Joyce Meyer - Something Needs To Change (Part 1)

February 4, 2026 | 27:29

The only thing in life that never changes is God! Today, Joyce discusses the process and anatomy of change, as well as the importance of embracing change.

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Joyce Meyer: Enjoying Everyday Life | Joyce Meyer - Something Needs To Change (Part 1) | February 4, 2026
  • >> joyce: if you don't
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  • >> joyce: if you don't like change,
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  • >> joyce: if you don't like change, you might as well change
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  • Like change, you might as well change your mind about change.
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  • You might as well change your mind about change. because the only thing in life
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  • Your mind about change. because the only thing in life that doesn't change is god.
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  • >> joyce: i do what
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  • >> joyce: i do what i do because i've seen god's
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  • >> joyce: i do what i do because i've seen god's power transform my own life,
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  • I do because i've seen god's power transform my own life, and he will do it for you.
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  • Power transform my own life, and he will do it for you. the key to everything
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  • And he will do it for you. the key to everything is found in god's word.
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  • The key to everything is found in god's word. i'm joyce meyer,
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  • Is found in god's word. i'm joyce meyer, and i believe that god can heal
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  • I'm joyce meyer, and i believe that god can heal you everywhere you hurt.
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  • >> joyce: well,
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  • >> joyce: well, there's a lot of things that
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  • >> joyce: well, there's a lot of things that change throughout our life,
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  • There's a lot of things that change throughout our life, isn't there?
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  • Change throughout our life, isn't there? we change.
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  • Isn't there? we change. you know,
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  • We change. you know, as you get older,
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  • You know, as you get older, you change your mind
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  • As you get older, you change your mind about things.
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  • You change your mind about things. like when somebody's
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  • About things. like when somebody's in their '20s,
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  • Like when somebody's in their '20s, they can't understand wantin'
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  • In their '20s, they can't understand wantin' to stay home every night.
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  • They can't understand wantin' to stay home every night. and you know...
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  • To stay home every night. and you know... >> [audience laughing]
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  • And you know... >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: rest.
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: rest. and, you know,
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  • >> joyce: rest. and, you know, by the time you get
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  • And, you know, by the time you get to be around ah, 50, 60,
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  • By the time you get to be around ah, 50, 60, you're like, "nah,
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  • To be around ah, 50, 60, you're like, "nah, i don't wanna go.
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  • You're like, "nah, i don't wanna go. i think i'll just stay home."
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  • I don't wanna go. i think i'll just stay home." the people in our life
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  • I think i'll just stay home." the people in our life changes,
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  • The people in our life changes, and sometimes that's
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  • Changes, and sometimes that's challenging for us because
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  • And sometimes that's challenging for us because they change,
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  • Challenging for us because they change, and maybe we don't want
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  • They change, and maybe we don't want 'em to change.
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  • And maybe we don't want 'em to change. however, we do have to respect
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  • 'em to change. however, we do have to respect people's right to make
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  • However, we do have to respect people's right to make changes in their lives.
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  • Our kids grow up and leave home.
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  • Our kids grow up and leave home. sometimes that's
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  • Our kids grow up and leave home. sometimes that's makes you happy,
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  • Sometimes that's makes you happy, sometimes it don't.
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  • Makes you happy, sometimes it don't. and, you know,
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  • Sometimes it don't. and, you know, they get families of their
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  • And, you know, they get families of their own and then things change,
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  • They get families of their own and then things change, and they don't--especially,
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  • Own and then things change, and they don't--especially, if you have a real close
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  • And they don't--especially, if you have a real close relationship with your children,
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  • If you have a real close relationship with your children, then they don't have the same
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  • Relationship with your children, then they don't have the same amount of time for you
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  • Then they don't have the same amount of time for you that they once did,
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  • Amount of time for you that they once did, and that's challenging.
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  • That they once did, and that's challenging. and i remember--
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  • And that's challenging. and i remember-- well, i call him my baby,
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  • And i remember-- well, i call him my baby, he's 44 now, but.
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  • Well, i call him my baby, he's 44 now, but. we had three children,
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  • He's 44 now, but. we had three children, and then 10 years later had him.
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  • We had three children, and then 10 years later had him. so, he's kind of the "special
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  • And then 10 years later had him. so, he's kind of the "special baby," you know?
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  • So, he's kind of the "special baby," you know? and he got married,
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  • Baby," you know? and he got married, and they lived right around
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  • And he got married, and they lived right around the corner from us,
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  • And they lived right around the corner from us, but his wife was pregnant,
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  • The corner from us, but his wife was pregnant, and, you know,
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  • But his wife was pregnant, and, you know, he just didn't have the time
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  • And, you know, he just didn't have the time for me that he once did.
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  • He just didn't have the time for me that he once did. he--him and i were really close.
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  • For me that he once did. he--him and i were really close. and i remember saying something
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  • He--him and i were really close. and i remember saying something to him one day about,
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  • And i remember saying something to him one day about, "i don't see you as much--"
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  • To him one day about, "i don't see you as much--" something, you know,
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  • "i don't see you as much--" something, you know, made him feel like i was
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  • Something, you know, made him feel like i was complaining about,
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  • Made him feel like i was complaining about, not seeing him enough.
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  • Complaining about, not seeing him enough. and he said something
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  • Not seeing him enough. and he said something to me that, i'll never forget.
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  • And he said something to me that, i'll never forget. he said,
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  • To me that, i'll never forget. he said, "i wish that you would not make
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  • He said, "i wish that you would not make me feel like i always have
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  • "i wish that you would not make me feel like i always have to prove to you that
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  • Me feel like i always have to prove to you that i love you."
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  • To prove to you that i love you." and so, we need to be
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  • I love you." and so, we need to be careful--because i didn't
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  • And so, we need to be careful--because i didn't realize that's the way it was
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  • Careful--because i didn't realize that's the way it was coming across to him.
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  • Realize that's the way it was coming across to him. and you know,
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  • Coming across to him. and you know, you have to let go of things.
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  • And you know, you have to let go of things. as things change,
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  • You have to let go of things. as things change, you have to let go of it.
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  • As things change, you have to let go of it. and then they change back again,
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  • You have to let go of it. and then they change back again, like my one daughter,
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  • And then they change back again, like my one daughter, she had four children.
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  • Like my one daughter, she had four children. and so, she went through
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  • She had four children. and so, she went through a season of a good number
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  • And so, she went through a season of a good number of years where she didn't
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  • A season of a good number of years where she didn't have much time for me.
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  • Of years where she didn't have much time for me. and now,
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  • Have much time for me. and now, she's actually my assistant
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  • And now, she's actually my assistant and we're together all the time.
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  • She's actually my assistant and we're together all the time. so, life is just full of change.
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  • And we're together all the time. so, life is just full of change. and women go through
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  • So, life is just full of change. and women go through something called
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  • And women go through something called "the change of life."
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  • Something called "the change of life." and that's really interesting...
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  • "the change of life." and that's really interesting... >> [audience laughing]
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  • And that's really interesting... >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: depending on who
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: depending on who you are and how your health
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  • >> joyce: depending on who you are and how your health is when it hits.
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  • You are and how your health is when it hits. but i mean,
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  • Is when it hits. but i mean, some women have a really,
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  • But i mean, some women have a really, really rough time.
