Join Pastor Greg Laurie for a time of encouragement, worship, and Bible study.
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Harvest with Pastor Greg Laurie | Greg Laurie - Talk This Way | July 28, 2025
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- Greg laurie: you know, during worship, you've got your hands
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- In your pockets or your arms are folded.
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- You're not singing even though we put lyrics on screens, and we
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- Encourage you to worship and you look at someone with their hands
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- Lifted up, you say, "fanatic."
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- And then you go to the football game and you paint your face in
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- The colors of your team.
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- And when your team scores a touchdown, you flip out,
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- Screaming, yelling, setting yourself on fire, everything.
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- And then you look at someone who lifts one hand to the lord and
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- You call him a fanatic?
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- Come on now.
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- ♪ this is the day, ♪
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- ♪ the day when life begins. ♪
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- ♪ this is the day, ♪
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- ♪ the day when life begins. ♪♪
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- Greg: our words really matter.
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- What we say impacts people.
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- What others say to us affects us in a great way.
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- It's been said, "sticks and stones may break my bones, but
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- Words will never hurt me."
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- Actually, that's not true.
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- Words really can hurt you.
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- You can be deeply wounded by words, can't you?
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- Some of us remember maybe in our childhood that something was
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- Said to us it could have been by a parent, could have been a
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- Teacher, or somebody else.
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- They told you, "you're unattractive, you're overweight,
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- You're a failure, you'll never amount to anything," and we sort
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- Of carried that with us even into our adult years.
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- Then again, someone might have said to us, "i see potential
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- In you.
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- I think you're special.
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- I believe in you," and then those words of encouragement
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- Carried us on.
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- Maybe there were words from a parent, a grandparent, a
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- Teacher, a coach, a pastor.
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- Words matter.
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- Proverbs 18:21 says, "death and life are in the power of the
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- Tongue, and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof."
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- Even the president of the united states needs encouragement.
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- I read a story about abraham lincoln, who many regard as our
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- Greatest president.
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- But he was in the ford theater and tragically was assassinated.
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- But when they were recovering items from his clothing, they
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- Found some spectacles, his wallet, and a little newspaper
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- Clipping that was old and folded over, and on it, it said,
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- "abraham lincoln is one of the greatest statesmen of our time."
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- So, even president lincoln would pull that out of his pocket
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- Every now and then and read it because he needed a word
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- Of encouragement.
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- Proverbs 25, verse 11 says, "the right word at the right time is
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- Like precious gold set in silver."
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- And i would add to that fact the wrong word at the wrong time can
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- Be devastating.
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- We've all heard stories of young people who've literally taken
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- Their own lives because they were bullied online where people
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- Said horrible and cruel things to them after they posted a
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- Picture or something else.
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- Let me just say young people, if you post something and people
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- Hate on you, these people don't matter.
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- Who cares?
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- They live in their mother's basement, okay?
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- They don't even use their real names.
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- Who cares what some random person says about you?
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- But anyway, but it shows the power of words.
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- Don't listen to their words, listen to the words of god who
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- Loves you and not the words of people who don't.
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- By the way, one of my greatest pleasures in life, i've told you
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- This before, is to block people.
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- Not just delete comments, block people.
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- I love it.
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- You know, they come in with this hateful vitriol in their posts,
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- I say, "goodbye."
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- I wish i could do it in real life.
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- Wouldn't that be cool?
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- Just blocked and they disappear.
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- I don't know.
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- Okay, more people have died by words than any weapon ever
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- Devised by man.
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- I mean, think about this, dedicated to god, our words can
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- Be a powerful force for good.
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- Left unchecked and especially when yielded to the enemy, the
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- Devil, our words can do great harm.
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- So, let's see what the bible says about our words and
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- Our tongue.
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- James chapter 3, verse 1. i'm reading down to verse 7.
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- This is the new living translation, "dear brothers and
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- Sisters," i would underline that.
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- I'll come back to it.
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- "dear brothers and sisters," or another way to translate it,
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- Dear fellow christians, so these words are addressed
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- To believers.
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- He goes on, "not many of you should become teachers in the
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- Church, for we who teach will be judged more strictly.
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- Indeed, we all make mistakes.
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- For if we could control our tongues, we would be perfect and
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- We could also control ourselves in every other way.
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- We can make large horses go wherever they want by means of a
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- Small bit in their mouth.
