Steven Furtick - The Great Emoti Con (Part 1)

June 3, 2026 | 27:29

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Steven Furtick | Steven Furtick - The Great Emoti Con (Part 1) | June 3, 2026
  • Turned 20 years old this year,
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  • Turned 20 years old this year, and we thought that it would be
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  • And we thought that it would be fun to look back at some
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  • Fun to look back at some of our favorite sermons
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  • Of our favorite sermons through the years.
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  • Through the years. pastor steven might look
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  • Pastor steven might look a little different,
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  • A little different, but i promise that these
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  • But i promise that these sermons are just as impactful
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  • Sermons are just as impactful now as they were then.
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  • Now as they were then. so lean in and be expectant for
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  • So lean in and be expectant for what god wants to speak to you
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  • What god wants to speak to you through today's episode of
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  • Through today's episode of elevation with steven furtick.
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  • >> announcer: up next,
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  • An encouraging message
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  • From pastor steven furtick
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  • Of elevation church.
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  • If you're looking
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  • To strengthen your faith
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  • And shift your perspective,
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  • Stay tuned.
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  • ♪ ♪
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  • >> we're going to be studying
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  • >> we're going to be studying from one verse primarily today,
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  • From one verse primarily today, and i have several other verses
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  • And i have several other verses i'll mention.
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  • I'll mention. but i want to put
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  • But i want to put on the screen john 15.
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  • On the screen john 15. you ever heard
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  • You ever heard of this scripture?
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  • Of this scripture? we can't let it go.
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  • We can't let it go. i'm just saying i want
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  • I'm just saying i want to drain a little bit more
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  • To drain a little bit more out of john 15.
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  • Out of john 15. such a rich passage.
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  • Such a rich passage. we've been concentrating
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  • We've been concentrating on jesus is speaking
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  • On jesus is speaking to his disciples,
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  • To his disciples, preparing them to face
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  • Preparing them to face great sorrow,
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  • Great sorrow, but to keep their joy.
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  • But to keep their joy. and that's our goal
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  • And that's our goal of the series.
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  • Of the series. in fact, you might say
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  • In fact, you might say this is not a theme verse,
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  • This is not a theme verse, what i'm going to show you,
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  • What i'm going to show you, for our series;
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  • For our series; it's our goal verse.
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  • It's our goal verse. it's our statement of intention
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  • It's our statement of intention of what we want to happen
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  • Of what we want to happen in our lives
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  • In our lives over the next four weeks,
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  • Over the next four weeks, where jesus said,
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  • Where jesus said, john 15:11 --
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  • John 15:11 -- and i'm going to put it in
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  • And i'm going to put it in a different translation
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  • A different translation than we usually read --
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  • Than we usually read -- but he said, "i have told you
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  • But he said, "i have told you these things so that
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  • These things so that you will be filled with my joy."
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  • You will be filled with my joy." jesus and joy are not opposites.
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  • Jesus and joy are not opposites. in fact, they are intertwined.
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  • In fact, they are intertwined. jesus and joy are not opposites.
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  • Jesus and joy are not opposites. god and happiness are
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  • God and happiness are not opposites.
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  • Not opposites. he said, "i told you
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  • He said, "i told you these things, the commands
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  • These things, the commands that i gave you,
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  • That i gave you, so that you will be
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  • So that you will be filled with my joy;
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  • Filled with my joy; yes, your joy will overflow."
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  • Yes, your joy will overflow." tell somebody next to you,
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  • Tell somebody next to you, "i'm going to spill on you.
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  • "i'm going to spill on you. i've overflowing."
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  • I've overflowing." "i was glad when
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  • "i was glad when they said unto me, let us go
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  • They said unto me, let us go to the house of the lord."
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  • To the house of the lord." i was glad.
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  • I was glad. i didn't go begrudgingly.
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  • I didn't go begrudgingly. i went gladly.
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  • I went gladly. that's why i like
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  • That's why i like to have fun in church,
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  • To have fun in church, even if my humor is
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  • Even if my humor is corny sometimes.
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  • Corny sometimes. i figure if i'm going
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  • I figure if i'm going to endure in ministry,
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  • To endure in ministry, i've got to enjoy my ministry.
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  • I've got to enjoy my ministry. you can't endure
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  • You can't endure what you never enjoy.
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  • What you never enjoy. it's true.
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  • It's true. you can't endure what you...
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  • You can't endure what you... i know it because
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  • I know it because the writer of hebrews,
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  • The writer of hebrews, when he was talking about
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  • When he was talking about how jesus endured the cross,
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  • How jesus endured the cross, he said, "he endured
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  • He said, "he endured the cross for the joy
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  • The cross for the joy set before him."
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  • Set before him." how about that?
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  • How about that? in order to endure
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  • In order to endure what he didn't want
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  • What he didn't want to go through,
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  • To go through, because jesus prayed,
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  • Because jesus prayed, "if there's any other way,
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  • "if there's any other way, let this cup pass from me;
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  • Let this cup pass from me; nevertheless, not my will
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  • Nevertheless, not my will but yours be done,"
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  • But yours be done," and it was because
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  • And it was because he set joy before him
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  • He set joy before him that he was able to endure
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  • That he was able to endure what he suffered.
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  • What he suffered. you can't just endure
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  • You can't just endure a marriage year after year
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  • A marriage year after year if you never learn
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  • If you never learn how to enjoy one another.
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  • How to enjoy one another. that's why i'm building a church
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  • That's why i'm building a church that hopefully our children
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  • That hopefully our children will enjoy coming to.
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  • Will enjoy coming to. i want them to not just endure
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  • I want them to not just endure it until they hit college
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  • It until they hit college and then split.
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  • And then split. but i figure for them
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  • But i figure for them to keep coming
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  • To keep coming when it's their choice,
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  • When it's their choice, they've got to enjoy it.
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  • They've got to enjoy it. they've got to
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  • They've got to look forward to it.
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  • Look forward to it. amen.
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  • Amen. and so you ought to bring
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  • And so you ought to bring joy with you to church
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  • Joy with you to church because jesus said
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  • Because jesus said your joy should be overflowing.
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  • Your joy should be overflowing. now, transitionally speaking,
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  • Now, transitionally speaking, how many of you remember
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  • How many of you remember your first time
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  • Your first time that you used an emoticon
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  • That you used an emoticon in a conversation
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  • In a conversation on text messaging?
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  • On text messaging? how many of you remember
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  • How many of you remember the first time that you...
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  • The first time that you... how many of you have
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  • How many of you have never used an emoticon
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  • Never used an emoticon in conversation on text --
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  • In conversation on text -- you know, the little symbols
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  • You know, the little symbols that you use; how many of you
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  • That you use; how many of you have never used it?
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  • Have never used it? raise your hand.
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  • Raise your hand. okay.
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  • Okay. how many of you are silently
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  • How many of you are silently judging my masculinity
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  • Judging my masculinity and calling in the... yeah,
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  • And calling in the... yeah, 'cause the first time
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  • 'cause the first time i used an emoticon, i remember,
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  • I used an emoticon, i remember, it was like a big deal.
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  • It was like a big deal. i wouldn't say
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  • I wouldn't say i was an early adopter,
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  • I was an early adopter, but i saw all these people
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  • But i saw all these people using all these cool symbols,
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  • Using all these cool symbols, texting me,
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  • Texting me, so i went to london gatch
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  • So i went to london gatch and asked her,
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  • And asked her, "how do you get those stupid
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  • "how do you get those stupid little things on your phone
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  • Little things on your phone that you always have
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  • That you always have and the little stupid cats
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  • And the little stupid cats that you send out;
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  • That you send out; i don't want the cats
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  • I don't want the cats but i just want like
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  • But i just want like the smiley faces and stuff".
