Tim Timberlake - The Conjunction of Feelings

April 2, 2025 | 27:29

Join Pastor Tim as he shares what he believes to be the most important message he’s ever preached.

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Tim Timberlake | Tim Timberlake - The Conjunction of Feelings | April 2, 2025
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  • Hey. family is pastor tim timberlake,
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  • And i am so excited about today's broadcast.
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  • I believe god has given me a word specifically for you.
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  • And so what i want you to do, i want you to grab your word.
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  • I want you to grab your pen, grab me a notepad,
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  • Do me a favor, call somebody
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  • And let them know we're on right now.
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  • And this word is going to change and transform their life.
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  • Let's go into the broadcast that has already begun
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  • For this incredible message
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  • That i believe is going to change your life.
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  • Entitled the conjunction of feelings
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  • So faith
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  • Is living through this tension
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  • That we have a dialectical thinking
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  • To exchange the conjunction of.
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  • But with ed.
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  • Jesus demonstrates this to us, not limiting his emotion,
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  • Not limiting his feelings,
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  • But putting them on full display for us
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  • So that we could see even the king of kings
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  • And the lord of lords
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  • Has feelings and emotions and deep pain and deep, deep trauma
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  • That he has to navigate with god.
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  • In matthew chapter 26, verse 38, he says,
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  • My soul is sorrowful even to death.
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  • And yet.
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  • Not my will.
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  • Allow yours to be done.
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  • The scripture says, my soul is sorrowful.
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  • He knew that he was going to be crucified for us.
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  • He knew that he would have to be whipped for us.
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  • He knew that he would be pierced in his wrists
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  • And his feet for us, and his desire.
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  • And his answer was, and yet.
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  • My will.
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  • It's not about me.
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  • It's about god.
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  • And the reality is, family.
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  • Your feelings may be legitimate.
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  • But oftentimes the conclusions you make from
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  • Those feelings need to be challenged.
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  • If you're not challenging your feelings, you're
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  • Following your feelings.
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  • And if you're following your feelings,
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  • You're leading yourself to a life and a lifestyle
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  • That is fleeting and will not last.
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  • Your feelings may be true,
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  • But what we must understand is that
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  • There is a higher authority at work
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  • That is greater than our feelings.
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  • This higher authority has
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  • To be the priority of our life,
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  • Not how we feel.
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  • So when we read romans chapter 12, beginning at verse number 9
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  • To 21, this is the context that paul was painting for us,
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  • The conjunction of our feelings.
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  • I want you to write this down
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  • Point number one, because this is important
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  • For what we're going for our time together today.
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  • You can't call it love if it disappears
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  • When it's inconvenient.
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  • Romans chapter 12, verse nine says, let love be
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  • Genuine, arbor, or refute or be disgusted
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  • With what is evil, and hold fast to what is good.
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  • The world says love is about how you feel.
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  • God says love is about what you do.
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  • Culture says love is about what makes you happy.
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  • Jesus shows us that love is supposed to make you holy.
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  • And if your love does
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  • Not make you holy, then it is not love at all.
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  • Because love is more than just making you happy
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  • And giving you feels.
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  • And you get the butterflies in your belly
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  • Whenever you get around that certain someone.
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  • Love should make you holy.
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  • So if this love that you say you have lead you to the bedroom
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  • Before you're married, that in fact is not love.
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  • That in fact is lust,
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  • And it is not leading you into a holy lifestyle.
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  • And i know some of you
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  • Like, well, pastors
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  • February, you're supposed to be talking
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  • About relationships and marriages,
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  • And i'm single and i'm trying to find my spouse.
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  • So i want to hear what
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  • And how i carry in my life when i'm a single person.
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  • And i just came to tell you, if you don't get this right,
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  • You will fall prey to your flesh
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  • And you will get into a marriage
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  • That you are not able to sustain because your relationship
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  • With jesus christ was built on a shaky foundation
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  • And not the word of god.
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  • Let me tell you what our flesh desires.
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  • Our flesh desires a shallow love
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  • And shallow love seeks comfort.
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  • But true love embraces sacrifice.
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  • A shallow love seeks a filling.
