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Rick Warren | Rick Warren - Your Ministry of Mercy (Part 1) | June 21, 2026
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- ♪♪♪
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- Pastor rick warren: the bible says, "every believer
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- Is a minister."
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- Now, we all minister in different ways, but any time you
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- Help somebody else in jesus's name, that is called ministry.
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- And as i said, the bible says there are different kinds of
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- Service, different kinds of ministries, but there is one
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- Ministry that we all have in common, and that's what i want
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- Us to look at this weekend.
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- I call it your ministry of mercy.
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- God wants you to be an agent of mercy in the world.
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- There's not enough mercy in this world, and god wants you to be a
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- Provider, he wants you to be an agent, he wants you to be a
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- Purveyor of mercy in the world.
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- Now, in the fifth key to a blessed life, jesus says this,
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- Matthew 5 verse 7: "god blesses those who are merciful, for they
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- Will be shown mercy."
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- In other words, what you give out, you're gonna get back.
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- What you give, you're going to get.
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- "god blesses those who are merciful, for they will be
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- Shown mercy."
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- This is the fifth key to a blessed life.
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- You gotta learn to be a minister of mercy.
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- Now, what is mercy?
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- Well, usually we think of two things.
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- Usually we think of forgiving people who don't deserve it, or
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- We think of helping people who can't help themselves.
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- And those are two definitions of mercy that we typically
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- Think of.
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- But mercy, which by the way is a part of god's character, has so
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- Much more to say and to do in your life than simply those
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- Two things.
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- Mercy is really like a--it's like a diamond,
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- It's multifaceted.
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- And this weekend i want us to look at seven facets of mercy,
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- Seven ways that you can transform your relationships,
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- Because i guarantee you, if you'll learn how to be an agent
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- Of mercy, it's gonna change your work relationships, your
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- Marriage, your friendships, family relationships, any other
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- Relationship you've got, if you learn how to be an agent
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- Of mercy.
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- But before we look at how to practice mercy in a
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- Relationship, i wanna just ask the question, why?
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- Why in the world should i be merciful?
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- So just write these four down.
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- This is just kind of a little introduction here.
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- And the first reason that we need to show mercy is because
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- God has shown me mercy.
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- The bible says that god is merciful.
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- It's emphasized all through the bible.
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- There are literally hundreds and hundreds of scripture that talk
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- About god's mercy and his love, his compassion, and his grace.
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- Let me show you a couple verses.
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- One is up here on the screen.
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- Ephesians chapter 2, verse 4 or 5 says this: "god's mercy is so
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- Abundant, and his love for us is so great, that while we were
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- Spiritually dead in our disobedience, he brought us to
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- Life with christ.
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- It is by god's grace you have been saved."
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- God has shown mercy to us.
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- Now, the point is this: god wants me to act in the same way
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- To other people.
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- He wants me to pass on--the mercy that i have received from
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- God, he wants me to pass on.
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- Look at the next verse, it's there on your outline,
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- Matthew 18.
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- "shouldn't you have mercy on others, just as i had mercy
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- On you?"
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- Jesus is telling a story here about an unmerciful employee,
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- And he owes his boss some money.
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- And the boss says, "well, i'm gonna show mercy on you.
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- Let's just clear your debt, and we'll just wipe it off and just
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- Say we're even."
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- And the guy can't believe it, because he's been shown such
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- Great mercy.
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- But then he goes out to some people who owe him some money,
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- Far less money, and he starts grabbing them by the throat.
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- He's like, "pay me or i'm going to have you thrown in prison."
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- When the boss hears about it, he goes, "what are you doing?
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- I was merciful to you and you're not merciful to the people
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- Around you?
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- You're a wicked guy," and he throws him in prison.
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- God says, "if i show mercy to you, i expect you to show it
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- To others."
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- God has shown me mercy.
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- Second reason, god commands me to be merciful.
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- God commands me to be merciful.