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  • The smiley faces and stuff". and so she was like, "oh yeah,"
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  • And so she was like, "oh yeah," and she showed me how.
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  • And she showed me how. and i thought the first test
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  • And i thought the first test market to use one,
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  • Market to use one, somebody who wouldn't judge me
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  • Somebody who wouldn't judge me for it, i sent it to holly.
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  • For it, i sent it to holly. and so my first emoticon
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  • And so my first emoticon text was to holly,
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  • Text was to holly, and i figured
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  • And i figured she's appreciate it.
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  • She's appreciate it. and she said --
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  • And she said -- for all of you
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  • For all of you that are judging me --
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  • That are judging me -- when you said that
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  • When you said that she sent me back one of these,
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  • She sent me back one of these, and i was like,
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  • And i was like, "oh yeah... emoti-come on."
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  • "oh yeah... emoti-come on." try to enjoy my job.
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  • Try to enjoy my job. but then it was like,
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  • But then it was like, "well, i want to branch out.
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  • "well, i want to branch out. i don't just want
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  • I don't just want to send these to holly.
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  • To send these to holly. i want to see if
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  • I want to see if i can send them to like one
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  • I can send them to like one of my guy friends."
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  • Of my guy friends." and so i sent one to my pastor,
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  • And so i sent one to my pastor, pastor craig groeschel.
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  • Pastor craig groeschel. he was the first man
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  • He was the first man that i sent an emoticon to,
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  • That i sent an emoticon to, because i'm very
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  • Because i'm very emoti-comfortable
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  • Emoti-comfortable in our relationship.
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  • In our relationship. i've got a lot of these.
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  • I've got a lot of these. and so i was like,
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  • And so i was like, "i'll send him one;
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  • "i'll send him one; he won't judge me either."
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  • He won't judge me either." but i wanted to send him
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  • But i wanted to send him something safe.
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  • Something safe. i didn't want
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  • I didn't want to send him that guy.
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  • To send him that guy. so i found this
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  • So i found this and i was like, "well,
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  • And i was like, "well, that's totally acceptable
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  • That's totally acceptable for one man
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  • For one man to send to another man,"
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  • To send to another man," so i sent him that.
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  • So i sent him that. and it was weird,
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  • And it was weird, 'cause he sent me that back.
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  • 'cause he sent me that back. not really; just kidding.
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  • Not really; just kidding. that would have been... tragic.
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  • That would have been... tragic. but i found out, you know,
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  • But i found out, you know, after you practice a little bit,
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  • After you practice a little bit, you can actually have an entire,
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  • You can actually have an entire, let's see, emoti-conversation.
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  • Let's see, emoti-conversation. you can actually now communicate
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  • You can actually now communicate without being bothered
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  • Without being bothered by those pesky words
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  • By those pesky words in the english language
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  • In the english language if you are creative enough.
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  • If you are creative enough. you can have
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  • You can have an entire emoti-conversation.
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  • An entire emoti-conversation. sometimes it's
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  • Sometimes it's a little emoti-confusing
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  • A little emoti-confusing to figure out exactly
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  • To figure out exactly what's going on
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  • What's going on in the emoti-conversation,
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  • In the emoti-conversation, but it can be done.
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  • But it can be done. and if you follow me just
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  • And if you follow me just a little bit longer,
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  • A little bit longer, i only have a few more
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  • I only have a few more of these little screens.
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  • Of these little screens. i found out that it's very...
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  • I found out that it's very... i trip myself up sometimes.
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  • I trip myself up sometimes. it's very emoti-convenient
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  • It's very emoti-convenient when you communicate this way
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  • When you communicate this way because you can actually express
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  • Because you can actually express more emotion
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  • More emotion than you really feel.
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  • Than you really feel. it's awesome.
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  • It's awesome. so a friend can send me
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  • So a friend can send me something they think is funny,
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  • Something they think is funny, and if i'm on my game,
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  • And if i'm on my game, i can send 'em one
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  • I can send 'em one of these guys back.
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  • Of these guys back. now, for the record,
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  • Now, for the record, i've probably only laughed
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  • I've probably only laughed until i cried twice in my life,
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  • Until i cried twice in my life, but i send these out daily
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  • But i send these out daily because it makes the other
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  • Because it makes the other person feel so good about
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  • Person feel so good about themselves and it costs me
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  • Themselves and it costs me so little.
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  • So little. come on.
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  • Come on. you know when you
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  • You know when you send these out,
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  • Send these out, you do it with a straight face.
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  • You do it with a straight face. you're not even smiling.
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  • You're not even smiling. but they don't know.
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  • But they don't know. so i want to speak to you today
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  • So i want to speak to you today for a few moments on the subject
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  • For a few moments on the subject "the great emoti-con".
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  • "the great emoti-con". hello.
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  • Hello. hello.
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  • Hello. "the great emoti-con".
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  • "the great emoti-con". and on a more serious level,
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  • And on a more serious level, i want to talk about
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  • I want to talk about how your emotions play tricks
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  • How your emotions play tricks on you, how your mind plays
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  • On you, how your mind plays tricks on you, how your heart
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  • Tricks on you, how your heart plays tricks on you.
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  • Plays tricks on you. the old testament prophet
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  • The old testament prophet jeremiah said "the heart is
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  • Jeremiah said "the heart is deceitfully wicked above
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  • Deceitfully wicked above all else; who can trust it,"
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  • All else; who can trust it," he said.
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  • He said. and yet, the scripture gives us
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  • And yet, the scripture gives us this promise that in jesus
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  • This promise that in jesus our joy should overflow.
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  • Our joy should overflow. in this series,
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  • In this series, i believe god wants us to go
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  • I believe god wants us to go from a state of emoti-confusion
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  • From a state of emoti-confusion to -- watch this --
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  • To -- watch this -- emoti-control,
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  • Emoti-control, and we're going to do it
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  • And we're going to do it with some help
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  • With some help from the wisdom writer
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  • From the wisdom writer in the book of proverbs.
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  • In the book of proverbs. proverbs 4 gives us
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  • Proverbs 4 gives us some instruction
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  • Some instruction for how to get control
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  • For how to get control of our emotions, how to...
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  • Of our emotions, how to... you know, somebody was
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  • You know, somebody was telling me that
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  • Telling me that this sermon series title
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  • This sermon series title didn't sound very deep.
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  • Didn't sound very deep. it sounds gimmicky.
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  • It sounds gimmicky. what do moods have
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  • What do moods have to do with god?
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  • To do with god? well, if what you believe
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  • Well, if what you believe about god doesn't affect
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  • About god doesn't affect the way you feel about life,
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  • The way you feel about life, do you really believe in god?
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  • Do you really believe in god? if what you believe about god
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  • If what you believe about god doesn't start to affect
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  • Doesn't start to affect the internal hard drive,
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  • The internal hard drive, do you really even have
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  • Do you really even have the program?
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  • The program? it's important.
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  • It's important. moods matter.
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  • Moods matter. moods matter.
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  • Moods matter. you can do something
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  • You can do something that's completely contrary
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  • That's completely contrary to your goals because
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  • To your goals because you were in a mood.
