Allen Jackson: Building Legacy | Allen Jackson Now

August 25, 2025 | 21:18

Taya Kyle joins Allen Jackson to discuss her faith journey, building a legacy, supporting heroes and more.

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Allen Jackson NOW | Allen Jackson: Building Legacy | Allen Jackson Now | August 25, 2025
  • Good evening and welcome to nashville.
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  • I'm alan jackson.
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  • You know,
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  • I meet people in all stages of life
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  • As pastor of world outreach church
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  • And many of the strongest people i've met
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  • Are those who've suffered a loss,
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  • Including those who've had to fight
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  • Through challenges that came up suddenly,
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  • Whether they were ready or not.
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  • Well, tonight we have a guest who's not just survived,
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  • But thriving through her sudden loss.
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  • It's a loss that happened just as she was raising
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  • Two young children
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  • While her husband was fighting abroad to protect our country.
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  • He wasn't just any man in combat.
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  • He was the sharpshooter who beat all others.
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  • The navy seals called him the legend.
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  • The iraqis.
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  • They called him the devil of ramadi.
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  • And after he was cruelly murdered by a man,
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  • He was trying to help.
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  • His bestselling memoir was made into a movie,
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  • American sniper, the most lethal sniper in u.s.
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  • Military history.
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  • His name, chris kyle, was that.
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  • I want to welcome our guest tonight.
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  • It's his wife, taya kyle.
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  • It's nice to have you here in nashville.
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  • Thank you for having me.
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  • Welcome to the green hills of tennessee.
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  • So beautiful.
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  • And here we agree.
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  • Yes. well, your children, colten and mckenna,
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  • Are young adults now. yes.
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  • And you've been very open about telling those
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  • Who speak with you
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  • That you leaned on your faith to not just take care of them.
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  • Just take care of yourself as well.
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  • So how's your family doing these days?
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  • Truly, i don't say this as a cliche,
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  • But by the grace of god, we are doing really well
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  • And it's taken a lot longer, i think, than
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  • Maybe we would have thought with grief.
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  • I mean, it's been a wild christmas.
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  • Killed in 2013.
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  • And while we found a way to thrive along
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  • The way, it's not as clean our great.
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  • So we've had the ups and downs in the middle
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  • And the things that we've had to do to fight back.
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  • And i feel like
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  • We're really at a place where it's coming together.
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  • We know how to navigate the setbacks when they happen,
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  • And they're fewer and farther between.
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  • Well, you don't have a roadmap for negotiating
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  • That kind of pain and disappointment.
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  • No, that's a real time adjustment every day.
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  • It is.
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  • And, you know, one of the things
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  • That i feel like there is a massive
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  • I don't know if i could say it was spiritual warfare,
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  • But it felt very much like that
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  • For our family because it was kicked off.
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  • I mean, we had
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  • Chris and i had our own battles, you know, marriage and war
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  • And service and ptsd and all of the things that happened.
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  • And then he's brutally murdered with a friend of ours.
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  • And then there were these things that were happening
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  • Before he was killed.
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  • There was a lawsuit
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  • Against him, continued against him after he died.
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  • There was some business issues.
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  • There are family issues
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  • And other things, people that came in to help.
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  • We didn't see ourselves as target.
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  • We're just we're just everyday people.
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  • So i never occurred to me
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  • That people who would come in
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  • Under the guise of helping were actually there
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  • To take and to steal and to rob.
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  • And so calling them academic kids,
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  • Their foundational years were built of
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  • Murder was their first exposure to real evil.
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  • And then the next decade,
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  • It was like hit after hit of things
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  • That they didn't see coming.
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  • And, and, i didn't see coming.
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  • Right. and it would be great
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  • If i had the roadmap, but i didn't. and
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  • I think we were
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  • All surprised and devastated and crushed
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  • And at the same time, on very high volume
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  • Kindness of people, people coming in so much love.
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  • And these experiences and exposure to truly
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  • The best of people.
