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The Winning Walk with Dr. Ed Young | Ed Young - The Prodigal: Lost and Found | April 19, 2026
- By the way, you need to know about sheep.
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- They're about the dumbest animal on the earth.
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- That's that's true.
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- They're beautiful, but they're dumb.
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- They have no way to defend themselves from any prey.
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- They will not even drink water unless it still is.
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- The water's flowing.
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- They don't get near it because they can't swim.
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- And they're just helpless animals.
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- Unless a sheep stays in the flock, in the sheepfold.
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- Unless a sheep has a shepherd,
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- No sheep can survive.
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- A 16 year
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- Old girl named carol
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- Looked at her newborn son
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- Very, very carefully because she knew
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- It was the last time she'd ever see him.
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- She looked at his feet
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- And his hands and his face
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- Because she had
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- Given over to be adopted.
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- She was on
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- National honor student.
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- Lovely in every way.
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- Christian home, professionally christian. but
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- A one night stand.
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- She went out with a boy who had already gone to college
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- On a football scholarship,
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- And she'd gotten pregnant.
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- Her father arranged for her to go to a
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- Nother town and carry
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- The child full term, and she gave birth to this boy.
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- Then she went back to her school.
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- No one knew anything about her parents and one cousin
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- Continued.
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- Her academic work was outstanding in every way,
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- Found forgiveness from the lord in the church,
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- And she lived the rest of her life
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- Beautifully.
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- For god.
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- All of us in different ways,
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- Ladies and gentlemen, could tell a story
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- Of going out into the far country for a period of time.
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- We've been talking about that as we've looked
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- At the greatest story ever told.
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- Found in luke chapter 15.
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- Jesus was speaking to a large audience.
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- In that audience, we see the kind of people
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- That were there and the comment that was made.
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- And then we see what led to jesus telling
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- These three stories of lost and found.
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- Chapter 15, verse one.
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- Then all the tax collectors and the sinners
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- Drew near to hear jesus, the tax collectors,
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- They're called publicans, not republicans, but publicans.
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- They are the jews who hugged him
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- Selves, all sold and self to the romans,
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- And they would collect taxes from all the rest of the jews.
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- But all that they
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- Over collected, they kept for themselves
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- A built in system of exportation.
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- And they were all filthy rich, and the audience
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- Were the hated tax collectors.
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- And then it says in the audience,
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- There were sinners who were sinners.
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- They were people of the land.
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- They were people who had no status.
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- They couldn't go to the synagogue.
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- They couldn't go to the temple.
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- They were disrespected by everybody.
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- Disenfranchized.
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- They were just sinners.
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- They were throwaways.
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- Nobody would speak to them.
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- Certainly nobody would marry one of them.
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- They would not get involved in the affairs of israel.
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- They were the despised. in one sense.
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- They were the untouchables, the sinners.
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- They were the audience cheering jesus.
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- And also in the audience were a couple of other groups.
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- And it says, and the pharisees
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- And the scribes complained,
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- The pharisees, they kept all the law.
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- They were super religious, super pious, super judgmental.
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- And the scribes were those who copied the law
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- And copied down the mishnah, the interpretation of law.
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- And they were the theologians who applied the law.
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- So the scribes and the pharisees,
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- Along with the sinners and the tax collectors.
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- And then they whispered to one another
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- About jesus and said,
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- This man receives sinners.
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- And there we have a quartet of words
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- As we have an overview of the greatest story ever
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- Told, we will look at three quartets of words.
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- This gives meaning to what jesus was teaching all of us.
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- The crowd of that day and all of us today.
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- Now remember, jesus is teaching us what god is like.
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- What is god like?
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- How does god? how?
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- What is the modus operandi of god?
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- That's what jesus exposes.
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- He say, this is what god thinks.
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- This is how god operates
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- And he tells these stories.
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- Let me read for you this first, a little parable here
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- Because i think it's so beautifully written.
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- Jesus says, what man
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- Of you having a hundred sheep,
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- If he loses
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- One of them, does not leave the 99 in the wilderness
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- And go after the one which is lost, and he finds it,
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- And when he has found it, he lays it on his shoulders,
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- Rejoicing.
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- And when he comes home, he calls together his friends
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- And neighbors, saying to them, rejoice with me,
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- For i found my sheep which was lost.
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- And i say to you that likewise
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- There is more joy in heaven over one sinner
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- Who repents than over 99 just person.
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- They think they're just whose legs they need.
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- No repentance.
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- A sheep gets lost.
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- By the way, you need to know about sheep.
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- They're about the dumbest animal on the earth.
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- That's that's true.
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- They're beautiful, but they're dumb.
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- They have no way to defend themselves from any prey.
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- They will not even drink water unless it still is.
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- The water's flowing.