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  • You were in a mood. you can do something
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  • You can do something that you spend the next 18 years
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  • That you spend the next 18 years paying for because
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  • Paying for because of a mood you were in.
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  • Of a mood you were in. now, i won't be
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  • Now, i won't be any more specific than that.
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  • Any more specific than that. fill in the blanks, bro,
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  • Fill in the blanks, bro, "'cause i was in the mood."
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  • "'cause i was in the mood." and yet, the writer
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  • And yet, the writer of proverbs says --
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  • Of proverbs says -- look at verse 18.
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  • Look at verse 18. it's not supposed to be
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  • It's not supposed to be that way.
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  • That way. he says, proverbs 4:18,
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  • He says, proverbs 4:18, "the path of the righteous is
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  • "the path of the righteous is like the morning sun,
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  • Like the morning sun, shining ever brighter
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  • Shining ever brighter till the full light of day."
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  • Till the full light of day." it says that god's word will
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  • It says that god's word will give you a sense
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  • Give you a sense of inner illumination.
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  • Of inner illumination. it says that
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  • It says that it will light up the path.
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  • It will light up the path. now, it doesn't say
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  • Now, it doesn't say that it will always light up
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  • That it will always light up the finish line;
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  • The finish line; it says it will
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  • It says it will light up the path,
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  • Light up the path, which means that happiness is
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  • Which means that happiness is not a destination
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  • Not a destination but happiness is a path
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  • But happiness is a path that is connected to god's word,
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  • That is connected to god's word, and convergent with god's word.
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  • And convergent with god's word. he said the path grows brighter.
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  • He said the path grows brighter. on the contrary though, he says,
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  • On the contrary though, he says, "the way of the wicked is
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  • "the way of the wicked is like deep darkness:
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  • Like deep darkness: they do not know
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  • They do not know what makes them stumble."
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  • What makes them stumble." see, when i read that verse,
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  • See, when i read that verse, everybody's like, "yeah,
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  • Everybody's like, "yeah, the christians have the light
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  • The christians have the light and the non-christians don't."
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  • And the non-christians don't." it says "the way of the wicked".
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  • It says "the way of the wicked". you know, you can be
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  • You know, you can be a righteous person
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  • A righteous person but take the wrong route
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  • But take the wrong route and go down the way
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  • And go down the way of the wicked.
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  • Of the wicked. so you can have a position
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  • So you can have a position that i'm in christ,
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  • That i'm in christ, but you can be on a path
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  • But you can be on a path that leads you away
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  • That leads you away from his joy.
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  • From his joy. i'm preaching.
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  • I'm preaching. i'm preaching in
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  • I'm preaching in my introductory remarks.
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  • My introductory remarks. this is just the introduction.
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  • This is just the introduction. and he says, he says
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  • And he says, he says it's supposed to grow brighter.
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  • It's supposed to grow brighter. in other words,
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  • In other words, your moods aren't supposed to be
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  • Your moods aren't supposed to be so mysterious that
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  • So mysterious that they lead you around.
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  • They lead you around. and he goes on,
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  • And he goes on, he gives some sound teaching,
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  • He gives some sound teaching, some sound advice,
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  • Some sound advice, like a father to a son.
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  • Like a father to a son. he says, "my son, pay attention
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  • He says, "my son, pay attention to what i say.
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  • To what i say. turn your ear to my words.
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  • Turn your ear to my words. do not let them
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  • Do not let them out of your sight.
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  • Out of your sight. keep them within your heart,
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  • Keep them within your heart, for they are life to those
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  • For they are life to those who find them
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  • Who find them and health to one's whole body.
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  • And health to one's whole body. our god is a holistic god.
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  • Our god is a holistic god. he's not only interested
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  • He's not only interested in saving you spiritually;
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  • In saving you spiritually; he wants the new life
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  • He wants the new life in your spirit to give you
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  • In your spirit to give you a new lease on life
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  • A new lease on life in your body and your mind,
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  • In your body and your mind, in your countenance.
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  • In your countenance. he wants it to spread
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  • He wants it to spread to every part of you
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  • To every part of you from your spirit
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  • From your spirit when he touches you
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  • When he touches you in your soul.
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  • In your soul. and so he says --
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  • And so he says -- and this may be one of the most,
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  • And this may be one of the most, i think it's the most
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  • I think it's the most profound verse in all
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  • Profound verse in all of the proverbs;
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  • Of the proverbs; there's 31 of 'em
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  • There's 31 of 'em and i think this is
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  • And i think this is the skeleton key
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  • The skeleton key to the whole book of proverbs,
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  • To the whole book of proverbs, and maybe to life.
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  • And maybe to life. wisdom for life.
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  • Wisdom for life. he says, "above all else" --
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  • He says, "above all else" -- that's why i think
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  • That's why i think it's important, because
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  • It's important, because he started it like that;
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  • He started it like that; i want to hear
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  • I want to hear what comes next --
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  • What comes next -- "above all else" --
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  • "above all else" -- if all else fails...
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  • If all else fails... sometimes a preacher will say,
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  • Sometimes a preacher will say, "if you don't hear anything
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  • "if you don't hear anything else i say today..."
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  • Else i say today..." why'd you say
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  • Why'd you say all the other stuff, idiot?
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  • All the other stuff, idiot? but he's saying, "look,
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  • But he's saying, "look, supreme importance,
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  • Supreme importance, top priority, get this right.
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  • Top priority, get this right. above all else,
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  • Above all else, guard your heart."
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  • Guard your heart." guard your heart.
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  • Guard your heart. how do i go from emoti-confusion
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  • How do i go from emoti-confusion to emoti-control?
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  • To emoti-control? above all else,
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  • Above all else, guard your heart.
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  • Guard your heart. why?
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  • Why? why is this
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  • Why is this the most important thing?
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  • The most important thing? for everything you do
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  • For everything you do flows from it.
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  • Flows from it. above all else,
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  • Above all else, guard your heart.
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  • Guard your heart. he could have said,
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  • He could have said, "above all else,
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  • "above all else, watch your money;
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  • Watch your money; above all else,
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  • Above all else, take care of your body,"
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  • Take care of your body," but he said,
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  • But he said, "above those things --
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  • "above those things -- they're important --
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  • They're important -- but above that, guard this."
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  • But above that, guard this." and see, i think we get it
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  • And see, i think we get it backwards and that's
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  • Backwards and that's why we're so confused
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  • Why we're so confused in our emotions
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  • In our emotions and are led by our feelings,
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  • And are led by our feelings, because instead
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  • Because instead of "above all else,
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  • Of "above all else, guarding our heart,"
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  • Guarding our heart," we guard all else
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  • We guard all else above our heart.
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  • Above our heart. now, think about it.
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  • Now, think about it. we're a culture that is obsessed
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  • We're a culture that is obsessed with nutritional labels.
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  • With nutritional labels. you know, we count calories,
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  • You know, we count calories, we count carbs --
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  • We count carbs -- sometimes...
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  • Sometimes... for a few weeks out
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  • For a few weeks out of every year --
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  • Of every year -- we count that stuff.
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  • We count that stuff. but do we measure
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  • But do we measure what matters the most?
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  • What matters the most? you know, we avoid gluten
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  • You know, we avoid gluten in our diet --
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  • In our diet -- some people do,
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  • Some people do, weird people do...
  • 00:12:56.162 --> 00:12:57.029
  • Weird people do... i'm just kidding.
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  • I'm just kidding. it's totally cool.
  • 00:12:57.663 --> 00:12:58.564
  • It's totally cool. but, you know, it's crazy.