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  • And through all of that, god on high, high volume coming in,
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  • Proving himself and his love
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  • In ways that i could get choked up talking about
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  • And i wouldn't, i wouldn't know those ways that he rescues
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  • And carries and loves us without the pain.
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  • Well, your responses are intriguing to me.
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  • You've been busy,
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  • You've written books, you've set up the tell you and
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  • Chris kyle family service, marriage, strong organization.
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  • Yes, it's a mouthful.
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  • It is a mouthful.
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  • And i that was a board decision
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  • Not to tell you a decision but it works. it works.
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  • We work with people. yes.
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  • But how did you map all this out
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  • And get so many people involved
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  • While you're in the midst of raising your young children
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  • And and tragedies bubbling all around?
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  • That's an amazing story.
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  • It is.
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  • I think one of the things that i know for certain,
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  • One of my coping mechanisms was get busy, stay busy.
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  • Somebody can take her body, but they can't take her spirit.
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  • And i had this fire to just go, and it was nice
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  • Because i couldn't outrun the pain.
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  • But i could get myself
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  • Really busy and cry and grieve while i'm doing these things.
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  • But it could just try to distract me enough that it was,
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  • You know, like you're drowning and and you're just like.
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  • But i could see the horizon,
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  • And i can see this, and i can grab this.
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  • You know, that's kind of what that was like for me.
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  • And it's only been recently where i recognized
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  • That there's also time for a slow down and
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  • By the grace of god, again, i don't say that lightly.
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  • He infused healing even in the busyness.
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  • And so
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  • I think i'm very blessed and fortunate
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  • That we were able to fit all of that in.
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  • And i also recognize that there was a cost.
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  • And i think,
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  • You know, my daughters,
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  • It would have been better for her grieving
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  • If there was more of a slowdown instead of all the busyness.
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  • My son was able to
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  • Navigate and his coping mechanism,
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  • Which we don't shop for them. right.
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  • We just sort of innately have them was busyness, too.
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  • So he was able to navigate, learn, pick up, you know,
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  • Tips and ways to do things.
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  • So it worked for him, too. but,
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  • For her, i wish it had been different.
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  • Well, healing and recovery comes to all of us
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  • In different ways, in different cases.
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  • As much as i want to be in control.
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  • We don't control that.
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  • Yeah, but you're also in the business
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  • Of helping military families. yeah.
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  • And beyond that, you provide support
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  • For first responders, police, firefighters, emt.
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  • You've got partners in all this.
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  • Gary sinise i know works with you.
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  • Do you know how many people
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  • You've already helped with all this? it's fascinating.
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  • It is. it's been thousands.
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  • And we've been really blessed.
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  • It's so my passion is a long
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  • Term, life saving, life changing solution.
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  • So when we have a couple come into our foundation,
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  • We stay with them for two years.
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  • Wow. so it's two years of coaching them
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  • From a strength perspective, which is huge for people
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  • Who are service minded.
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  • We're not going to say, come in
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  • And let's talk about your problems, right.
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  • Come in. let's do an assessment of your strengths.
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  • Now let's figure out how you can use those in your marriage.
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  • And it has been the most rewarding and,
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  • Challenging work.
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  • But we we partner with baylor university studies, all of it.
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  • And i just
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  • I feel blessed and honored to be able to witness
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  • So many people
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  • Showing up to pour into their marriage
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  • And save their marriage and their family.
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  • That you and chris talked about doing something like this.
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  • So one of the things that he wanted to do,
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  • I think, to make it very clear that that american sniper,
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  • The book and the movie were not about him
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  • Was to give any proceeds away.
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  • And we were on the the way to do that.
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  • It's a little bit different.
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  • We learned a lot about tax law and ways that you can give.
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  • But the way he originally intended it,
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  • He realized before he died wasn't going to work.
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  • And so he said, we need to find a way to help more families.
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  • And so we started brainstorming.
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  • But then he was killed,
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  • Just a little over a month after we had that conversation.
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  • And i thought, by the grace of god again,
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  • We ended on a high note when most people were divorced
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  • Or barely surviving,
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  • He hadn't been out of the military
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  • Very long, and we'd weather that storm of transition.
