Mark Batterson: Breakthrough Starts With You | Praise

November 4, 2025 | 53:55

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  • Coming up tonight on praise...
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  • Everything in the kingdom of god takes longer than we would
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  • Like and is harder than we hoped for.
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  • Then the suddenly comes.
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  • Then god shows up and does something special.
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  • God is writing a bigger story.
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  • God is writing a better story.
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  • ♪♪
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  • Tonight on praise from dallas, pastor and best selling author
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  • Mark batterson.
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  • And now your hosts, matt and laurie crouch.
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  • It feels like life goes so fast.
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  • It feels like everything moves at the speed of light, at the
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  • Speed of social media.
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  • There are no news cycles anymore.
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  • It's instantaneous.
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  • Everything. and then comes along
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  • Something that will give you some hope,
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  • Gradually then suddenly.
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  • Okay. mark batterson might be one of my favorite authors on
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  • Planet earth.
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  • Where do you go with this?
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  • What do you want to do?
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  • What do you want to say?
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  • How do you want to start this conversation?
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  • Well, i maybe should start with the title itself.
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  • How did you go bankrupt?
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  • That's the question that ernest hemingway asked in a novel.
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  • And the infamous answer was two ways,
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  • Gradually then suddenly.
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  • Um, but i kind of flipped that script.
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  • And it's not just how you go bankrupt, right?
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  • It's how you get out of debt.
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  • It's how you start a business, write a book, run a marathon,
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  • And do a thousand other things.
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  • And how did those walls of jericho come down?
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  • Gradually then suddenly, you know,
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  • Pentecost, ten days in an upper room.
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  • Almost everything in the kingdom of god takes longer
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  • Than we would like and is harder than we hoped for.
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  • But then the suddenly comes.
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  • Then god shows up and does something special.
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  • And that that really.
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  • You guys, that's the story of my life.
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  • Took 13 years to write the first book.
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  • Uh, you know, we own and operate a coffee house and in
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  • Washington, d.c. called ebenezer's.
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  • I mean, that was five years of circling in prayer and to
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  • Turn that crackhouse into a coffee house.
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  • Um, nothing happens--
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  • Overnight success is an oxymoron.
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  • And i bet everybody listening right now, there's a dream
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  • But it hasn't happened yet.
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  • There's a goal, but it's still out there in the future.
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  • Uh, there's something that we're hoping for, dreaming for,
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  • Praying for.
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  • And i can almost guarantee i
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  • Know exactly how it's going to happen.
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  • It's going to happen two ways,
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  • Gradually then suddenly.
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  • And so we've got to fall in love with the gradually, with
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  • The long obedience in the same direction.
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  • I'm less and less enamored with 15 minutes of fame.
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  • I think god honors a lifetime of faithfulness.
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  • Yep.
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  • And that really is what this book is about.
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  • Matt always says you're a 30-year overnight sensation.
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  • Yeah. yes. and it's true.
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  • I think it was einstein that said you wouldn't call it
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  • Genius if you knew how many hours i had into this.
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  • Um, ebenezer's, crack house to coffee house.
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  • Yes.
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  • Uh, we visited you at that ebenezer's.
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  • We've got a little clip.
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  • Watch this.
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  • ♪♪
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  • Mark, why don't you explain kind of the connection between
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  • Coffee and jesus?
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  • So, you know, jesus didn't just hang out in a synagogue.
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  • Hung out at wells.
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  • Wells were natural gathering places in ancient culture.
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  • Coffee houses, they're postmodern wells.
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  • So instead of water, we serve coffee.
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  • And, uh, and in fact, i have a little formula.
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  • Holy spirit plus caffeine equals awesome.
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  • ♪♪
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  • So this is a ministry.
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  • It is in essence. yeah.
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  • If you're going into the coffeehouse business, uh, if
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  • You can't compete with starbucks, you need to stay out
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  • Of the game.
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  • You got to get it right.
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  • And, uh, and then it turns into a little bit of my, my
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  • Bookstore as well.
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  • Uh.
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  • We are in washington, d.c., behind me, mark batterson.
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  • There's a connection between a modern day well, and kind of
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  • What a coffeehouse is.
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  • Yeah, it's a
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  • Coffee shop here that is really, um, kind of an
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  • Extension of ncc.
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  • Your church here?
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  • Yeah. this is your thing.
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  • The church owns this.
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  • It's a business.
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  • It's operating.
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  • Is it profitable?
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  • Uh, it's very profitable.
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  • We're kitty corner from the largest office building
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  • In dc, which doesn't hurt business at all.
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  • And, uh, you know, we went into it knowing that i think you
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  • Ought to do business as mission
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  • And you ought to do it with excellence.
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  • And then we give every penny of profit to kingdom causes.
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  • And it's amazing.
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  • Cheers. yeah. yeah.
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  • Ebenezers right here in washington, dc.
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  • But you're talking about a process.
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  • So that was not an overnight success.
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  • And you're talking about this gradually then suddenly theme.
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  • Yes. matt, everything is created twice.
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  • The first creation, internal. second creation,
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  • External. first creation, in the imagination.
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  • Second creation,
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  • Some blood, sweat and tears.
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  • Uh, so i was walking by this crack house one day, and i felt
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  • Like god said this crack house
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  • Would make a great coffee house.
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  • But you have to really white knuckle a dream because we were
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  • Less than 100 people as a church, we didn't have the
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  • Money to buy it.
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  • But we circled it in prayer for five years.
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  • We discovered after four people offered more money for it than
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  • We did two of them real estate developers.
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  • We got it.
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  • And let me let me just kind of stand on the promise of god
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  • Right here.
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  • Um, matthew 18:18.
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  • [reading]
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  • Now, every prayer has to meet a two fold litmus test, has to be
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  • In the will of god and for the glory of god.
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  • And if it's not, it's a nonstarter.
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  • But if it is, come on, game on.
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  • And so i really believe god is preparing good works in advance,
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  • Ephesians 2:10, he who began a good work,
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  • Philippians 1:6, will carry it to completion.
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  • Um, but it's going to happen gradually then suddenly.
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  • Why does the lord put us through that
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  • Grist mill of gradually?
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  • Yeah, well, the obstacle is not the enemy.
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  • I think the obstacle is the way.
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  • I mean, that's-- god--
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  • You can't spell testimony without the first four letters.
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  • You got to pass the test.
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  • And so, uh, you know, if we were to share some war stories
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  • Or some of the failures that we've been through, even our
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  • First attempt at church planting was a was a failure.
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  • But i look back on it and i'm like, thank you, lord.
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  • Um, because cure for the fear of failure is not success.
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  • It's failure in small enough doses that you build up an
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  • Immunity to it, and you discover that there's a god
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  • That's right there to pick you up, dust you off, and give you
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  • A second chance.
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  • So i think those hard things that we go through, god is
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  • Developing being perseverance and persistence.
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  • And it is--
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  • You need some resistance training.
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  • Yeah, just like the gym.
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  • Uh, spiritually speaking, this is how god prepares us.
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  • And, uh, it's part of the process.
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  • But you started the church.
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  • You knew god told you to start the church.
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  • God told you-- yes.
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  • This would be a great coffee shop.
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  • Coffee house. yep.
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  • So, you know you're stepping out in faith.
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  • Yes. and you're still having to stand in your believing god,
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  • Even though sometimes it looks like a failure to man.
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  • Yes. right?
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  • How do we get through those places where, man, i
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  • Wouldn't change-- even if ebenezers had to close his
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  • House or close the doors--
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  • Yep. god told you to do it.
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  • Yeah.
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  • So in man's eyes, it looks like it failed.
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  • But you still did what god told you so obedient.
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  • Failure in enough small doses is like an immunity
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  • Builder so that you'll continue to go forward.
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  • Yeah. good job.
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  • And there you go.
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  • Where'd you get that from?
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  • He just said it just a second ago.
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  • I just repeated, mark.
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  • You, the two of you need to hang out more.
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  • You wouldn't change it for the world, would you?
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  • No, because nine times out of ten, failure is poorly-managed
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  • Success and success is well-managed failure.
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  • So it really is taking a learning posture towards life,
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  • A growth mindset and kind of what have you
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  • Come to teach me?
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  • Um, and, and then you just kind of learn along the way and, and
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  • Count it all joy.
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  • Yeah. um, you know, it really is just--
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  • Well, what did they say?
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  • That a black belt is a white belt
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  • Who never gave up.
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  • Yeah. you know, it's just there's kind of a sanctified,
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  • Stubborn streak that you have to stick with things and not
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  • Not give up on it.
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  • Now, if god has released you,
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  • Then you need to let go and let god.
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  • But if he hasn't released you, i mean, you guys, there are
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  • Miracles, including the healing of my asthma after 40 years
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  • That i just never felt released.
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  • I'm going to keep believing for that promise.
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  • And july 2nd, 2016 i haven't touched an inhaler from that
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  • Day to this day, but it was hundreds of, hundreds of
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  • Prayers over four decades.
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  • But that's where like, i think a lot of this stuff is just
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  • Past our pay grade.
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  • Um, you know, i say to our church all the time, as soon as
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  • I'm omniscient, i'll let you know.
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  • But i wouldn't hold your breath.
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  • There are things that are past my pay grade.
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  • In a world obsessed with instant success, mark batterson
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  • Reminds us that god often works gradually,
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  • Then suddenly.
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  • Everything in the kingdom of god takes longer than we would
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  • Like and is harder than we hoped for.
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  • Then the suddenly comes.
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  • Then god shows up and does something special.
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  • From the author of the circle maker and chase the lion comes
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  • A powerful new message about patience, perseverance, and
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  • Faith in the waiting.
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  • We've got to fall in love with the
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  • Gradually, with the long
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  • Obedience in the same direction.
