Joyce Meyer - Stop Being Mad at Yourself

October 5, 2025 | 29:29

Are you at war with yourself? Today, Joyce shares on the importance of accepting who you are in Christ, and trusting God's love for true transformation.

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Joyce Meyer: Enjoying Everyday Life | Joyce Meyer - Stop Being Mad at Yourself | October 5, 2025
  • >> joyce: time to stop
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  • >> joyce: time to stop being mad at yourself.
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  • >> joyce: time to stop being mad at yourself. you understand me?
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  • Being mad at yourself. you understand me? we have a lot of prisoners
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  • You understand me? we have a lot of prisoners that watch our program.
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  • We have a lot of prisoners that watch our program. it's time for you to stop being
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  • That watch our program. it's time for you to stop being mad at yourself for what
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  • It's time for you to stop being mad at yourself for what you did that got you into
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  • Mad at yourself for what you did that got you into the situation where you're at.
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  • >> joyce: i do what
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  • >> joyce: i do what i do because i've seen god's
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  • >> joyce: i do what i do because i've seen god's power transform my own life,
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  • I do because i've seen god's power transform my own life, and he will do it for you.
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  • Power transform my own life, and he will do it for you. the key to everything
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  • And he will do it for you. the key to everything is found in god's word.
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  • The key to everything is found in god's word. i'm joyce meyer,
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  • Is found in god's word. i'm joyce meyer, and i believe that god can heal
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  • I'm joyce meyer, and i believe that god can heal you everywhere you hurt.
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  • >> joyce: now, i had a real
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  • >> joyce: now, i had a real problem with guilt.
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  • >> joyce: now, i had a real problem with guilt. i mean, i was addicted to guilt,
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  • Problem with guilt. i mean, i was addicted to guilt, because i started feeling guilty
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  • I mean, i was addicted to guilt, because i started feeling guilty in my childhood from the abuse.
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  • Because i started feeling guilty in my childhood from the abuse. the devil had me convinced
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  • In my childhood from the abuse. the devil had me convinced something was wrong with
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  • The devil had me convinced something was wrong with me or my father wouldn't
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  • Something was wrong with me or my father wouldn't want to do that to me.
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  • Me or my father wouldn't want to do that to me. and then i knew because it all
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  • Want to do that to me. and then i knew because it all had to be a secret that it must
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  • And then i knew because it all had to be a secret that it must be some terrible thing.
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  • Had to be a secret that it must be some terrible thing. and i started feeling
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  • Be some terrible thing. and i started feeling guilty then, and then i just
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  • And i started feeling guilty then, and then i just carried that on into my life
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  • Guilty then, and then i just carried that on into my life and into my walk with god.
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  • Carried that on into my life and into my walk with god. and i honestly felt guilty
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  • And into my walk with god. and i honestly felt guilty about something all the time.
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  • And i honestly felt guilty about something all the time. matter of fact, i had such
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  • About something all the time. matter of fact, i had such a bad case that i didn't feel
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  • Matter of fact, i had such a bad case that i didn't feel right if i didn't feel wrong.
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  • And you cannot enjoy your life
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  • And you cannot enjoy your life or your relationship with god
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  • And you cannot enjoy your life or your relationship with god or yourself or anybody else
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  • Or your relationship with god or yourself or anybody else if you're gonna carry around
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  • Or yourself or anybody else if you're gonna carry around that sack of guilt all the time.
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  • If you're gonna carry around that sack of guilt all the time. "there is therefore
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  • That sack of guilt all the time. "there is therefore no condemnation to those
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  • "there is therefore no condemnation to those who are in christ jesus."
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  • No condemnation to those who are in christ jesus." >> [audience applauding]
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  • Who are in christ jesus." >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and that is pertaining
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and that is pertaining to sin because paul was talking
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  • >> joyce: and that is pertaining to sin because paul was talking about in romans 7, the thing
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  • To sin because paul was talking about in romans 7, the thing i wanna do, i can't do,
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  • About in romans 7, the thing i wanna do, i can't do, and the thing i don't wanna do,
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  • I wanna do, i can't do, and the thing i don't wanna do, i'm always doing.
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  • And the thing i don't wanna do, i'm always doing. what is my problem?
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  • I'm always doing. what is my problem? then he ends up that
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  • What is my problem? then he ends up that chapter by saying,
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  • Then he ends up that chapter by saying, "o wretched man that i am!
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  • Chapter by saying, "o wretched man that i am! who will deliver me from
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  • "o wretched man that i am! who will deliver me from this body of death?"
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  • Who will deliver me from this body of death?" oh!
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  • This body of death?" oh! he will!
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  • Oh! he will! thank god.
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  • He will! thank god. "there is therefore now
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  • Thank god. "there is therefore now no condemnation to those
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  • "there is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in christ jesus."
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  • No condemnation to those who are in christ jesus." you see, god sees your heart,
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  • Who are in christ jesus." you see, god sees your heart, and if you want to be set free
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  • From something, i mean, you
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  • From something, i mean, you really want to do the right
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  • From something, i mean, you really want to do the right thing, god sees that
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  • Really want to do the right thing, god sees that and he looks at that
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  • Thing, god sees that and he looks at that and he'll help you change.
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  • And he looks at that and he'll help you change. how many of you have tried
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  • And he'll help you change. how many of you have tried to change yourself?
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  • How many of you have tried to change yourself? has it worked for anybody?
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  • To change yourself? has it worked for anybody? sometimes i would try to change
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  • Has it worked for anybody? sometimes i would try to change myself in some area, and i'd end
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  • Sometimes i would try to change myself in some area, and i'd end up acting worse than i did
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  • Myself in some area, and i'd end up acting worse than i did before i tried to change.
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  • Up acting worse than i did before i tried to change. i don't even know how to express
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  • Before i tried to change. i don't even know how to express to you how wonderful it was
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  • I don't even know how to express to you how wonderful it was when i finally got this thing
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  • To you how wonderful it was when i finally got this thing about guilt, that i did not
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  • When i finally got this thing about guilt, that i did not have to feel guilty.
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  • About guilt, that i did not have to feel guilty. once i had repented,
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  • Have to feel guilty. once i had repented, i could walk away from it.
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  • Once i had repented, i could walk away from it. i didn't have to feel bad
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  • I could walk away from it. i didn't have to feel bad for half a day, or a quarter
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  • I didn't have to feel bad for half a day, or a quarter of a day, and it just
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  • For half a day, or a quarter of a day, and it just didn't feel right.
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  • Of a day, and it just didn't feel right. i mean, it felt like if i did
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  • Didn't feel right. i mean, it felt like if i did something wrong, surely
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  • I mean, it felt like if i did something wrong, surely i needed to feel bad
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  • Something wrong, surely i needed to feel bad for a while.