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  • And so i thought, okay, you know, god,
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  • I would love to give back to marriages because you gave us
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  • This opportunity.
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  • And on a high note, i want that for others.
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  • And i had three reasons why
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  • I couldn't do it that year, the year he died.
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  • But i would get on it, you know, the next year.
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  • And then god quickly removed 1 to 3 reasons why i couldn't.
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  • And i was like, oh my gosh, right now.
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  • So in 2014, we started down the road
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  • And and we've been able to build and change and morph and adapt
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  • And overcome and
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  • And today i feel like we're in a solid, solid place.
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  • Flying with the organization.
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  • Was a remarkable story of resiliency and overcoming.
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  • Thank you.
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  • I want to hear more. we have another segment ahead.
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  • And we'd like to bring your son colton in for this. yes.
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  • I was so excited for people to meet him.
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  • Do well please.
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  • You stay right where you are. we'll be right back.
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  • You stay right where you are. we'll be right back.
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  • We're back with taya
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  • Kyle and now with her son colton as well.
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  • Welcome to nashville, colton.
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  • Thank you for having me.
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  • I'm honored.
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  • You know, you've also had your first several
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  • Speaking engagements.
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  • I understand who you've been speaking to.
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  • How's it going?
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  • A number of organizations.
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  • And i'm honored
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  • That they even want to have me speak and hear my voice.
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  • But they've gone very well spoken to the bay area
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  • Firefighters, for club beyond, which is a military,
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  • Teen extension of young life ministries.
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  • And some more, even more recently
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  • That i'm just i'm passionate about speaking.
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  • I'm young, inexperienced, but i'm passionate about speaking,
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  • And sharing and teaching what i know.
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  • And i have
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  • Have a lot of experiences in life live
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  • That i think would be valuable for a lot of people.
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  • Well, god
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  • Has a habit of recruiting young people
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  • And giving them some pretty significant assignments.
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  • So you're young, but it's not an insignificant role.
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  • But the lord's before you.
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  • You were only eight years old when you lost your dad,
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  • But you're old enough to have some wonderful memories
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  • Of your time with him.
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  • Can you share a bit of what he taught you
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  • And what you're sharing with others now?
  • 00:09:54.016 --> 00:09:56.052
  • Yes, absolutely.
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  • So, one of my hallmark memories
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  • Of being with him is actually, the result of something
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  • That he did with me.
  • 00:10:04.994 --> 00:10:06.195
  • So grief and strong emotions affect our memory strongly.
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  • And i wish i remembered more.
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  • And i'm also satisfied with what i do remember.
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  • But one of those things being, he taught me at a very young age
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  • How to, rear naked, choke someone from from the back,
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  • And, yeah.
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  • And so he was, he taught me, you know,
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  • Expanding on that grit and resilience and also,
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  • There's a time to use it.
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  • There's a time not to which i quickly learned.
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  • And, how to be fun loving at the same time.
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  • And don't take yourself,
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  • Or others for that matter, too seriously.
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  • That's fun.
  • 00:10:41.063 --> 00:10:42.498
  • But you and your sister, mckenna, experienced
  • 00:10:42.498 --> 00:10:44.166
  • A lot of difficult things during your foundational years.
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  • How's that shaped your faith today?
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  • It's been, integral.
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  • Absolutely.
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  • Paramount. and,
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  • It's a blessing.
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  • Glad that, that god has trusted our family
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  • With these experiences to be able to be overcomers, to be,
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  • To be given this mission to help
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  • Other people in the way that we, have been
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  • Anointed, i would say, so it's a blessing.
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  • And, i don't think you can truly get stronger
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  • And be able to show the grit and the resilience
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  • Experientially that you might have through had knowledge.
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  • I don't think you can show that experientially
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  • Without being tried and tested. and,
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  • We're blessed to know god that knows
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  • How things are going to pan out and what's inside of us.
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  • And, honored that he chose us for that.
  • 00:11:37.086 --> 00:11:40.356
  • Well, i like the words you used overcomer.
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  • Your dad was clearly an overcomer.