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  • I'm less and less enamored with 15 minutes of fame.
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  • I think god honors a lifetime of faithfulness.
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  • And that really is what this book is about.
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  • Through stories of miracles, setbacks, and second chances,
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  • Mark shows how every delay is divine preparation and that god
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  • Works all things for good to those who love him.
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  • The obstacle is the way.
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  • You can't spell testimony without the first four letters.
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  • You got to pass the test.
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  • The goal isn't what you can achieve from your own will.
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  • It's who you become while trusting in god's timing.
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  • The goal of accomplishing a
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  • Goal is not accomplishing the goal.
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  • It's who you become--
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  • There it is in the process.
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  • Am i becoming more and more like jesus?
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  • Gradually then suddenly. we're going to get into this.
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  • It's just such a
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  • Important topic right now because everyone's looking for
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  • The suddenly, you know, instantaneous, this immediate
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  • Knowledge at our fingertips now
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  • Through our smartphones. everything--
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  • There are no news cycles anymore.
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  • There used to be news cycles.
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  • Now it's just,
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  • I mean, it's just instantaneous knowledge.
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  • Immediate. everything is right now.
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  • And that is counterintuitive to the kingdom
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  • Of god that we live in.
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  • Yes. everything in the kingdom is--
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  • Look, i'm going to say gradually, you know. i mean, it
  • 00:13:37.296 --> 00:13:40.633
  • Just has to-- you have to walk.
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  • There are no shortcuts in the kingdom.
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  • And so everybody-- it's hard for us to crash these two
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  • Things into each other because it feels like the natural world
  • 00:13:51.977 --> 00:13:56.882
  • Works this way, and the spiritual kingdom and world
  • 00:13:56.882 --> 00:14:00.085
  • Works this way.
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  • And we have to navigate that.
  • 00:14:01.453 --> 00:14:03.322
  • And then meanwhile, somebody
  • 00:14:03.322 --> 00:14:06.625
  • Over on the world side is succeeding.
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  • And you think you're a failure because of that, and you know
  • 00:14:08.994 --> 00:14:11.764
  • It instantly because they have this and you don't.
  • 00:14:11.764 --> 00:14:15.734
  • And man, uh, you talk about a book that's kind of needed,
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  • You're you're really addressing this subject.
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  • And so take your liberty. do a little bit of teaching.
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  • Where do you want to-- you know, i mean, look, one of the
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  • Subtitles here, uh, how to dream bigger, decide bigger,
  • 00:14:29.715 --> 00:14:33.285
  • And leave a lasting legacy.
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  • I love your-- give your definition of legacy.
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  • It's beautiful.
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  • Legacy is not what you accomplish.
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  • Legacy is what others accomplish because of you.
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  • Yeah. and you're living examples of that, aren't you?
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  • We just--
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  • I had the joy of seeing a few old pictures.
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  • Yeah. and those old pictures are tell a story of long
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  • Obedience in the same direction.
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  • We drink from wells we didn't dig.
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  • Yeah, we eat from fields
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  • We didn't plant.
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  • We live in houses we didn't build.
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  • So i think, um,
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  • Yeah, the maybe best example biblically is elijah who--
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  • I mean, come on, challenged 450 prophets of baal and kind
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  • Of wins the superbowl, so to speak.
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  • Yeah. um, 14 recorded miracles, and then he gave his
  • 00:15:21.266 --> 00:15:26.905
  • Mantle to a guy named elisha and elisha, 28 miracles.
  • 00:15:26.905 --> 00:15:34.913
  • And you could say, well, elisha one-upped his spiritual father.
  • 00:15:34.913 --> 00:15:40.119
  • And i would say, no, no, no.
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  • Elijah gets partial credit for each and every miracle.
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  • Yeah. um, i, you know, i love
  • 00:15:45.657 --> 00:15:47.993
  • To tell stories, and i love history.
  • 00:15:47.993 --> 00:15:50.896
  • One of my favorites in the book.
  • 00:15:50.896 --> 00:15:52.698
  • I wonder if i can-- i bet i can do this in 60 seconds.
  • 00:15:52.698 --> 00:15:56.702
  • Um, have you ever heard of norman borlaug?
  • 00:15:56.702 --> 00:16:01.306
  • Like, no, that is not a household name
  • 00:16:01.306 --> 00:16:03.909
  • Because agronomists fly under the radar.
  • 00:16:03.909 --> 00:16:07.613
  • They they aren't, you know, they aren't famous people.
  • 00:16:07.613 --> 00:16:10.949
  • But he won a nobel prize in 1970.
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  • Uh, stick with me.
  • 00:16:13.819 --> 00:16:15.154
  • He was, uh, credited with saving a billion lives.
  • 00:16:15.154 --> 00:16:20.192
  • And none of us know his name.
  • 00:16:20.192 --> 00:16:22.594
  • But before you go and give
  • 00:16:23.162 --> 00:16:25.064
  • Norman borlaug all of the credit,
  • 00:16:25.064 --> 00:16:27.199
  • Well, it was henry wallace, a former vice president who had
  • 00:16:27.199 --> 00:16:30.869
  • The foresight to create a research station in mexico,
  • 00:16:30.869 --> 00:16:36.842
  • Which is where borlaug developed a hybridized, disease
  • 00:16:36.842 --> 00:16:42.081
  • Resistant wheat that would save those billion lives.
  • 00:16:42.081 --> 00:16:45.884
  • And so i would say henry
  • 00:16:45.884 --> 00:16:47.219
  • Wallace deserves some partial credit.
  • 00:16:47.219 --> 00:16:48.687
  • But wait, i'll throw one more in.
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  • You ever heard of george washington carver?
  • 00:16:51.056 --> 00:16:53.392
  • Man, myth and legend.
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  • One of my favorites.
  • 00:16:54.626 --> 00:16:55.461
  • His pictures right behind my desk.
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  • Uh, the first black student at iowa state, uh, university.
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  • First faculty member there.
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  • Guess what?
  • 00:17:06.572 --> 00:17:07.873
  • He had, a professor named henry wallace senior, and he used to
  • 00:17:07.873 --> 00:17:13.245
  • Take a little henry wallace on botanical expeditions.
  • 00:17:13.245 --> 00:17:17.783
  • He'd hold his little hand, walk him through the woods.
  • 00:17:17.783 --> 00:17:20.986
  • And that's where henry wallace said he fell in love with
  • 00:17:20.986 --> 00:17:25.290
  • God's creation.
  • 00:17:25.290 --> 00:17:27.092
  • And so i would say george
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  • Washington carver gets partial credit.
  • 00:17:28.794 --> 00:17:31.330
  • We could play this game all day long.
  • 00:17:31.330 --> 00:17:33.866
  • And guess what?
  • 00:17:33.866 --> 00:17:34.933
  • I think we will in heaven, right?
  • 00:17:34.933 --> 00:17:37.269
  • I think we'll have an opportunity around that
  • 00:17:37.269 --> 00:17:40.539
  • Marriage supper of the lamb.
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  • It's going to be a big table.
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  • We're going to have an opportunity to thank people
  • 00:17:43.976 --> 00:17:47.279
  • That we won't know on this side of eternity.
  • 00:17:47.279 --> 00:17:50.115
  • But it was their mustard seed of faith that made a difference
  • 00:17:50.115 --> 00:17:54.520
  • In our lives.
  • 00:17:54.520 --> 00:17:55.988
  • Okay.
  • 00:17:56.221 --> 00:17:57.523
  • Gradually then suddenly.
  • 00:17:58.023 --> 00:18:00.559
  • Gradually seems counterintuitive because,
  • 00:18:00.559 --> 00:18:03.195
  • You know, the world that i grew up in,
  • 00:18:03.195 --> 00:18:05.898
  • The lord's coming back tomorrow afternoon.
  • 00:18:05.898 --> 00:18:08.367
  • Right. so we've got to hurry up and get souls saved.
  • 00:18:08.367 --> 00:18:11.503
  • We've got to get everything done.
  • 00:18:11.503 --> 00:18:13.238
  • So there's this natural piece of the world we live in that
  • 00:18:13.238 --> 00:18:18.744
  • Wants to see success.
  • 00:18:18.744 --> 00:18:20.479
  • And what is success?
  • 00:18:20.946 --> 00:18:22.814
  • People coming into the kingdom, right?
  • 00:18:22.814 --> 00:18:25.050
  • Or is it?
  • 00:18:25.050 --> 00:18:25.884
  • You know, i mean, so, you know--
  • 00:18:25.884 --> 00:18:27.653
  • Well, i mean, that's part of it.
  • 00:18:27.653 --> 00:18:29.421
  • Certainly, but there was a conversation laurie and i
  • 00:18:29.421 --> 00:18:33.058
  • Were having recently where, you know,
  • 00:18:33.058 --> 00:18:35.827
  • We were wanting to do our part.
  • 00:18:35.827 --> 00:18:38.530
  • We were called and we were in the movie business and but at a
  • 00:18:38.530 --> 00:18:42.434
  • Certain time, we were having to sell a car to make payroll.
  • 00:18:42.434 --> 00:18:45.204
  • And we were doing this and scrambling around, and laurie
  • 00:18:45.204 --> 00:18:49.608
  • Said, just one exasperatedly one time to the lord,
  • 00:18:49.608 --> 00:18:53.445
  • Um, if you wouldn't make us scramble around and let me give
  • 00:18:53.445 --> 00:18:57.316
  • You the definition of scramble around, sell cars to make
  • 00:18:57.316 --> 00:19:00.819
  • Payroll, if you would just solve our problems, just just
  • 00:19:00.819 --> 00:19:04.823
  • Fund us, lord.
  • 00:19:04.823 --> 00:19:05.791
  • Yes. look, we just need the funding, okay?
