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Joel Osteen | Joel Osteen - Defining Moments | January 16, 2025
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- (applause) well, god bless you. it's
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- Well, god bless you. it's always a joy to come into
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- Always a joy to come into your homes. if you're ever
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- Your homes. if you're ever in our area please stop by
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- In our area please stop by and be a part of one of
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- And be a part of one of our services. i promise
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- Our services. i promise you we'll make you feel
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- You we'll make you feel right at home. thanks so
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- Right at home. thanks so much for tuning in and
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- Much for tuning in and thank you again for coming
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- Thank you again for coming out today.
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- Out today. i like to start with
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- I like to start with something funny. i heard
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- Something funny. i heard about this lady. she saw
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- About this lady. she saw this little old man
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- This little old man sitting on his front porch
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- Sitting on his front porch rocking in his rocking
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- Rocking in his rocking chair. he always seemed
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- Chair. he always seemed to be so happy. she
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- To be so happy. she finally went over to him
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- Finally went over to him and said, "i can't help
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- And said, "i can't help but notice you're always
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- But notice you're always smiling. always in a good
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- Smiling. always in a good mood. tell me what is
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- Mood. tell me what is your secret for such a
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- Your secret for such a long, happy life? he said,
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- Long, happy life? he said, "that's easy. i smoke
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- "that's easy. i smoke three packs of cigarettes
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- Three packs of cigarettes everyday. i eat nothing
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- Everyday. i eat nothing but junk food. and i never
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- But junk food. and i never exercise."
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- Exercise." she said, "that's amazing!
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- She said, "that's amazing! how old are you?" he said,
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- How old are you?" he said, "26." (applause)
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- "26." (applause) hold up your bible.
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- Hold up your bible. say it like you mean it.
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- Say it like you mean it. this is my bible. i am
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- This is my bible. i am what it says i am. i have
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- What it says i am. i have what it says i have. i can
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- What it says i have. i can do what it says i can do.
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- Do what it says i can do. today i will be taught the
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- Today i will be taught the word of god. i boldly
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- Word of god. i boldly confess, my mind is alert,
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- Confess, my mind is alert, my heart is receptive,
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- My heart is receptive, i will never be the same
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- I will never be the same in jesus' name. god bless
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- In jesus' name. god bless you.
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- You. i want to talk to you today
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- I want to talk to you today about "defining moments".
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- About "defining moments". we all make hundreds of
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- We all make hundreds of decisions each day. most
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- Decisions each day. most of them are routine. we
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- Of them are routine. we don't think much about
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- Don't think much about them. but there are certain
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- Them. but there are certain decisions that carry much
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- Decisions that carry much more weight. they not only
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- More weight. they not only affect us but they affect
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- Affect us but they affect our children and future
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- Our children and future generations. sometimes
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- Generations. sometimes what we think is an
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- What we think is an ordinary decision, no big
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- Ordinary decision, no big deal, is really a defining
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- Deal, is really a defining moment. when you're in a
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- Moment. when you're in a situation where you're
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- Situation where you're tempted to compromise,
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- Tempted to compromise, to get upset, to be bitter.
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- To get upset, to be bitter. you know to make the right
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- You know to make the right choice you have to dig your
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- Choice you have to dig your heels in, be disciplined,
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- Heels in, be disciplined, and not go by what you feel.
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- And not go by what you feel. that's not just another
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- That's not just another routine choice. that's a
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- Routine choice. that's a defining moment. the
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- Defining moment. the decisions you make in
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- Decisions you make in these tough times. when
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- These tough times. when you feel like doing the
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- You feel like doing the easy thing. you feel like
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- Easy thing. you feel like telling somebody off.
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- Telling somebody off. you feel like being
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- You feel like being offended. you have to
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- Offended. you have to remind yourself, "this
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- Remind yourself, "this is a defining moment. it's
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- Is a defining moment. it's going to impact my destiny
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- Going to impact my destiny so i'm going to dig my
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- So i'm going to dig my heels in and do the right
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- Heels in and do the right thing even though it's
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- Thing even though it's difficult."
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- Difficult." see the pain of discipline
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- See the pain of discipline is much less than the pain
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- Is much less than the pain of regret. it's better to
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- Of regret. it's better to be uncomfortable for a
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- Be uncomfortable for a little while than to make
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- Little while than to make a poor choice and be
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- A poor choice and be uncomfortable for a long
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- Uncomfortable for a long time. in giving into what
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- Time. in giving into what we feel. what we want.
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- We feel. what we want. taking the easy way out.
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- Taking the easy way out. that pleasure is only
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- That pleasure is only temporary. the pain lasts
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- Temporary. the pain lasts much longer. in the heat
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- Much longer. in the heat of the moment every voice
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- Of the moment every voice will tell you, "it doesn't
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- Will tell you, "it doesn't matter. it's no big deal.
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- Matter. it's no big deal. just do it. it's not going
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- Just do it. it's not going to hurt anything."
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- To hurt anything." don't believe those lies.
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- Don't believe those lies. it's going to impact your
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- It's going to impact your destiny. jesus said, "pray
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- Destiny. jesus said, "pray that you don't enter into
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- That you don't enter into temptation."
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- Temptation." whatever area that you
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- Whatever area that you struggle in, before you
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- Struggle in, before you leave the house, you need
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- Leave the house, you need to pray, "god help me to
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- To pray, "god help me to keep my cool today,"
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- Keep my cool today," or, "god help me to keep
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- Or, "god help me to keep my eyes on the right
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- My eyes on the right things,"
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- Things," "god help me to resist
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- "god help me to resist this addiction, to not
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- This addiction, to not compromise."
