Cynthia Yanof: What Really Matters | Life Today

April 13, 2026 | 27:29

The author of “How’d I Miss That?” uses her own brand of humor to relate serious truths that enable us to see the truly important things.

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  • Cynthia yanof: i just hear the most excruciatingly loud, like
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  • Smashing noise, and it's like jolting, and i see shrapnel
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  • Flying, and i see sparks, and that's when i realized that the
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  • Clearance level on p2 is a lot higher for my suv, and p7 it's a
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  • Lot lower, and i was literally lodged between the ramp and the
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  • Roof of a parking garage.
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  • Randy robison: oh my gosh.
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  • Cynthia: yeah, so many things that feel basement level that
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  • Seem like they don't.
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  • Everything important is happening on the 45th floor, and
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  • The lord's like, no, like the basement-level stuff, it impacts
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  • Structural integrity of everything.
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  • Announcer: cynthia yanof, next.
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  • [music]
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  • Randy: welcome to "life today," i'm glad you're here.
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  • We're gonna have a good time.
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  • I don't want you to miss it.
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  • I don't know, you might say how did i miss that after the show?
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  • If you miss it, but cynthia yanof is our guest.
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  • It's just gonna make sense in a minute.
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  • I'm excited to have her, this is fun.
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  • Blynda lane: and yes, and "how'd i miss that?"
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  • Is the book title of cynthia.
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  • And what i love about this, i just have to point out that
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  • There is spinach in this woman's teeth, and i just have to tell
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  • You i am a spinach friend.
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  • I am, if you had spinach in your teeth, i would say, girl.
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  • Cynthia: you would tell me.
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  • Randy: i would tell you, i would tell you.
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  • Just i wanted to get that off the bat that we would be really
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  • Close friends.
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  • Cynthia: well, i'm glad you did, because yesterday at the
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  • Airport, tsa told me that my pants weren't all the
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  • Way zipped.
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  • So, there we are, everyone.
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  • And i was like, my book is aptly named, "how'd i miss that?"
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  • Blynda: how'd i miss that?
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  • Okay, but i love the book, because, i mean, you're so
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  • Funny, and you write so-- it's so well written.
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  • But what i really love about it is it takes kind of these big
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  • Concepts of all of these things maybe that we feel like we're
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  • Supposed to do in life, and you kind of bring it down and say,
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  • Really, it's some of the small things that can make the
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  • Biggest difference.
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  • Tell us the heart behind the book.
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  • Cynthia: right, well, i read a quote, and it's unknown in
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  • Source, so let's just call it mine now, but there's little
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  • Different, you know, people are basically the same, but there's
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  • A little difference that makes a big difference.
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  • And i think that's it.
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  • There's little differences in people, and i think about people
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  • Who have most impacted me.
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  • It's not, you know, the tiktok stars, it's not the people in
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  • Hollywood, but it's people that just lived life with just a
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  • Little twist and a little differently.
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  • The heart behind this book is that we are called to live
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  • Differently, and we think it's the big things that really it's
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  • The day-in, day-out, small things that impact people.
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  • Randy: what are the things that we miss?
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  • Cynthia: well, i mean, i've missed a lot, starting with
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  • Spinach and zippers, but yes, i would say, especially as
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  • Believers, love.
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  • Like, that is our brand as christians, right?
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  • If nike is just do it and subway is eat fresh, like we--the
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  • Greatest commandment, love the lord of god with all your heart,
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  • Soul, mind, strength, love your neighbor as yourself, and so
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  • Love is our brand.
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  • And i tell the story in the book, but i have a podcast, and
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  • I had an opportunity to interview somebody i was really
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  • Excited to interview, someone that has a brand that's based on
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  • Love and loving people well, and i was so excited for this
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  • Interview, and i mean, i studied harder for that than i did the
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  • Bar exam.
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  • I used to be a lawyer, and i was like ready for this thing, and
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  • So i get ready to go on, it's on zoom this particular interview,
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  • And this person's not there, and i wait and wait and finally,
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  • Long story short, they put me in touch, and i say to this person
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  • I don't know what happened, i'm just so sorry.
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  • Like, maybe we can reschedule, and this person's frustrated,
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  • They've been waiting and said i'm not rescheduling now
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  • Or ever.
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  • And here's the thing that's hard about that.
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  • Like, we all have a bad day, i get that, but if you build a
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  • Platform on love and you act unloving, it doesn't go
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  • Unnoticed, and i think that's how it is for us as believers.
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  • Every single day we have opportunities to show people
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  • What we're about and to show our brand, and it comes with delays,
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  • Untimely delays, and annoying people, and people that drive
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  • Bad and don't give us bonuses at work and all those things, and
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  • We just have these moments where we have to show up and show up
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  • In our brand.
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  • And i would say it's one of those things i've missed.
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  • I've been focused a lot of my life on what i do versus how i
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  • Do it, and how you do it matters, love matters.
