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Joel Osteen | Joel Osteen - Win The War Within | July 21, 2025
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- . > joel: god bless you.
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- > joel: god bless you. it's great to be with you
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- It's great to be with you today. i hope you'll stay
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- Today. i hope you'll stay connected with us during
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- Connected with us during the week, through our daily
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- The week, through our daily podcast, our youtube
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- Podcast, our youtube channel, social media.
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- Channel, social media. we'll keep you encouraged
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- We'll keep you encouraged and inspired.
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- And inspired. i like to start with
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- I like to start with something funny. i heard
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- Something funny. i heard about this baptist man
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- About this baptist man named bill. he liked to
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- Named bill. he liked to sneak off to the horse
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- Sneak off to the horse races and bet. one day,
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- Races and bet. one day, he saw a catholic priest
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- He saw a catholic priest step on to the track and
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- Step on to the track and bless a horse. sure enough,
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- Bless a horse. sure enough, the horse won first place.
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- The horse won first place. he blessed another horse,
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- He blessed another horse, that horse won again. bill
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- That horse won again. bill went to the atm and took
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- Went to the atm and took out all of his money.
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- Out all of his money. this time, he saw the
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- This time, he saw the priest not only touch the
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- Priest not only touch the horses' forehead but touch
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- Horses' forehead but touch his eyes, his ears and all
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- His eyes, his ears and all of his legs. feeling
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- Of his legs. feeling confident, he bet all of
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- Confident, he bet all of his money. but in the
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- His money. but in the middle of the race, the
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- Middle of the race, the horse fell over dead.
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- Horse fell over dead. bill went to the priest and
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- Bill went to the priest and said, “what in the world
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- Said, “what in the world happened?” the priest said,
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- Happened?” the priest said, “that's the problem with
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- “that's the problem with you protestants, you don't
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- You protestants, you don't know the difference between
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- Know the difference between the blessing and the last
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- The blessing and the last rites.”
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- Rites.” say it like you mean it.
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- Say it like you mean it. this is my bible.
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- This is my bible. i am what it says i am.
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- I am what it says i am. i have what it says
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- I have what it says i have. i can do what
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- I have. i can do what it says i can do.
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- It says i can do. today, i will be taught
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- Today, i will be taught the word of god.
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- The word of god. i boldly confess: my mind
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- I boldly confess: my mind is alert. my heart is
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- Is alert. my heart is receptive. i will never
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- Receptive. i will never be the same in jesus'
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- Be the same in jesus' name. god bless you.
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- Name. god bless you. i want to talk to you today
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- I want to talk to you today about winning the war
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- About winning the war within. there's a battle
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- Within. there's a battle taking place on the inside
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- Taking place on the inside of each one of us.
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- Of each one of us. it's a battle between the
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- It's a battle between the flesh and the spirit.
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- Flesh and the spirit. the flesh represents our
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- The flesh represents our carnal nature.
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- Carnal nature. it's things like jealousy,
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- It's things like jealousy, pride, compromise.
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- Pride, compromise. it's the easy way to live.
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- It's the easy way to live. you don't have to be
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- You don't have to be disciplined; you just
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- Disciplined; you just do whatever you feel.
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- Do whatever you feel. if someone is rude to you,
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- If someone is rude to you, you're rude back to them.
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- You're rude back to them. if you don't feel like
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- If you don't feel like having a good attitude, you
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- Having a good attitude, you go through the day sour.
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- Go through the day sour. when you see that coconut
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- When you see that coconut cream pie, you don't think
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- Cream pie, you don't think twice.
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- Twice. you eat your fourth piece.
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- You eat your fourth piece. the flesh wants to rule, it
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- The flesh wants to rule, it wants to have control.
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- Wants to have control. the scripture says, “those
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- The scripture says, “those who live by the dictates
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- Who live by the dictates of the flesh.” notice the
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- Of the flesh.” notice the flesh is described as a
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- Flesh is described as a dictator. what does a
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- Dictator. what does a dictator do? they make
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- Dictator do? they make all the decisions for
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- All the decisions for you. they tell you what
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- You. they tell you what to do, when to do it.
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- To do, when to do it. you just follow orders.
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- You just follow orders. you get stuck in traffic,
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- You get stuck in traffic, the flesh will tell you,
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- The flesh will tell you, “get upset, this is ruining
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- “get upset, this is ruining your day.” many people
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- Your day.” many people follow the dictates of the
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- Follow the dictates of the flesh.
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- Flesh. like a good soldier, “yes
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- Like a good soldier, “yes sir, right away.” they get
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- Sir, right away.” they get upset.
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- Upset. it sours their day.
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- It sours their day. or at the office, someone
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- Or at the office, someone leaves you out, doesn't
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- Leaves you out, doesn't invite you to the meeting.
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- Invite you to the meeting. the flesh says, “get
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- The flesh says, “get offended, this is not
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- Offended, this is not right.” they go around
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- Right.” they go around offended, with a chip on
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- Offended, with a chip on their shoulder.
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- Their shoulder. the problem is if you keep
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- The problem is if you keep giving in to the flesh,
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- Giving in to the flesh, that verse goes on to say,
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- That verse goes on to say, “you will die.” that
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- “you will die.” that doesn't mean physically,
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- Doesn't mean physically, but your dreams will die,
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- But your dreams will die, your relationships won't
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- Your relationships won't flourish, your gifts won't
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- Flourish, your gifts won't come out like they should.
