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Tim Timberlake | Tim Timberlake - The Conjunction of Feelings | April 2, 2025
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- Hey. family is pastor tim timberlake,
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- And i am so excited about today's broadcast.
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- I believe god has given me a word specifically for you.
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- And so what i want you to do, i want you to grab your word.
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- I want you to grab your pen, grab me a notepad,
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- Do me a favor, call somebody
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- And let them know we're on right now.
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- And this word is going to change and transform their life.
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- Let's go into the broadcast that has already begun
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- For this incredible message
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- That i believe is going to change your life.
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- Entitled the conjunction of feelings
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- So faith
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- Is living through this tension
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- That we have a dialectical thinking
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- To exchange the conjunction of.
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- But with ed.
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- Jesus demonstrates this to us, not limiting his emotion,
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- Not limiting his feelings,
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- But putting them on full display for us
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- So that we could see even the king of kings
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- And the lord of lords
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- Has feelings and emotions and deep pain and deep, deep trauma
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- That he has to navigate with god.
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- In matthew chapter 26, verse 38, he says,
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- My soul is sorrowful even to death.
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- And yet.
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- Not my will.
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- Allow yours to be done.
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- The scripture says, my soul is sorrowful.
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- He knew that he was going to be crucified for us.
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- He knew that he would have to be whipped for us.
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- He knew that he would be pierced in his wrists
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- And his feet for us, and his desire.
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- And his answer was, and yet.
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- My will.
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- It's not about me.
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- It's about god.
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- And the reality is, family.
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- Your feelings may be legitimate.
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- But oftentimes the conclusions you make from
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- Those feelings need to be challenged.
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- If you're not challenging your feelings, you're
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- Following your feelings.
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- And if you're following your feelings,
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- You're leading yourself to a life and a lifestyle
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- That is fleeting and will not last.
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- Your feelings may be true,
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- But what we must understand is that
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- There is a higher authority at work
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- That is greater than our feelings.
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- This higher authority has
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- To be the priority of our life,
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- Not how we feel.
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- So when we read romans chapter 12, beginning at verse number 9
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- To 21, this is the context that paul was painting for us,
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- The conjunction of our feelings.
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- I want you to write this down
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- Point number one, because this is important
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- For what we're going for our time together today.
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- You can't call it love if it disappears
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- When it's inconvenient.
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- Romans chapter 12, verse nine says, let love be
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- Genuine, arbor, or refute or be disgusted
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- With what is evil, and hold fast to what is good.
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- The world says love is about how you feel.
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- God says love is about what you do.
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- Culture says love is about what makes you happy.
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- Jesus shows us that love is supposed to make you holy.
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- And if your love does
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- Not make you holy, then it is not love at all.
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- Because love is more than just making you happy
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- And giving you feels.
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- And you get the butterflies in your belly
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- Whenever you get around that certain someone.
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- Love should make you holy.
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- So if this love that you say you have lead you to the bedroom
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- Before you're married, that in fact is not love.
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- That in fact is lust,
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- And it is not leading you into a holy lifestyle.
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- And i know some of you
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- Like, well, pastors
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- February, you're supposed to be talking
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- About relationships and marriages,
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- And i'm single and i'm trying to find my spouse.
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- So i want to hear what
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- And how i carry in my life when i'm a single person.
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- And i just came to tell you, if you don't get this right,
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- You will fall prey to your flesh
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- And you will get into a marriage
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- That you are not able to sustain because your relationship
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- With jesus christ was built on a shaky foundation
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- And not the word of god.
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- Let me tell you what our flesh desires.
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- Our flesh desires a shallow love
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- And shallow love seeks comfort.
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- But true love embraces sacrifice.
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- A shallow love seeks a filling.
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- But true love seeks to be built in faith
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- And hear me single people hear me loud and clear.
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- If the person you are pursuing and is pursuing you
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- Is does not have the desire to build your faith more
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- Than they do to desire their flesh,
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- You need to leave that person.
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- Y'all not talking to me today?
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- Let me talk to this side.
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- If the person you are pursuing
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- Is not trying to help you build your faith,
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- You need to leave that person. why?
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- We learned this last week because true love
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- Always leads you to the altar.
