Joyce Meyer - What Is Love? (Part 2)

February 8, 2026 | 27:29

Bible teacher Joyce Meyer shares timeless scriptural principles to show us how we can embrace the best God has for us each and every day of our lives.

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Joyce Meyer: Enjoying Everyday Life | Joyce Meyer - What Is Love? (Part 2) | February 8, 2026
  • >> joyce: now, if i say to you,
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  • >> joyce: now, if i say to you, "i love you," i'm not
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  • >> joyce: now, if i say to you, "i love you," i'm not saying that doesn't
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  • "i love you," i'm not saying that doesn't mean anything to you.
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  • Saying that doesn't mean anything to you. but if i say to you,
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  • Mean anything to you. but if i say to you, "i love you," but i never
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  • But if i say to you, "i love you," but i never do anything that shows that,
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  • "i love you," but i never do anything that shows that, then it just becomes
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  • Do anything that shows that, then it just becomes a bunch of empty words.
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  • >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer.
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  • >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer. i've seen god's power
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  • >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer. i've seen god's power transform my own life,
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  • I've seen god's power transform my own life, and he will do it for you.
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  • >> joyce: i finally know what
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  • >> joyce: i finally know what paul meant when he said
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  • >> joyce: i finally know what paul meant when he said he was not talking to them about
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  • Paul meant when he said he was not talking to them about offerings because he wanted
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  • He was not talking to them about offerings because he wanted their money, but he wanted
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  • Offerings because he wanted their money, but he wanted the fruit that would
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  • Their money, but he wanted the fruit that would increase to their credit.
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  • The fruit that would increase to their credit. >> [audience applauding]
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  • Increase to their credit. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and see, i know that
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  • Givers are happy people.
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  • Givers are happy people. >> [couple people cheer]
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  • Givers are happy people. >> [couple people cheer] >> joyce: i mean, really,
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  • >> [couple people cheer] >> joyce: i mean, really, what does--
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  • >> joyce: i mean, really, what does-- tell me what does anybody
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  • What does-- tell me what does anybody want other than to be happy?
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  • Tell me what does anybody want other than to be happy? that's really what you want.
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  • Want other than to be happy? that's really what you want. so, we think we can buy it,
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  • That's really what you want. so, we think we can buy it, so we buy things,
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  • So, we think we can buy it, so we buy things, and we think we can marry it,
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  • So we buy things, and we think we can marry it, so we marry somebody.
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  • And we think we can marry it, so we marry somebody. >> [audience laughing]
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  • So we marry somebody. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: then if that
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: then if that don't work, we get rid of them,
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  • >> joyce: then if that don't work, we get rid of them, and we marry somebody else.
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  • Don't work, we get rid of them, and we marry somebody else. >> [audience laughing]
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  • And we marry somebody else. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: come on,
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: come on, you know how it goes.
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  • >> joyce: come on, you know how it goes. you might as well
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  • You know how it goes. you might as well keep the one you got...
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  • You might as well keep the one you got... >> [audience laughing]
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  • Keep the one you got... >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: 'cause i'll tell
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: 'cause i'll tell you the next one,
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  • >> joyce: 'cause i'll tell you the next one, ain't gonna be any better.
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  • You the next one, ain't gonna be any better. >> [audience laughing]
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  • Ain't gonna be any better. >> [audience laughing] >> [audience applauding]
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: people have asked
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: people have asked me "if anything happened
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  • >> joyce: people have asked me "if anything happened to dave would you
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  • Me "if anything happened to dave would you ever get married again."
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  • To dave would you ever get married again." no!
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  • Ever get married again." no! no!
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  • No! no! no way would i ever spend
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  • No! no way would i ever spend one more year of my life trying
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  • No way would i ever spend one more year of my life trying to get used to another man.
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  • One more year of my life trying to get used to another man. >> [audience laughing]
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  • To get used to another man. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i've got mine.
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i've got mine. we've got our own
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  • >> joyce: i've got mine. we've got our own deal worked out.
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  • We've got our own deal worked out. we get along good.
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  • Deal worked out. we get along good. we're having fun.
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  • We get along good. we're having fun. >> [audience laughing]
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  • We're having fun. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: just quit thinking
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: just quit thinking about everything that's
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  • >> joyce: just quit thinking about everything that's wrong with the person
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  • About everything that's wrong with the person you're married to.
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  • Wrong with the person you're married to. don't throw stones at me,
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  • You're married to. don't throw stones at me, but you've got a few things
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  • Don't throw stones at me, but you've got a few things wrong with you, too.
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  • But you've got a few things wrong with you, too. >> [audience laughing]
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  • >> joyce: romans 5:5, "and hope
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  • >> joyce: romans 5:5, "and hope does not put us to shame,
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  • >> joyce: romans 5:5, "and hope does not put us to shame, because god's love has been
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  • Does not put us to shame, because god's love has been poured out into our hearts
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  • Because god's love has been poured out into our hearts through the holy spirit,
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  • Poured out into our hearts through the holy spirit, who has been given to us."
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  • Through the holy spirit, who has been given to us." so, we have love in us,
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  • Who has been given to us." so, we have love in us, it's the fruit of the spirit
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  • So, we have love in us, it's the fruit of the spirit that comes into us when
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  • It's the fruit of the spirit that comes into us when we're born again.
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  • That comes into us when we're born again. but it comes as a seed.
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  • We're born again. but it comes as a seed. you know, you have muscles.
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  • But it comes as a seed. you know, you have muscles. you might not look like it,
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  • You know, you have muscles. you might not look like it, but you got 'em.
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  • You might not look like it, but you got 'em. >> [audience laughing]
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  • But you got 'em. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: maybe nobody can
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: maybe nobody can see 'em, but they're there.
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  • >> joyce: maybe nobody can see 'em, but they're there. >> [audience laughing]
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  • See 'em, but they're there. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and the only way
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and the only way anybody is ever gonna see 'em,
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  • >> joyce: and the only way anybody is ever gonna see 'em, is if you exercise 'em.
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  • Anybody is ever gonna see 'em, is if you exercise 'em. well, love is not
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  • Is if you exercise 'em. well, love is not gonna grow if you
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  • Well, love is not gonna grow if you don't exercise it.
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  • Gonna grow if you don't exercise it. kindness won't grow
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  • Don't exercise it. kindness won't grow if you don't exercise it.
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  • Kindness won't grow if you don't exercise it. humility won't grow
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  • If you don't exercise it. humility won't grow if you don't exercise it.
