Joel Osteen - Defining Moments

January 16, 2025 | S25:E16

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Joel Osteen | Joel Osteen - Defining Moments | January 16, 2025
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  • (applause) well, god bless you. it's
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  • Well, god bless you. it's always a joy to come into
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  • Always a joy to come into your homes. if you're ever
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  • Your homes. if you're ever in our area please stop by
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  • In our area please stop by and be a part of one of
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  • And be a part of one of our services. i promise
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  • Our services. i promise you we'll make you feel
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  • You we'll make you feel right at home. thanks so
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  • Right at home. thanks so much for tuning in and
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  • Much for tuning in and thank you again for coming
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  • Thank you again for coming out today.
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  • Out today. i like to start with
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  • I like to start with something funny. i heard
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  • Something funny. i heard about this lady. she saw
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  • About this lady. she saw this little old man
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  • This little old man sitting on his front porch
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  • Sitting on his front porch rocking in his rocking
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  • Rocking in his rocking chair. he always seemed
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  • Chair. he always seemed to be so happy. she
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  • To be so happy. she finally went over to him
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  • Finally went over to him and said, "i can't help
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  • And said, "i can't help but notice you're always
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  • But notice you're always smiling. always in a good
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  • Smiling. always in a good mood. tell me what is
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  • Mood. tell me what is your secret for such a
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  • Your secret for such a long, happy life? he said,
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  • Long, happy life? he said, "that's easy. i smoke
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  • "that's easy. i smoke three packs of cigarettes
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  • Three packs of cigarettes everyday. i eat nothing
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  • Everyday. i eat nothing but junk food. and i never
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  • But junk food. and i never exercise."
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  • Exercise." she said, "that's amazing!
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  • She said, "that's amazing! how old are you?" he said,
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  • How old are you?" he said, "26." (applause)
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  • "26." (applause) hold up your bible.
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  • Hold up your bible. say it like you mean it.
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  • Say it like you mean it. this is my bible. i am
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  • This is my bible. i am what it says i am. i have
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  • What it says i am. i have what it says i have. i can
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  • What it says i have. i can do what it says i can do.
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  • Do what it says i can do. today i will be taught the
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  • Today i will be taught the word of god. i boldly
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  • Word of god. i boldly confess, my mind is alert,
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  • Confess, my mind is alert, my heart is receptive,
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  • My heart is receptive, i will never be the same
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  • I will never be the same in jesus' name. god bless
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  • In jesus' name. god bless you.
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  • You. i want to talk to you today
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  • I want to talk to you today about "defining moments".
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  • About "defining moments". we all make hundreds of
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  • We all make hundreds of decisions each day. most
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  • Decisions each day. most of them are routine. we
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  • Of them are routine. we don't think much about
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  • Don't think much about them. but there are certain
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  • Them. but there are certain decisions that carry much
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  • Decisions that carry much more weight. they not only
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  • More weight. they not only affect us but they affect
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  • Affect us but they affect our children and future
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  • Our children and future generations. sometimes
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  • Generations. sometimes what we think is an
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  • What we think is an ordinary decision, no big
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  • Ordinary decision, no big deal, is really a defining
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  • Deal, is really a defining moment. when you're in a
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  • Moment. when you're in a situation where you're
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  • Situation where you're tempted to compromise,
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  • Tempted to compromise, to get upset, to be bitter.
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  • To get upset, to be bitter. you know to make the right
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  • You know to make the right choice you have to dig your
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  • Choice you have to dig your heels in, be disciplined,
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  • Heels in, be disciplined, and not go by what you feel.
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  • And not go by what you feel. that's not just another
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  • That's not just another routine choice. that's a
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  • Routine choice. that's a defining moment. the
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  • Defining moment. the decisions you make in
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  • Decisions you make in these tough times. when
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  • These tough times. when you feel like doing the
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  • You feel like doing the easy thing. you feel like
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  • Easy thing. you feel like telling somebody off.
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  • Telling somebody off. you feel like being
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  • You feel like being offended. you have to
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  • Offended. you have to remind yourself, "this
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  • Remind yourself, "this is a defining moment. it's
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  • Is a defining moment. it's going to impact my destiny
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  • Going to impact my destiny so i'm going to dig my
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  • So i'm going to dig my heels in and do the right
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  • Heels in and do the right thing even though it's
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  • Thing even though it's difficult."
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  • Difficult." see the pain of discipline
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  • See the pain of discipline is much less than the pain
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  • Is much less than the pain of regret. it's better to
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  • Of regret. it's better to be uncomfortable for a
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  • Be uncomfortable for a little while than to make
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  • Little while than to make a poor choice and be
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  • A poor choice and be uncomfortable for a long
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  • Uncomfortable for a long time. in giving into what
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  • Time. in giving into what we feel. what we want.
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  • We feel. what we want. taking the easy way out.
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  • Taking the easy way out. that pleasure is only
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  • That pleasure is only temporary. the pain lasts
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  • Temporary. the pain lasts much longer. in the heat
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  • Much longer. in the heat of the moment every voice
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  • Of the moment every voice will tell you, "it doesn't
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  • Will tell you, "it doesn't matter. it's no big deal.
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  • Matter. it's no big deal. just do it. it's not going
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  • Just do it. it's not going to hurt anything."
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  • To hurt anything." don't believe those lies.
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  • Don't believe those lies. it's going to impact your
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  • It's going to impact your destiny. jesus said, "pray
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  • Destiny. jesus said, "pray that you don't enter into
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  • That you don't enter into temptation."
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  • Temptation." whatever area that you
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  • Whatever area that you struggle in, before you
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  • Struggle in, before you leave the house, you need
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  • Leave the house, you need to pray, "god help me to
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  • To pray, "god help me to keep my cool today,"
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  • Keep my cool today," or, "god help me to keep
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  • Or, "god help me to keep my eyes on the right
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  • My eyes on the right things,"
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  • Things," "god help me to resist
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  • "god help me to resist this addiction, to not
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  • This addiction, to not compromise."
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  • Compromise." then all through the day,
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  • Then all through the day, you have to guard your
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  • You have to guard your mind. every temptation
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  • Mind. every temptation starts with a thought.
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  • Starts with a thought. this is where the real
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  • This is where the real battle is taking place.
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  • Battle is taking place. when those tempting
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  • When those tempting thoughts come. don't
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  • Thoughts come. don't dwell on it. don't give
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  • Dwell on it. don't give it the time of day. if
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  • It the time of day. if you allow it to stay it
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  • You allow it to stay it will draw you in and can
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  • Will draw you in and can lead you to compromise.
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  • Lead you to compromise. this is what joseph had
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  • This is what joseph had to do. he was working as
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  • To do. he was working as a slave at the house of
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  • A slave at the house of a man named potiphar.
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  • A man named potiphar. he continued to excel
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  • He continued to excel and eventually potiphar
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  • And eventually potiphar put him in charge of his
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  • Put him in charge of his whole household.
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  • Whole household. well joseph was a
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  • Well joseph was a good-looking young man;
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  • Good-looking young man; tall, dark, and handsome.
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  • Tall, dark, and handsome. one day he was walking
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  • One day he was walking through the house minding
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  • Through the house minding his own business when
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  • His own business when potiphar's wife came up
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  • Potiphar's wife came up and tried to seduce him.
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  • And tried to seduce him. she made advances toward
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  • She made advances toward him. here joseph was a
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  • Him. here joseph was a slave, he had been betrayed
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  • Slave, he had been betrayed by his brothers, thrown
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  • By his brothers, thrown into a pit. he could have
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  • Into a pit. he could have thought, "god's forgotten
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  • Thought, "god's forgotten about me! what's going to
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  • About me! what's going to matter if i compromise?
