Mike Novotny - How Can I Resist Temptation?

September 30, 2025 | 29:5

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Time Of Grace With Mike Novotny | Mike Novotny - How Can I Resist Temptation? | September 30, 2025
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  • >> about every month or so,
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  • I buzz in at the back door
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  • I buzz in at the back door of our local jail.
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  • Of our local jail. i click that little buzzer,
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  • I click that little buzzer, i wait for the intercom,
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  • I wait for the intercom, i introduce myself,
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  • I introduce myself, the door clicks,
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  • I walk through
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  • I walk through the sterile hallway,
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  • I fish up to the left,
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  • I fish up to the left, i wait for the doors to open.
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  • I wait for the doors to open. no buttons necessary,
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  • No buttons necessary, i look at the cameras
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  • I look at the cameras that are looking back at me.
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  • That are looking back at me. i step inside the elevator;
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  • It takes me to the proper floor.
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  • It takes me to the proper floor. the doors open into
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  • The doors open into a concrete cold room,
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  • A concrete cold room, the officer takes me
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  • The officer takes me right or left,
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  • Right or left, either to that row of stools
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  • Either to that row of stools in front of the row of glass
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  • In front of the row of glass where i fidget in my
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  • Where i fidget in my uncomfortable seats and wait,
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  • Uncomfortable seats and wait, or to the two bucket
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  • Or to the two bucket plastic seats
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  • Plastic seats with the table in between
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  • With the table in between and the big red button
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  • And the big red button behind my head that i can push
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  • Behind my head that i can push if things happen to go south
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  • If things happen to go south with an inmate.
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  • With an inmate. and i sit there with
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  • And i sit there with my little blue bible
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  • My little blue bible and i wait for
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  • And i wait for the officer to come,
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  • The officer to come, the jangle of the keys,
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  • The jangle of the keys, my friend dressed in all orange,
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  • My friend dressed in all orange, slippers on his or her feet,
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  • Slippers on his or her feet, but i already know what
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  • But i already know what we're going to talk about.
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  • We're going to talk about. been a pastor for 14 years,
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  • Been a pastor for 14 years, i've sat in situations
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  • I've sat in situations like that, dozens,
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  • Like that, dozens, if not hundreds of times,
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  • If not hundreds of times, and i can almost guarantee
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  • And i can almost guarantee that the topic of conversation
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  • That the topic of conversation for the day will be
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  • For the day will be "self-control."
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  • "self-control." and when you stop
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  • And when you stop and think about it,
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  • And think about it, it's not the message for
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  • It's not the message for our friends who are watching
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  • Our friends who are watching right now from a cell.
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  • Right now from a cell. isn't it true that so much
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  • Isn't it true that so much of the quality of your life,
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  • Of the quality of your life, your financial life,
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  • Your financial life, your physical life,
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  • Your physical life, your relational life,
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  • Your relational life, even your spiritual life
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  • Even your spiritual life comes down to that thing
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  • Comes down to that thing we call self-control?
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  • We call self-control? not to freak you out in church,
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  • Not to freak you out in church, but any of you, any of us,
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  • But any of you, any of us, could completely
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  • Could completely train wreck our life
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  • Train wreck our life in less than an hour, right?
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  • In less than an hour, right? it would take one choice
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  • It would take one choice that could ruin a family,
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  • That could ruin a family, that could mess up a marriage,
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  • That could mess up a marriage, that could land us in prison,
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  • That could land us in prison, that could get us addicted.
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  • That could get us addicted. when it comes to living
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  • When it comes to living in this world,
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  • In this world, you don't always get
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  • You don't always get three strikes or five chances,
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  • Three strikes or five chances, sometimes it just takes
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  • Sometimes it just takes one decision where everything
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  • One decision where everything takes a hard turn and changes.
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  • Takes a hard turn and changes. and so, the topic
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  • And so, the topic i want to talk to you
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  • I want to talk to you about today,
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  • About today, when you slow down
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  • When you slow down and think about it,
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  • And think about it, is of infinite importance.
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  • Is of infinite importance. do you have and do i have,
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  • Do you have and do i have, do we have self-control?
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  • You know, some of you here today
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  • You know, some of you here today are a lot like my friends
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  • Are a lot like my friends who are sitting in a cell.
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  • Who are sitting in a cell. the things that draw
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  • The things that draw your heart are very,
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  • Your heart are very, very explosive and dangerous.
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  • Very explosive and dangerous. i'm going to call them
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  • I'm going to call them bad boy kind of sins.
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  • Bad boy kind of sins. drinking, to be honest,
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  • Drinking, to be honest, you like it, you've done it,
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  • You like it, you've done it, you've done it often,
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  • You've done it often, and you're very tempted by it.
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  • And you're very tempted by it. using partying, escaping,
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  • Using partying, escaping, spending money you don't have,
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  • Spending money you don't have, clicking on websites
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  • Clicking on websites that you shouldn't,
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  • That you shouldn't, flirting with people
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  • Flirting with people that you shouldn't,
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  • That you shouldn't, these things are
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  • These things are very, very interesting to you.
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  • Very, very interesting to you. and so the anger, the abuse,
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  • And so the anger, the abuse, the addiction kind of things,
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  • The addiction kind of things, that's where you need
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  • That's where you need self-control before things
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  • Self-control before things blow up really big.
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  • And others of you
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  • And others of you have never been tempted
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  • Have never been tempted by getting high
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  • By getting high or getting wasted
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  • Or getting wasted or clicking on
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  • Or clicking on inappropriate websites.
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  • Inappropriate websites. for you, the self-control
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  • For you, the self-control is what i'll call
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  • Is what i'll call the good girl kind of sense.
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  • The good girl kind of sense. did you know you can blow up
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  • Did you know you can blow up your life with fairly socially
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  • Your life with fairly socially acceptable behavior?
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  • Acceptable behavior? like if you're a christian
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  • Like if you're a christian but you're super controlling,
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  • But you're super controlling, like, you just need to be right
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  • Like, you just need to be right in every argument
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  • In every argument in a relationship
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  • In a relationship or you need things
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  • Or you need things to go your way at work
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  • To go your way at work or you just melt apart
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  • Or you just melt apart and panic and get all tense.
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  • And panic and get all tense. like, that can mess you up.
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  • Like, that can mess you up. if you're highly organized,
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  • If you're highly organized, but you're highly,
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  • But you're highly, like, overwhelmed
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  • Like, overwhelmed and over committed,
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  • And over committed, and exhausting to
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  • And exhausting to the people around you,
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  • The people around you, that can mess up your life.
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  • That can mess up your life. if the bible says that
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  • If the bible says that we should rejoice,
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  • We should rejoice, but you ain't got time for that
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  • But you ain't got time for that and we should live at peace,
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  • And we should live at peace, because god is the king of kings
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  • Because god is the king of kings and lord of lords,
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  • And lord of lords, but you're too busy being
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  • But you're too busy being productive for that.