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  • I needed to feel bad for a while. not anymore!
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  • For a while. not anymore! i mean, i could walk
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  • Not anymore! i mean, i could walk right off from it.
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  • I mean, i could walk right off from it. either jesus did a good job,
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  • Right off from it. either jesus did a good job, or he didn't and he needs
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  • Either jesus did a good job, or he didn't and he needs my help.
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  • Or he didn't and he needs my help. and we know he doesn't
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  • My help. and we know he doesn't need our help.
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  • And we know he doesn't need our help. and he doesn't
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  • Need our help. and he doesn't do anything halfway.
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  • And he doesn't do anything halfway. if he did it,
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  • Do anything halfway. if he did it, he did it all the way.
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  • Philippians 3:12-15, “not that
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  • Philippians 3:12-15, “not that i have already obtained
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  • Philippians 3:12-15, “not that i have already obtained all this,” and he's talking
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  • I have already obtained all this,” and he's talking about reaching the place
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  • All this,” and he's talking about reaching the place of perfection.
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  • About reaching the place of perfection. “not that i have already
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  • Of perfection. “not that i have already obtained all this, or have
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  • “not that i have already obtained all this, or have already arrived at my goal,
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  • Obtained all this, or have already arrived at my goal, but i press on..."
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  • Already arrived at my goal, but i press on..." you know, part of what
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  • But i press on..." you know, part of what that means is i just
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  • You know, part of what that means is i just refuse to give up.
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  • That means is i just refuse to give up. i just am not going to give up.
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  • Refuse to give up. i just am not going to give up. i wish things came faster
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  • I just am not going to give up. i wish things came faster sometimes, but if they don't,
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  • I wish things came faster sometimes, but if they don't, i'm just not going to give up.
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  • Sometimes, but if they don't, i'm just not going to give up. “the righteous man falls down
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  • I'm just not going to give up. “the righteous man falls down seven times and gets up again.”
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  • “the righteous man falls down seven times and gets up again.” gets up again, gets up again.
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  • I read the other day that
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  • I read the other day that a toddler, when they're
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  • I read the other day that a toddler, when they're learning how to walk,
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  • A toddler, when they're learning how to walk, falls down a hundred times
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  • Learning how to walk, falls down a hundred times every so many hours.
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  • Falls down a hundred times every so many hours. and they just get back up.
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  • Every so many hours. and they just get back up. i was watching my great-
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  • And they just get back up. i was watching my great- grandson the other day,
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  • I was watching my great- grandson the other day, and he's learned how to walk
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  • Grandson the other day, and he's learned how to walk in the last few months.
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  • And he's learned how to walk in the last few months. and he fell i don't know how
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  • In the last few months. and he fell i don't know how many times, and he'd just get
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  • And he fell i don't know how many times, and he'd just get back up and keep on going.
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  • Many times, and he'd just get back up and keep on going. when they first fall, they cry.
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  • Back up and keep on going. when they first fall, they cry. but then after a while, they
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  • When they first fall, they cry. but then after a while, they don't even cry when they fall.
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  • But then after a while, they don't even cry when they fall. they just get back up
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  • Don't even cry when they fall. they just get back up and keep going.
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  • They just get back up and keep going. and it's kind of the same
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  • And keep going. and it's kind of the same way we are.
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  • And it's kind of the same way we are. they don't give up.
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  • Way we are. they don't give up. i've got a sign in my house,
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  • They don't give up. i've got a sign in my house, “never, never, never,
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  • I've got a sign in my house, “never, never, never, never, never give up.”
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  • “never, never, never, never, never give up.” i'll tell you what, if you
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  • Never, never give up.” i'll tell you what, if you won't give up, there's not
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  • I'll tell you what, if you won't give up, there's not anything the devil can do.
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  • Won't give up, there's not anything the devil can do. >> [audience applauding]
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  • >> joyce: "not that i've already
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  • >> joyce: "not that i've already obtained all this, or have
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  • >> joyce: "not that i've already obtained all this, or have already arrived at my goal,
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  • Obtained all this, or have already arrived at my goal, but i press on to take hold
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  • Already arrived at my goal, but i press on to take hold of that for which christ
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  • But i press on to take hold of that for which christ jesus took hold of me.”
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  • Of that for which christ jesus took hold of me.” and he took hold of us so we
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  • Jesus took hold of me.” and he took hold of us so we could be completely restored
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  • And he took hold of us so we could be completely restored and redeemed and have a life
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  • Could be completely restored and redeemed and have a life of righteousness, peace,
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  • And redeemed and have a life of righteousness, peace, and joy in the holy ghost
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  • Of righteousness, peace, and joy in the holy ghost and have purpose.
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  • And joy in the holy ghost and have purpose. we were talking during
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  • And have purpose. we were talking during the break, and they said
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  • We were talking during the break, and they said the three top things that
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  • The break, and they said the three top things that we get prayer requests
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  • The three top things that we get prayer requests for in the office are:
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  • We get prayer requests for in the office are: #1 healing,
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  • For in the office are: #1 healing, #2 marriage,
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  • #1 healing, #2 marriage, and #3 people wanting
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  • #2 marriage, and #3 people wanting to know their purpose.
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  • And #3 people wanting to know their purpose. i found that very interesting.
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  • To know their purpose. i found that very interesting. dick van dyke in his 90s said,
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  • “if you want to be happy,
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  • “if you want to be happy, there's two things
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  • “if you want to be happy, there's two things you have to have.
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  • There's two things you have to have. you have to have somebody
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  • You have to have. you have to have somebody to love, and you have
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  • You have to have somebody to love, and you have to have a purpose.”
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  • To love, and you have to have a purpose.” think about that.
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  • To have a purpose.” think about that. you have to have--didn't even
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  • Think about that. you have to have--didn't even say somebody to love you.
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  • You have to have--didn't even say somebody to love you. you have to have somebody
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  • Say somebody to love you. you have to have somebody to love, and you have
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  • You have to have somebody to love, and you have to have a purpose.
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  • To love, and you have to have a purpose. we all need a purpose.
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  • To have a purpose. we all need a purpose. what's the point in even
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  • We all need a purpose. what's the point in even getting out of bed if you
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  • What's the point in even getting out of bed if you don't have a purpose?
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  • Getting out of bed if you don't have a purpose? that's one of the reasons
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  • Don't have a purpose? that's one of the reasons why i don't see any point
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  • That's one of the reasons why i don't see any point in retiring, because we've
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  • Why i don't see any point in retiring, because we've gotta have a purpose, you know.