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  • Matter if i compromise? besides, it's her idea
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  • Besides, it's her idea anyway. i'm tired of being
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  • Anyway. i'm tired of being stuck as a slave! i'm
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  • Stuck as a slave! i'm ready to have some fun!"
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  • Ready to have some fun!" he could have let his
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  • He could have let his guard down and taken the
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  • Guard down and taken the easy way out. but he
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  • Easy way out. but he didn't do it. he realized
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  • Didn't do it. he realized it was a defining moment
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  • It was a defining moment and he wouldn't compromise.
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  • And he wouldn't compromise. she grabbed him by the
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  • She grabbed him by the sleeve and pulled him
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  • Sleeve and pulled him close. the scripture
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  • Close. the scripture says, "he tore himself
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  • Says, "he tore himself away and took off running."
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  • Away and took off running." if joseph
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  • If joseph would have taken the
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  • Would have taken the easy way out and given
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  • Easy way out and given into the temptation i'm
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  • Into the temptation i'm not so sure he would have
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  • Not so sure he would have made it to the throne.
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  • Made it to the throne. god would have forgiven
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  • God would have forgiven him, of course. god always
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  • Him, of course. god always gives us another chance.
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  • Gives us another chance. but to reach your highest
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  • But to reach your highest potential you have to pass
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  • Potential you have to pass these certain tests. the
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  • These certain tests. the scripture says, "to run
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  • Scripture says, "to run from temptation."
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  • From temptation." it doesn't say to just
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  • It doesn't say to just casually get away, be
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  • Casually get away, be careful, watch out.
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  • Careful, watch out. god specifically says,
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  • God specifically says, "run!" there's a sense of
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  • "run!" there's a sense of urgency. this means don't
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  • Urgency. this means don't play games; your destiny
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  • Play games; your destiny is at stake. that person
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  • Is at stake. that person at the office that's overly
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  • At the office that's overly friendly to you; they're
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  • Friendly to you; they're making advances. god has
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  • Making advances. god has a word from the lord for
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  • A word from the lord for you today, "run!" joel,
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  • You today, "run!" joel, i'm not going to do
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  • I'm not going to do anything i just like the
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  • Anything i just like the attention they give me.
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  • Attention they give me. no, if you mess with fire
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  • No, if you mess with fire you're going to get burned.
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  • You're going to get burned. that temporary pleasure is
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  • That temporary pleasure is not worth the long-term
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  • Not worth the long-term pain. he may be tall, dark,
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  • Pain. he may be tall, dark, handsome, and rich.
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  • Handsome, and rich. she may be hot, fine,
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  • She may be hot, fine, good-looking, beautiful -
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  • Good-looking, beautiful - it's not worth missing your
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  • It's not worth missing your destiny over.
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  • Destiny over. let me make it more
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  • Let me make it more practical. maybe you're
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  • Practical. maybe you're trying to lose weight.
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  • Trying to lose weight. you're up at the mall and
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  • You're up at the mall and you walk by the cinnabon
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  • You walk by the cinnabon booth... run! (laughter)
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  • Booth... run! (laughter) don't go over there
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  • Don't go over there thinking you're just going
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  • Thinking you're just going to look and see. the
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  • To look and see. the spirit is willing but
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  • Spirit is willing but the flesh is weak.
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  • The flesh is weak. if you go over there,
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  • If you go over there, you're going to end up
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  • You're going to end up eating three and taking
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  • Eating three and taking four to go. (laughter)
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  • Four to go. (laughter) when you turn the computer
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  • When you turn the computer on and that ad pops up
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  • On and that ad pops up that you know is not
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  • That you know is not healthy...run! don't go
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  • Healthy...run! don't go check it out. you may need
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  • Check it out. you may need to turn the computer off
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  • To turn the computer off and go take a good run.
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  • And go take a good run. when your spouse says
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  • When your spouse says something that irritates
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  • Something that irritates you, you're ready to give
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  • You, you're ready to give him a piece of your mind,
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  • Him a piece of your mind, tell him off. right then,
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  • Tell him off. right then, just like joseph you need
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  • Just like joseph you need to turn and run away.
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  • To turn and run away. you can explain it later.
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  • You can explain it later. what am i saying, "get out
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  • What am i saying, "get out of compromising situations
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  • Of compromising situations as quickly as you can."
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  • As quickly as you can." god will give you the grace
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  • God will give you the grace to overcome what you can't
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  • To overcome what you can't get away from. but he won't
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  • Get away from. but he won't give you the grace to
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  • Give you the grace to overcome what we can
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  • Overcome what we can get away from. sometimes
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  • Get away from. sometimes we keep falling into the
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  • We keep falling into the same temptation, the same
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  • Same temptation, the same compromise again and again.
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  • Compromise again and again. it could all change if we
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  • It could all change if we would do our part and get
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  • Would do our part and get out of those situations.
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  • Out of those situations. one time david was at
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  • One time david was at home. he had been resting
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  • Home. he had been resting most of the day and, around
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  • Most of the day and, around dusk, he decided to go on
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  • Dusk, he decided to go on his rooftop and get some
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  • His rooftop and get some fresh air. when he did he
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  • Fresh air. when he did he looked out and saw this
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  • Looked out and saw this beautiful young lady
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  • Beautiful young lady taking a bath. instead of
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  • Taking a bath. instead of running from the
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  • Running from the temptation he said, "thank
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  • Temptation he said, "thank you jesus!" (laughter)
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  • You jesus!" (laughter) the scripture says, "with
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  • The scripture says, "with every temptation god will
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  • Every temptation god will make a way of escape."
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  • Make a way of escape." there will always be a
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  • There will always be a moment of grace. there
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  • Moment of grace. there will be a time where you
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  • Will be a time where you will have the strength,
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  • Will have the strength, the ability to resist and
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  • The ability to resist and walk away. but here's the
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  • Walk away. but here's the key. the moment of grace
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  • Key. the moment of grace doesn't last hour after
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  • Doesn't last hour after hour. right at the start
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  • Hour. right at the start you've got to dig your
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  • You've got to dig your heels in; be disciplined
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  • Heels in; be disciplined to do the right thing.
  • 00:08:09.045 --> 00:08:11.013
  • To do the right thing. david let his guard down.
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  • David let his guard down. had an affair with the
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  • Had an affair with the woman; then he had her
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  • Woman; then he had her husband killed. one
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  • Husband killed. one compromise led to another.
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  • Compromise led to another. it could have all been
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  • It could have all been avoided if he had done
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  • Avoided if he had done like joseph and simply
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  • Like joseph and simply ran from the temptation.
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  • Ran from the temptation. joseph's father was jacob
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  • Joseph's father was jacob and joseph had a twin
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  • And joseph had a twin brother named esau. one
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  • Brother named esau. one time esau was very hungry.
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  • Time esau was very hungry. he had been out hunting
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  • He had been out hunting and couldn't find anything
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  • And couldn't find anything to eat. all of a sudden he
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  • To eat. all of a sudden he smelled this great aroma
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  • Smelled this great aroma in the air. it was the stew
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  • In the air. it was the stew that jacob had made. he
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  • That jacob had made. he went over and said, "jacob
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  • Went over and said, "jacob i'm famished. can i have
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  • I'm famished. can i have some of your stew? i'm so
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  • Some of your stew? i'm so hungry." you would think
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  • Hungry." you would think jacob would say, "sure
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  • Jacob would say, "sure esau. you're my brother
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  • Esau. you're my brother you can have as much as
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  • You can have as much as you want." but jacob never
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  • You want." but jacob never missed an opportunity to
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  • Missed an opportunity to take advantage of someone.
