Bible teacher Joyce Meyer shares timeless scriptural principles to show us how we can embrace the best God has for us each and every day of our lives.
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Joyce Meyer: Enjoying Everyday Life | Joyce Meyer - Jealousy (Part 1) | February 19, 2026
- >> joyce: there's a way
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- >> joyce: there's a way to fight back.
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- >> joyce: there's a way to fight back. there's a way to fight
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- To fight back. there's a way to fight back against jealousy
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- There's a way to fight back against jealousy and envy and greed.
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- Back against jealousy and envy and greed. you just purposely
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- And envy and greed. you just purposely do something generous,
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- You just purposely do something generous, and it breaks the power
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- Do something generous, and it breaks the power of that wicked spirit.
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- >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer.
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- >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer. i've seen god's power
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- >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer. i've seen god's power transform my own life
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- I've seen god's power transform my own life and he will do it for you.
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- >> joyce: father, i pray
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- >> joyce: father, i pray over this message today,
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- >> joyce: father, i pray over this message today, that you would cause
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- Over this message today, that you would cause people to really understand
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- That you would cause people to really understand how important this is.
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- People to really understand how important this is. and that you would help
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- How important this is. and that you would help us to eliminate this one problem
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- And that you would help us to eliminate this one problem out of our life with your help,
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- Us to eliminate this one problem out of our life with your help, and give us peace.
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- Out of our life with your help, and give us peace. in jesus name, amen.
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- And give us peace. in jesus name, amen. i wanna talk to you today
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- In jesus name, amen. i wanna talk to you today about jealousy.
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- I wanna talk to you today about jealousy. mmm...
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- About jealousy. mmm... >> [audience laughing]
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- >> joyce: you know,
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- >> joyce: you know, at the root of jealousy
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- >> joyce: you know, at the root of jealousy is insecurity.
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- Because if we weren't insecure
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- Because if we weren't insecure in some way, we wouldn't
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- Because if we weren't insecure in some way, we wouldn't feel like we have to have
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- In some way, we wouldn't feel like we have to have what somebody else has.
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- Feel like we have to have what somebody else has. matter of fact, i think that
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- What somebody else has. matter of fact, i think that god has given us such
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- Matter of fact, i think that god has given us such a large born-again heart
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- God has given us such a large born-again heart that we should be very happy
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- A large born-again heart that we should be very happy when other people are blessed.
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- That we should be very happy when other people are blessed. matter of fact, the bible
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- When other people are blessed. matter of fact, the bible says that, rejoice when
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- Matter of fact, the bible says that, rejoice when others rejoice and weep
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- Says that, rejoice when others rejoice and weep with them when they weep."
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- Others rejoice and weep with them when they weep." and one wonderful thing about
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- With them when they weep." and one wonderful thing about being in relationship with jesus
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- And one wonderful thing about being in relationship with jesus is you do not have to compare
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- Being in relationship with jesus is you do not have to compare yourself with anybody else,
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- Is you do not have to compare yourself with anybody else, and you don't have to compare
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- Yourself with anybody else, and you don't have to compare what you have with what
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- And you don't have to compare what you have with what anybody else has.
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- What you have with what anybody else has. you know, jesus broke down
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- Anybody else has. you know, jesus broke down the dividing walls and he was
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- You know, jesus broke down the dividing walls and he was talking about the dividing wall
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- The dividing walls and he was talking about the dividing wall between jews and gentiles.
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- Talking about the dividing wall between jews and gentiles. but he also said there's
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- Between jews and gentiles. but he also said there's no more male or female,
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- But he also said there's no more male or female, slave nor free, but we're
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- No more male or female, slave nor free, but we're all one in christ.
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- And really a wealthy person
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- And really a wealthy person should be comfortable with
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- And really a wealthy person should be comfortable with a poor person, and a poor
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- Should be comfortable with a poor person, and a poor person should be comfortable
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- A poor person, and a poor person should be comfortable with a wealthy person.
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- Person should be comfortable with a wealthy person. and when someone that you
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- With a wealthy person. and when someone that you know gets blessed, you should
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- And when someone that you know gets blessed, you should always rejoice with them.
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- Know gets blessed, you should always rejoice with them. i have friends who really
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- Always rejoice with them. i have friends who really rejoice with me when
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- I have friends who really rejoice with me when something of a blessing
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- Rejoice with me when something of a blessing happens in my life.
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- Something of a blessing happens in my life. but then you have other
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- Happens in my life. but then you have other friends that you can tell
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- But then you have other friends that you can tell aren't quite as happy for
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- Friends that you can tell aren't quite as happy for you as you'd like 'em to be.
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- Aren't quite as happy for you as you'd like 'em to be. and i know one girl that
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- You as you'd like 'em to be. and i know one girl that i used to spend quite a bit
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- And i know one girl that i used to spend quite a bit of time with, she's kind of not
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- I used to spend quite a bit of time with, she's kind of not in my life now, but she--
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- Of time with, she's kind of not in my life now, but she-- when i would get blessed,
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- In my life now, but she-- when i would get blessed, she would say, "well,
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- When i would get blessed, she would say, "well, i'll be glad when god does
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- She would say, "well, i'll be glad when god does something like that for me."
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- I'll be glad when god does something like that for me." well, you know, that's
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- Something like that for me." well, you know, that's not a very nice thing
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- Well, you know, that's not a very nice thing to say to somebody.
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- Not a very nice thing to say to somebody. we should rejoice when
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- To say to somebody. we should rejoice when other people rejoice.
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- We should rejoice when other people rejoice. and there's a lot of jealousy
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- Other people rejoice. and there's a lot of jealousy sometimes in families
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- And there's a lot of jealousy sometimes in families between siblings.
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- Sometimes in families between siblings. and i think that jealousy
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- Between siblings. and i think that jealousy is one of those, what i call
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- And i think that jealousy is one of those, what i call acceptable sins.
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- Is one of those, what i call acceptable sins. in other words, we've kind
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- Acceptable sins. in other words, we've kind of accepted certain things
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- In other words, we've kind of accepted certain things as being, well, not so bad.