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- Compromise." then all through the day,
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- Then all through the day, you have to guard your
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- You have to guard your mind. every temptation
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- Mind. every temptation starts with a thought.
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- Starts with a thought. this is where the real
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- This is where the real battle is taking place.
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- Battle is taking place. when those tempting
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- When those tempting thoughts come. don't
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- Thoughts come. don't dwell on it. don't give
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- Dwell on it. don't give it the time of day. if
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- It the time of day. if you allow it to stay it
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- You allow it to stay it will draw you in and can
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- Will draw you in and can lead you to compromise.
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- Lead you to compromise. this is what joseph had
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- This is what joseph had to do. he was working as
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- To do. he was working as a slave at the house of
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- A slave at the house of a man named potiphar.
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- A man named potiphar. he continued to excel
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- He continued to excel and eventually potiphar
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- And eventually potiphar put him in charge of his
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- Put him in charge of his whole household.
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- Whole household. well joseph was a
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- Well joseph was a good-looking young man;
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- Good-looking young man; tall, dark, and handsome.
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- Tall, dark, and handsome. one day he was walking
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- One day he was walking through the house minding
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- Through the house minding his own business when
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- His own business when potiphar's wife came up
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- Potiphar's wife came up and tried to seduce him.
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- And tried to seduce him. she made advances toward
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- She made advances toward him. here joseph was a
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- Him. here joseph was a slave, he had been betrayed
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- Slave, he had been betrayed by his brothers, thrown
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- By his brothers, thrown into a pit. he could have
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- Into a pit. he could have thought, "god's forgotten
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- Thought, "god's forgotten about me! what's going to
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- About me! what's going to matter if i compromise?
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- Matter if i compromise? besides, it's her idea
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- Besides, it's her idea anyway. i'm tired of being
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- Anyway. i'm tired of being stuck as a slave! i'm
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- Stuck as a slave! i'm ready to have some fun!"
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- Ready to have some fun!" he could have let his
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- He could have let his guard down and taken the
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- Guard down and taken the easy way out. but he
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- Easy way out. but he didn't do it. he realized
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- Didn't do it. he realized it was a defining moment
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- It was a defining moment and he wouldn't compromise.
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- And he wouldn't compromise. she grabbed him by the
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- She grabbed him by the sleeve and pulled him
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- Sleeve and pulled him close. the scripture
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- Close. the scripture says, "he tore himself
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- Says, "he tore himself away and took off running."
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- Away and took off running." if joseph
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- If joseph would have taken the
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- Would have taken the easy way out and given
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- Easy way out and given into the temptation i'm
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- Into the temptation i'm not so sure he would have
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- Not so sure he would have made it to the throne.
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- Made it to the throne. god would have forgiven
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- God would have forgiven him, of course. god always
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- Him, of course. god always gives us another chance.
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- Gives us another chance. but to reach your highest
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- But to reach your highest potential you have to pass
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- Potential you have to pass these certain tests. the
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- These certain tests. the scripture says, "to run
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- Scripture says, "to run from temptation."
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- From temptation." it doesn't say to just
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- It doesn't say to just casually get away, be
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- Casually get away, be careful, watch out.
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- Careful, watch out. god specifically says,
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- God specifically says, "run!" there's a sense of
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- "run!" there's a sense of urgency. this means don't
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- Urgency. this means don't play games; your destiny
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- Play games; your destiny is at stake. that person
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- Is at stake. that person at the office that's overly
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- At the office that's overly friendly to you; they're
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- Friendly to you; they're making advances. god has
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- Making advances. god has a word from the lord for
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- A word from the lord for you today, "run!" joel,
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- You today, "run!" joel, i'm not going to do
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- I'm not going to do anything i just like the
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- Anything i just like the attention they give me.
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- Attention they give me. no, if you mess with fire
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- No, if you mess with fire you're going to get burned.
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- You're going to get burned. that temporary pleasure is
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- That temporary pleasure is not worth the long-term
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- Not worth the long-term pain. he may be tall, dark,
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- Pain. he may be tall, dark, handsome, and rich.
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- Handsome, and rich. she may be hot, fine,
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- She may be hot, fine, good-looking, beautiful -
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- Good-looking, beautiful - it's not worth missing your
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- It's not worth missing your destiny over.
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- Destiny over. let me make it more
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- Let me make it more practical. maybe you're
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- Practical. maybe you're trying to lose weight.
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- Trying to lose weight. you're up at the mall and
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- You're up at the mall and you walk by the cinnabon
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- You walk by the cinnabon booth... run! (laughter)
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- Booth... run! (laughter) don't go over there
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- Don't go over there thinking you're just going
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- Thinking you're just going to look and see. the
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- To look and see. the spirit is willing but
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- Spirit is willing but the flesh is weak.
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- The flesh is weak. if you go over there,
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- If you go over there, you're going to end up
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- You're going to end up eating three and taking
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- Eating three and taking four to go. (laughter)
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- Four to go. (laughter) when you turn the computer
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- When you turn the computer on and that ad pops up
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- On and that ad pops up that you know is not
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- That you know is not healthy...run! don't go
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- Healthy...run! don't go check it out. you may need
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- Check it out. you may need to turn the computer off
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- To turn the computer off and go take a good run.