  • 00:11:42.725 --> 00:11:45.494
  • And as we've got to know one another of your stories
  • 00:11:45.494 --> 00:11:47.830
  • Are fascinating to me. your courage.
  • 00:11:47.830 --> 00:11:50.399
  • You know, you could have,
  • 00:11:50.399 --> 00:11:51.433
  • I suppose, sat down and been angry or hurt or.
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  • But you have charted pathways forward.
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  • You know, how did together.
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  • Did you feel that?
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  • What how did you decide not to sit down and cry
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  • And feel sorry for yourselves, but to get up and be overcomers?
  • 00:12:02.812 --> 00:12:05.915
  • It's a great question.
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  • Yeah, it is, i think,
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  • I think we had to learn to make space for both
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  • Because it the i think our instinct, i think i was
  • 00:12:11.887 --> 00:12:15.558
  • I speak for colton to
  • 00:12:15.558 --> 00:12:16.692
  • Our instinct is to roll up your sleeves, get in there
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  • And just get it done and make it happen.
  • 00:12:19.595 --> 00:12:21.497
  • And we both had to learn how to get really comfortable with
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  • Also crying, feeling raging.
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  • I feel like in god you can speak to this, but
  • 00:12:27.870 --> 00:12:31.140
  • Watching my son, who's so strong, you know,
  • 00:12:31.140 --> 00:12:33.342
  • Bodybuilding does all the stuff and then
  • 00:12:33.342 --> 00:12:36.212
  • Just talk about something difficult and have tears,
  • 00:12:36.212 --> 00:12:39.782
  • You know, come those cheeks
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  • And not have to say, i'm sorry, i'm crying.
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  • He just
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  • It's like, this is the truth of who i am right now.
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  • And this is the truth of what's happening right.
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  • Now, isn't diminish your strength.
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  • Thank you.
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  • Yes. and i have just i've really loved that.
  • 00:12:49.425 --> 00:12:52.027
  • We've learned that life is both.
  • 00:12:52.027 --> 00:12:54.730
  • You can speak to mark gold, but that's what i.
  • 00:12:54.730 --> 00:12:56.932
  • Yeah, absolutely.
  • 00:12:56.932 --> 00:12:58.167
  • Something that, you've even taught me is the power of. and,
  • 00:12:58.167 --> 00:13:01.971
  • Holding in two hands the same situation
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  • From different perspectives
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  • And feeling very angry and recognize the injustice of
  • 00:13:06.375 --> 00:13:10.179
  • A situation.
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  • And at the same time appreciate what that's doing for us.
  • 00:13:11.380 --> 00:13:14.316
  • And so i want to talk a lot about this, the,
  • 00:13:14.316 --> 00:13:18.754
  • Exciting side of things
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  • And what that means for our family,
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  • What that means for other people.
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  • And i do recognize at the same time the injustice.
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  • And i do have sadness and anger, at people in situations.
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  • And the good thing is that i can
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  • Go to the god who understands that personally.
  • 00:13:32.768 --> 00:13:35.838
  • There's some real wisdom there.
  • 00:13:36.472 --> 00:13:37.640
  • That dynamic tension between what has happened to me
  • 00:13:37.640 --> 00:13:39.909
  • Is awful, is not fair, and i hate it.
  • 00:13:39.909 --> 00:13:43.579
  • And i'm going to go forward and love the lord.
  • 00:13:43.579 --> 00:13:45.948
  • Absolutely.
  • 00:13:45.948 --> 00:13:47.016
  • That dynamic tension gives us a pathway forward.
  • 00:13:47.016 --> 00:13:49.785
  • Well, i don't want to run out of time.
  • 00:13:49.785 --> 00:13:51.120
  • I want you to tell us a bit
  • 00:13:51.120 --> 00:13:52.054
  • About your online shop at american sniper.com
  • 00:13:52.054 --> 00:13:55.157
  • And the navy seal logo that you're using.
  • 00:13:55.157 --> 00:13:57.259
  • There's a story there. yeah. thank you.
