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Joyce Meyer: Enjoying Everyday Life | Joyce Meyer - Becoming Debt-Free | January 24, 2025
- >> joyce: to get out of debt,
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- >> joyce: to get out of debt, you're gonna have to be patient,
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- >> joyce: to get out of debt, you're gonna have to be patient, persistent and learn
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- You're gonna have to be patient, persistent and learn the difference between what
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- Persistent and learn the difference between what you need and what you want.
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- >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer,
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- >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer, and i believe that god can heal
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- >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer, and i believe that god can heal you everywhere you hurt.
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- >> joyce: welcome to,
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- >> joyce: welcome to, "enjoying everyday life,"
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- >> joyce: welcome to, "enjoying everyday life," we're so glad that you
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- "enjoying everyday life," we're so glad that you joined us today.
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- We're so glad that you joined us today. well, today i wanna
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- Joined us today. well, today i wanna talk about money,
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- Well, today i wanna talk about money, about finances and debt,
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- Talk about money, about finances and debt, and learning how to manage
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- About finances and debt, and learning how to manage our money better.
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- We've got 12 of the guys from
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- We've got 12 of the guys from our men's home here today,
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- We've got 12 of the guys from our men's home here today, guys, who i'm sure were
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- Our men's home here today, guys, who i'm sure were going along in life,
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- Guys, who i'm sure were going along in life, and something happened
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- Going along in life, and something happened that got you off track,
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- And something happened that got you off track, and i thought you know probably
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- That got you off track, and i thought you know probably for at least some of you,
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- And i thought you know probably for at least some of you, money was involved.
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- For at least some of you, money was involved. you're shaking your head, "yes,"
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- Money was involved. you're shaking your head, "yes," and it's amazing how
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- You're shaking your head, "yes," and it's amazing how good money can be,
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- And it's amazing how good money can be, and how much good it can do,
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- Good money can be, and how much good it can do, if it's managed right,
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- And how much good it can do, if it's managed right, but how much damage
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- If it's managed right, but how much damage it does to people's lives
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- But how much damage it does to people's lives if they don't have
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- It does to people's lives if they don't have the right attitude toward it.
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- If they don't have the right attitude toward it. and so, i'mma start by reading
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- The right attitude toward it. and so, i'mma start by reading you a little story,
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- And so, i'mma start by reading you a little story, i paraphrased it from
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- You a little story, i paraphrased it from a book from robert katz,
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- I paraphrased it from a book from robert katz, and it was entitled,
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- A book from robert katz, and it was entitled, "if money could talk,
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- And it was entitled, "if money could talk, what would it say?"
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- "if money could talk, what would it say?" "i'm depressed and sad because
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- What would it say?" "i'm depressed and sad because i'm tired of people abusing me,
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- "i'm depressed and sad because i'm tired of people abusing me, using me for wrong purposes,
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- I'm tired of people abusing me, using me for wrong purposes, fighting over me,
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- Using me for wrong purposes, fighting over me, stealing me, lying, cheating,
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- Fighting over me, stealing me, lying, cheating, and committing crimes to get me.
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- Stealing me, lying, cheating, and committing crimes to get me. i get blamed as some say,
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- And committing crimes to get me. i get blamed as some say, for most divorces.
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- I get blamed as some say, for most divorces. i'm tired of fighting
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- For most divorces. i'm tired of fighting with greed all the time.
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- I'm tired of fighting with greed all the time. i'm hoarded, i'm stolen,
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- With greed all the time. i'm hoarded, i'm stolen, and i'm wasted most of the time,
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- I'm hoarded, i'm stolen, and i'm wasted most of the time, people think i'm their security
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- And i'm wasted most of the time, people think i'm their security but i'm not, they act like
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- People think i'm their security but i'm not, they act like i'm god and i'm certainly not.
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- But i'm not, they act like i'm god and i'm certainly not. i just wish people knew how much
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- I'm god and i'm certainly not. i just wish people knew how much good they could do with me,
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- I just wish people knew how much good they could do with me, if they treated me right and how
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- Good they could do with me, if they treated me right and how blessed their lives could be."
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- If they treated me right and how blessed their lives could be." you know,
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- Blessed their lives could be." you know, there are 2000 bible verses
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- You know, there are 2000 bible verses that talk about money, 2,000.
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- There are 2000 bible verses that talk about money, 2,000. jesus talked more about money,
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- That talk about money, 2,000. jesus talked more about money, than he did heaven and hell,
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- Jesus talked more about money, than he did heaven and hell, put together.
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- Than he did heaven and hell, put together. pretty amazing.
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- Put together. pretty amazing. it is really a very major
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- Pretty amazing. it is really a very major part of our lives,
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- It is really a very major part of our lives, and you have to know how to have
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- Part of our lives, and you have to know how to have a proper attitude toward it.
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- 1 timothy 6:7-10, something
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- 1 timothy 6:7-10, something we really should just take
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- 1 timothy 6:7-10, something we really should just take a little time to sit and think
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- We really should just take a little time to sit and think about, "for we brought
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- A little time to sit and think about, "for we brought nothing into the world,
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- About, "for we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out.
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- Nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out. but if we have food
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- And we can take nothing out. but if we have food and clothing, we shall
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- But if we have food and clothing, we shall be content with that."
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- And clothing, we shall be content with that." now, you know how well
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- That message goes over,
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- That message goes over, in the society we live in today?
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- That message goes over, in the society we live in today? it's very difficult to get
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- In the society we live in today? it's very difficult to get people who live in a western
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- It's very difficult to get people who live in a western culture to be content,
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- People who live in a western culture to be content, unless they have everything
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- Culture to be content, unless they have everything that seems to be out there.
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- Unless they have everything that seems to be out there. and i've been in a lot
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- That seems to be out there. and i've been in a lot of third world countries,
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- And i've been in a lot of third world countries, and they have very little,
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- Of third world countries, and they have very little, and to be honest sometimes
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- And they have very little, and to be honest sometimes even in the midst of their
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- And to be honest sometimes even in the midst of their great lack, they are happier,
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- Even in the midst of their great lack, they are happier, and have a better attitude,
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- Great lack, they are happier, and have a better attitude, than some people who
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- And have a better attitude, than some people who seem to have everything.