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- They don't get near it because they can't swim.
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- And they're just helpless animals.
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- Unless a sheep stays in the flock, in the sheepfold.
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- Unless a sheep has a shepherd, no sheep can survive.
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- No sheep can thrive.
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- So how does this little sheep get lost?
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- Here's the flock, here's the shepherd,
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- And the sheep goes and says, well,
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- There's some grass over there.
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- And just
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- Wandered over there and takes
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- And there's some more grass over there.
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- The sheep wanders and there's some more grass over there.
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- And for long the sheep is around the bend.
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- No sense of direction.
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- She doesn't have any sense of direction.
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- And now the sheep can't hear the shepherd when he calls,
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- He just wanders off.
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- How does a sheep get lost?
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- By gradualism?
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- Not just riding out in the wilderness, running away.
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- No, sheep just takes one little step, another
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- Little step and goes over here and goes over there.
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- That's how sheep get lost.
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- How do you and i get lost?
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- Same way.
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- Well, we didn't go to church last sunday.
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- We went to a ball game out of town and took the kids.
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- We had a great time.
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- We were going to drive back, but it was late and raining,
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- And we just, you know, miss church.
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- No big deal.
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- We've all done that.
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- I've done that.
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- Then the next week we have company who's come
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- And the company, they they don't go to church much.
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- I didn't want to drag them up to our church.
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- All of a sudden we we go over here, we visit over
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- Here, we go to the lake, we go to a ranch.
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- We're invited over here.
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- And we wake up and say, you know what?
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- I'm not at church much, and you know i'm not in
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- Bible study.
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- We just gradually move away and we say, you know,
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- When i go to church,
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- I don't feel what i used to feel with god.
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- Something must be wrong up there.
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- You know, i used to be close to god in the lord,
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- But i don't feel that way anymore.
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- Who moved?
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- You see, that's how i get lost.
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- That's how you get lost.
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- We just wander away a little bit here,
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- A little neglect there.
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- We don't read our bible here.
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- We won't pray there.
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- We don't spend time.
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- We don't listen.
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- That's how we get lost. we just.
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- When are you a christian?
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- Oh, yes. i'm a christian.
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- But we have lost something of the joy
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- And the spontaneity and the freedom of
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- Being in the flow and having the shepherd
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- Speak to us daily, especially in god's house.
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- That's how she get lost gradually.
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- That's how we get lost gradually.
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- Then what about the next parable that jesus told
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- That you went out to seek?
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- That was strange to the jews? but look at
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- Verse eight.
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- Oh, what woman having ten silver coins,
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- If she loses one coin, does not light a lamp,
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- Sweep the house and search carefully until she finds it,
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- And when she's found it, she calls her friends
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- And neighbors together, saying, rejoice with me, for
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- I have found the peace that which i lost.
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- Likewise, i say to you, there is joy in the presence
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- Of the angels of god over one sinner
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- Who repents, who turns around.
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- What's the story?
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- A piece of silver, probably a silver drachma.
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- She would have it on her head band.
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- It would be her dowry.
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- Ten pieces means that she's married.
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- Is like losing your wedding ring.
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- And she lost the ring.
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- Where did she lose it?
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- In the house.
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- She didn't go off somewhere.
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- She didn't wander off.
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- She lost it doing the work.
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- She had secured it.
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- She lost it to carelessness.
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- Let me tell you, in a house
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- There in israel, it would be a small house.
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- One window about 18in and around
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- The floor would be a dirt floor with reeds on it.
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- And you can see how working you'd lose
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- Your ring and how hard it be to find it.
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- It would be dark.
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- She'd have to sweep and look very carefully.
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- She lost that ring through
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- Carelessness.
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- How do we lose our sons and daughters?
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- Parents
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- Through carelessness?
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- You didn't notice when they came home.
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- You didn't look in their eyes.
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- You didn't smell the warning that was there.
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- You didn't observe the friends they were running
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- With, their habits and their background
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- And what they were taught in their home.
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- Everybody wants a happy home.
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- But let's be honest.
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- A happy home doesn't just happen.
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- It's built.
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- It's shaped.
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- Day by day by day.
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- That's why i want to encourage you to read
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- This little booklet, cardinal rules for a happy home.
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- This 90 day devotional is from
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- Decades of real life pastoring,
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- In the page of this book each day
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- The prodigal son says, dad,
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- Give me everything that i will have coming.
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- When you die, i want to get out of here.
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- I'm tired of being at home.
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- It's like a prison.
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- I'm tired of my strict, pious older
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- Brother who is so different from me.
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- I need to get out and live my life and have freedom
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- And express myself and be successful in the world.
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- And so the father gave him
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- What he would give him if he had died.
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- And then that little phrase, that quartet of words,
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- Not many days after
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- He didn't leave immediately.
