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Power Point with Jack Graham | Jack Graham - Hope For The Home | January 4, 2026
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- There is no person that god cannot save!
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- There is no promise that god will not keep!
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- There is nothing that our god cannot do!
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- Living faith in a hostile world is our theme... it's our title.
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- And let's remember a few things of what we've learned so far
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- From 1 peter. very quickly.
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- Key verse is verse 3 which we are told... chapter 1, verse 3,
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- That we are "born again unto a living hope by the power of the
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- Resurrection...". everything hinges on the resurrection. the
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- Promise and the hope of christ is in his resurrection. and
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- We're told... we've been learning that we are born again
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- Under this living hope. we live in hope because we have a new
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- Life in christ, we have been transformed by him.
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- Chapter two, we talk about authority and how we relate to
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- Authority in our lives. and so with that theme in mind, we
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- Come now to the third chapter.
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- Peter is delivering a message of hope. though the church and
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- Christians in his era were under extreme persecution. the
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- Fires of rome were burning against believers.
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- And we know that satan is always at work. he is the god
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- Of this age. we also live in a hostile environment. no, not as
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- Violent, perhaps as the first century at least in this
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- Country. we know, we feel the heat of persecution. in fact,
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- The scripture says, “all who live godly in jesus christ will
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- Suffer persecution.” you will feel the heat, you will feel
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- The rush of resistance if you stand for christ, because the
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- God of this age, the bible calls satan “the god of this
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- Age.” in 1 john 5:19, the scripture says, “the whole
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- World lies under the power of the evil one.”
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- So, of course, living in this world, we will find hate and
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- Hostility. the same... the same crowd that crucified christ...
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- The world system that put christ on the cross, will also
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- Hate us. jesus said this, "if they hate me, they're going to
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- Hate you as well."
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- Peter who's the human author of this book 1 peter, himself...
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- He once failed the lord miserably, denying him and
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- Failing him. but he was transformed by the presence and
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- The power of the risen lord. and the holy spirit came upon
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- Him and all believers at that point. and this man who was a
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- Coward, turned into a courageous witness of the
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- Gospel. all the way to the end. he was even, according to extra
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- Biblical tradition... and we think this is a good one...
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- Crucified upside down because he said i'm not worthy to be
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- Crucified in the same way my lord was crucified
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- Right side up.
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- And so peter writes as a pastor. he writes as an
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- Apostle. he doesn't write as a pope, a first pope. there's no
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- Such thing as a papacy in the scripture. that comes from
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- Man-made religion. peter was not the first pope, and the
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- Church is not built upon peter, but upon the rock who is
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- Christ. jesus said, "upon this rock..." what rock? the
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- Confession that simon peter made, "you are the christ, the
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- Son of the living god." and upon that rock, christ himself,
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- The church is built.
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- Satan and the hordes of hell viciously attack all of us, and
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- In keeping with today's message, he attacks the family.
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- The title of this message is “hope for the home.” and more
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- Specifically, hope for your home. husbands and wives,
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- Children and grandchildren. the enemy wants to destroy the very
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- Foundation of this institution of marriage that is established
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- By god at the very beginning of humankind. so what did satan
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- Do? he discredits the home, he divides homes.
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- It all started in the garden of eden when the first couple were
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- Tempted, and that resulted in disaster when they yielded to
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- Satan's depravity and the whole world was plunged into this
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- Same depravity. and we see this same thing happening today as
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- Satan is attacking our homes, our families, our marriages.
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- The very institution itself. every effort you see to
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- Redefine marriage, to distort sexual identity, to mutilate
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- Children, to normalize homosexual behavior. you know
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- Where that's coming from, that's an attack of the enemy
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- On the home and the family, children and their parents. and
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- The assault within marriage with immorality and adultery
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- And fornication and lust and lasciviousness. this all is a
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- Part of satan's scheme and strategy to destroy the home.
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- In his book learned optimism dr. martin seligman said an
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- Insightful statement about today's culture. he said, "one
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- Of the reasons so many people are dealing with
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- Life-threatening illnesses and deepening depression is that
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- One by one we've allowed the institutions that provide
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- Common support for us to be assaulted so they are no longer
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- In place." he said, "we have lost our faith in god. we no
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- Longer believe our nation can provide the support we need or
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- The comfort and security we've enjoyed in the past. and our
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- Families have also failed. when people face major challenges in
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- Life, they look around and find that the common support that
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- Has been there in the past has vanished." it's true, isn't it?
