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Harvest with Pastor Greg Laurie | Greg Laurie - Happiness: Upside Down Living | July 1, 2026
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- Greg laurie: there's a simple acronym you can use
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- To sum it up: j-o-y.
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- J is for jesus, o is for others, y is for yourself.
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- You want to live a happy life?
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- You want to live a joyful life?
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- Jesus, others, yourself.
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- ♪ this is the day, ♪
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- ♪ the day when life begins. ♪
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- ♪ this is the day, ♪
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- ♪ the day when life begins. ♪♪
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- Greg: we're looking at the book of philippians together,
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- And as i pointed out earlier, the theme of
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- This book is happiness.
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- Now, if you're going to go to the culture and say,
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- "how can i be a happy person?"
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- The answer would in so many words be,
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- "be a selfish person.
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- Focus on yourself.
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- Love yourself.
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- Think about yourself.
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- Esteem yourself."
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- It's all about self, and the bible gives a different answer.
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- The bible, in effect, to loosely paraphrase,
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- Tells us if we want to be happy we should not be selfish,
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- But rather it tells us if we want to be happy we need to be
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- Selfless, and that certainly bubbles up here
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- In philippians chapter 2.
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- Jesus said it is more blessed or happy to give
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- Than it is to receive.
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- Well, we think, "no, it's more happy to get stuff
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- Than it is to give stuff."
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- No, the opposite is the case according to jesus
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- And the rest of the bible.
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- True fulfillment does not come by putting our needs first,
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- But it comes by putting the needs of others first,
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- And that's why i've called this message "upside down living"
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- Because that flies in the face of conventional wisdom today.
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- The bible teaches the way to happiness is sadness.
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- Does that seem strange?
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- Well, it's actually what jesus said.
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- He said, "blessed are they that mourn,
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- For they shall be comforted."
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- Another way you could translate it, because remember,
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- Whenever you see the word blessed in the bible,
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- It can be interchanged with the word happy.
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- So in effect, jesus is saying happy are the unhappy.
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- How could that be?
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- Well, you see, when i come before god and i see myself as i
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- Really am and i'm thus unhappy, i mourn over my sinful condition
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- And then i turn from my sins and put my trust in christ,
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- I will find the true happiness that comes from the forgiveness
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- Of sins because the bible says happy is the man or the woman
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- Whose sins are forgiven.
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- And this is so different than what culture tells us,
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- But a lot of people are figuring this out.
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- You've probably heard of stephen king,
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- Very successful author.
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- I don't know if you're aware of this, but
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- He had a serious automobile accident a number of years ago.
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- So he wrote an article about it, and the title of the article was
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- "you can't take it with you."
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- Excuse me, the name of the--title of the article
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- Is "what you can pass on," and this is what he says
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- In the article, and i'm quoting.
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- This is stephen king speaking about his experience.
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- "a couple of years ago, i found out what you can't
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- Take it with you means.
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- I found out while i was lying in a ditch at the side of a country
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- Road covered in mud and blood, with a tibia of my right leg
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- Pointing out the side of my jeans like a branch of a tree
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- Taken down in a thunderstorm.
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- I had a mastercard in my wallet, but when you're lying in a ditch
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- With broken glass in your hair, no one accepts mastercard."
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- King continues, "i got a painful but extremely valuable look at
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- Life's backstage truths.
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- We come in naked and broke.
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- We may be dressed when we go out,
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- But we're just as broke.
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- Warren buffett, he's going to go out broke.
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- Bill gates, going out broke.
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- Tom hanks," king continues to write, "going out broke.
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- Steve king broke, not a crying dime.
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- All of the money you earn, all the stocks you buy,
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- All the mutual funds you trade; all of this
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- Is mostly smoke and mirrors.
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- It's still going to be quarter past getting late whether you
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- Tell the time on a timex or a rolex.
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- No matter how large your bank account,
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- No matter how many credit cards you have,
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- Sooner or later things will begin to go wrong,
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- With the only things you have that you can really call your
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- Own: your body, your spirit, and your mind.
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- So i want you to consider making your life one long gift to
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- Others," king writes, "and why not.
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- All you have is on loan anyway.
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- All that lasts is what you pass on."
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- Then he concludes, "so i ask you to begin giving
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- And continue as you began.