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- And a small rudder makes a huge ship turn wherever the pilot
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- Chooses to go, even though the winds are strong.
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- In the same way," writes james, "the tongue is a small thing and
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- It makes grand speeches.
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- But a tiny spark can set a great forest on fire.
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- And among all the parts of the body, the tongue is a flame
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- Of fire.
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- It's a whole of wickedness, corrupting your entire body.
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- It can be set on fire or set your whole life on fire, and it
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- Is set on fire by hell itself.
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- People can tame all kinds of animals, birds, reptiles, and
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- Fish, but no one can tame the tongue.
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- It's restless and evil, full of deadly poison."
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- We'll stop there.
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- So, what do we learn about the tongue?
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- Point number one, if you're taking notes, what you say
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- Reveals who you are.
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- What you say reveals who you are.
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- Verse 2, "if we could control our tongues, we would be perfect
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- And control ourselves in every other way."
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- In many ways, the tongue, or your words, is a barometer of
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- Your spiritual maturity.
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- Socrates once said to a young student, quote, "speak friend,
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- So i might see you," end quote.
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- Effectively socrates is saying, "speak, and i'll be able to
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- Evaluate you."
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- If your life is transformed as a follower of jesus and your words
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- Will be transformed as well.
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- The reality of your faith is demonstrated in what you say and
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- Also what you don't say.
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- Jesus says a good person produces good things from the
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- Treasury of a good heart and an evil person produces evil things
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- From the treasury of an evil heart.
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- What you say flows from what is in your heart.
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- So, whatever is in your heart will ultimately come out in
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- Your words.
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- And the fact of the matter is one day we will be judged by
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- What we said, according to the scripture.
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- Matthew 15:19 jesus says, "every careless word that people speak,
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- They'll give an accounting of it--for it on the day of
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- Judgment, for by your words you'll be justified and by your
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- Words you will be condemned."
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- In fact, the first sin committed after the fall was a sin of
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- The tongue.
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- When questioned about eating the forbidden fruit, adam quickly
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- Blames god and says, "well, it's the woman you gave me,"
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- Effectively slandering god.
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- Now, i ask you to underline this first.
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- Let me return to it.
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- Notice that james is directing these words to christians, "dear
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- Brothers and sisters."
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- You know, christians may pride themselves on the fact that they
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- Don't do certain things anymore.
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- "i don't do those sins any longer, i'm a christian
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- Now," fantastic.
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- You would never think of assassinating somebody now that
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- You're a christian, but would you assassinate their character
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- Over sunday brunch?
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- You would never think of putting a knife in someone, but would
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- You put a knife into someone to the blade of slander as you stab
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- Them in the back?
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- See, this is a problem with christians.
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- We like to talk and we like to make it sound spiritual when it
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- Isn't spiritual at all.
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- Bringing me to point number two, we need to control what we say.
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- The bible says let every man be quick to listen, slow to speak,
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- And slow to anger, but the reality is we're often quick to
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- Speak and slow to listen and quick to anger as well.
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- But we need to be quick to listen and slow to speak.
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- By the way, there are inside and outside thoughts.
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- Did you know that?
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- Some things are best left unsaid.
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- You think them, but that doesn't mean you should say them.
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- And other things need to be said as well.
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- Verse 6, "the tongue is set on fire by hell."
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- James is telling us the uncontrolled tongue
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- Has a direct pipeline to hell.
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- One word foolishly spoken can be set fire by the devil, one
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- Rumor, one lie.
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- Mountain climbers say that the vibration of one whisper can
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- Bring down an avalanche.
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- Number three, our words used right can do so much good.
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- Just one word said can alter the course of your life.
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- A judge with one word or one statement can decide your guilt
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- Or your innocence.
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- Point number four, our words used wrongly can do so
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- Much damage.
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- They can do so much damage.
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- Look at verse 5. the tongue is a small thing.
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- Think about this.
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- This mere two ounce slab of mucous membrane can do so much
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- Evil or good, depending on who it's controlled by.
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- As an example for evil, think of adolf hitler.
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- This man through his demonic rhetoric sent a nation to ruin.
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- His words were responsible for the death of 6 million jewish
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- People in the holocaust, and many christians were sent to
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- Those concentration camps as well.
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- Truly, as james says in verse 6, hitler's tongue was set on fire
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- By hell itself.
