Jack Graham - The Freedom To Let Go

November 23, 2025 | 29:29

Dr. Jack Graham's mission is to glorify God by introducing Jesus Christ to as Lord to all people.

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Power Point with Jack Graham | Jack Graham - The Freedom To Let Go | November 23, 2025
  • Just because i'm a pastor doesn't mean stress doesn't
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  • Affect me. the weight of responsibilities, the pressure
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  • Of deadlines, the burden of caring for others - it all can
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  • Add up. but here's what i've discovered. god has never
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  • Intended for us to carry these burdens by ourselves. that's
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  • Why i want to put my book “breaking free from stress” in
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  • Your hands today.
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  • This isn't just another self-help guide of time
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  • Management, but it is the truth, straight out of god's
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  • Word, to help you break free from the stress that can
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  • Enslave, chain, and shackle us. in “breaking free from stress”
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  • You'll discover biblical principles for finding peace in
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  • The middle of all that chaos. practical tools for managing
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  • Life's pressures, and most importantly, how to rest in the
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  • Promises of god when everything can seem overwhelming.
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  • The good news of jesus, the testimony and the word of god
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  • Of our savior through your gift today.
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  • Thank you for giving, and may you break free from the stress
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  • That can hold you back for your good and for god's glory.
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  • ♪♪♪
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  • There is no person that god cannot save!
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  • There is no promise that god will not keep!
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  • There is nothing that our god cannot do!
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  • You know if you are a parent or grandparent of a small child,
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  • You probably know by now... can't get it out of your
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  • Head... the frozen theme song [laughter] "let it go..." come
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  • On. "let it go, can't hold it back anymore. turn around, slam
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  • The door, [crowd response] [pastor chuckles] alright...
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  • Let it go." well maybe not so much. you got to catch up with
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  • Your kids a little bit on "let it go."
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  • But, let it go. now we are in a culture... really a generation
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  • That is about to lose it and we talk a lot about different
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  • Kinds... categories of anger and even rage. we all battle
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  • This. it is frustrating, isn't it? in fact, i'm mad about it!
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  • That i keep fighting this thing!
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  • Well, the scripture is clear that anger must be laid aside.
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  • Let it go. there are some scriptures that i want to show
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  • You. for example, james 1:19 to 20 says, “no this, my beloved
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  • Brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak,
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  • Slow to anger; for the anger of man does not produce the
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  • Righteousness of god.” if your goal as a follower of jesus is
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  • To reproduce the righteousness of god, then you must be
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  • Willing to lay aside anger.
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  • Psalm 37, verse 8: it's the clear commandment, as we're
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  • Often commanded in the scriptures not to be angry.
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  • "refrain from anger, and forsake wrath! (forsake... let
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  • It go!) fret not yourself; it only leads to evil."
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  • And then the primary passage that i'm going to talk about
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  • Today is ephesians 4. so open your bibles for sure to
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  • Ephesians chapter 4. if you don't have a bible, look on the
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  • Screen. but ephesians 4:26 says:
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  • 26) be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your
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  • Anger, 27) and give no opportunity to the devil.”
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  • And then down to verse 30:
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  • 30) and do not grieve the holy spirit of god. (you want to
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  • Know what saddens the spirit of god? you want to know what
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  • Hurts the heart of god?) let all bitterness and wrath and
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  • Anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, (let it go.)
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  • Along with all malice. (and do what?) 32) be kind to one
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  • Another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as god
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  • In christ has forgiven you.”
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  • Yes, god cares about our temperaments. god cares about
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  • Our personalities. when christ comes to live in our lives, he
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  • Wants to transform the way we think, and therefore, the way
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  • We act. and so we need to let go of any addiction we have to
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  • Anger. how do you do that? we confront it, we confess it, we
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  • Control it, and we conquer it. and i want to show you how.
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  • First, we must confront our anger. own it. you can't keep
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  • Saying, “it's just the way i am”, if you're a follower of
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  • Jesus. you can't keep saying, “well, it's genetic”, “well, my
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  • Dad had a red hot temper” or “i'm just a red-blooded
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  • American.” “i'm hot headed,” or “i'm irish” or “i'm a type a.”
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  • You have to see it and say it for what it is; own it. stop
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  • Saying, “well, stuff just makes me angry. people make me
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  • Angry.” nobody can make you angry. you are the only one who
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  • Can make you angry!