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- Than some people who seem to have everything. so, i really think sometimes,
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- Seem to have everything. so, i really think sometimes, the more we have the unhappier
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- So, i really think sometimes, the more we have the unhappier we become, and it seems like
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- The more we have the unhappier we become, and it seems like the more things you have,
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- We become, and it seems like the more things you have, the more things you want.
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- The more things you have, the more things you want. now, i believe god
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- The more things you want. now, i believe god wants to bless us,
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- Now, i believe god wants to bless us, and i believe that money's fine,
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- Wants to bless us, and i believe that money's fine, money's not evil, it's the love
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- And i believe that money's fine, money's not evil, it's the love of money that's evil,
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- Money's not evil, it's the love of money that's evil, but we need to be more focused
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- Of money that's evil, but we need to be more focused on what we can do for other
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- But we need to be more focused on what we can do for other people with our money,
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- On what we can do for other people with our money, than hoarding it all,
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- People with our money, than hoarding it all, and keeping it for ourselves.
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- Which is also difficult because
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- Which is also difficult because selfishness is ingrained
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- Which is also difficult because selfishness is ingrained in human nature, without god.
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- Selfishness is ingrained in human nature, without god. "those who want to get
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- In human nature, without god. "those who want to get rich fall into temptation,
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- "those who want to get rich fall into temptation, and a trap and into many
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- Rich fall into temptation, and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires
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- And a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge people
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- Foolish and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destruction.
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- That plunge people into ruin and destruction. for the love of money
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- Into ruin and destruction. for the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil.
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- For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. some people, eager for money,
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- Is a root of all kinds of evil. some people, eager for money, have wandered away from
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- Some people, eager for money, have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves
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- Have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs."
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- The faith and pierced themselves with many griefs." i remember one time the lord
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- Told me, there's two tests you
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- Told me, there's two tests you have to pass concerning money,
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- Told me, there's two tests you have to pass concerning money, how you behave when you don't
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- Have to pass concerning money, how you behave when you don't have enough, and how you
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- How you behave when you don't have enough, and how you behave when you have a lot.
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- Have enough, and how you behave when you have a lot. and i thought that
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- Behave when you have a lot. and i thought that was interesting,
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- And i thought that was interesting, because sometimes the more
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- Was interesting, because sometimes the more you have the more it draws
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- Because sometimes the more you have the more it draws you away from god, because
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- You have the more it draws you away from god, because we can become self-reliant,
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- You away from god, because we can become self-reliant, we don't have needs,
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- We can become self-reliant, we don't have needs, and so it's easy to start
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- We don't have needs, and so it's easy to start depending on the money to take
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- And so it's easy to start depending on the money to take care of us, rather than god.
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- Depending on the money to take care of us, rather than god. and you know,
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- Care of us, rather than god. and you know, no matter what we have,
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- And you know, no matter what we have, no matter how much we have,
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- No matter what we have, no matter how much we have, no matter how much money
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- No matter how much we have, no matter how much money somebody has invested,
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- No matter how much money somebody has invested, it could literally disappear
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- Somebody has invested, it could literally disappear overnight, the way the world is.
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- It could literally disappear overnight, the way the world is. and so, the love of money
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- Overnight, the way the world is. and so, the love of money is evil, but not money.
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- Money actually,
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- Money actually, can be a great blessing
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- Money actually, can be a great blessing if you learn how to use it,
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- Can be a great blessing if you learn how to use it, to make other people happy.
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- If you learn how to use it, to make other people happy. and the bible says in acts,
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- To make other people happy. and the bible says in acts, "that it is more blessed
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- And the bible says in acts, "that it is more blessed to give than to receive,"
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- "that it is more blessed to give than to receive," and yet it's so hard
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- To give than to receive," and yet it's so hard for us to get into that
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- Area of living to give,
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- Area of living to give, rather than living to get.
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- Area of living to give, rather than living to get. and the thing is,
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- Rather than living to get. and the thing is, is if you can see
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- And the thing is, is if you can see the spiritual side of it,
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- Is if you can see the spiritual side of it, you cannot out give god,
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- The spiritual side of it, you cannot out give god, and so the more you give,
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- You cannot out give god, and so the more you give, the more he's going
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- And so the more you give, the more he's going to do for you,
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- The more he's going to do for you, and the more you give,
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- To do for you, and the more you give, the more you do
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- And the more you give, the more you do for other people,
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- The more you do for other people, the happier you're going to be.
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- The reason why it's more blessed
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- The reason why it's more blessed to give, than to receive,
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- The reason why it's more blessed to give, than to receive, is because if you get something
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- To give, than to receive, is because if you get something you only get the thing,
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- Is because if you get something you only get the thing, which is good, you know,
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- You only get the thing, which is good, you know, i'm not against stuff.
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- Which is good, you know, i'm not against stuff. but when you give,
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- I'm not against stuff. but when you give, you get joy.
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- But when you give, you get joy. how many of you believe that
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- You get joy. how many of you believe that joy is really much better
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- How many of you believe that joy is really much better than things and money?
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- Joy is really much better than things and money? because no matter
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- Than things and money? because no matter what you have,
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- Because no matter what you have, if you have no peace
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- What you have, if you have no peace and you have no joy,
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- If you have no peace and you have no joy, then what's it worth?
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- And you have no joy, then what's it worth? it's worth absolutely nothing.
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- So, james dobson had
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- So, james dobson had a great revelation, one time,
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- So, james dobson had a great revelation, one time, while he was playing
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- A great revelation, one time, while he was playing the game, monopoly.
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- While he was playing the game, monopoly. when he suddenly realized--
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- The game, monopoly. when he suddenly realized-- and i want you to get this.
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- When he suddenly realized-- and i want you to get this. "when our lives are over,
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- And i want you to get this. "when our lives are over, everything we have gained
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- "when our lives are over, everything we have gained will go back in the box,
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- Everything we have gained will go back in the box, so to speak, and someone else
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- Will go back in the box, so to speak, and someone else will come along and start
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- So to speak, and someone else will come along and start all over with what we worked
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- Will come along and start all over with what we worked all of our lives to get.
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- All over with what we worked all of our lives to get. so, why not spend your life
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- All of our lives to get. so, why not spend your life doing something that will last?"
