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Live with Passion with Father Cedric | Cedric Pisegna - Choose Life and Live | August 17, 2025
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- Father cedric pisegna: choose life and live.
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- ♪♪♪
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- Father cedric: welcome to "live with passion!"
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- I'm father cedric pisegna.
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- So glad that you decided to tune in to the program, and that's
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- What i want to talk about today: decisions and choices.
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- Choose life and live.
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- That's the name of this episode.
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- This comes from deuteronomy chapter 30.
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- Joshua says, "i call heaven and earth to witness this day that i
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- Have set before you: life and death, blessing and the curse.
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- Choose life that you and your descendants may live, loving the
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- Lord your god, obeying his voice, cleaving to him.
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- That means life to you and length of days."
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- Thank you, thank you, thank you for making that decision to
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- Watch "live with passion!"
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- Some of you have made the decision to buy my books and the
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- Cds and the dvds of this series.
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- Thank you, thank you, thank you that supports my programs, and
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- Then some of you also are partners with my ministry.
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- I treasure you.
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- Thank you for your donations.
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- I pray for you at mass.
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- I'm very, very grateful, and these are decisions that you
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- Have made, choices that you have made, and i wanna add value to
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- Your life.
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- I wanna help you in your life to make the best decisions that
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- You can.
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- To choose life and live.
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- Thank you for watching.
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- Thank you for buying my resources.
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- Thank you for donating to my programs.
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- That is something--"that" meaning decisions, choices--
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- Is something that we do-- psychologists tell us, believe
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- It or not--35,000 times a day.
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- You may not realize it, but you're making a decision just
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- About every second, getting up, sitting down, going to the
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- Bathroom, getting something to eat, what you're gonna eat,
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- Where you're gonna go.
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- We're always making all these decisions 35,000 times a day,
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- And i want you to make right decisions, good decisions,
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- Fruit-bearing decisions.
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- And i have to tell you that not only decisions determine our
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- Future, they determine heaven or hell.
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- Where are we going to end up in eternity
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- Is all because of our choices.
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- We of course have free will.
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- God gave us that.
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- The freedom to make our own choices.
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- God does not manipulate us.
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- He tries to influence us, tries to help us to make good
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- Decisions by preaching, by the word, by good books,
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- By resources.
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- God works in our life to try to help us to choose life, but god
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- Will never make that decision for us.
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- We have to make our own decisions and we are responsible
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- For the choices that we make and our choices determine our future
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- Here on earth as well as eternity.
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- So this is crucially, extremely important.
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- The bible is very firm about the significance of decisions.
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- As we just heard joshua challenge the people, "choose
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- Today whom you will serve, and as for me in my house, we will
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- Serve the lord."
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- Choose life and live.
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- And i can't stress this enough: your choices, your decisions
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- Matter, and they determine the life that you're gonna have, the
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- Life that you have, and the life of eternity.
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- Vitally important.
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- And it's crucial that you make right decisions, not
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- Wrong choices.
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- Of course, we are responsible for the choices that we make and
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- I wanna harp on you on this a little bit.
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- Go to the book of genesis and you'll read about adam and eve
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- And, of course, they were given free will and as you know they
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- Made wrong choices.
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- They went exactly against god's will.
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- It's interesting what they did as soon as adam and eve sinned:
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- Adam blamed eve, and then eve blamed the snake.
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- And that's what we do, we don't wanna take responsibility for
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- Our bad choices.
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- But the bottom line is, is that we are culpable.
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- We are responsible.
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- We had free will, but we fell and every one of us have fallen
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- Because none of us has completely made right choices.
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- We've all made wrong choices, but a series of right choices
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- Can reverse a series of wrong choices.
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- Just like jesus coming, making completely right choices all of
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- His life, he reversed the curse of adam and eve.
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- Same in our life.
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- If you continue to make right choices, the wrong choices that
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- You've made in the past will be reversed.
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- I wanna help you to make right choices.
