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Dr. Robert Jeffress | Robert Jeffress - Flame Throwers vs. Fire Extinguishers (Part 1) | May 13, 2025
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- Male announcer: from the pulpit of the first baptist church
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- Of dallas, texas, this is "pathway to victory," with
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- Doctor robert jeffress.
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- Dr. robert jeffress: hi, i'm robert jeffress, and welcome
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- Again to "pathway to victory."
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- For the past few weeks, we've been looking about the four
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- Different conduits through which god pours the power of
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- His holy spirit into our lives.
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- And just as there are things that hasten his power, there are
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- Things that we do that hinder god's power.
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- So, today, i'm going to describe what i call
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- Four "spirit-quenchers."
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- Now, a quick word of caution.
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- Today's study will address some sensitive issues regarding
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- Marital intimacy that may not be suitable for everyone, so please
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- Use discretion.
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- My message is titled "flamethrowers versus fire
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- Extinguishers," on today's edition of "pathway to victory."
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- ♪♪♪
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- Male announcer: god never intended for the holy spirit to
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- Be a mystery to believers.
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- In fact, if you're a follower of jesus, then god's spirit is
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- Dwelling inside of you, and he's waiting to unleash his
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- Supernatural power in your life.
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- In his bestselling book, "i want more," doctor robert jeffress
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- Teaches what it means to be filled with the power of the
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- Holy spirit.
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- Jeffress: my grandfather grew up in a small town north of here of
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- About 5000 people, and he always told us stories about growing up
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- In this small town.
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- And one of the stories he told us was about a rash of fires
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- That hit the city.
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- On a regular basis, the residents were awakened to the
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- Shrill sound of a fire engine racing to a fire.
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- Fortunately, they had a very dedicated fire chief who was
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- Always there, working to put out the fire.
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- One night, the telephone rang in the middle of the evening and
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- Awakened my grandfather, telling him that his own dry goods
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- Business was on fire.
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- And so he got dressed as quickly as he could, he went down to his
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- Business, saw it engulfed in flames, and there was the fire
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- Chief and the firemen, and my grandfather worked the hose with
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- The fire chief to try to salvage what was left of his business.
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- Finally, after a series of investigations, the cause of
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- This rash of fires was determined.
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- It wasn't faulty wiring, it wasn't a group of delinquent
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- Teenagers, it was discovered that the fire chief himself was
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- Setting the fires.
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- He was a pyromaniac who actually would go and start the fires and
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- Then work to put out the fires.
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- Now, you can hardly imagine anything more ludicrous.
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- Somebody working to start a fire and then working feverishly to
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- Put out that fire.
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- It's hard to imagine anything more idiotic until you look at
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- Your own life.
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- You know, in this series on the holy spirit, we've been talking
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- About what we can do to ignite the power of the holy spirit in
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- Our lives.
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- We've said that god has provided the heat, that is the
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- Holy spirit of god the moment we trust in christ as our savior.
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- But you know, a fire needs two things, it needs heat
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- And energy.
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- God has supplied the heat, we have to supply the energy.
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- And in this series, we've said there are four combustibles that
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- God uses in our life to ignite the spirit's flame in our life.
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- Combustible number one is the word of god, the bible.
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- That's one energy source for the christian.
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- Combustible number two is conversation with god, prayer.
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- Combustible number three we looked at last week was the
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- People of god, that is the church.
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- And today we're going to look at the fourth combustible, and that
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- Is obedience to god.
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- And yet, here we work with god to put this fire, to get this
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- Fire of his power and his spirit going on inside of us, and then
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- We who are the ones who start the fire, many times we're the
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- Very ones who extinguish the fire by our own disobedience
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- To god.
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- And i think it's that phenomenon that god had in mind when,
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- Through the apostle paul, he wrote, in 1 thessalonians 5:19,
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- "do not quench the holy spirit of god."
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- Don't put out the flame of god's spirit in your life.
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- That's what he's talking about, quenching the flame, the power
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- Of the holy spirit of god.
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- How do we do that?
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- Well, today, we're going to talk about four spirit-quenchers to
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- Avoid if you want to keep the power of the holy spirit burning
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- Brightly in your life.