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  • Some women have a really, really rough time. i had a rough time because
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  • Really rough time. i had a rough time because i had had breast cancer
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  • I had a rough time because i had had breast cancer and i couldn't take any
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  • I had had breast cancer and i couldn't take any kind of hormones.
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  • And i couldn't take any kind of hormones. i had a hysterectomy,
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  • Kind of hormones. i had a hysterectomy, which threw me into
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  • I had a hysterectomy, which threw me into the change of life.
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  • Which threw me into the change of life. and you know,
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  • The change of life. and you know, when so--when you don't have
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  • And you know, when so--when you don't have time to sneak up on it,
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  • When so--when you don't have time to sneak up on it, it's just all of a sudden,
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  • Time to sneak up on it, it's just all of a sudden, from one day to the next,
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  • It's just all of a sudden, from one day to the next, you have it.
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  • From one day to the next, you have it. i mean, you haven't lived
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  • You have it. i mean, you haven't lived till you have a hot flash
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  • I mean, you haven't lived till you have a hot flash every 45 minutes.
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  • Till you have a hot flash every 45 minutes. >> [audience laughing]
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  • Every 45 minutes. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: friends come
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: friends come and go in our life.
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  • >> joyce: friends come and go in our life. you know, you can have
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  • And go in our life. you know, you can have a friend that you think will
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  • You know, you can have a friend that you think will just be your friend forever
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  • A friend that you think will just be your friend forever and something changes
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  • Just be your friend forever and something changes in their life.
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  • And something changes in their life. and there's really--
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  • In their life. and there's really-- there's nothing wrong.
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  • And there's really-- there's nothing wrong. they're not mad at you.
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  • There's nothing wrong. they're not mad at you. you're not mad at them,
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  • They're not mad at you. you're not mad at them, but their life just changes
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  • You're not mad at them, but their life just changes and they're not there anymore.
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  • But their life just changes and they're not there anymore. our desires change.
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  • The world changes around
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  • The world changes around us and some of that we need
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  • The world changes around us and some of that we need to adapt to,
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  • Us and some of that we need to adapt to, but some of it we need
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  • To adapt to, but some of it we need to resist.
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  • But some of it we need to resist. our bodies change.
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  • To resist. our bodies change. whoo!
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  • Our bodies change. whoo! i saw all of you go...
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  • Whoo! i saw all of you go... whoo, yeah.
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  • I saw all of you go... whoo, yeah. >> [audience laughing]
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  • Whoo, yeah. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: well, sometimes you
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: well, sometimes you get to the point where you
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  • >> joyce: well, sometimes you get to the point where you feel like somethin' hurts
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  • Get to the point where you feel like somethin' hurts somewhere all the time,
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  • Feel like somethin' hurts somewhere all the time, you know?
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  • Somewhere all the time, you know? and so, change is just
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  • You know? and so, change is just part of life.
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  • And you know,
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  • And you know, some people handle change
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  • And you know, some people handle change better than others.
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  • Some people handle change better than others. some people just
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  • Better than others. some people just absolutely hate change.
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  • Some people just absolutely hate change. some people are able to flow
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  • Absolutely hate change. some people are able to flow with it a little bit better.
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  • Some people are able to flow with it a little bit better. but it's like i said
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  • With it a little bit better. but it's like i said this morning,
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  • But it's like i said this morning, you might as well--
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  • This morning, you might as well-- if you don't like change,
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  • You might as well-- if you don't like change, you might as well change
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  • If you don't like change, you might as well change your mind about change,
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  • You might as well change your mind about change, because the only thing in life
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  • Your mind about change, because the only thing in life that doesn't change is god.
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  • Because the only thing in life that doesn't change is god. >> audience: amen.
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  • That doesn't change is god. >> audience: amen. >> [audience applauding]
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  • >> joyce: that's really
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  • >> joyce: that's really wonderful when you
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  • >> joyce: that's really wonderful when you think about it,
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  • Wonderful when you think about it, because he's the rock.
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  • Think about it, because he's the rock. jesus is the same yesterday,
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  • Because he's the rock. jesus is the same yesterday, today, and forever.
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  • Jesus is the same yesterday, today, and forever. he always loves you.
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  • Today, and forever. he always loves you. he'll always be with you.
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  • He always loves you. he'll always be with you. he's always for you.
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  • God never changes.
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  • God never changes. he's faithful,
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  • God never changes. he's faithful, always faithful.
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  • He's faithful, always faithful. will never let you down.
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  • Always faithful. will never let you down. and i think it's important
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  • Will never let you down. and i think it's important to understand the process
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  • And i think it's important to understand the process and the anatomy of change.
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  • To understand the process and the anatomy of change. change is a process especially,
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  • And the anatomy of change. change is a process especially, like, if we're changing,
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  • Change is a process especially, like, if we're changing, if god's changing us,
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  • Like, if we're changing, if god's changing us, making changes in our life.
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  • If god's changing us, making changes in our life. and i would imagine some of you,
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  • Making changes in our life. and i would imagine some of you, even just being here last
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  • And i would imagine some of you, even just being here last night and in this morning,
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  • Even just being here last night and in this morning, you realize that there's
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  • Night and in this morning, you realize that there's some things in your life
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  • You realize that there's some things in your life that need to change.
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  • Some things in your life that need to change. and some things--
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  • That need to change. and some things-- how many of you realize
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  • And some things-- how many of you realize there's some things in you
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  • How many of you realize there's some things in you that need to change?
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  • There's some things in you that need to change? and i mean, i'm just gonna
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  • That need to change? and i mean, i'm just gonna be honest with you
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  • And i mean, i'm just gonna be honest with you and tell you,
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  • Be honest with you and tell you, it's not gonna be easy.
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  • And tell you, it's not gonna be easy. and it's probably not
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  • It's not gonna be easy. and it's probably not gonna feel good.
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  • And it's probably not gonna feel good. but if you don't go ahead
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  • Gonna feel good. but if you don't go ahead and go through it,
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  • But if you don't go ahead and go through it, then you'll still have
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  • And go through it, then you'll still have it looming in front
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  • Then you'll still have it looming in front of you at some point.
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  • It looming in front of you at some point. so, the best advice, really,
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  • Of you at some point. so, the best advice, really, is just to bite the bullet
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  • So, the best advice, really, is just to bite the bullet and go through it
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  • Is just to bite the bullet and go through it and get it over with,
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  • And go through it and get it over with, because anything that god's
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  • And get it over with, because anything that god's trying to change in your
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  • Because anything that god's trying to change in your life is gonna bring you
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  • Trying to change in your life is gonna bring you into a better place.
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  • Life is gonna bring you into a better place. amen?
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  • Into a better place. amen? >> [audience applauding]
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  • Amen? >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: god never does
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: god never does anything in our lives
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  • >> joyce: god never does anything in our lives that's not for our good.
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  • Anything in our lives that's not for our good. and he never tells you
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  • That's not for our good. and he never tells you to do or not to do something
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  • And he never tells you to do or not to do something that's not for your benefit.
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  • To do or not to do something that's not for your benefit. no matter what you
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  • That's not for your benefit. no matter what you think at the time,
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  • No matter what you think at the time, it is for your benefit,
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  • Think at the time, it is for your benefit, and you will see
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  • It is for your benefit, and you will see that eventually.