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  • Productive for that. if you would be patient
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  • If you would be patient and kind and loving with people
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  • And kind and loving with people but you don't got time
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  • But you don't got time to slow down,
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  • To slow down, because there's so many things
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  • Because there's so many things on your to do list.
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  • On your to do list. like, if you don't
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  • Like, if you don't control that part of you
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  • Control that part of you that needs to be amazing
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  • That needs to be amazing and excellent and exceptional,
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  • And excellent and exceptional, and have control of everything,
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  • And have control of everything, like, that, that can mess up
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  • Like, that, that can mess up a life today, too.
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  • A life today, too. and so, today is
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  • And so, today is an important topic,
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  • An important topic, and it's an essentially
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  • And it's an essentially serious topic,
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  • Serious topic, that there is something
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  • That there is something within me and within you
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  • Within me and within you that is so temptable,
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  • That is so temptable, and there's something
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  • And there's something in the world that we are about
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  • In the world that we are about to walk back into
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  • To walk back into that is so tempting.
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  • That is so tempting. and if you and i allow
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  • And if you and i allow those two to tango,
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  • [imitating an explosion]
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  • Lives quickly, implode.
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  • But, but if with
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  • But, but if with the help of god,
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  • The help of god, we can say no to that,
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  • We can say no to that, like, "yeah, that's interesting,
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  • Like, "yeah, that's interesting, but i'm not interested,
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  • But i'm not interested, not today."
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  • Not today." if we can resist temptation
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  • If we can resist temptation and we can live
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  • And we can live a self-controlled life,
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  • A self-controlled life, there are so many good things
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  • There are so many good things that come out of it.
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  • There's this amazing
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  • There's this amazing bible passage in proverbs 25
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  • Bible passage in proverbs 25 where god says this.
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  • Where god says this. he says, "like, a city
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  • He says, "like, a city whose walls are broken through
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  • Whose walls are broken through is a person who lacks
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  • Is a person who lacks self-control."
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  • Whether it's anger or anxiety,
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  • Whether it's anger or anxiety, whether it's pornography
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  • Whether it's pornography or impatience,
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  • Or impatience, what does god do
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  • What does god do to slowly and steadily
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  • To slowly and steadily produce in us the fruit
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  • Produce in us the fruit of more self-control?
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  • Of more self-control? now, to be candid,
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  • Now, to be candid, there's a ton of answers
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  • There's a ton of answers to that question.
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  • To that question. they're there's rewards
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  • They're there's rewards that god promises,
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  • That god promises, there's threats that you
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  • There's threats that you find in the bible,
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  • Find in the bible, there's the blessing
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  • There's the blessing of community,
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  • Of community, but today i actually want
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  • But today i actually want to zero in to the two things
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  • To zero in to the two things that i have seen personally
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  • That i have seen personally in my life produce
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  • In my life produce the most self-control.
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  • The most self-control. so, we're going to open
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  • So, we're going to open our bibles, we're going to cover
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  • Our bibles, we're going to cover two big ideas as we
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  • Two big ideas as we pursue the fruit
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  • Pursue the fruit of self-control together.
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  • Of self-control together. so, grab a pen
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  • So, grab a pen if you're taking notes,
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  • If you're taking notes, if for watching at home,
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  • If for watching at home, do the same.
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  • Do the same. because here's the first
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  • Because here's the first and i think one of the best ways
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  • And i think one of the best ways to control yourself.
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  • To control yourself. it's what i'm going to call
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  • It's what i'm going to call guardrails.
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  • Guardrails. guardrails.
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  • Guardrails. god produces self-control
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  • God produces self-control through guardrails.
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  • Through guardrails. now, i'm borrowing that phrase
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  • Now, i'm borrowing that phrase from a pastor who gave a sermon,
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  • From a pastor who gave a sermon, actually a whole sermon series
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  • Actually a whole sermon series called "guardrails" years ago.
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  • Called "guardrails" years ago. and then here was his point,
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  • And then here was his point, he said, "on the highway,
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  • He said, "on the highway, when there's ever, like,
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  • When there's ever, like, a really dangerous cliff
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  • A really dangerous cliff your car could just
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  • Your car could just drive right off of it,
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  • Drive right off of it, driving over that
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  • Driving over that would kill you, maim you,
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  • Would kill you, maim you, ruin everything in a minute.
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  • Ruin everything in a minute. what the government often does
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  • What the government often does is not allow you to drive
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  • Is not allow you to drive right here, close to the edge.
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  • Right here, close to the edge. instead, way over here,
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  • Instead, way over here, they set up a guardrail.
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  • They set up a guardrail. it's like this thing
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  • It's like this thing that you hit
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  • That you hit and it's a little bit painful,
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  • And it's a little bit painful, but it prevents you
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  • But it prevents you from doing something
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  • From doing something that's much, much more painful,
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  • That's much, much more painful, it's a guardrail.
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  • It's a guardrail. and this pastor had
  • 00:07:38.648 --> 00:07:39.315
  • And this pastor had a brilliant analogy.
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  • A brilliant analogy. he said really smart christians,
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  • He said really smart christians, really wise people,
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  • Really wise people, when they know, like,
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  • When they know, like, the thing that will totally
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  • The thing that will totally ruin their life,
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  • Ruin their life, they don't try to walk
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  • They don't try to walk as close to the edge
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  • As close to the edge as they can.
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  • As they can. instead, what they do is
  • 00:07:54.497 --> 00:07:55.464
  • Instead, what they do is they make a personal rule
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  • They make a personal rule that keeps them right here.
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  • That keeps them right here. it's like here won't be sinful,
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  • It's like here won't be sinful, and here wouldn't be
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  • And here wouldn't be technically wrong,
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  • Technically wrong, and here there's no command
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  • And here there's no command from god that says,
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  • From god that says, "you shall not."
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  • "you shall not." but if i know that
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  • But if i know that i'm very tempted
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  • I'm very tempted and very easily persuaded
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  • And very easily persuaded to do this,
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  • To do this, then maybe one
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  • Then maybe one of the smartest things
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  • Of the smartest things i can do is, to do that.
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  • I think about the apostle paul
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  • I think about the apostle paul wrote to the church in corinth
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  • Wrote to the church in corinth in 1 corinthians 6,
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  • In 1 corinthians 6, it's a city filled
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  • It's a city filled with sexual immorality,
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  • With sexual immorality, prostitution, greek culture.
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  • Prostitution, greek culture. here's what paul told
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  • Here's what paul told the corinthian christians,
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  • The corinthian christians, he said in chapter 6,
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  • He said in chapter 6, "flee from sexual immorality."
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  • That's good advice, isn't it?
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  • That's good advice, isn't it? he could have said,
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  • He could have said, "just resist it."
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  • "just resist it." he could have said,
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  • He could have said, "hey, you really shouldn't."