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  • Take advantage of someone. he said, "esau i'll be
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  • He said, "esau i'll be glad to give you some
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  • Glad to give you some stew if you'll trade me
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  • Stew if you'll trade me your birth-right for it."
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  • Your birth-right for it." the birthright was extremely
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  • The birthright was extremely valuable. it belonged to
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  • Valuable. it belonged to the firstborn son. it gave
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  • The firstborn son. it gave them a double portion.
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  • Them a double portion. esau was the oldest son.
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  • Esau was the oldest son. he had the birthright.
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  • He had the birthright. but he was so hungry he
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  • But he was so hungry he said, "what good is this
  • 00:09:21.317 --> 00:09:23.185
  • Said, "what good is this birthright going to do me
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  • Birthright going to do me if i starve to death?"
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  • If i starve to death?" when we let our feelings
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  • When we let our feelings rule us we never make
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  • Rule us we never make good decisions. esau
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  • Good decisions. esau wasn't going to starve.
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  • Wasn't going to starve. he was a skillful hunter.
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  • He was a skillful hunter. it was just a matter of
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  • It was just a matter of time before he found
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  • Time before he found something to eat.
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  • Something to eat. but he was so moved by
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  • But he was so moved by his feelings he said,
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  • His feelings he said, "okay, jacob, you got
  • 00:09:43.339 --> 00:09:44.507
  • "okay, jacob, you got a deal. i'll trade you
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  • A deal. i'll trade you my birthright for your
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  • My birthright for your pot of stew."
  • 00:09:47.276 --> 00:09:49.745
  • Pot of stew." esau chose to satisfy a
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  • Esau chose to satisfy a short-term appetite but
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  • Short-term appetite but it cost him a lifetime
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  • It cost him a lifetime blessing. he gave away
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  • Blessing. he gave away something extremely
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  • Something extremely valuable because he was
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  • Valuable because he was uncomfortable. he wanted
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  • Uncomfortable. he wanted to be happy right then.
  • 00:10:03.492 --> 00:10:05.761
  • To be happy right then. he didn't think about the
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  • He didn't think about the long-term. he didn't
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  • Long-term. he didn't realize that was a defining
  • 00:10:08.230 --> 00:10:09.565
  • Realize that was a defining moment. you can't get on
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  • Moment. you can't get on board with your feelings.
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  • Board with your feelings. your feelings will lead you
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  • Your feelings will lead you down the wrong path.
  • 00:10:14.537 --> 00:10:16.405
  • Down the wrong path. hebrews says, "esau had no
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  • Hebrews says, "esau had no chance to recall the choice
  • 00:10:18.674 --> 00:10:20.543
  • Chance to recall the choice he made. even though he
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  • He made. even though he sought for it with bitter
  • 00:10:22.912 --> 00:10:24.046
  • Sought for it with bitter tears." i wonder how many
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  • Tears." i wonder how many times we're missing god's
  • 00:10:26.348 --> 00:10:28.617
  • Times we're missing god's best because we're making
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  • Best because we're making decisions based on the
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  • Decisions based on the short term. what we want.
  • 00:10:32.354 --> 00:10:34.490
  • Short term. what we want. what we feel. the flesh
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  • What we feel. the flesh likes to be comfortable.
  • 00:10:36.392 --> 00:10:38.194
  • Likes to be comfortable. i know i should bite my
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  • I know i should bite my tongue but it feels good
  • 00:10:39.328 --> 00:10:40.830
  • Tongue but it feels good to tell them off. i know
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  • To tell them off. i know i should be faithful in
  • 00:10:42.264 --> 00:10:43.299
  • I should be faithful in this relationship but i
  • 00:10:43.365 --> 00:10:44.800
  • This relationship but i like hanging with this
  • 00:10:44.867 --> 00:10:46.068
  • Like hanging with this other person. or i know
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  • Other person. or i know i should have integrity
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  • I should have integrity in my business dealings
  • 00:10:49.405 --> 00:10:51.107
  • In my business dealings but, joel, this is an easy
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  • But, joel, this is an easy way to get ahead.
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  • Way to get ahead. the decision's you make in
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  • The decision's you make in your defining moments will
  • 00:10:55.544 --> 00:10:57.646
  • Your defining moments will determine how high you
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  • Determine how high you will rise. will you be a
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  • Will rise. will you be a joseph and do the right
  • 00:11:01.117 --> 00:11:02.451
  • Joseph and do the right thing when it's hard? or
  • 00:11:02.518 --> 00:11:04.520
  • Thing when it's hard? or will you be an esau and
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  • Will you be an esau and compromise to accommodate
  • 00:11:06.188 --> 00:11:08.457
  • Compromise to accommodate how you feel? esau was
  • 00:11:08.524 --> 00:11:11.360
  • How you feel? esau was so furious with jacob for
  • 00:11:11.427 --> 00:11:13.362
  • So furious with jacob for tricking him out of his
  • 00:11:13.429 --> 00:11:14.697
  • Tricking him out of his birthright he was planning
  • 00:11:14.764 --> 00:11:16.432
  • Birthright he was planning on killing him. jacob got
  • 00:11:16.499 --> 00:11:18.634
  • On killing him. jacob got word that his life was in
  • 00:11:18.701 --> 00:11:20.102
  • Word that his life was in danger and took off
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  • Danger and took off running. many years later
  • 00:11:23.272 --> 00:11:24.807
  • Running. many years later jacob had become so
  • 00:11:24.874 --> 00:11:26.742
  • Jacob had become so prosperous that the land
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  • Prosperous that the land couldn't sustain all of
  • 00:11:27.777 --> 00:11:28.410
  • Couldn't sustain all of his animals. he wanted to
  • 00:11:28.477 --> 00:11:29.712
  • His animals. he wanted to go back home. the problem
  • 00:11:29.779 --> 00:11:31.113
  • Go back home. the problem was the only route was
  • 00:11:31.180 --> 00:11:34.083
  • Was the only route was through the land that
  • 00:11:34.150 --> 00:11:35.184
  • Through the land that esau owned. jacob decided
  • 00:11:35.251 --> 00:11:37.686
  • Esau owned. jacob decided to take a chance.
  • 00:11:37.753 --> 00:11:39.688
  • To take a chance. he sent messengers to
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  • He sent messengers to give gifts to esau. the
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  • Give gifts to esau. the messengers came back and
  • 00:11:43.292 --> 00:11:44.627
  • Messengers came back and said, "jacob, esau is
  • 00:11:44.693 --> 00:11:46.829
  • Said, "jacob, esau is coming to see you and he's
  • 00:11:46.896 --> 00:11:48.197
  • Coming to see you and he's bringing four hundred men
  • 00:11:48.264 --> 00:11:50.099
  • Bringing four hundred men with him." jacob thought,
  • 00:11:50.166 --> 00:11:51.901
  • With him." jacob thought, "that means one thing ...
