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July 12, 2020
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Dr. Jack Graham's mission is to glorify God by introducing Jesus Christ to as Lord to all people.

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  • Today is a veryimportant subject and that is
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  • the message regarding shame. Andthankfully, the title of this
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  • messages is: "No More Shame".Because in Jesus Christ we have
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  • been promised freedom...freedom; forgiveness from sin,
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  • guilt, regret and shame.Regardless of the source of the
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  • sin, the shame, the guilt, thereis grace to cover it all. Amen?
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  • God's great grace! It's theGospel of the Lord Jesus Christ.
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  • And we need to live withoutshame in Jesus Christ! So, take
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  • your Bibles and turn to 1 Johnchapter 1 and verse 9; a very
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  • well-known verse if you are abeliever and follower in Christ.
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  • It simply says: 9) If we confessour sins, He is faithful and
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  • just to forgive us our sins andto cleanse us from all
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  • unrighteousness. Now God usesguilt, God uses even shame to
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  • bring us to Jesus, often toconvict us of sin and to point
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  • us to the cross for redemptionand restoration and salvation.
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  • Sin is the source of all shame.Sin will destroy us physically,
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  • mentally, emotionally,psychological and, yes,
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  • spiritual. Unfortunately, in ourculture today sin is in. In
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  • other words, sin is even morepopular. We're inventing new
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  • ways to sin and we'rerationalizing our sin. Now what
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  • is sin? Let me just mentionseveral identifying marks, if
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  • you will, of what sin is.Because clearly people want to
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  • rebrand sin, people want toremake sin as to what it
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  • actually is. So what does theBible say about sin? Well,
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  • number one, sin is deceiving...or rather it is defiant. Sin is
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  • defiant! The Bible describes sinas lawlessness. Lawlessness and
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  • rebellion. And the sin is notonly lawless in society and in
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  • the culture, but it isultimately defiant against
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  • Almighty God. Sin is a fist inthe face of a holy God. Sin is
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  • also described in the Bible asdisobedience when we break the
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  • commandments of God. Yes, Godhas given us commands, whether
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  • it be the Ten Commandments orthe explanation of the Ten
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  • Commandments that we find in theBible. They are the laws of God.
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  • And you know, you don't breakthe laws of God, you're broken
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  • on the laws of God. Ha, ifsomeone said, "Well, I'm going
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  • to jump off this building andbreak the law of gravity." Ha,
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  • you'll not be breaking the lawof gravity; you'll break
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  • yourself on the law of gravity.And when we break God's
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  • commandments, this isdisobedience to God. And then,
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  • sin is defilement... defilement.When you read of sin in the
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  • Bible, it's described as... as adefilement, a dirty thing, a
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  • defiling thing in our life thatcorrupts; it's toxic, both
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  • mentally, physically,emotionally and spiritual. It is
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  • spiritual defilement. It isdescribed in the Bible even as
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  • leprous sores, and the rags thatcover leprous sores. So, it is a
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  • wicked thing, it is an evilthing... it is a defiling thing.
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  • And then not only that but sinis a disease. It is a death
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  • dealing disease. [Romans 6:23]"The wages of sin is death." Sin
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  • is like a cancer. And you willeither be killing the cancer of
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  • sin or the cancer of sin will bekilling you! You either kill the
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  • sin or the sin will kill you.Sin is a disease. Sin is also
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  • deceitful. Deceitful like theheart [Jeremiah 17:9] "above all
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  • things and desperately wicked."And so people are deceived by
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  • sin. And in particular theconsequences of sin. And the
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  • lies regarding sin; it'sdeceitful. It's a lie. Sin is
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  • destructive... not only toourselves, but to those all
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  • around us. And then sin isdevilish... sin is devilish. 1
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  • John 3:8: "Whoever makes apractice of sinning is of the
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  • devil, for the devil has beensinning from the beginning."
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  • That's true. Jesus said that sincomes from the father of lies.
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  • It is a lie and he has broughtus to a place in our lives when
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  • we see our sin of brokenness inour sinfulness. And that's call
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  • what? Guilt... guilt. [Romans3:23] "For all have sinned and
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  • come short of the glory of God."And the problem is the sin that
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  • is within every person who'sborn on the face of this earth.