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- Of accepted certain things as being, well, not so bad. you know, somebody brings
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- As being, well, not so bad. you know, somebody brings it up, yes, of course we know
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- You know, somebody brings it up, yes, of course we know we shouldn't do it.
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- It up, yes, of course we know we shouldn't do it. but we do it and just let
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- We shouldn't do it. but we do it and just let it slide and don't think
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- But we do it and just let it slide and don't think too much about it.
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- It slide and don't think too much about it. so today we're gonna
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- Too much about it. so today we're gonna highlight jealousy.
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- So today we're gonna highlight jealousy. and if you have any in your
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- Highlight jealousy. and if you have any in your heart toward anybody,
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- And if you have any in your heart toward anybody, i hope today you'll see
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- Heart toward anybody, i hope today you'll see how foolish it is.
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- I hope today you'll see how foolish it is. my husband got a word
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- How foolish it is. my husband got a word from god one time when
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- My husband got a word from god one time when i was preaching on this,
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- From god one time when i was preaching on this, and he said, "until you can
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- I was preaching on this, and he said, "until you can be happy for the person
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- And he said, "until you can be happy for the person who gets what you want,
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- Be happy for the person who gets what you want, you'll never get yours."
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- >> [audience applauding]
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: think about that.
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- >> joyce: think about that. until you can be happy for
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- Until you can be happy for the person who gets what you
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- The person who gets what you want you'll never get yours.
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- On purpose, god makes sure
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- On purpose, god makes sure that somebody comes across
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- On purpose, god makes sure that somebody comes across your path that has what
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- That somebody comes across your path that has what you want, just to see how
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- Your path that has what you want, just to see how you'll react, to see if you're
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- You want, just to see how you'll react, to see if you're ready for yours or not.
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- You'll react, to see if you're ready for yours or not. so i got a lot of cool things
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- Ready for yours or not. so i got a lot of cool things to share with you today.
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- So i got a lot of cool things to share with you today. first of all, you know we had
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- To share with you today. first of all, you know we had abraham, isaac and jacob.
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- First of all, you know we had abraham, isaac and jacob. jacob being one
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- Abraham, isaac and jacob. jacob being one of the sons of isaac.
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- Jacob being one of the sons of isaac. and laban, who was his uncle,
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- Of the sons of isaac. and laban, who was his uncle, in genesis 29:13-18, it says,
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- And laban, who was his uncle, in genesis 29:13-18, it says, "when laban heard
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- In genesis 29:13-18, it says, "when laban heard of the arrival of jacob
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- "when laban heard of the arrival of jacob his sister's son, he ran
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- Of the arrival of jacob his sister's son, he ran to meet him, and embraced
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- His sister's son, he ran to meet him, and embraced and kissed him and brought
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- To meet him, and embraced and kissed him and brought him to his house.
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- And kissed him and brought him to his house. and [jacob] told laban
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- Him to his house. and [jacob] told laban all kinds of things.
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- And [jacob] told laban all kinds of things. then laban said to him,
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- All kinds of things. then laban said to him, 'surely you are my bone
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- Then laban said to him, 'surely you are my bone and my flesh.'
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- 'surely you are my bone and my flesh.' and [jacob] stayed
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- And my flesh.' and [jacob] stayed with him a month.
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- And [jacob] stayed with him a month. then laban said to jacob,
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- With him a month. then laban said to jacob, 'now just because you're
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- Then laban said to jacob, 'now just because you're my relative, should you
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- 'now just because you're my relative, should you work for me for nothing?
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- My relative, should you work for me for nothing? tell me, what you would
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- Work for me for nothing? tell me, what you would like your wages to be?'
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- Tell me, what you would like your wages to be?' now, laban had two daughters;
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- Like your wages to be?' now, laban had two daughters; the name of the elder
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- Now, laban had two daughters; the name of the elder was leah and the name
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- The name of the elder was leah and the name of the younger was rachel.
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- Was leah and the name of the younger was rachel. and leah's eyes were weak
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- Of the younger was rachel. and leah's eyes were weak and dull looking, but rachel
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- And leah's eyes were weak and dull looking, but rachel was beautiful and attractive."
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- And dull looking, but rachel was beautiful and attractive." i think that's a nice way
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- Was beautiful and attractive." i think that's a nice way of saying leah wasn't
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- I think that's a nice way of saying leah wasn't very pretty.
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- Of saying leah wasn't very pretty. >> [audience laughing]
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- Very pretty. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: so right there
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: so right there you've got an open door
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- >> joyce: so right there you've got an open door for jealousy unless people
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- You've got an open door for jealousy unless people are spiritual enough to keep
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- For jealousy unless people are spiritual enough to keep it out of their life.
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- Are spiritual enough to keep it out of their life. so you have rachel,
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- It out of their life. so you have rachel, who's beautiful, and leah,
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- So you have rachel, who's beautiful, and leah, who's not so good looking.
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- Who's beautiful, and leah, who's not so good looking. "and jacob loved rachel;
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- Who's not so good looking. "and jacob loved rachel; so he said, 'i will work for you
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- "and jacob loved rachel; so he said, 'i will work for you for seven years for rachel
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- So he said, 'i will work for you for seven years for rachel your youngest daughter.'"
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- For seven years for rachel your youngest daughter.'" "and when the lord saw that
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- Your youngest daughter.'" "and when the lord saw that leah was despised, he made
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- "and when the lord saw that leah was despised, he made her able to bear children,
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- Leah was despised, he made her able to bear children, but rachel was barren."
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- I like to say that everybody
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- I like to say that everybody gets something, but nobody
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- I like to say that everybody gets something, but nobody gets everything.
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- Gets something, but nobody gets everything. >> [audience applauding]
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- Gets everything. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: leah wasn't so pretty,
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: leah wasn't so pretty, but she could bear children.
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- >> joyce: leah wasn't so pretty, but she could bear children. rachel was beautiful,
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- But she could bear children. rachel was beautiful, she could not bear children.
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- Rachel was beautiful, she could not bear children. and in those days, bearing
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- She could not bear children. and in those days, bearing children was way, way, way
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- And in those days, bearing children was way, way, way more important than it is today.
