Kenza Haddock - Secure In Jesus

July 30, 2025 | S25 E195 | 29:15

A licensed professional counselor and author of “Secure” offers anchors of truth to find identity and security in Christ.

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Life Today with James Robison | Kenza Haddock - Secure In Jesus | July 30, 2025

>> my little girl was like, "can you give me a pedicure?"
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And i was like, "okay."
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And i'm sitting there painting her toes
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And just watching her little toes.
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I'm like, wow, lord, you made those little toes, and they're so cute!
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Right then and there, the lord spoke to my heart,
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"you're delighting in her. that's how i delight in you."
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Kenza haddock's childhood resulted in a distorted view
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Of god's character.
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She wants to help you secure your relationship with god.
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Next on life today!
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♪
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Tammy: hello, everybody!
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Tammy: hello, everybody! welcome to life today .
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Tammy: hello, everybody! welcome to life today . i'm tammy trent,
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Welcome to life today . i'm tammy trent, and today is
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I'm tammy trent, and today is " wellness wednesday s."
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And today is " wellness wednesday s." i love wellness wednesday s
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" wellness wednesday s." i love wellness wednesday s because i get more well
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I love wellness wednesday s because i get more well every wednesday.
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So it's a perfect time
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So it's a perfect time that you're tuning in.
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So it's a perfect time that you're tuning in. i think it's going to be
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That you're tuning in. i think it's going to be a really great day.
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I think it's going to be a really great day. i want to introduce you
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A really great day. i want to introduce you to somebody special.
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I want to introduce you to somebody special. she is my guest co-host,
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To somebody special. she is my guest co-host, blynda lane.
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She is my guest co-host, blynda lane. i love having you here.
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Blynda lane. i love having you here. blynda: oh, tammy,
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I love having you here. blynda: oh, tammy, it's been so fun.
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Blynda: oh, tammy, it's been so fun. i mean, you are such a gift.
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It's been so fun. i mean, you are such a gift. i hope that every single
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I mean, you are such a gift. i hope that every single life today viewer understands
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I hope that every single life today viewer understands what a gift you have in tammy.
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Life today viewer understands what a gift you have in tammy. and in james and betty!
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What a gift you have in tammy. and in james and betty! it is such an honor and
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And in james and betty! it is such an honor and privilege to get to be here,
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It is such an honor and privilege to get to be here, knowing the impact
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Privilege to get to be here, knowing the impact they've made in the kingdom
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Knowing the impact they've made in the kingdom of god for so many decades.
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They've made in the kingdom of god for so many decades. i love that i'm getting
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Of god for so many decades. i love that i'm getting to guest host with you today.
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I love that i'm getting to guest host with you today. this is really exciting.
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To guest host with you today. this is really exciting. tammy: i love it so much!
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This is really exciting. tammy: i love it so much! we've got a great guest
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Tammy: i love it so much! we've got a great guest with us today
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We've got a great guest with us today on wellness wednesday .
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With us today on wellness wednesday . she's going to have a lot
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On wellness wednesday . she's going to have a lot of great stuff to say
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She's going to have a lot of great stuff to say that is going to help us
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Of great stuff to say that is going to help us in our health, mentally,
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That is going to help us in our health, mentally, spiritually, physically --
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In our health, mentally, spiritually, physically -- all the things!
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Spiritually, physically -- all the things! kenza haddock is an author
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All the things! kenza haddock is an author and a licensed trauma
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Kenza haddock is an author and a licensed trauma pastoral counselor.
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And a licensed trauma pastoral counselor. kenza, welcome to life today .
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Pastoral counselor. kenza, welcome to life today . it's good to have you back.
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Kenza, welcome to life today . it's good to have you back. kenza: thank you so much
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It's good to have you back. kenza: thank you so much for having me.
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Kenza: thank you so much for having me. i'm excited.
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For having me. i'm excited. tammy: yeah, i'm excited too.
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I'm excited. tammy: yeah, i'm excited too. the time is going to go fast.
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Tammy: yeah, i'm excited too. the time is going to go fast. i'm going to jump
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The time is going to go fast. i'm going to jump right in at the top.
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I'm going to jump right in at the top. i know this is going
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Right in at the top. i know this is going to eventually be a book,
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I know this is going to eventually be a book, maybe a movie of her life.
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To eventually be a book, maybe a movie of her life. there are so many twists
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Maybe a movie of her life. there are so many twists and turns, girl.
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There are so many twists and turns, girl. i even had to write it down
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And turns, girl. i even had to write it down because there are so many.
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I even had to write it down because there are so many. but from being
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Because there are so many. but from being brought up muslim.
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But from being brought up muslim. to even an arranged marriage
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Brought up muslim. to even an arranged marriage as a teenager, miscarriage,
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To even an arranged marriage as a teenager, miscarriage, abuse, a critical home,
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As a teenager, miscarriage, abuse, a critical home, abortion, to finally landing
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Abuse, a critical home, abortion, to finally landing in prison for six months.
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Abortion, to finally landing in prison for six months. i mean, you have
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In prison for six months. i mean, you have an incredible story
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I mean, you have an incredible story of redemption of what
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An incredible story of redemption of what god's done in your life.
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Of redemption of what god's done in your life. just touch on your story
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Kenza: yeah!
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Kenza: yeah! you know, secure attachment
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You know, secure attachment is something i've had
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Is something i've had to just fight my way through,
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I just didn't land there.
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I just didn't land there. and so, yes, i grew up
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I just didn't land there. and so, yes, i grew up in an islamic household.
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And so, yes, i grew up in an islamic household. my understanding of god
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In an islamic household. my understanding of god as a muslim was that
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My understanding of god as a muslim was that he was mean.
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As a muslim was that he was mean. he was distant.
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He was mean. he was distant. he was like
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He was distant. he was like a spiritual pharaoh.
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He was like a spiritual pharaoh. he just demanded.
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A spiritual pharaoh. he just demanded. and i felt throughout my life,
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He just demanded. and i felt throughout my life, i mean, teenage years,
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And i felt throughout my life, i mean, teenage years, early 20s, i would take
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I mean, teenage years, early 20s, i would take four steps forward just
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Early 20s, i would take four steps forward just to get knocked ten steps back.
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Four steps forward just to get knocked ten steps back. i just could not please him
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To get knocked ten steps back. i just could not please him in anything i did.
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I just could not please him in anything i did. i fell into depression
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In anything i did. i fell into depression and anxiety because of that.
