Joyce Meyer - Your Comeback Starts Now

February 25, 2026 | 27:29

What if today was the turning point in your healing journey? Join Joyce, Ginger, and Erin as they share how you can overcome past hurts and move forward in freedom.

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Joyce Meyer: Enjoying Everyday Life | Joyce Meyer - Your Comeback Starts Now | February 25, 2026
  • >> joyce: please hear this.
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  • >> joyce: please hear this. take your pain
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  • >> joyce: please hear this. take your pain and do something
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  • Take your pain and do something good with it.
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  • And do something good with it. don't just park at your
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  • Good with it. don't just park at your pain and be bitter
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  • Don't just park at your pain and be bitter the rest of your life.
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  • Pain and be bitter the rest of your life. >> ginger: yeah.
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  • The rest of your life. >> ginger: yeah. and that's a very easy thing
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  • >> ginger: yeah. and that's a very easy thing to do is to get stuck at that
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  • And that's a very easy thing to do is to get stuck at that point of our pain and not
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  • To do is to get stuck at that point of our pain and not know how to move forward.
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  • >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer.
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  • >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer. i've seen god's power
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  • >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer. i've seen god's power transform my own life,
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  • I've seen god's power transform my own life, and he will do it for you.
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  • >> ginger: hey, everyone.
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  • >> ginger: hey, everyone. i'm so glad that you're
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  • >> ginger: hey, everyone. i'm so glad that you're joining us today on
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  • I'm so glad that you're joining us today on "enjoying everyday life."
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  • Joining us today on "enjoying everyday life." i know that you are going
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  • "enjoying everyday life." i know that you are going to be encouraged by our program
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  • I know that you are going to be encouraged by our program today because we are answering
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  • To be encouraged by our program today because we are answering some of your questions
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  • Today because we are answering some of your questions on a very important topic:
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  • Emotional healing.
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  • Emotional healing. so many of us carry
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  • Emotional healing. so many of us carry wounds in our soul,
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  • So many of us carry wounds in our soul, wounds of rejection,
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  • Wounds in our soul, wounds of rejection, abuse, loss.
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  • Wounds of rejection, abuse, loss. in today's discussion,
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  • Abuse, loss. in today's discussion, joyce will be sharing
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  • In today's discussion, joyce will be sharing her heart on emotional
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  • Joyce will be sharing her heart on emotional healing along with
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  • Her heart on emotional healing along with erin cluley and myself.
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  • Healing along with erin cluley and myself. i truly believe that this
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  • Erin cluley and myself. i truly believe that this conversation will inspire
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  • I truly believe that this conversation will inspire you to believe that
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  • Conversation will inspire you to believe that god can do something
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  • You to believe that god can do something good in your life even
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  • God can do something good in your life even with the pain you've suffered.
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  • >> ginger: there are
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  • >> ginger: there are so many people who need
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  • >> ginger: there are so many people who need to know this information,
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  • So many people who need to know this information, who need to know how
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  • To know this information, who need to know how much god wants to heal
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  • Who need to know how much god wants to heal and restore their wounded souls.
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  • Much god wants to heal and restore their wounded souls. and how many women feel like,
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  • And restore their wounded souls. and how many women feel like, "yes, you know,
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  • And how many women feel like, "yes, you know, my soul has been wounded
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  • "yes, you know, my soul has been wounded in many different ways."
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  • My soul has been wounded in many different ways." so, as we continue
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  • In many different ways." so, as we continue this discussion with
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  • So, as we continue this discussion with joyce and erin today,
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  • This discussion with joyce and erin today, we're gonna answer
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  • Joyce and erin today, we're gonna answer many of your questions.
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  • We're gonna answer many of your questions. and of course,
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  • Many of your questions. and of course, this is something that you've
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  • And of course, this is something that you've talked about so much, joyce,
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  • This is something that you've talked about so much, joyce, and it's been really
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  • Talked about so much, joyce, and it's been really greatly helpful for
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  • And it's been really greatly helpful for so many people's lives.
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  • Greatly helpful for so many people's lives. >> joyce: you know,
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  • So many people's lives. >> joyce: you know, i've been thinking
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  • >> joyce: you know, i've been thinking the last couple of days,
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  • I've been thinking the last couple of days, and i think that some people
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  • The last couple of days, and i think that some people have lived with dysfunction
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  • And i think that some people have lived with dysfunction so long that they
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  • Have lived with dysfunction so long that they think it's normal.
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  • So long that they think it's normal. >> erin: yeah, i agree.
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  • Think it's normal. >> erin: yeah, i agree. >> joyce: and so,
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  • >> erin: yeah, i agree. >> joyce: and so, i believe that there's
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  • >> joyce: and so, i believe that there's probably a lot of people
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  • I believe that there's probably a lot of people watching that have a problem,
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  • Probably a lot of people watching that have a problem, but they don't even know
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  • Watching that have a problem, but they don't even know they have a problem.
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  • But they don't even know they have a problem. and the bible says
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  • They have a problem. and the bible says in romans 12 that
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  • And the bible says in romans 12 that if you are going
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  • In romans 12 that if you are going to experience the good life
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  • If you are going to experience the good life that god has for yourself,
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  • To experience the good life that god has for yourself, you must have your mind
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  • That god has for yourself, you must have your mind "completely renewed."
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  • You must have your mind "completely renewed." and so, we have to get
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  • To the point where
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  • To the point where we believe what god says
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  • To the point where we believe what god says more than we believe what
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  • We believe what god says more than we believe what we say or what we feel.
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  • More than we believe what we say or what we feel. i know i grew up in a household
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  • We say or what we feel. i know i grew up in a household that was just very volatile
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  • I know i grew up in a household that was just very volatile all the time.
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  • That was just very volatile all the time. a lot of anger.
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  • All the time. a lot of anger. anger was more
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  • A lot of anger. anger was more normal than peace.
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  • Anger was more normal than peace. and this is gonna really
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  • Normal than peace. and this is gonna really sound ridiculous,
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  • And this is gonna really sound ridiculous, but when i first started really
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  • Sound ridiculous, but when i first started really getting peace, i was bored.
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  • But when i first started really getting peace, i was bored. >> ginger: yeah.
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  • Getting peace, i was bored. >> ginger: yeah. >> erin: because you were
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  • >> ginger: yeah. >> erin: because you were so unaccustomed to it.
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  • >> erin: because you were so unaccustomed to it. >> ginger: it makes sense.
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  • So unaccustomed to it. >> ginger: it makes sense. >> joyce: because i was so used
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  • >> ginger: it makes sense. >> joyce: because i was so used to turmoil all the time.
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  • >> joyce: because i was so used to turmoil all the time. >> ginger: yeah.
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  • To turmoil all the time. >> ginger: yeah. >> joyce: and of course, now,
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  • >> ginger: yeah. >> joyce: and of course, now, peace doesn't bore me at all.
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  • >> joyce: and of course, now, peace doesn't bore me at all. i love it.
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  • Peace doesn't bore me at all. i love it. but i do think--
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  • I love it. but i do think-- >> ginger: wait a minute.
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  • But i do think-- >> ginger: wait a minute. i don't want to brush
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  • >> ginger: wait a minute. i don't want to brush over what you just said,
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  • I don't want to brush over what you just said, because that's so important.
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  • Over what you just said, because that's so important. now peace doesn't bore you,
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  • Because that's so important. now peace doesn't bore you, because we do,
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  • Now peace doesn't bore you, because we do, we think we need something
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  • Because we do, we think we need something in our life to keep
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  • We think we need something in our life to keep us stirred up almost.
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  • In our life to keep us stirred up almost. >> joyce: we need to be doing
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  • Us stirred up almost. >> joyce: we need to be doing something all the time,
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  • >> joyce: we need to be doing something all the time, having something exciting.
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  • Something all the time, having something exciting. >> ginger: yes.
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  • Having something exciting. >> ginger: yes. >> erin: that's true.
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  • >> ginger: yes. >> erin: that's true. >> ginger: and when you
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  • >> erin: that's true. >> ginger: and when you begin to have that healing,
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  • >> ginger: and when you begin to have that healing, when you begin to feel god's
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  • Begin to have that healing, when you begin to feel god's peace, you realize,
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  • When you begin to feel god's peace, you realize, "hey, this is more
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  • Peace, you realize, "hey, this is more than i expected."
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  • >> erin: you know, and i wonder,
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  • >> erin: you know, and i wonder, because i've experienced
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  • >> erin: you know, and i wonder, because i've experienced this in my own life in seasons
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  • Because i've experienced this in my own life in seasons that have been really painful,
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  • This in my own life in seasons that have been really painful, that the mundane
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  • That have been really painful, that the mundane and the quiet feel
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  • That the mundane and the quiet feel scary because that's where
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  • And the quiet feel scary because that's where you can sit and think about
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  • What pain you might need
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  • What pain you might need to work through or where
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  • What pain you might need to work through or where you might need god to heal you.
