Joyce Meyer - Fears to Conquer (Part 1)

January 29, 2026 | 27:29

Bible teacher Joyce Meyer shares timeless scriptural principles to show us how we can embrace the best God has for us each and every day of our lives.

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Joyce Meyer: Enjoying Everyday Life | Joyce Meyer - Fears to Conquer (Part 1) | January 29, 2026
  • >> joyce: some of you may
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  • >> joyce: some of you may be waiting to see if something
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  • >> joyce: some of you may be waiting to see if something good is going to happen.
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  • Be waiting to see if something good is going to happen. but i wonder how many
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  • Good is going to happen. but i wonder how many of you are actually
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  • But i wonder how many of you are actually aggressively expecting,
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  • Of you are actually aggressively expecting, something good to happen.
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  • >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer,
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  • >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer, and i believe that god can heal
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  • >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer, and i believe that god can heal you everywhere you hurt.
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  • >> joyce: you know, today,
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  • >> joyce: you know, today, in our society,
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  • >> joyce: you know, today, in our society, there's so many things going
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  • In our society, there's so many things going on that can make people afraid,
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  • There's so many things going on that can make people afraid, and god really wants
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  • On that can make people afraid, and god really wants you to enjoy your life.
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  • And god really wants you to enjoy your life. i love john 10:10: "the thief
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  • You to enjoy your life. i love john 10:10: "the thief comes only to kill, steal,
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  • I love john 10:10: "the thief comes only to kill, steal, and destroy."
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  • Comes only to kill, steal, and destroy." but jesus said, "i came that
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  • And destroy." but jesus said, "i came that you might have,
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  • But jesus said, "i came that you might have, and enjoy your life.
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  • You might have, and enjoy your life. have it in the full abundantly
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  • And enjoy your life. have it in the full abundantly until it overflows."
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  • Have it in the full abundantly until it overflows." and so, are you enjoying
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  • Until it overflows." and so, are you enjoying your life?
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  • And so, are you enjoying your life? would you say that,
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  • Your life? would you say that, at least 90% of the time
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  • Would you say that, at least 90% of the time you really enjoy your life?
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  • At least 90% of the time you really enjoy your life? i believe it's one of the ways
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  • You really enjoy your life? i believe it's one of the ways that we glorify god
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  • I believe it's one of the ways that we glorify god by enjoying him, and enjoying
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  • That we glorify god by enjoying him, and enjoying what he's given us.
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  • By enjoying him, and enjoying what he's given us. but, one of the things that
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  • What he's given us. but, one of the things that will prevent joy is fear.
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  • But, one of the things that will prevent joy is fear. and in the world that
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  • Will prevent joy is fear. and in the world that we live in today,
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  • And in the world that we live in today, there are many, many, many
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  • We live in today, there are many, many, many opportunities to be afraid.
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  • There are many, many, many opportunities to be afraid. certainly, we read or look
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  • Opportunities to be afraid. certainly, we read or look at the news and it's just
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  • Certainly, we read or look at the news and it's just one bad thing after another.
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  • It seems like most people
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  • It seems like most people that you try to talk to,
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  • It seems like most people that you try to talk to, they wanna talk about
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  • That you try to talk to, they wanna talk about all the problems in the world.
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  • They wanna talk about all the problems in the world. and i know we have problems
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  • All the problems in the world. and i know we have problems and we can't ignore them,
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  • And i know we have problems and we can't ignore them, can't stick our head
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  • And we can't ignore them, can't stick our head in the sand,
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  • Can't stick our head in the sand, but we also have god!
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  • In the sand, but we also have god! come on ladies,
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  • But we also have god! come on ladies, i want all of you to say,
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  • Come on ladies, i want all of you to say, "we also have god!"
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  • I want all of you to say, "we also have god!" and you know what?
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  • "we also have god!" and you know what? god is greater than any problem,
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  • And you know what? god is greater than any problem, he's greater than
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  • God is greater than any problem, he's greater than all the problems in the world,
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  • He's greater than all the problems in the world, all put together.
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  • All the problems in the world, all put together. god is greater than, i mean,
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  • All put together. god is greater than, i mean, hopefully there are thousands
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  • God is greater than, i mean, hopefully there are thousands and thousands of people
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  • Hopefully there are thousands and thousands of people watching right now.
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  • And thousands of people watching right now. and if you put all your
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  • Watching right now. and if you put all your problems together,
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  • And if you put all your problems together, god is greater than
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  • Problems together, god is greater than all of those problems.
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  • God is greater than all of those problems. and he wants to set
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  • All of those problems. and he wants to set us free from fear.
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  • And he wants to set us free from fear. now being set free from fear,
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  • Us free from fear. now being set free from fear, doesn't mean that you never
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  • Now being set free from fear, doesn't mean that you never feel fear, it just means that
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  • Doesn't mean that you never feel fear, it just means that you don't let fear control you.
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  • Feel fear, it just means that you don't let fear control you. you learn to do what you
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  • You don't let fear control you. you learn to do what you believe god wants you to do,
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  • You learn to do what you believe god wants you to do, or you learn to do what's
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  • Believe god wants you to do, or you learn to do what's really in your heart to do,
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  • Or you learn to do what's really in your heart to do, even if you have to do it while
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  • Really in your heart to do, even if you have to do it while you do feel a little bit
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  • Even if you have to do it while you do feel a little bit of fear.
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  • You do feel a little bit of fear. courage is actually
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  • Of fear. courage is actually going forward
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  • Courage is actually going forward in the presence of fear,
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  • Going forward in the presence of fear, it's not the absence of fear.
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  • In the presence of fear, it's not the absence of fear. and the word fear,
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  • It's not the absence of fear. and the word fear, really means to run away from,
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  • And the word fear, really means to run away from, to take flight,
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  • Really means to run away from, to take flight, or to run away from.
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  • To take flight, or to run away from. and there's a lot
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  • Or to run away from. and there's a lot of different kinds of fears.
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  • And there's a lot of different kinds of fears. and so, i thought tonight
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  • Of different kinds of fears. and so, i thought tonight what i might like to do is just
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  • And so, i thought tonight what i might like to do is just talk to you about,
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  • What i might like to do is just talk to you about, a variety of different kinds
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  • Talk to you about, a variety of different kinds of fears that we can
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  • A variety of different kinds of fears that we can focus on conquering.
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  • Of fears that we can focus on conquering. and i know that,
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  • Focus on conquering. and i know that, out of all the things
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  • And i know that, out of all the things i'm going to talk about,
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  • Out of all the things i'm going to talk about, there surely will be two,
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  • I'm going to talk about, there surely will be two, or three, or four of the things
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  • There surely will be two, or three, or four of the things that you really need.
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  • Or three, or four of the things that you really need. and some of you may say
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  • That you really need. and some of you may say when we're done,
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  • And some of you may say when we're done, "man, i needed all of those!"
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  • And so, the first fear
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  • And so, the first fear i wanna talk to you about is,
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  • And so, the first fear i wanna talk to you about is, the fear of evil.
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  • I wanna talk to you about is, the fear of evil. you know david,
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  • The fear of evil. you know david, the psalmist, said,
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  • You know david, the psalmist, said, "i will fear no evil,
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  • The psalmist, said, "i will fear no evil, for god is with me."
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  • "i will fear no evil, for god is with me." and i love psalm 27:13 and 14.
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  • For god is with me." and i love psalm 27:13 and 14. listen to this, "[what,
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  • And i love psalm 27:13 and 14. listen to this, "[what, what would have become of me]
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  • Listen to this, "[what, what would have become of me] had i not believed that
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  • What would have become of me] had i not believed that i would see the lord's goodness,
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  • Had i not believed that i would see the lord's goodness, in the land of the living!"
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  • I would see the lord's goodness, in the land of the living!" so, god wants you
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  • And me to expect, yes i said,
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  • And me to expect, yes i said, "expect" good things.
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  • And me to expect, yes i said, "expect" good things. not to dread evil things.
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  • "expect" good things. not to dread evil things. now, you know, i grew up
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  • Not to dread evil things. now, you know, i grew up in a dysfunctional situation,
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  • Now, you know, i grew up in a dysfunctional situation, abusive, dysfunctional
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  • In a dysfunctional situation, abusive, dysfunctional alcoholic situation
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  • Abusive, dysfunctional alcoholic situation and i had a lot of bad
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  • Alcoholic situation and i had a lot of bad things happen to me.