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- If you have your bibles, i want you to turn to 1 corinthians
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- Chapter 6, as we look at the four spirit-quenchers every
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- Christian needs to avoid.
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- This whole series is built around the premise that you want
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- More in your relationship with god, i know i do.
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- You want more of god's power in your life.
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- Well, the way to experience more of god's power in your life is
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- To avoid the spirit-quenchers.
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- And spirit number-- spirit-quencher number one that
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- Is mentioned here is immorality.
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- Immorality will extinguish the power of god's spirit in
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- Your life.
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- Look at 1 corinthians 6:18 to 20.
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- You know, by the way, before we look at that, have you ever
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- Heard people say, "all sin is the same to god.
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- God doesn't grade sin.
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- All sin is the same in god's eyes."
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- Have you ever heard that before?
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- Nothing could be further from the truth.
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- Now, it's true that any sin is sufficient to separate you and
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- Me from god, okay?
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- All sin separates us from god, but there are some sins that
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- Have more serious consequences than other sins.
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- You know, nobody has ever gone to prison for harboring hateful
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- Thoughts to another person.
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- Hate is wrong, but you don't go to prison for that.
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- Nobody has ever sat in the electric chair for not paying
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- Their income tax.
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- I mean, the fact is, there are some transgressions that have
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- More consequences in this life than others.
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- The same is true with god.
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- Yes, all sin can separate us from god, but there is some sin
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- That has more consequence to it than others, and number one at
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- The list, at the top of the list of sins that have greater
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- Consequences than others is the sin of immorality.
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- Look at what paul says in 1 corinthians 6, beginning with
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- Verse 18, paul says, "flee immorality, for every other sin
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- That a man commits is outside the body, but the immoral man
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- Sins against his own body."
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- Now that word, immortality-- immorality is "porneia"
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- In greek.
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- We get our word "pornography" from it.
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- It is an umbrella term that describes any sexual activity
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- Outside of marriage.
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- It could be fornication, that is pre-marital sex.
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- I hear that there are a lot of christians who are single adults
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- Who say, "well, you know, where does it say in the bible, 'you
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- Can't have sex before you're married?'"
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- Anytime the bible talks about fornication, it's talking about
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- Sex before marriage.
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- The bible, over and over again, says, "flee fornication," that
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- Is sex before marriage.
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- Adultery, sex with somebody else in the marriage relationship.
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- Homosexuality, pornography, all of those are a form
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- Of immorality.
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- God's not against sex, he thought it up, it's his idea!
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- But he said the way the sexual relationship works the best is
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- Within the security of the marriage relationship.
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- So he says, "flee immorality," and notice how he makes the
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- Distinction between immorality and every other sin.
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- He said, "every other sin," covetousness, hatred, lying,
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- Stealing, all of those sins "a man commits outside the body,
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- But the immoral man sins against his own body.
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- Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the
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- Holy spirit who is in you, whom you have from god, and that you
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- Are not your own?
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- For you have been bought with a price: therefore glorify god in
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- Your body."
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- Immorality is in a special category all of its own.
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- And there's certainly physical consequences to immorality,
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- Aids, stds.
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- There are emotional consequences to having sex outside the
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- Marriage relationship.
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- There is a bond you form with that other person that is very,
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- Very difficult to break.
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- But there are also spiritual consequences to immorality that
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- Are unlike any other spiritual consequences to any other sin.
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- Because, you see, when you commit immorality, you're not
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- Sinning outside the body, you're sinning with your body.
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- You say, "well, what's the big deal about that?"
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- He says, "for you do you not know that your body is the
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- Temple of the holy spirit."
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- Immorality quenches the spirit's presence in your life.
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- Now, i'm about to paint a very disgusting word picture, but
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- It's necessary for you to understand exactly what paul is
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- Saying here.
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- For those of you who are married.
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- I want you to imagine being forced to watch your mate have
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- Sex with another person.
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- For those of you who are parents, i want you to imagine
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- Being forced to watch your teenage child have sex
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- With someone.
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- Can you imagine anything more disgusting?
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- Only the sickest voyeur would find any pleasure in that.
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- Why, if you were placed in front of that situation, if you were
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- Able, you would run out of the room as quickly as possible.