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  • But you can't kill the giant of anger until you confront it.
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  • You can't change it until you confront it. confront it for
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  • Not just a simple emotional problem, but a real problem for
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  • Your life, because in losing it you can lose everything. if you
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  • Are embittered or enslaved you can lose your health, you can
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  • Lose your wealth, you can lose your family, you can lose your
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  • Friends, you can lose your job! you'll certainly lose your joy!
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  • You'll lose respect. you want your children to honor you as a
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  • Mom, as a dad, and yet you're running around in a rage,
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  • Blowing it, losing it! you can lose your testimony because of
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  • Anger at the office, in the neighborhood.
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  • Ask yourself, "why am i angry?" stop, the bible says as i noted
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  • A moment ago, "be slow to anger." instead of running
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  • Around like a black cat with a short fuse, ready to explode,
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  • Take a long fuse. that's what the holy spirit gives us, which
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  • Is patience. means long fuse. and slow down and stop and
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  • Think. proverbs 14:29 says, "whoever is slow to anger has
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  • Great understanding." proverbs 29:11... here's one from the
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  • New english bible translation, "a stupid man gives free rein
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  • To his anger; a wise man waits and lets it grow cool." a wise
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  • Man... a man of discretion, a woman of distinction is not hot
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  • Headed, not popping off. that's stupid.
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  • I was doing some reading regarding what it takes away.
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  • Hostility... physicians talk about the medical world talks
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  • About hostility and how it affects particularly the heart
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  • And the cardiovascular system. unresolved anger, silent rage,
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  • Outbursts of anger put you at risk for heart attacks. so when
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  • Someone says his blood was boiling, that's real.
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  • Adrenaline begins to shoot through your system, your
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  • Arteries constrict, and an angry spirit... a hostile heart
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  • Can be fatal. in fact, research at duke university has shown
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  • That quote: "anger is a more accurate predictor of dying
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  • Young than smoking." so if you're an angry smoker, good
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  • Luck with that! [laughter]
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  • I could keep going talking to you about the danger of this
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  • Stuff, what it does to you physically, emotionally, and
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  • Certainly spiritually.
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  • Did you know for example that the bible tells us that we're
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  • Not even to associate with angry people? that's right.
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  • Proverbs 22:24. look at it: “make no friendship with a man
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  • Given to anger, nor go with a wrathful man.” it's only going
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  • To blow up ultimately.
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  • Some people are angry with god. you've got your finger pointed
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  • Right at god because something happened, you were injured, you
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  • Were hurt, there was some injustice, some betrayal, some
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  • Tragedy, and you're blaming god. that's like blaming the
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  • Fire chief for the fire. you know, the devil is a bully. he
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  • Likes to pick fights and walk away, and have you blame
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  • Somebody else. the world is on fire, for sure. there is
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  • Suffering and there is evil, but it is the result of
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  • Rebellion and sin, not by the hand of god. and when you are
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  • In trouble... when you are in... in tragedy for your life,
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  • Don't... don't blame god. he's the one you need! you need his
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  • Help.
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  • I promise you god is loving, god is good, god is just! he's
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  • Going to bring out even of tragedies ultimately triumph.
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  • You need to hang on and hope and trust in god even when
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  • You... when you're having a hard time doing it. say, like
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  • Job, "lord, even though you slay me, i will trust in you!"
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  • And what anger can do to you is ultimately sink in and... one
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  • Of the words that we haven't used a lot in this series is a
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  • Stronghold. we're talking about breaking chains. well, a
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  • Stronghold is when a certain sin or a kind of behavior
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  • Becomes addictive or it grips you and will not let you go.
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  • That's a satanic stronghold. it can be an emotional bondage in
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  • Your life. and these strongholds must be torn down
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  • And they can be and they will be in christ.
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  • But you have to be willing to confront it, this anger, and
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  • Confess it. don't repress it-- that's just anger turned
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  • Inside. don't express it—maybe you've heard along the way
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  • Somebody “well, the best way to get rid of your anger is just
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  • Let it go, just express it!” there's not one shred of
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  • Evidence to demonstrate that that's a good way to deal with
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  • Anger. go pound your fist into the wall or whatever.