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- Come out like they should. what's the problem, you're
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- What's the problem, you're letting the flesh win the
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- Letting the flesh win the war.
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- War. any time you're tempted to
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- Any time you're tempted to compromise, be lazy, give
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- Compromise, be lazy, give in to temptation, there's
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- In to temptation, there's another option, that is to
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- Another option, that is to walk in the spirit.
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- Walk in the spirit. that means you do the right
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- That means you do the right thing when it's hard. you
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- Thing when it's hard. you bite your tongue when
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- Bite your tongue when someone is rude.
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- Someone is rude. you stay faithful in your
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- You stay faithful in your relationship when someone
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- Relationship when someone is trying to lure you away.
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- Is trying to lure you away. what's limiting some people
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- What's limiting some people is not that they're not
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- Is not that they're not talented, it's not that
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- Talented, it's not that they don't have god's
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- They don't have god's favor, it's that they keep
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- Favor, it's that they keep sowing to the flesh.
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- Sowing to the flesh. don't keep giving in to the
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- Don't keep giving in to the same things that you know
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- Same things that you know are holding you back.
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- Are holding you back. next time you're tempted to
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- Next time you're tempted to be jealous, find fault, say
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- Be jealous, find fault, say something critical, tell
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- Something critical, tell your flesh, “no, i'm not
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- Your flesh, “no, i'm not going there.
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- Going there. i'm going to be happy for
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- I'm going to be happy for them. i'm going to see the
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- Them. i'm going to see the best in people.” when you
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- Best in people.” when you feel like staying up all
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- Feel like staying up all night, playing on the
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- Night, playing on the computer, tell your flesh,
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- Computer, tell your flesh, “not tonight.
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- “not tonight. i'm going to bed.
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- I'm going to bed. i'm going to take care of
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- I'm going to take care of myself.” next time those
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- Myself.” next time those friends call that are
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- Friends call that are pulling you down, causing
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- Pulling you down, causing you to compromise, tell
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- You to compromise, tell them, “sorry, something has
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- Them, “sorry, something has come up.
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- Come up. i can't hang out tonight.”
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- I can't hang out tonight.” quit letting the flesh be
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- Quit letting the flesh be the dictator.
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- The dictator. you have to take charge of
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- You have to take charge of your life.
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- Your life. the flesh is not leading
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- The flesh is not leading you anywhere productive.
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- You anywhere productive. paul said in galatians 5,
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- Paul said in galatians 5, “these two forces are
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- “these two forces are constantly fighting each
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- Constantly fighting each other.
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- Other. your choices will never be
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- Your choices will never be free from this conflict.” i
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- Free from this conflict.” i don't want to depress you,
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- Don't want to depress you, but this is a battle that
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- But this is a battle that will never go away.
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- Will never go away. you can be a believer for
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- You can be a believer for fifty years, you've grown,
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- Fifty years, you've grown, you've matured but you will
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- You've matured but you will still have to deal with the
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- Still have to deal with the flesh.
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- Flesh. you don't overcome it one
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- You don't overcome it one time and it's defeated.
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- Time and it's defeated. it will come back again.
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- It will come back again. this is something we have
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- This is something we have to get skilled at.
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- To get skilled at. “no, i'm not going to let
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- “no, i'm not going to let my flesh say everything it
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- My flesh say everything it wants.
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- Wants. no, i'm not going to take
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- No, i'm not going to take the bait and get offended
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- The bait and get offended by that person that did me
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- By that person that did me wrong.
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- Wrong. i'm not going to let my
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- I'm not going to let my guard down and be dishonest
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- Guard down and be dishonest in this business deal.” are
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- In this business deal.” are you winning the war within?
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- You winning the war within? are you living by the
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- Are you living by the spirit, making decisions
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- Spirit, making decisions that honor god, or are you
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- That honor god, or are you letting the flesh win,
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- Letting the flesh win, doing whatever you feel?
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- Doing whatever you feel? you need to take the flesh
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- You need to take the flesh off the throne.
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- Off the throne. quit letting it determine
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- Quit letting it determine your decisions.
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- Your decisions. we've seen in foreign
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- We've seen in foreign countries where they have a
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- Countries where they have a dictator.
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- Dictator. the person in charge is
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- The person in charge is oppressing the people,
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- Oppressing the people, pushing them down.
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- Pushing them down. there's no democracy.
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- There's no democracy. they can't vote him out, so
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- They can't vote him out, so they have to take drastic
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- They have to take drastic measures.
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- Measures. the people rise up and
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- The people rise up and overthrow the dictator.
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- Overthrow the dictator. they have to forcefully
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- They have to forcefully remove him. that's the only
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- Remove him. that's the only way they can be free.
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- Way they can be free. it's the same way with the
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- It's the same way with the flesh.
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- Flesh. it wants to stay in control
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- It wants to stay in control of your life, telling you
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- Of your life, telling you what to do, where to go.
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- What to do, where to go. the only way it's going to
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- The only way it's going to come off that throne is if
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- Come off that throne is if you forcefully remove it.
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- You forcefully remove it. it's not going to go easily.
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- It's not going to go easily. when someone does you wrong
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- When someone does you wrong and you choose to forgive,
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- And you choose to forgive, the flesh will have a fit.
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- The flesh will have a fit. “come on, man, get even,
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- “come on, man, get even, pay them back, this is not
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- Pay them back, this is not right.” you have to put
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- Right.” you have to put your foot down and say,
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- Your foot down and say, “sorry, you don't control
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- “sorry, you don't control me anymore.
