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Robert Jeffress - Two's Company But Three's A Crowd!

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Dr. Robert Jeffress | Robert Jeffress - Two's Company But Three's A Crowd! | May 22, 2025

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From the pulpit of the first baptist church
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Of dallas, texas,
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This is pathway to victory with dr. robert jeffress.
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Hi, i am robert jeffress,
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And welcome again to pathway to victory.
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Do you ever get tired of waiting on god
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To answer your prayers?
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Maybe you've prayed and pled
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And yet it seems like god just isn't listening?
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Well, in those moments,
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Sometimes christians take matters into their own hands.
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That's what abraham and sarah did
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When they were tired of waiting on god to give them a child.
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Today, we'll learn some harsh lessons
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From their fateful decision.
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My message is titled, "two's company but three's a crowd"
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On today's edition of pathway to victory.
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♪ your voice, o lord, is power ♪
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♪ the god of glory thunders ♪
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♪ the sound of mighty waters ♪
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♪ echoes deep within my soul ♪
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♪ holy, you are holy ♪
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♪ all the glory to your name ♪
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♪ jesus, you are mighty ♪
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♪ strength and glory to your name ♪
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♪ holy, you are holy ♪
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♪ all the glory to your name ♪
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♪ jesus, you are mighty ♪
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♪ strength and glory to your name ♪
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♪ holy, you are holy ♪
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♪ all the glory to your name ♪
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♪ jesus, you are mighty ♪
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♪ strength and glory to your name ♪
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♪ glory to your name ♪
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♪ holy is your name ♪
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♪ your name ♪
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[announcer] the bible is filled with stories about heroes,
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In "walking by faith,"
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Edward murphy was an engineer
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Who worked with the air force in the late 1940s
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On the rocket sled experiments
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That were designed to test
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How human beings would relate to high speeds.
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In one particular case,
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The victim, i mean the subject of the test,
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Was hooked up with 16 sensors.
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Each sensor only had two ways it could go and be attached,
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But at the end of the expensive test,
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It was determined that all 16 sensors had been placed
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In the incorrect way.
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Edward murphy was so frustrated by it,
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He developed an axiom,
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Which you know as murphy's law.
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Remember it?
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Anything that can go wrong will go wrong.
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That came from edward murphy.
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Throughout the years,
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There have been other axioms attributed to murphy,
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We don't know if he came up with them or not,
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But for example, there's murphy's law of belief.
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It says, "tell a man there are 300 billion stars
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In the universe and he'll believe you.
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Tell him there is wet paint on a bench
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And he'll have to touch it first."
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Or murphy's law of copiers it says,
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"the legibility of a copy
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Is inversely proportional to its importance."
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And then i love this one, murphy's military law.
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"never share a foxhole with somebody braver than you are."
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You have to think about that, but it's true.
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Now, there's no evidence that edward murphy,
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He developed any axioms about spiritual matters,
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But if he had, i'm convinced that at the top of his list
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Would've been this one,
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"running ahead of god leads to bad decisions
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And painful consequences."
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You know who discovered that first of all?
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Our subject, our friend named abraham.
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He's the living illustration
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Of how bad decisions and painful consequences
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Are always the result of running ahead of god.
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If you have your bibles, turn to genesis chapter 16.
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Genesis chapter 16,
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As we discover why two's company and three's a crowd.
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Look at chapter 16:1.
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We come to abraham's problem.
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"now sarai, abram's wife had borne him no children,
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And she had an egyptian maid whose name was hagar."
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Infertility is a common problem
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And it's a painful problem.
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The reason infertility was so painful
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Was it seemed to contradict what god had said to them.
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God had promised to make them parents of a great nation
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And yet he made that promise when abraham was 60.
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By the time we get to genesis 16,
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Abraham is 85 years of age,
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And there is no answer to the promise.
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Whenever our life situation doesn't line up
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With what we believe is god's promise,
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There is a crisis of faith
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That tempts us to run ahead of god.
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There was no biblical command to do what he was about to do.
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In fact, a biblical command not to,
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But they plowed ahead.
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Look at sarah's proposal.
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"so sarai said to abram,"
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We've been waiting here for 25 years for a child,
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It's not working,
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"'now behold, the lord has prevented me
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From bearing children.
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Please go into my maid;
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Perhaps i will obtain children through her.'
