Bible teacher Joyce Meyer shares timeless scriptural principles to show us how we can embrace the best God has for us each and every day of our lives.
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Joyce Meyer: Enjoying Everyday Life | Joyce Meyer - Think For A Change (Part 2) | January 28, 2026
- >> joyce: i've learned to say,
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- >> joyce: i've learned to say, when i enter a trial,
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- >> joyce: i've learned to say, when i enter a trial, "this will end well."
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- When i enter a trial, "this will end well." >> ginger: that's good.
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- "this will end well." >> ginger: that's good. >> joyce: "i don't know
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- >> ginger: that's good. >> joyce: "i don't know exactly what i'm gonna have
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- >> joyce: "i don't know exactly what i'm gonna have to go through to get there,
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- Exactly what i'm gonna have to go through to get there, but it will end well."
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- To go through to get there, but it will end well." "i'm in the middle now, god,
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- But it will end well." "i'm in the middle now, god, and i ask you to give me
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- "i'm in the middle now, god, and i ask you to give me the grace not to complain.
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- >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer.
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- >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer. i've seen god's power
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- >> joyce: i'm joyce meyer. i've seen god's power transform my own life,
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- I've seen god's power transform my own life, and he will do it for you.
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- >> ginger: hi, friends.
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- >> ginger: hi, friends. thanks for being with us
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- >> ginger: hi, friends. thanks for being with us on "enjoying everyday life."
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- Thanks for being with us on "enjoying everyday life." today, we are concluding
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- On "enjoying everyday life." today, we are concluding an important discussion about
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- Today, we are concluding an important discussion about how we think and how we can
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- An important discussion about how we think and how we can rewire our thinking by renewing
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- Our minds with god's word.
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- Our minds with god's word. joyce shares really practical
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- Our minds with god's word. joyce shares really practical strategies with erin cluley,
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- Joyce shares really practical strategies with erin cluley, kim poe, and me during this
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- Strategies with erin cluley, kim poe, and me during this conversation that really
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- Kim poe, and me during this conversation that really focuses in on the most
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- Conversation that really focuses in on the most important thing, learning
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- Focuses in on the most important thing, learning to do life with god.
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- Important thing, learning to do life with god. he should
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- To do life with god. he should be the focus of all of it,
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- He should be the focus of all of it, including our thoughts.
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- Be the focus of all of it, including our thoughts. god's word applies
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- Including our thoughts. god's word applies to everything, every aspect
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- God's word applies to everything, every aspect of our lives without fail.
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- To everything, every aspect of our lives without fail. and without him as our
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- Of our lives without fail. and without him as our foundation, we cannot
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- And without him as our foundation, we cannot experience true transformation
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- Foundation, we cannot experience true transformation as god has intended for us.
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- Experience true transformation as god has intended for us. i know that today's discussion
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- As god has intended for us. i know that today's discussion will help you reset your
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- I know that today's discussion will help you reset your priorities and encourage
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- Will help you reset your priorities and encourage you to apply god's word
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- Priorities and encourage you to apply god's word to your daily life and watch
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- You to apply god's word to your daily life and watch how your life will change
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- To your daily life and watch how your life will change in amazing ways.
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- >> joyce: if you're
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- >> joyce: if you're thinking something
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- >> joyce: if you're thinking something and you don't know
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- Thinking something and you don't know how to stop thinking it,
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- And you don't know how to stop thinking it, the way to get it to stop
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- How to stop thinking it, the way to get it to stop is to open your mouth
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- The way to get it to stop is to open your mouth and say what the bible says.
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- Is to open your mouth and say what the bible says. because you can't be saying one
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- And say what the bible says. because you can't be saying one thing and thinking something
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- Because you can't be saying one thing and thinking something else at the same time.
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- Thing and thinking something else at the same time. so, i don't care if you have
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- Else at the same time. so, i don't care if you have to say, "god loves me,"
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- So, i don't care if you have to say, "god loves me," a hundred times every
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- To say, "god loves me," a hundred times every day until you get it.
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- A hundred times every day until you get it. repetition is important.
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- Day until you get it. repetition is important. meditation is which
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- Repetition is important. meditation is which the christian world is,
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- Meditation is which the christian world is, let the devil turn that
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- The christian world is, let the devil turn that into something, you know.
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- Let the devil turn that into something, you know. "you meditate,
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- Into something, you know. "you meditate, isn't that an eastern religion
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- "you meditate, isn't that an eastern religion thing or whatever?"
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- Isn't that an eastern religion thing or whatever?" and the bible tells
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- Thing or whatever?" and the bible tells you to meditate.
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- And the bible tells you to meditate. it starts right
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- You to meditate. it starts right in the very beginning.
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- It starts right in the very beginning. you meditate on the word of god.
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- And that just means--
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- And that just means-- listen, if you know
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- And that just means-- listen, if you know how to worry,
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- Listen, if you know how to worry, you know how to meditate.
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- How to worry, you know how to meditate. because that's
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- You know how to meditate. because that's all worry is it's just,
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- Because that's all worry is it's just, you can't get this
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- All worry is it's just, you can't get this off your mind.
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- You can't get this off your mind. you just keep thinking it over,
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- Off your mind. you just keep thinking it over, and over, and over, and over.
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- You just keep thinking it over, and over, and over, and over. well, what if somebody just,
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- And over, and over, and over. well, what if somebody just, "i just can't get it off my mind
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- Well, what if somebody just, "i just can't get it off my mind that god loves me."
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- "i just can't get it off my mind that god loves me." >> erin: lots of times
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- That god loves me." >> erin: lots of times when i have to do this,
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- >> erin: lots of times when i have to do this, i'll giggle because it's like
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- When i have to do this, i'll giggle because it's like a whole conversation i've had.
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- I'll giggle because it's like a whole conversation i've had. because i'll worry,
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- A whole conversation i've had. because i'll worry, i'll be on the hamster wheel.
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- Because i'll worry, i'll be on the hamster wheel. i'll catch myself and i'll say,
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- I'll be on the hamster wheel. i'll catch myself and i'll say, "erin, stop!
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- I'll catch myself and i'll say, "erin, stop! lord, help me.
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- "erin, stop! lord, help me. this is not true."
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- Lord, help me. this is not true." and then i'll keep talking.
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- I realize i'm still
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- I realize i'm still talking out loud,
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- I realize i'm still talking out loud, so, i'll start giggling.
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- Talking out loud, so, i'll start giggling. but it's like this little moment
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- So, i'll start giggling. but it's like this little moment i'm having with god to redirect.
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- But it's like this little moment i'm having with god to redirect. "what is it that your
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- I'm having with god to redirect. "what is it that your word is saying?"
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- "what is it that your word is saying?" yeah.
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- Word is saying?" yeah. >> ginger: i say a lot
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- Yeah. >> ginger: i say a lot of things out loud.
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- >> ginger: i say a lot of things out loud. then i just realize,
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- Of things out loud. then i just realize, "oh, i said that out loud."
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- Then i just realize, "oh, i said that out loud." >> [ladies laughing]
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- "oh, i said that out loud." >> [ladies laughing] >> kim: it's a daily thing.
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- >> [ladies laughing] >> kim: it's a daily thing. it's a constant thing
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- >> kim: it's a daily thing. it's a constant thing that we have to put
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- It's a constant thing that we have to put the effort forth to do,
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- That we have to put the effort forth to do, remaining fixed in god's
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- The effort forth to do, remaining fixed in god's word and meditating on it.
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- Remaining fixed in god's word and meditating on it. because like i said,
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- Word and meditating on it. because like i said, the enemy is not
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- Because like i said, the enemy is not going to back down.
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- The enemy is not going to back down. i have to do that constantly
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- Going to back down. i have to do that constantly in this season of my life.
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- I have to do that constantly in this season of my life. you guys know i put
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- Scriptures on my mirror.
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- Scriptures on my mirror. i have my daughter.
