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Life Today with James Robison | Benny Tate: You Have Influence | Life Today | April 8, 2026
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- Of life outreach international and the friends
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- And partners of tbn.
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- Benny tate: let me tell you something, there's power in
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- Somebody believing in you, and if we would let one another know
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- We're proud of each other, maybe we wouldn't struggle with pride
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- The way we do.
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- Just having somebody to believe in you, somebody to say you can
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- Do it, somebody to give you that push, just give you
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- That encouragement.
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- The bible says but exhort one another daily, because we all
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- Need it.
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- Announcer: benny tate, next.
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- Randy robison: welcome to "life today," i'm randy robinson.
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- This is blynda lane, and we are back with a wonderful guest.
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- We know that you love him.
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- Benny tate is with us, and if you missed the other program
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- With benny, after this is over, check out lifetoday.org and you
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- Can catch up on that.
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- Benny, welcome back.
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- Benny: hey, i'm so excited to be back.
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- Always look forward to coming to "life today."
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- Blynda lane: we're so happy to have you.
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- We touched in the last program on your book, "yes you can," but
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- We wanna dive a little bit more into it.
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- In the first program you spoke about a stepfather, and you were
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- Speaking really from the sense of how important words are and
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- How we get no-s a lot of in our life, especially in our younger
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- Years, and you had a stepfather that really maybe spoke some
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- Harsher no-s to you, but that's not where the story ends, that's
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- Actually just more where it began.
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- Tell us about the journey to getting to the yes you can
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- Belief and what who influenced your life there?
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- Benny: well, after i became a christian, after a little while
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- I started preaching.
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- Now i was, listen, i was just as raw as could be.
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- I was preaching messages out of the book of spasm.
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- I didn't know it was psalms.
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- One night a lady asked me who the who the epistles were.
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- I said i think they were the apostles' wives.
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- I mean, i was just as raw as could be, but i
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- Started preaching.
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- And blynda, i started preaching on street corners.
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- I started preaching in rescue missions, because god is not
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- Looking for ability, he's looking for availability.
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- Somebody said i'm praying for god to use me.
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- No, you just get usable, and god will wear you out,
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- Because god has no plan b.
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- We are the plan, there is no plan b.
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- So, i just started preaching, and my mother became
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- A christian, and she started dating a man.
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- Later she married him, he became my stepfather.
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- His name was don mason, and i'd had a stepfather who literally
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- Told me that i was ignorant.
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- I remember a time in my life when my mother--i had a sister
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- And a stepbrother and sister she took us all to
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- Murfreesboro, tennessee.
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- She said we were going to get physicals, three of the four
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- Were going to get physicals.
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- I was going to get a mental evaluation, because i couldn't
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- Learn, couldn't retain.
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- Remember, i was told i was ignorant, i was told i was
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- Stupid, so i just couldn't learn.
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- So i got a new stepfather.
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- I was almost grown, and he said, "what are you gonna do with
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- Your life?"
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- And i said, "well, i'm working as a janitor.
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- I make $3.35 an hour, and i'm preaching.
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- I'm preaching at rescue missions."
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- He said, "i've heard you preach.
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- You need to get in bible college."
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- I said, "no, no."
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- I said, "i barely got through school, i wasn't smart."
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- He said, "you're smart."
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- He said, "you enroll in bible college."
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- He said, "every degree that you complete, i'll pay for."
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- Only say this, randy, to give god the honor and the glory.
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- I went through an associate's degree, a bachelor's degree, a
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- Master's, and a doctorate.
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- And i've made nothing but straight a-s.
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- Let me tell you something, there's power in somebody
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- Believing in you.
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- There's power in somebody believing in you, and we need to
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- Believe in people before they accomplish anything.
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- Did you ever think about this?
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- God looked down from heaven, jesus was getting baptized, and
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- He looks down from heaven and he says, "this is my beloved son in
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- Whom i'm well-pleased."