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- And go take a good run. when your spouse says
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- When your spouse says something that irritates
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- Something that irritates you, you're ready to give
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- You, you're ready to give him a piece of your mind,
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- Him a piece of your mind, tell him off. right then,
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- Tell him off. right then, just like joseph you need
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- Just like joseph you need to turn and run away.
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- To turn and run away. you can explain it later.
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- You can explain it later. what am i saying, "get out
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- What am i saying, "get out of compromising situations
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- Of compromising situations as quickly as you can."
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- As quickly as you can." god will give you the grace
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- God will give you the grace to overcome what you can't
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- To overcome what you can't get away from. but he won't
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- Get away from. but he won't give you the grace to
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- Give you the grace to overcome what we can
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- Overcome what we can get away from. sometimes
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- Get away from. sometimes we keep falling into the
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- We keep falling into the same temptation, the same
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- Same temptation, the same compromise again and again.
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- Compromise again and again. it could all change if we
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- It could all change if we would do our part and get
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- Would do our part and get out of those situations.
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- Out of those situations. one time david was at
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- One time david was at home. he had been resting
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- Home. he had been resting most of the day and, around
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- Most of the day and, around dusk, he decided to go on
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- Dusk, he decided to go on his rooftop and get some
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- His rooftop and get some fresh air. when he did he
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- Fresh air. when he did he looked out and saw this
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- Looked out and saw this beautiful young lady
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- Beautiful young lady taking a bath. instead of
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- Taking a bath. instead of running from the
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- Running from the temptation he said, "thank
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- Temptation he said, "thank you jesus!" (laughter)
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- You jesus!" (laughter) the scripture says, "with
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- The scripture says, "with every temptation god will
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- Every temptation god will make a way of escape."
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- Make a way of escape." there will always be a
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- There will always be a moment of grace. there
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- Moment of grace. there will be a time where you
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- Will be a time where you will have the strength,
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- Will have the strength, the ability to resist and
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- The ability to resist and walk away. but here's the
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- Walk away. but here's the key. the moment of grace
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- Key. the moment of grace doesn't last hour after
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- Doesn't last hour after hour. right at the start
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- Hour. right at the start you've got to dig your
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- You've got to dig your heels in; be disciplined
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- Heels in; be disciplined to do the right thing.
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- To do the right thing. david let his guard down.
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- David let his guard down. had an affair with the
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- Had an affair with the woman; then he had her
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- Woman; then he had her husband killed. one
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- Husband killed. one compromise led to another.
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- Compromise led to another. it could have all been
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- It could have all been avoided if he had done
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- Avoided if he had done like joseph and simply
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- Like joseph and simply ran from the temptation.
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- Ran from the temptation. joseph's father was jacob
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- Joseph's father was jacob and joseph had a twin
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- And joseph had a twin brother named esau. one
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- Brother named esau. one time esau was very hungry.
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- Time esau was very hungry. he had been out hunting
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- He had been out hunting and couldn't find anything
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- And couldn't find anything to eat. all of a sudden he
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- To eat. all of a sudden he smelled this great aroma
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- Smelled this great aroma in the air. it was the stew
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- In the air. it was the stew that jacob had made. he
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- That jacob had made. he went over and said, "jacob
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- Went over and said, "jacob i'm famished. can i have
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- I'm famished. can i have some of your stew? i'm so
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- Some of your stew? i'm so hungry." you would think
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- Hungry." you would think jacob would say, "sure
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- Jacob would say, "sure esau. you're my brother
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- Esau. you're my brother you can have as much as
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- You can have as much as you want." but jacob never
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- You want." but jacob never missed an opportunity to
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- Missed an opportunity to take advantage of someone.
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- Take advantage of someone. he said, "esau i'll be
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- He said, "esau i'll be glad to give you some
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- Glad to give you some stew if you'll trade me
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- Stew if you'll trade me your birth-right for it."
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- Your birth-right for it." the birthright was extremely
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- The birthright was extremely valuable. it belonged to
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- Valuable. it belonged to the firstborn son. it gave
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- The firstborn son. it gave them a double portion.
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- Them a double portion. esau was the oldest son.
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- Esau was the oldest son. he had the birthright.
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- He had the birthright. but he was so hungry he
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- But he was so hungry he said, "what good is this
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- Said, "what good is this birthright going to do me
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- Birthright going to do me if i starve to death?"
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- If i starve to death?" when we let our feelings
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- When we let our feelings rule us we never make
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- Rule us we never make good decisions. esau
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- Good decisions. esau wasn't going to starve.
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- Wasn't going to starve. he was a skillful hunter.
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- He was a skillful hunter. it was just a matter of
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- It was just a matter of time before he found
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- Time before he found something to eat.
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- Something to eat. but he was so moved by
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- But he was so moved by his feelings he said,
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- His feelings he said, "okay, jacob, you got
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- "okay, jacob, you got a deal. i'll trade you
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- A deal. i'll trade you my birthright for your
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- My birthright for your pot of stew."
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- Pot of stew." esau chose to satisfy a
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- Esau chose to satisfy a short-term appetite but
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- Short-term appetite but it cost him a lifetime
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- It cost him a lifetime blessing. he gave away
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- Blessing. he gave away something extremely
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- Something extremely valuable because he was
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- Valuable because he was uncomfortable. he wanted
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- Uncomfortable. he wanted to be happy right then.
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- To be happy right then. he didn't think about the
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- He didn't think about the long-term. he didn't
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- Long-term. he didn't realize that was a defining
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- Realize that was a defining moment. you can't get on
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- Moment. you can't get on board with your feelings.
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- Board with your feelings. your feelings will lead you
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- Your feelings will lead you down the wrong path.