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  • Jesus said in Matthew chapter 15and verse 19... these are the
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  • words of Christ. He said, "Outof the heart... out of the inner
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  • being flows all these things oflying and murderers and
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  • adultery..." and all the sinfulbehaviors of mankind. We have
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  • all sinned! We are all guilty!The reason we feel guilty is
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  • because we are guilty. And theBible describes the pain and the
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  • misery that sin brings. Davidonce said in the midst of his
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  • sinful behavior and unconfessedsin, he said, [Psalm 38;4] "My
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  • guilt has overwhelmed me." Hisguilt. And if we do not deal
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  • with the guilt that is in ourlives then ultimately guilt
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  • becomes shame. You say, "What'sthe difference? What's the
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  • difference in guilt and shame?"Well, guilt is "I did something
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  • bad. I did something wrong. It'ssomething that I have done;
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  • something that I did, and as aresult, I feel bad because of my
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  • guilt. The conscience is prickedand we know that we've broken
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  • one of God's commandments, orthat we've done something that
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  • is wrong toward someone else.So, guilt comes as a result of
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  • what I did. But unless guilt isdealt with by grace, then it
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  • becomes shame. And shame saysnot that I just thought I did
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  • something bad, but I amsomething bad! It becomes our
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  • identity. It's not what I havedone, but shame is who I am! And
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  • we have feelings ofworthlessness. "I am worthless!
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  • I am vile! I am depraved!" Yousee the difference? There is
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  • guilt and there is shame. Listento this: Shame is the deep sense
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  • that you are inherently flawed,unacceptable and unworthy of
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  • love because of something you'vedone or something done to you or
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  • something associated with you.So, it's very important that you
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  • see shame for what it is. It isthat inherent sense that I am
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  • flawed. Now here's what theBible says about that. Before
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  • Christ, before I became abeliever and follower in Jesus,
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  • I am... and so are you...inherently flawed. We live in
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  • sin and shame because that's whowe are B.C., before Jesus
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  • Christ. The shame is a result ofmy sin and guilt. The fact is,
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  • as I quoted earlier, the Biblesays that sin is deceitful above
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  • all things, is desperatelywicked. And it is inherent and
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  • it is inhuman within the humanspirit. We have all sinned! And
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  • so we break God's commandments,we defile ourselves in some way
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  • by living in a... in a way thatis anti-God and anti-Christ and
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  • anti-Bible. In other words, weoppose God; we live in our sin.
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  • The normal, natural consequenceof that is guilt and shame. Just
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  • like Adam and Eve in the Gardenwhen they sinned against God,
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  • they broke God's commandments.The guilty pair are standing
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  • before a holy God, they realizedthat they were naked and
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  • ashamed. Never had known that orexperienced that before, but now
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  • in their sin... naked andashamed before a holy God. That
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  • is the human condition; that isthe heart of every human being.
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  • So what am I to do with this sinand that shame? And let me
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  • hasten to say that some shame isa result of not what you have
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  • done, but what others may havedone to you. Sexual abuse is so
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  • vile and so wicked and so evil.Should never be tolerated in any
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  • form or any fashion but be dealtwith not only criminally, but
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  • spiritually and in the church.So, whether your shame is a
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  • result of your own personalchoices or the choices of
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  • other... something that you areassociated with. Maybe you are
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  • associated with something sinfulin your life: a business or a
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  • behavior, an organization thatputs you in association with
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  • wickedness or sinfulness and youare even ashamed of what you do.
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  • I talked to a man... ahigh-profile individual the
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  • other day and he's talking abouthis particular industry (and
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  • I'll not tell you what it is)but he was just saying "what's
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  • happening in my business makesme ashamed to be associated with
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  • it." So there are varioussources of shame in our lives.