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  • In retiring, because we've gotta have a purpose, you know. >> [audience applauding]
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  • Gotta have a purpose, you know. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and things
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and things are changing for me.
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  • >> joyce: and things are changing for me. i can't--i had to stop flying
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  • Are changing for me. i can't--i had to stop flying overseas a few years ago,
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  • I can't--i had to stop flying overseas a few years ago, because the jet lag
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  • Overseas a few years ago, because the jet lag was just too hard on me.
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  • Because the jet lag was just too hard on me. you know, if you know how
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  • Was just too hard on me. you know, if you know how to watch god's grace and what
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  • You know, if you know how to watch god's grace and what it's on and what it's not on,
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  • To watch god's grace and what it's on and what it's not on, you can tell when god's
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  • It's on and what it's not on, you can tell when god's grace is lifting off you.
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  • You can tell when god's grace is lifting off you. for years and years, i had
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  • Grace is lifting off you. for years and years, i had so much favor in foreign
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  • For years and years, i had so much favor in foreign countries, it was ridiculous.
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  • So much favor in foreign countries, it was ridiculous. i mean, i could just
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  • Countries, it was ridiculous. i mean, i could just go anywhere and they'd
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  • I mean, i could just go anywhere and they'd let me in and welcome me.
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  • Go anywhere and they'd let me in and welcome me. we'd have hundreds of thousands
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  • Let me in and welcome me. we'd have hundreds of thousands of people come out to crusades,
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  • We'd have hundreds of thousands of people come out to crusades, and it was marvelous.
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  • Of people come out to crusades, and it was marvelous. and then i got blacklisted
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  • And it was marvelous. and then i got blacklisted in india, they wouldn't
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  • And then i got blacklisted in india, they wouldn't let me in anymore.
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  • In india, they wouldn't let me in anymore. and then we'd plan a crusade
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  • Let me in anymore. and then we'd plan a crusade somewhere, and the permits
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  • And then we'd plan a crusade somewhere, and the permits would get pulled
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  • Somewhere, and the permits would get pulled at the last minute.
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  • Would get pulled at the last minute. i did one meeting in cambodia
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  • At the last minute. i did one meeting in cambodia and all the people were
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  • I did one meeting in cambodia and all the people were inside the building.
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  • And all the people were inside the building. the worship leaders were
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  • Inside the building. the worship leaders were inside the building.
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  • The worship leaders were inside the building. somebody managed to turn
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  • Inside the building. somebody managed to turn the power off.
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  • Somebody managed to turn the power off. somebody didn't want
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  • The power off. somebody didn't want us to have the meeting.
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  • Somebody didn't want us to have the meeting. i hadn't gotten in yet,
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  • Us to have the meeting. i hadn't gotten in yet, and there was a power gate.
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  • I hadn't gotten in yet, and there was a power gate. so since there was no power,
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  • And there was a power gate. so since there was no power, i couldn't get through the gate.
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  • So since there was no power, i couldn't get through the gate. and i said, there's got
  • 00:08:08.511 --> 00:08:10.279
  • I couldn't get through the gate. and i said, there's got to be a way i can get
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  • And i said, there's got to be a way i can get in this building.
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  • To be a way i can get in this building. and my team said, “well,
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  • In this building. and my team said, “well, if you wanna come around
  • 00:08:14.450 --> 00:08:15.918
  • And my team said, “well, if you wanna come around to the back, there's a big
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  • If you wanna come around to the back, there's a big trash dumpster out there.
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  • To the back, there's a big trash dumpster out there. and we can put you up on that,
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  • Trash dumpster out there. and we can put you up on that, and then lift you over the fence
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  • And we can put you up on that, and then lift you over the fence to the other side.”
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  • And then lift you over the fence to the other side.” i said, “let's go.”
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  • To the other side.” i said, “let's go.” >> [audience laughing]
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  • I said, “let's go.” >> [audience laughing] >> [audience applauding]
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  • >> joyce: and i jumped
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  • >> joyce: and i jumped over that fence.
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  • >> joyce: and i jumped over that fence. and the worship team,
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  • Over that fence. and the worship team, delirious, was with us.
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  • And the worship team, delirious, was with us. and so i preached
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  • Delirious, was with us. and so i preached over a megaphone.
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  • And so i preached over a megaphone. and the thing that was so funny
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  • Over a megaphone. and the thing that was so funny about it was it seemed like
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  • And the thing that was so funny about it was it seemed like such a disaster to us,
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  • About it was it seemed like such a disaster to us, but it just set the city on fire
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  • Such a disaster to us, but it just set the city on fire because they saw what
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  • But it just set the city on fire because they saw what determination will do.
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  • Because they saw what determination will do. and they were so...
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  • Determination will do. and they were so... >> [audience applauding]
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  • And they were so... >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: they were just
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: they were just really fired up by seeing
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  • >> joyce: they were just really fired up by seeing that we were not gonna
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  • Really fired up by seeing that we were not gonna give up no matter what.
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  • That we were not gonna give up no matter what. and i loved going out
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  • Give up no matter what. and i loved going out of the country.
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  • And i loved going out of the country. i loved doing the outreaches,
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  • Of the country. i loved doing the outreaches, the feeding programs
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  • I loved doing the outreaches, the feeding programs and things like that.
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  • But it wasn't working anymore.
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  • But it wasn't working anymore. and so i couldn't
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  • But it wasn't working anymore. and so i couldn't do that anymore.
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  • And so i couldn't do that anymore. and then at one time i did
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  • Do that anymore. and then at one time i did 36 conferences a year.
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  • And then at one time i did 36 conferences a year. that was three every month.
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  • 36 conferences a year. that was three every month. and i probably preached at least
  • 00:09:30.793 --> 00:09:33.929
  • That was three every month. and i probably preached at least 20 to 25 times every month.
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  • And i probably preached at least 20 to 25 times every month. a different message
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  • Every time i preached.
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  • Every time i preached. i know, i was a little
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  • Every time i preached. i know, i was a little bit out there.
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  • I know, i was a little bit out there. >> [audience laughing]
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  • Bit out there. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: part of it was me just
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: part of it was me just trying to get over my childhood,
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  • >> joyce: part of it was me just trying to get over my childhood, being a workaholic trying
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  • Trying to get over my childhood, being a workaholic trying to prove that i had some
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  • Being a workaholic trying to prove that i had some worth and value.
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  • To prove that i had some worth and value. and then eventually
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  • Worth and value. and then eventually we cut it down to 24 meetings,
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  • And then eventually we cut it down to 24 meetings, and then eventually 18,
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  • We cut it down to 24 meetings, and then eventually 18, and then 12, and then 8.