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  • Humility won't grow if you don't exercise it. and so, the more we do what
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  • If you don't exercise it. and so, the more we do what god asks us to do--you know,
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  • And so, the more we do what god asks us to do--you know, the bible says,
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  • God asks us to do--you know, the bible says, "knowledge puffeth up."
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  • The bible says, "knowledge puffeth up." i know you can open that bible,
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  • And if you're like me, you got
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  • And if you're like me, you got a lot of stuff underlined.
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  • And if you're like me, you got a lot of stuff underlined. well, that don't mean
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  • A lot of stuff underlined. well, that don't mean we know anything.
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  • Well, that don't mean we know anything. >> [audience laughing]
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  • We know anything. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and aren't we proud
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and aren't we proud when the pastor says,
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  • >> joyce: and aren't we proud when the pastor says, "gonna preach on
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  • When the pastor says, "gonna preach on 1 corinthians 13 today,"
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  • "gonna preach on 1 corinthians 13 today," and you open your bible
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  • 1 corinthians 13 today," and you open your bible and you got the whole
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  • And you open your bible and you got the whole thing underlined,
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  • And you got the whole thing underlined, and highlighted in yellow.
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  • Thing underlined, and highlighted in yellow. and don't you secretly hope
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  • And highlighted in yellow. and don't you secretly hope the person sitting next to you,
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  • And don't you secretly hope the person sitting next to you, notices how spiritual you are?
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  • The person sitting next to you, notices how spiritual you are? >> [audience laughing]
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  • Notices how spiritual you are? >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: we do!
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: we do! you can color in your
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  • >> joyce: we do! you can color in your whole bible.
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  • You can color in your whole bible. i can give you a box of crayons,
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  • Whole bible. i can give you a box of crayons, and you can sit there
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  • I can give you a box of crayons, and you can sit there and color in your whole
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  • And you can sit there and color in your whole bible all weekend, and that
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  • And color in your whole bible all weekend, and that doesn't mean you know anything.
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  • Bible all weekend, and that doesn't mean you know anything. >> [audience laughing]
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  • Doesn't mean you know anything. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: how do you know
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: how do you know when you know something?
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  • >> joyce: how do you know when you know something? when you're doing it.
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  • When you know something? when you're doing it. >> [audience applauding]
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  • When you're doing it. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: only when
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: only when you're doing it.
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  • >> joyce: only when you're doing it. i know the power of forgiveness,
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  • You're doing it. i know the power of forgiveness, when i'm doing it.
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  • I know the power of forgiveness, when i'm doing it. i know the power of prayer,
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  • When i'm doing it. i know the power of prayer, when i pray about things instead
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  • I know the power of prayer, when i pray about things instead of worrying about them.
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  • When i pray about things instead of worrying about them. i know the power of giving,
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  • Of worrying about them. i know the power of giving, when i give.
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  • Joshua 1:8--way over in the very
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  • Joshua 1:8--way over in the very beginning of the old testament
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  • Joshua 1:8--way over in the very beginning of the old testament says, "meditate on the word
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  • Beginning of the old testament says, "meditate on the word of god day and night,
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  • Says, "meditate on the word of god day and night, that you might observe
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  • Of god day and night, that you might observe and do according to all
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  • That you might observe and do according to all that's written therein.
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  • And do according to all that's written therein. for then you shall deal wisely,
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  • That's written therein. for then you shall deal wisely, make your way prosperous
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  • For then you shall deal wisely, make your way prosperous and have success."
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  • Make your way prosperous and have success." but see, we wanna have
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  • And have success." but see, we wanna have the prosperity and success,
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  • And skip the doing.
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  • And skip the doing. and you can't do that.
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  • And skip the doing. and you can't do that. we're partners with god.
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  • And you can't do that. we're partners with god. and god has made 7,000 promises
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  • We're partners with god. and god has made 7,000 promises to us in the word of god,
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  • And god has made 7,000 promises to us in the word of god, but there is something
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  • To us in the word of god, but there is something for us to do.
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  • I marvel at the fact that
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  • I marvel at the fact that when jesus went to raise
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  • I marvel at the fact that when jesus went to raise lazarus from the dead,
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  • When jesus went to raise lazarus from the dead, he told the people
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  • Lazarus from the dead, he told the people to roll away the stone.
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  • He told the people to roll away the stone. now, let me ask you,
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  • To roll away the stone. now, let me ask you, if you're getting ready
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  • Now, let me ask you, if you're getting ready to raise a dead man...
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  • If you're getting ready to raise a dead man... >> [audience laughing]
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  • To raise a dead man... >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: why would you need
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: why would you need people to roll away the stone?
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  • >> joyce: why would you need people to roll away the stone? why not just blow
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  • People to roll away the stone? why not just blow that baby outta there?
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  • Why not just blow that baby outta there? >> [audience laughing]
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  • >> joyce: [pow]
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  • >> joyce: [pow] >> [audience laughing]
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  • >> joyce [laughs]
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  • >> joyce [laughs] because they had
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  • >> joyce [laughs] because they had to use their faith.
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  • Because they had to use their faith. see, god only moves
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  • To use their faith. see, god only moves through our faith.
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  • See, god only moves through our faith. the devil moves through
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  • Through our faith. the devil moves through our fear, and god moves
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  • The devil moves through our fear, and god moves through our faith.
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  • Our fear, and god moves through our faith. >> [audience applauding]
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  • >> joyce: and faith is a force
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  • >> joyce: and faith is a force on the inside of us,
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  • >> joyce: and faith is a force on the inside of us, but it must be activated.
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  • On the inside of us, but it must be activated. and the way we activate it,
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  • But it must be activated. and the way we activate it, is through praying,
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  • And the way we activate it, is through praying, through saying,
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  • Is through praying, through saying, and through doing.
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  • Through saying, and through doing. when i say, "i trust god,"
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  • And through doing. when i say, "i trust god," i'm releasing my faith.
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  • When i say, "i trust god," i'm releasing my faith. when i pray instead of worrying,
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  • I'm releasing my faith. when i pray instead of worrying, i'm releasing my faith.
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  • When i pray instead of worrying, i'm releasing my faith. and when i go roll away
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  • I'm releasing my faith. and when i go roll away the stone because god said to,
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  • And when i go roll away the stone because god said to, i'm releasing my faith.
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  • The stone because god said to, i'm releasing my faith. >> [audience applauding]
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  • I'm releasing my faith. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: we have to start
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: we have to start doing what god tells us to do.
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  • "well, it's just so hard.
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  • "well, it's just so hard. it's just so hard."