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  • And it's a powerful and powerfulmiserable condition in which to
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  • live. David said it in Psalm 38,verses 4 and 5. Listen to these
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  • words: "For my iniquities havegone over my head... (that is,
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  • they've overwhelmed me); like aheavy burden they are too heavy
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  • for me! My wounds stink andfester because of my
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  • foolishness." And we all need toremember that ultimately our
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  • sin, though it is againstourselves and the breakdown of
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  • our own bodies, the breakdown ofour own brain, ultimately our
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  • sin is against God... againstGod! David said in Psalm 51,
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  • verse 4, again, in his greatprayer of repentance, following
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  • his great sin, he said, "Againstyou, you only have I sinned and
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  • done what is evil..." (He namesit! He calls it for what it is,)
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  • this evil in your sight."There's no rationale here.
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  • There's no excuse-making here,there's no rebranding of sin
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  • here! He said, "I own it! I havedone this evil in Your sight so
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  • that You may be justified inYour words and blameless in Your
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  • judgement." "God, I am guilty!My sin is against You!" Sin
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  • breaks not only thecommandments, but sin breaks the
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  • heart of God who loves you andgave Himself for you. The Bible
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  • describes all this pain andshame that sin may bring. Only
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  • God... because sin is againstGod... (Write this down. Say to
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  • yourself this is very important.Something really importance
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  • coming.) ...because sin isultimately against God, only God
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  • can forgive sin. People saywell, I forgive myself. No, you
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  • may forgive yourself as a partof the healing process, but only
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  • God can forgive your sin. OnlyGod who is just can cleanse us
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  • from sin and set us free! Yourlife belongs to God! You were
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  • made by God and for God! And Heis the only one who knows you
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  • intimately, who loves youperfectly and who can redeem you
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  • eternally, and restore thebrokenness that sin has caused
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  • in your life, and the shame thatresults. Only the Holy Spirit of
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  • God can cleanse us from sin.Only the pure and perfect word
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  • of God can sanctify us by Histruth. It is God's love that
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  • liberates us and sets us freefrom the power of sin and shame.
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  • physically and we should but wealso need to take care of
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  • So what do we dowith our sins as believers and
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  • followers of Jesus Christ? Andbecause... listen up... sin has
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  • impact upon believer's lives aswell, creating, what? Guilt and
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  • if guilt is not dealt with,what? Shame and regret. So if
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  • you are a saved person, that is,you have received Christ as your
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  • Lord and Savior, and there issin in your life... unconfessed
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  • and unrepented of, when yousin... and you do sin... we all
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  • do, what you do when you sin?Well, let me mention several
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  • ways you can handle your sin asa Christian. One, you can cover
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  • it. That's what many people do.We cover our sin, we hide. We
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  • may cover it in many ways, evencoming to church. And you ought
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  • to come to church if you'vesinned. But not hypocritically.
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  • You must come honestly andsincerely as best you can. But
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  • don't try to cover it. The Biblesays [Proverbs 28:13] "Whoever
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  • covers his sin, who tries tohide his sin, will be judged and
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  • severally judged. But whoeverconfesses his sin and forsakes
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  • his sin will be forgiven." So,you can't cover. Some people...
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  • some believers try not to covertheir sin; they just try to
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  • contain it, try to control it,manage the sin, and make it
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  • better. Others, compartmentalizeit. They live compartmentalized
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  • lives. You've got your Christianlife over here, and your other
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  • life over here. The things youdo are compartmentalized...
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  • separate from who you are inChrist. So you've got little
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  • compartments, little closets inyour life, and there you keep
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  • your sin. That'scompartmentalizing sin. And then
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  • some people actually celebratesin! We see that today. That
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  • having denied their sin andtheir guilt, they celebrate the
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  • very things that are condemnedin God's Word. Never celebrate
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  • your sin! What are we to do withsin? We are to confess it! First
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  • John 1:9: "If we confess oursin..." Now here's... here's
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  • what confession is: It is a wordwhich means... confession,
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  • there... to agree with or to saythe same thing as. In other
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  • words, when I am confessing mysin, I am agreeing with God and
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  • what God says and not what Isay. I'm not justifying myself.
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  • I'm not covering my sin. I'm notcelebrating my sin or
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  • compartmentalizing my sin; I'msaying, "Lord, this is my sin. I
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  • own it! And I confess it beforeYou!" This is also called in the
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  • Bible... it's another word, butit's repentance which means to
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  • turn from our sin and to trustin the one who can cover our sin
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  • and cleanse our sin. And this iswhat we're doing as a part of
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  • our lives as a Christian.Christians confess their sins.