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- Down the wrong path. hebrews says, "esau had no
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- Hebrews says, "esau had no chance to recall the choice
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- Chance to recall the choice he made. even though he
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- He made. even though he sought for it with bitter
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- Sought for it with bitter tears." i wonder how many
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- Tears." i wonder how many times we're missing god's
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- Times we're missing god's best because we're making
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- Best because we're making decisions based on the
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- Decisions based on the short term. what we want.
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- Short term. what we want. what we feel. the flesh
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- What we feel. the flesh likes to be comfortable.
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- Likes to be comfortable. i know i should bite my
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- I know i should bite my tongue but it feels good
- 00:10:39.328 --> 00:10:40.830
- Tongue but it feels good to tell them off. i know
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- To tell them off. i know i should be faithful in
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- I should be faithful in this relationship but i
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- This relationship but i like hanging with this
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- Like hanging with this other person. or i know
- 00:10:46.135 --> 00:10:47.670
- Other person. or i know i should have integrity
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- I should have integrity in my business dealings
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- In my business dealings but, joel, this is an easy
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- But, joel, this is an easy way to get ahead.
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- Way to get ahead. the decision's you make in
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- The decision's you make in your defining moments will
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- Your defining moments will determine how high you
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- Determine how high you will rise. will you be a
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- Will rise. will you be a joseph and do the right
- 00:11:01.117 --> 00:11:02.451
- Joseph and do the right thing when it's hard? or
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- Thing when it's hard? or will you be an esau and
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- Will you be an esau and compromise to accommodate
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- Compromise to accommodate how you feel? esau was
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- How you feel? esau was so furious with jacob for
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- So furious with jacob for tricking him out of his
- 00:11:13.429 --> 00:11:14.697
- Tricking him out of his birthright he was planning
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- Birthright he was planning on killing him. jacob got
- 00:11:16.499 --> 00:11:18.634
- On killing him. jacob got word that his life was in
- 00:11:18.701 --> 00:11:20.102
- Word that his life was in danger and took off
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- Danger and took off running. many years later
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- Running. many years later jacob had become so
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- Jacob had become so prosperous that the land
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- Prosperous that the land couldn't sustain all of
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- Couldn't sustain all of his animals. he wanted to
- 00:11:28.477 --> 00:11:29.712
- His animals. he wanted to go back home. the problem
- 00:11:29.779 --> 00:11:31.113
- Go back home. the problem was the only route was
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- Was the only route was through the land that
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- Through the land that esau owned. jacob decided
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- Esau owned. jacob decided to take a chance.
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- To take a chance. he sent messengers to
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- He sent messengers to give gifts to esau. the
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- Give gifts to esau. the messengers came back and
- 00:11:43.292 --> 00:11:44.627
- Messengers came back and said, "jacob, esau is
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- Said, "jacob, esau is coming to see you and he's
- 00:11:46.896 --> 00:11:48.197
- Coming to see you and he's bringing four hundred men
- 00:11:48.264 --> 00:11:50.099
- Bringing four hundred men with him." jacob thought,
- 00:11:50.166 --> 00:11:51.901
- With him." jacob thought, "that means one thing ...
- 00:11:51.967 --> 00:11:53.736
- "that means one thing ... revenge! he's going to
- 00:11:53.803 --> 00:11:54.937
- Revenge! he's going to pay me back." jacob was
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- Pay me back." jacob was so full of fear and so
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- So full of fear and so uptight. this time he
- 00:11:58.240 --> 00:12:00.342
- Uptight. this time he sent hundreds of animals
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- Sent hundreds of animals ahead of him hoping that
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- Ahead of him hoping that when esau saw all the
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- When esau saw all the sheep, the camel, the
- 00:12:07.149 --> 00:12:08.350
- Sheep, the camel, the goats that his heart
- 00:12:08.417 --> 00:12:09.885
- Goats that his heart would be softened. finally
- 00:12:09.952 --> 00:12:11.754
- Would be softened. finally the big moment arrived.
- 00:12:11.821 --> 00:12:14.356
- The big moment arrived. they see esau and 400 men
- 00:12:14.423 --> 00:12:15.891
- They see esau and 400 men coming toward them.
- 00:12:15.958 --> 00:12:17.593
- Coming toward them. jacob's heart starts
- 00:12:17.660 --> 00:12:18.994
- Jacob's heart starts beating ninety-to-nothing.
- 00:12:19.061 --> 00:12:20.663
- Beating ninety-to-nothing. the adrenaline is flowing.
- 00:12:20.729 --> 00:12:22.064
- The adrenaline is flowing. he's about to see the man
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- He's about to see the man he cheated, deceived, stole
- 00:12:23.632 --> 00:12:26.302
- He cheated, deceived, stole his double portion. jacob
- 00:12:26.368 --> 00:12:28.137
- His double portion. jacob told someone to take his
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- Told someone to take his family, including his young
- 00:12:29.872 --> 00:12:32.675
- Family, including his young son joseph over to the side.
- 00:12:32.741 --> 00:12:36.011
- Son joseph over to the side. hopefully so they wouldn't
- 00:12:36.078 --> 00:12:36.912
- Hopefully so they wouldn't get hurt. this little boy
- 00:12:36.979 --> 00:12:38.948
- Get hurt. this little boy joseph is watching all
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- Joseph is watching all the drama take place.
- 00:12:40.683 --> 00:12:42.952
- The drama take place. he knows his father
- 00:12:43.018 --> 00:12:44.620
- He knows his father cheated his uncle esau.