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- And yet, when you as a christian, who has the
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- Holy spirit of god in you, when you engage in immorality, you're
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- Not only asking the holy spirit to watch you commit that act,
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- You're actually asking him to participate in that act
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- With you.
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- So the next time you're tempted by premarital sex, by adultery,
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- By sitting in front of a computer screen watching
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- Pornographic images, i want you to imagine yourself saying,
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- "holy spirit of god, i want you to sit here with me and watch
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- This with me."
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- "holy spirit of god, i want you to have sex with this person,
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- As well."
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- "i want you to join me in this immoral activity."
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- That's what he's talking about.
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- Every other sin is outside the body, immorality is with your
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- Own body, and more importantly, with the holy spirit of god.
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- What is the remedy to that kind of immorality that quenches the
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- Presence of god's spirit?
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- You see, the fact is, the holy spirit, in a theological
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- Sense, doesn't leave you, but whenever you ask him to
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- Participate in a sexual activity with you, i guarantee you he's
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- Not gonna hang around.
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- He is gonna get out of there as quickly as possible.
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- So in a very practical sense, you lose the presence of the
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- Holy spirit in your life whenever you engage
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- In immorality.
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- What's the remedy to that?
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- Notice what he says here, "it's the realization," he says in
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- Verse 19, "that you are not your own.
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- You have been bought with a price."
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- You're not free to do with your body whatever you want to do
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- With it, because you have been bought with a price.
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- That word "bought," the word "redeemed" had a special meaning
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- To paul's audience.
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- Remember when paul wrote these words, one-third of the roman
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- Empire were slaves!
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- And so they were very familiar with this concept of redeeming.
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- That word "redeem," "exagorazó," is a word that means "to buy out
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- Of the slave market."
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- If you wanted to purchase a slave, you would go down to the
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- "agora," the marketplace.
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- And there, the slaves would be on display and people would bid
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- For the slaves, and if you wanted to purchase a slave,
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- You would pay the highest price.
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- And once that slave became yours, it was like chattel
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- Property, you're free to do with it whatever you wanted to.
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- If you wanted to mistreat it, abuse it, if you want to slit
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- Its throat, you were free to do so, the slave was your property.
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- You had redeemed it, you had purchased it out of the market.
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- That's what the word "redeemed" means.
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- Now, ladies and gentlemen, listen to this.
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- The bible says, when we are born into this world, we are born
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- Not free.
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- We are born slaves of satan.
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- He is our master, and all he has planned for us is a lifetime and
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- An eternity of misery.
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- That is what satan's plan is for your life and my life.
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- All of us were born into this world in bondage.
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- We had no future and no hope, but god, for no other reason,
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- The bible says, than the great love with which he loved you.
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- He sent jesus, his son, to shed his blood, to pay the price to
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- Redeem us from the bondage of satan, so that we can enter into
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- Everlasting life.
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- That's what it means to be redeemed.
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- God has purchased us, he has bought us with his blood.
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- Now, what's the result of that?
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- The result of that is he says, "therefore you are not your own.
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- You have been bought with a price."
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- Therefore, glorify god in your bodies.
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- I read the story one time about abraham lincoln when he was
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- A congressman in illinois.
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- He had heard about slave auctions, but he had never
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- Attended one.
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- And there was one going on in his community and so he thought
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- He would attend and see exactly what happened at
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- A slave auction.
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- And there, in the crowd, was a young, teenage african
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- American girl.
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- They had her up on the auction block and people were bidding
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- For her.
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- And so abraham lincoln entered into the bidding process and the
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- Price kept going higher, and higher, and higher, and finally,
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- Lincoln offered the winning bid and the auctioneer said, "sold!"
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- And the girl, the young african american, was brought to
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- Abraham lincoln.
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- She didn't dare look up at him.
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- She had her head bowed.
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- And lincoln said to her, "you're free."
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- She said, "mister, i don't know what that means."
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- He said, "it means you're free to do whatever you wanna do.
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- You're free to say whatever you wanna say, you're free to go
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- Wherever you want to go."
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- She lifted up her head and said, with tears streaming down her
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- Face, "then, sir, i'll go with you."
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- That's the response to somebody who understands that
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- They've been redeemed.
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- God purchased us out of the marketplace of satan, and sin,
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- And death, not so that we could be free to do what we wanna do,
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- So that we are free to follow him to serve him with all of
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- Our heart.