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- Now, wait, he had never healed anybody, he had never walked on
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- The water, he had never raised anybody from the dead, but he
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- Looked down, and i challenge fathers today, blynda, i would
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- Challenge, randy, one of the most powerful things that you
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- Can say to somebody, i'm proud of you.
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- And if we would let one another know we're proud of each other,
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- Maybe we wouldn't struggle with pride the way we do.
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- Just having somebody to believe in you, somebody to say you can
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- Do it, somebody to give you that push, just give you
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- That encouragement.
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- The bible says but exhort one another daily, because we all
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- Need it.
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- Randy: yeah, i like your your southern use of the word pride,
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- Because what you mean is is affirmation.
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- Benny: it's exactly right.
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- Randy: acceptance, and you know, that's what god did with jesus
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- And that's what he does with us.
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- Benny: it's exactly right.
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- Blynda: but it almost feels like what you're saying, i've never
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- Thought of it this way, that maybe why man becomes so
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- Prideful in their own mind is because nobody's ever told them.
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- Randy: they're looking for it, that self-affirmation,
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- Too, yeah.
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- Benny: that's exactly right.
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- They desperately need it.
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- Look here, i preach on sunday morning, thousands of people
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- Will come out the door, but when my wife says to me, "benny, you
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- Did good," just makes me wanna charge hell with a water pistol.
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- I mean, he just, you know, and so, hey, hey, everybody responds
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- To praises and raises, and, we all need affirmation.
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- Randy: alright, how did that lead to the book, "yes you can"?
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- Because that's affirmation in the title right there.
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- Benny: yes, it is.
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- I was studying the book of nehemiah, and i looked at
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- Nehemiah, and i realized, i thought, you know, he wasn't a
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- Prophet, he wasn't a priest, he was a cupbearer.
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- Actually what he would do, he would take the king's wine, if
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- There was poison in the wine, he would die rather than the king.
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- You know what it said to me, randy, it said that nehemiah the
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- Cupbearer was expendable.
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- He was expendable.
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- He was expendable to everybody but god.
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- And then i looked at this man who wasn't a prophet, he wasn't
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- A priest, and how in 52 days he did this great accomplishment.
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- They rebuilt the walls around the city of jerusalem, the walls
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- That are literally wide enough to drive an automobile on in
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- 52 days.
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- Fortune 500 companies today study the book of nehemiah,
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- Because there's so many steps to success there.
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- But i found five levels of leadership, something i'd never
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- Seen before.
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- First of all, when i looked at nehemiah, i saw
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- Inward leadership.
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- When nehemiah's brother told him what was going on back home,
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- Randy, in the city, the walls were down, for four months
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- Before he even addressed the persian king, he prayed
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- And fasted.
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- The word for inward leadership that i talk about in this book
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- Is discipline.
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- Discipline is the gift that we give ourselves.
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- What begins in your life, what begins by desire, has to be
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- Maintained by discipline.
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- Four months, he just prayed, and what i challenge people to do in
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- The book, the most difficult person i've been leading now for
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- 45 years, the most difficult person i've ever led is benny
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- Tate, the most difficult person.
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- The person i've had the most trouble with is myself.
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- And i talk to people about inward leadership.
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- I believe a leader stands out in a crowd, because the leader has
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- Learned how to be alone without the crowd.
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- He's learned he's got inward leadership, right?
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- He's developing, he's growing inward.
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- Sometimes a leader will say to me, i've got 30 years of
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- Experience, but i'll spend time with him, he doesn't have 30
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- Years of experience, he's got 1 year of experience 30 times.
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- So the first level of leadership i start with, i start with that
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- Inward leadership, getting right with yourself.
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- Love thy neighbor as thyself.
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- We gotta get right with ourselves.
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- Blynda: because without it being right, you can't really move on
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- To the other levels.
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- Randy: do i have you right?
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- And when you say 4 months of prayer and then 52 days to
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- Accomplish, that's a better than 2 to 1 ratio of prayer time to
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- Go time.
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- Benny: that's exactly right.
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- Randy: do you know anybody-- i got that backwards, you know?