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  • To work through or where you might need god to heal you. so, the quiet sometimes
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  • You might need god to heal you. so, the quiet sometimes feels a little bit scary.
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  • So, the quiet sometimes feels a little bit scary. >> joyce: well, and sometimes
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  • Feels a little bit scary. >> joyce: well, and sometimes people don't like the quiet
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  • >> joyce: well, and sometimes people don't like the quiet because then they have
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  • People don't like the quiet because then they have to be with themselves.
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  • Because then they have to be with themselves. >> erin: yes.
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  • To be with themselves. >> erin: yes. sometimes i don't want to.
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  • >> erin: yes. sometimes i don't want to. >> joyce: and a lot of people--
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  • Sometimes i don't want to. >> joyce: and a lot of people-- a lot of people don't even
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  • >> joyce: and a lot of people-- a lot of people don't even realize that a lot of their
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  • A lot of people don't even realize that a lot of their problems is how they
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  • Realize that a lot of their problems is how they feel about themselves.
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  • Problems is how they feel about themselves. >> erin: yeah, so much of it.
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  • Feel about themselves. >> erin: yeah, so much of it. >> joyce: that they just don't
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  • >> erin: yeah, so much of it. >> joyce: that they just don't feel good about themselves.
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  • And it's only been a year
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  • And it's only been a year or so ago when i came across
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  • And it's only been a year or so ago when i came across the scripture
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  • Or so ago when i came across the scripture in philemon 1:6 that says that
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  • The scripture in philemon 1:6 that says that your "faith is activated
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  • In philemon 1:6 that says that your "faith is activated by acknowledging all the good
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  • Your "faith is activated by acknowledging all the good things that are in you."
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  • By acknowledging all the good things that are in you." i mean, think about that.
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  • Things that are in you." i mean, think about that. >> erin: we do the opposite
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  • I mean, think about that. >> erin: we do the opposite of that.
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  • >> erin: we do the opposite of that. >> joyce: we do the opposite.
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  • Of that. >> joyce: we do the opposite. >> erin: we do.
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  • >> joyce: we do the opposite. >> erin: we do. >> joyce: but our
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  • >> erin: we do. >> joyce: but our faith is activated
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  • By the acknowledging
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  • By the acknowledging of all the good things
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  • By the acknowledging of all the good things that are in you.
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  • Of all the good things that are in you. and most people would think
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  • That are in you. and most people would think it's prideful to do that.
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  • And most people would think it's prideful to do that. but the thing is,
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  • It's prideful to do that. but the thing is, if you always know
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  • But the thing is, if you always know that it's in christ.
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  • If you always know that it's in christ. >> [ladies agreeing]
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  • That it's in christ. >> [ladies agreeing] >> joyce: you know,
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  • >> [ladies agreeing] >> joyce: you know, the bible says we're precious.
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  • >> joyce: you know, the bible says we're precious. we're created
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  • The bible says we're precious. we're created in the image of god.
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  • We're created in the image of god. that god rejoices
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  • In the image of god. that god rejoices over us with singing.
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  • That god rejoices over us with singing. and there's just, i mean,
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  • Over us with singing. and there's just, i mean, there's a long list
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  • And there's just, i mean, there's a long list of wonderful things
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  • There's a long list of wonderful things the bible says about us.
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  • Of wonderful things the bible says about us. and yet, most of us--
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  • The bible says about us. and yet, most of us-- i'm not anymore because
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  • And yet, most of us-- i'm not anymore because i've studied this so much,
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  • I'm not anymore because i've studied this so much, but you feel kind
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  • I've studied this so much, but you feel kind of foolish when you start
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  • But you feel kind of foolish when you start actually sitting and saying
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  • Of foolish when you start actually sitting and saying these things out loud.
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  • Actually sitting and saying these things out loud. >> ginger: well, and it's god
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  • These things out loud. >> ginger: well, and it's god who put those things in us.
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  • >> ginger: well, and it's god who put those things in us. where it's foolish
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  • Who put those things in us. where it's foolish is if we're trying
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  • Where it's foolish is if we're trying to take the credit for it.
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  • Is if we're trying to take the credit for it. so, if we can allow
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  • To take the credit for it. so, if we can allow ourselves to believe what
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  • So, if we can allow ourselves to believe what the word says and believe
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  • Ourselves to believe what the word says and believe that about ourselves,
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  • The word says and believe that about ourselves, that's the revelation that
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  • That about ourselves, that's the revelation that god wanted us to get.
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  • That's the revelation that god wanted us to get. >> joyce: but it takes
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  • God wanted us to get. >> joyce: but it takes us a while to get there.
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  • >> joyce: but it takes us a while to get there. >> ginger: oh, absolutely.
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  • Us a while to get there. >> ginger: oh, absolutely. >> joyce: because we've
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  • >> ginger: oh, absolutely. >> joyce: because we've actually almost been taught
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  • >> joyce: because we've actually almost been taught by religion that it's wrong.
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  • Actually almost been taught by religion that it's wrong. >> ginger: yeah.
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  • By religion that it's wrong. >> ginger: yeah. >> joyce: you know,
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  • >> ginger: yeah. >> joyce: you know, we're just sinners
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  • >> joyce: you know, we're just sinners and we're gonna
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  • We're just sinners and we're gonna sin all the time.
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  • And we're gonna sin all the time. and we constantly
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  • Sin all the time. and we constantly need forgiveness.
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  • And we constantly need forgiveness. and, you know,
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  • Need forgiveness. and, you know, i'm not saying that
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  • And, you know, i'm not saying that we don't need forgiveness,
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  • I'm not saying that we don't need forgiveness, but we have it.
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  • We don't need forgiveness, but we have it. it's already been provided.
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  • But we have it. it's already been provided. and god forgives us immediately.
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  • I like psalm 32 where
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  • I like psalm 32 where david says he finally
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  • I like psalm 32 where david says he finally admitted his sins and god
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  • David says he finally admitted his sins and god "instantly forgave" him.
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  • Admitted his sins and god "instantly forgave" him. in the amplified bible,
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  • "instantly forgave" him. in the amplified bible, it says that.
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  • >> ginger: what a great word.
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  • >> ginger: what a great word. >> joyce: yeah, so.
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  • >> ginger: what a great word. >> joyce: yeah, so. >> ginger: so, we wanna
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  • >> joyce: yeah, so. >> ginger: so, we wanna talk about a lot
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  • >> ginger: so, we wanna talk about a lot of different aspects.
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  • Talk about a lot of different aspects. and i think one thing
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  • Of different aspects. and i think one thing that might help people,
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  • And i think one thing that might help people, joyce--
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  • That might help people, joyce-- we're gonna listen
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  • Joyce-- we're gonna listen to a little teaching
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  • We're gonna listen to a little teaching you have on this too.
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  • To a little teaching you have on this too. but before we do that,
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  • You have on this too. but before we do that, let's talk about some
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  • But before we do that, let's talk about some of those things that
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  • Let's talk about some of those things that do wound our souls.
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  • Of those things that do wound our souls. because i think some people,
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  • Do wound our souls. because i think some people, right now, may be saying,
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  • Because i think some people, right now, may be saying, "i'm not sure," you know.
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  • But if you've been through
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  • But if you've been through what you've been through,
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  • But if you've been through what you've been through, if you've been through abuse--
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  • What you've been through, if you've been through abuse-- >> joyce: well, abuse, any kind.
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  • If you've been through abuse-- >> joyce: well, abuse, any kind. >> ginger: yeah.
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  • >> joyce: well, abuse, any kind. >> ginger: yeah. >> joyce: physical abuse,
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  • >> ginger: yeah. >> joyce: physical abuse, verbal abuse,
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  • >> joyce: physical abuse, verbal abuse, being compared to another
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  • Verbal abuse, being compared to another sibling that gets better
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  • Being compared to another sibling that gets better grades than you or...
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  • Sibling that gets better grades than you or... >> ginger: rejected.
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  • Grades than you or... >> ginger: rejected. >> joyce: emotional abuse,
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  • >> ginger: rejected. >> joyce: emotional abuse, not getting the love
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  • >> joyce: emotional abuse, not getting the love and affection that you need.
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  • Not getting the love and affection that you need. of course,
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  • And affection that you need. of course, sexual abuse is terrible.
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  • Of course, sexual abuse is terrible. but also, rejection,
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  • Sexual abuse is terrible. but also, rejection, rejection by peers,
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  • But also, rejection, rejection by peers, being made fun of.
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  • Rejection by peers, being made fun of. you know, there's just a lot
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  • Being made fun of. you know, there's just a lot of different things.
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  • You know, there's just a lot of different things. and people are different.
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  • Of different things. and people are different. and some things that would not
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  • Bother one person at all can
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  • Bother one person at all can deeply wound another person.