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- That's the reason we flee immorality.
- 00:15:42.464 --> 00:15:46.468
- You're not your own, you have been bought with a price.
- 00:15:46.468 --> 00:15:51.240
- Immorality quenches the spirit's presence in our life.
- 00:15:51.240 --> 00:15:55.477
- Spirit-quencher number two is bitterness.
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- Bitterness quenches the spirit's power to heal our hurts.
- 00:15:58.947 --> 00:16:04.820
- You know, every one of us, sooner or later, and probably
- 00:16:04.820 --> 00:16:07.356
- Sooner, is gonna be hurt by somebody, and hurt deeply.
- 00:16:07.356 --> 00:16:12.227
- We don't have any choice over that.
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- And some of you, this morning, some of you watching on
- 00:16:14.563 --> 00:16:16.665
- Television, you've been hurt by a friend who betrayed you, or
- 00:16:16.665 --> 00:16:21.670
- Maybe a business associate who cheated you.
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- It may be a child who's ignored you, or a mate who has
- 00:16:24.807 --> 00:16:28.710
- Abandoned you.
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- We can't control what happens to us, but we can control our
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- Response to those hurts.
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- We can either hold on to those hurts and turn them over and
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- Over in our minds until they metastasize into a tumor of
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- Bitterness, or we can respond to the grace of god to heal
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- Those hurts.
- 00:16:49.364 --> 00:16:50.766
- You see, the bible teaches, for a christian, every time you're
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- Hurt by somebody, god provides an antidote to that hurt.
- 00:16:54.303 --> 00:16:59.074
- A soothing balm called "the holy spirit of god," and he
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- Gives you an extra measure of grace in order to deal
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- With that offense.
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- He doesn't give it to other people, he gives it to you.
- 00:17:08.650 --> 00:17:11.653
- And that's why, by the way, you should never get angry and take
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- Up somebody else's vengeance, you know, when they're
- 00:17:15.090 --> 00:17:17.659
- Mistreated and make that your cause, because, the fact is, god
- 00:17:17.659 --> 00:17:21.130
- Has given that person an extra measure of grace that he hasn't
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- Given you or me.
- 00:17:25.167 --> 00:17:27.436
- But we have a choice what to do with that grace.
- 00:17:27.436 --> 00:17:30.139
- We can either accept it or refuse it.
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- And that's why hebrews 12:15 says, "see to it that no one of
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- You come short of the grace of god; that no root of bitterness
- 00:17:37.012 --> 00:17:41.517
- Springing up defiled--causes trouble, and by it many
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- Are defiled."
- 00:17:46.388 --> 00:17:47.723
- He says, when these hurts come into your life, don't fall short
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- Of receiving that grace that god offers you, because the only
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- Alternative is bitterness.
- 00:17:56.532 --> 00:17:58.867
- A bitterness that destroys you and will destroy everything and
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- Everyone around you.
- 00:18:03.205 --> 00:18:05.140
- How can you make sure that you don't fall short of the grace of
- 00:18:05.140 --> 00:18:08.510
- God and fall under the trap of bitterness?
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- Four quick suggestions.
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- First of all, realize that offenses are inevitable.
- 00:18:12.181 --> 00:18:15.784
- Have you come to the place in your life where you realize you
- 00:18:15.784 --> 00:18:18.453
- Can't control other people?
- 00:18:18.453 --> 00:18:20.722
- Now, that's one of the greatest realizations.
- 00:18:20.722 --> 00:18:23.125
- We spend so much effort trying to control what people do or
- 00:18:23.125 --> 00:18:26.228
- Don't do to us, and usually we're helpless.
- 00:18:26.228 --> 00:18:29.398
- The fact is, it doesn't matter how hard you try, you can't keep
- 00:18:29.398 --> 00:18:32.501
- That boss from firing you if he really wants to fire you.
- 00:18:32.501 --> 00:18:36.138
- You can't keep that mate from leaving you if he or she really
- 00:18:36.138 --> 00:18:39.308
- Wants to leave.
- 00:18:39.308 --> 00:18:40.809
- You can't keep that child from rebelling against you and god if
- 00:18:40.809 --> 00:18:43.845
- They really want to rebel.