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- I mean, my prayer time to my due time, it's like i pray a little
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- And work a lot to get something done, and i think maybe what i'm
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- Hearing from you is that i got that a little bit on the
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- Wrong side.
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- Benny: randy, before pentecost, he told them to go to jerusalem
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- And wait for ten days, do nothing but pray, don't
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- Assimilate, no need of having strategic meetings, no need of
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- Having--just go and pray.
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- They went and they prayed for ten days.
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- They preached for 10 minutes and saw 3,000 saved.
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- Randy: yeah, right?
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- Benny: what we're doing, we're preaching for ten days and
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- Praying for ten minutes and not seeing many people saved.
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- The average full-time christian worker in america spends four
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- Minutes a day in devotion time with god, four minutes a day.
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- And if god's not doing something in us, certainly he can't do
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- Something through us.
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- Randy: well, that's a good place to start.
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- Benny: it's a good place to start.
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- Blynda: so, okay, so thinking about more of the leadership
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- Qualities, because where i find a lot of interest is i'm married
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- To a really strong leader, so i look at him, and i think about
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- What leadership looks like.
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- When i reflect on myself, i don't always see strong leader.
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- I see somebody devoted to the lord, somebody who wants to lead
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- Their family, their children, but what would you say to the
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- Person who hasn't identified themselves as a strong leader?
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- Would you still say everyone is a leader?
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- Benny: yes, and i would take them to the second level
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- Of leadership.
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- The second level of leadership is lateral leadership.
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- You say, well, pastor benny, in the organizational chart,
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- I'm not high, i'm low in the organizational chart.
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- Or maybe we have a lateral positions, we're the same in the
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- Organization, what is the word there?
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- The word there is serve.
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- What i would say to our listeners today, if you say i'm
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- Not this strong leader, but i wanna have influence, here's
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- What i would challenge you to do.
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- In your organization, you start serving.
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- You just start serving, because always remember if serving is
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- Beneath you, leading will always be above you.
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- If you just start serving, before long, what's going to
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- Happen, people are gonna say you can depend on blynda.
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- Well, blynda's there when the going gets hard.
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- Boy, when there's a task to do, blynda's there.
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- When we're going through a difficult time, she shows up.
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- And see, it's lateral leadership.
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- God showed me something in the upper room.
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- I was in the upper room, and i started thinking about this is
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- Where jesus came in, and he took a basin and towel and washed the
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- Disciples' feet, and then i realized all 12 of those walked
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- Past the basins and towels.
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- And it was like god said to me, yes, because the world today is
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- Into titles, but jesus was into towels, and he said to me,
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- Blynda and randy, there's basins and towels in every
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- Relationship, you've just got to look for them.
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- So, so how do you lead laterally?
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- You lead laterally through serving other people.
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- Jesus said let the greatest among you be your servant, and
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- Martin luther king jr. said any man or woman can be great,
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- Because any man or woman can serve.
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- Randy: that's not where most of us start when we want to be
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- Leaders, but that's the biblical way.
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- There's just no way around it.
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- So what do you do?
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- I know a lot of good people who have done their best to be
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- Servant leaders, they've tried to cultivate, you know, the
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- Things in their lives that scripture tells us to cultivate,
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- And then something comes along and life just hits 'em hard.
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- You know, we talked about in the last program, you wanted to have
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- Children, never were able to, you know, you expect
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- That miracle.
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- I have a license plate frame that says expect a miracle,
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- Because that was, you know, oral roberts university, expect a
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- Miracle, and i believe in that posture, but i've also lost a
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- Sister to cancer.
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- I've seen other disappointments, and i know people have been
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- Through hard times.
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- What do you say to that person that's hitting that wall and
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- Life is just hard, and they're feeling a little
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- Bit discouraged?
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- What i would say to that person is god still has a plan for
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- Your life.
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- God still has a purpose.
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- I think many times we forget.
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- Paul becomes a christian, and in acts chapter 9 verses 14, the
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- Bible says this, it says--jesus said this, he said paul is a
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- Chosen vessel.