- 00:12:44.687 --> 00:12:47.389
- Cheated his uncle esau. he knows his dad has
- 00:12:47.456 --> 00:12:48.390
- He knows his dad has done wrong. he's heard
- 00:12:48.457 --> 00:12:49.825
- Done wrong. he's heard the stories. esau is a
- 00:12:49.892 --> 00:12:52.228
- The stories. esau is a couple hundred yards away
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- Couple hundred yards away coming toward them. in an
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- Coming toward them. in an act of humility jacob went
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- Act of humility jacob went out and bowed down seven
- 00:12:57.166 --> 00:12:58.901
- Out and bowed down seven times before esau. when
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- Times before esau. when esau recognized it was
- 00:13:01.937 --> 00:13:03.539
- Esau recognized it was jacob he took off running
- 00:13:03.606 --> 00:13:05.374
- Jacob he took off running toward him. jacob thought,
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- Toward him. jacob thought, "oh great! i'm done! this
- 00:13:07.109 --> 00:13:08.811
- "oh great! i'm done! this is it!" it wasn't what he
- 00:13:08.878 --> 00:13:09.845
- Is it!" it wasn't what he thought. when esau got
- 00:13:09.912 --> 00:13:11.647
- Thought. when esau got there he grabbed jacob
- 00:13:11.714 --> 00:13:13.515
- There he grabbed jacob and gave him a big hug.
- 00:13:13.582 --> 00:13:16.785
- And gave him a big hug. the scripture says, "he
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- The scripture says, "he threw his arms around
- 00:13:17.887 --> 00:13:19.822
- Threw his arms around his neck and kissed him
- 00:13:19.889 --> 00:13:20.789
- His neck and kissed him and embraced him."
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- And embraced him." they both began to weep
- 00:13:23.092 --> 00:13:24.660
- They both began to weep and weep. finally esau
- 00:13:24.727 --> 00:13:26.528
- And weep. finally esau looked up and said,
- 00:13:26.595 --> 00:13:28.330
- Looked up and said, "jacob, who are all of
- 00:13:28.397 --> 00:13:29.498
- "jacob, who are all of these people around us?"
- 00:13:29.565 --> 00:13:31.166
- These people around us?" jacob said, "this is my
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- Jacob said, "this is my family! these are my
- 00:13:32.801 --> 00:13:34.303
- Family! these are my children. in fact there's
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- Children. in fact there's your little nephew joseph
- 00:13:36.005 --> 00:13:37.873
- Your little nephew joseph over there." i can imagine
- 00:13:37.940 --> 00:13:39.842
- Over there." i can imagine esau going over and hugging
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- Esau going over and hugging joseph. it was a defining
- 00:13:41.777 --> 00:13:44.380
- Joseph. it was a defining moment. not only in esau's
- 00:13:44.446 --> 00:13:46.682
- Moment. not only in esau's life, this time he passed
- 00:13:46.749 --> 00:13:48.250
- Life, this time he passed the test; but it was a
- 00:13:48.317 --> 00:13:49.785
- The test; but it was a defining moment in joseph's
- 00:13:49.852 --> 00:13:51.754
- Defining moment in joseph's life. he saw his uncle
- 00:13:51.820 --> 00:13:55.057
- Life. he saw his uncle show mercy to his father.
- 00:13:55.124 --> 00:13:57.660
- Show mercy to his father. he saw him forgive a wrong,
- 00:13:57.726 --> 00:13:59.862
- He saw him forgive a wrong, and take the high road.
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- And take the high road. this incredible act of
- 00:14:01.597 --> 00:14:02.865
- This incredible act of kindness left an indelible
- 00:14:02.932 --> 00:14:04.900
- Kindness left an indelible mark on joseph's heart.
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- Mark on joseph's heart. fast forward many, many
- 00:14:07.703 --> 00:14:09.238
- Fast forward many, many years later. this little
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- Years later. this little boy, joseph, is a grown
- 00:14:10.906 --> 00:14:12.574
- Boy, joseph, is a grown man. he's been sold into
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- Man. he's been sold into slavery, he's been thrown
- 00:14:14.877 --> 00:14:16.512
- Slavery, he's been thrown into a pit, he's been
- 00:14:16.578 --> 00:14:18.547
- Into a pit, he's been through prison...now he's
- 00:14:18.614 --> 00:14:20.516
- Through prison...now he's the leader of a great
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- The leader of a great nation. second in command
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- Nation. second in command only to the pharaoh.
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- Only to the pharaoh. there's a terrible famine
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- There's a terrible famine throughout the land.
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- Throughout the land. joseph is in charge of
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- Joseph is in charge of the food supply, one of
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- The food supply, one of the most powerful people
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- The most powerful people of that time. one day his
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- Of that time. one day his brothers, the same one's
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- Brothers, the same one's that threw him into a pit.
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- That threw him into a pit. the same one's that sold
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- The same one's that sold him into slavery and made
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- Him into slavery and made his life so miserable were
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- His life so miserable were now standing right before
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- Now standing right before him. they were trying to
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- Him. they were trying to get food for their family.
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- Get food for their family. it had been so many years
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- It had been so many years they didn't recognize that
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- They didn't recognize that it was their brother,
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- It was their brother, joseph. they all bowed
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- Joseph. they all bowed down before joseph in
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- Down before joseph in humility. joseph suddenly
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- Humility. joseph suddenly flashes back to that time
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- Flashes back to that time when he was a little boy
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- When he was a little boy and he saw jacob, his
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- And he saw jacob, his father, bow down to esau.