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- I think you'll find in the end you got far more than you ever
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- Had and did more good than you had ever dreamed," end quote.
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- Wow, that's amazing conclusions.
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- I don't know that stephen king believes in
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- Jesus christ, but i'll say this, he has certainly landed on
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- Some important biblical principles that tell
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- Us that it's not about us.
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- The world does not revolve around us,
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- And if we try to make it revolve around us, we
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- Will be very unhappy people.
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- So it's about others, putting others first.
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- But this isn't so easy, is it?
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- Because, well, there are people that just irritate us or we
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- Don't like to be around them, and sometimes that's our
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- Husband or our wife or our parents
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- Or our kids or coworkers or people we're around a lot.
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- And we say, "these people are so irritating."
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- Newsflash, did it ever occur to you that you are an irritating
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- Person to someone else?
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- I guarantee it's true.
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- I'm sure i'm an irritating person to quite a few people.
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- And so that's something we need to understand,
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- That, you know, there are people that we're not going to
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- Necessarily be drawn to, but at the same time, we are to love
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- Them, especially if they're in the church because we are all
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- Part of the family of god.
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- So here's what the apostle paul is saying here in philippians.
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- He's saying you need a new paradigm,
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- You need a new way of thinking, and here it is.
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- Let's read about it.
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- Philippians chapter 2, starting in verse 1, paul writes,
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- "therefore if there's any consolation in christ,
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- If any comfort of love, if any fellowship of the spirit,
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- If any affection and mercy, fulfill my joy that you be
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- Like-minded; having the same love,
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- Being of one accord, of one mind.
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- Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit,
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- But in lowliness of mind let each esteem
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- Others better than themselves.
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- Let each of you look out not only for his own interests but
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- For the interests of others."
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- We'll stop there.
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- Here are the words of paul from a modern translation,
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- Same verses.
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- "don't push your way to the front,
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- Don't sweet talk your way to the top.
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- Put yourself aside and help others get ahead.
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- Don't be obsessed with getting your own advantage.
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- Forget yourselves long enough to lend a helping hand."
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- Are you kidding me?
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- If you live this way, it'll change
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- Everything about your life.
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- You see, the--'cause the culture does not say this,
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- And if we go back historically, this is not what
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- We learn from even civilizations.
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- I mean, if you look at all the great kingdoms of the world that
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- Have come and gone, everything is always about self.
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- Greece effectively said, "be wise.
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- Know yourself."
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- Rome said, "be strong.
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- Discipline yourself."
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- Epicureanism, which is the pursuit of pleasure,
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- Says, "be sensuous.
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- Enjoy yourself."
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- Education says, "be resourceful.
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- Educate yourself."
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- Psychology says, "be confident.
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- Assert yourself."
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- Materialism says, "be possessive.
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- Please yourself."
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- Humanism says, "be capable.
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- Believe in yourself."
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- Pride says, "be superior.
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- Promote yourself."
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- Jesus christ says, "be unselfish.
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- Humble yourself."
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- "humble myself?
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- That seems like a recipe for disaster in the world today."
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- In fact, when we think of humility and meekness,
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- We don't think of those as virtues,
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- We think of those as deficiencies.
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- But yet did not jesus say, "blessed are the meek,
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- For they shall inherit the earth?"
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- And christ said of himself, "i am meek and lowly in heart,
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- So come unto me."
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- But you need to understand there's a big difference between
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- Weakness and meekness.
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- Let's say that somebody hits you in the face and you don't hit
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- Them back, and the reason you don't hit them back is because
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- You're weak and you're afraid.
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- But let's say that you're trained in mixed martial arts
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- And you're quite a street fighter and somebody hits you in
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- The face and you don't hit them back.
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- That's not weakness, that's meekness.
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- See, meekness is power under constraint.
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- When someone gets on the back of a stallion and rides it at full
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- Speed and then pulls back on the reins and the horse stops,
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- That horse is being meek.
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- It's submitting itself to the will of the rider.
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- It has the strength to go on, but it submits.
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- So when i'm being meek it doesn't mean i'm weak;
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- It means that i'm submitting myself to god,
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- And that is how i am to live as a believer.
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- God is saying you want real happiness and genuine success,
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- Then put jesus first and others second.
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- In fact, there's a simple acronym you can use
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- To sum it up: j-o-y.