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I fell into depression and anxiety because of that. it didn't matter if i prayed
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And anxiety because of that. it didn't matter if i prayed enough, if i fasted enough,
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It didn't matter if i prayed enough, if i fasted enough, none of that, because
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Enough, if i fasted enough, none of that, because it was just work-based.
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None of that, because it was just work-based. and even deeper than that,
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It was just work-based. and even deeper than that, i grew up in a household
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And even deeper than that, i grew up in a household where my mom was very critical
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Emotionally distant.
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Emotionally distant. so, fast forward years,
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So, fast forward years, i give my life to jesus,
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I give my life to jesus, and i know in the last episode
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And i know in the last episode when i was here, i shared
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Jesus came to me in a dream,
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Jesus came to me in a dream, and it led me to give
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Jesus came to me in a dream, and it led me to give my life to him.
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And it led me to give my life to him. so, i go to church
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My life to him. so, i go to church and i'm sitting there.
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So, i go to church and i'm sitting there. i'm reading scripture.
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And i'm sitting there. i'm reading scripture. i'm reading zephaniah 3:17,
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I'm reading scripture. i'm reading zephaniah 3:17, and it says that god rejoices
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I'm reading zephaniah 3:17, and it says that god rejoices in me with singing;
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And it says that god rejoices in me with singing; and he delights in me.
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In me with singing; and he delights in me. i'm reading isaiah 43:1
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And he delights in me. i'm reading isaiah 43:1 and it says that
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I'm reading isaiah 43:1 and it says that he has redeemed me.
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And it says that he has redeemed me. that he calls me by name,
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He has redeemed me. that he calls me by name, that i am his.
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That he calls me by name, that i am his. but it's going in one ear,
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That i am his. but it's going in one ear, out the other.
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But it's going in one ear, out the other. it's in my head.
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Out the other. it's in my head. i'm memorizing
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It's in my head. i'm memorizing these scriptures, but
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I'm memorizing these scriptures, but they're not translated
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These scriptures, but they're not translated into my heart.
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They're not translated into my heart. and so, i get to a point
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Into my heart. and so, i get to a point where i'm frustrated because
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And so, i get to a point where i'm frustrated because i'm like, okay, if god's word
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Where i'm frustrated because i'm like, okay, if god's word is supposed to work, then
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I'm like, okay, if god's word is supposed to work, then why is it not working for me?
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Is supposed to work, then why is it not working for me? like, what is so wrong with me
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Why is it not working for me? like, what is so wrong with me that it's not working for me?
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Like, what is so wrong with me that it's not working for me? it was a frustrating
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That it's not working for me? it was a frustrating period of my life.
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It was a frustrating period of my life. tammy: did that happen
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Period of my life. tammy: did that happen early in your relationship
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Tammy: did that happen early in your relationship or as you were growing in
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Early in your relationship or as you were growing in your relationship with jesus?
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Or as you were growing in your relationship with jesus? was that where you're like,
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Your relationship with jesus? was that where you're like, i'm not connecting.
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Was that where you're like, i'm not connecting. kenza: it happened
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I'm not connecting. kenza: it happened for several years.
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Kenza: it happened for several years. yeah, for several years.
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For several years. yeah, for several years. so fast-forward
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Yeah, for several years. so fast-forward another couple of years,
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So fast-forward another couple of years, now i'm a counselor
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Another couple of years, now i'm a counselor and i'm sitting across
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Now i'm a counselor and i'm sitting across from patients and
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And i'm sitting across from patients and they're talking to me
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From patients and they're talking to me about low self-esteem,
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They're talking to me about low self-esteem, anxiety, depression,
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About low self-esteem, anxiety, depression, trauma,
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Anxiety, depression, trauma, and they're telling me,
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Trauma, and they're telling me, "hey, listen.
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And they're telling me, "hey, listen. you prescribed me
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"hey, listen. you prescribed me these anecdotes,
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You prescribed me these anecdotes, these bible verses,
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These anecdotes, these bible verses, but they're not working.
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These bible verses, but they're not working. they're not getting
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But they're not working. they're not getting through my head."
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They're not getting through my head." and i get so excited!
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Through my head." and i get so excited! i'm like, i know this one!
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And i get so excited! i'm like, i know this one! and they're like,
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I'm like, i know this one! and they're like, they're looking at me like
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And they're like, they're looking at me like i've lost my mind.
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They're looking at me like i've lost my mind. they're like, i just
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I've lost my mind. they're like, i just told you, i think
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They're like, i just told you, i think i'm too far gone.
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Told you, i think i'm too far gone. and you're looking at me
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But i know this one!
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But i know this one! i know how to get you out
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I know how to get you out because god got me out
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Because god got me out of this one.
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Of this one. tammy: that's so good!
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Tammy: that's so good! i know how to get you out.
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Kenza: okay,
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Kenza: okay, so first things first.
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Kenza: okay, so first things first. we have to be real
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So first things first. we have to be real about where we are,
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We have to be real about where we are, and so clarity is key.
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About where we are, and so clarity is key. we have to understand
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And so clarity is key. we have to understand where we are.
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We have to understand where we are. and so, this is
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Where we are. and so, this is the human brain.
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And so, this is the human brain. tammy: are you saying
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The human brain. tammy: are you saying my brain's that big
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Tammy: are you saying my brain's that big or that little?
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My brain's that big or that little? kenza: no!
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Or that little? kenza: no! blynda: i love
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Kenza: no! blynda: i love the brain model!
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Blynda: i love the brain model! i love it.
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The brain model! i love it. kenza: i have to explain it
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I love it. kenza: i have to explain it so that people understand
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Kenza: i have to explain it so that people understand what's going on with them.
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So that people understand what's going on with them. so this part of your brain --
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What's going on with them. so this part of your brain -- think of this part of
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So this part of your brain -- think of this part of your brain as a vault;
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Think of this part of your brain as a vault; the cerebellum as a vault.
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Your brain as a vault; the cerebellum as a vault. that's where long-term
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The cerebellum as a vault. that's where long-term memories are stored.
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That's where long-term memories are stored. so, this is where a lot
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Memories are stored. so, this is where a lot of your experiences from
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So, this is where a lot of your experiences from infancy to right now
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Of your experiences from infancy to right now are stored.
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Infancy to right now are stored. so, if your experiences
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Are stored. so, if your experiences are marked by rejection,
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So, if your experiences are marked by rejection, betrayal, abandonment,
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Are marked by rejection, betrayal, abandonment, pain, criticism,
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Betrayal, abandonment, pain, criticism, and you've been called names,
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Pain, criticism, and you've been called names, they're stored right here.