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- And so whole bunch of stuff
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- And so whole bunch of stuff goes on and jacob works
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- And so whole bunch of stuff goes on and jacob works his seven years, and then
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- Goes on and jacob works his seven years, and then it was time for their wedding.
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- His seven years, and then it was time for their wedding. and they got jacob drunk
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- It was time for their wedding. and they got jacob drunk and put leah in his tent
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- And they got jacob drunk and put leah in his tent with him.
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- And put leah in his tent with him. and of course, he had
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- With him. and of course, he had intercourse with her
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- And of course, he had intercourse with her that night, the bible says.
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- Intercourse with her that night, the bible says. and woke up the next morning,
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- That night, the bible says. and woke up the next morning, and here leah's in bed
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- And woke up the next morning, and here leah's in bed with him, and he's like,
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- And here leah's in bed with him, and he's like, "you cheated me."
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- With him, and he's like, "you cheated me." well, first of all,
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- "you cheated me." well, first of all, i think jacob forgot how
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- Well, first of all, i think jacob forgot how he cheated his brother.
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- I think jacob forgot how he cheated his brother. stole his birthright.
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- He cheated his brother. stole his birthright. see, sometimes we're just
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- Stole his birthright. see, sometimes we're just getting back what we gave
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- See, sometimes we're just getting back what we gave to somebody else,
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- Getting back what we gave to somebody else, but we forget that we did that.
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- To somebody else, but we forget that we did that. and so then he said,
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- But we forget that we did that. and so then he said, "i'll also let you have rachel
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- And so then he said, "i'll also let you have rachel if you'll work for me
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- "i'll also let you have rachel if you'll work for me another seven years."
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- If you'll work for me another seven years." but he got to have rachel
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- Another seven years." but he got to have rachel while he was working
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- But he got to have rachel while he was working those seven years.
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- While he was working those seven years. so now he had two wives,
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- Those seven years. so now he had two wives, leah and rachel.
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- So now he had two wives, leah and rachel. and leah just kept having
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- Leah and rachel. and leah just kept having baby after baby.
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- And leah just kept having baby after baby. and rachel kept not having
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- Baby after baby. and rachel kept not having any children at all.
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- And rachel kept not having any children at all. and then rachel came--
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- Any children at all. and then rachel came-- leah came to a time where
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- And then rachel came-- leah came to a time where she was not bearing, so she
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- Leah came to a time where she was not bearing, so she gave her handmaiden to jacob.
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- She was not bearing, so she gave her handmaiden to jacob. and rachel, at one point gave
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- Gave her handmaiden to jacob. and rachel, at one point gave her handmaiden to jacob.
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- And rachel, at one point gave her handmaiden to jacob. and i noticed that these men
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- Her handmaiden to jacob. and i noticed that these men whose women gave them
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- And i noticed that these men whose women gave them other wives, they didn't
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- Turn them down.
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- Turn them down. >> [audience laughing]
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- Turn them down. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and so, i don't think
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and so, i don't think it's too smart to give your
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- >> joyce: and so, i don't think it's too smart to give your husband a second wife.
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- It's too smart to give your husband a second wife. i'm not gonna do that.
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- Husband a second wife. i'm not gonna do that. but i would hope, even
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- I'm not gonna do that. but i would hope, even if i tried to, that he'd say,
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- But i would hope, even if i tried to, that he'd say, "no, lady, you're crazy.
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- If i tried to, that he'd say, "no, lady, you're crazy. i don't want that."
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- "no, lady, you're crazy. i don't want that." >> [audience laughing]
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- >> joyce: but none
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- >> joyce: but none of them did that.
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- >> joyce: but none of them did that. they just took it.
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- Of them did that. they just took it. and then in genesis 30,
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- They just took it. and then in genesis 30, verse 22, it says,
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- And then in genesis 30, verse 22, it says, "then god remembered rachel."
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- Verse 22, it says, "then god remembered rachel." thank god that even when
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- "then god remembered rachel." thank god that even when he forgets us for a while,
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- Thank god that even when he forgets us for a while, he remembers us at some point.
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- He forgets us for a while, he remembers us at some point. "and answered her pleading
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- He remembers us at some point. "and answered her pleading and made it possible
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- "and answered her pleading and made it possible for her to have children.
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- And made it possible for her to have children. and [now for the first time]
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- For her to have children. and [now for the first time] she became pregnant and bore
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- And [now for the first time] she became pregnant and bore a son; and she said, 'god has
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- She became pregnant and bore a son; and she said, 'god has taken away my reproach,
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- A son; and she said, 'god has taken away my reproach, disgrace and humiliation.'
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- Taken away my reproach, disgrace and humiliation.' and she called his name
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- Disgrace and humiliation.' and she called his name joseph [which means may he add]
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- And she called his name joseph [which means may he add] and said, 'may the lord add
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- Joseph [which means may he add] and said, 'may the lord add to me another son.'"
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- And so we see a situation there
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- And so we see a situation there where they could've really
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- And so we see a situation there where they could've really been unhappy and miserable.
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- Where they could've really been unhappy and miserable. and i don't know whether
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- Been unhappy and miserable. and i don't know whether they were or they weren't,
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- And i don't know whether they were or they weren't, but they were people.
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- They were or they weren't, but they were people. so i would imagine there
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- But they were people. so i would imagine there was a little bit of...
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- So i would imagine there was a little bit of... "nyah, nyah, nyah, nyah, nyah, "
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- Was a little bit of... "nyah, nyah, nyah, nyah, nyah, " between them.
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- "nyah, nyah, nyah, nyah, nyah, " between them. so we wanna try to keep
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- Between them. so we wanna try to keep jealousy out of our life.
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- So we wanna try to keep jealousy out of our life. the bible says,
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- Jealousy out of our life. the bible says, "jealousy rots the bones."
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- The bible says, "jealousy rots the bones." yuck!
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- There was noah in the bible
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- There was noah in the bible and there was abraham, and they
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- There was noah in the bible and there was abraham, and they both made covenants with god.