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- Me anymore. i've taken you off the
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- I've taken you off the throne.
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- Throne. you've lost your authority;
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- You've lost your authority; i walk by the spirit and
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- I walk by the spirit and not by the flesh.” it's
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- Not by the flesh.” it's time to dethrone the flesh.
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- Time to dethrone the flesh. quit letting it dictate how
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- Quit letting it dictate how you live, how you respond,
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- You live, how you respond, how you handle adversity.
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- How you handle adversity. start sowing to the spirit.
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- Start sowing to the spirit. start taking the high road,
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- Start taking the high road, doing the right thing when
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- Doing the right thing when it's hard. that's when you
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- It's hard. that's when you grow.
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- Grow. that's when god can trust
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- That's when god can trust you with more.
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- You with more. it's very shallow to live
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- It's very shallow to live by how you feel, giving in
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- By how you feel, giving in to carnal desires.
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- To carnal desires. that's going to keep you
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- That's going to keep you from the greatness god put
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- From the greatness god put in you.
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- In you. the scripture says, “no
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- The scripture says, “no discipline at the time
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- Discipline at the time seems pleasant, but later
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- Seems pleasant, but later on you will reap a harvest
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- On you will reap a harvest of good things.” being
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- Of good things.” being disciplined is not easy.
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- Disciplined is not easy. walking away when someone
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- Walking away when someone is rude, not giving in to
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- Is rude, not giving in to the temptation, getting up
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- The temptation, getting up early to excel at work;
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- Early to excel at work; that's difficult. your
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- That's difficult. your flesh wants to be
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- Flesh wants to be comfortable.
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- Comfortable. your flesh wants the easy
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- Your flesh wants the easy way out, but you can't be
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- Way out, but you can't be comfortable all the time
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- Comfortable all the time and reach your destiny.
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- And reach your destiny. if you'll do the hard thing
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- If you'll do the hard thing now, later on you'll see
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- Now, later on you'll see blessings and favor that
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- Blessings and favor that you've never seen.
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- You've never seen. but the flesh always wants
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- But the flesh always wants instant gratification.
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- Instant gratification. “if i tell this person off,
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- “if i tell this person off, it will make me feel good
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- It will make me feel good right now.
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- Right now. if i buy this item i can't
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- If i buy this item i can't afford, if i sleep in and
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- Afford, if i sleep in and skip work, i'll feel good
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- Skip work, i'll feel good right now.” but it's
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- Right now.” but it's important to think about
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- Important to think about later on.
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- Later on. we should be growing.
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- We should be growing. we should be further now
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- We should be further now than we were five years ago.
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- Than we were five years ago. if i'm still dealing with
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- If i'm still dealing with my temper the same way as
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- My temper the same way as years ago, then i'm leaving
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- Years ago, then i'm leaving my flesh on the throne.
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- My flesh on the throne. if i'm still getting
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- If i'm still getting offended, upset, jealous,
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- Offended, upset, jealous, the same way as years back,
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- The same way as years back, then i'm letting the flesh
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- Then i'm letting the flesh dictate my life.
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- Dictate my life. i'm not saying we have to
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- I'm not saying we have to be perfect, but we should
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- Be perfect, but we should be growing.
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- Be growing. when victoria and i were
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- When victoria and i were first married, and we were
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- First married, and we were about to go somewhere, i
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- About to go somewhere, i would ask her if she was
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- Would ask her if she was ready.
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- Ready. she'd say, “yes i'm ready.”
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- She'd say, “yes i'm ready.” so, i would go get in the
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- So, i would go get in the car and wait.
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- Car and wait. i'd wait and wait and wait.
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- I'd wait and wait and wait. she wold never come.
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- She wold never come. i would get so stressed.
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- I would get so stressed. i'd go back in, “i thought
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- I'd go back in, “i thought you said you're ready.” she
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- You said you're ready.” she said, “i am ready.” i said,
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- Said, “i am ready.” i said, “well would you mind, like
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- “well would you mind, like coming to the car.” i
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- Coming to the car.” i didn't like to wait.
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- Didn't like to wait. i used to pray, “god, you
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- I used to pray, “god, you have to change her.
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- Have to change her. help her to go faster.” but
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- Help her to go faster.” but what's funny is god never
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- What's funny is god never changed her, but he used
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- Changed her, but he used her to change me.
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- Her to change me. god doesn't remove
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- God doesn't remove everything that's
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- Everything that's uncomfortable.
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- Uncomfortable. if he did, we would never
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- If he did, we would never grow.
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- Grow. instead of praying god
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- Instead of praying god change the other person,
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- Change the other person, i've learned to pray, “god
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- I've learned to pray, “god change me.
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- Change me. help me to come up higher.
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- Help me to come up higher. help me to be more patient.
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- Help me to be more patient. help me to stay in peace.”
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- Help me to stay in peace.” even now, when i get stuck
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- Even now, when i get stuck in traffic, or a long line
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- In traffic, or a long line at the airport, that
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- At the airport, that impatience still tries to
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- Impatience still tries to get back on the throne.
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- Get back on the throne. it still tries to dictate
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- It still tries to dictate my life.
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- My life. you won't win the war
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- You won't win the war within one time, and you're
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- Within one time, and you're done.
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- Done. these forces are constantly
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- These forces are constantly opposing each other.
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- Opposing each other. that's why the apostle paul
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- That's why the apostle paul said, “i die daily.” now
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- Said, “i die daily.” now paul wrote half of the
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- Paul wrote half of the books in the new testament.
