163 --> 00:19:07.536
  • What he wants us to do, we try our best to do it because
  • 00:19:07.536 --> 00:19:13.308
  • Of what he's done for us, not to get him to do
  • 00:19:13.308 --> 00:19:16.044
  • Something for us.
  • 00:19:16.044 --> 00:19:18.080
  • >> [audience applauding]
  • 00:19:18.080 --> 00:19:24.353
  • Joyce: to me, trying to get people to understand
  • 00:19:24.353 --> 00:19:28.857
  • Who they are in christ, is one of the most missing
  • 00:19:28.857 --> 00:19:32.928
  • Messages in a large majority of churches.
  • 00:19:32.928 --> 00:19:40.102
  • So many times, people go to church and they're
  • 00:19:40.102 --> 00:19:43.205
  • Just told what to do, "do this.
  • 00:19:43.205 --> 00:19:45.007
  • Do this.
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  • Don't do that.
  • 00:19:45.641 --> 00:19:46.908
  • Do this.
  • 00:19:46.275 --> 00:19:47.909
  • Don't do that." but they're never told "how."
  • 00:19:47.909 --> 00:19:52.447
  • And we need to be taught who we are in christ and that
  • 00:19:52.447 --> 00:19:56.151
  • Righteousness comes only through faith in jesus.
  • 00:19:56.151 --> 00:20:00.789
  • >> [audience applauding]
  • 00:20:00.789 --> 00:20:01.990
  • Joyce: and then, when you have that righteousness--
  • 00:20:01.990 --> 00:20:04.593
  • I probably have said a million times in my life,
  • 00:20:04.593 --> 00:20:07.462
  • "i am the righteousness of god in christ,"
  • 00:20:07.462 --> 00:20:10.132
  • Because it was very hard for me to believe.
  • 00:20:10.132 --> 00:20:15.003
  • And when you see something in the word,
  • 00:20:15.003 --> 00:20:17.139
  • But you have a very difficult time believing it,
  • 00:20:17.139 --> 00:20:19.708
  • The only way you can ever believe it is to get
  • 00:20:19.708 --> 00:20:24.646
  • The information to become revelation.
  • 00:20:24.646 --> 00:20:30.118
  • See, i'm giving you information today, but in mark 4, it says,
  • 00:20:30.118 --> 00:20:33.255
  • "the measure of thought and study that you give
  • 00:20:33.255 --> 00:20:35.457
  • To the truth that you hear is the measure of virtue
  • 00:20:35.457 --> 00:20:38.293
  • And knowledge that will come back to you again."
  • 00:20:38.293 --> 00:20:40.262
  • So, i'm giving you information and for some of you,
  • 00:20:40.262 --> 00:20:43.231
  • It may become revelation because you've already
  • 00:20:43.231 --> 00:20:45.734
  • Had some information along these lines.
  • 00:20:45.734 --> 00:20:49.671
  • And so, now, today, it's just all coming
  • 00:20:49.671 --> 00:20:51.540
  • Together and you're like-- like i heard that one
  • 00:20:51.540 --> 00:20:53.875
  • Person over there say, "oh!" and that's kinda
  • 00:20:53.875 --> 00:20:57.079
  • What revelation is.
  • 00:20:57.079 --> 00:20:57.879
  • It's like, "oh!
  • 00:20:57.879 --> 00:20:59.981
  • Yeah." but you know, we have to,
  • 00:20:59.981 --> 00:21:03.251
  • We have to put in a little effort.
  • 00:21:03.251 --> 00:21:05.320
  • But now, if you take some things that i've said and you
  • 00:21:05.320 --> 00:21:10.659
  • Go home and you study this; look up every scripture you
  • 00:21:10.659 --> 00:21:14.663
  • Can find on righteousness, look up what the bible says
  • 00:21:14.663 --> 00:21:17.432
  • About self-righteousness, look up what the bible
  • 00:21:17.432 --> 00:21:19.968
  • Says about what it means to be in christ,
  • 00:21:19.968 --> 00:21:24.106
  • And you study that, and you study it and you
  • 00:21:24.106 --> 00:21:26.007
  • Study it 'til it becomes part of every cell in your being.
