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Rick Warren | Rick Warren - You Are Called To Bless | February 22, 2026
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- Pastor rick warren: good morning, everybody.
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- It's good to see you.
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- If you'll take out your message notes.
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- Welcome to "live your calling: what on earth am i here for?"
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- And we're looking at the five callings of your life, the five
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- Purposes of your life, the five reasons god created you, the
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- Five assignments that he has for your life.
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- The word "calling" is used more than even the word "purpose" in
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- The bible, and we've looked at these first four--or three
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- So far.
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- We looked at god's first calling in your life is your call to
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- Be loved.
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- God made you to love you.
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- The second calling is your call to belong, to belong to his
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- Family, the body of christ, the family of god.
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- Last week we looked at your third calling, you're called
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- To become.
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- God wants you to grow up.
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- He wants you to mature.
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- He wants you to become who he wants you to be.
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- This week we're gonna look at the fourth calling on your life,
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- And it is you are called to bless.
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- You're called to bless other people.
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- Now how do you do that?
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- You bless other people when you serve them.
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- It may be physical assistance, it may be financial assistance,
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- It may be emotional support, it could be relational support, it
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- Could be practical support.
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- There are a thousand different ways that you can serve the
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- People around you.
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- And when you serve others, the bible says you actually
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- Bless them.
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- Now, i want you to write this down, on your outline.
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- The fourth purpose of my life is god shaped me to serve him.
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- God shaped me to serve him.
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- I'm not gonna spend a lot of time on this because we've
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- Covered this many, many times at saddleback that god has uniquely
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- Shaped you with five elements: your spiritual gifts, your
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- Heart, your abilities, your personality, your experiences.
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- We've covered this many times, and you'll be reading about it,
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- Of course, in "purpose driven life," that god wired you to be
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- You and he shaped you to serve him.
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- Ephesians 2:10 explains this.
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- By the way, this is our memory verse this week, so let's read
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- It aloud with great enthusiasm, all right?
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- Let's say it.
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- Ephesians 2:10: "we are god's workmanship, created in christ
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- Jesus to do good works, which god prepared in advance for us
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- To do!"
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- Ephesians 2:10.
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- I want you to work on that this week.
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- It says we're god's workmanship.
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- We talked about this a couple weeks ago.
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- You are god's masterpiece.
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- You're god's work of art.
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- You are unique.
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- There's nobody like you in the world, and you were created in
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- Christ jesus to do good works.
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- That good works is called your service.
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- It's called your ministry.
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- It's called your blessing.
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- It's the way you help other people.
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- You weren't made to just take up space, breathe, live a
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- Self-centered life, and die.
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- God put you here to make a contribution with your life,
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- And that is called your ministry.
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- Another word for blessing, another word for service,
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- Is ministry.
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- The word "servant" and the word "minister" are the same word in
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- The bible, and the word "service" and "ministry" are the
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- Same words.
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- The fact is we're all ministers.
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- Now we're not all pastors.
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- I'm a pastor.
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- My job is to administer the ministers.
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- So if somebody ever ask you how many ministers does our church
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- Have, you say 30,000.
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- Because everybody is a minister.
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- So i want you to write this down: my life calling is to be
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- A bi-vocational minister of jesus.
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- I'm gonna have to explain this to you.
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- My life calling is to be a bi-vocational minister of jesus.
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- Now what does bi-vocational mean?
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- Well, it's like the word "bifocal."
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- You know when you get glasses that are bifocals, it means you
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- Can see two things at the same time.
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- You can see far away and you can see up close, you can see both
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- With clarity.
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- And when you are a bi-vocational minister of jesus, it means that
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- No matter what you do in life, you do it for two reasons,
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- Not one.
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- You are a bi-vocational minister.
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- So whether you're a truck driver or an attorney or a janitor or a
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- Hospice worker or a homemaker or a teacher or a deal maker or a
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- Stockbroker or an accountant or a farmer, it doesn't matter what
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- You are, if you're a christian, you are to do it for two
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- Reasons: to help others and to honor god.
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- To help others and to honor god.
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- To help others and to honor god.
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- Everything i do in life, if i'm a follower of jesus,
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- Is bi-vocational.
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- I have a job, but in that job i do it to help others and to
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- Honor god, to help others and honor god.