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  • And you will see that eventually. change is frightening because
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  • That eventually. change is frightening because we like to be in control.
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  • Change is frightening because we like to be in control. we like to know
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  • We like to be in control. we like to know what's gonna happen.
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  • We like to know what's gonna happen. and with god, to be honest,
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  • What's gonna happen. and with god, to be honest, i mean, if we're just
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  • And with god, to be honest, i mean, if we're just really honest, you never
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  • I mean, if we're just really honest, you never really know what's gonna happen.
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  • Really honest, you never really know what's gonna happen. i mean, a lot of things
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  • Really know what's gonna happen. i mean, a lot of things suddenly change.
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  • I mean, a lot of things suddenly change. and we just--in those times,
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  • Suddenly change. and we just--in those times, we need to trust god.
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  • And we just--in those times, we need to trust god. we just really need
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  • We need to trust god. we just really need to trust god.
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  • We just really need to trust god. it's wonderful when you don't
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  • To trust god. it's wonderful when you don't understand to be able to trust.
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  • It's wonderful when you don't understand to be able to trust. it brings you into a place
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  • Understand to be able to trust. it brings you into a place of real peace because there's
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  • It brings you into a place of real peace because there's a lot of mysteries in god.
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  • Of real peace because there's a lot of mysteries in god. there's a lot of things
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  • A lot of mysteries in god. there's a lot of things that we just,
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  • There's a lot of things that we just, "what is going on?
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  • That we just, "what is going on? i don't get it.
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  • "what is going on? i don't get it. i don't understand.
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  • I don't get it. i don't understand. why is this happening?
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  • I don't understand. why is this happening? why haven't you helped
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  • Why is this happening? why haven't you helped me with this?"
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  • We've got a lot of whys
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  • We've got a lot of whys in our life,
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  • We've got a lot of whys in our life, but has anybody noticed that
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  • In our life, but has anybody noticed that you can ask god why,
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  • But has anybody noticed that you can ask god why, but he rarely ever answers you?
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  • You can ask god why, but he rarely ever answers you? and he really wants to hear,
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  • But he rarely ever answers you? and he really wants to hear, not "why," but, "i trust you."
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  • Now, it's not wrong
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  • Now, it's not wrong to ask god why,
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  • Now, it's not wrong to ask god why, but he rarely does tell you.
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  • To ask god why, but he rarely does tell you. and it is better to just--
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  • But he rarely does tell you. and it is better to just-- to trust god.
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  • And it is better to just-- to trust god. trust is a wonderful thing.
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  • To trust god. trust is a wonderful thing. i mean, it--
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  • Trust is a wonderful thing. i mean, it-- the peace of god and the rest
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  • I mean, it-- the peace of god and the rest of god is just wonderful.
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  • The peace of god and the rest of god is just wonderful. and try to be content and happy
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  • Of god is just wonderful. and try to be content and happy where you're at on the way
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  • And try to be content and happy where you're at on the way to where you're going.
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  • Where you're at on the way to where you're going. because you're
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  • To where you're going. because you're always going somewhere,
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  • Because you're always going somewhere, and if you're never happy here,
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  • Always going somewhere, and if you're never happy here, you're not gonna
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  • And if you're never happy here, you're not gonna be happy here either.
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  • You're not gonna be happy here either. you're not gonna
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  • Be happy here either. you're not gonna be happy here either.
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  • You're not gonna be happy here either. there is a destination that
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  • Be happy here either. there is a destination that we're all headed for,
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  • There is a destination that we're all headed for, but most of our life,
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  • We're all headed for, but most of our life, we spend waiting on something.
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  • But most of our life, we spend waiting on something. you know that?
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  • We spend waiting on something. you know that? whatever you're waiting on now,
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  • You know that? whatever you're waiting on now, it'll come to pass,
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  • Whatever you're waiting on now, it'll come to pass, and you'll be happy
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  • It'll come to pass, and you'll be happy and then you'll start waiting
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  • And you'll be happy and then you'll start waiting on something else again.
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  • And then you'll start waiting on something else again. >> [audience applauding]
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  • On something else again. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: that's just
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: that's just part of it.
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  • >> joyce: that's just part of it. we're built for progress.
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  • Part of it. we're built for progress. we're built for forward motion.
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  • We're built for progress. we're built for forward motion. and so, we just don't
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  • We're built for forward motion. and so, we just don't stay satisfied at one
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  • And so, we just don't stay satisfied at one place very long,
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  • Stay satisfied at one place very long, and we wanna move
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  • Place very long, and we wanna move on to something else.
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  • And we wanna move on to something else. and, like, if, say,
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  • On to something else. and, like, if, say, i need to change--
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  • And, like, if, say, i need to change-- which i certainly always do,
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  • I need to change-- which i certainly always do, i have--we have to learn
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  • Which i certainly always do, i have--we have to learn to be satisfied with ourselves
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  • I have--we have to learn to be satisfied with ourselves where we're at while
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  • To be satisfied with ourselves where we're at while god is changing us.
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  • Where we're at while god is changing us. you understand that?
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  • God is changing us. you understand that? because if you're not,
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  • You understand that? because if you're not, you're always gonna
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  • Because if you're not, you're always gonna be unhappy with yourself,
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  • You're always gonna be unhappy with yourself, and that's not what god wants.
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  • Be unhappy with yourself, and that's not what god wants. he wants you to enjoy yourself
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  • And that's not what god wants. he wants you to enjoy yourself and be happy with yourself,
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  • He wants you to enjoy yourself and be happy with yourself, and to know that while
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  • And be happy with yourself, and to know that while he's changing you,
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  • And to know that while he's changing you, he still loves you
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  • He's changing you, he still loves you right where you're at.
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  • He still loves you right where you're at. amen?
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  • Right where you're at. amen? as a matter of fact,
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  • Amen? as a matter of fact, i can tell you something.
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  • As a matter of fact, i can tell you something. god will never love you any
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  • I can tell you something. god will never love you any more than he does right now.
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  • God will never love you any more than he does right now. no matter how much
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  • More than he does right now. no matter how much better you behave,
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  • No matter how much better you behave, he's not gonna love you anymore
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  • Better you behave, he's not gonna love you anymore because you behave better.
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  • He's not gonna love you anymore because you behave better. you should behave better
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  • Because you behave better. you should behave better because you love him,
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  • You should behave better because you love him, not to get him to love you more.
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  • Because you love him, not to get him to love you more. >> [audience applauding]
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  • >> joyce: see, because god's
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  • >> joyce: see, because god's love is perfect,
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  • >> joyce: see, because god's love is perfect, he is love,
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  • Love is perfect, he is love, and he already loves you
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  • He is love, and he already loves you with a perfect love.
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  • And he already loves you with a perfect love. and i'll suggest something
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  • With a perfect love. and i'll suggest something to you that really was
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  • And i'll suggest something to you that really was a big thing in my life.
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  • To you that really was a big thing in my life. in 1 john 4:16,
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  • A big thing in my life. in 1 john 4:16, in the amplified bible,
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  • In 1 john 4:16, in the amplified bible, it says we should be
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  • In the amplified bible, it says we should be "conscious and aware
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  • It says we should be "conscious and aware of god's love."