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  • "well, it's just so hard. it's just so hard." no, being disobedient
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  • It's just so hard." no, being disobedient is hard, because then
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  • No, being disobedient is hard, because then your life is a mess.
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  • Is hard, because then your life is a mess. c'mon, i've been at this
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  • Your life is a mess. c'mon, i've been at this 45 years, i've tried it every
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  • C'mon, i've been at this 45 years, i've tried it every way that you can try it.
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  • 45 years, i've tried it every way that you can try it. and the only way that you're
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  • Way that you can try it. and the only way that you're gonna end up with what god
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  • And the only way that you're gonna end up with what god wants you to have, is to do
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  • Gonna end up with what god wants you to have, is to do what he tells you to do.
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  • Wants you to have, is to do what he tells you to do. >> [audience applauding]
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  • What he tells you to do. >> [audience applauding] >> audience member: we love you,
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> audience member: we love you, joyce!
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  • >> audience member: we love you, joyce! >> joyce: i love you more!
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  • Joyce! >> joyce: i love you more! >> [audience cheering]
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  • >> joyce: alright,
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  • >> joyce: alright, 1 corinthians 13:4-8,
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  • >> joyce: alright, 1 corinthians 13:4-8, "love endures long
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  • 1 corinthians 13:4-8, "love endures long and is patient and kind;
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  • "love endures long and is patient and kind; love never is envious nor
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  • And is patient and kind; love never is envious nor boils over with jealousy,
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  • Love never is envious nor boils over with jealousy, it is not boastful,
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  • Boils over with jealousy, it is not boastful, vainglorious, it does not
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  • It is not boastful, vainglorious, it does not display itself haughtily.
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  • Vainglorious, it does not display itself haughtily. it is not conceited (arrogant
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  • Display itself haughtily. it is not conceited (arrogant and inflated with pride);
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  • It is not conceited (arrogant and inflated with pride); it is not rude and (unmannerly)
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  • And inflated with pride); it is not rude and (unmannerly) does not act unbecomingly.
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  • It is not rude and (unmannerly) does not act unbecomingly. love (god's love in us) does
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  • Does not act unbecomingly. love (god's love in us) does not insist on its own rights
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  • Love (god's love in us) does not insist on its own rights or its own way,
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  • Not insist on its own rights or its own way, for it is not self-seeking;
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  • Or its own way, for it is not self-seeking; it is not touchy or fretful
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  • For it is not self-seeking; it is not touchy or fretful or resentful; it takes
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  • It is not touchy or fretful or resentful; it takes no account of the evil done
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  • Or resentful; it takes no account of the evil done to it [it pays no attention
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  • No account of the evil done to it [it pays no attention to a suffered wrong].
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  • To it [it pays no attention to a suffered wrong]. it does not rejoice at injustice
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  • To a suffered wrong]. it does not rejoice at injustice and unrighteousness.
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  • It does not rejoice at injustice and unrighteousness. love bears up under anything
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  • And unrighteousness. love bears up under anything and everything that comes,
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  • Love bears up under anything and everything that comes, is ever ready to believe
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  • And everything that comes, is ever ready to believe the best of every person,
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  • Is ever ready to believe the best of every person, its hopes are fadeless
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  • The best of every person, its hopes are fadeless under all circumstances,
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  • Its hopes are fadeless under all circumstances, and it endures everything
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  • Under all circumstances, and it endures everything [without weakening].
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  • And it endures everything [without weakening]. love never fails."
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  • [without weakening]. love never fails." now, that's good.
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  • We just read all
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  • We just read all the stuff about love.
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  • We just read all the stuff about love. but now, we're gonna have
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  • The stuff about love. but now, we're gonna have to spend the weekend
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  • But now, we're gonna have to spend the weekend taking it apart.
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  • To spend the weekend taking it apart. because these are
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  • Taking it apart. because these are the things that love
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  • Because these are the things that love is seen through.
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  • The things that love is seen through. love is seen through being
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  • Is seen through. love is seen through being patient with somebody
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  • Love is seen through being patient with somebody else's weakness.
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  • Patient with somebody else's weakness. they feel loved, when instead
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  • Else's weakness. they feel loved, when instead of making them feel stupid--
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  • They feel loved, when instead of making them feel stupid-- >> [audience applauding]
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  • >> joyce: the new clerk
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  • >> joyce: the new clerk at the grocery store,
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  • >> joyce: the new clerk at the grocery store, she's nervous,
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  • At the grocery store, she's nervous, it's her first day.
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  • She's nervous, it's her first day. this was me 45 years ago.
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  • Come through, got my big
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  • Come through, got my big rhinestone "jesus" pin on.
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  • Come through, got my big rhinestone "jesus" pin on. >> [audience laughing]
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  • Rhinestone "jesus" pin on. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: any of you ever
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: any of you ever have one of those?
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  • >> joyce: any of you ever have one of those? >> [audience laughing]
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  • Have one of those? >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: those were big in my--
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: those were big in my-- big rhinestone "jesus" pin.
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  • >> joyce: those were big in my-- big rhinestone "jesus" pin. and of course,
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  • Big rhinestone "jesus" pin. and of course, i was in a hurry because
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  • And of course, i was in a hurry because i needed to get home and pray.
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  • I was in a hurry because i needed to get home and pray. >> [audience laughing]
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  • I needed to get home and pray. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and so, she's
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and so, she's getting--there's no price
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  • >> joyce: and so, she's getting--there's no price on this item, and she's
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  • Getting--there's no price on this item, and she's gettin' all mixed up,
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  • On this item, and she's gettin' all mixed up, and she runs out of tape
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  • Gettin' all mixed up, and she runs out of tape in her register,
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  • And she runs out of tape in her register, and she's a nervous wreck.
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  • In her register, and she's a nervous wreck. and you know, here i am
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  • And she's a nervous wreck. and you know, here i am [heavy sighs].
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  • And you know, here i am [heavy sighs]. >> [audience laughing]
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  • [heavy sighs]. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: now, that
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: now, that is not love,
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  • >> joyce: now, that is not love, because that is not
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  • Is not love, because that is not patient, and that is what makes
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  • Because that is not patient, and that is what makes people not like christians.
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  • Patient, and that is what makes people not like christians. 'cause i had my "jesus" pin,
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  • People not like christians. 'cause i had my "jesus" pin, but i was making
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  • 'cause i had my "jesus" pin, but i was making her feel awful.
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  • But i was making her feel awful. now, love--you don't have
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  • Her feel awful. now, love--you don't have to wear the pin.
