Dr. Tony Evans

Tony Evans - The Legacy of a Man

June 21, 2026 | 27:29

Dr. Tony Evans is known as a relevant expositor and is a pastor of pastors and a father in the faith.

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Dr. Tony Evans | Tony Evans - The Legacy of a Man | June 21, 2026

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Tony evans: god can change your yesterday,
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No matter how messed up it is,
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And give you a different tomorrow.
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I know you've had bad experiences
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And you've had sins and rebellion.
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Call yourself asher 'cause you got
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Some dysfunction in your history.
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But the good news is he shows up, in chapter 7,
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A brand-new man.
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So, your yesterday doesn't have to control your tomorrow.
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Tony: every responsible man here ought to have a will.
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A will is a legal document that says
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That what you have accumulated in your life,
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This is how you want it passed on
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To those that you leave behind.
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To not have a will is to say, "i want somebody else
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To determine where what i have been able to accumulate--
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The assets of my existence--
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I want somebody else to determine where they go,
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How they are distributed, and where they wind up."
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But a responsible man wants to be ahead of that
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And make the determination of where their assets
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Are to go.
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You see, to create a will is saying you are future-minded.
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You won't always be here.
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So, you're going to be thinking about tomorrow today
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In your financial, or asset, planning.
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Unfortunately, what many do not understand is
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That there are not only wills of physical assets,
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There are wills of spiritual assets--
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What you pass on generationally
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That has spiritual value attached to it.
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And, unfortunately, many men who don't even bother to pass on
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Physical assets
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Refuse to pass on spiritual assets--one or both--
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Because they're not future-minded.
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And as a result of not being future-minded,
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There is chaos in the future
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Because there was not clarity set forth in the present.
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The bible has a lot to say about legacy,
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About what is passed on to the next generation
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And beyond.
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In fact, proverbs chapter 13, verse 22 says,
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"a good man leaves an inheritance
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To his children's children."
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Translation, a bad man leaves no inheritance
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To his children's children.
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So, if there is no future planning,
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You cannot be dubbed a good man.
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Because a good man is not only thinking about
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What's happening with him today
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But what will happen on a three-generational level.
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He's concerned about today,
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He's concerned about his children,
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And then he's concerned about his children's children,
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His grandchildren.
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In judges chapter 2, verse 10, it says
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That "they grew up a generation who did not know joseph,
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Who did not know his god."
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And as a result, chaos ensued,
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And when you read the book of judges,
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You have a culture in perpetual chaos
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Because there was a transfer of the spiritual baton
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That did not occur.
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In fact, the book of judges says,
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"and every man did that which was right
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In his own eyes because there was no king
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In those days."
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There was no standard that had been passed on.
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Today, we live in a day of societal chaos.
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And that chaos can be rooted back to
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Men who refuse to build a spiritual legacy.
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Men who refuse to man up to god's requirement
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For biblical manhood.
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And like it or not, god starts withholding
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The man responsible for how the legacy works out,
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Or does not.
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And so, we're introduced in this passage of scripture
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To a man named asher.
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Asher.
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Let me tell you a little bit about asher.
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Verse 30 says, "asher had four sons and one daughter."
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Asher was the father of five children.
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And when we end the story of asher,
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As you'll see, he comes out pretty good.
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But he didn't start that way.
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You see, asher is the seventh son of jacob.
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He is the first son of zilpah, the seventh son of jacob.
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If he's the seventh son of jacob,
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That means he's been raised in a dysfunctional family.
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Because as far as jacob's family was concerned, papa was
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A rolling stone.
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Wherever he laid his hat was his home.
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Because jacob had 12 kids by four different women.
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Jacob created chaos in his family.
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Asher, the seventh son of jacob, participated with his brothers
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In putting joseph into the pit.
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So, he was part of the conniving group of siblings
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That wanted to ruin their brother's life.
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His daddy, jacob, was known as the trickster or deceiver.
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He knew how to game.
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And so, he played games all of his life,
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And that rolled over to his children.
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So, jacob the patriarch created havoc in his family
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Due to his deception.
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It rubbed off on his boys.
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His boys destroyed, or tried to destroy,
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One of their brothers.
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He wasn't raised in a good, healthy home environment.
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It wasn't the kind of environment
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That would have been inducive to an orderly family structure.
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There are men here-- and since he had a daughter--
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There are women here who have been raised
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In dysfunctional families.
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Your papa was a rolling stone.
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Wherever he laid his hat was his home.
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Or you grew up without a father,
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Or he might as well not been there as a father.
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And there was all kinds of dysfunction