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- And there was abraham, and they both made covenants with god. the bible talks about how noah
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- Both made covenants with god. the bible talks about how noah built this ark, which took
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- The bible talks about how noah built this ark, which took him somewhere between
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- Built this ark, which took him somewhere between 50 and 75 years to build.
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- Him somewhere between 50 and 75 years to build. and just imagine for 75 years
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- 50 and 75 years to build. and just imagine for 75 years having everybody laugh at you
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- And just imagine for 75 years having everybody laugh at you and think you're nuts.
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- Having everybody laugh at you and think you're nuts. and then they had the flood.
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- And think you're nuts. and then they had the flood. and noah lived his life,
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- And then they had the flood. and noah lived his life, did whatever he did.
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- And noah lived his life, did whatever he did. and abraham may have
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- Did whatever he did. and abraham may have been alive for a few
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- And abraham may have been alive for a few years of noah's life.
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- Been alive for a few years of noah's life. it's funny, all the experts,
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- Years of noah's life. it's funny, all the experts, you try to find out
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- It's funny, all the experts, you try to find out what's right, and one
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- You try to find out what's right, and one says he was alive,
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- What's right, and one says he was alive, one says he wasn't alive.
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- Says he was alive, one says he wasn't alive. anyway, we know that they
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- One says he wasn't alive. anyway, we know that they both lived, and at some point
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- Anyway, we know that they both lived, and at some point they both died, but god
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- Both lived, and at some point they both died, but god made a covenant with them.
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- And he used different things
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- And he used different things to seal the covenant.
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- And he used different things to seal the covenant. with noah, he gave
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- To seal the covenant. with noah, he gave him a rainbow.
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- With noah, he gave him a rainbow. and i'm sure noah was ready
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- Him a rainbow. and i'm sure noah was ready for a rainbow day
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- And i'm sure noah was ready for a rainbow day after all he went through.
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- For a rainbow day after all he went through. how many of you would love
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- To have a rainbow day?
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- To have a rainbow day? we probably all feel like
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- To have a rainbow day? we probably all feel like we're due for one, right?
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- We probably all feel like we're due for one, right? but then you come to abraham,
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- We're due for one, right? but then you come to abraham, who also had really gone
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- But then you come to abraham, who also had really gone through a lot of stuff:
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- Who also had really gone through a lot of stuff: left his home, take everything
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- Through a lot of stuff: left his home, take everything you know, go away from
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- Left his home, take everything you know, go away from everybody you know,
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- You know, go away from everybody you know, to a land that i will show you.
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- Everybody you know, to a land that i will show you. well, i don't know that
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- To a land that i will show you. well, i don't know that i would've taken that deal.
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- Well, i don't know that i would've taken that deal. i would have said,
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- I would've taken that deal. i would have said, "show me, and then i'll go."
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- I would have said, "show me, and then i'll go." >> [audience laughing]
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- "show me, and then i'll go." >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: but god
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: but god often does that to us.
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- You know, he--we start out
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- You know, he--we start out towards something that we're
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- You know, he--we start out towards something that we're not sure of, but we feel that's
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- Towards something that we're not sure of, but we feel that's what god wants us to do.
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- Not sure of, but we feel that's what god wants us to do. and god made a covenant
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- What god wants us to do. and god made a covenant with abraham, and he sealed
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- And god made a covenant with abraham, and he sealed it with a circumcision.
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- With abraham, and he sealed it with a circumcision. now, which would you
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- It with a circumcision. now, which would you rather have?
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- >> [audience laughing]
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i doubt that abraham
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: i doubt that abraham was really too popular
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- >> joyce: i doubt that abraham was really too popular that day with the guys.
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- Was really too popular that day with the guys. i think it's funny because
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- That day with the guys. i think it's funny because you have two completely
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- I think it's funny because you have two completely different scenarios here.
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- You have two completely different scenarios here. and abraham, there's no evidence
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- Different scenarios here. and abraham, there's no evidence that he knew noah, but i'm sure
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- And abraham, there's no evidence that he knew noah, but i'm sure he had heard the story of noah
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- That he knew noah, but i'm sure he had heard the story of noah and the rainbow.
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- He had heard the story of noah and the rainbow. and he knew it was true
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- And the rainbow. and he knew it was true because we all still
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- And he knew it was true because we all still get to see rainbows.
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- Because we all still get to see rainbows. and surely abraham
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- Get to see rainbows. and surely abraham saw a rainbow.
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- And surely abraham saw a rainbow. so i wonder what he thought
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- Saw a rainbow. so i wonder what he thought when he thought about how
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- So i wonder what he thought when he thought about how noah's covenant was sealed
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- When he thought about how noah's covenant was sealed with a rainbow, but god
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- Noah's covenant was sealed with a rainbow, but god sealed his with a circumcision.
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- With a rainbow, but god sealed his with a circumcision. why circumcision?
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- Sealed his with a circumcision. why circumcision? because it meant the cutting
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- Why circumcision? because it meant the cutting back of the flesh.
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- Because it meant the cutting back of the flesh. and god was telling him
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- Back of the flesh. and god was telling him it was time to stop walking
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- And god was telling him it was time to stop walking in the flesh and to begin
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- It was time to stop walking in the flesh and to begin to walk in the spirit.
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- It was a good day for noah
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- It was a good day for noah when he got that rainbow.
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- It was a good day for noah when he got that rainbow. it wasn't such a good day
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- When he got that rainbow. it wasn't such a good day for abraham when he got
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- A circumcision.
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- A circumcision. i'm sure maybe he thought,
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- A circumcision. i'm sure maybe he thought, "this isn't fair.
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- I'm sure maybe he thought, "this isn't fair. noah got a rainbow.
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- "this isn't fair. noah got a rainbow. i not only got a circumcision,
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- Noah got a rainbow. i not only got a circumcision, now i have to circumcise
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- I not only got a circumcision, now i have to circumcise every other man in the camp."
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- Now i have to circumcise every other man in the camp." well, how do we respond when
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- Every other man in the camp." well, how do we respond when difficulty comes our way
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- Well, how do we respond when difficulty comes our way and other people we know
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- Difficulty comes our way and other people we know are being blessed?