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  • Now, love--you don't have to wear the pin. >> [audience laughing]
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  • To wear the pin. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: love is to say,
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: love is to say, "don't worry about it,
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  • >> joyce: love is to say, "don't worry about it, just take your time,
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  • "don't worry about it, just take your time, you're doing good,
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  • Just take your time, you're doing good, we've all been new at things,
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  • You're doing good, we've all been new at things, you're gonna do great."
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  • We've all been new at things, you're gonna do great." and then it's to pray
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  • You're gonna do great." and then it's to pray for her when you leave.
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  • And then it's to pray for her when you leave. you pray for her that
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  • For her when you leave. you pray for her that she'll do good at that job,
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  • You pray for her that she'll do good at that job, that she'll learn quickly.
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  • She'll do good at that job, that she'll learn quickly. >> [audience laughing]
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  • That she'll learn quickly. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: quickly.
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: quickly. >> [audience laughing]
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  • >> joyce: quickly. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: we were
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: we were in a restaurant one night
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  • >> joyce: we were in a restaurant one night after i had done a conference,
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  • In a restaurant one night after i had done a conference, and i was tired, i'd done four
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  • After i had done a conference, and i was tired, i'd done four or five sessions.
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  • And i was tired, i'd done four or five sessions. i used to be like a nutcase,
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  • Or five sessions. i used to be like a nutcase, probably prayed for
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  • I used to be like a nutcase, probably prayed for everybody in the building.
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  • Probably prayed for everybody in the building. and we went out to eat,
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  • Everybody in the building. and we went out to eat, and we made a reservation
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  • And we went out to eat, and we made a reservation and then when we got there,
  • 00:11:26.842 --> 00:11:27.643
  • And we made a reservation and then when we got there, they told us they didn't
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  • And then when we got there, they told us they didn't take reservations.
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  • They told us they didn't take reservations. it's like, "well, why did you
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  • Take reservations. it's like, "well, why did you take ours, if you don't
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  • It's like, "well, why did you take ours, if you don't take reservations?"
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  • Take ours, if you don't take reservations?" >> [audience laughing]
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  • >> joyce: so, we had to wait
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  • >> joyce: so, we had to wait 45 minutes to get a table.
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  • >> joyce: so, we had to wait 45 minutes to get a table. and there was a whole bunch
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  • 45 minutes to get a table. and there was a whole bunch of people with us, we had
  • 00:11:42.158 --> 00:11:42.958
  • And there was a whole bunch of people with us, we had probably 12 people with us.
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  • Of people with us, we had probably 12 people with us. so, we had this big table,
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  • Probably 12 people with us. so, we had this big table, and this girl comes and takes
  • 00:11:45.961 --> 00:11:48.397
  • So, we had this big table, and this girl comes and takes our order, and she seemed
  • 00:11:48.464 --> 00:11:49.465
  • And this girl comes and takes our order, and she seemed a little nervous, but she
  • 00:11:49.532 --> 00:11:50.533
  • Our order, and she seemed a little nervous, but she took the order, and we gave
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  • A little nervous, but she took the order, and we gave her drink orders.
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  • Took the order, and we gave her drink orders. and so, she comes back
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  • Her drink orders. and so, she comes back with this big tray.
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  • And so, she comes back with this big tray. and there wasn't much room
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  • With this big tray. and there wasn't much room between the table and the wall,
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  • And there wasn't much room between the table and the wall, and she dumped the whole
  • 00:12:04.980 --> 00:12:06.081
  • Between the table and the wall, and she dumped the whole thing on dave.
  • 00:12:06.148 --> 00:12:07.216
  • And she dumped the whole thing on dave. >> audience: oh!
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  • Thing on dave. >> audience: oh! >> joyce: coke, water, iced tea,
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  • >> audience: oh! >> joyce: coke, water, iced tea, all down his suit.
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  • >> joyce: coke, water, iced tea, all down his suit. he was so kind.
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  • All down his suit. he was so kind. he said, "it's not a problem,
  • 00:12:26.402 --> 00:12:28.204
  • He was so kind. he said, "it's not a problem, don't worry about it."
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  • He said, "it's not a problem, don't worry about it." she went off crying.
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  • Don't worry about it." she went off crying. she came back and her
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  • She went off crying. she came back and her eyes were all red.
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  • She came back and her eyes were all red. dave went and got the manager
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  • Eyes were all red. dave went and got the manager and said, "i don't want her
  • 00:12:36.278 --> 00:12:37.112
  • Dave went and got the manager and said, "i don't want her to get in trouble,
  • 00:12:37.179 --> 00:12:37.880
  • And said, "i don't want her to get in trouble, it wasn't her fault,
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  • To get in trouble, it wasn't her fault, it's too crowded in here."
  • 00:12:39.081 --> 00:12:43.352
  • It wasn't her fault, it's too crowded in here." she looked across the table
  • 00:12:43.419 --> 00:12:44.587
  • It's too crowded in here." she looked across the table at me and she said, "i know who
  • 00:12:44.653 --> 00:12:47.089
  • She looked across the table at me and she said, "i know who you are, and i was so nervous
  • 00:12:47.156 --> 00:12:48.557
  • At me and she said, "i know who you are, and i was so nervous because i was waiting on you."
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  • You are, and i was so nervous because i was waiting on you." >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:12:49.892 --> 00:12:50.926
  • Because i was waiting on you." >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and i thought,
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and i thought, "oh, thank you, jesus!
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  • >> joyce: and i thought, "oh, thank you, jesus! thank you, thank you,
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  • "oh, thank you, jesus! thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you!
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  • Thank you, jesus, that
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  • I didn't act like an idiot!"
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  • I didn't act like an idiot!" >> [audience laughing]
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  • >> joyce: see, god told me,
  • 00:13:07.142 --> 00:13:07.943
  • >> joyce: see, god told me, "don't ever forget, joyce meyer,
  • 00:13:08.010 --> 00:13:10.012
  • >> joyce: see, god told me, "don't ever forget, joyce meyer, that however many people
  • 00:13:10.079 --> 00:13:11.380
  • "don't ever forget, joyce meyer, that however many people you can help, that's exactly
  • 00:13:11.447 --> 00:13:12.848
  • That however many people you can help, that's exactly how many you can hurt."
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  • You can help, that's exactly how many you can hurt." that's why you don't
  • 00:13:17.953 --> 00:13:18.754
  • How many you can hurt." that's why you don't need to be up here, if you're
  • 00:13:18.821 --> 00:13:20.022
  • That's why you don't need to be up here, if you're not gonna live the life.
