Ed Young - Parenting: Values

May 4, 2026 | 27:29

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The Winning Walk with Dr. Ed Young | Ed Young - Parenting: Values | May 4, 2026
  • I don't know
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  • About you, but my moral compass is broken.
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  • I will confess that to you.
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  • My moral compass is broken.
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  • I look to my mind.
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  • I look to my feelings.
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  • I look to my strength.
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  • All of that and decided ethics.
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  • What's right and wrong. my compass is broken.
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  • And ladies and gentlemen, your compass is broken to.
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  • And the compass of america is broken to.
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  • And we are in a catastrophic mess.
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  • You see the erosion
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  • Of adopting portions of this kind of thinking that's
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  • Taught in our colleges and universities,
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  • In some high schools all across america.
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  • It has come down to us today, and we see the rationale
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  • Of where we are in our culture, in our america.
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  • It comes right down to this,
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  • So open your bibles, if you would, to jeremiah
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  • Chapter 17.
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  • Begin reading with verse nine.
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  • Then i'll skip and read to verse 13.
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  • Following
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  • The heart is more deceitful than all else,
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  • And is desperately sick.
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  • Who can understand it?
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  • King james version the heart is wicked, deceptively evil.
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  • Who can know it?
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  • I, the lord, search the heart.
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  • I test the mind, evan.
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  • To give to each man or woman according to his or her ways,
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  • According to the results of his deeds.
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  • Verse 13.
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  • All who forsake you.
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  • That's the lord will be put to shame.
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  • Those who turn away
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  • On earth will be written down,
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  • Because they have forsaken the fountain of living water.
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  • Even the lord.
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  • Heal me, o lord, and i will be healed.
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  • Save me, o lord, and i will be saved.
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  • I'm going to ask
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  • Everybody to lift your hands in the air, if you would.
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  • Everybody hold your hand straight up.
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  • Look up.
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  • Repeat after me.
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  • Heal me, o lord, and
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  • I will be healed.
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  • Save me, o lord,
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  • And i will be saved.
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  • Put your hands down.
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  • Two families
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  • Live side by side
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  • For over 20 years.
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  • They were as close as as
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  • I am to that column.
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  • Children about the same age,
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  • Same economic condition.
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  • Little gravel driveway
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  • Between the two little houses.
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  • Children went to the same church,
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  • Same school lists, the same music, played together
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  • Until they got to be in their teenagers were intimate
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  • Friends, two families side by side.
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  • Any sociologists would study this family and that family.
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  • They would say, you know, they're almost identical.
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  • But the outcome of one family,
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  • And i know both of these families intimately
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  • Was absolute disaster.
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  • Child after
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  • Child, son and daughter
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  • Lives that would break
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  • The heart of anyone.
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  • Disaster, tragedy.
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  • Poor choices,
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  • Disease,
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  • Violence,
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  • Criminals, one family.
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  • You read about that family, you would say,
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  • I just never heard of anything quite as tragic as this.
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  • The other family, their sons and daughters.
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  • My goodness. magnificent.
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  • Everyone.
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  • Almost in a racial alger story, man.
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  • How they made good choices, how they
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  • Married the right person
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  • And the grandchildren came up and all the legacy left
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  • Behind of joy and fun and celebration and worship.
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  • Just a fabulous mom and dad
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  • And children and grandchildren and and that family.
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  • You'd say, boy, that's a family.
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  • I would like for my family to be like that family.
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  • Boy, what a tremendous outcome.
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  • Two families
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  • Side by side,
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  • Economically, socially, educationally,
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  • Vocationally, any way you look at them all alike.
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  • One outcome,
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  • Chaos.
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  • Another outcome.
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  • Magnificent.
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  • What's the difference?
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  • Somewhere it boils down to
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  • Family values.
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  • Family values.
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  • Somewhere it comes back to
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  • Parenting.
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  • Parenting.
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  • Now you can talk to anybody
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  • In the western world,
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  • And you ask them what needs to take place
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  • In our culture to change it
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  • From the mess in which we find ourselves
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  • Right now in history.
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  • And they will tell you.
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  • Well, we need a return to family values.
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  • The left will say that.
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  • The right will say that. the middle will say that.