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- He's a chosen vessel.
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- What a high honor.
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- He said he's a chosen vessel to bear my name unto the gentiles,
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- Unto kings, unto the children of israel.
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- And then verse 15 says, "for i will show him the many things
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- That he must suffer for my name's sake."
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- This is what i've learned, randy, about life.
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- And randy, i know what it is to walk through difficult times.
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- I've had great pain.
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- I can say to our listeners today, i want them to know i
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- Identify with great pain.
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- A.w. tozer said, "i doubt that god can bless a man or woman
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- Greatly until he first hurts them deeply."
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- And here's what i would say even to that preacher, that pastor,
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- That christian worker that's struggling, the greater the
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- Struggle, the greater the anointing.
- 00:15:04.560 --> 00:15:08.464
- John the baptist, jesus said there was not a greater than he.
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- There's not a greater than he.
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- But john got thrown in prison, and blynda, he started saying,
- 00:15:17.806 --> 00:15:23.846
- "is he really the christ?
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- Or should we look for another?"
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- And jesus sent word to him, "john, blessed is he that's not
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- Offended in me."
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- That you're just going to trust me.
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- You're gonna trust me though things are hard.
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- Though things are difficult, you're gonna trust me.
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- And so i would say to the listeners today, randy, things
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- Don't come to stay, things come to pass.
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- You know, randy, i thought about those shadrach, meshach,
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- And abednego.
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- You say, somebody says, well, why didn't god deliver them out
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- Of the fire?
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- He delivered them in the fire.
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- Randy, i read that scripture that king looked down, and you
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- Know the story, they came out of the fire, their clothes are not
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- Even smelling like smoke.
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- Well, you can't even go in the waffle house and that
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- Happen, amen?
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- They come out there, and the king looks down in the fire, and
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- He said, "i thought we cast three men, i see a fourth one."
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- I see a fourth one.
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- Now, you know, randy, read the scripture close.
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- It never says that the three hebrews saw the fourth man.
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- It never says, read it closely.
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- It never says they saw the fourth man.
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- But the fourth man was with them, and today there may be
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- Some people that feel like god's a million miles away, but i want
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- Them to know god's with you, because god's not a feeling,
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- God's a fact.
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- Maybe we have to walk through difficult times.
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- Maybe even today, blynda, i'm walking through a very difficult
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- Time, because god wants to show somebody the fourth man, and how
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- I respond really does make a difference.
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- Randy: and how you go into it, you know?
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- Because you know what they said, our god can deliver us, we
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- Believe he will, but even if he doesn't, it's whatever happens,
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- I know where my faith is, because they knew that that
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- Wasn't the end.
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- You know, someone talked to me about why did jesus have to
- 00:17:26.969 --> 00:17:29.738
- Suffer so brutally on a cross and then die?
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- And i said, you know, there's a lot of great theological
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- Answers, but for me i go, you know what?
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- I think jesus was saying two things, i understand
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- Suffering, okay?
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- I'm there, i'll walk through you with it, and then your greatest
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- Fear, which is death, watch me conquer it.
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- Benny: amen. randy: it's not the end.
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- Blynda: it's not the end. benny: amen.
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- Randy: yeah, so i'm with you.
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- Blynda: but it's hard sometimes in that practical
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- To walk out that trust.
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- Do you have a final encouragement to the viewer
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- About how to walk out that trust, that surrender when they
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- Really find themselves questioning how are they in this
- 00:18:05.807 --> 00:18:09.545
- Place when god feels so distant?
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- Benny: what i would say to them, i would say to them god's word,
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- I would say trust the promises of god.
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- I would say to our listeners, blynda, we don't live our lives
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- Based on explanations, we live our lives based on the promises
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- Of god.
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- So you cling to those promises, you cling to the promise that
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- God is--we went through the fire, we went through the water,
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- But the lord brought us out.
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- You just--many times, blynda, i've gone to sleep at night
- 00:18:40.976 --> 00:18:47.816
- Holding my bible.