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  • Need to be up here, if you're not gonna live the life. and that doesn't mean
  • 00:13:21.090 --> 00:13:21.657
  • Not gonna live the life. and that doesn't mean i don't make mistakes.
  • 00:13:21.724 --> 00:13:22.791
  • And that doesn't mean i don't make mistakes. but i'm talking about
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  • I don't make mistakes. but i'm talking about this nonsense of living
  • 00:13:23.959 --> 00:13:25.661
  • But i'm talking about this nonsense of living a double life.
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  • This nonsense of living a double life. preaching to people, and then
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  • A double life. preaching to people, and then not doing what you tell them.
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  • Preaching to people, and then not doing what you tell them. >> [audience applauding]
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  • Not doing what you tell them. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: henry drummond wrote
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: henry drummond wrote a book called "the greatest
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  • >> joyce: henry drummond wrote a book called "the greatest thing in the world,"
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  • A book called "the greatest thing in the world," and it's only about that thick.
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  • Thing in the world," and it's only about that thick. and i wanna encourage you
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  • And it's only about that thick. and i wanna encourage you to get a copy of that book,
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  • And i wanna encourage you to get a copy of that book, you can order it online.
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  • To get a copy of that book, you can order it online. i've got a real old copy.
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  • You can order it online. i've got a real old copy. it was written in the 1800's,
  • 00:13:56.859 --> 00:13:59.061
  • I've got a real old copy. it was written in the 1800's, and this one looks like
  • 00:13:59.128 --> 00:13:59.795
  • It was written in the 1800's, and this one looks like it might have come from there.
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  • And this one looks like it might have come from there. but i just bought--
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  • It might have come from there. but i just bought-- >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:14:02.631 --> 00:14:03.065
  • But i just bought-- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i just bought several
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i just bought several new copies, i wanted to give all
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  • >> joyce: i just bought several new copies, i wanted to give all my kids one and i gave dave one.
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  • New copies, i wanted to give all my kids one and i gave dave one. and man, he has got some
  • 00:14:07.403 --> 00:14:09.872
  • My kids one and i gave dave one. and man, he has got some one liners in there,
  • 00:14:09.939 --> 00:14:10.839
  • And man, he has got some one liners in there, that are just wonderful.
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  • One liners in there, that are just wonderful. and here's one of the things
  • 00:14:12.274 --> 00:14:13.242
  • That are just wonderful. and here's one of the things that he said.
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  • And here's one of the things that he said. he says,
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  • That he said. he says, "it is better not to live,
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  • He says, "it is better not to live, than to live and not love."
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  • "it is better not to live, than to live and not love." wow.
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  • Than to live and not love." wow. >> [audience applauding]
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  • Wow. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: so...
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: so... that's page one.
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  • >> joyce: so... that's page one. >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:14:35.764 --> 00:14:40.169
  • >> joyce: i did an extra
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  • >> joyce: i did an extra message--all day--i worked
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  • >> joyce: i did an extra message--all day--i worked all day yesterday,
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  • Message--all day--i worked all day yesterday, and i did an extra message
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  • All day yesterday, and i did an extra message 'cause i thought i wouldn't
  • 00:14:48.143 --> 00:14:48.811
  • And i did an extra message 'cause i thought i wouldn't have enough stuff.
  • 00:14:48.877 --> 00:14:49.645
  • 'cause i thought i wouldn't have enough stuff. i'm so funny.
  • 00:14:49.712 --> 00:14:51.113
  • Have enough stuff. i'm so funny. >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:14:51.180 --> 00:14:54.817
  • >> joyce: jesus said,
  • 00:14:55.284 --> 00:14:57.086
  • >> joyce: jesus said, john 13:34 and 35, "one new
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  • >> joyce: jesus said, john 13:34 and 35, "one new commandment i give unto you--"
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  • John 13:34 and 35, "one new commandment i give unto you--" one!
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  • Commandment i give unto you--" one! "love one another.
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  • One! "love one another. as i have loved you.
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  • "love one another. as i have loved you. by this shall all men know
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  • As i have loved you. by this shall all men know that you are my disciples."
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  • By this shall all men know that you are my disciples." >> [audience cheering]
  • 00:15:16.372 --> 00:15:18.607
  • That you are my disciples." >> [audience cheering] >> joyce: he said in this one
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  • Commandment, you fulfill all
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  • Commandment, you fulfill all the law and all the prophets.
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  • Commandment, you fulfill all the law and all the prophets. and they had thousands
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  • The law and all the prophets. and they had thousands of laws in the old testament.
  • 00:15:27.916 --> 00:15:30.052
  • And they had thousands of laws in the old testament. he said, all you gotta
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  • Of laws in the old testament. he said, all you gotta do is love.
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  • He said, all you gotta do is love. if you love, you won't
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  • Do is love. if you love, you won't sin against anybody,
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  • If you love, you won't sin against anybody, you won't hurt anybody,
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  • Sin against anybody, you won't hurt anybody, you won't be jealous of 'em,
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  • You won't hurt anybody, you won't be jealous of 'em, you'll forgive 'em.
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  • Honestly, i mean, if we didn't
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  • Honestly, i mean, if we didn't study anything but love
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  • Honestly, i mean, if we didn't study anything but love the rest of our life,
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  • Study anything but love the rest of our life, we'd be ok.
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  • The rest of our life, we'd be ok. because all the rest
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  • We'd be ok. because all the rest of it would just come.
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  • Matthew 22:37-39, they asked
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  • Matthew 22:37-39, they asked jesus which one of your
  • 00:16:01.283 --> 00:16:03.585
  • Matthew 22:37-39, they asked jesus which one of your commandments is the heaviest?
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  • Jesus which one of your commandments is the heaviest? which one is the most important?
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  • Commandments is the heaviest? which one is the most important? "and he said, you shall
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  • Which one is the most important? "and he said, you shall love the lord your god
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  • "and he said, you shall love the lord your god with all your heart,
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  • Love the lord your god with all your heart, with all your soul,
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  • With all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind
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  • With all your soul, with all your mind and all your strength.
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  • With all your mind and all your strength. and you shall love your
  • 00:16:12.895 --> 00:16:13.595
  • And all your strength. and you shall love your neighbor even as you
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  • And you shall love your neighbor even as you love yourself."
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  • Neighbor even as you love yourself." see, you're even supposed
  • 00:16:17.733 --> 00:16:18.434
  • Love yourself." see, you're even supposed to love yourself in a balanced,
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  • Not a selfish--like,
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  • Not a selfish--like, "oh, i'm so wonderful."