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- J is for jesus, o is for others, y is for yourself.
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- You want to live a happy life?
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- You want to live a joyful life?
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- Jesus, others, yourself.
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- Here it is simplified.
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- Following jesus and loving others.
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- Following jesus and loving others.
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- What did jesus say?
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- He said if you love the lord your god with all of your heart,
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- Soul, and your mind and love your neighbor as yourself,
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- You fulfill all of the commandments.
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- See, it's just so simple if we would focus on that,
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- But a lot of the times we're not focusing on that.
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- We're not putting jesus first, we're putting ourself first,
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- And as a result, we find ourselves depressed.
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- Listen, if you find yourself down on the doldrums as a
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- Christian, if you find yourself depressed,
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- I have a ten-step solution to depression.
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- So if you're taking notes, write this down.
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- Ten steps to get rid of your depression.
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- Are you ready?
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- Step number one, do something for someone
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- Who has greater needs than you.
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- Do something for someone who has greater needs than you.
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- Go to a convalescent home and visit someone
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- Who's staying there.
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- Go to skid row on one of our missions and reach out to people
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- That are literally living on the street.
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- Go to someone with a need.
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- Go to someone who has a greater need than you.
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- That's step number one. okay, here's step number two.
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- Repeat step number one nine more times.
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- Now, listen, i'm not dismissing clinical depression.
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- I know that can be very real.
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- But i'm just talking about that general kind of depression we
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- Can find ourselves in that, frankly, is sometimes a result
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- Of just being selfish.
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- And instead of being selfish, try being selfless.
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- In other words, stop thinking so much about yourself.
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- Proverbs 11:25 says, "those that refresh others
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- Will be refreshed themselves."
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- Greg: you know, i've heard people say,
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- "oh, it's so hard to be a christian.
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- I tried and i failed."
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- Let me say something that might surprise you.
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- It's not hard to be a christian, it's impossible without
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- The help of the holy spirit.
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- See, with god all things are possible.
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- He can give me the strength and the power to live the life he
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- Has called us to live.
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- Apart from him, the bible says, i can do nothing.
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- Jesus said that.
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- But then scripture also tells me, paul speaking, i can do
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- All things through christ who strengthens me.
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- So stop trying to live the christian life
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- In your own power.
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- Stop trying to do it in your own strength and instead say,
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- "lord, i need your help each and every day."
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- Greg: all right, so let's identify some key points here
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- From philippians chapter 2.
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- If you're taking notes, write this down.
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- Never let selfishness or conceit be your motive.
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- Again, never let selfishness or conceit be your motive.
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- Look at verse 3, "let nothing be done through
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- Selfish ambition or conceit."
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- As the new living translation puts it, "don't be selfish.
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- Don't live to make a good impression on others."
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- So first i start with self, and it's interesting.
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- Before anything else is said, paul sort of drills down on this
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- Because the love of self is probably at the root of maybe
- 00:14:20.558 --> 00:14:26.898
- All of my problems, but if not all, certainly most of them
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- Because we want our own way.
- 00:14:31.502 --> 00:14:34.706
- James puts it this way in james 4:1 to 2: "where do you think
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- All these appalling wars and quarrels come from?
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- Do you think they just happen?
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- Think again.
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- They come about because you want your own way and you fight for
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- It deep inside yourselves."
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- You want your own way, and by the way, this goes way,
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- Way back to our earliest days as a kid.
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- When my granddaughter stella was a very little girl, i remember i
- 00:14:58.396 --> 00:15:02.333
- Took her to a toy store once, and they had a little dollhouse
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- Set up on a small table, low to the ground
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- That the kids could access.
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- So, you know, the house had little bits of furniture and
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- Dolls and such, and she went over and started organizing it
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- And putting the little figures in the chairs.
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- I thought it's so cute.
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- Girls are so--you know, they love to do things like that.
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- And i'm just watching in amazement,
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- And i'm thinking this out to myself: "girls are so good.
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- They're just so good.
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- Look at her with the little dollhouse."
- 00:15:33.131 --> 00:15:35.033
- And suddenly a man comes walking in with a little boy about the
- 00:15:35.033 --> 00:15:38.836
- Age of stella and, i'm not making this up,
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- This boy was on a leash.