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  • And i had a lot of bad things happen to me. i married the first
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  • Things happen to me. i married the first guy that came along,
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  • I married the first guy that came along, because i thought nobody
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  • Guy that came along, because i thought nobody would ever want me.
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  • Because i thought nobody would ever want me. and he cheated on me,
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  • Would ever want me. and he cheated on me, and ran around
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  • And he cheated on me, and ran around with other women,
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  • And ran around with other women, and that was another
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  • With other women, and that was another five years of misery.
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  • And that was another five years of misery. and so, even by the time
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  • Five years of misery. and so, even by the time i married my husband dave,
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  • And so, even by the time i married my husband dave, who i've been married
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  • I married my husband dave, who i've been married to now for 53, 54 years,
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  • Who i've been married to now for 53, 54 years, sometimes i lose count
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  • To now for 53, 54 years, sometimes i lose count when the numbers get
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  • Sometimes i lose count when the numbers get that high you have to sit
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  • When the numbers get that high you have to sit and think about it.
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  • That high you have to sit and think about it. but by the time i married him,
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  • And think about it. but by the time i married him, i didn't even--he wanted
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  • But by the time i married him, i didn't even--he wanted to be good to me,
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  • I didn't even--he wanted to be good to me, but i didn't know
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  • To be good to me, but i didn't know how to receive it,
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  • But i didn't know how to receive it, because i had formed a habit--
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  • How to receive it, because i had formed a habit-- now, i want you to get
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  • Because i had formed a habit-- now, i want you to get a hold of this,
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  • Now, i want you to get a hold of this, i had formed
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  • A hold of this, i had formed a habit of expecting,
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  • I had formed a habit of expecting, bad things to happen.
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  • A habit of expecting, bad things to happen. you say, "well, why would
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  • Bad things to happen. you say, "well, why would anybody do that?"
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  • You say, "well, why would anybody do that?" well, i'd had so many
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  • Anybody do that?" well, i'd had so many bad things happen,
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  • Well, i'd had so many bad things happen, and i had been disappointed
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  • Bad things happen, and i had been disappointed so many times by expecting
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  • And i had been disappointed so many times by expecting something good,
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  • So many times by expecting something good, and then it not happening
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  • Something good, and then it not happening that i actually got to the point
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  • And then it not happening that i actually got to the point where i felt like i was
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  • That i actually got to the point where i felt like i was protecting myself,
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  • Where i felt like i was protecting myself, by just not ever believing that
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  • Protecting myself, by just not ever believing that good things were gonna happen.
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  • By just not ever believing that good things were gonna happen. now, some of you may
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  • Good things were gonna happen. now, some of you may be waiting to see if something
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  • Now, some of you may be waiting to see if something good is going to happen.
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  • Be waiting to see if something good is going to happen. but i wonder how many
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  • Good is going to happen. but i wonder how many of you are actually
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  • But i wonder how many of you are actually aggressively, expecting
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  • Of you are actually aggressively, expecting something good to happen.
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  • Aggressively, expecting something good to happen. see, i've come full circle now,
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  • Something good to happen. see, i've come full circle now, i've turned all the way
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  • See, i've come full circle now, i've turned all the way around in this,
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  • I've turned all the way around in this, and instead of expecting
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  • Around in this, and instead of expecting bad things to happen,
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  • And instead of expecting bad things to happen, every morning part
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  • Bad things to happen, every morning part of my prayer and fellowship
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  • Every morning part of my prayer and fellowship time with god is to say,
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  • Of my prayer and fellowship time with god is to say, "i am expecting something
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  • Time with god is to say, "i am expecting something good to happen to me today."
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  • "i am expecting something good to happen to me today." without faith we're
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  • Good to happen to me today." without faith we're all gonna live in fear,
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  • Without faith we're all gonna live in fear, because faith is the only
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  • All gonna live in fear, because faith is the only thing that conquers fear.
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  • Because faith is the only thing that conquers fear. when fear knocks on your
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  • Thing that conquers fear. when fear knocks on your door, send faith to answer.
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  • When fear knocks on your door, send faith to answer. without faith we cannot
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  • Door, send faith to answer. without faith we cannot receive from god.
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  • Without faith we cannot receive from god. god has many good
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  • Receive from god. god has many good things in store for you,
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  • God has many good things in store for you, but you have to have
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  • Things in store for you, but you have to have faith for them,
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  • But you have to have faith for them, and faith causes you to expect--
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  • Faith for them, and faith causes you to expect-- we receive through faith.
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  • And without fear,
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  • And without fear, we cannot receive from satan,
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  • And without fear, we cannot receive from satan, or the devil, our enemy.
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  • We cannot receive from satan, or the devil, our enemy. you can feel fear,
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  • Or the devil, our enemy. you can feel fear, but still keep going forward,
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  • You can feel fear, but still keep going forward, and doing the very thing
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  • But still keep going forward, and doing the very thing that you are afraid of.
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  • And doing the very thing that you are afraid of. many years ago,
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  • That you are afraid of. many years ago, when i felt like god wanted
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  • Many years ago, when i felt like god wanted me to quit my full-time job,
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  • When i felt like god wanted me to quit my full-time job, and spend time studying
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  • Me to quit my full-time job, and spend time studying the word of god,
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  • And spend time studying the word of god, because i felt like
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  • The word of god, because i felt like he had called me to teach.
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  • Because i felt like he had called me to teach. i already had three children,
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  • He had called me to teach. i already had three children, i couldn't go off
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  • I already had three children, i couldn't go off to bible college,
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  • I couldn't go off to bible college, i couldn't leave them all
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  • And say, "bye-bye,
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  • And say, "bye-bye, mom's going to bible college."
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  • And say, "bye-bye, mom's going to bible college." but i had to have some
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  • Mom's going to bible college." but i had to have some kind of preparation,
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  • But i had to have some kind of preparation, and the only thing
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  • Kind of preparation, and the only thing that i knew to do was
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  • And the only thing that i knew to do was to spend time studying.
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  • That i knew to do was to spend time studying. well, workin' a full-time,
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  • To spend time studying. well, workin' a full-time, and comin' home,
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  • Well, workin' a full-time, and comin' home, and doin' all the housework,
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  • And comin' home, and doin' all the housework, and grocery shoppin',
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  • And doin' all the housework, and grocery shoppin', and doin' all those things,
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  • And grocery shoppin', and doin' all those things, i didn't have time to study.
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  • And doin' all those things, i didn't have time to study. so, i started feeling like
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  • I didn't have time to study. so, i started feeling like god wanted me to quit
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  • So, i started feeling like god wanted me to quit my full-time job,
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  • God wanted me to quit my full-time job, where i made good money,
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  • My full-time job, where i made good money, and trust him to take
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  • Where i made good money, and trust him to take care of us.
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  • And trust him to take care of us. but there was a little,
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  • Care of us. but there was a little, teeny, tiny problem,
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  • But there was a little, teeny, tiny problem, our bills were more
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  • Teeny, tiny problem, our bills were more than our income.
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  • Our bills were more than our income. so, every month we were
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  • Than our income. so, every month we were going to need a miracle.
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  • So, every month we were going to need a miracle. i wonder if there's anybody
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  • Going to need a miracle. i wonder if there's anybody watching right now that
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  • I wonder if there's anybody watching right now that every month, you need a miracle,
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  • Watching right now that every month, you need a miracle, just to pay your bills.
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  • Every month, you need a miracle, just to pay your bills. well, you know,
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  • Just to pay your bills. well, you know, it was frightening for me.
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  • Well, you know, it was frightening for me. and i remember the first
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  • It was frightening for me. and i remember the first monday when--came around
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  • And i remember the first monday when--came around and i didn't have a job,
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  • Monday when--came around and i didn't have a job, i wasn't working anymore.
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  • And i didn't have a job, i wasn't working anymore. i remember walking down
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  • I wasn't working anymore. i remember walking down the hallway in my house,
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  • I remember walking down the hallway in my house, and i was so frightened
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  • The hallway in my house, and i was so frightened that my--i felt like my knees
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  • And i was so frightened that my--i felt like my knees were going to buckle under me.
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  • That my--i felt like my knees were going to buckle under me. and god spoke to my heart
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  • Were going to buckle under me. and god spoke to my heart and he said, "you can do this
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  • And god spoke to my heart and he said, "you can do this two ways: you can be afraid
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  • And he said, "you can do this two ways: you can be afraid all the time, or you can trust
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  • Two ways: you can be afraid all the time, or you can trust me for miracles."
