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Ed Young - What Every Husband Wishes His Wife Knew About Sex

July 14, 2026 | 27:29

Ed Young - What Every Husband Wishes His Wife Knew About Sex
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The Winning Walk with Dr. Ed Young | Ed Young - What Every Husband Wishes His Wife Knew About Sex | July 14, 2026
  • Sometimes a guy,
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  • A male will wake up in the morning
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  • And he's been in his nothing
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  • Box all night long.
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  • Six hours, seven hours, eight hours,
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  • Not thinking about anything.
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  • His whole night has been filled
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  • And flooded with testosterone, and he wakes up in the
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  • Morning and.
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  • Da-da-duttle-da da-da-da
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  • I ran into a study, a dialog by a man
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  • By the name of doctor mark junger,
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  • And he talks about the man's brain
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  • And the female's brain, the the woman's brain.
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  • And and i thought about this compartmentalization.
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  • And so i thought we'd have represented
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  • Day, the male brain and the female brain.
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  • Now, it's interesting how
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  • The male brain is put together in our brains.
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  • Gentlemen, we have a lot of little boxes.
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  • Church in every little box is separate
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  • From all other boxes they don't touch.
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  • We have a box for our car, a box for our job, a box
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  • For our kids, a box for sex, a box for our mother in law.
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  • Down at the bottom of the brain.
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  • We've got these little boxes. and.
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  • And when we pull out
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  • One of these boxes, gentlemen, we compartmentalize, right?
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  • You know,
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  • We involved in that box, and we get through that box,
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  • We put it back where it was, careful not to touch
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  • Any of the other boxes.
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  • Therefore,
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  • Because we can compartmentalize in the box at march
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  • 6th, whatever else is going in our life, we've lost our job.
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  • We don't have going to pay the bills.
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  • Our best buddy is mad at us.
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  • Doesn't make any difference
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  • Because they are all in separate boxes.
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  • Sexual intimacy with our wife is not related anything else
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  • Because we have everything in boxes.
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  • Men compartmentalize now.
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  • We go over here.
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  • The female brain
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  • Now in the female brain would be represented
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  • By a lot of wires all connected together.
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  • It's like a freeway on the internet.
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  • It's a it's a great highway.
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  • And they're all connected together
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  • And everything gets connected. everything else.
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  • I mean, the children came to the husband of the country,
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  • The job to the cook indicator, the shopping connected.
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  • It's all connected together and it's all involved and it's.
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  • Very, very complex.
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  • It's like the female brain.
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  • If anything is wrong way over here,
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  • It affects everything else over here.
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  • So it's.
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  • See, the female
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  • Brain is a maserati.
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  • Maserati high powered sports car.
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  • Very, very expensive.
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  • And this maserati, man, when it goes, it is smooth.
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  • It is dynamic, it is powerful.
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  • But it has to spend a lot of time in the shop
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  • Getting tuned.
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  • Anyone?
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  • Things wrong? sure.
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  • Everything's wrong
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  • Now. the male mind is a
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  • Chevrolet pickup truck with a stick shift
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  • On the floor.
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  • The female mind is sped,
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  • Fed by emotion.
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  • The male mind is fed by logic.
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  • The female mind is right
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  • Brained, creative, everything
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  • Connected, sensitive, emotional.
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  • The male brain primarily is.
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  • We're left brainers.
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  • Everything is logical.
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  • Now, i'm going to tell a secret that i should not tell
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  • The females here, but absolutely.
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  • I'm speaking to females.
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  • I'm going to tell you a big, big secret, gals, about
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  • The male brain.
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  • The male brain has a little known
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  • Box to females called
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  • Nothing.
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  • And it's our favorite box.
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  • We take the nothing box out
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  • And we love it.
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  • We can just turn everything off and think about.
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  • And you could say to most men, make yourself make your mind
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  • A complete blank.
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  • And we'd say, boy, that was quick.
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  • We love it's our favorite box.
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  • And we get in that nothing box.