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- ♪♪♪
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- Father cedric: we are culpable.
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- We're responsible.
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- Ask anybody that's serving time in prison.
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- They are responsible for the choices that they make that put
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- Them into prison.
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- Ask anyone who's living with regret because of the choice to
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- Have an abortion.
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- The pain and the remorse hurts.
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- And ask anybody experiencing sickness, the sickness of a
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- Headache from a hangover from drinking too much or drugging
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- Too much.
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- We are responsible for our choices and we will bear the
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- Fruit of our choices.
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- It's key, you understand that.
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- You reap what you sow.
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- You sow bad choices, you're gonna reap a bad life.
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- Sow good choices, you're gonna reap a graced life, a good life.
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- God has given us the supreme gift of freedom, free will, that
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- Is the ability to make our own choices.
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- We all have that.
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- It's a wonderful gift.
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- God wanted us to have that.
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- He did not make us puppets.
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- He's not trying to manipulate us.
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- We are free.
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- It led to the fall of people, of course, because of the freedom
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- We abuse that freedom.
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- But the bottom line is god will not manipulate us.
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- He will not try to force us to make a decision, but he will
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- Inspire us and encourage us and try to influence us to make good
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- Decisions like i'm trying to do for you right now because good
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- Decisions lead to a blessed life, an abundant life.
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- We make our own choices and we will have to bear the
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- Consequences of these choices good or bad, prosperous or
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- Lacking, heaven or hell.
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- You might think to yourself some of you, "wait a minute i've got
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- An addiction and addiction is genetic.
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- It's supersedes choices.
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- I'm not responsible for the addiction."
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- Well, time out just a minute.
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- Maybe you're not responsible for having the addiction, but you
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- Are responsible for recovering from the addiction.
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- Getting into a 12-step program, sobering up, coming
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- Into recovery.
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- We are all responsible for our choices.
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- And the bottom line is, is that who you will be tomorrow is the
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- Result of today's choices.
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- This is from the letter to the ephesians.
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- You are called god's work of art.
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- God chisels us, but we also chisel our own life by
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- Our choices.
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- Return to god something magnificent.
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- God has given you life.
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- He's blessed you.
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- And i have that saying that i love: "who you are is god's gift
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- To you, but who you become is your gift to god."
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- And we become by making right choices, good actions, taking
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- Responsibility for our life, trying to be obedient, being in
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- Sync in harmony with the will of god.
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- Choose life and live.
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- Return to god what he's given to you, your life, and watch what
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- God will do with it.
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- God will supply the grace, but we have to go the extra mile and
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- Do the actions.
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- Basic wisdom is this: choose today what you'll be happy
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- With tomorrow.
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- I hope you got that.
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- Choose today what you'll be happy with tomorrow.
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- Not just what you'll be happy with right now, because a lot of
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- People choose drinking and overeating and all that, then
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- They end up overweight with a hangover.
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- No, choose today what you'll be happy with tomorrow, because
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- Tomorrow always comes.
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- That's basic wisdom.
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- It was emerson who gave us this saying: "sow a thought, you'll
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- Reap an action.
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- Sow an act, you'll reap a habit.
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- Sow a habit, you'll reap a character.
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- Sow a character, you'll reap a destiny."
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- You will reap what you sow.
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- You can eat sugar or eat healthy.
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- That's a choice.
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- You can drink every day or drink in moderation.
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- You can just sit there and watch tv and be lazy or exercise after
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- This program.
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- You can doubt god exists or choose to believe that god
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- Exists, of course he exists, but he'll give you a good life.
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- "we walk by faith and not by sight."
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- That's this series.
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- You can surf the net, the iphone, spend a lot of time just
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- Scrolling around, or you can spend some time in prayer.
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- That's your choice.
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- These are all choices.
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- Take a nap or spend a little time reading the bible or
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- Good books.
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- And i wrote a book called "choose life and live" that will
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- Help you, empower you to make good decisions.