  • 00:19:05.791 --> 00:19:08.126
  • Okay, so just do the funding, and then we'll go do
  • 00:19:08.126 --> 00:19:10.162
  • All this stuff for you.
  • 00:19:10.162 --> 00:19:11.997
  • And the lord said, don't think about it that way.
  • 00:19:11.997 --> 00:19:15.400
  • It's not what you do for me that counts.
  • 00:19:15.400 --> 00:19:17.703
  • It's what i do in you. yes.
  • 00:19:17.703 --> 00:19:20.272
  • So there's this weird kind of double edged sword between our
  • 00:19:20.272 --> 00:19:26.044
  • Brains saying, we've got to get ebenezers on, and god's got to
  • 00:19:26.044 --> 00:19:29.982
  • Do something in you. yes.
  • 00:19:29.982 --> 00:19:31.683
  • So there's always these weird, you know, levels of different
  • 00:19:31.683 --> 00:19:35.854
  • Chemicals going on on the inside that's creating this
  • 00:19:35.854 --> 00:19:39.558
  • Brew that only god knows.
  • 00:19:39.558 --> 00:19:41.393
  • Yes. yeah.
  • 00:19:41.393 --> 00:19:42.394
  • So help, help mix that around a little bit.
  • 00:19:42.394 --> 00:19:46.098
  • Help us understand those two different kind of things.
  • 00:19:46.098 --> 00:19:48.867
  • Yeah, well, god generally doesn't do things on my watch.
  • 00:19:48.867 --> 00:19:54.239
  • You know,
  • 00:19:54.239 --> 00:19:55.574
  • I, uh, i've learned to trust his timing in that, but it's
  • 00:19:56.708 --> 00:20:00.045
  • Hard to trust his timing.
  • 00:20:00.045 --> 00:20:01.813
  • That's important.
  • 00:20:01.813 --> 00:20:03.115
  • You can read the story of worry of abraham in 25 minutes, but
  • 00:20:03.115 --> 00:20:06.451
  • It took 25 years for abraham and sarah to then experience
  • 00:20:06.451 --> 00:20:11.056
  • The promise named isaac.
  • 00:20:11.056 --> 00:20:12.758
  • You can read the story of joseph in 13 minutes, but it
  • 00:20:12.758 --> 00:20:16.395
  • Was 13 years from the prison to the palace.
  • 00:20:16.395 --> 00:20:20.832
  • I mean, even the genealogies, i know some people are
  • 00:20:20.832 --> 00:20:24.636
  • Like, just skip right over the genealogies.
  • 00:20:24.636 --> 00:20:27.472
  • I love the genealogies because
  • 00:20:27.472 --> 00:20:30.776
  • There's so many lessons in there.
  • 00:20:30.776 --> 00:20:32.477
  • Number one, god's writing,
  • 00:20:32.477 --> 00:20:34.880
  • Always writing a bigger story. i mean, i'll throw another one.
  • 00:20:34.880 --> 00:20:37.716
  • You never know who's in your womb, right?
  • 00:20:37.716 --> 00:20:39.751
  • That you never know the
  • 00:20:39.751 --> 00:20:41.687
  • Story god's writing.
  • 00:20:41.687 --> 00:20:43.021
  • And so even one verse, like the first verse, matthew 1:2,
  • 00:20:43.021 --> 00:20:47.526
  • Abraham, isaac, jacob, that's 502 years of history.
  • 00:20:47.526 --> 00:20:51.129
  • So what we want sometimes is, in two years
  • 00:20:51.129 --> 00:20:55.000
  • What took our parents 20 years.
  • 00:20:55.000 --> 00:20:56.902
  • Yeah. and i think that's where we have to be careful, because
  • 00:20:56.902 --> 00:21:00.472
  • The goal of accomplishing a
  • 00:21:00.472 --> 00:21:02.007
  • Goal is not accomplishing the goal.
  • 00:21:02.007 --> 00:21:04.576
  • It's who you become--
  • 00:21:04.576 --> 00:21:06.745
  • There it is. --in the process.
  • 00:21:06.745 --> 00:21:08.513
  • Am i becoming more and more like jesus?
  • 00:21:08.513 --> 00:21:11.850
  • And, um, patience is one of those, uh, fruit of the spirit.
  • 00:21:11.850 --> 00:21:17.389
  • Can i tell you a fun story? please.
  • 00:21:17.389 --> 00:21:19.758
  • Eugene peterson, who did the message paraphrase shortly
  • 00:21:19.758 --> 00:21:25.797
  • Before he passed,
  • 00:21:25.797 --> 00:21:27.366
  • So he would have been mid 80s, uh, was in a gathering and
  • 00:21:27.366 --> 00:21:32.037
  • He was kind of sharing stories.
  • 00:21:32.037 --> 00:21:34.272
  • And we were there to honor his life and legacy, 30 years
  • 00:21:34.272 --> 00:21:37.476
  • Pastoring, 30 books.
  • 00:21:37.476 --> 00:21:39.144
  • And he tells a story about being in his, uh, at his
  • 00:21:39.144 --> 00:21:42.347
  • Montana lake cabin, and he's watching a kingfisher fish.
  • 00:21:42.347 --> 00:21:47.185
  • Um, and as the name suggests,
  • 00:21:47.185 --> 00:21:49.388
  • They're the best at catching fish.
  • 00:21:49.388 --> 00:21:51.123
  • It's a bird.
  • 00:21:51.123 --> 00:21:52.190
  • Eugene-- it's a bird. it's a bird.
  • 00:21:52.190 --> 00:21:55.160
  • Um, and eugene says, i counted the number of times,
  • 00:21:55.160 --> 00:22:01.066
  • He said it took 37 tries for the kingfisher to catch a fish.
  • 00:22:01.066 --> 00:22:06.271
  • And he's the kingfisher.
  • 00:22:06.271 --> 00:22:08.206
  • And then he paused, and then he paused and he said, how many
  • 00:22:08.206 --> 00:22:12.544
  • Times have you tried?
  • 00:22:12.544 --> 00:22:14.379
  • Ooh. and it was convicting. wow.
  • 00:22:14.379 --> 00:22:17.082
  • And he's not just talking the talk.
  • 00:22:17.082 --> 00:22:19.851
  • Did you know his first book, a long obedience in the same
  • 00:22:19.851 --> 00:22:23.722
  • Direction, was rejected by 17 publishers.
  • 00:22:23.722 --> 00:22:28.326
  • They said-- one of them said it's irrelevant to the
  • 00:22:28.326 --> 00:22:33.398
  • Contemporary north american christian.
  • 00:22:33.398 --> 00:22:35.567
  • And it comes right back to--
  • 00:22:35.567 --> 00:22:37.669
  • That was his point. but go ahead.
  • 00:22:37.669 --> 00:22:39.438
  • We want, you know, we want yesterday what it's going
  • 00:22:39.438 --> 00:22:44.609
  • To take some time.
  • 00:22:44.609 --> 00:22:46.178
  • We plant in water but god gives the increase.
  • 00:22:46.178 --> 00:22:50.182
  • Yeah. the name paul bilheimer, uh, he was an author.
  • 00:22:50.182 --> 00:22:55.654
  • He was a contemporary, uh, um, kind of a kind of
  • 00:22:55.654 --> 00:23:02.227
  • Father figure around here at tbn in the 80s.
  • 00:23:02.227 --> 00:23:05.497
  • So he was many, many years older than my mom and dad.
  • 00:23:05.497 --> 00:23:09.468
  • He wrote a book called destined for the throne, and it was--
  • 00:23:09.468 --> 00:23:14.673
  • The theme there, mark, is many things in life will never,
  • 00:23:14.673 --> 00:23:19.811
  • Ever, ever make sense until you stretch the timeline back
  • 00:23:19.811 --> 00:23:24.683
  • And include eternity. yes.
  • 00:23:24.683 --> 00:23:27.919
  • See? because if it's not what the goal to get the goal done,
  • 00:23:27.919 --> 00:23:33.425
  • To get the goal done.
  • 00:23:33.425 --> 00:23:34.593
  • But what happens inside of you?
  • 00:23:34.593 --> 00:23:36.461
  • Because we're the eternal thing.
  • 00:23:36.461 --> 00:23:38.630
  • Yes, we are on--
  • 00:23:38.630 --> 00:23:40.565
  • According to paul bilheimer, we
  • 00:23:40.565 --> 00:23:42.234
  • Are on-the-job training now for eternity.
  • 00:23:42.234 --> 00:23:48.039
  • Yes.
  • 00:23:48.039 --> 00:23:49.241
  • Okay. how else are we going to
  • 00:23:49.241 --> 00:23:50.909
  • Learn this stuff but to have to endure?
  • 00:23:50.909 --> 00:23:54.613
  • How are we going to learn this stuff?
  • 00:23:54.613 --> 00:23:57.048
  • If god was present in our realm--
  • 00:23:57.048 --> 00:24:00.986
  • And i understand he's omnipresent,
  • 00:24:00.986 --> 00:24:04.222
  • So he is. we just can't see it.
  • 00:24:04.222 --> 00:24:05.757
  • We can't sense it or whatever,
  • 00:24:05.757 --> 00:24:07.058
  • However that works,
  • 00:24:07.058 --> 00:24:08.260
  • Then we would never have to use faith again.
  • 00:24:09.160 --> 00:24:13.598
  • That's our only advantage.
  • 00:24:13.598 --> 00:24:14.966
  • Think of this. the only new experience god ever has in a
  • 00:24:14.966 --> 00:24:18.904
  • Day is when a person acts by faith.
  • 00:24:18.904 --> 00:24:21.673
  • Wow. that's the only new experience.
  • 00:24:21.673 --> 00:24:23.341
  • Wow. wow.