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- What can what that young man did
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- When he was still home before he left
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- For he took off for the far country in what he did.
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- You the thing he did. he dreamed.
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- He dreamed
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- About what is going to be like, man.
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- What?
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- How he would express himself, how all the instinctive drives
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- That he had, that his father had kept control of,
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- How he could just eat, drink and be merry and enjoy himself
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- Anytime, anywhere, any way,
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- Dreaming about
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- Pleasure, hedonism,
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- Lodging out, running my own life,
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- Following all the passions that are in me.
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- Man, this is really living it up.
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- I got a question for you.
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- Why is eat, drink and be merry
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- And just let the good times roll?
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- Why does a life committed to that
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- Never work out?
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- All hedonists in history
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- End up as pessimists.
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- Why do they never find the happiness and joy and freedom
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- They're seeking?
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- Why doesn't that work?
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- Looks like it.
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- Word is just
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- Following the natural drives that we seem to have.
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- But right down
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- To the middle of that lifestyle,
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- There is an immutable law
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- That stands up and says hope
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- This life will never work.
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- I own this side.
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- If you remember solomon solomon, who had everything
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- This world could ask for, he tried it all.
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- Read it carefully.
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- He tried women, man.
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- He wasn't extreme. he went to he.
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- He tried power.
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- What a powerful man he was.
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- He tried riches.
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- He became the richest man in all of history.
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- He tried horticulture.
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- He tried building.
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- He tried agriculture.
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- Solomon read it.
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- He tried everything and reached the end result of everything.
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- Solomon had it all.
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- But in the end, they ask him, solomon,
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- Tell me about your lives, all that you have done.
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- He said, it's all zero.
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- It's all vanity.
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- So why is it when we just
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- Launch out, let the good times roll.
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- That life never works.
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- That life never ends. and genuine.
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- Why is that?
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- I'm going to tell you.
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- It's the fact that god
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- Has placed eternity
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- In every heart, in every life, right here in this world.
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- He's put eternity in you.
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- He's put eternity in me.
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- And there's always will be a restlessness
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- Until we, through jesus christ,
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- Get a relationship with our heavenly father.
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- See, all of us are going to live forever.
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- Yeah, we're all immortal,
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- And nothing in this world will satisfy
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- Except we get in a relationship with our father
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- Because there's a eternity in you.
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- There's eternity in me.
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- And that is a magnificent thing.
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- So see, the prodigal goes out there
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- And he says, not many days after he dreams,
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- But his dream was a false dream.
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- But he had that dream.
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- And then the next quartet of words are really fabulous.
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- This is the one that that really sings for me.
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- Look at verse 17.
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- It says, he came to himself.
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- He came to himself.
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- The final quartet of words.
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- Those full words
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- Are perhaps one of the greatest copyrights
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- God ever gave to humanity.
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- In other words, he is saying that when you are engaged
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- In horns and not in halos,
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- When you're the far country and not at home,
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- When your life is broken, and that that's not who you are.
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- That's not who i am.
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- How many times i've said, you know, i did that,
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- But that's not really who i am, right?
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- We've all said that and that's that's not my character.
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- That's not what i really believe.
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- I don't know what got into me.
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- That's not who i am.
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- And here we have jesus saying
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- Of the prodigal when he was there with the pigs,
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- He came to himself.
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- That is a great compliment
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- On our human nature.
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- You're human nature.
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- That's a great a convert.
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- And describing who we really are as human beings.
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- We don't want to live with the flesh.
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- That's where the horns are.
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- We want to live in the spirit.
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- That's where the halos are.
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- But there's that conflict that is there.
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- Human nature.
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- A lot of people say, well, don't
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- You know, human nature can't be changed.
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- You can be changed.
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- I can be changed by the power of god in christ.
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- You doubt it?
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- Take your bible some time and look at first
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- Corinthians chapter number six, verse ten.
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- It tells the people who will never make the kingdom
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- Of god a long list.
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- Scary liars, cheaters, swindlers,
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- Adulterers, fornicators,
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- A long list of bad,
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- Godless people who will never make heaven.
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- He's speaking to the church at corinth,
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- And when he gets through the list, he says such words.
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- Some of you,
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- You see,
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- By the power of god in christ, he says, you've been changed.
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- You've been forgiven.
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- You've come back home from the far country.
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- And that happens all the time.
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- 16 year old boy
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- Dylan mccullough was in a
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- English class third period.
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- He looked out the window
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- And he saw there a mercedes benz drive up read.
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- He'd never really seen one.
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- Had those big gold hubcaps, tanned exterior.
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- He wondered who in the world that was.
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- Had he saw a man get out of that mercedes?
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- And straight and tall and confidence
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- Walked like an athlete,
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- And he knew he was going into the school.