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  • Randy: yeah, you know, the interesting thing about that,
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  • And when we hear something like that, you're 100% right, but we
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  • Just think, oh, well, gosh, i gotta love more, i'm gonna
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  • Try harder.
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  • But love, scripture says, is a fruit of the spirit, meaning
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  • It's a result, and so if we focus on the fruit, we're kind
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  • Of missing it.
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  • We focus on the root, which is abiding in christ, then you
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  • Can't stop the fruit, and that's the beautiful thing about love,
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  • Because i feel i can try, try, try, and you know?
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  • I have a question, though.
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  • Cynthia: okay, i'm ready.
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  • Randy: you said you used to be a lawyer.
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  • Cynthia: i did, and i would like to continue this interview
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  • Unless that's the showstopper.
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  • Is that what i--do i need to exit the premises?
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  • Randy: i do have some good lawyer jokes, but we'll leave
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  • Those on the table.
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  • Cynthia: afterwards.
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  • Randy: but how did did you get to where you're at now?
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  • Cynthia: right, well, that's a great question, one my husband
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  • Offers up quite frequently.
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  • But i would just say this, i went to law school, and i didn't
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  • Know what lawyers did.
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  • I thought it was like that show, "ally mcbeal," and i thought i
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  • Was just gonna wear cool clothes and meet a bunch of people, and
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  • It turns out that lawyers care about something i don't care
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  • About, the law.
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  • And so, i realized pretty quickly that was not my place,
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  • But in a matter of years, seven or eight years, and the lord
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  • Gave me what i knew, these words, but i had never
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  • Experienced that holy discontent, and i'd heard and
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  • Talked about all my life.
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  • I'm like what is this?
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  • And then i had that moment i was like, oh, wow, lord, i think
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  • There's something else.
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  • And so it was one of those moments where it was like open
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  • Palms of like whatever you want from me, lord, i want that, too,
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  • But also i'm a little scared, and that led us into foster
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  • Care, which led us into--i stopped working, and we got
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  • Involved with that.
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  • And then the lord opened the door with the ministry, and i
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  • Started podcasting.
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  • And here's the thing, nothing is wasted with the lord, because do
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  • You know what a podcast is?
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  • It's a deposition, and i know how to take a deposition.
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  • You ask questions, you listen, you ask a few more questions.
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  • Well, i've taken 1,000 depositions when i was a lawyer,
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  • And i was like, okay, the lord wastes nothing.
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  • And so i do podcasts, they're just not--they don't quite pay
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  • Like a deposition used to, but we're good, everyone, it's fine.
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  • Randy: and you don't lock anyone up at the end of your podcast.
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  • Cynthia: i don't, if it goes well.
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  • Randy: yeah, nobody goes to jail, that's good.
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  • Blynda: okay, so you just hit on something about foster care, and
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  • I know that's a big part of your story and your life.
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  • How did you get into that whole realm of the heart for
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  • Fostering and then what turned into adoption, correct?
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  • Cynthia: yes, yes, well, i always say we're just like the
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  • Most unlikely candidates, and i wanna be the person that's like
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  • We just knew and were like, yes, lord, we're all in.
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  • I was like, oh my gosh, what?
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  • Like that's for like missionaries or people that are
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  • In the handbell choir.
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  • Like, this is for, like, really serious, like, not us.
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  • We let our kids play sports on sunday, so i don't think we're
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  • The people, okay?
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  • And the lord is very persistent, and he's like, no, we're gonna
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  • Do this thing.
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  • And so we did all the paperwork, and we got licensed, and i mean,
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  • There's so much i could say, but i would say this, one, i don't
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  • Find the lord to be subtle when he's calling you to do something
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  • Of significance, and that at that time in our life was what
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  • He was calling us to, and he was not subtle.
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  • But i also know we went into it scared to death.
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  • I was scared spiritually, financially, emotionally.
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  • I mean, if there was a way to be scared of something, i was
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  • Scared of it.
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  • I was scared for my bio kids, and i would say i went in scared
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  • Of it, and i came out scared of who our family would be if we
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  • Hadn't done it.
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  • Because you're changed people when you do the things of god,
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  • You're changed when you show up.
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  • And even with the most reluctant yes, which is what we gave, it
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  • Wasn't like we're all in lord.
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  • It was like, oh, man, okay, and we're different.
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  • Like, we prayed over the crib of a newborn baby we barely knew
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  • Night after night and begged god, like cried over a crib as a
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  • Family, and begged god to do something merciful, because we
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  • Knew this wasn't going to turn out well.
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  • We went to parts of town, honestly that we've been
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  • Avoiding, and we went to cps offices and my kids, my bio kids
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  • Were entered into stories they had no idea existed with kids
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  • With everything they owned in a trash bag, and i just think, my
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  • Goodness, thank you, lord, for giving us an off-ramp to our
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  • First-world life and showing us like, yes, we ended up adopting
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  • A little boy who's ten now, which means for--those of you
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  • Of my age, you understand i'm doing math facts and menopause,
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  • And that's nobody's best, i'll tell you that right now.