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  • And this is the reason in this vegetative state,
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  • We can do things that are
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  • Absolutely boring and nonsensical, hour
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  • After hour after hour, for example.
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  • Fishing.
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  • Duck hunting.
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  • Hours, cold, wet, damp, fog.
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  • You couldn't see a duck if he's landing on into your gun.
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  • We love nothing when we get it out.
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  • Nothing. boxes.
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  • Sometimes our wives will say,
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  • Can i come in there with, you
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  • Know,
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  • If you came in, nothing
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  • Will become something.
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  • And when wives come into your brain, guys,
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  • And they're there with you and you're nothing box,
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  • They're not.
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  • They're very long before they say.
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  • A picture would look good
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  • Over there.
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  • And we can sit for hours and go.
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  • And they come in and say,
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  • What are you watching?
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  • Nothing.
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  • Women
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  • Can't stand for us to do nothing and to go in our
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  • Nothing boxes, gentlemen.
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  • But that's how we're word
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  • Now, on the other hand.
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  • Women care about everything.
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  • Dogs, cats, neighbors.
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  • Situation.
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  • If a woman gets on a news story
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  • On television, i'm telling you she is possessed.
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  • She wants to know anything and everything and anybody,
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  • Any man.
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  • And she she wants to know everything about.
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  • And therefore, when an
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  • Event takes place in a woman's life,
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  • Event takes place and is marked by a passionate interest,
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  • It is locked in her mind for ever
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  • Because she cares about everything.
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  • An event
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  • Punctuated with an emotion
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  • Is locked in.
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  • It's part of her inventory now, right
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  • Men and event
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  • Followed by emotion.
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  • We remember it, but
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  • We don't care.
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  • We don't want to know all that.
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  • So notice how men
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  • Handle stress and how women handled stress.
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  • How do men process stress?
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  • What do we do?
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  • Nothing.
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  • We don't want to talk.
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  • We don't be questioned.
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  • We just want to be left alone in our nothing box.
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  • That's how we handle stress.
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  • Females.
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  • How do they handle stress?
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  • They want to talk about it.
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  • Man, i don't know what i'm going to do
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  • About this situation.
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  • I can't understand this. it's a terrible thing in the world.
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  • What about the kids going over there?
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  • My mother's going to come over here.
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  • You never know what's going to happen, a thing.
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  • And so
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  • Here's the thing, guys, where we make a serious mistake
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  • When a man tells another man about problems that they have,
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  • We hope that that man will fix our problem.
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  • White guys, you know, i got you.
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  • I got this one, two, three, four, five.
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  • And we hope that man will fix our problem.
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  • Now, when a woman tells you about her problems,
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  • The dumbest thing in the world you can do,
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  • Guys, is to try to fix it.
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  • She doesn't want you to fix it.
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  • You never take
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  • An emotional problem and deal with it with facts.
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  • It doesn't work.
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  • What you want you to do is to listen
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  • And say nothing.
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  • With this background,
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  • I want
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  • To say what every husband would like his wife to know
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  • About sex, about intimacy, sexual intimacy.
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  • First of all, sex
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  • Is connected to your husband's love.
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  • So man, we learn how to love as christ, love the church
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  • As we observe our females, our wives loving us.
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  • How do they love us?
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  • And let that love has been scarred or hurt or abused?
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  • How do they love us?
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  • With kindness, with sympathy, with compassion,
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  • With forgiveness, with touch, with encouragement,
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  • And with little note?
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  • Wives are experts at loving men.
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  • That's how we learn.
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  • Now, how do wives learn to respect their husbands?
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  • You see how your
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  • Husband respects other people and other men particularly.
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  • They give respect.
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  • They give honor, they they give praise.
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  • They look up to them.
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  • That's how wives learn how to respect.
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  • See how your husband respects other people and other things.
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  • That's how you learn.
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  • Because respect isn't built into the female psyche.
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  • As we approach
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  • Our fiscal year end on july the 31st.
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  • We're also approaching a historic milestone.
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  • Think about it.
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  • America's 250th anniversary.