  • 00:16:22.704 --> 00:16:23.672
  • Not a selfish--like, "oh, i'm so wonderful." but you're supposed
  • 00:16:23.739 --> 00:16:24.373
  • "oh, i'm so wonderful." but you're supposed to love yourself,
  • 00:16:24.440 --> 00:16:25.207
  • But you're supposed to love yourself, because god loves you.
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  • To love yourself, because god loves you. and you haven't really
  • 00:16:31.480 --> 00:16:32.214
  • Because god loves you. and you haven't really received god's love until
  • 00:16:32.281 --> 00:16:34.349
  • And you haven't really received god's love until you love yourself.
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  • Received god's love until you love yourself. love the you that god created,
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  • You love yourself. love the you that god created, the you that you're becoming.
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  • In 1 timothy 1:5, i love this,
  • 00:16:50.699 --> 00:16:56.338
  • In 1 timothy 1:5, i love this, timothy said, "the purpose
  • 00:16:56.405 --> 00:16:57.673
  • In 1 timothy 1:5, i love this, timothy said, "the purpose of my instruction--"
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  • Timothy said, "the purpose of my instruction--" all these things
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  • Of my instruction--" all these things i'm teaching you,
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  • All these things i'm teaching you, is that all believers would
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  • I'm teaching you, is that all believers would be filled with "love that
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  • Is that all believers would be filled with "love that comes from a pure heart,
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  • Be filled with "love that comes from a pure heart, a (clear) conscience,
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  • Comes from a pure heart, a (clear) conscience, and genuine faith."
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  • A (clear) conscience, and genuine faith." so, he said "that's
  • 00:17:13.689 --> 00:17:14.223
  • And genuine faith." so, he said "that's the whole deal."
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  • I'm gonna say it again,
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  • I'm gonna say it again, we should study love,
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  • I'm gonna say it again, we should study love, pray about love,
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  • We should study love, pray about love, practice love,
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  • Pray about love, practice love, know scriptures on love.
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  • Study stuff you need.
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  • Study stuff you need. i mean, it's ok to like read
  • 00:17:34.009 --> 00:17:35.477
  • Study stuff you need. i mean, it's ok to like read the bible through every year,
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  • I mean, it's ok to like read the bible through every year, if that's what you wanna do.
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  • The bible through every year, if that's what you wanna do. or just--but you know,
  • 00:17:37.679 --> 00:17:38.814
  • If that's what you wanna do. or just--but you know, just gettin' in the bible
  • 00:17:38.881 --> 00:17:39.982
  • Or just--but you know, just gettin' in the bible and seeing how much you
  • 00:17:40.048 --> 00:17:40.716
  • Just gettin' in the bible and seeing how much you can read every day,
  • 00:17:40.782 --> 00:17:41.550
  • And seeing how much you can read every day, i don't really know how much
  • 00:17:41.617 --> 00:17:42.918
  • Can read every day, i don't really know how much good that does anybody.
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  • I don't really know how much good that does anybody. i think we need to study
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  • Good that does anybody. i think we need to study in areas where we have
  • 00:17:49.024 --> 00:17:50.392
  • I think we need to study in areas where we have weaknesses and issues
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  • In areas where we have weaknesses and issues and problems.
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  • I think we spend
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  • I think we spend too much time trying to fix
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  • I think we spend too much time trying to fix the problem, and not enough
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  • Too much time trying to fix the problem, and not enough time on the answer.
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  • The problem, and not enough time on the answer. we go about it backwards.
  • 00:18:07.242 --> 00:18:09.511
  • Time on the answer. we go about it backwards. you know, if we have a bad
  • 00:18:09.578 --> 00:18:11.180
  • We go about it backwards. you know, if we have a bad habit, we try to break the bad
  • 00:18:11.246 --> 00:18:12.915
  • You know, if we have a bad habit, we try to break the bad habit, and what we should
  • 00:18:12.981 --> 00:18:14.116
  • Habit, we try to break the bad habit, and what we should do is form a good habit,
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  • Habit, and what we should do is form a good habit, and then the bad habit won't
  • 00:18:16.251 --> 00:18:17.419
  • Do is form a good habit, and then the bad habit won't have any room in our life.
  • 00:18:17.486 --> 00:18:25.627
  • And then the bad habit won't have any room in our life. loving people who
  • 00:18:25.694 --> 00:18:26.495
  • Have any room in our life. loving people who are hard to love.
  • 00:18:26.562 --> 00:18:30.299
  • Loving people who are hard to love. you know, there's a lot
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  • Of stuffed animals,
  • 00:18:31.099 --> 00:18:32.000
  • Of stuffed animals, but i've never bought one
  • 00:18:32.067 --> 00:18:33.135
  • Of stuffed animals, but i've never bought one of my kids or grandkids
  • 00:18:33.202 --> 00:18:34.369
  • But i've never bought one of my kids or grandkids a stuffed porcupine.
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  • Of my kids or grandkids a stuffed porcupine. >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:18:36.405 --> 00:18:39.074
  • A stuffed porcupine. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i didn't even think
  • 00:18:39.141 --> 00:18:39.942
  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i didn't even think they existed, but i looked
  • 00:18:40.008 --> 00:18:41.076
  • >> joyce: i didn't even think they existed, but i looked online and sure enough
  • 00:18:41.143 --> 00:18:42.044
  • They existed, but i looked online and sure enough they're there.
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  • Online and sure enough they're there. >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:18:42.878 --> 00:18:45.447
  • They're there. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: but i watched
  • 00:18:45.514 --> 00:18:46.181
  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: but i watched a special on porcupines
  • 00:18:46.248 --> 00:18:47.516
  • >> joyce: but i watched a special on porcupines and they have 30,000
  • 00:18:47.583 --> 00:18:49.751
  • A special on porcupines and they have 30,000 quills that...
  • 00:18:49.818 --> 00:18:52.521
  • And they have 30,000 quills that... come out.
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  • Quills that... come out. but believe it or not,
  • 00:18:54.523 --> 00:18:56.458
  • Come out. but believe it or not, once a year,
  • 00:18:56.525 --> 00:18:59.027
  • But believe it or not, once a year, a male and a female
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  • Once a year, a male and a female porcupine manage
  • 00:19:00.229 --> 00:19:01.530
  • A male and a female porcupine manage to get together.
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  • Porcupine manage to get together. >> [audience laughing]
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  • To get together. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: but, the woman
  • 00:19:06.235 --> 00:19:08.637
  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: but, the woman is in charge.