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  • But i will say all these years later, i look back, i'm like we
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  • Know a different version of the lord than we would have
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  • Otherwise, and i wanna do what the lord created me to do.
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  • I want my family--if this is the time the lord put us here
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  • From beginning of time to second coming, like he's not a god
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  • Of chance.
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  • We are here right now, all of us, for these chances for the
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  • Opportunities for what he created us to do before we took
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  • One breath, like don't miss that.
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  • And to the heart of the book, "how'd i miss that?"
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  • I can look back on a lot of places where i'm like, not from
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  • Regret, but i mean time is limited, like, right?
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  • It's a vapor, and i don't wanna miss it anymore.
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  • So, that's one of those occasions i'd rather talk about
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  • When i feel like we didn't miss it than the many times that i'm
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  • Like, oh.
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  • Blynda: well, and you even speak about that we have two options,
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  • Building our life for the applause of others, or building
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  • Our life for eternity, for things that are gonna matter.
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  • And so when you say your best yes to god, even if it's in
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  • Something so out of what you thought it would be like
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  • Fostering to adopt, we know that there's blessing in it every
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  • Time you say yes to god.
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  • Cynthia: right, absolutely.
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  • And the challenge is, is that we live in a culture, we live in a
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  • World that tells us everything's urgent.
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  • I mean, i feel that, i don't know if you do.
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  • I'm sure you do, the urgency, especially as a mom, the urgency
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  • Of getting my kids in the right college or for having the
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  • Retirement fund or a second house or whatever is urgent, and
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  • I'm just finding the older i get that what the world calls urgent
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  • Rarely intersects with what the lord calls eternal.
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  • And so there's a point where you have to say, am i gonna chase
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  • After what's urgent?
  • 00:09:46.108 --> 00:09:47.476
  • It will take all of your time, or am i gonna chase after
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  • What's eternal?
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  • And there's a moment in time, i think, where you have to look at
  • 00:09:50.546 --> 00:09:52.648
  • That day by day and say, okay, like, what's gonna matter?
  • 00:09:52.648 --> 00:09:55.184
  • What really is significant long-term?
  • 00:09:55.184 --> 00:09:57.353
  • And so i think that's just that daily balance, and sometimes we
  • 00:09:57.353 --> 00:10:00.222
  • Get it, and sometimes we miss it.
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  • Randy: all right, i have to ask you, there's a lot of great
  • 00:10:02.491 --> 00:10:04.727
  • Stories in the book, and i got kind of my list.
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  • Is there anyone that you like to tell, one that jumps out that
  • 00:10:09.832 --> 00:10:12.368
  • Kind of makes a strong point that you're trying
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  • To communicate?
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  • Cynthia: yeah, i would say one of my favorites is when i was a
  • 00:10:15.971 --> 00:10:19.275
  • Lawyer, i was disgruntled and not very good at my job, because
  • 00:10:19.275 --> 00:10:24.814
  • I didn't know what lawyers did, and i hated the law, remember
  • 00:10:24.814 --> 00:10:26.649
  • That part?
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  • And so i was driving to work one day, and i just on the phone and
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  • Drinking a diet coke, because i always have a diet coke, and i'm
  • 00:10:31.220 --> 00:10:33.355
  • Driving, and i always parked on p2, but my kids had made me late
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  • So i go to p3, p4, p5, and finally around p7, i just hear
  • 00:10:36.358 --> 00:10:40.763
  • The most excruciatingly loud, like smashing noise, and it's
  • 00:10:40.763 --> 00:10:44.500
  • Like jolting, and i see shrapnel flying, and i see sparks, and
  • 00:10:44.500 --> 00:10:47.803
  • All of a sudden then it's silent, my diet coke flies
  • 00:10:47.803 --> 00:10:50.539
  • Across, and i'm like, oh my gosh.
  • 00:10:50.539 --> 00:10:52.108
  • And so i get the nerve after i check, everything's still
  • 00:10:52.108 --> 00:10:54.376
  • Intact, i get out, and i'm like what happened?
  • 00:10:54.376 --> 00:10:56.812
  • And that's when i realized that the clearance level on p2 is a
  • 00:10:56.812 --> 00:10:59.615
  • Lot higher for my suv, and p7 it's a lot lower, and i was
  • 00:10:59.615 --> 00:11:03.052
  • Literally lodged between the ramp and the roof of a
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  • Parking garage.
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  • Randy: oh my gosh.
  • 00:11:06.956 --> 00:11:08.290
  • Cynthia: yeah, and so there i sat, and by the way, there's
  • 00:11:08.290 --> 00:11:09.892
  • Nothing in your owner's manual that tells you what to do when
  • 00:11:09.892 --> 00:11:11.527
  • You lodge your car like a missile into a parking garage,
  • 00:11:11.527 --> 00:11:14.029
  • And the attendants finally came, and they were nice.