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- Books in the new testament. he's one of the heroes of
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- He's one of the heroes of faith.
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- Faith. you would think he was so
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- You would think he was so powerful, so mature, he
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- Powerful, so mature, he wouldn't have to deal with
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- Wouldn't have to deal with these issues, yet he said,
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- These issues, yet he said, “every day i have to take
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- “every day i have to take my flesh off the throne.
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- My flesh off the throne. every day, i have to put
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- Every day, i have to put down carnal desires.”
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- Down carnal desires.” after a couple of years of
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- After a couple of years of being impatient, letting
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- Being impatient, letting things frustrate me, i
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- Things frustrate me, i tried a different tactic.
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- Tried a different tactic. when victoria says she's
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- When victoria says she's ready, it's like the
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- Ready, it's like the two-minute warning in
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- Two-minute warning in football.
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- Football. the clock says two minutes,
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- The clock says two minutes, but you know it's going to
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- But you know it's going to be twenty minutes.
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- Be twenty minutes. with the time outs, the
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- With the time outs, the replays, the commercials.
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- Replays, the commercials. now when she says she's
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- Now when she says she's ready, i go sit down, make
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- Ready, i go sit down, make a sandwich, work out, go to
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- A sandwich, work out, go to the grocery store, mow the
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- The grocery store, mow the lawn.
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- Lawn. and i'm not looking at her
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- And i'm not looking at her right now.
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- Right now. many of the things that
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- Many of the things that frustrate us are really
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- Frustrate us are really opportunities to grow.
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- Opportunities to grow. take the flesh off the
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- Take the flesh off the throne.
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- Throne. don't respond the same way
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- Don't respond the same way you've been responding the
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- You've been responding the last twenty years.
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- Last twenty years. being impatient,
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- Being impatient, frustrated, arguing with
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- Frustrated, arguing with your spouse.
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- Your spouse. start dying daily.
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- Start dying daily. like with paul, we all have
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- Like with paul, we all have areas where we're letting
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- Areas where we're letting the flesh dictate.
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- The flesh dictate. if we would start walking
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- If we would start walking by the spirit, being
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- By the spirit, being willing to be
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- Willing to be uncomfortable, keeping our
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- Uncomfortable, keeping our mouth closed, waiting with
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- Mouth closed, waiting with a good attitude.
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- A good attitude. that's when you're growing.
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- That's when you're growing. that's when god can trust
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- That's when god can trust you with more influence,
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- You with more influence, more favor, more resources.
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- More favor, more resources. i still deal with being
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- I still deal with being impatient.
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- Impatient. that old man has been
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- That old man has been trying to get back up for
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- Trying to get back up for thirty years.
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- Thirty years. i buried him, had a
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- I buried him, had a funeral, thought he was
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- Funeral, thought he was finished, but you've heard
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- Finished, but you've heard of the walking dead.
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- Of the walking dead. sometimes he gets back up.
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- Sometimes he gets back up. here's what i've learned.
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- Here's what i've learned. anything you defeat quickly
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- Anything you defeat quickly is not your real enemy.
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- Is not your real enemy. what you overcome in a
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- What you overcome in a short time; you don't have
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- Short time; you don't have to be concerned with that.
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- To be concerned with that. your real enemy doesn't go
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- Your real enemy doesn't go away overnight.
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- Away overnight. i'm not tempted to be
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- I'm not tempted to be dishonest, curse, do drugs,
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- Dishonest, curse, do drugs, by the grace of god those
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- By the grace of god those things are not a struggle
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- Things are not a struggle for me.
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- For me. but being impatient is a
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- But being impatient is a different story.
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- Different story. david defeated goliath in a
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- David defeated goliath in a few minutes.
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- Few minutes. that wasn't his real enemy.
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- That wasn't his real enemy. king saul pestered david
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- King saul pestered david for years.
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- For years. threw spears at him in the
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- Threw spears at him in the palace, chased him through
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- Palace, chased him through the desert. god could have
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- The desert. god could have delivered david from saul
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- Delivered david from saul in a moment, like he did
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- In a moment, like he did with goliath.
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- With goliath. he could have taken care of
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- He could have taken care of him in an afternoon.
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- Him in an afternoon. no big deal.
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- No big deal. but some enemies god
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- But some enemies god doesn't remove, some
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- Doesn't remove, some temptations, some desires
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- Temptations, some desires may not go away.
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- May not go away. if god doesn't remove it,
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- If god doesn't remove it, that means the grace is
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- That means the grace is there to stand strong and
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- There to stand strong and deal with it.
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- Deal with it. god wouldn't have allowed
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- God wouldn't have allowed it if it was going to keep
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- It if it was going to keep you from your destiny.
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- You from your destiny. ask him to help you.
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- Ask him to help you. ask for his strength.
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- Ask for his strength. when you admit your
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- When you admit your dependence on him, you
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- Dependence on him, you humble yourself and say,
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- Humble yourself and say, “god, i can't do this on my
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- “god, i can't do this on my own.
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- Own. i can't defeat this giant;
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- I can't defeat this giant; it's not going away.” god
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- It's not going away.” god will step in and help you
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- Will step in and help you conquer what's holding you
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- Conquer what's holding you back.
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- Back. you have the power to keep
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- You have the power to keep the old man down.
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- The old man down. don't let him keep you from
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- Don't let him keep you from your greatness.
