Joel Osteen: Pray Bold | Praise

January 7, 2025 | S53:E

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  • - [voice over] coming up tonight on praise.
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  • - there, we could have said, okay, god,
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  • Maybe this is your will.
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  • But daddy gathered us all around
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  • And we prayed a bold prayer.
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  • We prayed, we believed,
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  • And nothing happened immediately,
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  • But my mother had that attitude of faith, that bold prayer,
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  • Over time, it became a reality.
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  • And my mother turned 91 years old last year.
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  • - [voice over] tonight on praise, from los angeles,
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  • New york times bestselling author
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  • And senior pastor of lakewood church, joel osteen.
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  • And now your host, matt and laurie crouch.
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  • - first of all, happy new year.
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  • - yes.
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  • - it is the year 2025.
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  • It is time to pray bold and wear bold ties.
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  • (laughing)
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  • - bold colors.
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  • - let's start with psalm.
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  • Psalm says, in psalm 138, "in the day when i cried out,
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  • You answered beat and made me bold
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  • With strength in my soul."
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  • - i love that. - i love that.
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  • - let's start with that.
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  • - man, that's so good, matt.
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  • - [matt] where'd this come from?
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  • - [laurie] isn't that good?
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  • - man, pray bold.
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  • Man, happy new year to you guys.
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  • Great being with you.
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  • Yeah.
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  • My new book's called pray bold
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  • And asking big, believing big,
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  • And the thought behind it is many times
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  • We don't see god do great things
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  • Because we're only praying for small things.
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  • And i think sometimes we were raised,
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  • At least i was, you pray for your food,
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  • You pray for wisdom, you pray for protection,
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  • And all those things are good,
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  • But i think that my challenge is
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  • That god wants us to pray for our dreams
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  • And pray for things that are over our head,
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  • Even the scripture talks about
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  • The secret petitions of your heart.
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  • I think that, matt and laurie,
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  • It's things that maybe you haven't told people about,
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  • But god's just whispered just something in the night
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  • And you think, oh, i can't tell anybody that,
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  • I'd be embarrassed, there's no way that could happen,
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  • But, you know, i think that in your time of prayer,
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  • You can ask god for what he's put in,
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  • I believe god gives you desires
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  • To build the kingdom,
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  • Not necessarily just earthly desires,
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  • But to further his kingdom.
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  • So, i don't know, i believe that's one thing
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  • That i was taught by my parents is
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  • To take the limits off of god.
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  • And i believe that's why god's shown us favor.
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  • I mean, i can say you guys can too.
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  • He's taken me where i've never dreamed,
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  • But not that i had this great faith,
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  • But i did have the faith to pray and believe that god,
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  • You know what, this is out of my hands,
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  • But i believe you can do it.
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  • So that's what i challenge people,
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  • As we start off the new year,
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  • Man, let's take the limits off of god.
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  • I mean, we wouldn't be alive
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  • Unless god had greater things in front of us.
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  • And i think too, it's easy to coast
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  • Because god's shown you faith,
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  • You guys are blessed, you have healthy children,
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  • You've seen god's goodness,
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  • But i don't believe god wants us to get complacent.
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  • I believe there are greater things.
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  • So i believe as we stir up our faith, release our faith,
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  • Pray and believe big,
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  • That's what allows god to do great things.
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  • - when you said pray for things that are over your head,
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  • It triggered a prayer for me.
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  • Lord, i would love to have
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  • Chocolate brown hair like joel osteen.
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  • (laughing)
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  • And that's a bold prayer for me.
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  • I'm gonna pray bold.
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  • - but i can answer that prayer.
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  • - you could? - uh-huh.
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  • By the end of the day we can get your answer.
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  • - i am gonna pray bold.
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  • I'm gonna pray bold--
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  • - [laurie] you know what though, joel?
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  • - and wear bold ties.
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  • - [joel] that's so funny.
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  • - i think in the last couple years i have prayed more.
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  • - for things and a lot of times i'm always thinking,
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  • "well, exceeding abundantly." - yeah.
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  • - above all that i could ask or think.
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  • That's what god wants to do for us.
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  • And so i think it's important to,
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  • And i've gotten more conscious about praying about things.
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  • Because i think we can coaster through and, you know,
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  • I just, i have a certainty down in my soul
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  • That god's will is going to be done, right?
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  • But i think that sometimes just talking to god
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  • About those things, talking about and declaring things
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  • Over our lives that we believe god has put in our hearts
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  • And that declarative prayer that says,
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  • "god, you are going to surpass
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  • What i can even believe or pray for."
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  • You know, but i think it's important
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  • That christians pray those prayers.
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  • - it is, lori.
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  • I think sometimes i've had people tell me,
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  • "well, god's got bigger things to deal with.
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  • You know, there are people that, you know,
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  • Got bigger problems and all that."
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  • But always come back to you are god's biggest deal.
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  • You know, god's not, you know, him blessing somebody else
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  • Or answering their prayer's not gonna stop him
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  • From answering mine so i think we have to get out
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  • Of that mentality that, "i don't deserve it.
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  • I'm not worthy, that's for somebody else."
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  • But no, god wants to show out in all of our lives.
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  • And i'm like you, the longer i live, the more i realize,
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  • "god, i'm gonna ask you for what you put in my heart.
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  • And i'm not just gonna, you know,"
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  • I think it's easy to think about it,
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  • It's easy to worry about it, it's easy to doubt
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  • And think it could never happen.
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  • But it is your faith being released to say,
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  • I mean, i go back to jehoshaphat, when was that?
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  • Second chronicles 20.
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  • When he was surrounded, he started off by saying,
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  • "god, you know, basically you're the creator
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  • Of the universe, you've done great things"
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  • And, you know, bragging on the goodness of god.
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  • And just, you know, he even prayed, he said,
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  • "god, we don't know what to do, but our eyes are upon you."
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  • Even that's a bold prayer.
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  • "god, we're surrounded, it looks impossible,
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  • But god, i know you could make a way."
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  • And so i think, you know, i think it is stirring your faith.
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  • And two, i'm gonna be clear,
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  • It's not just about material things, but, you know,
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  • A bold prayer for some people is for my loved one
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  • To come to know to him, you know,
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  • They've been off course for 20 years.
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  • Well, pray bold.
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  • "god, let 2025 be the year they come in."
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  • Or to break an addiction
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  • Or to come out of a negative mindset.
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  • I don't know.
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  • I don't think it has to be just material things,
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  • But things to further the kingdom, things to help us
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  • To become who we were created to be.
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  • You know, whether it's breaking an addiction
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  • Or limited thinking or, you know, i don't know,
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  • Even for me, when i stepped up to pastor the church,
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  • All those thoughts told me i couldn't do it.
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  • You're too young. you're not like your dad.
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  • Nobody's gonna listen to me. but you know what?
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  • I just had to get, like you said, i got in agreement.
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  • "lord, i thank you that i'm strong in the lord.
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  • That i can do all things through christ,
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  • That you've raised me up for such a time as this."
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  • Everything in my mind was saying, "there's no way.
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  • That's not you. it's never gonna happen."
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  • But you know what? just keep praying it, declaring it.
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  • "god, let your will be done." and you know what?
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  • God exceeds our expectations.
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  • - yes, he does. thank you. - pray bold.
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  • You know, it's the 7th of january.
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  • It's 2025, if you just tuned in.
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  • Dare to ask and believe big.
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  • We've coordinated this, oddly enough,
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  • We're both here in southern california.
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  • This is the very first day that this book is available.
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  • It's available through amazon or wherever books are sold.
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  • All of that and get it.
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  • And let's all kind of go big, go bold. i love this.
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  • And i'm gonna pray.
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  • I'm gonna make one last joke. (hosts laughing)
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  • My boldest prayer is that my hair could look like yours.
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  • (joel laughing)
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  • You have beautiful hair and teeth.
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  • You have beautiful teeth too. you know?
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  • And by the way, let me just tell you something crazy.
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  • I'm joking, but i'm not.
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  • When we got on the airplane to come out here to socal,
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  • I was telling her,
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  • "i think i'm gonna have to go to the dentist."
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  • And i mean, she's been in a dentist here half of her life.
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  • And i've been, like, to the dentist twice my whole life.
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  • You know. - no compassion.
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  • - you've been one or two times.
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  • - i just might add that. - thank you.
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  • - big beautiful teeth. but i had read your book.
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  • Somebody sent me a galley copy
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  • Of your book when we were in texas and i was reading it.
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  • And a couple of things had happened.
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  • We have just been with mark batterson.
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  • And mark batterson had an event in his life
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  • Where he went nowhere without an inhaler
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  • For what's that condition you have?
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  • - [joel] asthma.
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  • - asthma. since he was a kid.
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  • He played sports, but he had an inhaler in his sock.
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  • You know, he always had to have it with him.
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  • And god asked him to pray something, he--
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  • - use the word bold, but it's the same thing.
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  • Like pray an unusual prayer or some crazy prayer
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  • Or something like that, but it's the same thing.
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  • And so he's asking people in his congregation feels that
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  • Very strong prompting of the lord to do that.
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  • And the lord asks him a question,
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  • "what is your bold prayer?"
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  • And he said, "i prayed for my asthma to
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  • Basically be gone my whole life."
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  • And, you know, so he said, "i prayed that 5,000 times."
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  • And he just said, "my bold prayer is that
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  • My asthma would be gone and that i'd be healed."
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  • And he said, "i haven't touched an inhaler
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  • Since that night." - wow.
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  • - well, i had just been with him.
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  • We had just interviewed mark
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  • A couple of weeks ago, it seems like.
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  • And then i was reading your book, and i am having
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  • This pain in this tooth right here.
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  • And it's just the dumbest thing, you know,
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  • It's like i'm chewing everything on one side of my mouth.
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  • And you know, the dentist that i know the most is out here.
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  • So i'm thinking, i'm gonna get off the plane,
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  • I'm gonna have to go to the dentist.
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  • And i just kind of did like this and i said,
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  • "i'm gonna interview joel on bold prayers."
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  • And i literally was taking advil
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  • And was just expecting to go in
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  • And get a root canal or whatever they're gonna do.
  • 00:09:52.648 --> 00:09:55.251
  • And joel, it felt like within 24 hours,
  • 00:09:55.251 --> 00:10:01.357
  • All the pain was gone, and yesterday i bit into something
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  • And went like, "uh-oh," and there was no pain at all.
  • 00:10:07.496 --> 00:10:10.499
  • I'm sitting here with zero pain.
  • 00:10:10.499 --> 00:10:13.402
  • And i think god wants us to do that kind of stuff.
  • 00:10:13.402 --> 00:10:17.173
  • I mean, what crazy prayer might you pray that, you know,
  • 00:10:17.173 --> 00:10:21.510
  • You just kind of, you're almost just saying, you know,
  • 00:10:21.510 --> 00:10:24.480
  • I mean, why did i just resign myself to the dentist chair?
  • 00:10:24.480 --> 00:10:28.317
  • Why don't we pray about more things?
  • 00:10:28.317 --> 00:10:30.519
  • Why don't we pray bold prayers?
  • 00:10:30.519 --> 00:10:32.021
  • Why don't we pray bold? i don't know.
  • 00:10:32.021 --> 00:10:33.622
  • - well, and i think we do that a lot.
  • 00:10:33.622 --> 00:10:36.592
  • I think that even for myself,
  • 00:10:36.592 --> 00:10:40.796
  • You have a relationship struggle,
  • 00:10:41.530 --> 00:10:44.266
  • Or you see something and it's tension or whatever,
  • 00:10:44.266 --> 00:10:48.571
  • Why don't you just pray about that?
  • 00:10:48.571 --> 00:10:50.306
  • And a lot of times we don't...
  • 00:10:50.306 --> 00:10:51.707
  • I don't, sorry, i'll make this personal.
  • 00:10:51.707 --> 00:10:52.842
  • - that's not the first thought, yeah.
  • 00:10:52.842 --> 00:10:54.210
  • - yeah, i'll think, "oh boy, i need to fix this."
  • 00:10:54.210 --> 00:10:57.246
  • Or, you know, well, so lately is what i was trying to say
  • 00:10:57.246 --> 00:11:01.117
  • A while ago, the last couple years i've been more conscious
  • 00:11:01.117 --> 00:11:04.987
  • Of going, "why don't i just take that to the lord?"
  • 00:11:04.987 --> 00:11:07.523
  • That's what the holy spirit's here for.
  • 00:11:07.523 --> 00:11:10.426
  • He's here to help us.
  • 00:11:10.426 --> 00:11:11.727
  • He's the one to come alongside to guide us
  • 00:11:11.727 --> 00:11:14.296
  • And to help us in daily living life,
  • 00:11:14.296 --> 00:11:18.400
  • And showing god's love and whatever.
  • 00:11:18.400 --> 00:11:20.770
  • Why don't i just pray about that?
  • 00:11:20.770 --> 00:11:22.638
  • - yeah, that's so good.
  • 00:11:22.638 --> 00:11:24.140
  • You know, i may have mentioned this,
  • 00:11:24.140 --> 00:11:26.342
  • But god puts things in our lives on purpose
  • 00:11:26.342 --> 00:11:28.644
  • That we can't do on our own.