  • 00:11:51.967 --> 00:11:53.736
  • "that means one thing ... revenge! he's going to
  • 00:11:53.803 --> 00:11:54.937
  • Revenge! he's going to pay me back." jacob was
  • 00:11:55.004 --> 00:11:56.405
  • Pay me back." jacob was so full of fear and so
  • 00:11:56.472 --> 00:11:58.174
  • So full of fear and so uptight. this time he
  • 00:11:58.240 --> 00:12:00.342
  • Uptight. this time he sent hundreds of animals
  • 00:12:00.409 --> 00:12:03.445
  • Sent hundreds of animals ahead of him hoping that
  • 00:12:03.512 --> 00:12:05.314
  • Ahead of him hoping that when esau saw all the
  • 00:12:05.381 --> 00:12:07.082
  • When esau saw all the sheep, the camel, the
  • 00:12:07.149 --> 00:12:08.350
  • Sheep, the camel, the goats that his heart
  • 00:12:08.417 --> 00:12:09.885
  • Goats that his heart would be softened. finally
  • 00:12:09.952 --> 00:12:11.754
  • Would be softened. finally the big moment arrived.
  • 00:12:11.821 --> 00:12:14.356
  • The big moment arrived. they see esau and 400 men
  • 00:12:14.423 --> 00:12:15.891
  • They see esau and 400 men coming toward them.
  • 00:12:15.958 --> 00:12:17.593
  • Coming toward them. jacob's heart starts
  • 00:12:17.660 --> 00:12:18.994
  • Jacob's heart starts beating ninety-to-nothing.
  • 00:12:19.061 --> 00:12:20.663
  • Beating ninety-to-nothing. the adrenaline is flowing.
  • 00:12:20.729 --> 00:12:22.064
  • The adrenaline is flowing. he's about to see the man
  • 00:12:22.131 --> 00:12:23.566
  • He's about to see the man he cheated, deceived, stole
  • 00:12:23.632 --> 00:12:26.302
  • He cheated, deceived, stole his double portion. jacob
  • 00:12:26.368 --> 00:12:28.137
  • His double portion. jacob told someone to take his
  • 00:12:28.204 --> 00:12:29.805
  • Told someone to take his family, including his young
  • 00:12:29.872 --> 00:12:32.675
  • Family, including his young son joseph over to the side.
  • 00:12:32.741 --> 00:12:36.011
  • Son joseph over to the side. hopefully so they wouldn't
  • 00:12:36.078 --> 00:12:36.912
  • Hopefully so they wouldn't get hurt. this little boy
  • 00:12:36.979 --> 00:12:38.948
  • Get hurt. this little boy joseph is watching all
  • 00:12:39.014 --> 00:12:40.616
  • Joseph is watching all the drama take place.
  • 00:12:40.683 --> 00:12:42.952
  • The drama take place. he knows his father
  • 00:12:43.018 --> 00:12:44.620
  • He knows his father cheated his uncle esau.
  • 00:12:44.687 --> 00:12:47.389
  • Cheated his uncle esau. he knows his dad has
  • 00:12:47.456 --> 00:12:48.390
  • He knows his dad has done wrong. he's heard
  • 00:12:48.457 --> 00:12:49.825
  • Done wrong. he's heard the stories. esau is a
  • 00:12:49.892 --> 00:12:52.228
  • The stories. esau is a couple hundred yards away
  • 00:12:52.294 --> 00:12:53.696
  • Couple hundred yards away coming toward them. in an
  • 00:12:53.762 --> 00:12:55.397
  • Coming toward them. in an act of humility jacob went
  • 00:12:55.464 --> 00:12:57.099
  • Act of humility jacob went out and bowed down seven
  • 00:12:57.166 --> 00:12:58.901
  • Out and bowed down seven times before esau. when
  • 00:12:58.968 --> 00:13:01.871
  • Times before esau. when esau recognized it was
  • 00:13:01.937 --> 00:13:03.539
  • Esau recognized it was jacob he took off running
  • 00:13:03.606 --> 00:13:05.374
  • Jacob he took off running toward him. jacob thought,
  • 00:13:05.441 --> 00:13:07.042
  • Toward him. jacob thought, "oh great! i'm done! this
  • 00:13:07.109 --> 00:13:08.811
  • "oh great! i'm done! this is it!" it wasn't what he
  • 00:13:08.878 --> 00:13:09.845
  • Is it!" it wasn't what he thought. when esau got
  • 00:13:09.912 --> 00:13:11.647
  • Thought. when esau got there he grabbed jacob
  • 00:13:11.714 --> 00:13:13.515
  • There he grabbed jacob and gave him a big hug.
  • 00:13:13.582 --> 00:13:16.785
  • And gave him a big hug. the scripture says, "he
  • 00:13:16.852 --> 00:13:17.820
  • The scripture says, "he threw his arms around
  • 00:13:17.887 --> 00:13:19.822
  • Threw his arms around his neck and kissed him
  • 00:13:19.889 --> 00:13:20.789
  • His neck and kissed him and embraced him."
  • 00:13:20.856 --> 00:13:23.025
  • And embraced him." they both began to weep
  • 00:13:23.092 --> 00:13:24.660
  • They both began to weep and weep. finally esau
  • 00:13:24.727 --> 00:13:26.528
  • And weep. finally esau looked up and said,
  • 00:13:26.595 --> 00:13:28.330
  • Looked up and said, "jacob, who are all of
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  • "jacob, who are all of these people around us?"
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  • These people around us?" jacob said, "this is my
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  • Jacob said, "this is my family! these are my
  • 00:13:32.801 --> 00:13:34.303
  • Family! these are my children. in fact there's
  • 00:13:34.370 --> 00:13:35.938
  • Children. in fact there's your little nephew joseph
  • 00:13:36.005 --> 00:13:37.873
  • Your little nephew joseph over there." i can imagine
  • 00:13:37.940 --> 00:13:39.842
  • Over there." i can imagine esau going over and hugging
  • 00:13:39.909 --> 00:13:41.710
  • Esau going over and hugging joseph. it was a defining
  • 00:13:41.777 --> 00:13:44.380
  • Joseph. it was a defining moment. not only in esau's
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  • Moment. not only in esau's life, this time he passed
  • 00:13:46.749 --> 00:13:48.250
  • Life, this time he passed the test; but it was a
  • 00:13:48.317 --> 00:13:49.785
  • The test; but it was a defining moment in joseph's
  • 00:13:49.852 --> 00:13:51.754
  • Defining moment in joseph's life. he saw his uncle
  • 00:13:51.820 --> 00:13:55.057
  • Life. he saw his uncle show mercy to his father.
  • 00:13:55.124 --> 00:13:57.660
  • Show mercy to his father. he saw him forgive a wrong,
  • 00:13:57.726 --> 00:13:59.862
  • He saw him forgive a wrong, and take the high road.
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  • And take the high road. this incredible act of
  • 00:14:01.597 --> 00:14:02.865
  • This incredible act of kindness left an indelible
  • 00:14:02.932 --> 00:14:04.900
  • Kindness left an indelible mark on joseph's heart.
  • 00:14:04.967 --> 00:14:07.636
  • Mark on joseph's heart. fast forward many, many
  • 00:14:07.703 --> 00:14:09.238
  • Fast forward many, many years later. this little
  • 00:14:09.305 --> 00:14:10.839
  • Years later. this little boy, joseph, is a grown
  • 00:14:10.906 --> 00:14:12.574
  • Boy, joseph, is a grown man. he's been sold into
  • 00:14:12.641 --> 00:14:14.810
  • Man. he's been sold into slavery, he's been thrown
  • 00:14:14.877 --> 00:14:16.512
  • Slavery, he's been thrown into a pit, he's been
  • 00:14:16.578 --> 00:14:18.547
  • Into a pit, he's been through prison...now he's
  • 00:14:18.614 --> 00:14:20.516
  • Through prison...now he's the leader of a great
  • 00:14:20.582 --> 00:14:22.351
  • The leader of a great nation. second in command
  • 00:14:22.418 --> 00:14:24.987
  • Nation. second in command only to the pharaoh.