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And abraham listened to the voice of sarai."
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Now listen, sarah was a woman of faith.
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1 peter 3:5 says she was a woman of faith.
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But people of faith can have lapses of faith,
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And that was true for sarah.
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She basically said,
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"we can't depend upon god to do what he promised.
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We need to help her out. so here's a plan."
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Now you have to read this and think,
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Sarah, what is wrong with you
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That you would come up with an idea
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To tell your husband to have sex with another woman?
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That's unbelievable.
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If you've been reading too many romance novels
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Or visiting internet sites you shouldn't go to,
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Where would you come up with such an immoral idea?
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Well, actually, it was the law of the day.
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Law number 146 of hammurabi's code
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That abraham followed
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And the people in mesopotamia followed said,
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If a man has a barren wife,
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He can have sex with somebody else
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And the child born can be the heir of that man.
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It was perfectly legal in man's eyes,
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But it was immoral in god's eyes.
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Listen, god's plan has always been the same for marriage
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Since the beginning.
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Genesis 2, "a man shall leave his father and mother,
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And cleave to his wife,
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And the two shall become one flesh."
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That is always god's plan.
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One man with one woman in a lifetime commitment.
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And so what she was proposing was totally against god's law.
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So, how did abraham respond to sarah's proposal?
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It says, "abraham listened to the voice of his wife."
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Fb meyer and his biography of abraham says,
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"it's always hard to resist temptation
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When it appeals to natural instinct or to distrusting fear."
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Sarah's proposal did both.
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It appealed to abraham's carnal instinct,
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But also to his fear that god couldn't keep his promise.
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But there's another reason
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This temptation was especially potent,
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It came from abraham's wife.
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Ladies, don't ever underestimate
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The influence you have over your husbands.
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Even when they're buried in a newspaper
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Or in a football game on television
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And you're trying to talk to them
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And all they can do is grunt.
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Don't forget, they really are listening.
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You may not think they are.
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They're listening to you.
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You have great influence over them for good or bad.
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Unfortunately, abraham did not weigh the advice
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That sarah gave to him and he gave into it.
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Verse 3 says,
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"after abram had lived 10 years in the land of canaan,"
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That means he was 85,
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"abram's wife sarai took hagar the egyptian, her maid,
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And gave her to her husband abram as his wife.
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He went into hagar, and she conceived."
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I'm sure when he got the news that hagar was pregnant,
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He probably was tempted to say, "isn't god good?"
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"okay, this wasn't his perfect will,
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But it's his permissive will and he allowed this to happen.
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Praise be to god."
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No. it was just the beginning of a tragic end.
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Look at hagar's provocation, verse 4.
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"and when she," hagar, "saw that she had conceived,
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Her mistress," that is sarai,
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"was despised in her sight."
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She had been a slave,
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She had been elevated to abraham's wife, the same level,
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And now she was really above sarah
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Because she was able to do what sarah couldn't do,
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And she began to despise sarah.
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She started prancing around the tent.
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"look at me, look at me. look at what i have.
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I have the child you could not give to your husband."
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You know, there's an interesting proverb i came across.
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Proverbs 30:21-23.
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Men look at this especially.
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"under three things the earth quakes,
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And under four, it cannot bear up."
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Number one, "under a slave when he becomes king."
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Secondly, "a fool when he's satisfied with food."
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Third, "an unloved woman when she gets a husband."
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And the fourth thing that will cause an earthquake,
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"is a maidservant when she supplants her mistress."
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In other words, men, when your wife senses
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That you love anybody else
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Or anything else more than you love her,
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There's going to be an earthquake in your home.
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Your wife is not going to put up with it,
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Nor should she put up with it.
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Doesn't matter whether it's another woman, a child, a hobby,
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Anytime something or somebody else replaces
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The place your wife ought to have in your heart,
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It's going to cause trouble.
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And that's exactly what happened here.
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Look at verse 5.
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"sarai said to abraham,
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'may the wrong done to me be upon you.
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I gave my maid into your arms,
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But when she saw that she had conceived,
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I was despised in her side.
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May the lord judge between you and me.'"
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Translation, "abraham, i can't believe you did such a thing.
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Look at what has happened.
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Oh, god's going to get you abraham."
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And starts to say, "but sarah, you were the one..."