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  • Don't repress it, don't express it, but confess it! god
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  • Commands us not to be angry! and if god commands us not to
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  • Do something, he enables us to keep that commandment. god
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  • Would never ask you to do something that you couldn't do.
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  • So, yes, you can confront your anger! yes, you can confess it!
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  • Yes, you can, by god's grace, control it! lest you hang on to
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  • Your hate and you become caustic and bitter and an angry
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  • Old person!
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  • You know, there's nothing... there's nothing more disturbing
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  • Than to see a miserable, angry older adult who just held on
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  • Through the years to all the stuff; an unforgiving,
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  • Unrelenting, judgmental, caustic attitude that makes
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  • Everybody around them miserable. but, hey, teenagers
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  • Can have that same attitude. you don't want to be that kind
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  • Of person.
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  • In fact, ephesians 4:26 says, if you want to control your
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  • Anger, don't let the sun go down on your wrath, lest you
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  • Give place or opportunity to the devil. don't let the sun go
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  • Down on your wrath. that means... example... husband and
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  • Wife are having an argument. tempers are beginning to flare.
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  • Voices are beginning to rise. there's anger. it's one of
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  • Those discussions that's heard several houses down in your
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  • Neighborhood, right? and you get angry! and instead of
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  • Dealing with it and deleting it, by asking forgiveness, by
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  • Saying i'm sorry, you go to bed angry. you go to sleep angry,
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  • Back to back! and there's something about anger that
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  • Seethes and boils and grows. a root of bitterness can set in,
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  • Which produces a fruit of bitterness, and if you keep...
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  • If you keep harboring unresolved conflicts...
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  • Why... why do divorces end up happening? for the most part
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  • Because of unresolved conflict. conflict that doesn't get
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  • Settled. and for christians we have a way of settling it and
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  • It is in the power of christ as we learn how to love one
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  • Another. but don't let the sun go down on your wrath. so
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  • Before you go to bed, before you go to sleep, if you... if
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  • You're angry, you need to settle that with whoever you
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  • Are angry with, if at all possible, but certainly settle
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  • It in your own heart. because if you don't, husbands, wives,
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  • You go to bed angry, bitterness starts to grow, and you give
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  • Place, the scripture says there, to the devil. that means
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  • You invite the devil in! you get angry and you don't resolve
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  • It, you're saying "devil, come and sleep in our bed, sit at
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  • Our table, hang out with our kids! welcome here, devil!"
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  • You're giving a place, an opportunity for the devil to
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  • Move in your life. i'm telling you anger is a serious thing!
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  • And so when you get angry and you don't settle it, bitterness
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  • Can begin to grow.
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  • That's why the bible says, "don't let any root of
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  • Bitterness..." this is hebrews 12:15 and 16. "beware, lest any
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  • Root of bitterness springs up and causes trouble, that it may
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  • Defile your soul." bitterness, what is bitterness? it's
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  • Repressed anger; someone hurts you... someone disappoints you
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  • And you feel justified in your anger. you begin to see that
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  • Ultimately if you don't deal with it, it can even turn to
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  • Malice or hate. oh, you wouldn't call it hate because
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  • You're blinded by the bitterness and blinded by the
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  • Tears. and it begins to impact you every day because now
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  • You're in bondage. it impacts your identity and your
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  • Mentality, your personality, and even your spirituality. and
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  • You just keep fanning the flames of this fire.
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  • You become profane. romans 3:14 says “they're mouths are full
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  • Of cursing and bitterness.” you get bitter, you start
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  • Profaning. profanity is a clear sign of anger in the heart.
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  • Immorality, anger causes immorality? sure, it does.
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  • Hebrews 12:15 says, “beware, lest you have this root of
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  • Bitterness that it may defile your soul.” and then it speaks
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  • Of immorality. if you get bitter and angry, finally you
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  • Just give up and you say i'm going to please myself and do
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  • Whatever i want to do. certainly, it can lead to all
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  • Kinds of defilement.
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  • So confront it, confess it, and control it, and conquer it?
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  • How? the gospel! the answer for anger is the gospel of jesus
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  • Christ which is forgiveness! forgiving undeserving, but
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  • Repentant people. forgiveness is the key to breaking this
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  • Chain. when jesus died on the cross he spoke with bloodly
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  • Lips these words to the very men who were crucifying,
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  • "father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do." and
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  • So, ephesians 4:32 says that we are to forgive as we ... as
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  • Christ has forgiven us. you see that there? verse 32, ephesians
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  • 4. "be kind, tenderhearted, loving, forgiving, as christ
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  • Has forgiven you."