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  • All the time, or you can trust me for miracles." and i decided right then that
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  • Me for miracles." and i decided right then that i didn't want to live in fear,
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  • And i decided right then that i didn't want to live in fear, because you know,
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  • I didn't want to live in fear, because you know, if you just keep letting
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  • Because you know, if you just keep letting fear go on and on,
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  • If you just keep letting fear go on and on, you know what i would
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  • Fear go on and on, you know what i would have done?
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  • You know what i would have done? i would have ended
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  • Have done? i would have ended up finding a job
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  • I would have ended up finding a job and going back to work.
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  • Up finding a job and going back to work. so, i needed to stay in
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  • And going back to work. so, i needed to stay in that position of faith,
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  • So, i needed to stay in that position of faith, and i needed to expect
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  • That position of faith, and i needed to expect god to take care of us.
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  • And i needed to expect god to take care of us. but most of my life,
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  • God to take care of us. but most of my life, i had kinda felt
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  • But most of my life, i had kinda felt in my atmosphere around me--
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  • I had kinda felt in my atmosphere around me-- some of you are gonna
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  • In my atmosphere around me-- some of you are gonna really get this and understand,
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  • Some of you are gonna really get this and understand, just something kind
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  • Really get this and understand, just something kind of tormenting,
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  • Just something kind of tormenting, i didn't even really
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  • Of tormenting, i didn't even really know what it was.
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  • I didn't even really know what it was. but one morning,
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  • Know what it was. but one morning, i was looking in the mirror
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  • But one morning, i was looking in the mirror puttin' on my makeup,
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  • I was looking in the mirror puttin' on my makeup, and gettin' ready to go to work,
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  • Puttin' on my makeup, and gettin' ready to go to work, this was before i'd quit my job.
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  • And gettin' ready to go to work, this was before i'd quit my job. and i just said to god,
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  • This was before i'd quit my job. and i just said to god, "what is this?
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  • And i just said to god, "what is this? what is this thing that
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  • "what is this? what is this thing that i feel all the time?"
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  • What is this thing that i feel all the time?" it just--it made me feel
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  • I feel all the time?" it just--it made me feel threatened and i didn't even
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  • It just--it made me feel threatened and i didn't even really know what it was.
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  • Threatened and i didn't even really know what it was. and he spoke to my heart,
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  • Really know what it was. and he spoke to my heart, "evil forebodings."
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  • And he spoke to my heart, "evil forebodings." well, i'd never heard that term.
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  • "evil forebodings." well, i'd never heard that term. i didn't even really
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  • Well, i'd never heard that term. i didn't even really know what it was.
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  • But there is a scripture
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  • But there is a scripture in proverbs 15:15,
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  • But there is a scripture in proverbs 15:15, in the amplified, that says,
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  • In proverbs 15:15, in the amplified, that says, "all the days of the desponding
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  • In the amplified, that says, "all the days of the desponding and the afflicted are made evil
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  • "all the days of the desponding and the afflicted are made evil [by anxious thoughts
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  • And the afflicted are made evil [by anxious thoughts and forebodings]."
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  • [by anxious thoughts and forebodings]." there it is, right in the bible.
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  • And forebodings]." there it is, right in the bible. miserable days are made
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  • There it is, right in the bible. miserable days are made miserable by expecting
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  • Miserable days are made miserable by expecting bad things to happen to you.
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  • Miserable by expecting bad things to happen to you. "but he who has a glad heart,
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  • Bad things to happen to you. "but he who has a glad heart, has a continual feast
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  • "but he who has a glad heart, has a continual feast [regardless of his
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  • Has a continual feast [regardless of his circumstances]."
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  • [regardless of his circumstances]." the joy of the lord
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  • Circumstances]." the joy of the lord is our strength!
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  • The joy of the lord is our strength! and we can have,
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  • Is our strength! and we can have, the bible says, "joy unspeakable
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  • And we can have, the bible says, "joy unspeakable and full of glory."
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  • The bible says, "joy unspeakable and full of glory." "the peace that passes
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  • And full of glory." "the peace that passes understanding."
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  • "the peace that passes understanding." in other words,
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  • Understanding." in other words, you can have all kinds
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  • In other words, you can have all kinds of situations in your life,
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  • You can have all kinds of situations in your life, and still enjoy.
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  • I always say, "enjoy where
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  • I always say, "enjoy where you're at on the way
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  • I always say, "enjoy where you're at on the way to where you're going."
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  • You're at on the way to where you're going." there's probably nobody
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  • To where you're going." there's probably nobody watching right now,
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  • There's probably nobody watching right now, whose life is exactly
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  • Watching right now, whose life is exactly the way you want it to be,
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  • Whose life is exactly the way you want it to be, we're all believing
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  • The way you want it to be, we're all believing for something.
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  • We're all believing for something. but we don't wanna get
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  • For something. but we don't wanna get so caught up in reaching
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  • But we don't wanna get so caught up in reaching the destination that we don't
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  • So caught up in reaching the destination that we don't enjoy the journey.
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  • The destination that we don't enjoy the journey. god actually is waiting
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  • Enjoy the journey. god actually is waiting to be good to you.
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  • God actually is waiting to be good to you. now, this scripture,
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  • To be good to you. now, this scripture, isaiah 30:18, in the amplified
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  • Now, this scripture, isaiah 30:18, in the amplified bible, is so amazing-ly
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  • Isaiah 30:18, in the amplified bible, is so amazing-ly wonderful.
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  • This is not
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  • This is not the amplified translation.
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  • This is not the amplified translation. but i encourage you
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  • The amplified translation. but i encourage you to look it up later.
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  • But i encourage you to look it up later. this is from the niv,
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  • To look it up later. this is from the niv, and it says, "yet the lord
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  • This is from the niv, and it says, "yet the lord longs to be gracious to you;"
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  • And it says, "yet the lord longs to be gracious to you;" he looongs to be good to you,
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  • Longs to be gracious to you;" he looongs to be good to you, oh my gosh!
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  • He looongs to be good to you, oh my gosh! "therefore, he will rise
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  • Oh my gosh! "therefore, he will rise up to show you compassion.
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  • "therefore, he will rise up to show you compassion. for the lord is a god
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  • Up to show you compassion. for the lord is a god of justice.
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  • For the lord is a god of justice. blessed are all those
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  • Of justice. blessed are all those who wait for him!"
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  • Blessed are all those who wait for him!" so, you know the way i see this,
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  • Who wait for him!" so, you know the way i see this, you know what i think
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  • So, you know the way i see this, you know what i think this is saying?
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  • God is waiting
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  • God is waiting to be good to you.
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  • God is waiting to be good to you. but the only people
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  • To be good to you. but the only people he can be good to,
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  • But the only people he can be good to, are those that are waiting
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  • He can be good to, are those that are waiting for him to be good to them.
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  • Are those that are waiting for him to be good to them. so, what have you
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  • For him to be good to them. so, what have you been waiting for?
  • 00:10:12.457 --> 00:10:14.025
  • So, what have you been waiting for? have you been waiting,
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  • Been waiting for? have you been waiting, anxiously, excitedly for
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  • Have you been waiting, anxiously, excitedly for god to do something,
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  • Anxiously, excitedly for god to do something, awesome in your life,
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  • God to do something, awesome in your life, something great?
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  • Awesome in your life, something great? or are you talkin' about it?
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  • Something great? or are you talkin' about it? or are you just talking about
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  • Or are you talkin' about it? or are you just talking about your problems all the time,
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  • Or are you just talking about your problems all the time, and expecting more of the same?
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  • Your problems all the time, and expecting more of the same? god is waiting
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  • And expecting more of the same? god is waiting to be good to you,
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  • God is waiting to be good to you, and he's waiting for
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  • To be good to you, and he's waiting for you to wait for him,
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  • And he's waiting for you to wait for him, to be good to you.
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  • I love this.
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  • I love this. i don't see that i can
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  • I love this. i don't see that i can put it any plainer.
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  • I don't see that i can put it any plainer. proverbs 1:33 says,
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  • Put it any plainer. proverbs 1:33 says, "whoever hearkens to me [wisdom]
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  • Proverbs 1:33 says, "whoever hearkens to me [wisdom] shall dwell securely
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  • "whoever hearkens to me [wisdom] shall dwell securely and in confident trust
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  • Shall dwell securely and in confident trust and shall be quiet,
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  • And in confident trust and shall be quiet, without fear or dread of evil."