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  • Anthropologists will say that.
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  • Sociologists will say that councils were say that
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  • Everybody theologians will say we need to return to
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  • Family values.
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  • And some people even put in traditional family values.
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  • Every politician, every person in public life,
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  • Every person in every endeavor will tell you,
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  • Oh yes, we need to return to traditional family values.
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  • Now the problem becomes
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  • And when you begin to ask
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  • What values?
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  • Where do you get those values?
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  • Now let me do something
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  • That is foolish and bold,
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  • Exceedingly foolish and bold.
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  • I'm going to try to trace
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  • Through western civilization
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  • The transmission of values from the first century
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  • All the way till today.
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  • Now, i don't want someone to say, well, you left out well.
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  • Hello.
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  • How long would you like to be here today?
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  • To trace
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  • The transmission of values from the first century
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  • All the way to today.
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  • Here we go.
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  • From the first century,
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  • For hundreds of years.
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  • No one doubted of any significance.
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  • Where you get values, where you get ethics, where you get
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  • What is right or wrong, you look up.
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  • That's where you get it.
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  • You look up to god.
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  • You look up to transcendence.
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  • Because values were absolute.
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  • Now. people did not follow them perfectly.
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  • There were some little minor debate,
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  • But nobody of significance really doubted worth.
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  • The source of values were what was right
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  • And what was wrong.
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  • That was not in the discussion.
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  • The jews looked
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  • To the old testament, the torah, theirs values.
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  • Christians look to the new testament
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  • And the early church taught by jesus and paul and peter, etc.
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  • There is values, even the philosophers,
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  • The greek or roman world.
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  • They looked at natural law and said,
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  • By the giving of creation and nature,
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  • You can see transcendent values that come from the almighty.
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  • So you have hundreds of years from the first century
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  • Forward, that it was built in the western civilization.
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  • What was right and what was wrong?
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  • You look up and that's where you got values, ultimate
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  • Meaning and principles of life.
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  • And that is what you would teach and transfer
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  • From generation to generation, with enthusiasm
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  • And with confidence
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  • That if these values were lived out,
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  • That life would make a difference
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  • And the whole society
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  • Would move in the right and proper and godly direction
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  • For hundreds of years, we came up with that.
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  • So many of us, all the myths
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  • That we would read, they had a hero and a heroine.
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  • All the folklore had heroes and heroines,
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  • And we were familiar with all the bible stories
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  • A couple of generations ago.
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  • The parable of the prodigal son,
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  • The greatest story ever told, by the way, the good samaritan.
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  • Oh, we that was a part of the culture,
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  • Part of the vocabulary, the perils of jesus.
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  • Those little pithy stories that had a bam, a punch
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  • Right in the middle of morality and what was right in
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  • What was wrong.
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  • That was a part what we read.
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  • Our parents would read nursery rhymes to us.
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  • They had moral principles, we had heroes and we had heroines.
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  • And a lot of
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  • Them were biblical in moses and joseph
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  • And same we would read these and that was a part.
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  • It was inculcated, it was taught, it was passed
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  • On. that was the culture of 100 and hundreds of years
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  • In western civilization until the 18th century,
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  • The so-called enlightenment,
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  • When there were a group of scholars
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  • Who said, you do not get values by looking up.
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  • That's not where you get values.
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  • You get values by looking within.
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  • When i was a boy,
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  • There was a popular little song called mother.
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  • Derived from the acrostic motif.
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  • Though the lyrics are not christian.
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  • They are certainly universal in their application
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  • Of mothers everywhere as a child.
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  • I had to
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  • Sing this over a radio station in laurel, mississippi.
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  • Would you believe that?
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  • And so, as a heartfelt tribute to mothers and mother figures
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  • Everywhere, i decided to have some fun
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  • With this little acrostic for mother's day.
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  • For mother's day only.
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  • So i've created a one week devotional for moms.
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  • Through these pages, i hope to honor our mothers,
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  • Glorify god, and inspire both mothers and children
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  • To pray for those whom god has carefully designed
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  • To nurture and guide each and every new generation.
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  • To get you a copy.
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  • Call the number on the screen or visit the website below
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  • And give someone who has been a mother figure to you,
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  • Or give one to your mother.