  • 00:21:26.007 --> 00:21:31.246
  • And you see, i know that i know that i know that
  • 00:21:31.246 --> 00:21:33.615
  • I know that i am right with god.
  • 00:21:33.615 --> 00:21:35.717
  • That's why when god convicts me of wrong
  • 00:21:35.717 --> 00:21:38.620
  • Behavior it doesn't bother me, doesn't bother me at all because
  • 00:21:38.620 --> 00:21:44.126
  • I know who i am.
  • 00:21:44.126 --> 00:21:48.296
  • And you know, actually, in hebrews 5:13-6:1:
  • 00:21:48.296 --> 00:21:55.303
  • It tells you very plainly that people cannot be corrected
  • 00:21:55.303 --> 00:22:02.010
  • If they don't know who they are in christ,
  • 00:22:02.010 --> 00:22:05.147
  • Because if you don't know who you are,
  • 00:22:05.147 --> 00:22:07.215
  • Then anytime somebody tries to correct you,
  • 00:22:07.215 --> 00:22:11.720
  • It offends you.
  • 00:22:11.720 --> 00:22:13.588
  • But if you know who you are, and you know who
  • 00:22:13.588 --> 00:22:15.757
  • You belong to, and you know that
  • 00:22:15.757 --> 00:22:17.492
  • You're loved and-- you're not free till
  • 00:22:17.492 --> 00:22:19.895
  • You have nothing to prove.
  • 00:22:19.895 --> 00:22:23.965
  • Come on.
  • 00:22:23.965 --> 00:22:24.866
  • >> [audience applauding]
  • 00:22:24.866 --> 00:22:27.102
  • Joyce: but if you have nothing to prove then you're
  • 00:22:27.102 --> 00:22:29.504
  • Glad when god or even somebody else corrects you,
  • 00:22:29.504 --> 00:22:32.641
  • If they do it with a spirit of humility,
  • 00:22:32.641 --> 00:22:36.845
  • Because that doesn't devalue you.
  • 00:22:36.845 --> 00:22:43.518
  • Now, if you go home and you put a little effort into this,
  • 00:22:43.518 --> 00:22:47.022
  • Now maybe with my effort and your effort,
  • 00:22:47.022 --> 00:22:49.324
  • You can come out with a victory.
  • 00:22:49.324 --> 00:22:52.227
  • >> [audience applauding]
  • 00:22:52.227 --> 00:22:55.730
  • Joyce: and another thing we do that causes
  • 00:22:55.730 --> 00:23:01.069
  • Us a lot of problems, i think, is we have so much
  • 00:23:01.069 --> 00:23:03.472
  • Available to us that we jumped from subject
  • 00:23:03.472 --> 00:23:06.208
  • To subject to subject to subject to subject
  • 00:23:06.208 --> 00:23:08.009
  • And we never stick with any one thing long enough
  • 00:23:08.009 --> 00:23:10.412
  • For it to become a revelation.
  • 00:23:10.412 --> 00:23:13.849
  • You'll go to church tomorrow and hear something different.
  • 00:23:13.849 --> 00:23:15.851
  • And you can watch me monday morning and hear
  • 00:23:15.851 --> 00:23:17.686
  • Something different.
  • 00:23:17.686 --> 00:23:18.687
  • And then tuesday morning i'll preach something
  • 00:23:18.687 --> 00:23:19.721
  • Different than that.
  • 00:23:19.721 --> 00:23:20.689
  • And wednesday something different than that.
  • 00:23:20.689 --> 00:23:23.725
  • And so, i'm suggesting to you that if you need
  • 00:23:23.725 --> 00:23:26.862
  • A revelation in this area that you stick with it,
  • 00:23:26.862 --> 00:23:31.933
  • Until it becomes revelation to you.
  • 00:23:31.933 --> 00:23:35.437
  • [♪♪]
  • 00:23:38.073 --> 00:23:42.978
  • >> joyce: well, we're all getting older every day,
  • 00:23:42.978 --> 00:23:45.514
  • But you know what?