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- So, why not spend your life doing something that will last?" and the bible tells us,
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- Doing something that will last?" and the bible tells us, that what we give here,
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- And the bible tells us, that what we give here, is an eternal thing,
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- That what we give here, is an eternal thing, i think that people that
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- Is an eternal thing, i think that people that are real givers,
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- I think that people that are real givers, will still be getting
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- Are real givers, will still be getting blessed in heaven,
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- Will still be getting blessed in heaven, from what they gave
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- Blessed in heaven, from what they gave here in the earth.
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- From what they gave here in the earth. so, let's talk about something
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- Here in the earth. so, let's talk about something that most people don't
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- So, let's talk about something that most people don't even think is possible,
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- That most people don't even think is possible, and that's becoming
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- Even think is possible, and that's becoming and living debt-free.
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- You can never do it if you
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- You can never do it if you don't believe it's possible.
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- You can never do it if you don't believe it's possible. and so, all things are
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- Don't believe it's possible. and so, all things are possible with god.
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- And so, all things are possible with god. you can live debt-free.
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- Debt is very oppressive,
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- Debt is very oppressive, it's a very heavy burden,
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- Debt is very oppressive, it's a very heavy burden, "jesus looked at them and said,
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- It's a very heavy burden, "jesus looked at them and said, "with man this is impossible,
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- "jesus looked at them and said, "with man this is impossible, but with god all things
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- "with man this is impossible, but with god all things are possible."
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- But with god all things are possible." that is like my scripture
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- For the year,
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- For the year, i wanna really stir myself
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- For the year, i wanna really stir myself up in faith again,
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- I wanna really stir myself up in faith again, and just believe there's
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- Up in faith again, and just believe there's nothing that god can't do.
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- And just believe there's nothing that god can't do. so, everybody say nice and loud,
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- Nothing that god can't do. so, everybody say nice and loud, "i can live debt-free."
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- So, everybody say nice and loud, "i can live debt-free." >> joyce: boy, doesn't
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- "i can live debt-free." >> joyce: boy, doesn't that sound good?
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- >> joyce: boy, doesn't that sound good? a person can never
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- That sound good? a person can never be debt-free if they're addicted
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- A person can never be debt-free if they're addicted to instant gratification.
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- Be debt-free if they're addicted to instant gratification. and boy, we have a big problem
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- To instant gratification. and boy, we have a big problem with that today, don't we?
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- And boy, we have a big problem with that today, don't we? we want it,
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- With that today, don't we? we want it, we want it, right now.
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- We want it, we want it, right now. but if you ever wanna
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- We want it, right now. but if you ever wanna be debt-free, you have to learn
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- But if you ever wanna be debt-free, you have to learn how to be patient and save
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- Be debt-free, you have to learn how to be patient and save for what you want,
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- How to be patient and save for what you want, and then pay for it,
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- For what you want, and then pay for it, and not have a debt on it.
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- And then pay for it, and not have a debt on it. being debt-free requires saving
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- And not have a debt on it. being debt-free requires saving money for things you need,
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- Being debt-free requires saving money for things you need, and i drew a big circle around
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- Money for things you need, and i drew a big circle around "you need," because you see,
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- And i drew a big circle around "you need," because you see, we think we need a lot of things
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- "you need," because you see, we think we need a lot of things that we really don't need,
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- We think we need a lot of things that we really don't need, or we can even think that
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- That we really don't need, or we can even think that we need something that we've
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- Or we can even think that we need something that we've already got 50 of at home.
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- We need something that we've already got 50 of at home. how many of you ladies
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- Already got 50 of at home. how many of you ladies can see a pair of earrings
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- How many of you ladies can see a pair of earrings and think, "oh, i need those"?
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- Can see a pair of earrings and think, "oh, i need those"? i used to buy earrings
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- And think, "oh, i need those"? i used to buy earrings because they were pretty,
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- I used to buy earrings because they were pretty, and then i didn't have
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- Because they were pretty, and then i didn't have anything to wear 'em with.
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- And then i didn't have anything to wear 'em with. and a girl that i buy a lot
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- Anything to wear 'em with. and a girl that i buy a lot of my clothes from,
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- And a girl that i buy a lot of my clothes from, she'll have some pretty jewelry
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- Of my clothes from, she'll have some pretty jewelry in her shop, and i'll say,
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- She'll have some pretty jewelry in her shop, and i'll say, "ew, boy, those are pretty,
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- In her shop, and i'll say, "ew, boy, those are pretty, i want those!"
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- "ew, boy, those are pretty, i want those!" and she'll say, "now,
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- I want those!" and she'll say, "now, wait a minute, joyce, what are
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- And she'll say, "now, wait a minute, joyce, what are you gonna do with them?"
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- Wait a minute, joyce, what are you gonna do with them?" and i wonder how many things
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- You gonna do with them?" and i wonder how many things you have in your home,
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- And i wonder how many things you have in your home, in closets and drawers,
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- You have in your home, in closets and drawers, that you've paid for and have
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- In closets and drawers, that you've paid for and have never used one time,
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- That you've paid for and have never used one time, and couldn't even find
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- Never used one time, and couldn't even find if you needed it.
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- And couldn't even find if you needed it. you have to stop spending
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- If you needed it. you have to stop spending everything you have
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- You have to stop spending everything you have and then borrowing more,
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- Everything you have and then borrowing more, to get all these things
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- And then borrowing more, to get all these things that you want,
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- To get all these things that you want, but really don't need.
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- That you want, but really don't need. now credit cards are great
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- But really don't need. now credit cards are great if you can manage 'em,
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- Now credit cards are great if you can manage 'em, but to be honest,
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- If you can manage 'em, but to be honest, the only way that you
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- But to be honest, the only way that you should use credit cards,
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- The only way that you should use credit cards, and it may take you a while
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- Should use credit cards, and it may take you a while to get to this point;
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- And it may take you a while to get to this point; is to not put anything
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- To get to this point; is to not put anything on them that you cannot pay
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- Is to not put anything on them that you cannot pay off at the end of the month.
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- On them that you cannot pay off at the end of the month. use them for convenience only,
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- Off at the end of the month. use them for convenience only, because what most people
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- Use them for convenience only, because what most people do is they run up this big
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- Because what most people do is they run up this big credit card debt, and then they
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- Do is they run up this big credit card debt, and then they make the minimum payment.