  • 00:13:57.259 --> 00:13:59.028
  • So, it is important to me to note
  • 00:13:59.028 --> 00:14:01.063
  • That i am not trying to use a navy seal logo.
  • 00:14:01.063 --> 00:14:03.632
  • I know that that's very, sacred and very important.
  • 00:14:03.632 --> 00:14:06.001
  • So i don't want to be sacrilegious in that sense, but,
  • 00:14:06.001 --> 00:14:08.971
  • I'm building a brand around my father's story
  • 00:14:08.971 --> 00:14:11.340
  • And his legacy.
  • 00:14:11.340 --> 00:14:12.241
  • It builds on five core pillars
  • 00:14:12.241 --> 00:14:13.609
  • Godliness, patriotism, passion, service, and excellence.
  • 00:14:13.609 --> 00:14:17.079
  • Those are values that we share
  • 00:14:17.079 --> 00:14:18.714
  • And values that i'm excited to expand on the legacy with,
  • 00:14:18.714 --> 00:14:22.217
  • Build a community of people
  • 00:14:22.217 --> 00:14:23.652
  • And provide them, starting with apparel and,
  • 00:14:23.652 --> 00:14:26.655
  • Soon to be many other products.
  • 00:14:26.655 --> 00:14:27.990
  • I have a collaboration with wiley x,
  • 00:14:27.990 --> 00:14:29.658
  • But showcasing a godly patriotism
  • 00:14:29.658 --> 00:14:33.195
  • That we are willing to fight for through and through.
  • 00:14:33.195 --> 00:14:36.332
  • And then showcasing the warrior ethos and what that looks like
  • 00:14:36.332 --> 00:14:40.035
  • When applied to your faith and your life,
  • 00:14:40.035 --> 00:14:42.104
  • And how that's very necessary at times,
  • 00:14:42.104 --> 00:14:44.440
  • And how you can show virtue through,
  • 00:14:44.440 --> 00:14:47.409
  • Being capable of
  • 00:14:47.810 --> 00:14:49.178
  • Violence and then not using it when it's not necessary.
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  • If you bring a calf with you.
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  • I did. this is a gift for you.
  • 00:14:55.017 --> 00:14:56.752
  • Oh, that.
  • 00:14:56.752 --> 00:14:57.653
  • I hope you'll wear and break in.
  • 00:14:57.653 --> 00:15:00.022
  • Well.
  • 00:15:00.022 --> 00:15:01.056
  • And what's the website again?
  • 00:15:01.056 --> 00:15:02.491
  • Where they can find your apparel and your gear?
  • 00:15:02.491 --> 00:15:04.126
  • American sniper.com.
  • 00:15:04.126 --> 00:15:05.961
  • American sniper.com. yes, sir.
  • 00:15:05.961 --> 00:15:08.931
  • I tell you, you're busy too.
  • 00:15:08.931 --> 00:15:10.466
  • You've written several bestselling books,
  • 00:15:10.466 --> 00:15:12.134
  • And now you published your first children's book.
  • 00:15:12.134 --> 00:15:13.969
  • Yes. i'm so excited about it.
  • 00:15:13.969 --> 00:15:15.471
  • Actually called mentioned the power of.
  • 00:15:15.471 --> 00:15:17.439
  • And this book is about gratitude and not negating that
  • 00:15:17.439 --> 00:15:22.077
  • This sweet bear
  • 00:15:22.077 --> 00:15:23.445
  • Bailey has a lot to be grateful for and every night
  • 00:15:23.445 --> 00:15:26.548
  • For his gratitude.
  • 00:15:26.548 --> 00:15:27.449
  • But then what happens on the one day
  • 00:15:27.449 --> 00:15:28.717
  • That there isn't so much to be grateful for?
  • 00:15:28.717 --> 00:15:30.652
  • And bailey's parents teach bailey to pray for things like,
  • 00:15:30.652 --> 00:15:35.190
  • Gratitude, the roof over my head, the food
  • 00:15:35.190 --> 00:15:36.859
  • To eat, a little bare hands, a little bare feet,
  • 00:15:36.859 --> 00:15:39.061
  • Which is so perfect for kids. right?