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  • And as we reflect on what built this nation
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  • Faith, family and freedom,
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  • Fellowship, joy, meaning, significance, a family
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  • Of god living together under the red, white and blue.
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  • As we live under the banner of america,
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  • We also recognize something deeply wrong.
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  • Biblical truth is being challenged.
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  • Families are under pressure and faith is no longer
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  • At the center of our culture.
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  • Now it's our turn.
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  • Our turn to stand for what matters most.
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  • Listen, when you request this much resource,
  • 00:12:44.286 --> 00:12:47.823
  • You're helping us proclaim the truth of god's word,
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  • Strengthen families,
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  • And advance faith across this great nation.
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  • As i thank you, i would love to send you a signed
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  • Copy of my book, healing broken america,
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  • A book that i have written to help us understand
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  • And to navigate our way through all the challenges
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  • Of the 21st century in our land as we come to our fiscal
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  • Year end.
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  • I'm asking you to step forward in a meaningful way.
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  • Consider a gift of $250,
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  • Or really ten others, to give $25 a dollar
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  • For every year of our nation's existence.
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  • We give that to the winning walk so that it can continue
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  • To be broadcast around the world.
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  • Your support helps us bring biblical truth,
  • 00:13:35.671 --> 00:13:38.641
  • Encouragement, and meaning across america.
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  • So let's stand together and believe god for renewal
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  • And revival in our great nation.
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  • For if america would catch far for christ,
  • 00:13:48.951 --> 00:13:51.587
  • It would touch the entire world.
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  • Thank you.
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  • Making this possible with your participation
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  • In prayer and gifts to the winning walk.
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  • Sex is connected to
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  • Your husband's love.
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  • When his void, when his indifferent,
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  • When he's not there,
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  • When it's confrontational over and over again.
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  • He interprets that as that you don't love him
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  • Because you loved him.
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  • You'd respect him.
  • 00:14:27.456 --> 00:14:28.691
  • This would be a part of the vocabulary of your marriage,
  • 00:14:28.691 --> 00:14:33.062
  • The intimacy of your life together.
  • 00:14:33.062 --> 00:14:35.397
  • Wives understand that.
  • 00:14:35.397 --> 00:14:37.633
  • Number two,
  • 00:14:37.633 --> 00:14:39.535
  • This is what every husband, most every christian husband
  • 00:14:39.535 --> 00:14:42.571
  • Would like for their wives and know about intimacy.
  • 00:14:42.571 --> 00:14:46.342
  • And that is sex is connected to your husband's
  • 00:14:46.342 --> 00:14:50.312
  • Emotional health.
  • 00:14:50.312 --> 00:14:53.615
  • You get that sex is connected
  • 00:14:53.615 --> 00:14:56.185
  • To your emotional health, his emotional well-being.
  • 00:14:56.185 --> 00:14:58.988
  • When there is
  • 00:14:58.988 --> 00:15:00.055
  • Intimacy and chemistry and joy when two become one
  • 00:15:00.055 --> 00:15:03.592
  • In a marriage relationship,
  • 00:15:03.592 --> 00:15:05.394
  • It affects everything about your husband.
  • 00:15:05.394 --> 00:15:08.130
  • He is lighter, he is freer, he can stand a lot of things,
  • 00:15:08.130 --> 00:15:12.434
  • And he's just a whole new person,
  • 00:15:12.434 --> 00:15:14.837
  • A whole new personality, a whole new being.
  • 00:15:14.837 --> 00:15:17.139
  • Everything in the world looks differently to your husband.
  • 00:15:17.139 --> 00:15:19.775
  • It is directly connected to your husband's emotional health
  • 00:15:19.775 --> 00:15:23.512
  • Because every man is
  • 00:15:23.979 --> 00:15:25.948
  • Bombarded with testosterone.
  • 00:15:25.948 --> 00:15:32.221
  • That's god's gift.
  • 00:15:32.654 --> 00:15:35.491
  • Not a bad thing.
  • 00:15:35.491 --> 00:15:37.826
  • Oh, it's just a part of who a male is.