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- Credit card debt, and then they make the minimum payment. you know, people--
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- Make the minimum payment. you know, people-- you have to be an investor
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- You know, people-- you have to be an investor in life, and not a gambler.
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- You have to be an investor in life, and not a gambler. you can't just do the wrong
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- In life, and not a gambler. you can't just do the wrong thing and gamble that you're
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- You can't just do the wrong thing and gamble that you're gonna get a right result,
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- Thing and gamble that you're gonna get a right result, because you won't.
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- Gonna get a right result, because you won't. i just wrote a book on proverbs,
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- Because you won't. i just wrote a book on proverbs, and boy i'll tell you when
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- I just wrote a book on proverbs, and boy i'll tell you when you study proverbs,
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- And boy i'll tell you when you study proverbs, i mean, you just come
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- You study proverbs, i mean, you just come out with one conclusion,
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- I mean, you just come out with one conclusion, the wise man is gonna prosper,
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- Out with one conclusion, the wise man is gonna prosper, and the fool is gonna have
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- The wise man is gonna prosper, and the fool is gonna have nothing but a mess in their
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- And the fool is gonna have nothing but a mess in their life, in every single area
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- Nothing but a mess in their life, in every single area of their life, and to me--
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- Life, in every single area of their life, and to me-- this is my own definition,
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- Of their life, and to me-- this is my own definition, but i say that, wisdom
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- This is my own definition, but i say that, wisdom is doing now what you'll
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- But i say that, wisdom is doing now what you'll be happy with later on.
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- And foolishness is:
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- And foolishness is: having this need for instant
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- And foolishness is: having this need for instant gratification, and doing things
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- Having this need for instant gratification, and doing things that really just are not wisdom.
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- Gratification, and doing things that really just are not wisdom. so, you cannot be addicted
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- To instant gratification.
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- To instant gratification. when we borrow money,
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- To instant gratification. when we borrow money, we're spending tomorrow's
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- When we borrow money, we're spending tomorrow's prosperity, today.
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- We're spending tomorrow's prosperity, today. so, think about that.
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- Prosperity, today. so, think about that. and then when tomorrow comes,
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- So, think about that. and then when tomorrow comes, we have to borrow to pay what
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- And then when tomorrow comes, we have to borrow to pay what we owe, and so, it just keeps
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- We have to borrow to pay what we owe, and so, it just keeps an unhealthy cycle going in our
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- We owe, and so, it just keeps an unhealthy cycle going in our lives, because we're always,
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- An unhealthy cycle going in our lives, because we're always, have already spent what we're
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- Lives, because we're always, have already spent what we're working for, so then,
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- Have already spent what we're working for, so then, when it comes time to pay
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- Working for, so then, when it comes time to pay the bills that you have to pay,
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- When it comes time to pay the bills that you have to pay, and buy the things you have
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- The bills that you have to pay, and buy the things you have to have, then you have no choice
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- And buy the things you have to have, then you have no choice but to borrow more money because
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- To have, then you have no choice but to borrow more money because you gotta use the money you have
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- But to borrow more money because you gotta use the money you have now to pay for what you bought
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- You gotta use the money you have now to pay for what you bought way back there somewhere.
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- Now to pay for what you bought way back there somewhere. and once again, so much of this
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- Way back there somewhere. and once again, so much of this is due to instant gratification,
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- And once again, so much of this is due to instant gratification, and not thinking,
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- Is due to instant gratification, and not thinking, really thinking about,
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- And not thinking, really thinking about, "do i need this?"
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- Really thinking about, "do i need this?" now, there's nothing wrong
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- "do i need this?" now, there's nothing wrong with buying some things that
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- Now, there's nothing wrong with buying some things that you want, but i will say this,
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- With buying some things that you want, but i will say this, if you're already head over
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- You want, but i will say this, if you're already head over heels in debt, you don't need
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- If you're already head over heels in debt, you don't need to be buying a lot of what
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- Heels in debt, you don't need to be buying a lot of what you want, you need to really
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- To be buying a lot of what you want, you need to really just be buying what you need.
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- You want, you need to really just be buying what you need. it's kinda like if--if you live
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- Just be buying what you need. it's kinda like if--if you live an unbalanced life over here,
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- It's kinda like if--if you live an unbalanced life over here, you've spent money that you
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- An unbalanced life over here, you've spent money that you don't have, then to overcome
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- You've spent money that you don't have, then to overcome this over on this side, you're
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- Don't have, then to overcome this over on this side, you're gonna have to do without some
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- This over on this side, you're gonna have to do without some things for a while, in order to
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- Gonna have to do without some things for a while, in order to get your life back in balance.
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- Things are not nearly as
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- Things are not nearly as important as we think they are.
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- Things are not nearly as important as we think they are. dave ramsey presents a brilliant
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- Important as we think they are. dave ramsey presents a brilliant plan to getting out of debt,
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- Dave ramsey presents a brilliant plan to getting out of debt, and i hope i say it right,
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- Plan to getting out of debt, and i hope i say it right, but just remember that name,
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- Dave ramsey, he's probably
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- Dave ramsey, he's probably the premier teacher on finances
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- Dave ramsey, he's probably the premier teacher on finances today, lots and lots of wisdom,
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- The premier teacher on finances today, lots and lots of wisdom, he's got a tv show,
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- Today, lots and lots of wisdom, he's got a tv show, i think a radio show,
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- He's got a tv show, i think a radio show, and plenty of books.
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- I think a radio show, and plenty of books. and he says that what you
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- And plenty of books. and he says that what you do is, you, if you're in debt,
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- And he says that what you do is, you, if you're in debt, you pay off the smallest debt
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- Do is, you, if you're in debt, you pay off the smallest debt first because then, you feel
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- You pay off the smallest debt first because then, you feel good that you paid off a debt.
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- First because then, you feel good that you paid off a debt. but then, let's just say
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- Good that you paid off a debt. but then, let's just say the payment on that debt
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- But then, let's just say the payment on that debt was $50 a month,
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- The payment on that debt was $50 a month, but then you don't say,
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- Was $50 a month, but then you don't say, "oh boy, i've got $50 a month
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- But then you don't say, "oh boy, i've got $50 a month more now to spend."