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  • And shall be quiet, without fear or dread of evil." so, say right now,
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  • Without fear or dread of evil." so, say right now, wherever you're at,
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  • So, say right now, wherever you're at, "i will fear, no evil.
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  • I will fear no evil."
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  • I will fear no evil." now, the next thing i'd like
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  • I will fear no evil." now, the next thing i'd like to talk to you about
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  • Now, the next thing i'd like to talk to you about is the fear of rejection.
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  • To talk to you about is the fear of rejection. and you know,
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  • Is the fear of rejection. and you know, this is a biggie for me.
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  • And you know, this is a biggie for me. you know, first of all,
  • 00:11:10.281 --> 00:11:11.516
  • This is a biggie for me. you know, first of all, jesus was rejected.
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  • You know, first of all, jesus was rejected. now, he said,
  • 00:11:14.886 --> 00:11:15.520
  • Jesus was rejected. now, he said, "if they rejected me,
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  • Now, he said, "if they rejected me, they're gonna reject you."
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  • "if they rejected me, they're gonna reject you." there's no way that you're
  • 00:11:18.890 --> 00:11:19.891
  • They're gonna reject you." there's no way that you're gonna make it through
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  • There's no way that you're gonna make it through life and never be rejected.
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  • Gonna make it through life and never be rejected. and when we feel rejected,
  • 00:11:21.893 --> 00:11:24.562
  • Life and never be rejected. and when we feel rejected, that's the opposite
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  • And when we feel rejected, that's the opposite of being accepted,
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  • That's the opposite of being accepted, and we all want acceptance.
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  • We all want to be included.
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  • We all want to be included. we all want to be liked,
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  • We all want to be included. we all want to be liked, and to be admired,
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  • We all want to be liked, and to be admired, and we wanna be part of.
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  • And to be admired, and we wanna be part of. but when someone rejects you,
  • 00:11:39.511 --> 00:11:41.179
  • And we wanna be part of. but when someone rejects you, it makes you feel like there's
  • 00:11:41.246 --> 00:11:43.548
  • But when someone rejects you, it makes you feel like there's something wrong with you,
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  • That causes them
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  • That causes them not to want you.
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  • That causes them not to want you. how many times are children
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  • Not to want you. how many times are children who've been adopted,
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  • How many times are children who've been adopted, tormented a large
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  • Who've been adopted, tormented a large majority of their life,
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  • Tormented a large majority of their life, because they wonder
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  • Majority of their life, because they wonder what was wrong with them,
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  • Because they wonder what was wrong with them, that their parents
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  • What was wrong with them, that their parents didn't keep them?
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  • That their parents didn't keep them? and you shouldn't
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  • Didn't keep them? and you shouldn't believe like that,
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  • And you shouldn't believe like that, you shouldn't live like that,
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  • Believe like that, you shouldn't live like that, because your parents may
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  • You shouldn't live like that, because your parents may have had no other choice,
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  • Because your parents may have had no other choice, or maybe they had problems,
  • 00:12:12.210 --> 00:12:13.878
  • Have had no other choice, or maybe they had problems, but that didn't mean that there
  • 00:12:13.945 --> 00:12:14.813
  • Or maybe they had problems, but that didn't mean that there was anything wrong with you.
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  • But that didn't mean that there was anything wrong with you. i know my father
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  • Was anything wrong with you. i know my father sexually abused me,
  • 00:12:17.682 --> 00:12:18.550
  • I know my father sexually abused me, and for years i thought,
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  • Sexually abused me, and for years i thought, "what's wrong with me?
  • 00:12:19.517 --> 00:12:20.084
  • And for years i thought, "what's wrong with me? what's wrong with me?
  • 00:12:20.151 --> 00:12:20.752
  • "what's wrong with me? what's wrong with me? what's wrong with me?
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  • What's wrong with me? what's wrong with me? what's wrong with me?"
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  • What's wrong with me? what's wrong with me?" but there wasn't
  • 00:12:22.987 --> 00:12:23.588
  • What's wrong with me?" but there wasn't anything wrong with me,
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  • But there wasn't anything wrong with me, i was just a little child.
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  • Anything wrong with me, i was just a little child. my father was the one
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  • I was just a little child. my father was the one who had the problem.
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  • My father was the one who had the problem. he was sick.
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  • Who had the problem. he was sick. he was doing the wrong thing.
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  • He was sick. he was doing the wrong thing. so, just because somebody
  • 00:12:35.066 --> 00:12:35.967
  • He was doing the wrong thing. so, just because somebody doesn't like you,
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  • So, just because somebody doesn't like you, or they reject you,
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  • Doesn't like you, or they reject you, or they don't invite
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  • Or they reject you, or they don't invite you to the party,
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  • Or they don't invite you to the party, don't let that make you feel
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  • You to the party, don't let that make you feel like there's something
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  • Don't let that make you feel like there's something wrong with you.
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  • Like there's something wrong with you. maybe they're just missing
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  • Wrong with you. maybe they're just missing a great opportunity to know you,
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  • Maybe they're just missing a great opportunity to know you, and they just haven't
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  • A great opportunity to know you, and they just haven't realized it yet.
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  • And they just haven't realized it yet. jesus was rejected
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  • Realized it yet. jesus was rejected by his own brothers.
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  • They thought he was a madman,
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  • They thought he was a madman, and they wanted him
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  • They thought he was a madman, and they wanted him to do miracles
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  • And they wanted him to do miracles to prove who he was.
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  • To do miracles to prove who he was. so, he was rejected by family.
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  • Everywhere jesus went there
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  • Everywhere jesus went there was some who accepted him,
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  • Everywhere jesus went there was some who accepted him, but many who rejected him.
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  • Was some who accepted him, but many who rejected him. the religious leaders
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  • But many who rejected him. the religious leaders of the day rejected him.
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  • The religious leaders of the day rejected him. the government leaders
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  • Of the day rejected him. the government leaders rejected him.
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  • The government leaders rejected him. pilate rejected him,
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  • Rejected him. pilate rejected him, herod rejected him.
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  • And even when he was
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  • And even when he was at his hour of greatest need,
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  • And even when he was at his hour of greatest need, in the garden of gethsemane
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  • At his hour of greatest need, in the garden of gethsemane when he just
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  • In the garden of gethsemane when he just needed his disciples,
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  • When he just needed his disciples, who he had given his life to,
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  • Needed his disciples, who he had given his life to, to pray with him for one hour,
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  • Who he had given his life to, to pray with him for one hour, they fell asleep.
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  • To pray with him for one hour, they fell asleep. i'm sure that felt
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  • They fell asleep. i'm sure that felt like rejection.
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  • I'm sure that felt like rejection. and then when
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  • Like rejection. and then when he was being questioned
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  • And then when he was being questioned by the government leaders,
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  • He was being questioned by the government leaders, peter denied even knowing
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  • By the government leaders, peter denied even knowing him and he was close to peter.
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  • Peter denied even knowing him and he was close to peter. "i don't even know him.
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  • Him and he was close to peter. "i don't even know him. i don't know him!"
  • 00:13:46.437 --> 00:13:48.406
  • "i don't even know him. i don't know him!" well, i know for a fact because
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  • Of looking at my own life,
  • 00:13:51.376 --> 00:13:52.343
  • Of looking at my own life, that satan uses rejection,
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  • Of looking at my own life, that satan uses rejection, the pain of rejection.
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  • That satan uses rejection, the pain of rejection. which i just read yesterday
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  • The pain of rejection. which i just read yesterday that doctors have concluded
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  • Which i just read yesterday that doctors have concluded that if you look at an mri,
  • 00:14:03.121 --> 00:14:06.291
  • That doctors have concluded that if you look at an mri, the part of your brain
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  • That if you look at an mri, the part of your brain that lights up when
  • 00:14:07.492 --> 00:14:08.259
  • The part of your brain that lights up when you're in physical pain,
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  • That lights up when you're in physical pain, it shows the same thing
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  • You're in physical pain, it shows the same thing when you're rejected
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  • It shows the same thing when you're rejected as it does if you're being
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  • When you're rejected as it does if you're being physically hurt.
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  • As it does if you're being physically hurt. so, emotional pain--i think
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  • Physically hurt. so, emotional pain--i think sometimes emotional
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  • So, emotional pain--i think sometimes emotional pain is even more difficult
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  • Sometimes emotional pain is even more difficult than physical pain.
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  • Pain is even more difficult than physical pain. so, yes, i know what
  • 00:14:25.710 --> 00:14:26.778
  • Than physical pain. so, yes, i know what it's like to be rejected,
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  • So, yes, i know what it's like to be rejected, and i know many of you do too.