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In the family that you grew up with.
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Perhaps there are siblings now you cannot relate to
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Because of the chaos in your home.
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Well, before you ever get to 1 chronicles chapter 7,
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That's asher.
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That's his history and his background.
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It's not a pretty one.
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It's not one to be proud of.
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But somewhere along the line, there was a transformation
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That occurred in the life of asher.
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Because when we read about him here in 1 corinthians chapter 7,
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We're gonna give you some good news.
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So, the good news that i wanna give all of us here today,
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Especially the men,
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But the principle applies to all of us,
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Is that your past doesn't have to determine your future;
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That no matter how messed up your yesterday was,
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Does not have to control what your tomorrow will be like;
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That you have an option to change your legacy;
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And that the legacy bequeathed to you
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Does not have to be the legacy you dispense to others--
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Whether it is your immediate family,
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Whether it's your siblings
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Or those who come under your influence.
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Such is the case
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With the change and transformation
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That took place in the life of asher.
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Well, let's go to verse 40.
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Because we'll see four things of asher's impact and his legacy
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That ought to be true of every man
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And every head of household who is here.
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"all these," verse 40 says, "were the sons of asher,
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Heads of the father's houses."
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Heads of the father's houses.
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His four boys became heads of houses.
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They became leaders in their family.
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Head of a house is a leader of a home.
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Whatever asher did when he got right
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So influenced his four boys that they were able to take up
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Responsible reins in their own families.
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It says that his sons became heads of households--
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That is, leaders within their home.
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That is, they were willing to own the responsibility
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For the family.
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The government's not supposed to raise your children,
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The neighborhood is not supposed to raise
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Your children;
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The father, in the bible, raises the children.
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Ephesians 6:4, "fathers, raise your children."
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The man has to own it.
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He raised his sons to be leaders,
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To be responsible.
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Headship is responsibility.
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Headship also involves direction.
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It involves direction.
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Whether it's a president or the head of a company
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Or the head of a church or whatever,
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Headship means you are casting a direction.
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So that people know which way we're going.
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If you're lost and you got folk following you,
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They're gonna be "lost-er."
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Since they don't know where you're going,
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They're either gonna follow you nowhere
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Or decide they don't wanna go nowhere,
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They'd rather go somewhere, so they create their own vision.
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To be ahead means that i wanna be
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In close proximity with god so that god can speak to me
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By his holy spirit and give me direction
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So that those following me will have a place to go.
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And if you do not have a divine perspective,
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All you see is what you see,
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Which means you won't see all there is to be seen.
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That if you're going to be god's head of household
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And raise the boys to be head of households.
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We have a generation of men
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Who've abandoned their households,
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Forcing the women to be head of households.
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Because they refuse to be-- or even if they are,
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They do not take the spiritual responsibility.
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But this is not a popularity contest.
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This is a responsibility.
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A biblical headship is a responsibility
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That you take on, that you own
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Because you have been placed there.
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We live in a day of male abandonment,
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Where men are increasingly refusing to own it.
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Maybe it's because your father didn't own it.
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Maybe it's because your mother was domineering.
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Maybe it's because of negative influences in the culture.
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Whatever the reason is, it's time to come back home to god.
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Asher turned that thing around,
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And whatever caused him to turn it around--
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Because we know the boys got right at the end.
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Whatever caused him to turn it around--
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That must mean that you must now be willing to accept
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A passionate purpose.
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So, you gotta get excited about your role.
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You don't just live in it;
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You got to get fire up under you.
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See a space shuttle is on a launching pad.
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That's mean it's sitting there trying to go somewhere.
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It's supposed to shoot up in outer space.
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But right now it's just sitting.
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And the reason it's been sitting
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Is because it ain't--there's no fire up under it yet.
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It hasn't been-- the fuel hasn't been ignited
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To send it off the pad to accomplish its space mission.
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We got too many men on the pad, just sitting there,
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Talking about, "i'm the head."
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What god wants to do is light the fire
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So that you take off and go somewhere.
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That means you must become fired up
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About your headship,
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In a responsible, loving, and appropriate way.
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So, asher recovered in some way,
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And he raised his sons to be heads of households
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With fire and vision.
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If you're gonna be the head, you just can't see the acorn,
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You gotta look at the oak.
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You gotta see bigger than what is.
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Yeah, things are not looking good,