  • 00:14:25.054 --> 00:14:26.555
  • Only to the pharaoh. there's a terrible famine
  • 00:14:26.622 --> 00:14:28.023
  • There's a terrible famine throughout the land.
  • 00:14:28.090 --> 00:14:29.558
  • Throughout the land. joseph is in charge of
  • 00:14:29.625 --> 00:14:30.993
  • Joseph is in charge of the food supply, one of
  • 00:14:31.060 --> 00:14:32.561
  • The food supply, one of the most powerful people
  • 00:14:32.628 --> 00:14:34.229
  • The most powerful people of that time. one day his
  • 00:14:34.296 --> 00:14:36.165
  • Of that time. one day his brothers, the same one's
  • 00:14:36.231 --> 00:14:39.001
  • Brothers, the same one's that threw him into a pit.
  • 00:14:39.068 --> 00:14:41.170
  • That threw him into a pit. the same one's that sold
  • 00:14:41.236 --> 00:14:42.338
  • The same one's that sold him into slavery and made
  • 00:14:42.404 --> 00:14:43.906
  • Him into slavery and made his life so miserable were
  • 00:14:43.973 --> 00:14:45.841
  • His life so miserable were now standing right before
  • 00:14:45.908 --> 00:14:48.110
  • Now standing right before him. they were trying to
  • 00:14:48.177 --> 00:14:50.145
  • Him. they were trying to get food for their family.
  • 00:14:50.212 --> 00:14:52.614
  • Get food for their family. it had been so many years
  • 00:14:52.681 --> 00:14:53.983
  • It had been so many years they didn't recognize that
  • 00:14:54.049 --> 00:14:55.417
  • They didn't recognize that it was their brother,
  • 00:14:55.484 --> 00:14:56.819
  • It was their brother, joseph. they all bowed
  • 00:14:56.885 --> 00:14:58.554
  • Joseph. they all bowed down before joseph in
  • 00:14:58.620 --> 00:15:00.155
  • Down before joseph in humility. joseph suddenly
  • 00:15:00.222 --> 00:15:02.458
  • Humility. joseph suddenly flashes back to that time
  • 00:15:02.524 --> 00:15:04.927
  • Flashes back to that time when he was a little boy
  • 00:15:04.994 --> 00:15:07.363
  • When he was a little boy and he saw jacob, his
  • 00:15:07.429 --> 00:15:09.298
  • And he saw jacob, his father, bow down to esau.
  • 00:15:09.365 --> 00:15:11.900
  • Father, bow down to esau. all of these emotions come
  • 00:15:11.967 --> 00:15:13.235
  • All of these emotions come flooding up in his heart.
  • 00:15:13.302 --> 00:15:15.771
  • Flooding up in his heart. it's like the same scene is
  • 00:15:15.838 --> 00:15:17.439
  • It's like the same scene is playing out but this time
  • 00:15:17.506 --> 00:15:19.541
  • Playing out but this time he's in esau's position.
  • 00:15:19.608 --> 00:15:22.811
  • He's in esau's position. he remembers how esau
  • 00:15:22.878 --> 00:15:24.913
  • He remembers how esau showed his father mercy.
  • 00:15:24.980 --> 00:15:26.949
  • Showed his father mercy. he remembers how esau
  • 00:15:27.016 --> 00:15:27.983
  • He remembers how esau forgave the wrong, treated
  • 00:15:28.050 --> 00:15:30.019
  • Forgave the wrong, treated him with kindness even
  • 00:15:30.085 --> 00:15:31.420
  • Him with kindness even though his father didn't
  • 00:15:31.487 --> 00:15:32.488
  • Though his father didn't deserve it. joseph looked
  • 00:15:32.554 --> 00:15:35.024
  • Deserve it. joseph looked at his brothers. when he
  • 00:15:35.090 --> 00:15:37.292
  • At his brothers. when he could have gotten revenge,
  • 00:15:37.359 --> 00:15:38.727
  • Could have gotten revenge, when he could have paid
  • 00:15:38.794 --> 00:15:39.895
  • When he could have paid them back. but because of
  • 00:15:39.962 --> 00:15:42.331
  • Them back. but because of a defining moment that
  • 00:15:42.398 --> 00:15:43.966
  • A defining moment that happened when he was a
  • 00:15:44.033 --> 00:15:44.933
  • Happened when he was a little boy he too was
  • 00:15:45.000 --> 00:15:47.002
  • Little boy he too was full of mercy. he treated
  • 00:15:47.069 --> 00:15:49.071
  • Full of mercy. he treated his brothers like esau
  • 00:15:49.138 --> 00:15:51.340
  • His brothers like esau treated his father.
  • 00:15:51.407 --> 00:15:53.642
  • Treated his father. genesis says that, "he
  • 00:15:53.709 --> 00:15:54.777
  • Genesis says that, "he threw his arms around
  • 00:15:54.843 --> 00:15:55.911
  • Threw his arms around their necks, hugged them,
  • 00:15:55.978 --> 00:15:57.479
  • Their necks, hugged them, embraced them. they wept
  • 00:15:57.546 --> 00:15:59.381
  • Embraced them. they wept together." joseph moved
  • 00:15:59.448 --> 00:16:01.350
  • Together." joseph moved all of his brothers,
  • 00:16:01.417 --> 00:16:02.918
  • All of his brothers, 70 family members,
  • 00:16:02.985 --> 00:16:04.353
  • 70 family members, including his father
  • 00:16:04.420 --> 00:16:05.654
  • Including his father back to egypt. he gave
  • 00:16:05.721 --> 00:16:07.189
  • Back to egypt. he gave them the best part of
  • 00:16:07.256 --> 00:16:08.690
  • Them the best part of the land.
  • 00:16:08.757 --> 00:16:10.359
  • The land. what am i saying? the
  • 00:16:10.426 --> 00:16:11.527
  • What am i saying? the decisions you make in
  • 00:16:11.593 --> 00:16:13.062
  • Decisions you make in your defining moments
  • 00:16:13.128 --> 00:16:14.730
  • Your defining moments not only affect you but
  • 00:16:14.797 --> 00:16:16.932
  • Not only affect you but they affect your children.
  • 00:16:16.999 --> 00:16:18.734
  • They affect your children. how you respond to a wrong
  • 00:16:18.801 --> 00:16:20.536
  • How you respond to a wrong that's been done to you.
  • 00:16:20.602 --> 00:16:22.104
  • That's been done to you. how you handle a
  • 00:16:22.171 --> 00:16:23.105
  • How you handle a disappointment. your
  • 00:16:23.172 --> 00:16:24.473
  • Disappointment. your attitude in the tough
  • 00:16:24.540 --> 00:16:25.808
  • Attitude in the tough times, that's leaving a
  • 00:16:25.874 --> 00:16:27.576
  • Times, that's leaving a mark on those around
  • 00:16:27.643 --> 00:16:28.844
  • Mark on those around you. sometimes you have
  • 00:16:28.911 --> 00:16:30.913
  • You. sometimes you have to do the right thing.