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- You say, pastor, you're a nut.
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- Well, i'm screwed on the right boat, amen?
- 00:18:51.620 --> 00:18:53.855
- I've gone to sleep at night holding my bible, just leaning
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- Into the promises of god, because you can't
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- Always explain.
- 00:19:00.495 --> 00:19:01.830
- Apologetics won't always give the answer, academics won't
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- Always give the answer, we have to trust god and god's
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- Sovereignty, that god's going to see us through.
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- Randy: i've got a promise for people right now, because we're
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- Working on a project that's gonna need your involvement, and
- 00:19:16.511 --> 00:19:20.115
- That promise, you've probably heard me say comes out of
- 00:19:20.115 --> 00:19:22.217
- Proverbs, it's if you're generous to the poor, you lend
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- To god, and he will repay you.
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- I'd like to be repaid by god, and i know that's probably not
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- Financial, it's probably ways that money can't even buy, but
- 00:19:32.194 --> 00:19:35.964
- The point is this, god promises to honor your gift to those who
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- Are in need.
- 00:19:42.804 --> 00:19:44.139
- He loves a cheerful giver.
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- Where we've got an opportunity, we're gonna ask you to give.
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- We're gonna ask you to join with us in sharing his life, his
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- Love, and his healing with people desperately in need.
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- Watch this, and you'll see how you can be a part.
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- Announcer: for some children, life begins in the shadows with
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- Challenges most people will never have to face.
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- Born with physical disabilities, their days are filled with pain,
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- Limitation, and silence, not because they lack courage, it's
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- Because their body stands in the way of their dreams.
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- But suffering does not always have to be the end of
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- Their story.
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- Life outreach's medical mission partners provide hope in the
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- Form of corrective surgeries.
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- Skilled hands of surgeons reconstruct twisted limbs,
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- Never existed.
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- Prayer and a caring, christ-centered staff is
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- Important to these children's well-being and their
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- Physical restoration.
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- [speaking foreign language]
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- Announcer: this is what it looks like when god uses willing hands
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- To bring healing, restoration, and hope.
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- And for the countless numbers of children still waiting for
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- Corrective surgery, it will take willing, compassionate people to
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- Support this medical mission.
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- Be a part of restoring and renewing hope for precious
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- Children like these.
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- Randy: i believe we can do it, but i know we can only do it
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- With your help, so i would invite you into this wonderful
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- Work, this wonderful expression of god's love.
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- Go online, go to the phone, i say make the best gift you can,
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- But you know, the best gift is the one made out of a cheerful
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- Heart and out of obedience.
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- If that's you, join us.
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- Announcer: many children in africa are born with severe
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- Deformities or suffer life-altering injuries,
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- Conditions like club feet, windswept legs, and untreated
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- Fractures force them to live in pain because help is out
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- Of reach.
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- But you can offer healing today.
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- Our mission partner in zimbabwe runs a children's hospital now
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- At capacity and in urgent need of renovation and expansion.
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- With a $600,000 goal and only a short period of time to raise
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- The necessary funds, your best gift today helps children
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- Receive the surgical care they need at no cost to the families.
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- Of jesus.
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- Randy: i do hope you're going online or go to the phone making
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- The best gift you can.
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- And by the way, if you would request "yes you can" by benny
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- Tate, we'd love to send it to you, because we know it will
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- Encourage you.
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- And benny, i wanna thank you, because for years now, you've
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- Been a supporter of our outreaches.
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- Why do you support those?
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- Benny: because i believe in what you're doing.
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- John wesley said the world is my parish.
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- The world is my parish.
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- You all are making a difference in the world.
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- When you do it to the least of these you've done it unto me,
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- And so i just wanna be a part.
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- I feel like i have been blessed because of our financial support
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- Of what "life today" is doing, and i'm gonna continue.
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- Randy: i wanna thank you personally.
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- And i actually wanna thank everyone who has supported and
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- Continues to support, and for those of you who have not, i do
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- Hope you'll come on board.
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- Yes you can, benny would say, and thank you for being here.