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And then he thought better of it.
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He thought better of pointed out
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She's the one who came up with this idea.
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So what does he do?
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What most men do? he became passive.
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"but abram said to sarai,
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'behold, your maid is in your power;
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Do to her whatever you want to do.'"
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In other words, i'm tired of all this trouble and turmoil.
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I'm just going to let you have your way;
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Do with her what you want to do.
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That is not the right response.
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What he should have said
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As the spiritual leader of the house is,
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"sarah, you're right.
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I was wrong. you were wrong.
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We were wrong.
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Let's go to the altar and kneel before god
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And confess our mistake
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And ask god to redeem the situation."
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But he didn't do it.
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He just told sarah to do what she want to do
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To keep peace in the tent.
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"so sarai," verse six, "treated hagar harshly,
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And she fled from her presence."
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As act two on this drama comes to a close,
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We see sarah feeling betrayed, hagar being mistreated,
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And abraham absolutely miserable.
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Remember, running ahead of god produces bad decisions
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And painful consequences.
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Fortunately, we serve a god
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Who is able to work together for good all things,
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Including our bad decisions.
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Let's see how he does that,
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Beginning in verse 7, the angel's promise.
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"now the angel of the lord found hagar
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By a spring of water."
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Remember, she's pregnant,
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She's out in the wilderness,
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"by the spring on the way to shur.
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And he says, 'hagar, sarai's maid,
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Where have you come from and where are you going?'
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And she said, 'i'm fleeing
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From the presence of my mistress.'"
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Many people believe this angel of the lord,
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The angel of the lord is a reference to jesus christ.
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Many times, the angel of the lord
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Is what we call a pre-incarnate appearance of jesus.
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Jesus before bethlehem.
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If that's the case here,
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The first person jesus appears to on earth
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Is an unwed single mother who is a foreigner.
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That would make sense that jesus would choose an outcast
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To make his first appearance to.
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It's not that he doesn't know where she's been,
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He wants her to admit that she's left her mistress.
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And so the angel gives her a command and a promise.
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The command is: hagar, i want you to go back to sarah
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And submit yourself to her authority.
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And then he gives her this promise.
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The angel says, "i will give you a son
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Who will also be the father of a great nation."
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As we'll see next time, that son ishmael,
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Meaning, god hears,
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Is the father of the arab nations today.
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There's not an arab in the world
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Who doesn't trace his ancestry to ishmael.
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Even though abraham did have a son ishmael
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And blessed him the covenant blessing,
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Genesis 17:21 says,
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Comes through isaac, the son yet to be born
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Not through ishmael.
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Look at verse 15.
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"so hagar bore abram a son;
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And abram called the name of his son,
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Whom hagar bore, ishmael.
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Now, abram was 86 years old
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When hagar bore ishmael to him."
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You know, the whole basis of the conflict today
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Between israel and the arab nations
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Can be traced back to one couple
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That made a bad decision and ran ahead of god.
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Isn't that amazing?
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One couple 4,000 years ago made a bad decision,
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And that decision has had repercussions worldwide,
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Repercussions for thousands of years
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And continues to this very day.
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But beyond explaining the conflict
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Between israel and the arab nations,
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This story illustrates three timeless principles
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I want to share with you in closing today
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To help you avoid the temptation
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To run ahead of god.
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Principle number one is this,
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Artificial deadlines produce unnecessary stress.
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Artificial deadlines produce unnecessary stress.
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Abraham and sarah said,
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"by 85 we ought to have had children."
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That was an artificial deadline.
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God never told them when the baby was coming.
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He said, the baby's coming,
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But they set this deadline, artificial,
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Now we've passed the deadline,
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We better take matters into our own hands.
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Don't do that.
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Artificial deadlines produce unnecessary stress.
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As we enter into this thanksgiving season,
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I'm always reminded of something that happened to me
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More than 35 years ago
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On the wednesday before thanksgiving.
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I was in the coffee shop
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Of the houston intercontinental airport.
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My flight had been delayed
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And so i took out my yellow tablet,
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And i spent several hours sketching out
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What i believe were god's goals and plans for my life.
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And i had five specific goals
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And i actually attached a date, a year,
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To accomplish each of those goals by.
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And i felt like it was in keeping with god's plan
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For my life.