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  • But, you know, it's crazy. we'll avoid gluten in our diet
  • 00:13:04.703 --> 00:13:08.274
  • We'll avoid gluten in our diet but we'll let grumbling
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  • But we'll let grumbling get into our heart,
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  • Get into our heart, which is much more toxic
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  • Which is much more toxic to the ultimate outcome
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  • To the ultimate outcome of our life,
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  • Of our life, for everything you do
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  • For everything you do flows from it.
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  • Flows from it. caucasians will
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  • Caucasians will lather themselves with sunscreen
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  • Lather themselves with sunscreen to go and sunbathe, see,
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  • To go and sunbathe, see, "'cause i want to be
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  • "'cause i want to be in the sun for seven hours
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  • In the sun for seven hours but i want to put cream
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  • But i want to put cream on my body that makes it
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  • On my body that makes it as if i wasn't."
  • 00:13:30.262 --> 00:13:37.636
  • As if i wasn't." and so we've got spf 30
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  • And so we've got spf 30 for our skin,
  • 00:13:39.605 --> 00:13:40.539
  • For our skin, but spf for the soul,
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  • But spf for the soul, we don't even think about that;
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  • We don't even think about that; we just go out
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  • We just go out into the elements,
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  • Into the elements, just go out into the world,
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  • Just go out into the world, not covered,
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  • Not covered, not even thinking about it.
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  • Not even thinking about it. we won't even send our kids
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  • We won't even send our kids through the parking lot
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  • Through the parking lot at target in january
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  • At target in january without putting sunscreen...
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  • Without putting sunscreen... and speaking of our kids,
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  • And speaking of our kids, we guard our kids -- i think --
  • 00:13:55.621 --> 00:13:57.389
  • We guard our kids -- i think -- a little too much these days,
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  • A little too much these days, just a little too...
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  • Just a little too... i mean, we need to protect
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  • I mean, we need to protect our kids, i understand that,
  • 00:14:00.726 --> 00:14:01.760
  • Our kids, i understand that, but we might be
  • 00:14:01.827 --> 00:14:02.828
  • But we might be a little overprotective.
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  • A little overprotective. in fact,
  • 00:14:04.163 --> 00:14:04.730
  • In fact, the most dangerous thing
  • 00:14:04.797 --> 00:14:06.365
  • The most dangerous thing about the way we're raising
  • 00:14:06.432 --> 00:14:07.366
  • About the way we're raising our kids these days
  • 00:14:07.433 --> 00:14:08.267
  • Our kids these days might be our overprotection
  • 00:14:08.334 --> 00:14:09.201
  • Might be our overprotection of them, of just coddling them
  • 00:14:09.268 --> 00:14:12.104
  • Of them, of just coddling them 'til they never have
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  • 'til they never have to experience anything.
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  • To experience anything. i mean, good lord.
  • 00:14:15.274 --> 00:14:16.475
  • I mean, good lord. i mean, look out
  • 00:14:16.542 --> 00:14:17.409
  • I mean, look out for your kids but, good grief.
  • 00:14:17.476 --> 00:14:20.713
  • For your kids but, good grief. it's amazing
  • 00:14:20.779 --> 00:14:21.614
  • It's amazing what we'll do to guard our kids,
  • 00:14:21.680 --> 00:14:24.016
  • What we'll do to guard our kids, try to make sure
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  • Try to make sure they never experience any pain.
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  • They never experience any pain. you can only guard 'em so much.
  • 00:14:27.186 --> 00:14:29.488
  • You can only guard 'em so much. you can only keep 'em
  • 00:14:29.555 --> 00:14:30.155
  • You can only keep 'em in the car seat
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  • In the car seat until they're 17.
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  • Until they're 17. have you noticed this?
  • 00:14:33.492 --> 00:14:35.461
  • Have you noticed this? we're keeping our kids
  • 00:14:35.527 --> 00:14:36.161
  • We're keeping our kids in the car seat until
  • 00:14:36.228 --> 00:14:37.162
  • In the car seat until they're old enough to drive.
  • 00:14:37.229 --> 00:14:38.464
  • They're old enough to drive. it's the law.
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  • It's the law. it's crazy.
  • 00:14:39.265 --> 00:14:40.099
  • It's crazy. it's madness.
  • 00:14:40.165 --> 00:14:41.166
  • It's madness. and what's madness about it
  • 00:14:41.233 --> 00:14:42.568
  • And what's madness about it is we protect our skin,
  • 00:14:42.635 --> 00:14:44.236
  • Is we protect our skin, we protect our diet;
  • 00:14:44.303 --> 00:14:45.537
  • We protect our diet; some of us protect our lawns
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  • Some of us protect our lawns better than
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  • Better than we protect our hearts.
  • 00:14:49.275 --> 00:14:52.444
  • We protect our hearts. we guard all else.
  • 00:14:52.511 --> 00:14:54.079
  • We guard all else. we've got proverbs 4:23 down --
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  • We've got proverbs 4:23 down -- we've just got it backwards.
  • 00:14:57.016 --> 00:14:59.051
  • We've just got it backwards. we guard all else.
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  • We guard all else. if we would start guarding
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  • If we would start guarding our attitudes and start guarding
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  • Our attitudes and start guarding our minds and start guarding
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  • Our minds and start guarding our thoughts like we guard
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  • Our thoughts like we guard some of our other stuff,
  • 00:15:06.492 --> 00:15:08.894
  • Some of our other stuff, well, we'd have a better flow.
  • 00:15:08.961 --> 00:15:12.665
  • Well, we'd have a better flow. we'd have a better attitude.
  • 00:15:12.731 --> 00:15:14.366
  • We'd have a better attitude. and let me tell you something
  • 00:15:14.433 --> 00:15:15.567
  • And let me tell you something about attitude, incidentally.
  • 00:15:15.634 --> 00:15:17.202
  • About attitude, incidentally. an attitude is
  • 00:15:17.269 --> 00:15:17.836
  • An attitude is not that complicated.
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  • Not that complicated. the attitude of your heart
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  • The attitude of your heart simply reflects
  • 00:15:22.908 --> 00:15:23.642
  • Simply reflects the activity of your mind.
  • 00:15:23.709 --> 00:15:27.780
  • The activity of your mind. "for as a man thinketh
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  • "for as a man thinketh in his heart, so is he."
  • 00:15:29.448 --> 00:15:33.419
  • In his heart, so is he." you hear sometimes people
  • 00:15:33.485 --> 00:15:34.486
  • You hear sometimes people trying to separate.
  • 00:15:34.553 --> 00:15:35.988
  • Trying to separate. "well, don't make
  • 00:15:36.055 --> 00:15:36.755
  • "well, don't make decisions with your heart;
  • 00:15:36.822 --> 00:15:38.490
  • Decisions with your heart; make decisions with your head."
  • 00:15:38.557 --> 00:15:40.159
  • Make decisions with your head." the two can't be separated, see,
  • 00:15:40.225 --> 00:15:42.161
  • The two can't be separated, see, because if it's in your head,
  • 00:15:42.227 --> 00:15:43.862
  • Because if it's in your head, it'll eventually get
  • 00:15:43.929 --> 00:15:44.396
  • It'll eventually get in your heart.
  • 00:15:44.463 --> 00:15:45.097
  • In your heart. and if it's in your heart,
  • 00:15:45.164 --> 00:15:46.065
  • And if it's in your heart, it'll eventually get
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  • It'll eventually get in your head.