  • 00:24:23.341 --> 00:24:24.743
  • Okay. yeah.
  • 00:24:24.743 --> 00:24:25.977
  • So when you take this gradual setting and you talk about
  • 00:24:25.977 --> 00:24:30.582
  • Building something deeper and you could play that game back
  • 00:24:30.582 --> 00:24:34.219
  • Behind george washington carver and then back behind him and
  • 00:24:34.219 --> 00:24:37.422
  • Back behind him and back.
  • 00:24:37.422 --> 00:24:38.690
  • Yeah.
  • 00:24:38.690 --> 00:24:39.658
  • Well, it's going to go the other way too
  • 00:24:39.658 --> 00:24:41.326
  • And include eternity.
  • 00:24:41.326 --> 00:24:42.861
  • We're god's creation that are going to be with him forever.
  • 00:24:42.861 --> 00:24:46.298
  • Yeah. and as those who follow jesus and bible is final
  • 00:24:46.298 --> 00:24:54.039
  • Authority in matters of faith and doctrine,
  • 00:24:54.039 --> 00:24:56.775
  • Like we, we don't believe in happily ever after.
  • 00:24:56.775 --> 00:25:02.447
  • We believe in something bigger
  • 00:25:02.447 --> 00:25:04.516
  • And better, happily, forever after.
  • 00:25:04.516 --> 00:25:06.952
  • And so the multi-variable calculus that is faith doesn't
  • 00:25:06.952 --> 00:25:12.657
  • Make sense without eternity.
  • 00:25:12.657 --> 00:25:14.793
  • Solomon said, god has set eternity in the heart.
  • 00:25:14.793 --> 00:25:19.397
  • And so really, what we need to do is play the long game.
  • 00:25:19.397 --> 00:25:23.234
  • And at the end of the day, like, what do we want?
  • 00:25:23.234 --> 00:25:27.172
  • We want to hear well done, good and faithful servant.
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  • By the way, can i just while we're on the subject, he's not
  • 00:25:30.208 --> 00:25:33.044
  • Going to say, well said and he's not going to say well
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  • Thought, well planned.
  • 00:25:35.814 --> 00:25:37.315
  • Not not even well posted.
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  • Well done, good and faithful servant.
  • 00:25:39.985 --> 00:25:43.021
  • So i think what we need to do is really have an understanding
  • 00:25:43.021 --> 00:25:48.226
  • The way that god's working.
  • 00:25:48.226 --> 00:25:49.794
  • And what's interesting is we live our lives forward.
  • 00:25:49.794 --> 00:25:53.064
  • God's working backwards.
  • 00:25:53.064 --> 00:25:54.866
  • He's prepared good works in advance.
  • 00:25:54.866 --> 00:25:57.636
  • And so all the days ordained for us were written in
  • 00:25:57.636 --> 00:26:02.073
  • His book before one of them came to be.
  • 00:26:02.073 --> 00:26:04.175
  • And so i just i hope everybody that's listening, watching
  • 00:26:04.175 --> 00:26:07.479
  • Right now, like, come on, let's live with the sense of destiny
  • 00:26:07.479 --> 00:26:11.816
  • That okay, like in my heart, i planned my course.
  • 00:26:11.816 --> 00:26:16.721
  • John chancellor said, if you want to make god laugh,
  • 00:26:16.721 --> 00:26:18.890
  • Tell him your plans.
  • 00:26:18.890 --> 00:26:20.291
  • You know, our plans usually don't work.
  • 00:26:20.291 --> 00:26:22.060
  • But god is ordering our footsteps, and i try--
  • 00:26:22.060 --> 00:26:27.165
  • He's really good at getting us, um, in the right place with the
  • 00:26:27.165 --> 00:26:31.469
  • Right people at the right time.
  • 00:26:31.469 --> 00:26:32.937
  • In a world obsessed with instant success, mark batterson
  • 00:26:32.937 --> 00:26:36.374
  • Reminds us that god often works gradually,
  • 00:26:36.374 --> 00:26:38.943
  • Then suddenly.
  • 00:26:38.943 --> 00:26:40.211
  • Everything in the kingdom of god takes longer than we would
  • 00:26:40.211 --> 00:26:44.516
  • Like and is harder than we hoped for.
  • 00:26:44.516 --> 00:26:47.352
  • Then the suddenly comes.
  • 00:26:47.352 --> 00:26:49.120
  • Then god shows up and does something special.
  • 00:26:49.120 --> 00:26:53.024
  • From the author of the circle maker and chase the lion comes
  • 00:26:53.024 --> 00:26:56.261
  • A powerful new message about patience, perseverance, and
  • 00:26:56.261 --> 00:27:00.065
  • Faith in the waiting.
  • 00:27:00.065 --> 00:27:01.332
  • We've got to fall in love with the gradually, with the long
  • 00:27:01.332 --> 00:27:05.136
  • Obedience in the same direction.
  • 00:27:05.136 --> 00:27:07.205
  • I'm less and less enamored with 15 minutes of fame.
  • 00:27:07.205 --> 00:27:11.309
  • I think god honors a lifetime of faithfulness.
  • 00:27:11.309 --> 00:27:15.180
  • And that really is what this book is about.
  • 00:27:15.180 --> 00:27:18.049
  • Through stories of miracles, setbacks, and second chances,
  • 00:27:18.049 --> 00:27:22.320
  • Mark shows how every delay is divine preparation and that god
  • 00:27:22.320 --> 00:27:26.791
  • Works all things for good to those who love him.
  • 00:27:26.791 --> 00:27:29.828
  • The obstacle is the way.
  • 00:27:29.828 --> 00:27:32.897
  • You can't spell testimony without the first four letters.
  • 00:27:32.897 --> 00:27:35.533
  • You got to pass the test.
  • 00:27:35.533 --> 00:27:37.535
  • The goal isn't what you can achieve from your own will.
  • 00:27:37.535 --> 00:27:40.972
  • It's who you become while trusting in god's timing.
  • 00:27:40.972 --> 00:27:44.642
  • The goal of accomplishing a
  • 00:27:44.642 --> 00:27:46.211
  • Goal is not accomplishing the goal.
  • 00:27:46.211 --> 00:27:48.680
  • It's who you become--
  • 00:27:48.680 --> 00:27:50.849
  • There it is. --in the process.
  • 00:27:50.849 --> 00:27:52.617
  • Am i becoming more and more like jesus?
  • 00:27:52.617 --> 00:27:56.121
  • Gradually then suddenly,
  • 00:27:56.121 --> 00:27:58.256
  • The new book by mark batterson.
  • 00:27:58.256 --> 00:28:00.225
  • Available wherever books are sold.
  • 00:28:00.225 --> 00:28:02.293
  • We are talking to
  • 00:28:02.727 --> 00:28:04.362
  • Mark batterson about gradually then suddenly.
  • 00:28:04.362 --> 00:28:07.232
  • So i want to point out something that the book
  • 00:28:07.232 --> 00:28:12.504
  • And its title, gradually then suddenly,
  • 00:28:12.504 --> 00:28:17.976
  • Suggests to me-- okay, i'm a person and i have an opinion--
  • 00:28:19.144 --> 00:28:24.682
  • It suggests to me that i'm going to go through a process,
  • 00:28:24.682 --> 00:28:30.688
  • Pass a test so that then that will turn into a testimony one
  • 00:28:30.688 --> 00:28:36.261
  • Day, and that suddenly then god's plan reveals through you
  • 00:28:36.261 --> 00:28:42.700
  • Once you've passed some kind of a test.
  • 00:28:42.700 --> 00:28:44.736
  • Is that theologically what you're trying to tell us here?
  • 00:28:44.736 --> 00:28:48.940
  • Uh, because if somebody just tuned in-- you know, we have to
  • 00:28:48.940 --> 00:28:52.677
  • Think about somebody just tuning in.
  • 00:28:52.677 --> 00:28:54.813
  • Why don't you--
  • 00:28:54.813 --> 00:28:55.947
  • Why don't you give an example
  • 00:28:55.947 --> 00:28:57.882
  • Of maybe why you wrote this book?
  • 00:28:57.882 --> 00:29:01.252
  • What you were thinking about?
  • 00:29:01.252 --> 00:29:03.154
  • What's the concept of it?
  • 00:29:03.154 --> 00:29:05.490
  • Why don't you give us that?
  • 00:29:05.490 --> 00:29:06.791
  • So that we kind of-- you know, we're deep in a conversation.
  • 00:29:06.791 --> 00:29:09.894
  • But why don't you do a little
  • 00:29:09.894 --> 00:29:10.762
  • Reset for somebody just tuned in?
  • 00:29:10.762 --> 00:29:12.530
  • Yes. this really is a life story.
  • 00:29:12.530 --> 00:29:17.368
  • It kind of is a life theme that i would not have written it
  • 00:29:17.368 --> 00:29:21.906
  • 10 or 20 years ago. got it.
  • 00:29:21.906 --> 00:29:23.708
  • Okay. we've had the joy of leading
  • 00:29:23.708 --> 00:29:26.211
  • National community church in d.c.
  • 00:29:26.211 --> 00:29:28.780
  • Started with 19 people.
  • 00:29:28.780 --> 00:29:30.815
  • Our first easter,
  • 00:29:30.815 --> 00:29:32.050
  • 43 people.
  • 00:29:32.050 --> 00:29:33.351
  • We have the joy now of hosting the easter sunrise at the
  • 00:29:33.351 --> 00:29:36.020
  • Lincoln memorial, and a few more than 43 show up.
  • 00:29:36.020 --> 00:29:39.724
  • Yeah, it's tens of thousands. go ahead.
  • 00:29:39.724 --> 00:29:42.026
  • So what i really believe is you've got to,
  • 00:29:42.026 --> 00:29:45.496
  • You've got to lead long.