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- I am a bi-vocational minister of jesus christ.
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- Now the bible says it like this, look up here on the screen.
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- Colossians 3:17: "whatever you do--whatever you do, whether in
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- Word or deed, do it all in the name of the lord jesus, giving
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- Thanks to god the father through him."
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- I can take out the garbage as a ministry.
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- I can change a dirty diaper as a ministry.
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- I can clean the living room, i can make a deal, i can help
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- Somebody across the street.
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- Everything in your life can become a ministry if you do it
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- To help others and honor god.
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- And he says, whatever you do, it becomes part of your ministry if
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- You have the right motivation.
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- I want you to write this down: menial tasks become meaningful
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- Tasks when i do that--do it, out of love for god.
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- Menial tasks become meaningful tasks if i do it out of my love
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- For jesus, for god.
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- So everything in your life becomes significant, really.
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- Let's say, you're at a meeting in your office at where you
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- Work, and all of a sudden the meeting's over and everybody
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- Gets up to walk out, and they've left coffee cups and trash and
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- All kinds of, and you just decide, i'm gonna clean that up.
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- Everybody, it's not my job, but i'm gonna clean that up to help
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- People and honor god.
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- And so while they're all gone, you clean off the table and you
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- Put it all in the trash when they just walked out expecting
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- Somebody else to do it.
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- You have just done a ministry.
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- And god will notice and god will reward you for it.
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- Now the fact is the calling to salvation and the calling to
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- Service are the same.
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- So when you became a believer, when you stepped across the
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- Line, you weren't just called to be saved, you were called
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- To serve.
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- You're saved to serve, to make a difference with your life.
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- And as i said, every member is a minister and everybody has
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- A ministry.
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- Galatians 1 chapter 1, verse 15 says this: "god in his grace
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- Chose me even before i was born, and called me to serve him."
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- Circle that last phrase.
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- "called me to serve him."
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- This is the fourth purpose of your life.
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- This is the fourth calling on your life.
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- You were called to serve.
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- You're shaped to serve.
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- You're made for ministry.
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- You're called to bless.
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- What happens if i begin to use my life in this fourth calling?
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- When i begin to stop thinking about me all the time, and begin
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- To start thinking about other people in my life, begin to
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- Think about not how can i be served, but how can i
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- Serve others?
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- Well, it brings four amazing benefits.
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- The first thing that happens, you might write this down, is
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- That serving others unselfishly will create joy in my life.
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- It creates enormous massive amounts of joy in my life.
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- Most people are looking for happiness in all the
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- Wrong places.
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- You don't find happiness in pleasure, power, possessions,
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- Position, prestige, you know, all of these different things
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- That we typically look for-- popularity.
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- Success doesn't bring satisfaction, sex doesn't bring
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- Satisfaction, salary doesn't bring satisfaction.
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- Status doesn't bring satisfaction.
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- Those are all temporary.
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- For permanent ongoing joy, it comes not through sex, status,
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- Salary, it comes through service.
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- By giving my life away.
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- God wired us that when you give your life away, that's when the
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- Joy flows into your heart.
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- Why?
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- Because he wants you to be like him.
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- Most people don't know the two secrets of joy, but i'm gonna
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- Give them to you right now.
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- Here they are.
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- One, number one, the first secret of joy is get the focus
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- Off myself.
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- The more you focus on you, the more miserable you're gonna be.
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- It is not by accident that the word "miser" and "miserable"
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- Come from the same root word.
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- You've gotta shift your focus from inward focus, it's all
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- About me, to outward focus, it's all about god and
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- Serving others.
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- Now when you do that, that is a counterculture move because
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- Everything in our society says it's all about you.
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- Every advertisement says, it's all about you, we do it all
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- For you.
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- Have it your way, you're number one, you're the best.
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- But when you begin to give your life away, the more you give
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- Your life away to help others, guess what?
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- The more joy flows into your life.
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- Good example of this is the apostle paul.
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- Philippians chapter 2, verse 17, he says: "my life is being
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- Poured out as a part of the sacrifice and service--"
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- There's those words.
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- "as a part of the sacrifice and service i offer to god for
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- Your faith.
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- Yet," he says, in spite of this sacrifice and service, "i am
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- Filled with joy, and i share that joy with all of you."
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- It is a fact of life that the most helpful people are the most
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- Happy people in life.
