Taya Kyle joins Allen Jackson to discuss her faith journey, building a legacy, supporting heroes and more.
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Allen Jackson NOW | Allen Jackson: Building Legacy | Allen Jackson Now | August 25, 2025
- Good evening and welcome to nashville.
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- I'm alan jackson.
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- You know,
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- I meet people in all stages of life
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- As pastor of world outreach church
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- And many of the strongest people i've met
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- Are those who've suffered a loss,
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- Including those who've had to fight
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- Through challenges that came up suddenly,
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- Whether they were ready or not.
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- Well, tonight we have a guest who's not just survived,
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- But thriving through her sudden loss.
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- It's a loss that happened just as she was raising
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- Two young children
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- While her husband was fighting abroad to protect our country.
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- He wasn't just any man in combat.
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- He was the sharpshooter who beat all others.
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- The navy seals called him the legend.
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- The iraqis.
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- They called him the devil of ramadi.
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- And after he was cruelly murdered by a man,
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- He was trying to help.
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- His bestselling memoir was made into a movie,
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- American sniper, the most lethal sniper in u.s.
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- Military history.
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- His name, chris kyle, was that.
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- I want to welcome our guest tonight.
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- It's his wife, taya kyle.
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- It's nice to have you here in nashville.
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- Thank you for having me.
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- Welcome to the green hills of tennessee.
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- So beautiful.
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- And here we agree.
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- Yes. well, your children, colten and mckenna,
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- Are young adults now. yes.
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- And you've been very open about telling those
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- Who speak with you
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- That you leaned on your faith to not just take care of them.
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- Just take care of yourself as well.
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- So how's your family doing these days?
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- Truly, i don't say this as a cliche,
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- But by the grace of god, we are doing really well
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- And it's taken a lot longer, i think, than
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- Maybe we would have thought with grief.
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- I mean, it's been a wild christmas.
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- Killed in 2013.
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- And while we found a way to thrive along
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- The way, it's not as clean our great.
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- So we've had the ups and downs in the middle
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- And the things that we've had to do to fight back.
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- And i feel like
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- We're really at a place where it's coming together.
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- We know how to navigate the setbacks when they happen,
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- And they're fewer and farther between.
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- Well, you don't have a roadmap for negotiating
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- That kind of pain and disappointment.
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- No, that's a real time adjustment every day.
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- It is.
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- And, you know, one of the things
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- That i feel like there is a massive
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- I don't know if i could say it was spiritual warfare,
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- But it felt very much like that
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- For our family because it was kicked off.
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- I mean, we had
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- Chris and i had our own battles, you know, marriage and war
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- And service and ptsd and all of the things that happened.
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- And then he's brutally murdered with a friend of ours.
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- And then there were these things that were happening
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- Before he was killed.
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- There was a lawsuit
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- Against him, continued against him after he died.
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- There was some business issues.
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- There are family issues
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- And other things, people that came in to help.
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- We didn't see ourselves as target.
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- We're just we're just everyday people.
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- So i never occurred to me
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- That people who would come in
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- Under the guise of helping were actually there
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- To take and to steal and to rob.
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- And so calling them academic kids,
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- Their foundational years were built of
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- Murder was their first exposure to real evil.
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- And then the next decade,
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- It was like hit after hit of things
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- That they didn't see coming.
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- And, and, i didn't see coming.
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- Right. and it would be great
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- If i had the roadmap, but i didn't. and
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- I think we were
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- All surprised and devastated and crushed
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- And at the same time, on very high volume
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- Kindness of people, people coming in so much love.
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- And these experiences and exposure to truly
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- The best of people.
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- And through all of that, god on high, high volume coming in,
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- Proving himself and his love
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- In ways that i could get choked up talking about
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- And i wouldn't, i wouldn't know those ways that he rescues
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- And carries and loves us without the pain.
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- Well, your responses are intriguing to me.
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- You've been busy,
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- You've written books, you've set up the tell you and
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- Chris kyle family service, marriage, strong organization.
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- Yes, it's a mouthful.
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- It is a mouthful.
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- And i that was a board decision
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- Not to tell you a decision but it works. it works.
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- We work with people. yes.
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- But how did you map all this out
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- And get so many people involved
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- While you're in the midst of raising your young children
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- And and tragedies bubbling all around?
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- That's an amazing story.
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- It is.
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- I think one of the things that i know for certain,
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- One of my coping mechanisms was get busy, stay busy.