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- Scriptures on my mirror. i have my daughter. we have our markers
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- I have my daughter. we have our markers and we write them down
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- We have our markers and we write them down on the mirror so that
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- And we write them down on the mirror so that when the enemy does--
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- On the mirror so that when the enemy does-- even on our refrigerator,
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- When the enemy does-- even on our refrigerator, we have regular sheets of paper
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- Even on our refrigerator, we have regular sheets of paper with the scriptures on them
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- We have regular sheets of paper with the scriptures on them because like, my thing now,
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- With the scriptures on them because like, my thing now, is the enemy, like,
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- Because like, my thing now, is the enemy, like, being divorced and still
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- Is the enemy, like, being divorced and still taking care of my daughter,
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- Being divorced and still taking care of my daughter, my 14-year-old, he's constantly
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- Taking care of my daughter, my 14-year-old, he's constantly telling me, "oh, you can't
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- My 14-year-old, he's constantly telling me, "oh, you can't do that by yourself.
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- Telling me, "oh, you can't do that by yourself. you need a man.
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- Do that by yourself. you need a man. go find somebody."
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- You need a man. go find somebody." like, seriously.
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- Go find somebody." like, seriously. "you need somebody.
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- Like, seriously. "you need somebody. just go find somebody.
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- "you need somebody. just go find somebody. put your girly charm
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- Just go find somebody. put your girly charm on and just go out there."
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- Put your girly charm on and just go out there." >> ginger: boy, isn't that
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- On and just go out there." >> ginger: boy, isn't that when we get in trouble.
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- >> ginger: boy, isn't that when we get in trouble. "go find somebody, anybody."
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- When we get in trouble. "go find somebody, anybody." wow.
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- "go find somebody, anybody." wow. >> joyce: desperate
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- Wow. >> joyce: desperate people do stupid things.
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- >> joyce: desperate people do stupid things. >> ginger: you control
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- People do stupid things. >> ginger: you control that girly charm because
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- >> ginger: you control that girly charm because you can draw the wrong one.
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- That girly charm because you can draw the wrong one. you wait for the right one.
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- You can draw the wrong one. you wait for the right one. >> kim: amen, seriously.
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- You wait for the right one. >> kim: amen, seriously. so i do.
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- >> kim: amen, seriously. so i do. i have to remain fixed
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- So i do. i have to remain fixed in god's word just knowing that.
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- I have to remain fixed in god's word just knowing that. like you said, he's promised
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- In god's word just knowing that. like you said, he's promised to be my provision
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- Like you said, he's promised to be my provision and remembering
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- To be my provision and remembering that he's been good.
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- And remembering that he's been good. like, he's been faithful.
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- That he's been good. like, he's been faithful. remembering the goodness of god.
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- Like, he's been faithful. remembering the goodness of god. we've been in our condo
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- Remembering the goodness of god. we've been in our condo three years now.
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- We've been in our condo three years now. god has helped, you know.
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- Three years now. god has helped, you know. he has supported us.
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- God has helped, you know. he has supported us. he has brought things together
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- He has supported us. he has brought things together that i never thought would be--
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- He has brought things together that i never thought would be-- sometimes, i wake up
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- That i never thought would be-- sometimes, i wake up in the morning and i'm like,
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- Sometimes, i wake up in the morning and i'm like, "god, we're still here,
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- In the morning and i'm like, "god, we're still here, thank you.
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- "god, we're still here, thank you. god, i appreciate it.
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- Thank you. god, i appreciate it. i don't even know how
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- God, i appreciate it. i don't even know how this all is happening,
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- I don't even know how this all is happening, that you're allowing
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- This all is happening, that you're allowing me to manage this."
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- That you're allowing me to manage this." so, when i think
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- Me to manage this." so, when i think of the goodness of god,
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- So, when i think of the goodness of god, that will override some
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- Of the goodness of god, that will override some of those things that the enemy--
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- That will override some of those things that the enemy-- >> joyce: and it is so important
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- Of those things that the enemy-- >> joyce: and it is so important to be thankful and to voice
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- >> joyce: and it is so important to be thankful and to voice that gratitude.
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- To be thankful and to voice that gratitude. i mean, for anybody like
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- That gratitude. i mean, for anybody like us to find anything to complain
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- I mean, for anybody like us to find anything to complain about is just ridiculous.
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- Us to find anything to complain about is just ridiculous. and yet we do.
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- >> erin: my kids will--
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- >> erin: my kids will-- they've had a fine day,
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- >> erin: my kids will-- they've had a fine day, everything is fine.
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- They've had a fine day, everything is fine. and then something happens
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- Everything is fine. and then something happens that is not great in their eyes,
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- And then something happens that is not great in their eyes, suddenly, "this has been
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- That is not great in their eyes, suddenly, "this has been a terrible day.
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- Suddenly, "this has been a terrible day. everything is awful.
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- A terrible day. everything is awful. today's been terrible."
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- Everything is awful. today's been terrible." and so, practicing that with
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- Today's been terrible." and so, practicing that with them reminds me of myself,
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- And so, practicing that with them reminds me of myself, "how often do i look
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- Them reminds me of myself, "how often do i look at my life that way?
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- "how often do i look at my life that way? and am i thinking about all
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- At my life that way? and am i thinking about all the things that are awful?"
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- And am i thinking about all the things that are awful?" when really, "yes, that was
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- The things that are awful?" when really, "yes, that was inconvenient to our life,
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- When really, "yes, that was inconvenient to our life, but the whole day
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- Inconvenient to our life, but the whole day is not ruined."
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- But the whole day is not ruined." >> joyce: that's a good word,
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- Is not ruined." >> joyce: that's a good word, inconvenient.
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- >> joyce: that's a good word, inconvenient. we don't like
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- Inconvenient. we don't like to be inconvenienced.
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- We don't like to be inconvenienced. >> erin: we don't.
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- To be inconvenienced. >> erin: we don't. >> ginger: and you know,
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- >> erin: we don't. >> ginger: and you know, sometimes, even when
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- >> ginger: and you know, sometimes, even when things seriously are hard...
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- Sometimes, even when things seriously are hard... >> erin: yeah, absolutely.
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- Things seriously are hard... >> erin: yeah, absolutely. >> ginger: when we go through
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- >> erin: yeah, absolutely. >> ginger: when we go through really hard times,
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- When, for me,
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- When, for me, i think of times like
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- When, for me, i think of times like when i've been really sick,
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- I think of times like when i've been really sick, or when i've lost someone
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- When i've been really sick, or when i've lost someone and you're grieving.
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- Or when i've lost someone and you're grieving. i mean, those are hard things.
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- And you're grieving. i mean, those are hard things. even changing your mindset
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- I mean, those are hard things. even changing your mindset in the hardest things...
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- Even changing your mindset in the hardest things... >> joyce: yeah.
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- In the hardest things... >> joyce: yeah. >> ginger: is possible
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- >> joyce: yeah. >> ginger: is possible because of who god is.
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- >> ginger: is possible because of who god is. sometimes we think,
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- Because of who god is. sometimes we think, "how can i possibly think
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- Sometimes we think, "how can i possibly think any differently about this?
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- "how can i possibly think any differently about this? it's so terrible."
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- Any differently about this? it's so terrible." but there's always something
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- It's so terrible." but there's always something that god gives us,
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- But there's always something that god gives us, even just god saying,
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- That god gives us, even just god saying, "i'm still here.
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- Even just god saying, "i'm still here. i love you.
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- "i'm still here. i love you. i will never leave you.
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- I love you. i will never leave you. i know you're hurting."
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- I will never leave you. i know you're hurting." that changes your
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- I know you're hurting." that changes your outlook so much.
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- That changes your outlook so much. and talk about that
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- Outlook so much. and talk about that negative attitude for kids,
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- And talk about that negative attitude for kids, for all of us,
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- Negative attitude for kids, for all of us, it just comes so naturally.
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- For all of us, it just comes so naturally. you go home
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- It just comes so naturally. you go home and your husband says,
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- You go home and your husband says, "how was your day?
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- And your husband says, "how was your day? and all you can think
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- "how was your day? and all you can think of is whatever just
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- And all you can think of is whatever just happened last."
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- Of is whatever just happened last." and you're like, ah, you know.
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- Happened last." and you're like, ah, you know. there's so much more.
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- And you're like, ah, you know. there's so much more. >> joyce: we always wanna
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- There's so much more. >> joyce: we always wanna tell the bad stuff.
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- >> joyce: we always wanna tell the bad stuff. but if there's a lot of good
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- Tell the bad stuff. but if there's a lot of good things that happened today
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- But if there's a lot of good things that happened today too that i could tell those,
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- Things that happened today too that i could tell those, but no, we pick on the one
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- Too that i could tell those, but no, we pick on the one or two things.