- 00:18:43.845 --> 00:18:45.814
- We can't control what people do to us, but we can control
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- Our response.
- 00:18:50.185 --> 00:18:51.553
- Realizes that offenses are inevitable.
- 00:18:51.553 --> 00:18:53.355
- Secondly, reflect on god's forgiveness of you.
- 00:18:53.355 --> 00:18:57.593
- You know, there is an inseparable link between our
- 00:18:57.593 --> 00:19:00.395
- Receiving god's forgiveness and our willingness to forgive
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- Other people.
- 00:19:04.166 --> 00:19:05.834
- While we were on this mission trip to argentina, the choir
- 00:19:05.834 --> 00:19:08.537
- Heard this message so many times they could all preach it by
- 00:19:08.537 --> 00:19:10.906
- Memory, right now.
- 00:19:10.906 --> 00:19:12.674
- But i preached that message on forgiveness, the parable from
- 00:19:12.674 --> 00:19:15.611
- Matthew 18.
- 00:19:15.611 --> 00:19:16.945
- Remember the story about the slave who was brought in before
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- The king?
- 00:19:19.548 --> 00:19:20.916
- He owed him 10,000 talents of gold?
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- A talent was about 80 pounds of gold and i did the calculation
- 00:19:24.253 --> 00:19:28.023
- On the trip, that would be about $16 billion.
- 00:19:28.023 --> 00:19:31.460
- Now, since we've been back from the trip, gold's gone up again
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- Past $1800, so make that about $18 billion!
- 00:19:33.829 --> 00:19:37.766
- Here was a slave that owed an $18 billion debt, but the king
- 00:19:37.766 --> 00:19:41.470
- Chose to forgive him, to release him of the debt, and that slave,
- 00:19:41.470 --> 00:19:45.907
- Who had just been forgiven an $18 billion debt, goes out and
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- Finds a fellow slave who owes him $18.
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- And the slave who had been forgiven $18 billion was
- 00:19:53.115 --> 00:19:56.852
- Unwilling to forgive that paltry, measly $18 debt.
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- And when the king heard about it, he was so enraged he brought
- 00:20:01.590 --> 00:20:04.559
- That first slave in and said, "you wicked slave!
- 00:20:04.559 --> 00:20:08.363
- How could you, who have been forgiven of so much refuse to
- 00:20:08.363 --> 00:20:13.101
- Forgive so little?"
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- And he threw the slave into prison and turned him over to
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- The torturers until he should repay everything.
- 00:20:18.740 --> 00:20:22.277
- And then jesus added the zinger.
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- He said, "so shall my heavenly father do to each of you if you
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- Do not forgive your brother from your heart."
- 00:20:30.352 --> 00:20:34.856
- See, before you get all high and mighty and self-righteous and
- 00:20:34.856 --> 00:20:37.959
- Say, "i'm not gonna forgive.
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- I refuse to forgive!"
- 00:20:40.062 --> 00:20:43.565
- Remember the great debt from which you've been forgiven.
- 00:20:43.565 --> 00:20:48.036
- God's not diminishing at all the hurt some of you
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- Have experienced.
- 00:20:50.872 --> 00:20:52.207
- Some of you have been abused sexually by your parents.
- 00:20:52.207 --> 00:20:56.345
- Some of you have been betrayed by those closest to you.
- 00:20:56.345 --> 00:21:00.182
- God is not diminishing what has happened to you.
- 00:21:00.182 --> 00:21:03.985
- He's saying put your hurt into perspective.
- 00:21:03.985 --> 00:21:08.357
- You see, the difference between how much somebody has hurt you
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- And how much you have hurt god is the difference between $18
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- And $18 billion.
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- Forgiveness is the obligation of those who have been forgiven.
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- Number three, release your offender from his obligation
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- To you.
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- You know, forgiveness isn't about forgetting.
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- It's not about sweeping something under the rug or
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- Playing like it never happened.
- 00:21:34.616 --> 00:21:37.052
- Real forgiveness, first of all, acknowledges that a wrong
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- Has occurred.
- 00:21:39.688 --> 00:21:41.089
- "you meant it for evil," joseph said, but god used it for good.