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- Somebody can take her body, but they can't take her spirit.
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- And i had this fire to just go, and it was nice
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- Because i couldn't outrun the pain.
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- But i could get myself
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- Really busy and cry and grieve while i'm doing these things.
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- But it could just try to distract me enough that it was,
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- You know, like you're drowning and and you're just like.
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- But i could see the horizon,
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- And i can see this, and i can grab this.
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- You know, that's kind of what that was like for me.
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- And it's only been recently where i recognized
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- That there's also time for a slow down and
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- By the grace of god, again, i don't say that lightly.
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- He infused healing even in the busyness.
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- And so
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- I think i'm very blessed and fortunate
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- That we were able to fit all of that in.
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- And i also recognize that there was a cost.
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- And i think,
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- You know, my daughters,
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- It would have been better for her grieving
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- If there was more of a slowdown instead of all the busyness.
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- My son was able to
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- Navigate and his coping mechanism,
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- Which we don't shop for them. right.
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- We just sort of innately have them was busyness, too.
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- So he was able to navigate, learn, pick up, you know,
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- Tips and ways to do things.
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- So it worked for him, too. but,
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- For her, i wish it had been different.
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- Well, healing and recovery comes to all of us
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- In different ways, in different cases.
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- As much as i want to be in control.
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- We don't control that.
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- Yeah, but you're also in the business
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- Of helping military families. yeah.
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- And beyond that, you provide support
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- For first responders, police, firefighters, emt.
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- You've got partners in all this.
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- Gary sinise i know works with you.
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- Do you know how many people
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- You've already helped with all this? it's fascinating.
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- It is. it's been thousands.
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- And we've been really blessed.
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- It's so my passion is a long
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- Term, life saving, life changing solution.
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- So when we have a couple come into our foundation,
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- We stay with them for two years.
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- Wow. so it's two years of coaching them
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- From a strength perspective, which is huge for people
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- Who are service minded.
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- We're not going to say, come in
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- And let's talk about your problems, right.
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- Come in. let's do an assessment of your strengths.
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- Now let's figure out how you can use those in your marriage.
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- And it has been the most rewarding and,
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- Challenging work.
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- But we we partner with baylor university studies, all of it.
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- And i just
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- I feel blessed and honored to be able to witness
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- So many people
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- Showing up to pour into their marriage
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- And save their marriage and their family.
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- That you and chris talked about doing something like this.
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- So one of the things that he wanted to do,
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- I think, to make it very clear that that american sniper,
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- The book and the movie were not about him
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- Was to give any proceeds away.
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- And we were on the the way to do that.
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- It's a little bit different.
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- We learned a lot about tax law and ways that you can give.
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- But the way he originally intended it,
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- He realized before he died wasn't going to work.
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- And so he said, we need to find a way to help more families.
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- And so we started brainstorming.
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- But then he was killed,
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- Just a little over a month after we had that conversation.
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- And i thought, by the grace of god again,
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- We ended on a high note when most people were divorced
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- Or barely surviving,
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- He hadn't been out of the military
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- Very long, and we'd weather that storm of transition.
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- And so i thought, okay, you know, god,
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- I would love to give back to marriages because you gave us
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- This opportunity.
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- And on a high note, i want that for others.
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- And i had three reasons why
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- I couldn't do it that year, the year he died.
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- But i would get on it, you know, the next year.
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- And then god quickly removed 1 to 3 reasons why i couldn't.
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- And i was like, oh my gosh, right now.
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- So in 2014, we started down the road
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- And and we've been able to build and change and morph and adapt
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- And overcome and
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- And today i feel like we're in a solid, solid place.
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- Flying with the organization.
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- Was a remarkable story of resiliency and overcoming.
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- Thank you.
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- I want to hear more. we have another segment ahead.
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- And we'd like to bring your son colton in for this. yes.
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- I was so excited for people to meet him.
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- Do well please.
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- You stay right where you are. we'll be right back.
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- You stay right where you are. we'll be right back.
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- We're back with taya
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- Kyle and now with her son colton as well.
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- Welcome to nashville, colton.
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- Thank you for having me.
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- I'm honored.
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- You know, you've also had your first several
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- Speaking engagements.
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- I understand who you've been speaking to.
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- How's it going?
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- A number of organizations.
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- And i'm honored
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- That they even want to have me speak and hear my voice.