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- And other people we know are being blessed? and you don't have
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- Are being blessed? and you don't have to look so innocent.
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- And you don't have to look so innocent. it's tough sometimes when
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- To look so innocent. it's tough sometimes when you just keep having trouble
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- It's tough sometimes when you just keep having trouble after trouble after trouble,
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- You just keep having trouble after trouble after trouble, and your friend comes and tells
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- After trouble after trouble, and your friend comes and tells you how blessed they are.
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- And your friend comes and tells you how blessed they are. sometimes you wanna be happy
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- You how blessed they are. sometimes you wanna be happy for them, but you just can't
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- Sometimes you wanna be happy for them, but you just can't find it in you to do it.
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- For them, but you just can't find it in you to do it. i remember back before
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- Find it in you to do it. i remember back before my ministry really ever
- 00:13:17.942 --> 00:13:18.977
- I remember back before my ministry really ever got started, i was working
- 00:13:19.043 --> 00:13:22.146
- My ministry really ever got started, i was working at a church and i did have
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- Got started, i was working at a church and i did have a weekly women's there that
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- At a church and i did have a weekly women's there that ultimately was very blessed.
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- A weekly women's there that ultimately was very blessed. but i was believing for such
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- Ultimately was very blessed. but i was believing for such great things and big things.
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- But i was believing for such great things and big things. and i had quit my job
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- Great things and big things. and i had quit my job to study for ministry.
- 00:13:37.662 --> 00:13:39.030
- And i had quit my job to study for ministry. and every month
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- To study for ministry. and every month we needed $40 to just
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- And every month we needed $40 to just be able to pay our bills.
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- We needed $40 to just be able to pay our bills. we had to have a miracle
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- Be able to pay our bills. we had to have a miracle every month, every month.
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- We had to have a miracle every month, every month. and every month for six years
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- Every month, every month. and every month for six years god gave us a miracle.
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- >> [audience applauding]
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and sometimes,
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and sometimes, a lot of times people would
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- >> joyce: and sometimes, a lot of times people would just walk up to us in church
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- A lot of times people would just walk up to us in church and say, "here, god told
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- Just walk up to us in church and say, "here, god told me to give this to you."
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- And say, "here, god told me to give this to you." and they'd give us some money.
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- Me to give this to you." and they'd give us some money. we got, one time we got a refund
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- And they'd give us some money. we got, one time we got a refund on our utility bill, and just--
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- We got, one time we got a refund on our utility bill, and just-- god would always do something.
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- On our utility bill, and just-- god would always do something. there was always something
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- God would always do something. there was always something that he would do.
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- There was always something that he would do. but, you know, i was tired
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- That he would do. but, you know, i was tired of living hand to mouth
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- But, you know, i was tired of living hand to mouth and never, you know, i had
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- Of living hand to mouth and never, you know, i had to go for anything extra,
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- And never, you know, i had to go for anything extra, i went to garage sales
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- To go for anything extra, i went to garage sales to get my kids clothes
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- I went to garage sales to get my kids clothes and shoes and believed god.
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- To get my kids clothes and shoes and believed god. and i didn't understand
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- And shoes and believed god. and i didn't understand why all that was happening.
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- And i didn't understand why all that was happening. i didn't understand it at all.
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- But you know, needing to believe
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- But you know, needing to believe god for that miracle over
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- But you know, needing to believe god for that miracle over that period of time, and seeing
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- God for that miracle over that period of time, and seeing him do that, i believe is what
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- That period of time, and seeing him do that, i believe is what gives us the faith for
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- Him do that, i believe is what gives us the faith for what we need now.
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- Gives us the faith for what we need now. and a lot of times you're
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- What we need now. and a lot of times you're going through a hard place
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- And a lot of times you're going through a hard place and you don't understand it.
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- Going through a hard place and you don't understand it. but i always say we live life
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- And you don't understand it. but i always say we live life forward and we understand
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- But i always say we live life forward and we understand it backward.
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- Forward and we understand it backward. how many things do you
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- It backward. how many things do you understand now, about something
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- How many things do you understand now, about something you went through previously
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- Understand now, about something you went through previously that you didn't get at all then?
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- You went through previously that you didn't get at all then? okay.
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- That you didn't get at all then? okay. and you know, the rest of you
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- Okay. and you know, the rest of you that are going through
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- And you know, the rest of you that are going through something, the same thing
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- That are going through something, the same thing will probably happen to you.
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- Something, the same thing will probably happen to you. we often wanna be used by god,
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- Will probably happen to you. we often wanna be used by god, but we don't wanna be prepared
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- We often wanna be used by god, but we don't wanna be prepared to be used by god.
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- But we don't wanna be prepared to be used by god. and so you better
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- To be used by god. and so you better be careful when you're
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- And so you better be careful when you're jealous of somebody else's
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- Be careful when you're jealous of somebody else's position because you
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- Jealous of somebody else's position because you may not wanna do what
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- Position because you may not wanna do what they did to get it.
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- May not wanna do what they did to get it. >> [audience applauding]
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- They did to get it. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: that's why it's very
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: that's why it's very silly to be jealous of what
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- >> joyce: that's why it's very silly to be jealous of what somebody else has got.
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- Silly to be jealous of what somebody else has got. because nobody gets
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- Somebody else has got. because nobody gets anything without paying
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- Because nobody gets anything without paying some kind of price.
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- Anything without paying some kind of price. there's a price to pay for what
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- Some kind of price. there's a price to pay for what the osteen family does.
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- There's a price to pay for what the osteen family does. there's a price to pay
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- The osteen family does. there's a price to pay for what i do.
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- There's a price to pay for what i do. i've been in ministry 50 years
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- For what i do. i've been in ministry 50 years and it's been the greatest
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- I've been in ministry 50 years and it's been the greatest privilege of my life.
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- And it's been the greatest privilege of my life. i've taught the word
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- Privilege of my life. i've taught the word for 50 years.