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  • And by the way, keep one for yourself.
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  • Let me present three of these scholars.
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  • Listen carefully.
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  • Immanuel kant
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  • Immanuel kant said, you don't look up,
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  • You look within, and you decide what is right
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  • And what is wrong, what your ethics are,
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  • What you do and what you do not do.
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  • By looking to your mind, you can figure it out.
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  • You're a human being.
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  • Just think it through.
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  • Look all the premises down.
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  • You can decide and you'll come out
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  • Right every single time.
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  • If you simply use your mind, look to your mind.
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  • And so that was proposed
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  • That was written about there in the 18th century said, well,
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  • What does all this have to do with us?
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  • Let me tell you some ladies and gentlemen,
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  • If you hadn't figured out yet what is in the classroom today
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  • Would be on the streets in just a few years.
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  • Don't forget that.
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  • So these are just ancient philosophy.
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  • Oh, no. oh, no. stay with me.
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  • That was the beginning of rationalism.
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  • Look to your mind.
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  • That's where you find values and ethics
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  • And what's right and what's wrong.
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  • Then another guy came along.
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  • Rousseau.
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  • Rousseau came to the picture, and rousseau said, you know,
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  • Con is right.
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  • You don't look up
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  • To transcendent values from the almighty
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  • Or or biblical values that are written down.
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  • He said, you don't look up, man.
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  • That's that's old fashioned.
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  • We are enlightened.
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  • But he said, don't really look to your mind
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  • To figure out what's right now.
  • 00:13:35.971 --> 00:13:37.406
  • He said, look to your heart, your passions.
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  • If it feels good, it must be okay.
  • 00:13:41.543 --> 00:13:46.148
  • You're that.
  • 00:13:46.482 --> 00:13:47.583
  • It must be all right.
  • 00:13:47.583 --> 00:13:48.817
  • Look at your heart.
  • 00:13:48.817 --> 00:13:50.886
  • And. and rousseau taught that a child was born.
  • 00:13:50.886 --> 00:13:54.256
  • A baby was born with a pure heart,
  • 00:13:54.256 --> 00:13:57.826
  • A beautiful heart, a clean heart.
  • 00:13:57.826 --> 00:14:00.696
  • And parents and others that try to influence
  • 00:14:00.696 --> 00:14:03.699
  • That child, corrupt that child.
  • 00:14:03.699 --> 00:14:05.968
  • Just let that child express themselves all the way
  • 00:14:05.968 --> 00:14:09.772
  • Through the years, all the way through,
  • 00:14:09.772 --> 00:14:12.441
  • And just let them go the way they want to go,
  • 00:14:12.441 --> 00:14:16.245
  • Using their emotions and their feelings and their heart.
  • 00:14:16.245 --> 00:14:19.181
  • It will be a pure rose that will be formed,
  • 00:14:19.181 --> 00:14:23.018
  • A beautiful life.
  • 00:14:23.018 --> 00:14:25.321
  • That's what rousseau taught
  • 00:14:25.321 --> 00:14:27.990
  • Modern education.
  • 00:14:28.424 --> 00:14:30.926
  • Somebody said rousseau did heavenly children.
  • 00:14:30.926 --> 00:14:34.430
  • Oh, yeah.
  • 00:14:34.730 --> 00:14:35.564
  • He had four.
  • 00:14:35.564 --> 00:14:38.567
  • He had four
  • 00:14:38.567 --> 00:14:39.635
  • By a peasant girl who was illiterate.
  • 00:14:39.635 --> 00:14:42.638
  • And he systematically
  • 00:14:42.638 --> 00:14:45.841
  • Disinherited all four of them
  • 00:14:46.475 --> 00:14:48.010
  • Because of their lives.
  • 00:14:48.010 --> 00:14:52.214
  • Follow your heart.
  • 00:14:52.648 --> 00:14:53.682
  • Don't look up. look within.
  • 00:14:53.682 --> 00:14:55.384
  • Don't look at your mind. but look at your heart.
  • 00:14:55.384 --> 00:14:57.486
  • Look at your feelings.
  • 00:14:57.486 --> 00:14:58.620
  • And this is romanticism.