  • 00:29:45.496 --> 00:29:48.766
  • And a great example is jeremiah 29,
  • 00:29:48.766 --> 00:29:51.903
  • Seek the peace and prosperity of the city.
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  • Plant gardens, build houses.
  • 00:29:54.439 --> 00:29:56.407
  • Jeremiah is saying to them, you've got to do what you do
  • 00:29:56.407 --> 00:29:59.978
  • For the third and fourth generation.
  • 00:29:59.978 --> 00:30:01.613
  • You've got to have a 70 year mindset.
  • 00:30:01.613 --> 00:30:04.582
  • And so much of what we're trying to do there is really
  • 00:30:04.582 --> 00:30:09.020
  • Setting up, should the lord
  • 00:30:09.020 --> 00:30:10.955
  • Tarry that third and fourth generation.
  • 00:30:10.955 --> 00:30:13.791
  • And then this book really is, um, kind of a testament to the
  • 00:30:13.791 --> 00:30:18.263
  • Way that god's even worked in my own life.
  • 00:30:18.263 --> 00:30:20.164
  • Felt called to write at 22, didn't write a book until 35.
  • 00:30:20.164 --> 00:30:24.702
  • And this is a word of encouragement to those who have
  • 00:30:24.702 --> 00:30:27.639
  • A dream that's gathered a little bit of dust that it was,
  • 00:30:27.639 --> 00:30:32.543
  • It was frustrating.
  • 00:30:32.543 --> 00:30:33.845
  • I mean, i started to despise my birthday because it was like an
  • 00:30:33.845 --> 00:30:38.716
  • Annual reminder of a dream deferred.
  • 00:30:38.716 --> 00:30:41.185
  • Wow.
  • 00:30:41.185 --> 00:30:42.620
  • And so finally, what i did-- and i write a little bit about
  • 00:30:42.620 --> 00:30:45.657
  • Grand gestures in the book, that sometimes there comes a
  • 00:30:45.657 --> 00:30:49.661
  • Moment where you have to take a step of faith.
  • 00:30:49.661 --> 00:30:51.996
  • Faith is taking the first step
  • 00:30:51.996 --> 00:30:53.264
  • Before god reveals the second step.
  • 00:30:53.264 --> 00:30:55.300
  • You know, you got to--
  • 00:30:55.300 --> 00:30:56.334
  • You got to put a stone in a sling like david.
  • 00:30:56.334 --> 00:30:59.203
  • You've got to-- you have to do something to put your
  • 00:30:59.203 --> 00:31:02.440
  • Faith out there.
  • 00:31:02.440 --> 00:31:03.708
  • Or like the priest, you have to step into the jordan river.
  • 00:31:03.708 --> 00:31:05.944
  • Then god will part the river. right.
  • 00:31:05.944 --> 00:31:08.446
  • Um, so i leveraged my 35th birthday and said, i'm not
  • 00:31:08.446 --> 00:31:12.717
  • Turning 35 without a book to show for it.
  • 00:31:12.717 --> 00:31:15.153
  • That was 40 days before my birthday, and at some point
  • 00:31:15.153 --> 00:31:20.425
  • You, just by faith, have to take that step of faith.
  • 00:31:20.425 --> 00:31:25.029
  • And often those are the days when decades happen.
  • 00:31:25.029 --> 00:31:28.232
  • Those are the the small step, giant leap moments.
  • 00:31:28.232 --> 00:31:33.638
  • And so we want to do amazing things for god.
  • 00:31:33.638 --> 00:31:37.342
  • But i would just remind us that's not our job.
  • 00:31:37.342 --> 00:31:40.011
  • God does amazing things for us.
  • 00:31:40.011 --> 00:31:42.113
  • Joshua 35,
  • 00:31:42.113 --> 00:31:43.348
  • Our job is always to only consecrate ourselves like
  • 00:31:43.348 --> 00:31:47.585
  • Simple obedience, childlike faith, these things that, you
  • 00:31:47.585 --> 00:31:52.824
  • Know, they're not as glamorous or they, you know,
  • 00:31:52.824 --> 00:31:56.694
  • People kind of want the fireworks show.
  • 00:31:56.694 --> 00:31:59.864
  • You know, what i have learned to appreciate?
  • 00:31:59.864 --> 00:32:02.767
  • Just people who keep on keeping on.
  • 00:32:02.767 --> 00:32:07.171
  • And then they enjoy the journey.
  • 00:32:07.171 --> 00:32:10.608
  • And, and at the end of their life, there's still some
  • 00:32:10.608 --> 00:32:13.511
  • Integrity intact.
  • 00:32:13.511 --> 00:32:15.413
  • And they're still walking humbly with the lord.
  • 00:32:15.413 --> 00:32:18.483
  • And that really is my prayer, that it would sort of widen the
  • 00:32:18.483 --> 00:32:23.688
  • Aperture, this book, and help us have long vision,
  • 00:32:23.688 --> 00:32:29.127
  • That long obedience.
  • 00:32:29.127 --> 00:32:31.262
  • And then that's going to net a long legacy, which, again, is
  • 00:32:31.262 --> 00:32:36.601
  • Really what you guys are living right now is
  • 00:32:36.601 --> 00:32:42.206
  • Just this, um, this long legacy
  • 00:32:42.206 --> 00:32:45.510
  • Of look at what the lord has done.
  • 00:32:45.510 --> 00:32:47.712
  • And so we overestimate what we can do in a year or two.
  • 00:32:47.712 --> 00:32:50.648
  • We underestimate what god can do in ten or 20 or 30.
  • 00:32:50.648 --> 00:32:53.451
  • I love what you said about the legacy thing of planting in
  • 00:32:53.451 --> 00:32:56.754
  • Other people's gardens. yeah.
  • 00:32:56.754 --> 00:32:59.090
  • It's just such a beautiful thing.
  • 00:32:59.090 --> 00:33:01.159
  • That's part of my legacy.
  • 00:33:01.159 --> 00:33:03.061
  • And we've talked about it already.
  • 00:33:03.061 --> 00:33:04.462
  • But you said that so good.
  • 00:33:04.462 --> 00:33:07.098
  • Just the definition of legacy again.
  • 00:33:07.098 --> 00:33:09.634
  • Yeah. legacy is not what you accomplish.
  • 00:33:09.634 --> 00:33:13.071
  • Legacy is what others accomplish because of you.
  • 00:33:13.071 --> 00:33:17.075
  • Because of you.
  • 00:33:17.075 --> 00:33:18.176
  • And so, you know, there are people that influence
  • 00:33:18.176 --> 00:33:22.046
  • Millions of people.
  • 00:33:22.046 --> 00:33:23.548
  • And, you know, you guys would be in that rare category.
  • 00:33:23.548 --> 00:33:26.651
  • And what an opportunity, what a thing to steward.
  • 00:33:26.651 --> 00:33:29.754
  • But the reality is most people aren't going to influence
  • 00:33:29.754 --> 00:33:32.657
  • A million people.
  • 00:33:32.657 --> 00:33:34.058
  • But you might influence one person that influences
  • 00:33:34.058 --> 00:33:38.162
  • A million people.
  • 00:33:38.162 --> 00:33:39.430
  • In fact, if we go all the way back, maybe you just take a
  • 00:33:39.430 --> 00:33:42.333
  • Little boy named henry wallace by the hand.
  • 00:33:42.333 --> 00:33:45.136
  • You help him fall in love with god's creation.
  • 00:33:45.136 --> 00:33:48.372
  • And then he has the foresight to--
  • 00:33:48.372 --> 00:33:51.275
  • And then the next thing you
  • 00:33:51.275 --> 00:33:52.376
  • Know, a billion lives are saved.
  • 00:33:52.376 --> 00:33:55.012
  • And that's the beautiful thing about the kingdom of god.
  • 00:33:55.012 --> 00:33:58.216
  • It's his chessboard.
  • 00:33:58.216 --> 00:33:59.450
  • We don't call the shots.
  • 00:33:59.450 --> 00:34:01.185
  • Man, i would-- i have a couple of
  • 00:34:01.185 --> 00:34:04.255
  • Rules of life. when things go wrong,
  • 00:34:04.255 --> 00:34:07.692
  • Don't play the victim.
  • 00:34:07.692 --> 00:34:09.193
  • When things go right, don't play god.
  • 00:34:09.193 --> 00:34:11.562
  • Just keep playing the long game.
  • 00:34:12.263 --> 00:34:14.499
  • If you do little things like they're big things, god
  • 00:34:14.499 --> 00:34:18.069
  • Has a way of doing big things
  • 00:34:18.069 --> 00:34:19.537
  • Like they're little things.
  • 00:34:19.537 --> 00:34:20.872
  • That is so cool.
  • 00:34:20.872 --> 00:34:22.140
  • You talk about in the book, um, kind of cathedral thinking.
  • 00:34:22.140 --> 00:34:26.744
  • Yeah, i've been to milan.
  • 00:34:26.744 --> 00:34:29.213
  • We have a tv studio there for our italian channel that's on
  • 00:34:29.213 --> 00:34:33.351
  • The air 24 hours a day in italian.
  • 00:34:33.351 --> 00:34:36.721
  • Hi, chuck.
  • 00:34:37.021 --> 00:34:38.122
  • Um, he runs it, and, um, there's a just a little, a
  • 00:34:38.122 --> 00:34:43.594
  • Little church there called il duomo.
  • 00:34:43.594 --> 00:34:45.763
  • Okay. and my understanding is, you know, you look at that
  • 00:34:45.763 --> 00:34:50.935
  • Thing and it's, you know, it's just-- and i believe--
  • 00:34:50.935 --> 00:34:54.071
  • I think i'm right.
  • 00:34:54.071 --> 00:34:55.339
  • I think it was 400 years or something like that to build.