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- True love
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- Never leads you to the bedroom without a ring.
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- Y'all quiet up in here.
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- It's okay.
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- I'll preach to myself.
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- Coaches says
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- Love should make you happy.
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- Jesus says
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- Love should make you holy.
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- A love that does not endure
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- Wasn't love.
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- It was just a season.
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- Counterfeit
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- Love is easy because it cost you nothing.
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- Real love is a war
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- Because it cost you everything.
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- Family.
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- If your love does
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- Not make hill nervous, it is not genuine love.
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- If there are not imps and demons
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- And people scheming against your love,
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- That end in fact is not real love.
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- Because real love makes hell tremble.
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- Real love makes the devil nervous.
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- Real love makes demons flee.
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- Real love.
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- It's shaped the very foundations of hell
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- Because it represents and reflects what jesus has done for
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- Us. and i need you to hear me when i tell you this.
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- The love that changed the world
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- Didn't come with chocolates and roses.
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- It came with nails and a cross.
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- And if the love that you have for people
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- Does not reflect that, then it is in fact not love at all.
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- I wish i had a church that understood
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- That would not here to celebrate love for a day.
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- February the 14th.
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- But we're here to model
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- And demonstrate love 365 days of the year.
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- The same love that changed the world.
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- It didn't come with a cute card.
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- It did come with a teddy bear.
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- It didn't come with chocolates.
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- It didn't come with hershey's kisses.
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- It came with a cross and nails.
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- It laid its life on the line for you and for me.
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- And it said, i do anything to reach you,
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- Even when you're in sin. because i love you.
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- And if the love that jesus gave to us did not come
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- With a sacrifice today, that effect would not be love.
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- I got to move, i got to move.
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- I got to move.
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- Point number two is this i want you to write this down
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- Because i believe this is going to help somebody.
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- Paul teaches us
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- Romans chapter nine.
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- If revenge
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- Makes you feel powerful,
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- Honor proves you actually are.
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- So some of us are seeking revenge.
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- We want to get back.
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- We want to get even.
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- We want them to feel what we feel.
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- We want them to be in pain. like they put us in pain.
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- And that's not what scripture says.
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- Scripture makes it very clear.
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- Revenge.
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- It's fleeting.
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- Romans chapter 12, verse ten.
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- Love one another with brotherly or sister affection,
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- And outdo one another in showing honor.
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- That word honor is
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- Either abused in church or misunderstood in church.
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- What this word honor
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- It means, is
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- You don't give it to people who deserve it.
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- It's what you do because god
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- Demands it.
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- If you can't honor those that are in proximity of you,
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- You will never be
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- Honored yourself.
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- And some of us are seeking to be served
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- Instead of looking for opportunities to serve others.
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- Some of us, some of us are eager to get power
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- Instead of operating in humility and relinquishing
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- Power to the one that is all powerful.
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- See, i truly believe that
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- The quickest way up is down.
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- And if ever you want to be promoted in this life
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- And elevated in this life, you have to be humble
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- Before the lord.
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- The scripture is very clear.
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- Although culture says honor is earned,
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- God says honor is given.
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- The world promotes people who elevate themselves,
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- But god promotes those who lifts others up.
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- If you only honor
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- Those who can help you.
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- That's networking.
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- That's not love.
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- Sundays are not
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- An opportunity for us to network.
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- Sundays are an opportunity for us
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- To express true and genuine love.
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- This honor that i speak of, it's not a weakness.
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- It is the weapon that overcomes evil.
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- It is the thing that crushes
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- The hand of the enemy in your life.
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- There is nothing that defeat your enemy quicker than love.
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- And when your enemy knows and they try to do everything
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- Against you,
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- And you still love them in spite of it confuses them.
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- And scripture
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- Teaches us in romans chapter 12, i want us to go back here
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- Because i don't say anything without scripture to back it up.
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- I want you to see this, and i want you to hear this
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- Because it is the bible, if at all possible.
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- Verse 18 so far is it depends on you.
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- Live peaceably
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- With all, beloved, never avenge yourselves,
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- But leave it to the wrath of god.
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- For it is written, vengeance is mine.