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  • Why else would Jesus teach us topray in the Model Prayer,
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  • "Forgive us our sins or ourtrespasses as we have sinned and
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  • trespassed against others." Whywould Jesus teach us to pray for
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  • forgiveness, if as believerswe're not always praying for
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  • forgiveness? I've actually heardsome people say, "Well, as a
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  • Christian you really don't needto pray for forgiveness. All
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  • your sins are forgiven. Youdon't need to... it's a denial
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  • of who you are in Christ." No,as Christians, yes, all of our
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  • sins are forgiven, past, presentand future. We're getting to
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  • that; we're coming to that inthis message. It's all under the
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  • blood of Christ, but in terms ofour sanctification... in terms
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  • of our growing relationship withGod... in terms of our
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  • fellowship with God, we arealways coming clean with God! We
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  • are always opening our heartsfor God to work and to change us
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  • and make us more and more likeJesus! So it's a principle. It's
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  • a promise: If you do this, Godsaid He will do that; you
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  • confess, God will cleanse. Butit is the fact, it is a
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  • principle that this is who weare, this is what we do as
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  • Christians, because we're alwaysconfessing our sin if we are
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  • believers. You don't have tolive as a slave to sinful habits
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  • and the shame that results.You're not in Christ to live as
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  • a slave to sin. What we calladdiction, and there are many
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  • addictions, but what we calladdiction, the Bible calls
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  • bondage... bondage! A slave tosin! Thank God for His love that
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  • sent Jesus Christ to this earthto die on the cross for our sin,
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  • and, yes, our shame! To removeour sin, according to the
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  • Scripture [Psalm 103:12] "as faras east is from the west." You
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  • know how far that is? Infinity!Infinity! To bury, to drown our
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  • sins in the depths of the sea!Listen to what God says in Micah
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  • 7... Micah 7:18 and 19. (We'llwrap this up) But it says, "Who
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  • is a God like You, pardoninginiquity and passing over the
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  • transgression for the remnant ofHis inheritance? (That's you and
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  • me. We're the inheritance ofGod.) He does not retain His
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  • anger forever, because Hedelights... He delights in His
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  • steadfast love. And He willagain... (and might I add again
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  • and again and again and again!His grace is greater than our
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  • sin!) He again will havecompassion on us, He will tread
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  • our iniquities underfoot. Andyou will cast all our sins into
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  • the depths of the sea." [Strike]Praise the holy name of our
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  • saving God! [applause] You see,you don't have to live in guilt
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  • but you can live in grace. Youdon't have to live in shame but
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  • in salvation which Christ hasprovided. The problem with guilt
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  • and shame is it leads to so manyother bad behaviors. People
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  • medicate their shame with allkinds of behavior that doesn't
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  • honor and please God. So, theanswer to sin, the answer to
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  • shame is Jesus...
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  • He took our sins. He took notonly
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  • our sins, but, think about it,He took our shame on the cross!
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  • He died in the shameful death ofthe cross, in nakedness, in
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  • agony and in blood. He diedexposed for the whole world to
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  • see! He took our shame when hetook our sin. No wonder the
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  • Scripture says in Romans chapter8 and verse 1: "Therefore, there
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  • is no condemnation to those whoare in Christ Jesus!" You no
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  • longer live incondemnation. There's no more
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  • shame! You say, "Well the deviltells me I'm worthless." Yes,
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  • that's what the devil does.Because "the devil comes to kill
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  • and destroy", and his weapon isshame! But the devil will shame
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  • you, even as a believer..."You're not worthy; you are
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  • worthless!" No! Believe not thelies of the enemy, believe what
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  • God says about you! You are achild of God! You are no longer
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  • living in condemnation. You havebeen set free from the power of
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  • sin and death. You are fulfilledin Jesus Christ! You are
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  • forgiven! You are cleansed! Youare healed! You are redeemed!
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  • You are restored! And the nexttime the devil talks to you
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  • about your past, you remind himof his future because the devil
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  • is destined for judgment andhell and you are not!
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