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- But no, we pick on the one or two things. >> ginger: yes, we do.
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- Or two things. >> ginger: yes, we do. we had this social media message
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- >> ginger: yes, we do. we had this social media message talk about overcoming
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- We had this social media message talk about overcoming those negative mindsets.
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- Talk about overcoming those negative mindsets. it says, "i'm learning
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- Those negative mindsets. it says, "i'm learning the seriousness of complaining.
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- It says, "i'm learning the seriousness of complaining. i lost good friends in the past
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- The seriousness of complaining. i lost good friends in the past because they got sick of it."
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- I lost good friends in the past because they got sick of it." it's like, that says a lot.
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- Because they got sick of it." it's like, that says a lot. i don't want for my bad attitude
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- It's like, that says a lot. i don't want for my bad attitude to ever rub off on anybody else.
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- I don't want for my bad attitude to ever rub off on anybody else. i want them to be with me.
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- To ever rub off on anybody else. i want them to be with me. i want my joy in christ jesus
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- I want them to be with me. i want my joy in christ jesus to overflow into their lives.
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- I want my joy in christ jesus to overflow into their lives. and when we start seeing
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- To overflow into their lives. and when we start seeing that's not what's happening,
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- And when we start seeing that's not what's happening, then it's an eye-opener.
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- That's not what's happening, then it's an eye-opener. i need to change my mindset.
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- Then it's an eye-opener. i need to change my mindset. >> erin: when you shared
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- I need to change my mindset. >> erin: when you shared in chapel last week about
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- >> erin: when you shared in chapel last week about gratitude, as part of it,
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- In chapel last week about gratitude, as part of it, and so, talking
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- Gratitude, as part of it, and so, talking about having that,
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- And so, talking about having that, i think you call it like
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- About having that, i think you call it like a core of gratitude,
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- I think you call it like a core of gratitude, where it's just like,
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- A core of gratitude, where it's just like, it's in you.
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- Where it's just like, it's in you. it really made me think about
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- It's in you. it really made me think about myself because i don't know that
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- It really made me think about myself because i don't know that i could say that i have that.
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- Myself because i don't know that i could say that i have that. and it's so much easier
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- I could say that i have that. and it's so much easier for me to, like we're saying,
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- And it's so much easier for me to, like we're saying, go to the negative things.
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- For me to, like we're saying, go to the negative things. that i need to work really
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- Go to the negative things. that i need to work really hard to flip that perspective
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- That i need to work really hard to flip that perspective because it is a mindset shift
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- Hard to flip that perspective because it is a mindset shift for me to take a situation
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- Because it is a mindset shift for me to take a situation and literally turn it around
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- For me to take a situation and literally turn it around in my head to see
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- And literally turn it around in my head to see the gratitude perspective.
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- In my head to see the gratitude perspective. i think it's harder or feels
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- The gratitude perspective. i think it's harder or feels difficult sometimes to do,
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- I think it's harder or feels difficult sometimes to do, but i wanna live my life
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- Difficult sometimes to do, but i wanna live my life where that is just
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- But i wanna live my life where that is just the core of who i am.
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- Where that is just the core of who i am. >> ginger: yeah.
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- The core of who i am. >> ginger: yeah. so, it's not surfacey about
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- >> ginger: yeah. so, it's not surfacey about our circumstances because
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- So, it's not surfacey about our circumstances because many of our circumstances
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- Our circumstances because many of our circumstances are very hard.
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- Many of our circumstances are very hard. but there's the core deep inside
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- Are very hard. but there's the core deep inside of us that is our strength
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- But there's the core deep inside of us that is our strength of who christ is to us.
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- Of us that is our strength of who christ is to us. and if that gratitude pours
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- Of who christ is to us. and if that gratitude pours out of that, and we have
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- And if that gratitude pours out of that, and we have to pull ourselves back to it,
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- Out of that, and we have to pull ourselves back to it, is exactly what you're
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- To pull ourselves back to it, is exactly what you're talking about, joyce,
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- Is exactly what you're talking about, joyce, changing what we're thinking
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- Talking about, joyce, changing what we're thinking to pull ourself back to that.
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- >> joyce: well, and when you're
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- >> joyce: well, and when you're going through a difficult time,
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- >> joyce: well, and when you're going through a difficult time, instead of just thinking
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- Going through a difficult time, instead of just thinking about "how hard this is"
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- Instead of just thinking about "how hard this is" and "how long is this
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- About "how hard this is" and "how long is this gonna last" and "will this
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- And "how long is this gonna last" and "will this ever end," think about other
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- Gonna last" and "will this ever end," think about other times when you have been
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- Ever end," think about other times when you have been in just as bad of a situation
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- Times when you have been in just as bad of a situation or worse and you spent days
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- In just as bad of a situation or worse and you spent days on end worrying about it,
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- Or worse and you spent days on end worrying about it, and it turned out okay,
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- On end worrying about it, and it turned out okay, god took care of it.
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- And it turned out okay, god took care of it. and i've learned to say,
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- God took care of it. and i've learned to say, when i enter a trial,
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- And i've learned to say, when i enter a trial, "this will end well."
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- When i enter a trial, "this will end well." >> ginger: that's good.
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- "this will end well." >> ginger: that's good. >> joyce: "i don't know
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- >> ginger: that's good. >> joyce: "i don't know exactly what i'm gonna have
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- >> joyce: "i don't know exactly what i'm gonna have to go through to get there,
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- Exactly what i'm gonna have to go through to get there, but it will end well."
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- "i'm in the middle now, god,
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- "i'm in the middle now, god, and i ask you to give me
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- "i'm in the middle now, god, and i ask you to give me the grace not to complain.
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- And i ask you to give me the grace not to complain. i wanna have good things
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- The grace not to complain. i wanna have good things to say," be positive.
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- I wanna have good things to say," be positive. don't want to have
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- To say," be positive. don't want to have a bad attitude.
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- Don't want to have a bad attitude. and i think it's kind of fun
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- A bad attitude. and i think it's kind of fun when you--
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- And i think it's kind of fun when you-- when something happens
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- When you-- when something happens that's negative and you just,
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- When something happens that's negative and you just, from the beginning,
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- That's negative and you just, from the beginning, say, "i'm gonna keep
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- From the beginning, say, "i'm gonna keep a good attitude in this.
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- Say, "i'm gonna keep a good attitude in this. all things work out for good.
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- A good attitude in this. all things work out for good. this is gonna end well."
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- All things work out for good. this is gonna end well." and i know that just
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- This is gonna end well." and i know that just infuriates the devil.
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- And i know that just infuriates the devil. >> [ladies agreeing]
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- Infuriates the devil. >> [ladies agreeing] >> kim: i have an aunt
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- >> [ladies agreeing] >> kim: i have an aunt that tells me,
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- >> kim: i have an aunt that tells me, "have a good day on purpose,"
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- That tells me, "have a good day on purpose," because we have
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- "have a good day on purpose," because we have to do it on purpose.
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- Because we have to do it on purpose. it takes a lot of intentionality
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- To do it on purpose. it takes a lot of intentionality to just really focus
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- It takes a lot of intentionality to just really focus in on that god is good.
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- To just really focus in on that god is good. and he does good.
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- In on that god is good. and he does good. and just having that,
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- And he does good. and just having that, i think for me,
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- And just having that, i think for me, it's just been about storing
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- I think for me, it's just been about storing the word of god in me.
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- It's just been about storing the word of god in me. "i have hidden your
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- The word of god in me. "i have hidden your word in my heart,"
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- "i have hidden your word in my heart," constantly over and over.
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- Word in my heart," constantly over and over. so when those days
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- Constantly over and over. so when those days do come and when those
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- So when those days do come and when those hard moments come,
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- Do come and when those hard moments come, when the grief comes,
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- Hard moments come, when the grief comes, all of that, because i'm still
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- When the grief comes, all of that, because i'm still grieving certain things,
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- All of that, because i'm still grieving certain things, but in those moments,
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- Grieving certain things, but in those moments, i do say--and i do remember,
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- But in those moments, i do say--and i do remember, "god, you've been good.
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- And your word says
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- And your word says that you will wipe away
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- And your word says that you will wipe away my tears and that there's
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- That you will wipe away my tears and that there's joy in the morning.