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- I will repay, saith the lord, to the contrary.
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- If your enemy is hungry, feed him.
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- If he is thirsty, give him something to drink,
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- For by so doing you will heap burning clothes on his head.
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- So if you want to defeat your enemy, love your enemy.
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- If you want to tease your enemy off,
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- Love your enemy the way christ loves you,
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- And watch how the enemy flees
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- Because of this love you have for them.
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- So this honor
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- That i speak of, it is not given to the elect.
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- This is not given to those who can pay for it.
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- It's given to those who don't deserve it.
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- But you do.
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- One of the things that i've learned is
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- I can't claim to follow jesus
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- While acting like judas.
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- God, i know what your word says,
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- But i don't feel like it.
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- God, my body feels terrible.
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- But i trust you. no, no, i can't utilize the conjunction.
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- But anymore.
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- God, i feel bad and you're still good.
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- God, i hear your word.
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- And i don't agree with your word.
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- Do you know what god is waiting for?
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- God is waiting for us to be honest with him.
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- God is waiting on us to be transparent
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- In his presence and express to him how we really feel.
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- Some of us think that we're fooling god
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- By not expressing to god our frustrations
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- When he already knows.
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- Because he made you and he designed you,
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- And he knows the number of hairs on your head,
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- And you get in your prayer closet,
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- And you act like you got your stuff together.
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- And you utilize
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- Christian, his language that demonstrates and displays
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- How phony you are.
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- And god is not going to answer those prayers.
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- God will only answer what is genuine and authentic
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- To you and to him.
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- Leads me to point number three.
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- Faith doesn't ignore emotions.
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- It just refuses to be enslaved
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- By them.
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- Faith doesn't love nor ignore the feelings.
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- It doesn't ignore the emotions.
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- It doesn't ignore that you are in real pain.
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- It just refuses to be enslaved by them.
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- This is why this is important.
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- If you let your emotions define your theology,
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- You will shrink god down to the size of your problem.
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- If you allow your feelings to define your theology,
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- You will shrink god down to the size of your struggle.
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- Faith is not
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- The absence of emotion,
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- It is the refusal to be ruled by them.
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- Dialectical thinking allows you to feel deeply
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- Without letting those feelings dictate your faith.
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- While acknowledging your struggles
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- And refusing to let what you feel dictate
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- How you love romans chapter 12, verse 14 says, bless
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- Those who persecute you and bless and do not curse them.
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- Faith doesn't deny emotions.
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- It just does not let emotions drive our vehicle
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- To faith.
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- You must understand
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- Is that your feelings are real,
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- But they don't get the final say in your life.
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- The word says follow your heart.
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- God says guard it.
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- Culture says emotions define truth.
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- God says truth should define your emotions.
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- I need you to hear me when i tell you this.
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- Your feelings are temporary, but your faith is eternal.
- 00:15:04.453 --> 00:15:11.293
- And i think sometimes we forget.
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- That jesus felt
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- Abandoned on the cross,
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- Yet he still trusted the father.
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- Some of you feel abandoned by god.
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- And you've been taught not to have feelings,
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- And you've been taught not to have emotions,
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- And you've been taught not to question god.
- 00:15:36.251 --> 00:15:38.854
- And all of those things are not biblically sound.
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- Because jesus himself demonstrates that to us
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- On the cross where he says, father, father, why?
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- Jesus felt.
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- The full brunt of emotions.
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- The full pain in his physical body.
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- But he still trusted the father.
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- And if you have
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- No other takeaways from today than the statement
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- I am about to make, i'm afraid that the sticks to you.
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- Like meat on bones and it is this
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- Faith moves
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- Even when feelings don't.
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- My faith.
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- It moves even when my feelings don't.
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- You must
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- Be reminded that your pain may have a voice,
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- But it does not have a vote.
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- Your pain cannot have the final say in your life.
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- Your feelings, your emotions.
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- How you feel cannot have a vote in your faith.
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- Your faith has to be
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- The driving factor behind why you do what you do, not.
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- Your feelings.
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- And although your feelings allow,
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- The truth of the gospel of jesus christ is louder
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- If you actually listen.