  • 00:15:37.826 --> 00:15:42.231
  • It's how we're wired.
  • 00:15:42.231 --> 00:15:43.499
  • And this gives us those erotic feelings.
  • 00:15:43.499 --> 00:15:46.702
  • It gives us that sexual desire god is building.
  • 00:15:46.702 --> 00:15:50.672
  • Why do you think god has done that to the man?
  • 00:15:50.672 --> 00:15:54.376
  • By the way, i can't exaggerate enough for any female or wife
  • 00:15:54.376 --> 00:15:59.081
  • To understand how important this is to your guy.
  • 00:15:59.081 --> 00:16:02.584
  • I can't exaggerate,
  • 00:16:02.584 --> 00:16:04.153
  • You wouldn't dream of how important this is.
  • 00:16:04.153 --> 00:16:07.256
  • Why in the world would god wire up a man
  • 00:16:07.256 --> 00:16:10.793
  • And just fill him with this testosterone?
  • 00:16:10.793 --> 00:16:14.863
  • But something.
  • 00:16:14.863 --> 00:16:16.732
  • Remember the purpose for
  • 00:16:16.732 --> 00:16:19.902
  • Cohabitation of sex.
  • 00:16:20.369 --> 00:16:22.171
  • Remember, the purpose the bible teaches is for procreation.
  • 00:16:22.171 --> 00:16:25.874
  • Be fruitful, be fruitful and multiply.
  • 00:16:25.874 --> 00:16:28.343
  • It is for pleasure. you don't worry that.
  • 00:16:28.343 --> 00:16:30.612
  • Remember, read song of solomon and then you'll believe it.
  • 00:16:30.612 --> 00:16:34.183
  • It's for pleasure.
  • 00:16:34.183 --> 00:16:35.818
  • And also it is a mark of the covenant between
  • 00:16:35.818 --> 00:16:40.289
  • A husband and a wife and god, that sacred covenant marriage.
  • 00:16:40.289 --> 00:16:43.725
  • Also, it is a symbol of the covenant
  • 00:16:43.725 --> 00:16:46.061
  • Between a man and a woman and god in jesus christ,
  • 00:16:46.061 --> 00:16:49.031
  • As they are christians.
  • 00:16:49.031 --> 00:16:50.132
  • Now notice something very important,
  • 00:16:50.132 --> 00:16:53.268
  • Very, very important.
  • 00:16:53.769 --> 00:16:55.704
  • The church is what the bridegroom of christ, right?
  • 00:16:55.704 --> 00:16:59.875
  • Jesus christ is the groom.
  • 00:17:00.442 --> 00:17:03.846
  • Now we know a groom
  • 00:17:04.313 --> 00:17:06.648
  • Desires the bride,
  • 00:17:06.648 --> 00:17:09.852
  • And therefore we know that jesus christ desires to be
  • 00:17:09.852 --> 00:17:14.056
  • In a relationship with you and me, as the bridegroom
  • 00:17:14.056 --> 00:17:18.527
  • Desires to be in relation with the bride.
  • 00:17:18.527 --> 00:17:21.630
  • See how sacred and holy this is.
  • 00:17:22.331 --> 00:17:24.366
  • And therefore, when the apostle john and revelation
  • 00:17:24.366 --> 00:17:28.070
  • And paul in many times
  • 00:17:28.070 --> 00:17:29.304
  • In his letters, he wants to talk about this
  • 00:17:29.304 --> 00:17:32.074
  • Intimate relationship, how much jesus christ desires
  • 00:17:32.074 --> 00:17:35.410
  • Us to be in a relationship with him, what symbol does
  • 00:17:35.410 --> 00:17:39.014
  • He use of the earth?
  • 00:17:39.014 --> 00:17:40.282
  • He uses the symbol of marriage because he knows more
  • 00:17:40.282 --> 00:17:43.485
  • And more powerful symbol than that in the desire
  • 00:17:43.485 --> 00:17:46.822
  • That a male has for a female in marriage.
  • 00:17:46.822 --> 00:17:49.691
  • That is a sacred symbol in the church.