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- There's a verse in the bible, in micah, and i'm gonna show it to
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- You up here on the screen.
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- It's, again, one of many verses.
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- "god has told you what is good and what he requires from you."
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- Okay, so whatever comes next is what god says is good and is
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- Required of you.
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- Here's what's required of you, three things.
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- "to do what is right with others, to love being merciful
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- To others, and to live humbly in fellowship with god."
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- Now, leave that up there for a minute.
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- That's--if you wanna summarize what life's all about, god says,
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- "this is what's required of you if you're gonna be in my family,
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- If you're gonna be my child.
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- You gotta do what's right with others.
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- You gotta love being merciful to others.
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- And you gotta live humbly in fellowship with god."
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- Let me shock you with this next statement.
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- God says that being merciful is more important than worship.
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- Did you hear that?
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- God says that you being merciful to other people is actually more
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- Important than worship.
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- Hosea 6, verse 6, god says this: "i don't want your sacrifices!
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- I want you to be merciful!"
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- Now, what is he saying here?
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- He's saying, "i don't want your acts of worship.
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- I want you to be merciful."
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- This is much more important.
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- In fact, this verse, hosea chapter 6, verse 6, is so
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- Important, jesus quotes it two times in his ministry, in two
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- Totally unrelated situations, in debates with the pharisees.
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- This is one of the most important verses in the bible.
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- So look at it again.
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- "i don't want your sacrifices.
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- I want you to be merciful."
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- God is saying, "i prefer a flexible heart over an
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- Inflexible ritual.
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- I don't care if you come in saying, 'i praise you, i love
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- You, you're great,' and all of that, and then you go out and
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- You treat people like dirt."
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- You treat your wife or your husband or your children or your
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- Friends or the people you work with or people who are working
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- At fast food joints, whatever.
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- He says, "if you don't treat people with mercy, you've missed
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- The whole point."
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- God's shown me mercy, and he commands me to be merciful.
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- There's a third reason i need to learn what we're gonna look at
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- This weekend, and it's because i'm gonna need more mercy in
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- The future.
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- I'm gonna need more mercy in the future.
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- You're not going to be perfect between now and when you get to
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- Heaven, and the bible tells us that we cannot receive what we
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- Are unwilling to give.
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- And so in james chapter 2, james 2, verse 13, the bible says
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- This: "you must," circle that word "must."
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- "you must show mercy to others, or god won't show mercy to you.
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- But," here's the good news, "the person who shows mercy can stand
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- Without fear at the judgment."
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- Don't you wanna be able to do that on judgment day, to be able
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- To stand without fear on judgment day?
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- It says, "the person who shows mercy can stand without fear on
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- The judgment day."
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- Now there's a fourth reason, and that is, showing mercy brings or
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- Causes happiness.
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- Showing mercy brings happiness.
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- It's really the source of happiness.
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- The bible teaches over and over in scripture that the more
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- Merciful i am, the happier i'm gonna be.
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- Remember the beatitudes?
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- The word "blessed" also means "happy," makarios.
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- He's saying, "happy are the merciful."
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- If you wanna be happy, you need to learn this quality.
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- And the more you learn this quality, the happier you're
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- Gonna be.
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- Look at this verse on the screen.
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- The bible says, "if you wanna be happy," proverbs 14:21, "be kind
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- To those in need."
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- And then he says, "it is a sin to despise anyone."
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- And let me show you another one, proverbs 11:17 says this: "a
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- Merciful person helps himself, but a cruel person
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- Hurts himself."
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- So you actually help yourself when you are merciful.
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- I love this verse, proverbs 11:17.
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- In the living bible, it says, "your own soul is nourished when
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- You show mercy."
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- Your own soul is nourished when you show mercy.
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- So, these four reasons--god's shown me mercy, he commands me
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- To be merciful, i'll need mercy in the future, and it's the key
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- To happiness--tell me that this is an important quality that i
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- Need to build into my life.