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- I pray that you will make that choice to get that book "choose
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- Life and live."
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- Or you can be selfish, self-absorbed, just thinking
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- About yourself all the time, or you can choose to help
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- Other people.
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- Life is all about choices, and your life is gonna be what you
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- Decide for it to be.
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- God has a will for your life.
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- He wants you to be prosperous and at peace, but it
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- Involves obedience.
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- Self-sacrifice, effort, work, good decisions.
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- And if you push yourself, you will be creative and you will
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- Realize your potential, but you gotta push yourself.
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- You can't just live what's called, in the bible, "live in
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- The flesh," you gotta live in the spirit.
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- ♪♪♪
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- Father cedric: let the spirit push you and lead you and
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- Guide you.
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- Don't just be led by your emotions, by your hunger, by the
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- Way you feel; rather, choose life and live.
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- The fruit of good choices--and all of our choices have
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- Fruit--is a significant life, this is good
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- Choices--accomplishment, fulfillment, happiness,
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- Influencing others, having a legacy, honoring god.
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- The fruit of bad choices: boredom, unhappiness,
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- Sinfulness, remorse, regret, despair, frustration.
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- Choose life and live.
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- Some of our choices we just do without even thinking about it.
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- You probably realize that.
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- Get up in the morning.
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- Brush your teeth, have something to eat, maybe read the paper.
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- We just have our routine, our habits, take a shower, you do it
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- Without thinking.
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- But other choices, other choices require thought: what am i gonna
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- Do today?
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- What are my goals?
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- What do i wanna accomplish?
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- That requires some thought, and you have to make a good decision
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- And it doesn't just come without even thinking about it.
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- When i put together a homily or a script for television, i sit
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- Down and i choose what i'm gonna write.
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- I make choices about what i'm going to include, what i'm not
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- Going to include, and it's very important.
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- Now, there are still other major choices that require some what's
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- Called discernment.
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- And sometimes it helps to get a spiritual director or talk it
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- Out with somebody like: should i move?
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- What am i gonna do with my life?
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- Should i keep this job?
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- Should i marry that person?
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- You can make those choices on your own, but it helps to talk
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- With somebody else, somebody with some wisdom, somebody that
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- You can trust.
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- People come to me with a lot of questions 'cause i'm a catholic
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- Priest and i wanna help them make good decisions, but i don't
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- Want that power.
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- I don't want to have the power over somebody's life to make the
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- Decision for them.
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- I can give them some perspectives, but the bottom
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- Line is, is i try to give them biblical perspectives so that
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- They can make right choices.
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- For example, i remember a woman came to me one time, a married
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- Couple actually: "our son is gay.
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- Should we go to their wedding?"
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- And i tried to help them to see what the bible teaches about
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- That and try to help them to make a good choice.
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- Somebody else said, "should i marry a non-catholic?"
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- Others, "what job should i take?
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- What is god's will for me?
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- Should i get operated on or try another means of therapy?
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- Should i become a religious or get married?"
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- There are all kinds of questions and decisions to make.
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- God has a will for our life, but he gives us the latitude of
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- Free will.
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- And whatever choice we make, as long as we try to be obedient to
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- His will and keep making good choices--say for example, get
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- Married--god will bless that.
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- There's not just one way to live.
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- God gives us a whole kaleidoscope of choices that we
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- Can make, but if we try to be in sync with his will, he will
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- Bless the choices that we make.
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- I made the choice, of course, to become a religious and to become
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- A priest.
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- Could have made the choice to get married and i believe that
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- God would have blessed both paths.
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- But i'm so glad that i chose this.
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- I believe it was in sync with god's will, and i did it, not
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- Just by myself, i made that decision, a major decision, with
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- The help of other people like my novice master, and i'll tell you
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- About that in a minute.
- 00:14:57.880 --> 00:15:01.050
- I like what an air traffic controller once said.