  • 00:16:30.979 --> 00:16:32.815
  • To do the right thing. not because you feel
  • 00:16:32.881 --> 00:16:33.515
  • Not because you feel like it but because you
  • 00:16:33.582 --> 00:16:34.917
  • Like it but because you are setting an example
  • 00:16:34.983 --> 00:16:37.219
  • Are setting an example for your children. that
  • 00:16:37.286 --> 00:16:39.054
  • For your children. that defining moment will live
  • 00:16:39.121 --> 00:16:40.255
  • Defining moment will live on. maybe you get a
  • 00:16:40.322 --> 00:16:42.324
  • On. maybe you get a negative medical report.
  • 00:16:42.391 --> 00:16:43.459
  • Negative medical report. you feel like falling
  • 00:16:43.525 --> 00:16:45.160
  • You feel like falling apart. but in that
  • 00:16:45.227 --> 00:16:46.795
  • Apart. but in that defining moment you stay
  • 00:16:46.862 --> 00:16:48.897
  • Defining moment you stay in peace. you know god's
  • 00:16:48.964 --> 00:16:50.632
  • In peace. you know god's in control. the number of
  • 00:16:50.699 --> 00:16:52.801
  • In control. the number of your days he will fulfill.
  • 00:16:52.868 --> 00:16:55.037
  • Your days he will fulfill. when your children hit a
  • 00:16:55.104 --> 00:16:56.505
  • When your children hit a tough time, do you know
  • 00:16:56.572 --> 00:16:58.140
  • Tough time, do you know what they'll do?
  • 00:16:58.207 --> 00:16:59.108
  • What they'll do? stay in peace. they'll
  • 00:16:59.174 --> 00:17:00.309
  • Stay in peace. they'll follow your example.
  • 00:17:00.375 --> 00:17:01.977
  • Follow your example. your response in defining
  • 00:17:02.044 --> 00:17:04.146
  • Your response in defining moments speaks volumes.
  • 00:17:04.213 --> 00:17:07.883
  • Moments speaks volumes. this is what's creating
  • 00:17:07.950 --> 00:17:09.084
  • This is what's creating your legacy. what you
  • 00:17:09.151 --> 00:17:10.619
  • Your legacy. what you did in the difficult
  • 00:17:10.686 --> 00:17:12.421
  • Did in the difficult times. how you treated
  • 00:17:12.488 --> 00:17:14.256
  • Times. how you treated people that didn't treat
  • 00:17:14.323 --> 00:17:15.691
  • People that didn't treat you right. any of us can
  • 00:17:15.757 --> 00:17:17.893
  • You right. any of us can do the right thing in the
  • 00:17:17.960 --> 00:17:19.928
  • Do the right thing in the good times, that's easy.
  • 00:17:19.995 --> 00:17:21.196
  • Good times, that's easy. but to reach the fullness
  • 00:17:21.263 --> 00:17:22.631
  • But to reach the fullness of your destiny, you have
  • 00:17:22.698 --> 00:17:23.999
  • Of your destiny, you have to pass the test of these
  • 00:17:24.066 --> 00:17:25.567
  • To pass the test of these defining moments.
  • 00:17:25.634 --> 00:17:28.237
  • Defining moments. the defining moments carry much
  • 00:17:28.303 --> 00:17:30.739
  • The defining moments carry much weight. make sure you're
  • 00:17:30.806 --> 00:17:32.641
  • Weight. make sure you're passing the test. no
  • 00:17:32.708 --> 00:17:34.610
  • Passing the test. no person lives or dies unto
  • 00:17:34.676 --> 00:17:36.879
  • Person lives or dies unto himself. people are
  • 00:17:36.945 --> 00:17:38.981
  • Himself. people are watching you, not just
  • 00:17:39.047 --> 00:17:40.215
  • Watching you, not just your children. your
  • 00:17:40.282 --> 00:17:41.416
  • Your children. your co-workers. your neighbors.
  • 00:17:41.483 --> 00:17:43.051
  • Co-workers. your neighbors. that person at the gym.
  • 00:17:43.118 --> 00:17:44.653
  • That person at the gym. what makes the biggest
  • 00:17:44.720 --> 00:17:45.754
  • What makes the biggest impression is not what we
  • 00:17:45.821 --> 00:17:47.489
  • Impression is not what we do in the good times but
  • 00:17:47.556 --> 00:17:49.358
  • Do in the good times but it's how we respond in
  • 00:17:49.424 --> 00:17:50.893
  • It's how we respond in the difficult times.
  • 00:17:50.959 --> 00:17:53.929
  • The difficult times. the next time you have an
  • 00:17:53.996 --> 00:17:54.796
  • The next time you have an unfair situation-someone
  • 00:17:54.863 --> 00:17:56.331
  • Unfair situation-someone does you wrong, your
  • 00:17:56.398 --> 00:17:57.633
  • Does you wrong, your plans don't work out.
  • 00:17:57.699 --> 00:17:59.201
  • Plans don't work out. instead of making a quick
  • 00:17:59.268 --> 00:18:00.269
  • Instead of making a quick decision that you may
  • 00:18:00.335 --> 00:18:01.603
  • Decision that you may regret later on why don't
  • 00:18:01.670 --> 00:18:03.438
  • Regret later on why don't you take a step back and
  • 00:18:03.505 --> 00:18:05.107
  • You take a step back and say, "ok, i recognize
  • 00:18:05.174 --> 00:18:07.943
  • Say, "ok, i recognize this is one of my defining
  • 00:18:08.010 --> 00:18:09.278
  • This is one of my defining moments. i'm not going to
  • 00:18:09.344 --> 00:18:10.779
  • Moments. i'm not going to take the easy way out.
  • 00:18:10.846 --> 00:18:12.381
  • Take the easy way out. i'm not going to be rude
  • 00:18:12.447 --> 00:18:13.815
  • I'm not going to be rude because they were rude
  • 00:18:13.882 --> 00:18:15.217
  • Because they were rude to me. i'm not going to
  • 00:18:15.284 --> 00:18:16.084
  • To me. i'm not going to be discouraged because
  • 00:18:16.151 --> 00:18:17.252
  • Be discouraged because i went through a loss.
  • 00:18:17.319 --> 00:18:18.887
  • I went through a loss. i know god is still on
  • 00:18:18.954 --> 00:18:20.088
  • I know god is still on the throne. this is not
  • 00:18:20.155 --> 00:18:21.490
  • The throne. this is not a surprise to him so i'm
  • 00:18:21.557 --> 00:18:23.325
  • A surprise to him so i'm going to stay on the
  • 00:18:23.392 --> 00:18:24.092
  • Going to stay on the high road, in peace and
  • 00:18:24.159 --> 00:18:25.194
  • High road, in peace and keep doing the right
  • 00:18:25.260 --> 00:18:26.595
  • Keep doing the right thing." when you do that,
  • 00:18:26.662 --> 00:18:28.931
  • Thing." when you do that, you're passing the test.
  • 00:18:28.997 --> 00:18:30.866
  • You're passing the test. that's what is creating
  • 00:18:30.933 --> 00:18:32.467
  • That's what is creating your legacy more than
  • 00:18:32.534 --> 00:18:34.269
  • Your legacy more than your accomplishments,
  • 00:18:34.336 --> 00:18:36.104
  • Your accomplishments, your character, your
  • 00:18:36.171 --> 00:18:37.306
  • Your character, your integrity, how you treat
  • 00:18:37.372 --> 00:18:39.274
  • Integrity, how you treat people, that's what is
  • 00:18:39.341 --> 00:18:40.709
  • People, that's what is being passed down to your
  • 00:18:40.776 --> 00:18:42.044
  • Being passed down to your children; to future
  • 00:18:42.110 --> 00:18:43.312
  • Children; to future generations. we may not
  • 00:18:43.378 --> 00:18:45.280
  • Generations. we may not always get it right.