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- Your greatness. don't let the flesh stay on
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- Don't let the flesh stay on the throne.
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- The throne. the force in you is greater
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- The force in you is greater than any force that's
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- Than any force that's trying to stop you.
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- Trying to stop you. start putting on the new
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- Start putting on the new man.
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- Man. “father, thank you that i
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- “father, thank you that i am strong, i am
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- Am strong, i am disciplined, i am anointed,
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- Disciplined, i am anointed, i am favored, that i make
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- I am favored, that i make decisions that honor you.”
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- Decisions that honor you.” in 1 samuel 25, david and
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- In 1 samuel 25, david and his men had been out
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- His men had been out protecting the property of
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- Protecting the property of a man named nabal.
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- A man named nabal. he was a wealthy man that
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- He was a wealthy man that owned a lot of sheep.
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- Owned a lot of sheep. it was the time of year
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- It was the time of year where they were shearing
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- Where they were shearing the sheep, they had all
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- The sheep, they had all this wool, a great harvest.
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- This wool, a great harvest. they were having a big
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- They were having a big celebration.
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- Celebration. david sent a few men to ask
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- David sent a few men to ask nabal, since they had been
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- Nabal, since they had been watching over his property
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- Watching over his property if he would give them some
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- If he would give them some food and water.
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- Food and water. it seemed like nabal would
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- It seemed like nabal would be grateful, glad to do it,
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- Be grateful, glad to do it, but he was just the
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- But he was just the opposite.
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- Opposite. he was very rude and
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- He was very rude and disrespectful to david's
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- Disrespectful to david's men.
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- Men. commentaries say that nabal
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- Commentaries say that nabal was a harsh man, stubborn
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- Was a harsh man, stubborn and hot tempered, that he
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- And hot tempered, that he spent most of his life
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- Spent most of his life drunk.
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- Drunk. he said to david's men, “i
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- He said to david's men, “i don't owe you anything.
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- Don't owe you anything. i didn't ask you to protect
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- I didn't ask you to protect me.
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- Me. what are you doing on my
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- What are you doing on my property?” he sent them
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- Property?” he sent them away empty handed.
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- Away empty handed. when david heard how nabal
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- When david heard how nabal insulted them, he was
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- Insulted them, he was furious.
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- Furious. he told his men to get
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- He told his men to get their swords, they were
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- Their swords, they were going to attack.
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- Going to attack. nabal's wife, a young lady
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- Nabal's wife, a young lady named abigail, was not only
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- Named abigail, was not only beautiful but she was very
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- Beautiful but she was very wise.
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- Wise. she loaded up animals with
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- She loaded up animals with food and water and headed
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- Food and water and headed out toward david.
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- Out toward david. they met on the road.
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- They met on the road. abigail bowed down in
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- Abigail bowed down in humility.
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- Humility. she said, “david, my
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- She said, “david, my husband is a fool.
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- Husband is a fool. i'm sorry for how he
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- I'm sorry for how he treated you.
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- Treated you. i brought you all these
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- I brought you all these gifts for you and your
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- Gifts for you and your men.” she calmed david down
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- Men.” she calmed david down and kept him from wiping
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- And kept him from wiping out her town.
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- Out her town. david thanked her and
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- David thanked her and turned around and went back
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- Turned around and went back home.
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- Home. ten days later, nabal had a
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- Ten days later, nabal had a stroke and died.
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- Stroke and died. david sent word and asked
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- David sent word and asked abigail to become his wife.
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- Abigail to become his wife. now that the old man was
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- Now that the old man was dead, she could meet the
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- Dead, she could meet the new man.
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- New man. nabal is symbolic of our
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- Nabal is symbolic of our old nature, hot tempered,
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- Old nature, hot tempered, rude, ungrateful,
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- Rude, ungrateful, addictions.
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- Addictions. the name nabal even means
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- The name nabal even means fool.
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- Fool. as long as the old man is
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- As long as the old man is alive, you'll never meet
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- Alive, you'll never meet the new man.
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- The new man. i'm not talking about your
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- I'm not talking about your husband.
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- Husband. somebody thought they got a
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- Somebody thought they got a word from the lord, i'm
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- Word from the lord, i'm talking about the old man
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- Talking about the old man that lives in us.
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- That lives in us. the bitterness, the bad
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- The bitterness, the bad attitude, the compromise.
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- Attitude, the compromise. start starving the old man.
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- Start starving the old man. your destiny is too great,
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- Your destiny is too great, your assignment too
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- Your assignment too important to let the same
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- Important to let the same issues keep you from seeing
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- Issues keep you from seeing the new man.
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- The new man. it's interesting that nabal
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- It's interesting that nabal died ten days after abigail
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- Died ten days after abigail did the right thing.
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- Did the right thing. there will be these times
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- There will be these times when you dig down deep and
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- When you dig down deep and do the right thing when
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- Do the right thing when it's hard, that you will
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- It's hard, that you will come in to your tenth day.
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- Come in to your tenth day. something will suddenly
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- Something will suddenly break, that addiction won't
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- Break, that addiction won't have the power over you,
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- Have the power over you, that bad attitude, that
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- That bad attitude, that temper, it may not totally
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- Temper, it may not totally go away but it doesn't
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- Go away but it doesn't control you anymore.
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- Control you anymore. i wonder how much higher we
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- I wonder how much higher we would go, how much more of
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- Would go, how much more of god's favor we would see if
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- God's favor we would see if we would start putting off
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- We would start putting off the old man.