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  • "conscious and aware of god's love." so, i'm gonna encourage
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  • You to start looking
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  • You to start looking for god's love in your life,
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  • You to start looking for god's love in your life, because he's always doing,
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  • For god's love in your life, because he's always doing, a lot of times,
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  • Because he's always doing, a lot of times, just little things that are just
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  • A lot of times, just little things that are just unique and particular to us.
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  • Just little things that are just unique and particular to us. they might not mean that
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  • Unique and particular to us. they might not mean that much to somebody else,
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  • They might not mean that much to somebody else, but it's, you know it's god.
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  • Much to somebody else, but it's, you know it's god. and it's good to be aware.
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  • But it's, you know it's god. and it's good to be aware. i pray for that.
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  • And it's good to be aware. i pray for that. i think awareness is a gift.
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  • I pray for that. i think awareness is a gift. pray for that awareness.
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  • I think awareness is a gift. pray for that awareness. "god, i want to be aware of--
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  • Pray for that awareness. "god, i want to be aware of-- if there's people around
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  • "god, i want to be aware of-- if there's people around me that are hurting,
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  • If there's people around me that are hurting, that i can help,
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  • Me that are hurting, that i can help, i wanna be aware of that."
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  • That i can help, i wanna be aware of that." or "if you're doing something
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  • I wanna be aware of that." or "if you're doing something wonderful in my life
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  • Or "if you're doing something wonderful in my life and i'm missing it,
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  • Wonderful in my life and i'm missing it, i wanna be aware
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  • And i'm missing it, i wanna be aware of what you're doing."
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  • I wanna be aware of what you're doing." and we get so busy
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  • Of what you're doing." and we get so busy and move so fast that a lot
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  • And we get so busy and move so fast that a lot of times we're just not aware
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  • And move so fast that a lot of times we're just not aware of what's going on around us.
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  • And so, change comes,
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  • And so, change comes, and many times we fear
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  • And so, change comes, and many times we fear it because we wanna
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  • And many times we fear it because we wanna be in control,
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  • It because we wanna be in control, but we need to confront things,
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  • Be in control, but we need to confront things, not run from them,
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  • But we need to confront things, not run from them, and be afraid of them.
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  • Not run from them, and be afraid of them. most people would say
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  • And be afraid of them. most people would say something needs to change.
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  • Most people would say something needs to change. and i just finished a book.
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  • Something needs to change. and i just finished a book. i mean, i'm constantly saying
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  • And i just finished a book. i mean, i'm constantly saying "i'm finishing a book,"
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  • I mean, i'm constantly saying "i'm finishing a book," but that's the truth, i am.
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  • "i'm finishing a book," but that's the truth, i am. it's called "something needs
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  • But that's the truth, i am. it's called "something needs to change in my life."
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  • It's called "something needs to change in my life." and pretty much we can
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  • To change in my life." and pretty much we can all say that at some time.
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  • And pretty much we can all say that at some time. and a lot of times we don't
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  • All say that at some time. and a lot of times we don't even know what it is that
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  • And a lot of times we don't even know what it is that needs to change.
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  • Even know what it is that needs to change. we just have that feeling,
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  • Needs to change. we just have that feeling, something needs
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  • We just have that feeling, something needs to change in my life.
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  • We feel a dissatisfaction.
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  • We feel a dissatisfaction. i always say,
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  • We feel a dissatisfaction. i always say, "the brook dried up."
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  • I always say, "the brook dried up." you know, elijah was fed during
  • 00:13:12.704 --> 00:13:14.806
  • "the brook dried up." you know, elijah was fed during the famine by the brook
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  • You know, elijah was fed during the famine by the brook called cherith.
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  • The famine by the brook called cherith. and so, he had water from that
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  • Called cherith. and so, he had water from that brook and ravens brought
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  • And so, he had water from that brook and ravens brought him food morning and night.
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  • Brook and ravens brought him food morning and night. but then, the bible says
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  • Him food morning and night. but then, the bible says an interesting thing,
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  • But then, the bible says an interesting thing, the brook dried up.
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  • An interesting thing, the brook dried up. and sometimes,
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  • The brook dried up. and sometimes, our brook dries up.
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  • And sometimes, our brook dries up. you know, god's doing
  • 00:13:36.961 --> 00:13:39.464
  • Our brook dries up. you know, god's doing this thing in our life,
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  • You know, god's doing this thing in our life, and it satisfies us,
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  • This thing in our life, and it satisfies us, and everything is good,
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  • And it satisfies us, and everything is good, and then all of a sudden
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  • And everything is good, and then all of a sudden that brook dries up.
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  • And then all of a sudden that brook dries up. and the next place that
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  • That brook dries up. and the next place that god sent elijah wasn't
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  • And the next place that god sent elijah wasn't much of a promotion.
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  • God sent elijah wasn't much of a promotion. god sent him to a poor,
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  • Much of a promotion. god sent him to a poor, depressed, poverty-stricken,
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  • God sent him to a poor, depressed, poverty-stricken, suicidal widow.
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  • Depressed, poverty-stricken, suicidal widow. you say, "huh?"
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  • Suicidal widow. you say, "huh?" yeah, he said,
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  • You say, "huh?" yeah, he said, "i'm going to send you
  • 00:14:10.929 --> 00:14:11.596
  • Yeah, he said, "i'm going to send you to this widow and she's
  • 00:14:11.663 --> 00:14:12.330
  • "i'm going to send you to this widow and she's gonna--she'll feed you.
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  • To this widow and she's gonna--she'll feed you. well, when he got there,
  • 00:14:15.099 --> 00:14:15.800
  • Gonna--she'll feed you. well, when he got there, he said, "give me a cup
  • 00:14:15.867 --> 00:14:18.036
  • Well, when he got there, he said, "give me a cup of water and make me a cake."
  • 00:14:18.102 --> 00:14:21.606
  • He said, "give me a cup of water and make me a cake." and she said,
  • 00:14:21.673 --> 00:14:24.909
  • Of water and make me a cake." and she said, "well, we only have enough
  • 00:14:24.976 --> 00:14:25.944
  • And she said, "well, we only have enough food--enough oil and meal
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  • "well, we only have enough food--enough oil and meal in the jar for me and my son
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  • Food--enough oil and meal in the jar for me and my son to have one meal,
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  • In the jar for me and my son to have one meal, and then we're gonna die."
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  • "well, god, this is a nice
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  • "well, god, this is a nice place to send me.
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  • "well, god, this is a nice place to send me. >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:14:39.624 --> 00:14:43.594
  • Place to send me. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i taught a home
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i taught a home bible study for five years,
  • 00:14:45.029 --> 00:14:45.830
  • >> joyce: i taught a home bible study for five years, and then i felt god say,
  • 00:14:45.897 --> 00:14:48.066
  • Bible study for five years, and then i felt god say, "i want you to lay this
  • 00:14:48.132 --> 00:14:48.933
  • And then i felt god say, "i want you to lay this down now.
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  • "i want you to lay this down now. behold, i do a new thing."
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  • Down now. behold, i do a new thing." >> [audience laughing]
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  • Behold, i do a new thing." >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: you ever heard that?
  • 00:14:53.237 --> 00:14:54.172
  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: you ever heard that? "behold, i do a new thing."