  • 00:11:14.029 --> 00:11:16.732
  • They asked if i was okay, and then they laughed, and so there
  • 00:11:16.732 --> 00:11:19.268
  • We sat, and i waited and waited and finally went up to them as
  • 00:11:19.268 --> 00:11:22.738
  • They're talking and with only the tone a woman can that's
  • 00:11:22.738 --> 00:11:25.441
  • Wearing half a can of diet coke and, you know, has totally
  • 00:11:25.441 --> 00:11:28.577
  • Destroyed her car, i'm like what's taking so long?
  • 00:11:28.577 --> 00:11:31.747
  • I mean, i have a job on the 45th floor, right?
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  • In this high-rise in downtown dallas.
  • 00:11:33.449 --> 00:11:35.251
  • What's taking so long?
  • 00:11:35.251 --> 00:11:36.619
  • And they let me know this is even more horrifying.
  • 00:11:36.619 --> 00:11:38.420
  • They had to call in a structural engineer, because i had become a
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  • Load-bearing wall, and i look back on that time, and i laugh a
  • 00:11:41.490 --> 00:11:46.729
  • Lot kind of now after many years, but also so many things
  • 00:11:46.729 --> 00:11:50.499
  • That feel basement level that seem like they don't--
  • 00:11:50.499 --> 00:11:52.802
  • Everything important is happening on the 45th floor, and
  • 00:11:52.802 --> 00:11:54.804
  • The lord's like, no, like the basement-level stuff, it impacts
  • 00:11:54.804 --> 00:11:57.506
  • Structural integrity of everything.
  • 00:11:57.506 --> 00:11:59.475
  • And i can look back on my life, and i can see a lot of places
  • 00:11:59.475 --> 00:12:02.011
  • Where there was basement-level things the lord's like we've got
  • 00:12:02.011 --> 00:12:04.146
  • To work on some humility, we've got to work on some forgiveness,
  • 00:12:04.146 --> 00:12:07.249
  • We've got to work on how are we loving?
  • 00:12:07.249 --> 00:12:09.084
  • We gotta live on mission.
  • 00:12:09.084 --> 00:12:10.653
  • Like, i feel like the lord worked so mightily in basement,
  • 00:12:10.653 --> 00:12:13.622
  • And all i wanted was the 45th floor.
  • 00:12:13.622 --> 00:12:15.991
  • And just so you know, they did get my car out.
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  • I don't know if anybody cares how that happened, but here's
  • 00:12:18.928 --> 00:12:21.063
  • The quick version of that.
  • 00:12:21.063 --> 00:12:22.865
  • They brought in a guy named manny, and they were like as
  • 00:12:22.865 --> 00:12:25.034
  • Soon as manny gets here, we've cleared a structural engineer.
  • 00:12:25.034 --> 00:12:27.770
  • Manny was a really large fellow, like really large, and they let
  • 00:12:27.770 --> 00:12:32.441
  • Out the air of the tires, and manny's whole job was to jump on
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  • The side of my suv on the running board, and his weight
  • 00:12:35.277 --> 00:12:38.747
  • With the air coming out lowered enough to give me freedom from
  • 00:12:38.747 --> 00:12:42.585
  • The garage.
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  • Blynda: oh my goodness.
  • 00:12:43.919 --> 00:12:45.287
  • Cynthia: and sometimes when i speak i get to tell people like,
  • 00:12:45.287 --> 00:12:46.889
  • Listen, i don't wanna liken myself to the fat guy on your
  • 00:12:46.889 --> 00:12:48.557
  • Running board, but i kind of wanna jump up and down and say,
  • 00:12:48.557 --> 00:12:50.893
  • Like, listen, this is what matters.
  • 00:12:50.893 --> 00:12:52.795
  • If you want freedom, then you gotta believe the small
  • 00:12:52.795 --> 00:12:55.564
  • Things matter.
  • 00:12:55.564 --> 00:12:56.932
  • You've gotta believe the everyday decisions of
  • 00:12:56.932 --> 00:12:58.267
  • Faithfulness, they matter.
  • 00:12:58.267 --> 00:13:00.669
  • And so, yeah, that's the story.
  • 00:13:00.669 --> 00:13:02.304
  • Blynda: where was it in your life or in your story that you
  • 00:13:02.304 --> 00:13:06.108
  • Began seeing god has made me gifted in a way to have an
  • 00:13:06.108 --> 00:13:11.447
  • Ability to see every story, every--because he said what's
  • 00:13:11.447 --> 00:13:16.318
  • Your favorite story, and you told one that is like really
  • 00:13:16.318 --> 00:13:19.088
  • Hard, inconvenient, it ruined your car, and i'm like where
  • 00:13:19.088 --> 00:13:22.224
  • Does it come from to be able to make something great about every
  • 00:13:22.224 --> 00:13:25.661
  • Story and to be able to really teach it and make it almost a
  • 00:13:25.661 --> 00:13:30.165
  • Life lesson for someone?