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But me and god gotta get together
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And we gotta find out how he wants us to fix this,
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Correct this, straighten this, reorient this, why?
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Because you just said you're the man.
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You said you're the man?
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Well, if you're the man, you got to man up--
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In a responsible, biblical way.
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The second thing we find out about asher's sons
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Is he calls them choice men.
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Choice men.
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That means cream of the crop. choice men.
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They weren't run-of-the-mill guys.
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Somehow in this turnaround he said, "my boys are not gonna be
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Like everybody else's sons.
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And my boys are not gonna just run with the crowd.
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I'm gonna raise up some excellent, choice,
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Cream-of-the-crop boys, with one daughter.
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I'm gonna raise them up to be
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The men that god has created them to be.
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I'm not gonna let them settle.
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I'm not gonna let the boys settle.
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They're not gonna be just like everybody else.
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They're not gonna come in here talking about
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What my friends say if their friends are wrong.
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I'm not gonna let them hang out with anybody.
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Because they're gonna be excellent,
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Which means i'm gonna give 'em a standard to shoot for.
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I ain't gonna let social media,
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I'm not gonna let twitter, i'm not gonna let instagram,
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I'm not gonna let facebook set my kids' standard.
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I'm gonna raise some choice boys up in here, up in here.
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There's gonna be a divine standard
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That i give them, that i wanna model before them,
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That i wanna teach them, that i wanna expose them to."
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He says his boys became choice boys.
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High character, high integrity, high standards.
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Now, we know we have many single parents.
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And you have been given a double duty.
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And we value you, we appreciate you.
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But we can never allow that to get men off the hook
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For the fathers that they sire that they now have abandoned.
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If they're not paying their bills, take them to court.
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They still have a responsibility to the kids.
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You didn't get pregnant by yourself.
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And so, he wanted to raise them to be how--
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Expose your kids, especially your boys
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To men of high standards
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If they don't have one in the home.
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Men who will lead them in the right way--
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Not perfect men, but men who are moving right,
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Who are not mediocre.
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We got a generation of young people today
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Whose consciences don't beep.
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That's because nobody set 'em.
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It is the head of the household's job
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To set the conscience.
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For that must be established the divine standard,
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And walking them through the struggles of that.
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But you don't change the standard.
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You administer the standard with love and with compassion.
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There are two extremes out here.
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One is to be so compassionate there is no standard.
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The other extreme is to have the standard
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Without showing compassion.
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And the idea is to compassionately move
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To meet the standard.
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But you don't dumb down god to make folk happy.
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You love folk to god.
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And so, yes, there are challenges.
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Yes, our kids are struggling.
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And now they're exposed to stuff you don't even know about,
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Because they're carrying around a phone,
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Which gives them access to the whole world,
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And you can't control that.
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So, since you can't control that,
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You better be using every opportunity you can
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To set the standard,
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So that there is a beeper that goes off.
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Because you want choice men, not mediocre.
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Those who want to excel godward
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In whatever areas god allows them to progress in.
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The third thing it says about asher's sons
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He speaks in particularly of--
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He says, "they were mighty men," in verse 40.
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Mighty men.
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They were raised to be warriors.
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Mighty men,
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Not mediocre man.
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These are some mighty dudes.
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They were raised to be warriors.
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So, you have to understand we're in spiritual warfare here.
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We're in a war.
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You now have to fight for your kids.
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You have to go to war.
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You and i live in a post-christian era.
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It's called postmodernism,
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Where the absolute standards of right and wrong
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No longer apply.
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So, people are making up their own rules as they go along
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Of what's right and wrong.
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So, you better not just send them out to play with anybody.
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You do have to watch what they're being taught
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In school.
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They used to be taught creation as an option.
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Now, in many schools, they're taught only
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Evolution as a fact.
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You take them before the throne of grace.
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You take them-- you have devotions with them.
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You pray over them. go to war.
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Because the devil is going to war for 'em.
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He says he raised his sons to be warriors,
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To fight for that which was right.
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And then he says, fourthly, he raised them to be mentors,
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Because he says, "heads of the princes."
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He raised them to be mentors.
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You see a prince is a king in waiting.
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God can change your yesterday, no matter how messed up it is,
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And give you a different tomorrow.
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I know your daddy wasn't there
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Or he was a bad daddy that was there.
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I know you've had bad experiences
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And you've had sins and rebellion.