  • 00:14:58.620 --> 00:15:02.558
  • There.
  • 00:15:02.758 --> 00:15:03.892
  • The third guy came along beginning of the 20th century.
  • 00:15:03.892 --> 00:15:10.733
  • He came along there and said,
  • 00:15:11.367 --> 00:15:14.536
  • No, no,
  • 00:15:14.770 --> 00:15:16.739
  • Nietzsche.
  • 00:15:16.739 --> 00:15:19.274
  • Frederick nietzsche came along.
  • 00:15:19.274 --> 00:15:20.542
  • He said, i'll tell you here by the 17th century is not right.
  • 00:15:20.542 --> 00:15:24.847
  • In the 18th century in egypt, he came along
  • 00:15:24.847 --> 00:15:27.082
  • And pushed us to another area.
  • 00:15:27.082 --> 00:15:28.684
  • He said, look to your will to decide what's right and wrong.
  • 00:15:28.684 --> 00:15:32.488
  • And he talked about the superman
  • 00:15:32.488 --> 00:15:34.523
  • Or the german, said the overman, the superman,
  • 00:15:34.523 --> 00:15:37.426
  • The superwoman. to decide what's right and wrong.
  • 00:15:37.426 --> 00:15:39.928
  • You just assert yourself.
  • 00:15:39.928 --> 00:15:41.797
  • You just show your muscles.
  • 00:15:41.797 --> 00:15:44.466
  • That's how you decide and might makes right.
  • 00:15:44.466 --> 00:15:49.104
  • This is the philosophy of the adult hitler.
  • 00:15:49.104 --> 00:15:51.040
  • He was a nietzsche follower down to the core.
  • 00:15:51.040 --> 00:15:54.209
  • And hitler adopted the
  • 00:15:54.209 --> 00:15:56.612
  • The saying that you'll see on your screen of nietzsche.
  • 00:15:56.612 --> 00:15:59.715
  • Look at it.
  • 00:15:59.715 --> 00:16:00.816
  • The strong have the right to rule
  • 00:16:00.816 --> 00:16:04.920
  • Any way they see fit.
  • 00:16:04.920 --> 00:16:07.689
  • It is might makes right,
  • 00:16:07.689 --> 00:16:11.293
  • And it is the doctrine of perfectionism.
  • 00:16:11.293 --> 00:16:14.463
  • If you assert yourself, you decide what you want.
  • 00:16:14.463 --> 00:16:17.566
  • If you're strong enough to get your way and to do it,
  • 00:16:17.566 --> 00:16:20.636
  • That makes it all right.
  • 00:16:20.636 --> 00:16:23.405
  • See, i didn't break any law.
  • 00:16:23.405 --> 00:16:25.841
  • That's what the german criminals and you're.
  • 00:16:26.742 --> 00:16:28.444
  • And berg said, i didn't break any german law.
  • 00:16:28.444 --> 00:16:31.180
  • I just used the might of the third reich.
  • 00:16:32.081 --> 00:16:36.552
  • So you have these
  • 00:16:36.985 --> 00:16:38.921
  • Three guys saying, hey, don't look up,
  • 00:16:38.921 --> 00:16:43.892
  • Look within, look at your mind, rationalism.
  • 00:16:43.892 --> 00:16:47.596
  • Look at your heart. romanticism.
  • 00:16:47.596 --> 00:16:50.599
  • Look at your will.
  • 00:16:50.599 --> 00:16:52.101
  • Perfectionism, the superman, the superwoman.
  • 00:16:52.101 --> 00:16:54.937
  • And you decide.
  • 00:16:54.937 --> 00:16:57.906
  • And you see nietzsche.
  • 00:16:57.906 --> 00:17:01.910
  • You see all of these philosophers.
  • 00:17:02.678 --> 00:17:06.315
  • Their seeds have been spread all the way
  • 00:17:06.315 --> 00:17:09.084
  • Through our culture.
  • 00:17:09.084 --> 00:17:10.185
  • Talk to somebody who's a humanist.
  • 00:17:10.185 --> 00:17:13.222
  • Talk to somebody who's away
  • 00:17:13.222 --> 00:17:14.656
  • From god and away from the church.