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And you've been called names, they're stored right here. now, you're reading scripture.
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They're stored right here. now, you're reading scripture. it's coming in
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Now, you're reading scripture. it's coming in through your eyes.
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It's coming in through your eyes. and, you know, faith comes in
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Through your eyes. and, you know, faith comes in through hearing also. right?
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And, you know, faith comes in through hearing also. right? so it comes in through
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Through hearing also. right? so it comes in through your eyes
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So it comes in through your eyes and through your hearing.
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Your eyes and through your hearing. what happens, though,
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And through your hearing. what happens, though, is you hear god loves you,
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What happens, though, is you hear god loves you, and it gets into
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Is you hear god loves you, and it gets into your emotional processing.
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And it gets into your emotional processing. but if what you are hearing
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Your emotional processing. but if what you are hearing and reading does not agree
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But if what you are hearing and reading does not agree with what's already
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And reading does not agree with what's already in the vault, your brain
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With what's already in the vault, your brain literally rejects it.
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In the vault, your brain literally rejects it. it's like "access denied."
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Literally rejects it. it's like "access denied." that's literally
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It's like "access denied." that's literally what happens.
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That's literally what happens. it's not that god's word
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What happens. it's not that god's word is not powerful;
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It's not that god's word is not powerful; it's that your brain
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Is not powerful; it's that your brain has not gotten accustomed.
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It's that your brain has not gotten accustomed. blynda: it's more the control
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Has not gotten accustomed. blynda: it's more the control center than your heart
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Blynda: it's more the control center than your heart at this point.
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Center than your heart at this point. kenza: absolutely!
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To me, and that's what
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To me, and that's what was happening to my patients.
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Was happening to my patients. now, thankfully, thankfully,
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With the capacity
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With the capacity to renew.
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With the capacity to renew. it's like the renewal
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To renew. it's like the renewal of our mind.
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It's like the renewal of our mind. it's called neuroplasticity.
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Of our mind. it's called neuroplasticity. so, it has the capacity
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It's called neuroplasticity. so, it has the capacity to be renewed, but we have
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So, it has the capacity to be renewed, but we have to use the word of god.
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To be renewed, but we have to use the word of god. so the word of god
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To use the word of god. so the word of god is the only weapon
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So the word of god is the only weapon that we have that has
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Is the only weapon that we have that has the capacity to pierce through
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That we have that has the capacity to pierce through the division of
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The capacity to pierce through the division of soul and spirit.
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The division of soul and spirit. blynda: this is awesome!
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Soul and spirit. blynda: this is awesome! yes. amen.
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Blynda: this is awesome! yes. amen. kenza: this is how
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Yes. amen. kenza: this is how to get through it.
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Kenza: this is how to get through it. it's a three-step process.
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To get through it. it's a three-step process. number one, we have to watch
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It's a three-step process. number one, we have to watch the way we talk to ourselves.
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Number one, we have to watch the way we talk to ourselves. here's a practical way
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The way we talk to ourselves. here's a practical way to do it.
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Here's a practical way to do it. what i say is, if you look
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To do it. what i say is, if you look in a mirror and whatever
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What i say is, if you look in a mirror and whatever you're telling yourself,
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In a mirror and whatever you're telling yourself, add "in christ" to it.
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You're telling yourself, add "in christ" to it. if that does not make sense,
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Add "in christ" to it. if that does not make sense, the bible says to cast it down
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If that does not make sense, the bible says to cast it down because it's coming
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The bible says to cast it down because it's coming against scripture.
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Because it's coming against scripture. and that's how we start
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Against scripture. and that's how we start the renewal of our mind.
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And that's how we start the renewal of our mind. so, for example,
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The renewal of our mind. so, for example, if i'm looking in the mirror
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So, for example, if i'm looking in the mirror and i'm saying
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If i'm looking in the mirror and i'm saying i'm a loser in christ,
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And i'm saying i'm a loser in christ, that makes no sense.
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I'm a loser in christ, that makes no sense. it doesn't line up.
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That makes no sense. it doesn't line up. so, i have to cast it down.
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It doesn't line up. so, i have to cast it down. so, that's when my reasoning
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So, i have to cast it down. so, that's when my reasoning now starts working for me.
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So, that's when my reasoning now starts working for me. what happens when i start
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Now starts working for me. what happens when i start that process, i'm a loser
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What happens when i start that process, i'm a loser "in christ."
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That process, i'm a loser "in christ." that makes no sense.
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"in christ." that makes no sense. i'm weakening the vault
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That's number one.
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That's number one. blynda: it's literally
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Blynda: it's literally like second corinthians 10:5.
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Like second corinthians 10:5. it's like we demolish
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It's like we demolish arguments and every pretension
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Arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against
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We take captive every thought,
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We take captive every thought, make it obedient to christ.
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We take captive every thought, make it obedient to christ. yeah, that's exactly
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Make it obedient to christ. yeah, that's exactly what that is.
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Yeah, that's exactly what that is. kenza: a lot of times,
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What that is. kenza: a lot of times, we're like, you know what?
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Kenza: a lot of times, we're like, you know what? no, the bible is here,
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We're like, you know what? no, the bible is here, and science is here.
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No, the bible is here, and science is here. no, god gave us his word.
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And science is here. no, god gave us his word. he knows how it works.
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No, god gave us his word. he knows how it works. he knows.
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He knows how it works. he knows. and absolutely, yes.
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He knows. and absolutely, yes. you're weakening the vault.
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And absolutely, yes. you're weakening the vault. and so, i'm a loser in christ.
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You're weakening the vault. and so, i'm a loser in christ. no, that doesn't make sense.
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And so, i'm a loser in christ. no, that doesn't make sense. cast it down.
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No, that doesn't make sense. cast it down. i'm not good enough --
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Cast it down. i'm not good enough -- maybe by myself, yes,
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I'm not good enough -- maybe by myself, yes, "in christ"?
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Maybe by myself, yes, "in christ"? no. cast it down.
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"in christ"? no. cast it down. so, start -- because we talk
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No. cast it down. so, start -- because we talk to ourselves more than
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So, start -- because we talk to ourselves more than we talk to anybody.
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To ourselves more than we talk to anybody. that's step one.
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We talk to anybody. that's step one. step two: only choose
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That's step one. step two: only choose two beliefs that
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Step two: only choose two beliefs that you struggle with right now.
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Two beliefs that you struggle with right now. two strong beliefs.