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- "oh boy, i've got $50 a month more now to spend." what you do is, you take
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- More now to spend." what you do is, you take that $50 and you add
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- What you do is, you take that $50 and you add it to the payment on the next
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- That $50 and you add it to the payment on the next smallest debt, so say,
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- It to the payment on the next smallest debt, so say, you have another debt,
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- Smallest debt, so say, you have another debt, that the payments $45,
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- You have another debt, that the payments $45, well now, instead of paying $45,
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- That the payments $45, well now, instead of paying $45, you pay $95 a month on that.
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- Well now, instead of paying $45, you pay $95 a month on that. then when those two are
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- You pay $95 a month on that. then when those two are paid off, you take the money
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- Then when those two are paid off, you take the money from those two and you
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- Paid off, you take the money from those two and you add it to the next one.
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- From those two and you add it to the next one. and it may take two years,
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- Add it to the next one. and it may take two years, it may take 5 years,
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- And it may take two years, it may take 5 years, but let me ask you something,
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- It may take 5 years, but let me ask you something, is doing that for 2, 3, 4, 5,
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- But let me ask you something, is doing that for 2, 3, 4, 5, years better than being
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- Is doing that for 2, 3, 4, 5, years better than being in bondage all of your life
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- Years better than being in bondage all of your life and continuing to keep
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- In bondage all of your life and continuing to keep the same ridiculous cycle going,
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- And continuing to keep the same ridiculous cycle going, all the time?
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- The same ridiculous cycle going, all the time? everybody say,
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- All the time? everybody say, "i can live debt-free."
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- Everybody say, "i can live debt-free." >> joyce: now, let's just
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- "i can live debt-free." >> joyce: now, let's just throw the word suffer
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- >> joyce: now, let's just throw the word suffer out for a minute.
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- Throw the word suffer out for a minute. not a word we like,
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- Out for a minute. not a word we like, but if you're going to get out
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- Not a word we like, but if you're going to get out of debt and be debt-free,
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- But if you're going to get out of debt and be debt-free, you will have to let
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- Of debt and be debt-free, you will have to let your flesh suffer, because
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- You will have to let your flesh suffer, because it wants what it wants,
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- Your flesh suffer, because it wants what it wants, and it pouts and feels
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- It wants what it wants, and it pouts and feels sorry for itself when
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- And it pouts and feels sorry for itself when it doesn't get it.
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- Sorry for itself when it doesn't get it. but we are to walk according
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- It doesn't get it. but we are to walk according to the spirit, not according
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- But we are to walk according to the spirit, not according to the flesh.
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- To the spirit, not according to the flesh. to get out of debt, you're
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- To the flesh. to get out of debt, you're gonna have to be patient,
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- To get out of debt, you're gonna have to be patient, persistent and learn
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- Gonna have to be patient, persistent and learn the difference between what
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- Persistent and learn the difference between what you need and what you want.
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- The difference between what you need and what you want. before buying anything, ask
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- You need and what you want. before buying anything, ask yourself if you can afford it,
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- Before buying anything, ask yourself if you can afford it, without going in debt to get it,
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- Yourself if you can afford it, without going in debt to get it, and if what you're going
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- Without going in debt to get it, and if what you're going to spend on it, is truly
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- And if what you're going to spend on it, is truly worth it to you.
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- To spend on it, is truly worth it to you. i heard my daughter say
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- Worth it to you. i heard my daughter say something that she liked
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- I heard my daughter say something that she liked something that i have, and so,
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- Something that she liked something that i have, and so, i thought about it, and i told
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- Something that i have, and so, i thought about it, and i told her, "i'd like to buy you one."
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- I thought about it, and i told her, "i'd like to buy you one." and she said, "oh, man,
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- Her, "i'd like to buy you one." and she said, "oh, man, that'd be great!"
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- And she said, "oh, man, that'd be great!" and she called me the next day,
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- That'd be great!" and she called me the next day, and she said, "you know what?
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- And she called me the next day, and she said, "you know what? i've decided not to let
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- And she said, "you know what? i've decided not to let you buy me that."
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- I've decided not to let you buy me that." and i said, "well why not?"
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- You buy me that." and i said, "well why not?" i mean, who wouldn't want
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- And i said, "well why not?" i mean, who wouldn't want a free gift?
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- I mean, who wouldn't want a free gift? and she said, "you know what?
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- A free gift? and she said, "you know what? i thought it over, and she said,
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- And she said, "you know what? i thought it over, and she said, "yeah, i would like it but,"
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- I thought it over, and she said, "yeah, i would like it but," she said, "it's not worth
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- "yeah, i would like it but," she said, "it's not worth it to me, the amount of money
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- She said, "it's not worth it to me, the amount of money that it costs," and she said,
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- It to me, the amount of money that it costs," and she said, "i want to use your money,
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- That it costs," and she said, "i want to use your money, the same way i would use mine."
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- "i want to use your money, the same way i would use mine." now, that's a smart kid.
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- And so, i wanna say something
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- And so, i wanna say something and i want you to remember this,
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- And so, i wanna say something and i want you to remember this, you can't just expect money,
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- And i want you to remember this, you can't just expect money, you have to respect money.
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- You can't just expect money, you have to respect money. and i think that's worth
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- You have to respect money. and i think that's worth writing down and keeping.
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- And i think that's worth writing down and keeping. you can't just expect money,
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- Writing down and keeping. you can't just expect money, you have to respect money,
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- You can't just expect money, you have to respect money, and respecting money means
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- That you don't just use
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- That you don't just use it frivolously.
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- That you don't just use it frivolously. you know, if you're gonna
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- It frivolously. you know, if you're gonna spend $20, i don't think
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- You know, if you're gonna spend $20, i don't think you have to have a prayer
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- Spend $20, i don't think you have to have a prayer meeting about it,
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- You have to have a prayer meeting about it, and wait four days,
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- Meeting about it, and wait four days, i mean unless you don't
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- And wait four days, i mean unless you don't have the $20, then you do.