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- If you wanna be happy, you gotta be helpful.
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- The more helpful you are, the more happy you are.
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- The more self-centered you are, the more unhappy you're gonna be
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- In life.
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- It's just the way the universe works.
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- So joy floods into my soul when i begin to give it away.
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- God wired the universe that the more unselfish you are, the more
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- Joy flows into your life.
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- The bible says this in philippians 4: "always be full
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- Of joy in the lord; i say it again, rejoice!
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- Let everyone see that you are unselfish and considerate in all
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- You do."
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- Now notice how he pairs joy with being unselfish and considerate.
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- If you are inconsiderate and you are selfish, you're not gonna be
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- Joyful, but if you are unselfish and you are considerate, you're
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- Gonna be joyful.
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- I'll be real blunt with you.
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- Look at this verse up on the screen: "forget about yourself
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- Long enough to lend a helping hand!"
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- If you lack joy in your life, you're not happy right now, let
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- Me tell you, start serving.
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- Start finding a place where you can volunteer to give part of
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- Your time away, and you get nothing in return.
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- You're not paid for it.
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- You're just giving your life away.
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- If there's nothing in your life that you are doing, say, on a
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- Weekly basis, and which you're just doing it for others'
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- Benefit, not for your own.
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- If there's nothing in your life like that, you're living
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- A pretty selfish life.
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- And god didn't put you on this planet just to live for you.
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- You gotta give back.
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- You gotta make a contribution.
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- You gotta be unselfish.
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- That's where the joy comes from.
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- Number two, the other way joy comes is when i use my gifts to
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- Help others.
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- Joy comes from getting the focus off myself and joy comes from
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- Using my gifts to help others.
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- And when you use the gifts that god gave you to help other
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- People, it feels good.
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- I was reading an article this week about the oscar contenders
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- For the academy awards this year.
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- Some of--one of the actors said, "i was created, i was made
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- For this role."
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- You know that feeling, that's how you feel when you know i'm
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- Doing what god made me to do, what god wired me to do.
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- 1 peter 4:10 says this: "god has given each of you some special
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- Abilities; be sure to use them to make a ton of money."
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- Oh, sorry, i misread that.
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- That's in the reviled substandard
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- Perversion translation.
- 00:12:44.480 --> 00:12:48.851
- "god has given each of you some special abilities; be sure to
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- Use them to," read it with me, "help each other," okay?
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- "passing on to others god's many kinds of blessing."
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- We're blessed to be a blessing.
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- God blesses you so you can bless other people.
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- We're blessed to be a blessing.
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- And how do we bless others?
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- We bless others by using our skills, by using our time, our
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- Talents, whatever we've got.
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- When we use it to help other people in service, you bless
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- Other people.
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- Number two: surviving others unselfishly--or serving others
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- Unselfishly will create not only joy in my life, it will improve
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- My relationships.
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- And boy, do we need this one.
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- Your relationships will get better the more you learn how
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- To serve.
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- And that's something you got to practice at.
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- I will--it will improve my relationships.
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- Why?
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- Because the root of every single relational problem in your life
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- Is self-centeredness.
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- Now there are other issues that come in, but at the root,
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- It's selfishness.
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- I want what i want when i want it, and you want what you want
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- When you want it, and neither of us are willing to budge and give
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- In and change.
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- And i want it my way and you want it your way, and that
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- Causes conflict.
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- The verse that kay and i memorized when we were actually
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- On our honeymoon was proverbs 13:10: "only by pride
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- Cometh contention."
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- In other words, when you have an ego, you're gonna have conflict.
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- Anytime you're having a conflict in your marriage, ego is showing
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- Up, and you're not being a servant, you're being selfish.
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- But the more you practice, the more you learn to get yourself
- 00:14:30.119 --> 00:14:33.656
- Out of yourself, get a bigger perspective, you begin to serve
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- Unselfishly, it's gonna change and improve every single one of
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- Your relationships.
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- Because you change, it changes your relationships.
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- Pastor rick: so how do i learn to be unselfish?
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- Simple: copy jesus, because he lived the most unselfish
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- Life ever.
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- Matthew 10:28 says this: "your attitude--your attitude must be
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- Like my own," jesus says, "for i did not come to be served but
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- To serve."