  • 00:15:39.061 --> 00:15:40.729
  • We still have things that people all over
  • 00:15:40.729 --> 00:15:42.331
  • The world are wishing for and don't have. so
  • 00:15:42.331 --> 00:15:44.666
  • Some of my team was reading it and they were all commenting.
  • 00:15:44.666 --> 00:15:46.735
  • They loved it. oh that's awesome.
  • 00:15:46.735 --> 00:15:48.270
  • Where do we find this?
  • 00:15:48.270 --> 00:15:49.471
  • I think on amazon probably the easiest way.
  • 00:15:49.471 --> 00:15:51.306
  • Barnes and noble, but these days amazon works well.
  • 00:15:51.306 --> 00:15:54.777
  • I want to thank you both.
  • 00:15:54.777 --> 00:15:55.778
  • It's been wonderful to have you here.
  • 00:15:55.778 --> 00:15:57.813
  • And the foundation website is tak f.org.
  • 00:15:57.813 --> 00:16:01.683
  • It's easy to remember
  • 00:16:01.683 --> 00:16:02.785
  • Because those are the initials for t and chris kyle.
  • 00:16:02.785 --> 00:16:05.788
  • Yes. foundation.org. perfect.
  • 00:16:05.788 --> 00:16:08.457
  • Thank you.
  • 00:16:08.457 --> 00:16:09.024
  • Look at me.
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  • Next time bring your sister to.
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  • Okay.
  • 00:16:11.693 --> 00:16:12.494
  • We'll get another chair i promise
  • 00:16:12.494 --> 00:16:13.462
  • We'll make room for everybody. okay.
  • 00:16:13.462 --> 00:16:14.963
  • Thank you.
  • 00:16:14.963 --> 00:16:15.564
  • I'll look forward to it.
  • 00:16:15.564 --> 00:16:16.865
  • Well, well,
  • 00:16:16.865 --> 00:16:18.033
  • I'll be back in a moment with some thoughts of my own.
  • 00:16:18.033 --> 00:16:26.005
  • I'll be back in a moment with some thoughts of my own.
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  • Tell you and golden stories.
  • 00:16:30.950 --> 00:16:32.351
  • An inspiration to us all.
  • 00:16:32.351 --> 00:16:34.587
  • You know, in the midst of heartbreaking tragedy.
  • 00:16:34.587 --> 00:16:37.023
  • With the help of god and his promises
  • 00:16:37.023 --> 00:16:38.925
  • Found in scripture,
  • 00:16:38.925 --> 00:16:40.259
  • They were able to work through their grief
  • 00:16:40.259 --> 00:16:42.028
  • And arrive at a place where they can honor
  • 00:16:42.028 --> 00:16:43.930
  • The legacy of their husband and father
  • 00:16:43.930 --> 00:16:46.299
  • Through their ongoing efforts to help military families.
  • 00:16:46.299 --> 00:16:49.368
  • Their testimony is the testimony of an overcomer
  • 00:16:49.368 --> 00:16:52.472
  • That you may be watching,
  • 00:16:53.039 --> 00:16:54.140
  • And you may be thinking that if jesus loved me,
  • 00:16:54.140 --> 00:16:56.809
  • I wouldn't have a tragedy
  • 00:16:56.809 --> 00:16:58.377
  • Or my heart wouldn't be broken,
  • 00:16:58.377 --> 00:16:59.779
  • Or my family wouldn't be rearranged.
  • 00:16:59.779 --> 00:17:01.848
  • If god loves us, how can these things happen?
  • 00:17:01.848 --> 00:17:05.718
  • But the bible doesn't tell us that we get a journey free
  • 00:17:05.718 --> 00:17:08.521
  • Of conflict or opposition.
  • 00:17:08.521 --> 00:17:10.790
  • Rather than blame god for all the challenges,
  • 00:17:10.790 --> 00:17:13.426
  • We have to acknowledge
  • 00:17:13.426 --> 00:17:14.427
  • That evil exist and that jesus gave us his peace.