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- My tears and that there's joy in the morning. this won't always be--"
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- Joy in the morning. this won't always be--" >> ginger: "your mercies
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- This won't always be--" >> ginger: "your mercies are new every day."
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- >> ginger: "your mercies are new every day." >> kim: i just read that one,
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- Are new every day." >> kim: i just read that one, this morning.
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- >> kim: i just read that one, this morning. >> [ladies laughing]
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- This morning. >> [ladies laughing] >> ginger: it's a good one.
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- >> [ladies laughing] >> ginger: it's a good one. yeah.
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- >> ginger: it's a good one. yeah. and as you said, it is a war.
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- Yeah. and as you said, it is a war. it is a battle.
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- And as you said, it is a war. it is a battle. so, we can't be wimpy
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- It is a battle. so, we can't be wimpy about this.
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- So, we can't be wimpy about this. we've got to jump in and do it.
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- About this. we've got to jump in and do it. >> joyce: jesus said,
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- We've got to jump in and do it. >> joyce: jesus said, "in the world,
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- >> joyce: jesus said, "in the world, you will have tribulation."
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- "in the world, you will have tribulation." it's a promise.
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- You will have tribulation." it's a promise. just like, "i'll deliver you
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- It's a promise. just like, "i'll deliver you from it," is a promise.
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- Just like, "i'll deliver you from it," is a promise. he promises us--
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- From it," is a promise. he promises us-- i was thinking, this morning,
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- He promises us-- i was thinking, this morning, about the scripture that says,
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- I was thinking, this morning, about the scripture that says, "don't worry about tomorrow
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- About the scripture that says, "don't worry about tomorrow because tomorrow will
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- "don't worry about tomorrow because tomorrow will have troubles of its own."
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- Because tomorrow will have troubles of its own." it's like, "oh good."
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- Have troubles of its own." it's like, "oh good." >> erin: "awesome."
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- It's like, "oh good." >> erin: "awesome." >> joyce: "awesome,
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- >> erin: "awesome." >> joyce: "awesome, that's what i was
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- >> joyce: "awesome, that's what i was looking forward to."
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- That's what i was looking forward to." but let me read this
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- Looking forward to." but let me read this scripture because this
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- But let me read this scripture because this was a life-changer for me.
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- Scripture because this was a life-changer for me. and it's one of the foundation
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- Was a life-changer for me. and it's one of the foundation scriptures for the teaching
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- And it's one of the foundation scriptures for the teaching on the battlefield of the mind.
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- Scriptures for the teaching on the battlefield of the mind. romans 12:2, "do not be
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- On the battlefield of the mind. romans 12:2, "do not be conformed to this world,
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- Romans 12:2, "do not be conformed to this world, this age, fashioned after
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- Conformed to this world, this age, fashioned after and adapted to its external
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- This age, fashioned after and adapted to its external superficial customs,
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- And adapted to its external superficial customs, but be transformed,
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- Superficial customs, but be transformed, changed by the entire
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- But be transformed, changed by the entire renewal of your mind."
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- Changed by the entire renewal of your mind." how are we gonna be changed?
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- Renewal of your mind." how are we gonna be changed? by the entire renewal
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- How are we gonna be changed? by the entire renewal of our mind, "by its new
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- By the entire renewal of our mind, "by its new ideals and its new attitude.
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- Of our mind, "by its new ideals and its new attitude. so that you may prove--"
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- Ideals and its new attitude. so that you may prove--" i love this, "so you may
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- So that you may prove--" i love this, "so you may prove for yourselves what
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- I love this, "so you may prove for yourselves what is the good and acceptable
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- Prove for yourselves what is the good and acceptable and perfect will of god."
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- Is the good and acceptable and perfect will of god." in other words, god has a good
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- And perfect will of god." in other words, god has a good will for you, but the only way
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- You're ever gonna see it,
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- You're ever gonna see it, the only way you're ever
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- You're ever gonna see it, the only way you're ever gonna prove it out in your
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- The only way you're ever gonna prove it out in your life for yourself,
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- Gonna prove it out in your life for yourself, is if your mind is entirely
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- Life for yourself, is if your mind is entirely and completely renewed.
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- Is if your mind is entirely and completely renewed. and you know, sometimes--
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- And completely renewed. and you know, sometimes-- i used to have a real big
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- And you know, sometimes-- i used to have a real big problem with self-pity.
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- I used to have a real big problem with self-pity. and--man, when god started
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- Problem with self-pity. and--man, when god started dealing with me about it,
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- And--man, when god started dealing with me about it, to be honest, you get
- 00:12:03.712 --> 00:12:04.547
- Dealing with me about it, to be honest, you get addicted to things like that.
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- To be honest, you get addicted to things like that. it was like,
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- Addicted to things like that. it was like, i enjoyed that pity.
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- It was like, just feeling
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- It was like, just feeling sorry for myself.
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- It was like, just feeling sorry for myself. and as god began to bring
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- Sorry for myself. and as god began to bring me out of that, i can remember
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- And as god began to bring me out of that, i can remember times when i would think,
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- Me out of that, i can remember times when i would think, "i just wanna feel sorry for
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- Times when i would think, "i just wanna feel sorry for myself for maybe 30 minutes."
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- "i just wanna feel sorry for myself for maybe 30 minutes." >> [ladies laughing]
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- >> ginger: "i'm gonna
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- >> ginger: "i'm gonna set the timer."
- 00:12:23.098 --> 00:12:25.501
- >> ginger: "i'm gonna set the timer." >> joyce: just a little bit.
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- Set the timer." >> joyce: just a little bit. and it is such a waste of time
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- >> joyce: just a little bit. and it is such a waste of time because god's not gonna help
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- And it is such a waste of time because god's not gonna help you because you act pitiful.
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- Because god's not gonna help you because you act pitiful. he's gonna help you because
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- You because you act pitiful. he's gonna help you because you extend your faith
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- He's gonna help you because you extend your faith and believe his word.
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- You extend your faith and believe his word. and i used to be so negative
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- And believe his word. and i used to be so negative that i'd say, "if i thought
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- And i used to be so negative that i'd say, "if i thought two positive thoughts in a row,
- 00:12:44.720 --> 00:12:46.055
- That i'd say, "if i thought two positive thoughts in a row, my brain got in a cramp."
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- Two positive thoughts in a row, my brain got in a cramp." and now, i am very positive.
- 00:12:47.356 --> 00:12:52.962
- My brain got in a cramp." and now, i am very positive. and i don't--
- 00:12:53.028 --> 00:12:54.196
- And now, i am very positive. and i don't-- i just really don't even like
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- And i don't-- i just really don't even like to be around people that
- 00:12:55.865 --> 00:12:56.899
- I just really don't even like to be around people that are just negative all the time.
- 00:12:56.966 --> 00:12:58.300
- To be around people that are just negative all the time. i don't even wanna hear it.
- 00:12:58.367 --> 00:13:00.736
- Are just negative all the time. i don't even wanna hear it. you know, there's so many things
- 00:13:00.803 --> 00:13:02.004
- I don't even wanna hear it. you know, there's so many things going on in the world today
- 00:13:02.071 --> 00:13:03.038
- You know, there's so many things going on in the world today that are negative situations.
- 00:13:03.105 --> 00:13:06.609
- Going on in the world today that are negative situations. and it seems like that's all
- 00:13:06.675 --> 00:13:07.977
- That are negative situations. and it seems like that's all anybody wants to talk about.
- 00:13:08.043 --> 00:13:09.278
- And it seems like that's all anybody wants to talk about. and i just don't
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- Anybody wants to talk about. and i just don't want to hear it.
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- And i just don't want to hear it. that's not helping change
- 00:13:14.516 --> 00:13:16.018
- Want to hear it. that's not helping change any of it, you know.
- 00:13:16.085 --> 00:13:16.852
- That's not helping change any of it, you know. >> ginger: i love that "renewal"
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- Any of it, you know. >> ginger: i love that "renewal" word, to renew our minds.
- 00:13:18.420 --> 00:13:21.690
- >> ginger: i love that "renewal" word, to renew our minds. and the fact that it's possible,
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- Word, to renew our minds. and the fact that it's possible, i mean, god's word says
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- And the fact that it's possible, i mean, god's word says that's what we have to do.