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  • And then eventually 18, and then 12, and then 8. and this happened over a period
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  • And then 12, and then 8. and this happened over a period of a lot of years, and now we're
  • 00:10:06.862 --> 00:10:11.400
  • And this happened over a period of a lot of years, and now we're even lowering it some more,
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  • Of a lot of years, and now we're even lowering it some more, and i'm gonna do more just
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  • Even lowering it some more, and i'm gonna do more just from my studio at home.
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  • And i'm gonna do more just from my studio at home. and only a fool thinks that
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  • From my studio at home. and only a fool thinks that they can always do what
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  • And only a fool thinks that they can always do what they've always done.
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  • They can always do what they've always done. amen?
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  • They've always done. amen? and so, you have to be willing
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  • Amen? and so, you have to be willing to change, but you always
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  • And so, you have to be willing to change, but you always have to have a purpose.
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  • To change, but you always have to have a purpose. even if your purpose changes,
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  • Have to have a purpose. even if your purpose changes, you need to have a purpose.
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  • Even if your purpose changes, you need to have a purpose. and i don't worry about what's
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  • You need to have a purpose. and i don't worry about what's gonna happen if this, and what's
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  • And i don't worry about what's gonna happen if this, and what's gonna happen if that.
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  • Gonna happen if this, and what's gonna happen if that. i'm just going one day
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  • Gonna happen if that. i'm just going one day at a time, and as long
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  • I'm just going one day at a time, and as long as i got a mouth, i can
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  • At a time, and as long as i got a mouth, i can keep doing what i'm doing.
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  • As i got a mouth, i can keep doing what i'm doing. >> [audience applauding]
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  • Keep doing what i'm doing. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: i can do it
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: i can do it sitting down.
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  • >> joyce: i can do it sitting down. i can do it standing up.
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  • Sitting down. i can do it standing up. i could even do it laying
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  • I can do it standing up. i could even do it laying down if i had to.
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  • I could even do it laying down if i had to. >> [audience cheering]
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  • Down if i had to. >> [audience cheering] >> joyce: amen?
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  • >> [audience cheering] >> joyce: amen? and if god ever wants
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  • >> joyce: amen? and if god ever wants me to retire, he'll let
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  • And if god ever wants me to retire, he'll let me know that.
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  • “brothers and sisters,”
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  • “brothers and sisters,” verse 13 in philippians 3.
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  • “brothers and sisters,” verse 13 in philippians 3. “i don't consider myself
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  • Verse 13 in philippians 3. “i don't consider myself to have taken hold of it.
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  • “i don't consider myself to have taken hold of it. but one thing i do:”
  • 00:11:23.506 --> 00:11:25.975
  • To have taken hold of it. but one thing i do:” “one thing i do: forgetting
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  • But one thing i do:” “one thing i do: forgetting what is behind...”
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  • “one thing i do: forgetting what is behind...” now, right there it is.
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  • What is behind...” now, right there it is. are you still mad at yourself
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  • Now, right there it is. are you still mad at yourself because of something you
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  • Did 20 years ago?
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  • Did 20 years ago? it's not helping you.
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  • Did 20 years ago? it's not helping you. god forgave you a long time--
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  • It's not helping you. god forgave you a long time-- he forgave you the first
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  • God forgave you a long time-- he forgave you the first time you asked him.
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  • He forgave you the first time you asked him. you don't need to keep asking
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  • Time you asked him. you don't need to keep asking forgiveness for the same
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  • You don't need to keep asking forgiveness for the same thing over and over
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  • Forgiveness for the same thing over and over and over again.
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  • Thing over and over and over again. i did that for a while,
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  • And over again. i did that for a while, and god whispered one night,
  • 00:11:55.337 --> 00:11:56.872
  • I did that for a while, and god whispered one night, “i forgave you the first
  • 00:11:56.939 --> 00:11:57.706
  • And god whispered one night, “i forgave you the first time you asked me.
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  • “i forgave you the first time you asked me. now, you need
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  • Time you asked me. now, you need to forgive yourself.”
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  • Now, you need to forgive yourself.” somebody needs this today.
  • 00:12:03.679 --> 00:12:06.816
  • To forgive yourself.” somebody needs this today. and somebody watching
  • 00:12:06.882 --> 00:12:07.817
  • Somebody needs this today. and somebody watching tv needs this.
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  • >> [audience applauding]
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: “forgetting what
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: “forgetting what is behind and straining
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  • >> joyce: “forgetting what is behind and straining forward to what is ahead,
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  • Is behind and straining forward to what is ahead, i press on toward
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  • Forward to what is ahead, i press on toward the goal to win the prize
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  • I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which god has called
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  • The goal to win the prize for which god has called me heavenward in christ jesus.
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  • For which god has called me heavenward in christ jesus. all of us, then, who are mature
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  • Me heavenward in christ jesus. all of us, then, who are mature should take a view of things.
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  • All of us, then, who are mature should take a view of things. and if on some point you think
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  • Should take a view of things. and if on some point you think differently, that too god
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  • And if on some point you think differently, that too god will make it clear to you.”
  • 00:12:34.543 --> 00:12:35.711
  • Differently, that too god will make it clear to you.” so, he's basically saying,
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  • Just let the burden
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  • Just let the burden lift off of you.
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  • Just let the burden lift off of you. and when you sin, repent,
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  • Lift off of you. and when you sin, repent, receive god's forgiveness,
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  • And when you sin, repent, receive god's forgiveness, and go on.
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  • Receive god's forgiveness, and go on. and if there's something
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  • And go on. and if there's something else god wants to tell you
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  • And if there's something else god wants to tell you or talk to you about, or there's
  • 00:12:48.757 --> 00:12:50.960
  • Else god wants to tell you or talk to you about, or there's something you're doing wrong,
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  • Or talk to you about, or there's something you're doing wrong, god will let you know.
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  • Something you're doing wrong, god will let you know. don't always assume you're
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  • God will let you know. don't always assume you're doing something wrong.
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  • Don't always assume you're doing something wrong. just wait for god to tell you
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  • Doing something wrong. just wait for god to tell you if that's what the case is.
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  • And how many of you know
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  • And how many of you know he knows how to tell you?
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  • And how many of you know he knows how to tell you? amen?
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  • He knows how to tell you? amen? ♪ amen, amen, amen ♪
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  • You waste your time
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  • You waste your time being self-critical.
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  • You waste your time being self-critical. stop finding fault with
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  • Being self-critical. stop finding fault with yourself, and you'll stop
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  • Stop finding fault with yourself, and you'll stop finding fault with other people.