  • 00:11:28.644 --> 00:11:30.279
  • It may be a challenge, it may be a dream,
  • 00:11:30.279 --> 00:11:32.548
  • But i think that's where you have to say,
  • 00:11:32.548 --> 00:11:34.350
  • "i'm gonna tap into the power of prayer.
  • 00:11:34.350 --> 00:11:36.652
  • And god, i believe, and you know, it's releasing your faith.
  • 00:11:36.652 --> 00:11:39.955
  • You're saying, "god, i know you can do something
  • 00:11:39.955 --> 00:11:41.824
  • That i can't do," and i think that's what puts that,
  • 00:11:41.824 --> 00:11:44.527
  • You know, when you put your dependency on him,
  • 00:11:44.527 --> 00:11:46.996
  • That's what allows god to do amazing things.
  • 00:11:46.996 --> 00:11:49.298
  • And so it's been one of the core messages
  • 00:11:49.298 --> 00:11:54.203
  • That i've felt is in me.
  • 00:11:54.203 --> 00:11:55.504
  • That's why i wanted to put it into a book.
  • 00:11:55.504 --> 00:11:56.906
  • Because again, i'm not the most skilled minister,
  • 00:11:56.906 --> 00:12:00.776
  • Or i don't have the most training,
  • 00:12:00.776 --> 00:12:03.479
  • But i've seen god do things that...
  • 00:12:04.213 --> 00:12:05.948
  • Take me where i've never dreamed
  • 00:12:05.948 --> 00:12:07.349
  • From the compact center and all these other things.
  • 00:12:07.349 --> 00:12:08.717
  • But i come back to what are some key things?
  • 00:12:08.717 --> 00:12:10.686
  • Well, you gotta take the limits off of god,
  • 00:12:10.686 --> 00:12:12.421
  • And you gotta believe that he can do things
  • 00:12:12.421 --> 00:12:15.124
  • That you can't do on your own.
  • 00:12:15.124 --> 00:12:16.559
  • And it starts by praying bold, believing big.
  • 00:12:16.559 --> 00:12:18.861
  • And, you know, not just talking about the problem,
  • 00:12:18.861 --> 00:12:21.330
  • But going to god and saying, you know,
  • 00:12:21.330 --> 00:12:23.299
  • I think it's fine to say, "god, this is a problem.
  • 00:12:23.299 --> 00:12:25.367
  • I don't see how it can work out,
  • 00:12:25.367 --> 00:12:26.735
  • But god, i know you're on the throne.
  • 00:12:26.735 --> 00:12:28.771
  • I've seen you in the past do this.
  • 00:12:28.771 --> 00:12:30.539
  • So, lord, i'm trusting you."
  • 00:12:30.539 --> 00:12:32.074
  • And i don't know, i think that's just what allows god
  • 00:12:32.074 --> 00:12:34.610
  • To do some things that are unusual.
  • 00:12:34.610 --> 00:12:37.813
  • You know, i go back, i always ask myself,
  • 00:12:38.681 --> 00:12:40.115
  • How many answers to prayers, how many great things
  • 00:12:40.115 --> 00:12:42.685
  • Am i not seeing because i'm not asking?
  • 00:12:42.685 --> 00:12:44.820
  • I'm just thinking about it. i'm just worried.
  • 00:12:44.820 --> 00:12:46.355
  • How are we gonna make budget?
  • 00:12:46.355 --> 00:12:47.489
  • Or how's this situation gonna work out?
  • 00:12:47.489 --> 00:12:49.625
  • First, turning that around and say,
  • 00:12:49.625 --> 00:12:50.926
  • "lord, i thank you that you're jehovah jireh.
  • 00:12:50.926 --> 00:12:53.429
  • You're our provider.
  • 00:12:53.429 --> 00:12:54.630
  • Lord, i thank you that i live under
  • 00:12:54.630 --> 00:12:55.831
  • The open windows of heaven."
  • 00:12:55.831 --> 00:12:57.233
  • - thank you, lord. - just, you know,
  • 00:12:57.233 --> 00:12:58.534
  • Pray in this scripture.
  • 00:12:58.534 --> 00:12:59.702
  • Just pray what god says about,
  • 00:12:59.702 --> 00:13:01.403
  • Because i have some people say, you know, like i said,
  • 00:13:01.403 --> 00:13:03.339
  • You know, i wasn't raised like that.
  • 00:13:03.339 --> 00:13:05.474
  • That seems too far out for me.
  • 00:13:05.474 --> 00:13:07.109
  • But i always tell 'em, just pray what god says about you.
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  • Just like i did, lord, i thank you that i lend,
  • 00:13:09.945 --> 00:13:11.680
  • I don't have to borrow.
  • 00:13:11.680 --> 00:13:12.982
  • Lord, i thank you that as for me and my house,
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  • We will serve the lord.
  • 00:13:14.683 --> 00:13:16.418
  • You know, that's releasing your faith. praying bold prayers.
  • 00:13:16.418 --> 00:13:20.155
  • So when we're sitting here,
  • 00:13:20.756 --> 00:13:22.291
  • Joel and i are usually just kind of
  • 00:13:22.291 --> 00:13:24.393
  • Right on the verge of giggling each other
  • 00:13:24.393 --> 00:13:26.362
  • Because we love what god's called us to do, but the.
  • 00:13:26.362 --> 00:13:31.700
  • - 99% of the time, he and i are in sweats,
  • 00:13:32.601 --> 00:13:35.271
  • And we're on the side of a hill, running somewhere.
  • 00:13:35.271 --> 00:13:38.073
  • - yeah. - i almost killed him
  • 00:13:38.073 --> 00:13:39.141
  • One time in colorado. - yeah.
  • 00:13:39.141 --> 00:13:40.576
  • - and 'cause he had left his water bottle, and-
  • 00:13:40.576 --> 00:13:43.612
  • - [joel] same.
  • 00:13:43.612 --> 00:13:44.813
  • - i would've really felt bad
  • 00:13:44.813 --> 00:13:46.582
  • If i had been the guy to kill joel osteen.
  • 00:13:46.582 --> 00:13:48.651
  • It was an awful, okay. - (chuckling) yeah.
  • 00:13:48.651 --> 00:13:50.619
  • - we're talking about bold prayers.
  • 00:13:50.619 --> 00:13:53.656
  • It's 2025, "pray bold".
  • 00:13:53.656 --> 00:13:56.492
  • You know what's interesting?
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  • My mom and dad had an old-timer in their life.
  • 00:14:00.562 --> 00:14:04.867
  • His name was paul billheimer,
  • 00:14:04.867 --> 00:14:06.568
  • And my mom and dad referred to him as dad billheimer,
  • 00:14:06.568 --> 00:14:10.739
  • And he was papa billheimer.
  • 00:14:10.739 --> 00:14:13.943
  • He was super old when we were first married.
  • 00:14:13.943 --> 00:14:17.279
  • So if he was alive today, he'd be like 120 years old.
  • 00:14:17.279 --> 00:14:20.215
  • I mean, he's been gone a while.
  • 00:14:20.215 --> 00:14:22.651
  • And he, at one point, joel, became kind of,
  • 00:14:22.651 --> 00:14:28.023
  • I would call it kind of the patriarch of tbn.
  • 00:14:28.991 --> 00:14:33.729
  • My mom and dad really adopted him
  • 00:14:33.729 --> 00:14:36.498
  • When my mom's dad passed away.
  • 00:14:36.498 --> 00:14:39.802
  • Dad billheimer really became, you know,
  • 00:14:39.802 --> 00:14:43.806
  • He wrote "destined for the throne"
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  • And some of these books.
  • 00:14:46.542 --> 00:14:47.943
  • And lori and i were looking through one of his books
  • 00:14:47.943 --> 00:14:51.280
  • Because he had a really interesting take on prayer
  • 00:14:51.280 --> 00:14:55.351
  • That i was rereading before we sat down.
  • 00:14:55.351 --> 00:14:59.989
  • And the serious side of "pray bold",
  • 00:14:59.989 --> 00:15:05.327
  • You know, is this, that god chose
  • 00:15:06.061 --> 00:15:09.665
  • To make man, and he chose
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  • To administrate his kingdom through our belief.
  • 00:15:14.403 --> 00:15:19.942
  • So praying, you know, is kind of
  • 00:15:20.576 --> 00:15:24.446
  • What dad billheimer would say.
  • 00:15:24.446 --> 00:15:26.482
  • And a lot of the, if there's some old-timers watching,
  • 00:15:26.482 --> 00:15:30.352
  • You remember dad billheimer,
  • 00:15:30.352 --> 00:15:32.421
  • You remember "destined for the throne" and "love covers"
  • 00:15:32.421 --> 00:15:35.124
  • And some of his other books and all.
  • 00:15:35.124 --> 00:15:37.526
  • But there was a main theme that god shows
  • 00:15:37.526 --> 00:15:41.830
  • To administrate his kingdom on earth
  • 00:15:41.830 --> 00:15:45.267
  • Through the faith of his people, believers.
  • 00:15:45.267 --> 00:15:50.539
  • And that they would basically use it
  • 00:15:51.340 --> 00:15:54.476
  • As on-the-job training for eternity, okay?
  • 00:15:54.476 --> 00:15:59.181
  • So, you know, please understand
  • 00:15:59.181 --> 00:16:03.585
  • That there is, yeah, there's dreams
  • 00:16:03.585 --> 00:16:07.389
  • And desires that can be big.
  • 00:16:07.389 --> 00:16:08.957
  • Health issues can be bold prayers.
  • 00:16:08.957 --> 00:16:12.227
  • Loved ones can be...
  • 00:16:12.227 --> 00:16:13.695
  • Coming back to the kingdom can be bold prayers.
  • 00:16:13.695 --> 00:16:15.164
  • There's a lot of different kinds of bold prayers.
  • 00:16:15.164 --> 00:16:17.599
  • But when you take it to a level
  • 00:16:17.599 --> 00:16:20.669
  • That dad billheimer did back in the day,
  • 00:16:20.669 --> 00:16:24.306
  • He was saying god leaves the policing of this earth to us.
  • 00:16:24.306 --> 00:16:30.746
  • We have that authority.
  • 00:16:31.280 --> 00:16:32.848
  • And whether we ever take it or not-
  • 00:16:32.848 --> 00:16:34.650
  • - [joel] yeah.
  • 00:16:34.650 --> 00:16:35.584
  • - is just our loss or our gain.
  • 00:16:35.584 --> 00:16:38.454
  • And so, i know that this subject can go very deep
  • 00:16:38.454 --> 00:16:43.792
  • And it can go very serious very quickly.
  • 00:16:44.660 --> 00:16:47.162
  • But prayer is a mystery.
  • 00:16:47.663 --> 00:16:49.665
  • There is a mystery- - yeah.
  • 00:16:49.665 --> 00:16:50.899
  • - that god chooses to work through us.
  • 00:16:50.899 --> 00:16:53.569
  • And what we're asked to do is
  • 00:16:53.569 --> 00:16:57.573
  • Call those things that are not-
  • 00:16:57.573 --> 00:16:59.608
  • - yeah. - as though they are.
  • 00:16:59.608 --> 00:17:00.876
  • - yeah. - "let the weak say,
  • 00:17:00.876 --> 00:17:02.945
  • I am strong, and man, there's some people out there
  • 00:17:02.945 --> 00:17:06.748
  • That go absolutely ape crazy,
  • 00:17:06.748 --> 00:17:09.785
  • Out of their minds when they think
  • 00:17:09.785 --> 00:17:13.288
  • That means something about money
  • 00:17:13.288 --> 00:17:15.190
  • Or they think we think that's something
  • 00:17:15.190 --> 00:17:17.025
  • About this or that. - yeah.
  • 00:17:17.025 --> 00:17:18.327
  • - but i mean, "let the weak say, i am strong."
  • 00:17:18.327 --> 00:17:20.229
  • - yeah, yeah. - okay,
  • 00:17:20.229 --> 00:17:21.997
  • You know, and god has given us everything that pertains
  • 00:17:21.997 --> 00:17:25.234
  • To life and godliness. - yeah.
  • 00:17:25.234 --> 00:17:27.603
  • - whether we administrate that,
  • 00:17:27.603 --> 00:17:29.171
  • And i think prayer is a super important thing, no joke.
  • 00:17:29.171 --> 00:17:33.075
  • - yeah, no, that's so good, man, i love that.
  • 00:17:33.075 --> 00:17:35.544
  • When you were talking, i was thinking about even jabez
  • 00:17:35.544 --> 00:17:37.946
  • In the scripture, and you know,
  • 00:17:37.946 --> 00:17:39.281
  • His name means sorrow and pain and all that.
  • 00:17:39.281 --> 00:17:41.517
  • There's, y'all know the story.
  • 00:17:41.517 --> 00:17:43.552
  • But, you know, he dared to pray.
  • 00:17:43.552 --> 00:17:45.988
  • He said, "god, bless me indeed, enlarge my territory."
  • 00:17:45.988 --> 00:17:49.525
  • You know, there's that whole list of people in the bible
  • 00:17:49.525 --> 00:17:52.060
  • And, you know, the descendants,
  • 00:17:52.060 --> 00:17:54.096
  • And he stands out by praying that,
  • 00:17:54.096 --> 00:17:55.497
  • Just that simple prayer, "bless me indeed."