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  • Bother one person at all can deeply wound another person. >> ginger: yeah, it maybe
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  • Deeply wound another person. >> ginger: yeah, it maybe something like the loss
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  • >> ginger: yeah, it maybe something like the loss of someone you love that you're
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  • Something like the loss of someone you love that you're having a hard time getting over.
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  • Of someone you love that you're having a hard time getting over. it could be illness that
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  • Having a hard time getting over. it could be illness that you're walking through
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  • It could be illness that you're walking through yourself or with someone else.
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  • You're walking through yourself or with someone else. i mean, there are
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  • Yourself or with someone else. i mean, there are so many different
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  • I mean, there are so many different things in this world...
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  • So many different things in this world... >> joyce: right.
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  • Things in this world... >> joyce: right. >> ginger: because it's a fallen
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  • >> joyce: right. >> ginger: because it's a fallen world and we all have other
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  • >> ginger: because it's a fallen world and we all have other people's sins that we deal with.
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  • World and we all have other people's sins that we deal with. we have our own past
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  • People's sins that we deal with. we have our own past mistakes and sins that
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  • We have our own past mistakes and sins that we're dealing with.
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  • Mistakes and sins that we're dealing with. god forgives us,
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  • We're dealing with. god forgives us, but we don't always forgive
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  • God forgives us, but we don't always forgive ourselves that easily.
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  • But we don't always forgive ourselves that easily. >> erin: in your book,
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  • Ourselves that easily. >> erin: in your book, "healing the soul of a woman,"
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  • >> erin: in your book, "healing the soul of a woman," you have the page in there
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  • "healing the soul of a woman," you have the page in there that you list all the things
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  • You have the page in there that you list all the things or examples of things
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  • That you list all the things or examples of things that could cause you pain.
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  • Or examples of things that could cause you pain. and i remember
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  • That could cause you pain. and i remember reading it and thinking,
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  • And i remember reading it and thinking, "i didn't know that that
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  • Reading it and thinking, "i didn't know that that experience has marked me.
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  • "i didn't know that that experience has marked me. i didn't know that
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  • Experience has marked me. i didn't know that i'm probably responding
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  • I didn't know that i'm probably responding because that wounded me,
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  • I'm probably responding because that wounded me, and i didn't ever connect it."
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  • Because that wounded me, and i didn't ever connect it." and i think,
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  • And i didn't ever connect it." and i think, there's so many of us,
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  • And i think, there's so many of us, as women, specifically,
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  • There's so many of us, as women, specifically, we don't know why
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  • As women, specifically, we don't know why we respond a certain way.
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  • We don't know why we respond a certain way. "i don't know why
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  • We respond a certain way. "i don't know why when you do that,
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  • "i don't know why when you do that, it makes me upset.
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  • When you do that, it makes me upset. i just know
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  • It makes me upset. i just know i really don't like it."
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  • I just know i really don't like it." >> ginger: yeah.
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  • I really don't like it." >> ginger: yeah. >> erin: so, to be able
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  • >> ginger: yeah. >> erin: so, to be able to pinpoint and say,
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  • >> erin: so, to be able to pinpoint and say, "this is what caused that pain,"
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  • To pinpoint and say, "this is what caused that pain," and then to know what
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  • "this is what caused that pain," and then to know what you're working towards;
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  • And then to know what you're working towards; i think is just a game changer.
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  • You're working towards; i think is just a game changer. >> joyce: i watched
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  • I think is just a game changer. >> joyce: i watched a movie last night about
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  • >> joyce: i watched a movie last night about domestic abuse and it was
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  • A movie last night about domestic abuse and it was actually a true story.
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  • Domestic abuse and it was actually a true story. and these men were
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  • Actually a true story. and these men were meeting in a group;
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  • And these men were meeting in a group; they'd finally come
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  • Meeting in a group; they'd finally come to the point where they
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  • They'd finally come to the point where they wanted help and they
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  • To the point where they wanted help and they were meeting in a group.
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  • Wanted help and they were meeting in a group. and every one of them,
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  • Were meeting in a group. and every one of them, their fathers had been violent
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  • And every one of them, their fathers had been violent and had beat their mothers.
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  • Their fathers had been violent and had beat their mothers. >> erin: wow.
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  • And had beat their mothers. >> erin: wow. >> joyce: every one of them.
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  • >> erin: wow. >> joyce: every one of them. and so, it was learned behavior.
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  • >> joyce: every one of them. and so, it was learned behavior. and they were angry because
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  • And so, it was learned behavior. and they were angry because they saw their father
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  • And they were angry because they saw their father beat their mother.
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  • They saw their father beat their mother. and then they would take
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  • Beat their mother. and then they would take that anger out on their wife
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  • And then they would take that anger out on their wife or girlfriend or whatever.
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  • That anger out on their wife or girlfriend or whatever. and this was a true story.
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  • Or girlfriend or whatever. and this was a true story. it had a great ending.
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  • And this was a true story. it had a great ending. this couple got divorced
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  • It had a great ending. this couple got divorced and then he got healed.
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  • This couple got divorced and then he got healed. they got married again.
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  • And then he got healed. they got married again. and then they've opened
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  • They got married again. and then they've opened 70 centers for healing
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  • And then they've opened 70 centers for healing around the world.
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  • 70 centers for healing around the world. and so, that's the thing
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  • Around the world. and so, that's the thing to do is to take your pain--
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  • And so, that's the thing to do is to take your pain-- please hear this.
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  • To do is to take your pain-- please hear this. take your pain
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  • Please hear this. take your pain and do something
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  • Take your pain and do something good with it.
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  • And do something good with it. don't just park at your
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  • Good with it. don't just park at your pain and be bitter
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  • Don't just park at your pain and be bitter the rest of your life.
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  • Pain and be bitter the rest of your life. >> ginger: yeah.
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  • The rest of your life. >> ginger: yeah. and that's a very easy thing
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  • >> ginger: yeah. and that's a very easy thing to do is to get stuck at that
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  • And that's a very easy thing to do is to get stuck at that point of our pain and not
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  • To do is to get stuck at that point of our pain and not know how to move forward.
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  • Point of our pain and not know how to move forward. so, we're gonna see what
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  • Know how to move forward. so, we're gonna see what joyce has to say about that.
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  • So, we're gonna see what joyce has to say about that. and then we're gonna
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  • Joyce has to say about that. and then we're gonna come back and dig into how
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  • And then we're gonna come back and dig into how to do this with god's help.
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  • >> joyce: i don't know where
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  • >> joyce: i don't know where somebody maybe has left you.
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  • >> joyce: i don't know where somebody maybe has left you. maybe somebody you loved
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  • Somebody maybe has left you. maybe somebody you loved and trusted walked out on you,
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  • Maybe somebody you loved and trusted walked out on you, and you're sitting there now
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  • And trusted walked out on you, and you're sitting there now with a broken heart.
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  • And you're sitting there now with a broken heart. but you don't have to remain
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  • With a broken heart. but you don't have to remain where they left you.
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  • But you don't have to remain where they left you. you can get up, you can shake
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  • Where they left you. you can get up, you can shake it off, and you can go on
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  • You can get up, you can shake it off, and you can go on and do great things for god.
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  • It off, and you can go on and do great things for god. joseph decided somewhere down
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  • And do great things for god. joseph decided somewhere down within him that he was gonna
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  • Joseph decided somewhere down within him that he was gonna keep a good attitude, and that
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  • Within him that he was gonna keep a good attitude, and that he was gonna trust god to do
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  • Keep a good attitude, and that he was gonna trust god to do something for him in his life.
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  • Isaiah 61, verse 7.
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  • Isaiah 61, verse 7. i love this, love it, love it.
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  • Isaiah 61, verse 7. i love this, love it, love it. "instead of your [former] shame
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  • I love this, love it, love it. "instead of your [former] shame you'll have a twofold
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  • "instead of your [former] shame you'll have a twofold recompense; instead of dishonor
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  • You'll have a twofold recompense; instead of dishonor and reproach [your people] shall
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  • Recompense; instead of dishonor and reproach [your people] shall rejoice in their portion.
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  • And reproach [your people] shall rejoice in their portion. therefore in their land they
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  • Rejoice in their portion. therefore in their land they shall possess double--double
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  • [what they forfeited];
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  • [what they forfeited]; and everlasting joy shall
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  • [what they forfeited]; and everlasting joy shall be theirs."
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  • And everlasting joy shall be theirs." double for your trouble.
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  • Be theirs." double for your trouble. why?
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  • Double for your trouble. why? verse 8: "for i the lord
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  • Why? verse 8: "for i the lord love justice."
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  • Verse 8: "for i the lord love justice." that's just the bottom line.
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  • Love justice." that's just the bottom line. god loves justice.
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  • That's just the bottom line. god loves justice. now let me tell you something.
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  • God loves justice. now let me tell you something. i know that a lot of you
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  • Now let me tell you something. i know that a lot of you have been through
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  • I know that a lot of you have been through a lot of rough things.