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  • "hey, you really shouldn't." he said, "no, flee."
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  • He said, "no, flee." "like, you guys
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  • "like, you guys just became christians,
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  • Just became christians, you got a lot of experience
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  • You got a lot of experience walking past the brothel,
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  • Walking past the brothel, the temple, you know that
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  • The temple, you know that once you see her,
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  • Once you see her, you know that once she
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  • You know that once she gives you her business
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  • Gives you her business plan and pitch,
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  • Plan and pitch, you know once she
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  • You know once she smiles subtly and wink,
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  • Smiles subtly and wink, you're done for.
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  • You're done for. so, what do you corinthians do?"
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  • So, what do you corinthians do?" paul said, "flee.
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  • Paul said, "flee. run away.
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  • Run away. take a step back,
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  • Take a step back, take the long way around town.
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  • Take the long way around town. whatever you have to do
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  • Whatever you have to do to stay as far away
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  • To stay as far away from temptation,'
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  • From temptation,' paul said, "do it."
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  • And if you're wise and i'm wise,
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  • And if you're wise and i'm wise, one of the wisest things
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  • One of the wisest things we can figure out today
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  • We can figure out today is figuring out,
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  • Is figuring out, what's the cliff for us
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  • What's the cliff for us and what would it look like
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  • And what would it look like to stand far from it?
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  • To stand far from it? let me describe it this way,
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  • Let me describe it this way, i have here in front of me,
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  • I have here in front of me, two little magnets,
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  • Two little magnets, let's imagine that this is
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  • Let's imagine that this is the sin that could really
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  • The sin that could really mess up your life.
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  • Mess up your life. like, if you go back to this,
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  • Like, if you go back to this, you're going to end up
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  • You're going to end up an addict,
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  • An addict, you're going to lose her trust,
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  • You're going to lose her trust, you're going to lose your job,
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  • You're going to lose your job, you're going to disconnect
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  • You're going to disconnect from jesus, from god
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  • From jesus, from god and let's imagine that
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  • And let's imagine that this magnet is you.
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  • This magnet is you. now, what would the smart thing
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  • Be if you knew that these
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  • Two magnets coming together
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  • Would really jack up
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  • Your life?
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  • Would it be to say,
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  • "not technically wrong.
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  • Officially, i can do this.
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  • There's no bible passage
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  • Against it.
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  • I'm not touching this.
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  • Boom.
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  • Right, it's like
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  • There's something powerful
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  • There's something powerful and you say,
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  • And you say, "how did that happen?
  • 00:10:43.299 --> 00:10:44.967
  • "how did that happen? how did i --
  • 00:10:45.034 --> 00:10:45.468
  • How did i -- i didn't plan on doing that,
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  • I didn't plan on doing that, i hated it --
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  • I hated it -- i prayed last sunday
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  • I prayed last sunday that i wasn't going
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  • That i wasn't going to do that and --
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  • To do that and -- and god said, "listen,
  • 00:10:51.006 --> 00:10:53.242
  • And god said, "listen, know thyself."
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  • Know thyself." maybe for some people
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  • Maybe for some people that's not the temptation,
  • 00:10:57.279 --> 00:10:58.180
  • That's not the temptation, maybe they can do this,
  • 00:10:58.247 --> 00:10:59.248
  • Maybe they can do this, maybe they can go there,
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  • Maybe they can go there, maybe they can hang out
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  • Maybe they can hang out with those people.
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  • With those people. but if you've see it
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  • But if you've see it in your own life that there is
  • 00:11:02.818 --> 00:11:03.652
  • In your own life that there is a pattern of behavior where
  • 00:11:03.719 --> 00:11:05.621
  • A pattern of behavior where wherever you get this close,
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  • [click]
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  • That happens,
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  • That happens, then the smart thing
  • 00:11:13.062 --> 00:11:13.496
  • Then the smart thing you could do today is
  • 00:11:13.562 --> 00:11:16.298
  • You could do today is not get that close.
  • 00:11:16.365 --> 00:11:18.167
  • So, here's my tough question
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  • So, here's my tough question for you today,
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  • For you today, what would that
  • 00:11:24.340 --> 00:11:24.640
  • What would that look like for you?
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  • Like, if you thought
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  • Like, if you thought really deeply about,
  • 00:11:30.146 --> 00:11:30.913
  • Really deeply about, like, the sin
  • 00:11:30.980 --> 00:11:32.414
  • Like, the sin that just instantly
  • 00:11:32.481 --> 00:11:33.015
  • That just instantly comes to mind,
  • 00:11:33.082 --> 00:11:33.682
  • Comes to mind, when you have that moment
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  • When you have that moment in church to, you know,
  • 00:11:34.650 --> 00:11:35.985
  • In church to, you know, just talk between you and god.
  • 00:11:36.051 --> 00:11:38.120
  • Just talk between you and god. if, like, you know
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  • If, like, you know what that sin is,
  • 00:11:38.854 --> 00:11:41.357
  • What that sin is, what would it look like
  • 00:11:41.423 --> 00:11:41.957
  • What would it look like to make a personal rule
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  • To make a personal rule to flee from that temptation?
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  • Jesus' close friend, peter,
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  • Jesus' close friend, peter, said this in 2 peter 1,
  • 00:11:50.666 --> 00:11:53.469
  • Said this in 2 peter 1, he wrote, "make every effort
  • 00:11:53.536 --> 00:11:56.705
  • He wrote, "make every effort to add to your faith,
  • 00:11:56.772 --> 00:11:58.174
  • To add to your faith, goodness and to goodness,
  • 00:11:58.240 --> 00:12:00.709
  • Goodness and to goodness, knowledge and to knowledge,
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  • Knowledge and to knowledge, self-control."
  • 00:12:04.413 --> 00:12:07.216
  • About a year ago,
  • 00:12:07.316 --> 00:12:07.883
  • About a year ago, i was with a friend
  • 00:12:07.950 --> 00:12:08.617
  • I was with a friend who had to go to court
  • 00:12:08.684 --> 00:12:10.820
  • Who had to go to court she's battled addiction
  • 00:12:10.886 --> 00:12:11.587
  • She's battled addiction for a long time,
  • 00:12:11.654 --> 00:12:14.023
  • For a long time, just messed a lot
  • 00:12:14.089 --> 00:12:15.057
  • Just messed a lot of things up in life.
  • 00:12:15.124 --> 00:12:15.925
  • Of things up in life. but here she was,
  • 00:12:15.991 --> 00:12:16.625
  • But here she was, she was begging the judge
  • 00:12:16.692 --> 00:12:17.359
  • She was begging the judge for another chance
  • 00:12:17.426 --> 00:12:19.261
  • For another chance and it turned out that day
  • 00:12:19.328 --> 00:12:20.129
  • And it turned out that day that the judge in the courtroom
  • 00:12:20.196 --> 00:12:22.131
  • That the judge in the courtroom was actually the head
  • 00:12:22.198 --> 00:12:22.898
  • Was actually the head of the county drug court.