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  • But true love seeks to be built in faith
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  • And hear me single people hear me loud and clear.
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  • If the person you are pursuing and is pursuing you
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  • Is does not have the desire to build your faith more
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  • Than they do to desire their flesh,
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  • You need to leave that person.
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  • Y'all not talking to me today?
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  • Let me talk to this side.
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  • If the person you are pursuing
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  • Is not trying to help you build your faith,
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  • You need to leave that person. why?
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  • We learned this last week because true love
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  • Always leads you to the altar.
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  • True love
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  • Never leads you to the bedroom without a ring.
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  • Y'all quiet up in here.
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  • It's okay.
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  • I'll preach to myself.
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  • Coaches says
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  • Love should make you happy.
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  • Jesus says
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  • Love should make you holy.
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  • A love that does not endure
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  • Wasn't love.
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  • It was just a season.
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  • Counterfeit
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  • Love is easy because it cost you nothing.
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  • Real love is a war
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  • Because it cost you everything.
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  • Family.
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  • If your love does
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  • Not make hill nervous, it is not genuine love.
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  • If there are not imps and demons
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  • And people scheming against your love,
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  • That end in fact is not real love.
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  • Because real love makes hell tremble.
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  • Real love makes the devil nervous.
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  • Real love makes demons flee.
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  • Real love.
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  • It's shaped the very foundations of hell
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  • Because it represents and reflects what jesus has done for
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  • Us. and i need you to hear me when i tell you this.
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  • The love that changed the world
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  • Didn't come with chocolates and roses.
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  • It came with nails and a cross.
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  • And if the love that you have for people
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  • Does not reflect that, then it is in fact not love at all.
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  • I wish i had a church that understood
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  • That would not here to celebrate love for a day.
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  • February the 14th.
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  • But we're here to model
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  • And demonstrate love 365 days of the year.
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  • The same love that changed the world.
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  • It didn't come with a cute card.
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  • It did come with a teddy bear.
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  • It didn't come with chocolates.
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  • It didn't come with hershey's kisses.
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  • It came with a cross and nails.
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  • It laid its life on the line for you and for me.
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  • And it said, i do anything to reach you,
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  • Even when you're in sin. because i love you.
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  • And if the love that jesus gave to us did not come
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  • With a sacrifice today, that effect would not be love.
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  • I got to move, i got to move.
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  • I got to move.
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  • Point number two is this i want you to write this down
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  • Because i believe this is going to help somebody.
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  • Paul teaches us
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  • Romans chapter nine.
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  • If revenge
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  • Makes you feel powerful,
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  • Honor proves you actually are.
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  • So some of us are seeking revenge.
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  • We want to get back.
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  • We want to get even.
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  • We want them to feel what we feel.
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  • We want them to be in pain. like they put us in pain.
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  • And that's not what scripture says.
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  • Scripture makes it very clear.
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  • Revenge.
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  • It's fleeting.
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  • Romans chapter 12, verse ten.
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  • Love one another with brotherly or sister affection,
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  • And outdo one another in showing honor.
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  • That word honor is
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  • Either abused in church or misunderstood in church.
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  • What this word honor
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  • It means, is
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  • You don't give it to people who deserve it.
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  • It's what you do because god
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  • Demands it.
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  • If you can't honor those that are in proximity of you,
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  • You will never be
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  • Honored yourself.
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  • And some of us are seeking to be served
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  • Instead of looking for opportunities to serve others.
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  • Some of us, some of us are eager to get power
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  • Instead of operating in humility and relinquishing
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  • Power to the one that is all powerful.
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  • See, i truly believe that
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  • The quickest way up is down.
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  • And if ever you want to be promoted in this life
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  • And elevated in this life, you have to be humble
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  • Before the lord.
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  • The scripture is very clear.
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  • Although culture says honor is earned,
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  • God says honor is given.
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  • The world promotes people who elevate themselves,
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  • But god promotes those who lifts others up.
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  • If you only honor
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  • Those who can help you.
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  • That's networking.
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  • That's not love.
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  • Sundays are not
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  • An opportunity for us to network.
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  • Sundays are an opportunity for us
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  • To express true and genuine love.
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  • This honor that i speak of, it's not a weakness.