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- So please don't
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- Mistake the silence of god for the absence of god.
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- Your faith move even when your feelings don't.
- 00:17:30.165 --> 00:17:35.204
- And it is possible
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- That you can feel abandoned by god
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- And still be held by him at the same time.
- 00:17:41.176 --> 00:17:45.681
- I don't know who i'm talking to right now.
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- You may be in this moment right now,
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- And you may feel like god has not heard you, and
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- Your feelings may be valid, but they are not the last truth.
- 00:17:57.626 --> 00:18:02.131
- The word of god is the truth, and the truth
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- Shall always set you free.
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- So the thing that we must do
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- Is stop treating our emotions and our feelings
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- Like idols.
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- And start stewarding
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- Our relationship with god like he is in charge.
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- Anything that you put before god has become an idol.
- 00:18:29.291 --> 00:18:33.495
- If you put your feelings before god, it has become an idol.
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- If you put your emotions before god, it has become an idol.
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- If you put your will before god, it has become an idol.
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- If you put your wants
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- And desires before god, it becomes an idol.
- 00:18:43.172 --> 00:18:45.507
- How do you know when your will has become an idol?
- 00:18:45.507 --> 00:18:48.343
- When you do whatever you do
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- Because of how you feel like doing it?
- 00:18:49.845 --> 00:18:54.850
- Here me and i know this is harsh,
- 00:18:55.584 --> 00:18:58.854
- But there are people that decided
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- Not to come to church today because of how they feel.
- 00:19:01.290 --> 00:19:07.763
- And we've belittled our relationship
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- With jesus to just mere feelings
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- When he denied his feelings
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- And went to the cross for us,
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- Was nailed in his wrist and in his feet.
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- It was pierced and his side was of
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- What was on the cross with her,
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- With a thorn on his head that was piercing
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- Through the flesh and the skull of his body.
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- And he abandoned his feelings to fulfill the purpose
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- And the will of god on our life.
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- How dare we follow our feelings over our faith!
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- How dare we below
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- To our relationship to jesus christ based off of how we feel?
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- And who else is in the room?
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- No, no.
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- As long
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- As you have a desire to meet jesus, jesus will meet you here.
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- But family, i need you to understand
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- Jesus goes where he is desired.
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- Not where he's tolerated.
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- The last point that we'll cover
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- Today is this.
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- If your love has a limit,
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- Your faith has a ceiling.
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- If your love has a limit,
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- Your faith has a ceiling. romans
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- Chapter 12 verse 21 says,
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- Do not overcome by evil, but overcome with good.
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- If your love is limited, so is your spiritual growth.
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- Love that starts when tested isn't love.
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- It's self-preservation.
- 00:20:45.227 --> 00:20:47.996
- And the world says match my energy
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- And god says shift atmospheres.
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- Culture teaches self-preservation,
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- But a kingdom love embraces self-sacrifice.
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- Loving the lovable is human,
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- But loving the unlovable is divine.
- 00:21:07.249 --> 00:21:10.585
- And it's easy to
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- Love those that we think love us.
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- But it's supernatural to love those that we know
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- Hate us.
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- One of the things
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- About this scripture that jumps off the page to me.
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- Is that i can't claim
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- To have mountain moving faith.
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- If a grudge can keep me stuck.
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- I can't claim
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- To have mountain moving faith
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- If unforgiveness is holding me
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- Hostage.
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- If hate can't be found in jesus,
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- Then it shouldn't be found
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- In his followers.
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- The conjunction of our feelings.
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- Is that we can absolutely
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- Feel what we feel.
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- But lean more
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- Into a greater narrative than what we feel.
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- That is the gospel of
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- Jesus christ.
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- So the limit of your love
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- Is the lid on your spiritual growth.
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- Because god will always call you
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- To love beyond what is comfortable to you.
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- In this particular text, paul
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- Is calling us to love when it's easy.
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- It's calling us and demonstrating
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- For us to love when it's hardest.
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- And if we can walk this out.
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- Scripture says,
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- This is how the world will know that you are a follower
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- Of jesus christ.
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- So the next time your feelings
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- Try to dictate your love, remember this
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- I feel frustrated
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- And i still choose to love.