  • 00:17:49.691 --> 00:17:52.394
  • You got it.
  • 00:17:52.394 --> 00:17:54.496
  • Now we begin to
  • 00:17:54.863 --> 00:17:55.697
  • Understand testosterone, do we not?
  • 00:17:55.697 --> 00:17:58.700
  • And we give you a little medical lesson
  • 00:17:59.501 --> 00:18:01.303
  • Here.
  • 00:18:01.303 --> 00:18:06.375
  • Testosterone levels
  • 00:18:06.842 --> 00:18:08.410
  • Increase from birth
  • 00:18:08.410 --> 00:18:11.446
  • All the way.
  • 00:18:11.446 --> 00:18:13.882
  • The male is bathed in testosterone
  • 00:18:13.882 --> 00:18:16.818
  • In increasing fashion
  • 00:18:16.818 --> 00:18:19.521
  • Until a male is 18 years of age.
  • 00:18:19.521 --> 00:18:22.090
  • That is the apex of pinnacle of his sexual prowess.
  • 00:18:22.090 --> 00:18:27.162
  • At about 18 and then from 18,
  • 00:18:27.162 --> 00:18:31.166
  • There begins a gradual decline
  • 00:18:31.166 --> 00:18:35.204
  • Of testosterone.
  • 00:18:35.604 --> 00:18:50.085
  • 20. 30 years old.
  • 00:18:50.519 --> 00:18:58.594
  • 40. 50.
  • 00:18:58.827 --> 00:19:05.033
  • 60, 70.
  • 00:19:05.267 --> 00:19:12.207
  • 80. 90.
  • 00:19:12.441 --> 00:19:17.346
  • And he dies.
  • 00:19:17.679 --> 00:19:29.992
  • Now, to try to explain
  • 00:19:30.459 --> 00:19:33.462
  • How this works is difficult.
  • 00:19:33.462 --> 00:19:36.932
  • And a lot of women think they've married fanatics.
  • 00:19:36.932 --> 00:19:40.569
  • You haven't.
  • 00:19:40.902 --> 00:19:42.704
  • Most men are wired something like this to different degrees.
  • 00:19:42.704 --> 00:19:47.075
  • And to show you how innocent we are, ladies.
  • 00:19:47.976 --> 00:19:51.580
  • For example, sometimes a guy,
  • 00:19:51.580 --> 00:19:55.250
  • A male will wake up in the morning
  • 00:19:55.250 --> 00:19:58.186
  • And he's been in his nothing box all night long.
  • 00:19:58.186 --> 00:20:02.057
  • Six hours, seven hours, eight hours,
  • 00:20:02.858 --> 00:20:05.961
  • Not thinking about anything.
  • 00:20:05.961 --> 00:20:08.764
  • His whole night has been filled
  • 00:20:09.398 --> 00:20:11.566
  • And flooded with testosterone, and he wakes up in the
  • 00:20:11.566 --> 00:20:14.369
  • Morning and.
  • 00:20:14.369 --> 00:20:20.442
  • That that little.
  • 00:20:20.876 --> 00:20:27.783
  • Girl.
  • 00:20:28.016 --> 00:20:34.256
  • No explanation.
  • 00:20:34.623 --> 00:20:38.894
  • Blank.
  • 00:20:39.094 --> 00:20:42.864
  • And then
  • 00:20:43.131 --> 00:20:46.134
  • The wife hears those two words
  • 00:20:46.134 --> 00:20:50.038
  • That she loves to hear.
  • 00:20:50.539 --> 00:20:55.944
  • You awake.
  • 00:20:56.244 --> 00:21:07.289
  • Now we're talking about sacred things,
  • 00:21:08.056 --> 00:21:11.093
  • But i'm trying to the females to understand
  • 00:21:11.093 --> 00:21:14.162
  • Very, very clearly
  • 00:21:14.596 --> 00:21:17.499
  • That sexual intimacy is connected to your husband's
  • 00:21:17.499 --> 00:21:21.236
  • Love, and sexual and sex
  • 00:21:21.236 --> 00:21:24.906
  • Is connected to his emotional health
  • 00:21:24.906 --> 00:21:28.176
  • Because god has wired him like this.