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- The old man. if we would start saying no
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- If we would start saying no to the things that are
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- To the things that are holding us back.
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- Holding us back. sometimes a little thing is
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- Sometimes a little thing is keeping us from big
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- Keeping us from big blessings.
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- Blessings. a little pride, a little
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- A little pride, a little compromise.
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- Compromise. “just this one friend i
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- “just this one friend i party with.
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- Party with. just this one temptation i
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- Just this one temptation i give in to.
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- Give in to. just this one person i
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- Just this one person i won't forgive.” no, it's
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- Won't forgive.” no, it's time to get rid of nabal.
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- Time to get rid of nabal. nobody likes him. nobody
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- Nobody likes him. nobody wants to be around him. put
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- Wants to be around him. put the old man down and put on
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- The old man down and put on the new you.
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- The new you. the free you, the blessed
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- The free you, the blessed you, the happy you, the
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- You, the happy you, the victorious you.
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- Victorious you. in the scripture, jacob was
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- In the scripture, jacob was known for being dishonest,
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- Known for being dishonest, cheating people.
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- Cheating people. his name means trickster,
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- His name means trickster, con man.
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- Con man. he lived up to it.
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- He lived up to it. he tricked his brother out
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- He tricked his brother out of his birthright, went
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- Of his birthright, went around deceiving people.
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- Around deceiving people. after living this way for
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- After living this way for years, he went to the brook
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- Years, he went to the brook to be alone.
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- To be alone. i'm sure he was reflecting
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- I'm sure he was reflecting on his life.
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- On his life. he had an encounter with
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- He had an encounter with god.
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- God. he wrestled with the angel.
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- He wrestled with the angel. it was there that god
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- It was there that god changed his name from jacob
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- Changed his name from jacob to israel.
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- To israel. his new name means prince
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- His new name means prince with god.
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- With god. his old name meant deceiver.
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- His old name meant deceiver. he spent the rest of his
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- He spent the rest of his life dealing with these two
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- Life dealing with these two names.
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- Names. you would think the
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- You would think the scripture would now refer
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- Scripture would now refer to him only by his new
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- To him only by his new name, israel.
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- Name, israel. after all god changed his
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- After all god changed his name.
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- Name. it was a significant moment.
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- It was a significant moment. he had a new beginning.
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- He had a new beginning. but the scripture goes back
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- But the scripture goes back and forth between jacob and
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- And forth between jacob and israel.
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- Israel. one moment he's jacob, in
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- One moment he's jacob, in the same passage, the next
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- The same passage, the next moment he's israel.
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- Moment he's israel. god was showing us that the
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- God was showing us that the old man, the carnal
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- Old man, the carnal desires, won't totally go
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- Desires, won't totally go away.
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- Away. the key to living in
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- The key to living in victory is to respond like
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- Victory is to respond like israel, not like jacob.
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- Israel, not like jacob. there's a jacob in all of
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- There's a jacob in all of us.
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- Us. there are things that can
- 00:17:40.983 --> 00:17:41.683
- There are things that can hold us back.
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- Hold us back. the good news is there's an
- 00:17:43.118 --> 00:17:44.720
- The good news is there's an israel is in all of us.
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- Israel is in all of us. there's a prince in you,
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- There's a prince in you, there's a holy, righteous,
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- There's a holy, righteous, favored, world changer in
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- Favored, world changer in you.
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- You. let me warn you, even
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- Let me warn you, even though israel is in there,
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- Though israel is in there, even though god has changed
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- Even though god has changed your name, jacob will try
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- Your name, jacob will try to come out.
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- To come out. those carnal desires may be
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- Those carnal desires may be dead, but people will do
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- Dead, but people will do things that wake up the
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- Things that wake up the jacob in you.
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- Jacob in you. you were driving to work,
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- You were driving to work, singing praises, enjoying
- 00:18:09.178 --> 00:18:10.846
- Singing praises, enjoying the day, israel was feeling
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- The day, israel was feeling good.
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- Good. then someone cut you off in
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- Then someone cut you off in traffic.
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- Traffic. out of nowhere jacob showed
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- Out of nowhere jacob showed up.
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- Up. you quit praising and you
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- You quit praising and you started saying some other
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- Started saying some other things.
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- Things. you think, “where did you
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- You think, “where did you come from?” jacob smiles
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- Come from?” jacob smiles and says, “i'm in here too.
- 00:18:24.760 --> 00:18:26.995
- And says, “i'm in here too. i may be dead, but i can be
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- I may be dead, but i can be woken up.” jacob wants to
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- Woken up.” jacob wants to complain, israel wants to
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- Complain, israel wants to praise.
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- Praise. who's going to win that war?
- 00:18:33.735 --> 00:18:35.470
- Who's going to win that war? jacob wants to hold a
- 00:18:35.537 --> 00:18:36.605
- Jacob wants to hold a grudge.
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- Grudge. they hurt you, don't speak
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- They hurt you, don't speak to them. israel wants to
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- To them. israel wants to forgive, let it go, move
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- Forgive, let it go, move forward in faith.
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- Forward in faith. jacob wants to argue, be
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- Jacob wants to argue, be condescending, say hurtful
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- Condescending, say hurtful things.
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- Things. israel wants to be kind,
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- Israel wants to be kind, overlook the offense, keep
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- Overlook the offense, keep peace in the relationship.