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- ♪♪♪
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- Pastor rick: today, i wanna invite you to join me in
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- Something that's very close to my heart, fulfilling the great
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- Commission of jesus christ.
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- Sharing the good news is the most important thing we do.
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- When we work together, there's nothing that god cannot do to us
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- When we're unified.
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- Through "daily hope," the message of jesus christ is now
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- Reaching nearly every country in the world.
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- That's 197 nations.
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- We're going to even places where it's difficult or dangerous or
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- Illegal to talk about christ openly.
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- We're sharing the certain hope of jesus, and it's changing
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- Lives every single day.
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- Right now, we have an incredible opportunity.
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- That's why i'm saying this to you personally.
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- There are some very generous friends that have offered to
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- Match every single gift given to "daily hope," dollar for dollar.
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- That means whatever you give today is gonna be doubled
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- In impact.
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- So i'm asking you, i want to encourage you, to give as god
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- Leads you today.
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- And i want you to pray this prayer.
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- God, what do you want to give through me?
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- Don't say, "god, what should i give?"
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- Say, "god, what do you want to give through me?"
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- That's called giving by faith, giving by revelation.
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- And your gift will go twice as far to share the certain hope of
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- Jesus christ and make disciples all around the world.
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- God bless you.
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- Pastor rick: all right, let's look at how can i learn this
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- Quality of mercy in a world that's not very merciful?
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- It's pretty unmerciful.
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- How do i fulfill what god calls my ministry of mercy?
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- Some of these ways you're quite familiar with, but i guarantee
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- You there's a few of them that you probably have never even
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- Thought of.
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- "oh, that's a part of mercy?"
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- And yes, it is too.
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- Let's look at them.
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- Number one, be patient with people's quirks.
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- Be patient with people's quirks.
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- I'm talking about--don't look at them right now.
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- The idiosyncrasies, their peculiarities, their mannerisms,
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- Their odd behavior, their irritating habits.
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- You know what i'm talking about, right?
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- Okay.
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- You show mercy, you show mercy when you don't get irritated and
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- You don't get angry and you don't get uptight with people's
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- Personal quirks.
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- And we've all got them.
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- You've got them.
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- I've got them.
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- And we've all got these little mannerisms and irritating
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- Habits, a way of speaking and thinking and talking and acting.
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- When you control your anger, and when you refuse to get upset by
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- People's quirks, you are showing mercy.
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- It's a very practical way.
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- Now, i've been married 38 years.
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- I will have been married 39 years before this month is over.
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- I wanna give you maybe the most important marriage advice you'll
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- Ever get in your life.
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- It's the next verse.
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- Ephesians 4:2.
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- "be patient with each other, making allowances for each
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- Other's faults."
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- Why?
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- "because of your love."
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- Circle the phrase "making allowance."
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- Making allowance for each other's faults.
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- You see, you married a sinner, guys.
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- And she married a bigger one.
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- Two imperfect people cannot make a perfect marriage.
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- You have faults, your spouse has faults, and marriage is--a great
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- Marriage is the union of two great forgivers.
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- That's what makes a great marriage.
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- It's the union of two great forgivers.
- 00:13:53.649 --> 00:13:56.752
- Now, it says here, "make allowance for each other's
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- Faults because of your love."
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- The number one place you need to learn to show mercy is at home.
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- It's at home.
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- Why?
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- Because you see each other's faults far more than anybody
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- Else does, and you're up close and personal with those faults,
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- And you've got to live with them the rest of your life.
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- So show mercy.
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- Show mercy.
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- You know, and when i used to do marriage counseling, i
- 00:14:23.712 --> 00:14:25.581
- Discovered that marriages don't die usually because of one
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- Big catastrophe.
- 00:14:28.517 --> 00:14:30.486
- Marriages are buried because of a lot of little digs.
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- And they're just little nagging and digging and nagging
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- And digging.
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- It says, "make allowance for each other's faults because of
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- Your love."
- 00:14:43.666 --> 00:14:45.000
- Look at this verse on the screen.