  • 00:21:28.176 --> 00:21:30.746
  • With these chemical products in his body,
  • 00:21:30.746 --> 00:21:33.682
  • Females need to understand that.
  • 00:21:34.416 --> 00:21:36.318
  • Every wife needs to understand that.
  • 00:21:36.318 --> 00:21:39.388
  • Now, what happens?
  • 00:21:39.821 --> 00:21:41.523
  • A lot of times when a wife
  • 00:21:41.523 --> 00:21:44.826
  • Rejects and pulls away doesn't get
  • 00:21:44.826 --> 00:21:49.164
  • It always has one of those, for reasons we've talked about.
  • 00:21:49.164 --> 00:21:53.001
  • Right? ready to throw one out.
  • 00:21:53.001 --> 00:21:55.904
  • This pushes the mail
  • 00:21:56.371 --> 00:21:58.407
  • Many times into pornography.
  • 00:21:58.407 --> 00:22:01.143
  • Doesn't justify it, but it pushes him there.
  • 00:22:01.143 --> 00:22:04.146
  • And that is deadly to the male and data to the marriage.
  • 00:22:04.146 --> 00:22:07.983
  • Because pornography in time you will have a hollow man.
  • 00:22:07.983 --> 00:22:12.120
  • You'll become a hollow man.
  • 00:22:12.120 --> 00:22:13.688
  • You'll become a non man.
  • 00:22:13.688 --> 00:22:15.323
  • You'll get jaded.
  • 00:22:15.323 --> 00:22:16.458
  • And the reason we have so much perversion
  • 00:22:16.458 --> 00:22:18.960
  • Today is that males get jaded because like any drug,
  • 00:22:18.960 --> 00:22:22.931
  • Any addiction, it takes more and more and more
  • 00:22:22.931 --> 00:22:25.967
  • To get the same satisfaction that less used to bring to you.
  • 00:22:25.967 --> 00:22:30.572
  • And this is a deadly malady in our culture
  • 00:22:30.572 --> 00:22:34.409
  • That's undercutting sexual intimacy and sexual joy and
  • 00:22:34.409 --> 00:22:39.247
  • Marriage and every other area, because the man had rather
  • 00:22:39.247 --> 00:22:43.251
  • Find his excitement and experience
  • 00:22:43.251 --> 00:22:47.122
  • Without having another person involved, it becomes selfish.
  • 00:22:47.122 --> 00:22:51.426
  • It becomes a solo act, because they no longer
  • 00:22:51.426 --> 00:22:55.096
  • Can find a way to relate back to their wife.
  • 00:22:55.096 --> 00:23:01.903
  • And this is one of the magnificently
  • 00:23:02.704 --> 00:23:05.974
  • Serious, tragic problems of our day and age.
  • 00:23:05.974 --> 00:23:09.878
  • And it starts very young.
  • 00:23:09.878 --> 00:23:13.815
  • So understand that doesn't justify it.
  • 00:23:14.649 --> 00:23:17.252
  • But females have to be aware
  • 00:23:17.252 --> 00:23:20.155
  • This has happened far
  • 00:23:20.155 --> 00:23:22.157
  • Too many times
  • 00:23:22.157 --> 00:23:25.293
  • The next thing that every female needs to understand
  • 00:23:26.361 --> 00:23:29.097
  • Is that sex is connected to your husband, significance
  • 00:23:29.097 --> 00:23:33.468
  • To his identity as to who he is.
  • 00:23:34.169 --> 00:23:37.439
  • The whole world can fall apart in a man's life.
  • 00:23:37.439 --> 00:23:41.676
  • Rejection, problems, difficulties, health,
  • 00:23:41.676 --> 00:23:45.280
  • Tragedy, sickness, death, you name it.
  • 00:23:45.280 --> 00:23:48.049
  • But i can tell you something, guys.
  • 00:23:48.049 --> 00:23:50.785
  • Every man knows this.