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- I mean unless you don't have the $20, then you do. but if you're gonna buy
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- Have the $20, then you do. but if you're gonna buy anything, that's any sizable
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- But if you're gonna buy anything, that's any sizable amount of money, i strongly
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- Anything, that's any sizable amount of money, i strongly suggest that you sleep on it for
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- Amount of money, i strongly suggest that you sleep on it for a night, because when you're
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- Suggest that you sleep on it for a night, because when you're looking at something
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- A night, because when you're looking at something in the shiny case,
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- Looking at something in the shiny case, or the showroom floor,
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- In the shiny case, or the showroom floor, can i tell you something ladies,
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- Or the showroom floor, can i tell you something ladies, it won't look as good on you,
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- Can i tell you something ladies, it won't look as good on you, as it did on the model.
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- It won't look as good on you, as it did on the model. and it doesn't shine as much
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- As it did on the model. and it doesn't shine as much when you get home,
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- And it doesn't shine as much when you get home, as it did in the jewelry store.
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- When you get home, as it did in the jewelry store. i bought a piece of jewelry
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- As it did in the jewelry store. i bought a piece of jewelry one time at a jewelry store,
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- I bought a piece of jewelry one time at a jewelry store, and i just thought
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- One time at a jewelry store, and i just thought it was beautiful, and when
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- And i just thought it was beautiful, and when i got it home, i thought,
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- It was beautiful, and when i got it home, i thought, "this is not as pretty
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- I got it home, i thought, "this is not as pretty as i thought it was."
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- And i couldn't figure that out,
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- And i couldn't figure that out, and then somebody said,
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- And i couldn't figure that out, and then somebody said, "well don't you realize,
- 00:17:00.843 --> 00:17:01.743
- And then somebody said, "well don't you realize, that they've got those lights
- 00:17:01.810 --> 00:17:02.778
- "well don't you realize, that they've got those lights set just right, behind glass,
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- That they've got those lights set just right, behind glass, makes it look a lot
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- Set just right, behind glass, makes it look a lot different there,
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- Makes it look a lot different there, than it's gonna look
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- Different there, than it's gonna look when you get it home."
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- Than it's gonna look when you get it home." and so, i took it back,
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- When you get it home." and so, i took it back, got my money back.
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- And so, i took it back, got my money back. you know, that new car
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- Got my money back. you know, that new car on the showroom floor,
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- You know, that new car on the showroom floor, and don't think they don't place
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- On the showroom floor, and don't think they don't place the lights just right too.
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- And don't think they don't place the lights just right too. oh, my gosh, it looks so
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- The lights just right too. oh, my gosh, it looks so good, and it's clean,
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- Oh, my gosh, it looks so good, and it's clean, there's not a tiny little
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- Good, and it's clean, there's not a tiny little bit of dirt on it, and you think
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- There's not a tiny little bit of dirt on it, and you think you just have to have it,
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- But what's it gonna
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- But what's it gonna look like in a year,
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- But what's it gonna look like in a year, when you have it full of fast
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- Look like in a year, when you have it full of fast food wrappers and haven't
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- When you have it full of fast food wrappers and haven't washed it in a long time,
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- Food wrappers and haven't washed it in a long time, and now you're stuck with
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- Washed it in a long time, and now you're stuck with what--now if you buy a car,
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- And now you're stuck with what--now if you buy a car, 7 years of payments, sometime?
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- What--now if you buy a car, 7 years of payments, sometime? when you--if you're gonna
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- 7 years of payments, sometime? when you--if you're gonna buy something on credit
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- When you--if you're gonna buy something on credit you need to ask yourself,
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- Buy something on credit you need to ask yourself, do i want to be paying
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- You need to ask yourself, do i want to be paying for this for 7 years,
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- Do i want to be paying for this for 7 years, or would i rather wait?
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- For this for 7 years, or would i rather wait? money has a great temptation
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- Or would i rather wait? money has a great temptation attached to it.
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- Money has a great temptation attached to it. and greed, i think,
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- Attached to it. and greed, i think, can get all of us,
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- And greed, i think, can get all of us, unless we fight it,
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- Can get all of us, unless we fight it, and the only way that i know
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- Unless we fight it, and the only way that i know how to fight greed,
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- And the only way that i know how to fight greed, is with generosity.
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- How to fight greed, is with generosity. i think if you're
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- Is with generosity. i think if you're a generous person,
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- I think if you're a generous person, then greed cannot get you.
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- A generous person, then greed cannot get you. so, don't just expect money,
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- Then greed cannot get you. so, don't just expect money, but respect money.
- 00:18:24.193 --> 00:18:26.461
- Luke 14:28 and 29, "suppose one
- 00:18:26.528 --> 00:18:30.499
- Luke 14:28 and 29, "suppose one of you wants to build a tower.
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- Luke 14:28 and 29, "suppose one of you wants to build a tower. won't you first sit down
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- Of you wants to build a tower. won't you first sit down and estimate the cost to see
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- Won't you first sit down and estimate the cost to see if you have enough money
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- And estimate the cost to see if you have enough money to complete it?
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- If you have enough money to complete it? but if you lay the foundation
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- To complete it? but if you lay the foundation and are not able to finish it,
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- But if you lay the foundation and are not able to finish it, everyone who sees it,
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- And are not able to finish it, everyone who sees it, will ridicule you."
- 00:18:44.346 --> 00:18:46.014
- Everyone who sees it, will ridicule you." i remember a subdivision that
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- We drove by occasionally
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- We drove by occasionally when we were in this certain
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- We drove by occasionally when we were in this certain area on our way back and forth
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- When we were in this certain area on our way back and forth to the airport and oh,
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- Area on our way back and forth to the airport and oh, it had a great entrance,
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- To the airport and oh, it had a great entrance, and there was partial
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- It had a great entrance, and there was partial of two houses built in there,
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- And there was partial of two houses built in there, and it just--nothing.
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- Of two houses built in there, and it just--nothing. it never--
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- And it just--nothing. it never-- "what happened?" we'd say.
- 00:19:16.078 --> 00:19:18.146
- It never-- "what happened?" we'd say. well, obviously,
- 00:19:18.213 --> 00:19:20.282
- "what happened?" we'd say. well, obviously, they committed to something
- 00:19:20.349 --> 00:19:21.383
- Well, obviously, they committed to something that they didn't have enough
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- They committed to something that they didn't have enough money to finish.
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- That they didn't have enough money to finish. and so, it looked ridiculous
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- Money to finish. and so, it looked ridiculous with this beautiful front
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- And so, it looked ridiculous with this beautiful front and two half-built houses.