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- Now, when you take on the attitude of jesus and you begin
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- To live your life, not for the benefit of yourself, but you
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- Begin to live your life for the benefit of others, to help
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- Others and honor god, help others and honor god, you accept
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- You're a bi-vocational minister of god, two incredible
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- Benefits happen.
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- One, you become more like jesus, and two, you're more loved,
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- Respected, you're more popular.
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- If you wanna have more friends, learn to be a servant.
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- Here's what the bible says, romans 14:18: "if you serve
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- Christ in this way," unselfishly serving, "you will please god,"
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- Notice, "and be respected by people."
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- You wanna be respected by people?
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- Learn to have a servant's heart.
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- And here's the cool part of all this, the more i bless other
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- People, the more god blesses me.
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- The more i serve others, the more god honors me.
- 00:17:06.375 --> 00:17:09.878
- The more i bless other people, the more i minister to other
- 00:17:09.878 --> 00:17:13.182
- People, the more god ministers to me.
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- Let me show you some verses up here on the screen.
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- Proverbs 11:25: "the one who blesses others is abundantly
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- Blessed; and those who help others are helped."
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- In other words, it's the principle of sowing and reaping.
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- Whatever seed i sow, i'm gonna get back.
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- But what--i don't get back a seed.
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- If i plant a seed, i don't get back one seed.
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- I get a whole tree of seeds.
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- And so if you start blessing other people, you get tons of
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- Blessing back.
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- You start helping other people, you get tons of help back.
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- You get more than you bargained for.
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- Blessing others gives me blessing.
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- You know, i--when people tell me, "you know, i'd really like
- 00:17:52.454 --> 00:17:55.057
- To be involved in service, but i'm just too busy.
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- I'm just--i don't have any time to really be involved in
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- Volunteering anywhere.
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- I'm just too busy," then you just forfeited god's blessing on
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- Your business.
- 00:18:06.768 --> 00:18:08.137
- I really feel sad for you.
- 00:18:08.137 --> 00:18:09.471
- You want god's blessing on your business?
- 00:18:09.471 --> 00:18:11.173
- God does not bless selfishness.
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- You want god's blessing on your business and on your work
- 00:18:13.475 --> 00:18:15.777
- So badly.
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- God's saying, "are you giving anything away?
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- Are you thinking only about yourself?
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- Is it all about you?
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- Are you--you think i put you on earth just to live for you?"
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- No, the more you give your life away, the more god blesses you.
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- Look at these verses, proverbs 17:11: "you do yourself a favor
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- When you're kind."
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- Isn't that interesting?
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- You do yourself a favor when you're kind.
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- The bible says in proverbs 22:9: "a generous man will himself
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- Be blessed."
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- So if i want god's blessing on my life, i've got to be a
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- Blessing in other people's life.
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- And if i want better relationships, i need to
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- Start serving.
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- Number three, serving others unselfishly will make my
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- Life meaningful.
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- That's the third big surprise that most people don't know.
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- The only way you find meaning in life is to give your life away.
- 00:19:07.196 --> 00:19:11.633
- God wired the universe on this principle.
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- Meaning does not come from money.
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- We think if i just get more money then my life will have
- 00:19:18.540 --> 00:19:21.276
- More meaning.
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- No, it will not.
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- I probably know a dozen billionaires, and i could invite
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- Any of those friends of mine to come on stage.
- 00:19:27.449 --> 00:19:30.085
- Every one of them will tell you money has many good uses.
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- It can make life easier.
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- It can give you opportunities.
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- It can open doors.
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- It can save you time, but money cannot give you meaning.
- 00:19:37.893 --> 00:19:42.297
- No amount of money will ever give your life meaning.
- 00:19:42.297 --> 00:19:45.000
- Meaning comes from ministry, from giving your life away.
- 00:19:45.000 --> 00:19:50.138
- Jesus said it like this, mark 8:35: "if you try to keep your
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- Life for yourself, you will lose it.
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- But if you give up your life for my sake, for the sake of the
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- Good news, you will find true life."
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- Circle those last two words.
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- True life comes from giving my life away.
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- Now, knowing this, what should be my attitude toward service?
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- 1 corinthians 15:58 says this: "always give yourselves fully to
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- The work of the lord, because you know that your work in the
- 00:20:21.336 --> 00:20:25.407
- Lord is never wasted."