  • 00:19:08.704 --> 00:19:11.573
  • >> joyce: but, the woman is in charge. >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:19:11.640 --> 00:19:12.641
  • Is in charge. >> [audience laughing] >> [audience cheering]
  • 00:19:12.708 --> 00:19:15.377
  • >> [audience laughing] >> [audience cheering] >> joyce: she's like,
  • 00:19:15.444 --> 00:19:16.011
  • >> [audience cheering] >> joyce: she's like, "if i say, 'no,' it's no,
  • 00:19:16.078 --> 00:19:19.481
  • >> joyce: she's like, "if i say, 'no,' it's no, or out comes the quills."
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  • "if i say, 'no,' it's no, or out comes the quills." >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:19:21.650 --> 00:19:22.384
  • Or out comes the quills." >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: all 30--
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: all 30-- listen, i read it.
  • 00:19:23.185 --> 00:19:24.453
  • >> joyce: all 30-- listen, i read it. like, i'm not making this up.
  • 00:19:24.519 --> 00:19:25.587
  • Listen, i read it. like, i'm not making this up. >> [audience laughing]
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  • >> joyce: [sighing] oohkay!
  • 00:19:33.595 --> 00:19:35.931
  • >> joyce: [sighing] oohkay! >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:19:35.998 --> 00:19:40.402
  • >> joyce: love can only
  • 00:19:43.305 --> 00:19:44.106
  • >> joyce: love can only be known from the actions
  • 00:19:44.172 --> 00:19:45.340
  • >> joyce: love can only be known from the actions that it prompts.
  • 00:19:45.407 --> 00:19:47.042
  • Be known from the actions that it prompts. god's love is seen
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  • That it prompts. god's love is seen in the gift of his son.
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  • God's love is seen in the gift of his son. now, if i say to you,
  • 00:19:49.778 --> 00:19:50.879
  • In the gift of his son. now, if i say to you, "i love you," i'm not saying
  • 00:19:50.946 --> 00:19:52.347
  • Now, if i say to you, "i love you," i'm not saying that doesn't mean
  • 00:19:52.414 --> 00:19:53.081
  • "i love you," i'm not saying that doesn't mean anything to you.
  • 00:19:53.148 --> 00:19:55.317
  • That doesn't mean anything to you. but if i say to you,
  • 00:19:55.384 --> 00:19:56.451
  • Anything to you. but if i say to you, "i love you," but i never
  • 00:19:56.518 --> 00:19:57.886
  • But if i say to you, "i love you," but i never do anything that shows that,
  • 00:19:57.953 --> 00:20:02.924
  • "i love you," but i never do anything that shows that, then it just becomes
  • 00:20:02.991 --> 00:20:03.959
  • Do anything that shows that, then it just becomes a bunch of empty words.
  • 00:20:04.026 --> 00:20:08.864
  • Then it just becomes a bunch of empty words. but we could show love
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  • A bunch of empty words. but we could show love and never say it,
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  • But we could show love and never say it, and a person would know
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  • And never say it, and a person would know that they were loved.
  • 00:20:14.836 --> 00:20:19.241
  • We have to start doing.
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  • We have to start doing. but whose job is it?
  • 00:20:25.314 --> 00:20:28.517
  • We have to start doing. but whose job is it? well, here's a story i heard
  • 00:20:28.583 --> 00:20:30.619
  • But whose job is it? well, here's a story i heard years ago about four people
  • 00:20:30.686 --> 00:20:31.887
  • Well, here's a story i heard years ago about four people named everybody, somebody,
  • 00:20:31.953 --> 00:20:33.088
  • Years ago about four people named everybody, somebody, anybody, and nobody.
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  • Named everybody, somebody, anybody, and nobody. >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:20:34.022 --> 00:20:39.494
  • Anybody, and nobody. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: "there was
  • 00:20:39.561 --> 00:20:40.128
  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: "there was an important job to be done,
  • 00:20:40.195 --> 00:20:41.063
  • >> joyce: "there was an important job to be done, and everybody was sure
  • 00:20:41.129 --> 00:20:41.930
  • An important job to be done, and everybody was sure somebody would do it.
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  • Anybody could have done it,
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  • Anybody could have done it, but nobody did it."
  • 00:20:46.568 --> 00:20:47.536
  • Anybody could have done it, but nobody did it." >> [audience laughing]
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  • But nobody did it." >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: "somebody got
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: "somebody got angry about that, because
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  • >> joyce: "somebody got angry about that, because it was everybody's job,
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  • Angry about that, because it was everybody's job, and everybody thought
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  • It was everybody's job, and everybody thought anybody could do it,
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  • And everybody thought anybody could do it, but nobody realized that
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  • Anybody could do it, but nobody realized that everybody wouldn't do it."
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  • But nobody realized that everybody wouldn't do it." >> [audience laughing]
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  • Everybody wouldn't do it." >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: "in the end,
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: "in the end, everybody blamed somebody,
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  • >> joyce: "in the end, everybody blamed somebody, when nobody did what
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  • Everybody blamed somebody, when nobody did what anybody could have done."
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  • When nobody did what anybody could have done." >> [audience laughing]
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  • Anybody could have done." >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: how many times
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: how many times do we say, "they need
  • 00:21:07.656 --> 00:21:09.358
  • >> joyce: how many times do we say, "they need to do something about that"?
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  • Do we say, "they need to do something about that"? who are "they?"
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  • To do something about that"? who are "they?" >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:21:13.929 --> 00:21:18.367
  • >> joyce: "well, they need
  • 00:21:18.433 --> 00:21:19.101
  • >> joyce: "well, they need to do something about that."
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  • >> joyce: "well, they need to do something about that." this nebulous "they."
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  • To do something about that." this nebulous "they." "they" say what colors
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  • This nebulous "they." "they" say what colors you can wear together.
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  • "they" say what colors you can wear together. and "they" say, and "they" say,
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  • You can wear together. and "they" say, and "they" say, we let "they" run our lives,
  • 00:21:33.181 --> 00:21:34.549
  • And "they" say, and "they" say, we let "they" run our lives, and we don't even know
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  • We let "they" run our lives, and we don't even know who "they" are.
  • 00:21:35.350 --> 00:21:35.984
  • And we don't even know who "they" are. >> [audience laughing]
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  • >> joyce: [laughs]
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  • >> joyce: [laughs] but just--from now on,
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  • >> joyce: [laughs] but just--from now on, just--you know what?
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  • But just--from now on, just--you know what? mmm...