  • 00:13:30.165 --> 00:13:31.533
  • Cynthia: yeah, i mean, i think it's time and
  • 00:13:31.533 --> 00:13:33.202
  • Perspective, right?
  • 00:13:33.202 --> 00:13:34.570
  • I think that's part of it is, is you--in the moment that's not
  • 00:13:34.570 --> 00:13:37.539
  • Funny to me, right?
  • 00:13:37.539 --> 00:13:38.874
  • But it takes a little time, it takes some perspective.
  • 00:13:38.874 --> 00:13:40.976
  • I also grew up in a home where humor was currency, and so if
  • 00:13:40.976 --> 00:13:44.480
  • You can't laugh at yourself, then it was gonna be a long
  • 00:13:44.480 --> 00:13:46.682
  • Road, and, you know, our love language in my current home with
  • 00:13:46.682 --> 00:13:49.418
  • My kids is sarcasm.
  • 00:13:49.418 --> 00:13:51.220
  • That's just how we--that's what we speak in our home, and i
  • 00:13:51.220 --> 00:13:54.323
  • Just--i feel like this.
  • 00:13:54.323 --> 00:13:55.691
  • I grew up in a really strong faith-filled home, and i'm so
  • 00:13:55.691 --> 00:13:58.994
  • Grateful for that, but i also grew up thinking that faith
  • 00:13:58.994 --> 00:14:01.196
  • Needs to look a certain way, and it was serious, and it is
  • 00:14:01.196 --> 00:14:04.033
  • Serious, i understand that, but if god's not in the in-between
  • 00:14:04.033 --> 00:14:07.770
  • And the funny and the off-script stuff, then we're in trouble,
  • 00:14:07.770 --> 00:14:10.572
  • Because 90% is off-script, in-between, didn't go as
  • 00:14:10.572 --> 00:14:13.909
  • Planned, and so for me, i feel like the lord has given me these
  • 00:14:13.909 --> 00:14:17.146
  • Constant reminders of like, "i use all things for your good and
  • 00:14:17.146 --> 00:14:21.450
  • My glory," all things.
  • 00:14:21.450 --> 00:14:22.818
  • And so i like to just kind of step back and look at those
  • 00:14:22.818 --> 00:14:25.587
  • Things and say, okay, lord, like what do we take from this?
  • 00:14:25.587 --> 00:14:28.691
  • How can we get spiritual truth from the ordinary?
  • 00:14:28.691 --> 00:14:31.593
  • Blynda: i love it.
  • 00:14:31.593 --> 00:14:32.962
  • Randy: i've heard a lot of great sermons on the true deep meaning
  • 00:14:32.962 --> 00:14:35.230
  • Of, you know, man makes plans and god laughs and what that
  • 00:14:35.230 --> 00:14:38.500
  • Actually means.
  • 00:14:38.500 --> 00:14:39.835
  • I think he literally laughs.
  • 00:14:39.835 --> 00:14:41.203
  • Cynthia: literally, i hope so, right.
  • 00:14:41.203 --> 00:14:43.138
  • Randy: but so the foundational things that you talk about, we
  • 00:14:43.138 --> 00:14:46.141
  • Like to cut corners, and you also tell a story about where
  • 00:14:46.141 --> 00:14:50.579
  • Cutting corners can get you, and if we don't deal with those very
  • 00:14:50.579 --> 00:14:54.350
  • Foundational things, it can come back to bite us as it did one
  • 00:14:54.350 --> 00:14:59.888
  • Home builder.
  • 00:14:59.888 --> 00:15:01.256
  • Cynthia: right, right, i mean, the gist of the story is like a
  • 00:15:01.256 --> 00:15:03.559
  • Sermon illustration, but a guy who built homes for a living,
  • 00:15:03.559 --> 00:15:06.528
  • And at last he retired, and the boss said one more house.
  • 00:15:06.528 --> 00:15:09.832
  • He's like, oh my gosh, i'm done, i'm retired, and he said one
  • 00:15:09.832 --> 00:15:12.234
  • More, so the guy did it, and he kind of cut corners and didn't
  • 00:15:12.234 --> 00:15:14.903
  • Use the same craftsmanship, all those things, and at the end the
  • 00:15:14.903 --> 00:15:18.374
  • Boss said, okay, here's the keys, you were building it for
  • 00:15:18.374 --> 00:15:21.877
  • Yourself, and you know he's dying, like, oh my gosh, i cut
  • 00:15:21.877 --> 00:15:24.513
  • Corners on the one house they're giving to me.
  • 00:15:24.513 --> 00:15:27.383
  • But that house looked the same as all the others from the
  • 00:15:27.383 --> 00:15:29.518
  • Outside, and that resonates with me, because i feel like in my
  • 00:15:29.518 --> 00:15:32.588
  • Life i've built two homes.