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  • It's like to be rejected, and i know many of you do too. maybe you've had a spouse
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  • And i know many of you do too. maybe you've had a spouse walk off and leave you.
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  • Maybe you've had a spouse walk off and leave you. maybe somebody you were
  • 00:14:35.486 --> 00:14:36.754
  • Walk off and leave you. maybe somebody you were dating broke up with you,
  • 00:14:36.821 --> 00:14:38.056
  • Maybe somebody you were dating broke up with you, and first thing you think is,
  • 00:14:38.122 --> 00:14:40.591
  • Dating broke up with you, and first thing you think is, "what's wrong with me?"
  • 00:14:40.658 --> 00:14:41.993
  • And first thing you think is, "what's wrong with me?" maybe you were turned down
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  • "what's wrong with me?" maybe you were turned down for a promotion at work,
  • 00:14:43.161 --> 00:14:44.295
  • Maybe you were turned down for a promotion at work, or you didn't get the job
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  • For a promotion at work, or you didn't get the job that you applied for.
  • 00:14:46.264 --> 00:14:48.766
  • Or you didn't get the job that you applied for. for no reason,
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  • That you applied for. for no reason, you were the only one
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  • For no reason, you were the only one you know that wasn't
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  • You were the only one you know that wasn't invited to the party.
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  • You know that wasn't invited to the party. i mean, there's all kinds
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  • Invited to the party. i mean, there's all kinds of ways that we can
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  • I mean, there's all kinds of ways that we can feel rejection.
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  • Of ways that we can feel rejection. but really try to stop thinking:
  • 00:14:58.343 --> 00:15:00.144
  • Feel rejection. but really try to stop thinking: what's wrong with me?
  • 00:15:00.211 --> 00:15:00.945
  • But really try to stop thinking: what's wrong with me? what's wrong with me?
  • 00:15:01.012 --> 00:15:01.579
  • What's wrong with me? what's wrong with me? what's wrong with me?
  • 00:15:01.646 --> 00:15:02.914
  • What's wrong with me? what's wrong with me? i mean, you can ask god,
  • 00:15:02.981 --> 00:15:04.282
  • What's wrong with me? i mean, you can ask god, "if there's a reason,
  • 00:15:04.349 --> 00:15:06.617
  • I mean, you can ask god, "if there's a reason, if there's something i need
  • 00:15:06.684 --> 00:15:07.752
  • "if there's a reason, if there's something i need to know that i don't know,
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  • If there's something i need to know that i don't know, then show it to me."
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  • To know that i don't know, then show it to me." but don't be going around
  • 00:15:11.489 --> 00:15:12.757
  • Then show it to me." but don't be going around just feeling like there's
  • 00:15:12.824 --> 00:15:13.624
  • But don't be going around just feeling like there's something wrong with you,
  • 00:15:13.691 --> 00:15:14.759
  • Just feeling like there's something wrong with you, because everybody
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  • Something wrong with you, because everybody is not clappin' and cheering
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  • Because everybody is not clappin' and cheering for you.
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  • Is not clappin' and cheering for you. i read that 10% of all people
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  • For you. i read that 10% of all people won't like you no matter
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  • I read that 10% of all people won't like you no matter who you are, or what you do.
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  • Won't like you no matter who you are, or what you do. so, i finally had to face
  • 00:15:23.434 --> 00:15:24.535
  • Who you are, or what you do. so, i finally had to face the fact to be happy about
  • 00:15:24.602 --> 00:15:25.837
  • So, i finally had to face the fact to be happy about the 90% and stop worrying
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  • The fact to be happy about the 90% and stop worrying about the 10%.
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  • When jesus sent
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  • When jesus sent his disciples out,
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  • When jesus sent his disciples out, he sent 70 of 'em out
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  • His disciples out, he sent 70 of 'em out in pairs of two,
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  • He sent 70 of 'em out in pairs of two, to go out and preach the gospel,
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  • In pairs of two, to go out and preach the gospel, and to heal the sick,
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  • To go out and preach the gospel, and to heal the sick, cast out devils.
  • 00:15:41.085 --> 00:15:42.020
  • And to heal the sick, cast out devils. he told them,
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  • Cast out devils. he told them, "when you go into a town,
  • 00:15:42.987 --> 00:15:45.857
  • He told them, "when you go into a town, find a house where you can stay
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  • "when you go into a town, find a house where you can stay and if your peace will remain
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  • Find a house where you can stay and if your peace will remain there you can stay there."
  • 00:15:50.261 --> 00:15:51.229
  • And if your peace will remain there you can stay there." but, he said,
  • 00:15:51.295 --> 00:15:51.863
  • There you can stay there." but, he said, "if they reject you,
  • 00:15:51.929 --> 00:15:55.199
  • But, he said, "if they reject you, or if they don't want to receive
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  • "if they reject you, or if they don't want to receive you and welcome your message,
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  • Or if they don't want to receive you and welcome your message, then shake the dust
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  • You and welcome your message, then shake the dust off your feet,
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  • Then shake the dust off your feet, and go on to the next town."
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  • Off your feet, and go on to the next town." and you know what?
  • 00:16:02.807 --> 00:16:03.374
  • And go on to the next town." and you know what? some of you are hurting
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  • Emotionally because you
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  • Emotionally because you have experienced a painful
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  • Emotionally because you have experienced a painful rejection in your life.
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  • Have experienced a painful rejection in your life. it may have been 10 years ago,
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  • Rejection in your life. it may have been 10 years ago, it may have been yesterday.
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  • It may have been 10 years ago, it may have been yesterday. and god is saying to you
  • 00:16:17.155 --> 00:16:18.289
  • It may have been yesterday. and god is saying to you right now, "shake it off!"
  • 00:16:18.356 --> 00:16:21.626
  • And god is saying to you right now, "shake it off!" don't let it just keep
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  • Right now, "shake it off!" don't let it just keep dragging you down, down,
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  • Don't let it just keep dragging you down, down, down, down, and further down.
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  • Dragging you down, down, down, down, and further down. and don't listen to that
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  • Down, down, and further down. and don't listen to that message that the enemy
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  • And don't listen to that message that the enemy plays for you ceaselessly,
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  • Message that the enemy plays for you ceaselessly, "what's wrong with me?
  • 00:16:30.401 --> 00:16:30.968
  • Plays for you ceaselessly, "what's wrong with me? what's wrong with me?
  • 00:16:31.035 --> 00:16:31.602
  • "what's wrong with me? what's wrong with me? what's wrong with me?"
  • 00:16:31.669 --> 00:16:34.138
  • What's wrong with me? what's wrong with me?" jesus took our sin.
  • 00:16:34.205 --> 00:16:37.275
  • And you might say
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  • And you might say he took our wrongness,
  • 00:16:37.909 --> 00:16:38.910
  • And you might say he took our wrongness, and he gave us his rightness.
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  • He took our wrongness, and he gave us his rightness. 2 corinthians 5:21 says,
  • 00:16:41.779 --> 00:16:43.414
  • And he gave us his rightness. 2 corinthians 5:21 says, "he that knew no sin,
  • 00:16:43.481 --> 00:16:44.415
  • 2 corinthians 5:21 says, "he that knew no sin, became sin, that we might
  • 00:16:44.482 --> 00:16:46.250
  • "he that knew no sin, became sin, that we might be made the righteousness
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  • Became sin, that we might be made the righteousness of god in christ."
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  • Be made the righteousness of god in christ." so, it's very interesting to me,
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  • And very beautiful that
  • 00:16:52.390 --> 00:16:54.292
  • And very beautiful that the first thing after salvation
  • 00:16:54.358 --> 00:16:56.260
  • And very beautiful that the first thing after salvation that god wants to give us,
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  • The first thing after salvation that god wants to give us, is his right-eousness.
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  • That god wants to give us, is his right-eousness. you know why?
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  • Is his right-eousness. you know why? because he understands that
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  • You know why? because he understands that the devil works overtime
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  • Because he understands that the devil works overtime trying to make us feel like,
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  • The devil works overtime trying to make us feel like, "what's wrong with me?"
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  • Trying to make us feel like, "what's wrong with me?" "i can't do what you do,
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  • "what's wrong with me?" "i can't do what you do, what's wrong with me?"
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  • "i can't do what you do, what's wrong with me?" "i don't look like you look,
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  • What's wrong with me?" "i don't look like you look, what's wrong with me?"