  • 00:14:54.238 --> 00:14:55.673
  • >> joyce: you ever heard that? "behold, i do a new thing." well, the next thing was,
  • 00:14:55.740 --> 00:14:57.742
  • "behold, i do a new thing." well, the next thing was, for a year, i did nothing.
  • 00:14:57.809 --> 00:15:00.111
  • Well, the next thing was, for a year, i did nothing. god just kinda politely
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  • For a year, i did nothing. god just kinda politely set me up on a shelf.
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  • God just kinda politely set me up on a shelf. and it was a big testing year
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  • Set me up on a shelf. and it was a big testing year for me because i had this big
  • 00:15:05.783 --> 00:15:08.319
  • And it was a big testing year for me because i had this big vision of teaching the word
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  • For me because i had this big vision of teaching the word all over the world.
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  • Vision of teaching the word all over the world. and here i went from teaching
  • 00:15:11.456 --> 00:15:13.057
  • All over the world. and here i went from teaching that little 25-person bible
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  • And here i went from teaching that little 25-person bible study to doing nothing.
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  • That little 25-person bible study to doing nothing. but really, god was using
  • 00:15:18.563 --> 00:15:21.766
  • Study to doing nothing. but really, god was using that year to prepare
  • 00:15:21.833 --> 00:15:23.434
  • But really, god was using that year to prepare me for the next thing,
  • 00:15:23.501 --> 00:15:25.703
  • That year to prepare me for the next thing, and i wasn't doing anything,
  • 00:15:25.770 --> 00:15:27.538
  • Me for the next thing, and i wasn't doing anything, but he was doing a lot in me.
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  • >> [audience applauding]
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and actually,
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and actually, the main thing that god did that
  • 00:15:37.081 --> 00:15:39.050
  • >> joyce: and actually, the main thing that god did that year was he taught me through
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  • The main thing that god did that year was he taught me through some different things that
  • 00:15:42.720 --> 00:15:47.191
  • Year was he taught me through some different things that i couldn't be like anybody else.
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  • Some different things that i couldn't be like anybody else. i had to be me.
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  • I couldn't be like anybody else. i had to be me. the devil, and through some
  • 00:15:52.930 --> 00:15:55.099
  • I had to be me. the devil, and through some different people was kinda
  • 00:15:55.166 --> 00:15:58.369
  • The devil, and through some different people was kinda getting me convinced that
  • 00:15:58.436 --> 00:15:59.537
  • Different people was kinda getting me convinced that i needed to be a regular,
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  • Getting me convinced that i needed to be a regular, normal woman.
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  • I needed to be a regular, normal woman. because, you know,
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  • Normal woman. because, you know, back when i first started
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  • Because, you know, back when i first started teaching, that was, i mean,
  • 00:16:07.211 --> 00:16:10.248
  • Back when i first started teaching, that was, i mean, you didn't do that.
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  • Teaching, that was, i mean, you didn't do that. you know, women didn't do that.
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  • You didn't do that. you know, women didn't do that. there was very few women,
  • 00:16:12.583 --> 00:16:14.886
  • You know, women didn't do that. there was very few women, maybe a handful in the world
  • 00:16:14.952 --> 00:16:16.487
  • There was very few women, maybe a handful in the world that were doing that,
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  • Maybe a handful in the world that were doing that, and certainly nobody
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  • That were doing that, and certainly nobody in my circle was doing it.
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  • And certainly nobody in my circle was doing it. and i thought when
  • 00:16:20.892 --> 00:16:22.126
  • In my circle was doing it. and i thought when god called me,
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  • And i thought when god called me, everybody'd be excited
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  • God called me, everybody'd be excited for me because i was excited,
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  • Everybody'd be excited for me because i was excited, but they weren't excited.
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  • For me because i was excited, but they weren't excited. i got asked to leave my church.
  • 00:16:27.865 --> 00:16:31.769
  • But they weren't excited. i got asked to leave my church. most of my friends turned
  • 00:16:31.836 --> 00:16:32.937
  • I got asked to leave my church. most of my friends turned their back on me,
  • 00:16:33.004 --> 00:16:33.638
  • Most of my friends turned their back on me, a lot of family members.
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  • Their back on me, a lot of family members. and it was a very lonely,
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  • A lot of family members. and it was a very lonely, hard time for me where
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  • And it was a very lonely, hard time for me where everything in my life was
  • 00:16:41.412 --> 00:16:42.747
  • Hard time for me where everything in my life was changing and felt like it had
  • 00:16:42.814 --> 00:16:44.348
  • Everything in my life was changing and felt like it had turned upside down.
  • 00:16:44.415 --> 00:16:46.184
  • Changing and felt like it had turned upside down. and you know,
  • 00:16:46.250 --> 00:16:47.618
  • Turned upside down. and you know, when god calls you
  • 00:16:47.685 --> 00:16:48.820
  • And you know, when god calls you to do something,
  • 00:16:48.886 --> 00:16:49.487
  • When god calls you to do something, it doesn't always feel good.
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  • To do something, it doesn't always feel good. and the devil is always where
  • 00:16:52.123 --> 00:16:56.427
  • It doesn't always feel good. and the devil is always where something good is happening.
  • 00:16:56.494 --> 00:16:59.630
  • And the devil is always where something good is happening. and he'll try to make that
  • 00:16:59.697 --> 00:17:00.698
  • Something good is happening. and he'll try to make that good thing feel bad.
  • 00:17:00.765 --> 00:17:03.434
  • And he'll try to make that good thing feel bad. have you ever noticed
  • 00:17:03.501 --> 00:17:04.402
  • Good thing feel bad. have you ever noticed that when you're trying
  • 00:17:04.469 --> 00:17:05.169
  • Have you ever noticed that when you're trying to do something good,
  • 00:17:05.236 --> 00:17:08.172
  • That when you're trying to do something good, you get every kind
  • 00:17:08.239 --> 00:17:08.973
  • To do something good, you get every kind of opposition you can get?
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  • So, i tried to be normal,
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  • So, i tried to be normal, whatever that is.
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  • So, i tried to be normal, whatever that is. and i had--
  • 00:17:18.216 --> 00:17:23.921
  • Whatever that is. and i had-- i tried to be like
  • 00:17:23.988 --> 00:17:25.056
  • And i had-- i tried to be like my pastor's wife.
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  • I tried to be like my pastor's wife. she was real sweet and kind and,
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  • My pastor's wife. she was real sweet and kind and, you know, patient and very
  • 00:17:29.193 --> 00:17:29.927
  • She was real sweet and kind and, you know, patient and very submissive to her husband
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  • You know, patient and very submissive to her husband and it just, whew...
  • 00:17:33.731 --> 00:17:37.034
  • Submissive to her husband and it just, whew... >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:17:37.101 --> 00:17:43.774
  • >> joyce: if that was normal,
  • 00:17:43.841 --> 00:17:44.842
  • >> joyce: if that was normal, it just wasn't working for me.