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- Now contrast him with another person who used his words well,
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- Billy graham, a farm boy born in charlotte, north carolina.
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- He aspired to be a baseball player one day and god put his
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- Hand on billy, and through his preaching around the world
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- Millions of people changed their eternal destiny.
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- Indeed, death and life are in the power of the tongue, and i
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- Ask you, who is your tongue dedicated to?
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- There are many ways we can use our words to hurt others.
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- One is through gossip and backbiting.
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- Gossip, the very word hisses, gossip.
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- Like a snake, right?
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- So sneaky.
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- We can make it sound like it is important, but it's
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- So destructive.
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- Proverbs 20, verse 19 says that "gossip betrays the confidence.
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- Avoid a man who talks too much."
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- How practical is that?
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- Gossip is like junk food.
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- You know it's bad, but you eat it anyway.
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- Like a translation of proverbs 26:22 that's modern puts it
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- This way, "listening to gossip is like eating cheap candy.
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- Do you want junk like that in your belly?"
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- What a great translation.
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- So, when i go to the movie, i like to get milk duds and
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- Popcorn, and i don't know what's going on and i don't know if
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- You've noticed this, but a lot of movie theaters, if not most,
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- Are not carrying milk duds anymore.
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- What is going on?
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- I love milk duds.
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- It's the only time i eat candy.
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- I don't really eat candy at all, but when i got that popcorn, i
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- Want some milk duds.
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- I think maybe because they stick to everything.
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- I'm not really sure, but the other day i was at the drug
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- Store and i saw they had milk duds.
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- I haven't seen milk duds anywhere, and i bought like four
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- Boxes of them, and they're really big boxes too.
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- I came home, cathy said, "well, why did you buy all those
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- Milk duds?"
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- I said, "because i can't find them anywhere."
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- She said, "you shouldn't have bought them.
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- You're gonna eat them."
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- "no, i won't.
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- I won't eat that many."
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- And then that night who's making popcorn and milk duds?
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- Cathy.
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- She's the one eating them, but i had some too.
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- But you don't feel good after you eat candy, do you?
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- It's good going down, and that's what gossip is like.
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- Gossip will often veil itself in acceptable ways with phrases
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- Like, "have you heard," or, "did you know?"
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- Or how about this?
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- "i don't know if this is true, but," okay, hold on.
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- If any statement you make begins with the words, "i don't know if
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- This is true," stop and don't make that statement because you
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- Don't know how devastating that could be.
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- But we rationalize it and say spiritual things like this, "i'm
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- Only telling you this so you can pray."
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- Oh, shut up.
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- You're gossiping.
- 00:13:29.752 --> 00:13:31.120
- Don't give me this so you can pray business.
- 00:13:31.120 --> 00:13:34.056
- "no, i just--that's the only reason i'm sharing it."
- 00:13:34.056 --> 00:13:37.526
- No, here's another way we can gossip: through innuendo.
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- Innuendo, a cousin of gossip is innuendo.
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- That's where you don't say it exactly, but you imply it.
- 00:13:47.136 --> 00:13:51.707
- Then there is a subtle misuse of our words and
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- Flattery, flattery.
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- Flattery is really lying.
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- Why?
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- Because when i flatter somebody, i'm basically telling them
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- A lie.
- 00:14:02.651 --> 00:14:03.986
- Gossip is saying behind a person's back what they would
- 00:14:03.986 --> 00:14:05.754
- Never say to their face, flattery is saying to a person's
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- Face what i would never say behind their back.
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- Does that make sense?
- 00:14:12.261 --> 00:14:13.662
- So gossip, i say it behind your back.
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- I would never say it to your face or ask you if it's
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- Even true.
- 00:14:18.634 --> 00:14:20.002
- Flattery, oh, i'll say it to your face, but if someone asked
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- Me about you, i would never say that behind your back.
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- Number five, if you can control your tongue, it's a sign of
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- Spiritual maturity.
- 00:14:31.080 --> 00:14:33.115
- Look at verse 2, "if we control our tongues, we would be perfect
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- And control ourselves in every other way."
- 00:14:36.218 --> 00:14:39.655
- The word perfect here means full grown.
- 00:14:39.655 --> 00:14:42.691
- So, it's not meaning flawlessly perfect, but what it means is
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- You're mature.