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  • Have been through a lot of rough things. but you can let it make you
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  • A lot of rough things. but you can let it make you bitter or you can let it make
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  • But you can let it make you bitter or you can let it make you better.
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  • And actually, the things that
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  • And actually, the things that i went through--i had to make
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  • And actually, the things that i went through--i had to make a choice at one point but
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  • I went through--i had to make a choice at one point but they've actually made me strong.
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  • A choice at one point but they've actually made me strong. i mean, i am strong.
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  • They've actually made me strong. i mean, i am strong. strong inside.
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  • I mean, i am strong. strong inside. i don't quit, i don't give up.
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  • Strong inside. i don't quit, i don't give up. if i got a goal, i'm gonna
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  • Go after it.
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  • Go after it. i'm strong physically,
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  • Go after it. i'm strong physically, i'm strong.
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  • I'm strong physically, i'm strong. and you can be strong.
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  • I'm strong. and you can be strong. but sometimes, you've gotta go
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  • And you can be strong. but sometimes, you've gotta go through some stuff and, in the
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  • But sometimes, you've gotta go through some stuff and, in the middle of that going through,
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  • Through some stuff and, in the middle of that going through, you've gotta make a decision:
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  • Middle of that going through, you've gotta make a decision: "i'm not gonna park here at
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  • You've gotta make a decision: "i'm not gonna park here at the point of my pain and give
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  • "i'm not gonna park here at the point of my pain and give up on life.
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  • The point of my pain and give up on life. i am gonna go through with god
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  • Up on life. i am gonna go through with god and i believe this is gonna work
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  • I am gonna go through with god and i believe this is gonna work out good," amen?
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  • And i believe this is gonna work out good," amen? >> [audience applauding]
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  • >> ginger: amen.
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  • >> ginger: amen. >> joyce: amen, amen.
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  • >> ginger: amen. >> joyce: amen, amen. >> ginger: you mentioned
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  • >> joyce: amen, amen. >> ginger: you mentioned that verse isaiah 61:7,
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  • >> ginger: you mentioned that verse isaiah 61:7, that god will give us double
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  • That verse isaiah 61:7, that god will give us double for what's been taken from us.
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  • That god will give us double for what's been taken from us. and when you're
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  • For what's been taken from us. and when you're in the middle of something,
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  • And when you're in the middle of something, or maybe it's been years
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  • In the middle of something, or maybe it's been years and you haven't seen
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  • Or maybe it's been years and you haven't seen that happen yet,
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  • And you haven't seen that happen yet, you said you had to come
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  • That happen yet, you said you had to come to a place of making a decision.
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  • You said you had to come to a place of making a decision. how do you move past that
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  • To a place of making a decision. how do you move past that point of pain to begin to see
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  • How do you move past that point of pain to begin to see what god wants to give us?
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  • Point of pain to begin to see what god wants to give us? >> joyce: you have
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  • What god wants to give us? >> joyce: you have to make a decision.
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  • >> joyce: you have to make a decision. [chuckling]
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  • To make a decision. [chuckling] you know, i found out--
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  • [chuckling] you know, i found out-- i went to a certain
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  • You know, i found out-- i went to a certain church for nine years,
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  • I went to a certain church for nine years, and i got a lot of good,
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  • Church for nine years, and i got a lot of good, sound, solid doctrine,
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  • And i got a lot of good, sound, solid doctrine, which is important.
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  • Sound, solid doctrine, which is important. but i wasn't being taught
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  • Which is important. but i wasn't being taught how to live my everyday life.
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  • But i wasn't being taught how to live my everyday life. i wasn't being taught
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  • How to live my everyday life. i wasn't being taught what kind of life i should
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  • I wasn't being taught what kind of life i should have or should expect.
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  • What kind of life i should have or should expect. so, i didn't even really
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  • Have or should expect. so, i didn't even really know it existed until
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  • So, i didn't even really know it existed until i started really studying
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  • Know it existed until i started really studying the bible for myself.
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  • And i'm always amazed
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  • And i'm always amazed at genesis 11:31-32.
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  • And i'm always amazed at genesis 11:31-32. it says, "terah took
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  • At genesis 11:31-32. it says, "terah took his son abram--"
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  • It says, "terah took his son abram--" we know abraham was very
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  • His son abram--" we know abraham was very important in the bible.
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  • We know abraham was very important in the bible. but terah was his father,
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  • Important in the bible. but terah was his father, and he "took abram,
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  • But terah was his father, and he "took abram, his grandson,
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  • And he "took abram, his grandson, lot, the son of haran,
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  • His grandson, lot, the son of haran, and his daughter-in-law, sarai,
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  • Lot, the son of haran, and his daughter-in-law, sarai, the wife of his son abram.
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  • And his daughter-in-law, sarai, the wife of his son abram. and together they set out
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  • The wife of his son abram. and together they set out from ur of the chaldees
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  • And together they set out from ur of the chaldees to go to canaan;
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  • From ur of the chaldees to go to canaan; but when they came to haran,
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  • To go to canaan; but when they came to haran, they settled there."
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  • But when they came to haran, they settled there." now, i don't know
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  • They settled there." now, i don't know if you got that or not,
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  • Now, i don't know if you got that or not, but they started for canaan,
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  • If you got that or not, but they started for canaan, which was the promised land,
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  • But they started for canaan, which was the promised land, which was the same place
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  • Which was the promised land, which was the same place where god sent abraham.
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  • Which was the same place where god sent abraham. but for whatever reason,
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  • Where god sent abraham. but for whatever reason, he got tired.
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  • But for whatever reason, he got tired. he didn't wanna do it anymore.
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  • He got tired. he didn't wanna do it anymore. he settled.
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  • He didn't wanna do it anymore. he settled. "terah lived 205 years;
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  • He settled. "terah lived 205 years; and he died in haran."
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  • "terah lived 205 years; and he died in haran." so, he died where he settled.
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  • And he died in haran." so, he died where he settled. and i just think a lot
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  • So, he died where he settled. and i just think a lot of people do that.
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  • And i just think a lot of people do that. there's so many
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  • Of people do that. there's so many people in the bible
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  • There's so many people in the bible that we hear of once.
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  • People in the bible that we hear of once. >> erin: yeah.
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  • That we hear of once. >> erin: yeah. >> joyce: and we never
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  • >> erin: yeah. >> joyce: and we never hear about 'em again.
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  • >> joyce: and we never hear about 'em again. >> ginger: yeah.
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  • Hear about 'em again. >> ginger: yeah. >> joyce: and then you
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  • Have these giants
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  • Have these giants of the faith who go,
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  • Have these giants of the faith who go, they go through the difficult
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  • Of the faith who go, they go through the difficult things to get to the freedom.
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  • They go through the difficult things to get to the freedom. and i just believe that--
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  • Things to get to the freedom. and i just believe that-- i got determined
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  • And i just believe that-- i got determined to have everything that
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  • I got determined to have everything that jesus died for me to have.
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  • And actually, that's what
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  • And actually, that's what paul says in philippians 3,
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  • And actually, that's what paul says in philippians 3, that he said, he was determined
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  • Paul says in philippians 3, that he said, he was determined to have everything
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  • That he said, he was determined to have everything that jesus died to give him.
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  • To have everything that jesus died to give him. he said, "i press on..."
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  • >> ginger: determined.
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  • >> ginger: determined. >> joyce: "to those things."
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  • >> ginger: determined. >> joyce: "to those things." >> ginger: determined...
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  • >> joyce: "to those things." >> ginger: determined... >> joyce: in determination.
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  • >> ginger: determined... >> joyce: in determination. >> ginger: and not settling.
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  • >> joyce: in determination. >> ginger: and not settling. >> joyce: i've always been
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  • >> ginger: and not settling. >> joyce: i've always been a pretty determined person.
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  • >> joyce: i've always been a pretty determined person. i don't think i would have
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  • A pretty determined person. i don't think i would have gotten through what
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  • I don't think i would have gotten through what i got through as a child
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  • Gotten through what i got through as a child if i wouldn't have been.
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  • I got through as a child if i wouldn't have been. and that was probably
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  • If i wouldn't have been. and that was probably god's gift to me.
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  • And that was probably god's gift to me. maybe a lot of people
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  • God's gift to me. maybe a lot of people don't have the level
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  • Maybe a lot of people don't have the level of determination that i have,
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  • Don't have the level of determination that i have, but i'm just not,
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  • Of determination that i have, but i'm just not, i just don't quit.
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  • But i'm just not, i just don't quit. i'm like a bulldog on a bone.
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  • I just don't quit. i'm like a bulldog on a bone. you know, it's like--
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  • I'm like a bulldog on a bone. you know, it's like-- maybe sometimes i should quit,
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  • You know, it's like-- maybe sometimes i should quit, [chuckling]
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  • Maybe sometimes i should quit, [chuckling] i don't know.