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- I've taught the word for 50 years. >> [audience applauding]
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- For 50 years. >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and i still love it,
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and i still love it, still love it and plan to do it,
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- >> joyce: and i still love it, still love it and plan to do it, until i can't move anymore.
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- Still love it and plan to do it, until i can't move anymore. but there's been
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- Until i can't move anymore. but there's been a lot of sacrifices.
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- But there's been a lot of sacrifices. you get--people tell lies
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- A lot of sacrifices. you get--people tell lies about you and put 'em online.
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- You get--people tell lies about you and put 'em online. and it seems like it's always
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- About you and put 'em online. and it seems like it's always the people that are succeeding
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- And it seems like it's always the people that are succeeding that the media picks on.
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- The people that are succeeding that the media picks on. very often you'll find
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- That the media picks on. very often you'll find joel and i linked
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- Very often you'll find joel and i linked together in articles.
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- Joel and i linked together in articles. there's always about
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- Together in articles. there's always about three of us.
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- There's always about three of us. and it's like we're false
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- Three of us. and it's like we're false teachers and we're this,
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- And it's like we're false teachers and we're this, and we're that, and we're
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- Teachers and we're this, and we're that, and we're something else.
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- And we're that, and we're something else. and all we're really trying
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- Something else. and all we're really trying to do is help people.
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- And all we're really trying to do is help people. and it's somebody
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- To do is help people. and it's somebody that's jealous...
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- And it's somebody that's jealous... >> [audience applauding]
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- That's jealous... >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: all it is, is somebody
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: all it is, is somebody that's jealous of your success
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- >> joyce: all it is, is somebody that's jealous of your success that wants to judge you
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- That's jealous of your success that wants to judge you for what you're doing
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- That wants to judge you for what you're doing while they're doing nothing.
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- For what you're doing while they're doing nothing. amen?
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- While they're doing nothing. amen? >> [audience applauding]
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- Amen? >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and so instead
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- >> [audience applauding] >> joyce: and so instead of getting mad at 'em, we really
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- >> joyce: and so instead of getting mad at 'em, we really just need to pray for 'em.
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- Of getting mad at 'em, we really just need to pray for 'em. doesn't do any good to get mad
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- Just need to pray for 'em. doesn't do any good to get mad at somebody that's an idiot?
- 00:17:09.740 --> 00:17:12.810
- Doesn't do any good to get mad at somebody that's an idiot? >> [audience laughing]
- 00:17:12.877 --> 00:17:14.812
- At somebody that's an idiot? >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: well, really, i mean,
- 00:17:14.879 --> 00:17:16.013
- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: well, really, i mean, when you sit and talk about
- 00:17:16.080 --> 00:17:18.416
- >> joyce: well, really, i mean, when you sit and talk about or write about things you don't
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- When you sit and talk about or write about things you don't know anything about, really you
- 00:17:19.884 --> 00:17:22.153
- Or write about things you don't know anything about, really you don't know anything about.
- 00:17:22.220 --> 00:17:24.255
- Know anything about, really you don't know anything about. that's a dangerous thing.
- 00:17:24.322 --> 00:17:27.592
- So anyway, i was at this place
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- So anyway, i was at this place where i was really needing
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- So anyway, i was at this place where i was really needing a breakthrough.
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- Where i was really needing a breakthrough. and my pastor came by one day
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- A breakthrough. and my pastor came by one day and he'd just come back
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- And my pastor came by one day and he'd just come back from a big conference
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- And he'd just come back from a big conference that he'd been invited to.
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- From a big conference that he'd been invited to. and i would've given anything
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- That he'd been invited to. and i would've given anything to have been invited anywhere
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- And i would've given anything to have been invited anywhere at that time.
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- To have been invited anywhere at that time. and he was so excited.
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- At that time. and he was so excited. and, oh, they'd given him
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- And he was so excited. and, oh, they'd given him a big offering and he was
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- And, oh, they'd given him a big offering and he was excited about that.
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- A big offering and he was excited about that. and four people came up to him
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- Excited about that. and four people came up to him and said they wanted to partner
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- And four people came up to him and said they wanted to partner with his ministry.
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- And said they wanted to partner with his ministry. and he was excited about that.
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- With his ministry. and he was excited about that. and all of a sudden he looked
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- And he was excited about that. and all of a sudden he looked at me and he said, "is it okay
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- And all of a sudden he looked at me and he said, "is it okay that i'm telling you this?"
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- At me and he said, "is it okay that i'm telling you this?" i said, "oh, yes, yes,
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- Praise the lord!
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- Praise the lord! very happy for you."
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- Praise the lord! very happy for you." i'm thinking, "get out of here."
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- Very happy for you." i'm thinking, "get out of here." >> [audience laughing]
- 00:18:15.640 --> 00:18:18.409
- I'm thinking, "get out of here." >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and so when he left,
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and so when he left, i threw myself across
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- >> joyce: and so when he left, i threw myself across my daughter's bed and i cried
- 00:18:21.179 --> 00:18:23.114
- I threw myself across my daughter's bed and i cried and cried and cried.
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- My daughter's bed and i cried and cried and cried. but i told god then i said,
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- And cried and cried. but i told god then i said, "no matter how much,
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- But i told god then i said, "no matter how much, no matter how long,
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- "no matter how much, no matter how long, we need $40 a month
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- No matter how long, we need $40 a month to pay our bills, we are gonna
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- We need $40 a month to pay our bills, we are gonna keep tithing and giving like
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- To pay our bills, we are gonna keep tithing and giving like you tell us to, whether you
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- Keep tithing and giving like you tell us to, whether you ever do anything or not."
- 00:18:38.196 --> 00:18:42.066
- You tell us to, whether you ever do anything or not." and, you know, from that day
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- Ever do anything or not." and, you know, from that day forward, we began to prosper
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- And, you know, from that day forward, we began to prosper and come out of that.
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- Forward, we began to prosper and come out of that. and so there might be a few
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- And come out of that. and so there might be a few tests that you'll have to pass.
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- And so there might be a few tests that you'll have to pass. everybody like tests?
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- Tests that you'll have to pass. everybody like tests? we get 'em.
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- Everybody like tests? we get 'em. our faith gets tested.