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  • Yourself, and you'll stop finding fault with other people. matter of fact, i say a lot
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  • Finding fault with other people. matter of fact, i say a lot of times in the morning,
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  • Matter of fact, i say a lot of times in the morning, “god, i love you.
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  • Of times in the morning, “god, i love you. i love me.
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  • “god, i love you. i love me. i love people.
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  • I love me. i love people. i love my life.
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  • I love people. i love my life. this is gonna be a good day."
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  • I love my life. this is gonna be a good day." amen?
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  • This is gonna be a good day." amen? try having a positive
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  • Amen? try having a positive attitude for a change.
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  • Now, the bible does tell
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  • Now, the bible does tell us to examine ourselves,
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  • Now, the bible does tell us to examine ourselves, but not unto condemnation,
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  • Us to examine ourselves, but not unto condemnation, not with a critical spirit,
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  • But not unto condemnation, not with a critical spirit, just sit before god and just
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  • Not with a critical spirit, just sit before god and just ask him, is there anything
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  • Just sit before god and just ask him, is there anything you wanna show me?
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  • You know, god has shown
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  • You know, god has shown me two or three things
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  • You know, god has shown me two or three things in the last three months.
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  • Me two or three things in the last three months. and one of ‘em--my daughter--
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  • In the last three months. and one of ‘em--my daughter-- i said something about somebody,
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  • And one of ‘em--my daughter-- i said something about somebody, and she said, “do you know
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  • I said something about somebody, and she said, “do you know there's two people that every
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  • And she said, “do you know there's two people that every time you talk about ‘em, you
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  • There's two people that every time you talk about ‘em, you always say something negative.”
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  • Time you talk about ‘em, you always say something negative.” it's just so much fun when
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  • Always say something negative.” it's just so much fun when your kids correct you.
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  • It's just so much fun when your kids correct you. >> [audience laughing]
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  • >> joyce: especially if you know
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  • >> joyce: especially if you know they're right, and you remember
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  • >> joyce: especially if you know they're right, and you remember that scripture that says,
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  • They're right, and you remember that scripture that says, “only a fool hates correction.”
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  • That scripture that says, “only a fool hates correction.” "well, thank you for
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  • “only a fool hates correction.” "well, thank you for reminding me of that."
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  • "well, thank you for reminding me of that." and you know what?
  • 00:14:41.804 --> 00:14:42.471
  • Reminding me of that." and you know what? she was right.
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  • And you know what? she was right. but i wasn't even
  • 00:14:43.439 --> 00:14:44.306
  • She was right. but i wasn't even aware i was doing it.
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  • And sometimes if you're
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  • And sometimes if you're not seeing it, you're not
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  • And sometimes if you're not seeing it, you're not hearing from god,
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  • Not seeing it, you're not hearing from god, he'll send somebody else.
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  • Hearing from god, he'll send somebody else. maybe today he's sending
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  • He'll send somebody else. maybe today he's sending me to you.
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  • Maybe today he's sending me to you. this is a little more
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  • Me to you. this is a little more comfortable than one
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  • This is a little more comfortable than one of your kids telling you.
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  • Comfortable than one of your kids telling you. because i can tell you
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  • Of your kids telling you. because i can tell you from here, and you can
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  • Because i can tell you from here, and you can sit out there and act like
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  • From here, and you can sit out there and act like you don't really need it.
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  • Sit out there and act like you don't really need it. >> [audience laughing]
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  • You don't really need it. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: “well, she doesn't
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: “well, she doesn't know it's me she's talking to.”
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  • >> joyce: “well, she doesn't know it's me she's talking to.” our guilt or innocence
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  • Know it's me she's talking to.” our guilt or innocence is not based on how we feel.
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  • Paul said, “my conscience
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  • Paul said, “my conscience is clear, but that doesn't
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  • Paul said, “my conscience is clear, but that doesn't make me innocent.
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  • Is clear, but that doesn't make me innocent. it is the lord who judges me.”
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  • Make me innocent. it is the lord who judges me.” god loves us, and he's not
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  • It is the lord who judges me.” god loves us, and he's not surprised by our weaknesses
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  • God loves us, and he's not surprised by our weaknesses or our failures.
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  • Surprised by our weaknesses or our failures. psalm 139:1-4, “you have
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  • Or our failures. psalm 139:1-4, “you have searched me, lord, you know me.”
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  • Psalm 139:1-4, “you have searched me, lord, you know me.” [laughs] you know me.
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  • Searched me, lord, you know me.” [laughs] you know me. you know, if somebody said
  • 00:15:42.598 --> 00:15:46.835
  • [laughs] you know me. you know, if somebody said to you, “have you ever
  • 00:15:46.902 --> 00:15:47.603
  • You know, if somebody said to you, “have you ever heard of joyce meyer?”
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  • To you, “have you ever heard of joyce meyer?” you might say, “oh yeah,
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  • Heard of joyce meyer?” you might say, “oh yeah, i know her.”
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  • You might say, “oh yeah, i know her.” 'cause you came to one
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  • I know her.” 'cause you came to one of my conferences,
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  • 'cause you came to one of my conferences, now you know me.
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  • Of my conferences, now you know me. >> [audience laughing]
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  • Now you know me. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: only one person that
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: only one person that knows me, and that's dave.
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  • >> joyce: only one person that knows me, and that's dave. and then there's even
  • 00:16:01.183 --> 00:16:02.117
  • Knows me, and that's dave. and then there's even things he don't know.
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  • And then there's even things he don't know. >> [audience laughing]
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  • Things he don't know. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: there's things
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: there's things i don't know.
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  • >> joyce: there's things i don't know. but god knows it all.
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  • I don't know. but god knows it all. so when he says, “he knows you.”
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  • But god knows it all. so when he says, “he knows you.” he knows you!
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  • So when he says, “he knows you.” he knows you! and isn't it amazing with
  • 00:16:13.162 --> 00:16:15.030
  • He knows you! and isn't it amazing with the way we are, and what god
  • 00:16:15.097 --> 00:16:16.598
  • And isn't it amazing with the way we are, and what god knows about us, that he still
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  • The way we are, and what god knows about us, that he still loves us unconditionally?
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  • Knows about us, that he still loves us unconditionally? >> [audience applauding]
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  • Loves us unconditionally? >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: wow!
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: wow! “you know when i sit and you
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  • >> joyce: wow! “you know when i sit and you know when i rise; you perceive
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  • “you know when i sit and you know when i rise; you perceive my thoughts from afar.
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  • Know when i rise; you perceive my thoughts from afar. you discern my going out
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  • My thoughts from afar. you discern my going out and my lying down; you're
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  • You discern my going out and my lying down; you're familiar with all my ways.