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  • [chuckling] i don't know. but i just--
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  • I don't know. but i just-- if i really believe
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  • But i just-- if i really believe that god wants
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  • If i really believe that god wants me to do something or have
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  • That god wants me to do something or have something, i just won't quit.
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  • Me to do something or have something, i just won't quit. >> erin: which he gives
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  • Something, i just won't quit. >> erin: which he gives you the grit to do that.
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  • >> erin: which he gives you the grit to do that. he gives that to you
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  • You the grit to do that. he gives that to you when he's calling you
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  • He gives that to you when he's calling you to do something hard.
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  • When he's calling you to do something hard. >> joyce: god always gives
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  • To do something hard. >> joyce: god always gives you the grace to do anything
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  • >> joyce: god always gives you the grace to do anything that he's asked you to do.
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  • You the grace to do anything that he's asked you to do. and if there is a challenge
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  • That he's asked you to do. and if there is a challenge in your life, god knows that.
  • 00:14:51.513 --> 00:14:53.682
  • And if there is a challenge in your life, god knows that. and he always has the intention
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  • In your life, god knows that. and he always has the intention of working it out for good.
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  • And he always has the intention of working it out for good. but you have to wait it out.
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  • Of working it out for good. but you have to wait it out. >> ginger: yeah.
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  • But you have to wait it out. >> ginger: yeah. >> joyce: and, you know.
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  • >> ginger: yeah. >> joyce: and, you know. >> ginger: yeah.
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  • >> joyce: and, you know. >> ginger: yeah. we have some really poignant
  • 00:15:04.927 --> 00:15:08.263
  • >> ginger: yeah. we have some really poignant social media comments,
  • 00:15:08.330 --> 00:15:09.365
  • We have some really poignant social media comments, people who are talking
  • 00:15:09.431 --> 00:15:10.399
  • Social media comments, people who are talking about this journey.
  • 00:15:10.466 --> 00:15:11.266
  • People who are talking about this journey. one says, "i thought
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  • About this journey. one says, "i thought i'd messed up too much
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  • One says, "i thought i'd messed up too much to start over,
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  • I'd messed up too much to start over, but god showed me his grace
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  • To start over, but god showed me his grace is bigger than my mistakes."
  • 00:15:16.705 --> 00:15:18.607
  • But god showed me his grace is bigger than my mistakes." another one says,
  • 00:15:18.674 --> 00:15:19.241
  • Is bigger than my mistakes." another one says, "my husband and i were
  • 00:15:19.308 --> 00:15:20.175
  • Another one says, "my husband and i were on the brink of divorce.
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  • "my husband and i were on the brink of divorce. we learned that no matter
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  • On the brink of divorce. we learned that no matter how broken things seem,
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  • We learned that no matter how broken things seem, god's grace can bring
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  • How broken things seem, god's grace can bring healing and a fresh
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  • God's grace can bring healing and a fresh start to any marriage."
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  • Healing and a fresh start to any marriage." >> joyce: that's right.
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  • Start to any marriage." >> joyce: that's right. >> ginger: and,
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  • >> joyce: that's right. >> ginger: and, you know, that's--
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  • >> ginger: and, you know, that's-- i know there are many
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  • You know, that's-- i know there are many people whose marriages
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  • I know there are many people whose marriages haven't worked.
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  • People whose marriages haven't worked. and of course,
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  • Haven't worked. and of course, god can do anything.
  • 00:15:34.423 --> 00:15:36.892
  • And of course, god can do anything. there are also other people
  • 00:15:36.959 --> 00:15:37.960
  • God can do anything. there are also other people involved in a marriage
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  • There are also other people involved in a marriage and the choices that
  • 00:15:38.994 --> 00:15:39.828
  • Involved in a marriage and the choices that have to come.
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  • And the choices that have to come. and so, you know,
  • 00:15:40.562 --> 00:15:41.764
  • Have to come. and so, you know, there are times,
  • 00:15:41.830 --> 00:15:42.231
  • And so, you know, there are times, that sometimes,
  • 00:15:42.297 --> 00:15:43.098
  • There are times, that sometimes, we don't know what
  • 00:15:43.165 --> 00:15:44.633
  • That sometimes, we don't know what god wants to do.
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  • We don't know what god wants to do. and i think that's an area
  • 00:15:45.567 --> 00:15:47.403
  • God wants to do. and i think that's an area where it's easy to say,
  • 00:15:47.469 --> 00:15:48.937
  • And i think that's an area where it's easy to say, but "what if?
  • 00:15:49.004 --> 00:15:51.006
  • Where it's easy to say, but "what if? what if god isn't
  • 00:15:51.073 --> 00:15:52.508
  • But "what if? what if god isn't going to do this?"
  • 00:15:52.574 --> 00:15:54.076
  • What if god isn't going to do this?" how do you help
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  • Going to do this?" how do you help people deal with that?
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  • How do you help people deal with that? when it comes to healing,
  • 00:15:55.744 --> 00:15:56.545
  • People deal with that? when it comes to healing, there is no what if, is there?
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  • When it comes to healing, there is no what if, is there? >> joyce: well, if there's
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  • There is no what if, is there? >> joyce: well, if there's a promise in god's word,
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  • >> joyce: well, if there's a promise in god's word, you can stand strong for that.
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  • A promise in god's word, you can stand strong for that. >> ginger: yeah.
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  • You can stand strong for that. >> ginger: yeah. >> erin: i like her question,
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  • >> ginger: yeah. >> erin: i like her question, the "what if" part of it,
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  • >> erin: i like her question, the "what if" part of it, because we don't know
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  • The "what if" part of it, because we don't know how god's gonna do it.
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  • Because we don't know how god's gonna do it. we don't know when
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  • How god's gonna do it. we don't know when that's gonna happen.
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  • We don't know when that's gonna happen. and i was thinking--
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  • That's gonna happen. and i was thinking-- you'll remember when
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  • And i was thinking-- you'll remember when i walked through this, too,
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  • You'll remember when i walked through this, too, when mike and i were going
  • 00:16:14.463 --> 00:16:15.264
  • I walked through this, too, when mike and i were going through stuff years ago
  • 00:16:15.330 --> 00:16:16.265
  • When mike and i were going through stuff years ago because of when he admitted
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  • Through stuff years ago because of when he admitted to pornography addiction.
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  • Because of when he admitted to pornography addiction. i remember a very pivotal
  • 00:16:20.169 --> 00:16:21.737
  • To pornography addiction. i remember a very pivotal point where god said,
  • 00:16:21.804 --> 00:16:22.971
  • I remember a very pivotal point where god said, "you have to make a decision.
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  • Point where god said, "you have to make a decision. and you have to either, yes,
  • 00:16:24.973 --> 00:16:26.975
  • "you have to make a decision. and you have to either, yes, you're gonna stick this
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  • And you have to either, yes, you're gonna stick this out and you guys are gonna
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  • You're gonna stick this out and you guys are gonna work through this,
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  • Out and you guys are gonna work through this, or no.
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  • Work through this, or no. but you can't keep wavering,"
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  • Or no. but you can't keep wavering," because i felt like
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  • But you can't keep wavering," because i felt like i held the power.
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  • Because i felt like i held the power. so, i could determine
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  • I held the power. so, i could determine if i was gonna stay or leave.
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  • So, i could determine if i was gonna stay or leave. and so, i remember him,
  • 00:16:37.186 --> 00:16:39.455
  • If i was gonna stay or leave. and so, i remember him, the holy spirit,
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  • And so, i remember him, the holy spirit, making that really clear.
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  • The holy spirit, making that really clear. "you need to decide what
  • 00:16:40.756 --> 00:16:41.423
  • Making that really clear. "you need to decide what you're going to do."
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  • "you need to decide what you're going to do." and i remember having
  • 00:16:42.157 --> 00:16:43.692
  • You're going to do." and i remember having those thoughts like,
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  • And i remember having those thoughts like, "what if he does it again?
  • 00:16:44.793 --> 00:16:46.495
  • Those thoughts like, "what if he does it again? what if there's someone
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  • "what if he does it again? what if there's someone better who will never,
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  • What if there's someone better who will never, ever hurt me?
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  • Better who will never, ever hurt me? what if--"
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  • Ever hurt me? what if--" isn't that silly?
  • 00:16:50.732 --> 00:16:51.233
  • What if--" isn't that silly? >> joyce: there's no person
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  • Isn't that silly? >> joyce: there's no person like that.
  • 00:16:52.067 --> 00:16:52.935
  • >> erin: "what if i find
  • 00:16:53.469 --> 00:16:54.269
  • >> erin: "what if i find the perfect man out there
  • 00:16:54.336 --> 00:16:55.037
  • >> erin: "what if i find the perfect man out there who has no human faults?"
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  • The perfect man out there who has no human faults?" >> joyce: yeah.