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  • In your head. there is no such thing
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  • There is no such thing as a non-emotional decision.
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  • As a non-emotional decision. every decision that you
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  • Every decision that you end up doing is the result
  • 00:15:52.871 --> 00:15:54.940
  • End up doing is the result of something
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  • Of something that you started out thinking.
  • 00:15:55.441 --> 00:15:56.909
  • That you started out thinking. everything that you were
  • 00:15:56.976 --> 00:15:57.776
  • Everything that you were thinking was contributing
  • 00:15:57.843 --> 00:15:58.944
  • Thinking was contributing to how you were feeling.
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  • To how you were feeling. your faith either effects
  • 00:16:00.379 --> 00:16:02.314
  • Your faith either effects your feelings
  • 00:16:02.381 --> 00:16:03.215
  • Your feelings or your feeling
  • 00:16:03.282 --> 00:16:03.949
  • Or your feeling effect your faith,
  • 00:16:04.016 --> 00:16:04.917
  • Effect your faith, but you cannot separate
  • 00:16:04.984 --> 00:16:05.985
  • But you cannot separate your feelings from your faith,
  • 00:16:06.051 --> 00:16:08.120
  • Your feelings from your faith, for everything you do flows
  • 00:16:08.187 --> 00:16:10.222
  • For everything you do flows from what happens in your heart.
  • 00:16:10.289 --> 00:16:14.727
  • From what happens in your heart. i read an article in, i think,
  • 00:16:14.793 --> 00:16:17.296
  • I read an article in, i think, rolling stone magazine.
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  • Rolling stone magazine. i'm not sure.
  • 00:16:19.398 --> 00:16:20.132
  • I'm not sure. but i read an article
  • 00:16:20.199 --> 00:16:20.733
  • But i read an article about john mayer.
  • 00:16:20.799 --> 00:16:22.735
  • About john mayer. to me, he's like the best --
  • 00:16:22.801 --> 00:16:25.371
  • To me, he's like the best -- this generation --
  • 00:16:25.437 --> 00:16:26.939
  • This generation -- he's the best
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  • He's the best songwriter/guitarist.
  • 00:16:27.473 --> 00:16:30.042
  • Songwriter/guitarist. i think the guy is
  • 00:16:30.109 --> 00:16:30.676
  • I think the guy is brilliant on the guitar.
  • 00:16:30.743 --> 00:16:32.244
  • Brilliant on the guitar. i really do.
  • 00:16:32.311 --> 00:16:33.479
  • I really do. i think he's
  • 00:16:33.545 --> 00:16:34.747
  • I think he's like one of the best.
  • 00:16:34.813 --> 00:16:35.814
  • Like one of the best. but what happened to john mayer
  • 00:16:35.881 --> 00:16:36.915
  • But what happened to john mayer is he let all of the noise...
  • 00:16:36.982 --> 00:16:39.518
  • Is he let all of the noise... he was explaining
  • 00:16:39.585 --> 00:16:40.619
  • He was explaining how all of the critics
  • 00:16:40.686 --> 00:16:41.787
  • How all of the critics and the bloggers and the haters
  • 00:16:41.854 --> 00:16:43.322
  • And the bloggers and the haters and the craziness of celebrity,
  • 00:16:43.389 --> 00:16:45.324
  • And the craziness of celebrity, it was so loud that it started
  • 00:16:45.391 --> 00:16:47.593
  • It was so loud that it started to come out in his life
  • 00:16:47.659 --> 00:16:48.927
  • To come out in his life and he became
  • 00:16:48.994 --> 00:16:49.361
  • And he became somebody he didn't like.
  • 00:16:49.428 --> 00:16:50.596
  • Somebody he didn't like. so a few years ago, he left l.a.
  • 00:16:50.662 --> 00:16:52.798
  • So a few years ago, he left l.a. to move to montana
  • 00:16:52.865 --> 00:16:55.067
  • To move to montana so that he could do some work
  • 00:16:55.134 --> 00:16:56.301
  • So that he could do some work on himself because
  • 00:16:56.368 --> 00:16:57.636
  • On himself because he was in a state
  • 00:16:57.703 --> 00:16:58.337
  • He was in a state of arrested development.
  • 00:16:58.404 --> 00:16:59.738
  • Of arrested development. and it was fascinating for me
  • 00:16:59.805 --> 00:17:00.906
  • And it was fascinating for me to hear him talk about it
  • 00:17:00.973 --> 00:17:02.408
  • To hear him talk about it because one of the things
  • 00:17:02.474 --> 00:17:03.475
  • Because one of the things he said -- this is so profound;
  • 00:17:03.542 --> 00:17:05.644
  • He said -- this is so profound; i don't know anything about
  • 00:17:05.711 --> 00:17:06.345
  • I don't know anything about john mayer's spiritual beliefs
  • 00:17:06.412 --> 00:17:08.113
  • John mayer's spiritual beliefs but i've never heard
  • 00:17:08.180 --> 00:17:09.715
  • But i've never heard a more profound statement
  • 00:17:09.782 --> 00:17:11.450
  • A more profound statement about our inability
  • 00:17:11.517 --> 00:17:12.684
  • About our inability to guard our hearts.
  • 00:17:12.751 --> 00:17:13.652
  • To guard our hearts. he said, "celebrities will
  • 00:17:13.719 --> 00:17:15.287
  • He said, "celebrities will pay hundreds of thousands
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  • Pay hundreds of thousands of dollars for security.
  • 00:17:16.688 --> 00:17:20.392
  • Of dollars for security. they'll hire bodyguards.
  • 00:17:20.459 --> 00:17:22.928
  • They'll hire bodyguards. they'll put the most elaborate
  • 00:17:22.995 --> 00:17:24.263
  • They'll put the most elaborate security systems in their home.
  • 00:17:24.329 --> 00:17:26.532
  • Security systems in their home. hundreds of thousands
  • 00:17:26.598 --> 00:17:27.066
  • Hundreds of thousands of dollars spent on security,
  • 00:17:27.132 --> 00:17:30.002
  • Of dollars spent on security, but then they'll wake up
  • 00:17:30.069 --> 00:17:31.103
  • But then they'll wake up every morning
  • 00:17:31.170 --> 00:17:32.704
  • Every morning and get on their computer
  • 00:17:32.771 --> 00:17:34.573
  • And get on their computer to read the most horrible things
  • 00:17:34.640 --> 00:17:36.775
  • To read the most horrible things that everybody was
  • 00:17:36.842 --> 00:17:37.910
  • That everybody was saying about them overnight."
  • 00:17:37.976 --> 00:17:40.746
  • Saying about them overnight." he said, "and when you do that,
  • 00:17:40.813 --> 00:17:43.182
  • He said, "and when you do that, you forfeited all that money
  • 00:17:43.248 --> 00:17:44.983
  • You forfeited all that money you spent on security
  • 00:17:45.050 --> 00:17:46.351
  • You spent on security because you let 'em get in."
  • 00:17:46.418 --> 00:17:50.089
  • Because you let 'em get in." you had bodyguards, you had cpi,
  • 00:17:50.155 --> 00:17:54.560
  • You had bodyguards, you had cpi, but you let 'em in.
  • 00:17:54.626 --> 00:17:56.528
  • But you let 'em in. you didn't let 'em
  • 00:17:56.595 --> 00:17:57.262
  • You didn't let 'em in your house,
  • 00:17:57.329 --> 00:17:58.430
  • In your house, but you let 'em in your heart.