  • 00:15:32.588 --> 00:15:33.956
  • I feel like the first 30-plus years of my life was a home that
  • 00:15:33.956 --> 00:15:37.426
  • Looks very similar to the one i live in now, metaphorically
  • 00:15:37.426 --> 00:15:39.928
  • Speaking, but it was a home where some corners were cut, and
  • 00:15:39.928 --> 00:15:42.564
  • I cared--there's some pride issues, and there was some
  • 00:15:42.564 --> 00:15:45.100
  • Self-sufficiency and some achievement, all of those
  • 00:15:45.100 --> 00:15:47.736
  • Things, and i feel like the lord was very gracious to do a little
  • 00:15:47.736 --> 00:15:50.806
  • Demolition and break down some things and say, like, this isn't
  • 00:15:50.806 --> 00:15:54.276
  • A home worth living in.
  • 00:15:54.276 --> 00:15:55.644
  • And then you get a little older, you get a little perspective,
  • 00:15:55.644 --> 00:15:58.247
  • And then you rebuild, right?
  • 00:15:58.247 --> 00:16:00.249
  • And yeah, they look the same, but at the end of the day, like
  • 00:16:00.249 --> 00:16:02.684
  • If you have foundation problems, you can throw a rug on it, but
  • 00:16:02.684 --> 00:16:06.188
  • It's still a foundation problem, right?
  • 00:16:06.188 --> 00:16:08.157
  • And the lord really works through some of those
  • 00:16:08.157 --> 00:16:10.159
  • Foundational issues, and it's painful, and it's difficult, and
  • 00:16:10.159 --> 00:16:13.796
  • You have to play the long game, but only then are you building a
  • 00:16:13.796 --> 00:16:17.066
  • House that's really worth living in.
  • 00:16:17.066 --> 00:16:18.934
  • Blynda: so, in the book, you talk about generosity, like, i
  • 00:16:18.934 --> 00:16:22.471
  • Think about your life, and you've really live a generous
  • 00:16:22.471 --> 00:16:25.274
  • Life in the sense of you chose to do something for the lord,
  • 00:16:25.274 --> 00:16:29.278
  • You gave up the the law practice, you decided to to go
  • 00:16:29.278 --> 00:16:32.414
  • Into this, now you've adopted a child, and where did that heart
  • 00:16:32.414 --> 00:16:35.851
  • Of generosity come from?
  • 00:16:35.851 --> 00:16:38.120
  • Cynthia: you know, i think my parents are very
  • 00:16:38.120 --> 00:16:39.721
  • Generous people.
  • 00:16:39.721 --> 00:16:41.090
  • I think i've been subject to a lot of generosity and people
  • 00:16:41.090 --> 00:16:45.594
  • Around me, not just financial.
  • 00:16:45.594 --> 00:16:47.296
  • I think the most generous people are generous in ways that are
  • 00:16:47.296 --> 00:16:49.465
  • Not necessarily financial even, but generous in their words,
  • 00:16:49.465 --> 00:16:52.568
  • Generous in giving me second chances, generous in giving me
  • 00:16:52.568 --> 00:16:55.337
  • Opportunities i did not deserve.
  • 00:16:55.337 --> 00:16:57.573
  • But i think if you look at our whole story as believers, you
  • 00:16:57.573 --> 00:17:00.275
  • Think about a god from genesis to revelation that over and over
  • 00:17:00.275 --> 00:17:04.446
  • And over pursued his people at all costs, and he made a way
  • 00:17:04.446 --> 00:17:08.717
  • Back to him all the way through jesus, right?
  • 00:17:08.717 --> 00:17:11.019
  • Who dies on the cross for us.
  • 00:17:11.019 --> 00:17:12.354
  • I mean, he leaves the 99 for the 1, and we're the 1.
  • 00:17:12.354 --> 00:17:14.823
  • Like what kind of generosity is that?
  • 00:17:14.823 --> 00:17:17.693
  • How do you not live out of that overflow?
  • 00:17:17.693 --> 00:17:20.395
  • And i think it's easy to miss that.
  • 00:17:20.395 --> 00:17:22.297
  • I miss it a lot, but if you really think about the story,
  • 00:17:22.297 --> 00:17:25.734
  • That's our story, then how do you not live generously?
  • 00:17:25.734 --> 00:17:29.371
  • And so i think for me, it was always a financial thing, it was
  • 00:17:29.371 --> 00:17:31.440
  • A sermon, you know, twice a year when they're under budget, and
  • 00:17:31.440 --> 00:17:34.576
  • So i think that challenge in my life has been how do i live
  • 00:17:34.576 --> 00:17:38.046
  • Generously even outside of finances?
  • 00:17:38.046 --> 00:17:40.249
  • What's a generous word i can give?
  • 00:17:40.249 --> 00:17:42.050
  • What's a way that i can generously include people in my
  • 00:17:42.050 --> 00:17:45.587
  • Home, make memories with people?