- 00:13:24.760 --> 00:13:25.761
- I mean, god's word says that's what we have to do. he's not gonna ask
- 00:13:25.828 --> 00:13:26.829
- That's what we have to do. he's not gonna ask us to do anything
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- He's not gonna ask us to do anything that we can't do.
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- Us to do anything that we can't do. and i think of renewal,
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- That we can't do. and i think of renewal, as like shining it up and making
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- And i think of renewal, as like shining it up and making it beautiful again,
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- As like shining it up and making it beautiful again, like a full mind makeover,
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- It beautiful again, like a full mind makeover, which is really exciting.
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- Like a full mind makeover, which is really exciting. and i know i can't do it
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- Which is really exciting. and i know i can't do it on my own, but that's what
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- And i know i can't do it on my own, but that's what the power of the bible is.
- 00:13:40.910 --> 00:13:42.711
- On my own, but that's what the power of the bible is. that's exactly what
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- The power of the bible is. that's exactly what we're talking about.
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- That's exactly what we're talking about. remembering and focusing on,
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- We're talking about. remembering and focusing on, and meditating on,
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- Remembering and focusing on, and meditating on, and turning that thought
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- And meditating on, and turning that thought over and over instead
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- And turning that thought over and over instead of the other thoughts.
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- Over and over instead of the other thoughts. so, when you talk about
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- Of the other thoughts. so, when you talk about renewing your mind,
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- So, when you talk about renewing your mind, let's talk about some
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- Renewing your mind, let's talk about some of those different areas
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- Let's talk about some of those different areas and how have you done it.
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- >> erin: yeah, i have to be
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- >> erin: yeah, i have to be very intentional in those--
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- >> erin: yeah, i have to be very intentional in those-- i think right away, for example,
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- Very intentional in those-- i think right away, for example, after work and after school,
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- I think right away, for example, after work and after school, it is absolute chaos.
- 00:14:05.367 --> 00:14:06.602
- After work and after school, it is absolute chaos. and there's all these things you
- 00:14:06.669 --> 00:14:07.937
- It is absolute chaos. and there's all these things you have to do in like three hours.
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- And there's all these things you have to do in like three hours. and so, i can find myself,
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- Have to do in like three hours. and so, i can find myself, in my mind, like i can feel
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- And so, i can find myself, in my mind, like i can feel my mind starting to spin,
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- In my mind, like i can feel my mind starting to spin, feeling overwhelmed
- 00:14:14.043 --> 00:14:14.877
- My mind starting to spin, feeling overwhelmed by all we need to do,
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- Feeling overwhelmed by all we need to do, feeling annoyed that i've asked
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- By all we need to do, feeling annoyed that i've asked five times to come wash your
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- Feeling annoyed that i've asked five times to come wash your hands and sit down for dinner,
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- Five times to come wash your hands and sit down for dinner, feeling annoyed that nobody's
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- Hands and sit down for dinner, feeling annoyed that nobody's eating the meal i prepared.
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- Feeling annoyed that nobody's eating the meal i prepared. so, now, i'm getting angry.
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- Eating the meal i prepared. so, now, i'm getting angry. and so, i can feel my mind
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- So, now, i'm getting angry. and so, i can feel my mind getting the opposite of renewed.
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- And so, i can feel my mind getting the opposite of renewed. it's not shiny.
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- Getting the opposite of renewed. it's not shiny. it's very dirty and dark.
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- It's not shiny. it's very dirty and dark. >> [ginger chuckling]
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- It's very dirty and dark. >> [ginger chuckling] >> erin: and so, i have to be
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- Really conscious of that
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- Really conscious of that and take a breath and remind
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- Really conscious of that and take a breath and remind myself "these kids are a gift.
- 00:14:38.534 --> 00:14:40.202
- And take a breath and remind myself "these kids are a gift. you begged the lord for them.
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- Myself "these kids are a gift. you begged the lord for them. you asked for years for them
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- You begged the lord for them. you asked for years for them to be in this home.
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- You asked for years for them to be in this home. so be grateful, have patience.
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- To be in this home. so be grateful, have patience. what does the word
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- So be grateful, have patience. what does the word say about patience?"
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- What does the word say about patience?" and it's just, i just have
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- Say about patience?" and it's just, i just have to slow down and let god take
- 00:14:53.949 --> 00:14:56.085
- And it's just, i just have to slow down and let god take my thoughts in those moments,
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- To slow down and let god take my thoughts in those moments, because it sounds silly.
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- My thoughts in those moments, because it sounds silly. like, after school shouldn't
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- Because it sounds silly. like, after school shouldn't be that--
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- Like, after school shouldn't be that-- it's not traumatic,
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- Be that-- it's not traumatic, but it's really overwhelming
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- It's not traumatic, but it's really overwhelming to me, sometimes.
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- But it's really overwhelming to me, sometimes. so, i think that's a really
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- To me, sometimes. so, i think that's a really big part of it.
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- So, i think that's a really big part of it. >> ginger: yeah, that's great.
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- Big part of it. >> ginger: yeah, that's great. >> joyce: maybe just--
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- >> ginger: yeah, that's great. >> joyce: maybe just-- [stammering]
- 00:15:10.032 --> 00:15:11.300
- >> joyce: maybe just-- [stammering] just a suggestion.
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- [stammering] just a suggestion. you should maybe,
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- Just a suggestion. you should maybe, be thinking throughout the day--
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- You should maybe, be thinking throughout the day-- >> erin: hmm...
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- Be thinking throughout the day-- >> erin: hmm... >> joyce: you already
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- >> erin: hmm... >> joyce: you already know what i'm going to say,
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- >> joyce: you already know what i'm going to say, don't you?
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- Know what i'm going to say, don't you? >> erin: yeah, it's really good.
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- Don't you? >> erin: yeah, it's really good. keep saying it.
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- >> erin: yeah, it's really good. keep saying it. >> joyce: just be thinking
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- Keep saying it. >> joyce: just be thinking throughout the day,
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- >> joyce: just be thinking throughout the day, "this evening is gonna
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- Throughout the day, "this evening is gonna be a pleasant evening.
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- "this evening is gonna be a pleasant evening. we're gonna have a good time.
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- Be a pleasant evening. we're gonna have a good time. everything's gonna go smoothly."
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- We're gonna have a good time. everything's gonna go smoothly." and you know,
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- Everything's gonna go smoothly." and you know, it may not happen exactly
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- And you know, it may not happen exactly that way every day,
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- It may not happen exactly that way every day, but just keep thinking.
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- That way every day, but just keep thinking. don't plan for a disaster.
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- But just keep thinking. don't plan for a disaster. >> erin: yeah.
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- Don't plan for a disaster. >> erin: yeah. >> joyce: you know,
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- >> erin: yeah. >> joyce: you know, "i dread to go home because
- 00:15:41.463 --> 00:15:42.464
- >> joyce: you know, "i dread to go home because i know what's gonna happen."
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- "i dread to go home because i know what's gonna happen." but like, "i'm looking
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- I know what's gonna happen." but like, "i'm looking forward to going home,
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- But like, "i'm looking forward to going home, had a good day at the office.
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- Forward to going home, had a good day at the office. i'm gonna go home.
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- Had a good day at the office. i'm gonna go home. we're gonna have
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- I'm gonna go home. we're gonna have a nice family evening.
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- We're gonna have a nice family evening. things are gonna be pleasant."
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- A nice family evening. things are gonna be pleasant." >> erin: wow.
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- Things are gonna be pleasant." >> erin: wow. that's really good.
- 00:15:52.474 --> 00:15:53.108
- >> erin: wow. that's really good. 'cause i know those things,
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- That's really good. 'cause i know those things, but i don't do that.
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- So, i--
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- So, i-- i can do this all day long
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- So, i-- i can do this all day long for things that maybe
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- I can do this all day long for things that maybe i'm facing for myself,
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- For things that maybe i'm facing for myself, but to plan ahead for my night,
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- I'm facing for myself, but to plan ahead for my night, for my family, that is,
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- But to plan ahead for my night, for my family, that is, i just, that's really important.
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- For my family, that is, i just, that's really important. that's really good.
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- I just, that's really important. that's really good. >> joyce: thank you.
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- That's really good. >> joyce: thank you. >> erin: you're welcome.
- 00:16:08.357 --> 00:16:08.957
- >> joyce: thank you. >> erin: you're welcome. you should write
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- >> erin: you're welcome. you should write a book about it.