  • 00:17:58.497 --> 00:18:00.032
  • But you let 'em in your heart. you didn't let 'em
  • 00:18:00.099 --> 00:18:00.966
  • You didn't let 'em touch your body,
  • 00:18:01.033 --> 00:18:01.867
  • Touch your body, but you let 'em
  • 00:18:01.934 --> 00:18:02.501
  • But you let 'em mess with your heart.
  • 00:18:02.568 --> 00:18:03.502
  • Mess with your heart. and it's not just celebrities.
  • 00:18:03.569 --> 00:18:04.970
  • And it's not just celebrities. we'll do all kinds of stuff
  • 00:18:05.037 --> 00:18:06.772
  • We'll do all kinds of stuff to try to protect our lives
  • 00:18:06.839 --> 00:18:08.640
  • To try to protect our lives and we'll be very guarded
  • 00:18:08.707 --> 00:18:09.675
  • And we'll be very guarded in certain ways
  • 00:18:09.741 --> 00:18:11.076
  • In certain ways and we'll be very careful
  • 00:18:11.143 --> 00:18:11.910
  • And we'll be very careful in certain ways,
  • 00:18:11.977 --> 00:18:13.145
  • In certain ways, but we let stuff in our heart.
  • 00:18:13.212 --> 00:18:15.280
  • But we let stuff in our heart. we let our guard down
  • 00:18:15.347 --> 00:18:16.748
  • We let our guard down and then we let our thoughts
  • 00:18:16.815 --> 00:18:18.050
  • And then we let our thoughts run wild and then we wonder
  • 00:18:18.117 --> 00:18:19.685
  • Run wild and then we wonder "why am i miserable,
  • 00:18:19.751 --> 00:18:21.253
  • "why am i miserable, why am i selfish,
  • 00:18:21.320 --> 00:18:22.387
  • Why am i selfish, why am i irritable,
  • 00:18:22.454 --> 00:18:23.789
  • Why am i irritable, why am i so annoyed,
  • 00:18:23.856 --> 00:18:25.257
  • Why am i so annoyed, why am i so touchy,
  • 00:18:25.324 --> 00:18:26.792
  • Why am i so touchy, why can't i get happy,
  • 00:18:26.859 --> 00:18:28.427
  • Why can't i get happy, why can't i make enough".
  • 00:18:28.494 --> 00:18:30.095
  • Why can't i make enough". it's 'cause you let 'em
  • 00:18:30.162 --> 00:18:31.063
  • It's 'cause you let 'em get in your heart.
  • 00:18:31.130 --> 00:18:34.166
  • Get in your heart. you let your guard down.
  • 00:18:34.233 --> 00:18:36.435
  • You let your guard down. touch somebody;
  • 00:18:36.502 --> 00:18:37.302
  • Touch somebody; say, "keep your guard up."
  • 00:18:37.369 --> 00:18:39.771
  • Say, "keep your guard up." you've got to keep your guard up
  • 00:18:39.838 --> 00:18:40.806
  • You've got to keep your guard up where it matters.
  • 00:18:40.873 --> 00:18:42.107
  • Where it matters. we've got heart rate monitors
  • 00:18:42.174 --> 00:18:43.675
  • We've got heart rate monitors that we can wear now
  • 00:18:43.742 --> 00:18:44.510
  • That we can wear now to see if we're exercising
  • 00:18:44.576 --> 00:18:46.545
  • To see if we're exercising hard enough, but i wish
  • 00:18:46.612 --> 00:18:49.014
  • Hard enough, but i wish i had a monitor
  • 00:18:49.081 --> 00:18:49.781
  • I had a monitor for my other heart,
  • 00:18:49.848 --> 00:18:51.483
  • For my other heart, for that proverbs 4:23 heart,
  • 00:18:51.550 --> 00:18:54.953
  • For that proverbs 4:23 heart, the one that the writers said
  • 00:18:55.020 --> 00:18:56.522
  • The one that the writers said i'm supposed to be
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  • I'm supposed to be guarding above all else.
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  • Guarding above all else. that one's harder to monitor.
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  • That one's harder to monitor. you know the other heart
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  • You know the other heart i'm talking about?
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  • I'm talking about? do you?
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  • Do you? the one that is always beating,
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  • The one that is always beating, the one that is telling you
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  • The one that is telling you to do stuff so crazy
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  • To do stuff so crazy and you wonder where did
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  • And you wonder where did that thought come from.
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  • That thought come from. i wish i had a monitor
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  • I wish i had a monitor for that heart,
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  • For that heart, the one that makes me
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  • The one that makes me trust people i shouldn't be
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  • Trust people i shouldn't be trusting and be skeptical
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  • Trusting and be skeptical of people that i should trust.
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  • Of people that i should trust. i want a monitor
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  • I want a monitor for that heart,
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  • For that heart, for the heart that makes me
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  • For the heart that makes me want to lay down and die
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  • Want to lay down and die when i should be getting up
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  • When i should be getting up to try again.
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  • To try again. let me read you this
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  • Let me read you this from a commentary
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  • From a commentary that i read this week.
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  • That i read this week. "the heart, of course,
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  • "the heart, of course, is the central organ
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  • Is the central organ of the body;
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  • Of the body; but in the wisdom literature,
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  • But in the wisdom literature, it is the central organ
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  • It is the central organ of spirituality.
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  • Of spirituality. it's often paraphrased
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  • It's often paraphrased as mind since it does have
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  • As mind since it does have an intellectual component,
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  • An intellectual component, but it's also the basic
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  • But it's also the basic orientation of a person."
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  • Orientation of a person." this is what we're talking
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  • This is what we're talking about for four weeks --
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  • About for four weeks -- embracing desires,
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  • Embracing desires, emotions, and attitude.
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  • Emotions, and attitude. that's what we mean by heart.
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  • That's what we mean by heart. that's what we're addressing
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  • That's what we're addressing in this series "moodswingers".
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  • In this series "moodswingers". "if the teacher's words are
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  • "if the teacher's words are in the heart, they are life
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  • In the heart, they are life and healing, hence the need
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  • And healing, hence the need to guard the heart
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  • To guard the heart for it is the source
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  • For it is the source of the surges of life,
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  • Of the surges of life, literally from it,
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  • Literally from it, the goings out of life,
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  • The goings out of life, the heart is imaged
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  • The heart is imaged as a water source
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  • As a water source from which life erupts."
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  • From which life erupts." everything you do flows from it.
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  • Everything you do flows from it. now, we started the year saying
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  • Now, we started the year saying we were going to find our flow.
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  • We were going to find our flow. but everything that you do flows
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  • But everything that you do flows from who you are.
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  • From who you are. guard your heart.
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  • Guard your heart. you know, you've got to be
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  • You know, you've got to be a little guarded
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  • A little guarded to make it in the world.
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  • To make it in the world. people use that as an insult.
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  • People use that as an insult. a guy came up to me one time
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  • A guy came up to me one time and said,
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  • And said, "you seem pretty guarded."
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  • "you seem pretty guarded." and i said, "well, i hope so.
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  • And i said, "well, i hope so. you know, i need to be.
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  • You know, i need to be. i need to be a little guarded."
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  • I need to be a little guarded." you can't just let everybody in.
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  • You can't just let everybody in. you can't just
  • 00:20:51.203 --> 00:20:51.603
  • You can't just let everything in.
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  • Let everything in. you can't just
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  • You can't just believe everything you think.
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  • Believe everything you think. don't believe
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  • Don't believe everything you think.