  • 00:16:56.538 --> 00:16:57.539
  • Who has no human faults?" >> joyce: yeah. >> erin: "what if it isn't--
  • 00:16:57.606 --> 00:16:58.974
  • >> joyce: yeah. >> erin: "what if it isn't-- what if it never gets better?"
  • 00:16:59.041 --> 00:17:00.275
  • >> erin: "what if it isn't-- what if it never gets better?" >> ginger: yeah.
  • 00:17:00.342 --> 00:17:00.909
  • What if it never gets better?" >> ginger: yeah. >> erin: and so, i just--
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  • >> ginger: yeah. >> erin: and so, i just-- i had to trust the holy spirit
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  • >> erin: and so, i just-- i had to trust the holy spirit and the things in his word
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  • I had to trust the holy spirit and the things in his word that he tells us.
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  • And the things in his word that he tells us. "i know who i am in christ.
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  • That he tells us. "i know who i am in christ. i know who he's made mike to be.
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  • "i know who i am in christ. i know who he's made mike to be. and i'm just going to have
  • 00:17:09.017 --> 00:17:10.252
  • I know who he's made mike to be. and i'm just going to have to trust that he'll work
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  • And i'm just going to have to trust that he'll work it out from here."
  • 00:17:11.753 --> 00:17:12.488
  • To trust that he'll work it out from here." but that was a really
  • 00:17:12.554 --> 00:17:13.522
  • It out from here." but that was a really important decision that
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  • But that was a really important decision that i made to be determined.
  • 00:17:14.723 --> 00:17:16.458
  • Important decision that i made to be determined. i'm going to say,
  • 00:17:16.525 --> 00:17:17.092
  • I made to be determined. i'm going to say, "yes, and i'm not
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  • I'm going to say, "yes, and i'm not gonna look back."
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  • "yes, and i'm not gonna look back." >> ginger: yeah.
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  • Gonna look back." >> ginger: yeah. >> erin: no matter what if.
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  • >> ginger: yeah. >> erin: no matter what if. >> ginger: it's not
  • 00:17:20.329 --> 00:17:20.896
  • >> erin: no matter what if. >> ginger: it's not an easy one either.
  • 00:17:20.963 --> 00:17:21.497
  • >> ginger: it's not an easy one either. >> erin: no, it was
  • 00:17:21.563 --> 00:17:22.231
  • An easy one either. >> erin: no, it was very painful.
  • 00:17:22.297 --> 00:17:22.831
  • It was very hard.
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  • It was very hard. so, i would have
  • 00:17:23.565 --> 00:17:24.066
  • It was very hard. so, i would have to redirect my brain
  • 00:17:24.133 --> 00:17:24.666
  • So, i would have to redirect my brain when it would try to think.
  • 00:17:24.733 --> 00:17:25.534
  • To redirect my brain when it would try to think. >> joyce: you're always
  • 00:17:25.601 --> 00:17:26.502
  • When it would try to think. >> joyce: you're always better off to do everything
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  • >> joyce: you're always better off to do everything you can to make it work
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  • Better off to do everything you can to make it work out before you give up.
  • 00:17:30.939 --> 00:17:32.808
  • You can to make it work out before you give up. because at least then,
  • 00:17:32.875 --> 00:17:34.009
  • Out before you give up. because at least then, you know, i did everything
  • 00:17:34.076 --> 00:17:35.010
  • Because at least then, you know, i did everything i could possibly do.
  • 00:17:35.077 --> 00:17:35.844
  • You know, i did everything i could possibly do. >> [ladies agreeing]
  • 00:17:35.911 --> 00:17:36.712
  • I could possibly do. >> [ladies agreeing] >> erin: yeah, because you won't
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  • >> [ladies agreeing] >> erin: yeah, because you won't regret what you didn't do.
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  • >> erin: yeah, because you won't regret what you didn't do. >> joyce: you won't regret
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  • Regret what you didn't do. >> joyce: you won't regret the fact later that, you know,
  • 00:17:39.481 --> 00:17:42.684
  • >> joyce: you won't regret the fact later that, you know, "i just wigged out
  • 00:17:42.751 --> 00:17:44.753
  • The fact later that, you know, "i just wigged out and didn't even try."
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  • "i just wigged out and didn't even try." >> ginger: here's a question
  • 00:17:46.855 --> 00:17:47.523
  • And didn't even try." >> ginger: here's a question from someone that
  • 00:17:47.589 --> 00:17:48.590
  • >> ginger: here's a question from someone that i think is a good question,
  • 00:17:48.657 --> 00:17:50.659
  • From someone that i think is a good question, talking about emotional pain.
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  • I think is a good question, talking about emotional pain. "how can i stay hopeful
  • 00:17:53.395 --> 00:17:54.830
  • Talking about emotional pain. "how can i stay hopeful and prayerful when my pain
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  • "how can i stay hopeful and prayerful when my pain seems to return the next day?"
  • 00:17:57.132 --> 00:17:59.334
  • And prayerful when my pain seems to return the next day?" >> erin: oh, good question.
  • 00:17:59.401 --> 00:18:01.003
  • Seems to return the next day?" >> erin: oh, good question. >> ginger: i mean,
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  • >> erin: oh, good question. >> ginger: i mean, you have a good day.
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  • >> ginger: i mean, you have a good day. >> joyce: why are you both
  • 00:18:02.404 --> 00:18:03.238
  • You have a good day. >> joyce: why are you both looking at me?
  • 00:18:03.305 --> 00:18:03.705
  • >> joyce: why are you both looking at me? >> [ladies laughing]
  • 00:18:03.772 --> 00:18:04.239
  • Looking at me? >> [ladies laughing] >> erin: because i wanna
  • 00:18:04.306 --> 00:18:04.973
  • >> [ladies laughing] >> erin: because i wanna know the answer.
  • 00:18:05.040 --> 00:18:05.641
  • >> erin: because i wanna know the answer. >> ginger: but the next day
  • 00:18:05.707 --> 00:18:06.975
  • Know the answer. >> ginger: but the next day you have to do it again.
  • 00:18:07.042 --> 00:18:08.911
  • >> ginger: but the next day you have to do it again. >> joyce: well,
  • 00:18:08.977 --> 00:18:09.545
  • You have to do it again. >> joyce: well, what do you say, ginger?
  • 00:18:09.611 --> 00:18:10.779
  • >> joyce: well, what do you say, ginger? >> ginger: huh,
  • 00:18:10.846 --> 00:18:11.413
  • What do you say, ginger? >> ginger: huh, that is such a hard thing.
  • 00:18:11.480 --> 00:18:12.614
  • >> ginger: huh, that is such a hard thing. and that does come down
  • 00:18:12.681 --> 00:18:14.116
  • That is such a hard thing. and that does come down to that determination that
  • 00:18:14.183 --> 00:18:17.786
  • And that does come down to that determination that god is bigger than i know.
  • 00:18:17.853 --> 00:18:20.455
  • To that determination that god is bigger than i know. god is such a god of love.
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  • God is bigger than i know. god is such a god of love. and even though i'm hurting,
  • 00:18:24.259 --> 00:18:27.029
  • God is such a god of love. and even though i'm hurting, he is hurting with me.
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  • And even though i'm hurting, he is hurting with me. and that helps me so much.
  • 00:18:29.598 --> 00:18:31.166
  • He is hurting with me. and that helps me so much. it's not like he's saying,
  • 00:18:31.233 --> 00:18:32.801
  • And that helps me so much. it's not like he's saying, "i'll get around to it,
  • 00:18:32.868 --> 00:18:33.635
  • It's not like he's saying, "i'll get around to it, if i get around to it."
  • 00:18:33.702 --> 00:18:34.570
  • "i'll get around to it, if i get around to it." he's like, "no, child, my heart
  • 00:18:34.636 --> 00:18:37.272
  • If i get around to it." he's like, "no, child, my heart is breaking with yours,
  • 00:18:37.339 --> 00:18:38.273
  • He's like, "no, child, my heart is breaking with yours, and i'm so sorry
  • 00:18:38.340 --> 00:18:39.341
  • Is breaking with yours, and i'm so sorry that you're hurting.
  • 00:18:39.408 --> 00:18:40.042
  • And i'm so sorry that you're hurting. but i can work good
  • 00:18:40.108 --> 00:18:43.178
  • That you're hurting. but i can work good through even this."
  • 00:18:43.245 --> 00:18:44.680
  • But i can work good through even this." and so, yeah, sometimes
  • 00:18:44.746 --> 00:18:46.882
  • Through even this." and so, yeah, sometimes the next day you feel like
  • 00:18:46.949 --> 00:18:48.517
  • And so, yeah, sometimes the next day you feel like you took two steps backwards
  • 00:18:48.584 --> 00:18:50.586
  • The next day you feel like you took two steps backwards and you have to start again.
  • 00:18:50.652 --> 00:18:51.820
  • You took two steps backwards and you have to start again. and other days you feel
  • 00:18:51.887 --> 00:18:53.255
  • And you have to start again. and other days you feel like you make progress.