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You struggle with right now. two strong beliefs. so if it's that i'm not good
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Two strong beliefs. so if it's that i'm not good enough, if it's that
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So if it's that i'm not good enough, if it's that i'm ugly, whatever it is,
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Enough, if it's that i'm ugly, whatever it is, choose two beliefs.
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I'm ugly, whatever it is, choose two beliefs. blynda: and you're saying
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Choose two beliefs. blynda: and you're saying just two because, you know,
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Blynda: and you're saying just two because, you know, they have more than that,
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Just two because, you know, they have more than that, but they just need to focus on
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They have more than that, but they just need to focus on like the top two?
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But they just need to focus on like the top two? kenza: because we overwhelm
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Like the top two? kenza: because we overwhelm ourselves a lot.
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Kenza: because we overwhelm ourselves a lot. it goes back to the vault.
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Ourselves a lot. it goes back to the vault. we're trying to weaken
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It goes back to the vault. we're trying to weaken each belief system.
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We're trying to weaken each belief system. we're trying to weaken it.
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Each belief system. we're trying to weaken it. if we focus on seven
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We're trying to weaken it. if we focus on seven and eight, we're going to
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If we focus on seven and eight, we're going to get overwhelmed and give up.
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And eight, we're going to get overwhelmed and give up. so choose two until
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Get overwhelmed and give up. so choose two until they get grounded and rooted.
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So choose two until they get grounded and rooted. you're uprooting
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They get grounded and rooted. you're uprooting the old system, and
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You're uprooting the old system, and you're rooting the new ones.
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The old system, and you're rooting the new ones. for example,
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You're rooting the new ones. for example, i'm not good enough.
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For example, i'm not good enough. you can replace it with
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I'm not good enough. you can replace it with he who began a good work in me
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You can replace it with he who began a good work in me is faithful to complete it.
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He who began a good work in me is faithful to complete it. usually, that one works for
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Is faithful to complete it. usually, that one works for i'm so behind in life,
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Usually, that one works for i'm so behind in life, where i need to be.
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I'm so behind in life, where i need to be. so, god will give you
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Where i need to be. so, god will give you the right verse for you
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He will give it to you, but
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He will give it to you, but you have to put in the time
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You have to put in the time and repeat it to yourself
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And repeat it to yourself over and over and over.
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Over and over and over. because we have
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Tammy: yes, it is, kenza!
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Tammy: yes, it is, kenza! kenza: this is war,
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Tammy: yes, it is, kenza! kenza: this is war, and we are renewing our minds.
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Kenza: this is war, and we are renewing our minds. we are renewing that vault.
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And we are renewing our minds. we are renewing that vault. and so, it's war.
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We are renewing that vault. and so, it's war. whenever the enemy shouts,
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And so, it's war. whenever the enemy shouts, you are so far behind
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Whenever the enemy shouts, you are so far behind in life!
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You are so far behind in life! no! he who began a good work
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In life! no! he who began a good work in me is faithful
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No! he who began a good work in me is faithful to complete it.
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In me is faithful to complete it. he can't fight against
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To complete it. he can't fight against the word of god.
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He can't fight against the word of god. that's the sword
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The word of god. that's the sword of the spirit.
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That's the sword of the spirit. so now, i'm grounded
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Tammy: healing takes a lot
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Tammy: healing takes a lot of work, but it takes a lot
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Of work, but it takes a lot more work to stay unhealed.
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More work to stay unhealed. so why not put the work in?
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So why not put the work in? why not just do it?
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That lie over and over
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That lie over and over and over and over again,
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That lie over and over and over and over again, it's in the vault.
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And over and over again, it's in the vault. it's not going to be
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It's in the vault. it's not going to be fixed overnight, right?
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It's not going to be fixed overnight, right? blynda: it didn't get there
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Fixed overnight, right? blynda: it didn't get there overnight.
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Blynda: it didn't get there overnight. tammy: so all the time
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Overnight. tammy: so all the time you put into getting there,
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Tammy: so all the time you put into getting there, it's going to take you
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You put into getting there, it's going to take you some time to get out but
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It's going to take you some time to get out but you've got to reprogram,
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Some time to get out but you've got to reprogram, like we've said before,
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You've got to reprogram, like we've said before, take in a lie, replacing it
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Like we've said before, take in a lie, replacing it with god's truth in your life.
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Take in a lie, replacing it with god's truth in your life. and then, you've got
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With god's truth in your life. and then, you've got to put the work in.
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And then, you've got to put the work in. even healing in my own life.
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To put the work in. even healing in my own life. i've always said
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Even healing in my own life. i've always said it hasn't come overnight.
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I've always said it hasn't come overnight. i've had to put the work in.
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It hasn't come overnight. i've had to put the work in. i've had to surrender things.
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I've had to put the work in. i've had to surrender things. i've had to die to self
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I've had to surrender things. i've had to die to self and all the things
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I've had to die to self and all the things i think god owes me,
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And all the things i think god owes me, and he needs to do.
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I think god owes me, and he needs to do. and whatever's in that vault,
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And he needs to do. and whatever's in that vault, i've worked hard to try
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And whatever's in that vault, i've worked hard to try to replace that stuff
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I've worked hard to try to replace that stuff and to speak differently
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To replace that stuff and to speak differently to myself.
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And to speak differently to myself. i think it's a simple,
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It's a healthy thing.
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It's a healthy thing. it's a tool.
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It's a tool. so, you gave us one and two.
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So, you gave us one and two. did you say there are three?
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Did you say there are three? kenza: yes.
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Kenza: yes. number three is that we have
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Of our everyday life because
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Of our everyday life because we have to rely
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Of our everyday life because we have to rely on his presence.
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We have to rely on his presence. and so, as we include god
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On his presence. and so, as we include god in our everyday life,
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And so, as we include god in our everyday life, we get used to his voice
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In our everyday life, we get used to his voice versus the enemy's voice.
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We get used to his voice versus the enemy's voice. a lot of times,
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Versus the enemy's voice. a lot of times, we're so accustomed
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A lot of times, we're so accustomed to the enemy's voice,
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We're so accustomed to the enemy's voice, but we're not accustomed
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To the enemy's voice, but we're not accustomed to god's voice,
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But we're not accustomed to god's voice, so we're not answering to it.
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To god's voice, so we're not answering to it. so, as we walk in faith
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So we're not answering to it. so, as we walk in faith and get used to god's voice,
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So, as we walk in faith and get used to god's voice, we're also going to be able
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And get used to god's voice, we're also going to be able to distinguish between
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We're also going to be able to distinguish between conviction and condemnation.