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- James 2:13 says, "the man who makes no allowances for others
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- Will find none made for him."
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- None may--show mercy.
- 00:14:53.909 --> 00:14:56.912
- The bible says we show mercy by being patient with each other's
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- Quirks, our foibles, our weaknesses, our mistakes, all of
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- The things that make us human.
- 00:15:04.053 --> 00:15:06.755
- See, i really wanna do that.
- 00:15:06.755 --> 00:15:09.325
- How do i get more patient, with my kids, with my spouse, with
- 00:15:09.325 --> 00:15:13.362
- My friends?
- 00:15:13.362 --> 00:15:14.730
- How do i get more patient?
- 00:15:14.730 --> 00:15:16.065
- One word, wisdom.
- 00:15:16.065 --> 00:15:18.667
- The wiser you get, the more patient you will be.
- 00:15:18.667 --> 00:15:22.137
- The bible says this in james chapter 3: "the wisdom that
- 00:15:22.137 --> 00:15:25.541
- Comes from heaven is pure, and peace loving, and gentle at all
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- Times," circle "all," "gentle at all times, and is willing to
- 00:15:32.815 --> 00:15:36.986
- Yield to others.
- 00:15:36.986 --> 00:15:38.754
- Wisdom is full of mercy."
- 00:15:38.754 --> 00:15:42.825
- So the wiser you get, the more merciful you get.
- 00:15:42.825 --> 00:15:45.627
- A lot of people who think they're wise aren't.
- 00:15:45.627 --> 00:15:48.063
- They're pompous--pompous.
- 00:15:48.063 --> 00:15:52.901
- [congregation laughs]
- 00:15:52.901 --> 00:15:54.703
- You thought i was gonna say that word.
- 00:15:54.703 --> 00:15:58.440
- Wisdom is full of mercy.
- 00:15:58.440 --> 00:16:00.542
- Now, notice it says there, "wisdom from heaven is
- 00:16:00.542 --> 00:16:03.012
- Peace loving."
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- If you're not peace-loving, you're not wise.
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- It says it's gentle at all times.
- 00:16:07.116 --> 00:16:09.551
- If you're easily irritated, you're not wise.
- 00:16:09.551 --> 00:16:12.821
- It says, "it's willing to yield."
- 00:16:12.821 --> 00:16:15.524
- If you're unwilling to yield, you're not wise.
- 00:16:15.524 --> 00:16:19.661
- The wiser i become, the more patient and merciful i become.
- 00:16:19.661 --> 00:16:25.968
- The more unbending, the more irritating, the more angry, the
- 00:16:25.968 --> 00:16:32.441
- More i get upset, the more foolish the bible says i am.
- 00:16:32.441 --> 00:16:37.813
- If you're easily irritated, you're not wise.
- 00:16:37.813 --> 00:16:39.448
- So be patient with people's quirks.
- 00:16:39.448 --> 00:16:41.450
- Number two, the second way to practice mercy this week, help
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- Anyone hurting around me.
- 00:16:45.187 --> 00:16:48.290
- Help anyone hurting around me.
- 00:16:48.290 --> 00:16:49.892
- There are hurting people all around you, but too often we're
- 00:16:49.892 --> 00:16:52.928
- Too busy to notice it.
- 00:16:52.928 --> 00:16:54.863
- If you care, you'll be aware.
- 00:16:54.863 --> 00:16:57.366
- Jesus told the story of the good samaritan to teach this very
- 00:16:57.366 --> 00:17:00.069
- Point, about helping the hurting around us is the meaning
- 00:17:00.069 --> 00:17:03.872
- Of mercy.
- 00:17:03.872 --> 00:17:06.275
- A guy came to jesus one day and he said, "jesus, what's the most
- 00:17:06.275 --> 00:17:09.778
- Important command in the bible?"
- 00:17:09.778 --> 00:17:12.114
- Okay, "give me the bottom line here.