  • 00:17:55.497 --> 00:17:57.599
  • And i often thought about, you know,
  • 00:17:57.599 --> 00:17:59.902
  • It'd been one thing to just say,
  • 00:17:59.902 --> 00:18:01.170
  • "god, bless me and help me to make it through."
  • 00:18:01.170 --> 00:18:03.305
  • But here's a guy that his whole, you know,
  • 00:18:03.305 --> 00:18:05.841
  • Was declared over him sorrow and pain.
  • 00:18:05.841 --> 00:18:07.976
  • But he dared to declare, "god, bless me indeed."
  • 00:18:07.976 --> 00:18:10.345
  • In other words, to me, he had a vision
  • 00:18:10.345 --> 00:18:12.181
  • That, "i can stand out in the crowd.
  • 00:18:12.181 --> 00:18:14.516
  • "i can do something with my life that,"
  • 00:18:14.516 --> 00:18:16.785
  • You know, "that makes a difference."
  • 00:18:16.785 --> 00:18:18.320
  • And to me, to see that, that god enlarged his territory,
  • 00:18:18.320 --> 00:18:22.591
  • Gave him favor and all, but you know,
  • 00:18:22.591 --> 00:18:24.593
  • We wouldn't be talking about jabez
  • 00:18:24.593 --> 00:18:26.128
  • If he hadn't prayed that bold prayer, just say, "god...
  • 00:18:26.128 --> 00:18:27.930
  • You know, it's one thing to say, "god-
  • 00:18:27.930 --> 00:18:30.065
  • - this year and help me to make it through
  • 00:18:30.966 --> 00:18:31.934
  • And help my children.
  • 00:18:31.934 --> 00:18:33.402
  • But why don't you dare to say, "god bless me indeed.
  • 00:18:33.402 --> 00:18:35.437
  • God, do something. show yourself strong in my life."
  • 00:18:35.437 --> 00:18:38.707
  • I was reading in psalms the other day too. i love this.
  • 00:18:38.707 --> 00:18:41.276
  • The psalmist said, "god, show me a sign of your favor
  • 00:18:41.276 --> 00:18:44.813
  • So that even my enemies know you're on my side"
  • 00:18:44.813 --> 00:18:47.249
  • Or something, but i've been praying that every day.
  • 00:18:47.249 --> 00:18:48.984
  • "lord, show me a sign of your favor today."
  • 00:18:48.984 --> 00:18:51.320
  • Not just for my enemies, but show out in my life.
  • 00:18:51.320 --> 00:18:53.755
  • Do something i haven't seen.
  • 00:18:53.755 --> 00:18:55.557
  • Just releasing the faith again to build the kingdom.
  • 00:18:55.557 --> 00:18:58.961
  • - you know, hebrews four says,
  • 00:18:58.961 --> 00:19:01.697
  • "let us therefore come boldly.
  • 00:19:01.697 --> 00:19:04.566
  • Let us therefore come boldly to the throne of grace
  • 00:19:04.566 --> 00:19:07.669
  • That we may obtain grace and mercy
  • 00:19:07.669 --> 00:19:10.872
  • In the day that we need it."
  • 00:19:10.872 --> 00:19:12.708
  • So that's hebrews and the writer of hebrews is declaring
  • 00:19:12.708 --> 00:19:16.979
  • That we need to come boldly to the throne.
  • 00:19:16.979 --> 00:19:19.147
  • And then, i guess unless you understand grace first,
  • 00:19:19.147 --> 00:19:22.618
  • That our righteousness is because of christ,
  • 00:19:22.618 --> 00:19:26.355
  • That we come boldly to the throne,
  • 00:19:26.355 --> 00:19:29.124
  • But we're supposed to administrate something
  • 00:19:29.124 --> 00:19:32.127
  • Here on earth.
  • 00:19:32.127 --> 00:19:33.228
  • We're supposed to have a bigger say in what goes on
  • 00:19:33.228 --> 00:19:37.032
  • In a lot of things in the world.
  • 00:19:37.032 --> 00:19:40.135
  • And a lot of times we as christians
  • 00:19:40.135 --> 00:19:42.638
  • Just don't step into the authority.
  • 00:19:42.638 --> 00:19:45.040
  • And it feels like we need to.
  • 00:19:45.040 --> 00:19:47.542
  • It feels like there's something
  • 00:19:47.542 --> 00:19:49.077
  • That on occasion we're missing.
  • 00:19:49.077 --> 00:19:52.247
  • Okay, 2025, brand new year, brand new thinking.
  • 00:19:52.247 --> 00:19:57.586
  • You might have noticed there was a presidential election
  • 00:19:58.720 --> 00:20:00.322
  • A few months ago that, oh my god, that, you know,
  • 00:20:00.322 --> 00:20:05.227
  • The dynamic of what's going on in the earth today,
  • 00:20:06.261 --> 00:20:11.700
  • It feels like god is giving us an opportunity.
  • 00:20:12.601 --> 00:20:17.706
  • It feels that way. that unique thing.
  • 00:20:18.507 --> 00:20:20.776
  • And you write a book called "pray bold."
  • 00:20:20.776 --> 00:20:24.646
  • It comes out when it comes out.
  • 00:20:24.646 --> 00:20:26.581
  • Here we sit today, it's january 7th. the book is out now.
  • 00:20:26.581 --> 00:20:30.686
  • Make sure people, you know, understand,
  • 00:20:30.686 --> 00:20:35.057
  • This feels like some kind of setup, you know?
  • 00:20:35.924 --> 00:20:38.293
  • But you wrote this a year ago or longer.
  • 00:20:38.293 --> 00:20:40.996
  • I mean, this really happened in this timing.
  • 00:20:40.996 --> 00:20:43.699
  • Let's not it be lost on us.
  • 00:20:43.699 --> 00:20:46.535
  • - no, i think you're exactly right.
  • 00:20:46.535 --> 00:20:48.203
  • You know, matt stepping into a new year, a new season,
  • 00:20:48.203 --> 00:20:50.972
  • God's doing new things, and i think that's the time
  • 00:20:50.972 --> 00:20:54.009
  • That we as believers have to, you know, have to step up.
  • 00:20:54.009 --> 00:20:57.145
  • Like, just to take that authority and believe and,
  • 00:20:57.145 --> 00:20:59.414
  • You know, impact the culture.
  • 00:20:59.414 --> 00:21:01.249
  • That's what i love about tbm, what you guys do, you know?
  • 00:21:01.249 --> 00:21:04.252
  • Impacting the culture and, you know,
  • 00:21:04.252 --> 00:21:06.555
  • Just making a difference in all your different endeavors.
  • 00:21:06.555 --> 00:21:09.124
  • But i don't know, to me, as we start the year,
  • 00:21:09.124 --> 00:21:13.061
  • It's important how you start it 'cause a lot of times
  • 00:21:13.061 --> 00:21:15.497
  • It'll determine what kind of year you're going to have.
  • 00:21:15.497 --> 00:21:18.200
  • And so if we start it, just let me get through,
  • 00:21:18.200 --> 00:21:20.602
  • Just mediocre and man, another year, i hope i make it,
  • 00:21:20.602 --> 00:21:23.472
  • That sets limits, but i believe when we start this year,
  • 00:21:23.472 --> 00:21:26.408
  • Say, "god, i believe is it is a year that you can show out
  • 00:21:26.408 --> 00:21:29.311
  • In my life that i can see your goodness in new ways."
  • 00:21:29.311 --> 00:21:32.447
  • And, you know, that's what allows god to do things.
  • 00:21:32.447 --> 00:21:34.683
  • I think what you said too, matt, was so important,
  • 00:21:34.683 --> 00:21:37.219
  • You know, coming boldly to the throne.
  • 00:21:37.219 --> 00:21:38.820
  • 'cause, you know, being a pastor, i get to talk
  • 00:21:38.820 --> 00:21:41.390
  • To a lot of people and you know, a common thing is,
  • 00:21:41.390 --> 00:21:43.825
  • "you know, i don't feel worthy.
  • 00:21:43.825 --> 00:21:45.460
  • I've made too many mistakes and i wasn't raised like you"
  • 00:21:45.460 --> 00:21:49.197
  • And we go on and on, but it's like you said,
  • 00:21:49.197 --> 00:21:51.366
  • It's not our righteousness, it's what jesus did for us.
  • 00:21:51.366 --> 00:21:54.035
  • And so you have to take his righteousness and say,
  • 00:21:54.035 --> 00:21:56.538
  • "god, you made me worthy.
  • 00:21:56.538 --> 00:21:58.473
  • Therefore, i can come boldly before the throne."
  • 00:21:58.473 --> 00:22:01.243
  • I always liken it to my children.
  • 00:22:01.243 --> 00:22:03.345
  • If my children, when they were younger,
  • 00:22:03.345 --> 00:22:05.013
  • If they come up to you and just felt
  • 00:22:05.013 --> 00:22:06.748
  • Like a weak worm of the dust,
  • 00:22:06.748 --> 00:22:08.250
  • And "dad, i don't deserve this,
  • 00:22:08.250 --> 00:22:09.718
  • But can i just have a little drink of water?"
  • 00:22:09.718 --> 00:22:11.987
  • We would say, "what are you talking about? you're my child.
  • 00:22:11.987 --> 00:22:14.589
  • You're my son, you're my daughter.
  • 00:22:14.589 --> 00:22:16.057
  • Come on in, go to the refrigerator.
  • 00:22:16.057 --> 00:22:18.126
  • What i have belongs to you."
  • 00:22:18.126 --> 00:22:19.561
  • I think that's, you know, understanding grace
  • 00:22:19.561 --> 00:22:22.998
  • And god's love and mercy, knowing that you're a child
  • 00:22:22.998 --> 00:22:26.101
  • Of the most high, that you're his prized possession.
  • 00:22:26.101 --> 00:22:29.070
  • That god chose you before you could choose him.
  • 00:22:29.070 --> 00:22:31.907
  • Even, you know, sometimes we kid about,
  • 00:22:31.907 --> 00:22:33.708
  • April always kids that she's my parent's favorite child.
  • 00:22:33.708 --> 00:22:36.545
  • But sometimes i think you have to go to god like,
  • 00:22:36.545 --> 00:22:38.647
  • "god, i believe i'm your favorite."
  • 00:22:38.647 --> 00:22:40.348
  • Not in arrogance, but just knowing that he loves you.
  • 00:22:40.348 --> 00:22:43.351
  • Then that's when you can say,
  • 00:22:43.351 --> 00:22:44.586
  • "god, you put this dream in my heart,"
  • 00:22:44.586 --> 00:22:46.354
  • Or "god, you know," back for us, you know, in 1981 it was,
  • 00:22:46.354 --> 00:22:50.425
  • "god, you know, my mother has been given
  • 00:22:50.425 --> 00:22:52.127
  • A few weeks to live with terminal cancer."
  • 00:22:52.127 --> 00:22:55.864
  • And so there we could have said,
  • 00:22:55.864 --> 00:22:57.632
  • "okay, god, maybe this is your will.
  • 00:22:57.632 --> 00:23:00.368
  • You know, give us peace to make it through as she passes,"
  • 00:23:00.368 --> 00:23:04.139
  • And, you know, i know people pray like that
  • 00:23:04.139 --> 00:23:06.141
  • And we do need comfort and sometimes that happens.
  • 00:23:06.141 --> 00:23:08.643
  • But you know what?
  • 00:23:08.643 --> 00:23:09.945
  • My dad gathered us all in the living room.
  • 00:23:09.945 --> 00:23:12.180
  • It was around christmas.
  • 00:23:12.180 --> 00:23:13.548
  • It was around christmas time of that year in 1981.
  • 00:23:13.548 --> 00:23:15.817
  • And boy, i was expecting to come home from college
  • 00:23:15.817 --> 00:23:18.587
  • And celebrate and have fun, all my family's there.
  • 00:23:18.587 --> 00:23:20.755
  • But man, never dreamed we'd get this news.
  • 00:23:20.755 --> 00:23:22.757
  • I mean, it was solemn, but daddy gathered us all around
  • 00:23:22.757 --> 00:23:25.460
  • And we prayed a bold prayer.
  • 00:23:25.460 --> 00:23:27.128
  • We said, "god, you made my mother's body, you--"
  • 00:23:27.128 --> 00:23:30.565
  • - we heal back in the bible days,
  • 00:23:31.266 --> 00:23:32.634
  • We believe you can do even what medicine can't do,
  • 00:23:32.634 --> 00:23:34.536
  • 'cause there was no medicine back then.
  • 00:23:34.536 --> 00:23:36.338
  • I don't even know if there is now for that kind of cancer.
  • 00:23:36.338 --> 00:23:38.340
  • But we prayed, we believed,
  • 00:23:38.340 --> 00:23:40.408
  • And nothing happened immediately.
  • 00:23:40.408 --> 00:23:42.511
  • It's just like she was just the same.
  • 00:23:42.511 --> 00:23:44.679
  • But my mother had that attitude of faith,
  • 00:23:44.679 --> 00:23:46.681
  • And she just, instead of going back to bed,
  • 00:23:46.681 --> 00:23:49.885
  • Other than normal times,
  • 00:23:49.885 --> 00:23:51.186
  • She would make herself stay up
  • 00:23:51.186 --> 00:23:53.455
  • And not sink down into depression.