  • 00:17:14.656 --> 00:17:16.125
  • They ask them how to determine what is right or wrong.
  • 00:17:16.125 --> 00:17:18.560
  • They say, well, i just i just use my mind
  • 00:17:18.560 --> 00:17:20.929
  • And, you know, i just follow my emotions,
  • 00:17:20.929 --> 00:17:23.132
  • You know,
  • 00:17:23.132 --> 00:17:24.333
  • If i can get away with it and do it and nobody finds out,
  • 00:17:24.333 --> 00:17:26.735
  • Man, i'll just assert my will.
  • 00:17:26.735 --> 00:17:28.737
  • Right.
  • 00:17:28.737 --> 00:17:31.473
  • What is the results of this?
  • 00:17:32.074 --> 00:17:34.776
  • I don't know about you, but my moral compass is broken.
  • 00:17:34.776 --> 00:17:38.247
  • I will confess that to you.
  • 00:17:38.247 --> 00:17:40.582
  • My moral compass is broken.
  • 00:17:40.582 --> 00:17:43.051
  • I look to my mind.
  • 00:17:43.051 --> 00:17:44.419
  • I look to my feelings.
  • 00:17:44.419 --> 00:17:45.621
  • I look to my strength.
  • 00:17:45.621 --> 00:17:47.356
  • All of that and decided ethics.
  • 00:17:47.356 --> 00:17:49.525
  • What's right and wrong. my compass is broken.
  • 00:17:49.525 --> 00:17:51.960
  • And ladies and gentlemen, your compass is broken to.
  • 00:17:51.960 --> 00:17:55.664
  • And the compass of america is broken to.
  • 00:17:55.664 --> 00:17:59.034
  • And we are in a catastrophic mess.
  • 00:17:59.801 --> 00:18:03.739
  • You see the erosion
  • 00:18:03.739 --> 00:18:05.207
  • Of adopting portions of this kind of thinking that's
  • 00:18:05.207 --> 00:18:08.977
  • Taught in our colleges and universities,
  • 00:18:08.977 --> 00:18:11.180
  • In some high schools all across america.
  • 00:18:11.180 --> 00:18:13.882
  • It has come down to us today, and we see the rationale
  • 00:18:13.882 --> 00:18:18.620
  • Of where we are in our culture, in our america.
  • 00:18:18.620 --> 00:18:22.090
  • It comes right down to this,
  • 00:18:22.090 --> 00:18:25.494
  • Right down to this moment.
  • 00:18:26.061 --> 00:18:29.865
  • Where are the heroes?
  • 00:18:30.365 --> 00:18:31.600
  • Where are the heroines?
  • 00:18:31.600 --> 00:18:34.937
  • Oh, it just continues to slide.
  • 00:18:34.937 --> 00:18:37.773
  • Look at a study recently by ucla.
  • 00:18:38.507 --> 00:18:41.109
  • No citadel of conservatism.
  • 00:18:41.109 --> 00:18:45.013
  • They they they surveyed
  • 00:18:45.514 --> 00:18:47.416
  • Teenagers from 1997 to 2007 and 1997 teenagers,
  • 00:18:47.416 --> 00:18:54.056
  • And they serve 8000 of them and said
  • 00:18:54.056 --> 00:18:56.325
  • This was the order of values, priorities in their life,
  • 00:18:56.325 --> 00:18:59.828
  • Community, feeling,
  • 00:18:59.828 --> 00:19:01.230
  • Benevolence, image, tradition, self-acceptance.
  • 00:19:01.230 --> 00:19:05.067
  • Ten years later,
  • 00:19:05.067 --> 00:19:07.536
  • Look at our teenagers.
  • 00:19:07.536 --> 00:19:09.238
  • What's their order? fame?
  • 00:19:09.238 --> 00:19:11.073
  • Oh, achievement, popularity, image?
  • 00:19:11.073 --> 00:19:13.976
  • Financial success.
  • 00:19:13.976 --> 00:19:16.311
  • What happened in ten years
  • 00:19:16.311 --> 00:19:19.281
  • To our teenagers?
  • 00:19:19.281 --> 00:19:22.150
  • Youtube.
  • 00:19:22.417 --> 00:19:23.585
  • Twitter, facebook, social media.