- 00:14:45.995 --> 00:14:47.363
- If you can control your words, it's a sign of maturity.
- 00:14:47.363 --> 00:14:51.901
- I heard about a little boy that went to a pastor's house who was
- 00:14:51.901 --> 00:14:54.403
- Doing some carpentry.
- 00:14:54.403 --> 00:14:55.804
- Little guy just standing there staring at the pastor as he was
- 00:14:55.804 --> 00:14:59.275
- Working away.
- 00:14:59.275 --> 00:15:00.643
- Finally the minister turned and said, "sonny, you're trying to
- 00:15:00.643 --> 00:15:02.811
- Pick up some tips on carpentry?"
- 00:15:02.811 --> 00:15:05.214
- The little guy said, "no, i just wanna see what a preacher says
- 00:15:05.214 --> 00:15:08.117
- When he hits his thumb with a hammer."
- 00:15:08.117 --> 00:15:12.421
- And i think there are people who are not believers who are
- 00:15:12.421 --> 00:15:15.824
- Watching us maybe in some ways hoping that we will do
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- Something wrong.
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- So, we wanna be very careful.
- 00:15:21.730 --> 00:15:23.098
- And by the way, some of the greatest saints in the bible had
- 00:15:23.098 --> 00:15:26.268
- Trouble with what they said.
- 00:15:26.268 --> 00:15:28.637
- Job is a good example.
- 00:15:28.637 --> 00:15:30.673
- God himself said of job he's a perfect and upright man, one
- 00:15:30.673 --> 00:15:33.542
- That fears god and shuns evil, but yet at the end of job's
- 00:15:33.542 --> 00:15:37.146
- Book, he writes in chapter 40, verse 4, to the lord, he says,
- 00:15:37.146 --> 00:15:41.083
- "i'm unworthy.
- 00:15:41.083 --> 00:15:42.418
- How can i reply to you?
- 00:15:42.418 --> 00:15:43.786
- I put my hand over my mouth."
- 00:15:43.786 --> 00:15:46.121
- I wish more people would put their hand over their mouth.
- 00:15:46.121 --> 00:15:49.024
- One of the greatest uses
- 00:15:49.024 --> 00:15:50.893
- Of our words is to proclaim the word of god.
- 00:15:50.893 --> 00:15:55.531
- But with that comes great responsibility.
- 00:15:55.531 --> 00:15:57.499
- Look at verse 3, "dear brothers and sisters, not many of you
- 00:15:57.499 --> 00:16:00.803
- Should become teachers in the church, for we who teach will be
- 00:16:00.803 --> 00:16:04.373
- Judged more strictly."
- 00:16:04.373 --> 00:16:06.642
- Now james is not wanting to discourage us from sharing our
- 00:16:06.642 --> 00:16:10.212
- Biblical insights.
- 00:16:10.212 --> 00:16:12.081
- Fact of the matter is, you should share the things you
- 00:16:12.081 --> 00:16:15.684
- Discover in the word with others.
- 00:16:15.684 --> 00:16:18.120
- 1 corinthians 14:26 says, "hey brothers and sisters, when you
- 00:16:18.120 --> 00:16:21.824
- Come together, each one of you has a song or a word
- 00:16:21.824 --> 00:16:24.493
- Of instruction."
- 00:16:24.493 --> 00:16:25.828
- So, it's awesome to say, "i just read this in the word today, and
- 00:16:25.828 --> 00:16:28.330
- This verse really spoke to me."
- 00:16:28.330 --> 00:16:29.765
- Great, do that.
- 00:16:29.765 --> 00:16:31.233
- James is not discouraging that, but what he is saying is when
- 00:16:31.233 --> 00:16:36.105
- You share, when you speak for god, you know, be prepared.
- 00:16:36.105 --> 00:16:39.208
- There's responsibility that comes with that.
- 00:16:39.208 --> 00:16:42.211
- I remember the first time i shared in a public setting.
- 00:16:42.211 --> 00:16:46.749
- There was a small group of believers.
- 00:16:46.749 --> 00:16:49.218
- I was still in high school, they were in high school, and
- 00:16:49.218 --> 00:16:53.422
- Different people were sharing things they read in the bible,
- 00:16:53.422 --> 00:16:55.424
- And i'd read something that morning and i was thinking,
- 00:16:55.424 --> 00:16:58.260
- "should i share this?"