  • 00:18:53.322 --> 00:18:55.090
  • And other days you feel like you make progress. because that's how
  • 00:18:55.157 --> 00:18:56.158
  • Like you make progress. because that's how healing happens.
  • 00:18:56.225 --> 00:18:57.159
  • Because that's how healing happens. it doesn't always
  • 00:18:57.226 --> 00:18:58.927
  • Healing happens. it doesn't always work in a linear path.
  • 00:18:58.994 --> 00:19:00.295
  • It doesn't always work in a linear path. it's not straightforward.
  • 00:19:00.362 --> 00:19:00.929
  • Work in a linear path. it's not straightforward. >> joyce: god delivers
  • 00:19:00.996 --> 00:19:01.597
  • It's not straightforward. >> joyce: god delivers us little by little,
  • 00:19:01.663 --> 00:19:02.931
  • >> joyce: god delivers us little by little, the bible says.
  • 00:19:02.998 --> 00:19:03.865
  • Us little by little, the bible says. and i'm not a fan of little.
  • 00:19:03.932 --> 00:19:06.134
  • The bible says. and i'm not a fan of little. >> ginger: no, me either.
  • 00:19:06.201 --> 00:19:07.202
  • And i'm not a fan of little. >> ginger: no, me either. >> erin: so long.
  • 00:19:07.269 --> 00:19:07.836
  • >> ginger: no, me either. >> erin: so long. >> joyce: i like big, now.
  • 00:19:07.903 --> 00:19:10.439
  • >> erin: so long. >> joyce: i like big, now. >> [ladies agreeing]
  • 00:19:10.505 --> 00:19:11.073
  • >> joyce: i like big, now. >> [ladies agreeing] >> joyce: you know,
  • 00:19:11.139 --> 00:19:11.740
  • >> [ladies agreeing] >> joyce: you know, i think about me and dave.
  • 00:19:11.807 --> 00:19:13.976
  • >> joyce: you know, i think about me and dave. and dave was born again,
  • 00:19:14.042 --> 00:19:16.511
  • I think about me and dave. and dave was born again, spirit-filled man,
  • 00:19:16.578 --> 00:19:17.479
  • And dave was born again, spirit-filled man, knew the word,
  • 00:19:17.546 --> 00:19:18.146
  • Spirit-filled man, knew the word, and had quite an experience
  • 00:19:18.213 --> 00:19:19.381
  • Knew the word, and had quite an experience with god.
  • 00:19:19.448 --> 00:19:20.048
  • And had quite an experience with god. and when he prayed--
  • 00:19:20.115 --> 00:19:22.417
  • With god. and when he prayed-- he was ready to get married.
  • 00:19:22.484 --> 00:19:23.352
  • And when he prayed-- he was ready to get married. and when he prayed for a wife,
  • 00:19:23.418 --> 00:19:25.821
  • He was ready to get married. and when he prayed for a wife, he prayed that god would give
  • 00:19:25.887 --> 00:19:28.056
  • And when he prayed for a wife, he prayed that god would give him somebody that needed help.
  • 00:19:28.123 --> 00:19:30.626
  • He prayed that god would give him somebody that needed help. now, i bet you that there might
  • 00:19:30.692 --> 00:19:32.861
  • Him somebody that needed help. now, i bet you that there might be nobody else listening...
  • 00:19:32.928 --> 00:19:33.996
  • Now, i bet you that there might be nobody else listening... >> ginger: not your
  • 00:19:34.062 --> 00:19:34.663
  • Be nobody else listening... >> ginger: not your average prayer.
  • 00:19:34.730 --> 00:19:35.297
  • >> ginger: not your average prayer. >> joyce: that's prayed that
  • 00:19:35.364 --> 00:19:36.064
  • Average prayer. >> joyce: that's prayed that prayer because we normally
  • 00:19:36.131 --> 00:19:37.332
  • >> joyce: that's prayed that prayer because we normally pray that we get the "perfect,
  • 00:19:37.399 --> 00:19:38.667
  • Prayer because we normally pray that we get the "perfect, spiritual giant, good-looking,
  • 00:19:38.734 --> 00:19:41.436
  • Pray that we get the "perfect, spiritual giant, good-looking, and maybe throw in a little
  • 00:19:41.503 --> 00:19:43.071
  • Spiritual giant, good-looking, and maybe throw in a little money, god," and you know,
  • 00:19:43.138 --> 00:19:44.539
  • And maybe throw in a little money, god," and you know, all that.
  • 00:19:44.606 --> 00:19:45.741
  • Money, god," and you know, all that. but dave, and i know for a fact,
  • 00:19:45.807 --> 00:19:51.513
  • All that. but dave, and i know for a fact, that we were meant
  • 00:19:51.580 --> 00:19:52.381
  • But dave, and i know for a fact, that we were meant to be together because nobody
  • 00:19:52.447 --> 00:19:56.218
  • That we were meant to be together because nobody could have handled me but dave,
  • 00:19:56.285 --> 00:19:58.620
  • To be together because nobody could have handled me but dave, and stayed happy.
  • 00:19:58.687 --> 00:19:59.755
  • Could have handled me but dave, and stayed happy. and he did.
  • 00:19:59.821 --> 00:20:01.990
  • And stayed happy. and he did. and it took a while.
  • 00:20:02.057 --> 00:20:03.392
  • And he did. and it took a while. so, to our viewers,
  • 00:20:03.458 --> 00:20:07.296
  • And it took a while. so, to our viewers, if you're married
  • 00:20:07.362 --> 00:20:09.831
  • So, to our viewers, if you're married to someone who you just--
  • 00:20:09.898 --> 00:20:13.635
  • If you're married to someone who you just-- you've prayed and you've prayed
  • 00:20:13.702 --> 00:20:15.103
  • To someone who you just-- you've prayed and you've prayed and you've done everything
  • 00:20:15.170 --> 00:20:16.104
  • You've prayed and you've prayed and you've done everything you can and they're
  • 00:20:16.171 --> 00:20:16.872
  • And you've done everything you can and they're just not changing--
  • 00:20:16.938 --> 00:20:17.873
  • You can and they're just not changing-- dave just basically made
  • 00:20:17.939 --> 00:20:21.143
  • Just not changing-- dave just basically made the decision that divorce
  • 00:20:21.209 --> 00:20:22.277
  • Dave just basically made the decision that divorce wasn't an option.
  • 00:20:22.344 --> 00:20:23.645
  • The decision that divorce wasn't an option. he was just like,
  • 00:20:23.712 --> 00:20:25.080
  • Wasn't an option. he was just like, "i'm gonna live my life
  • 00:20:25.147 --> 00:20:26.181
  • He was just like, "i'm gonna live my life and i'm gonna be happy.
  • 00:20:26.248 --> 00:20:27.149
  • "i'm gonna live my life and i'm gonna be happy. and if you wanna be miserable,
  • 00:20:27.215 --> 00:20:28.150
  • And i'm gonna be happy. and if you wanna be miserable, that's up to you.
  • 00:20:28.216 --> 00:20:30.252
  • And if you wanna be miserable, that's up to you. but i'm gonna be happy."
  • 00:20:30.319 --> 00:20:31.053
  • That's up to you. but i'm gonna be happy." and instead of trying
  • 00:20:31.119 --> 00:20:33.388
  • But i'm gonna be happy." and instead of trying to change me,
  • 00:20:33.455 --> 00:20:36.858
  • And instead of trying to change me, he just went ahead
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  • To change me, he just went ahead and enjoyed his life,
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  • He just went ahead and enjoyed his life, which really made me mad,
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  • And enjoyed his life, which really made me mad, you know.
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  • Which really made me mad, you know. because when
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  • You know. because when people are miserable,
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  • Because when people are miserable, they wanna make other
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  • People are miserable, they wanna make other people miserable,
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  • They wanna make other people miserable, which sounds ridiculous.
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  • People miserable, which sounds ridiculous. but it's true;
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  • Which sounds ridiculous. but it's true; you don't want somebody
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  • But it's true; you don't want somebody to be happy around you.
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  • You don't want somebody to be happy around you. and see, he waited long enough
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  • To be happy around you. and see, he waited long enough and prayed long enough,
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  • And see, he waited long enough and prayed long enough, and then i started realizing
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  • And prayed long enough, and then i started realizing that i was the problem
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  • And then i started realizing that i was the problem not everybody else.
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  • That i was the problem not everybody else. and it's taken years,
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  • Not everybody else. and it's taken years, but i got a little
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  • And it's taken years, but i got a little better all the time,
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  • But i got a little better all the time, a little better all the time,
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  • Better all the time, a little better all the time, a little better all the time.
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  • A little better all the time, a little better all the time. and now, i think dave
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  • A little better all the time. and now, i think dave just has such a great wife
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  • And now, i think dave just has such a great wife i am so glad that
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  • Just has such a great wife i am so glad that he waited on me.