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  • It is the weapon that overcomes evil.
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  • It is the thing that crushes
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  • The hand of the enemy in your life.
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  • There is nothing that defeat your enemy quicker than love.
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  • And when your enemy knows and they try to do everything
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  • Against you,
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  • And you still love them in spite of it confuses them.
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  • And scripture
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  • Teaches us in romans chapter 12, i want us to go back here
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  • Because i don't say anything without scripture to back it up.
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  • I want you to see this, and i want you to hear this
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  • Because it is the bible, if at all possible.
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  • Verse 18 so far is it depends on you.
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  • Live peaceably
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  • With all, beloved, never avenge yourselves,
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  • But leave it to the wrath of god.
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  • For it is written, vengeance is mine.
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  • I will repay, saith the lord, to the contrary.
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  • If your enemy is hungry, feed him.
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  • If he is thirsty, give him something to drink,
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  • For by so doing you will heap burning clothes on his head.
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  • So if you want to defeat your enemy, love your enemy.
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  • If you want to tease your enemy off,
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  • Love your enemy the way christ loves you,
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  • And watch how the enemy flees
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  • Because of this love you have for them.
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  • So this honor
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  • That i speak of, it is not given to the elect.
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  • This is not given to those who can pay for it.
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  • It's given to those who don't deserve it.
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  • But you do.
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  • One of the things that i've learned is
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  • I can't claim to follow jesus
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  • While acting like judas.
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  • God, i know what your word says,
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  • But i don't feel like it.
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  • God, my body feels terrible.
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  • But i trust you. no, no, i can't utilize the conjunction.
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  • But anymore.
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  • God, i feel bad and you're still good.
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  • God, i hear your word.
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  • And i don't agree with your word.
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  • Do you know what god is waiting for?
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  • God is waiting for us to be honest with him.
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  • God is waiting on us to be transparent
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  • In his presence and express to him how we really feel.
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  • Some of us think that we're fooling god
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  • By not expressing to god our frustrations
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  • When he already knows.
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  • Because he made you and he designed you,
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  • And he knows the number of hairs on your head,
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  • And you get in your prayer closet,
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  • And you act like you got your stuff together.
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  • And you utilize
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  • Christian, his language that demonstrates and displays
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  • How phony you are.
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  • And god is not going to answer those prayers.
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  • God will only answer what is genuine and authentic
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  • To you and to him.
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  • Leads me to point number three.
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  • Faith doesn't ignore emotions.
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  • It just refuses to be enslaved
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  • By them.
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  • Faith doesn't love nor ignore the feelings.
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  • It doesn't ignore the emotions.
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  • It doesn't ignore that you are in real pain.
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  • It just refuses to be enslaved by them.
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  • This is why this is important.
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  • If you let your emotions define your theology,
  • 00:13:40.369 --> 00:13:43.205
  • You will shrink god down to the size of your problem.
  • 00:13:43.205 --> 00:13:48.410
  • If you allow your feelings to define your theology,
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  • You will shrink god down to the size of your struggle.
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  • Faith is not
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  • The absence of emotion,
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  • It is the refusal to be ruled by them.
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  • Dialectical thinking allows you to feel deeply
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  • Without letting those feelings dictate your faith.
  • 00:14:09.465 --> 00:14:13.168
  • While acknowledging your struggles
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  • And refusing to let what you feel dictate
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  • How you love romans chapter 12, verse 14 says, bless
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  • Those who persecute you and bless and do not curse them.
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  • Faith doesn't deny emotions.
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  • It just does not let emotions drive our vehicle
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  • To faith.
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  • You must understand
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  • Is that your feelings are real,
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  • But they don't get the final say in your life.
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  • The word says follow your heart.
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  • God says guard it.
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  • Culture says emotions define truth.
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  • God says truth should define your emotions.
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  • I need you to hear me when i tell you this.
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  • Your feelings are temporary, but your faith is eternal.
  • 00:15:04.453 --> 00:15:11.293
  • And i think sometimes we forget.
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  • That jesus felt
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  • Abandoned on the cross,
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  • Yet he still trusted the father.
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  • Some of you feel abandoned by god.