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  • And my lying down; you're familiar with all my ways. before a word is on my tongue,
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  • Familiar with all my ways. before a word is on my tongue, lord, you know it altogether.”
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  • Before a word is on my tongue, lord, you know it altogether.” hmm, jeremiah 1:5, “before i--
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  • Lord, you know it altogether.” hmm, jeremiah 1:5, “before i-- before i formed you in the womb
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  • Hmm, jeremiah 1:5, “before i-- before i formed you in the womb i knew you,” get that.
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  • Before i formed you in the womb i knew you,” get that. “before you were born i set
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  • I knew you,” get that. “before you were born i set you apart; and i appointed you
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  • “before you were born i set you apart; and i appointed you as a prophet to the nations.”
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  • You apart; and i appointed you as a prophet to the nations.” but you know that wasn't
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  • As a prophet to the nations.” but you know that wasn't a positively, jeremiah had
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  • But you know that wasn't a positively, jeremiah had to get with the program.
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  • A positively, jeremiah had to get with the program. and at first he was resisting
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  • To get with the program. and at first he was resisting it, “i'm too young and nobody's
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  • And at first he was resisting it, “i'm too young and nobody's gonna listen to me,”
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  • It, “i'm too young and nobody's gonna listen to me,” and blah blah blah.
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  • Gonna listen to me,” and blah blah blah. do you know that you are
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  • And blah blah blah. do you know that you are handpicked by god?
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  • Do you know that you are handpicked by god? “the apple of his eye.”
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  • Handpicked by god? “the apple of his eye.” you know how it is if you
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  • “the apple of his eye.” you know how it is if you go to buy an apple?
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  • You know how it is if you go to buy an apple? say you're hungry and you
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  • Go to buy an apple? say you're hungry and you just go in the store and you
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  • Say you're hungry and you just go in the store and you wanna buy one apple.
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  • Just go in the store and you wanna buy one apple. well, you're not gonna,
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  • Wanna buy one apple. well, you're not gonna, you know, you're gonna look
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  • Well, you're not gonna, you know, you're gonna look for the prettiest one there.
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  • You know, you're gonna look for the prettiest one there. i think god looks for
  • 00:17:33.742 --> 00:17:34.543
  • For the prettiest one there. i think god looks for the one that's bruised.
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  • I think god looks for the one that's bruised. maybe even the one that's got
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  • The one that's bruised. maybe even the one that's got a wormhole in it, i don't know.
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  • Maybe even the one that's got a wormhole in it, i don't know. ephesians 1:4, “even as
  • 00:17:46.054 --> 00:17:47.890
  • A wormhole in it, i don't know. ephesians 1:4, “even as [in his love] he chose us
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  • Ephesians 1:4, “even as [in his love] he chose us [actually picked us out for
  • 00:17:51.860 --> 00:17:53.762
  • [in his love] he chose us [actually picked us out for himself as his own] in christ
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  • [actually picked us out for himself as his own] in christ before the foundation
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  • Himself as his own] in christ before the foundation of the world.”
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  • Before the foundation of the world.” and this scripture is not
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  • Talking about the doctrine
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  • Talking about the doctrine that i don't agree with,
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  • Talking about the doctrine that i don't agree with, that god decides who's gonna
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  • That i don't agree with, that god decides who's gonna go to heaven and who's
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  • That god decides who's gonna go to heaven and who's gonna go to hell.
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  • Go to heaven and who's gonna go to hell. i don't like that, because
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  • Gonna go to hell. i don't like that, because the bible says that, god would
  • 00:18:12.781 --> 00:18:14.049
  • I don't like that, because the bible says that, god would that all men would come to the
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  • The bible says that, god would that all men would come to the knowledge of jesus christ.
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  • That all men would come to the knowledge of jesus christ. all men.
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  • Knowledge of jesus christ. all men. he wants all men to be saved.
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  • All men. he wants all men to be saved. so, this does not mean that.
  • 00:18:22.024 --> 00:18:24.927
  • He wants all men to be saved. so, this does not mean that. but he picked us out.
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  • So, this does not mean that. but he picked us out. every one of us,
  • 00:18:26.995 --> 00:18:27.763
  • But he picked us out. every one of us, he picked us out.
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  • Every one of us, he picked us out. everybody say,
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  • He picked us out. everybody say, “he picked me out.”
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  • Everybody say, “he picked me out.” now, you need to go home and
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  • “he picked me out.” now, you need to go home and think about some of this stuff.
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  • Now, you need to go home and think about some of this stuff. he picked you out,
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  • Think about some of this stuff. he picked you out, you're special,
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  • He picked you out, you're special, you're precious,
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  • You're special, you're precious, you're valuable,
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  • You're precious, you're valuable, you have a purpose.
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  • You're valuable, you have a purpose. i'mma look over here
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  • You have a purpose. i'mma look over here at "smiley" again, because
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  • I'mma look over here at "smiley" again, because you're looking sad some more.
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  • At "smiley" again, because you're looking sad some more. >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:18:52.521 --> 00:18:55.290
  • You're looking sad some more. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: brother you should
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: brother you should give smiling lessons.
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  • >> joyce: brother you should give smiling lessons. every day for 25 years,
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  • Give smiling lessons. every day for 25 years, god bless you.
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  • Every day for 25 years, god bless you. >> [audience applauding]
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  • God bless you. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: i've talked a lot
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: i've talked a lot in my life.
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  • >> joyce: i've talked a lot in my life. >> [audience laughing]
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  • >> joyce: you know,
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  • >> joyce: you know, in the world, we are often
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  • >> joyce: you know, in the world, we are often picked out to be picked on.
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  • In the world, we are often picked out to be picked on. but in god's kingdom, we're
  • 00:19:20.849 --> 00:19:21.950
  • Picked out to be picked on. but in god's kingdom, we're picked out to be picked up.
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  • But in god's kingdom, we're picked out to be picked up. >> [audience cheering]
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  • Picked out to be picked up. >> [audience cheering] >> joyce: i made that up,
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  • >> [audience cheering] >> joyce: i made that up, isn't that good.
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  • >> joyce: i made that up, isn't that good. >> [audience applauding]
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  • Isn't that good. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: you'll see a quote
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: you'll see a quote on the internet before long.
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  • >> joyce: you'll see a quote on the internet before long. once in a while i'm looking
  • 00:19:34.563 --> 00:19:35.664
  • On the internet before long. once in a while i'm looking up quotes for a book
  • 00:19:35.731 --> 00:19:36.698
  • Once in a while i'm looking up quotes for a book and i run into mine.