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- You should write a book about it. >> ginger: joyce, what about
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- A book about it. >> ginger: joyce, what about some things as you're aging?
- 00:16:11.860 --> 00:16:13.095
- >> ginger: joyce, what about some things as you're aging? have you--
- 00:16:13.162 --> 00:16:13.762
- Some things as you're aging? have you-- have there been things
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- Have you-- have there been things to think about differently?
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- Have there been things to think about differently? >> joyce: do we have
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- To think about differently? >> joyce: do we have to go there?
- 00:16:16.498 --> 00:16:17.066
- >> joyce: do we have to go there? >> ginger: yeah, well,
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- To go there? >> ginger: yeah, well, it's for all of us.
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- >> ginger: yeah, well, it's for all of us. we're all aging.
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- It's for all of us. we're all aging. so, yes, we don't
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- We're all aging. so, yes, we don't have much choice.
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- So, yes, we don't have much choice. >> joyce: well, yeah.
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- Have much choice. >> joyce: well, yeah. in order for me to continue
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- >> joyce: well, yeah. in order for me to continue to do what i'm doing,
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- In order for me to continue to do what i'm doing, i'm 81 and a half,
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- To do what i'm doing, i'm 81 and a half, and still got a lot of people
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- I'm 81 and a half, and still got a lot of people depending on me.
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- And still got a lot of people depending on me. and but you know--
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- Depending on me. and but you know-- >> ginger: it's some pressure.
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- And but you know-- >> ginger: it's some pressure. >> joyce: i get stiff.
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- >> ginger: it's some pressure. >> joyce: i get stiff. i get--
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- >> joyce: i get stiff. i get-- i get tired.
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- I get-- i get tired. i've got--
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- I get tired. i've got-- i've still got a lot to do.
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- I've got-- i've still got a lot to do. i mean, i look--
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- I've still got a lot to do. i mean, i look-- i looked at my calendar
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- I mean, i look-- i looked at my calendar for the month.
- 00:16:45.227 --> 00:16:45.928
- I looked at my calendar for the month. i'm like, "are you crazy?"
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- For the month. i'm like, "are you crazy?" but see, if you take it one
- 00:16:48.564 --> 00:16:50.099
- I'm like, "are you crazy?" but see, if you take it one thing at a time and you have
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- But see, if you take it one thing at a time and you have to learn about yourself
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- Thing at a time and you have to learn about yourself and you have to learn
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- To learn about yourself and you have to learn what you need in order
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- And you have to learn what you need in order to do what you're doing,
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- What you need in order to do what you're doing, and you have to be willing
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- To do what you're doing, and you have to be willing to give it to yourself.
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- And you have to be willing to give it to yourself. so, like, i've learned
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- To give it to yourself. so, like, i've learned that nothing restores
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- So, like, i've learned that nothing restores me better than quiet.
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- That nothing restores me better than quiet. and so, i arrange my life
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- Me better than quiet. and so, i arrange my life so i have three, four hours
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- And so, i arrange my life so i have three, four hours of quiet every night.
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- So i have three, four hours of quiet every night. i'll go in the bedroom and maybe
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- Of quiet every night. i'll go in the bedroom and maybe watch something on tv.
- 00:17:24.266 --> 00:17:25.501
- I'll go in the bedroom and maybe watch something on tv. just--it's just quiet.
- 00:17:25.567 --> 00:17:28.337
- Watch something on tv. just--it's just quiet. there's nobody wanting me
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- Just--it's just quiet. there's nobody wanting me to do something or, you know.
- 00:17:29.571 --> 00:17:32.241
- There's nobody wanting me to do something or, you know. sometimes, i think, somebody
- 00:17:32.307 --> 00:17:35.110
- To do something or, you know. sometimes, i think, somebody like me, and i mean,
- 00:17:35.177 --> 00:17:35.878
- Sometimes, i think, somebody like me, and i mean, even you could feel this way,
- 00:17:35.944 --> 00:17:37.212
- Like me, and i mean, even you could feel this way, it's like, everybody that
- 00:17:37.279 --> 00:17:39.114
- Even you could feel this way, it's like, everybody that comes near me wants
- 00:17:39.181 --> 00:17:40.349
- It's like, everybody that comes near me wants me to do something.
- 00:17:40.415 --> 00:17:41.316
- Comes near me wants me to do something. [chuckling]
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- Me to do something. [chuckling] and you just have to keep
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- [chuckling] and you just have to keep that positive attitude.
- 00:17:47.189 --> 00:17:48.190
- And you just have to keep that positive attitude. and i have to--
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- That positive attitude. and i have to-- i have to be very careful about,
- 00:17:49.491 --> 00:17:51.160
- And i have to-- i have to be very careful about, "i'm too old,
- 00:17:51.226 --> 00:17:53.195
- I have to be very careful about, "i'm too old, too old to do that.
- 00:17:53.262 --> 00:17:54.062
- "i'm too old, too old to do that. i can't do that.
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- Too old to do that. i can't do that. i'm too old."
- 00:17:55.430 --> 00:17:56.598
- I can't do that. i'm too old." i say, "i can do this.
- 00:17:56.665 --> 00:17:58.600
- I'm too old." i say, "i can do this. i can do anything that god
- 00:17:58.667 --> 00:17:59.701
- I say, "i can do this. i can do anything that god has called me to do.
- 00:17:59.768 --> 00:18:00.569
- I can do anything that god has called me to do. and i can do it for as long
- 00:18:00.636 --> 00:18:02.104
- Has called me to do. and i can do it for as long as he wants me to do it."
- 00:18:02.171 --> 00:18:03.639
- And see, i know enough
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- And see, i know enough to know that if god doesn't
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- And see, i know enough to know that if god doesn't want me to do this anymore,
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- To know that if god doesn't want me to do this anymore, he'll take the anointing.
- 00:18:08.544 --> 00:18:11.079
- Want me to do this anymore, he'll take the anointing. not off my life, as a person,
- 00:18:11.146 --> 00:18:12.614
- He'll take the anointing. not off my life, as a person, but i know what it's like
- 00:18:12.681 --> 00:18:14.883
- Not off my life, as a person, but i know what it's like to do something with grace.
- 00:18:14.950 --> 00:18:16.185
- But i know what it's like to do something with grace. and i know what it's like
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- To do something with grace. and i know what it's like to try to do it without grace.
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- And i know what it's like to try to do it without grace. and so, even as we've come
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- To try to do it without grace. and so, even as we've come to this part of my life,
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- And so, even as we've come to this part of my life, i've had to give
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- To this part of my life, i've had to give up certain things.
- 00:18:24.560 --> 00:18:25.260
- I've had to give up certain things. like, i had to give up going
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- Up certain things. like, i had to give up going out of the country.
- 00:18:26.628 --> 00:18:28.297
- Like, i had to give up going out of the country. and now, i get to watch
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- Out of the country. and now, i get to watch you go out of the country
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- And now, i get to watch you go out of the country and do all those things
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- You go out of the country and do all those things that i used to love to do.
- 00:18:32.401 --> 00:18:33.535
- And--but i can't do it.
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- And--but i can't do it. my body just doesn't
- 00:18:35.837 --> 00:18:37.105
- And--but i can't do it. my body just doesn't handle the jet lag,
- 00:18:37.172 --> 00:18:38.207
- My body just doesn't handle the jet lag, and the 25-hour flights,
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- Handle the jet lag, and the 25-hour flights, and sometimes 40-hour flights.
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- And the 25-hour flights, and sometimes 40-hour flights. and so, you have to be willing
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- And sometimes 40-hour flights. and so, you have to be willing to let go of things as you
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- And so, you have to be willing to let go of things as you age that will enable you
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- To let go of things as you age that will enable you to keep doing the part.
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- Age that will enable you to keep doing the part. i mean, you can go--
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- To keep doing the part. i mean, you can go-- you can go out
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- I mean, you can go-- you can go out of the country for me
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- You can go out of the country for me and do what i used to do,
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- Of the country for me and do what i used to do, but i have to do the teaching,
- 00:19:01.763 --> 00:19:03.532
- And do what i used to do, but i have to do the teaching, which means i have
- 00:19:03.599 --> 00:19:04.399
- But i have to do the teaching, which means i have to do the studying.
- 00:19:04.466 --> 00:19:05.934
- Which means i have to do the studying. i have to write my books.