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I know all that, but then all you are
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Is just give yourself a name, call yourself asher.
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Because you got some dysfunction in your history.
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But the good news is he shows up in chapter 7, of 1 chronicles,
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A brand-new man.
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So, your yesterday doesn't have to control your tomorrow.
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Because look at how this thing closes.
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It says at the end of verse 40,
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"and the number of them enrolled by genealogy
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For service in war was twenty-six thousand men."
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Oh wait a minute now.
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We started off with one man, four sons, and one daughter.
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But the time--by the time this man got through,
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He got 26,000 in his legacy that are ready to go to war.
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See, you just can't be thinking about you.
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You gotta be thinking about the generations behind you,
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And you got to build yourself an army,
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An army of men and women.
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That meant women were in it
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Because more boys were being born.
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And so, you got to build yourself an army.
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The problem is satan has been building his army
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While god's army has been shrinking.
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So, we got to build an army, 26,000 men.
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You gotta have a bunch of folk
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Who take a stand with god and with one another.
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So, what god is looking for are men who wanna recover,
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Men who wanna get back the dignity
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That god created you with,
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Who wanna fulfill the role that god has given you.
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In super bowl xliii when santonio holmes
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Caught the pass that won the super bowl, don't forget,
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One minute earlier, he had dropped the ball.
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Ben roethlisberger threw him the ball,
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And he dropped it.
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But then ben roethlisberger called him back and said,
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"i'm gonna throw it to you again and this time don't drop it."
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So, if you've dropped it yesterday,
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You got kids you don't live with,
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Kids you're sorry that you don't talk to,
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Grandkids that you don't know, okay, you dropped the ball,
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But god's ready to throw you another pass.
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And now you gotta be willing to catch the ball
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And move from here.
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You say, "but i wonder whether it's too late."
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Well, no, it can't be too late,
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Because in hebrews chapter 11, verse 21,
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It says that, "jacob, even with his grandchildren,
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Recovered because he blessed his grandchildren
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While he leaned on his staff just before he died."
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So, if it's too late with your kids,
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Get your grandkids so that you reach them
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And impact them for time and eternity.
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A father who went to his son one day
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And he said, "boy, you've been a great boy.
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I'm proud of you,
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And i wanna do anything you want me to do for you.
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What do you want?"
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The boy thought for a moment.
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He said, "daddy, here's what i want.
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I want you to take me to the zoo.
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I wanna go to the zoo."
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He said, "well, you wanna go to the zoo?"
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"yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, uh,
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Daddy, that's what i really wanna do."
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He says, "okay, let's go to the zoo."
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He said, "dad, can i bring a few friends?"
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And dad said, "that's fine." he came back with ten friends.
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"there are ten guys?"
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He said, "yeah, dad, these are all my buddies.
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Take us all to the zoo."
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So, he put them in the van, and they all went to the zoo.
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For two hours, they went around looking at all the cages
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And the birds and the reptiles and all of that.
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They had a fun time at the zoo.
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It's time now to leave the zoo.
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On their way out to the zoo, the little boy looks up
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And he says, "daddy, daddy!"
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"what, son?" "they're giving elephant rides."
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Sure enough, over to the side
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Was an elephant man giving rides on his elephant.
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He said, "daddy, please for a ride.
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I wanna ride on the elephant."
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He said, "well, if we-- you know, it's hot out here.
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We've been out here a long time."
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He says, "please, please, please, please, please,
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Daddy, please, daddy, please, daddy,
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Let me ride the elephant."
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He says, "okay, let me see how much this costs."
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He went over to the guy and he says,
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"how much for an elephant ride?"
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"oh," he says, "it's $20 a ride."
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Father said, "let's go.
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Time is up. we got to go."
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The boy said, "oh, daddy, please, please,
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Please, please, please, i really wanna ride the elephant."
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He said, "i know you wanna ride the elephant,
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Son, but it's $20 a ride.
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There's ten of you. that's $200.
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That's too much money to ride the elephant,
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So we gotta go."
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"daddy, i don't think you understand.
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Look, daddy, it's an elephant."
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"i know it's an elephant, son, but it's $20-a-ride elephant,
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And that's just too much money."
00:26:38.479 --> 00:26:40.581
"daddy, i don't think you're paying attention.
00:26:40.581 --> 00:26:43.851
Look at that, daddy.
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Look at that, daddy. it's an elephant."
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"i know it's an elephant, but it costs too much
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To ride the elephant!"
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"daddy, i don't think you're listening to me,
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And i don't think you're looking.
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Look, daddy, it's an elephant!"
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Ladies and gentlemen, brothers and sisters,
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This problem is so big
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Don't look about the cost of your time.
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Don't look about the cost of your energy.
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This problem is so big we need some men
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Who are willing to pay the price
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In order for the next generation to get a ride.
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Tony Evans - The Legacy of a Man

June 21, 2026 | 27:29

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