  • 00:19:36.765 --> 00:19:38.934
  • Up quotes for a book and i run into mine. >> [audience laughing]
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  • >> joyce: i'mma say it again,
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  • >> joyce: i'mma say it again, “it's time to stop being
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  • >> joyce: i'mma say it again, “it's time to stop being mad at yourself.”
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  • “it's time to stop being mad at yourself.” you understand me?
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  • Mad at yourself.” you understand me? we have a lot of prisoners
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  • You understand me? we have a lot of prisoners that watch our program.
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  • We have a lot of prisoners that watch our program. it's time for you to stop
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  • That watch our program. it's time for you to stop being mad at yourself,
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  • It's time for you to stop being mad at yourself, for what you did that got
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  • Being mad at yourself, for what you did that got you into the situation
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  • For what you did that got you into the situation where you're at.
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  • You into the situation where you're at. >> [audience applauding]
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  • Where you're at. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: if you wanna
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: if you wanna have a relationship with
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  • >> joyce: if you wanna have a relationship with jesus you can have,
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  • Have a relationship with jesus you can have, all you need to do is repent.
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  • Jesus you can have, all you need to do is repent. and that means to be sorry
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  • All you need to do is repent. and that means to be sorry for what you did, and be willing
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  • And that means to be sorry for what you did, and be willing to turn around, and go
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  • For what you did, and be willing to turn around, and go in a new direction.
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  • To turn around, and go in a new direction. you say, “well, i'm in prison
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  • In a new direction. you say, “well, i'm in prison for life, joyce, how can
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  • You say, “well, i'm in prison for life, joyce, how can i possibly have a good life?”
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  • For life, joyce, how can i possibly have a good life?” because your real life
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  • I possibly have a good life?” because your real life is in you.
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  • Because your real life is in you. it's in you.
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  • Is in you. it's in you. >> [audience applauding]
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  • >> joyce: grace and peace.
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  • >> joyce: grace and peace. i don't think we can have peace
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  • >> joyce: grace and peace. i don't think we can have peace until we understand grace.
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  • I don't think we can have peace until we understand grace. do you know that 39 times
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  • Until we understand grace. do you know that 39 times in the new testament,
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  • Do you know that 39 times in the new testament, there's the phrase of greeting,
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  • In the new testament, there's the phrase of greeting, “grace and peace be unto you.”
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  • There's the phrase of greeting, “grace and peace be unto you.” and what do we say?
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  • “grace and peace be unto you.” and what do we say? “hey!”
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  • And what do we say? “hey!” “what's up?”
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  • “hey!” “what's up?” “hey, man.”
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  • “what's up?” “hey, man.” imagine grace and peace
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  • “hey, man.” imagine grace and peace be unto you.
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  • Imagine grace and peace be unto you. i haven't gotten that far,
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  • Be unto you. i haven't gotten that far, but i do say, “bless you" a lot.
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  • I haven't gotten that far, but i do say, “bless you" a lot. when i leave people, even out
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  • But i do say, “bless you" a lot. when i leave people, even out in the stores when i'm shopping,
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  • When i leave people, even out in the stores when i'm shopping, i'll say, “bless you.”
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  • In the stores when i'm shopping, i'll say, “bless you.” people probably don't realize
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  • I'll say, “bless you.” people probably don't realize how valuable that is.
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  • People probably don't realize how valuable that is. but you can bless people.
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  • Thirty-nine times,
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  • Thirty-nine times, “grace and peace.”
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  • Thirty-nine times, “grace and peace.” romans 1:7, “to all in rome who
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  • “grace and peace.” romans 1:7, “to all in rome who are loved by god and called
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  • Romans 1:7, “to all in rome who are loved by god and called to be his holy people:
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  • Are loved by god and called to be his holy people: grace and peace be to you
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  • To be his holy people: grace and peace be to you from god our father and from
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  • Grace and peace be to you from god our father and from the lord jesus christ.”
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  • From god our father and from the lord jesus christ.” 1 corinthians 1:3,
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  • The lord jesus christ.” 1 corinthians 1:3, “grace and peace be unto
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  • 1 corinthians 1:3, “grace and peace be unto you from god our father
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  • “grace and peace be unto you from god our father and the lord jesus christ.”
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  • You from god our father and the lord jesus christ.” well, what is grace?
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  • It's undeserved favor,
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  • It's undeserved favor, we all know that.
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  • It's undeserved favor, we all know that. that which gives pleasure,
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  • We all know that. that which gives pleasure, delight, or causes
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  • That which gives pleasure, delight, or causes a favorable regard.
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  • Delight, or causes a favorable regard. the friendly disposition from
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  • A favorable regard. the friendly disposition from which a kind act proceeds
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  • The friendly disposition from which a kind act proceeds especially divine favor with
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  • Which a kind act proceeds especially divine favor with stress on its freeness
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  • Especially divine favor with stress on its freeness and availability to all.
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  • Stress on its freeness and availability to all. it is spontaneous
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  • And availability to all. it is spontaneous and gives pleasure
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  • It is spontaneous and gives pleasure and joy to its recipients.
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  • And gives pleasure and joy to its recipients. but if you do a deep dive
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  • And joy to its recipients. but if you do a deep dive study on the word "grace,"
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  • But if you do a deep dive study on the word "grace," you also find out that
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  • Study on the word "grace," you also find out that its power--it's the power
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  • You also find out that its power--it's the power of the holy spirit,
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  • Its power--it's the power of the holy spirit, enabling you...
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  • Of the holy spirit, enabling you... now, this is a definition i've
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  • Enabling you... now, this is a definition i've come up with right here.
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  • Now, this is a definition i've come up with right here. that grace is the power for you
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  • Come up with right here. that grace is the power for you to do with ease, what you could
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  • That grace is the power for you to do with ease, what you could never do on your own with any
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  • To do with ease, what you could never do on your own with any amount of struggle and effort.
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  • Never do on your own with any amount of struggle and effort. >> [audience applauding]
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  • Amount of struggle and effort. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: i'll say it again,
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: i'll say it again, ‘cause i see your
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  • >> joyce: i'll say it again, ‘cause i see your writing feverishly.
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  • ‘cause i see your writing feverishly. grace is the power
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  • Writing feverishly. grace is the power of the holy spirit, which
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  • Grace is the power of the holy spirit, which enables you to do with ease,
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  • Of the holy spirit, which enables you to do with ease, what you could never do
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  • Enables you to do with ease, what you could never do on your own with any amount
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  • What you could never do on your own with any amount of struggle and effort.
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  • On your own with any amount of struggle and effort. like i struggled so hard
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  • Of struggle and effort. like i struggled so hard trying to change myself,
  • 00:22:58.433 --> 00:23:02.204
  • Like i struggled so hard trying to change myself, and i just kept failing,
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  • Trying to change myself, and i just kept failing, failing, failing, failing.