  • 00:17:45.587 --> 00:17:47.756
  • I've really hopefully worked on our kids on who are the kids
  • 00:17:47.756 --> 00:17:51.393
  • That don't have somebody?
  • 00:17:51.393 --> 00:17:52.761
  • Who can we love well that doesn't have--i don't even mean
  • 00:17:52.761 --> 00:17:57.766
  • Financially, but doesn't have the social wealth or whatever
  • 00:17:57.766 --> 00:18:00.302
  • Those things are.
  • 00:18:00.302 --> 00:18:01.670
  • And so just showing there's lots of different forms of
  • 00:18:01.670 --> 00:18:03.572
  • Generosity, and we live out of an overflow of generosity, and
  • 00:18:03.572 --> 00:18:06.975
  • That changes everything.
  • 00:18:06.975 --> 00:18:08.343
  • Blynda: seeing those who aren't always seen.
  • 00:18:08.343 --> 00:18:10.045
  • Cynthia: right, right.
  • 00:18:10.045 --> 00:18:11.413
  • Randy: yeah, i mean, the scripture is abundant when it
  • 00:18:11.413 --> 00:18:14.716
  • Comes to the poor, poverty, our generosity, and you're
  • 00:18:14.716 --> 00:18:20.289
  • 100% right.
  • 00:18:20.289 --> 00:18:21.623
  • I gotta just be honest and let people know that when i have
  • 00:18:21.623 --> 00:18:24.927
  • Given of myself in every way, including finances, i haven't
  • 00:18:24.927 --> 00:18:29.464
  • Always gotten richer from it.
  • 00:18:29.464 --> 00:18:31.466
  • I've been poor financially but rich in spirit, and i think
  • 00:18:31.466 --> 00:18:36.905
  • That's what true generosity looks like, true prosperity
  • 00:18:36.905 --> 00:18:40.075
  • Looks like.
  • 00:18:40.075 --> 00:18:41.410
  • It's a richness of of spirit, and so you've lived that.
  • 00:18:41.410 --> 00:18:44.046
  • Cynthia: we have an opportunity to be generous day in and day
  • 00:18:44.046 --> 00:18:46.048
  • Out and show up, and we don't know people's story, but they
  • 00:18:46.048 --> 00:18:48.884
  • All have one.
  • 00:18:48.884 --> 00:18:50.252
  • I have one, y'all have one, so yeah.
  • 00:18:50.252 --> 00:18:52.387
  • Randy: so good, thank you, cynthia.
  • 00:18:52.387 --> 00:18:53.722
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  • We'd love to send it to you, and we'd also like to show you some
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  • 00:19:00.696 --> 00:19:05.167
  • Because this is a chance to be generous, so watch this,
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  • This because, actually, christ asks us to do this.
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  • Announcer: our medical mission partners who perform these
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  • Life-changing surgeries face a critical challenge, the urgent
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  • Need to expand their surgical facilities so that children
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  • Requiring corrective care are not forced to wait.
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  • That is why life outreach international needs your help,
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  • So that together we can provide the resources necessary for this
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  • Expansion and ensure that no child in need of surgery is ever
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  • Turned away.
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  • Randy: when you are generous to the poor, you lend, you partner
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  • With god.
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  • Will you partner with us as we partner with god?
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  • I hope you will, do it today, do it now.
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  • Announcer: many children in africa are born with severe
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  • Deformities or suffer life-altering injuries,
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  • Conditions like club feet, windswept legs, and untreated
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  • Fractures force them to live in pain because help is out
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  • Of reach.
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  • But you can offer healing today.
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  • Our mission partner in zimbabwe runs a children's hospital now
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  • At capacity and in urgent need of renovation and expansion.
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  • With a $600,000 goal and only a short period of time to raise
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  • The necessary funds, your best gift today helps children
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  • Receive the surgical care they need at no cost to the families.
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  • Together we can heal precious lives and reveal the love
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  • Of jesus.
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  • With a gift of any amount, we'll send you the "global impact of
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  • Life" journal, featuring inspiring photos from
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  • Life's outreaches.
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  • This beautiful journal is a reminder that your prayers and
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  • Partnership are making a global difference.
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  • With your gift of $126 or more, you may request "a life of
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  • Compassion" coffee table book, capturing life outreach's heart
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  • For the world.
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  • Each page pairs timeless bible verses with vivid mission field
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  • Photography, making god's word visible in action.
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  • Finally, please consider a gift of $1,026 to help with the
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  • Expansion of operating rooms so children are no longer turned
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  • Away and request life's beautiful bronze sculpture,
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  • The good shepherd.
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  • This is the last week, please call, write,
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  • Or make your gift online.
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  • Randy: this is the last week we'll be on the air with this.
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  • I really want to be able to tell them, yes, we're going to do
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  • More, and we can only do it with you, so please go online, go to
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  • The phone, make the best gift you can.
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  • And today we'd love for you to request this book.
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  • Blynda: "how'd i miss that?", cynthia yanof.