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- He had some kind of a harness around the boy,
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- Some kind of a thing he was wearing,
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- And a leash attached to it, and the boy would move and he'd
- 00:15:48.379 --> 00:15:50.348
- Pull the boy back, and i looked, i thought, "that's so cruel.
- 00:15:50.348 --> 00:15:53.451
- Poor little boy."
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- But suddenly here's stella, who has just set up this little
- 00:15:54.786 --> 00:15:57.822
- Dollhouse so perfectly, so meticulous in details,
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- And this boy is lunging at the dollhouse.
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- He wants to destroy it, and the man is pulling on the leash and
- 00:16:05.830 --> 00:16:09.434
- I'm thinking, "put that leash harder."
- 00:16:09.434 --> 00:16:11.469
- And i just thought to myself, "you know what?
- 00:16:11.469 --> 00:16:13.304
- Boys are bad, and girls are good."
- 00:16:13.304 --> 00:16:17.709
- Well, a couple of days later, we were with stella and her parents
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- And the--some folks came over, and they
- 00:16:23.214 --> 00:16:26.084
- Had their little child with them.
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- Actually, it was more of a little toddler baby.
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- So little younger than stella.
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- And the little baby reached up on a little table to grab some
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- Toy and stella took the baby's hand and pushed it away.
- 00:16:35.560 --> 00:16:39.297
- And i thought, "oh, no.
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- Girls are bad, too, hmm."
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- Yeah, we're all bad.
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- We're bad to the bone.
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- We're sinners, and we're selfish.
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- I mean, think of all the problems we
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- Have in our culture today.
- 00:16:52.443 --> 00:16:54.278
- Think of immorality as an example.
- 00:16:54.278 --> 00:16:57.348
- Why do people have sex before marriage?
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- Selfishness.
- 00:16:59.717 --> 00:17:01.285
- Why do they commit adultery?
- 00:17:01.285 --> 00:17:03.154
- Again, selfishness.
- 00:17:03.154 --> 00:17:05.256
- Why do most marriages fall apart?
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- If i had to pick one word to sum it up, selfishness.
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- Oh yeah, we could talk about communication breakdown and we
- 00:17:11.329 --> 00:17:14.866
- Could talk about financial disagreements,
- 00:17:14.866 --> 00:17:17.168
- But really, if you get to the bottom line, it's selfishness.
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- "i want that person to do what i want them to do."
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- We won't put that person first.
- 00:17:25.743 --> 00:17:27.478
- We want to put ourself first.
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- Talking about immorality, look at all
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- The unwanted pregnancies today.
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- And what do so many do?
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- They go and get an abortion.
- 00:17:36.721 --> 00:17:38.556
- What's more selfish than that?
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- Since the passing of roe v. wade in the early '70s,
- 00:17:41.092 --> 00:17:44.462
- Listen to this, 58 million babies have been aborted.
- 00:17:44.462 --> 00:17:51.169
- Let me put it more clearly.
- 00:17:51.169 --> 00:17:55.139
- Fifty-eight million unborn children have been murdered in
- 00:17:55.139 --> 00:18:00.211
- The womb, and to me this is a travesty.
- 00:18:00.211 --> 00:18:03.815
- But it's selfishness.
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- Selfishness, it is at the root of so many problems
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- Where it's all about me.
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- Point number two, always regard others as
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- More important than yourself.
- 00:18:16.327 --> 00:18:19.630
- Again, look at verse 3.
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- "in lowliness of mind, let each esteem others
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- Better than themselves."
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- Always regard others as more important than yourself.
- 00:18:26.204 --> 00:18:30.608
- Now, by the way, this is important
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- Because it speaks of thinking.
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- Thinking of others as better than yourself,
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- And the word that paul uses here for thinking is from a verb that
- 00:18:38.716 --> 00:18:42.687
- Means more than just having an opinion.
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- It refers to a carefully thought-out conclusion
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- Based on the truth.
- 00:18:48.626 --> 00:18:51.095
- So here's what it's saying.
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- Don't just pretend others are more important than you,
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- Actually believe they're more important than you because they
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- Are more important than you.
- 00:19:04.242 --> 00:19:07.578
- I mean, what do we get off thinking we're
- 00:19:07.578 --> 00:19:09.847
- Better than somebody else?