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- And our families... christian families are caught in the
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- Cross-hairs of this battle.
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- God has given us a happy home
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- And filled our home with hope for the future.
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- I'm talking about the home that was established may 22, 1970
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- When deb peters from mineral wells, tx and jack graham from
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- Ft. worth got married in mineral wells and god
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- Established our home and we built it on christ. and now all
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- These almost fifty- what's it going to be... 55 years coming
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- Up in may... all these years it's certainly not been
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- Perfect, but god's been at work in our lives in ways we could
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- Have never imagined. and god gave us 3 wonderful children
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- And their spouses, and the great 8... great, wonderful
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- Grandchildren! so the two are now the sweet sixteen and the
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- Great 8. and i can tell you that it is worth it.
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- Sometimes young pastors ask me, "if you had it to do..." you
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- Know, "what would a young..." "what would an older jack
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- Graham (i don't know why they say i'm older) but what would
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- An older jack graham say to a younger jack graham?" it's kind
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- Of one of those trick questions i'm thinking. but i always... i
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- Finally come up with an answer. after all these years, what i
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- Would say to young jack graham. it's worth it!
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- ♪♪♪
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- There are some great heroes in the bible. heroes like moses
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- And abraham. david. apostles like peter and paul. these are
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- Surely heroes of the faith. they were not perfect people,
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- But they were greatly used by god. and because they trusted
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- Him, god used each one of these in a great, great way. because
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- Of their faith.
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- Now faith is like a muscle. you either use it or lose it. and
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- Becoming a follower of jesus and developing a muscular faith
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- Is god's comman and god's call for each one of us. so i want
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- To encourage you to build this muscular faith in your life by
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- Devoting yourself and disciplining yourself in god's
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- Word. get into your bible every single day and discover the
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- Powerful life that is waiting for you there
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- ♪♪♪
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- And so we have this passage of scripture that peter gives us
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- To wives and to husbands. now we're going to read it and i'm
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- Going to comment on it, and there are in these seven
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- Verses, six verses that have to do with wives and women. and
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- Only one to men. now i'm just going to leave it with you to
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- Make that what you want to make it. [laughter] i rather think
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- That because men are not as smart as women, one verse is
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- Enough. just take that one and it's a big one. but there are
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- Six magnificent ... magnificent verses given to women.
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- I was hearing the other day... talking about women. of course,
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- We know that marriage, a man and woman committed to each
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- Other in christ for a lifetime... the love of a wife,
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- The love of a woman is a joy for every man.
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- Nick saban, the famed football coach at alabama, was telling
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- That he and his wife, miss terry they call her over in
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- Alabama, went to homecoming reunion back in west virginia
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- Where he was raised. [clears throat] and, you know, it was
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- All about nick. and she was also raised in that area but
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- All about nick and all of his career and all these national
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- Championships and so on. and miss terry celebrated with him.
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- Well, they get in the car to drive away and they go to a gas
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- Station which is on the edge of this particular town and there
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- Was a fellow there who just happened to be miss terry's
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- High school boyfriend for 4 or 5 years. and nick who went to
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- Another school said he always wanted to date terry but he
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- Never could get her to accept a date. finally, he did and they
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- Married; they've been married about 45 years, i think. but
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- They have this little reunion with her old boyfriend.
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- So they get in the car afterwards, from the gas
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- Station. and nick couldn't resist. he's just like a man;
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- He wanted a little drive-by here, so he said, "well, i
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- Guess if you had married your old high school boyfriend... (i
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- Think his name was mickey), this is where you'd be,
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- Pointing to the gas station." nothing wrong with having a gas
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- Station, pretty good job. but he said, "this is where you
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- Would be." to which miss terry looked at him and said, "no, if
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- I had married my high school boy friend mickey, he would be
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- The coach at the university of alabama, and you would be
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- Running the gas station." [laughter] so while we all
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- Know... we all get it, the guys in this room. but verse 1 says:
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- 1) likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that
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- Even if some do not obey the word...