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To distinguish between conviction and condemnation. condemnation says,
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Conviction and condemnation. condemnation says, shame on you.
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Condemnation says, shame on you. conviction says, hey,
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Shame on you. conviction says, hey, you messed up.
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Conviction says, hey, you messed up. this is how we fix it.
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You messed up. this is how we fix it. because we are.
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This is how we fix it. because we are. we're going to mess up,
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Because we are. we're going to mess up, and god is going to convict us
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We're going to mess up, and god is going to convict us because he loves us.
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And god is going to convict us because he loves us. but he's going to be
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Because he loves us. but he's going to be with us as we fix it.
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But he's going to be with us as we fix it. tammy: you work with a lot
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With us as we fix it. tammy: you work with a lot of people who have
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Tammy: you work with a lot of people who have walked through trauma.
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Of people who have walked through trauma. you have it in your own life.
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Walked through trauma. you have it in your own life. how do you help them,
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You have it in your own life. how do you help them, especially with the way
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How do you help them, especially with the way that they view god?
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Especially with the way that they view god? you know, that's changed
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That they view god? you know, that's changed a lot of things.
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You know, that's changed a lot of things. and so, sometimes because
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A lot of things. and so, sometimes because of our relationships,
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And so, sometimes because of our relationships, because of our trauma,
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Of our relationships, because of our trauma, because of critical parents,
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Because of our trauma, because of critical parents, non-emotional parents,
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Because of critical parents, non-emotional parents, it has also given us
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Non-emotional parents, it has also given us an unhealthy view of god.
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It has also given us an unhealthy view of god. and so, therefore, i think
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An unhealthy view of god. and so, therefore, i think even our security in god
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And so, therefore, i think even our security in god is broken a little bit.
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Even our security in god is broken a little bit. so, how do we help somebody
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Is broken a little bit. so, how do we help somebody get to that place of building
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So, how do we help somebody get to that place of building a healthy, secure attachment
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Get to that place of building a healthy, secure attachment in our relationship with jesus
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A healthy, secure attachment in our relationship with jesus and believing it?
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In our relationship with jesus and believing it? kenza: so we have to let god
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And believing it? kenza: so we have to let god -- what i say is we have
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Kenza: so we have to let god -- what i say is we have to let god re-parent us.
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-- what i say is we have to let god re-parent us. what that means is sometimes
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I'll tell you a quick story.
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I'll tell you a quick story. sometimes it can happen
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Sometimes it can happen like this.
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Like this. so, for me personally, when
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So, for me personally, when i read god delights in me ,
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I read god delights in me , i literally, because our brain
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Of reference, i had no frame
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Of reference, i had no frame of reference of a parent
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Of reference, i had no frame of reference of a parent delighting in me.
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Of reference of a parent delighting in me. i have a frame of reference
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Delighting in me. i have a frame of reference of a parent betraying me,
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I have a frame of reference of a parent betraying me, but not delighting in me.
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Of a parent betraying me, but not delighting in me. and so, i can read it
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But not delighting in me. and so, i can read it until i'm blue in the face,
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And so, i can read it until i'm blue in the face, and i can believe it
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Until i'm blue in the face, and i can believe it in my head,
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And i can believe it in my head, but that was something
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In my head, but that was something i could not overcome.
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But that was something i could not overcome. until one day my little girl
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I could not overcome. until one day my little girl was like, "can you give me
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Until one day my little girl was like, "can you give me a pedicure?"
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Was like, "can you give me a pedicure?" and i was like, "okay."
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A pedicure?" and i was like, "okay." i'm sitting there
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And i was like, "okay." i'm sitting there painting her toes and
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I'm sitting there painting her toes and just watching her little toes.
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Painting her toes and just watching her little toes. and i'm like, wow, lord,
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Just watching her little toes. and i'm like, wow, lord, you made those little toes,
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And i'm like, wow, lord, you made those little toes, and they're so cute!
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You made those little toes, and they're so cute! right then and there,
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And they're so cute! right then and there, the lord spoke to my heart,
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Right then and there, the lord spoke to my heart, "you're delighting in her,
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The lord spoke to my heart, "you're delighting in her, that's how i delight in you."
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"you're delighting in her, that's how i delight in you." it was so --
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That's how i delight in you." it was so -- it was like just that.
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It was so -- it was like just that. just those moments like that.
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It was like just that. just those moments like that. it was an instant healing.
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Just those moments like that. it was an instant healing. now, i know what it means
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It was an instant healing. now, i know what it means for god to delight in me,
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Now, i know what it means for god to delight in me, and i believe it
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For god to delight in me, and i believe it with all my heart.
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And i believe it with all my heart. and so, it's just seeking god.
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With all my heart. and so, it's just seeking god. and yes, there will be times
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And so, it's just seeking god. and yes, there will be times when you may hit a wall
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And yes, there will be times when you may hit a wall and you're like, i don't --
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When you may hit a wall and you're like, i don't -- god help me understand what
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And you're like, i don't -- god help me understand what it means for you to love me.
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God help me understand what it means for you to love me. i have no frame
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It means for you to love me. i have no frame of reference for that.
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I have no frame of reference for that. or help me not
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Of reference for that. or help me not to feel anxious around you.
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Or help me not to feel anxious around you. he will.
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To feel anxious around you. he will. he will because
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He will. he will because he loves us so much.
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He will because he loves us so much. and he is so, so powerful,
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He loves us so much. and he is so, so powerful, but he's also so personal.
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And he is so, so powerful, but he's also so personal. blynda: it's an invitation
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To lean into
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To lean into the uncomfortable.
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The uncomfortable. because when you lean in
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Because when you lean in and say, okay,
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And say, okay, but what i think
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But what i think i know of a father isn't
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That this is who you are,
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That this is who you are, but it's not what i've known.
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That this is who you are, but it's not what i've known. and when you lean in,
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But it's not what i've known. and when you lean in, i believe god will be faithful
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And when you lean in, i believe god will be faithful to show who he is.
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I believe god will be faithful to show who he is. that's what his word is for.
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To show who he is. that's what his word is for. that's why it's so valuable.
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That's what his word is for. that's why it's so valuable. i love that that's part
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That's why it's so valuable. i love that that's part of the steps you take because
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I love that that's part of the steps you take because you're not going to find it
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Kenza: no, we won't. we won't.
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Kenza: no, we won't. we won't. learning about god's names,
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Learning about god's names, too, because those are
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Too, because those are entry ways into understanding
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Entry ways into understanding his character.
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His character. understand that he truly will
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What we're going through.