  • 00:23:45.514 --> 00:23:46.515
  • Age is just a number. old is a mindset.
  • 00:23:46.515 --> 00:23:49.651
  • I wish that someone would've told me when i was 20 or 30,
  • 00:23:49.651 --> 00:23:53.388
  • The things that i'm trying to tell you now.
  • 00:23:53.388 --> 00:23:55.824
  • You see, early on,
  • 00:23:55.824 --> 00:23:56.958
  • My mode was to get as much
  • 00:23:56.958 --> 00:23:58.393
  • Done as i possibly could.
  • 00:23:58.393 --> 00:23:59.761
  • Nobody was gonna tell me,
  • 00:23:59.761 --> 00:24:01.696
  • "you can't handle life."
  • 00:24:01.696 --> 00:24:03.198
  • Until one day i was forced
  • 00:24:03.198 --> 00:24:04.499
  • To slow down and rest.
  • 00:24:04.499 --> 00:24:05.467
  • This go-go mentality was
  • 00:24:05.467 --> 00:24:06.868
  • Not sustainable.
  • 00:24:06.868 --> 00:24:08.270
  • And it was taking a toll on my body and threatening
  • 00:24:08.270 --> 00:24:10.539
  • How many years i had left.
  • 00:24:10.539 --> 00:24:12.307
  • That's why i'm happy to share with you
  • 00:24:12.307 --> 00:24:13.808
  • What i've learned in my book,
  • 00:24:13.808 --> 00:24:15.110
  • “how to age without
  • 00:24:15.110 --> 00:24:16.411
  • Getting old.” i share with you some things
  • 00:24:16.411 --> 00:24:18.647
  • That i've gone through personally, and the things
  • 00:24:18.647 --> 00:24:20.949
  • I believe i could've done that would've helped
  • 00:24:20.949 --> 00:24:23.051
  • Me to avoid some of those painful experiences.
  • 00:24:23.051 --> 00:24:25.387
  • >> announcer: "how to age without getting old,"
  • 00:24:25.387 --> 00:24:28.123
  • Is available to you today for a gift
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  • Of any amount.
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  • Or visit us online at: joycemeyer.org.
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  • Getting older doesn't have
  • 00:24:36.731 --> 00:24:38.567
  • To be a downer, or a “dread what's
  • 00:24:38.567 --> 00:24:40.268
  • Ahead” mindset.
  • 00:24:40.268 --> 00:24:41.870
  • In fact, it can be something that you look forward to.
  • 00:24:41.870 --> 00:24:44.606
  • Find joy for the future by taking these steps
  • 00:24:44.606 --> 00:24:47.208
  • To a stronger you.
  • 00:24:47.208 --> 00:24:48.310
  • >> joyce: there's one thing about getting
  • 00:24:48.310 --> 00:24:50.245
  • Older folks, you know more.
  • 00:24:50.245 --> 00:24:54.783
  • And we all say, “oh, if i could just
  • 00:24:54.783 --> 00:24:56.551
  • Be young again and know what i know now.”
  • 00:24:56.551 --> 00:24:58.587
  • >> [audience applauding]
  • 00:24:58.587 --> 00:25:00.388
  • >> joyce: now, you know this isn't just a book
  • 00:25:00.388 --> 00:25:02.691
  • For someone that is 65 or 70 years old.
  • 00:25:02.691 --> 00:25:05.126
  • I wanna share with you practical ways to live
  • 00:25:05.126 --> 00:25:07.796
  • This incredible life that god has given us,
  • 00:25:07.796 --> 00:25:10.131
  • At all ages.
  • 00:25:10.131 --> 00:25:12.000
  • We can change the way we think about
  • 00:25:12.000 --> 00:25:13.935
  • Getting older.
  • 00:25:13.935 --> 00:25:14.836
  • You may not be able to do all the things
  • 00:25:14.836 --> 00:25:16.838
  • You used to do, but you can still
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  • Do something.
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