  • 00:23:53.455 --> 00:23:55.557
  • I would hear her walking through the house,
  • 00:23:55.557 --> 00:23:57.259
  • "i thank you, lord, that i'm healed
  • 00:23:57.259 --> 00:23:58.927
  • And you're restoring health back into me.
  • 00:23:58.927 --> 00:24:00.795
  • I will live and not die."
  • 00:24:00.795 --> 00:24:01.963
  • And, dodie, how you doing?
  • 00:24:01.963 --> 00:24:03.598
  • And she's, "by his stripes, i'm healed."
  • 00:24:03.598 --> 00:24:05.400
  • It was just a,
  • 00:24:05.400 --> 00:24:06.735
  • You know, it was just a report of victory.
  • 00:24:06.735 --> 00:24:08.203
  • - yeah. - and you know,
  • 00:24:08.203 --> 00:24:09.538
  • That bold prayer over time,
  • 00:24:09.538 --> 00:24:10.939
  • It became a reality.
  • 00:24:10.939 --> 00:24:12.240
  • And my mother turned 91 years old last year,
  • 00:24:12.240 --> 00:24:14.876
  • And she's strong and healthy still at the services.
  • 00:24:14.876 --> 00:24:18.246
  • But you know, that's what god can do
  • 00:24:18.246 --> 00:24:20.749
  • And so it's just reiterating,
  • 00:24:20.749 --> 00:24:23.151
  • Let's take the limits off of god.
  • 00:24:23.151 --> 00:24:24.553
  • There's probably something god's put in your heart
  • 00:24:24.553 --> 00:24:26.988
  • That you can't accomplish on your own.
  • 00:24:26.988 --> 00:24:28.924
  • Maybe it's your dream,
  • 00:24:28.924 --> 00:24:30.458
  • Or maybe it's a challenge you're up against.
  • 00:24:30.458 --> 00:24:32.460
  • But you know, if you'll dare to say,
  • 00:24:32.460 --> 00:24:33.595
  • "god, i don't see a way,
  • 00:24:33.595 --> 00:24:34.696
  • But god, i know you have a way.
  • 00:24:34.696 --> 00:24:36.398
  • God, my trust, my confidence in you."
  • 00:24:36.398 --> 00:24:38.934
  • You know, dare to pray.
  • 00:24:38.934 --> 00:24:40.235
  • You don't even have to tell everybody about it,
  • 00:24:40.235 --> 00:24:41.770
  • But pray over what god's put in your heart,
  • 00:24:41.770 --> 00:24:43.705
  • And just stay in faith in the meantime.
  • 00:24:43.705 --> 00:24:46.207
  • I think the other part of bold prayer is the part of,
  • 00:24:46.207 --> 00:24:49.644
  • You know, waiting for it to come to pass,
  • 00:24:49.644 --> 00:24:52.113
  • Believing that at the appointed time,
  • 00:24:52.113 --> 00:24:53.815
  • God, you will make it happen.
  • 00:24:53.815 --> 00:24:55.216
  • And a lot of times, you don't see anything changing
  • 00:24:55.216 --> 00:24:58.620
  • Until something suddenly happens.
  • 00:24:58.620 --> 00:25:00.155
  • So you could think, "god,"
  • 00:25:00.155 --> 00:25:01.456
  • Or even, you know, just a simple illustration,
  • 00:25:01.456 --> 00:25:03.224
  • Those israelites walking around the walls of jericho,
  • 00:25:03.224 --> 00:25:06.094
  • You'd think if they walked around,
  • 00:25:06.094 --> 00:25:07.996
  • What, six or seven days, six days.
  • 00:25:07.996 --> 00:25:09.698
  • You'd think at least that if they saw a few cracks
  • 00:25:09.698 --> 00:25:12.067
  • In the walls or some rubble. (matt laughs)
  • 00:25:12.067 --> 00:25:14.102
  • But you know what, they saw no sign,
  • 00:25:14.102 --> 00:25:15.503
  • Then, suddenly on the seventh day.
  • 00:25:15.503 --> 00:25:16.905
  • So that's what i encourage you with that.
  • 00:25:16.905 --> 00:25:19.374
  • You know, you prayed, you believe,
  • 00:25:19.374 --> 00:25:20.842
  • You're staying in faith,
  • 00:25:20.842 --> 00:25:22.143
  • And maybe you don't see anything happening,
  • 00:25:22.143 --> 00:25:23.445
  • But that doesn't mean god's not working.
  • 00:25:23.445 --> 00:25:25.547
  • God's working behind the scenes right now in your life,
  • 00:25:25.547 --> 00:25:28.083
  • And if you will stay faithful in those times,
  • 00:25:28.083 --> 00:25:30.518
  • Where you don't see anything happening,
  • 00:25:30.518 --> 00:25:31.786
  • And that means keeping a smile on your face,
  • 00:25:31.786 --> 00:25:34.823
  • Having praise coming outta your mouth,
  • 00:25:35.657 --> 00:25:37.525
  • Declaring victory when you're not seeing any of that,
  • 00:25:37.525 --> 00:25:40.161
  • That's passing the test.
  • 00:25:40.161 --> 00:25:41.963
  • I believe you're gonna come into one of those suddenlies
  • 00:25:41.963 --> 00:25:44.132
  • Where, you know, just unexpectedly,
  • 00:25:44.132 --> 00:25:46.601
  • You see god turn it around,
  • 00:25:46.601 --> 00:25:47.969
  • Or a child comes back home,
  • 00:25:47.969 --> 00:25:49.604
  • Or your health turns around,
  • 00:25:49.604 --> 00:25:50.705
  • Or a door opens for your dream.
  • 00:25:50.705 --> 00:25:52.540
  • And so stay in faith,
  • 00:25:52.540 --> 00:25:54.175
  • Pray bold, and then just,
  • 00:25:54.175 --> 00:25:55.710
  • You know, keep declaring and know that god's working.
  • 00:25:55.710 --> 00:25:58.613
  • The times you don't see anything happening,
  • 00:25:58.613 --> 00:26:00.115
  • That's the time that god's seeing what you're made of.
  • 00:26:00.115 --> 00:26:03.351
  • You know, seeing...
  • 00:26:03.351 --> 00:26:04.352
  • That's where you gotta show god,
  • 00:26:04.352 --> 00:26:05.253
  • "god, i'm gonna trust you,
  • 00:26:05.253 --> 00:26:06.521
  • Whether i see a sign of this or whether i don't,
  • 00:26:06.521 --> 00:26:08.356
  • I believe what you promised will come to pass."
  • 00:26:08.356 --> 00:26:11.059
  • - you know, joel, you just answered largely
  • 00:26:11.059 --> 00:26:15.797
  • A conversation laurie and i were having in the car
  • 00:26:15.797 --> 00:26:17.966
  • On the way to the studio. (laurie laughs)
  • 00:26:17.966 --> 00:26:20.035
  • Because, laurie said something about,
  • 00:26:20.035 --> 00:26:23.505
  • I'll paraphrase.
  • 00:26:23.872 --> 00:26:24.939
  • Basically she started by saying,
  • 00:26:24.939 --> 00:26:27.108
  • You know, personally, it feels like sometimes
  • 00:26:27.108 --> 00:26:31.746
  • I wanna be careful in my prayer.
  • 00:26:31.746 --> 00:26:33.982
  • - [joel] yeah.
  • 00:26:33.982 --> 00:26:35.216
  • - because i don't wanna pray something
  • 00:26:35.216 --> 00:26:37.719
  • That doesn't get answered,
  • 00:26:37.719 --> 00:26:39.287
  • Because i'm praying it outside of god's will or something.
  • 00:26:39.287 --> 00:26:43.725
  • So my response to that was something to the effect of,
  • 00:26:43.725 --> 00:26:46.661
  • Well, isn't everything
  • 00:26:46.661 --> 00:26:49.898
  • In the kingdom counterintuitive, first of all?
  • 00:26:49.898 --> 00:26:52.400
  • Yes, most of it feels counterintuitive.
  • 00:26:52.400 --> 00:26:55.103
  • And the point is, you have to have faith
  • 00:26:55.103 --> 00:26:59.207
  • 'cause it's the only thing that pleases god.
  • 00:26:59.207 --> 00:27:00.875
  • - [joel] yeah.
  • 00:27:00.875 --> 00:27:02.177
  • - and that god put that desire in your heart.
  • 00:27:02.177 --> 00:27:04.713
  • If you pray a desire in your heart,
  • 00:27:04.713 --> 00:27:09.050
  • Then you're worried that it may not come to pass.
  • 00:27:09.984 --> 00:27:14.355
  • And then that brings doubt,
  • 00:27:14.355 --> 00:27:17.792
  • And certainly can't tell anyone else you've prayed
  • 00:27:17.792 --> 00:27:20.028
  • A bold prayer, 'cause you don't wanna be embarrassed.
  • 00:27:20.028 --> 00:27:22.230
  • And, you know, because for some reason,
  • 00:27:22.230 --> 00:27:25.033
  • You know, at least in the,
  • 00:27:25.033 --> 00:27:27.569
  • Let's say the fabric of the church that i grew up in,
  • 00:27:28.670 --> 00:27:31.806
  • Is if anything goes wrong in your life,
  • 00:27:31.806 --> 00:27:35.009
  • You've got sin in your life and you're...
  • 00:27:35.009 --> 00:27:36.978
  • So, you don't wanna be judged
  • 00:27:36.978 --> 00:27:39.047
  • To have some kind of real big desire in your heart.
  • 00:27:39.047 --> 00:27:42.016
  • And, you know, personal testimony,
  • 00:27:42.016 --> 00:27:47.655
  • We were listening to a post from kim clement
  • 00:27:48.590 --> 00:27:52.927
  • That just got put around in the internet just recently,
  • 00:27:52.927 --> 00:27:55.563
  • And kim's been gone for quite a while now.
  • 00:27:55.563 --> 00:27:58.900
  • He's in heaven, but he was a fairly close friend
  • 00:27:58.900 --> 00:28:02.203
  • Of laurie and i.
  • 00:28:02.203 --> 00:28:03.238
  • We knew he and jane very well.
  • 00:28:03.238 --> 00:28:06.274
  • And it was almost like,
  • 00:28:06.274 --> 00:28:10.044
  • It made me start thinking about,
  • 00:28:10.044 --> 00:28:12.180
  • You know, kim clement, and some of the ministry
  • 00:28:12.180 --> 00:28:15.250
  • And personal times that we would have with him.
  • 00:28:15.250 --> 00:28:18.052
  • And some of what we feel our job
  • 00:28:18.052 --> 00:28:21.723
  • Is to culture even through initiatives
  • 00:28:21.723 --> 00:28:25.860
  • That tbn has been a part of with,
  • 00:28:25.860 --> 00:28:27.762
  • Like merit street media with dr. phil mcgraw and.
  • 00:28:27.762 --> 00:28:30.431
  • - some of these other things that we feel like we do.
  • 00:28:31.499 --> 00:28:33.735
  • Some of the films that we did, we feel like, you know,
  • 00:28:33.735 --> 00:28:36.304
  • Scripted content is again, coming back into our lives.
  • 00:28:36.304 --> 00:28:40.208
  • Well, that's a big, bold thing.
  • 00:28:40.208 --> 00:28:42.043
  • That's a big bold,
  • 00:28:42.043 --> 00:28:43.878
  • And so sometimes you want to be a little careful
  • 00:28:43.878 --> 00:28:47.882
  • Because you don't want to either question god.
  • 00:28:48.850 --> 00:28:52.987
  • You don't wanna, you know, there is such a thing
  • 00:28:52.987 --> 00:28:56.157
  • As a vain imagination.
  • 00:28:56.157 --> 00:28:57.926
  • - [joel] yeah, yeah, sure.
  • 00:28:57.926 --> 00:28:59.427
  • - you know, and you can pray to sing
  • 00:28:59.427 --> 00:29:03.331
  • With andrea bocelli when you're not a singer.
  • 00:29:03.331 --> 00:29:05.500
  • Yeah, i could pray that all day long.
  • 00:29:05.500 --> 00:29:07.035
  • - yeah.
  • 00:29:07.035 --> 00:29:08.369
  • - i'm never gonna sing with andrea bocelli.
  • 00:29:08.369 --> 00:29:10.104
  • - yeah.
  • 00:29:10.104 --> 00:29:10.939
  • - around the table.
  • 00:29:10.939 --> 00:29:12.207
  • - oh yeah, we prayed the lord's prayer
  • 00:29:12.207 --> 00:29:13.174
  • Around a dinner table one time.
  • 00:29:13.174 --> 00:29:14.275
  • But, basically the idea
  • 00:29:14.275 --> 00:29:18.213
  • That some people think that deep desire is
  • 00:29:18.213 --> 00:29:22.083
  • So crazy that they give up on it.
  • 00:29:22.083 --> 00:29:24.986
  • You know?
  • 00:29:24.986 --> 00:29:26.287
  • But that's kind of what you're asking us
  • 00:29:26.287 --> 00:29:27.322
  • To do, to pray bold again.