- 00:19:09.847 --> 00:19:11.849
- Think about the thoughts that go through our minds,
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- The evil thoughts, the horrible things.
- 00:19:16.220 --> 00:19:18.756
- You know, if you want to know how to best consider someone
- 00:19:18.756 --> 00:19:22.426
- Above yourself, just take a hard look at yourself,
- 00:19:22.426 --> 00:19:26.030
- Consider your own sins.
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- I mean, really knowing this about ourselves,
- 00:19:29.066 --> 00:19:31.903
- How can we be so hard on others?
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- Jeremiah 17:9, "the human heart is so desperate,
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- And it's so deceitful and wicked.
- 00:19:40.178 --> 00:19:43.181
- Who really knows how bad it is?"
- 00:19:43.181 --> 00:19:46.717
- The great evangelist d.l. moody once said,
- 00:19:46.717 --> 00:19:48.986
- Quote, "i have more trouble with d.l. moody than
- 00:19:48.986 --> 00:19:52.123
- Any other man i know," end quote.
- 00:19:52.123 --> 00:19:55.092
- That's true.
- 00:19:55.092 --> 00:19:56.427
- I have more trouble with greg laurie than any man i know.
- 00:19:56.427 --> 00:19:59.964
- Honestly, our thinking about others all of the time,
- 00:19:59.964 --> 00:20:03.901
- But here's the super cool thing about that.
- 00:20:03.901 --> 00:20:06.571
- The fringe benefit is happiness.
- 00:20:06.571 --> 00:20:09.941
- It seems like, "no, think about yourself.
- 00:20:09.941 --> 00:20:11.842
- Make the world revolve around yourself.
- 00:20:11.842 --> 00:20:13.544
- Only indulge yourself."
- 00:20:13.544 --> 00:20:15.313
- That leads to unhappiness and misery and depression.
- 00:20:15.313 --> 00:20:18.749
- But when you put others first and you think about them as
- 00:20:18.749 --> 00:20:21.719
- Above you because you realize they are above you,
- 00:20:21.719 --> 00:20:26.490
- Suddenly you find yourself a happy person as a result.
- 00:20:26.490 --> 00:20:29.694
- Isn't that interesting? it's upside-down living.
- 00:20:29.694 --> 00:20:32.597
- The way to happiness is sadness.
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- The way to up is down.
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- Point number three, don't limit your attention
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- To your own personal interests.
- 00:20:43.107 --> 00:20:46.244
- Again, don't limit your attention
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- To your own personal interests.
- 00:20:48.646 --> 00:20:50.381
- Look at verse 4.
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- It says, "look out not only for your own interests but for the
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- Interests of others."
- 00:20:56.420 --> 00:20:57.922
- Notice it says look out not only for your own interests.
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- You know, you do need to look out for
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- Some of your own interests.
- 00:21:03.127 --> 00:21:05.730
- Hey, we want you to look out for your own interests.
- 00:21:05.730 --> 00:21:08.799
- We want you to take a shower.
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- We want you to pay your bills.
- 00:21:11.569 --> 00:21:15.172
- We want you to be a respectable member of society,
- 00:21:15.172 --> 00:21:20.511
- But for some people that's so hard because they're so
- 00:21:20.511 --> 00:21:22.680
- Self-absorbed all they want to do is think about themself
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- And talk about themself.
- 00:21:25.950 --> 00:21:27.952
- As benjamin disraeli once said, quote, "talk to a man
- 00:21:27.952 --> 00:21:31.455
- About himself and he'll listen for hours," end quote.
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- So this is a tall order admittedly,
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- And it's not easy for me, and it's not easy for anyone.
- 00:21:38.896 --> 00:21:42.433
- So how do we do this?
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- Well, we need an example, and we need more than an example.
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- We need help.
- 00:21:47.104 --> 00:21:48.439
- Who is the greatest example of selflessness and sacrifice?
- 00:21:48.439 --> 00:21:53.377
- It's jesus christ. let's read about that now.
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- Go to philippians 2, look at verse 5.
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- "let this mind be in you which was also in christ jesus,
- 00:21:58.849 --> 00:22:02.953
- Who being in the form of god, did not consider it robbery to
- 00:22:02.953 --> 00:22:06.157
- Be equal with god but made himself of no reputation."