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- I feel disappointed
- 00:23:30.258 --> 00:23:33.228
- And i still choose to forgive.
- 00:23:33.228 --> 00:23:35.764
- But i feel angry
- 00:23:35.764 --> 00:23:39.067
- And i still choose to love them over my anger.
- 00:23:39.067 --> 00:23:42.337
- I feel like i've been taken advantage of and
- 00:23:43.238 --> 00:23:46.975
- I still choose to demonstrate the love of jesus christ.
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- Don't allow your feelings
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- To demonstrate the narrative that god has not asked of you
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- To demonstrate.
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- Allow your feelings to be subjected to your faith,
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- Because your faith is anchored in the hope of jesus christ.
- 00:24:00.222 --> 00:24:04.125
- Love is not just a feeling,
- 00:24:04.125 --> 00:24:06.761
- It is a faith move that takes you from glory to glory
- 00:24:06.761 --> 00:24:11.199
- And faith to faith.
- 00:24:11.666 --> 00:24:15.303
- So again, your feelings may be real,
- 00:24:16.104 --> 00:24:17.639
- But they are not the final authority.
- 00:24:17.639 --> 00:24:19.174
- God is.
- 00:24:19.174 --> 00:24:23.378
- And if we can
- 00:24:23.745 --> 00:24:25.814
- Wrestle with that tension.
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- Of the conjunction
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- Of our feelings.
- 00:24:30.919 --> 00:24:34.222
- This is how we demonstrate to the world.
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- That we don't just confess
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- Jesus christ.
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- We actually believe in jesus christ.
- 00:24:45.166 --> 00:24:49.471
- And for it was jesus that said.
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- Not my will,
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- Let your will.
- 00:24:56.845 --> 00:24:58.079
- Well, family, we are out of time for today's broadcast,
- 00:24:59.147 --> 00:25:01.983
- But i would encourage you to continue to lean into
- 00:25:01.983 --> 00:25:04.686
- What god is doing right here on this incredible broadcast.
- 00:25:04.686 --> 00:25:08.189
- The word of god
- 00:25:08.189 --> 00:25:09.624
- Is transformative, and i believe that as we lean in together,
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- Our lives will be changed together forevermore.
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- And so i would encourage you right now,
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- You set your hearts on things above,
- 00:25:19.701 --> 00:25:22.704
- And some of you may have some prayer requests
- 00:25:22.704 --> 00:25:24.673
- And petitions that you want us to connect with you on.
- 00:25:24.673 --> 00:25:28.910
- Our team is going to throw some information
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- At the bottom of the screen right now.
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- Before we get off this broadcast,
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- I'm going to pray with you, and i'm going to set my faith
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- In agreement with doors for what you're believing god for.
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- At the bottom of the screen, you'll also find
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- Some information that i pray that you pray through,
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- And that information is how you can partner with us,
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- Your partnership with us enables us to continue
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- To spread the gospel
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- Of jesus christ to the places that need the most,
- 00:25:53.268 --> 00:25:56.671
- And my prayer is that you would prayerfully
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- Consider becoming a partner with timberlake ministries.
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- And so right now, i'm going to stretch
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- My hands towards the screen as a point of contact with you.
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- No matter wherever you are around the world,
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- Our faith shall connect and your prayer requests
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- Will ping the ear of god and he will respond.
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- And so right now, in jesus name, i thank you,
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- God, for my brother, for my sister that are watching.
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- And i ask right now in the name of jesus
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- That those prayer requests, the petitions, god,
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- The tears that they've cried at night,
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- Those things would not go unnoticed.
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- God, you're so good and that you are a god
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- That not only hears, but you are a god that provides.
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- And so right now, in the name of jesus,
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- I ask that you provide all that they have need of.
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- In jesus name. i pray.
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- Amen.
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- Well, family, if you're ever in the jacksonville area,
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- Please stop by.
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- Visit us on a sunday at 9 a.m.
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- Or 11 a.m., and if you're not, continue to catch us here.
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- I can't wait to continue the word of god with you next week.
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- Same time, same place.
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- I want you to know god loves you and i love you too.
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- I'll see you soon.
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- ♪♪
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