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  • >> joyce: if that was normal, it just wasn't working for me. >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:17:46.511 --> 00:17:48.346
  • It just wasn't working for me. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and then,
  • 00:17:48.412 --> 00:17:51.115
  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and then, my neighbor next door,
  • 00:17:51.182 --> 00:17:52.550
  • >> joyce: and then, my neighbor next door, she was miss arts and crafts
  • 00:17:52.617 --> 00:17:54.485
  • My neighbor next door, she was miss arts and crafts and had a garden and made
  • 00:17:54.552 --> 00:17:56.621
  • She was miss arts and crafts and had a garden and made her family's clothes.
  • 00:17:56.687 --> 00:17:57.688
  • And had a garden and made her family's clothes. and so,
  • 00:17:57.755 --> 00:17:58.656
  • Her family's clothes. and so, i tried gardening and i tried
  • 00:17:58.723 --> 00:18:00.291
  • And so, i tried gardening and i tried sewing and i hated it all.
  • 00:18:00.358 --> 00:18:02.093
  • I tried gardening and i tried sewing and i hated it all. and you know, it was just--
  • 00:18:02.160 --> 00:18:04.462
  • Sewing and i hated it all. and you know, it was just-- so, god took that year
  • 00:18:04.529 --> 00:18:06.764
  • And you know, it was just-- so, god took that year and he taught me that
  • 00:18:06.831 --> 00:18:08.065
  • So, god took that year and he taught me that i had to be me.
  • 00:18:08.132 --> 00:18:09.867
  • And he taught me that i had to be me. and to be honest,
  • 00:18:09.934 --> 00:18:10.801
  • I had to be me. and to be honest, i think that's one
  • 00:18:10.868 --> 00:18:11.802
  • And to be honest, i think that's one of the reasons why our
  • 00:18:11.869 --> 00:18:13.604
  • I think that's one of the reasons why our ministry has been successful.
  • 00:18:13.671 --> 00:18:15.173
  • Of the reasons why our ministry has been successful. if you wanna know the truth,
  • 00:18:15.239 --> 00:18:18.276
  • Ministry has been successful. if you wanna know the truth, and i hope this doesn't
  • 00:18:18.342 --> 00:18:19.544
  • If you wanna know the truth, and i hope this doesn't sound wrong,
  • 00:18:19.610 --> 00:18:20.211
  • And i hope this doesn't sound wrong, but i pretty much just
  • 00:18:20.278 --> 00:18:24.282
  • Sound wrong, but i pretty much just stay away from this camp
  • 00:18:24.348 --> 00:18:25.816
  • But i pretty much just stay away from this camp and that camp and this camp,
  • 00:18:25.883 --> 00:18:27.118
  • Stay away from this camp and that camp and this camp, and i just kinda hang out with
  • 00:18:27.185 --> 00:18:28.286
  • And that camp and this camp, and i just kinda hang out with god and try to do what i feel
  • 00:18:28.352 --> 00:18:31.622
  • And i just kinda hang out with god and try to do what i feel like he's telling me to do.
  • 00:18:31.689 --> 00:18:32.690
  • God and try to do what i feel like he's telling me to do. >> [audience applauding]
  • 00:18:32.757 --> 00:18:35.560
  • >> joyce: it's kind of dangerous
  • 00:18:38.229 --> 00:18:39.630
  • >> joyce: it's kind of dangerous to get too influenced by what
  • 00:18:39.697 --> 00:18:42.833
  • >> joyce: it's kind of dangerous to get too influenced by what somebody else is doing because
  • 00:18:42.900 --> 00:18:44.402
  • To get too influenced by what somebody else is doing because what somebody else is doing may
  • 00:18:44.468 --> 00:18:46.137
  • Somebody else is doing because what somebody else is doing may not be and probably is not
  • 00:18:46.204 --> 00:18:47.872
  • What somebody else is doing may not be and probably is not what god wants you to do.
  • 00:18:47.939 --> 00:18:51.542
  • Not be and probably is not what god wants you to do. god has an individual plan
  • 00:18:51.609 --> 00:18:54.712
  • What god wants you to do. god has an individual plan for each one of us.
  • 00:18:54.779 --> 00:18:56.948
  • God has an individual plan for each one of us. and, especially, young people
  • 00:18:57.014 --> 00:18:58.115
  • For each one of us. and, especially, young people starting out in ministry,
  • 00:18:58.182 --> 00:19:00.751
  • And, especially, young people starting out in ministry, it seems like--i mean,
  • 00:19:00.818 --> 00:19:01.953
  • Starting out in ministry, it seems like--i mean, i know, i did.
  • 00:19:02.019 --> 00:19:02.687
  • It seems like--i mean, i know, i did. i kept trying to get
  • 00:19:02.753 --> 00:19:03.621
  • I know, i did. i kept trying to get appointments with all these
  • 00:19:03.688 --> 00:19:04.722
  • I kept trying to get appointments with all these different people that were
  • 00:19:04.789 --> 00:19:06.057
  • Appointments with all these different people that were already doing something
  • 00:19:06.123 --> 00:19:08.326
  • Different people that were already doing something so i could get advice from them.
  • 00:19:08.392 --> 00:19:10.027
  • Already doing something so i could get advice from them. and honestly,
  • 00:19:10.094 --> 00:19:11.162
  • So i could get advice from them. and honestly, i didn't understand,
  • 00:19:11.229 --> 00:19:12.630
  • And honestly, i didn't understand, but every time i would--
  • 00:19:12.697 --> 00:19:14.699
  • I didn't understand, but every time i would-- it just didn't work out.
  • 00:19:14.765 --> 00:19:16.901
  • But every time i would-- it just didn't work out. i either couldn't get
  • 00:19:16.968 --> 00:19:17.702
  • It just didn't work out. i either couldn't get an appointment or if i got one,
  • 00:19:17.768 --> 00:19:18.903
  • I either couldn't get an appointment or if i got one, it would be canceled
  • 00:19:18.970 --> 00:19:19.904
  • An appointment or if i got one, it would be canceled at the last minute
  • 00:19:19.971 --> 00:19:21.005
  • It would be canceled at the last minute and i thought, "well, god,
  • 00:19:21.072 --> 00:19:22.273
  • At the last minute and i thought, "well, god, why don't--?"
  • 00:19:22.340 --> 00:19:22.907
  • And i thought, "well, god, why don't--?" you know.
  • 00:19:22.974 --> 00:19:24.875
  • Why don't--?" you know. well, finally--of course,
  • 00:19:24.942 --> 00:19:25.543
  • You know. well, finally--of course, this was down the road
  • 00:19:25.610 --> 00:19:26.544
  • Well, finally--of course, this was down the road a ways when dave
  • 00:19:26.611 --> 00:19:27.511
  • This was down the road a ways when dave and i were gonna go on tv.
  • 00:19:27.578 --> 00:19:29.247
  • A ways when dave and i were gonna go on tv. we happened to be speaking
  • 00:19:29.313 --> 00:19:32.850
  • And i were gonna go on tv. we happened to be speaking at a place where another
  • 00:19:32.917 --> 00:19:34.518
  • We happened to be speaking at a place where another man was speaking who
  • 00:19:34.585 --> 00:19:36.220
  • At a place where another man was speaking who had a tv ministry.
  • 00:19:36.287 --> 00:19:38.122
  • Man was speaking who had a tv ministry. so, i thought,
  • 00:19:38.189 --> 00:19:38.990
  • Had a tv ministry. so, i thought, well, i'm gonna get some time
  • 00:19:39.056 --> 00:19:41.025
  • So, i thought, well, i'm gonna get some time with him and find out about tv.