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- Everything you do for christ has a purpose.
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- And it may seem insignificant and maybe nobody else seems to
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- Know about it, but it's important.
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- The bible says even if you give a cup of cold water in god's
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- Name, in jesus's name, that you get rewarded for that
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- In eternity.
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- And that brings me to the fourth reason.
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- What will happen if i use my life to serve and bless others?
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- If i switch the focus from it's all about me to switch the focus
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- On how many people can i serve?
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- How can i honor god by helping others?
- 00:21:00.475 --> 00:21:03.779
- Creates joy in my life, it improves my relationships,
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- It makes my life meaningful, and the fourth thing is it will
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- Leave a legacy.
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- It will leave a legacy.
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- You will leave a mark.
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- Actually, you'll leave two legacies: one on earth and one
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- In eternity.
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- The one on earth isn't gonna last very long, because after
- 00:21:23.231 --> 00:21:26.168
- About three generations, everybody forgets you.
- 00:21:26.168 --> 00:21:29.071
- Given enough time, all your trophies are gonna be trashed.
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- All the things you think are so cool right now, two generations,
- 00:21:33.408 --> 00:21:36.611
- Nobody even gonna care.
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- You may get your name on a building, nobody's even gonna
- 00:21:37.946 --> 00:21:39.448
- Ask, "who was that person?"
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- So what?
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- But the rewards you get in eternity are gonna go on and on
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- And on and on forever.
- 00:21:46.154 --> 00:21:48.824
- But when you begin to serve, what it does is it gives you
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- A reputation.
- 00:21:53.662 --> 00:21:55.030
- The bible says this, proverbs 10, verse 7: "good people will
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- Be remembered as a blessing."
- 00:22:00.302 --> 00:22:03.839
- Let me ask you, what do you-- what are you gonna be
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- Remembered for?
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- If you were to die tomorrow, would people say, "man, that
- 00:22:10.145 --> 00:22:12.481
- Person was a real blessing.
- 00:22:12.481 --> 00:22:14.349
- They really lived for other people.
- 00:22:14.349 --> 00:22:15.717
- They served, they were sharing, they were generous,
- 00:22:15.717 --> 00:22:18.353
- They were kind.
- 00:22:18.353 --> 00:22:19.688
- They were always thinking of other people," or would they
- 00:22:19.688 --> 00:22:21.022
- Think, "well, they were pretty self-centered.
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- They only had their goals, they only went after what
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- They wanted.
- 00:22:24.726 --> 00:22:26.094
- They didn't really care about anybody else.
- 00:22:26.094 --> 00:22:28.563
- Didn't take care of their wife or their kids or any, and they
- 00:22:28.563 --> 00:22:30.766
- Just lived their life, did what they wanted to do."
- 00:22:30.766 --> 00:22:34.703
- What do you wanna be known for?
- 00:22:34.703 --> 00:22:36.872
- "good people will be remembered as a blessing."
- 00:22:36.872 --> 00:22:40.842
- Now, the truth is everybody wants their life to count.
- 00:22:40.842 --> 00:22:44.079
- Deep down inside of you, you want your life to
- 00:22:44.079 --> 00:22:46.314
- Have significance.
- 00:22:46.314 --> 00:22:47.749
- You want your life to have meaning.
- 00:22:47.749 --> 00:22:49.184
- You want your life to have purpose.
- 00:22:49.184 --> 00:22:50.719
- You want to do something great with your life.
- 00:22:50.719 --> 00:22:53.522
- Everybody wants that, and there's nothing wrong with that,
- 00:22:53.522 --> 00:22:56.224
- To do something great with your life.
- 00:22:56.224 --> 00:22:58.160
- You ought to want to do something great with your life.
- 00:22:58.160 --> 00:23:00.462
- Here's how jesus said you become great.
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- Matthew 20:26: "if you wanna be great, you must be the servant
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- Of all the others."
- 00:23:10.071 --> 00:23:12.774
- The more you serve, the greater you're gonna be.
- 00:23:12.774 --> 00:23:16.278
- The more you serve, the more influence you'll have.
- 00:23:16.278 --> 00:23:18.780
- I call it the mother teresa syndrome.