- 00:18:52.387 --> 00:18:54.656
- Peace in the relationship. jacob wants another crispy
- 00:18:54.723 --> 00:18:56.124
- Jacob wants another crispy cream donut, with chocolate
- 00:18:56.191 --> 00:18:58.126
- Cream donut, with chocolate icing, sprinkles on top.
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- Icing, sprinkles on top. israel says, “no twelve was
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- Israel says, “no twelve was enough” i'm asking you to
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- Enough” i'm asking you to be the israel not the jacob.
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- Be the israel not the jacob. they're both in us.
- 00:19:07.336 --> 00:19:08.770
- They're both in us. god changed your name, but
- 00:19:08.837 --> 00:19:10.439
- God changed your name, but he didn't get rid of jacob.
- 00:19:10.505 --> 00:19:12.841
- He didn't get rid of jacob. when jacob was about to
- 00:19:12.908 --> 00:19:13.842
- When jacob was about to pass, at the end of his
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- Pass, at the end of his life, genesis 48 says,
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- Life, genesis 48 says, “when jacob was told that
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- “when jacob was told that his son joseph was there to
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- His son joseph was there to see him, israel gathered up
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- See him, israel gathered up his strength and sat up in
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- His strength and sat up in the bed.” he started off as
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- The bed.” he started off as jacob, tired, weary,
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- Jacob, tired, weary, thinking he was done, but
- 00:19:30.726 --> 00:19:32.227
- Thinking he was done, but then something kicked in.
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- Then something kicked in. he thought, “my son is
- 00:19:34.062 --> 00:19:34.963
- He thought, “my son is here, the one i thought was
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- Here, the one i thought was dead, the one i waited for.
- 00:19:36.698 --> 00:19:38.467
- Dead, the one i waited for. i'm not going to die yet.”
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- I'm not going to die yet.” israel sat up.
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- Israel sat up. the prince in him came back
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- The prince in him came back to life.
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- To life. when you wake up in the
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- When you wake up in the morning you get to choose,
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- Morning you get to choose, “am i going to be jacob
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- “am i going to be jacob today, am i going to
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- Today, am i going to complain, i don't want to
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- Complain, i don't want to go to work.
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- Go to work. i can't stand this traffic;
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- I can't stand this traffic; these people get on my
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- These people get on my nerves.” or are you going
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- Nerves.” or are you going to be israel.
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- To be israel. “lord, thank you for
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- “lord, thank you for another day you have made.
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- Another day you have made. i'm grateful to be alive.
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- I'm grateful to be alive. thank you for the gift of
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- Thank you for the gift of this day.” when things
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- This day.” when things don't go your way, you have
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- Don't go your way, you have delays, disappointments,
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- Delays, disappointments, people that do you wrong,
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- People that do you wrong, are you going to be jacob?
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- Are you going to be jacob? get upset, offended, try to
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- Get upset, offended, try to pay them back or are you
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- Pay them back or are you going to be israel?
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- Going to be israel? “father you're my
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- “father you're my vindicator.
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- Vindicator. you're on the throne, i'm
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- You're on the throne, i'm going to stay in peace
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- Going to stay in peace knowing that you are
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- Knowing that you are fighting my battles.” with
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- Fighting my battles.” with your family, are you going
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- Your family, are you going to be jacob, critical,
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- To be jacob, critical, harsh, contentious, or are
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- Harsh, contentious, or are you going to be israel?
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- You going to be israel? loving, kind, treating them
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- Loving, kind, treating them with respect and honor.
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- With respect and honor. both people are in you, the
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- Both people are in you, the flesh and the spirit, the
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- Flesh and the spirit, the old man and the new man,
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- Old man and the new man, jacob and israel.
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- Jacob and israel. you'll go so much further
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- You'll go so much further in life if you'll start
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- In life if you'll start being israel.
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- Being israel. keep the flesh off the
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- Keep the flesh off the throne.
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- Throne. don't let that old man get
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- Don't let that old man get back up, keep him buried.
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- Back up, keep him buried. i was at the drive through
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- I was at the drive through the other day, just minding
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- The other day, just minding my own business.
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- My own business. life was good.
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- Life was good. i had waited about ten
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- I had waited about ten minutes in line.
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- Minutes in line. i pulled up to place my
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- I pulled up to place my order on the microphone.
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- Order on the microphone. the people were in the
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- The people were in the building.
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- Building. i rolled down my window and
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- I rolled down my window and the man was so upset.
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- The man was so upset. he said, “sir, there are
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- He said, “sir, there are other people waiting.
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- Other people waiting. if you don't place your
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- If you don't place your order, you're going to have
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- Order, you're going to have to get out of line.” i had
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- To get out of line.” i had just pulled up.
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- Just pulled up. i had not been there for
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- I had not been there for two seconds.
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- Two seconds. out of nowhere jacob showed.
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- Out of nowhere jacob showed. i was so surprised.
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- I was so surprised. i said, “how'd you get here
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- I said, “how'd you get here so fast?” he said, “i live
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- So fast?” he said, “i live here, too.” he gave me some
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- Here, too.” he gave me some great ideas what to tell
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- Great ideas what to tell this jerk, i mean this man.
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- This jerk, i mean this man. i said, “jacob, i thought
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- I said, “jacob, i thought you were dead.” he said, “i
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- You were dead.” he said, “i was, but i got back up for
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- Was, but i got back up for this one.” now, i had to
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- This one.” now, i had to make the choice was i going
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- Make the choice was i going to be israel, the pastor,
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- To be israel, the pastor, with a smile, or was i
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- With a smile, or was i going to be jacob and try
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- Going to be jacob and try to get even. i did what i'm
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- To get even. i did what i'm asking you to do.