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What we're going through. it doesn't mean
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What we're going through. it doesn't mean he has abandoned us.
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It doesn't mean he has abandoned us. he is right there with us
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He has abandoned us. he is right there with us through thick and thin.
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He is right there with us through thick and thin. so that's important.
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Through thick and thin. so that's important. tammy: girl, there are
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So that's important. tammy: girl, there are so many questions
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Tammy: girl, there are so many questions i have on here.
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So many questions i have on here. i know we're going to run out
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I have on here. i know we're going to run out of time and not get to them.
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I know we're going to run out of time and not get to them. i love this guide.
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Of time and not get to them. i love this guide. i look at it as a guide.
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I love this guide. i look at it as a guide. it's also like a case study.
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I look at it as a guide. it's also like a case study. that's what i found,
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It's also like a case study. that's what i found, you shared so many stories
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That's what i found, you shared so many stories in this great, great book,
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You shared so many stories in this great, great book, secure , that helped me
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In this great, great book, secure , that helped me identify.
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Secure , that helped me identify. like when i heard somebody
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Identify. like when i heard somebody else's story, i could see
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Like when i heard somebody else's story, i could see myself in the pages of that.
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Else's story, i could see myself in the pages of that. but you didn't just leave us
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Myself in the pages of that. but you didn't just leave us hanging there.
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But you didn't just leave us hanging there. you give tools to come out
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Hanging there. you give tools to come out on the other side
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You give tools to come out on the other side to find your healing.
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On the other side to find your healing. you say that when we deny
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To find your healing. you say that when we deny what happened, we deny
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You say that when we deny what happened, we deny the effects of what
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What happened, we deny the effects of what it did to us from the trauma.
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The effects of what it did to us from the trauma. sometimes, we talk about,
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It did to us from the trauma. sometimes, we talk about, i've been affected by trauma.
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Sometimes, we talk about, i've been affected by trauma. but we also deny the effects
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I've been affected by trauma. but we also deny the effects that it had on our lives.
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But we also deny the effects that it had on our lives. so is that a place
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That it had on our lives. so is that a place to start, too?
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So is that a place to start, too? i know we're moving fast here,
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To start, too? i know we're moving fast here, but just, for people to think,
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I know we're moving fast here, but just, for people to think, in order for you to begin
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But just, for people to think, in order for you to begin healing, also, it's okay
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In order for you to begin healing, also, it's okay to say the effects of this.
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Healing, also, it's okay to say the effects of this. this is what it did
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To say the effects of this. this is what it did to my life.
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This is what it did to my life. i'm not going to deny that
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To my life. i'm not going to deny that anymore.
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I'm not going to deny that anymore. some people are like,
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Anymore. some people are like, i'm fine, i'm okay.
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Kenza: no! no! that's how
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Kenza: no! no! that's how you open that vault.
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You open that vault. at that point,
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At that point, you're opening yourself up.
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You're opening yourself up. you're opening yourself up
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To the depths of your heart
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To the depths of your heart and saying, lord, i'm broken.
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To the depths of your heart and saying, lord, i'm broken. i need you to heal me.
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And saying, lord, i'm broken. i need you to heal me. yes, absolutely.
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I need you to heal me. yes, absolutely. tammy: i love that starts
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Yes, absolutely. tammy: i love that starts there at opening up
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Tammy: i love that starts there at opening up the vault.
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There at opening up the vault. i love the visual.
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The vault. i love the visual. i've got this in the back
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I love the visual. i've got this in the back of my head.
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I've got this in the back of my head. tammy, don't be afraid.
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Of my head. tammy, don't be afraid. don't be afraid to open up
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Tammy, don't be afraid. don't be afraid to open up the vault today.
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Don't be afraid to open up the vault today. it's taken you years
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The vault today. it's taken you years to peck on,
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It's taken you years to peck on, the critical spirit,
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To peck on, the critical spirit, the emotional abuse,
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The critical spirit, the emotional abuse, the physical abuse,
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The emotional abuse, the physical abuse, the disappointment,
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The physical abuse, the disappointment, the rejection --
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The disappointment, the rejection -- it's all there.
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The rejection -- it's all there. all the things you told
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It's all there. all the things you told yourself every single morning,
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All the things you told yourself every single morning, it's there and it plays out
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Yourself every single morning, it's there and it plays out like a movie every single day
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It's there and it plays out like a movie every single day in your life.
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Like a movie every single day in your life. that you're not worthy,
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In your life. that you're not worthy, that you're not valuable.
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That you're not worthy, that you're not valuable. but i'm here to tell you with
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That you're not valuable. but i'm here to tell you with the girls today that you are.
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But i'm here to tell you with the girls today that you are. you are more than what's
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The girls today that you are. you are more than what's in that vault right now,
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You are more than what's in that vault right now, that's negative, that's trying
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In that vault right now, that's negative, that's trying to steal life from you
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That's negative, that's trying to steal life from you every single day.
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To steal life from you every single day. jesus came
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Every single day. jesus came to give you life
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Jesus came to give you life and life more abundantly.
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To give you life and life more abundantly. and that can start today.
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And life more abundantly. and that can start today. your healing can start today.
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And that can start today. your healing can start today. so open up that vault.
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Your healing can start today. so open up that vault. don't be afraid.
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So open up that vault. don't be afraid. god will meet you there
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Don't be afraid. god will meet you there every time.
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God will meet you there every time. kenza, you're so good.
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Every time. kenza, you're so good. you're the author
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Kenza, you're so good. you're the author of many good books.
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You're the author of many good books. this is just another one.
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Of many good books. this is just another one. thank you.
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This is just another one. thank you. where can people find this?
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Thank you. where can people find this? kenza: amazon,
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Where can people find this? kenza: amazon, barnes and noble,
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Kenza: amazon, barnes and noble, anywhere books are sold.
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Tammy: okay. get a copy of it.
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Tammy: okay. get a copy of it. i'm telling you, if you are
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Tammy: okay. get a copy of it. i'm telling you, if you are struggling with a distorted
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I'm telling you, if you are struggling with a distorted view of god, just wondering
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Struggling with a distorted view of god, just wondering who he really is,
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View of god, just wondering who he really is, and attachments in your life,
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Who he really is, and attachments in your life, get it.
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I believe it's a tool to help
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I believe it's a tool to help begin healing in your life.