  • 00:17:14.427 --> 00:17:18.598
  • One of my favorite verses in all the scriptures, john 1427
  • 00:17:18.598 --> 00:17:22.268
  • Jesus was speaking.
  • 00:17:22.268 --> 00:17:23.269
  • He said, peace i leave with you.
  • 00:17:23.269 --> 00:17:25.138
  • My peace i give you.
  • 00:17:25.138 --> 00:17:27.039
  • I don't give to you as the world gives.
  • 00:17:27.039 --> 00:17:28.975
  • Don't let your hearts be troubled.
  • 00:17:28.975 --> 00:17:30.710
  • Don't be afraid
  • 00:17:30.710 --> 00:17:32.411
  • When jesus said this, he wasn't leading a life
  • 00:17:32.411 --> 00:17:34.914
  • That was trying to cool or quiet.
  • 00:17:34.914 --> 00:17:36.883
  • In fact, most of the places jesus went to there was turmoil.
  • 00:17:36.883 --> 00:17:40.319
  • He was rejected frequently.
  • 00:17:40.319 --> 00:17:41.954
  • Ultimately, he was tortured to death.
  • 00:17:41.954 --> 00:17:44.824
  • Yet jesus viewed peace as a state of security.
  • 00:17:44.824 --> 00:17:48.494
  • In the midst of conflict, you'd never find him anxious.
  • 00:17:48.494 --> 00:17:51.497
  • You had a calm assurance
  • 00:17:51.497 --> 00:17:52.965
  • Of god's abiding presence, and he gave it to us.
  • 00:17:52.965 --> 00:17:56.068
  • In this world,
  • 00:17:56.402 --> 00:17:57.603
  • We live in an arena where both good and evil are in play,
  • 00:17:57.603 --> 00:18:00.773
  • And when we encounter tragedy or disappointment,
  • 00:18:00.773 --> 00:18:03.009
  • The temptation oftentimes is just to give up.
  • 00:18:03.009 --> 00:18:06.512
  • But the fact is, we can't stop.
  • 00:18:06.512 --> 00:18:09.248
  • We must persevere because as christ followers,
  • 00:18:09.248 --> 00:18:12.151
  • We still have an assignment
  • 00:18:12.151 --> 00:18:13.419
  • To be salt and light in the darkness of this world.
  • 00:18:13.419 --> 00:18:17.023
  • So i want to establish a new baseline for you.
  • 00:18:17.023 --> 00:18:19.659
  • I believe we can lead lives
  • 00:18:19.659 --> 00:18:21.127
  • That are defined by a sense of security,
  • 00:18:21.127 --> 00:18:23.529
  • No matter how difficult the circumstances.
  • 00:18:23.529 --> 00:18:26.399
  • Let's meditate on the promises that god has extended to us
  • 00:18:26.399 --> 00:18:29.535
  • In his word.
  • 00:18:29.535 --> 00:18:30.736
  • So we might live as overcomers,
  • 00:18:30.736 --> 00:18:33.172
  • Triumphing over every expression of evil.
  • 00:18:33.172 --> 00:18:36.642
  • We can have peace through his strength,
  • 00:18:36.642 --> 00:18:39.946
  • And that is a real reason for hope.
  • 00:18:39.946 --> 00:18:42.748
  • We'll be right back.
  • 00:18:43.216 --> 00:18:51.007
  • We'll be right back.
  • 00:18:51.007 --> 00:18:54.728
  • Thank you for spending a few minutes with us today.
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  • Now? well,
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  • One of the things we do is a podcast
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  • Called culture and christianity.
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  • In fact, i did a longer version of this conversation
  • 00:19:20.654 --> 00:19:24.124
  • With taya kyle talking a bit more about her story
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  • And how she
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  • And her family overcame the tragic loss of a husband
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  • And a father.
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  • You can find that it's culture
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  • And christianity wherever you go.
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  • Get your podcast or on youtube.
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  • Thanks for spending a few minutes with us.
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  • I'm alan jackson. you have a wonderful evening.
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