  • 00:29:27.322 --> 00:29:28.656
  • - it really is, man, and i think a thought
  • 00:29:28.656 --> 00:29:31.559
  • Of mine is when i get up every morning,
  • 00:29:31.559 --> 00:29:33.995
  • 'cause i think that's a good part 'cause it is
  • 00:29:33.995 --> 00:29:35.763
  • A fine line, joel, what's my carnal desires?
  • 00:29:35.763 --> 00:29:38.566
  • And i just want to play professional basketball
  • 00:29:38.566 --> 00:29:40.602
  • And you're my size.
  • 00:29:40.602 --> 00:29:42.003
  • But, or, but, you know, i get up every morning.
  • 00:29:42.003 --> 00:29:44.472
  • I still do it every morning when, when i'm praying, i say,
  • 00:29:44.472 --> 00:29:46.374
  • God, you know, search my heart.
  • 00:29:46.374 --> 00:29:48.476
  • God, help me to know, you know, or i'll pray this.
  • 00:29:48.476 --> 00:29:52.413
  • If i don't feel anything in god, i believe i'm doing
  • 00:29:52.413 --> 00:29:54.282
  • To the best of my ability, what you've called me to do.
  • 00:29:54.282 --> 00:29:56.885
  • And so i always tell people this,
  • 00:29:56.885 --> 00:30:00.421
  • If, well, i'll say it about me.
  • 00:30:00.421 --> 00:30:01.990
  • If i miss it, i'm gonna miss it
  • 00:30:01.990 --> 00:30:03.191
  • With a heart that's after god.
  • 00:30:03.191 --> 00:30:04.592
  • So i believe that at that point,
  • 00:30:04.592 --> 00:30:05.894
  • God will close wrong doors
  • 00:30:05.894 --> 00:30:07.562
  • Because there's been plenty of things i prayed about
  • 00:30:07.562 --> 00:30:09.297
  • And i thought, oh, that was not the right thing.
  • 00:30:09.297 --> 00:30:11.532
  • You know, it looked like a good idea,
  • 00:30:11.532 --> 00:30:13.835
  • But the door closed and there was something better.
  • 00:30:13.835 --> 00:30:15.603
  • So, but i do think if you pray
  • 00:30:15.603 --> 00:30:17.939
  • And you ask god to, you know, god,
  • 00:30:17.939 --> 00:30:19.807
  • Help me to see the motive of my heart is, you know,
  • 00:30:19.807 --> 00:30:22.944
  • I pray god is this for my ego,
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  • Is this for just any wrong purposes?
  • 00:30:24.712 --> 00:30:26.648
  • Or god is this part of my destiny?
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  • Is this something you put in me to build the kingdom?
  • 00:30:28.883 --> 00:30:30.852
  • Well, i think if you keep your heart pure
  • 00:30:30.852 --> 00:30:32.720
  • Before god to the best of your ability,
  • 00:30:32.720 --> 00:30:34.689
  • And i'll be the first to say, i can think of three
  • 00:30:34.689 --> 00:30:36.658
  • Or four big things i prayed about and it didn't happen.
  • 00:30:36.658 --> 00:30:39.294
  • But you know what, god was protecting me.
  • 00:30:39.294 --> 00:30:41.195
  • He had something else.
  • 00:30:41.195 --> 00:30:42.497
  • But i don't wanna come to the end of life,
  • 00:30:42.497 --> 00:30:44.499
  • I don't want any of us to come to the end of life
  • 00:30:44.499 --> 00:30:46.601
  • And say, what would've happened if i would've believed?
  • 00:30:46.601 --> 00:30:49.837
  • If i would've prayed, if i'd have taken
  • 00:30:49.837 --> 00:30:51.372
  • The limits off of god?
  • 00:30:51.372 --> 00:30:52.874
  • I mean, i go back to my core story when my dad died.
  • 00:30:52.874 --> 00:30:55.710
  • You know, i, that was something
  • 00:30:55.710 --> 00:30:58.146
  • That helped me to step up.
  • 00:30:58.146 --> 00:30:59.280
  • One, i felt it down in here.
  • 00:30:59.280 --> 00:31:00.748
  • I thought, i know i'm supposed to pastor this church.
  • 00:31:00.748 --> 00:31:02.884
  • But here's the thing, i did not know if i'd be any good,
  • 00:31:02.884 --> 00:31:06.187
  • And i didn't know if people would stay.
  • 00:31:06.187 --> 00:31:07.989
  • And you know what, i was okay with that,
  • 00:31:07.989 --> 00:31:09.524
  • 'cause i thought i really did,
  • 00:31:09.524 --> 00:31:11.125
  • I'm not being super spiritual,
  • 00:31:11.125 --> 00:31:12.727
  • But i thought if i'm not good
  • 00:31:12.727 --> 00:31:14.162
  • Or if people don't stay, i'll go back
  • 00:31:14.162 --> 00:31:15.763
  • To doing television production with me
  • 00:31:15.763 --> 00:31:17.865
  • And matt and gloria have done our whole life.
  • 00:31:17.865 --> 00:31:19.801
  • And so i thought i'll go back to that.
  • 00:31:19.801 --> 00:31:21.369
  • I'm not, but it was the boldness to take a risk,
  • 00:31:21.369 --> 00:31:24.405
  • A boldness to pray and believe that, to the best
  • 00:31:24.405 --> 00:31:27.575
  • Of my ability, this is something god wanted me to do.
  • 00:31:27.575 --> 00:31:29.410
  • Well, again, i go back to let's don't come to the end
  • 00:31:29.410 --> 00:31:32.780
  • Of life and say, man, i wonder
  • 00:31:32.780 --> 00:31:34.048
  • What would've happened if i would've
  • 00:31:34.048 --> 00:31:35.216
  • Stepped up and pastored the church.
  • 00:31:35.216 --> 00:31:36.784
  • I mean, i would've never,
  • 00:31:36.784 --> 00:31:37.986
  • I wouldn't be here with you guys
  • 00:31:37.986 --> 00:31:39.187
  • And seen all the things that we've seen.
  • 00:31:39.187 --> 00:31:41.155
  • And so again, it goes back to, i know i've tried
  • 00:31:41.155 --> 00:31:45.526
  • To convey it, but i didn't feel qualified.
  • 00:31:45.526 --> 00:31:48.763
  • I didn't feel worthy enough.
  • 00:31:48.763 --> 00:31:50.031
  • My dad was a great pastor
  • 00:31:50.031 --> 00:31:51.532
  • And i didn't feel like i had this big personality
  • 00:31:51.532 --> 00:31:53.968
  • And there were a hundred thoughts
  • 00:31:53.968 --> 00:31:55.903
  • Telling me the reason i couldn't.
  • 00:31:55.903 --> 00:31:57.171
  • But you have to get outta your own mind
  • 00:31:57.171 --> 00:31:59.040
  • And say, god, i know you put this dream in my heart
  • 00:31:59.040 --> 00:32:01.909
  • And i believe
  • 00:32:01.909 --> 00:32:03.211
  • That you can make ways where i don't see a way.
  • 00:32:03.211 --> 00:32:05.346
  • And, you know, i think there's other parts to it too,
  • 00:32:05.346 --> 00:32:07.582
  • Honoring god, staying in faith
  • 00:32:07.582 --> 00:32:09.617
  • And, you know, not getting bitter if
  • 00:32:09.617 --> 00:32:11.886
  • That door doesn't open the way you thought
  • 00:32:11.886 --> 00:32:13.654
  • And trusting, okay, god, you had something better.
  • 00:32:13.654 --> 00:32:16.391
  • But man, i think a big part
  • 00:32:16.391 --> 00:32:18.393
  • Of it is we discount ourselves.
  • 00:32:18.393 --> 00:32:21.095
  • I mean even david, i mean, i won't,
  • 00:32:21.095 --> 00:32:24.599
  • I'll go through all the whole bible,
  • 00:32:24.599 --> 00:32:26.100
  • But even david, i mean, you know,
  • 00:32:26.100 --> 00:32:27.802
  • He could have discounted himself.
  • 00:32:27.802 --> 00:32:29.303
  • Oh, i got this slingshot, i got this rock.
  • 00:32:29.303 --> 00:32:30.972
  • But look what god can do,
  • 00:32:30.972 --> 00:32:32.407
  • When you dare to believe, you trust,
  • 00:32:32.407 --> 00:32:34.675
  • You put your faith in him.
  • 00:32:34.675 --> 00:32:36.611
  • - the lord says he gives you the desires of your heart.
  • 00:32:36.611 --> 00:32:40.014
  • - yes.
  • 00:32:40.014 --> 00:32:41.482
  • - and that's what our core discussion was on the way
  • 00:32:41.482 --> 00:32:44.252
  • To the studio today.
  • 00:32:44.252 --> 00:32:46.054
  • That you have to kind of by faith believe that.
  • 00:32:46.054 --> 00:32:48.856
  • Because, you know, thank you talk unqualified.
  • 00:32:48.856 --> 00:32:52.093
  • You know, joel, you know, most people
  • 00:32:52.093 --> 00:32:55.730
  • That have followed tbn for all these 50 years
  • 00:32:55.730 --> 00:32:59.634
  • Or so, know that we did a movie called the omega code.
  • 00:32:59.634 --> 00:33:04.372
  • - [joel] yeah.
  • 00:33:04.372 --> 00:33:05.673
  • - well that wasn't a very good movie, joel.
  • 00:33:05.673 --> 00:33:08.009
  • I mean, and now we're talking about doing scripted content.
  • 00:33:08.009 --> 00:33:10.545
  • See, but what god requires is he chooses the foolish
  • 00:33:10.545 --> 00:33:15.550
  • To confound the wise, you know, the very fact
  • 00:33:15.550 --> 00:33:18.786
  • That you didn't feel qualified to pastor the church.
  • 00:33:18.786 --> 00:33:21.522
  • The fact that we don't feel qualified to go into, you know,
  • 00:33:21.522 --> 00:33:25.326
  • Scripted content
  • 00:33:25.326 --> 00:33:26.727
  • And these big things is exactly the reason god can use.
  • 00:33:26.727 --> 00:33:30.498
  • - and you have to trust that and think of this,
  • 00:33:31.499 --> 00:33:35.670
  • A lot of what we feel is right now,
  • 00:33:35.670 --> 00:33:39.240
  • Even 2025 and beyond things for us,
  • 00:33:39.240 --> 00:33:43.111
  • And for, you know, the ones that are in our immediate circle
  • 00:33:43.111 --> 00:33:47.482
  • Here at tbn and merit street
  • 00:33:47.482 --> 00:33:49.450
  • And some of the other channels that we have
  • 00:33:49.450 --> 00:33:51.519
  • And we've got some announcements.
  • 00:33:51.519 --> 00:33:54.255
  • We're kind of growing a little bit,
  • 00:33:54.255 --> 00:33:55.923
  • And we're gonna make that announcement here
  • 00:33:55.923 --> 00:33:57.492
  • Pretty soon in 2025, and all of that.
  • 00:33:57.492 --> 00:34:01.829
  • But listen, that was 32 years ago, okay.
  • 00:34:01.829 --> 00:34:05.666
  • So what's been inside of you, you know,
  • 00:34:05.666 --> 00:34:09.737
  • 32 years that, you know, we gave it a shot.
  • 00:34:09.737 --> 00:34:14.542
  • We did the best we could with what we had, joel.
  • 00:34:14.542 --> 00:34:17.178
  • We didn't have the best of anything really.
  • 00:34:17.178 --> 00:34:20.615
  • We just had a desire to get started
  • 00:34:20.615 --> 00:34:24.385
  • And at least we did that.
  • 00:34:24.385 --> 00:34:26.454
  • - you know, i think so much of this
  • 00:34:26.454 --> 00:34:28.156
  • Just comes down to my personal faith and belief in god.
  • 00:34:28.156 --> 00:34:31.859
  • - yeah. - sure.
  • 00:34:31.859 --> 00:34:33.027
  • - you know, in hebrews 13 it says,
  • 00:34:33.027 --> 00:34:35.997
  • "let your conduct be without covetousness.
  • 00:34:35.997 --> 00:34:39.433
  • Be content with such things as you have,
  • 00:34:39.433 --> 00:34:43.037
  • For he himself has said, 'i will never leave you,
  • 00:34:43.037 --> 00:34:47.808
  • Nor forsake you,' so we may boldly say,
  • 00:34:47.808 --> 00:34:52.213
  • 'the lord is my helper.'
  • 00:34:52.213 --> 00:34:54.916
  • I will not fear what can man do to me."
  • 00:34:54.916 --> 00:34:58.119
  • - that's so good. - and i think, god,
  • 00:34:58.119 --> 00:34:59.954
  • You know, the only way that we even please god is by faith.
  • 00:34:59.954 --> 00:35:03.257
  • - [joel] yeah.
  • 00:35:03.257 --> 00:35:04.659
  • - and so, if i have enough faith
  • 00:35:04.659 --> 00:35:07.094
  • To come boldly before abba father, my father,
  • 00:35:07.094 --> 00:35:12.033
  • And say, "god, you never leave me, you will not forsake me.
  • 00:35:12.033 --> 00:35:16.304
  • I will boldly say, 'you're here to help me.'"
  • 00:35:16.304 --> 00:35:19.507
  • And so i am going to believe big, i am going to believe
  • 00:35:19.507 --> 00:35:24.912
  • That those things that i can't see,
  • 00:35:25.646 --> 00:35:27.048
  • That there's impossible for me to do.