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  • "i don't look like you look, what's wrong with me?" "i weigh a few more
  • 00:17:11.275 --> 00:17:12.043
  • What's wrong with me?" "i weigh a few more pounds than you do,
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  • "i weigh a few more pounds than you do, what's wrong with me?"
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  • Pounds than you do, what's wrong with me?" well, you know,
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  • What's wrong with me?" well, you know, there's things i can do.
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  • Well, you know, there's things i can do. but to be honest,
  • 00:17:18.049 --> 00:17:18.683
  • There's things i can do. but to be honest, there's probably more things
  • 00:17:18.749 --> 00:17:19.484
  • But to be honest, there's probably more things i can't do than things i can do.
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  • There's probably more things i can't do than things i can do. i'm a communicator.
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  • I can't do than things i can do. i'm a communicator. i can talk to people and speak
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  • I'm a communicator. i can talk to people and speak and do it in a way that
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  • I can talk to people and speak and do it in a way that is easily understood, i think.
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  • And do it in a way that is easily understood, i think. and i have a gift in writing.
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  • Is easily understood, i think. and i have a gift in writing. and i love to give,
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  • And i have a gift in writing. and i love to give, i love to make people happy.
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  • And i love to give, i love to make people happy. but i can't play
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  • I love to make people happy. but i can't play a musical instrument.
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  • But i can't play a musical instrument. i can't sing.
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  • A musical instrument. i can't sing. i don't read real fast,
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  • I can't sing. i don't read real fast, but i know people who
  • 00:17:41.139 --> 00:17:42.173
  • I don't read real fast, but i know people who can read a book in a day,
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  • But i know people who can read a book in a day, or on an airplane ride,
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  • Can read a book in a day, or on an airplane ride, or i know people that read
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  • Or on an airplane ride, or i know people that read two or three books a week,
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  • Or i know people that read two or three books a week, and it takes me a while
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  • Two or three books a week, and it takes me a while to get through a book.
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  • And it takes me a while to get through a book. i don't memorize the bible.
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  • To get through a book. i don't memorize the bible. i know a lot of the bible,
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  • I don't memorize the bible. i know a lot of the bible, but i don't memorize
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  • I know a lot of the bible, but i don't memorize whole chapters at a time.
  • 00:17:57.588 --> 00:17:58.623
  • But i don't memorize whole chapters at a time. i know people who've memorize
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  • Whole chapters at a time. i know people who've memorize chapters, and chapters,
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  • I know people who've memorize chapters, and chapters, and chapters.
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  • Chapters, and chapters, and chapters. and i used to try to do what
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  • And chapters. and i used to try to do what everybody else was doing,
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  • And i used to try to do what everybody else was doing, but i don't do that anymore.
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  • Everybody else was doing, but i don't do that anymore. now, i am me,
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  • But i don't do that anymore. now, i am me, and i am glad to be me.
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  • Now, i am me, and i am glad to be me. and if somebody rejects me,
  • 00:18:09.066 --> 00:18:11.169
  • And i am glad to be me. and if somebody rejects me, then that's between
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  • And if somebody rejects me, then that's between them and god.
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  • Then that's between them and god. and i want you
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  • Them and god. and i want you to be the same way.
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  • And i want you to be the same way. don't fear rejection.
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  • To be the same way. don't fear rejection. jesus will never, ever, ever,
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  • Don't fear rejection. jesus will never, ever, ever, reject you--not ever.
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  • Jesus will never, ever, ever, reject you--not ever. how about the fear that
  • 00:18:26.517 --> 00:18:27.285
  • Reject you--not ever. how about the fear that things will never change?
  • 00:18:27.351 --> 00:18:29.187
  • How about the fear that things will never change? i bet some of you're dealing
  • 00:18:29.253 --> 00:18:30.221
  • Things will never change? i bet some of you're dealing with that right now.
  • 00:18:30.288 --> 00:18:30.988
  • I bet some of you're dealing with that right now. you got a situation,
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  • With that right now. you got a situation, "man--my husband is never
  • 00:18:32.690 --> 00:18:33.824
  • You got a situation, "man--my husband is never gonna change."
  • 00:18:33.891 --> 00:18:36.127
  • "man--my husband is never gonna change." "my kids are never
  • 00:18:36.194 --> 00:18:37.428
  • Gonna change." "my kids are never gonna change."
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  • "my kids are never gonna change." "i'm never gonna own
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  • Gonna change." "i'm never gonna own my own home."
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  • "i'm never gonna own my own home." "i guess i'll just
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  • My own home." "i guess i'll just never be happy."
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  • "i guess i'll just never be happy." "i'm never gonna lose
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  • Never be happy." "i'm never gonna lose this weight."
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  • "i'm never gonna lose this weight." i'll tell you what,
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  • This weight." i'll tell you what, satan is full of what i call,
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  • I'll tell you what, satan is full of what i call, "the never lies."
  • 00:18:50.241 --> 00:18:53.077
  • Satan is full of what i call, "the never lies." he wants to make you
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  • "the never lies." he wants to make you think that whatever
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  • He wants to make you think that whatever problem you've got,
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  • Think that whatever problem you've got, you are going to have
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  • Problem you've got, you are going to have it forever.
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  • You are going to have it forever. and i've learned when
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  • It forever. and i've learned when i have a problem to say,
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  • And i've learned when i have a problem to say, "this too will pass."
  • 00:19:00.251 --> 00:19:02.153
  • I have a problem to say, "this too will pass." because one of the things that
  • 00:19:02.220 --> 00:19:03.254
  • "this too will pass." because one of the things that makes you feel overwhelmed,
  • 00:19:03.321 --> 00:19:04.422
  • Because one of the things that makes you feel overwhelmed, and defeated is to think
  • 00:19:04.488 --> 00:19:06.257
  • Makes you feel overwhelmed, and defeated is to think that you're gonna have to put
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  • And defeated is to think that you're gonna have to put up with something forever.
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  • "well, i can't stand it if this
  • 00:19:09.427 --> 00:19:10.461
  • "well, i can't stand it if this pain last forever."
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  • "well, i can't stand it if this pain last forever." how many problems have you
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  • Pain last forever." how many problems have you had in your life in the past
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  • How many problems have you had in your life in the past that you don't have now,
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  • Had in your life in the past that you don't have now, because god took care of it?
  • 00:19:16.434 --> 00:19:17.969
  • That you don't have now, because god took care of it? so, whatever problem
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  • Because god took care of it? so, whatever problem you have now, you can relax,
  • 00:19:18.836 --> 00:19:20.504
  • So, whatever problem you have now, you can relax, because god is also working
  • 00:19:20.571 --> 00:19:22.273
  • You have now, you can relax, because god is also working on that problem, and he's going
  • 00:19:22.340 --> 00:19:23.674
  • Because god is also working on that problem, and he's going to take care of that.
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  • On that problem, and he's going to take care of that. afraid you'll never change.
  • 00:19:29.213 --> 00:19:31.048
  • To take care of that. afraid you'll never change. your family members
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  • Afraid you'll never change. your family members will never change.
  • 00:19:31.916 --> 00:19:32.917
  • Your family members will never change. your circumstances
  • 00:19:32.984 --> 00:19:33.884
  • Will never change. your circumstances will never change.
  • 00:19:33.951 --> 00:19:35.353
  • Your circumstances will never change. you're never gonna
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  • Will never change. you're never gonna have enough money.
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  • You're never gonna have enough money. you're never gonna get married.
  • 00:19:37.855 --> 00:19:39.090
  • Have enough money. you're never gonna get married. you're never gonna
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  • You're never gonna get married. you're never gonna have any peace.
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  • You're never gonna
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  • You're never gonna enjoy your life.
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  • You're never gonna enjoy your life. well, let me tell you something,
  • 00:19:42.860 --> 00:19:44.095
  • Enjoy your life. well, let me tell you something, everything is subject to change
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  • Well, let me tell you something, everything is subject to change except god, and with god
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  • Everything is subject to change except god, and with god all things are possible.
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  • Except god, and with god all things are possible. so, don't be afraid,
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  • All things are possible. so, don't be afraid, that things are not gonna
  • 00:19:53.304 --> 00:19:54.071
  • So, don't be afraid, that things are not gonna change for you.