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- He was thinking, well, i wonder what he wants.
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- You see this young man
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- Was brought up in a broken home by a single mother.
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- He was adopted, but there were other children,
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- And he had no way out except at 16.
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- You could already tell he was a fabulous athlete.
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- He was fast.
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- He was tough.
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- An outstanding football player.
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- And a few minutes in this class, the pink slip came in
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- And they said, go to the principal.
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- So dylan got up, went off, the principal sat down,
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- And the man who got out of that mercedes
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- Benz came over to him and shook his hand.
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- He says, i'm sherman smith.
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- I'm the backfield coach at university
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- Of miami here in ohio, and i've come to offer you
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- A football scholarship.
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- And sherman talked to him in that room.
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- He talked about discipline.
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- He talks about life.
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- He talked about all the basic things.
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- And now dylan was attracted to him
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- Like no man he'd ever been attracted to before.
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- He said, now this is a real man.
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- This is someone i want to play for now.
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- He received a lot of other offers when he graduated.
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- I mean, he was outstanding,
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- But he decided
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- He would go to the university of miami,
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- Where sherman smith was a coach.
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- And when he got there and signed the first day,
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- Smith got all the boys together.
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- He said, gentlemen,
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- While you're here, i'm
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- Going to treat every one of you as if you were my son.
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- He said, you may not need a father,
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- But that's the way i'm going to treat you anyway,
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- Because you are here.
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- My primary purpose is to make a man out of you.
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- And in the process, you become a football player
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- And boy, then that year that
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- Sherman smith, coach dillon, it was really something.
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- The next year, though, smith went and became a coach.
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- University of illinois
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- And dillon mccullough stayed there all four years.
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- He was outstanding, made the hall of fame in the
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- University rights for over 4000 yards his senior year,
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- And he was
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- Called.
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- He was commissioned.
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- He was drafted to play with the cincinnati bengals.
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- Professional football nfl, but early he was there
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- For about one minute and he had a career ending
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- Injury, could not play any longer,
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- But dillon went into coaching high school,
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- Coaching married children, christian.
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- All the influence of sherman smith
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- In the process, he decided, you know,
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- I'd like to move in coaching the college ranch.
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- He called coach smith,
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- Who was now with the seattle
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- Seahawks professional coach,
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- And he said, you know, coach, i'd like to coach in college.
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- And and smith said, dylan, why don't you come
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- And be one of our interns here with seattle
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- In the nfl where we've got a position for you?
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- And that's exactly what he did.
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- That's exactly what he did.
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- Now, last year,
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- Dylan
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- Discovered that a law had been changed in
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- Pennsylvania, that you could now find out at a certain time
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- Who your daddy was,
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- Who your mother was, if you'd been adopted.
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- So he found out and got the number of someone named carol.
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- Remember?
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- And he called carol and said,
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- I'm your son.
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- That was given up for adoption.
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- He told her what had happened in his life,
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- And she was thrilled
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- And said, we've got to get together, son.
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- And then he was very reluctant.
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- He said,
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- I want to ask you
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- About my my father.
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- My dad.
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- And carol said, you know, i don't know what happened
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- To him.
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- Said, i lost track.
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- I knew he went to college and played football,
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- But i don't know where he is now.
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- I can't tell you how to get in contact with him.
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- He said, would you tell me his name?
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- He said, sure.
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- She said it was sherman smith.
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- Today,
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- Then in mcgregor and sherman smith, sherman
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- Has retired from coaching pro football.
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- They're very close father and son. him.
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- And they just can't believe
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- How all god always with christians finishes up
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- That which he begins.
- 00:25:46.090 --> 00:25:49.460
- Everybody wants a happy home.
- 00:25:50.094 --> 00:25:53.097
- But let's be honest.
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- A happy home doesn't just happen.
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- It's built.
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- It's shaped.
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- Day by day by day.
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- That's why i want to encourage you to read
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- This little booklet, cardinal rules for a happy home.
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- This 90 day devotional is from
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- Decades of real life pastoring,
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- Counseling, and building my own home and family.
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- In the page of this book each day
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- You will find a simple rhythm
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- As of scripture,
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- Practical, down to earth navigation,
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- And a guided prayer to help you bring it all home.
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- We're not talking about something complicated here.
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- We're talking about just 15 minutes a day.
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- 15 minutes.
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- Did you can strengthen your marriage and refocus
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- Your home on what matters the most in christ
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- Centered, foundation, practical, down to earth.
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- Your life.
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- Because when christ is at the center, guess what?
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- Everything else changes.
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- Conversations change.
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- Priorities change.
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- Hearts begin to change.
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- Take that first step today.
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- Call the number or visit the website below
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- And get cardinal rules for a happy home
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- And begin your 90 day journey right now.
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