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- Underline that phrase, if you would.
- 00:22:10.528 --> 00:22:12.396
- "taking the form of a bondservant and coming
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- In the likeness of men.
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- And being found in appearance as a man,
- 00:22:17.068 --> 00:22:19.537
- He humbled himself and became obedient to the point of death,
- 00:22:19.537 --> 00:22:22.807
- Even the death of the cross."
- 00:22:22.807 --> 00:22:24.842
- Verse 9, "therefore god has highly exalted him and given him
- 00:22:24.842 --> 00:22:29.580
- The name that is above every name;
- 00:22:29.580 --> 00:22:32.983
- That at the name of jesus every knee will bow of those in heaven
- 00:22:32.983 --> 00:22:36.220
- And those on earth and those under the earth,
- 00:22:36.220 --> 00:22:38.823
- And every tongue will confess that jesus christ is lord to the
- 00:22:38.823 --> 00:22:43.294
- Glory of god the father."
- 00:22:43.294 --> 00:22:45.863
- So here's the example now.
- 00:22:45.863 --> 00:22:47.531
- When jesus walked this earth, he was tired like any man.
- 00:22:47.531 --> 00:22:50.134
- Remember when he fell asleep in the lower part of the boat?
- 00:22:50.134 --> 00:22:53.637
- Listen, he felt sorrow like any man.
- 00:22:53.637 --> 00:22:56.440
- At the tomb of lazarus, we read that jesus wept.
- 00:22:56.440 --> 00:23:00.378
- And i bring this up because sometimes we might say,
- 00:23:00.378 --> 00:23:02.947
- "well, god doesn't know what it's like
- 00:23:02.947 --> 00:23:05.683
- To live in this earth."
- 00:23:05.683 --> 00:23:07.318
- Are you going through hardship right now?
- 00:23:07.318 --> 00:23:09.820
- Maybe you've been abandoned by friends or even family and you
- 00:23:09.820 --> 00:23:14.125
- Say, "god doesn't know what it's like."
- 00:23:14.125 --> 00:23:15.960
- He knows exactly what it's like.
- 00:23:15.960 --> 00:23:18.362
- Jesus was the loneliest man who ever lived because when he hung
- 00:23:18.362 --> 00:23:22.333
- There on the cross and the sin of the world was placed upon him
- 00:23:22.333 --> 00:23:25.903
- Who had never sinned in any way, shape,
- 00:23:25.903 --> 00:23:28.739
- Or form and--jesus cried out, "my god,
- 00:23:28.739 --> 00:23:31.809
- My god, why have you forsaken me," there's never been a
- 00:23:31.809 --> 00:23:34.779
- Lonelier man when even the father momentarily turned his
- 00:23:34.779 --> 00:23:38.215
- Face away from the son.
- 00:23:38.215 --> 00:23:40.384
- So you have a friend in high places.
- 00:23:40.384 --> 00:23:44.288
- You have someone that understands what
- 00:23:44.288 --> 00:23:46.991
- You're going through right now.
- 00:23:46.991 --> 00:23:50.227
- Greg: maybe god has spoken to your heart and you have seen
- 00:23:54.365 --> 00:23:58.602
- Your need for jesus christ.
- 00:23:58.602 --> 00:24:00.704
- Jesus christ is the son of god who came
- 00:24:00.704 --> 00:24:04.074
- From heaven to this earth.
- 00:24:04.074 --> 00:24:06.210
- He was born in a manger.
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- He died in a cross.
- 00:24:08.345 --> 00:24:09.980
- He rose again from the dead. why?
- 00:24:09.980 --> 00:24:12.082
- Because he loves you and he wants a relationship with you.
- 00:24:12.082 --> 00:24:15.486
- Listen, i'm not talking about religion.
- 00:24:15.486 --> 00:24:17.621
- I don't want to be a religious person.
- 00:24:17.621 --> 00:24:19.557
- I don't think you want to be one either.
- 00:24:19.557 --> 00:24:21.459
- I'm talking about relationship with god.
- 00:24:21.459 --> 00:24:25.029
- Jesus, who died and rose again, stands at the door of your life
- 00:24:25.029 --> 00:24:29.467
- And he knocks, and he says if you'll hear his voice and open
- 00:24:29.467 --> 00:24:32.736
- The door, he will come in.