- 00:17:12.114 --> 00:17:14.783
- I don't have time to read the whole bible."
- 00:17:14.783 --> 00:17:17.252
- So, what is it that matters most?
- 00:17:17.252 --> 00:17:19.054
- And jesus said, "oh, that's really easy.
- 00:17:19.054 --> 00:17:20.389
- It's two things.
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- Love god with all your heart, and love your neighbor
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- As yourself."
- 00:17:24.293 --> 00:17:25.627
- That's the whole bible in a nutshell.
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- Love god with all your heart and love your neighbor as yourself.
- 00:17:26.995 --> 00:17:29.398
- Now the guy wants to get out of this, and he's kind of a
- 00:17:29.398 --> 00:17:31.667
- Weaseling out of it, he says, "so, love your neighbor
- 00:17:31.667 --> 00:17:33.969
- As yourself?
- 00:17:33.969 --> 00:17:35.304
- Yeah, who's my neighbor?"
- 00:17:35.304 --> 00:17:37.072
- And jesus says, "well, let me tell you a story."
- 00:17:37.072 --> 00:17:39.875
- And he tells the story, the famous story of the good
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- Samaritan, of the man who was going down the road to jericho,
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- And he's robbed, and he's beaten, and he's abused, and
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- He's left for dead at the side of the road.
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- And three guys pass by him, and two of them do nothing.
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- And the third guy, of another race and culture, stops and
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- Helps him, nurses him back to health, puts him on his donkey,
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- Takes him to a hotel, a motel, checks in, pays the bill for the
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- Guy, and says that if he has any other bills, "when i come back
- 00:18:10.739 --> 00:18:14.810
- By, i'll pay for it."
- 00:18:14.810 --> 00:18:16.411
- And jesus looks at the guy who says, "who's my neighbor?"
- 00:18:16.411 --> 00:18:18.413
- And says, "who do you think was the neighbor?"
- 00:18:18.413 --> 00:18:20.949
- And the man says, "the guy who showed the most mercy."
- 00:18:20.949 --> 00:18:25.954
- The guy who showed the most mercy.
- 00:18:25.954 --> 00:18:29.758
- You cannot love your neighbor as yourself without being merciful,
- 00:18:29.758 --> 00:18:34.296
- And we help those around us.
- 00:18:34.296 --> 00:18:36.131
- Look at some verses here.
- 00:18:36.131 --> 00:18:37.933
- Proverbs 3:27, "whenever you possibly can, do good to those
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- Who need it."
- 00:18:43.672 --> 00:18:45.007
- You gotta look for it.
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- Now, by the way, when you are helping people in need, and
- 00:18:46.341 --> 00:18:49.778
- There are gonna be people in your area of life this week that
- 00:18:49.778 --> 00:18:53.615
- God intentionally puts in your life to allow you to
- 00:18:53.615 --> 00:18:56.185
- Practice mercy.
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- They're gonna have an emotional need, they're gonna have a
- 00:18:57.619 --> 00:19:00.322
- Physical need, a financial need.
- 00:19:00.322 --> 00:19:03.058
- They may just need an assistance.
- 00:19:03.058 --> 00:19:06.595
- They may need, you know, help, you to care for them in
- 00:19:06.595 --> 00:19:09.698
- Some way.
- 00:19:09.698 --> 00:19:11.266
- God, when he's watching you, is not simply watching what you do,
- 00:19:11.266 --> 00:19:14.670
- He's watching your attitude.
- 00:19:14.670 --> 00:19:16.772
- Look at this verse, romans 12:8.
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- "when you do acts of mercy, show mercy with," what?
- 00:19:19.041 --> 00:19:25.781
- "cheerfulness," yeah, circle that.
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- With cheerfulness.
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- He says, "you don't do it grinning and bearing it.
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- You don't do it with a grudging attitude."
- 00:19:31.720 --> 00:19:34.289
- I love this verse, romans 12:8, in "the message" paraphrase.