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I believe it's a tool to help begin healing in your life. i'm telling you, there are
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Begin healing in your life. i'm telling you, there are some people, precious people
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I'm telling you, there are some people, precious people around the world right now
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Some people, precious people around the world right now that i'm grateful that
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Around the world right now that i'm grateful that many of them that i've met
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That i'm grateful that many of them that i've met feel a security in
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Many of them that i've met feel a security in their relationship with jesus
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Feel a security in their relationship with jesus because they're so grateful
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Their relationship with jesus because they're so grateful for god.
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Because they're so grateful for god. i see it everywhere i go.
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For god. i see it everywhere i go. but the one thing that
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I see it everywhere i go. but the one thing that feels insecure to them
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Is the awful water
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They're drinking
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Which is literally producing
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Death in their life.
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They are desperate for
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An answer to their prayers.
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They're desperate
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For somebody to show up.
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And we have an opportunity
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To do that together today.
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Loss, suffering,
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It's heavy.
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These people are carrying it
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Every single day.
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When i see those precious
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Little babies walking,
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I just want to scoop them up
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And say, it's going
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To be okay.
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It's going to get better.
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But it's not going
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To get better unless
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We do something about it.
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And by "we," i mean
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God's people.
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He presents the need.
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It's in front of us.
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Then he presents a solution
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And says, i need you
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To come alongside me.
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Together, we can make
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A difference in the lives
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Of so many people
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Because we come
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In the name of jesus.
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We give them water for life
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-- the water of life!
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I am so privileged.
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Truly! you must know that.
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It's such a privilege for me
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All of these years, 16 years
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To be traveling
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With life outreach,
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Going all over the world,
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Sharing god's great,
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Great good news and
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Sharing the water of life.
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If you've never had a chance
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To give to this incredible
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Outreach, today's the day
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To do it.
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We are trying to build,
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Drill i should say,
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350 water wells in 20 nations.
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Let me tell you what
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That would look like, because
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We can all get involved.
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Blynda, every single person
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Can do something today.
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$48 will provide water
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For ten people for
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The rest of their lives.
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$144 will provide 30 people
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With water for the rest
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Of their lives.
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And for $4,800, we could go in
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And drill a complete well
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For an entire village
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Of about 1000 people
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For the rest of their lives.
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I can't think
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Of a better place
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Than this to put $4,800.
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Go online,
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Give the best gift you can.
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Do whatever
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You can give today.
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It matters today because
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They might not have tomorrow,
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But they have today.
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So, let's act today.
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Right now.
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Every day, thousands of lives are lost
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To waterborne disease,
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And nearly half of those are children
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Under the age of five.
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Through mission: water for life
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You can give mothers hope and children a future
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As we provide clean, life-giving water
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For thousands of children and their families
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Before it's too late.
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With your gift today, you can help drill
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And establish 350 water wells this year.
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Your gift of $24
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Will help provide clean water for five children.
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A gift of $48 will help provide for ten.
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And $144 will help provide
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Life-giving water for 30 people
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For a lifetime.
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With a gift of any amount,
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We'll send you, prayers for my physical health,
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This beautifully crafted book encourages
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And protection throughout your day.
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Finally, please consider a gift of $1200
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To help provide water for 250 people
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Tammy: thank you so much
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Tammy: thank you so much for being here.
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Tammy: thank you so much for being here. kenza, you are precious.
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For being here. kenza, you are precious. i absolutely love you.
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Kenza, you are precious. i absolutely love you. you're an incredible gift
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I absolutely love you. you're an incredible gift to us.
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You're an incredible gift to us. i also just want to say this,
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To us. i also just want to say this, as we kind of dug
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I also just want to say this, as we kind of dug a little deeper.
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As we kind of dug a little deeper. if you need prayer,
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A little deeper. if you need prayer, there is a phone number
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If you need prayer, there is a phone number on your television screen
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There is a phone number on your television screen right now.
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On your television screen right now. please don't hesitate
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Right now. please don't hesitate to pick up the phone.
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Please don't hesitate to pick up the phone. there are people right now
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To pick up the phone. there are people right now standing by who have already
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There are people right now standing by who have already begun their day in prayer,
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Standing by who have already begun their day in prayer, thinking about you.
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Begun their day in prayer, thinking about you. so, if you need someone
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Thinking about you. so, if you need someone to come alongside you
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So, if you need someone to come alongside you right now, please call us.
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To come alongside you right now, please call us. we would be honored
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Right now, please call us. we would be honored to pray with you.
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We would be honored to pray with you. blynda: kenza, thank you
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To pray with you. blynda: kenza, thank you so much.
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Blynda: kenza, thank you so much. one thing i did love about
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So much. one thing i did love about your book is that you have
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One thing i did love about your book is that you have a salvation prayer on page 53.
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Your book is that you have a salvation prayer on page 53. i want to encourage anybody
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A salvation prayer on page 53. i want to encourage anybody who is right now
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I want to encourage anybody who is right now calling the prayer line,
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Who is right now calling the prayer line, and they've never made
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Calling the prayer line, and they've never made a profession of faith.
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And they've never made a profession of faith. i just want to encourage you,
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A profession of faith. i just want to encourage you, when you call, say, i heard
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I just want to encourage you, when you call, say, i heard about kenza's book,
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When you call, say, i heard about kenza's book, and it talked about
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About kenza's book, and it talked about a prayer of salvation.
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And it talked about a prayer of salvation. will you lead me through
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A prayer of salvation. will you lead me through this prayer of salvation?
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Will you lead me through this prayer of salvation? i want to accept jesus christ
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This prayer of salvation? i want to accept jesus christ as my savior right now.
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I want to accept jesus christ as my savior right now. i know there are people
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As my savior right now. i know there are people watching who are desperately
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I know there are people watching who are desperately wanting help and hope
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Watching who are desperately wanting help and hope in their lives,
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Wanting help and hope in their lives, and jesus is the answer.
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In their lives, and jesus is the answer. tammy: praise god!
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And jesus is the answer. tammy: praise god! he is definitely the answer.
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Tammy: praise god! he is definitely the answer. this is such a great day.
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He is definitely the answer. this is such a great day. i'm so glad
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This is such a great day. i'm so glad you could watch us.
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I'm so glad you could watch us. let us help lead you into
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You could watch us. let us help lead you into that relationship with jesus.
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Let us help lead you into that relationship with jesus. if you need help, we're here.
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That relationship with jesus. if you need help, we're here. god bless you.
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If you need help, we're here. god bless you. thanks for watching,
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God bless you. thanks for watching, and we'll see you next time
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Thanks for watching, and we'll see you next time on life today .
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Jeff: have you ever wondered
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Jeff: have you ever wondered what it's really all about --
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What it's really all about -- the christian life?