  • 00:34:55.339 --> 00:34:58.609
  • So think of that.
  • 00:34:58.609 --> 00:34:59.610
  • Isn't that-- how many generations is that?
  • 00:34:59.610 --> 00:35:02.180
  • You know, i mean, just it's tons of generations.
  • 00:35:02.180 --> 00:35:05.116
  • So, you know, your great great great great great great great
  • 00:35:05.116 --> 00:35:09.120
  • Something grandfather might have laid a cornerstone and
  • 00:35:09.120 --> 00:35:12.123
  • You're now chiseling something. they didn't see
  • 00:35:12.123 --> 00:35:15.593
  • Hardly any of it.
  • 00:35:15.593 --> 00:35:17.128
  • And that thing is a marvel.
  • 00:35:17.128 --> 00:35:20.431
  • You talk about cathedral thinking in the book.
  • 00:35:20.431 --> 00:35:23.234
  • Yes. and, you know, we we tend to have such short
  • 00:35:23.234 --> 00:35:28.773
  • Attention spans that we have a hard time thinking even
  • 00:35:28.773 --> 00:35:33.177
  • Beyond our lifespan.
  • 00:35:33.177 --> 00:35:35.046
  • But that's where, uh, i think we've got to really
  • 00:35:35.046 --> 00:35:39.984
  • Set up that third and fourth generation.
  • 00:35:39.984 --> 00:35:41.786
  • I'll maybe share an example.
  • 00:35:41.786 --> 00:35:43.654
  • We you know, we have a city block on capitol hill.
  • 00:35:43.654 --> 00:35:47.258
  • It's a miracle story.
  • 00:35:47.258 --> 00:35:49.160
  • It's on the corner of a
  • 00:35:49.160 --> 00:35:50.928
  • 4.7 mile prayer walk that i did in 1996.
  • 00:35:50.928 --> 00:35:54.565
  • And i mean, it really is.
  • 00:35:54.565 --> 00:35:56.801
  • It was a $29.3 million miracle.
  • 00:35:56.801 --> 00:36:00.238
  • And so we started renovating it
  • 00:36:00.238 --> 00:36:02.240
  • And we had a hard decision to make.
  • 00:36:02.240 --> 00:36:04.175
  • It's an 1891 building, and we decided to dig 109 micropiles,
  • 00:36:04.175 --> 00:36:10.147
  • 40ft deep, so that we could activate an acre and a half of
  • 00:36:10.147 --> 00:36:15.119
  • Roof deck, because in land value on capitol hill, that
  • 00:36:15.119 --> 00:36:18.990
  • Would be worth $25 million.
  • 00:36:18.990 --> 00:36:21.392
  • Here's the catch.
  • 00:36:21.392 --> 00:36:22.760
  • We have no plans on building on the rooftop.
  • 00:36:22.760 --> 00:36:25.162
  • So then the obvious question is why would you spend $1 million
  • 00:36:25.162 --> 00:36:29.400
  • To reinforce those footers?
  • 00:36:29.400 --> 00:36:30.735
  • And the answer is, the next generation might.
  • 00:36:30.735 --> 00:36:34.338
  • And that's our job, to set up the next generation to do
  • 00:36:34.338 --> 00:36:39.010
  • What they do.
  • 00:36:39.010 --> 00:36:40.678
  • In a world obsessed with instant success,
  • 00:36:40.678 --> 00:36:43.381
  • Mark batterson reminds us that god often works gradually,
  • 00:36:43.381 --> 00:36:46.784
  • Then suddenly. everything in the kingdom of god takes longer
  • 00:36:46.784 --> 00:36:51.656
  • Than we would like and is harder than we hoped for.
  • 00:36:51.656 --> 00:36:55.126
  • Then the suddenly comes.
  • 00:36:55.126 --> 00:36:57.028
  • Then god shows up and does something special.
  • 00:36:57.028 --> 00:37:00.798
  • From the author of the circle maker and chase the lion comes
  • 00:37:00.798 --> 00:37:03.968
  • A powerful new message about patience, perseverance, and
  • 00:37:03.968 --> 00:37:07.738
  • Faith in the waiting.
  • 00:37:07.738 --> 00:37:09.173
  • We've got to fall in love with the gradually, with the long
  • 00:37:09.173 --> 00:37:12.910
  • Obedience in the same direction.
  • 00:37:12.910 --> 00:37:14.979
  • I'm less and less enamored with 15 minutes of fame.
  • 00:37:14.979 --> 00:37:19.083
  • I think god honors a lifetime of faithfulness.
  • 00:37:19.083 --> 00:37:22.987
  • And that really is what this book is about.
  • 00:37:22.987 --> 00:37:25.856
  • Through stories of miracles, setbacks, and second chances,
  • 00:37:25.856 --> 00:37:30.094
  • Mark shows how every delay is divine preparation and that god
  • 00:37:30.094 --> 00:37:34.565
  • Works all things for good to those who love him.
  • 00:37:34.565 --> 00:37:37.635
  • The obstacle is the way.
  • 00:37:37.635 --> 00:37:40.671
  • You can't spell testimony without the first four letters,
  • 00:37:40.671 --> 00:37:43.374
  • You got to pass the test.
  • 00:37:43.374 --> 00:37:45.376
  • The goal isn't what you can achieve from your own will.
  • 00:37:45.376 --> 00:37:48.746
  • It's who you become while trusting in god's timing.
  • 00:37:48.746 --> 00:37:52.416
  • The goal of accomplishing a
  • 00:37:52.416 --> 00:37:53.984
  • Goal is not accomplishing the goal.
  • 00:37:53.984 --> 00:37:56.487
  • It's who you become--
  • 00:37:56.487 --> 00:37:58.689
  • There it is. --in the process.
  • 00:37:58.689 --> 00:38:00.358
  • Am i becoming more and more like jesus?
  • 00:38:00.358 --> 00:38:03.761
  • Gradually then suddenly, the new book by mark batterson.
  • 00:38:03.761 --> 00:38:07.865
  • Available wherever books are sold.
  • 00:38:07.865 --> 00:38:10.768
  • Let's talk about something that you, because you're a nice guy
  • 00:38:10.768 --> 00:38:15.840
  • And you have a really kind of outgoing, fun personality,
  • 00:38:15.840 --> 00:38:21.212
  • You breezed by the word victim.
  • 00:38:21.212 --> 00:38:23.814
  • You breezed by it.
  • 00:38:24.248 --> 00:38:25.950
  • You mentioned it.
  • 00:38:26.384 --> 00:38:27.618
  • It's in your storyline here so far, but you moved by it
  • 00:38:27.618 --> 00:38:30.454
  • Pretty quick in the book.
  • 00:38:30.454 --> 00:38:32.890
  • You say something, i'm quoting you, something like, you know,
  • 00:38:32.890 --> 00:38:36.861
  • You were quoting somebody else,
  • 00:38:36.861 --> 00:38:38.362
  • Um, in the beginning of your life, you look like your mom
  • 00:38:38.362 --> 00:38:41.766
  • And dad at the end of your life, you look like your choices.
  • 00:38:41.766 --> 00:38:44.935
  • Yes. so-- yes.
  • 00:38:44.935 --> 00:38:49.039
  • If you're going to make a choice to be a victim, you're
  • 00:38:49.039 --> 00:38:51.709
  • Going to look like a victim.
  • 00:38:51.709 --> 00:38:53.411
  • And that means you're hobbled over.
  • 00:38:53.411 --> 00:38:57.448
  • You're walking with a limp.
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  • You've got a bad attitude.
  • 00:38:59.517 --> 00:39:01.185
  • Yeah. you know, there's just a tons of things.
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  • Yep.
  • 00:39:03.587 --> 00:39:04.522
  • So you're going to look like
  • 00:39:04.522 --> 00:39:05.756
  • Your choices at the end of your life.
  • 00:39:05.756 --> 00:39:07.625
  • You look like your mom and your daddy at the beginning of life.
  • 00:39:07.625 --> 00:39:10.594
  • Yeah.
  • 00:39:10.594 --> 00:39:11.896
  • Talk about let's not gloss over having to do the right thing.
  • 00:39:11.896 --> 00:39:15.699
  • Yes. so doctor crawford, lauritz is who said that.
  • 00:39:15.699 --> 00:39:20.371
  • And, uh, when you're born, you look like your parents.
  • 00:39:20.371 --> 00:39:23.641
  • When you die, you look like your decisions.
  • 00:39:23.641 --> 00:39:26.177
  • So i think it's taking ownership.
  • 00:39:26.177 --> 00:39:28.612
  • That destiny is not a mystery.
  • 00:39:28.612 --> 00:39:30.848
  • Destiny is decisions.
  • 00:39:30.848 --> 00:39:32.850
  • It's daily decisions.
  • 00:39:32.850 --> 00:39:34.618
  • It's pre decisions.
  • 00:39:34.618 --> 00:39:36.620
  • It's hard decisions.
  • 00:39:37.087 --> 00:39:38.823
  • So it really is making good, good choices.
  • 00:39:38.823 --> 00:39:43.961
  • Like, that's that's what we have to do.
  • 00:39:43.961 --> 00:39:47.731
  • Um, and, you know, the good news is, if you make some
  • 00:39:47.731 --> 00:39:52.069
  • Bad choices, uh, god's grace is sufficient.
  • 00:39:52.069 --> 00:39:55.639
  • And he's a god of second, third, and 17th chances.
  • 00:39:55.639 --> 00:39:59.977
  • But i do think, um, it's
  • 00:39:59.977 --> 00:40:02.913
  • Living your life with some intentionality.
  • 00:40:02.913 --> 00:40:06.016
  • What are you aiming at?