- 00:19:34.289 --> 00:19:37.559
- Look up here on the screen, it says this.
- 00:19:37.559 --> 00:19:39.561
- "if you work with the disadvantaged, don't let
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- Yourself get irritated with them or depressed by them.
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- Keep a smile on your face."
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- Mercy is being patient with people's quirks, and it's being
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- Helpful with people's hurts.
- 00:19:54.076 --> 00:19:56.511
- Number three, third way you can show mercy this week.
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- Give people a second chance, and everybody needs that.
- 00:20:00.549 --> 00:20:05.687
- Give people a second chance.
- 00:20:05.687 --> 00:20:08.156
- We forgive the fallen.
- 00:20:08.156 --> 00:20:10.392
- Especially those who have hurt you, you need to forgive.
- 00:20:10.392 --> 00:20:13.929
- Now, that's not normal, is it?
- 00:20:13.929 --> 00:20:16.231
- Normally when somebody hurts us, we want to do one of two things,
- 00:20:16.231 --> 00:20:19.601
- Either a, get even, or b, write them off.
- 00:20:19.601 --> 00:20:24.339
- Somebody hurts you, you don't want to be giving them a
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- Second chance.
- 00:20:27.409 --> 00:20:28.744
- Your natural inclination, "that guy hurt me at work, you know,
- 00:20:28.744 --> 00:20:31.346
- He messed me up, you know, he put me down in front of somebody
- 00:20:31.346 --> 00:20:34.583
- Else," whatever.
- 00:20:34.583 --> 00:20:35.951
- You either want to get back, or you want to write them off.
- 00:20:35.951 --> 00:20:39.087
- But here's what the bible says, ephesians 4. "don't get bitter
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- Or angry or use harsh words that hurt each other.
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- Don't yell at one another or curse or ever be rude.
- 00:20:50.465 --> 00:20:56.938
- Instead, be kind and merciful, and forgive others, just as god
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- Forgave you."
- 00:21:02.344 --> 00:21:03.712
- Now notice in that verse, jesus contrasts, or the bible
- 00:21:03.712 --> 00:21:07.182
- Contrasts mercy with six negative responses.
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- You might circle those, okay?
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- Because he says, if you wanna help, if you wanna be merciful,
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- He says, "don't get bitter."
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- That's number one.
- 00:21:19.061 --> 00:21:20.429
- "don't get angry, don't use harsh words.
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- Don't yell, don't curse, and don't be rude."
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- Do you see why mercy is so important today?
- 00:21:27.669 --> 00:21:30.672
- Because that's the way the world acts today.
- 00:21:30.672 --> 00:21:33.308
- That's the way it responds, with bitterness, harsh words, hurt.
- 00:21:33.308 --> 00:21:36.778
- If you don't believe it, just go on the internet, and you'll see
- 00:21:36.778 --> 00:21:40.882
- That there's very, very little mercy on the internet.
- 00:21:40.882 --> 00:21:45.520
- How would you rate yourself on mercy?
- 00:21:45.520 --> 00:21:48.256
- How would you rate yourself?
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- Bitter, angry, harsh words?
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- Do you yell, you curse, do you get rude?
- 00:21:51.526 --> 00:21:53.562
- Or are you always kind and merciful, forgiving others just
- 00:21:53.562 --> 00:21:56.198
- As god forgave you?
- 00:21:56.198 --> 00:21:58.100
- How would you rate yourself on this?
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- Number four, another way to show mercy.
- 00:21:59.534 --> 00:22:03.405
- Do good to those who hurt me.
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- I am to do good to those who hurt me.
- 00:22:07.476 --> 00:22:12.114
- See, if you really boil it down, mercy is giving people what they
- 00:22:12.114 --> 00:22:16.518
- Need, not what they deserve.
- 00:22:16.518 --> 00:22:20.288
- That's mercy.
- 00:22:20.288 --> 00:22:22.157
- Giving people what they need, not what they deserve.