- 00:24:32.736 --> 00:24:34.371
- Question, have you asked jesus christ to come
- 00:24:34.371 --> 00:24:37.141
- And live inside of you?
- 00:24:37.141 --> 00:24:38.742
- You might say, "well, i think so, i'm not sure."
- 00:24:38.742 --> 00:24:40.778
- Hey, if someone moved into your house in the middle of the
- 00:24:40.778 --> 00:24:43.280
- Night, do you think you would be aware of it?
- 00:24:43.280 --> 00:24:46.016
- I'm sure you would.
- 00:24:46.016 --> 00:24:47.618
- And in the same way, if christ has come to live inside of you,
- 00:24:47.618 --> 00:24:50.721
- You will know, and if you don't know, maybe he
- 00:24:50.721 --> 00:24:54.058
- Has not come in yet.
- 00:24:54.058 --> 00:24:55.526
- He's just a prayer away.
- 00:24:55.526 --> 00:24:57.328
- All you need to do is say, "jesus,
- 00:24:57.328 --> 00:24:59.330
- I want this relationship with you.
- 00:24:59.330 --> 00:25:01.298
- I want you to forgive me of my sin.
- 00:25:01.298 --> 00:25:03.601
- I want to go to heaven when i die."
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- Would you like to do that?
- 00:25:05.769 --> 00:25:07.137
- Would you like christ to come into your life?
- 00:25:07.137 --> 00:25:09.406
- If so, why don't you just pray this simple prayer with me?
- 00:25:09.406 --> 00:25:12.776
- You could pray it out loud or you can pray it in the quietness
- 00:25:12.776 --> 00:25:16.247
- Of your heart, but this is a prayer where you're asking jesus
- 00:25:16.247 --> 00:25:19.383
- Christ to be your savior and lord.
- 00:25:19.383 --> 00:25:21.919
- Pray this with me now.
- 00:25:21.919 --> 00:25:23.254
- "lord jesus, i know that i'm a sinner,
- 00:25:23.254 --> 00:25:26.857
- But i know that you're the savior who died on the cross for
- 00:25:26.857 --> 00:25:30.728
- My sin and rose again from the dead.
- 00:25:30.728 --> 00:25:33.097
- Now come into my life.
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- I choose to follow you from this moment forward.
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- Thank you for hearing this prayer
- 00:25:40.037 --> 00:25:42.406
- And answering this prayer.
- 00:25:42.406 --> 00:25:44.308
- In jesus's name, amen."
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- Did you just pray that prayer with me?
- 00:25:46.877 --> 00:25:49.346
- If so, i want you to know in the authority of scripture that
- 00:25:49.346 --> 00:25:52.182
- Christ himself has come to live inside of you,
- 00:25:52.182 --> 00:25:55.452
- And i would love to send to you,
- 00:25:55.452 --> 00:25:56.921
- At no charge, something called
- 00:25:56.921 --> 00:25:59.223
- The "new believer's bible."
- 00:25:59.223 --> 00:26:01.025
- It's a very friendly translation of the new testament you'll find
- 00:26:01.025 --> 00:26:04.395
- Very understandable, and it's filled with hundreds of notes
- 00:26:04.395 --> 00:26:08.065
- That i wrote that will encourage you in this commitment you've
- 00:26:08.065 --> 00:26:11.569
- Just made to follow jesus.
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- Let me send that to you at no charge,
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- And let me be the first to
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- Say to you congratulations, and
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- Welcome to the family of god.
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- Greg: hey, greg laurie here, welcome to my podcast.
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- I have a very special guest, joel rosenberg.
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- Levi, thanks for being on my podcast.
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- Michael franzese.
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- Thank you for making time for me.
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- Because you deal with some pretty weighty heavy subjects
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- And i think when you can bring humor in
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- It actually helps the viewer to take in all that information.
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- Greg: is it hard to be a man of faith in what you do?
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- Male: it's not, in fact, it's the only way
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- I'm allowed and enabled to do this job.
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- Male: hollywood's not the hope of the world,
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- The local church is the hope of the world,
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- And i've always felt like it's my job to set a volleyball
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- That can be spiked at the local level.
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- Greg: no one is beyond the reach of god.
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- I mean, if god can reach michael franzese,
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- Who can god not reach?
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