- 00:16:58.260 --> 00:16:59.628
- My heart's beating.
- 00:16:59.628 --> 00:17:01.230
- You know that feeling.
- 00:17:01.230 --> 00:17:02.564
- Finally i said, "i read something in the bible today."
- 00:17:02.564 --> 00:17:05.834
- My voice is all shaking.
- 00:17:05.834 --> 00:17:07.903
- After i was done it people went, "oh, that's great."
- 00:17:07.903 --> 00:17:10.873
- And then the lord started opening doors for me to speak.
- 00:17:10.873 --> 00:17:15.044
- I never aspired to be a speaker or a preacher or a communicator
- 00:17:15.044 --> 00:17:19.748
- Like that.
- 00:17:19.748 --> 00:17:21.116
- I was a more behind the scenes kind of a person.
- 00:17:21.116 --> 00:17:24.853
- But as i began to do that more, i realized there's a
- 00:17:24.853 --> 00:17:27.423
- Responsibility that comes with this.
- 00:17:27.423 --> 00:17:30.559
- 1 timothy 3:1 says, "it's a trustworthy statement if a man
- 00:17:30.559 --> 00:17:34.196
- Aspires to the role of overseer or a preacher teacher.
- 00:17:34.196 --> 00:17:37.800
- It's a fine work he desires to do."
- 00:17:37.800 --> 00:17:40.636
- So, it's a good thing.
- 00:17:40.636 --> 00:17:42.004
- If god has called you to do this sort of thing, that's great.
- 00:17:42.004 --> 00:17:44.773
- Make sure you're prepared.
- 00:17:44.773 --> 00:17:46.809
- And when i stand up, i wanna be prepared and be able to back up
- 00:17:46.809 --> 00:17:50.712
- What i say by the scripture.
- 00:17:50.712 --> 00:17:53.682
- That's why the bible says, "study to show yourself approved
- 00:17:53.682 --> 00:17:57.052
- Unto god, a workman that does not need to be ashamed, rightly
- 00:17:57.052 --> 00:18:00.089
- Dividing the word of truth."
- 00:18:00.089 --> 00:18:02.291
- You know, people have asked me, "what is it like to stand up in
- 00:18:02.291 --> 00:18:04.426
- A stadium and speak to a huge group of people?
- 00:18:04.426 --> 00:18:08.564
- Is it fun?"
- 00:18:08.564 --> 00:18:09.932
- I wouldn't use the word fun.
- 00:18:09.932 --> 00:18:12.668
- I would use the word pressure and responsibility because i
- 00:18:12.668 --> 00:18:18.307
- Feel when i get up there, i'm speaking for god.
- 00:18:18.307 --> 00:18:20.976
- I take that very seriously.
- 00:18:20.976 --> 00:18:23.045
- I don't wanna say the wrong thing.
- 00:18:23.045 --> 00:18:24.746
- I wanna say the right thing because god has not called me to
- 00:18:24.746 --> 00:18:28.383
- Be some kind of a political pundit.
- 00:18:28.383 --> 00:18:31.286
- He's not called me to be a social commentator.
- 00:18:31.286 --> 00:18:34.156
- He's not called me to be a life coach or a stand up comic,
- 00:18:34.156 --> 00:18:38.026
- Though i'm incredibly funny at times.
- 00:18:38.026 --> 00:18:41.330
- Not today so much.
- 00:18:41.330 --> 00:18:43.665
- And i'm joking, but the fact is, i'm called to declare the word
- 00:18:43.665 --> 00:18:48.904
- Of god, and the scripture says when we stand to speak, in 1
- 00:18:48.904 --> 00:18:52.774
- Peter 4:11, we should do so as one who speaks the very words
- 00:18:52.774 --> 00:18:56.945
- Of god.
- 00:18:56.945 --> 00:18:58.313
- It's a sacred responsibility, and i take it very seriously.
- 00:18:58.313 --> 00:19:02.217
- And we all should.
- 00:19:02.217 --> 00:19:03.585
- Bringing me to my next point, number seven, we should use our
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- Words to build up, not to tear down.
- 00:19:06.788 --> 00:19:09.992
- Use your words to build up, not to tear down.
- 00:19:09.992 --> 00:19:12.628
- Verse 8 of james 3, "the tongue is restless and evil full of
- 00:19:12.628 --> 00:19:17.833
- Deadly poison.
