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Robert Jeffress - Refusing To Second Guess Your Right Decisions

May 20, 2025 | S25:E240

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Dr. Robert Jeffress | Robert Jeffress - Refusing To Second Guess Your Right Decisions | May 20, 2025

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[announcer] from the pulpit of the first baptist church
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Of dallas, texas,
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This is "pathway to victory" with dr. robert jeffress.
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Hi, i'm robert jeffress and welcome again
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To "pathway to victory."
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After making a sinful decision, it's natural to feel regret.
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But sometimes we're regretful after making a good decision.
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Abraham, the great man of faith,
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Had this experience when he second-guessed his decision
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To obey god.
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And if you've ever suffered from believer's remorse,
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I want you to hear my message today called
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"refusing to second-guess your right decisions"
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On today's edition of "pathway to victory."
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♪ the fear of the lord ♪
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♪ is the beginning of wisdom ♪
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♪ the fear of the lord ♪
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♪ is the beginning of wisdom ♪
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♪ so let us worship ♪
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♪ let us bow down ♪
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♪ let us fear our god ♪
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♪ to him belongs ♪
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♪ eternal praise ♪
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♪ glorious and righteous ♪
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♪ are his works, his ways ♪
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♪ to him belongs ♪
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♪ all reverent praise ♪
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♪ faithful and just ♪
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♪ are his works, his ways ♪
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♪ in the congregation ♪
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♪ with your people ♪
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♪ we remember your works ♪
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♪ your works ♪
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♪ to him belongs ♪
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♪ eternal praise ♪
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♪ faithful and just ♪
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♪ are his works, his ways ♪
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♪ so let us worship ♪
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♪ let us bow down ♪
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♪ so let us worship ♪
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♪ let us bow down ♪
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♪ so let us worship ♪
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♪ let us bow down ♪
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♪ so let us worship ♪
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♪ let us bow down ♪
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♪ so let us worship ♪
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♪ let us bow down ♪
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♪ so let us worship ♪
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♪ let us bow down ♪
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♪ let us fear our god ♪
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♪ our god ♪
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[announcer] the bible is filled with stories about heroes.
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But abraham rises above the rest
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As a true champion of faith.
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In his brand new book "walking by faith,"
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Dr. robert jeffress shares how to step forward in faith
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Even when the future appears uncertain.
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Buyer's remorse.
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You know the concept, don't you?
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It's that feeling you have after making a large purchase
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And you begin second-guessing your decision.
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If only i had bought a bigger size or a different color.
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If only i had waited for a sale.
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You know, the only thing more painful
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Than second-guessing your decisions with regret
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Is second-guessing those decisions with fear,
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Doing what you think is the right thing
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And then starting to fear the consequences.
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A student decides
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That they're not going to cheat on the exam,
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But then they begin to worry,
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"what if i failed the course?"
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An employee refuses to follow her boss' edict to cheat,
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To cut corners,
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And then she begins to fear, "what if i lose my job?"
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A christian begins to obey god through tithing
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But then begins to wonder,
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"what if i don't have enough money?"
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We had a viewer of "pathway to victory"
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In virginia recently who wrote to us
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And said that she had listened to a message on marriage
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And made the commitment to obey god
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And stay in her marriage,
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But then she began to fear,
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"what if that means i'm condemned to a life
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Of loneliness and unhappiness?"
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You know, we sing the song, or we used to,
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You'll remember it,
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"trust and obey,
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For there's no other way than to be happy in jesus
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Than to trust and obey."
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It's a nice song but it's somewhat misleading.
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If you interpret it to mean if you trust and obey god,
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Everything's going to turn out all right.
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Well, eventually that's true,
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But it doesn't happen immediately.
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Sometimes we regret not just wrong decisions
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But right decisions.
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As we're going to discover today
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In our study in the life of abraham,
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There's only one remedy
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To regrets over the right decisions we make,
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And that remedy is faith.
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If you have your bibles, turn to genesis 14, genesis 14,
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As we discover some help in refusing to second-guess
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Our right decisions.
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The kings of the jordan valley
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That included the cities of sodom and gomorrah,
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They had lived for years under the reign
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Of a coalition of eastern kings led by chedorlaomer.
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And so they had paid taxes to chedorlaomer
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Every year for 12 years.
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But after 12 years of paying taxes to this monarch,
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They, kind of like our american colonists,
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Decided no taxation without representation.