  • 00:12:22.965 --> 00:12:26.202
  • Of the county drug court. so, this judge had heard,
  • 00:12:26.268 --> 00:12:27.937
  • So, this judge had heard, what, dozens, probably hundreds
  • 00:12:28.003 --> 00:12:29.839
  • What, dozens, probably hundreds of people who said,
  • 00:12:29.905 --> 00:12:30.773
  • Of people who said, "i know what i did.
  • 00:12:30.840 --> 00:12:32.474
  • "i know what i did. i know what i used to do,
  • 00:12:32.541 --> 00:12:34.343
  • I know what i used to do, but i'm making a promise
  • 00:12:34.410 --> 00:12:35.077
  • But i'm making a promise to you today, judge,
  • 00:12:35.144 --> 00:12:35.878
  • To you today, judge, is going to be different,
  • 00:12:35.945 --> 00:12:36.579
  • Is going to be different, give me chance,
  • 00:12:36.645 --> 00:12:37.279
  • Give me chance, show mercy on me,
  • 00:12:37.346 --> 00:12:38.914
  • Show mercy on me, let me walk away free."
  • 00:12:38.981 --> 00:12:41.317
  • Let me walk away free." and so, my friend
  • 00:12:41.383 --> 00:12:42.151
  • And so, my friend gave her speech,
  • 00:12:42.218 --> 00:12:43.185
  • Gave her speech, and the judge responded
  • 00:12:43.252 --> 00:12:45.254
  • And the judge responded and what the judge said
  • 00:12:45.321 --> 00:12:46.021
  • And what the judge said was so brilliant,
  • 00:12:46.088 --> 00:12:49.024
  • Was so brilliant, as soon as she said it,
  • 00:12:49.091 --> 00:12:50.226
  • As soon as she said it, i knew, like,
  • 00:12:50.292 --> 00:12:52.695
  • I knew, like, "i'm going to steal this."
  • 00:12:52.761 --> 00:12:55.764
  • "i'm going to steal this." the judge listened with empathy
  • 00:12:55.831 --> 00:12:57.666
  • The judge listened with empathy and patience and love
  • 00:12:57.733 --> 00:13:00.336
  • And patience and love and then she looked at my friend
  • 00:13:00.402 --> 00:13:01.503
  • And then she looked at my friend and she said, "young lady,
  • 00:13:01.570 --> 00:13:04.707
  • And she said, "young lady, what you need are new people,
  • 00:13:04.773 --> 00:13:10.579
  • What you need are new people, new places, and new things."
  • 00:13:10.646 --> 00:13:14.617
  • Right?
  • 00:13:17.720 --> 00:13:18.387
  • Right? "you want a new life,
  • 00:13:18.454 --> 00:13:20.489
  • "you want a new life, you're making all these
  • 00:13:20.556 --> 00:13:21.023
  • You're making all these promises to me,
  • 00:13:21.090 --> 00:13:21.824
  • Promises to me, but i tell you what,
  • 00:13:21.891 --> 00:13:22.424
  • But i tell you what, if you go back to the same
  • 00:13:22.491 --> 00:13:23.926
  • If you go back to the same old people you used with,
  • 00:13:23.993 --> 00:13:25.995
  • Old people you used with, the same old places
  • 00:13:26.061 --> 00:13:26.795
  • The same old places where you used to get high,
  • 00:13:26.862 --> 00:13:28.631
  • Where you used to get high, the same old habits,
  • 00:13:28.697 --> 00:13:31.767
  • The same old habits, your life is going
  • 00:13:31.834 --> 00:13:32.268
  • Your life is going to turn out the same."
  • 00:13:32.334 --> 00:13:36.238
  • To turn out the same." and i thought, "judge,
  • 00:13:36.305 --> 00:13:37.373
  • And i thought, "judge, that'll preach."
  • 00:13:37.439 --> 00:13:38.874
  • That'll preach." right?
  • 00:13:38.941 --> 00:13:39.775
  • Right? new nouns.
  • 00:13:39.842 --> 00:13:42.244
  • New nouns. and i speak to you
  • 00:13:42.311 --> 00:13:42.878
  • And i speak to you in love and earnestness,
  • 00:13:42.945 --> 00:13:43.979
  • In love and earnestness, if you want to make
  • 00:13:44.046 --> 00:13:44.613
  • If you want to make a change in your life,
  • 00:13:44.680 --> 00:13:45.748
  • A change in your life, if you want to say no
  • 00:13:45.814 --> 00:13:47.316
  • If you want to say no to an old habit or sin,
  • 00:13:47.383 --> 00:13:48.884
  • To an old habit or sin, what you need are new people,
  • 00:13:48.951 --> 00:13:51.720
  • What you need are new people, new places, new things.
  • 00:13:51.787 --> 00:13:53.722
  • New places, new things. make every effort
  • 00:13:53.789 --> 00:13:55.858
  • Make every effort to add to your
  • 00:13:55.925 --> 00:13:56.392
  • To add to your knowledge of yourself,
  • 00:13:56.458 --> 00:13:59.261
  • Knowledge of yourself, self-control.
  • 00:13:59.328 --> 00:13:59.929
  • So, where does self-control
  • 00:14:06.201 --> 00:14:06.902
  • So, where does self-control come from?
  • 00:14:06.969 --> 00:14:08.470
  • Come from? point number one: guardrails.
  • 00:14:08.537 --> 00:14:12.374
  • Point number one: guardrails. alright, deep breath.
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  • [exhales]
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  • If you're ready for part two
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  • If you're ready for part two give me thumbs up.
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  • Give me thumbs up. alright, here's the second key
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  • Alright, here's the second key to self-control.
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  • To self-control. first is guardrails,
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  • First is guardrails, second thing i want
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  • Second thing i want to share with you today is
  • 00:14:21.884 --> 00:14:24.520
  • To share with you today is the gospel.
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  • The gospel. the gospel.
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  • The gospel. now, the gospel,
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  • Now, the gospel, if you're new to
  • 00:14:30.826 --> 00:14:31.493
  • If you're new to christian lingo,
  • 00:14:31.560 --> 00:14:32.261
  • Christian lingo, is just the good news
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  • Is just the good news of what jesus has done for us.
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  • Of what jesus has done for us. right, the law or the things
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  • Right, the law or the things you do or don't do.
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  • You do or don't do. be self-controlled,
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  • Be self-controlled, make every effort,
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  • Make every effort, that's the law.
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  • That's the law. what i just shared with you;
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  • What i just shared with you; the gospel isn't something
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  • The gospel isn't something that you do,
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  • That you do, it's something that
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  • It's something that jesus did for you.