  • 00:35:27.048 --> 00:35:30.518
  • With you all things are possible.
  • 00:35:30.518 --> 00:35:33.654
  • And so i'm going to believe well,
  • 00:35:33.654 --> 00:35:35.723
  • I am going to be strong in my faith.
  • 00:35:35.723 --> 00:35:38.759
  • I'm going to be bold in my prayers
  • 00:35:38.759 --> 00:35:41.963
  • And just see what god would do for you.
  • 00:35:41.963 --> 00:35:44.498
  • You know, he says his eyes are searching.
  • 00:35:44.498 --> 00:35:46.801
  • He's looking for somebody who would reach out in faith.
  • 00:35:46.801 --> 00:35:51.305
  • The little lady with the issue of blood that said,
  • 00:35:51.305 --> 00:35:53.140
  • "you know what, i think that if i could just reach out
  • 00:35:53.140 --> 00:35:57.945
  • And touch the hem of his garment, i could be made whole."
  • 00:35:57.945 --> 00:36:01.983
  • She had a thought that all of my searching and my striving
  • 00:36:01.983 --> 00:36:07.455
  • And my sickness and my pain, if i could just reach out
  • 00:36:08.556 --> 00:36:13.527
  • And touch him somehow, that i could maybe be healed
  • 00:36:13.527 --> 00:36:19.700
  • If i did that.
  • 00:36:20.067 --> 00:36:21.469
  • You know, and then jesus turns around and says,
  • 00:36:21.469 --> 00:36:24.805
  • "whoa, who touched me?"
  • 00:36:24.805 --> 00:36:26.841
  • And i think that in these days, in the year of 2025,
  • 00:36:26.841 --> 00:36:31.379
  • That if the bible was be being written today,
  • 00:36:31.379 --> 00:36:34.815
  • Who would he be writing about?
  • 00:36:34.815 --> 00:36:36.417
  • - [joel] yeah.
  • 00:36:36.417 --> 00:36:37.685
  • - would it be that there was this little girl
  • 00:36:37.685 --> 00:36:40.187
  • Sitting in southern california right now
  • 00:36:40.187 --> 00:36:42.757
  • That is believing something
  • 00:36:42.757 --> 00:36:44.292
  • And i'm just gonna say a bold prayer,
  • 00:36:44.292 --> 00:36:46.327
  • "god, i think that if i just believe you for this,
  • 00:36:46.327 --> 00:36:49.930
  • That maybe this could happen for me."
  • 00:36:49.930 --> 00:36:52.233
  • That maybe god sitting on his throne would say,
  • 00:36:52.233 --> 00:36:54.969
  • "whoa. who touched me today?"
  • 00:36:54.969 --> 00:36:58.139
  • Right, because our faith is what,
  • 00:36:58.139 --> 00:37:01.175
  • I get bold when i talk about my faith.
  • 00:37:02.009 --> 00:37:05.780
  • That's kind of the only, and my kids. (chuckles)
  • 00:37:05.780 --> 00:37:09.884
  • My kids and my faith.
  • 00:37:09.884 --> 00:37:12.486
  • Because my faith is everything to me, right?
  • 00:37:12.486 --> 00:37:17.091
  • And so we can boldly say things, i think,
  • 00:37:17.091 --> 00:37:20.061
  • And i think that's what god loves.
  • 00:37:20.061 --> 00:37:22.530
  • Take the limits off of him.
  • 00:37:22.530 --> 00:37:24.198
  • He can do exceeding abundantly the impossible
  • 00:37:24.198 --> 00:37:28.703
  • That we can't even think of.
  • 00:37:28.703 --> 00:37:31.339
  • - i know.
  • 00:37:31.339 --> 00:37:32.606
  • That's so good, lori. i love that, lori.
  • 00:37:32.606 --> 00:37:34.375
  • I love that we can boldly say the lord is our helper.
  • 00:37:34.375 --> 00:37:37.078
  • I mean, there's so times through the scripture,
  • 00:37:37.078 --> 00:37:38.746
  • It's talking about that boldness.
  • 00:37:38.746 --> 00:37:40.047
  • And i think, you know,
  • 00:37:40.047 --> 00:37:42.149
  • Sometimes we can be lacking in some of that.
  • 00:37:42.149 --> 00:37:44.819
  • But that's what the book's about.
  • 00:37:44.819 --> 00:37:46.687
  • That's what we're discussing today.
  • 00:37:46.687 --> 00:37:48.689
  • Even in that story, lori,
  • 00:37:48.689 --> 00:37:50.324
  • I love that because there were other people
  • 00:37:50.324 --> 00:37:52.026
  • In the crowd that day that,
  • 00:37:52.026 --> 00:37:53.427
  • That probably bumped up against jesus.
  • 00:37:53.427 --> 00:37:55.529
  • - yeah. sure. - sure.
  • 00:37:55.529 --> 00:37:57.064
  • - but they didn't receive- - they didn't have the faith.
  • 00:37:57.064 --> 00:37:58.199
  • They didn't receive, yeah.
  • 00:37:58.199 --> 00:37:59.567
  • - they weren't releasing their faith and that lady,
  • 00:37:59.567 --> 00:38:01.402
  • What a bold prayer and a bold move to, you know,
  • 00:38:01.402 --> 00:38:04.472
  • What was it, 12 years she had been sick?
  • 00:38:04.472 --> 00:38:06.273
  • And she thought, man, i gotta stay at home.
  • 00:38:06.273 --> 00:38:07.808
  • I'm tired, i'm weak, and all this stuff.
  • 00:38:07.808 --> 00:38:09.777
  • But that's what we're saying in 2025,
  • 00:38:09.777 --> 00:38:12.246
  • Let's be the ones that reach out and touch and say,
  • 00:38:12.246 --> 00:38:14.215
  • "god, exceed my expectations.
  • 00:38:14.215 --> 00:38:16.517
  • God, show out strong in my life
  • 00:38:16.517 --> 00:38:18.619
  • So i can be a bigger blessing,
  • 00:38:18.619 --> 00:38:20.421
  • So i can help build the kingdom."
  • 00:38:20.421 --> 00:38:22.556
  • Really believe god wants to make his believers
  • 00:38:22.556 --> 00:38:25.226
  • Examples of what it means to follow christ,
  • 00:38:25.226 --> 00:38:28.095
  • An example of his goodness, and so i think.
  • 00:38:28.095 --> 00:38:31.265
  • - that's why, you know, matt,
  • 00:38:31.899 --> 00:38:32.700
  • You guys have seen tbn,
  • 00:38:32.700 --> 00:38:34.101
  • Y'all takin' it to a new level.
  • 00:38:34.101 --> 00:38:35.503
  • You're seeing merit street impacting the culture,
  • 00:38:35.503 --> 00:38:37.938
  • And believe, i love that, laurie.
  • 00:38:37.938 --> 00:38:39.940
  • God's looking, the eyes of the lord
  • 00:38:39.940 --> 00:38:42.009
  • Search to and fro to show himself strong.
  • 00:38:42.009 --> 00:38:44.211
  • And man, i wanna say,
  • 00:38:44.211 --> 00:38:45.446
  • "god, show yourself strong through me
  • 00:38:45.446 --> 00:38:46.614
  • To again, build the kingdom,
  • 00:38:46.614 --> 00:38:48.649
  • Not just to, not to build our kingdom,
  • 00:38:48.649 --> 00:38:50.684
  • But to be a blessing, to impact the culture.
  • 00:38:50.684 --> 00:38:53.988
  • That's what, you know, when you were saying that,
  • 00:38:53.988 --> 00:38:55.423
  • That resonated with me,
  • 00:38:55.423 --> 00:38:56.791
  • 'cause matt, as believers, you know,
  • 00:38:56.791 --> 00:38:58.759
  • We're supposed to have some kinda impact,
  • 00:38:58.759 --> 00:39:00.428
  • Whether it's- - yeah.
  • 00:39:00.428 --> 00:39:01.562
  • - you know, it's your work. - sure.
  • 00:39:01.562 --> 00:39:02.563
  • - you know, you can impact,
  • 00:39:02.563 --> 00:39:03.864
  • You can change, you can affect the atmosphere.
  • 00:39:03.864 --> 00:39:05.800
  • Everybody else is complaining, and dan,
  • 00:39:05.800 --> 00:39:07.501
  • You come in with,
  • 00:39:07.501 --> 00:39:08.669
  • (lauri laughs) "man, god is good.
  • 00:39:08.669 --> 00:39:09.637
  • It's gonna be a great year."
  • 00:39:09.637 --> 00:39:11.105
  • I mean, that's what we're called to do,
  • 00:39:11.105 --> 00:39:12.339
  • To make a difference, to, you know,
  • 00:39:12.339 --> 00:39:14.108
  • To impact the culture.
  • 00:39:14.108 --> 00:39:15.242
  • - you know, and something
  • 00:39:15.242 --> 00:39:16.544
  • That drives people is desperation.
  • 00:39:16.544 --> 00:39:20.614
  • - [joel] yeah.
  • 00:39:20.614 --> 00:39:21.582
  • - being desperate for something.
  • 00:39:21.582 --> 00:39:22.750
  • - [joel] yeah. - being desperate
  • 00:39:22.750 --> 00:39:23.484
  • For a change.
  • 00:39:23.484 --> 00:39:24.452
  • - [joel] yeah.
  • 00:39:24.452 --> 00:39:25.753
  • - being dissatisfied with the way things are
  • 00:39:25.753 --> 00:39:28.522
  • Is some of the best stuff
  • 00:39:28.522 --> 00:39:29.990
  • That could ever happen on the inside of us is,
  • 00:39:29.990 --> 00:39:32.693
  • I am not content with the way things are.
  • 00:39:32.693 --> 00:39:36.797
  • I am desperate for god to do something.
  • 00:39:36.797 --> 00:39:39.733
  • So let me
  • 00:39:39.733 --> 00:39:40.734
  • Pray something bold. - yeah.
  • 00:39:40.734 --> 00:39:42.670
  • - let me, i am in despair.
  • 00:39:42.670 --> 00:39:45.105
  • I'm dissatisfied with the way
  • 00:39:45.105 --> 00:39:47.074
  • I have seen things go in my life.
  • 00:39:47.074 --> 00:39:49.109
  • I am going to believe
  • 00:39:49.109 --> 00:39:50.311
  • For something better. - yeah, yeah.
  • 00:39:50.311 --> 00:39:51.712
  • - you know, so no matter where you are today,
  • 00:39:51.712 --> 00:39:53.514
  • If you feel like you're, i heard somebody say that,
  • 00:39:53.514 --> 00:39:56.183
  • "i never knew that god's," what, it was that
  • 00:39:56.183 --> 00:39:59.787
  • "the end of your rope had a basement."
  • 00:39:59.787 --> 00:40:01.455
  • (joel and laurie laughing)
  • 00:40:01.455 --> 00:40:02.857
  • Right? - that's good, yeah.
  • 00:40:02.857 --> 00:40:03.858
  • - so you might be
  • 00:40:03.858 --> 00:40:04.859
  • In that basement today. - yeah.
  • 00:40:04.859 --> 00:40:06.060
  • - that is god calling on your faith,
  • 00:40:06.060 --> 00:40:09.296
  • Just saying, "try me."
  • 00:40:09.296 --> 00:40:12.266
  • - that's good, i love that. - "try me, test me."
  • 00:40:12.266 --> 00:40:13.734
  • - that's so good, laurie,
  • 00:40:13.734 --> 00:40:14.869
  • Because that is a great motivator,
  • 00:40:14.869 --> 00:40:16.937
  • Is just being dissatisfied,
  • 00:40:16.937 --> 00:40:18.439
  • And i say it, you know,
  • 00:40:18.439 --> 00:40:20.107
  • Not settling for a life of mediocrity
  • 00:40:20.107 --> 00:40:22.142
  • When you know you have more in you.
  • 00:40:22.142 --> 00:40:23.878
  • - yeah. - or you're learning
  • 00:40:23.878 --> 00:40:24.812
  • To live with an addiction
  • 00:40:24.812 --> 00:40:26.046
  • Or live with, you know,
  • 00:40:26.046 --> 00:40:27.314
  • Just negative mentality or whatever it is,
  • 00:40:27.314 --> 00:40:29.650
  • Or living thinking that, "you know what?
  • 00:40:29.650 --> 00:40:31.819
  • I could never accomplish my dreams."
  • 00:40:31.819 --> 00:40:33.387
  • Well, this is the year to say,
  • 00:40:33.387 --> 00:40:34.655
  • "god, i've taken the limits off of you.
  • 00:40:34.655 --> 00:40:37.091
  • I'm not gonna just go another 10 years dissatisfied,
  • 00:40:37.091 --> 00:40:40.494
  • Just accepting mediocrity.
  • 00:40:40.494 --> 00:40:42.696
  • You have greatness in you.
  • 00:40:42.696 --> 00:40:43.998
  • - [laurie] yeah.
  • 00:40:43.998 --> 00:40:45.399
  • - god has put, you know, his dna in every one of us,
  • 00:40:45.399 --> 00:40:48.068
  • And you can rise higher.
  • 00:40:48.068 --> 00:40:49.737
  • You can set new standards for your family.