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  • And you've been taught not to have feelings,
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  • And you've been taught not to have emotions,
  • 00:15:34.516 --> 00:15:36.251
  • And you've been taught not to question god.
  • 00:15:36.251 --> 00:15:38.854
  • And all of those things are not biblically sound.
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  • Because jesus himself demonstrates that to us
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  • On the cross where he says, father, father, why?
  • 00:15:48.564 --> 00:15:56.572
  • Jesus felt.
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  • The full brunt of emotions.
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  • The full pain in his physical body.
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  • But he still trusted the father.
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  • And if you have
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  • No other takeaways from today than the statement
  • 00:16:14.790 --> 00:16:18.660
  • I am about to make, i'm afraid that the sticks to you.
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  • Like meat on bones and it is this
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  • Faith moves
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  • Even when feelings don't.
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  • My faith.
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  • It moves even when my feelings don't.
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  • You must
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  • Be reminded that your pain may have a voice,
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  • But it does not have a vote.
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  • Your pain cannot have the final say in your life.
  • 00:16:55.564 --> 00:16:59.868
  • Your feelings, your emotions.
  • 00:16:59.868 --> 00:17:01.537
  • How you feel cannot have a vote in your faith.
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  • Your faith has to be
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  • The driving factor behind why you do what you do, not.
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  • Your feelings.
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  • And although your feelings allow,
  • 00:17:15.284 --> 00:17:19.054
  • The truth of the gospel of jesus christ is louder
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  • If you actually listen.
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  • So please don't
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  • Mistake the silence of god for the absence of god.
  • 00:17:27.062 --> 00:17:30.165
  • Your faith move even when your feelings don't.
  • 00:17:30.165 --> 00:17:35.204
  • And it is possible
  • 00:17:35.637 --> 00:17:38.107
  • That you can feel abandoned by god
  • 00:17:38.107 --> 00:17:41.176
  • And still be held by him at the same time.
  • 00:17:41.176 --> 00:17:45.681
  • I don't know who i'm talking to right now.
  • 00:17:46.582 --> 00:17:51.086
  • You may be in this moment right now,
  • 00:17:51.854 --> 00:17:53.755
  • And you may feel like god has not heard you, and
  • 00:17:53.755 --> 00:17:57.626
  • Your feelings may be valid, but they are not the last truth.
  • 00:17:57.626 --> 00:18:02.131
  • The word of god is the truth, and the truth
  • 00:18:02.131 --> 00:18:05.434
  • Shall always set you free.
  • 00:18:05.434 --> 00:18:12.341
  • So the thing that we must do
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  • Is stop treating our emotions and our feelings
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  • Like idols.
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  • And start stewarding
  • 00:18:25.120 --> 00:18:26.221
  • Our relationship with god like he is in charge.
  • 00:18:26.221 --> 00:18:29.291
  • Anything that you put before god has become an idol.
  • 00:18:29.291 --> 00:18:33.495
  • If you put your feelings before god, it has become an idol.
  • 00:18:33.495 --> 00:18:36.532
  • If you put your emotions before god, it has become an idol.
  • 00:18:36.532 --> 00:18:39.434
  • If you put your will before god, it has become an idol.
  • 00:18:39.434 --> 00:18:42.171
  • If you put your wants
  • 00:18:42.171 --> 00:18:43.172
  • And desires before god, it becomes an idol.
  • 00:18:43.172 --> 00:18:45.507
  • How do you know when your will has become an idol?
  • 00:18:45.507 --> 00:18:48.343
  • When you do whatever you do
  • 00:18:48.343 --> 00:18:49.845
  • Because of how you feel like doing it?
  • 00:18:49.845 --> 00:18:54.850
  • Here me and i know this is harsh,
  • 00:18:55.584 --> 00:18:58.854
  • But there are people that decided
  • 00:18:58.854 --> 00:19:01.290
  • Not to come to church today because of how they feel.
  • 00:19:01.290 --> 00:19:07.763
  • And we've belittled our relationship
  • 00:19:08.564 --> 00:19:10.799
  • With jesus to just mere feelings
  • 00:19:10.799 --> 00:19:14.336
  • When he denied his feelings
  • 00:19:14.937 --> 00:19:18.140
  • And went to the cross for us,
  • 00:19:18.774 --> 00:19:21.877
  • Was nailed in his wrist and in his feet.