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"we're not going to pay king henry anymore.
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We're not going to pay king chedorlaomer anymore.
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We're going to stop paying to this coalition of kings."
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They did that in the 13th year, quit paying their taxes.
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In the 14th year,
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Chedorlaomer said, "we're not going to put up
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With this rebellion any longer."
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So chedorlaomer leads a group of kings from the east
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And they invade the jordan valley
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Where these rebellious kings were,
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Including the kings of sodom and gomorrah.
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And what happens when chedorlaomer invades?
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Well, some of the people fled immediately
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To the hills of masada.
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Some of them fled there, leaving their possessions behind.
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Verse 10 tells us there were tar pits in the area,
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Tar that was used earlier to build the tower of babel.
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Some of the kings fled and got stuck in the tar pits,
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That was the king of sodom and gomorrah.
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They left behind their treasures.
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And those residents who stayed,
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Including the residents of sodom and gomorrah,
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They were taken captive.
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Now, who was living in sodom and gomorrah
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When this war broke out
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And the residents were taken captive?
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Guess who was there?
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Our old friend lot.
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It's interesting, the last time we saw a lot in chapter 13,
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He moved to the edge of sodom, this city of wickedness.
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He didn't move into it yet,
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But he was kind of attracted to it, tantalized by it,
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So he moved to the edge.
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When we get to chapter 14,
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He's right smack-dab in the middle of sodom
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And he ends up getting taken captive by chedorlaomer.
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May i point out an obvious but important truth?
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The most dangerous place in the world you can be
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Is outside god's will.
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When you're outside god's will,
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You're in the most dangerous place you can be.
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Likewise, the safest place you can be,
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Regardless of what's going on around you,
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Is in the middle of god's will.
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Lot had moved his family outside god's will
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And so they end up being taken captive
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Along with the other captives.
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Now what happens?
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Look at verse 13, "then a fugitive,"
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Somebody escaped from those who had been taken captive,
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"and told abram the hebrew,
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Now abram was living by the oaks of mamre."
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Now there's an interesting nuance here
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In the hebrew language.
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It says abram was living in canaan
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By the oaks of mamre.
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That hebrew word living means existing.
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It's the idea of a temporary dwelling place.
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Remember, abraham lived in a tent
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Even though he was a wealthy man.
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As the old gospel song says,
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"this world is not my home, i'm just a-passing through."
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You know, when i think about that,
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I think about the late british writer malcom muggeridge.
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He had an autobiography, "chronicles of wasted time,"
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And he talked about in his autobiography
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As feeling like a stranger in this world, he said.
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And one time a television journalist asked him what he meant
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By living as a stranger in this land,
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And this is what malcom muggeridge said.
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"in world war ii,
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I was in north africa when i heard a lieutenant colonel
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Use the phrase 'displaced person.'
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That phrase was very poignant to me,
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But it's a very good definition of a person
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Who's come to see that life is not about carnal things,
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It's not about success,
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But it's about eternity rather than time.
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I don't really belong here, i'm simply staying here."
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That was abraham's philosophy.
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I'm not really belong in this world,
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I'm just staying in this world for now.
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Contrast that to lot,
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Who thought this world was the final place for him.
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He drove down those stakes in the city of sodom,
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And isn't it interesting
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That the one who ended up getting uprooted was lot?
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He got taken captive.
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And so, when abraham heard the news from this fugitive
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That his nephew had been taken captive,
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What was his reaction?
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Abraham wanted to rescue his nephew lot.
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You see, abraham understood that true love
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Is not giving people what they deserve,
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It's giving people what they need.
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Isn't that how god dealt with us?
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In titus 3:4-5, it says,
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"when the kindness of god our savior
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And his love for mankind appeared,
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God saved us not on the basis of deeds,
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Which we've done in righteousness,
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But according to his mercy."
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Aren't you glad we serve a kind god?
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A god who doesn't give us what we deserve,
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Justice, separation from god, punishment for our sins,
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But he gives us what we need, and that is grace.
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That's exactly what abraham did with lot,
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He dealt with him according to grace.
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And from this point on,
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Abraham, who's already a legend,
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Now he moves to superhero status.
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Everybody's talking about abraham.
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And because chedorlaomer left behind all this loot
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As well as all these captives,
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A rich man, abraham, became even richer.
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He had all of this stuff now, all of these people,
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What would he do?
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And so we see abraham facing a new test.