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- Father, bow down to esau. all of these emotions come
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- All of these emotions come flooding up in his heart.
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- Flooding up in his heart. it's like the same scene is
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- It's like the same scene is playing out but this time
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- Playing out but this time he's in esau's position.
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- He's in esau's position. he remembers how esau
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- He remembers how esau showed his father mercy.
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- Showed his father mercy. he remembers how esau
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- He remembers how esau forgave the wrong, treated
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- Forgave the wrong, treated him with kindness even
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- Him with kindness even though his father didn't
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- Though his father didn't deserve it. joseph looked
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- Deserve it. joseph looked at his brothers. when he
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- At his brothers. when he could have gotten revenge,
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- Could have gotten revenge, when he could have paid
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- When he could have paid them back. but because of
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- Them back. but because of a defining moment that
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- A defining moment that happened when he was a
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- Happened when he was a little boy he too was
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- Little boy he too was full of mercy. he treated
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- Full of mercy. he treated his brothers like esau
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- His brothers like esau treated his father.
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- Treated his father. genesis says that, "he
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- Genesis says that, "he threw his arms around
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- Threw his arms around their necks, hugged them,
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- Their necks, hugged them, embraced them. they wept
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- Embraced them. they wept together." joseph moved
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- Together." joseph moved all of his brothers,
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- All of his brothers, 70 family members,
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- 70 family members, including his father
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- Including his father back to egypt. he gave
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- Back to egypt. he gave them the best part of
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- Them the best part of the land.
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- The land. what am i saying? the
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- What am i saying? the decisions you make in
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- Decisions you make in your defining moments
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- Your defining moments not only affect you but
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- Not only affect you but they affect your children.
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- They affect your children. how you respond to a wrong
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- How you respond to a wrong that's been done to you.
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- That's been done to you. how you handle a
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- How you handle a disappointment. your
- 00:16:23.172 --> 00:16:24.473
- Disappointment. your attitude in the tough
- 00:16:24.540 --> 00:16:25.808
- Attitude in the tough times, that's leaving a
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- Times, that's leaving a mark on those around
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- Mark on those around you. sometimes you have
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- You. sometimes you have to do the right thing.
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- To do the right thing. not because you feel
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- Not because you feel like it but because you
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- Like it but because you are setting an example
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- Are setting an example for your children. that
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- For your children. that defining moment will live
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- Defining moment will live on. maybe you get a
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- On. maybe you get a negative medical report.
- 00:16:42.391 --> 00:16:43.459
- Negative medical report. you feel like falling
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- You feel like falling apart. but in that
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- Apart. but in that defining moment you stay
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- Defining moment you stay in peace. you know god's
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- In peace. you know god's in control. the number of
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- In control. the number of your days he will fulfill.
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- Your days he will fulfill. when your children hit a
- 00:16:55.104 --> 00:16:56.505
- When your children hit a tough time, do you know
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- Tough time, do you know what they'll do?
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- What they'll do? stay in peace. they'll
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- Stay in peace. they'll follow your example.
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- Follow your example. your response in defining
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- Your response in defining moments speaks volumes.
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- Moments speaks volumes. this is what's creating
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- This is what's creating your legacy. what you
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- Your legacy. what you did in the difficult
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- Did in the difficult times. how you treated
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- Times. how you treated people that didn't treat
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- People that didn't treat you right. any of us can
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- You right. any of us can do the right thing in the
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- Do the right thing in the good times, that's easy.
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- Good times, that's easy. but to reach the fullness
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- But to reach the fullness of your destiny, you have
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- Of your destiny, you have to pass the test of these
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- To pass the test of these defining moments.
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- Defining moments. the defining moments carry much
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- The defining moments carry much weight. make sure you're
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- Weight. make sure you're passing the test. no
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- Passing the test. no person lives or dies unto
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- Person lives or dies unto himself. people are
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- Himself. people are watching you, not just
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- Watching you, not just your children. your
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- Your children. your co-workers. your neighbors.
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- Co-workers. your neighbors. that person at the gym.
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- That person at the gym. what makes the biggest
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- What makes the biggest impression is not what we
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- Impression is not what we do in the good times but
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- Do in the good times but it's how we respond in
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- It's how we respond in the difficult times.
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- The difficult times. the next time you have an
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- The next time you have an unfair situation-someone
- 00:17:54.863 --> 00:17:56.331
- Unfair situation-someone does you wrong, your
- 00:17:56.398 --> 00:17:57.633
- Does you wrong, your plans don't work out.
- 00:17:57.699 --> 00:17:59.201
- Plans don't work out. instead of making a quick
- 00:17:59.268 --> 00:18:00.269
- Instead of making a quick decision that you may
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- Decision that you may regret later on why don't
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- Regret later on why don't you take a step back and
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- You take a step back and say, "ok, i recognize
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- Say, "ok, i recognize this is one of my defining
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- This is one of my defining moments. i'm not going to
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- Moments. i'm not going to take the easy way out.
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- Take the easy way out. i'm not going to be rude
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- I'm not going to be rude because they were rude
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- Because they were rude to me. i'm not going to
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- To me. i'm not going to be discouraged because
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- Be discouraged because i went through a loss.
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- I went through a loss. i know god is still on
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- I know god is still on the throne. this is not
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- The throne. this is not a surprise to him so i'm
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- A surprise to him so i'm going to stay on the
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- Going to stay on the high road, in peace and
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- High road, in peace and keep doing the right
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- Keep doing the right thing." when you do that,
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- Thing." when you do that, you're passing the test.