  • 00:19:21.877 --> 00:19:24.813
  • It was pierced and his side was of
  • 00:19:24.813 --> 00:19:27.249
  • What was on the cross with her,
  • 00:19:27.249 --> 00:19:28.951
  • With a thorn on his head that was piercing
  • 00:19:28.951 --> 00:19:31.887
  • Through the flesh and the skull of his body.
  • 00:19:31.887 --> 00:19:34.590
  • And he abandoned his feelings to fulfill the purpose
  • 00:19:34.590 --> 00:19:37.626
  • And the will of god on our life.
  • 00:19:37.626 --> 00:19:39.394
  • How dare we follow our feelings over our faith!
  • 00:19:39.394 --> 00:19:45.400
  • How dare we below
  • 00:19:45.834 --> 00:19:47.069
  • To our relationship to jesus christ based off of how we feel?
  • 00:19:47.069 --> 00:19:50.505
  • And who else is in the room?
  • 00:19:50.505 --> 00:19:53.575
  • No, no.
  • 00:19:53.809 --> 00:19:54.076
  • As long
  • 00:19:54.076 --> 00:19:55.310
  • As you have a desire to meet jesus, jesus will meet you here.
  • 00:19:55.310 --> 00:19:58.313
  • But family, i need you to understand
  • 00:19:58.313 --> 00:19:59.915
  • Jesus goes where he is desired.
  • 00:19:59.915 --> 00:20:06.054
  • Not where he's tolerated.
  • 00:20:06.622 --> 00:20:11.793
  • The last point that we'll cover
  • 00:20:12.427 --> 00:20:13.829
  • Today is this.
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  • If your love has a limit,
  • 00:20:18.133 --> 00:20:21.270
  • Your faith has a ceiling.
  • 00:20:21.270 --> 00:20:25.307
  • If your love has a limit,
  • 00:20:25.874 --> 00:20:28.543
  • Your faith has a ceiling. romans
  • 00:20:28.543 --> 00:20:32.114
  • Chapter 12 verse 21 says,
  • 00:20:32.114 --> 00:20:33.715
  • Do not overcome by evil, but overcome with good.
  • 00:20:33.715 --> 00:20:38.053
  • If your love is limited, so is your spiritual growth.
  • 00:20:38.053 --> 00:20:41.990
  • Love that starts when tested isn't love.
  • 00:20:42.824 --> 00:20:45.227
  • It's self-preservation.
  • 00:20:45.227 --> 00:20:47.996
  • And the world says match my energy
  • 00:20:47.996 --> 00:20:51.233
  • And god says shift atmospheres.
  • 00:20:51.867 --> 00:20:55.137
  • Culture teaches self-preservation,
  • 00:20:55.871 --> 00:20:58.006
  • But a kingdom love embraces self-sacrifice.
  • 00:20:58.006 --> 00:21:03.478
  • Loving the lovable is human,
  • 00:21:04.079 --> 00:21:07.249
  • But loving the unlovable is divine.
  • 00:21:07.249 --> 00:21:10.585
  • And it's easy to
  • 00:21:10.986 --> 00:21:11.853
  • Love those that we think love us.
  • 00:21:11.853 --> 00:21:14.923
  • But it's supernatural to love those that we know
  • 00:21:14.923 --> 00:21:17.192
  • Hate us.
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  • One of the things
  • 00:21:20.662 --> 00:21:23.165
  • About this scripture that jumps off the page to me.
  • 00:21:23.165 --> 00:21:27.703
  • Is that i can't claim
  • 00:21:28.203 --> 00:21:29.471
  • To have mountain moving faith.
  • 00:21:29.471 --> 00:21:32.974
  • If a grudge can keep me stuck.
  • 00:21:33.575 --> 00:21:41.683
  • I can't claim
  • 00:21:42.050 --> 00:21:42.918
  • To have mountain moving faith
  • 00:21:42.918 --> 00:21:46.521
  • If unforgiveness is holding me
  • 00:21:47.122 --> 00:21:48.824
  • Hostage.