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  • I am so glad that he waited on me. >> [ginger chuckling]
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  • He waited on me. >> [ginger chuckling] >> erin: he does
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  • >> [ginger chuckling] >> erin: he does have a great wife.
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  • >> erin: he does have a great wife. >> joyce: but, i mean,
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  • Have a great wife. >> joyce: but, i mean, look at our lives now
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  • >> joyce: but, i mean, look at our lives now and what we would
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  • Look at our lives now and what we would have missed if he would
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  • And what we would have missed if he would have given up.
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  • Have missed if he would have given up. >> ginger: yeah.
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  • Have given up. >> ginger: yeah. >> joyce: and god had
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  • >> ginger: yeah. >> joyce: and god had a plan for me, and the devil
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  • >> joyce: and god had a plan for me, and the devil tried everything
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  • A plan for me, and the devil tried everything he could to mess it up.
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  • Tried everything he could to mess it up. and i needed somebody
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  • He could to mess it up. and i needed somebody that would stick with
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  • And i needed somebody that would stick with me through the ugly times.
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  • That would stick with me through the ugly times. and there's not a lot
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  • Me through the ugly times. and there's not a lot of people willing to do that.
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  • And there's not a lot of people willing to do that. >> ginger: no,
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  • Of people willing to do that. >> ginger: no, that's quite a blessing.
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  • >> ginger: no, that's quite a blessing. >> joyce: we always want
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  • That's quite a blessing. >> joyce: we always want somebody that's perfect.
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  • >> joyce: we always want somebody that's perfect. >> ginger: yeah.
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  • Somebody that's perfect. >> ginger: yeah. >> joyce: and so, i think
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  • >> ginger: yeah. >> joyce: and so, i think maybe there's some people
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  • >> joyce: and so, i think maybe there's some people watching that need
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  • Maybe there's some people watching that need to really consider that.
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  • Watching that need to really consider that. "are you supposed
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  • To really consider that. "are you supposed to just pack and run?
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  • "are you supposed to just pack and run? or should you be willing
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  • To just pack and run? or should you be willing to hurt a little bit,
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  • Or should you be willing to hurt a little bit, or hurt a lot,
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  • To hurt a little bit, or hurt a lot, while you're waiting
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  • Or hurt a lot, while you're waiting for this person to change?"
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  • While you're waiting for this person to change?" jesus bore our pain.
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  • For this person to change?" jesus bore our pain. and sometimes,
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  • Jesus bore our pain. and sometimes, we need to share his
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  • And sometimes, we need to share his sufferings in order to see
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  • We need to share his sufferings in order to see somebody else set free.
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  • >> erin: you know,
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  • >> erin: you know, in ephesians 6,
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  • >> erin: you know, in ephesians 6, right before you talk
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  • In ephesians 6, right before you talk about the armor of god,
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  • Right before you talk about the armor of god, but it tells you
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  • About the armor of god, but it tells you to "take a stand."
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  • But it tells you to "take a stand." and so, that just
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  • To "take a stand." and so, that just struck me recently.
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  • And so, that just struck me recently. that act of taking a stand
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  • Struck me recently. that act of taking a stand means i'm not going to back
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  • That act of taking a stand means i'm not going to back down because it's hard.
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  • Means i'm not going to back down because it's hard. and so that day after day thing
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  • That she's talking about,
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  • That she's talking about, "i'm gonna take a stand today.
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  • That she's talking about, "i'm gonna take a stand today. i'm gonna have to take
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  • "i'm gonna take a stand today. i'm gonna have to take a stand again tomorrow.
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  • I'm gonna have to take a stand again tomorrow. and i'm gonna probably
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  • A stand again tomorrow. and i'm gonna probably have to take a stand
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  • And i'm gonna probably have to take a stand that third day too,
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  • Have to take a stand that third day too, even if it doesn't
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  • That third day too, even if it doesn't look like it's changing.
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  • Even if it doesn't look like it's changing. because god will give
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  • Look like it's changing. because god will give me what i need for that day."
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  • Because god will give me what i need for that day." but that is such a--
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  • Me what i need for that day." but that is such a-- i needed that picture
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  • But that is such a-- i needed that picture in my mind to remember.
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  • I needed that picture in my mind to remember. i'm not--
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  • In my mind to remember. i'm not-- i'm not just gonna let things
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  • I'm not-- i'm not just gonna let things happen to me and say,
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  • I'm not just gonna let things happen to me and say, "poor erin, it's just so hard
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  • Happen to me and say, "poor erin, it's just so hard and it all hurts."
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  • "poor erin, it's just so hard and it all hurts." i have been given what
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  • And it all hurts." i have been given what i need for that day.
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  • I have been given what i need for that day. i think that's so--
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  • I need for that day. i think that's so-- that posture that
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  • I think that's so-- that posture that we have as christians.
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  • That posture that we have as christians. >> joyce: and i think
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  • We have as christians. >> joyce: and i think if we can learn that
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  • >> joyce: and i think if we can learn that we can be happy and enjoy
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  • If we can learn that we can be happy and enjoy our lives in the midst of pain.
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  • We can be happy and enjoy our lives in the midst of pain. like dave,
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  • Our lives in the midst of pain. like dave, he just enjoyed his life.
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  • Like dave, he just enjoyed his life. and he loved me.
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  • He just enjoyed his life. and he loved me. he never did not not love me.
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  • And he loved me. he never did not not love me. he loved me.
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  • He never did not not love me. he loved me. and if i would receive
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  • He loved me. and if i would receive that love, it was there
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  • And if i would receive that love, it was there for me all the time.
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  • >> joyce: stay in the word.
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  • >> joyce: stay in the word. stay in the word.
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  • Stay in the word. stay in the word.
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  • >> joyce: well,
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  • >> joyce: well, i'll say it again.
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  • I'll say it again. we need to stay in the word.
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  • We need to stay in the word. we need to stay in the word.
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  • We need to stay in the word. there's nothing more important
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  • Yours for a gift of...
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  • A gift of... or more.
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  • Or more. call us at...
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  • Call us at... go online to:
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  • Go online to: joycemeyer.org,
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  • Joycemeyer.org, or use the qr code
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  • Or use the qr code on your screen.
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  • >> joyce: boy, you know,
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  • >> joyce: boy, you know, in today's world,
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  • In today's world, there are many stressors,
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  • There are many stressors, so many things to deal
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  • So many things to deal with on a daily basis.
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  • With on a daily basis. how do we navigate
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  • How do we navigate all of life's pressures?
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  • All of life's pressures? well, god's word has
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  • Well, god's word has much to say about it.
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  • Much to say about it. so, i thought we could
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  • So, i thought we could all get together with
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  • All get together with some of my friends
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  • Some of my friends and talk about it.
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  • >> announcer: join us
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  • >> announcer: join us for the enjoying
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  • For the enjoying everyday life
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  • Everyday life conference.
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  • Conference. a weekend
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  • A weekend of practical messages
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  • Of practical messages and heartfelt worship
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  • And heartfelt worship with joyce
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  • With joyce and her guests,
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  • And her guests, dr. henry cloud,
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  • Dr. henry cloud, nona jones,
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  • Nona jones, and worship with
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  • And worship with naomi raine,
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  • Naomi raine, april 10-11,
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  • April 10-11, in hershey, pennsylvania.
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  • In hershey, pennsylvania. >> joyce: you know,
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  • >> joyce: you know, i have such a passion
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  • I have such a passion for teaching god's word,
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  • For teaching god's word, and it's even better when
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  • And it's even better when we all get together
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  • We all get together under one roof.
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  • Under one roof. so, i really hope
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  • So, i really hope to see you there.
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  • >> announcer:
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  • >> announcer: register today.
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  • Register today. go to:
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  • >> ginger: real life. real friends.
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  • Real friends. no pretense.
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  • No pretense. joyce meyer's
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  • Joyce meyer's talk it out podcast.
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  • Talk it out podcast. join joyce, erin cluley,
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  • Join joyce, erin cluley, and me, ginger stache,
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  • And me, ginger stache, along with some amazing friends,
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  • Along with some amazing friends, as we honestly share
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  • As we honestly share the hard stuff,
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  • The hard stuff, laugh through those
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  • Laugh through those unpredictable moments,
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  • Unpredictable moments, and learn to apply what
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  • And learn to apply what god says about it all.
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  • God says about it all. watch or listen to new
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  • Watch or listen to new episodes every other tuesday,
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  • >> announcer: we hope you
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  • >> announcer: we hope you enjoyed today's program.
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  • Enjoyed today's program. we are so grateful
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  • We are so grateful to our joyce meyer
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  • To our joyce meyer ministries partners
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  • Ministries partners who make this
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  • Who make this and all we do possible,
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  • And all we do possible, including sharing
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  • Including sharing god's word
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  • God's word and offering help
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  • And offering help to people in need
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  • To people in need all over the world.
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