- 00:15:01.050 --> 00:15:04.019
- He's guiding the airplanes and he said, "good information leads
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- To good decisions."
- 00:15:08.157 --> 00:15:10.492
- Good information leads to good decisions.
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- It's important that you gather intel.
- 00:15:14.163 --> 00:15:17.433
- When it comes to major choices, gather intel.
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- For example, i was talking about novitiate back 1984, 1985, long
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- Time ago i went to something called novitiate.
- 00:15:27.076 --> 00:15:30.346
- That's a year-long discernment process.
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- I did that in pittsburgh, pennsylvania, to decide to make
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- A final decision whether or not i'm gonna profess vows as
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- A passionist.
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- I'm a religious priest, a passionist.
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- You've heard of the jesuits, franciscans.
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- I'm a passionist, very similar to them.
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- You don't just make that decision lightly.
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- I had two novice masters helping me.
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- I was with other students and they helped also as they made
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- Their decisions, and what i did was i didn't just go to the
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- Monastery and say, "okay, yes, i wanna become a passionist."
- 00:16:04.646 --> 00:16:08.817
- I lived with a passionist for a whole year in pittsburgh,
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- Pennsylvania, at this monastery.
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- And during that year, i saw what it was like to live as
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- A passionist.
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- I saw the people that i would be living with and it helped me to
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- Make an informed decision.
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- That's called gathering intel.
- 00:16:28.103 --> 00:16:30.572
- The same way in your life if you're gonna make a major
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- Decision, gather intel.
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- The other thing i had was two novice masters that i would sit
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- And talk to with spiritual direction and they helped me
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- To decide.
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- And i finally did choose to profess my vows some 40 years
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- Ago now, and i've been a passionist ever since and i'm
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- Not looking back and i'm so glad for the decision that i made,
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- The commitment that i made.
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- I made a good decision and i'm now bearing fruit and i want
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- That for you too.
- 00:17:00.369 --> 00:17:02.071
- Get information and don't be afraid to share with people that
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- You can trust.
- 00:17:05.407 --> 00:17:07.709
- And then, of course, don't just make decisions on your own.
- 00:17:07.709 --> 00:17:11.847
- As i said, for example, i think about the president, president
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- Of the united states, he has all these people surrounding him,
- 00:17:15.317 --> 00:17:18.720
- His cabinet, and they help him to make good quality decisions
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- By giving him information.
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- And he has his advisors that he can talk to that know him, that
- 00:17:25.227 --> 00:17:30.165
- Know the situation two heads are better than one.
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- It's important that you get other people to help you on
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- Your decision.
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- And then, look at your own desires.
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- Saint ignatius of loyola, great saint in the catholic church,
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- Talked about interior movements.
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- This is the ignatian discernment method.
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- You look at your feelings, how you're moving within, what your
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- Propensity is toward this decision.
- 00:18:01.230 --> 00:18:04.666
- And ignatius taught us that you can pretty well discern whether
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- Or not it's the will of god if your decision, if your interior
- 00:18:11.173 --> 00:18:16.645
- Movements endure.
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- If you have them for a day or for a couple of days or even for
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- A week and then it fades, it's probably not of god.
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- But if it endures, take a good look at it.
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- We're talking about how to make a good decision.
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- I remember when i was in college, i had to make a
- 00:18:33.028 --> 00:18:36.298
- Decision about the major that i wanted and i wasn't quite sure.
- 00:18:36.298 --> 00:18:39.067
- I started in business, went to marketing, went to management,
- 00:18:39.067 --> 00:18:44.306
- Then eventually i went to social work because god touched me and
- 00:18:44.306 --> 00:18:47.276
- I made different decisions.
- 00:18:47.276 --> 00:18:49.711
- It's important that you make good decisions and you can do it
- 00:18:49.711 --> 00:18:54.049
- By the way you feel, but it's got to endure.