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- To do the studying. i have to write my books. and when i say "have to,"
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- I have to write my books. and when i say "have to," i don't mean i don't want to.
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- And when i say "have to," i don't mean i don't want to. i love it.
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- I don't mean i don't want to. i love it. i love it.
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- I love it. i love it. but i do have to make sure
- 00:19:12.007 --> 00:19:14.176
- I love it. but i do have to make sure that i get what i need
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- But i do have to make sure that i get what i need to keep me restored.
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- That i get what i need to keep me restored. and i think that's what
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- To keep me restored. and i think that's what a lot of people don't do.
- 00:19:20.449 --> 00:19:21.717
- And i think that's what a lot of people don't do. they don't let themselves
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- A lot of people don't do. they don't let themselves have what they need.
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- They don't let themselves have what they need. >> ginger: i love these
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- Have what they need. >> ginger: i love these specific examples because
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- >> ginger: i love these specific examples because there's a different one for
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- Specific examples because there's a different one for every person who's listening.
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- There's a different one for every person who's listening. you know, it's--
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- Every person who's listening. you know, it's-- and it changes for us
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- You know, it's-- and it changes for us in different seasons, as well,
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- And it changes for us in different seasons, as well, but it's, "i need to renew
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- In different seasons, as well, but it's, "i need to renew my mind in this area."
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- But it's, "i need to renew my mind in this area." and god not only has
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- My mind in this area." and god not only has a way for it to happen,
- 00:19:41.136 --> 00:19:42.771
- And god not only has a way for it to happen, we look in god's word
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- A way for it to happen, we look in god's word and it applies to everything
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- We look in god's word and it applies to everything in such an incredible way.
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- And it applies to everything in such an incredible way. it may not use that word
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- In such an incredible way. it may not use that word that we're thinking,
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- It may not use that word that we're thinking, but it's so amazing how he has
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- That we're thinking, but it's so amazing how he has prepared all of this for it--
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- But it's so amazing how he has prepared all of this for it-- for us, so that whatever
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- Prepared all of this for it-- for us, so that whatever area we need renewal in,
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- For us, so that whatever area we need renewal in, and you were already
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- Area we need renewal in, and you were already talking about it,
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- And you were already talking about it, like a time that you're caring
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- Talking about it, like a time that you're caring for your girls and that
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- Like a time that you're caring for your girls and that you're suddenly on your own.
- 00:20:06.061 --> 00:20:08.363
- For your girls and that you're suddenly on your own. and now, that it's been
- 00:20:08.430 --> 00:20:09.464
- You're suddenly on your own. and now, that it's been a few years,
- 00:20:09.531 --> 00:20:10.098
- And now, that it's been a few years, you're beginning to see
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- A few years, you're beginning to see that your mind is different
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- You're beginning to see that your mind is different because you know who
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- That your mind is different because you know who god is in a deeper way,
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- Because you know who god is in a deeper way, and you've seen him provide.
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- God is in a deeper way, and you've seen him provide. >> kim: yes, on a daily basis,
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- And you've seen him provide. >> kim: yes, on a daily basis, i have.
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- >> kim: yes, on a daily basis, i have. and it takes, for me--
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- I have. and it takes, for me-- i have to have--
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- And it takes, for me-- i have to have-- like, i have to plan
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- I have to have-- like, i have to plan my day around god.
- 00:20:23.445 --> 00:20:25.447
- Like, i have to plan my day around god. like, god is more important
- 00:20:25.514 --> 00:20:27.149
- My day around god. like, god is more important than anything else.
- 00:20:27.215 --> 00:20:28.250
- Like, god is more important than anything else. so, if i have my bible out,
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- Than anything else. so, if i have my bible out, if i have my resources
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- So, if i have my bible out, if i have my resources and my music or whatever
- 00:20:32.421 --> 00:20:33.955
- If i have my resources and my music or whatever it is that i use to just
- 00:20:34.022 --> 00:20:35.557
- And my music or whatever it is that i use to just have those things out,
- 00:20:35.624 --> 00:20:36.692
- It is that i use to just have those things out, it's just like me when i go,
- 00:20:36.758 --> 00:20:38.994
- Have those things out, it's just like me when i go, i found that i put a lot
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- It's just like me when i go, i found that i put a lot of effort into working out.
- 00:20:40.162 --> 00:20:41.763
- I found that i put a lot of effort into working out. you know, i want
- 00:20:41.830 --> 00:20:42.431
- Of effort into working out. you know, i want the right tennis shoes.
- 00:20:42.497 --> 00:20:43.298
- You know, i want the right tennis shoes. i want the right workout pants,
- 00:20:43.365 --> 00:20:45.467
- The right tennis shoes. i want the right workout pants, and all the things.
- 00:20:45.534 --> 00:20:47.235
- I want the right workout pants, and all the things. especially, for the wintertime,
- 00:20:47.302 --> 00:20:48.537
- And all the things. especially, for the wintertime, i need gear if i'm going
- 00:20:48.603 --> 00:20:49.438
- Especially, for the wintertime, i need gear if i'm going to be outside.
- 00:20:49.504 --> 00:20:50.772
- I need gear if i'm going to be outside. you know, i prepare for that.
- 00:20:50.839 --> 00:20:52.607
- To be outside. you know, i prepare for that. and so, i want to do the same
- 00:20:52.674 --> 00:20:55.010
- You know, i prepare for that. and so, i want to do the same thing for my spiritual walk,
- 00:20:55.077 --> 00:20:58.246
- And so, i want to do the same thing for my spiritual walk, my spiritual journey,
- 00:20:58.313 --> 00:20:59.081
- Thing for my spiritual walk, my spiritual journey, just have everything
- 00:20:59.147 --> 00:21:00.048
- My spiritual journey, just have everything that i need.
- 00:21:00.115 --> 00:21:00.716
- Just have everything that i need. and i want to show up well,
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- That i need. and i want to show up well, you know, for my girls.
- 00:21:04.920 --> 00:21:06.588
- And i want to show up well, you know, for my girls. i really do for my daughter.
- 00:21:06.655 --> 00:21:08.223
- You know, for my girls. i really do for my daughter. i want her to know
- 00:21:08.290 --> 00:21:09.391
- I really do for my daughter. i want her to know that it takes faith.
- 00:21:09.458 --> 00:21:11.526
- I want her to know that it takes faith. it takes practical things that
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- That it takes faith. it takes practical things that we must do sitting down,
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- It takes practical things that we must do sitting down, talking to god,
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- We must do sitting down, talking to god, reading his word,
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- Talking to god, reading his word, and having it in front of us,
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- Reading his word, and having it in front of us, and not just having it hidden
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- And having it in front of us, and not just having it hidden somewhere where i gotta
- 00:21:22.537 --> 00:21:23.472
- And not just having it hidden somewhere where i gotta go and open up the closet
- 00:21:23.538 --> 00:21:24.840
- Somewhere where i gotta go and open up the closet or something to pull
- 00:21:24.906 --> 00:21:25.640
- Go and open up the closet or something to pull out the bible from
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- Or something to pull out the bible from under 15 other books.
- 00:21:26.575 --> 00:21:27.843
- Out the bible from under 15 other books. >> ginger: blow the dust off
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- Under 15 other books. >> ginger: blow the dust off and see what it says today.
- 00:21:28.877 --> 00:21:30.579
- >> ginger: blow the dust off and see what it says today. >> kim: yeah.
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- And see what it says today. >> kim: yeah. >> joyce: one thing you
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- >> kim: yeah. >> joyce: one thing you can't do is you cannot try
- 00:21:31.980 --> 00:21:34.649
- >> joyce: one thing you can't do is you cannot try to work god into your day.
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- Can't do is you cannot try to work god into your day. you have to put him first
- 00:21:37.886 --> 00:21:39.154
- To work god into your day. you have to put him first and work your day around
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- You have to put him first and work your day around god and learn to do life
- 00:21:41.757 --> 00:21:43.725
- And work your day around god and learn to do life with god where he's...
- 00:21:43.792 --> 00:21:45.961
- God and learn to do life with god where he's... >> ginger: that's huge.
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- With god where he's... >> ginger: that's huge. >> joyce: there with
- 00:21:46.928 --> 00:21:47.529
- >> ginger: that's huge. >> joyce: there with you all the time.