  • 00:40:06.016 --> 00:40:07.918
  • You know, you, matt, you
  • 00:40:07.918 --> 00:40:09.220
  • Mentioned in the beginning, uh, success.
  • 00:40:09.220 --> 00:40:11.889
  • And i'll just, i'll push on that a little bit, because for me,
  • 00:40:11.889 --> 00:40:16.327
  • It's not the number of books i sell.
  • 00:40:16.327 --> 00:40:19.930
  • And for me, i don't even think of it in that category.
  • 00:40:19.930 --> 00:40:22.333
  • To me, a book sold as a prayer answered because i have a team
  • 00:40:22.333 --> 00:40:25.536
  • Of people that has prayed since the first book i wrote that it
  • 00:40:25.536 --> 00:40:28.205
  • Would-- that god would put it in
  • 00:40:28.205 --> 00:40:29.573
  • The right hands at the right time.
  • 00:40:29.573 --> 00:40:31.709
  • Um, but it's not books sold.
  • 00:40:31.709 --> 00:40:33.511
  • It's not the number of people i have
  • 00:40:33.511 --> 00:40:35.412
  • The joy of pastoring.
  • 00:40:35.412 --> 00:40:36.747
  • I defined it years ago,
  • 00:40:37.248 --> 00:40:38.649
  • Success is when those who know me best respect me most.
  • 00:40:38.649 --> 00:40:44.989
  • And that's my wife and my kids.
  • 00:40:44.989 --> 00:40:46.624
  • So at the end of the day, i want to be famous in my home,
  • 00:40:46.624 --> 00:40:51.028
  • And it's hard to be famous in your home if you're not home.
  • 00:40:51.028 --> 00:40:54.932
  • And so then you have to make hard decisions about
  • 00:40:54.932 --> 00:40:57.334
  • Priorities, establishing boundaries.
  • 00:40:57.334 --> 00:41:00.371
  • And so, you know, i only do seven overnight
  • 00:41:00.371 --> 00:41:03.274
  • Speaking trips a year.
  • 00:41:03.274 --> 00:41:04.575
  • And part of that is just i had to make a decision to put that
  • 00:41:04.575 --> 00:41:08.212
  • Boundary in place.
  • 00:41:08.212 --> 00:41:09.513
  • And so financial boundaries, we call it a budget. uh, you know,
  • 00:41:09.513 --> 00:41:14.151
  • Health boundaries, we often
  • 00:41:14.151 --> 00:41:15.452
  • Call it a diet or an exercise plan.
  • 00:41:15.452 --> 00:41:19.056
  • So, you know, i think i think we have to exercise the free
  • 00:41:19.056 --> 00:41:23.794
  • Will that god's given us.
  • 00:41:23.794 --> 00:41:25.596
  • And at the end of the day, um, hopefully it's my utmost for
  • 00:41:25.596 --> 00:41:29.500
  • His highest, uh, and, uh, but i think it does go back to i'm
  • 00:41:29.500 --> 00:41:35.205
  • Not going to, i'm not going to play the victim.
  • 00:41:35.205 --> 00:41:37.474
  • I'm not going to play god.
  • 00:41:37.474 --> 00:41:39.343
  • I'm going to have compassion for anybody and everybody
  • 00:41:39.343 --> 00:41:43.080
  • That-- you know,
  • 00:41:43.080 --> 00:41:44.348
  • I realized that life hands each one of us a little different
  • 00:41:44.348 --> 00:41:48.719
  • Hand of cards.
  • 00:41:48.719 --> 00:41:50.154
  • But god comes to us disguised as our lives.
  • 00:41:50.154 --> 00:41:54.959
  • Hello.
  • 00:41:54.959 --> 00:41:55.626
  • And, um, i'll even put out
  • 00:41:55.626 --> 00:41:58.362
  • There that one of the hardest things
  • 00:41:58.362 --> 00:42:00.798
  • But one of the best things my wife laura and i have walked
  • 00:42:00.798 --> 00:42:03.334
  • Through is two bouts with
  • 00:42:03.334 --> 00:42:04.468
  • Cancer over the last seven years.
  • 00:42:04.468 --> 00:42:06.570
  • Would we invite that into our lives?
  • 00:42:06.570 --> 00:42:08.939
  • No. no.
  • 00:42:08.939 --> 00:42:10.574
  • But we're so much closer.
  • 00:42:11.141 --> 00:42:14.411
  • I cherish her more than the day we got married.
  • 00:42:15.346 --> 00:42:19.450
  • Um, and, uh, there was a little poem she read when she got that
  • 00:42:19.450 --> 00:42:24.088
  • Diagnosis that posed the question,
  • 00:42:24.088 --> 00:42:26.490
  • What have you come to teach me?
  • 00:42:26.490 --> 00:42:28.659
  • That's a hard question to ask of cancer.
  • 00:42:29.493 --> 00:42:33.597
  • Yeah. but you have to take that learning posture,
  • 00:42:33.597 --> 00:42:37.334
  • Growth mindset.
  • 00:42:37.334 --> 00:42:38.569
  • And if you do, then then god's going to work through it.
  • 00:42:38.569 --> 00:42:43.240
  • It's like joseph, genesis 50:20 you intended to harm me,
  • 00:42:43.240 --> 00:42:48.245
  • But god, but god intended it for good.
  • 00:42:49.079 --> 00:42:53.884
  • The saving of many lives.
  • 00:42:53.884 --> 00:42:56.720
  • And so just man, tuck this in your heart.
  • 00:42:56.720 --> 00:43:00.591
  • Tuck it in your heart.
  • 00:43:00.591 --> 00:43:01.625
  • God is writing a bigger story.
  • 00:43:01.625 --> 00:43:04.762
  • God is writing a better story.
  • 00:43:04.762 --> 00:43:08.032
  • I absolutely believe that.
  • 00:43:08.032 --> 00:43:10.300
  • And i also believe that the kingdoms of this world are
  • 00:43:10.300 --> 00:43:12.770
  • Becoming the kingdom of our lord and of his christ.
  • 00:43:12.770 --> 00:43:15.572
  • And so don't lose heart, don't lose hope.
  • 00:43:15.572 --> 00:43:18.042
  • Don't lose faith in the end of the story.
  • 00:43:18.042 --> 00:43:21.812
  • Yeah.
  • 00:43:21.812 --> 00:43:22.813
  • Uh, his kingdom is going to come gradually,
  • 00:43:22.813 --> 00:43:26.050
  • Then suddenly. pray for the folks real quick.
  • 00:43:26.050 --> 00:43:28.185
  • Let's just, that this would go-- yes. yes.
  • 00:43:28.185 --> 00:43:32.423
  • And so, father, we pray right now, every single person.
  • 00:43:32.423 --> 00:43:36.794
  • You know them.
  • 00:43:36.794 --> 00:43:37.594
  • You love them.
  • 00:43:37.594 --> 00:43:38.896
  • You know the number of hairs on their head, their name tattooed
  • 00:43:38.896 --> 00:43:41.799
  • On the palm of your hand.
  • 00:43:41.799 --> 00:43:43.701
  • You collect our tears in your bottle.
  • 00:43:43.701 --> 00:43:46.970
  • And so, god, you have plans and purposes and we just pray that
  • 00:43:46.970 --> 00:43:52.142
  • God they would come to pass, your will, your way.
  • 00:43:52.142 --> 00:43:57.281
  • Nothing more, nothing less, nothing else.
  • 00:43:57.281 --> 00:44:00.117
  • God, those who need encouragement,
  • 00:44:00.117 --> 00:44:02.753
  • I believe this was the divine appointment, that they're in
  • 00:44:02.753 --> 00:44:05.656
  • The gradually phase right now.
  • 00:44:05.656 --> 00:44:08.292
  • But god, i believe that you can bring it to pass, that he who
  • 00:44:08.292 --> 00:44:12.796
  • Began that good work can carry it to completion.
  • 00:44:12.796 --> 00:44:17.234
  • And so, lord, we trust you.
  • 00:44:17.234 --> 00:44:19.503
  • We trust your heart.
  • 00:44:19.970 --> 00:44:21.071
  • We trust your timing.
  • 00:44:21.071 --> 00:44:22.806
  • We trust your plans, your purposes.
  • 00:44:22.806 --> 00:44:25.442
  • And we pray blessing right now
  • 00:44:25.442 --> 00:44:28.212
  • On each and every one in jesus' name, amen and amen.
  • 00:44:29.279 --> 00:44:35.152
  • I want to make sure, you know, gradually, then suddenly.
  • 00:44:35.152 --> 00:44:40.424
  • And let me, let me just tell you something about this book.
  • 00:44:40.424 --> 00:44:44.294
  • Mark, you write about five books in one.
  • 00:44:45.162 --> 00:44:51.702
  • This is one of the densest, thickest, most amazing--
  • 00:44:51.702 --> 00:44:56.106
  • I said something earlier.
  • 00:44:56.106 --> 00:44:58.575
  • This is a like an experience.
  • 00:44:58.575 --> 00:45:01.545
  • Like you're scrolling through your feed,
  • 00:45:01.545 --> 00:45:04.114
  • It is that entertaining.
  • 00:45:04.114 --> 00:45:05.749
  • This is a legit book.
  • 00:45:05.749 --> 00:45:08.919
  • It moves that quickly.
  • 00:45:09.419 --> 00:45:11.522
  • It moves.
  • 00:45:11.522 --> 00:45:12.289
  • It's telling a story.
  • 00:45:12.289 --> 00:45:13.891
  • It's unbelievable.
  • 00:45:13.891 --> 00:45:15.459
  • And i want to make sure that, you know, i would have taken
  • 00:45:15.459 --> 00:45:20.197
  • Probably the first two chapters, or the first two paragraphs
  • 00:45:20.197 --> 00:45:24.501
  • On page nine, and i would have submitted that
  • 00:45:24.501 --> 00:45:28.338
  • As my whole manuscript to a publisher.