  • 00:19:41.092 --> 00:19:43.327
  • Well, i'm gonna get some time with him and find out about tv. and so, i said to him,
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  • With him and find out about tv. and so, i said to him, "you know, we're getting
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  • And so, i said to him, "you know, we're getting ready to go on television.
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  • "you know, we're getting ready to go on television. do you have any
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  • Ready to go on television. do you have any recommendations?"
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  • Do you have any recommendations?" and he said, "yeah,
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  • Recommendations?" and he said, "yeah, don't do it."
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  • And he said, "yeah, don't do it." >> [audience laughing]
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  • Don't do it." >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i thought,
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i thought, "well, that wasn't really
  • 00:19:52.470 --> 00:19:53.204
  • >> joyce: i thought, "well, that wasn't really what i wanted to hear."
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  • "well, that wasn't really what i wanted to hear." [chuckles]
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  • What i wanted to hear." [chuckles] how many of you understand
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  • [chuckles] how many of you understand what i'm saying?
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  • How many of you understand what i'm saying? you just, you know,
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  • What i'm saying? you just, you know, you gotta hear from god about
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  • You just, you know, you gotta hear from god about what you're supposed to do.
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  • You gotta hear from god about what you're supposed to do. all your friends can be going
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  • What you're supposed to do. all your friends can be going to wednesday morning prayer
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  • All your friends can be going to wednesday morning prayer at the church and that don't
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  • To wednesday morning prayer at the church and that don't mean you have to go.
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  • At the church and that don't mean you have to go. you know, you gotta
  • 00:20:14.091 --> 00:20:14.592
  • Mean you have to go. you know, you gotta do what you feel like god
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  • You know, you gotta do what you feel like god is leading you to do.
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  • Do what you feel like god is leading you to do. so, that year that i thought
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  • Is leading you to do. so, that year that i thought nothing was going on was a very
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  • So, that year that i thought nothing was going on was a very important year in my life.
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  • Nothing was going on was a very important year in my life. and maybe, right now,
  • 00:20:26.003 --> 00:20:27.204
  • Important year in my life. and maybe, right now, you just feel like god's put
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  • And maybe, right now, you just feel like god's put you on a shelf somewhere
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  • You just feel like god's put you on a shelf somewhere and you don't understand
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  • You on a shelf somewhere and you don't understand what's going on.
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  • And you don't understand what's going on. or maybe you--
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  • What's going on. or maybe you-- your brook dried up
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  • Or maybe you-- your brook dried up and you feel like you've
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  • Your brook dried up and you feel like you've got a demotion instead
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  • And you feel like you've got a demotion instead of a promotion.
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  • Got a demotion instead of a promotion. but maybe,
  • 00:20:41.152 --> 00:20:41.752
  • Of a promotion. but maybe, that demotion is gonna lead you
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  • But maybe, that demotion is gonna lead you to a greater promotion than
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  • That demotion is gonna lead you to a greater promotion than what you could ever imagine.
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  • To a greater promotion than what you could ever imagine. >> [audience applauding]
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  • What you could ever imagine. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: sometimes
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: sometimes you gotta just sit still
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  • >> joyce: sometimes you gotta just sit still and wait those things out.
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  • You gotta just sit still and wait those things out. what do we do when we realize
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  • And wait those things out. what do we do when we realize that things are not as they
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  • What do we do when we realize that things are not as they should be that something
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  • That things are not as they should be that something needs to change?
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  • Should be that something needs to change? well, some people get angry,
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  • Needs to change? well, some people get angry, some blame somebody else,
  • 00:21:10.715 --> 00:21:12.183
  • Well, some people get angry, some blame somebody else, some get depressed,
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  • Some blame somebody else, some get depressed, some sink into self-pity,
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  • Some get depressed, some sink into self-pity, and a few take responsibility
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  • Some sink into self-pity, and a few take responsibility to do something about it.
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  • And a few take responsibility to do something about it. if you want change,
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  • To do something about it. if you want change, sometimes you need to change--
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  • If you want change, sometimes you need to change-- you need to be the change
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  • Sometimes you need to change-- you need to be the change that you wanna see.
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  • You need to be the change that you wanna see. >> [audience applauding]
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  • That you wanna see. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: amen?
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: amen? if you don't like the way
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  • >> joyce: amen? if you don't like the way things are going in your life,
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  • If you don't like the way things are going in your life, then maybe you need to make
  • 00:21:40.244 --> 00:21:41.178
  • Things are going in your life, then maybe you need to make a decision to change.
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  • >> announcer: when faced
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  • >> announcer: when faced with life's inevitable
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  • With life's inevitable ups and downs,
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  • Ups and downs, having the resiliency
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  • Having the resiliency to stand up
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  • To stand up to new challenges
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  • To new challenges and meet them
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  • And meet them head on is imperative.
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  • Head on is imperative. we can't keep changes
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  • We can't keep changes from coming.
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  • From coming. but we can manage our
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  • But we can manage our reaction to it
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  • Reaction to it and even come
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  • And even come to welcome it
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  • To welcome it into our lives.
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  • >> joyce: you know,
  • 00:22:02.366 --> 00:22:03.033
  • >> joyce: you know, life is full of changes.
  • 00:22:03.100 --> 00:22:04.735
  • Life is full of changes. and sometimes,
  • 00:22:04.802 --> 00:22:05.436
  • And sometimes, it can feel like
  • 00:22:05.503 --> 00:22:06.137
  • It can feel like everything around
  • 00:22:06.203 --> 00:22:07.004
  • Everything around us is shaking:
  • 00:22:07.071 --> 00:22:08.272
  • Us is shaking: jobs are changing,
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  • Jobs are changing, relationships,
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  • Relationships, people's expectations.
  • 00:22:10.141 --> 00:22:11.509
  • People's expectations. it's easy to get overwhelmed.
  • 00:22:11.575 --> 00:22:14.378
  • It's easy to get overwhelmed. but i want to remind
  • 00:22:14.445 --> 00:22:15.179
  • But i want to remind you today,
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  • You today, while change
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  • While change is inevitable,
  • 00:22:16.647 --> 00:22:18.382
  • Is inevitable, you have the power
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  • You have the power to choose how
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  • To choose how to respond to it.
  • 00:22:20.084 --> 00:22:21.519
  • To respond to it. in my book,
  • 00:22:21.585 --> 00:22:22.153
  • In my book, "the courage
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  • "the courage to change,"
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  • To change," i'll show you
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  • I'll show you how to not only
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  • How to not only navigate life's
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  • Navigate life's transitions,
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  • Transitions, but to actually
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  • But to actually embrace them
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  • Embrace them with god's word
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  • With god's word as your foundation.
  • 00:22:30.227 --> 00:22:31.495
  • As your foundation. you can face
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  • You can face each shift with
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  • Each shift with confidence,
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  • Confidence, knowing that the same
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  • Knowing that the same god who never
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  • God who never changed is working
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  • Changed is working all things for
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  • All things for your good,
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  • Your good, even in the midst
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  • Even in the midst of difficult moments.