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  • Everything you think. guard your heart.
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  • Guard your heart. you're crazy.
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  • You're crazy. you will tell yourself lies.
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  • You will tell yourself lies. that's why he said in verse 20,
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  • That's why he said in verse 20, "my son, pay attention
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  • "my son, pay attention to what i say."
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  • To what i say." he's saying, "pay attention
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  • He's saying, "pay attention to my assessment more
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  • To my assessment more than your opinion
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  • Than your opinion and guard your heart."
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  • And guard your heart." i always thought this verse was
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  • I always thought this verse was all about what you let in
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  • All about what you let in your heart, and it is.
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  • Your heart, and it is. if you spend all your time
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  • If you spend all your time seeing stuff
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  • Seeing stuff and letting stuff in,
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  • And letting stuff in, it eventually comes out.
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  • It eventually comes out. that's why you've got to be
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  • That's why you've got to be careful what you see
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  • Careful what you see and what you hear.
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  • And what you hear. you really do have
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  • You really do have to be careful.
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  • To be careful. you spend enough time around it,
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  • You spend enough time around it, it's eventually going
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  • It's eventually going to come within you.
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  • To come within you. if it's within you,
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  • If it's within you, it's eventually going
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  • It's eventually going to burst forth out of you.
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  • To burst forth out of you. from it flow
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  • From it flow all the issues of life.
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  • All the issues of life. you've got to be careful.
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  • You've got to be careful. but you know,
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  • But you know, i read a verse where jesus
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  • I read a verse where jesus was having a dispute one time
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  • Was having a dispute one time and they were criticizing
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  • And they were criticizing his disciples
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  • His disciples for the food they ate
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  • For the food they ate and they were saying
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  • And they were saying they shouldn't be
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  • They shouldn't be eating that food.
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  • Eating that food. it was ceremonially unclean.
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  • It was ceremonially unclean. listen to what jesus said.
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  • Listen to what jesus said. he said, "what goes into
  • 00:21:52.264 --> 00:21:54.032
  • He said, "what goes into someone's mouth
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  • Someone's mouth does not defile them,
  • 00:21:55.167 --> 00:21:57.069
  • Does not defile them, but what comes out
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  • But what comes out of their mouth,
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  • Of their mouth, that is what defiles them;"
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  • That is what defiles them;" matthew 15:11,
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  • Matthew 15:11, if you want to look that up.
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  • If you want to look that up. what comes out of your mouth
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  • What comes out of your mouth gets into your heart.
  • 00:22:06.745 --> 00:22:08.380
  • Gets into your heart. see, it works like that.
  • 00:22:08.447 --> 00:22:10.082
  • See, it works like that. what's in your heart
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  • What's in your heart comes out your mouth;
  • 00:22:11.116 --> 00:22:11.983
  • Comes out your mouth; what's out your mouth
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  • What's out your mouth comes in your heart;
  • 00:22:13.051 --> 00:22:13.919
  • Comes in your heart; what's in your heart
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  • What's in your heart comes out your mouth;
  • 00:22:14.586 --> 00:22:15.954
  • Comes out your mouth; what comes out your mouth
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  • What comes out your mouth goes in your heart --
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  • Goes in your heart -- and so you're sabotaging
  • 00:22:18.657 --> 00:22:19.558
  • And so you're sabotaging yourself by what you speak,
  • 00:22:19.624 --> 00:22:21.259
  • Yourself by what you speak, by what you see,
  • 00:22:21.326 --> 00:22:22.394
  • By what you see, and what you believe.
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  • And what you believe. "well, i just say what i feel."
  • 00:22:24.096 --> 00:22:27.499
  • "well, i just say what i feel." that's fine.
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  • That's fine. go ahead and do that,
  • 00:22:29.201 --> 00:22:30.802
  • Go ahead and do that, just as long as you realize
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  • Just as long as you realize that you're going to feel
  • 00:22:31.937 --> 00:22:32.904
  • That you're going to feel what you say.
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  • What you say. i'm going to say it again
  • 00:22:36.875 --> 00:22:37.576
  • I'm going to say it again 'til it registers on the level
  • 00:22:37.642 --> 00:22:38.643
  • 'til it registers on the level that it registered
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  • That it registered when i wrote it in my notes.
  • 00:22:39.644 --> 00:22:40.746
  • When i wrote it in my notes. i pictured
  • 00:22:40.812 --> 00:22:41.346
  • I pictured this big light bulb moment.
  • 00:22:41.413 --> 00:22:42.347
  • This big light bulb moment. it didn't quite happen,
  • 00:22:42.414 --> 00:22:43.382
  • It didn't quite happen, so i want to back up
  • 00:22:43.448 --> 00:22:44.249
  • So i want to back up and hit it again,
  • 00:22:44.316 --> 00:22:45.217
  • And hit it again, 'cause apparently
  • 00:22:45.283 --> 00:22:46.518
  • 'cause apparently you're too busy writing it down,
  • 00:22:46.585 --> 00:22:47.486
  • You're too busy writing it down, so i want to say that again.
  • 00:22:47.552 --> 00:22:49.254
  • So i want to say that again. if you insist on saying
  • 00:22:49.321 --> 00:22:51.089
  • If you insist on saying what you feel,
  • 00:22:51.156 --> 00:22:52.758
  • What you feel, eventually you're going to feel
  • 00:22:52.824 --> 00:22:53.425
  • Eventually you're going to feel what you say.
  • 00:22:53.492 --> 00:22:56.928
  • What you say. so if you say, "well,
  • 00:22:56.995 --> 00:23:00.699
  • So if you say, "well, it's just not fair,"
  • 00:23:00.766 --> 00:23:02.401
  • It's just not fair," if you say that --
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  • If you say that -- what comes out
  • 00:23:03.235 --> 00:23:03.602
  • What comes out of your mouth defiles you --
  • 00:23:03.668 --> 00:23:04.770
  • Of your mouth defiles you -- guess what's going to go back
  • 00:23:04.836 --> 00:23:05.704
  • Guess what's going to go back in to your heart
  • 00:23:05.771 --> 00:23:06.505
  • In to your heart that came out of your mouth.
  • 00:23:06.571 --> 00:23:07.439
  • That came out of your mouth. you're going to feel
  • 00:23:07.506 --> 00:23:08.039
  • You're going to feel like a victim.
  • 00:23:08.106 --> 00:23:09.574
  • Like a victim. so you said what you felt
  • 00:23:09.641 --> 00:23:11.343
  • So you said what you felt and now you're feeling
  • 00:23:11.410 --> 00:23:12.077
  • And now you're feeling what you said.
  • 00:23:12.144 --> 00:23:13.545
  • What you said. and if you don't like
  • 00:23:13.612 --> 00:23:14.513
  • And if you don't like how you feel,
  • 00:23:14.579 --> 00:23:15.747
  • How you feel, you might need to look
  • 00:23:15.814 --> 00:23:17.082
  • You might need to look at what you said 'cause
  • 00:23:17.149 --> 00:23:18.750
  • At what you said 'cause what you feel is
  • 00:23:18.817 --> 00:23:19.718
  • What you feel is a result of what you said.
  • 00:23:19.785 --> 00:23:22.087
  • A result of what you said. from the heart flow
  • 00:23:22.154 --> 00:23:24.122
  • From the heart flow the issues of life.
  • 00:23:24.189 --> 00:23:26.057
  • The issues of life. is your heart guarded?