  • 00:45:28.338 --> 00:45:30.974
  • This is my book.
  • 00:45:30.974 --> 00:45:32.709
  • It's awesome.
  • 00:45:32.709 --> 00:45:33.710
  • Okay. it's like two paragraphs on page nine.
  • 00:45:33.710 --> 00:45:36.446
  • Okay. i want you to know that this is one of the thickest,
  • 00:45:36.446 --> 00:45:40.017
  • Most dynamic,
  • 00:45:40.017 --> 00:45:41.852
  • And mark, you have 40 pages in the back of notes
  • 00:45:41.852 --> 00:45:46.957
  • And acknowledgments, 40 pages of acknowledgments.
  • 00:45:46.957 --> 00:45:50.727
  • This is one of the most amazing--
  • 00:45:50.727 --> 00:45:53.197
  • It's like a textbook for real.
  • 00:45:53.197 --> 00:45:55.499
  • Now i want to say one other thing real quick.
  • 00:45:55.499 --> 00:45:57.601
  • I want to give you the final word.
  • 00:45:57.601 --> 00:45:59.002
  • And do you have something real quick?
  • 00:45:59.002 --> 00:46:00.470
  • Well, i was going to ask you about the compound effect.
  • 00:46:00.470 --> 00:46:03.874
  • Yes, i would-- talk about that for a minute.
  • 00:46:03.874 --> 00:46:06.443
  • Well, albert einstein said that compound interest is the eighth
  • 00:46:06.443 --> 00:46:11.448
  • Wonder of the world, and we
  • 00:46:11.448 --> 00:46:13.383
  • Only think of it in terms of finances.
  • 00:46:13.383 --> 00:46:16.453
  • Right? but it's not. obedience,
  • 00:46:16.453 --> 00:46:19.489
  • There's a compound interest to obedience.
  • 00:46:19.489 --> 00:46:22.259
  • There's compound interest to faithfulness.
  • 00:46:22.259 --> 00:46:25.028
  • And there's a compound interest to prayer that, uh, um, i think
  • 00:46:25.028 --> 00:46:30.434
  • God has a way of, uh, in fact, what the enemy
  • 00:46:30.434 --> 00:46:35.539
  • Has stolen, right?
  • 00:46:35.539 --> 00:46:38.041
  • That god is going to repay what the locusts have stolen.
  • 00:46:38.041 --> 00:46:41.979
  • And he does it with interest.
  • 00:46:41.979 --> 00:46:44.781
  • There's this beautiful,
  • 00:46:44.781 --> 00:46:46.183
  • I will give you double for trouble.
  • 00:46:46.183 --> 00:46:49.519
  • And so i just--
  • 00:46:49.519 --> 00:46:51.722
  • Those are promises.
  • 00:46:51.722 --> 00:46:52.956
  • Those are promises that as believers, this is a good, good
  • 00:46:52.956 --> 00:46:56.960
  • Father who has good plans for his children, good gifts.
  • 00:46:56.960 --> 00:47:01.932
  • And i think that compound interest is part of it.
  • 00:47:01.932 --> 00:47:05.102
  • We were in a church service one time, and the pastor was
  • 00:47:05.102 --> 00:47:08.639
  • Talking about the double for your trouble.
  • 00:47:08.639 --> 00:47:11.341
  • And finally the guy next to us turns around and goes, are we
  • 00:47:11.341 --> 00:47:13.777
  • Supposed to be asking for the double trouble?
  • 00:47:13.777 --> 00:47:16.246
  • Are we?
  • 00:47:16.246 --> 00:47:16.914
  • Are we asking for trouble?
  • 00:47:16.914 --> 00:47:18.682
  • I think we're going to get it anyway.
  • 00:47:18.682 --> 00:47:20.550
  • Okay. uh, one thing real quick.
  • 00:47:21.184 --> 00:47:22.886
  • Gradually then suddenly, this is available.
  • 00:47:22.886 --> 00:47:25.455
  • There's this little company called amazon.
  • 00:47:25.455 --> 00:47:27.658
  • You can get it.
  • 00:47:27.658 --> 00:47:28.392
  • You might have heard of that.
  • 00:47:28.392 --> 00:47:29.159
  • You can get, uh, the book.
  • 00:47:29.159 --> 00:47:31.228
  • Um, i want to do a lightning round because everyone's going,
  • 00:47:31.228 --> 00:47:33.997
  • Okay, wait a second.
  • 00:47:33.997 --> 00:47:34.932
  • Is that the guy from the circle maker?
  • 00:47:34.932 --> 00:47:36.733
  • That's the circle maker guy. wait a second.
  • 00:47:36.733 --> 00:47:38.835
  • What about the lion
  • 00:47:38.835 --> 00:47:40.604
  • And the pit on a snowy --
  • 00:47:40.604 --> 00:47:42.005
  • Okay. yeah.
  • 00:47:42.005 --> 00:47:42.973
  • One minute or less,
  • 00:47:42.973 --> 00:47:44.074
  • What was circle maker about?
  • 00:47:44.074 --> 00:47:46.043
  • Yeah. uh, a drought, first century israel and, uh,
  • 00:47:46.043 --> 00:47:51.148
  • Threatened to destroy a generation.
  • 00:47:51.148 --> 00:47:53.016
  • One man, honi the circle maker, uh, took his staff, drew a
  • 00:47:53.016 --> 00:47:56.486
  • Circle in the sand, and said, sovereign lord, i swear before
  • 00:47:56.486 --> 00:48:00.023
  • Your great name that i will not leave this circle until you
  • 00:48:00.023 --> 00:48:03.527
  • Have mercy upon your children.
  • 00:48:03.527 --> 00:48:05.729
  • And it was a prayer that saved a generation.
  • 00:48:05.729 --> 00:48:09.566
  • God answered with rain.
  • 00:48:09.566 --> 00:48:12.002
  • And i think it's all about bold prayers
  • 00:48:12.002 --> 00:48:16.006
  • Honor god, and god honors bold prayers.
  • 00:48:16.006 --> 00:48:20.477
  • Uh, a meaty author.
  • 00:48:20.944 --> 00:48:23.280
  • Yeah, very.
  • 00:48:23.280 --> 00:48:24.581
  • You throw so much meat into a book that we can feast on and
  • 00:48:24.581 --> 00:48:27.851
  • Just be changed and fed.
  • 00:48:27.851 --> 00:48:29.586
  • I love it.
  • 00:48:29.586 --> 00:48:30.587
  • On a pit on a snowy day with a lion and--
  • 00:48:30.587 --> 00:48:33.724
  • Yeah, yeah.
  • 00:48:33.724 --> 00:48:34.758
  • One minute or less.
  • 00:48:34.758 --> 00:48:35.859
  • What's that story about?
  • 00:48:35.859 --> 00:48:36.660
  • One minute or less.
  • 00:48:36.660 --> 00:48:38.328
  • When the image of a of a man- eating beast, a 500 pound lion
  • 00:48:38.328 --> 00:48:41.999
  • Passes through the optic nerve into the visual cortex of the
  • 00:48:41.999 --> 00:48:44.768
  • Brain, the brain sends one message to the body,
  • 00:48:44.768 --> 00:48:48.005
  • Run as fast and as far as you can.
  • 00:48:48.772 --> 00:48:52.476
  • But lion chasers are wired a little differently.
  • 00:48:52.476 --> 00:48:56.446
  • They run to the roar.
  • 00:48:56.446 --> 00:48:58.281
  • And so it's a book about beniah who chases a lion.
  • 00:48:58.281 --> 00:49:01.818
  • He becomes king david's bodyguard and eventually
  • 00:49:01.818 --> 00:49:05.522
  • Commander in chief of israel's army.
  • 00:49:05.522 --> 00:49:08.025
  • But it traces back to this moment
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  • Where, are you going
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  • To run away from what you're afraid of?
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  • Or are you going to chase the lion?
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  • Wow. and, uh, it's just, it continues with
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  • Gradually then suddenly.
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  • This is an amazing book.
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  • Final thoughts are yours, sir?
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  • Take us out, please.
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  • Yeah. i just think at the end of the day, everything for me
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  • Comes back to our biggest
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  • Problem is our small view of god.
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  • He's so much bigger and better.
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  • And i just want to remind us, he's watching over
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  • His word to perform it.
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  • Jeremiah 1:12,
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  • His word doesn't return void.
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  • Isaiah 55.
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  • My self-confidence is actually probably a
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  • Little below average.
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  • My holy confidence is off the chart, that i've seen god do
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  • Too many miracles not to believe him for the next one.
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  • And you know i have some dreams that they haven't happened yet.
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  • I've got a few movie scripts that they're still floating out
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  • There that haven't happened yet.
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  • Um, but i trust god.
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  • And so last word to those listening,
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  • God has not given up on you.
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  • Don't give up on god.
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  • Gradually then suddenly.
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  • 10 million books and counting.
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  • Mark batterson.
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  • Thank you.
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  • We'll see you next time.
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  • Thank you.
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  • Bye bye.
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  • In a world obsessed with instant success, mark batterson
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  • Reminds us that god often works
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  • Gradually then suddenly.
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  • Everything in the kingdom of god takes longer than we would
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  • Like and is harder than we hoped for.
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  • Mark shows how every delay is divine preparation and that god
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  • Works all things for good to those who love him.
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  • The obstacle is the way.
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  • You got to pass the test.
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  • The goal isn't what you can achieve from your own will.
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  • It's who you become while trusting in god's timing.
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  • The goal of accomplishing a
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  • Goal is not accomplishing the goal.
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  • It's who you become--
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  • There it is. -- in the process.
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