- 00:18:54.049 --> 00:18:58.086
- I remember as a priest after preaching for a number of years,
- 00:18:58.086 --> 00:19:03.091
- I felt like god was calling me to reach out beyond the walls of
- 00:19:03.091 --> 00:19:07.095
- The church through media through television and radio.
- 00:19:07.095 --> 00:19:11.800
- And i thought to myself i'd really like to do it but is this
- 00:19:11.800 --> 00:19:14.836
- Really god's will?
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- And i pursued it.
- 00:19:16.838 --> 00:19:18.607
- I tried to get into television and radio, and i noticed
- 00:19:18.607 --> 00:19:22.778
- Something that the feelings weren't going away, they stayed
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- With me.
- 00:19:26.615 --> 00:19:27.983
- In fact, i even prayed: "heavenly father, if this is not
- 00:19:27.983 --> 00:19:30.719
- Your will please take this away from me.
- 00:19:30.719 --> 00:19:32.988
- Take these feelings away, because i don't know if i'm
- 00:19:32.988 --> 00:19:35.557
- Being motivated by i want people to know me or to make money
- 00:19:35.557 --> 00:19:38.227
- Or something.
- 00:19:38.227 --> 00:19:39.561
- I wanna make sure that it's your will."
- 00:19:39.561 --> 00:19:41.763
- And the feelings didn't go away, as i was saying, the
- 00:19:41.763 --> 00:19:44.800
- Feelings endured.
- 00:19:44.800 --> 00:19:47.636
- I noticed that, because they endured, they stayed there, they
- 00:19:47.636 --> 00:19:53.275
- Even harassed me,
- 00:19:53.275 --> 00:19:55.110
- I had to pursue it and i tried to make a good decision and the
- 00:19:55.110 --> 00:19:59.414
- Rest is history.
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- I've been on television and radio now for some good 20 years
- 00:20:00.749 --> 00:20:04.553
- Bearing fruit.
- 00:20:04.553 --> 00:20:06.021
- The fruit of a good decision, and it's the same in your life.
- 00:20:06.021 --> 00:20:09.291
- Gather intel, talk it over with trusted people, look at
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- Your feelings.
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- Do your feelings endure?
- 00:20:15.163 --> 00:20:16.965
- And then, of course, this should be number one: include god in
- 00:20:16.965 --> 00:20:21.536
- Your choices.
- 00:20:21.536 --> 00:20:23.238
- Says in proverbs chapter 3, "acknowledge the lord in all
- 00:20:23.238 --> 00:20:26.775
- Your ways, and he will direct your paths."
- 00:20:26.775 --> 00:20:29.878
- That means what plane tickets you're gonna buy, speaking
- 00:20:29.878 --> 00:20:34.016
- Engagements for me, where i'm gonna be traveling.
- 00:20:34.016 --> 00:20:38.520
- Acknowledge the lord in all of your ways.
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- ♪♪♪
- 00:20:43.125 --> 00:20:48.563
- Father cedric: "we walk by faith and not by sight," include god
- 00:20:48.563 --> 00:20:53.335
- In your journey.
- 00:20:53.335 --> 00:20:55.470
- Ask god to help you to make good decisions, gather intel, talk it
- 00:20:55.470 --> 00:21:00.409
- Over, look at your feelings.
- 00:21:00.409 --> 00:21:03.545
- You will make good decisions.
- 00:21:03.545 --> 00:21:05.180
- That's the anatomy of discernment.
- 00:21:05.180 --> 00:21:08.417
- And then i really wanted to share with you, and this is one
- 00:21:08.417 --> 00:21:10.686
- Of the major goals of this episode, in my book that i was
- 00:21:10.686 --> 00:21:14.089
- Talking about "choose life and live."
- 00:21:14.089 --> 00:21:16.525
- I wanted to talk about making good decisions that will lead
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- You to eternal life.
- 00:21:21.330 --> 00:21:22.664
- Remember what i said: decisions really matter.
- 00:21:22.664 --> 00:21:26.768
- Here we're sculpting our future and in eternity.