- 00:23:18.780 --> 00:23:21.783
- Mother teresa went to the poorest of the poor, the most
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- Outcast of the outcast in calcutta, india, to people who
- 00:23:25.854 --> 00:23:29.424
- Are on the street and dying.
- 00:23:29.424 --> 00:23:31.259
- Nobody has less influence than them.
- 00:23:31.259 --> 00:23:33.428
- And she began to take the dying into her home, and she cared for
- 00:23:33.428 --> 00:23:36.398
- Them, and she began to serve those that everybody was
- 00:23:36.398 --> 00:23:39.034
- Trampling over.
- 00:23:39.034 --> 00:23:41.203
- And then she went to the least influential people of life.
- 00:23:41.203 --> 00:23:45.740
- God gave her enormous influence around the world, so that she
- 00:23:45.740 --> 00:23:49.244
- Could walk into the congress and everybody would listen.
- 00:23:49.244 --> 00:23:51.613
- She could walk into the united nations and everybody
- 00:23:51.613 --> 00:23:53.548
- Would listen.
- 00:23:53.548 --> 00:23:56.151
- If you want to be great, you learn to be the servant of all.
- 00:23:56.151 --> 00:24:00.155
- You know, for 30 years, i've been training leaders around the
- 00:24:00.155 --> 00:24:02.457
- World, you know, lots of different countries.
- 00:24:02.457 --> 00:24:06.061
- And i've discovered that when i hold a leadership seminar,
- 00:24:06.061 --> 00:24:09.431
- It's packed out.
- 00:24:09.431 --> 00:24:10.765
- If i call it a service seminar, nobody wants to come.
- 00:24:10.765 --> 00:24:15.537
- In fact, even when we want to be servants, we say, "well, we want
- 00:24:15.537 --> 00:24:18.039
- To be a servant leader."
- 00:24:18.039 --> 00:24:19.374
- Why not just leave the leader part off, just be a servant.
- 00:24:19.374 --> 00:24:21.877
- If you wanna be a great, learn to be the servant of all.
- 00:24:21.877 --> 00:24:24.746
- If you go onto amazon.com, for every 500 books on leadership,
- 00:24:24.746 --> 00:24:28.650
- You'll find one book on being a servant.
- 00:24:28.650 --> 00:24:32.053
- We got our values all upside down.
- 00:24:32.053 --> 00:24:34.055
- The way you become great is by giving your life away.
- 00:24:34.055 --> 00:24:38.193
- You say, "but nobody's gonna see my secret acts of service."
- 00:24:38.193 --> 00:24:41.696
- God will.
- 00:24:41.696 --> 00:24:43.098
- Like, if you clean up that table when everybody's left the room,
- 00:24:43.098 --> 00:24:46.401
- God will see that.
- 00:24:46.401 --> 00:24:47.936
- And the bible says this in hebrews 6:10: "god is fair; he
- 00:24:47.936 --> 00:24:52.274
- Will not forget the work you did and the love you showed for him
- 00:24:52.274 --> 00:24:55.877
- By helping his people.
- 00:24:55.877 --> 00:24:57.746
- And he will remember that you are still helping them."
- 00:24:57.746 --> 00:25:01.516
- In fact, jesus makes this promise in john 12:26:
- 00:25:01.516 --> 00:25:05.854
- "my father will honor anyone who serves me."
- 00:25:05.854 --> 00:25:08.957
- And if you want to leave a legacy, then you need to
- 00:25:08.957 --> 00:25:12.060
- Start serving.
- 00:25:12.060 --> 00:25:14.062
- Unselfishly, doing something with your life that you don't
- 00:25:14.062 --> 00:25:17.165
- Get something back for, you know, monetarily.
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- You've heard me say before that the greatest use of life is to
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- Invest it in that which outlasts it.
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- You got three choices with your life.
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- You can spend your life, you can waste your life, you can invest
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- Your life.
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- And the best use of your life is to invest it in that which will
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- Outlast it.
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- There are only two things that are gonna last in the world.
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- Only two: the word of god and people.
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- So if you build your life on the word of god and the people, then
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- You are building your life on the things that are gonna last.
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- Announcer: pastor rick has put together a special resource
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- Called, "daily inspiration for the purpose driven life,"
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- Bible verses found in his
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- Bestselling book, "the purpose driven life."
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- As you dive deeper into these verses, you'll experience the
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- ♪♪♪
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