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When i got back to dallas,
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I plunged ahead in trying to achieve those five goals
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And by the date that i had selected.
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You know, all that did was it caused stress in our marriage,
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It caused stress in my work,
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It caused stress in every area of my life.
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And then a series of unrelated events came to pass
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That made me have to put aside my list
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And concentrate on other things for a while.
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It was decades before i picked up that list again.
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And after several decades, you know what i discovered?
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Every one of those goals had been accomplished,
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But not by the date i had set.
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It was an artificial deadline.
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The point i'm making to you is,
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Don't give up your god-given goals.
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Don't do that.
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But give up your manufactured deadlines.
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It'll make life a lot more pleasant for you if you do.
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Second principle,
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God sees our situation and he hears our prayers.
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You know what the most significant verse
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In this old chapter is?
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It's verse 13:
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When hagar says to the angel, "you are a god who sees."
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Listen, egyptian slave girl
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Knew more about god than abraham did.
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She said, "god, you see my situation. you know where i am."
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The same is true for you.
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When you think god has not kept his promise to you,
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When you're frustrated about your lack of progress,
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When you feel like you've been abandoned by god,
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Remember god knows exactly where you are.
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He knows your situation,
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And he will answer in his way and his time.
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And that leads to the third principle:
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Waiting on god produces spiritual maturity.
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There is a difference between belief and trust.
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You can believe in an instant like abraham did.
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He believed god's promise
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And his faith was counted as righteousness.
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That was instantaneous.
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But there's a difference between belief and trust.
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Trust doesn't happen in a moment,
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It's developed over many, many years.
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Psalm 37:5 says, "commit your way to the lord,
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And trust also in him, and he will do it."
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God wants to develop trust in your heart,
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And that only happens over a period of time.
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Now listen to this.
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You know how i would've entered the story
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If i were writing it?
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I would've said, "hagar gave birth to ishmael.
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And lo and behold, the next month,
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Sarah discovered she was pregnant too.
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And nine months later she gave birth,
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And they all lived under the same tent together
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Forever and ever happily."
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That's not how the story ends.
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Yes, ishmael was born when abraham was 86,
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But sarah wasn't pregnant.
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She didn't get pregnant the next year,
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The next year, the next year,
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After a decade she was still waiting.
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It was 14 years after ishmael was born
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That the promise was finally fulfilled.
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Abraham and sarah had to wait,
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But never forget this: waiting time isn't wasted time.
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God uses waiting time to prepare us for the future,
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And he was using those 14 years
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To develop abraham's trust
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So that abraham could respond
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To the greatest test he would ever face in his life.
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In genesis chapter 22,
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The offering of isaac as a sacrifice.
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God's doing something in your life as well.
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Remember, god is much more interested
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In what happens in you than what happens to you?
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There's not one circumstance happening to you right now
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That god couldn't change in an instant if he wanted to.
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No, he's interested in what's happening in you.
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Waiting time isn't wasted time.
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Isn't that what isaiah the prophet said?
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"those who wait upon the lord shall gain new strength;
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They shall mount up with wings as eagles.
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They shall run and not get tired.
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They shall walk and not become weary.
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And i hope this promise of god encourages you today.
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As you wait patiently on god, you'll gain new strength.
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Well, the bible doesn't gloss over family problems.
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In fact, in abraham's family,
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We can point to the obvious dysfunction that plugged them,
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And yet god's healing power and forgiveness
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Wiped away their transgressions.
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Let me give you a current day example from beth
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Who watches pathway to victory from south carolina.
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She wrote, "pastor jeffress pathway to victory
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Is doing a great job nurturing and helping people like me.
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I grew up with an abusive mother
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And many other negative things happened to me
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That caused me to question my self-worth.
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But there was a day when i was told about jesus,
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And that's when my life began to turn around.
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Please keep up the good work."
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Who support pathway to victory.
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It doesn't matter how old you are,
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Is something entirely different.
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And resisting the temptation to control your circumstances.
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For the christian life.
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To walking with god.
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That will transform your walk with your creator.
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You see, walking is the most common metaphor in the bible
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For our relationship with god.
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That's what the christian life is.
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It's going the same direction,
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Obeying god over a period of time.
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And when you do that,
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You end up at your desired destination.
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Robert Jeffress - Two's Company But Three's A Crowd!

May 22, 2025 | 27:29

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