  • 00:21:48.824 --> 00:21:53.395
  • If hate can't be found in jesus,
  • 00:21:54.029 --> 00:21:57.432
  • Then it shouldn't be found
  • 00:21:57.999 --> 00:21:59.067
  • In his followers.
  • 00:21:59.067 --> 00:22:02.437
  • The conjunction of our feelings.
  • 00:22:03.071 --> 00:22:07.476
  • Is that we can absolutely
  • 00:22:08.043 --> 00:22:10.278
  • Feel what we feel.
  • 00:22:10.278 --> 00:22:13.515
  • But lean more
  • 00:22:13.882 --> 00:22:15.283
  • Into a greater narrative than what we feel.
  • 00:22:15.283 --> 00:22:19.287
  • That is the gospel of
  • 00:22:19.788 --> 00:22:20.956
  • Jesus christ.
  • 00:22:20.956 --> 00:22:24.826
  • So the limit of your love
  • 00:22:25.394 --> 00:22:27.229
  • Is the lid on your spiritual growth.
  • 00:22:27.229 --> 00:22:32.501
  • Because god will always call you
  • 00:22:33.135 --> 00:22:37.139
  • To love beyond what is comfortable to you.
  • 00:22:37.139 --> 00:22:43.645
  • In this particular text, paul
  • 00:22:44.279 --> 00:22:46.782
  • Is calling us to love when it's easy.
  • 00:22:46.782 --> 00:22:51.953
  • It's calling us and demonstrating
  • 00:22:52.687 --> 00:22:54.356
  • For us to love when it's hardest.
  • 00:22:54.356 --> 00:23:01.296
  • And if we can walk this out.
  • 00:23:01.897 --> 00:23:05.233
  • Scripture says,
  • 00:23:05.600 --> 00:23:07.035
  • This is how the world will know that you are a follower
  • 00:23:07.035 --> 00:23:12.441
  • Of jesus christ.
  • 00:23:12.841 --> 00:23:16.912
  • So the next time your feelings
  • 00:23:17.512 --> 00:23:18.947
  • Try to dictate your love, remember this
  • 00:23:18.947 --> 00:23:22.451
  • I feel frustrated
  • 00:23:22.884 --> 00:23:26.254
  • And i still choose to love.
  • 00:23:26.254 --> 00:23:29.791
  • I feel disappointed
  • 00:23:30.258 --> 00:23:33.228
  • And i still choose to forgive.
  • 00:23:33.228 --> 00:23:35.764
  • But i feel angry
  • 00:23:35.764 --> 00:23:39.067
  • And i still choose to love them over my anger.
  • 00:23:39.067 --> 00:23:42.337
  • I feel like i've been taken advantage of and
  • 00:23:43.238 --> 00:23:46.975
  • I still choose to demonstrate the love of jesus christ.
  • 00:23:46.975 --> 00:23:50.445
  • Don't allow your feelings
  • 00:23:50.445 --> 00:23:52.514
  • To demonstrate the narrative that god has not asked of you
  • 00:23:52.514 --> 00:23:56.084
  • To demonstrate.
  • 00:23:56.084 --> 00:23:57.152
  • Allow your feelings to be subjected to your faith,
  • 00:23:57.152 --> 00:24:00.222
  • Because your faith is anchored in the hope of jesus christ.
  • 00:24:00.222 --> 00:24:04.125
  • Love is not just a feeling,
  • 00:24:04.125 --> 00:24:06.761
  • It is a faith move that takes you from glory to glory
  • 00:24:06.761 --> 00:24:11.199
  • And faith to faith.
  • 00:24:11.666 --> 00:24:15.303
  • So again, your feelings may be real,
  • 00:24:16.104 --> 00:24:17.639
  • But they are not the final authority.
  • 00:24:17.639 --> 00:24:19.174
  • God is.
  • 00:24:19.174 --> 00:24:23.378
  • And if we can
  • 00:24:23.745 --> 00:24:25.814
  • Wrestle with that tension.
  • 00:24:25.814 --> 00:24:29.217
  • Of the conjunction
  • 00:24:29.651 --> 00:24:30.919
  • Of our feelings.