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  • Of difficult moments. >> announcer: be the first
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  • >> joyce: if you're
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  • >> joyce: if you're weary from all
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  • Weary from all of life's changes,
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  • Of life's changes, i want you to know
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  • I want you to know that you can find
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  • That you can find peace in the storm.
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  • Peace in the storm. in "the courage
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  • In "the courage to change"
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  • To change" i'll show you
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  • I'll show you how god's word can
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  • How god's word can help you embrace
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  • Help you embrace every challenge with
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  • Every challenge with confidence.
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  • Confidence. you don't have
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  • You don't have to live in the fear
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  • To live in the fear of change.
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  • Of change. with the strength
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  • With the strength and the wisdom
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  • And the wisdom from god,
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  • From god, you can stand
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  • You can stand firm through
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  • Firm through any storm and come
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  • Any storm and come out stronger
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  • Out stronger on the other side.
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  • On the other side. let's face
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  • Let's face life's challenges
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  • Life's challenges together with
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  • Together with faith, hope,
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  • Faith, hope, and a renewed
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  • Help us reach the lost,
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  • The lost, feed the hungry,
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  • Feed the hungry, and help women
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  • And help women and girls find
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  • And girls find freedom all
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  • Freedom all around the world.
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  • Around the world. your gift today
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  • Makes it all possible. >> announcer: discover
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  • >> announcer: discover your courage today
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  • Your courage today with joyce's book
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  • With joyce's book "the courage to change."
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  • >> joyce: boy, you know,
  • 00:24:13.597 --> 00:24:14.331
  • >> joyce: boy, you know, in today's world,
  • 00:24:14.398 --> 00:24:15.299
  • In today's world, there are many stressors,
  • 00:24:15.366 --> 00:24:17.134
  • There are many stressors, so many things to deal
  • 00:24:17.201 --> 00:24:18.335
  • So many things to deal with on a daily basis.
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  • With on a daily basis. how do we navigate
  • 00:24:20.104 --> 00:24:21.038
  • How do we navigate all of life's pressures?
  • 00:24:21.105 --> 00:24:22.773
  • All of life's pressures? well, god's word has
  • 00:24:22.840 --> 00:24:24.041
  • Well, god's word has much to say about it.
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  • Much to say about it. so, i thought we could
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  • So, i thought we could all get together with
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  • All get together with some of my friends
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  • Some of my friends and talk about it.
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  • >> announcer: join us
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  • >> announcer: join us for the enjoying
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  • For the enjoying everyday life
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  • Everyday life conference.
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  • Conference. a weekend
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  • A weekend of practical messages
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  • Of practical messages and heartfelt worship
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  • And heartfelt worship with joyce
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  • With joyce and her guests,
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  • And her guests, dr. henry cloud,
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  • Dr. henry cloud, nona jones,
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  • Nona jones, and worship with
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  • And worship with naomi raine,
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  • Naomi raine, april 10-11,
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  • April 10-11, in hershey, pennsylvania.
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  • In hershey, pennsylvania. >> joyce: you know,
  • 00:24:51.602 --> 00:24:52.336
  • >> joyce: you know, i have such a passion
  • 00:24:52.403 --> 00:24:53.170
  • I have such a passion for teaching god's word,
  • 00:24:53.237 --> 00:24:54.438
  • For teaching god's word, and it's even better when
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  • And it's even better when we all get together
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  • We all get together under one roof.
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  • Under one roof. so, i really hope
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  • So, i really hope to see you there.
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  • >> announcer:
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  • >> announcer: register today.
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  • >> ginger: this is the beginning
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  • >> ginger: this is the beginning of something new,
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  • Of something new, a new place of refuge
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  • A new place of refuge and healing in the heart
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  • And healing in the heart of the united states,
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  • Of the united states, and new beginnings
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  • And new beginnings for countless people
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  • For countless people who will come to this
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  • Who will come to this place in their
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  • Place in their time of need.
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  • Time of need. hope is on the horizon.
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  • Hope is on the horizon. >> joyce: hope mountain ranch
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  • >> joyce: hope mountain ranch began as a dream in my son,
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  • Began as a dream in my son, dan's heart.
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  • Dan's heart. >> nicol: we know that starting
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  • >> nicol: we know that starting the outreaches
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  • The outreaches here at the ranch
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  • Here at the ranch is one of those
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  • Is one of those things that god's
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  • Things that god's called us to do.
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  • Called us to do. and so, we're just
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  • And so, we're just gonna keep walking
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  • Gonna keep walking through the doors
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  • Through the doors that he opens and try to help
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  • That he opens and try to help as many people as we can.
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  • As many people as we can. >> ginger: birthed out
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  • >> ginger: birthed out of joyce's own experience
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  • Of joyce's own experience of brokenness and healing,
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  • Of brokenness and healing, hope mountain ranch
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  • Hope mountain ranch is a cooperative effort
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  • Is a cooperative effort with many ministries working
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  • With many ministries working together to provide god's word
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  • Together to provide god's word and his transforming love.
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  • And his transforming love. the dream center
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  • The dream center at hope mountain ranch
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  • At hope mountain ranch will be the first of many
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  • Will be the first of many outreach facilities
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  • Outreach facilities on this beautiful property.
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  • >> joyce: well, here we are
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  • >> joyce: well, here we are at the groundbreaking
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  • At the groundbreaking of what's going to be our
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  • Of what's going to be our first home here for at-risk
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  • First home here for at-risk women and children.
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  • We're honored to be working
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  • We're honored to be working here with the dream center.
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  • Here with the dream center. we're here with
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  • We're here with pastor tommy barnett
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  • Pastor tommy barnett and with angel barnett.
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  • We are determined to help
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  • We are determined to help people that have been hurt know
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  • People that have been hurt know that jesus is their healer.
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  • That jesus is their healer. so, we're gonna pray.
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  • So, we're gonna pray. father, we come
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  • Father, we come to you in jesus' name.
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  • And all of this ground is yours.
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  • And all of this ground is yours. and we wanna see
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  • And we wanna see thousands of women
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  • Thousands of women and children graduate
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  • And children graduate from this place to a life
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  • From this place to a life of blessing and purpose.
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  • Of blessing and purpose. and so, we pray that you'd
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  • And so, we pray that you'd give us favor and that you'd
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  • Give us favor and that you'd bring alongside the people that
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  • Bring alongside the people that you want to help us with this,
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  • You want to help us with this, that the project
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  • That the project would go really well.
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  • Would go really well. and we thank you for letting
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  • And we thank you for letting us have this opportunity
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  • Us have this opportunity to minister to women and girls,
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  • To minister to women and girls, and all the other things
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  • And all the other things that you wanna do, lord,
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  • That you wanna do, lord, to bring healing to people,
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  • To bring healing to people, in jesus' name.
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  • In jesus' name. >> angel: whoo!
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  • >> angel: whoo! >> [clapping]
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  • >> [♪♪]
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  • >> announcer: we hope you
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  • >> announcer: we hope you enjoyed today's program.
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  • Enjoyed today's program. we are so grateful
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  • We are so grateful to our joyce meyer
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  • To our joyce meyer ministries partners
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  • Ministries partners who make this
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  • Who make this and all we do possible,
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  • And all we do possible, including sharing
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  • Including sharing god's word
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  • God's word and offering help
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  • And offering help to people in need
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  • To people in need all over the world.
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