- 00:21:26.768 --> 00:21:31.006
- Heaven or hell is in the balance.
- 00:21:31.006 --> 00:21:33.408
- This is what really matters, the decisions that are made.
- 00:21:33.408 --> 00:21:37.312
- I remember one time i was studying to be a priest and i
- 00:21:37.312 --> 00:21:41.083
- Did something that only two catholic priests that i know of
- 00:21:41.083 --> 00:21:44.519
- Have done, myself and another priest that i met there.
- 00:21:44.519 --> 00:21:48.123
- We went to a billy graham conference on evangelism.
- 00:21:48.123 --> 00:21:51.927
- This happened in louisville, kentucky.
- 00:21:51.927 --> 00:21:54.062
- It was a school for evangelists.
- 00:21:54.062 --> 00:21:56.565
- We were there for about a week, and out of the thousand
- 00:21:56.565 --> 00:21:58.867
- Ministers, protestant ministers, we were the only two catholic
- 00:21:58.867 --> 00:22:03.105
- Priests there in attendance.
- 00:22:03.105 --> 00:22:05.474
- And when i got out of that, that whole week long, that whole week
- 00:22:05.474 --> 00:22:09.578
- Long conference was what billy graham taught us: to preach and
- 00:22:09.578 --> 00:22:15.350
- Teach for a decision.
- 00:22:15.350 --> 00:22:19.354
- That's the goal of preaching: that we're trying to help people
- 00:22:19.354 --> 00:22:23.058
- To come to a decision for jesus christ.
- 00:22:23.058 --> 00:22:26.094
- Have you ever seen billy graham on tv and he has the altar call
- 00:22:26.094 --> 00:22:29.598
- And people come down?
- 00:22:29.598 --> 00:22:31.333
- We do that in the catholic church with confirmation, with
- 00:22:31.333 --> 00:22:34.836
- Confession, people coming to christ, communion, adult baptism
- 00:22:34.836 --> 00:22:39.474
- In the ocia program.
- 00:22:39.474 --> 00:22:41.777
- During my parish missions i preached for a decision, trying
- 00:22:41.777 --> 00:22:45.280
- To help people to give their life to jesus in a deep
- 00:22:45.280 --> 00:22:48.784
- Personal way.
- 00:22:48.784 --> 00:22:50.152
- Very, very important because i wanna help you in your life now
- 00:22:50.152 --> 00:22:53.588
- To make the decisions and have a prosperous and abundant life, of
- 00:22:53.588 --> 00:22:56.725
- Course, but more than anything and that's what these programs
- 00:22:56.725 --> 00:22:59.227
- Are all about--i want you to have eternal life and the way to
- 00:22:59.227 --> 00:23:02.264
- Eternal life is by giving your life to christ who died for you
- 00:23:02.264 --> 00:23:07.636
- On the cross.
- 00:23:07.636 --> 00:23:09.304
- There's a song by tom booth that says it well: "i will
- 00:23:09.304 --> 00:23:13.675
- Choose christ.
- 00:23:13.675 --> 00:23:15.777
- I will choose love.
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- I choose to serve.
- 00:23:18.213 --> 00:23:20.449
- I give my heart.
- 00:23:20.449 --> 00:23:21.817
- I give my life i give my all to you."
- 00:23:21.817 --> 00:23:25.320
- That's called surrender, that's called yielding yourself to
- 00:23:25.320 --> 00:23:29.524
- Jesus, and i'm gonna give you a chance to do that right now.
- 00:23:29.524 --> 00:23:32.894
- Gonna pray a prayer, i have a prayer card with a crucifix on
- 00:23:32.894 --> 00:23:35.997
- It, with a cross on it, and i offer that to you free
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- Of charge.
- 00:23:40.702 --> 00:23:42.037
- All you have to do is write me at houston, texas.
- 00:23:42.037 --> 00:23:43.839
- We'll send that prayer card to you.