  • 00:19:23.585 --> 00:19:28.523
  • All of a sudden all the values of our kids
  • 00:19:28.523 --> 00:19:31.526
  • Were turned right side up because mom and dad
  • 00:19:31.526 --> 00:19:34.463
  • Basically were asleep.
  • 00:19:34.463 --> 00:19:36.064
  • Because dad says, man, i want to be a corporate man,
  • 00:19:36.064 --> 00:19:39.868
  • A company man, and he strives and he works,
  • 00:19:39.868 --> 00:19:43.005
  • And he likes the wife and children
  • 00:19:43.005 --> 00:19:45.040
  • And give them the leftover their time.
  • 00:19:45.040 --> 00:19:46.775
  • And then when he reaches some kind of area of success
  • 00:19:46.775 --> 00:19:50.479
  • In his chosen field, when he's 40 or 50,
  • 00:19:50.479 --> 00:19:52.981
  • He looks back and said, oh, i would give everything i have
  • 00:19:52.981 --> 00:19:57.586
  • If i could go back
  • 00:19:57.586 --> 00:19:58.987
  • And have time with my kids and not neglect them as i did.
  • 00:19:58.987 --> 00:20:03.325
  • We don't need more company men.
  • 00:20:03.325 --> 00:20:05.193
  • We need more family men.
  • 00:20:05.193 --> 00:20:14.670
  • Let me introduce you
  • 00:20:15.137 --> 00:20:17.906
  • To two fathers.
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  • Some of you know them.
  • 00:20:20.442 --> 00:20:22.878
  • Let's look at them at a different light than maybe
  • 00:20:22.878 --> 00:20:25.480
  • You have ever seen them before.
  • 00:20:25.480 --> 00:20:28.317
  • First. samuel.
  • 00:20:28.317 --> 00:20:29.384
  • We have a father by the name of eli.
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  • Eli was a prophet, was a priest.
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  • He's an old man.
  • 00:20:36.258 --> 00:20:37.559
  • He has two sons, hoffner and phineas.
  • 00:20:37.559 --> 00:20:41.496
  • And someone came to eli in this passage and says, eli,
  • 00:20:41.496 --> 00:20:45.534
  • Your sons are sleeping with women
  • 00:20:45.534 --> 00:20:48.503
  • In the house of worship.
  • 00:20:48.503 --> 00:20:51.907
  • Somebody had to tell eli
  • 00:20:52.441 --> 00:20:54.142
  • That these sons are grown men.
  • 00:20:54.142 --> 00:20:56.878
  • Eli goes to his sons.
  • 00:20:57.379 --> 00:21:00.315
  • And look what this says in verse 25 led a part,
  • 00:21:00.315 --> 00:21:04.419
  • But they would not listen to the voice of their father.
  • 00:21:04.419 --> 00:21:11.193
  • His old man
  • 00:21:11.526 --> 00:21:12.561
  • Didn't know the condition of his own sons.
  • 00:21:12.561 --> 00:21:15.230
  • He'd been so busy doing good, fine, wonderful things
  • 00:21:15.230 --> 00:21:18.934
  • In his calling, in his vocation.
  • 00:21:18.934 --> 00:21:20.869
  • And now he spoke to them, and they did not listen
  • 00:21:20.869 --> 00:21:23.739
  • To the words of their father.
  • 00:21:23.739 --> 00:21:25.574
  • Is it any wonder
  • 00:21:25.574 --> 00:21:27.342
  • I don't need you to another father
  • 00:21:28.076 --> 00:21:29.845
  • In scripture, man by the name of mordechai.
  • 00:21:29.845 --> 00:21:33.682
  • He was a stepfather, incidentally,
  • 00:21:33.682 --> 00:21:36.952
  • And esther, his stepdaughter, whom he nurtured
  • 00:21:36.952 --> 00:21:39.955
  • And loved and modeled and taught the ways of god.
  • 00:21:39.955 --> 00:21:44.760
  • She is now queen of the land.
  • 00:21:44.760 --> 00:21:47.662
  • Beautiful,
  • 00:21:47.963 --> 00:21:49.831
  • Wonderful, reigning queen of the land.