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And again, it's a test of not how he handles adversity,
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How does he this newfound prosperity?
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Well, the test comes in the form of two kings that he meets.
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Now, first of all, he meets a king named melchizedek.
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Look at verse 18.
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"and melchizedek, the king of salem,"
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That was probably ancient jerusalem,
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"melchizedek, the king of salem,
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Brought out bread and wine to abraham.
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Now he was a priest of the most high god."
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This is the first time a priest is mentioned in the bible.
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Now, what does melchizedek say when he meets abraham?
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"he blessed him," verse 19, and said,
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"blessed be abram of god most high,
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Possessor of heaven and earth."
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The word in hebrew melchizedek uses for god is el elyon.
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It means the creator god, the possessor god,
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The god who owns everything.
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God owns everything in this universe
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Because he created everything in this universe.
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You know, the christian financial consultant ron blue says,
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"the first principle you need to understand
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To get your finances in order
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Is that god owns everything."
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And most of us say, "okay, that's great, ron.
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What's the second principle?"
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Don't skip over that.
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God owns everything you have.
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We own nothing, we're just managers,
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Stewards of what belongs to god.
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And when you understand that,
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It gives you a whole different perspective on your finances.
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Remember, first, god owns it all anyway,
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It's just a question of how much you're going to give back
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To what belongs to him.
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That's what melchizedek reminded abraham.
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Abraham, god owns it all.
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Look at verse 20, and he goes on to say,
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"and blessed be god most high,
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Who has delivered your enemies into your hand."
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Abraham, god's the one
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Who granted you victory over chedorlaomer.
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And there's no pushback from abraham on this.
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Abraham doesn't say, "oh, melchizedek, you don't understand.
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God has no hands but my hands, he has no feet but my feet,
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And blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah."
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No, abraham acknowledges that
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And he acknowledges it by, look at what it says.
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He says, "and he gave, abraham,
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Gave 1/10 of all to melchizedek."
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He gave a tithe of all of his possessions to melchizedek.
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This is the first time tithing is mentioned in the bible.
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Now, having that encounter with the priest,
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Being reminded that god's the one who gave him victory,
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Prepared him for the second king he met,
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Bera, the king of sodom.
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Verse 21, "the king of sodom said to abram,
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'give the people to me and take the goods for yourself.'"
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Now, you know what i stumbled over all week
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In studying this passage?
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How did the king of sodom get out of the tar pit?
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Last time we saw him,
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He had fled and was caught up in the tar pit,
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It says in chapter 14.
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How did he get out of the tar pit?
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Well, maybe abraham rescued him.
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But when he gets out of the tar pit, he says,
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"abram, you've got all of this new treasure
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That belonged to my people,
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And you've got all of my people, the residents of sodom,
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So i want to make a deal with you.
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And here's the deal, you keep the money,
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I'll take the captives back,
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And it's a win-win for both of us."
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And what does abram say to that?
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"no deal. no deal."
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Why? verses 22 and 23, abram said to the king of sodom,
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"i have sworn to the lord god most high,
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Possessor of heaven and earth,
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That i will not take a thread or a sandal thong
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Or anything that is yours,
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For fear you would say, 'i have made abram rich.'"
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He said, "if i get into this deal with you,
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I might be richer for it,
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But god's glory will be diminished.
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If i take this money from you
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And give you the captives back,
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People will say what a shrewd negotiator you were
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Instead of how great god is.
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So this is what i'm going to do,
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I'm not going to take any of your possessions.
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If my men want it, the 318, they're entitled to it.
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But i'm not going to take anything from you
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That would diminish the glory of god.
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I want people to know god is the one
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Who has given the victory."
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That explains abraham's whole life.
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His whole focus was the glory of god,
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Making god look bigger and better to an unbelieving world.
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That's why abraham is the only person
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Whom god called, "my friend.
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My friend, abraham."
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He got it.
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He understood the whole reason we're here on this earth
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For such a brief period of time
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Is to glorify god, to point people to god.
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After refusing the gifts of the king of sodom,
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It was after these things
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That a bad case of believer's remorse set in.
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"after these things,
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The word of the lord came to abram in a vision, saying,
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'do not fear, abram.'"
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Why did he say, "do not fear"?
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Because apparently abraham was fearing.
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God looked down on his servant
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And saw him having these restless nights
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In which he tossed and turned.