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  • Jesus did for you. he lived, he died,
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  • He lived, he died, he rose on the third day,
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  • He rose on the third day, he forgives you,
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  • He forgives you, he cleanses you,
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  • He cleanses you, he saves you,
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  • He saves you, he gives you a place
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  • He gives you a place in heaven,
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  • In heaven, he makes you good enough
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  • He makes you good enough for god.
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  • For god. according to the bible itself,
  • 00:14:57.019 --> 00:14:58.187
  • According to the bible itself, the second key,
  • 00:14:58.253 --> 00:14:59.088
  • The second key, maybe the most powerful key
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  • Maybe the most powerful key to producing self-control,
  • 00:15:01.090 --> 00:15:02.925
  • To producing self-control, is focusing on the gospel.
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  • Is focusing on the gospel. it's actually what
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  • It's actually what the apostle paul said
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  • The apostle paul said to his friend titus.
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  • To his friend titus. i had a chance
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  • I had a chance this past week to read
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  • This past week to read all of the bible passages
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  • All of the bible passages in this whole book
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  • In this whole book that talk about control
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  • That talk about control or self-control.
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  • Or self-control. they're about 30 or 40 of them.
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  • They're about 30 or 40 of them. and what i found kind
  • 00:15:24.346 --> 00:15:24.880
  • And what i found kind of interesting is that
  • 00:15:24.947 --> 00:15:26.048
  • Of interesting is that the hotspot for self-control
  • 00:15:26.115 --> 00:15:28.384
  • The hotspot for self-control in this entire book
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  • In this entire book was this tiny little letter
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  • Was this tiny little letter in the new testament
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  • In the new testament called "titus".
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  • Called "titus". have you read it before?
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  • Have you read it before? it's pretty interesting,
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  • It's pretty interesting, titus was a pastor
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  • Titus was a pastor on the greek island of crete
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  • On the greek island of crete in the mediterranean sea.
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  • In the mediterranean sea. and if you read just
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  • And if you read just the first few verses
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  • The first few verses of the book of titus,
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  • Of the book of titus, you would find out that cretans,
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  • You would find out that cretans, cretans were not famous
  • 00:15:50.139 --> 00:15:51.106
  • Cretans were not famous for self-control,
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  • For self-control, crete was like the vegas
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  • Crete was like the vegas of the ancient world.
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  • Of the ancient world. people lied, they swindled,
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  • People lied, they swindled, it was greek culture.
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  • It was greek culture. so, sexual immorality,
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  • So, sexual immorality, prostitution,
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  • Prostitution, plenty of adultery,
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  • Plenty of adultery, drunkenness was
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  • Drunkenness was a form of worship.
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  • A form of worship. there's this one line
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  • There's this one line where they said, "cretans --
  • 00:16:07.189 --> 00:16:09.124
  • Where they said, "cretans -- where is it?
  • 00:16:09.191 --> 00:16:09.625
  • Where is it? "'cretans are always liars,
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  • "'cretans are always liars, evil brutes, lazy, gluttons.'
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  • Evil brutes, lazy, gluttons.' this saying is true."
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  • This saying is true." but then the message of jesus
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  • But then the message of jesus comes to the island of crete.
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  • Comes to the island of crete. the apostle paul
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  • The apostle paul is leaving his friend,
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  • Is leaving his friend, a pastor named titus there,
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  • A pastor named titus there, and what is titus
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  • And what is titus going to do as he runs points
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  • Going to do as he runs points and tries to make this
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  • And tries to make this very sinful island less sinful?
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  • Very sinful island less sinful? how will they
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  • How will they control themselves?
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  • Control themselves? you could say have
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  • You could say have a guardrail run,
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  • A guardrail run, but when you're on an island,
  • 00:16:42.124 --> 00:16:45.227
  • But when you're on an island, it's hard to run away.
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  • It's hard to run away. so, what would they do?
  • 00:16:46.161 --> 00:16:48.330
  • So, what would they do? and as you start to read,
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  • And as you start to read, paul's answer is,
  • 00:16:49.865 --> 00:16:51.567
  • Paul's answer is, "you need to preach
  • 00:16:51.633 --> 00:16:52.234
  • "you need to preach about self-control."
  • 00:16:52.301 --> 00:16:55.838
  • About self-control." he says, "titus,
  • 00:16:55.904 --> 00:16:56.271
  • He says, "titus, the first thing you need to do
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  • The first thing you need to do is find pastors who are not
  • 00:16:57.306 --> 00:16:59.875
  • Is find pastors who are not just biblical and theological,
  • 00:16:59.942 --> 00:17:01.243
  • Just biblical and theological, but they're self-controlled."
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  • But they're self-controlled." if the pastors and leaders
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  • If the pastors and leaders of the church are
  • 00:17:03.712 --> 00:17:04.179
  • Of the church are falling off cliffs,
  • 00:17:04.246 --> 00:17:05.881
  • Falling off cliffs, things are going to blow up.
  • 00:17:05.948 --> 00:17:08.383
  • Things are going to blow up. and then in chapter two,
  • 00:17:08.450 --> 00:17:09.251
  • And then in chapter two, he says, "you need to make sure
  • 00:17:09.318 --> 00:17:10.586
  • He says, "you need to make sure you tell all the people
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  • You tell all the people in the church the importance
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  • In the church the importance of self-control."
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  • Of self-control." you can read this
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  • You can read this for yourself later,
  • 00:17:15.791 --> 00:17:16.358
  • For yourself later, but he says,
  • 00:17:16.425 --> 00:17:17.559
  • But he says, "teach the older men
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  • "teach the older men to be self-controlled."
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  • To be self-controlled." you ever seen any
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  • You ever seen any grouchy older guys before?
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  • Grouchy older guys before? or slowing down
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  • Or slowing down like uncle rico
  • 00:17:26.635 --> 00:17:27.269
  • Like uncle rico from napoleon dynamite,
  • 00:17:27.336 --> 00:17:29.138
  • From napoleon dynamite, you know living in the past
  • 00:17:29.204 --> 00:17:30.072
  • You know living in the past and, like, were just angry.
  • 00:17:30.139 --> 00:17:31.140
  • And, like, were just angry. "kids these days!
  • 00:17:31.206 --> 00:17:32.141
  • "kids these days! in my day, remember
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  • In my day, remember i walked up hill both ways."
  • 00:17:33.075 --> 00:17:34.376
  • I walked up hill both ways." like, no, "tell the old guys
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  • Like, no, "tell the old guys to take a deep breath
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  • To take a deep breath to be self-controlled."
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  • To be self-controlled." and paul said,
  • 00:17:40.749 --> 00:17:42.951
  • And paul said, "tell the women to do
  • 00:17:43.018 --> 00:17:43.785
  • "tell the women to do the same thing."