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- But they've gone very well spoken to the bay area
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- Firefighters, for club beyond, which is a military,
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- Teen extension of young life ministries.
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- And some more, even more recently
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- That i'm just i'm passionate about speaking.
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- I'm young, inexperienced, but i'm passionate about speaking,
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- And sharing and teaching what i know.
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- And i have
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- Have a lot of experiences in life live
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- That i think would be valuable for a lot of people.
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- Well, god
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- Has a habit of recruiting young people
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- And giving them some pretty significant assignments.
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- So you're young, but it's not an insignificant role.
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- But the lord's before you.
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- You were only eight years old when you lost your dad,
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- But you're old enough to have some wonderful memories
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- Of your time with him.
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- Can you share a bit of what he taught you
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- And what you're sharing with others now?
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- Yes, absolutely.
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- So, one of my hallmark memories
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- Of being with him is actually, the result of something
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- That he did with me.
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- So grief and strong emotions affect our memory strongly.
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- And i wish i remembered more.
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- And i'm also satisfied with what i do remember.
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- But one of those things being, he taught me at a very young age
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- How to, rear naked, choke someone from from the back,
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- And, yeah.
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- And so he was, he taught me, you know,
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- Expanding on that grit and resilience and also,
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- There's a time to use it.
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- There's a time not to which i quickly learned.
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- And, how to be fun loving at the same time.
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- And don't take yourself,
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- Or others for that matter, too seriously.
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- That's fun.
- 00:10:41.063 --> 00:10:42.498
- But you and your sister, mckenna, experienced
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- A lot of difficult things during your foundational years.
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- How's that shaped your faith today?
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- It's been, integral.
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- Absolutely.
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- Paramount. and,
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- It's a blessing.
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- Glad that, that god has trusted our family
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- With these experiences to be able to be overcomers, to be,
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- To be given this mission to help
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- Other people in the way that we, have been
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- Anointed, i would say, so it's a blessing.
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- And, i don't think you can truly get stronger
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- And be able to show the grit and the resilience
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- Experientially that you might have through had knowledge.
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- I don't think you can show that experientially
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- Without being tried and tested. and,
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- We're blessed to know god that knows
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- How things are going to pan out and what's inside of us.
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- And, honored that he chose us for that.
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- Well, i like the words you used overcomer.
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- Your dad was clearly an overcomer.
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- And as we've got to know one another of your stories
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- Are fascinating to me. your courage.
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- You know, you could have,
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- I suppose, sat down and been angry or hurt or.
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- But you have charted pathways forward.
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- You know, how did together.
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- Did you feel that?
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- What how did you decide not to sit down and cry
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- And feel sorry for yourselves, but to get up and be overcomers?
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- It's a great question.
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- Yeah, it is, i think,
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- I think we had to learn to make space for both
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- Because it the i think our instinct, i think i was
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- I speak for colton to
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- Our instinct is to roll up your sleeves, get in there
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- And just get it done and make it happen.
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- And we both had to learn how to get really comfortable with
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- Also crying, feeling raging.
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- I feel like in god you can speak to this, but
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- Watching my son, who's so strong, you know,
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- Bodybuilding does all the stuff and then
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- Just talk about something difficult and have tears,
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- You know, come those cheeks
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- And not have to say, i'm sorry, i'm crying.
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- He just
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- It's like, this is the truth of who i am right now.
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- And this is the truth of what's happening right.
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- Now, isn't diminish your strength.
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- Thank you.
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- Yes. and i have just i've really loved that.
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- We've learned that life is both.
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- You can speak to mark gold, but that's what i.
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- Yeah, absolutely.
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- Something that, you've even taught me is the power of. and,
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- Holding in two hands the same situation
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- From different perspectives
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- And feeling very angry and recognize the injustice of
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- A situation.
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- And at the same time appreciate what that's doing for us.
- 00:13:11.380 --> 00:13:14.316
- And so i want to talk a lot about this, the,
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- Exciting side of things
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- And what that means for our family,
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- What that means for other people.
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- And i do recognize at the same time the injustice.
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- And i do have sadness and anger, at people in situations.
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- And the good thing is that i can
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- Go to the god who understands that personally.
- 00:13:32.768 --> 00:13:35.838
- There's some real wisdom there.
- 00:13:36.472 --> 00:13:37.640
- That dynamic tension between what has happened to me
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- Is awful, is not fair, and i hate it.