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  • That things are not gonna change for you. be content and be satisfied
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  • Change for you. be content and be satisfied where you're at,
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  • Be content and be satisfied where you're at, knowing that god
  • 00:19:58.909 --> 00:20:00.544
  • Where you're at, knowing that god is working in your life,
  • 00:20:00.611 --> 00:20:01.545
  • Knowing that god is working in your life, and he's working on great
  • 00:20:01.612 --> 00:20:02.647
  • Is working in your life, and he's working on great things for you.
  • 00:20:02.713 --> 00:20:05.283
  • And he's working on great things for you. but how about the fear
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  • Things for you. but how about the fear of change?
  • 00:20:06.150 --> 00:20:06.751
  • But how about the fear of change? some people fear that
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  • Of change? some people fear that things will never change,
  • 00:20:07.752 --> 00:20:08.619
  • Some people fear that things will never change, and then other people fear
  • 00:20:08.686 --> 00:20:10.154
  • Things will never change, and then other people fear that they're gonna change.
  • 00:20:10.221 --> 00:20:12.523
  • And then other people fear that they're gonna change. change comes and well--
  • 00:20:12.590 --> 00:20:14.458
  • That they're gonna change. change comes and well-- that's scary.
  • 00:20:14.525 --> 00:20:15.760
  • Change comes and well-- that's scary. but you know what?
  • 00:20:15.826 --> 00:20:16.394
  • That's scary. but you know what? anybody who won't change,
  • 00:20:16.460 --> 00:20:19.030
  • But you know what? anybody who won't change, will get left in the dust.
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  • Anybody who won't change, will get left in the dust. we've been in ministry
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  • Will get left in the dust. we've been in ministry for 45 years,
  • 00:20:23.267 --> 00:20:24.268
  • We've been in ministry for 45 years, and 35 of those years
  • 00:20:24.335 --> 00:20:27.738
  • For 45 years, and 35 of those years we've had the ministry
  • 00:20:27.805 --> 00:20:30.074
  • And 35 of those years we've had the ministry that we have now,
  • 00:20:30.141 --> 00:20:30.775
  • We've had the ministry that we have now, except it was very
  • 00:20:30.841 --> 00:20:31.842
  • That we have now, except it was very small when it started,
  • 00:20:31.909 --> 00:20:33.110
  • Except it was very small when it started, and it seemed to me like
  • 00:20:33.177 --> 00:20:34.211
  • Small when it started, and it seemed to me like it stayed small forever.
  • 00:20:34.278 --> 00:20:35.746
  • And it seemed to me like it stayed small forever. but gradually it was growing.
  • 00:20:35.813 --> 00:20:38.282
  • It stayed small forever. but gradually it was growing. and we're still doing very well,
  • 00:20:38.349 --> 00:20:41.385
  • But gradually it was growing. and we're still doing very well, god's blessing our ministry,
  • 00:20:41.452 --> 00:20:42.453
  • And we're still doing very well, god's blessing our ministry, and we're doing very well.
  • 00:20:42.520 --> 00:20:43.554
  • God's blessing our ministry, and we're doing very well. and--but, we have had to make
  • 00:20:43.621 --> 00:20:45.389
  • And we're doing very well. and--but, we have had to make changes all along the way.
  • 00:20:45.456 --> 00:20:48.526
  • And--but, we have had to make changes all along the way. our clothing styles,
  • 00:20:48.592 --> 00:20:49.460
  • Changes all along the way. our clothing styles, our music styles,
  • 00:20:49.527 --> 00:20:51.562
  • Our clothing styles, our music styles, how we set the platform
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  • Our music styles, how we set the platform when we do our conferences,
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  • How we set the platform when we do our conferences, our tv studio, we're always
  • 00:20:55.966 --> 00:20:57.768
  • When we do our conferences, our tv studio, we're always updating and upgrading.
  • 00:20:57.835 --> 00:21:00.438
  • Our tv studio, we're always updating and upgrading. and you know what?
  • 00:21:00.504 --> 00:21:01.072
  • Updating and upgrading. and you know what? when you think, "oh, it's fine,
  • 00:21:01.138 --> 00:21:02.506
  • And you know what? when you think, "oh, it's fine, it's been this way forever,
  • 00:21:02.573 --> 00:21:03.407
  • When you think, "oh, it's fine, it's been this way forever, we'll just leave it that way."
  • 00:21:03.474 --> 00:21:06.410
  • It's been this way forever, we'll just leave it that way." you're already on your way out,
  • 00:21:06.477 --> 00:21:07.745
  • We'll just leave it that way." you're already on your way out, when you do that.
  • 00:21:07.812 --> 00:21:08.412
  • You're already on your way out, when you do that. you have to be willing
  • 00:21:08.479 --> 00:21:09.947
  • When you do that. you have to be willing to change,
  • 00:21:10.014 --> 00:21:11.382
  • You have to be willing to change, you have to be willing
  • 00:21:11.449 --> 00:21:12.717
  • To change, you have to be willing to change,
  • 00:21:12.783 --> 00:21:13.351
  • You have to be willing to change, you have to be willing
  • 00:21:13.417 --> 00:21:14.251
  • To change, you have to be willing to change.
  • 00:21:14.318 --> 00:21:15.086
  • You have to be willing to change. some people just say,
  • 00:21:15.152 --> 00:21:15.853
  • To change. some people just say, "well, i don't like change."
  • 00:21:15.920 --> 00:21:17.054
  • Some people just say, "well, i don't like change." well, we don't all get
  • 00:21:17.121 --> 00:21:19.323
  • "well, i don't like change." well, we don't all get to like everything we do;
  • 00:21:19.390 --> 00:21:20.725
  • Well, we don't all get to like everything we do; we need to do what
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  • To like everything we do; we need to do what god wants us to do,
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  • We need to do what god wants us to do, knowing that it's the best
  • 00:21:23.427 --> 00:21:24.662
  • God wants us to do, knowing that it's the best thing for us.
  • 00:21:24.729 --> 00:21:25.663
  • Knowing that it's the best thing for us. our bodies change.
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  • Thing for us. our bodies change. what one--in the beginning
  • 00:21:28.399 --> 00:21:31.702
  • Our bodies change. what one--in the beginning everything is lifted,
  • 00:21:31.769 --> 00:21:33.637
  • What one--in the beginning everything is lifted, our face is lifted.
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  • Everything is lifted, our face is lifted. our bodies don't sag,
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  • Our face is lifted. our bodies don't sag, our shoulders don't do this.
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  • Our bodies don't sag, our shoulders don't do this. they do this automatically now;
  • 00:21:39.744 --> 00:21:41.045
  • Our shoulders don't do this. they do this automatically now; i have to make sure
  • 00:21:41.112 --> 00:21:42.113
  • They do this automatically now; i have to make sure mine do that.
  • 00:21:42.179 --> 00:21:42.880
  • I have to make sure mine do that. and i don't know,
  • 00:21:42.947 --> 00:21:43.881
  • Mine do that. and i don't know, it seems like some
  • 00:21:43.948 --> 00:21:44.682
  • And i don't know, it seems like some morning you get up,
  • 00:21:44.749 --> 00:21:45.249
  • It seems like some morning you get up, and you look in the mirror,
  • 00:21:45.316 --> 00:21:46.117
  • Morning you get up, and you look in the mirror, and everything that used
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  • And you look in the mirror, and everything that used to be up here,
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  • And everything that used to be up here, is now down there.
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  • People talk about having
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  • People talk about having this lift or that lift.
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  • People talk about having this lift or that lift. well, some of us just feel
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  • This lift or that lift. well, some of us just feel like we could use a whole
  • 00:21:53.457 --> 00:21:54.291
  • Well, some of us just feel like we could use a whole entire body lift.
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  • Like we could use a whole entire body lift. everything changes.
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  • Entire body lift. everything changes. our children grow up
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  • Everything changes. our children grow up and leave home.
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  • Our children grow up and leave home. our friends change.
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  • And leave home. our friends change. you can be so close
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  • Our friends change. you can be so close to somebody for 10, 15 years,
  • 00:22:04.201 --> 00:22:06.070
  • You can be so close to somebody for 10, 15 years, and now, maybe they're not
  • 00:22:06.137 --> 00:22:07.037
  • To somebody for 10, 15 years, and now, maybe they're not even in your life at all.
  • 00:22:07.104 --> 00:22:09.073
  • And now, maybe they're not even in your life at all. companies go out of business,
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  • Even in your life at all. companies go out of business, neighborhoods deteriorate.
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  • Companies go out of business, neighborhoods deteriorate. dave and i drove down
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  • Neighborhoods deteriorate. dave and i drove down to the area where we both
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  • Dave and i drove down to the area where we both lived when we met,
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  • To the area where we both lived when we met, some 50 odd years ago.