  • 00:23:26.124 --> 00:23:27.826
  • Is your heart guarded? is your heart guarded?
  • 00:23:27.893 --> 00:23:30.061
  • Is your heart guarded? i know you wear bug spray,
  • 00:23:30.128 --> 00:23:31.029
  • I know you wear bug spray, but is your heart guarded.
  • 00:23:31.096 --> 00:23:33.598
  • But is your heart guarded. i know you've
  • 00:23:33.665 --> 00:23:34.232
  • I know you've got insurance on your house,
  • 00:23:34.299 --> 00:23:35.066
  • Got insurance on your house, but is your heart guarded?
  • 00:23:35.133 --> 00:23:37.202
  • But is your heart guarded? i know you've
  • 00:23:37.269 --> 00:23:37.869
  • I know you've got insurance on your car,
  • 00:23:37.936 --> 00:23:38.703
  • Got insurance on your car, but is your heart guarded?
  • 00:23:38.770 --> 00:23:40.739
  • But is your heart guarded? you've got to have
  • 00:23:40.806 --> 00:23:41.273
  • You've got to have a guarded heart.
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  • >> i hope you enjoyed
  • 00:23:43.875 --> 00:23:44.576
  • >> i hope you enjoyed that message.
  • 00:23:44.643 --> 00:23:45.544
  • That message. as elevation church
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  • As elevation church celebrates 20 years,
  • 00:23:46.678 --> 00:23:48.346
  • Celebrates 20 years, we've been looking back at
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  • We've been looking back at some of our favorite sermons.
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  • Some of our favorite sermons. now, pastor steven might look
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  • Now, pastor steven might look a little bit different,
  • 00:23:52.784 --> 00:23:53.452
  • A little bit different, but one thing has never changed.
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  • But one thing has never changed. from the beginning,
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  • From the beginning, he has boldly preached
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  • He has boldly preached the word of god.
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  • The word of god. it's always been his mission
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  • It's always been his mission to put god's word into
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  • To put god's word into people's hearts.
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  • People's hearts. when you support this ministry,
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  • When you support this ministry, you help us continue sharing
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  • You help us continue sharing these powerful messages with
  • 00:24:08.400 --> 00:24:10.202
  • These powerful messages with people all around the world,
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  • People all around the world, not just on television,
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  • Not just on television, but through social media
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  • But through social media and youtube, and even on
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  • And youtube, and even on tablets in prisons,
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  • Tablets in prisons, and now on our 24/7 network.
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  • And now on our 24/7 network. that kind of reach is only
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  • That kind of reach is only possible because of people like
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  • Possible because of people like you who choose to partner
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  • You who choose to partner with us and give.
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  • With us and give. if you're not currently a part
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  • If you're not currently a part of what god is doing through
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  • Of what god is doing through steven furtick ministries,
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  • Steven furtick ministries, i want to invite you
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  • I want to invite you to give today.
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  • To give today. together, we can reach more
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  • Together, we can reach more people than ever before
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  • People than ever before with the hope and truth
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  • With the hope and truth of god's word.
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  • Of god's word. so, thank you for watching,
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  • So, thank you for watching, thank you for giving,
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  • Thank you for giving, and i'll see you back here
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  • And i'll see you back here next time.
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  • >> when a kit is packed
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  • At elevation church,
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  • It starts small,
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  • Putting hygiene products
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  • Together or packaging
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  • Ingredients for a meal.
  • 00:24:52.777 --> 00:24:54.446
  • But that's just
  • 00:24:54.546 --> 00:24:55.180
  • The beginning of the journey.
  • 00:24:55.280 --> 00:24:56.715
  • Once put together in boxes,
  • 00:24:56.815 --> 00:24:58.617
  • They travel by train,
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  • By boat, by truck.
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  • That kit is being positioned
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  • For the moment it's needed,
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  • When disaster happens.
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  • When hunger rises
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  • Locally and globally,
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  • That kit is there to provide
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  • For an immediate need.
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  • When you give,
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  • This is what you're giving for.
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  • ♪ ♪
  • 00:25:17.569 --> 00:25:30.849
  • >> that's who you are, lord,
  • 00:25:31.383 --> 00:25:34.586
  • >> that's who you are, lord, so faithful.
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  • ♪ not for a minute ♪
  • 00:25:40.492 --> 00:25:44.095
  • ♪ was i forsaken ♪
  • 00:25:44.162 --> 00:25:47.232
  • ♪ the lord is in this place ♪
  • 00:25:47.299 --> 00:25:50.635
  • ♪ come holy spirit ♪
  • 00:25:50.702 --> 00:25:58.009
  • ♪ dry bones awaken ♪
  • 00:25:58.076 --> 00:26:01.279
  • ♪ the lord is in this place ♪
  • 00:26:01.346 --> 00:26:04.849
  • ♪ oh not for a minute ♪
  • 00:26:08.520 --> 00:26:12.123
  • ♪ was i forsaken ♪
  • 00:26:12.190 --> 00:26:14.426
  • ♪ great is your faithfulness ♪
  • 00:26:14.492 --> 00:26:15.727
  • ♪ the lord is in this place ♪
  • 00:26:15.794 --> 00:26:17.128
  • >> ♪ you're here ♪
  • 00:26:17.195 --> 00:26:17.862
  • ♪ you're here ♪
  • 00:26:17.929 --> 00:26:18.630
  • >> ♪ the lord is in this place ♪
  • 00:26:18.697 --> 00:26:20.899
  • >> ♪ you're here lord ♪
  • 00:26:20.966 --> 00:26:22.300
  • ♪ so come holy spirit ♪
  • 00:26:22.367 --> 00:26:26.271
  • ♪ dry bones awaken ♪
  • 00:26:26.338 --> 00:26:29.541
  • ♪ the lord is in this place ♪
  • 00:26:29.608 --> 00:26:33.078
  • >> ♪ i invite you in lord ♪
  • 00:26:33.144 --> 00:26:36.314
  • ♪ not for a minute ♪
  • 00:26:36.948 --> 00:26:40.318
  • ♪ was i forsaken ♪
  • 00:26:40.385 --> 00:26:43.622
  • ♪ the lord is in this place ♪
  • 00:26:43.688 --> 00:26:47.092
  • ♪ so come holy spirit ♪
  • 00:26:47.158 --> 00:26:54.432
  • ♪ dry bones awaken ♪
  • 00:26:54.499 --> 00:26:55.934
  • >> ♪ be encouraged today ♪
  • 00:26:56.001 --> 00:26:57.769
  • >> ♪ the lord is in this place ♪
  • 00:26:57.836 --> 00:27:00.305
  • >> ♪ invite him in ♪
  • 00:27:00.372 --> 00:27:04.309
  • ♪ not for a minute ♪
  • 00:27:05.110 --> 00:27:08.580
  • ♪ was i forsaken ♪
  • 00:27:08.647 --> 00:27:11.850
  • ♪ the lord is in this place ♪
  • 00:27:11.916 --> 00:27:15.420
  • >> ♪ so come ♪
  • 00:27:15.487 --> 00:27:19.090
  • >> ♪ come holy spirit ♪
  • 00:27:19.157 --> 00:27:22.627
  • ♪ dry bones awaken ♪
  • 00:27:22.694 --> 00:27:25.997
  • ♪ the lord is in this place ♪
  • 00:27:26.064 --> 00:27:28.333
  • >> ♪ the lord ♪
  • 00:27:28.400 --> 00:27:29.868
  • >> ♪ the lord is in ♪
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