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He said, "abram, don't be afraid."
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What was abraham afraid of?
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He was having believer's remorse
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For making the right decision.
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The first phrase describes what he was fearing, what if?
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What if, he began to wonder,
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"what if chedorlaomer isn't defeated,
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He's just simply regrouping
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And he's going to come and attack me again?"
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What if, what if, what if?
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Do you know nothing will paralyze you with fear any more
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Than that phrase, what if, what if?
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Play these mind games,
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What if this happens, what if this happen?
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One time i read an interesting study
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By dr. walter calvert that says
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Only 8% of the things we worry about actually ever happen.
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Did you know that? 8%.
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92% of the things
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That we stay awake at night worrying about never happen.
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Isn't that just like satan,
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To paralyze you with what if fear,
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Lies that never come true?
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John 8:44 says, jesus said, "satan is a liar,
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And he is the father of all lies."
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God says to abraham, "don't fear, i am your shield.
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I'm your shield, i'm your protector.
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You don't have to worry about chedorlaomer,
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I'm your protector."
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God says he's our hedge,
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He's built a hedge around every believer.
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You know, satan is a liar,
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But that doesn't mean everything he says is a lie.
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Sometimes even satan gets it right.
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Remember what he said about job in job 1:10?
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He said to god, "no wonder job worships you.
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Haven't you placed a hedge around him and his household
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And everything that is his?
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You're the protector of job,
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No wonder he worships you," satan says.
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And it was true,
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God had put a hedge around job and his family.
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But then god lowered the hedge,
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He gave satan temporary permission to go after job,
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But it was all still part of god's plan.
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Listen to me, that's the reason we don't have to fear.
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Proverbs 12:21 says,
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"no harm befalls the righteous."
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Now that's a lousy translation of the hebrew
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Because we know that's not true.
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No harm befalls the righteous?
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Lots of harm befalls righteous people,
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Terrible things happen to righteous people.
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But that's not what the hebrew text says.
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It literally says,
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"nothing without purpose happens to the godly."
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That is there is nothing that comes into your life
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That has not been allowed by a good, loving, perfect god.
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And if it's come through the will of god,
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It comes for your good and for the glory of god.
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Believers, don't fear, god is our shield.
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And then he goes on to say, "and i am your reward, abraham."
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Why did he say that?
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I think abraham not only had a case of the what ifs,
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But he was also suffering from the if only regrets.
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"did i really want to give up all that money,
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All that treasure?
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I could have done some good things with that money.
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If only i'd kept it,
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I could trade in my tent for a mansion in highland park.
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I could trade in this lousy chariot for a sodom sedan.
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I mean, i could have more.
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Maybe i made the wrong mistakes.
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What if i had kept this money?
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If only i'd kept it, i would be richer."
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What does god say?
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"abraham, i'm not only your shield, i am your reward."
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You know, the bible says in hebrews 11:6,
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"those who come to god must believe two things.
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That god is, and that he is a rewarder
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Of those who diligently follow him."
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There is a reward for obeying god.
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It doesn't always come immediately,
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But it always comes ultimately.
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A.w. tozer in his book "the knowledge of the holy" said,
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"the most important thing about us
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Is what comes into our mind when we think about god."
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When you think about god, what comes into your mind?
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Only those who think of god as their shield, their reward,
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Can avoid the regret and fears that come
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For making the right decisions.
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(music)
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This study on the life of abraham,
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Although an ancient story,
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Contains a wealth of practical insight
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That you can apply to your life today.
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And i'm urging you to stick with us
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For the remainder of the month
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As we study this remarkable man of faith.
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Now, in the time remaining today,
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I want to share a special note i received from beth.
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She wrote, "last year i discovered 'pathway to victory.'
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Since then, i've learned a lot
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About how to walk closer with jesus,
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To trust in him,
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And to live the way the bible says to.
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Right now, my family and i are going through a difficult
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And uncertain time.
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I routinely turn to 'pathway to victory'
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For reminders that god knows the trials we are facing.
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He is in control, and he has a purpose in it.
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Thank you and 'pathway to victory' for all that you do."
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Beth, i'm so glad that "pathway to victory"
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Is a blessing to you during this difficult time.
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Who supports "pathway to victory"
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Is our trust and faith in god.
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Is the one who bore the cost himself."
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Robert Jeffress - Refusing To Second Guess Your Right Decisions

May 20, 2025 | S25:E240

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