- 00:21:41.089 --> 00:21:44.626
- Go ahead and acknowledge that you've been wrong.
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- Calculate the debt of what is owed you because of the wrong,
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- But thirdly, forgiveness releases the other person
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- Of that debt.
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- Forgiveness is giving up your right to hurt somebody else for
- 00:21:56.438 --> 00:21:59.474
- Hurting you.
- 00:21:59.474 --> 00:22:00.842
- That's what forgiveness is.
- 00:22:00.842 --> 00:22:02.177
- Turning it over to god, letting god deal with that person rather
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- Than you.
- 00:22:05.680 --> 00:22:07.015
- And then, number four, remember the consequences
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- Of unforgiveness.
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- We've talked in past messages before, there are very real,
- 00:22:11.386 --> 00:22:14.723
- Physical consequences when you refuse to forgive.
- 00:22:14.723 --> 00:22:18.493
- The leading christian psychiatrist in america today
- 00:22:18.493 --> 00:22:21.163
- Said pent up anger, bitterness, is the leading cause of death
- 00:22:21.163 --> 00:22:25.867
- In america, today.
- 00:22:25.867 --> 00:22:27.602
- There are physical consequences.
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- There are emotional consequences when you refuse to
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- Forgive somebody.
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- I mean, just think about it.
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- Here is somebody--just imagine, you're grabbing hold of somebody
- 00:22:36.678 --> 00:22:41.016
- Who is continually punching you in the face.
- 00:22:41.016 --> 00:22:44.519
- Now, what would be the wise thing to do, to keep on holding
- 00:22:44.519 --> 00:22:47.122
- To that person--holding on to that person or letting them go?
- 00:22:47.122 --> 00:22:50.892
- I mean, why would you hold on to somebody who is continuing to
- 00:22:50.892 --> 00:22:55.030
- Hurt you?
- 00:22:55.030 --> 00:22:56.398
- It's the same thing when you're holding on to an offense that
- 00:22:56.398 --> 00:22:59.734
- Has been committed against you.
- 00:22:59.734 --> 00:23:01.069
- It's like you're reliving that hurt over and over and
- 00:23:01.069 --> 00:23:04.506
- Over again.
- 00:23:04.506 --> 00:23:06.374
- Instead, release it.
- 00:23:06.374 --> 00:23:08.577
- There are emotional consequences to unforgiveness, but the most
- 00:23:08.577 --> 00:23:11.546
- Serious consequences to bitterness are the
- 00:23:11.546 --> 00:23:13.982
- Spiritual consequences.
- 00:23:13.982 --> 00:23:15.817
- Jesus said it very clearly in matthew 6:15, "if you do not
- 00:23:15.817 --> 00:23:19.421
- Forgive others, neither will my father in heaven forgive you."
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- ♪♪♪
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- Jeffress: and we'll discover the next steps to overcoming these
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- Four spirit-quenchers of bitterness, next time.
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- Jeffress: sins like bitterness and immorality have an
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- Especially potent ability to quench the holy spirit's power
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- In our lives because they destroy us from the inside out,
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- And the holy spirit cannot have full control when someone's
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- Heart is even partially ruled by sin.
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- Well, we only had time to cover two of the four
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- Spirit-quenchers, and next time, we'll look at two more dangerous
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- Behaviors that you need to turn away from in order to allow the
- 00:26:32.580 --> 00:26:36.584
- Flame of god's spirit to begin to burn brightly in your life.
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- Stay tuned for a preview of what's coming up next on
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- "pathway to victory."
- 00:26:44.559 --> 00:26:47.562
- Jeffress: immorality quenches the spirit's presence,
- 00:26:47.562 --> 00:26:50.965
- Bitterness quenches the spirit's power to heal your hurts, greed
- 00:26:50.965 --> 00:26:55.403
- Extinguishes the spirit's purpose in your life, and worry
- 00:26:55.403 --> 00:27:00.275
- Extinguishes the spirit's peace in your life.
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- What's the antidote to all of these spirit-quenchers?
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- In a word, it's "obedience."
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- Obedience, very simply, doing what you know you need to do.
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- Male announcer: set your dvr and join us next time for part two
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- Of the message, "flamethrowers versus fire extinguishers," here
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- On "pathway to victory."
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