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- With this beautiful front and two half-built houses. and to be honest,
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- And two half-built houses. and to be honest, when we spend all this money
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- And to be honest, when we spend all this money on credit, and then maybe end
- 00:19:35.364 --> 00:19:37.065
- When we spend all this money on credit, and then maybe end up having to file bankruptcy,
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- On credit, and then maybe end up having to file bankruptcy, you know, that's--
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- Up having to file bankruptcy, you know, that's-- you know, i know some people
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- You know, that's-- you know, i know some people have to do that, i'm not trying
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- You know, i know some people have to do that, i'm not trying to make anybody feel bad,
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- Have to do that, i'm not trying to make anybody feel bad, but that's something
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- To make anybody feel bad, but that's something that we should not let
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- But that's something that we should not let ourselves get in that kind
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- That we should not let ourselves get in that kind of a mess to have to do,
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- Ourselves get in that kind of a mess to have to do, because we always should
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- Of a mess to have to do, because we always should be responsible to pay our bills.
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- Because we always should be responsible to pay our bills. if you're gonna make a debt,
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- Be responsible to pay our bills. if you're gonna make a debt, pay it, and pay it on time.
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- Before you borrow money
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- Before you borrow money for any item that's expensive,
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- Before you borrow money for any item that's expensive, think about it.
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- For any item that's expensive, think about it. i tell this story sometimes,
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- Think about it. i tell this story sometimes, i'd saved up--i think
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- I tell this story sometimes, i'd saved up--i think it was $300, i don't remember,
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- I'd saved up--i think it was $300, i don't remember, if you hear me tell
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- It was $300, i don't remember, if you hear me tell it on another teaching,
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- If you hear me tell it on another teaching, it'll probably be $200.
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- It on another teaching, it'll probably be $200. but today it feels like $300.
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- It'll probably be $200. but today it feels like $300. we were at the mall shopping,
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- But today it feels like $300. we were at the mall shopping, and i needed a new watch,
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- We were at the mall shopping, and i needed a new watch, and so we went
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- And i needed a new watch, and so we went by this jewelry store,
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- And so we went by this jewelry store, and oh, they had this watch,
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- By this jewelry store, and oh, they had this watch, it had rhinestones on it,
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- And oh, they had this watch, it had rhinestones on it, and i like things that sparkle.
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- It had rhinestones on it, and i like things that sparkle. and you know,
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- And i like things that sparkle. and you know, a good salesperson,
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- And you know, a good salesperson, they know what they're doing.
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- A good salesperson, they know what they're doing. and this was like,
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- They know what they're doing. and this was like, "oh, this looks great on you,
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- And this was like, "oh, this looks great on you, and now, you know,
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- "oh, this looks great on you, and now, you know, this sale is only for today,
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- And now, you know, this sale is only for today, and if you don't get it today,
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- This sale is only for today, and if you don't get it today, then it's you know...blah,
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- And if you don't get it today, then it's you know...blah, blah, blah."
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- Then it's you know...blah, blah, blah." but i'd learned a little bit
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- Blah, blah." but i'd learned a little bit by then and--'cause it was
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- But i'd learned a little bit by then and--'cause it was going to take all my money,
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- By then and--'cause it was going to take all my money, and so i said,
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- Going to take all my money, and so i said, "well, you know what?
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- And so i said, "well, you know what? let me just--
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- "well, you know what? let me just-- i just wanna take a little
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- Let me just-- i just wanna take a little bit of time, and i'll come back
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- I just wanna take a little bit of time, and i'll come back if i want it."
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- Bit of time, and i'll come back if i want it." well, so, i'm walking down
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- If i want it." well, so, i'm walking down the mall, and in the meantime,
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- Well, so, i'm walking down the mall, and in the meantime, i look in a store and i see
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- The mall, and in the meantime, i look in a store and i see a suit that i really liked.
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- I look in a store and i see a suit that i really liked. well, i went in and tried that
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- A suit that i really liked. well, i went in and tried that thing on and it looked
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- Well, i went in and tried that thing on and it looked gorgeous on me,
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- Thing on and it looked gorgeous on me, made me look like i had
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- Gorgeous on me, made me look like i had a tiny waist,
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- Made me look like i had a tiny waist, it was the right color,
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- A tiny waist, it was the right color, but that also,
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- It was the right color, but that also, would have taken all my money.
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- But that also, would have taken all my money. so, i decide i'll take
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- Would have taken all my money. so, i decide i'll take another walk.
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- So, i decide i'll take another walk. and the thing that i realized
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- Another walk. and the thing that i realized when i asked myself,
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- And the thing that i realized when i asked myself, "joyce, what do you
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- When i asked myself, "joyce, what do you really want?"
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- "joyce, what do you really want?" the thing that i wanted
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- Really want?" the thing that i wanted was to keep my money.
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- The thing that i wanted was to keep my money. so, i had $20 for
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- Was to keep my money. so, i had $20 for a pair of earrings,
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- So, i had $20 for a pair of earrings, or enough money to take
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- A pair of earrings, or enough money to take a friend out for coffee,
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- Or enough money to take a friend out for coffee, i didn't want to have no money,
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- A friend out for coffee, i didn't want to have no money, even as much as i wanted
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- I didn't want to have no money, even as much as i wanted those two things.
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- Even as much as i wanted those two things. and so, i left with neither
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- Those two things. and so, i left with neither one of them.
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- And so, i left with neither one of them. and you know what?
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- One of them. and you know what? i survived.
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- And you know what? i survived. i stayed happy.
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- I survived. i stayed happy. so, we really need to start
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- I stayed happy. so, we really need to start thinking about what we're doing,
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- So, we really need to start thinking about what we're doing, and not just doing it.
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- Thinking about what we're doing, and not just doing it. nothing looks as good when
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- And not just doing it. nothing looks as good when you bring it home,
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- Nothing looks as good when you bring it home, as it did in the store.
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- You bring it home, as it did in the store. now, my husband has a very
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- As it did in the store. now, my husband has a very simple equation that
- 00:22:12.454 --> 00:22:16.258
- Now, my husband has a very simple equation that he has lived by.
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- Simple equation that he has lived by. and what dave says is,
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- He has lived by. and what dave says is, out of everything you have,
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- And what dave says is, out of everything you have, give some, spend some,
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- Out of everything you have, give some, spend some, save some.