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  • Just--you know what? mmm... >> [audience laughing]
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  • Mmm... >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i've just got
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i've just got so much to say.
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  • >> joyce: i've just got so much to say. >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:21:54.002 --> 00:21:58.807
  • So much to say. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: you know, i was
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: you know, i was praying one time for god
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  • >> joyce: you know, i was praying one time for god to help somebody.
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  • Praying one time for god to help somebody. [laughs]
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  • To help somebody. [laughs] and he said, "will you stop
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  • [laughs] and he said, "will you stop asking me, to do things that
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  • And he said, "will you stop asking me, to do things that you could easily do,
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  • Asking me, to do things that you could easily do, and just don't want to?"
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  • "god, they need
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  • "god, they need a new mattress,
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  • "god, they need a new mattress, they're sleepin' on the floor."
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  • A new mattress, they're sleepin' on the floor." >> [audience laughing]
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  • They're sleepin' on the floor." >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: "lord, would
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: "lord, would you provide a mattress?"
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  • >> joyce: "lord, would you provide a mattress?" "yes, i certainly will,
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  • You provide a mattress?" "yes, i certainly will, through you."
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  • "yes, i certainly will, through you." >> [audience laughing]
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  • Through you." >> [audience laughing] >> [audience applauding]
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: just get your little
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  • >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: just get your little "she" money outta your billfold.
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  • >> joyce: just get your little "she" money outta your billfold. c'mon, how many of you
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  • "she" money outta your billfold. c'mon, how many of you have "she" money?
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  • C'mon, how many of you have "she" money? >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:22:45.854 --> 00:22:46.521
  • Have "she" money? >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: yeah so, you don't
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: yeah so, you don't know what that is?
  • 00:22:47.489 --> 00:22:48.190
  • >> joyce: yeah so, you don't know what that is? that's money you hide.
  • 00:22:48.256 --> 00:22:49.691
  • Know what that is? that's money you hide. >> [audience laughing]
  • 00:22:49.758 --> 00:22:52.794
  • That's money you hide. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: dave has "he" money,
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: dave has "he" money, and i have "she" money.
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  • >> joyce: dave has "he" money, and i have "she" money. >> [audience laughing]
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  • And i have "she" money. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: well, i used
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  • >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: well, i used to have "she" money.
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  • >> joyce: well, i used to have "she" money. now, i actually keep money
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  • To have "she" money. now, i actually keep money in my wallet all the time,
  • 00:23:03.672 --> 00:23:05.207
  • Now, i actually keep money in my wallet all the time, tucked in a certain place,
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  • In my wallet all the time, tucked in a certain place, just to give to people,
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  • Tucked in a certain place, just to give to people, if i run into somebody
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  • Just to give to people, if i run into somebody that needs help.
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  • >> [cabinet closing]
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  • >> [cabinet closing] >> [refrigerator door
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  • >> [refrigerator door opening and closing]
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  • Opening and closing] >> announcer: as your day
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  • >> announcer: as your day begins, your thoughts
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  • Begins, your thoughts throughout the day matter.
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  • Throughout the day matter. >> [cereal pouring]
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  • >> [cereal pouring] >> announcer: and if
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  • >> announcer: and if they are negative,
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  • They are negative, it could be very--um...
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  • It could be very--um... >> [milk plopping]
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  • >> [milk plopping] >> announcer: shall we say,
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  • >> announcer: shall we say, risky?
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  • Risky? but this is exactly what our
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  • But this is exactly what our thought life can look like
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  • Thought life can look like when it's full of negativity;
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  • When it's full of negativity; the nice heaping bowl of trash.
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  • >> joyce: you know, it's very
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  • >> joyce: you know, it's very important to have a healthy
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  • Important to have a healthy spirit, soul, and body.
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  • Spirit, soul, and body. believe me,
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  • Believe me, i know from experience.
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  • I know from experience. early on, my thoughts
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  • Early on, my thoughts did not line up with
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  • Did not line up with god's word, and i started
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  • God's word, and i started to believe the wrong things.
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  • To believe the wrong things. it took me a while to learn
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  • It took me a while to learn about these negative
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  • About these negative thoughts, and how harmful
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  • Thoughts, and how harmful they were to me.
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  • They were to me. god showed me that there are
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  • God showed me that there are thoughts to reject, and healthy
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  • Thoughts to reject, and healthy thoughts to embrace.
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  • And that's exactly what
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  • And that's exactly what i will show you in my book,
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  • Unpleasant circumstance in our lives, we do have
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  • In our lives, we do have the power to change our
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  • The power to change our outlook through god's word.
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  • >> joyce: boy, you know,
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  • >> joyce: boy, you know, in today's world,
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  • In today's world, there are many stressors,
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  • How do we navigate all of life's pressures?
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  • All of life's pressures? well, god's word has
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  • Well, god's word has much to say about it.
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  • Much to say about it. so, i thought we could
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  • So, i thought we could all get together with
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  • All get together with some of my friends
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  • Some of my friends and talk about it.
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  • >> announcer: join us
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  • For the enjoying everyday life
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  • Everyday life conference.
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  • In hershey, pennsylvania. >> joyce: you know,
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  • >> joyce: you know, i have such a passion
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  • I have such a passion for teaching god's word,
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  • For teaching god's word, and it's even better when
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  • And it's even better when we all get together
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  • We all get together under one roof.
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  • Under one roof. so, i really hope
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  • So, i really hope to see you there.
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  • >> announcer:
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  • No pretense. joyce meyer's
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  • Joyce meyer's talk it out podcast.
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  • Talk it out podcast. join joyce, erin cluley,
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  • Join joyce, erin cluley, and me, ginger stache,
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  • And me, ginger stache, along with some amazing friends,
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  • Along with some amazing friends, as we honestly share
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  • As we honestly share the hard stuff,
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  • The hard stuff, laugh through those
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  • Laugh through those unpredictable moments,
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  • Unpredictable moments, and learn to apply what
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  • And learn to apply what god says about it all.
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  • God says about it all. watch or listen to new
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  • Watch or listen to new episodes every other tuesday,
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  • >> announcer: we hope you
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  • >> announcer: we hope you enjoyed today's program.
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  • Enjoyed today's program. we are so grateful
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  • We are so grateful to our joyce meyer
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  • To our joyce meyer ministries partners
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  • Who make this and all we do possible,
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  • And all we do possible, including sharing
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  • Including sharing god's word
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  • God's word and offering help
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  • And offering help to people in need
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  • To people in need all over the world.
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