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- And i'm going to go forward and love the lord.
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- Absolutely.
- 00:13:45.948 --> 00:13:47.016
- That dynamic tension gives us a pathway forward.
- 00:13:47.016 --> 00:13:49.785
- Well, i don't want to run out of time.
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- I want you to tell us a bit
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- About your online shop at american sniper.com
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- And the navy seal logo that you're using.
- 00:13:55.157 --> 00:13:57.259
- There's a story there. yeah. thank you.
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- So, it is important to me to note
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- That i am not trying to use a navy seal logo.
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- I know that that's very, sacred and very important.
- 00:14:03.632 --> 00:14:06.001
- So i don't want to be sacrilegious in that sense, but,
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- I'm building a brand around my father's story
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- And his legacy.
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- It builds on five core pillars
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- Godliness, patriotism, passion, service, and excellence.
- 00:14:13.609 --> 00:14:17.079
- Those are values that we share
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- And values that i'm excited to expand on the legacy with,
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- Build a community of people
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- And provide them, starting with apparel and,
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- Soon to be many other products.
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- I have a collaboration with wiley x,
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- But showcasing a godly patriotism
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- That we are willing to fight for through and through.
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- And then showcasing the warrior ethos and what that looks like
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- When applied to your faith and your life,
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- And how that's very necessary at times,
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- And how you can show virtue through,
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- Being capable of
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- Violence and then not using it when it's not necessary.
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- If you bring a calf with you.
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- I did. this is a gift for you.
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- Oh, that.
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- I hope you'll wear and break in.
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- Well.
- 00:15:00.022 --> 00:15:01.056
- And what's the website again?
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- Where they can find your apparel and your gear?
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- American sniper.com.
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- American sniper.com. yes, sir.
- 00:15:05.961 --> 00:15:08.931
- I tell you, you're busy too.
- 00:15:08.931 --> 00:15:10.466
- You've written several bestselling books,
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- And now you published your first children's book.
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- Yes. i'm so excited about it.
- 00:15:13.969 --> 00:15:15.471
- Actually called mentioned the power of.
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- And this book is about gratitude and not negating that
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- This sweet bear
- 00:15:22.077 --> 00:15:23.445
- Bailey has a lot to be grateful for and every night
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- For his gratitude.
- 00:15:26.548 --> 00:15:27.449
- But then what happens on the one day
- 00:15:27.449 --> 00:15:28.717
- That there isn't so much to be grateful for?
- 00:15:28.717 --> 00:15:30.652
- And bailey's parents teach bailey to pray for things like,
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- Gratitude, the roof over my head, the food
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- To eat, a little bare hands, a little bare feet,
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- Which is so perfect for kids. right?
- 00:15:39.061 --> 00:15:40.729
- We still have things that people all over
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- The world are wishing for and don't have. so
- 00:15:42.331 --> 00:15:44.666
- Some of my team was reading it and they were all commenting.
- 00:15:44.666 --> 00:15:46.735
- They loved it. oh that's awesome.
- 00:15:46.735 --> 00:15:48.270
- Where do we find this?
- 00:15:48.270 --> 00:15:49.471
- I think on amazon probably the easiest way.
- 00:15:49.471 --> 00:15:51.306
- Barnes and noble, but these days amazon works well.
- 00:15:51.306 --> 00:15:54.777
- I want to thank you both.
- 00:15:54.777 --> 00:15:55.778
- It's been wonderful to have you here.
- 00:15:55.778 --> 00:15:57.813
- And the foundation website is tak f.org.
- 00:15:57.813 --> 00:16:01.683
- It's easy to remember
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- Because those are the initials for t and chris kyle.
- 00:16:02.785 --> 00:16:05.788
- Yes. foundation.org. perfect.
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- Thank you.
- 00:16:08.457 --> 00:16:09.024
- Look at me.
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- Next time bring your sister to.
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- Okay.
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- We'll get another chair i promise
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- We'll make room for everybody. okay.
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- Thank you.
- 00:16:14.963 --> 00:16:15.564
- I'll look forward to it.
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- Well, well,
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- I'll be back in a moment with some thoughts of my own.
- 00:16:18.033 --> 00:16:26.005
- I'll be back in a moment with some thoughts of my own.
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- Tell you and golden stories.
- 00:16:30.950 --> 00:16:32.351
- An inspiration to us all.
- 00:16:32.351 --> 00:16:34.587
- You know, in the midst of heartbreaking tragedy.