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- Give some, spend some, save some. give some, set your--
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- Save some. give some, set your-- set your giving aside first,
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- Give some, set your-- set your giving aside first, that's not a want,
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- Set your giving aside first, that's not a want, that's a need.
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- That's not a want, that's a need. we need to give,
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- That's a need. we need to give, because if we don't give,
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- We need to give, because if we don't give, no matter what we have,
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- Because if we don't give, no matter what we have, it's not gonna be blessed.
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- No matter what we have, it's not gonna be blessed. and so, you always
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- It's not gonna be blessed. and so, you always set aside your giving.
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- And so, you always set aside your giving. do a little something for
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- Set aside your giving. do a little something for yourself with the money
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- Do a little something for yourself with the money that you work for,
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- Yourself with the money that you work for, it gets kind of boring
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- That you work for, it gets kind of boring if you work all the time,
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- It gets kind of boring if you work all the time, and you never do anything
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- If you work all the time, and you never do anything for yourself.
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- And you never do anything for yourself. although, maybe, some people
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- For yourself. although, maybe, some people deserve to be bored for
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- Although, maybe, some people deserve to be bored for a little while, because
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- Deserve to be bored for a little while, because they've lived riotously.
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- A little while, because they've lived riotously. and then, save some.
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- They've lived riotously. and then, save some. what if each one of you from
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- And then, save some. what if each one of you from the time you went to work,
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- What if each one of you from the time you went to work, when maybe you were 16, or 17,
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- The time you went to work, when maybe you were 16, or 17, or 18, would have been saving
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- When maybe you were 16, or 17, or 18, would have been saving 10% of everything that you
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- Or 18, would have been saving 10% of everything that you made ever since then,
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- 10% of everything that you made ever since then, just think what you
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- Made ever since then, just think what you would have now.
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- Just think what you would have now. and you know what?
- 00:23:15.450 --> 00:23:16.051
- Would have now. and you know what? if you start doing that,
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- And you know what? if you start doing that, you don't miss it.
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- If you start doing that, you don't miss it. you really don't miss it.
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- You don't miss it. you really don't miss it. and so, it's very wise
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- You really don't miss it. and so, it's very wise to manage money,
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- And so, it's very wise to manage money, and not let money manage you.
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- To manage money, and not let money manage you. say it again,
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- And not let money manage you. say it again, "i can live debt-free."
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- Say it again, "i can live debt-free." thank you so much
- 00:23:33.201 --> 00:23:33.735
- "i can live debt-free." thank you so much for being with us today.
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- Thank you so much for being with us today. we appreciate you listening,
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- For being with us today. we appreciate you listening, and i hope you put some
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- We appreciate you listening, and i hope you put some of these principles
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- And i hope you put some of these principles to work in your life.
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- Of these principles to work in your life. >> [audience applauding]
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- >> announcer: struggling with
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- >> announcer: struggling with debt or the stress of trying
- 00:23:44.779 --> 00:23:45.947
- Debt or the stress of trying to make ends meet?
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- To make ends meet? the bible offers clear wisdom
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- The bible offers clear wisdom to guide you toward peace
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- To guide you toward peace and joy in finances.
- 00:23:50.585 --> 00:23:52.153
- And joy in finances. but where do you start?
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- But where do you start? in “financial management
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- In “financial management god's way,” joyce shares
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- God's way,” joyce shares practical biblical steps
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- Practical biblical steps to help you overcome
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- To help you overcome financial anxiety and find
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- Financial anxiety and find lasting freedom.
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- >> joyce: god has taught
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- Me so much over the
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- Years about finances.
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- In the early years
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- Of our marriage, dave
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- And i had to trust
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- God for the very
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- Basics like clothes
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- And groceries.
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- We learned how to live
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- By faith for our
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- Everyday needs.
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- And while that's very
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- Important that we
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- Learn how to put our
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- Trust in god, i believe
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- That god's word gives
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- Us wisdom to be good
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- Stewards of the
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- Finances that
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- We have been given.
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- In this book, i want
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- To give you a biblical
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- Understanding about
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- Finances and some
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- Practical tips that
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- You can apply right
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- Now, to help you
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- Achieve your goals.
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- You can do this.
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- >> announcer: learn how to trust
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- >> announcer: learn how to trust god with your finances based
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- God with your finances based on the promises in his word
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- On the promises in his word with joyce's book, "financial
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- Develop a balanced budget and eliminate debt.
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- And eliminate debt. avoid unexpected financial
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- Avoid unexpected financial emergencies.
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- Emergencies. make wise investments for your
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- Make wise investments for your future and much more.
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- >> joyce: you know,
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- No one gets into
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- Financial struggles
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- Overnight.
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- And likewise, it may
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- Take time to feel
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- Like you're making
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- Progress forward.
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- But i know you can
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- Achieve your
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- Financial goals
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- If you obey god and
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- Trust him to give
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- You the grace
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- To do it.
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- He will help you get
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- There step by step,
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- One day at a time.
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- I pray that god gives
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- You a determination
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- To break free from
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- Financial burdens.
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- The journey may not
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- Be easy, but i promise
- 00:25:33.521 --> 00:25:35.557
- It will be worth it.
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- Let me help you
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- Take the first step.
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- >> announcer: god wants
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- >> announcer: god wants to give you the wisdom
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- To give you the wisdom to thrive financially.
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- To thrive financially. you can strengthen your
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- You can strengthen your confidence and determination
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- Confidence and determination to work toward financial
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- To work toward financial freedom, and trust god
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- Freedom, and trust god every step of the way.
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- Every step of the way. contact us today and request
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- Contact us today and request joyce's free book, "financial
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- >> [music]
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- >> joyce: you cannot keep
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- >> joyce: you cannot keep thinking the wrong thing
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- Thinking the wrong thing and do the right thing.
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- And do the right thing. >> ginger: it's coming,
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- >> announcer: we hope you
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- >> announcer: we hope you enjoyed today's program.
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- Enjoyed today's program.
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- We are so grateful
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- We are so grateful to our joyce meyer
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- To our joyce meyer ministries partners
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- Ministries partners who make this
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- Who make this and all we do possible,
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- And all we do possible, including sharing
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- Including sharing god's word
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- God's word and offering help
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- And offering help to people in need
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- To people in need all over the world.
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