  • 00:17:43.852 --> 00:17:46.488
  • The same thing." women on crete,
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  • Women on crete, much like many women
  • 00:17:48.223 --> 00:17:49.024
  • Much like many women in america today,
  • 00:17:49.091 --> 00:17:49.658
  • In america today, are a little bit too
  • 00:17:49.725 --> 00:17:50.826
  • Are a little bit too attracted to wine
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  • Attracted to wine and when the bottles
  • 00:17:53.662 --> 00:17:54.229
  • And when the bottles start flowing,
  • 00:17:54.296 --> 00:17:54.897
  • Start flowing, the words start flowing too
  • 00:17:54.963 --> 00:17:56.431
  • The words start flowing too and gossip happens
  • 00:17:56.498 --> 00:17:57.366
  • And gossip happens and slander happens,
  • 00:17:57.432 --> 00:17:58.534
  • And slander happens, and being disrespectful
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  • And being disrespectful of husbands and fathers happens.
  • 00:17:59.568 --> 00:18:02.571
  • Of husbands and fathers happens. so, you need to tell them,
  • 00:18:02.638 --> 00:18:04.173
  • So, you need to tell them, "titus, that the women
  • 00:18:04.239 --> 00:18:05.440
  • "titus, that the women need to be self-controlled
  • 00:18:05.507 --> 00:18:06.441
  • Need to be self-controlled with their wine
  • 00:18:06.508 --> 00:18:07.209
  • With their wine and their words."
  • 00:18:07.276 --> 00:18:08.377
  • And their words." and then, this is
  • 00:18:08.443 --> 00:18:09.811
  • And then, this is my favorite part,
  • 00:18:09.878 --> 00:18:10.646
  • My favorite part, he says in verse 6,
  • 00:18:10.712 --> 00:18:11.446
  • He says in verse 6, "similarly, encourage
  • 00:18:11.513 --> 00:18:12.681
  • "similarly, encourage the young men to be
  • 00:18:12.748 --> 00:18:15.350
  • The young men to be self-controlled," period.
  • 00:18:15.417 --> 00:18:20.122
  • Self-controlled," period. like, that's all you have
  • 00:18:20.189 --> 00:18:21.256
  • Like, that's all you have to tell the young guys.
  • 00:18:21.323 --> 00:18:21.990
  • To tell the young guys. like, "these buck
  • 00:18:22.057 --> 00:18:22.691
  • Like, "these buck wild bachelors, tell them,
  • 00:18:22.758 --> 00:18:24.293
  • Wild bachelors, tell them, 'i know you want to,
  • 00:18:24.359 --> 00:18:26.228
  • 'i know you want to, just don't.'"
  • 00:18:26.295 --> 00:18:28.931
  • Just don't.'" he's like, "this is what
  • 00:18:28.997 --> 00:18:29.631
  • He's like, "this is what you need to preach:
  • 00:18:29.698 --> 00:18:30.566
  • You need to preach: self-controlled pastors,
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  • Self-controlled pastors, self-controlled older men,
  • 00:18:31.667 --> 00:18:32.935
  • Self-controlled older men, self-controlled women,
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  • Self-controlled women, self-controlled younger men."
  • 00:18:34.069 --> 00:18:35.571
  • Self-controlled younger men." and you want to ask
  • 00:18:35.637 --> 00:18:36.238
  • And you want to ask the apostle paul,
  • 00:18:36.305 --> 00:18:37.239
  • The apostle paul, "well, how?"
  • 00:18:37.306 --> 00:18:40.008
  • "well, how?" yeah, everyone just
  • 00:18:40.075 --> 00:18:40.475
  • Yeah, everyone just don't sin, okay, amen.
  • 00:18:40.542 --> 00:18:44.279
  • Don't sin, okay, amen. "paul, how?"
  • 00:18:44.346 --> 00:18:47.382
  • "paul, how?" and i got to tell you,
  • 00:18:47.449 --> 00:18:48.116
  • And i got to tell you, what paul says
  • 00:18:48.183 --> 00:18:48.917
  • What paul says in this chapter is so,
  • 00:18:48.984 --> 00:18:50.452
  • In this chapter is so, it is so fundamental
  • 00:18:50.519 --> 00:18:51.954
  • It is so fundamental for the way that we do
  • 00:18:52.020 --> 00:18:52.754
  • For the way that we do church here at the core
  • 00:18:52.821 --> 00:18:54.456
  • Church here at the core and what we preach
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  • And what we preach at time of grace.
  • 00:18:55.157 --> 00:18:57.626
  • At time of grace. do you know what he says next
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  • Do you know what he says next after all this,
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  • After all this, be self-control,
  • 00:18:59.328 --> 00:18:59.962
  • Be self-control, be self-control,
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  • Be self-control, be self-controlled.
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  • Let me read you
  • 00:19:02.130 --> 00:19:02.664
  • Let me read you titus 2:11 and 12.
  • 00:19:02.731 --> 00:19:05.300
  • Titus 2:11 and 12. he says, "for
  • 00:19:05.367 --> 00:19:08.036
  • He says, "for the grace of god has appeared
  • 00:19:08.103 --> 00:19:09.738
  • The grace of god has appeared that offers salvation
  • 00:19:09.805 --> 00:19:10.672
  • That offers salvation to all people.
  • 00:19:10.739 --> 00:19:12.007
  • To all people. "it teaches us to say no
  • 00:19:12.074 --> 00:19:14.176
  • "it teaches us to say no to ungodliness
  • 00:19:14.243 --> 00:19:15.310
  • To ungodliness and worldly passions,
  • 00:19:15.377 --> 00:19:16.645
  • And worldly passions, and to live self-controlled,
  • 00:19:16.712 --> 00:19:20.249
  • And to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives
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  • Upright and godly lives in this present age."
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  • I cannot tell you how
  • 00:19:26.321 --> 00:19:27.022
  • I cannot tell you how important those words are.
  • 00:19:27.089 --> 00:19:30.459
  • Important those words are. what will teach me
  • 00:19:30.525 --> 00:19:33.562
  • What will teach me to say no to that sin?
  • 00:19:33.629 --> 00:19:37.633
  • To say no to that sin? what will inspire me
  • 00:19:37.699 --> 00:19:39.201
  • What will inspire me to stand back here
  • 00:19:39.268 --> 00:19:40.035
  • To stand back here when all my friends
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  • When all my friends are having fun here,
  • 00:19:40.736 --> 00:19:42.304
  • Are having fun here, here and here?
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  • Here and here? how can you face that
  • 00:19:46.341 --> 00:19:47.175
  • How can you face that same old temptation,
  • 00:19:47.242 --> 00:19:48.744
  • Same old temptation, but have a whole new
  • 00:19:48.810 --> 00:19:49.711
  • But have a whole new reaction to it?
  • 00:19:49.778 --> 00:19:50.879
  • Reaction to it? paul's answer is, grace.