- 00:19:17.833 --> 00:19:19.168
- Sometimes it praises our lord and father, sometimes it curses
- 00:19:19.168 --> 00:19:22.838
- Those who've been made in the image of god."
- 00:19:22.838 --> 00:19:26.775
- How important encouragement is?
- 00:19:26.775 --> 00:19:28.977
- Have you ever had a word of encouragement just change things
- 00:19:28.977 --> 00:19:31.647
- For you?
- 00:19:31.647 --> 00:19:33.015
- Maybe you're feeling down.
- 00:19:33.015 --> 00:19:34.917
- "oh, no one appreciates what i do.
- 00:19:34.917 --> 00:19:36.952
- No one notices.
- 00:19:36.952 --> 00:19:38.287
- No one cares."
- 00:19:38.287 --> 00:19:39.655
- And then maybe a letter arrives that was written, you know,
- 00:19:39.655 --> 00:19:42.191
- Three days ago.
- 00:19:42.191 --> 00:19:43.559
- You open it up, someone encourages you or they shoot you
- 00:19:43.559 --> 00:19:46.395
- A text or someone says something to you, you say, "thank you.
- 00:19:46.395 --> 00:19:50.566
- I really needed that."
- 00:19:50.566 --> 00:19:53.202
- Proverbs 25:25 says, "good news from far away is like cold water
- 00:19:53.202 --> 00:19:57.573
- To the thirsty."
- 00:19:57.573 --> 00:19:59.041
- I think one of the greatest needs in the church today and in
- 00:19:59.041 --> 00:20:03.912
- The world today is for us to encourage one another, not
- 00:20:03.912 --> 00:20:08.183
- Discourage one another, not biting and devouring
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- One another.
- 00:20:13.622 --> 00:20:15.290
- In fact, hebrews tells us that "we should not forsake the
- 00:20:15.290 --> 00:20:19.261
- Assembling of ourselves together as the manner of some is, but
- 00:20:19.261 --> 00:20:23.098
- Instead, exhorting or encouraging one another so much
- 00:20:23.098 --> 00:20:27.669
- More as we see the day of the lord approaching."
- 00:20:27.669 --> 00:20:30.806
- The problem is some people don't know how to pay a compliment.
- 00:20:30.806 --> 00:20:34.476
- They insult you while they compliment you.
- 00:20:34.476 --> 00:20:37.546
- Do you know what i'm talking about?
- 00:20:37.546 --> 00:20:39.047
- It's called a complisult.
- 00:20:39.047 --> 00:20:41.917
- It's meant to encourage, but actually it discourages you.
- 00:20:41.917 --> 00:20:48.590
- Example, you know, you show up at their house and they
- 00:20:48.590 --> 00:20:51.059
- Say, "whoa!
- 00:20:51.059 --> 00:20:52.394
- You're on time."
- 00:20:52.394 --> 00:20:53.762
- Okay.
- 00:20:53.762 --> 00:20:55.297
- So, you're basically saying i'm late the rest of the time.
- 00:20:55.297 --> 00:20:58.834
- How about this one?
- 00:20:58.834 --> 00:21:00.168
- "you're a great driver for a woman."
- 00:21:00.168 --> 00:21:02.704
- What?
- 00:21:02.704 --> 00:21:04.740
- How about this one?
- 00:21:04.740 --> 00:21:06.141
- "you look so good when you wear makeup."
- 00:21:06.141 --> 00:21:08.343
- "what?
- 00:21:08.343 --> 00:21:09.845
- What are you saying?"
- 00:21:09.845 --> 00:21:11.747
- You basically look bad most of the time, but yeah.
- 00:21:11.747 --> 00:21:14.616
- "oh you sure clean up good," that's a variation of it.
- 00:21:14.616 --> 00:21:18.553
- "you're so pretty.
- 00:21:18.553 --> 00:21:19.888
- Why are you still single?"
- 00:21:19.888 --> 00:21:21.356
- What?
- 00:21:21.356 --> 00:21:22.691
- Is that really helpful?
- 00:21:22.691 --> 00:21:24.026
- Or how about this one?
- 00:21:24.026 --> 00:21:25.394
- "you look good for your age."
- 00:21:25.394 --> 00:21:27.996
- I've heard that a few times.
- 00:21:27.996 --> 00:21:29.631
- Recently i went to the tailor.