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  • And i just kept failing, failing, failing, failing. and that would make me mad,
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  • Failing, failing, failing. and that would make me mad, because i thought i'm trying
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  • And that would make me mad, because i thought i'm trying to do the right thing.
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  • Because i thought i'm trying to do the right thing. but when i found out that
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  • To do the right thing. but when i found out that i could be changed by grace,
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  • But when i found out that i could be changed by grace, that if i trusted god to change
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  • I could be changed by grace, that if i trusted god to change me, and even in the midst
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  • That if i trusted god to change me, and even in the midst of waiting on him to change me,
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  • Me, and even in the midst of waiting on him to change me, if i acted bad i would just say,
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  • Of waiting on him to change me, if i acted bad i would just say, “i'm sorry lord, you're working
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  • If i acted bad i would just say, “i'm sorry lord, you're working in me, i'm not there yet,
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  • “i'm sorry lord, you're working in me, i'm not there yet, but we're on our way.”
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  • In me, i'm not there yet, but we're on our way.” you don't have to get mad
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  • But we're on our way.” you don't have to get mad and stay mad at yourself
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  • You don't have to get mad and stay mad at yourself for a week because you
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  • And stay mad at yourself for a week because you messed up again.
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  • >> announcer: fruit takes time.
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  • >> announcer: fruit takes time. it grows through care
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  • It grows through care and connection.
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  • And connection. like the branch clings
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  • Like the branch clings to the vine for life,
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  • To the vine for life, we too, must stay
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  • We too, must stay attached to the vine.
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  • Attached to the vine. cut off, growth fades,
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  • Cut off, growth fades, and the fruit never comes.
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  • And the fruit never comes. >> joyce: in john 15,
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  • >> joyce: in john 15, jesus speaks clearly:
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  • Jesus speaks clearly: "i am the vine,
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  • "i am the vine, you are the branches.
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  • If you remain in me
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  • If you remain in me and i in you,
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  • And i in you, you will bear much fruit."
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  • You will bear much fruit." that fruit is the fruit
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  • That fruit is the fruit of the spirit: love, joy, peace,
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  • Of the spirit: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness,
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  • Patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,
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  • Faithfulness, gentleness,
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  • Gentleness, and self-control.
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  • And self-control. when we receive jesus,
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  • When we receive jesus, we receive the fruit
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  • We receive the fruit of the spirit.
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  • Of the spirit. and those qualities take root
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  • And those qualities take root like seeds as we water them
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  • Like seeds as we water them with the word and live them out;
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  • With the word and live them out; they grow stronger.
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  • They grow stronger. in my book, "fruit of the spirit
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  • In my book, "fruit of the spirit scriptures," you'll find
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  • Scriptures," you'll find practical ways to grow
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  • Practical ways to grow through encouragement,
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  • Through encouragement, powerful scriptures,
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  • Powerful scriptures, and prayer starters.
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  • And prayer starters. >> announcer: joyce's book
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  • The fruit of the spirit in your life today.
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  • In your life today. >> joyce: i tried
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  • >> joyce: i tried for many years
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  • For many years to make the fruit
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  • To make the fruit of the spirit
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  • Of the spirit grow in me,
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  • Grow in me, and it actually caused
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  • And it actually caused me to fail more
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  • Me to fail more often than not.
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  • Often than not. and when i allowed
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  • And when i allowed god to help me
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  • God to help me instead of trying
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  • Instead of trying to force it myself,
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  • To force it myself, then, and only then,
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  • Then, and only then, did i begin to make
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  • Did i begin to make real progress.
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  • Real progress. my prayer
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  • My prayer is that this book
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  • Is that this book of scriptures
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  • Of scriptures will help you
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  • Will help you the same way that
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  • The same way that god's word has
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  • God's word has impacted my life.
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  • You'll see it: fruit that
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  • Fruit that changes everything.
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  • >> joyce: well, rejection
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  • >> joyce: well, rejection is definitely painful.
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  • Is definitely painful. it's something we've all
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  • It's something we've all endured in one way or another.
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  • Endured in one way or another. >> ginger: our experiences
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  • >> ginger: our experiences may be different,
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  • May be different, but the damage is very real.
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  • But the damage is very real. whether it comes from
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  • Whether it comes from a stranger, a friend,
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  • A stranger, a friend, or someone we love,
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  • Or someone we love, rejection leaves us feeling
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  • Rejection leaves us feeling unwanted and wounded.
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  • Unwanted and wounded. >> joyce: we both know how
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  • >> joyce: we both know how devastating rejection can be.
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  • Devastating rejection can be. the good news is
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  • The good news is healing is possible.
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  • Healing is possible. >> ginger: m-hmm.
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  • >> ginger: m-hmm. >> joyce: that's why i invited
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  • >> joyce: that's why i invited ginger to write
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  • Ginger to write a very important
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  • A very important book with me,
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  • Book with me, "healing the wounds
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  • "healing the wounds of rejection."
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  • Of rejection." i believe now is the time
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  • I believe now is the time to overcome those
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  • To overcome those wounds and embrace
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  • Wounds and embrace our true identity in christ.
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  • Our true identity in christ. >> ginger: you may not
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  • >> ginger: you may not even realize the effects
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  • Even realize the effects of rejection on your life.
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  • Of rejection on your life. i know i didn't for a time.
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  • I know i didn't for a time. but you don't have
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  • But you don't have to remain stuck
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  • To remain stuck in the past or let what
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  • In the past or let what others have done
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  • Others have done define your worth.
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  • Define your worth. >> joyce: in our book,
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  • >> joyce: in our book, we share the truths that
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  • We share the truths that have helped both of us,
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  • And the things that
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  • And the things that we went through.
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  • We went through. >> ginger: and together,
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  • >> ginger: and together, we can all move
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  • We can all move forward with strength
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  • Forward with strength and confidence.
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  • And confidence. >> announcer: "healing
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  • >> announcer: "healing the wounds of rejection"
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  • The wounds of rejection" by joyce meyer
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  • By joyce meyer and ginger stache,
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  • And ginger stache, request your copy today.
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  • >> [♪♪]
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  • >> announcer: we hope you
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  • >> announcer: we hope you enjoyed today's program.
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  • Enjoyed today's program. we are so grateful
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  • We are so grateful to our joyce meyer
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  • To our joyce meyer ministries partners
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  • Ministries partners who make this
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  • Who make this and all we do possible,
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  • And all we do possible, including sharing
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  • Including sharing god's word
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  • God's word and offering help
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  • And offering help to people in need
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  • To people in need all over the world.
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