  • 00:21:49.831 --> 00:21:52.801
  • And now she has a chance to do something
  • 00:21:52.801 --> 00:21:55.103
  • For god and for god's people.
  • 00:21:55.103 --> 00:21:57.873
  • And mordecai went to her and look at the latter
  • 00:21:57.873 --> 00:22:01.376
  • Part of esther, chapter
  • 00:22:01.376 --> 00:22:04.613
  • Two, verse number 24.
  • 00:22:05.113 --> 00:22:08.016
  • Esther did what mordecai bid her as she had come,
  • 00:22:08.016 --> 00:22:12.788
  • As she had done when under his care.
  • 00:22:12.788 --> 00:22:15.457
  • Esther listened to mordecai,
  • 00:22:15.457 --> 00:22:18.560
  • Though she was a grown woman
  • 00:22:19.161 --> 00:22:20.829
  • In a high position, eli
  • 00:22:20.829 --> 00:22:24.800
  • Sons didn't pay any attention to him.
  • 00:22:25.600 --> 00:22:28.270
  • He hadn't built the right stuff in those boys.
  • 00:22:28.270 --> 00:22:30.939
  • He turned his back on them.
  • 00:22:30.939 --> 00:22:32.741
  • He must have looked within and let them look within
  • 00:22:32.741 --> 00:22:37.145
  • And determine their own destiny.
  • 00:22:37.145 --> 00:22:40.148
  • Mordecai had built the right stuff in esther,
  • 00:22:40.148 --> 00:22:43.118
  • And mordecai gave counsel, and she listened to mordecai
  • 00:22:43.118 --> 00:22:46.755
  • Just like she had when she was brought up in that home
  • 00:22:46.755 --> 00:22:50.425
  • As a stepfather, he disciplined her and loved her.
  • 00:22:50.425 --> 00:22:54.029
  • What a difference.
  • 00:22:54.029 --> 00:22:57.365
  • Now i want to show you something that i didn't
  • 00:22:56.164 --> 00:23:00.402
  • Pick up on until saturday
  • 00:23:00.402 --> 00:23:04.005
  • Yesterday.
  • 00:23:04.306 --> 00:23:06.074
  • Look back at our scripture.
  • 00:23:06.074 --> 00:23:07.509
  • This will stagger you.
  • 00:23:07.509 --> 00:23:10.579
  • Our scripture jeremiah chapter 17.
  • 00:23:10.579 --> 00:23:13.715
  • Look at verse 20.
  • 00:23:13.715 --> 00:23:14.950
  • It says, i, the lord searched
  • 00:23:14.950 --> 00:23:17.919
  • The heart.
  • 00:23:17.919 --> 00:23:20.889
  • He's already
  • 00:23:21.223 --> 00:23:22.324
  • Said, the heart is deceitful, deceptively wicked.
  • 00:23:22.324 --> 00:23:24.626
  • Who can know it? we agree with that. your heart.
  • 00:23:24.626 --> 00:23:26.595
  • My heart.
  • 00:23:26.595 --> 00:23:27.429
  • Then he says, i searched the heart.
  • 00:23:27.429 --> 00:23:29.498
  • The heart.
  • 00:23:29.498 --> 00:23:30.298
  • I mean people who make decisions
  • 00:23:30.298 --> 00:23:32.100
  • With their heart and their feelings.
  • 00:23:32.100 --> 00:23:34.002
  • Jeremiah is talking about the same thing
  • 00:23:34.002 --> 00:23:37.506
  • That, oh, we've already looked at him.
  • 00:23:37.506 --> 00:23:41.042
  • That's what rousseau was talking about, wouldn't it?
  • 00:23:42.077 --> 00:23:44.746
  • You get your morals and your ethics by your heart.
  • 00:23:44.746 --> 00:23:48.316
  • Oh, jeremiah predated rousseau.
  • 00:23:48.316 --> 00:23:50.552
  • Oh, look at that verse.
  • 00:23:50.552 --> 00:23:52.654
  • I test the mind, says the lord.
  • 00:23:52.654 --> 00:23:54.823
  • Oh, me.