  • 00:40:49.737 --> 00:40:52.706
  • - [laurie] yeah.
  • 00:40:52.706 --> 00:40:53.541
  • - you know, god's call.
  • 00:40:53.541 --> 00:40:54.475
  • You wouldn't be hearing this
  • 00:40:54.475 --> 00:40:55.776
  • If god didn't want you to go to new levels.
  • 00:40:55.776 --> 00:40:57.311
  • And i believe it starts with, number one, honoring god,
  • 00:40:57.311 --> 00:40:59.613
  • But then taking the limits off of him.
  • 00:40:59.613 --> 00:41:02.249
  • Dare to him in your quiet time.
  • 00:41:02.249 --> 00:41:03.951
  • Pray some bold prayers.
  • 00:41:03.951 --> 00:41:05.886
  • You know, i pray all the time,
  • 00:41:05.886 --> 00:41:07.555
  • Lord, let my children supersede anything we've done.
  • 00:41:07.555 --> 00:41:10.925
  • Lord, let lakewood,
  • 00:41:10.925 --> 00:41:12.226
  • I pray this every morning.
  • 00:41:12.226 --> 00:41:13.561
  • Lord, let lakewood be a lighthouse of hope,
  • 00:41:13.561 --> 00:41:14.895
  • Hundreds of years from now.
  • 00:41:14.895 --> 00:41:16.430
  • I'm not even gonna be here.
  • 00:41:16.430 --> 00:41:17.998
  • I don't know what's gonna happen, but you know what?
  • 00:41:17.998 --> 00:41:18.999
  • I wanna release my faith, god.
  • 00:41:18.999 --> 00:41:20.134
  • - [laurie] yes.
  • 00:41:20.134 --> 00:41:21.335
  • - let it be a lighthouse of hope.
  • 00:41:21.335 --> 00:41:22.369
  • So, you know, my dad used to say,
  • 00:41:22.369 --> 00:41:24.672
  • "i'd rather pray big and miss it a little,
  • 00:41:24.672 --> 00:41:27.708
  • Than pray small and achieve it."
  • 00:41:27.708 --> 00:41:29.343
  • And i think that's sometimes what we do.
  • 00:41:29.343 --> 00:41:31.111
  • - you might as well shoot for the stars-
  • 00:41:31.111 --> 00:41:32.780
  • - yeah. - and hit the top
  • 00:41:32.780 --> 00:41:33.614
  • Of the mountain.
  • 00:41:33.614 --> 00:41:34.915
  • If you only shoot for the top of the mountain,
  • 00:41:34.915 --> 00:41:36.450
  • You might hit a telephone pole.
  • 00:41:36.450 --> 00:41:37.585
  • (laurie laughs)
  • 00:41:37.585 --> 00:41:38.419
  • - [joel] yeah.
  • 00:41:38.419 --> 00:41:39.720
  • - okay, first of all, it feels like joel and i
  • 00:41:39.720 --> 00:41:40.988
  • Got transported onto the set
  • 00:41:40.988 --> 00:41:42.456
  • Of the "better together," you know?
  • 00:41:42.456 --> 00:41:43.857
  • (laurie laughs) because you're,
  • 00:41:43.857 --> 00:41:45.292
  • And your eyes are flashing- - well and-
  • 00:41:45.292 --> 00:41:46.927
  • (joel laughs)
  • 00:41:46.927 --> 00:41:48.162
  • - and since you're wearing a green sweater,
  • 00:41:48.162 --> 00:41:50.497
  • Your eyes look green to me-
  • 00:41:50.497 --> 00:41:52.099
  • - they do? - instead of blue.
  • 00:41:52.099 --> 00:41:53.033
  • - yeah, it's really,
  • 00:41:53.033 --> 00:41:54.268
  • Really kind of bold. - i love, though,
  • 00:41:54.268 --> 00:41:55.469
  • The book has beautiful prayers in it.
  • 00:41:55.469 --> 00:41:57.304
  • - yeah. - so it helps you.
  • 00:41:57.304 --> 00:41:58.906
  • You might not, you know,
  • 00:41:58.906 --> 00:42:00.341
  • You might not feel like,
  • 00:42:00.341 --> 00:42:01.809
  • I love to have someone join their faith with mine.
  • 00:42:01.809 --> 00:42:05.245
  • It's like every time,
  • 00:42:05.245 --> 00:42:08.148
  • That i have talked to victoria about something,
  • 00:42:09.083 --> 00:42:12.686
  • We pray about it, and she prays.
  • 00:42:13.320 --> 00:42:17.091
  • And every time i have had that agreement.
  • 00:42:17.091 --> 00:42:22.663
  • - [joel] yeah.
  • 00:42:23.030 --> 00:42:23.998
  • - and i'll say with victoria,
  • 00:42:23.998 --> 00:42:26.066
  • Because so many times it's happened,
  • 00:42:26.066 --> 00:42:29.203
  • "man, things have been answered within days for me."
  • 00:42:29.203 --> 00:42:33.674
  • - [joel] mm.
  • 00:42:33.674 --> 00:42:34.942
  • - and it's just that agreement in prayer.
  • 00:42:34.942 --> 00:42:36.377
  • So sometimes, you know, we feel like,
  • 00:42:36.377 --> 00:42:38.746
  • "man, it feels like i'm just going against everything."
  • 00:42:38.746 --> 00:42:42.449
  • We want to join our faith with you today.
  • 00:42:42.449 --> 00:42:46.320
  • And in this book there are beautiful prayers
  • 00:42:46.320 --> 00:42:50.457
  • That joel has written.
  • 00:42:50.457 --> 00:42:53.460
  • And we can lend our faith-
  • 00:42:53.460 --> 00:42:55.996
  • - yeah. - to these prayers,
  • 00:42:55.996 --> 00:42:57.531
  • And add our faith to these prayers.
  • 00:42:57.531 --> 00:43:00.334
  • And i just think there's something powerful,
  • 00:43:00.334 --> 00:43:02.870
  • Powerful about that,
  • 00:43:02.870 --> 00:43:04.672
  • In believing with each other.
  • 00:43:04.672 --> 00:43:06.240
  • - [joel] yeah.
  • 00:43:06.240 --> 00:43:07.374
  • - you know, it's just-
  • 00:43:07.374 --> 00:43:10.244
  • - this. - we're better together.
  • 00:43:10.911 --> 00:43:12.246
  • I feel like we're- - we're always
  • 00:43:12.246 --> 00:43:13.380
  • Better together. - since you said it.
  • 00:43:13.380 --> 00:43:15.082
  • - [joel] i love that.
  • 00:43:15.082 --> 00:43:16.016
  • - i must, (laughs) i believe it.
  • 00:43:16.016 --> 00:43:19.053
  • - let me tell you a funny story.
  • 00:43:19.053 --> 00:43:20.621
  • I get in, laurie and i are in the parking lot
  • 00:43:20.621 --> 00:43:23.490
  • Of a grocery store.
  • 00:43:23.490 --> 00:43:25.125
  • All i need to do is go in
  • 00:43:25.125 --> 00:43:26.627
  • And go get some protein powder.
  • 00:43:26.627 --> 00:43:28.996
  • So she gets a.
  • 00:43:28.996 --> 00:43:30.664
  • - just says listen, i gotta call victoria anyway.
  • 00:43:31.699 --> 00:43:33.500
  • I'll call her and just sit in the car.
  • 00:43:33.500 --> 00:43:36.070
  • So i go in, and i'm in there maybe 10 minutes, come back,
  • 00:43:36.070 --> 00:43:41.408
  • And as soon as i get in the car, you know,
  • 00:43:42.309 --> 00:43:44.078
  • She's just talking 100 miles an hour, her and victoria,
  • 00:43:44.078 --> 00:43:47.047
  • And she goes, "yeah, he's back in the car now.
  • 00:43:47.047 --> 00:43:48.849
  • I'll call you back later." (all laughing)
  • 00:43:48.849 --> 00:43:51.485
  • So i have a feeling that-
  • 00:43:51.485 --> 00:43:53.020
  • - talk later. - victoria and laurie
  • 00:43:53.020 --> 00:43:55.322
  • Pray about us on occasion.
  • 00:43:55.322 --> 00:43:57.057
  • I have a feeling-
  • 00:43:57.057 --> 00:43:58.025
  • - that's a bold (indistinct).
  • 00:43:58.025 --> 00:43:59.960
  • - so i was feeling a little intimidated at that moment.
  • 00:43:59.960 --> 00:44:04.498
  • - yeah.
  • 00:44:04.765 --> 00:44:05.933
  • - "pray bold" is the brand new book.
  • 00:44:05.933 --> 00:44:09.169
  • It is available today, january 7th,
  • 00:44:09.169 --> 00:44:13.574
  • And so i'm still trying to figure out
  • 00:44:13.574 --> 00:44:15.476
  • What they were praying about in regard to us.
  • 00:44:15.476 --> 00:44:19.012
  • With reflections, questions, bold prayers.
  • 00:44:19.847 --> 00:44:21.982
  • - made me spit my tea across the room.
  • 00:44:21.982 --> 00:44:24.118
  • - and listen, i love, you know, one of the books
  • 00:44:25.052 --> 00:44:28.655
  • That we did, joel, called "praying grace."
  • 00:44:28.655 --> 00:44:31.492
  • - [joel] yeah.
  • 00:44:31.492 --> 00:44:32.826
  • - it was a tbn offer that we did
  • 00:44:33.460 --> 00:44:36.196
  • And we had that book created and written
  • 00:44:36.196 --> 00:44:39.166
  • And i loved that book and it's a lot like this
  • 00:44:39.166 --> 00:44:44.571
  • Because you have a prayer here when you need peace.
  • 00:44:45.572 --> 00:44:49.710
  • - [joel] yeah.
  • 00:44:50.077 --> 00:44:51.211
  • - when you need strength to endure.
  • 00:44:51.211 --> 00:44:52.146
  • - yeah. - and these,
  • 00:44:52.146 --> 00:44:53.847
  • "father, i thank you that you are my strength."
  • 00:44:53.847 --> 00:44:56.950
  • This isn't just, "hey, this is a good idea, do it."
  • 00:44:56.950 --> 00:45:00.354
  • It's also, you get to participate with it,
  • 00:45:00.354 --> 00:45:04.258
  • And you're welcome for that idea
  • 00:45:04.258 --> 00:45:06.794
  • Because "praying grace" was a really great offer.
  • 00:45:06.794 --> 00:45:09.696
  • - thank you.
  • 00:45:09.696 --> 00:45:11.064
  • - and i gave you one, victoria took it-
  • 00:45:11.064 --> 00:45:13.033
  • - thank you. - and now it's turned
  • 00:45:13.033 --> 00:45:14.868
  • Into this, this is fantastic, good job.
  • 00:45:14.868 --> 00:45:17.037
  • - that's our book.
  • 00:45:17.037 --> 00:45:17.938
  • (all laughing)
  • 00:45:17.938 --> 00:45:19.640
  • - so listen, we are just a couple of minutes away.
  • 00:45:19.640 --> 00:45:25.646
  • You know, paul, in 2 corinthians,
  • 00:45:26.346 --> 00:45:29.850
  • Talks about, "therefore, since we have such a hope
  • 00:45:30.818 --> 00:45:33.153
  • That we use great boldness of speech."
  • 00:45:33.153 --> 00:45:36.890
  • - yeah.
  • 00:45:36.890 --> 00:45:38.325
  • - what do you think he means if he's saying for us,
  • 00:45:38.325 --> 00:45:42.296
  • We do this sometimes, and for god sakes,
  • 00:45:42.296 --> 00:45:46.900
  • I don't know what people's problem is with this idea
  • 00:45:46.900 --> 00:45:52.272
  • That praying bold could be something
  • 00:45:53.073 --> 00:45:56.143
  • That god put in you when you were a little kid, you know?
  • 00:45:56.143 --> 00:45:59.179
  • - yeah. - that just something
  • 00:45:59.179 --> 00:46:00.881
  • In there that just, you know,
  • 00:46:00.881 --> 00:46:02.683
  • What defined your impressionable little kid?
  • 00:46:02.683 --> 00:46:08.021
  • You know, i remember thinking what it would be like
  • 00:46:09.089 --> 00:46:13.260
  • To run general motors when i was a little bitty kid.
  • 00:46:13.260 --> 00:46:16.864
  • - wow. - you know?
  • 00:46:16.864 --> 00:46:18.065
  • And these kind of things
  • 00:46:18.065 --> 00:46:21.869
  • 'cause my dad knew a lot about business.
  • 00:46:21.869 --> 00:46:24.504
  • He was a solid business guy,
  • 00:46:24.504 --> 00:46:27.441
  • But i didn't go to business school.
  • 00:46:28.208 --> 00:46:29.877
  • I didn't go to the wharton business school,
  • 00:46:29.877 --> 00:46:32.112
  • But i watched my dad over all these years,
  • 00:46:32.112 --> 00:46:34.982
  • Was in his boardroom a lot of my life,
  • 00:46:34.982 --> 00:46:37.584
  • And i've traveled to over 100 countries
  • 00:46:37.584 --> 00:46:40.654
  • And i believe that that's what god has done
  • 00:46:40.654 --> 00:46:45.993
  • So that this 2025, some of these things
  • 00:46:46.827 --> 00:46:50.364
  • That are 20, 30, 40 years old inside of you,
  • 00:46:50.364 --> 00:46:54.635
  • That's what i think praying bold is.