- 00:21:29.631 --> 00:21:32.100
- I was wearing a suit and i needed to have some
- 00:21:32.100 --> 00:21:35.304
- Alterations done.
- 00:21:35.304 --> 00:21:36.638
- I would like to say to take it in; it was the opposite.
- 00:21:36.638 --> 00:21:39.374
- And so, we're chit chatting.
- 00:21:39.374 --> 00:21:42.644
- I've known this guy for a while and he says, "what's new?"
- 00:21:42.644 --> 00:21:45.981
- "well, i turned 70."
- 00:21:45.981 --> 00:21:47.349
- He said, "what?
- 00:21:47.349 --> 00:21:48.717
- You turned 70?"
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- And then like i didn't say i died.
- 00:21:50.352 --> 00:21:52.554
- I mean.
- 00:21:52.554 --> 00:21:53.889
- And then he said, "well, you look good for your age.
- 00:21:53.889 --> 00:21:56.224
- I mean, i'd call you at like 68 or something.
- 00:21:56.224 --> 00:21:59.027
- I don't--"
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- All right, whatever, complisult.
- 00:22:00.429 --> 00:22:03.465
- We don't mean them.
- 00:22:03.465 --> 00:22:05.767
- I think some people think they have the gift of criticism.
- 00:22:05.767 --> 00:22:08.737
- It's not a gift.
- 00:22:08.737 --> 00:22:11.707
- Number eight, we should use our words to praise god.
- 00:22:11.707 --> 00:22:15.243
- Why did god give us this tongue?
- 00:22:15.243 --> 00:22:17.546
- Why did god give us the ability to verbally communicate?
- 00:22:17.546 --> 00:22:21.850
- One of the reasons is so we could use it to bring glory to
- 00:22:21.850 --> 00:22:26.822
- The lord.
- 00:22:26.822 --> 00:22:28.156
- I love the words of david when he says, "my lips shall
- 00:22:28.156 --> 00:22:30.559
- Praise thee.
- 00:22:30.559 --> 00:22:31.927
- Thus will i bless thee.
- 00:22:31.927 --> 00:22:33.895
- I'll lift up my hands unto your name."
- 00:22:33.895 --> 00:22:36.365
- You need to express your praise to god verbally, just as you
- 00:22:36.365 --> 00:22:41.103
- Need to express your affirmation of people.
- 00:22:41.103 --> 00:22:44.940
- Guys, it's not enough to look at your wife and think, "i sure
- 00:22:44.940 --> 00:22:48.744
- Love her and she looks beautiful today."
- 00:22:48.744 --> 00:22:51.079
- She's not a mind reader.
- 00:22:51.079 --> 00:22:53.248
- Tell her.
- 00:22:53.248 --> 00:22:54.616
- Same for you girls too.
- 00:22:54.616 --> 00:22:55.951
- Tell your husband you appreciate them, tell your parents you
- 00:22:55.951 --> 00:22:58.820
- Appreciate them, tell your children how much you love them,
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- Encourage them.
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- Verbalize these things.
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- And we need to verbalize our praise to god.
- 00:23:04.926 --> 00:23:08.263
- Hebrews 13:15 says, "let us offer continually the sacrifice
- 00:23:08.263 --> 00:23:13.001
- Of praise to god."
- 00:23:13.001 --> 00:23:15.470
- Some people say, "i can't do that."
- 00:23:15.470 --> 00:23:17.472
- You know, during worship you've got your hands in your pockets
- 00:23:17.472 --> 00:23:20.809
- Or your arms are folded.
- 00:23:20.809 --> 00:23:22.644
- You're not singing even though we put lyrics on screens and we
- 00:23:22.644 --> 00:23:26.615
- Encourage you to worship.
- 00:23:26.615 --> 00:23:27.949
- And you look at someone with their hands lifted up, you
- 00:23:27.949 --> 00:23:29.418
- Say, "fanatic."
- 00:23:29.418 --> 00:23:31.686
- And then you go to the football game, and
- 00:23:31.686 --> 00:23:34.256
- You paint your face in the colors of your team.
- 00:23:34.256 --> 00:23:38.059
- And when your team scores a touchdown, you flip out,
- 00:23:38.059 --> 00:23:41.897
- Screaming, yelling, setting yourself on fire, everything.