  • 00:24:30.919 --> 00:24:34.222
  • This is how we demonstrate to the world.
  • 00:24:35.090 --> 00:24:38.894
  • That we don't just confess
  • 00:24:39.461 --> 00:24:42.030
  • Jesus christ.
  • 00:24:42.030 --> 00:24:45.166
  • We actually believe in jesus christ.
  • 00:24:45.166 --> 00:24:49.471
  • And for it was jesus that said.
  • 00:24:50.138 --> 00:24:52.908
  • Not my will,
  • 00:24:52.908 --> 00:24:56.478
  • Let your will.
  • 00:24:56.845 --> 00:24:58.079
  • Well, family, we are out of time for today's broadcast,
  • 00:24:59.147 --> 00:25:01.983
  • But i would encourage you to continue to lean into
  • 00:25:01.983 --> 00:25:04.686
  • What god is doing right here on this incredible broadcast.
  • 00:25:04.686 --> 00:25:08.189
  • The word of god
  • 00:25:08.189 --> 00:25:09.624
  • Is transformative, and i believe that as we lean in together,
  • 00:25:09.624 --> 00:25:13.061
  • Our lives will be changed together forevermore.
  • 00:25:13.061 --> 00:25:17.265
  • And so i would encourage you right now,
  • 00:25:17.265 --> 00:25:19.701
  • You set your hearts on things above,
  • 00:25:19.701 --> 00:25:22.704
  • And some of you may have some prayer requests
  • 00:25:22.704 --> 00:25:24.673
  • And petitions that you want us to connect with you on.
  • 00:25:24.673 --> 00:25:28.910
  • Our team is going to throw some information
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  • At the bottom of the screen right now.
  • 00:25:30.312 --> 00:25:32.480
  • Before we get off this broadcast,
  • 00:25:32.480 --> 00:25:34.049
  • I'm going to pray with you, and i'm going to set my faith
  • 00:25:34.049 --> 00:25:36.051
  • In agreement with doors for what you're believing god for.
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  • At the bottom of the screen, you'll also find
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  • Some information that i pray that you pray through,
  • 00:25:41.856 --> 00:25:45.360
  • And that information is how you can partner with us,
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  • Your partnership with us enables us to continue
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  • To spread the gospel
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  • Of jesus christ to the places that need the most,
  • 00:25:53.268 --> 00:25:56.671
  • And my prayer is that you would prayerfully
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  • Consider becoming a partner with timberlake ministries.
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  • And so right now, i'm going to stretch
  • 00:26:02.143 --> 00:26:03.445
  • My hands towards the screen as a point of contact with you.
  • 00:26:03.445 --> 00:26:07.449
  • No matter wherever you are around the world,
  • 00:26:07.449 --> 00:26:09.551
  • Our faith shall connect and your prayer requests
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  • Will ping the ear of god and he will respond.
  • 00:26:12.187 --> 00:26:15.590
  • And so right now, in jesus name, i thank you,
  • 00:26:15.590 --> 00:26:17.692
  • God, for my brother, for my sister that are watching.
  • 00:26:17.692 --> 00:26:20.328
  • And i ask right now in the name of jesus
  • 00:26:20.328 --> 00:26:22.330
  • That those prayer requests, the petitions, god,
  • 00:26:22.330 --> 00:26:24.933
  • The tears that they've cried at night,
  • 00:26:24.933 --> 00:26:26.835
  • Those things would not go unnoticed.
  • 00:26:27.636 --> 00:26:30.271
  • God, you're so good and that you are a god
  • 00:26:30.271 --> 00:26:32.507
  • That not only hears, but you are a god that provides.
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  • And so right now, in the name of jesus,
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  • I ask that you provide all that they have need of.
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  • In jesus name. i pray.
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  • Amen.
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  • Well, family, if you're ever in the jacksonville area,
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  • Please stop by.
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  • Visit us on a sunday at 9 a.m.
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  • Or 11 a.m., and if you're not, continue to catch us here.
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  • I can't wait to continue the word of god with you next week.
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  • Same time, same place.
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  • I want you to know god loves you and i love you too.
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  • I'll see you soon.
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  • ♪♪
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  • ♪♪
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  • ♪♪
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