  • 00:19:50.946 --> 00:19:56.752
  • Paul's answer is, grace. when you think about
  • 00:19:56.818 --> 00:19:58.020
  • When you think about the grace that appeared
  • 00:19:58.086 --> 00:19:59.888
  • The grace that appeared on earth 2,000 years ago,
  • 00:19:59.955 --> 00:20:03.025
  • On earth 2,000 years ago, when you slow down
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  • When you slow down and meditate on
  • 00:20:04.059 --> 00:20:04.826
  • And meditate on the crazy, undeserved love
  • 00:20:04.893 --> 00:20:07.529
  • The crazy, undeserved love that jesus gave when he
  • 00:20:07.596 --> 00:20:09.331
  • That jesus gave when he gave his life for you.
  • 00:20:09.398 --> 00:20:12.134
  • Gave his life for you. when you stop just thinking
  • 00:20:12.200 --> 00:20:13.101
  • When you stop just thinking about dos and don'ts
  • 00:20:13.168 --> 00:20:14.369
  • About dos and don'ts and start meditating
  • 00:20:14.436 --> 00:20:15.504
  • And start meditating on the done that happened
  • 00:20:15.570 --> 00:20:17.372
  • On the done that happened at the cross.
  • 00:20:17.439 --> 00:20:21.209
  • At the cross. like, something happens.
  • 00:20:21.276 --> 00:20:23.278
  • It's actually logically
  • 00:20:26.848 --> 00:20:28.050
  • It's actually logically very difficult to explain,
  • 00:20:28.116 --> 00:20:29.217
  • Very difficult to explain, but something happens
  • 00:20:29.284 --> 00:20:30.352
  • But something happens in your heart
  • 00:20:30.419 --> 00:20:31.653
  • In your heart where without a carrot
  • 00:20:31.720 --> 00:20:32.954
  • Where without a carrot or a stick,
  • 00:20:33.021 --> 00:20:35.991
  • Or a stick, you just want to.
  • 00:20:36.058 --> 00:20:40.228
  • You just want to. some people call this
  • 00:20:40.295 --> 00:20:40.862
  • Some people call this gospel motivation.
  • 00:20:40.929 --> 00:20:42.931
  • Gospel motivation. what motivates me is not
  • 00:20:42.998 --> 00:20:44.199
  • What motivates me is not the law and its demands,
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  • The law and its demands, it's not the fact that
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  • It's not the fact that i might end up in hell
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  • I might end up in hell or train wreck my life.
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  • Or train wreck my life. the greatest thing
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  • The greatest thing that drives my heart
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  • That drives my heart is the love of god
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  • Is the love of god that captured my heart.
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  • That captured my heart. other bible passages
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  • Other bible passages say it like this,
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  • Say it like this, "christ love compels us."
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  • "christ love compels us." or, "we love because
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  • Or, "we love because he first loved us.'
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  • He first loved us.' it's kind of like if you're
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  • It's kind of like if you're in an amazing relationship,
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  • In an amazing relationship, you're out grabbing
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  • You're out grabbing a drink with a friend,
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  • A drink with a friend, you've fallen for this guy,
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  • You've fallen for this guy, you're married to this woman
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  • You're married to this woman that you love,
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  • That you love, and someone flirts with you
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  • And someone flirts with you and your friend says, "wooh."
  • 00:21:22.003 --> 00:21:25.507
  • And your friend says, "wooh." and you say, "i don't want to."
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  • "like, why would i
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  • "like, why would i choose the lesser
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  • Choose the lesser of two sources of joy?
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  • Of two sources of joy? i found something better.
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  • I found something better. and, i have no doubt
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  • And, i have no doubt there would be
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  • There would be short term pleasure
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  • Short term pleasure if i cross that line
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  • If i cross that line but i don't want to."
  • 00:21:43.091 --> 00:21:44.626
  • But i don't want to." it's like love
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  • It's like love captures your heart.
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  • Captures your heart. why do some of you parents
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  • Why do some of you parents sit on an uncomfortable
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  • Sit on an uncomfortable grade school bleacher
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  • Grade school bleacher on your free saturday
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  • On your free saturday to watch, you know,
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  • To watch, you know, b team volleyball?
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  • B team volleyball? the answer is
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  • The answer is because of love,
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  • Because of love, because when something
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  • Because when something stirs your heart so deeply,
  • 00:22:03.845 --> 00:22:05.213
  • Stirs your heart so deeply, you want to, and you choose to
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  • You want to, and you choose to and there are other options
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  • And there are other options that might be more fun
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  • That might be more fun in the moment,
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  • In the moment, but you choose the thing
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  • But you choose the thing that grabs your heart.
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  • That grabs your heart. and this is the power
  • 00:22:13.522 --> 00:22:14.689
  • And this is the power of being connected
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  • Of being connected to the gospel.
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  • To the gospel. his love for you and for me,
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  • For people who struggle
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  • For people who struggle insanely with self-control,
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  • Insanely with self-control, it was so deep,
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  • It was so deep, it was so profound,
  • 00:22:24.766 --> 00:22:25.700
  • It was so profound, and it was so perfect
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  • And it was so perfect he was like a lamb
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  • He was like a lamb to the slaughter,
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  • To the slaughter, and he didn't even
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  • And he didn't even open his mouth.
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  • Open his mouth. and because he was
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  • And because he was so self-controlled,
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  • So self-controlled, you and i today say,
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  • You and i today say, that through faith in him
  • 00:22:37.779 --> 00:22:40.315
  • That through faith in him we're saved, we're good.
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  • In the middle of
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  • In the middle of our romans 7 prayers,
  • 00:22:46.421 --> 00:22:47.322
  • Our romans 7 prayers, "god, why do i keep doing
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  • "god, why do i keep doing this stupid stuff that i hate?"
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  • This stupid stuff that i hate?" like, in our next breath,
  • 00:22:51.293 --> 00:22:52.060
  • Like, in our next breath, we can say,
  • 00:22:52.127 --> 00:22:52.527
  • We can say, "but thanks be to god,
  • 00:22:52.594 --> 00:22:54.796
  • "but thanks be to god, i'm forgiven.
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  • I'm forgiven. i'm cleansed.
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  • I'm cleansed. i'm loved.
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  • I'm loved. i'm good.
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  • I'm good. i deserve nothing,
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  • I deserve nothing, he gave me everything.
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  • He gave me everything. i deserve the back of his hand,
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  • I deserve the back of his hand, instead, he gave me his
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  • Instead, he gave me his shining face.
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  • Shining face. jesus is so with me,
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  • Jesus is so with me, and he is so for me."
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  • And he is so for me." you think about
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  • You think about that self-control,
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  • That self-control, and something happens in here,
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  • And something happens in here, where that sin is tempting,
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  • Where that sin is tempting, but now there's something else
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  • But now there's something else inside of you,
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  • Inside of you, that just doesn't want to.