  • 00:18:45.347 --> 00:18:47.482
  • Always get it right. i'm not saying we should
  • 00:18:47.549 --> 00:18:48.483
  • I'm not saying we should never make a mistake but
  • 00:18:48.550 --> 00:18:50.452
  • Never make a mistake but we should be improving.
  • 00:18:50.519 --> 00:18:52.688
  • We should be improving. we should be better this
  • 00:18:52.754 --> 00:18:53.755
  • We should be better this year than we were five
  • 00:18:53.822 --> 00:18:54.990
  • Year than we were five years ago.
  • 00:18:55.057 --> 00:18:56.959
  • Years ago. when i was 24 years old
  • 00:18:57.025 --> 00:18:58.427
  • When i was 24 years old i was in the tv control
  • 00:18:58.493 --> 00:19:00.329
  • I was in the tv control room at the church.
  • 00:19:00.395 --> 00:19:02.030
  • Room at the church. my father had just
  • 00:19:02.097 --> 00:19:03.098
  • My father had just finished ministering. the
  • 00:19:03.165 --> 00:19:04.166
  • Finished ministering. the service was just over.
  • 00:19:04.233 --> 00:19:06.001
  • Service was just over. i was standing there
  • 00:19:06.068 --> 00:19:07.336
  • I was standing there talking with some of my
  • 00:19:07.402 --> 00:19:08.237
  • Talking with some of my friends. we were laughing
  • 00:19:08.303 --> 00:19:09.705
  • Friends. we were laughing and just having a good
  • 00:19:09.771 --> 00:19:11.106
  • And just having a good time. my father came into
  • 00:19:11.173 --> 00:19:13.242
  • Time. my father came into the control room. i was
  • 00:19:13.308 --> 00:19:15.143
  • The control room. i was very surprised to see him.
  • 00:19:15.210 --> 00:19:16.745
  • Very surprised to see him. he never came back after
  • 00:19:16.812 --> 00:19:17.913
  • He never came back after the service. he was very
  • 00:19:17.980 --> 00:19:19.581
  • The service. he was very upset. for some reason
  • 00:19:19.648 --> 00:19:22.417
  • Upset. for some reason he thought we had been
  • 00:19:22.484 --> 00:19:23.819
  • He thought we had been laughing and making fun
  • 00:19:23.885 --> 00:19:25.320
  • Laughing and making fun of things during the
  • 00:19:25.387 --> 00:19:26.488
  • Of things during the service, but we weren't.
  • 00:19:26.555 --> 00:19:28.890
  • Service, but we weren't. we had been working like
  • 00:19:28.957 --> 00:19:29.625
  • We had been working like normal. i was directing,
  • 00:19:29.691 --> 00:19:30.759
  • Normal. i was directing, the other guys were
  • 00:19:30.826 --> 00:19:31.526
  • The other guys were running the cameras.
  • 00:19:31.593 --> 00:19:32.761
  • Running the cameras. my father told us how we
  • 00:19:32.828 --> 00:19:34.429
  • My father told us how we shouldn't be disrespectful.
  • 00:19:34.496 --> 00:19:36.999
  • Shouldn't be disrespectful. how we shouldn't be making
  • 00:19:37.065 --> 00:19:37.833
  • How we shouldn't be making fun like that and how we
  • 00:19:37.899 --> 00:19:38.900
  • Fun like that and how we should take it more
  • 00:19:38.967 --> 00:19:39.868
  • Should take it more seriously, on and on.
  • 00:19:39.935 --> 00:19:41.503
  • Seriously, on and on. there were six of us
  • 00:19:41.570 --> 00:19:42.871
  • There were six of us in the room. the other
  • 00:19:42.938 --> 00:19:44.139
  • In the room. the other young men weren't about
  • 00:19:44.206 --> 00:19:46.174
  • Young men weren't about to open their mouth's and
  • 00:19:46.241 --> 00:19:47.209
  • To open their mouth's and defend themselves they
  • 00:19:47.276 --> 00:19:48.377
  • Defend themselves they just took it all in like
  • 00:19:48.443 --> 00:19:49.478
  • Just took it all in like they were guilty.
  • 00:19:49.544 --> 00:19:50.946
  • They were guilty. but i said very politely,
  • 00:19:51.013 --> 00:19:52.180
  • But i said very politely, "daddy, we didn't do
  • 00:19:52.247 --> 00:19:53.315
  • "daddy, we didn't do anything wrong. it's not
  • 00:19:53.382 --> 00:19:54.883
  • Anything wrong. it's not what you think."
  • 00:19:54.950 --> 00:19:56.251
  • What you think." he didn't want to hear it.
  • 00:19:56.318 --> 00:19:57.619
  • He didn't want to hear it. he kept chewing us out,
  • 00:19:57.686 --> 00:19:58.654
  • He kept chewing us out, letting us have it. i got
  • 00:19:58.720 --> 00:19:59.821
  • Letting us have it. i got home about an hour later.
  • 00:19:59.888 --> 00:20:01.923
  • Home about an hour later. the phone rang, it was my
  • 00:20:01.990 --> 00:20:03.492
  • The phone rang, it was my father. he said, "joel,
  • 00:20:03.558 --> 00:20:05.427
  • Father. he said, "joel, i blew it tonight. i'm so
  • 00:20:05.494 --> 00:20:07.696
  • I blew it tonight. i'm so sorry. i was uptight
  • 00:20:07.763 --> 00:20:09.998
  • Sorry. i was uptight about some other things.
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  • About some other things. i want you to forgive me."
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  • I want you to forgive me." i said, "of course i'll
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  • I said, "of course i'll forgive you." then he
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  • Forgive you." then he asked for the phone
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  • Asked for the phone numbers of the other
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  • Numbers of the other people in the room. he
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  • People in the room. he wouldn't go to bed until
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  • Wouldn't go to bed until he made things right.
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  • He made things right. i said, "you don't have to
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  • I said, "you don't have to call them. they're going
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  • Call them. they're going to be fine." he said, "no.
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  • To be fine." he said, "no. i need to take care of it
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  • I need to take care of it right now." eleven o'clock
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  • Right now." eleven o'clock at night here this well
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  • At night here this well respected 65-year-old
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  • Respected 65-year-old pastor is calling these
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  • Pastor is calling these 20 year old young men
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  • 20 year old young men to say that he was sorry.
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  • To say that he was sorry. to this day my friends
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  • To this day my friends still talk about that
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  • Still talk about that time my father called to
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  • Time my father called to apologize. that was a
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  • Apologize. that was a defining moment. it made
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  • Defining moment. it made a huge impression upon
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  • A huge impression upon me.
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  • Me. god doesn't expect us to
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  • God doesn't expect us to be perfect but what we do
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  • Be perfect but what we do after we make a mistake
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  • After we make a mistake speaks volumes. are you
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  • Speaks volumes. are you secure enough to call
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  • Secure enough to call and apologize? do you
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  • And apologize? do you have the humility to say,
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  • Have the humility to say, "i was wrong. i blew it.
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  • "i was wrong. i blew it. forgive me. i'm sorry."
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  • Forgive me. i'm sorry." your children. your
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  • Your children. your relatives. your co-workers.
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  • Relatives. your co-workers. they'll never forget that.
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  • They'll never forget that. that defining moment will
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  • That defining moment will live on. when they make
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  • Live on. when they make a mistake because of your
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  • A mistake because of your example they will be inspired
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  • Example they will be inspired to do the right thing.