- 00:22:22.157 --> 00:22:23.759
- Why?
- 00:22:23.759 --> 00:22:25.127
- Because that's what god does with you.
- 00:22:25.127 --> 00:22:26.461
- God gives you what you need, not what you deserve.
- 00:22:26.461 --> 00:22:28.563
- If i got what i deserved from god, i wouldn't be
- 00:22:28.563 --> 00:22:30.298
- Standing here.
- 00:22:30.298 --> 00:22:31.833
- I wouldn't be alive.
- 00:22:31.833 --> 00:22:33.935
- The bible says, "we give people what they need, not what they
- 00:22:33.935 --> 00:22:36.772
- Deserve, and we do good to those who hurt."
- 00:22:36.772 --> 00:22:38.940
- Why should i do good to those who hurt me?
- 00:22:38.940 --> 00:22:42.677
- How many times have you heard me say "hurt people hurt people"?
- 00:22:42.677 --> 00:22:48.250
- Yeah, hurt people hurt people.
- 00:22:48.250 --> 00:22:51.052
- And the people who you want to love the least are those who
- 00:22:51.052 --> 00:22:57.025
- Need it the most.
- 00:22:57.025 --> 00:22:59.428
- The most hurtful people are those who need massive doses of
- 00:22:59.428 --> 00:23:03.999
- Love and mercy.
- 00:23:03.999 --> 00:23:07.702
- Let me ask you, just think in your mind, who's hurt you the
- 00:23:07.702 --> 00:23:10.138
- Most in life?
- 00:23:10.138 --> 00:23:12.140
- Think about that.
- 00:23:12.140 --> 00:23:13.475
- Who's hurt you the most in life?
- 00:23:13.475 --> 00:23:15.177
- They need your mercy.
- 00:23:15.177 --> 00:23:17.145
- Let me ask you this: who's hurt you the most recently in life?
- 00:23:17.145 --> 00:23:21.216
- They need your mercy.
- 00:23:23.885 --> 00:23:25.987
- The bible says this in luke chapter 6, jesus says, "love
- 00:23:25.987 --> 00:23:30.058
- Your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without
- 00:23:30.058 --> 00:23:34.863
- Expecting anything back."
- 00:23:34.863 --> 00:23:37.065
- You say, "wait a minute, wait a minute, why would i wanna
- 00:23:37.065 --> 00:23:38.733
- Do that?"
- 00:23:38.733 --> 00:23:40.068
- Well, remember those four reasons we went over?
- 00:23:40.068 --> 00:23:41.403
- God's shown me mercy.
- 00:23:41.403 --> 00:23:42.771
- He commands me to be merciful.
- 00:23:42.771 --> 00:23:45.040
- I'm gonna need mercy in the future, and it's the key
- 00:23:45.040 --> 00:23:47.175
- To happiness.
- 00:23:47.175 --> 00:23:49.211
- Any time you hold on to hurt, you're making
- 00:23:49.211 --> 00:23:50.779
- Yourself miserable.
- 00:23:50.779 --> 00:23:52.147
- You're not hurting them.
- 00:23:52.147 --> 00:23:53.748
- "love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without
- 00:23:53.748 --> 00:23:57.452
- Expecting to get anything back."
- 00:23:57.452 --> 00:23:58.787
- See, if somebody hurts you, that puts you above them, if you
- 00:23:58.787 --> 00:24:04.226
- Forgive them.
- 00:24:04.226 --> 00:24:05.560
- If you get even, you're just on the same level.
- 00:24:05.560 --> 00:24:07.395
- You're no better than they are if you get even.
- 00:24:07.395 --> 00:24:09.898
- If you do a hurt, you're beneath them.
- 00:24:09.898 --> 00:24:11.266
- If you get even, you're even.
- 00:24:11.266 --> 00:24:12.667
- But if you forgive them, you're above them morally.
- 00:24:12.667 --> 00:24:15.136
- "love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without
- 00:24:15.136 --> 00:24:18.340
- Expecting anything back.