- 00:23:43.839 --> 00:23:45.740
- Call my 844 number.
- 00:23:45.740 --> 00:23:47.943
- Also, you can go to my website and you can download it, has the
- 00:23:47.943 --> 00:23:51.346
- Crucifix on it.
- 00:23:51.346 --> 00:23:53.148
- And this is the prayer i wanna share with you it's a prayer
- 00:23:53.148 --> 00:23:55.484
- Of surrender.
- 00:23:55.484 --> 00:23:57.486
- Please follow along with me in the silence of your hearts or
- 00:23:57.486 --> 00:24:01.389
- Pray it as we put it on the screen.
- 00:24:01.389 --> 00:24:04.192
- "jesus, i trust in you.
- 00:24:04.192 --> 00:24:06.595
- I believe you suffered and died for me.
- 00:24:06.595 --> 00:24:09.598
- You gave your life for me and i will live for you.
- 00:24:09.598 --> 00:24:13.168
- Because of your love, i am saved.
- 00:24:13.168 --> 00:24:16.238
- I surrender my heart, my mind, my body to you.
- 00:24:16.238 --> 00:24:21.676
- Be lord of my life.
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- I love you lord jesus, amen."
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- I wanna send that prayer card to you and i want you to make good
- 00:24:28.416 --> 00:24:33.121
- Decisions in your life, but most of all, the primary decision,
- 00:24:33.121 --> 00:24:39.861
- The foundational decision: to give your life to christ, and
- 00:24:39.861 --> 00:24:44.699
- That will influence all the other decisions that you make.
- 00:24:44.699 --> 00:24:48.904
- God will guard you and guide you in all your decisions.
- 00:24:48.904 --> 00:24:54.142
- Choose life and live.
- 00:24:54.142 --> 00:24:56.678
- May all your choices lead to fruitfulness, prosperity, and
- 00:24:56.678 --> 00:25:01.049
- Most of all eternal life.
- 00:25:01.049 --> 00:25:05.287
- Joshua challenged his people and i challenge you now.
- 00:25:05.287 --> 00:25:09.257
- Choose life and live.
- 00:25:09.257 --> 00:25:10.625
- "and as for me in my house, we will serve the lord."
- 00:25:10.625 --> 00:25:14.429
- Don't just live, live with passion.
- 00:25:14.429 --> 00:25:16.865
- Father cedric: got a letter from a woman she said, "father
- 00:25:20.869 --> 00:25:22.637
- Cedric, thank you for your programs.
- 00:25:22.637 --> 00:25:24.940
- You speak to my soul."
- 00:25:24.940 --> 00:25:26.942
- It's exactly what i need to hear, so appreciate that.
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- Choose life and live.
- 00:25:30.779 --> 00:25:33.648
- I wanna help you make good choices.
- 00:25:33.648 --> 00:25:36.384
- I want to help you to have eternity through your choices.
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- Get that prayer card.
- 00:25:40.822 --> 00:25:42.257
- It's free with that prayer of surrender to jesus.
- 00:25:42.257 --> 00:25:45.727
- That's my heart.
- 00:25:45.727 --> 00:25:47.095
- I want you to have eternal life.
- 00:25:47.095 --> 00:25:48.997
- And then i wrote a book called "choose life and live."
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- That book costs $15 plus shipping and handling.
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- If you donate, i will sign that book directly to you.
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- "choose life and live."
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- All you have to do, call 844-fatherc.
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- Make the decision to write me in houston, texas.
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- Choose to go to my website, frcedric.org.
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- Thank you, thank you, thank you in advance.
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- Don't just live, live with passion.
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- Female announcer: we invite you to purchase series 1025, "we
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- Because of these resources, people everywhere are learning
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- To trust god.
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- Father cedric: "we walk by faith
- 00:26:34.209 --> 00:26:35.677
- And not by sight."
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- Father cedric: made possible by the friends and partners of tbn
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