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- Asking you to do. i thought, “i'm going to be
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- I thought, “i'm going to be israel.” i said very
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- Israel.” i said very politely, “no problem, let
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- Politely, “no problem, let me give you my order.”
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- Me give you my order.” after i ordered i thanked
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- After i ordered i thanked him, said, “god bless you.
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- Him, said, “god bless you. have a great day, hope your
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- Have a great day, hope your children are fine, tell
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- Children are fine, tell your grandparents i said
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- Your grandparents i said hello.” when i pulled up,
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- Hello.” when i pulled up, he had all of his workers
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- He had all of his workers gathered around, staring at
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- Gathered around, staring at me.
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- Me. he said, “i thought that
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- He said, “i thought that was you, pastor joel.” i
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- Was you, pastor joel.” i wanted to say, “yes this is
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- Wanted to say, “yes this is me, israel.”
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- Me, israel.” every day, you have to make
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- Every day, you have to make the choice, “am i jacob or
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- The choice, “am i jacob or am i israel?
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- Am i israel? am i going to hold on to
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- Am i going to hold on to this offense, or am i going
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- This offense, or am i going to let it go?
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- To let it go? am i going to hang out with
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- Am i going to hang out with these friends that cause me
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- These friends that cause me to compromise, or am i
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- To compromise, or am i going to stay on the high
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- Going to stay on the high road and be a person of
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- Road and be a person of excellence?
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- Excellence? am i going to cut corners
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- Am i going to cut corners at work, or am i going to
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- At work, or am i going to have integrity and give it
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- Have integrity and give it my best?” i'm asking you to
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- My best?” i'm asking you to be an israel.
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- Be an israel. put off the old man.
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- Put off the old man. don't let the flesh dictate
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- Don't let the flesh dictate your life.
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- Your life. let the spirit rule.
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- Let the spirit rule. honor god with your
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- Honor god with your decisions.
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- Decisions. the choices you make don't
- 00:22:53.762 --> 00:22:55.397
- The choices you make don't just affect you, they
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- Just affect you, they affect your children and
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- Affect your children and even generations to come.
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- Even generations to come. jacob's brother esau sold
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- Jacob's brother esau sold his birthright for a pot of
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- His birthright for a pot of stew.
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- Stew. he was so hungry, he let
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- He was so hungry, he let his carnal desires dictate
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- His carnal desires dictate his decisions.
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- His decisions. he sold something
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- He sold something incredibly valuable for a
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- Incredibly valuable for a bowl of stew.
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- Bowl of stew. he was the first-born son.
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- He was the first-born son. we should talk about the
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- We should talk about the god of abraham, isaac and
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- God of abraham, isaac and esau, not jacob.
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- Esau, not jacob. but esau let his flesh take
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- But esau let his flesh take the throne.
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- The throne. don't let that be you.
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- Don't let that be you. you can win the war within.
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- You can win the war within. god is calling you up
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- God is calling you up higher.
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- Higher. whatever you know is
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- Whatever you know is holding you back, this is
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- Holding you back, this is the time to make a change.
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- The time to make a change. this is a moment of grace
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- This is a moment of grace to do what you couldn't do
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- To do what you couldn't do before.
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- Before. your decision can save your
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- Your decision can save your marriage, it can take you
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- Marriage, it can take you to a new level in your
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- To a new level in your career, it can break
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- Career, it can break mediocrity and launch you
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- Mediocrity and launch you into abundance.
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- Into abundance. if you'll do this, i
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- If you'll do this, i believe and declare, like
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- Believe and declare, like israel, you're going to
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- Israel, you're going to become the prince you were
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- Become the prince you were created to be.
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- Created to be. you're going to break bad
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- You're going to break bad habits, resist temptation,
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- Habits, resist temptation, and see the fullness of
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- And see the fullness of your destiny, in jesus'
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- Your destiny, in jesus' name.
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- Name. if you receive it, can you
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- If you receive it, can you say amen?
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- Sometimes in life,
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- Sometimes in life, people don't choose us.
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- People don't choose us. we've all felt overlooked
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- We've all felt overlooked and like we're not good enough.
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- And like we're not good enough. it's easy to live inferior,
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- It's easy to live inferior, thinking we don't measure up.
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- Thinking we don't measure up. people may have left you out.
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- People may have left you out. the good news is
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- The good news is god has chosen you.
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- God has chosen you. he's the one that matters.
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- And in my new book, chosen:
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- And in my new book, chosen: your life is marked
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- Your life is marked for distinction,
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- For distinction, you'll discover,
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- You'll discover, before you were born,
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- Before you were born, god not only knew you,
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- God not only knew you, but he handpicked you
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- But he handpicked you and placed
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- And placed a calling on your life.
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- A calling on your life. you are equipped and empowered
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- You are equipped and empowered to fulfill your destiny.
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- To fulfill your destiny. when you understand
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- When you understand that you're chosen,
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- That you're chosen, fear and doubt can't stay,
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- Fear and doubt can't stay, you'll live
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- You'll live with the boldness
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- With the boldness to step into the greatness
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- To step into the greatness god put in you.
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- God put in you. i'd love to send you
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- Jesus encouraged us by saying, "you didn't choose me.
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- Your next days are going to be your best days.
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- You're not ordinary. you've been chosen
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- You've been chosen by almighty god.
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- By almighty god. victoria and i want you to know
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