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  • To forgive means that you release your right to dwell on
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  • The offense. forgiveness is giving up my right to hate you
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  • For hurting me. let me say that again. forgiveness is giving up
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  • My right to hate you for hurting me. for some of you,
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  • Anger and bitterness is the chain hanging around your neck,
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  • And with that chain you are dragging around for your life
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  • The person who offended you. on the end of that chain, you're
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  • Dragging around the past or the person that broke your heart,
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  • That betrayed you, that hurt you. but when you get free in
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  • Jesus... when you let go... let it go and lay it down, you
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  • Break the chain! you cut it loose along with the offender.
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  • Now forgiveness is often misunderstood. forgiving and
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  • Letting go does not mean you give up on justice. in fact,
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  • You can seek justice, while at the same time seeking
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  • Forgiveness. you can seek legal action under the law, while at
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  • The same time forgiving. letting go does not mean giving
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  • Up your rights to justice. but it does mean you leave justice
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  • To god.
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  • Romans 12:19. this is a verse that meant so much to me when i
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  • Was dealing with the anger over the murder of my father in
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  • 1970. and this verse challenges me to do what i'm challenging
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  • You to do today, and that is to never seek revenge. it never is
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  • Right to do wrong. you can't undo a wrong by payback. and
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  • That's why verse 19 of romans 12 says, "beloved, never avenge
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  • Yourselves but leave it... let it go... to the wrath of god,
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  • For it written, 'vengeance is mine, i will repay,' says the
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  • Lord." god will do a much better job of repaying an
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  • Unrepentant offender than you possibly could.
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  • Rise above the revenge because revenge only brings you down.
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  • You can trust god to make things right. you can! he will!
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  • Forgiveness is not the same as forgetting. forgetting the
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  • Offense... that's impossible. god would never ask you to do
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  • Something impossible, would he? no. [you] say, "well, what
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  • About that verse which says when god forgives, he forgets."
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  • Well, that doesn't mean that god has some kind of holy
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  • Amnesia and totally forgets about it. of course not! when
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  • It says god forgets, that means he chooses not to remember it.
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  • He chooses not to hold it against us.
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  • And so to forgive is not the same as forgetting. it doesn't
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  • Mean you enable sin. forgiveness is not enabling sin
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  • Or in any way endorsing the sinner. you must always be
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  • Truthful in confronting sin. that's what god does.
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  • Forgiveness is not denying that a sin or offense has taken
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  • Place. it doesn't mean, you know, god doesn't say, you
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  • Know, "well, it's not big deal. you shouldn't be worried
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  • About... well, you know, i, you know, you nearly killed me but
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  • That's no big deal." no. that's not forgiveness. forgiveness is
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  • Not covering sin that is committed... committed against
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  • Us. as i said, it's possible to forgive and then to seek
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  • Action... legal action under the laws of god.
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  • Forgiveness is letting go! and it's like one person said, “i
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  • Let the prisoner go free, and when i did, i realized the
  • 00:25:43.098 --> 00:25:48.670
  • Prisoner was me.” you set yourself free when you forgive.
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  • Forgiveness, you see, is leaving justice in god's hands.
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  • It's walking in love and forgiveness. it's letting go
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  • And moving on in your life in the power of jesus.
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  • ♪♪♪
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  • Hello, everyone. pastor jack graham here, and i want to
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  • Personally invite you to join me for something very special.
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  • It's the patriot tour to washington, dc, april 22nd
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  • Through 27th, 2026. as we celebrate the 250th birthday of
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  • The united states, we're going to visit some of the most
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  • Powerful and historic places in our nation's capital, like the
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  • U.s. capitol, arlington national cemetery, the national
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  • Monuments, mount vernon, and the museum of the bible.
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  • This won't be just a tour. it will be a spiritual journey,
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  • Really. i'll be opening god's word along the way, teaching us
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  • About the spiritual foundations, the biblical
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  • Foundations of our nation, and the hope that we have for the
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  • Future. so registration is now open, and i'd love for you to
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  • Be a part of this unforgettable experience.
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  • For more information and to reserve your spot today,
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  • Text patriot to 59789.
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  • Can't wait to see you there!
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