  • 00:23:54.823 --> 00:23:55.924
  • It seemed like jeremiah has
  • 00:23:55.924 --> 00:23:59.694
  • Predated kant, who said, the way you get
  • 00:23:59.694 --> 00:24:03.698
  • Your ethics is look at your mind. rationalism.
  • 00:24:03.698 --> 00:24:06.268
  • Oh, he'd already anticipated that.
  • 00:24:06.268 --> 00:24:09.437
  • Oh, and look at the rest of the verse.
  • 00:24:09.437 --> 00:24:11.306
  • It says even to give to each man according to his ways,
  • 00:24:11.306 --> 00:24:15.510
  • According to the results of his deeds.
  • 00:24:15.510 --> 00:24:18.280
  • Well, that sounds like nietzsche.
  • 00:24:18.280 --> 00:24:20.415
  • Oh, i just have certain myself.
  • 00:24:20.415 --> 00:24:21.883
  • I decide what is right by my own power.
  • 00:24:21.883 --> 00:24:26.321
  • Isn't it
  • 00:24:26.588 --> 00:24:27.455
  • Something right there in our verse?
  • 00:24:27.455 --> 00:24:31.526
  • God has already dealt with the rationalism,
  • 00:24:31.526 --> 00:24:36.097
  • The romanticism, and with the absolutely demonic
  • 00:24:36.097 --> 00:24:40.535
  • Idea
  • 00:24:40.535 --> 00:24:41.736
  • Of asserting your own life and living it out your own way.
  • 00:24:41.736 --> 00:24:44.472
  • He's already dealt with it in our scripture.
  • 00:24:44.472 --> 00:24:47.576
  • And look at the answer.
  • 00:24:48.076 --> 00:24:49.344
  • Now the verse comes alive that we read in our scripture.
  • 00:24:49.344 --> 00:24:52.080
  • Look what he says.
  • 00:24:52.080 --> 00:24:53.882
  • Verse 13, all who forsake you will be put to shame.
  • 00:24:53.882 --> 00:24:59.154
  • All who look within and do not look up will be put to shame.
  • 00:24:59.154 --> 00:25:04.593
  • Those who turn away on earth will be written down.
  • 00:25:04.593 --> 00:25:08.296
  • Now you get it, because they have forsaken
  • 00:25:08.296 --> 00:25:11.099
  • The fountain of living water, even the lord.
  • 00:25:11.099 --> 00:25:14.202
  • And then we have the climactic verse.
  • 00:25:14.202 --> 00:25:17.806
  • And it is.
  • 00:25:17.806 --> 00:25:23.111
  • Heal me,
  • 00:25:23.378 --> 00:25:24.312
  • O lord, that i might be healed.
  • 00:25:24.312 --> 00:25:27.882
  • Save me, o lord, that i might be saved.
  • 00:25:27.882 --> 00:25:30.952
  • Prayed again.
  • 00:25:30.952 --> 00:25:31.886
  • Look up.
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  • Heal me, o lord, that i might be healed.
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  • Save me, o lord, that i might be saved.
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  • Our heavenly father,
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  • This is our prayer for america.
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  • This is our prayer for our lives.
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  • This is our prayer for our homes.
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  • This is our prayer for our families.
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  • Forgive us when we have been gobbled up
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  • And swallowed whole
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  • In a broken culture.
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  • When i was a boy,
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  • There was a popular little song called mother.
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  • Derived from the acrostic motif.
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  • Though the lyrics are not christian.
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  • They are certainly universal in their application
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  • Of mothers everywhere as a child.
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  • I had to
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  • Sing this over a radio station in laurel, mississippi.
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  • Would you believe that?
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  • And so, as a heartfelt tribute to mothers and mother figures
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  • Everywhere, i decided to have some fun
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  • With this little acrostic for mother's day.
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  • For mother's day only.
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  • So i've created a one week devotional for moms.
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  • Through these pages, i hope to honor our mothers,
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  • Glorify god, and inspire both mothers and children
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  • To pray for those whom god has carefully designed
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  • To nurture and guide each and every new generation.
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  • To get you a copy.
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  • Call the number on the screen or visit the website below
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  • And give someone who has been a mother figure to you,
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  • Or give one to your mother.
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  • And by the way, keep one for yourself.
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