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  • Randy: a lot of fun.
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  • Blynda: this is-- it's such a fun read.
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  • Like it's--you're just so funny.
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  • That's just the best thing i can say.
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  • You are, you're just funny.
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  • So thank you for joining us today.
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  • It's been such a pleasure.
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  • Cynthia: thank you for having me.
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  • Randy: where can they see your podcast?
  • 00:23:20.155 --> 00:23:21.490
  • I want people to follow you.
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  • Cynthia: it's called "messmerized," and it has two
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  • Esses, like mess.
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  • Life is a mess, so "messmerized."
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  • And yeah, wherever you listen to podcasts, you can grab it there.
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  • Randy: "messmerized" with cynthia yanof.
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  • Great, we appreciate you being here.
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  • Cynthia: thank you.
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  • Randy: we appreciate you guys being here.
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  • Come back, we'll see you next time here on "life today."
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  • [music]
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  • Jennifer rothschild: hi, i'm jennifer, and i've been blind
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  • Since i was a teenager.
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  • I've got two boys.
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  • Well, raising kids as a blind mom was challenging, as you
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  • Can imagine.
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  • One of the hardest things was not being able to drive my kids
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  • To school.
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  • But thankfully, miss pat helped with that.
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  • So, miss pat was this lovely woman who would drive our kids
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  • Back and forth to school, and one day she was driving my son
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  • Connor home from preschool.
  • 00:24:06.768 --> 00:24:08.803
  • Now, connor was only four years old at the time, and he was
  • 00:24:08.803 --> 00:24:10.839
  • Strapped in the back seat, and miss pat was driving, and miss
  • 00:24:10.839 --> 00:24:14.009
  • Pat told me the story how connor, as he's almost home,
  • 00:24:14.009 --> 00:24:17.712
  • They're about to pull in the driveway, and connor says, "miss
  • 00:24:17.712 --> 00:24:20.148
  • Pat, why doesn't my mommy drive me to school?"
  • 00:24:20.148 --> 00:24:24.653
  • Well, pat told me she was a little confused as to how to
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  • Answer, because she knew that connor realized i was blind, and
  • 00:24:27.756 --> 00:24:32.027
  • So she tried to "explain, well, you know, connor, your mom
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  • Can't see.
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  • You know, connor, your mom can't drive because she's blind."
  • 00:24:37.198 --> 00:24:41.503
  • And connor, with complete comfort and childlike innocence
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  • And confidence said, "oh yeah, my mom walks by faith and not
  • 00:24:46.808 --> 00:24:52.047
  • By sight."
  • 00:24:52.047 --> 00:24:53.815
  • And he was right.
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  • His mom literally walks by faith and not by sight.
  • 00:24:55.283 --> 00:24:59.788
  • But you know what?
  • 00:24:59.788 --> 00:25:01.156
  • All of us on this side of eternity, when we are in christ,
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  • We do walk by faith and not by sight.
  • 00:25:05.126 --> 00:25:08.563
  • But the beautiful thing, my friend, is that someday our
  • 00:25:08.563 --> 00:25:13.435
  • Faith will become sight.
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  • Someday, when we pass from this life into heaven, our faith
  • 00:25:15.837 --> 00:25:20.241
  • Literally will become our sight.
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  • That's what revelation 22, verse 4 teaches us, that we will
  • 00:25:22.978 --> 00:25:26.514
  • Literally see his face, and his name will be on our foreheads.
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  • So, if you're walking this path of faith right now and it's
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  • Rough and it's taking twists and turns that you never
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  • Anticipated, can i encourage you?
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  • The journey is worth it.
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  • Keep walking by faith.
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  • Be faithful as you walk step by step, because someday, someday
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  • There will come a day when you take your final step from this
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  • Side to the next.
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  • You will step fully into your glorious unending, when your
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  • Faith becomes sight, and you will see jesus, and you
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  • Know what?
  • 00:26:09.824 --> 00:26:11.159
  • I have a feeling that when you and i get to heaven and we
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  • Really do see jesus, everything that came before that might have
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  • Been difficult, that might have been hard, when we get to see
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  • Jesus, it will all pale and fade into the shadows compared to the
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  • Glorious beauty of literally seeing him face to face.
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  • Right now, you and i, we see through a glass darkly, but
  • 00:26:34.149 --> 00:26:37.118
  • Someday, we will see him face to face.
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  • So, keep walking by faith, my friend, until your faith
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  • Becomes sight.
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  • Announcer: you can chart a purposeful path, creating
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  • A legacy of love and hope for future generations.
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  • Visit life planning services today.
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  • Chad prather: whether it was the bottom of a bottle of alcohol or
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  • Bottom of a bag of drugs, wherever i could try to find
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  • That reality is where i was looking.
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  • Male announcer: chad prather, tomorrow.
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  • Announcer: "life today" is made possible by the supporters of
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  • Life outreach international.
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  • Purposes of life.
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