  • 00:23:50.785 --> 00:23:52.187
  • Every wife needs to know this.
  • 00:23:52.187 --> 00:23:54.155
  • If there is still that intimacy between a husband and wife,
  • 00:23:54.155 --> 00:23:57.926
  • It's you and me, babe.
  • 00:23:57.926 --> 00:23:59.261
  • Against the world.
  • 00:23:59.261 --> 00:24:00.328
  • And the man can stand up against anything
  • 00:24:00.328 --> 00:24:03.965
  • Because it relates to who we are.
  • 00:24:04.699 --> 00:24:07.102
  • It relates to our significance.
  • 00:24:07.102 --> 00:24:09.404
  • You see, we can't stand failure.
  • 00:24:09.404 --> 00:24:12.674
  • Our egos are much, much more fragile than the female ego.
  • 00:24:12.674 --> 00:24:17.145
  • We're more narcissistic than the female.
  • 00:24:17.145 --> 00:24:19.915
  • And therefore it is very important
  • 00:24:19.915 --> 00:24:22.484
  • To the very significance and well-being of a male
  • 00:24:22.484 --> 00:24:26.354
  • That they understand that they are one with their wife.
  • 00:24:26.354 --> 00:24:29.424
  • And sexual intimacy is very important.
  • 00:24:29.424 --> 00:24:32.160
  • It has different stages, different ages.
  • 00:24:32.160 --> 00:24:33.929
  • I understand that hope you understand that.
  • 00:24:33.929 --> 00:24:36.064
  • That's the giving of it.
  • 00:24:36.064 --> 00:24:38.066
  • That's something every female needs to understand.
  • 00:24:38.066 --> 00:24:40.468
  • Finally,
  • 00:24:40.468 --> 00:24:42.437
  • In the mind of your husband, ladies,
  • 00:24:42.437 --> 00:24:46.541
  • Intimacy
  • 00:24:46.808 --> 00:24:48.910
  • Is a celebration
  • 00:24:48.910 --> 00:24:50.979
  • Of your marriage.
  • 00:24:50.979 --> 00:24:53.181
  • Now, wives, do you understand
  • 00:24:53.181 --> 00:24:55.150
  • The principles we dealt with today?
  • 00:24:55.150 --> 00:24:58.520
  • What's the first one?
  • 00:24:59.020 --> 00:25:01.823
  • Sex. is connected
  • 00:25:02.257 --> 00:25:07.429
  • For your husband with love.
  • 00:25:08.029 --> 00:25:11.132
  • Sex is connected with love.
  • 00:25:11.733 --> 00:25:13.301
  • That's the way we're wired.
  • 00:25:13.301 --> 00:25:18.139
  • Sexy.
  • 00:25:18.373 --> 00:25:19.441
  • Connected with your husband's emotional health.
  • 00:25:19.441 --> 00:25:20.875
  • Ladies,
  • 00:25:20.875 --> 00:25:22.777
  • Sex is connected to your husband's
  • 00:25:22.777 --> 00:25:24.913
  • Significance.
  • 00:25:24.913 --> 00:25:27.916
  • For your husband's sex is a celebration of marriage.
  • 00:25:28.950 --> 00:25:32.020
  • I want us all to quote this together.
  • 00:25:32.020 --> 00:25:34.556
  • Look on your screen.
  • 00:25:34.556 --> 00:25:36.558
  • Would you say it with me?
  • 00:25:36.558 --> 00:25:37.859
  • Everybody.
  • 00:25:37.859 --> 00:25:39.094
  • Sexual intimacy is a sacred gift from god
  • 00:25:39.094 --> 00:25:43.698
  • To be celebrated in marriage.
  • 00:25:43.698 --> 00:25:47.268
  • Ladies and gentlemen,
  • 00:25:47.769 --> 00:25:50.572
  • Believe that.
  • 00:25:50.939 --> 00:25:53.174
  • Live by that and there will be a.
  • 00:25:53.174 --> 00:25:57.012
  • Broom explosion
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