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- Specifically, he's speaking to wives who are married to
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- Unsaved men. it can happen. perhaps you find you find
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- Yourself married to a man who does not know christ
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- Personally. and i would advise... strongly urge from
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- Scriptures, if you are single "do not be unequally yoked
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- Together with an unbeliever." marry a man who loves jesus and
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- Is following jesus, not just someone... because there are
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- Other people ... women who end up in a marriage with men who
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- Do not really know the lord because they said they did, but
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- No, as soon as the vows were made, another direction. and so
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- You find yourself... many women in the first century who peter
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- Was writing to found themselves married to pagan men. so how
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- Are they to respond to this? he said,
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- 1) ... so even as some who do not obey the word, they may be
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- Won without a word...
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- Doesn't say with the word of god because “faith comes by
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- Hearing and hearing by the word of god.” but it doesn't come by
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- Lecturing or preaching or words of the wife,
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- But it comes by rather
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- 1) ... the conduct (the character) of the wives 2) when
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- They see your respectful and pure conduct.
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- And then he talks about inner you. he says:
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- 3) do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair
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- And the putting on of gold jewelry,
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- Or the clothing you wear—
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- Of course, we want people to wear clothing; that's not what
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- He's saying. he's not saying you shouldn't wear jewelry or
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- Put on cosmetics. he's saying this is not first for the
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- Christian woman. cosmetics are good. deb is teaching our
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- Granddaughters how to put on some makeup. but she always
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- Tells them as she's showing them what to do, that remember,
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- It's your inner beauty that matters the most. take care of
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- The exterior, but make sure your inner beauty is ravishing
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- And respectful. because verse 4 says:
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- 4) but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with
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- The imperishable beauty
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- Have you noticed that nobody wins, men and women, against
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- Father time and mother nature? all right now, it's true.
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- But this 4) ... inner beauty... imperishable beauty of a gentle
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- And quiet spirit, which in god's sight (who you want to
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- Please) ... in god's sight is very precious. (god looks at
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- The heart.) 5) for this is how the holy women (here's our
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- Word) who hoped in god used to adorn themselves, by submitting
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- To their own husbands, (we'll get to that "s" word in just a
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- Moment "submitting". 6) so sarah (here's the sisterhood of
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- Sarah, the wife of abraham... she) ... obeyed abraham,
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- Calling him lord. (that's the highest term of respect) and
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- You are her children, if you do good and do not fear anything
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- That is frightening.
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- And then here's the verse for men:
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- 7) likewise,
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- You see the two likewises in this passage? one that's in
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- Verse 1 and another that is in verse 7. likewise, two times,
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- Or in this manner or in this way. i'll tell you why it's
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- There in a moment.
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- 7) likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an
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- Understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the
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- Weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of
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- Life, so that your prayers (your prayers individually or
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- Your prayers together) may not be hindered.
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- Now, very quickly. a word to wives... words to wives.
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- Today's womanhood is far from the character of the woman of
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- God that we find in scripture. you know that the leftist
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- Movement, the feminist movements of this country are
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- Determined to defeat the biblical view point or world
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- View of both manhood [clears throat] and womanhood.
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- "likewise" in verse 1 and down in verse 7 again as well, is
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- Pointing back to what peter has told us earlier about jesus.
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- And in this we read that we're to follow... 1 peter 2:21...
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- That we are to follow in christ's steps. and if you read
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- That passage, and we covered it, if you read that passage
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- You see the sacrifice of christ, you see the surrender
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- Of christ, you see the submission of christ, you see
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- The honor of christ to the heavenly father; that he was
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- Submissive to the will of god. jesus lived and loved with
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- Humility and obedience to the heavenly father!
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- So likewise, women and men, we are to follow in his steps.
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- Thankfully, we have the holy spirit... the spirit of god,
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- Christ in us to enable us to live like him. we can't do this
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- On our own. our example therefore, however, is not in
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- The culture. your example as a woman should not be in the
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- Culture, what the world says a woman is to be, but like
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- Christ, to live in humility and devotion to god. the best thing
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- A christian husband can do is to pattern himself after jesus.
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- The best thing a christian woman can do in the marriage,
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- In life is to pattern herself after jesus. it is in christ
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- That we see this magnificent blending of strength and
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- Tenderness, humility and honor.