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  • To do the right thing. fifty-six years ago was
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  • Fifty-six years ago was another defining moment
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  • Another defining moment in my families life. my
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  • In my families life. my father had been the
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  • Father had been the pastor of a large,
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  • Pastor of a large, successful church.
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  • Successful church. they had just built a
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  • They had just built a beautiful new sanctuary.
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  • Beautiful new sanctuary. my father knew there was
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  • My father knew there was more. he came back and
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  • More. he came back and talked to his congregation
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  • Talked to his congregation about how god can heal
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  • About how god can heal and restore and how we
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  • And restore and how we should live an abundant
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  • Should live an abundant and overcoming life.
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  • And overcoming life. but some of the people in
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  • But some of the people in the congregation didn't
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  • The congregation didn't like his new message of
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  • Like his new message of faith, and hope, and
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  • Faith, and hope, and victory. long story short
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  • Victory. long story short my father had to leave.
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  • My father had to leave. now this church that he
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  • Now this church that he poured his life into for
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  • Poured his life into for many, many years was no
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  • Many, many years was no longer his. he could have
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  • Longer his. he could have easily gotten discouraged
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  • Easily gotten discouraged and bitter and thought,
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  • And bitter and thought, "god i was doing the
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  • "god i was doing the right thing. why did this
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  • Right thing. why did this happen to me?" but in
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  • Happen to me?" but in that defining moment he
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  • That defining moment he didn't give up, he didn't
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  • Didn't give up, he didn't blame others, he didn't
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  • Blame others, he didn't believe the lies that he
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  • Believe the lies that he was finished. he and my
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  • Was finished. he and my mother went out on
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  • Mother went out on mother's day in 1959 and
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  • Mother's day in 1959 and started lakewood church
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  • Started lakewood church with ninety people.
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  • With ninety people. (applause)
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  • (applause) today we celebrate our
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  • Today we celebrate our 56th anniversary because
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  • 56th anniversary because somebody made a right
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  • Somebody made a right choice in a defining
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  • Choice in a defining moment.
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  • Moment. friends we all have unfair
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  • Friends we all have unfair situations. we all have
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  • Situations. we all have setbacks. the flesh likes
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  • Setbacks. the flesh likes to get discouraged, fall
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  • To get discouraged, fall into self pity, blame
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  • Into self pity, blame others. do like my father.
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  • Others. do like my father. don't get stuck there.
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  • Don't get stuck there. move onto the next chapter
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  • Move onto the next chapter of your life. that loss is
  • 00:22:49.891 --> 00:22:51.026
  • Of your life. that loss is to make room for a new
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  • To make room for a new beginning. now all of us
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  • Beginning. now all of us face these temptations.
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  • Face these temptations. not to just compromise
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  • Not to just compromise but a temptation to get
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  • But a temptation to get discouraged, to give up
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  • Discouraged, to give up on your dreams. god has
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  • On your dreams. god has made a way of escape.
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  • Made a way of escape. there is an moment of grace
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  • There is an moment of grace for every difficulty, i'm
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  • For every difficulty, i'm asking you to step into it.
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  • Asking you to step into it. pass that test!
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  • Pass that test! remember the decisions you
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  • Remember the decisions you make in the defining moments
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  • Make in the defining moments not only affect you, they
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  • Not only affect you, they affect your family line.
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  • Affect your family line. choose wisely. stay on the
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  • Choose wisely. stay on the high road. if you do this
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  • High road. if you do this i believe and declare your
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  • I believe and declare your defining moments won't
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  • Defining moments won't defeat you they'll promote
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  • Defeat you they'll promote you. you and your children
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  • You. you and your children will rise higher, accomplish
  • 00:23:28.597 --> 00:23:30.732
  • Will rise higher, accomplish dreams and become everything
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  • Dreams and become everything god created you to be in
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  • God created you to be in jesus' name. if you receive
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  • Jesus' name. if you receive it, can you say amen today?
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  • It, can you say amen today? (applause)
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  • (applause) we never like to close
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  • We never like to close our broadcast without
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  • Our broadcast without giving you an opportunity
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  • Giving you an opportunity to make jesus the lord of
  • 00:23:45.347 --> 00:23:46.314
  • To make jesus the lord of your life. would you pray
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  • Your life. would you pray with me? just say, "lord
  • 00:23:48.049 --> 00:23:49.518
  • With me? just say, "lord jesus, i repent of my sins.
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  • Jesus, i repent of my sins. come into my heart. i make
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  • Come into my heart. i make you my lord and savior."
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  • You my lord and savior." friends, if you prayed that
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  • Friends, if you prayed that simple prayer we believe
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  • Simple prayer we believe you got born again.
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  • You got born again. get in a good bible-based
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  • Get in a good bible-based church. keep god first
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  • Church. keep god first place. he is going to take
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  • Place. he is going to take you places that you've
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  • You places that you've never dreamed.
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  • It's a new year.
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  • An opportunity
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  • For a fresh start.
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  • It's a new year.
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  • Time to forget
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  • The struggles of the past
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  • And make room
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  • For new blessings.
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  • It's a new year.
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  • The perfect time
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  • To build expectation
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  • And faith
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  • For an amazing new season.
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  • The beginning of the year
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  • Is a great time
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  • To start afresh and anew,
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  • To let go of negative
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  • Things of the past,
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  • And to get ready
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  • For the new things
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  • God has in store.
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  • Every january,
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  • We create
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  • A new devotional calendar.
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  • When you start off
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  • Each day in faith,
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  • Grateful for what
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  • God has done
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  • And making
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  • Positive declarations
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  • Over your future,
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  • You're setting the tone
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  • For a blessed day
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  • And a victorious year.
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  • This devotional calendar
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  • Will help
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  • You get your mind
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  • Going in the right direction,
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  • So you can live in faith
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  • Expecting the goodness of god.
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  • There's something
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  • For every day of the year.
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  • Inspiration and encouragement.
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  • It's amazing
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  • What happens when you put god
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  • First place.
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  • You'll have a blessed,
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  • Favor-filled 2025.
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  • As our way of
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  • Saying thank you
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  • For your gift of any amount
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  • This first month of the year,
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  • We would like to send you
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  • A copy
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  • Of our brand
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  • New 2025
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  • 365-day devotional calendar.
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  • Do you want to set
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  • A faith course
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  • For your life in 2025?
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  • Do you want to see your life
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  • Take off
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  • In new directions
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  • Of influence, favor,
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  • And provision
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  • In the year ahead?
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  • Using this
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  • Devotional calendar
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  • Is as easy as 1-2-3.
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  • One: wake up with an expectancy
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  • In your heart.
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  • Two: reflect
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  • On the daily scripture verse
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  • And devotional from joel.
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  • Three:
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  • Capture the lord's
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  • Promises to you
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  • On journaling lines
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  • For writing and reflection.
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  • This is going to be
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  • One of your best years.
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  • Our 2025
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  • Devotional calendar
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  • Is going to help
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  • You stay in faith
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  • And see the goodness
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  • Of god in ways
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  • You've never seen.
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  • Victoria and i pray for
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  • You and your family every day,
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  • And thank you so much
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  • For your prayer and support.
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  • Your generosity is impacting
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  • Lives around the world.
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  • And a special
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  • Thank you to our champion
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  • Of hope partners
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  • If you're not a partner,
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  • I hope you'll consider
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  • Becoming one.
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  • But until we meet again,
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  • May the lord bless
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  • You and keep you.
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