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- With the help of god and his promises
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- Found in scripture,
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- They were able to work through their grief
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- And arrive at a place where they can honor
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- The legacy of their husband and father
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- Through their ongoing efforts to help military families.
- 00:16:46.299 --> 00:16:49.368
- Their testimony is the testimony of an overcomer
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- That you may be watching,
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- And you may be thinking that if jesus loved me,
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- I wouldn't have a tragedy
- 00:16:56.809 --> 00:16:58.377
- Or my heart wouldn't be broken,
- 00:16:58.377 --> 00:16:59.779
- Or my family wouldn't be rearranged.
- 00:16:59.779 --> 00:17:01.848
- If god loves us, how can these things happen?
- 00:17:01.848 --> 00:17:05.718
- But the bible doesn't tell us that we get a journey free
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- Of conflict or opposition.
- 00:17:08.521 --> 00:17:10.790
- Rather than blame god for all the challenges,
- 00:17:10.790 --> 00:17:13.426
- We have to acknowledge
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- That evil exist and that jesus gave us his peace.
- 00:17:14.427 --> 00:17:18.598
- One of my favorite verses in all the scriptures, john 1427
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- Jesus was speaking.
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- He said, peace i leave with you.
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- My peace i give you.
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- I don't give to you as the world gives.
- 00:17:27.039 --> 00:17:28.975
- Don't let your hearts be troubled.
- 00:17:28.975 --> 00:17:30.710
- Don't be afraid
- 00:17:30.710 --> 00:17:32.411
- When jesus said this, he wasn't leading a life
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- That was trying to cool or quiet.
- 00:17:34.914 --> 00:17:36.883
- In fact, most of the places jesus went to there was turmoil.
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- He was rejected frequently.
- 00:17:40.319 --> 00:17:41.954
- Ultimately, he was tortured to death.
- 00:17:41.954 --> 00:17:44.824
- Yet jesus viewed peace as a state of security.
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- In the midst of conflict, you'd never find him anxious.
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- You had a calm assurance
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- Of god's abiding presence, and he gave it to us.
- 00:17:52.965 --> 00:17:56.068
- In this world,
- 00:17:56.402 --> 00:17:57.603
- We live in an arena where both good and evil are in play,
- 00:17:57.603 --> 00:18:00.773
- And when we encounter tragedy or disappointment,
- 00:18:00.773 --> 00:18:03.009
- The temptation oftentimes is just to give up.
- 00:18:03.009 --> 00:18:06.512
- But the fact is, we can't stop.
- 00:18:06.512 --> 00:18:09.248
- We must persevere because as christ followers,
- 00:18:09.248 --> 00:18:12.151
- We still have an assignment
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- To be salt and light in the darkness of this world.
- 00:18:13.419 --> 00:18:17.023
- So i want to establish a new baseline for you.
- 00:18:17.023 --> 00:18:19.659
- I believe we can lead lives
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- That are defined by a sense of security,
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- No matter how difficult the circumstances.
- 00:18:23.529 --> 00:18:26.399
- Let's meditate on the promises that god has extended to us
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- In his word.
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- So we might live as overcomers,
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- Triumphing over every expression of evil.
- 00:18:33.172 --> 00:18:36.642
- We can have peace through his strength,
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- And that is a real reason for hope.
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- We'll be right back.
- 00:18:43.216 --> 00:18:51.007
- We'll be right back.
- 00:18:51.007 --> 00:18:54.728
- Thank you for spending a few minutes with us today.
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- Just a reminder
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- That if you ever miss an episode or if there's one you like
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- And you want to share with a friend,
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- There's a complete archive of the programs at aj now.com.
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- What do i do other than aj?
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- Now? well,
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- One of the things we do is a podcast
- 00:19:16.750 --> 00:19:18.852
- Called culture and christianity.
- 00:19:18.852 --> 00:19:20.654
- In fact, i did a longer version of this conversation
- 00:19:20.654 --> 00:19:24.124
- With taya kyle talking a bit more about her story
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- And how she
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- And her family overcame the tragic loss of a husband
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- And a father.
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- You can find that it's culture
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- And christianity wherever you go.
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- Get your podcast or on youtube.
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- We've got wonderful technology,
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- Makes it easy to share good news and today was good news.
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- Thanks for spending a few minutes with us.
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- I'm alan jackson. you have a wonderful evening.
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