- 00:21:47.596 --> 00:21:48.563
- >> joyce: there with you all the time. and so, you could talk
- 00:21:48.630 --> 00:21:50.232
- You all the time. and so, you could talk to him a little bit, you know,
- 00:21:50.298 --> 00:21:51.933
- And so, you could talk to him a little bit, you know, throughout the day.
- 00:21:52.000 --> 00:21:54.069
- To him a little bit, you know, throughout the day. and i so dislike
- 00:21:54.136 --> 00:21:56.271
- Throughout the day. and i so dislike it when i have my prayer
- 00:21:56.338 --> 00:21:57.773
- And i so dislike it when i have my prayer time in the morning and then
- 00:21:57.839 --> 00:21:58.774
- It when i have my prayer time in the morning and then i go off about my day,
- 00:21:58.840 --> 00:22:00.409
- Time in the morning and then i go off about my day, and then i get home
- 00:22:00.475 --> 00:22:01.777
- I go off about my day, and then i get home at night and realize
- 00:22:01.843 --> 00:22:02.778
- And then i get home at night and realize i haven't said a word
- 00:22:02.844 --> 00:22:03.512
- At night and realize i haven't said a word to the lord all day long.
- 00:22:03.578 --> 00:22:04.413
- I haven't said a word to the lord all day long. it's just like, "eeew."
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- To the lord all day long. it's just like, "eeew." because he's so ever
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- It's just like, "eeew." because he's so ever present in our life.
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- Because he's so ever present in our life. and anybody can do this,
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- Present in our life. and anybody can do this, but you have to remember this.
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- And anybody can do this, but you have to remember this. the one thing the devil
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- But you have to remember this. the one thing the devil wants you to do is give up.
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- The one thing the devil wants you to do is give up. >> ginger: yeah.
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- Wants you to do is give up. >> ginger: yeah. >> joyce: now, don't forget
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- >> ginger: yeah. >> joyce: now, don't forget what i'm saying.
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- >> joyce: now, don't forget what i'm saying. he wants you to give up.
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- What i'm saying. he wants you to give up. and so, you're always
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- He wants you to give up. and so, you're always gonna have a lot of those,
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- And so, you're always gonna have a lot of those, "i can't do this" thoughts.
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- Gonna have a lot of those, "i can't do this" thoughts. "i just can't do this."
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- "i can't do this" thoughts. "i just can't do this." well, like you asked
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- "i just can't do this." well, like you asked me about age.
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- Well, like you asked me about age. and so, i've had to fight
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- Me about age. and so, i've had to fight off a lot more of that,
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- And so, i've had to fight off a lot more of that, you know, "i can't do this."
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- Off a lot more of that, you know, "i can't do this." but everybody goes through that.
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- You know, "i can't do this." but everybody goes through that. everybody.
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- But everybody goes through that. everybody. >> ginger: oh, yeah.
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- Everybody. >> ginger: oh, yeah. >> joyce: and so, you have
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- >> ginger: oh, yeah. >> joyce: and so, you have to be ready to say all the time,
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- >> joyce: and so, you have to be ready to say all the time, "i can do this.
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- I can do anything that god
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- I can do anything that god wants me to do through christ,
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- I can do anything that god wants me to do through christ, who is my strength."
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- Wants me to do through christ, who is my strength." and there's power thoughts
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- That we can think,
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- That we can think, thoughts that will
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- That we can think, thoughts that will add power to our life.
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- Thoughts that will add power to our life. and then there's weak thoughts,
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- Add power to our life. and then there's weak thoughts, things that we can think that
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- And then there's weak thoughts, things that we can think that will drain us of the power
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- Things that we can think that will drain us of the power that god wants us to have.
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- Will drain us of the power that god wants us to have. >> ginger: yeah.
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- >> announcer: when faced
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- >> announcer: when faced with life's inevitable
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- With life's inevitable ups and downs,
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- Ups and downs, having the resiliency
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- Having the resiliency to stand up
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- To stand up to new challenges
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- To new challenges and meet them
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- And meet them head on is imperative.
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- Head on is imperative. we can't keep changes
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- We can't keep changes from coming.
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- From coming. but we can manage our
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- But we can manage our reaction to it
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- Reaction to it and even come
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- And even come to welcome it
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- To welcome it into our lives.
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- >> joyce: you know,
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- >> joyce: you know, life is full of changes.
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- Life is full of changes. and sometimes,
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- And sometimes, it can feel like
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- It can feel like everything around
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- Everything around us is shaking:
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- Us is shaking: jobs are changing,
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- Jobs are changing, relationships,
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- Relationships, people's expectations.
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- People's expectations. it's easy to get overwhelmed.
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- It's easy to get overwhelmed. but i want to remind
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- But i want to remind you today,
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- You today, while change
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- While change is inevitable,
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- Is inevitable, you have the power
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- You have the power to choose how
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- To choose how to respond to it.
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- To respond to it. in my book,
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- In my book, "the courage
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- "the courage to change,"
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- To change," i'll show you
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- I'll show you how to not only
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- How to not only navigate life's
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- Navigate life's transitions,
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- Transitions, but to actually
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- But to actually embrace them
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- Embrace them with god's word
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- With god's word as your foundation.
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- As your foundation. you can face
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- You can face each shift with
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- Each shift with confidence,
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- Confidence, knowing that the same
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- Knowing that the same god who never
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- God who never changed is working
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- Changed is working all things for
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- All things for your good,
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- Your good, even in the midst
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- Even in the midst of difficult moments.
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- Of difficult moments. >> announcer: be the first
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- >> joyce: if you're
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- >> joyce: if you're weary from all
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- Weary from all of life's changes,
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- Of life's changes, i want you to know
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- I want you to know that you can find
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- That you can find peace in the storm.
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- Peace in the storm. in "the courage
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- In "the courage to change"
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- To change" i'll show you
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- I'll show you how god's word can
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- How god's word can help you embrace
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- Help you embrace every challenge with
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- Every challenge with confidence.
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- Confidence. you don't have
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- You don't have to live in the fear
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- To live in the fear of change.
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- Of change. with the strength
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- With the strength and the wisdom
- 00:24:46.841 --> 00:24:47.542
- And the wisdom from god,
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- From god, you can stand
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- You can stand firm through
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- Firm through any storm and come
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- Any storm and come out stronger
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- Out stronger on the other side.
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- On the other side. let's face
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- Let's face life's challenges
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- Life's challenges together with
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- Together with faith, hope,
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- Your partnership with joyce meyer
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- With joyce meyer ministries will
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- Ministries will help us reach
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- Help us reach the lost,
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- The lost, feed the hungry,
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- Your courage today with joyce's book
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- Or visit us online at: joycemeyer.org.
- 00:25:32.721 --> 00:25:36.157
- >> joyce: boy, you know,
- 00:25:38.627 --> 00:25:39.361
- >> joyce: boy, you know, in today's world,
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- In today's world, there are many stressors,
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- There are many stressors, so many things to deal
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- So many things to deal with on a daily basis.
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- With on a daily basis. how do we navigate
- 00:25:45.133 --> 00:25:46.067
- How do we navigate all of life's pressures?
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- All of life's pressures? well, god's word has
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- Well, god's word has much to say about it.
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- Much to say about it. so, i thought we could
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- So, i thought we could all get together with
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- All get together with some of my friends
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- Some of my friends and talk about it.
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- >> announcer: join us
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- >> announcer: join us for the enjoying
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- For the enjoying everyday life
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- A weekend of practical messages
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- Of practical messages and heartfelt worship
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- And heartfelt worship with joyce
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- With joyce and her guests,
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- And her guests, dr. henry cloud,
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- Nona jones, and worship with
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- And worship with naomi raine,
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- April 10-11, in hershey, pennsylvania.
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- In hershey, pennsylvania. >> joyce: you know,
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- >> joyce: you know, i have such a passion
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- I have such a passion for teaching god's word,
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- For teaching god's word, and it's even better when
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- And it's even better when we all get together
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- We all get together under one roof.
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- Under one roof. so, i really hope
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- So, i really hope to see you there.
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- And me, ginger stache, along with some amazing friends,
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- Along with some amazing friends, as we honestly share
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- As we honestly share the hard stuff,
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- The hard stuff, laugh through those
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- Laugh through those unpredictable moments,
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- Unpredictable moments, and learn to apply what
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