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The christian life? obviously,
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Obviously, it starts very basic
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It starts very basic and very simple,
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With jesus christ,
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With jesus christ, a free gift by his grace.
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With jesus christ, a free gift by his grace. but then, after that,
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A free gift by his grace. but then, after that, have you ever wondered,
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But then, after that, have you ever wondered, how do i hit the target
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Have you ever wondered, how do i hit the target with my life?
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How do i hit the target with my life? how do i please jesus?
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With my life? how do i please jesus? how do i serve him?
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How do i please jesus? how do i serve him? how do i give him
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How do i serve him? how do i give him glory and honor
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How do i give him glory and honor by the way i live?
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Glory and honor by the way i live? obviously,
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By the way i live? obviously, we want to carry out
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Obviously, we want to carry out his characteristics;
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We want to carry out his characteristics; we want to live like him.
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His characteristics; we want to live like him. but jesus, in the gospels,
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We want to live like him. but jesus, in the gospels, and also,
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But jesus, in the gospels, and also, the first part of acts,
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And also, the first part of acts, we see that he gives us
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The first part of acts, we see that he gives us a commission.
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We see that he gives us a commission. he gives us
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A commission. he gives us some marching orders.
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He gives us some marching orders. in fact,
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Some marching orders. in fact, he gives us the bull's-eye.
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In fact, he gives us the bull's-eye. he tells us
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He gives us the bull's-eye. he tells us what the target is.
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He tells us what the target is. if you and i were
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What the target is. if you and i were playing darts,
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If you and i were playing darts, and we were to throw darts
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Playing darts, and we were to throw darts at a dart board,
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And we were to throw darts at a dart board, and you hit the bull's-eye,
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At a dart board, and you hit the bull's-eye, and i threw mine way off
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And you hit the bull's-eye, and i threw mine way off and went over
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And i threw mine way off and went over and circled my own bull's-eye,
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And went over and circled my own bull's-eye, that would be cheating.
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And circled my own bull's-eye, that would be cheating. and so, as christian people,
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That would be cheating. and so, as christian people, we need to know
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And so, as christian people, we need to know what jesus's bull's-eye is.
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We need to know what jesus's bull's-eye is. what's the target?
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What jesus's bull's-eye is. what's the target? in matthew 28,
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What's the target? in matthew 28, a familiar passage tells us
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In matthew 28, a familiar passage tells us the commission from jesus,
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A familiar passage tells us the commission from jesus, and he says this:
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The commission from jesus, and he says this: "go into all the world
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And he says this: "go into all the world and preach the gospel
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"go into all the world and preach the gospel and make disciples."
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I grew up as a young boy
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I grew up as a young boy in the christian faith
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In the christian faith and i always thought
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And i always thought it was more about "go."
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It was more about "go." so i was going and going
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So i was going and going and going
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And going but not a lot of times
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Hitting the bull's-eye,
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Hitting the bull's-eye, if i was hitting the target.
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Hitting the bull's-eye, if i was hitting the target. the verb is the action word
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If i was hitting the target. the verb is the action word and it's "make."
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The verb is the action word and it's "make." "go" is a participle
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And it's "make." "go" is a participle which actually means,
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"go" is a participle which actually means, "as you're going,"
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Which actually means, "as you're going," so it's understood
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"as you're going," so it's understood that there's movement
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So it's understood that there's movement if you're a person
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That there's movement if you're a person who is following jesus christ.
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If you're a person who is following jesus christ. but "make," again,
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Who is following jesus christ. but "make," again, is the target.
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But "make," again, is the target. my question to you today
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Is the target. my question to you today is this:
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My question to you today is this: i hope you've received
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Is this: i hope you've received jesus christ as your
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I hope you've received jesus christ as your personal lord and savior.
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Jesus christ as your personal lord and savior. that's the best decision
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Personal lord and savior. that's the best decision you could ever make.
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That's the best decision you could ever make. that's where real life
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You could ever make. that's where real life is found.
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That's where real life is found. but after that,
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Is found. but after that, what do you do?
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But after that, what do you do? my question is:
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What do you do? my question is: have you ever "made?"
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My question is: have you ever "made?" are you willing to "make?"
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Have you ever "made?" are you willing to "make?" you say, "oh, jeff,
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Are you willing to "make?" you say, "oh, jeff, i couldn't do that!
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You say, "oh, jeff, i couldn't do that! i mean, i've got problems,
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I couldn't do that! i mean, i've got problems, i've got challenges."
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I mean, i've got problems, i've got challenges." and you know what?
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I've got challenges." and you know what? the first disciples did too.
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And you know what? the first disciples did too. jesus wants to use you.
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The first disciples did too. jesus wants to use you. you have a purpose.
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Jesus wants to use you. you have a purpose. you've been designed by god
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You have a purpose. you've been designed by god and you are his plan
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You've been designed by god and you are his plan for extending his grace
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And you are his plan for extending his grace and mercy in the earth.
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For extending his grace and mercy in the earth. and so start today.
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And mercy in the earth. and so start today. start finding
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And so start today. start finding the resources you need,
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Start finding the resources you need, the friends you need,
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The resources you need, the friends you need, the relationships you need.
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The friends you need, the relationships you need. whatever you need,
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The relationships you need. whatever you need, it's available
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Whatever you need, it's available so that you can start
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It's available so that you can start to make disciples.
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So that you can start to make disciples. i hope you will look up
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To make disciples. i hope you will look up not many days from now
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I hope you will look up not many days from now and say, "you know what?
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Not many days from now and say, "you know what? i haven't achieved it,
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And say, "you know what? i haven't achieved it, but i'm well on my way
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I haven't achieved it, but i'm well on my way to this "making" process
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But i'm well on my way to this "making" process of hitting the bull's-eye.
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Introducing the all-new lifetoday.org.
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Dive into your favorite life today programs.
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Explore impactful ministry outreaches
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And discover life-changing spiritual resources,
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All in one place!
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Plus, it's easier than ever to support our mission
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With seamless donation options.
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Never miss a moment to get connected,
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Get inspired, and get involved.
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Anytime, anywhere, life today is always on!
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Visit the new lifetoday.org
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And experience the best of life!
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Tomorrow, randy and mary travis
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>> the way we look at it now is we have a new song to sing.
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As examples of the programs it supports and conducts.
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Gifts are considered to be without restriction
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As to use unless explicitly stipulated by the donor.
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Kenza Haddock - Secure In Jesus

July 30, 2025 | S25 E195 | 29:15

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