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- I've been blessed, you've been blessed, blynda?
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- Blynda: it's been a great, great time.
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- Randy: if you missed the other program with benny tate,
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- Go to lifetoday.org and come back.
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- We'll see you next time on "life today."
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- [music]
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- Christine caine: hi, my name's chris caine.
- 00:24:42.938 --> 00:24:44.873
- And you know, i've discovered life has a
- 00:24:44.873 --> 00:24:46.241
- Lot to do with choices.
- 00:24:46.241 --> 00:24:47.576
- The book of deuteronomy says that "i call heaven and earth to
- 00:24:47.576 --> 00:24:50.345
- Witness before you today.
- 00:24:50.345 --> 00:24:51.746
- I've placed before you life and death, blessing and cursing.
- 00:24:51.746 --> 00:24:55.250
- Therefore, choose life," the scripture says.
- 00:24:55.250 --> 00:24:58.019
- You know, a lot of us, we live in fear and doubt and
- 00:24:58.019 --> 00:25:00.789
- Insecurity, and we think, "i can't do anything to change my
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- Circumstances."
- 00:25:03.725 --> 00:25:05.060
- But i've discovered that you and i, we're set apart from the
- 00:25:05.060 --> 00:25:07.395
- Animals by one very powerful force, and that's the power
- 00:25:07.395 --> 00:25:10.532
- Of choice.
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- You don't have to just accept the current situation
- 00:25:11.900 --> 00:25:14.069
- That you're in.
- 00:25:14.069 --> 00:25:15.403
- You don't have to just accept, "this is what it's always been
- 00:25:15.403 --> 00:25:17.105
- Like in our family.
- 00:25:17.105 --> 00:25:18.440
- We've always had addiction.
- 00:25:18.440 --> 00:25:19.774
- We've always struggled with this.
- 00:25:19.774 --> 00:25:21.109
- We've always lived in poverty."
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- By appropriating the truth of the word of god, you can step up
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- Out of your present circumstances into the promise
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- Of his future.
- 00:25:28.583 --> 00:25:29.951
- The word of god is full of the promise of god, but you and i
- 00:25:29.951 --> 00:25:32.787
- Need to go in and possess that promise that we might inherit
- 00:25:32.787 --> 00:25:35.857
- The promises that god has for us.
- 00:25:35.857 --> 00:25:37.792
- Don't just settle for a barely-get-by life.
- 00:25:37.792 --> 00:25:40.061
- Don't just settle for an existence and say, "well, i'm a
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- Victim of my past."
- 00:25:42.030 --> 00:25:43.365
- Today, you can make choices that will change the future.
- 00:25:43.365 --> 00:25:46.801
- You know, i had a past where i didn't start too good, but i
- 00:25:46.801 --> 00:25:49.337
- Made some choices that i was going to overcome the adversity
- 00:25:49.337 --> 00:25:53.008
- Of my past, the abuse, and the adoption.
- 00:25:53.008 --> 00:25:55.276
- And i was gonna make choices to appropriate the truth of the
- 00:25:55.276 --> 00:25:57.579
- Word of god.
- 00:25:57.579 --> 00:25:58.913
- And the power of choosing life over death has not only changed
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- My life, but it'll change the life of my two daughters and our
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- Family for the generations to come.
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- The choices you make today won't just affect your future, but the
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- Future of the generations.
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- Choose life today.
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- Female announcer: at life outreach, we believe in making a
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- Lasting impact on your life and the lives of others.
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- Giving solutions that provide tax advantages, income, and the
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- Satisfaction of supporting a cause close to your heart.
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- With options like bequests, charitable gift annuities, and
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- Ira rollovers, you can chart a purposeful path, creating a
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- Legacy of love and hope for future generations.
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- Chad prather: whether it was the bottom of a bottle of alcohol or
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- The bottom of a bag of drugs, wherever i
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- Could try to find that reality is where i was looking.
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- Announcer: chad prather, next week.
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- Life outreach international.
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- Purposes of life.
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