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  • Lived when we met, some 50 odd years ago. and the neighborhood
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  • I lived in was still
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  • I lived in was still in fairly decent shape,
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  • I lived in was still in fairly decent shape, but the house that dave grew
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  • In fairly decent shape, but the house that dave grew up in was all boarded up now.
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  • But the house that dave grew up in was all boarded up now. and it's just sad, you know,
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  • Up in was all boarded up now. and it's just sad, you know, you go by and you say,
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  • And it's just sad, you know, you go by and you say, "boy, i remember when,
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  • You go by and you say, "boy, i remember when, i remember when,
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  • "boy, i remember when, i remember when, i remember when."
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  • I remember when, i remember when." but not everything
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  • I remember when." but not everything stays the same.
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  • You have to be willing
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  • You have to be willing to accept change in your life.
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  • You have to be willing to accept change in your life. you know, god told abraham
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  • To accept change in your life. you know, god told abraham to leave the place he was,
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  • You know, god told abraham to leave the place he was, and go to the place
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  • To leave the place he was, and go to the place that he would show him.
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  • And go to the place that he would show him. well, he was facing change,
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  • That he would show him. well, he was facing change, he didn't even know really how
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  • Well, he was facing change, he didn't even know really how big of a change he was facing.
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  • He didn't even know really how big of a change he was facing. change was coming,
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  • Big of a change he was facing. change was coming, he just didn't know what
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  • Change was coming, he just didn't know what all it would involve.
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  • He just didn't know what all it would involve. and you talk about
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  • All it would involve. and you talk about taking a step of faith.
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  • And you talk about taking a step of faith. man, he took a step of faith.
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  • Taking a step of faith. man, he took a step of faith. you know, god said to joshua,
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  • Man, he took a step of faith. you know, god said to joshua, and it's recorded
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  • You know, god said to joshua, and it's recorded in joshua chapter 1, especially
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  • And it's recorded in joshua chapter 1, especially in the first 9 verses.
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  • In joshua chapter 1, especially in the first 9 verses. it says, "after the death
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  • In the first 9 verses. it says, "after the death of moses--the servant
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  • It says, "after the death of moses--the servant of the lord, the lord said
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  • Of moses--the servant of the lord, the lord said to joshua, 'moses is dead.'"
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  • Of the lord, the lord said to joshua, 'moses is dead.'" well, that's no big news.
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  • To joshua, 'moses is dead.'" well, that's no big news. they'd been mourning
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  • Well, that's no big news. they'd been mourning moses for 30 days already,
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  • They'd been mourning moses for 30 days already, he knew very well
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  • Moses for 30 days already, he knew very well that he was dead.
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  • He knew very well that he was dead. but there was a lot more
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  • Behind that statement,
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  • Behind that statement, because what god was really
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  • Behind that statement, because what god was really saying is, "moses is dead,
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  • Because what god was really saying is, "moses is dead, and now i'm calling
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  • Saying is, "moses is dead, and now i'm calling you to take his place.
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  • And now i'm calling you to take his place. so get ready for big
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  • You to take his place. so get ready for big change in your life."
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  • >> announcer: when faced with
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  • >> announcer: when faced with life's inevitable ups and downs,
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  • Life's inevitable ups and downs, having the resiliency to stand
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  • Having the resiliency to stand up to new challenges and meet
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  • Up to new challenges and meet them head on is imperative.
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  • Them head on is imperative. we can't keep changes from
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  • We can't keep changes from coming, but we can manage our
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  • Coming, but we can manage our reaction to it, and even come
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  • Reaction to it, and even come to welcome it into our lives.
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  • To welcome it into our lives.
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  • >> joyce: you know,
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  • >> joyce: you know, life is full of changes,
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  • Life is full of changes, and sometimes it can
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  • And sometimes it can feel like everything
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  • Feel like everything around us is shaking.
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  • Around us is shaking. jobs are changing,
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  • Jobs are changing, relationships,
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  • Relationships, people's expectations.
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  • People's expectations. it's easy to get
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  • It's easy to get overwhelmed but i wanna
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  • Overwhelmed but i wanna remind you today, while
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  • Remind you today, while change is inevitable,
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  • Change is inevitable, you have the power
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  • You have the power to choose how
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  • To choose how to respond to it.
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  • To respond to it. in my book,
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  • In my book, “the courage to change,”
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  • “the courage to change,” i'll show you how to not
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  • I'll show you how to not only navigate life's
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  • Only navigate life's transitions, but to
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  • Transitions, but to actually embrace them
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  • Actually embrace them with god's word
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  • With god's word as your foundation.
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  • As your foundation. you can face each shift
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  • You can face each shift with confidence, knowing
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  • With confidence, knowing the same god who never
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  • The same god who never changed, is working all
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  • Changed, is working all things for your good,
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  • Things for your good, even in the midst
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  • Even in the midst of difficult moments.
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  • Of difficult moments.
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  • >> announcer: be the first
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  • >> announcer: be the first to get a copy of joyce's book,
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  • To get a copy of joyce's book, "the courage to change."
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  • >> joyce: if you're
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  • >> joyce: if you're weary from all of life's
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  • Weary from all of life's changes, i want you
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  • Changes, i want you to know that you can
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  • To know that you can find peace in the storm.
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  • Find peace in the storm. in “the courage to change,”
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  • In “the courage to change,” i'll show you how god's
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  • I'll show you how god's word can help you
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  • Word can help you embrace every challenge
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  • Embrace every challenge with confidence.
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  • With confidence. you don't have to live
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  • You don't have to live in the fear of change.
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  • In the fear of change. with the strength and
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  • With the strength and the wisdom from god,
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  • The wisdom from god, you can stand firm
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  • You can stand firm through any storm and
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  • Through any storm and come out stronger
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  • Come out stronger on the other side.
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  • On the other side. let's face life's
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  • Let's face life's challenges together
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  • Challenges together with faith, hope, and
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  • With faith, hope, and a renewed perspective.
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  • A renewed perspective.
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  • Will help us reach the lost, feed the hungry,
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  • Lost, feed the hungry, and help women and
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  • And help women and girls find freedom
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  • >> announcer: discover
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  • >> announcer: discover your courage today
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  • Your courage today with joyce's book,
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  • With joyce's book, “the courage to change.”
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  • Donate... or more, you'll also
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  • Or visit us online at joycemeyer.org.
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  • >> joyce: boy, you know,
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  • >> joyce: boy, you know, in today's world,
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  • In today's world, there are many stressors,
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  • There are many stressors, so many things to deal
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  • So many things to deal with on a daily basis.
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  • With on a daily basis. how do we navigate
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  • How do we navigate all of life's pressures?
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  • All of life's pressures? well, god's word has
  • 00:26:17.721 --> 00:26:19.456
  • Well, god's word has much to say about it.
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  • Much to say about it. so, i thought we could
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  • So, i thought we could all get together with
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  • All get together with some of my friends
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  • Some of my friends and talk about it.
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  • And talk about it.
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  • >> announcer: join us
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  • >> announcer: join us for the enjoying
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  • For the enjoying everyday life
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  • Everyday life conference.
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  • Conference. a weekend
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  • A weekend of practical messages
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  • Of practical messages and heartfelt worship
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  • And heartfelt worship with joyce
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  • With joyce and her guests,
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  • And her guests, dr. henry cloud,
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  • Dr. henry cloud, nona jones,
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  • Nona jones, and worship with
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  • And worship with naomi raine,
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  • Naomi raine, april 10-11,
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  • April 10-11, in hershey, pennsylvania.
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  • In hershey, pennsylvania. >> joyce: you know,
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  • >> joyce: you know, i have such a passion
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  • I have such a passion for teaching god's word,
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  • For teaching god's word, and it's even better when
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  • And it's even better when we all get together
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  • We all get together under one roof.
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  • Under one roof. so, i really hope
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  • So, i really hope to see you there.
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  • To see you there.
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  • >> announcer:
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  • >> announcer: we hope you
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  • >> announcer: we hope you enjoyed today's program.
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  • Enjoyed today's program.
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  • We are so grateful
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  • We are so grateful to our joyce meyer
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  • To our joyce meyer ministries partners
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  • Ministries partners who make this
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  • Who make this and all we do possible,
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  • And all we do possible, including sharing
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  • Including sharing god's word
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  • God's word and offering help
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  • And offering help to people in need
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  • To people in need all over the world.
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