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  • Brothers and sisters,
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  • Brothers and sisters, yes, make every effort,
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  • Yes, make every effort, but even more, fix your eyes
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  • But even more, fix your eyes on the grace of god,
  • 00:23:28.897 --> 00:23:29.564
  • On the grace of god, the grace that saves us
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  • And then teaches us
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  • To be self-controlled.
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  • Let's pray, "dear god,
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  • Thank you so much for
  • 00:23:41.076 --> 00:23:43.912
  • Working in our hearts today.
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  • For all of us, god,
  • 00:23:48.283 --> 00:23:49.117
  • Life could be
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  • A thousand times worse.
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  • If you hadn't answer that prayer
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  • To lead us not into temptation,
  • 00:23:54.623 --> 00:23:56.124
  • To lead us not into temptation, we thank you as imperfect
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  • We thank you as imperfect as it was for
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  • As it was for the self-control
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  • The self-control of our past.
  • 00:23:59.160 --> 00:24:01.830
  • Of our past. and i pray now, god,
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  • And i pray now, god, for a mighty move
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  • For a mighty move of your spirit to produce
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  • Of your spirit to produce just an abundant harvest
  • 00:24:06.368 --> 00:24:07.369
  • Just an abundant harvest of self-control in our hearts.
  • 00:24:07.435 --> 00:24:11.106
  • Of self-control in our hearts. oh god, you can really change
  • 00:24:11.172 --> 00:24:11.907
  • Oh god, you can really change the trajectory of lives
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  • The trajectory of lives of people who are sitting
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  • Of people who are sitting in a cell right now.
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  • In a cell right now. you've done it before
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  • You've done it before and you can do it again
  • 00:24:17.078 --> 00:24:17.746
  • And you can do it again and we pray this prayer
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  • And we pray this prayer for them.
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  • For them. we pray for all of us
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  • We pray for all of us who are here today live,
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  • Who are here today live, god, that you would help our
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  • God, that you would help our families and our faith,
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  • Families and our faith, our connection to you.
  • 00:24:25.153 --> 00:24:26.888
  • Our connection to you. the devil is a liar,
  • 00:24:26.955 --> 00:24:29.257
  • The devil is a liar, but unfortunately,
  • 00:24:29.324 --> 00:24:30.058
  • But unfortunately, he's a good one.
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  • He's a good one. so, help us to believe that
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  • So, help us to believe that the best blessings don't come
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  • The best blessings don't come from flirting with sin
  • 00:24:34.563 --> 00:24:36.598
  • From flirting with sin or seeing how close
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  • Or seeing how close to the line we can get,
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  • To the line we can get, but instead making every effort
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  • But instead making every effort to honor you with our bodies,
  • 00:24:40.936 --> 00:24:42.203
  • To honor you with our bodies, our words, our lives
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  • Our words, our lives and our everything.
  • 00:24:43.538 --> 00:24:46.174
  • And our everything. god, changed our habits today,
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  • God, changed our habits today, give us courage to make
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  • Give us courage to make bold choices today.
  • 00:24:49.010 --> 00:24:51.513
  • Bold choices today. but more than anything,
  • 00:24:51.580 --> 00:24:52.113
  • But more than anything, god, help us not to just
  • 00:24:52.180 --> 00:24:53.181
  • God, help us not to just think of ourselves
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  • Think of ourselves and our steps,
  • 00:24:53.915 --> 00:24:55.350
  • And our steps, but to lift up our eyes
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  • But to lift up our eyes and think of your son.
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  • And think of your son. he is the source
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  • He is the source of our salvation.
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  • Of our salvation. he is the reason that
  • 00:25:00.188 --> 00:25:01.823
  • He is the reason that this struggle with
  • 00:25:01.890 --> 00:25:02.657
  • This struggle with self-control is temporary.
  • 00:25:02.724 --> 00:25:04.593
  • Self-control is temporary. he is the sole source of all
  • 00:25:04.659 --> 00:25:06.461
  • He is the sole source of all forgiveness and love.
  • 00:25:06.528 --> 00:25:08.463
  • Forgiveness and love. so, we thank you, god,
  • 00:25:08.530 --> 00:25:09.064
  • So, we thank you, god, for the gift of jesus,
  • 00:25:09.130 --> 00:25:10.131
  • For the gift of jesus, for your grace that brings
  • 00:25:10.198 --> 00:25:11.032
  • For your grace that brings salvation to all people,
  • 00:25:11.099 --> 00:25:12.734
  • Salvation to all people, we pray that you'd
  • 00:25:12.801 --> 00:25:13.234
  • We pray that you'd bless us today, personally,
  • 00:25:13.301 --> 00:25:15.003
  • Bless us today, personally, as a congregation
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  • As a congregation and as your big
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  • And as your big christian family.
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  • Christian family. bless us all in the holy,
  • 00:25:19.307 --> 00:25:20.008
  • Bless us all in the holy, sacred, beautiful name of jesus
  • 00:25:20.075 --> 00:25:22.711
  • Sacred, beautiful name of jesus and all god's people
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  • And all god's people said, amen."
  • 00:25:23.612 --> 00:25:25.480
  • >> thank you, pastor mike,
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  • >> thank you, pastor mike, for reminding us that
  • 00:25:28.350 --> 00:25:29.117
  • For reminding us that whether we're dealing with
  • 00:25:29.184 --> 00:25:30.151
  • Whether we're dealing with bad boy sins or good girl sins,
  • 00:25:30.218 --> 00:25:32.554
  • Bad boy sins or good girl sins, we need guard rails
  • 00:25:32.621 --> 00:25:33.555
  • We need guard rails and the gospel to help us
  • 00:25:33.622 --> 00:25:34.889
  • And the gospel to help us stay out of sin.
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  • Stay out of sin. while we're on the topic
  • 00:25:36.458 --> 00:25:37.492
  • While we're on the topic of resisting sin and temptation,
  • 00:25:37.559 --> 00:25:39.294
  • Of resisting sin and temptation, i wanna tell you about
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  • I wanna tell you about this month's new book,
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  • This month's new book, "when the devil attacks:
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  • "when the devil attacks: winning in the warzones"
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  • Winning in the warzones" by time of grace's own,
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  • By time of grace's own, doctor bruce becker.
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  • Doctor bruce becker. this new book helps you
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  • This new book helps you discover how to put on
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  • Discover how to put on the armor of god
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  • The armor of god and overcome every attack with
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  • And overcome every attack with the power of god's word.
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  • >> it's not
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  • If the devil attacks,
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  • It's when.
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  • He isn't a myth
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  • Or a metaphor, he's real.
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  • And while belief never fades
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  • His influence quietly grows
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  • Catching most people unprepared.
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  • From eden till now
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  • His strategy is the same,
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  • Deception, destruction, doubt.
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  • But god hasn't
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  • Left you defenseless.
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  • In "when the devil attacks:
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  • Winning in the warzones"
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  • Doctor bruce becker reveals
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  • The enemy's tactics.
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  • "when the devil attacks"
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