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- You're passing the test. that's what is creating
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- That's what is creating your legacy more than
- 00:18:32.534 --> 00:18:34.269
- Your legacy more than your accomplishments,
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- Your accomplishments, your character, your
- 00:18:36.171 --> 00:18:37.306
- Your character, your integrity, how you treat
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- Integrity, how you treat people, that's what is
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- People, that's what is being passed down to your
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- Being passed down to your children; to future
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- Children; to future generations. we may not
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- Generations. we may not always get it right.
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- Always get it right. i'm not saying we should
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- I'm not saying we should never make a mistake but
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- Never make a mistake but we should be improving.
- 00:18:50.519 --> 00:18:52.688
- We should be improving. we should be better this
- 00:18:52.754 --> 00:18:53.755
- We should be better this year than we were five
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- Year than we were five years ago.
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- Years ago. when i was 24 years old
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- When i was 24 years old i was in the tv control
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- I was in the tv control room at the church.
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- Room at the church. my father had just
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- My father had just finished ministering. the
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- Finished ministering. the service was just over.
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- Service was just over. i was standing there
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- I was standing there talking with some of my
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- Talking with some of my friends. we were laughing
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- Friends. we were laughing and just having a good
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- And just having a good time. my father came into
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- Time. my father came into the control room. i was
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- The control room. i was very surprised to see him.
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- Very surprised to see him. he never came back after
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- He never came back after the service. he was very
- 00:19:17.980 --> 00:19:19.581
- The service. he was very upset. for some reason
- 00:19:19.648 --> 00:19:22.417
- Upset. for some reason he thought we had been
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- He thought we had been laughing and making fun
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- Laughing and making fun of things during the
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- Of things during the service, but we weren't.
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- Service, but we weren't. we had been working like
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- We had been working like normal. i was directing,
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- Normal. i was directing, the other guys were
- 00:19:30.826 --> 00:19:31.526
- The other guys were running the cameras.
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- Running the cameras. my father told us how we
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- My father told us how we shouldn't be disrespectful.
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- Shouldn't be disrespectful. how we shouldn't be making
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- How we shouldn't be making fun like that and how we
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- Fun like that and how we should take it more
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- Should take it more seriously, on and on.
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- Seriously, on and on. there were six of us
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- There were six of us in the room. the other
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- In the room. the other young men weren't about
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- Young men weren't about to open their mouth's and
- 00:19:46.241 --> 00:19:47.209
- To open their mouth's and defend themselves they
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- Defend themselves they just took it all in like
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- Just took it all in like they were guilty.
- 00:19:49.544 --> 00:19:50.946
- They were guilty. but i said very politely,
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- But i said very politely, "daddy, we didn't do
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- "daddy, we didn't do anything wrong. it's not
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- Anything wrong. it's not what you think."
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- What you think." he didn't want to hear it.
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- He didn't want to hear it. he kept chewing us out,
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- He kept chewing us out, letting us have it. i got
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- Letting us have it. i got home about an hour later.
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- Home about an hour later. the phone rang, it was my
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- The phone rang, it was my father. he said, "joel,
- 00:20:03.558 --> 00:20:05.427
- Father. he said, "joel, i blew it tonight. i'm so
- 00:20:05.494 --> 00:20:07.696
- I blew it tonight. i'm so sorry. i was uptight
- 00:20:07.763 --> 00:20:09.998
- Sorry. i was uptight about some other things.
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- About some other things. i want you to forgive me."
- 00:20:11.466 --> 00:20:12.901
- I want you to forgive me." i said, "of course i'll
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- I said, "of course i'll forgive you." then he
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- Forgive you." then he asked for the phone
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- Asked for the phone numbers of the other
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- Numbers of the other people in the room. he
- 00:20:17.372 --> 00:20:18.940
- People in the room. he wouldn't go to bed until
- 00:20:19.007 --> 00:20:20.309
- Wouldn't go to bed until he made things right.
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- He made things right. i said, "you don't have to
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- I said, "you don't have to call them. they're going
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- Call them. they're going to be fine." he said, "no.
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- To be fine." he said, "no. i need to take care of it
- 00:20:26.148 --> 00:20:28.317
- I need to take care of it right now." eleven o'clock
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- Right now." eleven o'clock at night here this well
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- At night here this well respected 65-year-old
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- Respected 65-year-old pastor is calling these
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- Pastor is calling these 20 year old young men
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- 20 year old young men to say that he was sorry.
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- To say that he was sorry. to this day my friends
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- To this day my friends still talk about that
- 00:20:42.397 --> 00:20:43.699
- Still talk about that time my father called to
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- Time my father called to apologize. that was a
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- Apologize. that was a defining moment. it made
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- Defining moment. it made a huge impression upon
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- A huge impression upon me.
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- Me. god doesn't expect us to
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- God doesn't expect us to be perfect but what we do
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- Be perfect but what we do after we make a mistake
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- After we make a mistake speaks volumes. are you
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- Speaks volumes. are you secure enough to call
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- Secure enough to call and apologize? do you
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- And apologize? do you have the humility to say,
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- Have the humility to say, "i was wrong. i blew it.
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- "i was wrong. i blew it. forgive me. i'm sorry."
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- Forgive me. i'm sorry." your children. your
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- Your children. your relatives. your co-workers.
- 00:21:11.660 --> 00:21:13.862
- Relatives. your co-workers. they'll never forget that.