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- We get 'em. our faith gets tested. and a lot of times right before
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- Our faith gets tested. and a lot of times right before god's gonna promote you,
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- And a lot of times right before god's gonna promote you, you'll get tested.
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- God's gonna promote you, you'll get tested. stay stable, stay solid.
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- You'll get tested. stay stable, stay solid. that's what god's looking for.
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- Stay stable, stay solid. that's what god's looking for. what about if your church has
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- That's what god's looking for. what about if your church has averaged 200 people forever,
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- What about if your church has averaged 200 people forever, and a new guy comes to town
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- Averaged 200 people forever, and a new guy comes to town and in four months
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- And a new guy comes to town and in four months he's got 1,000 people?
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- And in four months he's got 1,000 people? can you be happy for him?
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- He's got 1,000 people? can you be happy for him? well, what we should do,
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- Can you be happy for him? well, what we should do, is buy him a new sound system
- 00:19:30.181 --> 00:19:31.549
- Well, what we should do, is buy him a new sound system and send it to him.
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- Is buy him a new sound system and send it to him. there's a way to fight back.
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- And send it to him. there's a way to fight back. there's a way to fight
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- There's a way to fight back. there's a way to fight back against jealousy
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- There's a way to fight back against jealousy and envy and greed.
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- Back against jealousy and envy and greed. you just purposely do something
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- And envy and greed. you just purposely do something generous and it breaks the power
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- You just purposely do something generous and it breaks the power of that wicked spirit.
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- Generous and it breaks the power of that wicked spirit. what do you say about him,
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- Of that wicked spirit. what do you say about him, when other people are
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- What do you say about him, when other people are talking bad about him?
- 00:19:56.607 --> 00:19:57.742
- When other people are talking bad about him? do you say something good
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- Talking bad about him? do you say something good to kind of turn it around?
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- Do you say something good to kind of turn it around? have you reached out
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- To kind of turn it around? have you reached out in friendship to the guy?
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- Have you reached out in friendship to the guy? now, i know none of you may
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- In friendship to the guy? now, i know none of you may be in this particular situation,
- 00:20:07.018 --> 00:20:08.686
- Now, i know none of you may be in this particular situation, but i'm just making up stories
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- Be in this particular situation, but i'm just making up stories that you can relate to.
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- But i'm just making up stories that you can relate to. see, sometimes we're jealous,
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- That you can relate to. see, sometimes we're jealous, and we don't even realize we're
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- See, sometimes we're jealous, and we don't even realize we're jealous, because we don't even
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- And we don't even realize we're jealous, because we don't even pay attention to what's coming
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- Jealous, because we don't even pay attention to what's coming out of our mouth or our attitude
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- Pay attention to what's coming out of our mouth or our attitude toward that person.
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- Out of our mouth or our attitude toward that person. wonder how many people are
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- Toward that person. wonder how many people are in here today who have a sibling
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- Wonder how many people are in here today who have a sibling that you're jealous of?
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- In here today who have a sibling that you're jealous of? i would ask for a show of hands,
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- That you're jealous of? i would ask for a show of hands, but i don't wanna embarrass you.
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- I would ask for a show of hands, but i don't wanna embarrass you. >> [audience laughing]
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- But i don't wanna embarrass you. >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: that very often
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: that very often happens in families.
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- >> joyce: that very often happens in families. one was great at sports,
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- Happens in families. one was great at sports, and one didn't even have
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- One was great at sports, and one didn't even have coordination or balance.
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- And one didn't even have coordination or balance. one had a great singing voice,
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- Coordination or balance. one had a great singing voice, and the other one couldn't
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- One had a great singing voice, and the other one couldn't do anything.
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- And the other one couldn't do anything. one was extremely smart and
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- Do anything. one was extremely smart and the other one not so smart.
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- One was extremely smart and the other one not so smart. one got married and happened
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- The other one not so smart. one got married and happened to marry somebody that was
- 00:20:56.000 --> 00:20:56.834
- One got married and happened to marry somebody that was really rich, and so now they've
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- To marry somebody that was really rich, and so now they've got everything, and you're
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- Really rich, and so now they've got everything, and you're just living a normal life
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- Got everything, and you're just living a normal life and you let jealousy set in.
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- Just living a normal life and you let jealousy set in. you know, jealousy really
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- And you let jealousy set in. you know, jealousy really doesn't hurt the other people,
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- You know, jealousy really doesn't hurt the other people, but it eats at you.
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- Doesn't hurt the other people, but it eats at you. it eats at your life.
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- But it eats at you. it eats at your life. it eats away at your joy.
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- It eats at your life. it eats away at your joy. it eats away at your peace.
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- It eats away at your joy. it eats away at your peace. and it's just plain not pretty.
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- It eats away at your peace. and it's just plain not pretty. it's an ugly spirit.
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- And it's just plain not pretty. it's an ugly spirit. do you know
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- It's an ugly spirit. do you know the tenth commandment was:
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- Do you know the tenth commandment was: "thou shalt not covet"?
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- The tenth commandment was: "thou shalt not covet"? and that's what
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- "thou shalt not covet"? and that's what we're looking at.
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- And that's what we're looking at. i heard one time that it would
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- We're looking at. i heard one time that it would have been possible for people
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- I heard one time that it would have been possible for people to keep the first nine.
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- Have been possible for people to keep the first nine. they could not murder,
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- To keep the first nine. they could not murder, not steal, not lie.
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- They could not murder, not steal, not lie. but nobody could keep
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- Not steal, not lie. but nobody could keep the 10th one because it's very
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- But nobody could keep the 10th one because it's very challenging, without god,
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- The 10th one because it's very challenging, without god, to not want what somebody
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- Challenging, without god, to not want what somebody else has, especially if you
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- To not want what somebody else has, especially if you don't have much.
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- Else has, especially if you don't have much. and i can imagine how hard
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- Don't have much. and i can imagine how hard it must have been for rachel,
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- And i can imagine how hard it must have been for rachel, when she watched leah
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- It must have been for rachel, when she watched leah have baby after baby.