- 00:23:41.897 --> 00:23:46.301
- And then you look at someone who lifts one hand to the lord and
- 00:23:46.301 --> 00:23:48.837
- You call him a fanatic?
- 00:23:48.837 --> 00:23:50.972
- Come on now, you have passion for other things, right?
- 00:23:50.972 --> 00:23:55.510
- You should not have equal passion for christ.
- 00:23:59.514 --> 00:24:01.817
- You should have greater passion for christ than your
- 00:24:01.817 --> 00:24:04.753
- Team, right?
- 00:24:04.753 --> 00:24:06.655
- So, use your words to praise god.
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- Number nine, use your tongue, use your words to preach
- 00:24:10.325 --> 00:24:14.062
- The gospel.
- 00:24:14.062 --> 00:24:15.597
- The primary way god has chosen to bring non-believers to faith
- 00:24:15.597 --> 00:24:19.634
- Is through the verbal articulation of the gospel.
- 00:24:19.634 --> 00:24:24.606
- We all know the great commission.
- 00:24:24.606 --> 00:24:26.041
- It's go into all the world and be a good example, right?
- 00:24:26.041 --> 00:24:30.645
- That's not what it is.
- 00:24:30.645 --> 00:24:32.113
- You know what it is.
- 00:24:32.113 --> 00:24:33.448
- Go into all the world and do what?
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- Thank you.
- 00:24:35.217 --> 00:24:36.551
- And by the way, to preach doesn't mean i have to yell.
- 00:24:36.551 --> 00:24:39.554
- It can be soft.
- 00:24:39.554 --> 00:24:40.922
- You can speak softly, you can tweet it, you can type it, you
- 00:24:40.922 --> 00:24:44.059
- Can post it, you can text it.
- 00:24:44.059 --> 00:24:46.127
- You can share it conversationally, but it's
- 00:24:46.127 --> 00:24:47.963
- Verbal articulation of the gospel.
- 00:24:47.963 --> 00:24:51.566
- Now i'm not saying we should not go be a good example because the
- 00:24:51.566 --> 00:24:55.237
- Fact of the matter is, is when i'm a good example, it in effect
- 00:24:55.237 --> 00:24:58.773
- Earns me the right to verbally articulate what i believe and
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- Help a person to believe as well.
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- Number ten and lastly, use your words to confess your sin.
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- Use your words to confess your sin.
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- The bible says, "if we say we have no sin, we deceive
- 00:25:12.888 --> 00:25:16.424
- Ourselves and the truth is not in us."
- 00:25:16.424 --> 00:25:18.927
- You know, "but if we will confess our sin, he is faithful
- 00:25:18.927 --> 00:25:22.230
- And just to forgive us our sin and cleanse us from
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- All unrighteousness."
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- Greg: have you ever heard the term gospel before?
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- It means good news, but before i can fully appreciate the good
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- News, i have to know the bad news.
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- You and i, we're sinners, which means we've broken
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- God's commandments.
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- We've fallen short of his standards.
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- Good news.
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- Jesus christ died in our place.
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- He came to be a debt he did not owe
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- Because we owed a debt we could not pay.
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- If you will turn from your sin and put your faith in jesus
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- Christ, you can be forgiven and know that you'll go to heaven
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- When you die and find the meaning of life right here on
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- Planet earth.
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- You just call out to jesus and say, "forgive me, i want to
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- Have a relationship with you."
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- I would like to send you a bible at no charge to help you
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- Get started in your new relationship with christ.
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- Male announcer: "revelation: a book of promises,"
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- By greg laurie.
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- Why study revelation?
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- The word "revelation" means unveiling.
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- God's desire is to reveal, not conceal.
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- And this book unveils pictures of the spirit world,
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- Great cataclysmic events in store for the planet,
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- And the coming antichrist.
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- But as greg laurie explains, the primary objective
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- Of this book isn't to reveal the antichrist.
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- It's to reveal jesus christ and his soon coming.
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- "revelation: a book of promises" is designed to help you see
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- Jesus as the centerpiece, the star,
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- And the focus of revelation.
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- With this eminently practical guide, you can experience the
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- Blessing promised to those who read, hear, and keep the words
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- Of this prophetic book.
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- After all, bible prophecy is not given to inflate our brains,
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- But to enlarge our hearts.
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- Request "revelation" by greg laurie
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- When you give today.
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