- 00:24:18.340 --> 00:24:19.975
- Then your reward will be great," there's the motivation, "and you
- 00:24:19.975 --> 00:24:24.613
- Will be the children of the most high," in other words, you get
- 00:24:24.613 --> 00:24:27.883
- The identity, "because god is kind to the ungrateful
- 00:24:27.883 --> 00:24:31.386
- And wicked."
- 00:24:31.386 --> 00:24:32.721
- Is god kind to the ungrateful and wicked?
- 00:24:32.721 --> 00:24:34.089
- Just look at the world.
- 00:24:34.089 --> 00:24:35.457
- God is kind to the ungrateful and wicked.
- 00:24:35.457 --> 00:24:38.693
- And so he says, "so, be merciful, just as your father
- 00:24:38.693 --> 00:24:43.798
- Is merciful."
- 00:24:43.798 --> 00:24:45.734
- You know there's a famous story about president abraham
- 00:24:45.734 --> 00:24:49.871
- Lincoln's mercy, that after the southern states were defeated by
- 00:24:49.871 --> 00:24:55.877
- The northern states in the civil war in america 150 years ago,
- 00:24:55.877 --> 00:25:01.583
- President lincoln spoke to a crowd in washington dc from the
- 00:25:01.583 --> 00:25:06.388
- Balcony of the white house, and he was laying out his plan
- 00:25:06.388 --> 00:25:11.993
- For reconstruction.
- 00:25:11.993 --> 00:25:13.895
- And at the end of his speech, a very famous senator from iowa,
- 00:25:13.895 --> 00:25:17.465
- Whose name was james harlan, shouted out, "and what do we do
- 00:25:17.465 --> 00:25:22.304
- With the rebels?
- 00:25:22.304 --> 00:25:25.407
- What do we do with these confederates," who had started
- 00:25:25.407 --> 00:25:27.409
- This whole war in the first place.
- 00:25:27.409 --> 00:25:29.511
- And the unmerciful crowd shouted back, "hang them!
- 00:25:29.511 --> 00:25:35.083
- Hang them!
- 00:25:35.083 --> 00:25:36.851
- Hang them!"
- 00:25:36.851 --> 00:25:39.220
- And what was interesting in this famous story is that lincoln's
- 00:25:39.220 --> 00:25:42.490
- Youngest son, tad, who was 11 at the time, was standing next to
- 00:25:42.490 --> 00:25:46.161
- Him, and he looked up at his daddy and he said, "no, daddy.
- 00:25:46.161 --> 00:25:49.497
- No, papa, no.
- 00:25:49.497 --> 00:25:50.832
- Not hang them, hang on to them.
- 00:25:50.832 --> 00:25:54.436
- Hang on to them."
- 00:25:54.436 --> 00:25:55.804
- And lincoln grinned at his 11-year-old son, and he said,
- 00:25:55.804 --> 00:25:58.306
- "that's it.
- 00:25:58.306 --> 00:25:59.674
- Tad's got the answer.
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- We're not going to hang them.
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- We're going to hang on to them."
- 00:26:03.144 --> 00:26:05.747
- And that is mercy.
- 00:26:05.747 --> 00:26:07.882
- Number five, a fifth way to show mercy is to be kind, the bible
- 00:26:07.882 --> 00:26:12.854
- Says, to those who offend me.
- 00:26:12.854 --> 00:26:15.557
- Be kind to those who offend me.
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- You have probably noticed that the verbal attacks on christians
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- Are going up in our society.
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- Have you noticed this?
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- And it's increasing, and people are taking slurs at christians
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- And potshots at christians and being attacked like never before
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- In america.
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- And there are a lot of groups pushing anti-christian agendas
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- Today because we represent a barrier, and the barrier is we
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- Hold on to what god's truth is, and we say, "sorry, god's truth
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- Is god's truth, and we just have to follow god's truth."
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- As peter said, "we must obey god rather than men."
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