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- When she watched leah have baby after baby. just think for a minute
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- Have baby after baby. just think for a minute how hard that must have been.
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- Just think for a minute how hard that must have been. or maybe what abraham did think
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- How hard that must have been. or maybe what abraham did think when god sealed his covenant
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- Or maybe what abraham did think when god sealed his covenant with the circumcision.
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- When god sealed his covenant with the circumcision. i mean, that doesn't sound
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- With the circumcision. i mean, that doesn't sound like too much fun.
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- I mean, that doesn't sound like too much fun. i'd rather have a rainbow.
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- Like too much fun. i'd rather have a rainbow. how about you?
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- I'd rather have a rainbow. how about you? what about when your friend
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- How about you? what about when your friend gets the promotion or the
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- What about when your friend gets the promotion or the position that you wanted?
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- Gets the promotion or the position that you wanted? what about when your friend
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- Position that you wanted? what about when your friend loses 30 pounds and she
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- What about when your friend loses 30 pounds and she says all she did was walk
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- Loses 30 pounds and she says all she did was walk and drink water...
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- Says all she did was walk and drink water... >> [audience laughing]
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- And drink water... >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and you've been
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: and you've been starving and you lost 2 pounds?
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- >> joyce: and you've been starving and you lost 2 pounds? i remember one of dave's
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- Starving and you lost 2 pounds? i remember one of dave's sisters, she lost a lot
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- I remember one of dave's sisters, she lost a lot of weight, and i said,
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- Sisters, she lost a lot of weight, and i said, "what have you been doing?"
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- Of weight, and i said, "what have you been doing?" she said, "i just started
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- "what have you been doing?" she said, "i just started walking a mile a day
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- She said, "i just started walking a mile a day and drinking a lot of water."
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- Walking a mile a day and drinking a lot of water." and i thought...
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- And drinking a lot of water." and i thought... >> [audience laughing]
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- And i thought... >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: we need to trust
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- >> [audience laughing] >> joyce: we need to trust god's decisions.
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- >> joyce: we need to trust god's decisions. we say that he's in charge
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- God's decisions. we say that he's in charge of our life.
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- We say that he's in charge of our life. we say, "god, you take control."
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- Of our life. we say, "god, you take control." and then when he does, we don't
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- We say, "god, you take control." and then when he does, we don't always like what he does.
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- And then when he does, we don't always like what he does. god makes the decisions
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- Always like what he does. god makes the decisions and we should remain content.
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- God makes the decisions and we should remain content. ooh, it's so hard to be content,
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- And we should remain content. ooh, it's so hard to be content, isn't it?
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- Ooh, it's so hard to be content, isn't it? all the time.
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- Isn't it? all the time. but that's what god wants.
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- All the time. but that's what god wants. contentment with godliness
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- But that's what god wants. contentment with godliness is joy.
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- >> [cabinet closing]
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- >> [cabinet closing] >> [refrigerator door
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- >> [refrigerator door opening and closing]
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- Opening and closing] >> announcer: as your day
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- >> announcer: as your day begins, your thoughts
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- Begins, your thoughts throughout the day matter.
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- Throughout the day matter. >> [cereal pouring]
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- >> [cereal pouring] >> announcer: and if
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- >> announcer: and if they are negative,
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- They are negative, it could be very--um...
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- It could be very--um... >> [milk plopping]
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- >> [milk plopping] >> announcer: shall we say,
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- >> announcer: shall we say, risky?
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- Risky? but this is exactly what our
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- But this is exactly what our thought life can look like
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- Thought life can look like when it's full of negativity;
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- When it's full of negativity; the nice heaping bowl of trash.
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- >> joyce: you know, it's very
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- >> joyce: you know, it's very important to have a healthy
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- Important to have a healthy spirit, soul, and body.
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- Spirit, soul, and body. believe me,
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- Believe me, i know from experience.
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- I know from experience. early on, my thoughts
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- Early on, my thoughts did not line up with
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- Did not line up with god's word, and i started
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- God's word, and i started to believe the wrong things.
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- To believe the wrong things. it took me a while to learn
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- It took me a while to learn about these negative
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- About these negative thoughts, and how harmful
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- Thoughts, and how harmful they were to me.
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- They were to me. god showed me that there are
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- God showed me that there are thoughts to reject, and healthy
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- Thoughts to reject, and healthy thoughts to embrace.
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- And that's exactly what
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- And that's exactly what i will show you in my book,
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- The power to change every unpleasant circumstance
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- Unpleasant circumstance in our lives, we do have
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- In our lives, we do have the power to change our
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- The power to change our outlook through god's word.
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- >> joyce: boy, you know,
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- >> joyce: boy, you know, in today's world,
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- In today's world, there are many stressors,
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- There are many stressors, so many things to deal
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- How do we navigate all of life's pressures?
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- Well, god's word has much to say about it.
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- Much to say about it. so, i thought we could
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- So, i thought we could all get together with
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- All get together with some of my friends
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- Some of my friends and talk about it.
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- And talk about it.
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- >> announcer: join us
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- >> announcer: join us for the enjoying
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- For the enjoying everyday life
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- Everyday life conference.
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- Conference. a weekend
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- A weekend of practical messages
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- Of practical messages and heartfelt worship
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- And heartfelt worship with joyce
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- With joyce and her guests,
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- And her guests, dr. henry cloud,
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- Dr. henry cloud, nona jones,
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- Nona jones, and worship with
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- And worship with naomi raine,
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- April 10-11, in hershey, pennsylvania.
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- In hershey, pennsylvania. >> joyce: you know,
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- >> joyce: you know, i have such a passion
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- I have such a passion for teaching god's word,
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- For teaching god's word, and it's even better when
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- And it's even better when we all get together
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- We all get together under one roof.
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- Under one roof. so, i really hope
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- So, i really hope to see you there.
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- To see you there.
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- >> [music]
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- >> announcer: we hope you
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- >> announcer: we hope you enjoyed today's program.
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- Enjoyed today's program.
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- We are so grateful
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- We are so grateful to our joyce meyer
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- To our joyce meyer ministries partners
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- Ministries partners who make this
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