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- They'll never forget that. that defining moment will
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- That defining moment will live on. when they make
- 00:21:17.132 --> 00:21:18.734
- Live on. when they make a mistake because of your
- 00:21:18.800 --> 00:21:20.402
- A mistake because of your example they will be inspired
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- Example they will be inspired to do the right thing.
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- To do the right thing. fifty-six years ago was
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- Fifty-six years ago was another defining moment
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- Another defining moment in my families life. my
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- In my families life. my father had been the
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- Father had been the pastor of a large,
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- Pastor of a large, successful church.
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- Successful church. they had just built a
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- They had just built a beautiful new sanctuary.
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- Beautiful new sanctuary. my father knew there was
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- My father knew there was more. he came back and
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- More. he came back and talked to his congregation
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- Talked to his congregation about how god can heal
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- About how god can heal and restore and how we
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- And restore and how we should live an abundant
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- Should live an abundant and overcoming life.
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- And overcoming life. but some of the people in
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- But some of the people in the congregation didn't
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- The congregation didn't like his new message of
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- Like his new message of faith, and hope, and
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- Faith, and hope, and victory. long story short
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- Victory. long story short my father had to leave.
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- My father had to leave. now this church that he
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- Now this church that he poured his life into for
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- Poured his life into for many, many years was no
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- Many, many years was no longer his. he could have
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- Longer his. he could have easily gotten discouraged
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- Easily gotten discouraged and bitter and thought,
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- And bitter and thought, "god i was doing the
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- "god i was doing the right thing. why did this
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- Right thing. why did this happen to me?" but in
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- Happen to me?" but in that defining moment he
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- That defining moment he didn't give up, he didn't
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- Didn't give up, he didn't blame others, he didn't
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- Blame others, he didn't believe the lies that he
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- Believe the lies that he was finished. he and my
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- Was finished. he and my mother went out on
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- Mother went out on mother's day in 1959 and
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- Mother's day in 1959 and started lakewood church
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- Started lakewood church with ninety people.
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- With ninety people. (applause)
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- (applause) today we celebrate our
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- Today we celebrate our 56th anniversary because
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- 56th anniversary because somebody made a right
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- Somebody made a right choice in a defining
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- Choice in a defining moment.
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- Moment. friends we all have unfair
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- Friends we all have unfair situations. we all have
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- Situations. we all have setbacks. the flesh likes
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- Setbacks. the flesh likes to get discouraged, fall
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- To get discouraged, fall into self pity, blame
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- Into self pity, blame others. do like my father.
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- Others. do like my father. don't get stuck there.
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- Don't get stuck there. move onto the next chapter
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- Move onto the next chapter of your life. that loss is
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- Of your life. that loss is to make room for a new
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- To make room for a new beginning. now all of us
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- Beginning. now all of us face these temptations.
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- Face these temptations. not to just compromise
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- Not to just compromise but a temptation to get
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- But a temptation to get discouraged, to give up
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- Discouraged, to give up on your dreams. god has
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- On your dreams. god has made a way of escape.
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- Made a way of escape. there is an moment of grace
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- There is an moment of grace for every difficulty, i'm
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- For every difficulty, i'm asking you to step into it.
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- Asking you to step into it. pass that test!
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- Pass that test! remember the decisions you
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- Remember the decisions you make in the defining moments
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- Make in the defining moments not only affect you, they
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- Not only affect you, they affect your family line.
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- Affect your family line. choose wisely. stay on the
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- Choose wisely. stay on the high road. if you do this
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- High road. if you do this i believe and declare your
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- I believe and declare your defining moments won't
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- Defining moments won't defeat you they'll promote
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- Defeat you they'll promote you. you and your children
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- You. you and your children will rise higher, accomplish
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- Will rise higher, accomplish dreams and become everything
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- Dreams and become everything god created you to be in
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- God created you to be in jesus' name. if you receive
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- Jesus' name. if you receive it, can you say amen today?
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- It, can you say amen today? (applause)
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- (applause) we never like to close
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- We never like to close our broadcast without
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- Our broadcast without giving you an opportunity
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- Giving you an opportunity to make jesus the lord of
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- To make jesus the lord of your life. would you pray
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- Your life. would you pray with me? just say, "lord
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- With me? just say, "lord jesus, i repent of my sins.
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- Jesus, i repent of my sins. come into my heart. i make
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- Come into my heart. i make you my lord and savior."
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- You my lord and savior." friends, if you prayed that
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- Friends, if you prayed that simple prayer we believe
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- Simple prayer we believe you got born again.
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- You got born again. get in a good bible-based
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- Get in a good bible-based church. keep god first
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- Church. keep god first place. he is going to take
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- Place. he is going to take you places that you've
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- You places that you've never dreamed.
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- It's a new year.
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- An opportunity
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- For a fresh start.
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- It's a new year.
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- Time to forget
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- The struggles of the past
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- And make room
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- For new blessings.
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- It's a new year.
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- The perfect time
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- To build expectation
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- And faith
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- For an amazing new season.
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- The beginning of the year
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- Is a great time
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- To start afresh and anew,
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- To let go of negative
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- Things of the past,
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- And to get ready
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- For the new things
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- God has in store.
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- Every january,
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- We create
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- A new devotional calendar.
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- When you start off
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- Each day in faith,
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- Positive declarations
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- Over your future,
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- You're setting the tone
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- For a blessed day
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- This devotional calendar
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- Will help
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- There's something
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- On the daily scripture verse
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- And devotional from joel.
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- Three:
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- Capture the lord's
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