  • 00:46:54.635 --> 00:46:56.837
  • If you wanna ask what is something that's been a desire
  • 00:46:56.837 --> 00:46:59.873
  • Of your heart for all those years in your life that,
  • 00:46:59.873 --> 00:47:03.343
  • You know, you think of,
  • 00:47:03.343 --> 00:47:04.745
  • Who's that sweet little lady
  • 00:47:04.745 --> 00:47:06.146
  • That was a real phenomenon singer, but she was...
  • 00:47:06.146 --> 00:47:11.118
  • Tom newman introduced us to her.
  • 00:47:11.752 --> 00:47:13.553
  • We had her on "praise." - oh.
  • 00:47:13.553 --> 00:47:15.222
  • - what was her name?
  • 00:47:15.222 --> 00:47:16.123
  • I can't remember her name.
  • 00:47:16.123 --> 00:47:17.124
  • Susan boyle. - thanks, karen.
  • 00:47:17.124 --> 00:47:18.125
  • - so susan boyle, her story of,
  • 00:47:18.125 --> 00:47:22.195
  • You know, having zero, you know,
  • 00:47:22.195 --> 00:47:26.266
  • It going on in her singing thing,
  • 00:47:26.266 --> 00:47:28.468
  • Then all of a sudden she's on like, "i've got talent,"
  • 00:47:28.468 --> 00:47:31.138
  • Or something like that and next thing she knows,
  • 00:47:31.138 --> 00:47:32.239
  • She has a world number one album,
  • 00:47:32.239 --> 00:47:36.276
  • I mean, global number one album.
  • 00:47:36.276 --> 00:47:38.278
  • - [joel] yeah.
  • 00:47:38.278 --> 00:47:39.413
  • - and when you think of susan's life,
  • 00:47:39.413 --> 00:47:42.115
  • That she probably sang when she was a little bitty kid.
  • 00:47:42.115 --> 00:47:44.384
  • - [joel] yeah.
  • 00:47:44.384 --> 00:47:45.686
  • - she probably walked around the house singing
  • 00:47:45.686 --> 00:47:46.954
  • With a melody in her heart and, you know,
  • 00:47:46.954 --> 00:47:50.023
  • Life just didn't work out, or whatever.
  • 00:47:50.023 --> 00:47:53.827
  • She didn't have the boldness, let's say.
  • 00:47:53.827 --> 00:47:56.163
  • - [joel] yeah.
  • 00:47:56.163 --> 00:47:57.431
  • - and she walks out there in that stage
  • 00:47:57.431 --> 00:48:00.801
  • At that particular time,
  • 00:48:00.801 --> 00:48:02.135
  • And the next thing you know,
  • 00:48:02.135 --> 00:48:03.770
  • She's in the studio recording what will become
  • 00:48:03.770 --> 00:48:05.939
  • A global number one album
  • 00:48:05.939 --> 00:48:07.674
  • And that's the what is in you
  • 00:48:07.674 --> 00:48:12.612
  • That you're afraid to tell somebody else.
  • 00:48:12.612 --> 00:48:15.749
  • - yeah. - what is that?
  • 00:48:15.749 --> 00:48:17.384
  • That's what i think you're talking about,
  • 00:48:17.384 --> 00:48:19.086
  • That boldness deep, deep, deep, deep inside.
  • 00:48:19.086 --> 00:48:21.355
  • - it really is, matt.
  • 00:48:21.355 --> 00:48:22.856
  • I go back to that secret things that god has spoken to you
  • 00:48:22.856 --> 00:48:25.625
  • 'cause you know, it's like you said,
  • 00:48:25.625 --> 00:48:27.327
  • You may be embarrassed to tell somebody else,
  • 00:48:27.327 --> 00:48:29.863
  • But you don't have to be embarrassed to tell god,
  • 00:48:29.863 --> 00:48:32.299
  • Even in your quiet time,
  • 00:48:32.299 --> 00:48:33.767
  • And just, again, to take the limits,
  • 00:48:33.767 --> 00:48:35.836
  • I think sometimes we believe god has all this power,
  • 00:48:35.836 --> 00:48:40.140
  • But we discount ourselves like, you know,
  • 00:48:40.140 --> 00:48:42.542
  • He wouldn't use it through me,
  • 00:48:42.542 --> 00:48:43.777
  • Or, you know, that's gotta be somebody
  • 00:48:43.777 --> 00:48:45.012
  • In the bible or somebody else,
  • 00:48:45.012 --> 00:48:47.114
  • But you gotta believe you're equipped, you're empowered.
  • 00:48:47.114 --> 00:48:50.017
  • God is the one that put that desire in you.
  • 00:48:50.017 --> 00:48:52.352
  • He's looking for somebody
  • 00:48:52.352 --> 00:48:53.553
  • Like the lady laurie mentioned,
  • 00:48:53.553 --> 00:48:55.889
  • That'll reach out and say,
  • 00:48:55.889 --> 00:48:57.124
  • "i'm gonna touch the edge of his robe."
  • 00:48:57.124 --> 00:48:58.592
  • I'm gonna believe that god will do something unusual,
  • 00:48:58.592 --> 00:49:01.528
  • Uncommon, maybe something that's not happening
  • 00:49:01.528 --> 00:49:04.097
  • For all my relatives, but you know what?
  • 00:49:04.097 --> 00:49:05.732
  • God wants to show out in your own life,
  • 00:49:05.732 --> 00:49:07.467
  • So i do love that, matt, 'cause i saw that in my father too,
  • 00:49:07.467 --> 00:49:11.538
  • That, you know, we started in that little church
  • 00:49:11.538 --> 00:49:14.741
  • With 90 people, but i remember my dad believing
  • 00:49:14.741 --> 00:49:17.377
  • For a sanctuary for 1,000. - wow.
  • 00:49:17.377 --> 00:49:19.212
  • - we had to believe for the money.
  • 00:49:19.212 --> 00:49:20.914
  • I saw my dad would, you know,
  • 00:49:20.914 --> 00:49:23.250
  • I saw that modeled in my own life
  • 00:49:23.250 --> 00:49:24.951
  • So i had some of that in me,
  • 00:49:24.951 --> 00:49:27.421
  • But i don't believe everybody was raised like that.
  • 00:49:27.421 --> 00:49:29.523
  • Some people you've seen doubt.
  • 00:49:29.523 --> 00:49:31.024
  • - people pushing you down,
  • 00:49:31.591 --> 00:49:32.692
  • But you know, the enemy would love
  • 00:49:32.692 --> 00:49:33.627
  • To keep you from your greatness.
  • 00:49:33.627 --> 00:49:35.128
  • He'd love to keep you from your destiny.
  • 00:49:35.128 --> 00:49:36.930
  • But when you can stir up what god's put on the inside
  • 00:49:36.930 --> 00:49:40.167
  • And honor him with your life,
  • 00:49:40.167 --> 00:49:42.035
  • And again, you don't have to figure out
  • 00:49:42.035 --> 00:49:43.770
  • How it's gonna happen, all you have to do is believe.
  • 00:49:43.770 --> 00:49:46.573
  • You believe, god, i believe you can open this door
  • 00:49:46.573 --> 00:49:48.775
  • So i can go to college, i can get that scholarship,
  • 00:49:48.775 --> 00:49:51.778
  • Or god, i can start my company,
  • 00:49:51.778 --> 00:49:53.780
  • Or i can see my whole family serve you.
  • 00:49:53.780 --> 00:49:57.184
  • I love that again, laurie.
  • 00:49:57.184 --> 00:49:58.852
  • Don't get stuck in mediocrity.
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  • Know there's greater things.
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  • You wouldn't be alive
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  • Unless you had something greater in front of you.
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  • And this is important too.
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  • Somebody needs what you have.
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  • The world needs what you have.
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  • They need your smile, they need your gifts,
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  • They need your ingenuity.
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  • They need your talent.
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  • So to me, here at the start of the year,
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  • This is a time to say, god,
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  • I'm not just gonna coast through this year,
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  • You've been good to me,
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  • God's been good to us and good to the crouches,
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  • But, you know, god wants to...
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  • It says the path of the righteous
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  • Gets brighter and brighter.
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  • - [matt] there you go.
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  • - god wants to take you further.
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  • So let's believe, even guys, as it grows darker
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  • In the world in general,
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  • The scripture says it'll grow brighter in the church.
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  • So we're the ones that are supposed
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  • To shine brighter than ever during these times.
  • 00:50:42.462 --> 00:50:44.898
  • - before you pray
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  • And we've got about five minutes left,
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  • Let me tattletale on myself.
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  • Let me give you-- - oh, do tell.
  • 00:50:52.038 --> 00:50:53.140
  • - -this kind of pray bold thing,
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  • That under normal circumstances would be something
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  • That you wouldn't just do like in this kind of a setting.
  • 00:51:01.381 --> 00:51:06.253
  • And my dad in the last about six months of his life,
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  • He knew he had something
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  • And short of god's miracle, of course,
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  • But he just kind of slowly, kind of just dialed down.
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  • Congestive heart failure, just kind of,
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  • You just get weaker and weaker and you finally just pass
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  • And no pain and none of that.
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  • So we had a lot of conversations.
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  • And he told me something that he said,
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  • I've only probably shared this with your mom,
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  • And i just kept it, one of these bold things, you know?
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  • He was reading a scripture in the bible at some point
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  • About, i believe it was in isaiah
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  • And something about that they would have it
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  • Or that something would happen good for the israelis,
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  • That they would have them all
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  • Or have all of the land or something.
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  • It had reference in context to isaiah's time.
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  • But he said, i read that
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  • And he said, i'd read that scripture dozens of other times.
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  • All of a sudden, at that time,
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  • There was a thought that that connected to a vision
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  • That i had seen one time
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  • Of lights lit across all the cities of america,
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  • And he said, that made me think of tv stations.
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  • So he said, was god asking me
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  • To put a tv station in every city in america?
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  • Is that what was happening?
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  • I don't know.
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  • But he said, that was in my heart,
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  • And then i guess the first thing you hear is god,
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  • The second thing you hear is you,
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  • Third thing you hear is the devil.
  • 00:52:55.195 --> 00:52:57.631
  • - or vice versa. (laughing)
  • 00:52:58.198 --> 00:52:59.599
  • - so he said, then i thought, well, that's crazy,
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  • You can't put one in every...
  • 00:53:03.436 --> 00:53:05.438
  • And then the next thing is the devil probably said
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  • Something about how much money it costs.
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  • See?
  • 00:53:11.711 --> 00:53:13.113
  • So what if that's what god's asking us to do in 2025?
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  • What if we're being asked to do that?
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  • When you get that first crazy thought
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  • About something super bold, super big, that is impossible,
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  • That it's so inspiring for about a minute,
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  • And then it's like reason comes in
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  • And, oh, crud, i can't do that.
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  • - why not? - forget it.
  • 00:53:38.838 --> 00:53:40.440
  • - why not?
  • 00:53:40.440 --> 00:53:41.708
  • - at some point, i think god's asking us
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  • To jump on those sparks and let that ignite something in us.
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  • So pray for us that 2025, let's call it, is different,
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  • That we're in a new season that things can happen boldly
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  • Like this tie is bold.
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  • (laughing) - i love it.
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  • And /i get to do my book.
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  • Oh lord, thank you for this time with our tbn friends,
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  • Matt and laurie and all those viewing.
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  • Lord, i thank you, father, (mellow music)
  • 00:54:09.135 --> 00:54:10.570
  • That you are working in all of our lives,
  • 00:54:10.570 --> 00:54:12.539
  • And lord, as we start the new year off,
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  • Show us any areas where we're complacent,
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  • Where we're limiting you,
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  • Where we're settling for mediocrity,
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  • And lord, we commit, even now,
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  • We're gonna take the limits off,
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  • And lord, i just thank you
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  • That you'll bring those desires back
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  • That maybe you once put in our lives and our hearts,
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  • But we didn't ignite them,
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  • But lord, this is the time we're gonna fan the flame,
  • 00:54:33.059 --> 00:54:35.795
  • And i just speak faith into your people.
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  • I speak victory into your people.
  • 00:54:38.465 --> 00:54:39.899
  • - thank you, lord.
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  • - lord, i thank you for fresh vision
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  • And fresh attitudes, fresh momentum, fresh growth.
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  • Lord, i ask you as well to do what only you can do.
  • 00:54:47.207 --> 00:54:50.076
  • But lord, we've seen it in our own lives,
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  • But lord, we believe the best
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  • Is yet to come for your people.
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  • Those that are struggling with an illness,
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  • Lord, i thank you that the sickness
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  • Will begin to turn around,
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  • Healing and wholeness is coming, freedom from addictions,
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  • Chronic pain, depression, and anxiety.
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  • And lord, i just pray that you'll bring dreams to pass,
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  • Doing what only you can do.
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  • I pray it in the mighty name of jesus.
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  • Amen and amen.
  • 00:55:14.634 --> 00:55:15.935
  • - we agree and we pray bold in jesus' name.
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  • - in jesus' name. (upbeat music)
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  • - beautiful. we'll see you next time.
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  • Thank you, joel.
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