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- Peter also points to sarah... i mentioned that as we passed
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- By... as a model to wives who follow, not... she wasn't a
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- Perfect wife by any means. sarah made her mistakes along
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- The way. and so did abraham. but sarah, because of her faith
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- In god and her trust in god and her willingness to follow her
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- Husband, she woke up one day and abraham was saying, "we're
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- Moving." she said, where? "i don't know, we're just
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- Following god." and she followed her husband. and she
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- Followed god as he followed god in an uncharted path, and a
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- Nation was born!
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- And so sarah is one of the women who shows up a heroine of
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- Faith in god's hall of fame, hebrews chapter 11, because she
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- Was a godly woman and she's an example, along with all these
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- Women that we meet in the bible. let the bible... let the
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- Bible show you what the model is to be as you live a godly
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- Life and teach this to your girls, teach this to your
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- Teenagers. we can't follow christ's perfect example unless
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- We know him as lord and savior and trust him as savior and
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- Follow him as lord, and read in his word. the principle of
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- Submission is here. two times it's mentioned in this
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- Paragraph. wives are reminded to be submissive to their
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- Husbands; verse 1 and verse 5.
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- I think i should pretty much leave it at that except to
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- Explain one thing: this is god's word, and the word submit
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- Means to come under. it's a military word. it has nothing
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- To do with superiority or inferiority. dr. adrain rogers
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- Used to say, “everyone knows a woman is superior to a man at
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- Being a woman. and a man is superior to a woman at being a
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- Man.” i agree with that!
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- And so to come under authority, to line up, as it were, under
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- The authority of god, mutually submissive to one another, and
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- Loving one another in oneness.
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- And so how do we influence one another? how do you as a
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- Christian woman influence your husband for good, for christ?
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- It is by your godly conduct. again, not your words, but your
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- Wisdom, not human persuasion but allowing the holy spirit to
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- Use you to influence your husband because of your
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- Attitude... because of your mindset. this is a beautiful
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- Thing, to cultivate inner beauty that lasts a lifetime.
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- One last note, he mentions to wives that you're to be gentle
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- And quiet in spirit. now that may sound like a putdown, but
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- It's actually a put up, because to be gentle and quiet in
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- Spirit is not to sit down and shut up, but rather it is to be
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- Calm. it is to be elegant. let's use the word poised.
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- Poised and mature.
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- So question: wives, are you honoring your husband? are you
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- Willing to serve your god by loving your husband?
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- Do you know the number one reason and predictor of divorce
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- In a marriage? contempt.
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- You say, what does that mean? contempt shows up in our words,
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- Our body language... you ever rolled your eyes at someone?
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- Marriages on life support are filled with contempt one to
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- Another and it happens a lot. the opposite of contempt... to
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- Your mate, to your husband, to your wife... is respect, is to
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- Honor, and we love them.
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- Peter says that your wife, gentlemen, is like a... she's
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- The weaker vessel, not because... not even really
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- Because she may be physically less capable than a man,
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- Although this is a fact. this is the reason you don't want
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- Men in women's sports or boys in girl's sports, because
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- Just... it is a fact... it is physically we are made
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- Differently. but it certainly doesn't refer ... when the
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- Weaker vessel is mentioned here, it doesn't refer to
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- Weaker in character, weaker in morality, weaker emotionally.
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- No, it's a word which actually means a delicate vase.
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- So a wife is to be treasured. i would say the opposite, men and
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- Women are content and the one word that will save your
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- Marriage and sustain your marriage... it's not even the
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- Word love. it's the word cherish... cherish. and men, we
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- Are to cherish our wives and treasure them. why? because we
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- Are heirs together of the grace of god.
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- And before you were a husband and a wife, you were a child of
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- God, and are a child of god... if you're saved. so your wife
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- Is a child of the father before she is your wife, she is a
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- Child of god. treat her as a child of god. your husband, if
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- He knows the lord, is a child of god, is a son of god. he may
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- Not always act like it, but if he knows the lord, he's a son
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- Of god. treat him accordingly. you're heirs together of the
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- Grace of god. amen?
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- ♪♪♪
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- Hello, everyone. pastor jack graham here, and i want to
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- It's the patriot tour to washington, dc, april 22nd
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